she just have low self esteem and she is delusional. The right man for her she won't want him, she will keep getting scammed until she learned her lesson
Husband sons. So you telling me she paid ALL the bills and he had a job and paid NONE and NEVER brought home a paycheck. If Boo boo the fool was a person 😂
Thank you, we all know how a majority of them scam but like a lot of black women the FBA brother is the enemy while all other men are god, no sympathy for this “Queen” you had it coming oh well NEXT’
My wife’s friend who’s obese AF just married a dude from Ghana. I told her it’s a scam the whole wedding we were talking shit 🤣 the audacity of the pretend family was insane all of his best men had low self esteem American women! Pathetically sad 😔
No she is lying wait for IRS to prove if what she is saying is true. She tried to get back together with him. And she is trying to shame Nigerians shame on all who believe this
No if anything she is blaming herself for being a human & looking for companionship, meaning she was gullible and she deserves credit becuase it takes more bravery apart from respect than a lot of us have to put it out there in order to warn others not to make the same mistake.
Being married does not mean your spouse has automatic access to accounts or cards UNLESS you put them on it. Any & all monies or properties gained prior to a marriage should not be available to a spouse & why in a divorce they have no legal rights to any gains prior to marriage. You can start a new & separate account that you both can be on but it's a choice to give access to what you had before you met them. Spouse or not you just don't do that & that goes for both men & women. That's like owning a home & then after meeting someone & getting married you run out & put their name on the deed after you paid for it all by yourself....NO! Spouses can live there but it's really dumb to put them on the deed when they put no money in to it. She got married & lost all common sense. 😢
I felt bad till the last woman said " I got a Jamaican coming at the end of the month" like she ordering a pair of shoes. I sometimes think they know whats up..they just think these ppl are idiots and they are the smartest in the room. When intent is not pure.....this is what happens sometimes smh
Agreed... It is a case of supposed players getting played. Never marry a desperate and vulnerable person and most immigrants from the supposed Third World are desperate and vulnerable. Trust in these situations is literarily impossible.
This seems like a valuable lesson for her. Why would you give access to your financial information to a man you barely know from a third-world country? Even if this man were from America, that money should have been placed in a secured trust for your children. In case something happened to you, your children would have been protected-not their stepfather.
NO, you don't need a trust. You simply have a separate bank account onlyYOU have access to. You can have another account you both share!!! That is part of what makes the relationship look more legal to immigration people!! The difference in my case is I married a Ph.D. I still suffer to tjis day the psychological stuff. I'm contemplating another international relationship....but honestly, I don't want to be bothered!!! It's a long process!!! It's expensive and honestly, with tjis man, he is not showing the level of attention I need!!! You don't go months with not sending an email etc.!! He claimed he tried to mail me an outfit but he went to the post office and it was still there so he took it back. I know what kind of evidence immigration looks for!!! I also LOVE my peace. I gave this pot addict a chance and he smacked his big lips 24/7 saying he had food caught in his teeth. He's schizophrenic and thinks if I watch UA-cam, that messes with what he has programmed in there. He is secretive and sneaky!!! Oh yeah and goes to prison often!!!
O it's a bunch of sisters getting played. You will be shocked how they get them with the I will pay you 20k to marry me and its either a scam or just 5-6k they get paid and end up heartbroken and broke lol.🤣
@@garrymiller1497 Soooo sad that our Black American women still think these African “Kings,” and “Princes” really luv them 😓😂😂… There’s so many fake videos on UA-cam about how great these Nigerian men are and how Black American women just fall all over themselves for these guys…. And….some of our women do!!!!! These women offer themselves and these African men take advantage…..
We can expect more stories like this in the future. But African men are so much better than American BM right? Sounds like the Nigerian woman was in on it as well. Geesh.
Ewww African men better than ABM?? Who says that foolishness??? Only men in Africa I’d consider gotta be from South Africa or Cape Verde and THAT’S IT 💯
Whole countries have been sounding the alarm about Nigerian people, so how could she have been so naive? However, I still don't believe that she learned a lesson.
They used witchcraft. That man was nothing special. He wasn't worth the price she paid. Low lives pulled her down. I pray she gets up, and happily moves on. At least she is still alive. She can make more money.
Only Blaq American females do this. They're in some fantasized war/competition with us blaqmales, so they're in a comradery of failure with each other.
In this woman's case, it may be because he was here illegally. Others, who knows. I know this. I wouldn't have shown my wife where I kept $50'000 cash. Shiiiiiit!
Sounds crazy, why wouldn't you want it in a bank account where you can earn a small amount of interest? Also federally insured! She could even get more interest with money market or other high yield interest accounts.
I guess I’m a scammer too because I prefer to keep more cash in a safe than in anyones bank.. I like to look broke on paper and keep ppl out of my business 😂😂💯💯
If a man utters the words “i’m Nigerian” all he will see from me is dust as ruuuuuuuuun 😂🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️
@@uniwemusic2929 Actually black men are the most involved fathers than any other race of men. Secondly black women are the least married and most likely to initiate divorce.
Right that there was a red flag him scamming to work she should have known not to trust him where her money was located but blk American women are so educated.
Women have been doing this to autistic men and men with psychiatric problems for decades. I have no sympathy when a scammer gets over on a fully functional woman.
If She had a TRUE Father, Brother and Culturally BLACK Man in Her Life, They would have told Her NO from the Jump!! Maybe They wouldn’t have had the “Reasoning” or the “Right Words” to sound “PC”, but just like WE say “No” for “Pookie and Ray-Ray” it would be a hard NO for “Solomon”. Men KNOW Men. If a Cat Truly has Potential and the Moxy to be My Sisters Husband….He’ll get a temporary “thumbs up”…but We’re WATCHING that Azz. I know…You don’t want Your Fathers and Brothers “in Yo Bizznes”. And Yeah it can get to be too much sometimes. But it’s better than NOT being “covered”. This Woman is out here by Herself BEGGING a THIEF…to give the money back, with NO “consequences” as an alternative. Just appealing to His “Better Nature”? …….Like He HAS one….
I will not castigate this woman for what happened to her, but advise all men and women to be more prudent about who we allow and n our lives. Don’t be fooled by that crap that Africans love us black Americans because they don’t see us the same! Just ask them how they feel about us, and you’ll get an answer that will surprise you.”!
What planet have she been living on , this has been going on for years .those guys pray on people like her . they what a green card an your money . she will be responsible for him for 10 years .
@@yvettekinchking8838because she married him to allow him to stay in this country.. You have to prove to immigration you have the means to support your spouse so they can be able to stay and work legally.. And since she’s not able to know his whereabouts she can’t even divorce him and would have to wait until she’s qualified for abandonment..
lol u really think she care about where he from ? she deperate and will take anything . im caribbean and they gone get wit whoever for a green card . everyone already knows thi in 2024,
This woman's mirror mirror on the wall lied to her. She actually believed, without working out and with an "Accept me as I am attitude", that she could truly pull a younger man. SMH
@@cinnamin77abbachild15 And he targeted her because he figured she would have low self-esteem. A size 8 woman is usually confident and less likely to be scammed.
This does in fact happen very often. I know of several women this happened to personally and I also know how she can recoup some of that money through divorce proceedings. There’s no need to even talk to or beg him anymore.
Should’ve got a guy on her attraction level in America that’s where she messed up. I promise you she had options. No matter how they look they all do. She didn’t want a big old plumper like her lol.
If she was wife material, then she would have been married in her prime. Instead, she was independent, ran off potential suitors, and now that she's past the wall, she's attracting the lowest quality males possible.
Her first mistake was marrying him because this is the plan the majority of these illegal immigrants have, her second mistake was telling him about that money. I don't feel sorry for her she should have known better
That was not a "safe." When she said, "safe", i asked myself, where can you hide a safe in an apartment, especially a Residential Security Safe, and or a TL30 safe? Needless to say, she had a dollar store Security box. She was with him fir ten months, but he knew you had a safe, let alone where the key was. She should have had a two stage entry safe: Keys and Spin dial, or Spin dial and biometric scanner. Most importantly who keeps 50k cash in their house? Why not keep that either in a bank where FDIC covers your investments/savings up to 50k, or buy a quality safe that bolts to the floor and buy a few gold bars? (Him trying to withdraw 50k, even if it were 1k at a time would be flagged, on cctv if at a ATM/Teller, and show up in your monthly statements. Pending the account, the money would have been locked in with no option to withdraw. This opens him up to wire fraud charges, and FAFO as an undocumented ninja in a republican state...) "Play stupid games, win stupid prizes" - Tommy Sotomayor.
As KS would say, 'Where is the evidence? Where is the police report? Why address this is the court of public opinion when you have the American justice system behind you? Why are you keeping that amount of cash with you when you have access to a secure bank account?' My issue with women like this is you required nothing from the man and guess what? You didn't only get nothing, you allegedly got robbed. You knew he was an illegal immigrant and yet chose to deal with him, and why? You're not a child, a fully grown woman and yet you chose the lowest hanging fruit because no man of value, not even an average guy, will take you seriously, and somehow you think the world owes you something. You get what you negotiate, it's that simple. The point is you thought you were better than the average, honest hardworking man and yet, look at what you picked. It amazes me how history always seems to repeat itself. 🙄🙄
Appears to me their are so many narcisist on social media internet who are romance scammers nigerian or otherwise out there ensnaring these single women of our modern era looking for companionship. Its just a shame that so many are unable to see them coming. I am sorry that this women has suffered & she deserves respect for puting this out there in order to protect others from making the same mistake.
Well what I take from this is she had high unrealistic standards and when she finally got sick of being alone because of her doing, she lowered them standards to the gutter got hooked on scamer and got played and now her money is helping that dude's real girl have fun and helped his village build a well to finally get water. 😂😂
Nah, if she lowered her standards to the gutter she would have accepted an FBA man her age and her weight. Nope she got a younger slimmer man. Bc she thought she was too good for Norbit or Prof. Klump.
She doesn't like the fact that he stole her hard earned money that she worked for. Welcome to the male experience! Doesn't feel good when it happens to you, huh? You go King 🤴 get your bag bro! Thats what women tell other women when the situation is reversed.
Stop it. Nigeria Pros: -The biggest economy on the continent for decades until just this year. -The richest Black man *in the world* and made his wealth in Nigeria. -The *highest married Black demographic* in the world. -The most educated Black people educated on the African continent. -The most educated Black minorities in diaspora. -The only Black demographic outearning foundational white Americans in the US. -The highest number of Black students per population percentage in STEM. -The only surgeons who, even being Nigerian trained, carried out invitro separation of heart conjoined twin in the US. Cons: Top Scamming Country List. Mexico Ukraine Hungary Malaysia Colombia Romania Philippines Greece Brazil China Nigeria is not even on the top 10 list, so why are they mentioned for scams? And there's less than 0.2% Nigerians in the US.
@@chalaq803 Oh, but aren’t these Nigerian “Kings” and “Princes” all so much better and smarter, harder working, and better educated than us Black American men??? Really though 🤔
I wonder how many men in her dating market place she turned down or ignored because of his size. Women, especially black women, do not want to admit their size is a factor when looking for a partner.
Always secure yourself...It make you wonder why she married him anyway, this is her fault, he showed her all the red flags by not ever sharing anything with her prior to marriage...she not in shape and deserve a out of shape man...she psyching her own self out.
Some of us women are just too needy. She gave an illegal immigrant access to her funds. That's insane! I wouldn't do it for it, a legal man. FOH!
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she just have low self esteem and she is delusional. The right man for her she won't want him, she will keep getting scammed until she learned her lesson
She's crazy. She did that to herself
Too many scammers out there
@@oholm09No, he did that to her. Please do not let him off the hook.
It’s been going on I remember an ugly coworker married a Nigerian. She was bragging about him . As soon as he got his papers he left .
What made her ugly? Face or body
Him leaving her is nowhere near the same as being robbed. BIIIIG DIFFERENCE
@@okeneugly usually means face
@@jayfromcali7091 or both.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Imagine knowing someone for 10 months and they have access to your 50K
Lies
yep she desperado, look at her.
I can know you 10 years and give no access. Not even my kids get access. Y I would let some African FOH
@@queenofsheba3978you are funny😂🤣 and correct😂🥲
Nope, CAN'T imagine it !! 😤😤😤
Why did she let him know about the money in the first place. Ma'am if they didn't help you make that money don't let them know you have it.
Exactly
Desperate!!!!😂😂😂
Women are loose and yap too much. They don't know when to be quiet.
Them equals male or female spouse!
To flex to show off … it’s terrible u need be poor protect ur assets and ur hearts 💕 these guys games aren’t good at all they just go around
"Having an affair with this particular Nigerian woman"... Ma'am, that was his ACTUAL wife. You were the come up
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lol these women are delusional she still saying “ my husband”
If this is the actual case then his Nigerian wife ain't shit either lol
There is no woman she is a liar
😂
She better be glad all he took was that money, and she wasn't found in pieces all over state lines. This could have gone so many ways.
Dat part 💪🙌
Amen,,, Amen,,,Amen…Thank God
Plot twist, she was the mistress all along. Zadiyat is the wife!
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Zadiyat..😂😂😂
There is a hell for scammers and fraud and for the people who approve of them. There is a hell here on earth and in eternity. We all reap what we sow.
@@London2ATL what. Phew
Husband sons. So you telling me she paid ALL the bills and he had a job and paid NONE and NEVER brought home a paycheck. If Boo boo the fool was a person 😂
😅
😂😂😂😂
Africsn women would never.
Woman who know there worth would never. Desperate women are fair game.
It's said money can't buy love. You can only rent it like she was doing 😂
If he was bold enough to commit a crime by being illegal you thought it wouldn't get any worse? Lmfao
😂😂 It got worser!!!
Thank you, we all know how a majority of them scam but like a lot of black women the FBA brother is the enemy while all other men are god, no sympathy for this “Queen” you had it coming oh well NEXT’
My thoughts exactly!
😂😂😂 she so desperate she went for it
He is not illegal anymore once he marries an American. He just adjusts his Status
Nigerian men scamming women with Nigerian women backing them up.
That's the Majority of their country & Continent!! Scamming is the way..
Umm… I’m Nigerian and 100% agree
😂 Those are their real wives 💯
Lmao 😂 well someone said it
@@devilstrider289 everyone loves money and this will be the downfall as it is for the leaders of the world.
She is not a victim. She was desperate.
Bingo
Two things can be true. She was a desperate victim.
True 😂
I'm sorry she is going through it, but she has such poor judgment. Why does she want to take care of a broke man. Crazy!
Poor lady, she's never heard of Nigerian scammers??
Why do women repeatedly go through the same thing over and over
Because a lot of women. Think and React.
To their emotions.
And failings Instead of using logic and reality
Insanity
BECAUSE THEY ARE STUPID!
Cause they strong and independent
@@tg2016 Word
The levels of low self esteem has gotten out of control 🤦🏽♀️
My wife’s friend who’s obese AF just married a dude from Ghana. I told her it’s a scam the whole wedding we were talking shit 🤣 the audacity of the pretend family was insane all of his best men had low self esteem American women! Pathetically sad 😔
He sold her the Wakanda package.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 somebody pick up off the floor 😂😂😂 can u do that from wi-fi😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sadly💔😪
😂yikes. All the way from scam city, Nigeria😂
Now with 30% _MORE_ WAKANDA 👍
Samson looks like do not use any deodorant 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
🫢 is that you Samson 😂😂
😂Ol’ dusty behind…
@@bdewarrior5 first three letters of name sounds awfully similar 😂🤣
She was lying to herself and lying online just to convince herself that she wasn’t lying but the whole time she was lying!
The lieabetes in this one is real.
so is the “lie ability”😂😂😂😂😂😂
Halle Barry paying 2 brads 🤣
Halle got the punishment with the crime! Oh well!
No she is lying wait for IRS to prove if what she is saying is true. She tried to get back together with him. And she is trying to shame Nigerians shame on all who believe this
She took care of her husband. Now she'll come online and blame all BM and look for a simp to replenish what she had to pay to get a husband.
No lies detected, but they want bm to bring 100k plus to the table 😂😂😂😂 these hoes here
What simp? Even they have standards
@@qjtvaddictNaw idk about that some are really down
No if anything she is blaming herself for being a human & looking for companionship, meaning she was gullible and she deserves credit becuase it takes more bravery apart from respect than a lot of us have to put it out there in order to warn others not to make the same mistake.
@MC-mv2wr she ain’t warning nobody she playing victim and seeking attention.
It sucks to hear about this. Sorry this woman had to take such a loss.
Loss? 😂
She was desperate and virtually gave it away. She lucky she alive
She called her friend instead of the police
Police can’t do anything. They’re married and he had free access to the key.
Yup being married makes that a total dub 😂
@hellothereyouall
Yep, that's true.. 🤦♀️
You can't make this ish up ~ Kevin Samuels 🤦♂️ 😂😂😂
@miguelstigler9170 KS was Right. 😂
#KSWasRight
Being married does not mean your spouse has automatic access to accounts or cards UNLESS you put them on it. Any & all monies or properties gained prior to a marriage should not be available to a spouse & why in a divorce they have no legal rights to any gains prior to marriage. You can start a new & separate account that you both can be on but it's a choice to give access to what you had before you met them. Spouse or not you just don't do that & that goes for both men & women. That's like owning a home & then after meeting someone & getting married you run out & put their name on the deed after you paid for it all by yourself....NO! Spouses can live there but it's really dumb to put them on the deed when they put no money in to it. She got married & lost all common sense. 😢
Facts. I feel its better to have things separate and a shared account for bills, etc..
@@ianditwin7443yep…
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Seems she never had any common sense before the marriage..
I felt bad till the last woman said " I got a Jamaican coming at the end of the month" like she ordering a pair of shoes. I sometimes think they know whats up..they just think these ppl are idiots and they are the smartest in the room. When intent is not pure.....this is what happens sometimes smh
Of course they know what's up these women think they will be able to run over these guys and get fooled
And you have nice lips sunshine‼️
Agreed... It is a case of supposed players getting played. Never marry a desperate and vulnerable person and most immigrants from the supposed Third World are desperate and vulnerable. Trust in these situations is literarily impossible.
These love scams only work on old lonely and desperate American women n men who can't get nobody in America. @@charlesayodele2407
Bingo.
They can't stand American men, but other men can't stand them.
This seems like a valuable lesson for her. Why would you give access to your financial information to a man you barely know from a third-world country? Even if this man were from America, that money should have been placed in a secured trust for your children. In case something happened to you, your children would have been protected-not their stepfather.
Because
Because
Because
Love 😂
NO, you don't need a trust. You simply have a separate bank account onlyYOU have access to. You can have another account you both share!!! That is part of what makes the relationship look more legal to immigration people!! The difference in my case is I married a Ph.D. I still suffer to tjis day the psychological stuff.
I'm contemplating another international relationship....but honestly, I don't want to be bothered!!! It's a long process!!! It's expensive and honestly, with tjis man, he is not showing the level of attention I need!!! You don't go months with not sending an email etc.!! He claimed he tried to mail me an outfit but he went to the post office and it was still there so he took it back. I know what kind of evidence immigration looks for!!!
I also LOVE my peace. I gave this pot addict a chance and he smacked his big lips 24/7 saying he had food caught in his teeth. He's schizophrenic and thinks if I watch UA-cam, that messes with what he has programmed in there. He is secretive and sneaky!!! Oh yeah and goes to prison often!!!
Gettin scammed by an oogly boogly is crazy work 😂
O it's a bunch of sisters getting played. You will be shocked how they get them with the I will pay you 20k to marry me and its either a scam or just 5-6k they get paid and end up heartbroken and broke lol.🤣
@@garrymiller1497 Soooo sad that our Black American women still think these African “Kings,” and “Princes” really luv them 😓😂😂… There’s so many fake videos on UA-cam about how great these Nigerian men are and how Black American women just fall all over themselves for these guys…. And….some of our women do!!!!! These women offer themselves and these African men take advantage…..
@@Blkh-e2sI know some women in Europe who went through the same. It's ridiculous how they allow illegal immigrants play them!
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Right but she probably thought we can both be ugly together.
Wait a minute, I thought all Nigerians came here to be doctors, engineers, and lawyers. Where did
All this all this dust come from
Exactly 💯
Yeah.. .some janitors and garbage disposal dudes also made it through customs mane! 😅
Lol
😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣right
We can expect more stories like this in the future. But African men are so much better than American BM right? Sounds like the Nigerian woman was in on it as well. Geesh.
They are, he was using her
She got the same dusties here why get one them n care for their familes back home
Ewww African men better than ABM?? Who says that foolishness??? Only men in Africa I’d consider gotta be from South Africa or Cape Verde and THAT’S IT 💯
His Nigerian wife was definitely in on it cause she was getting half the $.
@@user-dg5zf4it8c I suspect that too. Geesh.
Reesa Teesa Jr. Girl, you got played
Leave those Africans alone.
Whole countries have been sounding the alarm about Nigerian people, so how could she have been so naive? However, I still don't believe that she learned a lesson.
File a complaint and file immigration papers to get him deported.
Sounds like abandonment and theft
They used witchcraft. That man was nothing special. He wasn't worth the price she paid. Low lives pulled her down. I pray she gets up, and happily moves on. At least she is still alive. She can make more money.
When women get SCAMMED why do they ALWAYS call their friends instead of the police 🚓🚨?🤔🤔🤔
Only Blaq American females do this. They're in some fantasized war/competition with us blaqmales, so they're in a comradery of failure with each other.
In this woman's case, it may be because he was here illegally. Others, who knows. I know this. I wouldn't have shown my wife where I kept $50'000 cash. Shiiiiiit!
It's happening to men, too.
@@fiae2897 It is? You have got to be kidding!😳
@@Jay-fy4ly I was talking about men getting scammed.
Well, she did say she's worth it. He also said she is worth it, so he robbed her because she's worth it.
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I see it happen all the time in Atlanta lol... Nigerians are slick
She's the scammer..
$50000 in a safe with a KEY?? Not a combination?
She is in an apartment with $50000 cash and not a bank account.
Sounds crazy, why wouldn't you want it in a bank account where you can earn a small amount of interest? Also federally insured! She could even get more interest with money market or other high yield interest accounts.
I guess I’m a scammer too because I prefer to keep more cash in a safe than in anyones bank.. I like to look broke on paper and keep ppl out of my business 😂😂💯💯
You just made him and his family back in Africa rich beyond their dreams. You gets nothing
He bought so many goats and chickens with that.
And gallons of cheetah pee
Yep
I know a gitl that married an African mqn and she foundout he has two wives in Africa. Crazy world we are living in
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Did he tell her he was a goat herder in Africa but in real life was actually a prince?
😂😂😂
Yooo😂😂😂😂😂
Dayum 😂😂😂
Not the Coming To America reference 🤣🤣🤣
That's his side to be
😂😂😂
If a man utters the words “i’m Nigerian” all he will see from me is dust as ruuuuuuuuun 😂🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️
If I hear Ni......🏃♀️➡️ already down the road.
Bigggggggggggg FACTSZZZZZZZZ
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@CassidyAlexis-no1yc - I agree 150% but 4 me if a man utters the words "I'm African from ................." I'm gone!! ➡
Not one more word
This is the same type of woman who said she would never settle for American black men
The black American would have been a better option?😅😅😂😂😅
@@roseeze166 yep the same ones that you had kids for
Statistically, how does the black men in 🇺🇸 treat women? Also, look up the states for fatherless children in our communities in the 🇺🇸
@@uniwemusic2929 Actually black men are the most involved fathers than any other race of men. Secondly black women are the least married and most likely to initiate divorce.
How long had she known him before trusting him?
All this female intuition and they still takin' "L's".
FAAAACCCCTTTSSSS
Never let the same snake bite you twice! Fool you once, shame on him but, fool you twice, shame on you!
She was A Come up for him
This is her fault. Over here illegally and using someone else's papers. Lady you get what you asked for.
Right that there was a red flag him scamming to work she should have known not to trust him where her money was located but blk American women are so educated.
High value intellectual pookies are proud of this immigrant
😂😂😂
Women have been doing this to autistic men and men with psychiatric problems for decades. I have no sympathy when a scammer gets over on a fully functional woman.
Took the words right out of my mouth
Hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂
Probably not hair bonnet
Money for IVF...... but no money for a GYM and a TRAINER......
You are wrong for that! What are your flaws??
😅🤣😆😂
Who doesnt know the Nigerian marriage scam?? Come on girl. Desperate with No common sense
Its kind of a blessing. She was trying to bring a baby into the world... Not a good idea especially since she didn't see red flags.
If She had a TRUE Father, Brother and Culturally BLACK Man in Her Life, They would have told Her NO from the Jump!!
Maybe They wouldn’t have had the “Reasoning” or the “Right Words” to sound “PC”, but just like WE say “No” for “Pookie and Ray-Ray” it would be a hard NO for “Solomon”.
Men KNOW Men.
If a Cat Truly has Potential and the Moxy to be My Sisters Husband….He’ll get a temporary “thumbs up”…but We’re WATCHING that Azz.
I know…You don’t want Your Fathers and Brothers “in Yo Bizznes”. And Yeah it can get to be too much sometimes.
But it’s better than NOT being “covered”.
This Woman is out here by Herself BEGGING a THIEF…to give the money back, with NO “consequences” as an alternative. Just appealing to His “Better Nature”?
…….Like He HAS one….
Yeah, that's gone in the black community now. It's not even an option for black women under 40...
My parents always taught us not to bring home Africans or pilgrims, and I never had any desire to be rebellious to that demand 😂💯💯
I will not castigate this woman for what happened to her, but advise all men and women to be more prudent about who we allow and n our lives. Don’t be fooled by that crap that Africans love us black Americans because they don’t see us the same! Just ask them how they feel about us, and you’ll get an answer that will surprise you.”!
AMEN! A lot of Africans think they are better than African Amercians.
I have no sympathy for her
🛑 👂 The lady was in love 🥰 Leave them cross waters Africans . This happened to my mother and it was way more $50,000 ✅
I guess she didn't know it was green card season
Welp she knew he needed a Green Card and you knew what you signed up for so she gotta take Big Ls all across the board.
What planet have she been living on , this has been going on for years .those guys pray on people like her . they what a green card an your money . she will be responsible for him for 10 years .
Truth. Its sad to see it happen so much
@@thelmawoodson6068 why 10 years
Why she's going to be responsible to him for 10 years?
@@yvettekinchking8838because she married him to allow him to stay in this country.. You have to prove to immigration you have the means to support your spouse so they can be able to stay and work legally.. And since she’s not able to know his whereabouts she can’t even divorce him and would have to wait until she’s qualified for abandonment..
@@copperamerindian050 thanks for the details abandonment. I understand. She clearly still wants to link to him to punish his for using her.
Women does this ALL THE TIME.
They let their guards down when the pookie isn’t FBA
😂😂💯💯
But want to disparage an American Black man as lazy
Hell they don't care where he's from
lol u really think she care about where he from ? she deperate and will take anything . im caribbean and they gone get wit whoever for a green card . everyone already knows thi in 2024,
Facts!!
When it’s a man in her shoes. They gloat and blame him. Guess it’s her lesson learned.
This woman's mirror mirror on the wall lied to her. She actually believed, without working out and with an "Accept me as I am attitude", that she could truly pull a younger man. SMH
😂😂😂😂 that Disney mirror effect 😂😂😂😂
She can plenty of men like bbws
She got scammed ,,,, Period !!! That was his plan ,, I doubt if shev were a size 8 he would have done things any different . your off course here.
@@cinnamin77abbachild15 And he targeted her because he figured she would have low self-esteem. A size 8 woman is usually confident and less likely to be scammed.
Delusions of Grandeur 😅
Why would she have this liquid cash in a safe and not in an account?
Far too many times, these women want the FANTASY, BUT the fantasy DOESN'T want them!!!!
I’m a woman 👩🏾 and that’s FFFFFFAAAACTSSS😭😭😭😅
Huh, she had the money why was she wanting?
@@StarHamil money isn't enough..companionship is the ultimate goal for women.
Facts !!
RIGHT 💯 ✅️ 😂😂😂😂
This does in fact happen very often. I know of several women this happened to personally and I also know how she can recoup some of that money through divorce proceedings. There’s no need to even talk to or beg him anymore.
Aww, she IS wife material. I hate to hear about good women picking the wrong guys. But...
Should’ve got a guy on her attraction level in America that’s where she messed up. I promise you she had options. No matter how they look they all do. She didn’t want a big old plumper like her lol.
💔 it’s ok big dawg
If she was wife material, then she would have been married in her prime. Instead, she was independent, ran off potential suitors, and now that she's past the wall, she's attracting the lowest quality males possible.
This is so sad. She didn't deserve that. I don't know why men would hate on such a good woman. SMH.. WE LIVE IN CLOWN WORLD..
She is not a good woman, she is a delusional woman who don't want the man who will cherish her, she got exactly what she pays for.
Her first mistake was marrying him because this is the plan the majority of these illegal immigrants have, her second mistake was telling him about that money. I don't feel sorry for her she should have known better
Right
What a sucker LMAO
The Kweens keep writing the jokes that tell on themselves..
That was not a "safe."
When she said, "safe", i asked myself, where can you hide a safe in an apartment, especially a Residential Security Safe, and or a TL30 safe? Needless to say, she had a dollar store Security box.
She was with him fir ten months, but he knew you had a safe, let alone where the key was. She should have had a two stage entry safe: Keys and Spin dial, or Spin dial and biometric scanner.
Most importantly who keeps 50k cash in their house? Why not keep that either in a bank where FDIC covers your investments/savings up to 50k, or buy a quality safe that bolts to the floor and buy a few gold bars?
(Him trying to withdraw 50k, even if it were 1k at a time would be flagged, on cctv if at a ATM/Teller, and show up in your monthly statements. Pending the account, the money would have been locked in with no option to withdraw. This opens him up to wire fraud charges, and FAFO as an undocumented ninja in a republican state...)
"Play stupid games, win stupid prizes" - Tommy Sotomayor.
Fell for the okie doke👀
Now she lying you gave him 50k
Hahahhah😂
As KS would say, 'Where is the evidence? Where is the police report? Why address this is the court of public opinion when you have the American justice system behind you? Why are you keeping that amount of cash with you when you have access to a secure bank account?' My issue with women like this is you required nothing from the man and guess what? You didn't only get nothing, you allegedly got robbed. You knew he was an illegal immigrant and yet chose to deal with him, and why? You're not a child, a fully grown woman and yet you chose the lowest hanging fruit because no man of value, not even an average guy, will take you seriously, and somehow you think the world owes you something. You get what you negotiate, it's that simple. The point is you thought you were better than the average, honest hardworking man and yet, look at what you picked. It amazes me how history always seems to repeat itself. 🙄🙄
Ok, so what did she really expect! Them dudes be wanting a green card!
Damn with tribal marks and all. Adekunle aint playing wid that FBA azz 😤
Tf is adekunle. That’s your Nigerian ancestors name?
@exalteduchiha1563 nah that's the nikka who FedEx'd you to United Slaves of America 🇺🇸
@@exalteduchiha1563 That's the name of the scammer in the video.
Appears to me their are so many narcisist on social media internet who are romance scammers nigerian or otherwise out there ensnaring these single women of our modern era looking for companionship. Its just a shame that so many are unable to see them coming. I am sorry that this women has suffered & she deserves respect for puting this out there in order to protect others from making the same mistake.
Well what I take from this is she had high unrealistic standards and when she finally got sick of being alone because of her doing, she lowered them standards to the gutter got hooked on scamer and got played and now her money is helping that dude's real girl have fun and helped his village build a well to finally get water. 😂😂
Nah, if she lowered her standards to the gutter she would have accepted an FBA man her age and her weight. Nope she got a younger slimmer man. Bc she thought she was too good for Norbit or Prof. Klump.
SMH, if he was ADOS he couldn't get $50 DOLLARS Of her.
Scammers get scam. 🙄🤔
She doesn't like the fact that he stole her hard earned money that she worked for. Welcome to the male experience! Doesn't feel good when it happens to you, huh? You go King 🤴 get your bag bro! Thats what women tell other women when the situation is reversed.
😂😂😂😂😂
Unfortunately I have to agree with you on that. Happens to good men all the time.
Hope you realize that no one, man or woman, deserves it,
She made a big mistake telling him about the money. If they can't it, they will to borrow.
Desperation can cause people to make bad decisions and trust the wrong people.
gone learn about them Nigerians
Stop it. Nigeria Pros:
-The biggest economy on the continent for decades until just this year.
-The richest Black man *in the world* and made his wealth in Nigeria.
-The *highest married Black demographic* in the world.
-The most educated Black people educated on the African continent.
-The most educated Black minorities in diaspora.
-The only Black demographic outearning foundational white Americans in the US.
-The highest number of Black students per population percentage in STEM.
-The only surgeons who, even being Nigerian trained, carried out invitro separation of heart conjoined twin in the US.
Cons: Top Scamming Country List.
Mexico
Ukraine
Hungary
Malaysia
Colombia
Romania
Philippines
Greece
Brazil
China
Nigeria is not even on the top 10 list, so why are they mentioned for scams?
And there's less than 0.2% Nigerians in the US.
@@chalaq803 Oh, but aren’t these Nigerian “Kings” and “Princes” all so much better and smarter, harder working, and better educated than us Black American men??? Really though 🤔
I love the last video comment. She said she was to marry a Jamaican and Ms. Girl said RUN!! Yes I hope she does do that.
She should report him to immigration police.
Yeah and then she can tell them all about how she was aiding and abiding him all this time!
God doesn’t sleep. He will suffer before he departs this earth. You have to be careful how you treat good people.
Adebisi? She got scammed by the dude from HBO Oz?😂 D@mn it is bad out here!
You know i said the same thing lmao
Lol
😂
Damn.... this ish didn't learn from Porsha Williams from the Real Housewives of Atlanta??? Smdfh
WHEN THESE GUYS GET TO AMERICA,THEY ARE SO SMART AND IT'S STRANG TO ME HOW AFRICANS ARE TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF IN AFRICA.
Funny but...good point
Right
We just, sadly,love the white man
@@goldencoast8896 WELL,TO HIS CREDIT,HE DID STICK IT TO YOU LONG AND DEEP.
She kept the cash in the house?
nah he probably had her bank info
Naw, she said she had it in a safe at home😅😭@@carlforpresidentanthony4574
@@carlforpresidentanthony4574Yes he had her bank info, I think she said it at some point of the video but I'm not sure. Gotta watch it again
She's a dummy for giving him access and weird for marrying an illegal alien .
I wonder how many men in her dating market place she turned down or ignored because of his size. Women, especially black women, do not want to admit their size is a factor when looking for a partner.
They feel they're too good to have to compete.....well up until they're over 40, overweight, and can't get a man to even sleep with them at that point
@@leroygreen9227I disagree. There's no shortage of desperate dudes that will sleep with anything that isn't geriatric
Spot on 💯
It's not a factor plenty of men love bbws......nice try though
@g.r.michigan5332 plenty of broke men that need a place to stay
What did she think an African would do 😂😂😂😂
It’s not an African thing. It’s a Nigerian thing more than any other. Your ignorant
She would never let an FBA get away with that. She shouldn't by the way but, that should go for all people, not just FBA
please elaborate
Always secure yourself...It make you wonder why she married him anyway, this is her fault, he showed her all the red flags by not ever sharing anything with her prior to marriage...she not in shape and deserve a out of shape man...she psyching her own self out.
Never pay for love!!! Never give men money!!!
Don’t date ppl without papers. Almost always they have someone back home.
I’m down with me, myself, & I ya see & 🤬 the community! 💯
Oshay , if you think she's soooo nice then you marry her
Ladies ladies ladies wake up!! So he was doing everything illegal but you thought he would not do it to you! Ohhh okay
Why is she begging him, report him to fbi! Get his ass arrested
Nah sure you can lie to me cheat on me but steal my money? Nope. I will go to hell and back for my money.
She’s snitchin and reveali burr stupidity and her aiding his crime hahaha😂