OPINIONS WON'T MATTER ANYMORE! | (How To Stop Caring What People Think & Move Forward) | Ralph Smart

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  • @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart
    @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart  Рік тому +82

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    • @MrGoodlion
      @MrGoodlion Рік тому

      I thought you were a righteous man. Why are you using the F word

    • @amritshergill1727
      @amritshergill1727 Рік тому

      Thanks universe and Ralph

  • @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart
    @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart  Рік тому +117

    Gratitude Always Wins = UA-cam Gold Award 😊

  • @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart
    @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart  Рік тому +74

    Love you all ❤

  • @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart
    @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart  Рік тому +177

    When you truly don't care what anyone thinks of you, you've reached a dangerous level of freedom.

    • @BARZ90
      @BARZ90 Рік тому +2

      Can u explain the difference making mistakes in past but everything happens for a reason

    • @anonymous-jp7bo
      @anonymous-jp7bo Рік тому +3

      Time to breakthrough once again!

    • @chosennubiangoddessanunnak1391
      @chosennubiangoddessanunnak1391 Рік тому +3

      💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚Thank you so much Ralph I have struggle with that for so long Karen about what others think about me especially being a chosen one willing to face my fears . False evidence appearing real has chosen ones attract so much attention 💚💚🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣

    • @valentinagluvac7299
      @valentinagluvac7299 Рік тому +1

      🌱💚🌳thank you

    • @skyhighlove9470
      @skyhighlove9470 Рік тому +3

      Freedom Reigns!✨🙏💖

  • @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart
    @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart  Рік тому +43

    Your future looks great.

    • @Velociberry
      @Velociberry Рік тому

      As the ancient knowledge goes, always aim to grant your future, it saves you boredom then up your anty

  • @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart
    @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart  Рік тому +97

    Trust yourself deep divers :)

    • @firstlastonly21
      @firstlastonly21 Рік тому +2

      Thank you Ralph for this amazing video! Showing Much love gratitude and appreciation and I’m very grateful for you. You are such a huge inspiration to me and my fiancé ❤💯

    • @ernestgreen254
      @ernestgreen254 Рік тому

      Finally became successful they talk even more S"'t about you but the first to ask you for a favor so F" 'K THEM AND SURROUND yourself with people who actually help & pray 🙏 your dreams become reality listen to your damn self know thy self /heart

    • @ernestgreen254
      @ernestgreen254 Рік тому +2

      I use to be a people pleaser and it was so much time waisted Free self and stay away from energy vampires they suck literally nomore being weak minded and f"*k toxic people surround yourself with like minded people who are actually sincerely happy when you do something wonderful 👍🏿 because you are wonderful
      E..... Introverted Visionary and yes we are great and don't know it because toxic jerks always tell you time and time again with your failures but bamnmmm when you didn't give up &

    • @ThereIsOnlyHereAndNow
      @ThereIsOnlyHereAndNow Рік тому +2

      i am

    • @samsonminnie5656
      @samsonminnie5656 Рік тому

      I always trust everyone to be themselves… then I choose who I keep around me because I trust myself to make that decision.
      Love your philosophy. Express yourself brother. ❤

  • @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart
    @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart  Рік тому +87

    It’s already on its way. Rest your mind.

  • @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart
    @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart  Рік тому +47

    The Master Speaks 3/3

    • @kristonAlcindor
      @kristonAlcindor Рік тому +1

      Ralph you are years ahead of your time...wise beyond years..

  • @mariettajanssen815
    @mariettajanssen815 Рік тому +2

    I've never seen you this glowing it's contagious, damn Ralph you smart and joyful 😊❤. You are appreciated ❤

    • @infinitewaters1843
      @infinitewaters1843 Рік тому

      ᴡʜᴀᴛꜱⒶᴘᴘ ᴍᴇ ±𝟏𝟓𝟎𝟖𝟐𝟗𝟔𝟒𝟒𝟓𝟎☝️

  • @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart
    @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart  Рік тому +5

    1st

  • @childofgod9628
    @childofgod9628 Рік тому +1

    Lol! 😂🤣 Thanks Ralph! Fellow Piscean we are connected. You came on shortly after they were putting me down.💙😇🙌🏽

  • @dansuniverse9642
    @dansuniverse9642 Рік тому +1

    Bro. How did you know that this is exactly what I needed? This feels like more than a coincidence. I haven't had a sleepless night in weeks until today, for the very reason you are talking about. I will let go of their opinions and allow something positive and clean to fill the now empty place.

  • @Subtlence
    @Subtlence Рік тому +1

    Woke up thirty mins before my shift. Getting ready watching ur video. That intro always energizes me. I’m ready for the day Ralph!

  • @JoleyTube
    @JoleyTube Рік тому +21

    Ralph, I been on a downward spiral of negative energy and coming back here to your channel is like a breath of fresh air! I almost thought people like you no longer exist on UA-cam because the algorithm does so well at keeping people in a toxic rabbit hole. Thank you so much for your channel!

    • @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart
      @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart  Рік тому +7

      Thanks

    • @Mindmap-Blueprint
      @Mindmap-Blueprint Рік тому

      Check out Hindz on youtube as well! He also shares a lot of mindfull and usefull information on these topics. You got this bro 💯

    • @Mary-sp9dp
      @Mary-sp9dp Рік тому

      Trailblazer is another one go see it 💕

  • @yvonnemarshall7416
    @yvonnemarshall7416 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Ralph I was feeling very low in spirits which I'm not usually I'm up beat spirit any way Ralph I saw your smile on your podcast I got on my exercise Bike first time for weeks WOW I DID IT MY 6 MILES
    BACK SO FROM MY HEART RALPH BIG THANK YOU
    I FAILED AN EXAM I PICK MY SELF UP 2nd EXAM I GOT 100 PERCENT
    SO NEVER GIVE UP ON YOUR DREAMS RALPH IS RIGHT .
    PEACE LOVE GIVE SOMEONE A SMILE IT COSTS NOTHING .
    Yvonne mullion Cornwall England

  • @rayas4189
    @rayas4189 Рік тому +28

    gratitude to you dear Ralph.. stop pleasing other people if its displeasing yourself..its okay to put the love and focus on your energies..peace, love and light to you all🙏💚💜❤️💙🧡💛

  • @Ingermina
    @Ingermina 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you. I always come back to this video and put me back on track.

  • @Inonymous1
    @Inonymous1 Рік тому +2

    I haven't seen Ralph's videos in like a decade but to see him in a suit with a pocket square!! The universe has clearly been favoring his positivity. Many blessings 🙌🏾

  • @MsLivingston7
    @MsLivingston7 Рік тому +2

    WHOAH !!!!

  • @studioh2018
    @studioh2018 Рік тому +21

    Having my own value system that is aligned to the universe helps me to let go of the people's opinions which don't help me evolve. It takes works to strengthen my alignment in order to protect my own energy. I appreciate your powerful words of wisdom Ralph🙏✨Thank you very much💛✨

  • @janayeisraeljoyofzion
    @janayeisraeljoyofzion Рік тому +3

    Exactly.
    That Part!🗣🗣🗣
    The Only Critic Opinion I’m Concerned With Is The Most High!
    You Are Appreciated Brother!♥️🕊

  • @coryw31
    @coryw31 Рік тому +3

    I literally found your channel this morning while searching on UA-cam for anything to help me get my head back on track. I spent so long wasting my life, worried about what other people thought of me because of my past. Growing up in the foster system, they weren't very supportive of me, so I spent many years cleaning up the mess that was my childhood. Now, I am at a point where I want to share some guidance with others, but the hurdle I need to get over is not caring what other people think about me. I am grateful for the help this video has given me. Thank you.

  • @catherine3340
    @catherine3340 Рік тому +4

    So true how people treat you is a reflection about themselves’ One love❤

  • @Geo13ization
    @Geo13ization Рік тому +15

    Everything said is 💯 certified. Shout out to the work you’re doing Ralph.

  • @AwuramaSimpson
    @AwuramaSimpson Рік тому +6

    Needed to hear this Today, I agree, we must stop externalizing our value, and take ownership of our self-worth and authenticity, love your high frequency beautiful energy and encouragement, Love and the highest blessings to you always 🌊💖💖💖💖💕💕✨✨✨

  • @AwuramaSimpson
    @AwuramaSimpson Рік тому +6

    “Letting go of what people think is the gateway to self-love and self-healing” - Ralph Smart 🌊🌊🌊💖💖💖✨

  • @trevonmartin4523
    @trevonmartin4523 Рік тому +6

    You know something Ralph. I am honored to have found you. Please know that you are saving lives! You are a gift from God. Don't EVER STOP! ITS WORKING!

  • @lovemeanyou
    @lovemeanyou Рік тому +3

    Hahah😂 haha love the title 😂😂 i love myself , myself knows im fabulous, myself knows i can do anything, myself believes in me ❤ im free 😊

  • @DevaPermanaDrums
    @DevaPermanaDrums Рік тому +1

    "I refuse to be in someone else's prison. I'm a free being. I'm not concern with your opinion, unless it's helping me evolve" I love it!! That's been the wisdom words i've been looking for. Thank you so much Ralph

  • @mmka5434
    @mmka5434 Рік тому +1

    "People that want attention will say anything to get yours." That was cool.

  • @Nicholask85
    @Nicholask85 Рік тому +5

    Opinions are like as* holes, everyone has one. One love deep divers keep the vibes high and remember to do something today that you can thank yourself for tomorrow!!!!

    • @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart
      @InfiniteWatersRalphSmart  Рік тому +1

      Glad to inspire you ❤️

    • @Nicholask85
      @Nicholask85 Рік тому

      @@InfiniteWatersRalphSmart I'm more glad you showed me how to inspire myself. Catch a fish for a man you feed him for a day, teach a man to fish and you feed him forever. You can be the work in progress and the masterpiece at the same time!!!!

  • @maryharv5237
    @maryharv5237 Рік тому +17

    Love this message.

  • @Goryzon
    @Goryzon Рік тому +2

    I take the energies you send my way and reciprocate it back to you with gratitude threefold.

  • @barbara.d690
    @barbara.d690 Рік тому +11

    Well said, Ralph powerful message, I stopped caring what people think of me long time, I just focus on what uplift me and growing and filling my dream thank you, much love ❤👍🏾

  • @jiyutheplanet
    @jiyutheplanet Рік тому +1

    this video alone is why I respect ralph

  • @jessicabeall537
    @jessicabeall537 Рік тому

    At this moment a miracle has happened, happening...I'm grateful for your voice ,speaking wise words, fearlessly and with impact.

  • @saulhpalmer
    @saulhpalmer Рік тому +1

    Great video Ralph!
    Detaching self-worth from opinions is powerful and leads to true freedom.

  • @kennyreal8
    @kennyreal8 Рік тому +5

    Love how relatable this is

  • @elin_lakshmi
    @elin_lakshmi Рік тому +5

    The most important is what I think of me, I trust in myself and what I do 😳 I am always open to learn something new, so if someones opinion comes from a place of love, and helps me evolve, I listen 😁
    Love you Ralph , and all you do 💕
    You are Amazing, One Love 💟

  • @sonwars3616
    @sonwars3616 Рік тому +7

    I'm glad you kept evolving you are a great inspiration for me 🥰🙏🏾

  • @stephaniepayne2263
    @stephaniepayne2263 Рік тому +1

    Hay Ralphie darlin xx ♥. I just finally finished official all for HS Medical Administrative Assistant!!!!! Wow!! Just Wow!!!! Thank you so very much!!!! Ya always on time!! Xx. Miss Stephanie

  • @silsalmolinero
    @silsalmolinero Рік тому +2

    Ralph you read my mind, my needs . Today i was thinking about envy of people. Thanks, 😉

  • @Breakthrough9
    @Breakthrough9 Рік тому +4

    Needed this!

  • @starlight-love.light.peace95

    Thank you, Ralph Smart! You always know what I need! STARLIGHT! LOVE! LIGHT! PEACE! :)

  • @lizzylou4950
    @lizzylou4950 Рік тому +1

    U r glowing 🔥! Years ago, I dropped some folks, 20 years later, we saw each other and their mouths dropped open, they couldn't believe I made without them🤣jokes on them

  • @puritynatashamwesh8271
    @puritynatashamwesh8271 Рік тому +6

    Powerful message 💕👏, I appreciate you Ralph Smart 🌟
    Thankyou for the great 👌 job you are doing to help the humanity 🙏🌟💕👏

  • @IamKiki-Jo
    @IamKiki-Jo Рік тому

    ‘I’m here to impress myself’ 💎 -Ralph Smart 2023 🤯🤯🤯

  • @valerycourtis
    @valerycourtis Рік тому

    What an interesting perspective to kick out people whom aren't paying rent in my mind. A way to make my ego serve me, not vice versa. Nice Ralph! 😁

  • @iownthebeat17
    @iownthebeat17 Рік тому +1

    RAIIISSSEEEEEE THE FREQUENCY!!!! ONE LOVE TO ALL❤️❤️❤️

  • @EmpressPrincess
    @EmpressPrincess Рік тому +2

    Yasss! So politely said Ralph. 0 fuqs given.. I need to follow your lead. Thanks.🙌🏽🥰🥰

  • @Kalimonkk
    @Kalimonkk Рік тому +1

    🫡🤫😁 love you man!!! This video is A major confirmation for all light workers and chosen ones

  • @ArhisAlight
    @ArhisAlight Рік тому +4

    Thank you, man! It helped me a lot to understand and prioritize what's really important, and what's worth no attention!

  • @tamde696
    @tamde696 Рік тому +6

    Worth listening to everyday for many of us. Thanks Ralph.

  • @r.a.5874
    @r.a.5874 Рік тому +3

    Always great energy thank you Ralph ❤

  • @seanm.7584
    @seanm.7584 Рік тому +2

    You do a lot of good in this world, Ralph. I can feel that.

  • @dianecorbin8886
    @dianecorbin8886 Рік тому

    I needed this video on a Sunday morning knowing that the working week is starting again.

  • @houstonian7248
    @houstonian7248 Рік тому +5

    Thank u for this video, i needed it because my confidence is really low and there was this one person i wanted to fight. Im sure u remember. I wanted to prove myself. Thank u

  • @Hawaiian-ul5jx
    @Hawaiian-ul5jx Рік тому

    Well I Love You Ralph Smart & I will never stop watching Your videos!!!!!!!

  • @Chaibishop
    @Chaibishop Рік тому +1

    thanks ralph

  • @maryharv5237
    @maryharv5237 Рік тому

    Yes. Don't come to me with no more nonsense. Tired of it. Lol. Well said

  • @louiseainsworth6264
    @louiseainsworth6264 5 місяців тому

    Thanks for caring and reminding me to let go of opinions

  • @wesc5985
    @wesc5985 Рік тому

    this is the best video of 2023!! thank you Ralph this is so powerful!

  • @scãryasmrgameplay
    @scãryasmrgameplay Рік тому +1

    This is the video of the century 🔥🔥🔥

  • @ThereIsOnlyHereAndNow
    @ThereIsOnlyHereAndNow Рік тому

    Man, i am so thankful for you dropping bangers like these!!!
    Your videos are helping me evolve!!!

  • @bluev38
    @bluev38 Рік тому

    Boy did I need to hear this, so many negative people where I work, thanks for your encouraging words!

    • @bluev38
      @bluev38 Рік тому

      @jameschristopher7442 thanks for your post was down and out, pray u be bless. Alot of people like me need your positive energy!

  • @Forc635
    @Forc635 Рік тому

    Each nd every word u say is a big blessing for us Ralph.. Thanks a million..

  • @TuxNHoodie
    @TuxNHoodie Рік тому

    I woke up like this all magical and fly!🔥

  • @Nirvana-1111
    @Nirvana-1111 Рік тому +3

    Yes attaining nirvana and a state of enlightenment=Having no emotional/mental attachments and always having a clear mind free of karma. THAT is enlightenment.
    No I don’t mean that you can’t have your thoughts on things or emotions, i meant letting your judgement or just yourself in general get controlled and clouded by them.

  • @A.A125
    @A.A125 Рік тому

    TAE-nk you for your time, attention and energy 🙏

  • @israelcruz6947
    @israelcruz6947 Рік тому

    Freedoms of not caring is real freedom

  • @filibertoaguilar4509
    @filibertoaguilar4509 Рік тому +1

    Thank you My Friend Ralph Smart and Everyone A Part of it 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Value your Time 😇👆🏾🦀🤸🌚🌞🌅🌄 Infinite Waters 💛💚🤎🖤❤️🧡💜🤍💖🕺🫁 One Love ✌🏽 Peace 🧠

  • @HealingHoney
    @HealingHoney Рік тому +2

    I had to save this one❤️‍🔥🧡 that’s powerful🔥🔥 the 1 + only thank u

  • @ioannisbatras5051
    @ioannisbatras5051 Рік тому +4

    Thank you for all your videos Ralph.I see you every day and I have more positive energy

  • @leahcim9music
    @leahcim9music Рік тому +3

    Gratitude! Great message for the collective Ralph Smart..once we learn other people's thoughts they choose from their world have absolutely nothing to do with my world 🌎 😀 but help me grow to the next level so just give thanks for those helping me win everyday.😎😏💜👍🦋 much appreciated and beautiful message.

  • @Peaceovereverything1
    @Peaceovereverything1 Рік тому +1

    Yes-I! Loose The Truth Ralph🔥🔥🔥🔥Blaze ittttt

  • @cindyperera2077
    @cindyperera2077 Рік тому +3

    Thanks for the video Ralph. I am a strong person. But we can all do with some words of encouragement from time to time. Your words are going to help me out of the mire this year. I love you Ralph xxx

  • @sedrickturner8145
    @sedrickturner8145 Рік тому +1

    Much appreciated Ralph. Thank you for being you and I'm grateful for the motivational you. Love peace and increase of laughter

  • @Pharockgod
    @Pharockgod Рік тому

    I was just explaining this: we cannot control the perceptions people have of us but we can influence those perceptions which is not necessary but to the Ego Mind.

  • @janedunn6567
    @janedunn6567 Рік тому

    R A L P H.!!!!! Thank you very much its helping me envolve emptying my MIND.......

  • @jo-annemariethilwind1994
    @jo-annemariethilwind1994 Рік тому

    Listening again before I go to work if I could like again I would …uplifting message….❤Thank you x

  • @nicolezamore4523
    @nicolezamore4523 Рік тому

    Real talk brother,Halleluyah Holy Spirit🙏💕

  • @Oceanlee261
    @Oceanlee261 Рік тому

    Thank you Sir... I am extremely sensitive so have had a hard time with this..... I feel full of Love and want to help the world... I will figure it out... 💕✌️

  • @blakeholmes22
    @blakeholmes22 Рік тому +2

    Thanks you for the video. What people’s opinions of me don’t matter. What matters is that I can keep moving forward, how much I can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done! ❤

  • @yojennyb2136
    @yojennyb2136 Рік тому

    Ralph Smart, i enjoy watching your videos, you have great videos with great points of view 👍🏾. I gave up on trying to please people and i don't care about their opinion. But I told myself to stop pleasing my Father, but I'm still worry about his opinion, to the point it's not worth it. Ralph Smart, everytime I'm looking for advice your videos on what I'm looking for always pop up ☺️. Great advice 👍🏾. Now, I have the answer thanks to you and your videos, now i know i got to stop worrying about what people say that doesn't practice what they preach, and now i can stop pleasing my father and start living my life for myself and not living my life the way my father wants me to or being controlled by him. Now I'm going to be me my way and focus on myself and my life to live my life for once. 💜 Thank you Ralph Smart ❤️ keep up the great videos, your a breathe of fresh air to watch.

  • @brannyvargas
    @brannyvargas Рік тому +1

    Ralph you couldn’t had said it any better 👌🔥

  • @assurdo8888
    @assurdo8888 Рік тому

    I agree with 99% contents of this video, and i've shared it. There is one exception, to this subject: SOMETIMES criticism can ACTUALLY come from people who CARE about you / me / us. Sometimes, A PARTICULAR, PECULIAR SUGGESTION from TRULY CARING people (or from that persons that we meet once in our Lifetime, maybe for a day or a night, maybe for a minute at, say, the bus stop) is meant to provide you / me / us sort of the missing link of something we are doing or that we are feeling or whatever. It's the same i said when in another video you said that many that do not want you to suceed will stay silent in envy, or skepticism, when you suceed. There is / can be the VERY SAME EXCEPTION : some that care about you will ENJOY in silent your success, while those who can change their minds overnight could flood you of compliments and nice words. I'm gonna post this comment on both UA-cam and Facebook (i don't use almost never Istagram). Be well, stay strong, thank you for your work.

  • @maryrosek1347
    @maryrosek1347 Рік тому

    Awesome advice and I love it !! Keep loving ourselves. Ralph thanks for being u !! Luv luv luv

  • @cynthiagouin429
    @cynthiagouin429 Рік тому +1

    BIG vibes !
    Thank you 💛💛💛

  • @Lanie_5D
    @Lanie_5D Рік тому

    Not sugar coating this but screw that 5%! You have shared so much and have helped so many. You deserve love and support. So much love for all that you have done in your life!!! Please always be the light in the darker days dear Ralph!

  • @moniquicahatch
    @moniquicahatch Рік тому +1

    My favorite mentor gratitude ❤

  • @fantasyflowerchild
    @fantasyflowerchild Рік тому +2

    You just went in Ralph thank you so much for the inspiration 💙🤎💙🤎

  • @Shanti444
    @Shanti444 Рік тому

    Beautiful! Thank you for your positive vibrations Ralph🫶🏾

  • @albertodonella5891
    @albertodonella5891 Рік тому

    The magic of not giving a fxxk!

  • @firozmurrayfirozmuralithar1211

    Thank you Ralph for your advise,let it go and smile at me love and peace.

  • @IAMARisingPhoenix
    @IAMARisingPhoenix Рік тому

    Other people’s opinions are NONE of your business! 💥 LUV this one Ralph! Spoke on it as well some time back! Totally concur !! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @Conwagner
    @Conwagner Рік тому +2

    Dear Ralph, You are tireless, thank you for being here..💖💕

  • @msofficialxo7953
    @msofficialxo7953 Рік тому +1

    Thank You❤❤❤❤ I appreciate this Yes You must listen to Your inner truth and understand there are no limits for You. You can be do and have anything

  • @deandreadevinehorne1853
    @deandreadevinehorne1853 Рік тому +1

    I'm already on this. Thanks for the reminder

  • @nayelygilbert6494
    @nayelygilbert6494 Рік тому

    Yessss! To this whole video! Thank you Ralph ❤

  • @patriotmenace8835
    @patriotmenace8835 Рік тому

    Wow..this made alot of sense..what really caught my attention is how we focus on the few against us instead of the ones who are for us..l need to avoid this..❤❤❤ty.