You are beautiful! Not only do the bangs look great, but you’re beautiful because you take risks, you try, you have fun, you’re kind, unique and authentic. ❤️
Okay unpopular opinion: I think those bangs actually look really cute on her and I'm not just saying that. Edit: I said "unpopular opinion" because at the time I made this comment, there weren't that many comments so I didnt know what people's general reaction would be to her bangs.
I think she needs to listen to herself instead of listening to others. That way, kids will learn to think for themselves and do what they want to do, not what others want them to do.
You’re clearly listening to the wrong people, Colleen. Your hair looks gorgeous and your forehead is exactly the right shape and size for you; zero need to be self-conscious about it. You are beautiful. ❤️
You known if Colleen saw someone with that same exact hair style she would complement them on how good it looks but because it's her own hair she hates it. I think it looks good and she did a great job
I get and understand that Colleen has been going through a lot recently and has had a lack of self confidence, but I just sometimes can’t even watch her vlogs/videos anymore because of all her negativity towards herself. It’s so sad to see her say those things about herself when we all know they are completely untrue. I have always loved that Colleen is so bubbly and humble and so kinda to everyone around her. I support her in every way, but she really needs to stop being so negative about herself.
I think she really needs to get off the internet for an actual break, not 24 hours or a weekend, and seek some help. Not shop around for therapist after therapist and give up because they couldn't give her a quick fix. There's no such thing.
Yup totally agree. Self deprecating isn’t cute, especially when it’s all the time. She looks amazing with bangs. Wish she could move past this mental hurdle of negativity.
@@depression_diaries if you watch her vlogs then you would know she stopped seeing her last therapist because it just wasn’t working for her. she has every right to stop something thats not working for her and no one truly knows her mental state better than herself. i get you might’ve had good intentions with your comment but its not your place to say she’s looking for a “quick fix”
Stop worrying about what other people think of your hair. Do your hair they way you like it. Don’t give people that much power over how you feel about yourself.
Ikr to hear her say "I was wrong you guys were right and I'll listen to you next time" like honey these are strangers on the internet, much younger than you, who do not know you and you have your own life.. like it's sad lmao
seriously... Idk why she does she is a grown adult. I love colleen so much, but she really need to gain confidence about her opinions. She is WAY too apologetic
In my opinion they don't look good, i don't like them at all BUT it's her life, her decisions, i'm glad she did it just to get it over with & in the end of the day, i can just say: I TOLD YOU THEY WOULDN'T LOOK GOOD, COLLEEN!
@k if you look at the titles on her videos you can see that English clearly isn’t her first language,you probably had good intentions by correcting her but it just sounds rude
@k she was just giving a simple compliment. You don't have to correct that rudely. I get it, she spelled it wrong, but you shouldn't be that salty when correcting others.
The bangs are not bad. You've said before that you wouldn't want Flynn to talk that way about himself, so you shouldn't talk that way about yourself. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Sometimes she talks so badly about herself so much that I can't even finish the video. You get what you put out. Talk better about yourself and you'll feel better about yourself.
SAME. I love her, will always love her, but I stopped watching her content consistently a while ago because the self deprecation was so heartbreaking and uncomfortable to watch. Not to mention, she has a very young, impressionable audience. I hope they know that they don't need to talk to themselves the way she does and that she finds inner peace and love
Sometimes it’s really, REALLY HARD to get your BRAIN 🧠 to do that to think like that, it’s part & parcel of having Mental-illness. Depression, Anxiety, ADHD, ADD, Bipolar, etc.
I’ve loved Colleen for years and I don’t want to say anything “rude,” so this is a bit hard to say, but she talks down on herself too much. It’s hard to watch. I wish she would take some time, take a break from UA-cam, and spend some time loving herself. Colleen you deserve to love yourself.
I know I’m weeks late but...Colleen has mentioned in the past how she doesn’t like to take breaks from youtube because it just makes her more stressed and anxious. I completely agree though. I wish I could give her the confidence to say how she feels without being concerned with others opinions of her. And I wish that she could see herself like we see her as a strong, amazing, funny, smart, gorgeous woman. I hope she finds a journey to self love soon too :)
Yeah but sometimes you need to deal with it people are to soft these days! My dad makes me run 10 miles a week! That’s also why so many people are diabetics!
@@zoevangelos5945 what does diabetes have to do with anything? Colleen should be able to express her feelings without people like you telling her to toughen up.
Can you start a "Colleen say something kind to herself" challenge? Because it was seriously hard to watch you speak about yourself this way. Be nice to our Colleen!
were people saying something bad???? if people were they should be ashamed of theirselves!!! I'm honestly in love with her new bangs and want them for myself
yea I really wish people would stop saying they're having a mental breakdown when they're like dying their hair or cutting it. mental breakdown has lost its meaning because of it
you said you wouldn't want flynn to talk about himself in a negative way, i think you should practice doing the same! it's natural to have insecurities and it's toxic to comment things like "just be positive" because it's not that simple and that's a very invalidating thing to say, just be positive, but i really hope you can take a look inside and recognize your beauty, inside and out. you are such a kind, generous, hilarious person and such an amazing mom, aunt, daughter, sister, inspiration to so many. i love you colleen, i found you as miranda under the christmas tree and i'm still here. i've even met you and taken pictures with you :) you're amazing, colleen. you really are so beautiful inside and out. your kindness is the most beautiful thing about you.
@@sarah753 absolutely! i just wanted to point out that it's easy to be hard on ourselves but beauty comes in so many forms and i wish she felt more confident in herself!
It's literally fine lol and I've never seen anyone actually "bully" her into getting bangs/middle part in the first place. Who cares what anyone else wants for your hair? Do what makes you happy, rock that side part forever.
Your so underrated like OFC she looked FLAWLESS with that side part! And I literally checked everywhere on her pages and no one bullies her into doing anything!
I’m looking thru the comments and I don’t see anyone mad at her.... only mad that she’s bullying herself. Edit: Omw!! Thanks for the likes never has this many!!
@@haisookher9822 oh well i havent seen it either but i read in another comment that people are mean to her about her appearance there, and considering that it's twitter, i wouldnt be surprised
Right?? This should have been a cute and fun video. Instead it was cringey and hard to watch. Not saying people shouldn't acknowledge their self esteem issues, but the constant self abuse is really hard to watch.
@@katharinepoole8018 I agree she really needs to work on what she is projecting here, she does have a responsibility to her audience. Thankfully lots of people are saying the same as you. I rarely comment ever too 😂
Okay I have to say it! She looked gorgeous with her side part, she looked gorgeous with the middle part, she looked gorgeous with curtain bangs, and she looked gorgeous with normal bangs. I think this has nothing to do with hair and everything to do with self esteem issues. I think Colleen is failing to realize how gorgeous she looks in all these hairstyles. She doesn't see herself the way we see her. Everytime she changes her hairstyle I loved it and I think a lot of other people liked it too. She just doesn't realize how beautiful she looks. Colleen you looked amazing in all the hairstyles, and it hurts me that you don't see how good you looked in ALL OF THEM. you are beautiful.
There’s nothing wrong with them. You’re just not used to them or maybe you don’t like bangs, idk. You look great, your hair looks beautiful. I wish I had more hair cause bangs would be all my hair.
It's sad to see how you talk to yourself, selfhate. Would you say these exact words to someone else? You are beautiful Colleen, you don't need others opinion to know how amazing you are. Take care my dear, and love yourself first
I’m sorry but from a fellow bang girl, I don’t think these look bad at all. I love the final look. They’ll grow on you! Keep doing it every day they’ll grow on you
I like them! I know the struggle with self image, it’s hard. Like, really hard. But I’m here to remind you that you look PERFECT. The bangs look really nice, as does the rest of your hair, I love your makeup, and I think that your face shape is absolutely gorgeous. Your videos never fail to make me smile, I know self perception and self image are a battle, but remember that you are perfect.
Am I the only one who think that they actually look REALLY cute!? I LOVE THEM COLLEEN. you totally rock those ❤️ Edit: Wow thank you guys for all the likes! ❤️❤️❤️
As someone who struggles with self confidence, the way she speaks of herself is too familiar. But Colleen! Imagine how Flynn would feel when watching your videos as he grows up and he notices just how much you talk so negatively about yourself in them, especially in the vlogs. That one part in this video when you talked about seeing yourself in the mirror and thinking the reflection was hideous/horrifying was heartbreaking! (I know you said it in a joking tone, but still.) You tell us to be kind to each other, but I really think that applies to ourselves as well. You look great, and I think most of your viewers think so as well. I feel like this negativity is mostly coming from yourself. All the love! 💗💗
yes! all the young people watching are listening and learning from you- including all the ways you speak about yourself... it makes me sad to watch now more than anything
@@gillianrea6155 It's so unhealthy to be unhappy with your bangs and then say, "I want to die." It's hair. She's talking to young people. It's not good. I think for my own health I have to stop watching.
As someone with bangs I can confirm that they're NOT that bad. It's okay to like things that the younger generation doesn't. Don't worry about what literal children think of you, a grown woman. Just live, Colleen.
@@hazelfrench8260 little kids are brutal, they do make fun of you often even when you look good. but i think she needs to understand that they're kids. i lived chubby for a long time and i never liked it. now that im a teen, im more disciplined about working out and now i like how i look. but my little brother makes fun of the "lines" i have around my muscles. so little kids opinions don't really need to be taken into account when you're trying to do something with the way you look. most adults are more knowledgeable about what looks good and what doesn't
This was really frustrating to watch... I thought you looked great with bangs back then and you look even better now with them...this whole video was you complaining about yourself and it was miserable to watch. You are beautiful and I SO WISH you were full of confidence. The bangs look AWESOME. PLEASE BE KINDER TO YOURSELF Aaaannnnd why are you caring so much about what these kids think?! You are a fabulous 34 year old WOMAN.
I am a hairdresser and I don't think they look that bad. You are hyper critical of yourself. If I knew what you were going for I could help you fix it.
No, I think she is just chooses to focus on the people telling her negative things. I honestly think majority of people have been telling her to do whatever she wants with her hair! It's HER hair! 😂
Colleen, the only people you should be “listening to next time” are the people who are always gonna tell you you look beautiful because you ARE beautiful and you’d BE BEAUTIFUL regardless! Bangs, Curtain bangs, no bangs, long hair, short hair, pixie cut, bald.. doesn’t matter! You have beautiful eyes and a beautiful smile and you are a beautiful wonderful woman! Pls! I love the bangs and I loved the curtain bangs and I loved the no bangs! I love the middle part AND the side part! You LOOK GOOD! C’mon!
You look stunning with bangs and bangs became super popular in my area sometime last year. Your haircut was super popular last year. I even got bangs and fell in love with them so thank you.
its kinda annoying that she keeps like talkung bad about herself like shes gotta learn to ignore the haters which is litterally her qoute "haters back off"
@@Coñonena agreeee. it's been a lot lately and sometimes it's hard to get through her videos cause it's just sad to see someone think that way about themselves constantly when she really shouldn't :/
colleen, i'm saying this out of genuine love, you have got to speak kinder to yourself. you bullying yourself is hard to watch. imagine if you heard flynn speaking about himself that way, it'd break your heart. be mindful of setting that example, especially for young girls. i understand what it's like to have an inner bully, to struggle with self esteem, and i can only begin to imagine how that feels on top of being in the public eye and being open to criticism from others. i just really encourage you to talk about this kind of thing in therapy or with a trusted friend or even in a journal, to begin to understand where these beliefs come from, and heal, because they are not the truth. you look beautiful! i love the bangs. but really, it only matters what you think. ❤️
And just think that one of those young girls is Bailey.I believe she is not totally forbidden from youtube, so somehow she might watch this video. What do you think she learns from it. Hating herself?
Stop paying so much attention to children gen z and haters online and pay attention to your millions of fans telling you how awesome and beautiful you are. Come on girl ♥️
@ODIN yeah, both can be true.. I think she is human, struggling with self image issues like we all do... which is WHY I think she does this. It breaks my heart FOR her, cause she doesn’t deserve to feel this way
Does it bother anyone else how she constantly talks about us bullying her? It's hard to watch someone who thinks their community is so toxic when literally all I've seen is support.
RIGHT! Like she is always saying that we will bully her or teens on tik tok WHICH BTW no one does. She’s becoming so negative abt herself it’s rlly sad
i think a lot of times, people often focus on the negative (or the haters group) in their community so she's constantly looking and reading hte negative comments to see what she could improve on her future videos. but yeah, toxic comments never make anyone happy so
She just wants people to keep commenting supporting stuff like that. Idk why she keeps acting like she needs tiktok to decide everything she’s literally a grown woman.
I just hope people realize that saying “omg Colleen we love your bangs, you’re so beautiful!” doesn’t necessarily solve the problem because the problem isn’t that she’s not getting enough compliments, it’s just that she fixates on the few negative comments and doesn’t stop thinking about them. It’s common with OCD to hyper fixate on bad things and obsess over them, so it’s totally understandable that she is obsessed with her bangs and what Gen Z and people in general think about her. Instead of telling her that she’s a bad influence or leaving a compliment thinking it’s going to make her feel better, try to empathize with her and at least educate yourself on the matter instead of being so quick to judge. Colleen, I know you have talked openly about your mental health, and I just wanna say your feelings are valid! I just hope you are able to talk to someone like a therapist about these feelings, because I think they will be more helpful than any UA-cam or TikTok comment.
This is a really great observation and point. I guess the problem is, there aren’t any negative comments... so... we don’t get it. I’ve searched on here, on Instagram, and on TikTok. None. 🤷🏻♀️
It's frustrating hearing her talk so badly about herself when they look so good, but your comment made me see it in a different perspective. You're completely right. I have OCD and don't hyperfixate on my appearance like I used to, but I'm sure it would be a different story if I put myself online. She's admirable for being able to do that, but it's probably also self destructive. :(
But the problem is there really aren't any negative comments. She must be searching far and wide for them. Just like when she was pregnant and she was deep diving into her comment section to find the FEW amongst thousands of comments telling her to "shut up" about being pregnant, just so she could make a million IG stories about it. It's not about OCD, its about her constant need for attention and validation. That's an issue within itself that she needs to get help with. Being in her 30s and having an audience of preteens probably feels like she's back in high school constantly being judged by mean teenage girls.
@@maddymp4 With OCD, it doesn't matter. And OCD alone can cause low self-esteem. At my worst with obsessing over appearance, it took me an hour or 2 to do my makeup every day and not because I enjoyed it. It was the fear of someone saying my eyeliner isn't even and making fun of me for it. My eyes were always sore from redoing my makeup so many times. Realistically, no one has ever commented badly about my makeup to this day. It took effort to be able to do it and not obsess over it, and eventually did, but I also don't show myself online and that makes a wooorld of a difference. I think her online presence adds fuel to the fire.
Ok ok ok. First off the curtain bang look on u is amazing never doubt yourself. But I used to watch her soooo much and I just stopped a while ago. And this is the first vid of hers that I have watched in sooo long. And I have been dying of laughter for every second of this video. Thank you so much for bring happiness and laughter to the world. We love you ❤️
does anyone notice how colleen is always talking bad about herself and always saying “you guys will be bad at me” it makes me sad how she feels like we run her life
I think the amount of times she puts herself down, is just a true reflection of how bad her anxiety is. I’ve never heard her speak of herself in a good way or just say simple things that she thinks look good on her ☹️
Girl, it isn't a mental breakdown if you've been teasing with the idea for a year. I love you SO much and will be a forever supporter, but this negativity isn't cute. Just cut your bangs and work that style!
@@lauriehand1021 You know the satirical cliche of, "gotta cut or dye my hair, or get a tattoo or piercing to appease the mental breakdown gods?" That's what this is. Satire. I wasn't dismissing her mental health, I was dismissing the fact that she's constantly talking trash about herself and worrying what others think, and has been doing it for over a year... literally over BANGS. We don't care about the bangs. Just snip them and rock it out.
You are beautiful! Not only do the bangs look great, but you’re beautiful because you take risks, you try, you have fun, you’re kind, unique and authentic. ❤️
She’s the best isn’t she?
Girl so true👌
do you still support Shane Dawson??
YESSS
EXACTLY
Okay unpopular opinion: I think those bangs actually look really cute on her and I'm not just saying that.
Edit: I said "unpopular opinion" because at the time I made this comment, there weren't that many comments so I didnt know what people's general reaction would be to her bangs.
Ikr
Same
Yes
Omgggggg same
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I am *so* confused. I would have been thrilled if my bangs turned out that cute.
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Same
me too!
@MCYT Is_Cool me?
god, how can colleen say it doesn't look good when it actually suits her and she looks so freaking gorgeous ??
U r so right ✅
I wish you wouldn’t talk to yourself like that, you’re beautiful no matter what hairstyle you have!
It doesn’t look bad at all. She is beautiful no matter what.
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@@emmelinefury4846 you mean true?
Fr she puts herself down so much:/ I think she always looks great
OMG YAAAAAZZZ SHE IS A FRICKING QUEENNNNN
I think she needs to listen to herself instead of listening to others. That way, kids will learn to think for themselves and do what they want to do, not what others want them to do.
You’re clearly listening to the wrong people, Colleen. Your hair looks gorgeous and your forehead is exactly the right shape and size for you; zero need to be self-conscious about it. You are beautiful. ❤️
Yeah it looks good
You known if Colleen saw someone with that same exact hair style she would complement them on how good it looks but because it's her own hair she hates it. I think it looks good and she did a great job
I get and understand that Colleen has been going through a lot recently and has had a lack of self confidence, but I just sometimes can’t even watch her vlogs/videos anymore because of all her negativity towards herself. It’s so sad to see her say those things about herself when we all know they are completely untrue. I have always loved that Colleen is so bubbly and humble and so kinda to everyone around her. I support her in every way, but she really needs to stop being so negative about herself.
I agree 100%
I think she really needs to get off the internet for an actual break, not 24 hours or a weekend, and seek some help. Not shop around for therapist after therapist and give up because they couldn't give her a quick fix. There's no such thing.
@@depression_diaries Yes
Yup totally agree. Self deprecating isn’t cute, especially when it’s all the time. She looks amazing with bangs. Wish she could move past this mental hurdle of negativity.
@@depression_diaries if you watch her vlogs then you would know she stopped seeing her last therapist because it just wasn’t working for her. she has every right to stop something thats not working for her and no one truly knows her mental state better than herself. i get you might’ve had good intentions with your comment but its not your place to say she’s looking for a “quick fix”
They are LITERALLY so cute!!! Idk why you don’t like them!!! You are beautiful with and without bangs.
They are
100% agree!
Stop worrying about what other people think of your hair. Do your hair they way you like it. Don’t give people that much power over how you feel about yourself.
I👏🏻LOVE👏🏻THIS👏🏻
Ikr to hear her say "I was wrong you guys were right and I'll listen to you next time" like honey these are strangers on the internet, much younger than you, who do not know you and you have your own life.. like it's sad lmao
This!!! It’s honestly sad how insecure she always is and how she talks down about herself constantly and relies so much on strangers opinions😣
I agree with this
seriously... Idk why she does she is a grown adult. I love colleen so much, but she really need to gain confidence about her opinions. She is WAY too apologetic
Who ever thinks that Colleen is wrong and she looks beautiful
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It doesn't look bad. I wish she wasn't so hard on herself. I really like them on her.
Ikr
right? :( i feel like out of all the comments about her cutting bangs she cherry picked the ones who told her not to do it. i think it looks great
In my opinion they don't look good, i don't like them at all BUT it's her life, her decisions, i'm glad she did it just to get it over with & in the end of the day, i can just say: I TOLD YOU THEY WOULDN'T LOOK GOOD, COLLEEN!
They're literally so cute... i don't get it, are we looking at the same person??
I love it!!!!!! You look gorgous! 🥰❤️
I know
@k if you look at the titles on her videos you can see that English clearly isn’t her first language,you probably had good intentions by correcting her but it just sounds rude
@k she was just giving a simple compliment. You don't have to correct that rudely. I get it, she spelled it wrong, but you shouldn't be that salty when correcting others.
Ellaaaa
GIRL STOP SAYIN BAD THINGS BOUT YOUU. YOU RE LITERALLY A GODDESS
The only thing people don’t like is the constant negative self talk, you’re bullying yourself
Agreed!
This!
Yesssssss she has to stop!
Yikes on bikes, wish she could say something positive about herself once!
Yesssss!!!!!
The bangs are not bad.
You've said before that you wouldn't want Flynn to talk that way about himself, so you shouldn't talk that way about yourself. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Exactly ❤️❤️❤️
Yep
What is she TALKING ABOUT!? These aren’t bad at all. I prefer this.
Me too! They look great. She actually gave me inspiration to cut my own, its been a very long time.. Lol Im living for her bangs!!!
Me too!! 😍
colleen* i looked atrocious
me* i liked the bangs
WHY DOES SHE THINK SHE LOOKS BAD IN BANGS?!! I don’t think there anyone that can pull them off better. Anyways they’re cute :)
Colleen, stop being so negative on yourself! You look gorgeous and I'm not "just saying that to make you feel better"
Sometimes she talks so badly about herself so much that I can't even finish the video. You get what you put out. Talk better about yourself and you'll feel better about yourself.
I totally agree
THANK YOU!!!!!!!
I left a comment saying the same thing. I wish she would be nicer to herself, everything is so negative 💔🥺
SAME. I love her, will always love her, but I stopped watching her content consistently a while ago because the self deprecation was so heartbreaking and uncomfortable to watch. Not to mention, she has a very young, impressionable audience. I hope they know that they don't need to talk to themselves the way she does and that she finds inner peace and love
Sometimes it’s really, REALLY HARD to get your BRAIN 🧠 to do that to think like that, it’s part & parcel of having Mental-illness. Depression, Anxiety, ADHD, ADD, Bipolar, etc.
I’ve loved Colleen for years and I don’t want to say anything “rude,” so this is a bit hard to say, but she talks down on herself too much. It’s hard to watch. I wish she would take some time, take a break from UA-cam, and spend some time loving herself. Colleen you deserve to love yourself.
I know I’m weeks late but...Colleen has mentioned in the past how she doesn’t like to take breaks from youtube because it just makes her more stressed and anxious. I completely agree though. I wish I could give her the confidence to say how she feels without being concerned with others opinions of her. And I wish that she could see herself like we see her as a strong, amazing, funny, smart, gorgeous woman. I hope she finds a journey to self love soon too :)
Yeah but sometimes you need to deal with it people are to soft these days! My dad makes me run 10 miles a week! That’s also why so many people are diabetics!
@@zoevangelos5945 what does diabetes have to do with anything? Colleen should be able to express her feelings without people like you telling her to toughen up.
I feel that. It’s like her confidence lives and dies with her audience
Yeah she actually should.
Can you start a "Colleen say something kind to herself" challenge? Because it was seriously hard to watch you speak about yourself this way. Be nice to our Colleen!
I support this 500%
Please 🥺♥️
YES.
YES YES YES!! Agree!
were people saying something bad???? if people were they should be ashamed of theirselves!!! I'm honestly in love with her new bangs and want them for myself
I really don't get why she's hating on herself.. she looks so good
I agree!! She looks great!
Agreed!!!
I agree too
I absolutely love them on her!!!
I feel like Colleen was definitely one of those kids who said they failed the test but really got a 92.
underrated comment
Omg yes!
i know she was :/ lmaoo no way she wasnt
AND it needs to stop...
seriously
Why are you letting strangers on the internet dictate how you look and do something if you don't like the way it looks?
It's the complete opposite people told her not to do it but she wanted it, and yea she didn't like it
Wait... she actually is kinda rockin the bangs look tho...
Colleen. You’re a grown woman. You don’t need approval from young teens on TikTok. No one cares if you have a side part lol.
Tru dat haha
Right! And no one even tells her 😭 like no one tells her on tik tok but she’s just convinced that we care what side her hair is parted.
she looks better with a side part anyways, most of us do
My God, thank you!
A true millennial has given up on the world so we definitely do NOT care about what anyone says about us. Lol 😂
I was expecting them to turn out bad but they’re so cute like actually
Yeaa
𝕀𝕜𝕣 𝕝𝕠𝕝 𝕤𝕙𝕖𝕤 𝕡𝕣𝕖𝕥𝕥𝕪 𝕚𝕟 𝕖𝕧𝕖𝕣𝕪𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕝𝕚𝕜𝕖 𝕙𝕠𝕨 𝕕𝕠𝕖𝕤 𝕤𝕙𝕖 𝕟𝕠𝕥 𝕝𝕚𝕜𝕖 𝕚𝕥??!!!!!
I had a mental breakdown, but i didn't cut my bangs, I spent a month in a mental hospital..... during covid....fun times...
yea I really wish people would stop saying they're having a mental breakdown when they're like dying their hair or cutting it. mental breakdown has lost its meaning because of it
I had a mental breakdown and I shaved my head:))))
@@kendalljones6148 oh my goodness you are brave 😲
Yeah, fun times
@@kendalljones6148 lol
Why did she talk so bad about herself? She literally looks gorgeous. I love her with bangs
Because a lot of fans bully her and think it's funny but it makes her extremely insecure. I wish people would stop because it obviously effects her
I love her always ❤️
U obviously do too I'm just being nice and saying the truth ❤️❤️
Ikr she looks soooo beautiful
@@katy4523 Yeah people need to really stop with the negative comments towards her she looks absolutely stunning
I know I like her bangs
you said you wouldn't want flynn to talk about himself in a negative way, i think you should practice doing the same! it's natural to have insecurities and it's toxic to comment things like "just be positive" because it's not that simple and that's a very invalidating thing to say, just be positive, but i really hope you can take a look inside and recognize your beauty, inside and out. you are such a kind, generous, hilarious person and such an amazing mom, aunt, daughter, sister, inspiration to so many. i love you colleen, i found you as miranda under the christmas tree and i'm still here. i've even met you and taken pictures with you :) you're amazing, colleen. you really are so beautiful inside and out. your kindness is the most beautiful thing about you.
so true
@@sarah753 absolutely! i just wanted to point out that it's easy to be hard on ourselves but beauty comes in so many forms and i wish she felt more confident in herself!
It's literally fine lol and I've never seen anyone actually "bully" her into getting bangs/middle part in the first place. Who cares what anyone else wants for your hair? Do what makes you happy, rock that side part forever.
Your so underrated like OFC she looked FLAWLESS with that side part! And I literally checked everywhere on her pages and no one bullies her into doing anything!
The way she casually throws around “bullying” really pisses me off
@@emmaroos13 I thought I was the only one , it’s so annoying because no one is bullying her
No one bullies Colleen , she asks us what we think and some people don’t like the idea of bangs and she thinks it’s bullying for some reason
@@leekyleak1709 i dont think you checked far enough😂. it’s mostly on her tiktok so maybe check that.
Why do I actually LOVE them. Colleen they are so cute STOPP
I’m looking thru the comments and I don’t see anyone mad at her.... only mad that she’s bullying herself.
Edit: Omw!! Thanks for the likes never has this many!!
she gets a lot of crap for her appearance on twitter
@@leewalden3061 really? I dont rly see anything negative on twitter. Mostly light suggestions/teasing? Lmk if im wrong ;)
@@haisookher9822 oh well i havent seen it either but i read in another comment that people are mean to her about her appearance there, and considering that it's twitter, i wouldnt be surprised
@@leewalden3061 that’s so sad and rude for no reason :(
I have saying its annoying and ect
Does anyone else think she looks beautiful in any hairstyle...
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Cute: Colleen’s bangs👍🏻😍
Not cute: Colleen hating on herself. Just stop. Please. 😢
Right?? This should have been a cute and fun video. Instead it was cringey and hard to watch. Not saying people shouldn't acknowledge their self esteem issues, but the constant self abuse is really hard to watch.
Ikr Colleen looks beautiful
Wait! They look so good! I am so confused why she hates it? You look beautiful Colleen!
The only thing bad about you is the way you're talking about yourself, you look great and I wish you could see yourself the way we do
I think we should challenge Colleen to say one positive thing about herself in every video 💌
Omg ikr
Yes! I love that!
Yes
Yes that's a good idea
Yes this!!
STOP being mean to yourself! They don’t look bad at all.
This! My kiddo has started to say some of things Colleen says about her self. "I'm hideous, I'm so gross, I'm disgusting." It makes me so sad.
Legit she looks gorgeous. I kind of love them....
@@katharinepoole8018 you can't force someone to get help if they are not ready. But I do agree it's getting traumatizing.
@@katharinepoole8018 I agree she really needs to work on what she is projecting here, she does have a responsibility to her audience. Thankfully lots of people are saying the same as you. I rarely comment ever too 😂
@@katharinepoole8018 exactly
Okay I have to say it! She looked gorgeous with her side part, she looked gorgeous with the middle part, she looked gorgeous with curtain bangs, and she looked gorgeous with normal bangs. I think this has nothing to do with hair and everything to do with self esteem issues. I think Colleen is failing to realize how gorgeous she looks in all these hairstyles. She doesn't see herself the way we see her. Everytime she changes her hairstyle I loved it and I think a lot of other people liked it too. She just doesn't realize how beautiful she looks. Colleen you looked amazing in all the hairstyles, and it hurts me that you don't see how good you looked in ALL OF THEM.
you are beautiful.
Brad mondo where are you! Even though her hair is cute she really needs a boost of confidence in self esteem
GOO!! Everyone tweet him!!!
OK STOP COLLEEN.
THEY LOOK GOOD FOR CUTTING THEM AT HOME. STOP BEING HARD ON YOURSELF. GIVE YOURSELF A BREAK - SOME CREDIT DESERVED.
They are cute. 💜💯
I agree
The only thing I dislike about this video is how Colleen speaks about herself.
Ik like wtf she looks amazinggggg
I literally love her so much it hurts to see
It was harsh. I almost stopped watching.
It's getting to the point where I am going to stop watching her videos. It drives me nuts.
@@aimeemarie5462 same it‘s literally starting to effect me
The curtain bangs and the bangs looked AMAZING Colleen you are gorgeous!!!!
There’s nothing wrong with them. You’re just not used to them or maybe you don’t like bangs, idk. You look great, your hair looks beautiful. I wish I had more hair cause bangs would be all my hair.
Yeah it looks beutiful.i want bangs but i couldn,t
I love the bangs you look gorgeous! I think it’s a great look for you 💕 Keep it!
I agree
It’s suits her sm! And she thought it would look bad on her like girl how-
Colleen: every single person on this planet said no
Me: guess I’m not from this planet
Also the bangs look cute af
I thought they looked cute too :)
Same
It makes me upset that Colleens bangs look so good and she cant see it
It's sad to see how you talk to yourself, selfhate.
Would you say these exact words to someone else? You are beautiful Colleen, you don't need others opinion to know how amazing you are. Take care my dear, and love yourself first
I’m sorry but from a fellow bang girl, I don’t think these look bad at all. I love the final look. They’ll grow on you! Keep doing it every day they’ll grow on you
Not her lookin absolutely perfect and thinking that she looks bad
I like them! I know the struggle with self image, it’s hard. Like, really hard. But I’m here to remind you that you look PERFECT. The bangs look really nice, as does the rest of your hair, I love your makeup, and I think that your face shape is absolutely gorgeous.
Your videos never fail to make me smile, I know self perception and self image are a battle, but remember that you are perfect.
It actually doesn’t look bad. I like them
R U on a crack??
@Ghost that’s just rude
Stop the cap
yeah it dont look bad i agree
That's what people who did this say😂🤣😅
Listen here: they look amazing, nothing you do looks bad ever, don’t insult yourself again because it makes me want to light myself on fire. The end.
This comment is 👍🏼👌🏼👏🏻🤗
The fact that she hairsprayed her hair and didn’t cut it out the video is why we love her so much LOL
when she sprayed the hairspray thinking it was water I busted out laughing😂 also the “oh no. oh NO. ohH nOooO” ahaha
Am I the only one who think that they actually look REALLY cute!? I LOVE THEM COLLEEN. you totally rock those ❤️
Edit: Wow thank you guys for all the likes! ❤️❤️❤️
Yeaaa
I was going to say isn't bad at all. Look really cute-chic
As someone who struggles with self confidence, the way she speaks of herself is too familiar. But Colleen! Imagine how Flynn would feel when watching your videos as he grows up and he notices just how much you talk so negatively about yourself in them, especially in the vlogs. That one part in this video when you talked about seeing yourself in the mirror and thinking the reflection was hideous/horrifying was heartbreaking! (I know you said it in a joking tone, but still.)
You tell us to be kind to each other, but I really think that applies to ourselves as well. You look great, and I think most of your viewers think so as well. I feel like this negativity is mostly coming from yourself.
All the love! 💗💗
Yesss!
❤️❤️
yes! all the young people watching are listening and learning from you- including all the ways you speak about yourself... it makes me sad to watch now more than anything
@@gillianrea6155 It's so unhealthy to be unhappy with your bangs and then say, "I want to die." It's hair. She's talking to young people. It's not good. I think for my own health I have to stop watching.
As someone with bangs I can confirm that they're NOT that bad. It's okay to like things that the younger generation doesn't. Don't worry about what literal children think of you, a grown woman. Just live, Colleen.
YESSSS!! Too many grown women worry about what these tween and young adults think of them. Just be yourself!
^ THISSSS!!!! ^
Just liveeeee
@@hazelfrench8260 oh... but they do. sadly.
@@hazelfrench8260 little kids are brutal, they do make fun of you often even when you look good. but i think she needs to understand that they're kids. i lived chubby for a long time and i never liked it. now that im a teen, im more disciplined about working out and now i like how i look. but my little brother makes fun of the "lines" i have around my muscles. so little kids opinions don't really need to be taken into account when you're trying to do something with the way you look. most adults are more knowledgeable about what looks good and what doesn't
“I’m gonna cry myself to sleep then try to make myself look like a person”
-Colleen (my 2021 mantra) 12:10
This was really frustrating to watch... I thought you looked great with bangs back then and you look even better now with them...this whole video was you complaining about yourself and it was miserable to watch. You are beautiful and I SO WISH you were full of confidence. The bangs look AWESOME. PLEASE BE KINDER TO YOURSELF
Aaaannnnd why are you caring so much about what these kids think?! You are a fabulous 34 year old WOMAN.
Period queen you tell em
IT LOOKS GOOD. Stop being so judgmental towards yourself. It’s annoying. I know others will agree too. You look pretty!!
i thought this was gonna be a nice comment but then you call her annoying...?
@@mollycatherine3773 but it IS annoying.
@@vickilaughs agreed
@@vickilaughs agreed
Omg they are soooo cuuuute
I am a hairdresser and I don't think they look that bad. You are hyper critical of yourself. If I knew what you were going for I could help you fix it.
This is the most annoying but relatable but lovable video all at the same time! 😆
i don’t understand why she hates it and why everyone was telling her not to do this ? it looks so good
No, I think she is just chooses to focus on the people telling her negative things. I honestly think majority of people have been telling her to do whatever she wants with her hair! It's HER hair! 😂
I think she looks amazing 🤩 either way ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I agree i think it looks good. She is so beautiful she could be bald and still be beautiful but i think it looks good
I like her with bangs
I was just about to say the same thing.
It doesn’t look bad...she kinda gives the vibes of a kindergarten teacher. Which isn’t bad. It looks good.
Lmao she does 😂😂
Yeah
Omg trueee
Yea
I miss those days it’s bringing back the memories from kindergarten
Colleen, the only people you should be “listening to next time” are the people who are always gonna tell you you look beautiful because you ARE beautiful and you’d BE BEAUTIFUL regardless! Bangs, Curtain bangs, no bangs, long hair, short hair, pixie cut, bald.. doesn’t matter! You have beautiful eyes and a beautiful smile and you are a beautiful wonderful woman! Pls! I love the bangs and I loved the curtain bangs and I loved the no bangs! I love the middle part AND the side part! You LOOK GOOD! C’mon!
@Sam lmao!! I think I’d definitely agree with you in another context, but hair just isn’t that serious..
You look stunning with bangs and bangs became super popular in my area sometime last year. Your haircut was super popular last year. I even got bangs and fell in love with them so thank you.
its kinda annoying that she keeps like talkung bad about herself like shes gotta learn to ignore the haters which is litterally her qoute "haters back off"
Right! she lives in a state of self deprecation it’s unhealthy and not fun to watch.
Yess I agree! Which sucks😕 that she doesn’t see how amazing we all think she is!✨
Yeah, it's overkill at this point. Just do what you want and stop letting tiktok decide. You're a grown woman.
One of the hardest things to do is love yourself, but I see what you mean
@@Coñonena agreeee. it's been a lot lately and sometimes it's hard to get through her videos cause it's just sad to see someone think that way about themselves constantly when she really shouldn't :/
I like them! 🤷🏻♀️ I may be the only one but they are cute!
You are not alone, I like them too! Suits her better than the middle parts
Agreed!
i think it looks good too
I love them but to me there too long and strait
I actually think it looks good on her.
colleen, i'm saying this out of genuine love, you have got to speak kinder to yourself. you bullying yourself is hard to watch. imagine if you heard flynn speaking about himself that way, it'd break your heart. be mindful of setting that example, especially for young girls. i understand what it's like to have an inner bully, to struggle with self esteem, and i can only begin to imagine how that feels on top of being in the public eye and being open to criticism from others. i just really encourage you to talk about this kind of thing in therapy or with a trusted friend or even in a journal, to begin to understand where these beliefs come from, and heal, because they are not the truth. you look beautiful! i love the bangs. but really, it only matters what you think. ❤️
Exactly what I wanted to say.
And just think that one of those young girls is Bailey.I believe she is not totally forbidden from youtube, so somehow she might watch this video. What do you think she learns from it. Hating herself?
Yes Colleen, please be gentle with you.
Yes!!!! So true.❤
You are so kind!❤❤
i’m so lost i love them so much like even more than the curtain bangs. they are so nice great job Colleen!!
I think we should challenge Colleen to say one positive thing about herself and every video.
Yessss
THIS!!!!
That’s a great idea!
Yeeees!
need more likess
Stop paying so much attention to children gen z and haters online and pay attention to your millions of fans telling you how awesome and beautiful you are. Come on girl ♥️
Shes sitting there talking about how they look bad like- gUrl they look Bootiful and CutE.
Facts!!
Agree
I love love love your bangs! They actually suit your face sooo much
I think she likes them but doesn’t want us to make fun of her but we love it so she can love it now!! Love ya girlllll
I feel like she purposely degrades herself to beat her haters to the punch & it breaks my heart
yeah that's what i'm thinking too
She said this on her latest vlog
@ODIN yeah, both can be true.. I think she is human, struggling with self image issues like we all do... which is WHY I think she does this. It breaks my heart FOR her, cause she doesn’t deserve to feel this way
Naw she does it for the attention.
Yeah me too
Does it bother anyone else how she constantly talks about us bullying her? It's hard to watch someone who thinks their community is so toxic when literally all I've seen is support.
RIGHT! Like she is always saying that we will bully her or teens on tik tok WHICH BTW no one does. She’s becoming so negative abt herself it’s rlly sad
She’s kidding when she calls it bullying; that’s just her humor.
i think a lot of times, people often focus on the negative (or the haters group) in their community so she's constantly looking and reading hte negative comments to see what she could improve on her future videos. but yeah, toxic comments never make anyone happy so
She just wants people to keep commenting supporting stuff like that. Idk why she keeps acting like she needs tiktok to decide everything she’s literally a grown woman.
It’s not that deep chill
oh my gosh, colleen you literally look gorgeous!!! i love you in bangs! you look great!
These are so cute though, I wish Colleen didn't have such a bad image of herself
I think they're cute too! And I agree- it makes me sad when she puts herself down so much.
Yes. I too suffer from body dysmorphia even as an adult. Colleen you are Gorgeous!! 💜💜💜
I just hope people realize that saying “omg Colleen we love your bangs, you’re so beautiful!” doesn’t necessarily solve the problem because the problem isn’t that she’s not getting enough compliments, it’s just that she fixates on the few negative comments and doesn’t stop thinking about them. It’s common with OCD to hyper fixate on bad things and obsess over them, so it’s totally understandable that she is obsessed with her bangs and what Gen Z and people in general think about her. Instead of telling her that she’s a bad influence or leaving a compliment thinking it’s going to make her feel better, try to empathize with her and at least educate yourself on the matter instead of being so quick to judge. Colleen, I know you have talked openly about your mental health, and I just wanna say your feelings are valid! I just hope you are able to talk to someone like a therapist about these feelings, because I think they will be more helpful than any UA-cam or TikTok comment.
This is a really great observation and point. I guess the problem is, there aren’t any negative comments... so... we don’t get it. I’ve searched on here, on Instagram, and on TikTok. None. 🤷🏻♀️
It's frustrating hearing her talk so badly about herself when they look so good, but your comment made me see it in a different perspective. You're completely right. I have OCD and don't hyperfixate on my appearance like I used to, but I'm sure it would be a different story if I put myself online. She's admirable for being able to do that, but it's probably also self destructive. :(
But the problem is there really aren't any negative comments. She must be searching far and wide for them. Just like when she was pregnant and she was deep diving into her comment section to find the FEW amongst thousands of comments telling her to "shut up" about being pregnant, just so she could make a million IG stories about it. It's not about OCD, its about her constant need for attention and validation. That's an issue within itself that she needs to get help with. Being in her 30s and having an audience of preteens probably feels like she's back in high school constantly being judged by mean teenage girls.
@@maddymp4 With OCD, it doesn't matter. And OCD alone can cause low self-esteem. At my worst with obsessing over appearance, it took me an hour or 2 to do my makeup every day and not because I enjoyed it. It was the fear of someone saying my eyeliner isn't even and making fun of me for it. My eyes were always sore from redoing my makeup so many times. Realistically, no one has ever commented badly about my makeup to this day. It took effort to be able to do it and not obsess over it, and eventually did, but I also don't show myself online and that makes a wooorld of a difference. I think her online presence adds fuel to the fire.
@@rachelt4792 Yeah I totally agree
Awww Coleen it doesn't even look bad I thought it was gonna be horrible it looks great.
It looks so good, it’s gorgeous! She’s so gorgeous with bangs. :)
She looks gorgeous!!! Why doesn’t she like it girl u look like a bad bleep!!!!!!
BAD BLEEP!!!
Colleen is my new favorite bad bleep lol
She doesn’t like anything, ever. No matter what it is, food, clothes, hair...home girl hates EVERYTHING!!
Am I the only one who loved her bangs a few years ago and still do now ? She looks gorgeous with bangs
I think she looks great! Who cares what anyone thinks. That's my thought.
She does 🥰
They look good idk what they are talking about
But I actually like it 🥺🤷🏽♀️ she’s glowing
Ok ok ok. First off the curtain bang look on u is amazing never doubt yourself. But I used to watch her soooo much and I just stopped a while ago. And this is the first vid of hers that I have watched in sooo long. And I have been dying of laughter for every second of this video. Thank you so much for bring happiness and laughter to the world. We love you ❤️
does anyone notice how colleen is always talking bad about herself and always saying “you guys will be bad at me” it makes me sad how she feels like we run her life
This looks absolutely great. You’re being mean to yourself. This is probably easily your best look girl.
EXACTLY
I know! Idk why she hates it, I think it looks amazing.
Agreed
idk why she’s always talking bad about her bangs. it’s not even that bad😂
It really isn't bad at all curtain bangs or regular bangs she looks stunning.
I think the amount of times she puts herself down, is just a true reflection of how bad her anxiety is. I’ve never heard her speak of herself in a good way or just say simple things that she thinks look good on her ☹️
Oh my gosh! I love your freaking bangs!! They are so cute! In my opinion.
The constant self abuse is getting really hard to watch. 😢💔
Agreed agreed agreed.
Yes. She has gotten me through some rough times, but I found myself fast forwarding the video because all the negativity was cringey and aggravating.
I agree :((
@@Rudywiththebeauty I also agree! I love her but girl is beating herself too much 😫 wish I could hug her haha
She’s bullying herself. It honestly looks really good. She’s bullying herself so much that her mind is tricking her to believe it.
Colleen needs to relax. She has to reason with herself. Shes so creative she makes a whole movie in her head everytime
Lmfao right sometimes I get lost with what the point was
Girl, it isn't a mental breakdown if you've been teasing with the idea for a year. I love you SO much and will be a forever supporter, but this negativity isn't cute. Just cut your bangs and work that style!
She’s not saying the hair is a result of it. How in the world do you think it’s appropriate to dismiss someone’s mental health
@@lauriehand1021 You know the satirical cliche of, "gotta cut or dye my hair, or get a tattoo or piercing to appease the mental breakdown gods?"
That's what this is. Satire. I wasn't dismissing her mental health, I was dismissing the fact that she's constantly talking trash about herself and worrying what others think, and has been doing it for over a year... literally over BANGS.
We don't care about the bangs. Just snip them and rock it out.
@@lauriehand1021 I think it’s inappropriate to misuse to the term “mental breakdown” like she’s doing.
@@mairinr1120 Yes. Yes. Yes.
@Grace C chili
Colleen you’re gorgeous!! The haters are jealous of your beauty