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Wow! Your desires, fears, and boundaries exercise is solid gold! I’m going to take this into the bedroom and into the platonic areas of my life. Thanks!
Hi Magda, I came across this video by pure chance. Beeing a trained Tantra teacher myself, I found your explanations extremely clear and to the point. I'm sure this video will help anyone asking themselves if and how to attend such a party. Now that I've found this channel, I will of course subscribe and also look into your other videos. Thanks and cheers from Switzerland.
Hi. My LTR partner had bad experiences with sex parties in her twenties. Id like to find a safe way to experience this with her. I've never done anything like it. How do we find a good option? Thanks in advance.❤
@@whitfletcher1 , a small group with dinner included. That way, you have time to get to know other participants and make connections. You don't have to participate in your first party; it could be a way to break the ice and make connections for future parties.
I discovered sex parties very recently, and I'm well into my 40s. Some were for just an evening, others for a whole night, and one lasted a weekend (because it seems like once you've been to one party and you fit well in the community, you get lots of invitations). It's very close to what you describe, although some parties are with alcohol and more dark, fetish, rock'n'roll (but consent is always key). It's very true that sometimes you end doing "nothing", but I personally find it as enjoyable as any party (if not more) as I met very nice people, we danced, chatted, had some drinks. I find your advice on desires, fears, boundaries really great and will for sure reflect on that next time I'll go to one of these parties. From a personal experience, I am very happy to have discovered this at a later age, because I know myself, my wants and I have enough self-confidence to be confortable saying no no or dealing with rejection. I am not even sure I would have enjoyed it in my 20s. In our group, no one is under 30-35 and I would not feel comfortable with very young people (less than 25) being around. Not saying this is true for everyone, but it is for me.
Oh and my experience is only with private parties at people's homes (not paid parties). Everyone is connected in a way or another to the hosts and we don't invite strangers. It's a bit select, but it's important to make sure everyone is safe and respectful.
OMG I wished I had met someone like you when I was younger. I was a swinger with both my ex wives and previous girlfriends but none of them as open about sexuality as you.
I love the kind of guidance you are giving there, and the vibe you are bringing it across with. This is really something that people should watch before attending their first party. The part where you are referring to rituals, energy, chakras and such things sounds very alien to me because I am a very scientific person, but I am actually quite curious now about *that* kind of sex party.
That was a very good video, great explanation. As a man I'm a very shy person in general, but especially in parties, or when going to special places like these. I'm always looking for a miracle to come, and it's never happen. I know it's just fears from myself, or from akwards silence, or even worse, an akwards situation with a woman there (or some women). Although i know it, this feeling is very strong. I'm in my 40's, and still never recovered. Maybe it's even deeper, like a fear from rejection, or a lack of communication skills, or maybe i'm not looking good enough (or sexy enough), or a lack of women partners in my lifetime. Hope after this video it will be much easier to handle the pressure
I've been so curious for a few months, and this is by far the best information and video I've come across. Magda, you're absolutely adorable. Your eyes and everything you do are just amazing. I'm 61 and really interested in attending these parties. I am physically fit and about to go for a nice bike ride up trails and hills. This video has been such a motivation!
Wonderfully clear and insightful. I've never been, and may not for a while, I don't know. Just focusing on rediscovering my sexuality and healing a lifetime of sexual repression , guilt, and shame. Yet going to such a conscious party without any pressure on myself could be very helpful just to be in tht sex-accepting energy.
My ex girlfriend and I used to attend these passion parties and we enjoyed the lifestyle. However now that I’m single it’s difficult to meet someone open minded to enjoy these parties. Not to mention no one wants a single guy to attend the party. :( I miss it
I'm glad I discovered sex parties while I'm still young. It's genuinely helped a lot with my depression and my transition (MTF). The people there are often the kindest and most chill people you'll meet. I been going for nearly a year now and go twice a week. Heck I' going tonight with my girlfriend. 😁
I just ran across your channel, 22:15 I believe you gave one of the best explanations, especially for someone for the first time to attend a sex party. I have never been to one, and it was very interesting to hear the steps, the interactions, that happens. For me, some of the things would be difficult, because I am totally blind so that would make things a little bit harder, no pun intended. Thank you for your explanation and your channel!
This is a brave topic. Very open minded also The greatest feeling is watching beauty Plus The highest level of happiness is finding your soul mate in life Meeting of the minds is happiness Lust is never ever fulfilled It goes on increasing Desires are the same. But if we find emotional mental,peace That is the ultimate Ofcourse Only a few people man or woman Finds his or her true friend soul mate.
I've always wanted to experience this type of energy, having worked with many other forms of energy for years. I've been running the desires, fears, and boundaries exercise most of my adult life, and now that I am single again (leaving a very chaste marriage) if my sacral chakra does not find a way to express itself it might explode! Trouble is my gender and relationship status and all the biases that go along with them. I wish that it could be accepted that not all males are like sophomore spring breakers in context to sex, and that some of us really are sober, respectful, decent people who just want to give and receive this tantric energy when marriage forbade it. I'll stop whining after saying the student is ready, why is the teacher late???
So beautiful and exciting! Wonderful presentation! But it is entirely 180° opposite of what is happening in modern dating. And that's on the list before such events are visited. And for men it is 'difficult' - very friendly described. I would say it is something for the top 20% of men, who already anyway get 'all' women. Regarding that I miss the explanation how the participants are 'selected' (ok, nicer: invited). In our times of beauty standards. I don't know what the future brings. But with all those incels being created in 'modern dating', I see clouds on the horizon...for events in the quality as you describe them, I mean.
It's not really fair to include "boundaries and consent not respected" with non-"conscious" parties. Though tantra and kinks is clearly present at swinger parties, (and so is alcohol often), that does absolutely not mean that consent is not #1. All serious swinger circles/clubs I've heard of has a zero-tolerance policy for not respecting consent and boundaries. Also ... there's usually a condoms-mandatory-unless-own-partner rule. And btw... I agree...parties like this (or swinger lifestyle in general) can be a really powerfull thing to keep a relationship build on trust alive for a long time, but it IS NOT a good way to mend a broken relationship.
I would be open to attending such a party. I am a divorced man in his 60s with no partner. What are your recommendations for someone like me. I live between Chicago and Milwaukee. Where would you find such a party locally?
Condoms. Also, use a female condom for better anal sex. Pre-sex & post-sex prophylaxes medications are also available through your doctor or county STD clinics or health departments.
Ms. Kay, I am a single male that is a little older. Most "parties" do not want a single male because of a stigma from the past. Even, single couples do not want a single male to meet and greet. So, trying to get into the LS is already almost impossible. What can I do to move forward. Just FYI: I started in this LS when I was 19 you! Thank you for your info and insights!
Dude do not fall into this kind of thinking. One woman handles at leat two males any given day. Work on a helper male perspective and construct a status a thing that differentiates you from the masses of single men at parties. Be super nice to women and start with the sluts 😉
Lol its not at all, we went to our first years ago and its not as wild as people think, some porn shown on a wall, some dancing and most are BYOB for drinks they provide mixers and cups and ice. A lot of chatting and if you hit it off they have rooms that can be private or if you let them watch or join but NO IS NO. Now this wasn't a huge swingers club but nice size . Very good for beginners. Try it you may like it 😊
I really enjoyed this video Magda. I've never been to a sex party and would very much like to. I'm a social person and I'm sure I would be alright, but how do you go about finding these events. Are some of these open events or do you have to be introduced into a trusted group of people by one of the participants? I live in the UK.
Nearly 50% of the US population has contracted an STD according to the most recent data… just some handy stats to keep in mind when contemplating having group sex with a bunch of strangers…
I've been to sex parties and spanking parties and found people to be courteous at both, but not since I have moved to a smaller town, and I do miss them.
Magda… how do you connect tantric holistic love making with your partner with having recreational sex at a party, where you might not know the name of the people you are engaging with? Are people attending sex parties to experience tantric sex, or to experience raw uninhibited lust?
hey Thomas, as I state in the video, I have only attended Tantric parties and everything I discuss here is about Tantric, conscious events. Said that, I believe everyone can choose for themselves, and if you want that raw unhibitied lust, then whey not? It's every person's choice.
Outrageous Unbridled Hedonistic Lust & Debauchery. I'm being playful! Many Partners is vastly superior Polyamorous to boring monogamy. Magda confesses she 's attended & participated in large group orgies & smaller more intimate affairs & are equally valid. My lady partner & I do prefer the former. No comparison!
These are a waste of time for single guys. I frequented these parties between 2004~2011 in & around London. The single guy is a pawn for the owners. Single guys pay an extortionate amount to enter when compared to single women & couples. This is why there would always be a lot of guys at these parties hanging around not know what to do. If you want a good women become the best version of yourself. Forget these parties.
Before you decide to take part in such kind of events it is good to know the degree of acceptance The Universe and it`s "parts" show to you daily. If you find out that you are being poorely accepted do not go there. You are going to be mostly rejected and not happy about it.
Never ask for consent. There are many ways to start something with someone without saying, "do you consent?" Never say that word! You will know whether an interaction is consensual or not. Welcome.
At sex parties, you are encouraged to specifically ask for consent. Because if you don't and you're wrong, it will look real bad that you didn't ask first.
@@johnmarks714 I don’t ask for consent at sex parties. It you say “May I?” as women always say to me, that’s different. They don’t say, “do you consent if I grab your cock?” That kills the mood even at a sex party.
@@johnmarks714 right but if you said it without flirtation you’d be rejected. The way may I or do you mind etc., is used on me and the way I use it is flirtatious not as a tool for permission, but it happily works in conjunction. Of course something else precedes the may I or could I or whatever. But in none of these scenarios is the word consent actually mentioned, it is just understood based on several factors.
You almost sold me on this. When I hear secks party I imagine a hot sweaty party with people that gross me out, but hmmmm I love the sound of a lovely villa with people that I can choose to engage with or not.
Note also that lifestyle events, swinging and intimacy retreats focus primarily on women, so they have control to a large extent and their preferences and boundaries are primary concerns. They are a safer environment to explore their sexuality than the general dating scene. There is less pressure than with a conventional date.
The described environment sounds like what humans, without cultural programming, would prefer. Deep down, passing the barrier that divides our biological being from our cultural being, we feel this party is what we would all prefer in our lives, rather than any other kind of party. It is very difficult to understand the difference between feelings that come from your cultural upbringing and those feelings that come from your biological evolution. The upbringing is for the few years you have been alive; the biological evolution is the millions of years stored in your DNA. Basically, when you attend a party like this, you need to be able to cross that line which is the boundary between biology and culture. Your brain is wired by both: some of your tendencies have been taught to be kept hidden, because they come from your evolutionary "upbringing"; the other tendency had as a target to make you a socially acceptable being, adapted to the requisites of our cultural habits. Our biology is common to all of us; our culture is mostly common to our upbringing environment. Within our cultural upbringing is where some individual differences are found: "I like this, but not that". "I don´t feel like doing that." "That is not MY thing." So, what determines your feelings? Is it mainly your biology or your culture? If you really want to enjoy a sex party, you need to know about the two sections in your brain (wired by evolution vs. wired for culture, each section with its own neuron network). And what I have said, all of it, comes from my theory about this. Theoretical thoughts.
Yes I think I would love to experience a sex party. Being a person that likes things to be a bit mysterious, I do feel that not even trying to intend, that mysteriousness is then complete disappointment. Yes I could be a bit disappointed in some things in a sex party, but overall I would actually know for sure if it is something I will enjoy and have excitement or not, so it really is a win win to attend.
She fails to mention that it is extremely cliquy based on physical attractiveness. And that there are a lot of jealosy issues. It usually ends up being a way for women to exercise hypergamy. Men to compete also in their own base manner. IT probably is bad. I wouldn't know from first hand experience. I did however know someone who got into this via his wife. It is psychologically dangerous. Probably wrong.
The majority of swingers are middle age and very friendly people-people who may or might not engage in anything but talk if they meet another couple and get carried away with the conversation. It is surprising how comfortable some are when they are overweight and a majority of middle age people are in the west. It is a very welcoming and social subculture. If anything, it helps to connect with people who normally you might not find attractive due to weight but find that they are so warm and engaging that you find their whole being attractive. Many overweight people actually look better without clothes. And many women have nicer skin that is normally hidden than their street clothes reveal. The Tantric gatherings focus on wellness and connection that can lead, with exercises that enhance the whole experience regardless of whether sex is involved. My first experience was years ago when my date, a girl quite a bit young for our second date, in a country I eventually moved to away from my native USA, was to a talk about tantric meditations and play that led to activities with all the members, with breathing, touch, and sound. Unknown to us, that was training for the second part of the evening which was a sex party with or without touching other people. It was quite a second date. We did not have sex but nude massage and practices made everything seem so natural and disarming. It was beautiful and I was so glad she did not tell me before because I might not have gone. The fact that I did not speak the language was never a problem. She was much more experimental than I was but it really brought us together. on many levels. Years later I attended swinger clubs in the US and Europe with my later girlfriend, who was very shy but very curious. Despire being shy she dressed very sexy and had a figure that attracted men and instant hate from women. These clubs were permanent commercial establishments instead of house parties. That is where we found most were middle age, and only a few couples in their 20s but the one thing all had in common was how personable everyone was. so my impression is that couples who swing have very close and happy marriages. If swinging had any impact on their relationships, it no doubt was positive because they were all friendlier than the non-swingers I know of about the same age, education and economic status.
In reading some of these comments and replys it's interesting the thinking of the Mindset of some people who goes beyond being respectful of others and their choices in life to just have sexual relations, feelings of joy and fun without hindrance by concenting Adults. If it's not you then just don't do it. But I see, that courocity bought you here. Where is that Bourbon, just one 🥃 Shot 😊😅
Can't say this is at all good for a couple. Only single people. Every person I've met that has gone down this path ended badly for them. Soonoooo much jealousy.
You sound European… Could you make a video on the list of sex parties in Europe … The kind of parties you are talking about in this video conscious and non-conscious …
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Wow! Your desires, fears, and boundaries exercise is solid gold! I’m going to take this into the bedroom and into the platonic areas of my life. Thanks!
I've never experienced anything like this but I like this idea where people come to experience themselves and each other in freedom and respect
Hi Magda,
I came across this video by pure chance. Beeing a trained Tantra teacher myself, I found your explanations extremely clear and to the point. I'm sure this video will help anyone asking themselves if and how to attend such a party. Now that I've found this channel, I will of course subscribe and also look into your other videos. Thanks and cheers from Switzerland.
Depending on what tantra(eastern or western?), they have different settings and goals.
Hi. My LTR partner had bad experiences with sex parties in her twenties. Id like to find a safe way to experience this with her. I've never done anything like it. How do we find a good option? Thanks in advance.❤
@@whitfletcher1 , a small group with dinner included. That way, you have time to get to know other participants and make connections. You don't have to participate in your first party; it could be a way to break the ice and make connections for future parties.
I discovered sex parties very recently, and I'm well into my 40s. Some were for just an evening, others for a whole night, and one lasted a weekend (because it seems like once you've been to one party and you fit well in the community, you get lots of invitations). It's very close to what you describe, although some parties are with alcohol and more dark, fetish, rock'n'roll (but consent is always key). It's very true that sometimes you end doing "nothing", but I personally find it as enjoyable as any party (if not more) as I met very nice people, we danced, chatted, had some drinks. I find your advice on desires, fears, boundaries really great and will for sure reflect on that next time I'll go to one of these parties.
From a personal experience, I am very happy to have discovered this at a later age, because I know myself, my wants and I have enough self-confidence to be confortable saying no no or dealing with rejection. I am not even sure I would have enjoyed it in my 20s. In our group, no one is under 30-35 and I would not feel comfortable with very young people (less than 25) being around. Not saying this is true for everyone, but it is for me.
Oh and my experience is only with private parties at people's homes (not paid parties). Everyone is connected in a way or another to the hosts and we don't invite strangers. It's a bit select, but it's important to make sure everyone is safe and respectful.
@@steinnorberg551same here. Mother daughter combinations are always fun.
And probably rare.
@@JohnSmith-qw5lcreally ? It could bi nice
You must be a good shag to get invites. Lucky you
OMG I wished I had met someone like you when I was younger. I was a swinger with both my ex wives and previous girlfriends but none of them as open about sexuality as you.
Its definitely something everyone should attend at least once. Dont die wondering and dont be bullied and put in to fear by the religious zealots.
Good advice, but how do you go about finding where sex parties are being held? I live in the UK.
Fab Swingers.
Google search and it will open up a whole new world
..gotta get your girl on board first..or it turns to a gangbang or sausage fest!! Got to have a ticket to enter
I love the kind of guidance you are giving there, and the vibe you are bringing it across with. This is really something that people should watch before attending their first party. The part where you are referring to rituals, energy, chakras and such things sounds very alien to me because I am a very scientific person, but I am actually quite curious now about *that* kind of sex party.
Drugs. This tantra stuff is easy when you get high
That was a very good video, great explanation. As a man I'm a very shy person in general, but especially in parties, or when going to special places like these. I'm always looking for a miracle to come, and it's never happen. I know it's just fears from myself, or from akwards silence, or even worse, an akwards situation with a woman there (or some women). Although i know it, this feeling is very strong. I'm in my 40's, and still never recovered. Maybe it's even deeper, like a fear from rejection, or a lack of communication skills, or maybe i'm not looking good enough (or sexy enough), or a lack of women partners in my lifetime.
Hope after this video it will be much easier to handle the pressure
Good luck and we hope you find the right party, it can be fun but not all will be.
Hi!Magda!I really loved ❤ the way you presented the topic.
It sounds so wonderful.
Thanks!
Magda, you're absolutely amazing. Keep up the good work!
Thank you so much!
I've been so curious for a few months, and this is by far the best information and video I've come across. Magda, you're absolutely adorable. Your eyes and everything you do are just amazing. I'm 61 and really interested in attending these parties. I am physically fit and about to go for a nice bike ride up trails and hills. This video has been such a motivation!
thank you so much! glad it was useful
Wonderfully clear and insightful. I've never been, and may not for a while, I don't know. Just focusing on rediscovering my sexuality and healing a lifetime of sexual repression , guilt, and shame. Yet going to such a conscious party without any pressure on myself could be very helpful just to be in tht sex-accepting energy.
My ex girlfriend and I used to attend these passion parties and we enjoyed the lifestyle. However now that I’m single it’s difficult to meet someone open minded to enjoy these parties. Not to mention no one wants a single guy to attend the party. :( I miss it
I'm glad I discovered sex parties while I'm still young. It's genuinely helped a lot with my depression and my transition (MTF). The people there are often the kindest and most chill people you'll meet. I been going for nearly a year now and go twice a week. Heck I' going tonight with my girlfriend. 😁
oh thats incredible!
Okay I need to google these parties I guess lol I’ve always wondered about them and now I’m single so why not
@@kkurt2k It’s definitely worth it. I hope it goes well for you. Enjoy your play.
That was an EXCELLENT presentation and delivery. Thank you
Thank you
I’ve always thought it would be interesting!!! I’ve never chatted with someone that has actually done it.
I want to experience a party like this. I will be glad if you can give infos
Great video. We could have used your expertise in the last video.
Lmao she said “whooooo gang bang let’s jump in” 😂
I just ran across your channel, 22:15 I believe you gave one of the best explanations, especially for someone for the first time to attend a sex party. I have never been to one, and it was very interesting to hear the steps, the interactions, that happens. For me, some of the things would be difficult, because I am totally blind so that would make things a little bit harder, no pun intended. Thank you for your explanation and your channel!
This is a brave topic.
Very open minded also
The greatest feeling is watching beauty
Plus
The highest level of happiness is finding your soul mate in life
Meeting of the minds is happiness
Lust is never ever fulfilled
It goes on increasing
Desires are the same.
But if we find emotional mental,peace
That is the ultimate
Ofcourse
Only a few people man or woman
Finds his or her true friend soul mate.
Where is a club here in OC California?
Very helpful video Magda thank you! I hope to go to one of these soon 🙂
How I can know where they are going to held
Yours voice is so clear
At those parties did you do ffm or mmf?
I would love to attend, but I don't know where to start. Any pointers?
How do you find the best party's? Thank you for this!
How do a person find where to find a party like this?
I've always wanted to experience this type of energy, having worked with many other forms of energy for years. I've been running the desires, fears, and boundaries exercise most of my adult life, and now that I am single again (leaving a very chaste marriage) if my sacral chakra does not find a way to express itself it might explode! Trouble is my gender and relationship status and all the biases that go along with them. I wish that it could be accepted that not all males are like sophomore spring breakers in context to sex, and that some of us really are sober, respectful, decent people who just want to give and receive this tantric energy when marriage forbade it. I'll stop whining after saying the student is ready, why is the teacher late???
So beautiful and exciting! Wonderful presentation! But it is entirely 180° opposite of what is happening in modern dating. And that's on the list before such events are visited. And for men it is 'difficult' - very friendly described. I would say it is something for the top 20% of men, who already anyway get 'all' women. Regarding that I miss the explanation how the participants are 'selected' (ok, nicer: invited). In our times of beauty standards.
I don't know what the future brings. But with all those incels being created in 'modern dating', I see clouds on the horizon...for events in the quality as you describe them, I mean.
It's not really fair to include "boundaries and consent not respected" with non-"conscious" parties.
Though tantra and kinks is clearly present at swinger parties, (and so is alcohol often), that does absolutely not mean that consent is not #1.
All serious swinger circles/clubs I've heard of has a zero-tolerance policy for not respecting consent and boundaries.
Also ... there's usually a condoms-mandatory-unless-own-partner rule.
And btw... I agree...parties like this (or swinger lifestyle in general) can be a really powerfull thing to keep a relationship build on trust alive for a long time, but it IS NOT a good way to mend a broken relationship.
Are service dogs allowed?
LOL
I would be open to attending such a party. I am a divorced man in his 60s with no partner. What are your recommendations for someone like me. I live between Chicago and Milwaukee. Where would you find such a party locally?
Sorry dude. If you have to ask....... you probably aren't being invited
@@TheSmartLawyermaybe he is
Love it
Thank you for all the information
Thanks for watching!
Where can i find this party pls
True
How does one find or get invited to a sex party? I'm a single male in his sixties. Would I be welcomed or feel out of place?
Sounds interesting how do you find out about these party events.
If I've been tested, nothing prevents me from having or having caught an STD/STI between the test and now.
yes, this is something we need to conider. There is always some element of risk
@@MagdaKay Oh, yes
Condoms. Also, use a female condom for better anal sex. Pre-sex & post-sex prophylaxes medications are also available through your doctor or county STD clinics or health departments.
@@howardjohnson2138just like any sexual relationship, not just this.
Would love to go
You are the best….love listening to you
well, thank you :)
Ms. Kay,
I am a single male that is a little older. Most "parties" do not want a single male because of a stigma from the past. Even, single couples do not want a single male to meet and greet. So, trying to get into the LS is already almost impossible. What can I do to move forward. Just FYI: I started in this LS when I was 19 you!
Thank you for your info and insights!
Find a woman friend who is curious & wouldn’t mind going as a “couple” or as each other’s “support person “…
Dude do not fall into this kind of thinking. One woman handles at leat two males any given day. Work on a helper male perspective and construct a status a thing that differentiates you from the masses of single men at parties. Be super nice to women and start with the sluts 😉
Wow, the approach to get close is fantastic. Great idea. Is there an age limit?
I have been to many. I was monogamous most of the time. I just wish I knew how to find them where I live.
I would be interested in attending one. How do I find these in my area?
Are there parties for male above 60 and females above 45/50
Links
Thanks 🙏🏼
very good explanation
Anything like this in Australia?
How does one go or get invited to a party?
It’s just an idea.. I think not happening.. even in Thailand…
A very well put together video …so we’ll explained Magda …until next time ….xAlex🇬🇷
Sounds complicated. I'd rather fill in my tax form.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Lol its not at all, we went to our first years ago and its not as wild as people think, some porn shown on a wall, some dancing and most are BYOB for drinks they provide mixers and cups and ice. A lot of chatting and if you hit it off they have rooms that can be private or if you let them watch or join but NO IS NO. Now this wasn't a huge swingers club but nice size . Very good for beginners. Try it you may like it 😊
very interesting and informative video . Thanks
absolutely one of the best explanation
but where do i find such parties
research
@@Exlaty
Research, research, research
@@LogCap4JobsHi can you help finding me a genuine sex party
Up Ur Alley
I really enjoyed this video Magda. I've never been to a sex party and would very much like to. I'm a social person and I'm sure I would be alright, but how do you go about finding these events. Are some of these open events or do you have to be introduced into a trusted group of people by one of the participants? I live in the UK.
Dude where does one find these parties
i'm just curious... are these parties only for people interested in the opposite sex, or are gay people allowed to attend as well???
I'm in wa. State, do they have them here?
Nearly 50% of the US population has contracted an STD according to the most recent data… just some handy stats to keep in mind when contemplating having group sex with a bunch of strangers…
Lol
I've been to sex parties and spanking parties and found people to be courteous at both, but not since I have moved to a smaller town, and I do miss them.
How to you get invited?
Soooooo helpful!!! Thank you!!! ❤😊
where can I find ne of these parties?
Hi Magda, where do you hold these conscious sex parties?
Very interesting Yes Ii do lke to attend
Great video young lady x
What country have that??
Magda… how do you connect tantric holistic love making with your partner with having recreational sex at a party, where you might not know the name of the people you are engaging with? Are people attending sex parties to experience tantric sex, or to experience raw uninhibited lust?
hey Thomas, as I state in the video, I have only attended Tantric parties and everything I discuss here is about Tantric, conscious events. Said that, I believe everyone can choose for themselves, and if you want that raw unhibitied lust, then whey not? It's every person's choice.
Yeah seems an ideal way to get your end away in a totally free way.
Outrageous Unbridled Hedonistic Lust & Debauchery. I'm being playful! Many Partners is vastly superior Polyamorous to boring monogamy. Magda confesses she 's attended & participated in large group orgies & smaller more intimate affairs & are equally valid. My lady partner & I do prefer the former. No comparison!
These are a waste of time for single guys. I frequented these parties between 2004~2011 in & around London. The single guy is a pawn for the owners. Single guys pay an extortionate amount to enter when compared to single women & couples. This is why there would always be a lot of guys at these parties hanging around not know what to do. If you want a good women become the best version of yourself. Forget these parties.
I pretty much agree. It's more a single girl/couples thing.
The question is, how how do you find these parties??
Before you decide to take part in such kind of events it is good to know the degree of acceptance The Universe and it`s "parts" show to you daily. If you find out that you are being poorely accepted do not go there. You are going to be mostly rejected and not happy about it.
Could you organize one and invite me.
I want to try.. 😊
I'm going to Hell in a bucket.
just go to Thailand Dude. No stress!!!
All sexual preferences welcomed or specify at the door
Very much familiarity with it
And what about a swingers club ? In which way is it different ?
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Never ask for consent. There are many ways to start something with someone without saying, "do you consent?" Never say that word! You will know whether an interaction is consensual or not. Welcome.
At sex parties, you are encouraged to specifically ask for consent. Because if you don't and you're wrong, it will look real bad that you didn't ask first.
In the vanilla world, it's awkward as hell to specifically ask for consent. Not at sex parties.
@@johnmarks714 I don’t ask for consent at sex parties. It you say “May I?” as women always say to me, that’s different. They don’t say, “do you consent if I grab your cock?” That kills the mood even at a sex party.
@@hmmlemeeshink yeah I say "May I?" to the women.
@@johnmarks714 right but if you said it without flirtation you’d be rejected. The way may I or do you mind etc., is used on me and the way I use it is flirtatious not as a tool for permission, but it happily works in conjunction. Of course something else precedes the may I or could I or whatever. But in none of these scenarios is the word consent actually mentioned, it is just understood based on several factors.
Well said.
You almost sold me on this. When I hear secks party I imagine a hot sweaty party with people that gross me out, but hmmmm I love the sound of a lovely villa with people that I can choose to engage with or not.
yes! you for sure can find the first type.... but i think its good to know there are other types of events out there too
Note also that lifestyle events, swinging and intimacy retreats focus primarily on women, so they have control to a large extent and their preferences and boundaries are primary concerns. They are a safer environment to explore their sexuality than the general dating scene. There is less pressure than with a conventional date.
Yes please...
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are you Eastern European? Polish?
I am :)
@@MagdaKay i knew it!! pozdrowienia 😊
The described environment sounds like what humans, without cultural programming, would prefer. Deep down, passing the barrier that divides our biological being from our cultural being, we feel this party is what we would all prefer in our lives, rather than any other kind of party. It is very difficult to understand the difference between feelings that come from your cultural upbringing and those feelings that come from your biological evolution. The upbringing is for the few years you have been alive; the biological evolution is the millions of years stored in your DNA.
Basically, when you attend a party like this, you need to be able to cross that line which is the boundary between biology and culture. Your brain is wired by both: some of your tendencies have been taught to be kept hidden, because they come from your evolutionary "upbringing"; the other tendency had as a target to make you a socially acceptable being, adapted to the requisites of our cultural habits.
Our biology is common to all of us; our culture is mostly common to our upbringing environment. Within our cultural upbringing is where some individual differences are found: "I like this, but not that". "I don´t feel like doing that." "That is not MY thing."
So, what determines your feelings? Is it mainly your biology or your culture?
If you really want to enjoy a sex party, you need to know about the two sections in your brain (wired by evolution vs. wired for culture, each section with its own neuron network).
And what I have said, all of it, comes from my theory about this. Theoretical thoughts.
Yes I think I would love to experience a sex party. Being a person that likes things to be a bit mysterious, I do feel that not even trying to intend, that mysteriousness is then complete disappointment. Yes I could be a bit disappointed in some things in a sex party, but overall I would actually know for sure if it is something I will enjoy and have excitement or not, so it really is a win win to attend.
She fails to mention that it is extremely cliquy based on physical attractiveness. And that there are a lot of jealosy issues. It usually ends up being a way for women to exercise hypergamy. Men to compete also in their own base manner. IT probably is bad. I wouldn't know from first hand experience. I did however know someone who got into this via his wife. It is psychologically dangerous. Probably wrong.
It really all depends on where you go. The sex parties I went to, most people were below average looking. Overweight.
The majority of swingers are middle age and very friendly people-people who may or might not engage in anything but talk if they meet another couple and get carried away with the conversation. It is surprising how comfortable some are when they are overweight and a majority of middle age people are in the west. It is a very welcoming and social subculture. If anything, it helps to connect with people who normally you might not find attractive due to weight but find that they are so warm and engaging that you find their whole being attractive. Many overweight people actually look better without clothes. And many women have nicer skin that is normally hidden than their street clothes reveal.
The Tantric gatherings focus on wellness and connection that can lead, with exercises that enhance the whole experience regardless of whether sex is involved. My first experience was years ago when my date, a girl quite a bit young for our second date, in a country I eventually moved to away from my native USA, was to a talk about tantric meditations and play that led to activities with all the members, with breathing, touch, and sound. Unknown to us, that was training for the second part of the evening which was a sex party with or without touching other people. It was quite a second date. We did not have sex but nude massage and practices made everything seem so natural and disarming. It was beautiful and I was so glad she did not tell me before because I might not have gone. The fact that I did not speak the language was never a problem.
She was much more experimental than I was but it really brought us together. on many levels. Years later I attended swinger clubs in the US and Europe with my later girlfriend, who was very shy but very curious. Despire being shy she dressed very sexy and had a figure that attracted men and instant hate from women. These clubs were permanent commercial establishments instead of house parties. That is where we found most were middle age, and only a few couples in their 20s but the one thing all had in common was how personable everyone was. so my impression is that couples who swing have very close and happy marriages. If swinging had any impact on their relationships, it no doubt was positive because they were all friendlier than the non-swingers I know of about the same age, education and economic status.
So you have zero experience yourself, and all of your negative description is from ONE person. Mm k
Great.
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Life without chastity is real hell.
No, I’m not interested in sex parties but I do enjoy your channel.Keep throwing cooked Spaghetti against the wall. We’ll see what sticks❤
It sounds like the sex parties you are talking about would be quite refined when compared to what I have heard about called orgies.
In reading some of these comments and replys it's interesting the thinking of the Mindset of some people who goes beyond being respectful of others and their choices in life to just have sexual relations, feelings of joy and fun without hindrance by concenting Adults. If it's not you then just don't do it. But I see, that courocity bought you here. Where is that Bourbon, just one 🥃 Shot 😊😅
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You be there.
Great!
hi magda I love you
Can't say this is at all good for a couple. Only single people. Every person I've met that has gone down this path ended badly for them. Soonoooo much jealousy.
You've gotta be secure in your prowess. The biggest issue is having your partner shagged by someone who shags better than you.
Do They seriously invite You ? 😂
You sound European… Could you make a video on the list of sex parties in Europe … The kind of parties you are talking about in this video conscious and non-conscious …