Day 3 in the bag. After seeing lots of your feedback I will be including longer portions of some of the interactions in future videos, starting with tomorrow on Day 4 😎stay tuned. If you want to learn exactly how I successfully approach women with ease, check out my full in-depth course: benseda.com/gentleman-approach?el=YT-tate-line-ch
Honestly this is my favorite pickup line and the only one I ever use. It's so vulnerable and so non needy it's also extremely polarizing and will get either a fuck yes or a fuck no
It works even better with your fly down and your junk hanging out. You connect over the laugh you both have when they point it out and you tell them you had no idea.
@@terraflow__bryanburdo4547meh, if you're thinking about frame you've already lost. Honest communication is more important for meaningful relationships
@@terraflow__bryanburdo4547 Don't overthink the theory. It fucks with your head if you get too analytical. We cannot force the entirety of a social interaction into formulae
Absolutely. All you need to do is look like him and then unless she's dodging f--kboys, she'll roll with pretty much whatever you say. And to those who'd deny it... He's fit, muscular, head full of hair, confident in looks (tank top, fanny pack) and approach. I'm not here to praise the guy, just to say that this is another PUA bulls--t. Most of you don't look like him and thus will rarely get similiar results chasing hot chicks and lets face it, you rarely chase mid's. I'm not saying don't try... I'm just saying: be ready to be rejected.
i almost never approached a girl before but last time i did it, i was stuttering n lost my mind but still got the job done bcs the girl was flattered n thought it was cute
A great way of stopping a girl walking by, without running in front of her, is to firmly say, "Excuse me, sorry to stop you." It's kind of using NLP to "command" them, and the phrase presumes they've already done it. It actually works, give it a try.
Hey Benjamin. Nice approaches and videos. I just want to say Red pill isn't completely delusional. Infact red pill helped me a lot to get back myself and improved version after my breakup. It also helped me to learn about female psychology. However I agree with you in point that just because one is rich, and girl aren't going to come to you without any approach effort.
if she likes U u can say almost anything.. u can say U are beautiful and U can omit that.. U can be sofisticated or even timid... U just need to go talk to her... if U get rejected U would have been rejected with 80/90 percent of the lines U would have possibly come out with.
Hey Benjamin you motivated me to challenge myself as well. I will achieve one successful approach per week until the end of your 30 days. I have got 3 days for number one left. I will do my best! If somebody wants to join my little challenge: feel free!
this is probably the most interesting video of your channel, especially when you said that men like andrew tate, super viril, musculated, tall, hiigh self confidence, can have a cold approach, while nice guy must build on their sympathy and be more chatty.. this is a nuance to figure that there is not an universal approaching technique because each guy is different, each guy must rely on his own qualities. fun-fact lot of coaches saay you should never approaches saying "excuse me" cause you don't have to apologies for anything, otherwise you're weak.
Hey Benjamin great video! Are you also following up with the girls from this challenge over text and try to get a date? If yes can you maybe show it to us I think that would be interesting to see how you follow up. Keep up the streak!
What about a scenario where you guys are at some event or a social gathering with mutuals? What would be good opening lines coming up to that person? I usually just either ask a mutual friend to introduce me or come around and try to start a conversation about whatever is around I guess
“Yo I don’t think we’ve met yet. I’m [insert name here]” Follow up by asking how she knows the host and from there make a bit of small talk. Close off by asking for her insta so you can stay in touch then tell her you’ll see her around. I may not be able to cold approach by day but at a party (an environment at which I feel most confident) and fuelled by liquid courage, I’m unstoppable with approaching. I’ve had a lineup of 21st parties in the past year and this works every time. Cause remember it’s not what you say but how you say it.
Can you put the whole interaction in as well in all the videos? Like the small talk portion? I feel like that's where i'm feeling the struggle most of the time while talking. . Like i feel uncomfortable to make a transition from one topic to another since it feels like i end up just interviewing her at that point.
There was a woman at the gym who I walked past today. She looked up, held eye contact, and gave me a really inviting smile. I smiled at her, and she continued to hold eye contact and smile again. So I walked off, hit some more sets, and circled back around when I saw her walking in my general vicinity. We chatted for a bit with good flow. I asked her name, and she asked for mine, which is usually a green flag like Tate says. She even went on to say that my name is one of her favorites for a guy with a huge smile. So I go for the number and she says that she is married. Then she added that she'd be sure to keep an eye out for me around the gym in the future. On paper, it was textbook and should've hit with so many IOI's. But with the mixed signals it was like getting 20 and the dealer drawing blackjack. 🤣
Could you consider trying older women ? I'm 27 after years of loneliness and not succeeding in building a deep relationship with a girl, I feel like I need to feel to warmth of a mom in her 30s/40s/even50s to make up for my frustration with young girls. So I wanna see how their reaction can be if approached by younger men like us
Dude, I freaking died laughing. Older women are totally into younger men if you're talking just for some fun. But I gotta say it's kinda cringe to want one to step into the mother role for you. And I say that as a 50 year old guy. LOL
@@scottverge938 haha I understand how it's amusing for you. Older women for me are pretty attractive. When they get into their mid 30s their hips start getting wider, their tits get bigger and they become like a softer, warmer pillow I can hug🥰 I believe it's the equivalent of girls who want daddies/older guys. Also they're more mature and know how to handle us and pleasure us more than younger girls. So I'd love to spend some time with a milf but to have a younger girl as my soulmate/wife
Watching this vid because one of the most gorgeous woman I've ever seen just walked by me in a gorcery store and I didn't say shit 😂 I think my main reason for hesitating so much is because I don't think my face is all that attractive and I have a really skinny body. So I can't help but think that women will just reject me.
i'm affraid to try it because in france nobody shake hands since 2020. @1:55 you don't seems to put too much pressure on her hands, probably not a viril hand shake, just a gentle one. i might be wrong, but it's the 10th time i'm watching this part.
going in telling a girl she is absolutely beautiful just sounds a little bit off no? if you were to make a compliment Id go off something she was wearing ( dress, accessories etc ) and its an easier follow up after, I do like his trick about asking the name and if they don't ask back its a red flag , haven't heard that one before and it does make sense
I want to see way more of the conversations and less tips. You can give some tips but i think you're giving too many. Still good job on going up to them
Game is pretty simple the one that picks are the winner. Trying to play the impress the girl kinda game never really works maybe 1 in 10 tries. She needs to want to impress you or its not gonna work. In her eyes you need to be seen as high value it does not matter if you are or not. She want to be the one chasing you. Never ever chase a women she will only run away from you. calling a women pretty from the get go in tryhard and your setting the frame that she is the one that decides how this is gonna go witch is a horrible frame to come from. In every interaction there is a person more in power if your not it then your like a hubby dog licking her boots. You can tell who not in power by who is seeking approval in the interaction.
Some people has no rizz and need a line, but i know I've got rizz but dont have the guts😢😅 ya we exist, and the worst part is we dont want to use the line
This direct approach is creepy as hell so it will never gonna work and it's not just because of picking up line as a whole talking to strangers is creepy for women
Great video so far, but I would still ask her for the phone number rather than Instagram because what to show there? Two face pictures? I have Twitter where I will do face reveals soon and will stick to that platform for long since I am actually offering value there.
Andrew tate said that a girl would give anyone her instagram cause it a extra follower but their phone number they give it out less because it is more personal
Ameture, be a man and use the pickup line that kings use.... My name is Inigo Montoya. You killed my father. Prepare to die!!!! _Say as you shake her hand_
I'm in kenya 🇰🇪 (Africa) give me the 10 k if you fail,i will highly appreciate.I'm zeus fan from day one.i could request the 10k should be given random fan in the internet (me)
So this dude worships Tate - a known abuser who has been accused of rape by a number of women and arrested in Romania for trafficking. Tells you a lot about Seda.
@@gesamtkunstwerk8431 don’t need to be a Roid rat. But being so skinny is definitely a hindrance in how you are perceived. It’s like being less of a man. Simply engrained in our evolutionary psychology.
using insta means she can social media stalk you. And if your insta is on point and appealing to her, it ups your chances of getting her out on a date or whatever.
no offense at all , but why do you ask for instagram instead of whatsapp , getting her number is so much solid than getting an instagram account , because there are so many girls which use whatsapp a lot , and they are not active at all on social medias , personally i prefer the number than the social media platforms
Day 3 in the bag. After seeing lots of your feedback I will be including longer portions of some of the interactions in future videos, starting with tomorrow on Day 4 😎stay tuned.
If you want to learn exactly how I successfully approach women with ease, check out my full in-depth course: benseda.com/gentleman-approach?el=YT-tate-line-ch
MEN HAVE BEEN USING THESE LINE WAY BEFORE TATE WAS BORN NONE OF TATES LINES ARE HIS BENJAMIN
What we actually want to see is what happened after. Did u went on a date? Did u hooked up? Getting an IG or a phone number doesnt mean anything.
Honestly this is my favorite pickup line and the only one I ever use. It's so vulnerable and so non needy it's also extremely polarizing and will get either a fuck yes or a fuck no
It works even better with your fly down and your junk hanging out. You connect over the laugh you both have when they point it out and you tell them you had no idea.
@@jimdandy8996 sexual harizzment
Meh...i never give her the frame wirhout her earninf it.
@@terraflow__bryanburdo4547meh, if you're thinking about frame you've already lost. Honest communication is more important for meaningful relationships
@@terraflow__bryanburdo4547 Don't overthink the theory. It fucks with your head if you get too analytical. We cannot force the entirety of a social interaction into formulae
I appreciate how Benjamin shows us that a classic phrase can still be used in the right context and still work!
Benjamin who?
Absolutely. All you need to do is look like him and then unless she's dodging f--kboys, she'll roll with pretty much whatever you say. And to those who'd deny it...
He's fit, muscular, head full of hair, confident in looks (tank top, fanny pack) and approach. I'm not here to praise the guy, just to say that this is another PUA bulls--t. Most of you don't look like him and thus will rarely get similiar results chasing hot chicks and lets face it, you rarely chase mid's. I'm not saying don't try... I'm just saying: be ready to be rejected.
i almost never approached a girl before but last time i did it, i was stuttering n lost my mind but still got the job done bcs the girl was flattered n thought it was cute
Not all women react the same way but a positive reaction is always awesome
You're incredibly articulate. You should make a video on how to get better at that
The rejection shows how real your efforts are
Love from India sir
A great way of stopping a girl walking by, without running in front of her, is to firmly say, "Excuse me, sorry to stop you." It's kind of using NLP to "command" them, and the phrase presumes they've already done it. It actually works, give it a try.
Nice, good idea!
I live in NYC, Manhattan, I use indoors....I saw you standing here and I had to come over and say hi.....my name is blah blah....It works all the time
It's the confidence from getting in shape and attaining riches the gets you women
Or you learn it when you traffic "goods"
You’re always the most down to earth with the advice bro! Keep doing you 💯
Hey Benjamin. Nice approaches and videos. I just want to say Red pill isn't completely delusional. Infact red pill helped me a lot to get back myself and improved version after my breakup. It also helped me to learn about female psychology. However I agree with you in point that just because one is rich, and girl aren't going to come to you without any approach effort.
Guys don't know how powerful it is to tell a woman she is beautiful to her face.
Powerfully validating for her
Each video is getting better. Amazing
Glad you think so!
Thanks bro. I appreciate your effort in making me be a better version of myself
if she likes U u can say almost anything.. u can say U are beautiful and U can omit that.. U can be sofisticated or even timid... U just need to go talk to her... if U get rejected U would have been rejected with 80/90 percent of the lines U would have possibly come out with.
Hey Benjamin you motivated me to challenge myself as well. I will achieve one successful approach per week until the end of your 30 days. I have got 3 days for number one left.
I will do my best! If somebody wants to join my little challenge: feel free!
Favorite channel lately
This camera man is very discreet
So basically, use pickup lines but always try to fit it with your personality and task challenge: pick up a girl at a grocery store shopping
4:30 tips on approaching a girl by being in front of her as fast as possible 5:04 cold approach a girl in a group
@4:40 absolutely eye contact first, don't come from behind you will just scare her.
Step 1: Don't be ugly
Cope
Oh come ooon, he is fine. Also, everyone has a type. Unnecessary comment with unnecessary negativity. Just be nice 🌸
Be jacked
…and if you are, hit the gym HARD everyday and eat like a gorilla 🦍
this is probably the most interesting video of your channel, especially when you said that men like andrew tate, super viril, musculated, tall, hiigh self confidence, can have a cold approach, while nice guy must build on their sympathy and be more chatty.. this is a nuance to figure that there is not an universal approaching technique because each guy is different, each guy must rely on his own qualities. fun-fact lot of coaches saay you should never approaches saying "excuse me" cause you don't have to apologies for anything, otherwise you're weak.
Hey Benjamin great video! Are you also following up with the girls from this challenge over text and try to get a date? If yes can you maybe show it to us I think that would be interesting to see how you follow up. Keep up the streak!
He should do this till he starts a family with each of them
I like this new based zeus
7:35 Your last words were really gold my brother! ❤️ creativ procrastinating got me ..
Woke up and it's already out lmao. Uncle Ben doesn't miss 🔥
What about a scenario where you guys are at some event or a social gathering with mutuals? What would be good opening lines coming up to that person? I usually just either ask a mutual friend to introduce me or come around and try to start a conversation about whatever is around I guess
“Yo I don’t think we’ve met yet. I’m [insert name here]”
Follow up by asking how she knows the host and from there make a bit of small talk. Close off by asking for her insta so you can stay in touch then tell her you’ll see her around. I may not be able to cold approach by day but at a party (an environment at which I feel most confident) and fuelled by liquid courage, I’m unstoppable with approaching. I’ve had a lineup of 21st parties in the past year and this works every time. Cause remember it’s not what you say but how you say it.
Just talk about something in the environment, then “what’s ur name btw” and shake her hand playfully
@@richos07I was about to reply exactly this. Did you get it from Charisma on Command too?
Bro just go up to the girl with confidence and talk to her, just be authentic, compliment the girl and start up a conversation
YO ZEUS I WATCHED ALL 3 days homie and I’m gonna watch the next 20 however many as well!!
Can you put the whole interaction in as well in all the videos? Like the small talk portion? I feel like that's where i'm feeling the struggle most of the time while talking.
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Like i feel uncomfortable to make a transition from one topic to another since it feels like i end up just interviewing her at that point.
Day game at Brickell city center mall isn’t a terrible idea. Bravo 👏
Simple Pick Up : Project Go!
There was a woman at the gym who I walked past today. She looked up, held eye contact, and gave me a really inviting smile. I smiled at her, and she continued to hold eye contact and smile again.
So I walked off, hit some more sets, and circled back around when I saw her walking in my general vicinity. We chatted for a bit with good flow. I asked her name, and she asked for mine, which is usually a green flag like Tate says.
She even went on to say that my name is one of her favorites for a guy with a huge smile. So I go for the number and she says that she is married. Then she added that she'd be sure to keep an eye out for me around the gym in the future. On paper, it was textbook and should've hit with so many IOI's. But with the mixed signals it was like getting 20 and the dealer drawing blackjack. 🤣
either open marriage or looking to cheat imo
Sometimes that happens. Talk to another one.
Epic content! You are creative benji
We want to see between the conversation and what really been said
what cities in northern California are best for practicing game and getting rid of approach anxiety?
I have a far better line that makes her work for the compliment. Makes it more fun too, way more flirtatious.
Could you consider trying older women ?
I'm 27 after years of loneliness and not succeeding in building a deep relationship with a girl, I feel like I need to feel to warmth of a mom in her 30s/40s/even50s to make up for my frustration with young girls. So I wanna see how their reaction can be if approached by younger men like us
I'm pretty sure it's on the list.
Dude, I freaking died laughing. Older women are totally into younger men if you're talking just for some fun. But I gotta say it's kinda cringe to want one to step into the mother role for you. And I say that as a 50 year old guy. LOL
@@richko I hope so. In day 4 he accidentally approached an older woman but that wasn't the goal nor was she that older
@@scottverge938 haha I understand how it's amusing for you. Older women for me are pretty attractive. When they get into their mid 30s their hips start getting wider, their tits get bigger and they become like a softer, warmer pillow I can hug🥰 I believe it's the equivalent of girls who want daddies/older guys. Also they're more mature and know how to handle us and pleasure us more than younger girls. So I'd love to spend some time with a milf but to have a younger girl as my soulmate/wife
Watching this vid because one of the most gorgeous woman I've ever seen just walked by me in a gorcery store and I didn't say shit 😂
I think my main reason for hesitating so much is because I don't think my face is all that attractive and I have a really skinny body. So I can't help but think that women will just reject me.
That was good man ❤
This is facts, if she doesn’t ask you your name, walk away champ
I liked very much your last thinking 💭 :)
bro what's that tanktop tho💀 looks like u bout to hit the gym for the first time
Yeah bro actually had a fashion handicap on this one 😂
I think you are love guru ✨
30 numbers in 30 days? So easy to get done in 1 day.
These vids are great
I watched u all in highschool and got so much 😺 and still getting every girl i always wanted in still in training tho
i'm affraid to try it because in france nobody shake hands since 2020. @1:55 you don't seems to put too much pressure on her hands, probably not a viril hand shake, just a gentle one. i might be wrong, but it's the 10th time i'm watching this part.
I am interested about statistic - with how much women you have success after using this pick up line in percentage?
Nice bro
You are wise
Try to pick up a girl at the church
Nice job jaffer
going in telling a girl she is absolutely beautiful just sounds a little bit off no? if you were to make a compliment Id go off something she was wearing ( dress, accessories etc ) and its an easier follow up after, I do like his trick about asking the name and if they don't ask back its a red flag , haven't heard that one before and it does make sense
Why would you care about accesories. She is beautiful not some object....
If she finds you attractive, she won't care much what would you say...And if she don't like you whatever you say won't be good enough or interesting
simply legend!
i went to high school with andrew. this is accurate lol
Rule no1 be handsome n rich fr
Happy New Year's 🎉
Hope that one of the challenges is to speak Spanish to a girl
📷 man please make this a thing
Stephora video yesss
I want to see way more of the conversations and less tips. You can give some tips but i think you're giving too many. Still good job on going up to them
it's this pickup line kepp being used over and over again, girls will reply "i already seen the andrew tate's video" 😂
It’s a line that works if you have a massive physically imposing frame. It’s not great for normies.
Probably gets normies friendzoned or funneled to the Insta.
Game is pretty simple the one that picks are the winner. Trying to play the impress the girl kinda game never really works maybe 1 in 10 tries. She needs to want to impress you or its not gonna work. In her eyes you need to be seen as high value it does not matter if you are or not. She want to be the one chasing you. Never ever chase a women she will only run away from you. calling a women pretty from the get go in tryhard and your setting the frame that she is the one that decides how this is gonna go witch is a horrible frame to come from. In every interaction there is a person more in power if your not it then your like a hubby dog licking her boots. You can tell who not in power by who is seeking approval in the interaction.
Some people has no rizz and need a line, but i know I've got rizz but dont have the guts😢😅 ya we exist, and the worst part is we dont want to use the line
Cool video but bro that tank top is pretty sketchy for approaching lol
Idk where your monobrow grows, but you should let your eyebrows gap be narrower, it would suit you better.
at 9:48 it looks like a rap song when he start's talking😂😂❤
Yeah!! 😂
He was on beat
I don’t think rocking a wife beater shirt is the best way to present yourself at a mall setting to approach.
Hes still young and good looking. What about when your 40
I would never approach girls in Sephora.
What color is your Bugatti is a good pick up line 👍🏼
Reality check: If you're ugly (like me) every effort will go waste.
How tall are you?
6'5
I remember this channel used to give andrew tate a bad image before, how ironic there using tates methods now lol
This direct approach is creepy as hell so it will never gonna work and it's not just because of picking up line as a whole talking to strangers is creepy for women
for this to work:
Step 1 - Be tall.
Great video so far, but I would still ask her for the phone number rather than Instagram because what to show there? Two face pictures? I have Twitter where I will do face reveals soon and will stick to that platform for long since I am actually offering value there.
Can you try not to skip the conversation
but only if you are tall and good looking. otherwise its harassment
Good thing I'm 6'2 and drive a Lexus.
@@1bosstvLexus is embarrassing.
@gesamtkunstwerk8431 Says some loser who can't afford one or any high-end German flagship, go level up.
@@1bosstv lexus is for chicks. Thats why you talk like a woman.
Just be a dumb ass it's work every time 😂😂😂
What city is this?
Miami
This guy is picking up women while wearing a fanny pack 🤣 what a Chad
wait a minute.... YOU'RE Based Zeus???
Decent video but ngl u glazing lmao
Why does he go for Instagram and not number
Andrew tate said that a girl would give anyone her instagram cause it a extra follower but their phone number they give it out less because it is more personal
It's not as personal as a phone number. When they check your instagram profile you can impress them with your lifestyle you show there.
@@scottverge938What if you have a bad Insta (few followers and few likes)? What if you don't have Insta at all?
30 girls in 30 days bro thats nothing. I can do 10 attractive girl numbers in 2 hours pretty conistently
what if their gay? :D
Ameture, be a man and use the pickup line that kings use....
My name is Inigo Montoya. You killed my father. Prepare to die!!!!
_Say as you shake her hand_
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I'm in kenya 🇰🇪 (Africa) give me the 10 k if you fail,i will highly appreciate.I'm zeus fan from day one.i could request the 10k should be given random fan in the internet (me)
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So this dude worships Tate - a known abuser who has been accused of rape by a number of women and arrested in Romania for trafficking.
Tells you a lot about Seda.
Bro stop yapping 90% of video and do more approaches lmao
I think the opener gives the girl to much validation way to fast gives away your power as a man in my opinion
Maximal Cringe am Anfang
This hasnt aged well.
You need to lift some weights man lol
notice he's successful even without that though. It makes a better example for us that haven't hit the gym yet.
Not everyone wants to be a roid rat.
@@gesamtkunstwerk8431 don’t need to be a Roid rat. But being so skinny is definitely a hindrance in how you are perceived. It’s like being less of a man. Simply engrained in our evolutionary psychology.
@@derekrodrigues6890 who cares 😂 lots of skinny guys are getting women
Nothing against Andrew Tate, but asking for an Instagram is not an effective way to getting in contact with a girl, just ask for her tel. or whatsapp
using insta means she can social media stalk you. And if your insta is on point and appealing to her, it ups your chances of getting her out on a date or whatever.
WhatsApp if your in South America. If your in the US Instagram is a move.
no offense at all , but why do you ask for instagram instead of whatsapp , getting her number is so much solid than getting an instagram account , because there are so many girls which use whatsapp a lot , and they are not active at all on social medias , personally i prefer the number than the social media platforms
Because it’s non personal go watch Andrew Tate explain how and why it works
Everyone has their Instagram already so why would they say no basically
Tf u mesn everyone has Snapchat also WhatsApp is kinda for neeks icl