Yes make your self busy , your parent house so big , start helping them to straighten the house , make the time go by fast, and you not gone be bored . Lots of things you can do around your parent house.
Stay strong Kumander Anselm. Winners don’t quit, quiters don’t win. GOD LOVES YOU, and he already BLESSED you with 62K+ subscribers and massive viewers that LOVE 💗 and CARE FOR YOU. Keep posting updates. I was in tears 😭 while I was watching your confession video because someone very close to me had suffered from the same mental health issues as yours, and it was a little bit more serious than yours, it was enough of a reason why I had to enroll in medical related program in order to be able to understand it better and how to help.
Good day KUMANDER! I am attempting to catch up on your videos since your last harvest. I am always trying to keep up with KULAS, BRET, YOU, BODING and others while at the same time living my own life and getting my OWN videos out. As you know, it gets very overwhelming. It doesn't matter where we are, the PHILIPPINES will always be a part of us. I have been to the Philippines three times spending a total of 12 weeks there out of those visits. My wife is from DAVAO, a city that I couldn't help but fall in love with from my first time there. I am always eager to return there but with covid going on it is hard to say when we will be back. Watching you and the rest of the gang (AND OTHER SIMILAR CHANNELS) are my connection to the PHILIPPINES. As I have told others, I get lost in my own little world watching you all; it helps me to temporarily forget my own challenges in life and in other ways helps to motivate me to push through the day and towards the time when we can go back for another visit. I have had my own challenges regarding emotions and anger or whatever in life when I was a younger man. I overcame some tough times, especially when my late wife was killed in a pedestrian-auto crash in 2008 by a still unknown driver. A few years later I found my FILIPINA online in DAVAO CITY. Two lonely hearts looking for true love; a world apart. That's how I came to be a part of this wonderful country, even when I am here in TEXAS. KEEP AT IT YOUNG MAN, YOU ARE DOING GREAT!
Hello from PHILADELPHIA, USA, Anselm. I wanted to post a comment after your last video, but there were several thousand comments and I felt mine would be lost in them. Our hearts (my Filipina wife's and mine) felt so heavy for you, like we wanted to embrace you. Such courage, though, that you shared that part of yourself. We are certain such courage will help you as well as help many others who suffer likewise, but in silence. We will be lifting you up in our prayers, Anselm, as we continue to follow your Daot adventures in Wales. Looking forward to seeing more of your home, your family, your hometown and your native country. I like the little "drink of cheers" to close out your video. It goes with the "5-thirsty" you are known for. Cheers to you, Anselm! May God continue to bless you and may you know He has so. Warm regards... -Mark & Rica 😊🤙 🇺🇲 🏴 🇵🇭 🇬🇧
Anselm, you have so much quality in your charming personality! Most of all.....your DOWN TO EARTH HONESTY !!! Love you so much for it !!! Supporting all the way dear friend....... from Montreal, Quebec ❤️🌈🌈
Our hearts 💕 and our prayers goes out to you Kumande! It takes a lot of courage to be transparent. You might think you’re defeated at times with this sickness but not at all, you’re a brave soldier who continue to fight for living and help others who went through the same thing. We know what’s like, my daughter have BPD. Thank you for being you and please know that you’re loved more than you know.❤️❤️❤️
When i was so sad and depressed, doing house chores and gardening helped me recovered. I am hoping for your fast recovery, prayer will help also. God bless you Kumander D!! ❤️
Kumander you can get through it. You're strong, humorous and in control of yourself which is a good indications that you can self heal yourself and of course with the help of health professionals and your family and friends including the fishes in your ponds. 🤣🤣🤣
Been seeing you in others’ blogs. I love this! Love the normalcy of life, upfront, no sugar coating, no pretence, I guess I’ll call it “organic”, so natural. Gives your Phil’s followers windows to the other worlds like UK. Will follow your travels. Love your home. You’re so humble. Well travelled, your parents raised you so well. I have 5 of your age. Keep it up!! ...Watching from Canada
Thank you for the homey, fun Vlog 👌🤩Nice seeing your home and your parents. Take care always and Blessed Happy New Year 🥰 Keep safe always ❤️Cheers, sending lots loves
Cheers Mate! I'm a Canadian but my roots are British my Grandfather came to Canada alone as a 16-year-old boy from Croydon. Really looking forward to seeing around your Home Town and all the best for your recovery. My Wife is a Filipina and we live in Vancouver Canada.
Thanks for sharing your life story to us. Your recent vlog may bring a lot of awareness regarding BPD. You're a great story teller and I like ypur choice of background music to ypur videos. You may still not aware of it but ypu have gained a lot of fans always waiting for your next video. Keep going ! You have a reason to be here!
So much respect to K. D for speaking out. Takes a strong person to do that. And he is stronger than he thinks. Plus, he has all of us his army of followers. To support and watch his vlogs. Sharing is caring.
Thank you for sharing your home. Perhaps your mom and dad are very happy seeing you for such a long time and being with them during New Year's eve. This is the time for you to bond with them and talk to them what you feel right now. Stay safe and be well.🙏🙏🙏
Dude. I wasn't going to say anything, but that video shell shocked me as I could never figure out why I have these probs--which turns out to be a lot like yours! It's good to know I'm not alone out here...and neither are you. Remember...we are the normal ones! Much love...
It is very touching to watch your videos. Mainly because you not only show the good times but the not so good ones as well. You are one of the very few honest vloggers. I wish you all the best with learning to live with your condition. Make this year the best one ever.
Out of the 211k people who watched your revelations few days ago, I’m sure some of them could use you as an inspiration , please carry on that positivity and show to others how to be better in times of crisis. Don’t give up!
Be strong with this pandemic. Everybody is dealing with this. There's a lot of people in the countryside don't have any income in pandemic time. They put there life in God hand.
Kumander. You are home, enjoy this time I with your family and just relax. This a great opportunity to gain strength to get back on track in life. Stay strong my friend.
Welcome home for Christmas...heart rendering watching ur last vlog but I can tell u will come out of this much stronger...Philippines is ur real home and soon to be mine when travel restrictions lifted...infact this month the builders will start building my home which I'm really looking forward to seeing...take care and let's hope 2021 is better for everyone
Kumander! You CAN'T count on how many of your fingers and toes, your mom's, dad's, all of Wales, how many lives you have touched. You should be proud! I just subscribed!
Anselm, i’ve been living here in Germany for 20 years now and i’ve been experiencing depression as well. My tactic is focus on the present, let go of the past and not at all think too much of the future. This is my daily discipline for many years now and it seems to work. But if course, I have a lot of help from family, friends and professional therapists.
KD you are naturally funny, the part where u are figuring out anything about the parcel that u ordered. you are great now at vlogging, so continue doing anything that makes u happy then vlog it. plus stay positive like kulas. truly, every place in the world is beautiful, it is just up to us, our attitude in life that makes us happy and contented.
Hello, KD! As the saying goes, all things happen for a reason. One of the things that happened in your life in 2020 was UA-cam - it may provide the distraction and, at the same time, the focus that you will need as you work on becoming healthy again. May God bless you always.
What a nice home your family has. I can almost smell the good food that your mother prepared for Christmas. Please continue vlogging. Show us Wales and the UK, or as much as you can during this pandemic. My sincere hope goes out to you that you will stay safe and get the help you need to heal. Thank you for disclosing your medical issue. That took a lot of courage. And hopefully, the positive reposes you are getting helps you rebuild your confidence in yourself.
Kumander Daot, I’m watching your vlog from Virginia USA. I love your hometown. I started getting interested in UK as my son is studying at a University in Bristol. So brave of you to open up about your struggles. Carry on, life is beautiful!
I am no stranger to people with mental health issues. My wife has major depressive disorder and regularly visits a psychiatrist. I also volunteer at a mental health facility that my sister co-own and run here in Cavite. Being around people who have varied mental health issues gave me a deeper meaning of compassion and empathy. I watch your videos (and commercials) religiously because I believe in you. And I know that with your positive attitude you can get through this. It may not or may be a long, rough, and tough haul (as I have learned with my wife's case) but it doesn't really matter. What matters is your will to not give up and face whatever life throws at you. And by the way, those slippers are locally called 'smagool' (slang for smuggle as they are smuggled from Malaysia back in the day) in Mindanao.
Most of us have never been to Wales, much less UK. This Yank would love to see some sights over there, especially where you grew up, favorite hang outs, schools, etc. Keep the vlogs coming and don’t forget the Patreon account! You need support from your friends!
You found your comfort zone... Its sometimes needed for healing. Come back stronger than ever! With your condition and many other mental situations, a support group is needed, I think you have huge one here backing you up. Best wishes in the new year, take care. From across the pond
KD, you had me smiling from start to end. Thanks to your family for agreeing that we get a glimpse of you all enjoying your delicious meal. We all know how delicious a Mom cooked meal is. And thanks to you for your candid storytelling of how your day is going. I look forward to more.
Lovely to see you spending time with your parents and doing a bit of memory lane. You’re mum is so brave to be on camera. I wanted to start our retirement channel but our son swore that he’ll disown us if we do.
Stay positive in life kumander D..you are so blessed because you have your family around you...me im in quarantine right now in korea and no one is here to help and comfort me personally but i am always thankful and positive in life... i really enjoy your videos because youre so funny and true to yourself..🇵🇭🇰🇷
Thank you for sharing your life to your fans. Appreciate it very much. All I can say that you are such a wonderful and kind person. Your parents must have raised you well. Keep doing what you love to do! We your subscribers will continue to support you. God bless! Watching from New Zealand.
thats the beauty of vlogging, people like us who enjoy watching it, would probably watch you mow the lawn for 20 minutes! So glad to hear youre going to keep vlogging, from a viewers point of view... my advice would be dont worry about the content too much. Just keep vlogging your days, no matter how mundane to you they feel.
I'm happy for you being back in the house you grew up in and in the company of your parents. I love doing that every time I'm back in the Philippines (which is not often). After the quarantine, you'll be roaming your old haunts again (well, as soon as the hard lockdown in the UK is finished, at least). Once you're out and about, please show us you eating your favourite Welsh food! :) You are looking happy, too, which is the main thing. Enjoy your time in Wales. I wish you and your family all the best for the new year.
Thank You for welcoming us to your home and to finally see your parents. I wanted to express my well wishes on your road to recovery, and to let you know that you have an entire community here that has your support. I look forward to seeing more of your hometown and the life there. Power on...
Happy to see you smiling. Enjoy the time with your parents and loved ones! I can’t wait to journey around your hometown with you! Keep these raw random vlogs coming!
What to say with someone with mental health condition 1. Do you want to talk about it? I’m always here for you. 2. What can I do to help? 3. Let’s go somewhere quiet or take a walk 4. That’s sound really difficult. How are you coping? 5. I’m really sorry you are going through this. I’m here for you What not to say 1. I know what you mean. I had a panic attack when I saw my electric bill 2. Have you tried meditation or pray. Jesus loves you 3. Why aren’t you seeing therapist or on medication 4. Are you ok 5. There are lots of people who have it worse 6. You wouldn’t feel this way if.... Allow Anselm to express his feelings, even its negative towards your country.
I knew someone who lived in one of these houses just by the civic center building, they are bloody massive. It's takes a lot of effort, maybe too much to keep a house like that immaculate. I like it, it looks cozy.
Hello! Anselm I deeply admire your courage to share your health problems. In a way, it will help you cope the issue as well as help others to open up about it, instead of keeping within self. It’s not a joke, much more so during this pandemic that even a person without mental problem are having a difficult time being confined & isolated. It is sad that the circumstances around us now don’t help those who need more healthy environment. That was a smart idea to go home and be with your parents now. I hope in the next few days and weeks things will get much better for you and please seek help whatever is available in your hometown. I will keep you in my prayers. Take good care of yourself, I know you will because you have the good people, friends, family praying for you and lifting your spirits up so you’ll get better. You will get there one day, be patient and hopeful. Sending you my very best wishes. 🙏🙏🙏🇺🇸🇵🇭
Please don’t do anything bad to yourself. You are worth living. Get all the medical help that you need. Everyone has disappointments and problems, so you are not alone. You have many followers and friends that care about you. Stay safe.
So how are you feeling today Anselm? I could see you are more relaxed. Being with your parents and at home during this time seems like helping you with the healing process. Just take your time. You know yourself better than we are and you have all the support you have over there, your family and medical people who knows how to handle your medical needs. Good luck and stay well.
Bonding with parents... Priceless! Yes, please do more vlog around UK, Wales in a safe way... We have been checking your channel everyday... You're good on taking videos and editing too, considering you justt started . Good job!👍 Expecting for more videos. Take care and stay safe... 😷 We Love you Kumander Daot. 💖
There’s no place like home and it’s good to surround yourself with the people you love and who loves you unconditionally especially in times like this.
@@CommieKilla1977 hindi ako maka recover sa kabobohan mo, ang Pilipinas ay hindi isla kundi grupo ng Isla o Arkipelago, ang major islas ay ang Luzon, Visayas at Mindanao, o kailangan ko pa bang kumpletuhin at dagdagan ang info dahil lang sa kaignorantehan at kabobohan mo? Bobo mo amputa kahit grade 3 alam yan. Kaya nga Philippine "Islands" Bobo mo amputa nakakagigil ka. Ang dapat nyang nilagay ay from the beautiful Islands OF the Philippines. You should've invested as much time in your history classes as you had with english, stop making a fool out of yourself, bobo.
Hey! Kumander daot i want you to know that your not alone just be strong and prayers will helps, i got very sick also but im doing good now, i loved watching you at youtube your sincerity and honesty just hang on there. Believe that one day you’ll be okey, im happy that you go home and see your parents/ family. The love of our family/ parent will really helps our wounds. Stay safe be brave and strong, make a way to make your heart happy and strong like me im keep fighting. Happy New Year to you and your family😀
Kumander Daot your don't worry too much. Love is all around you. It is curable, just try to control yourself, seek the help of others, family love and support. Everyone here loves you.
Making videos is a way of therapy. Just continue to make videos, express your self. You have thousands of people watching you and we will be your ears for each story you tell. Be well Kumander Daot
That's good that you feel the support from the community that follows you on your YT channel. Just keep vlogging and make it an outlet to help with your mental health and draw positive vibes and positive energy from the people who gives you uplifting advices..... remember, we only live once, embrace your life, love yourself even more and draw strength from family and friends and pray.... will keep praying for enlightenment and healing🙏🙏
You’ve got a cozy home with your parents enjoy every minute with them and of the the sceneries around the house. Merry Christmas 🎁 and may God bless you all.
Men, i know that you dont know me personally. But i would like you to know that since i watch you with kulas, i admire your passion in helping other people. I admire that you are a honest person. Keep that attitude men, i know that you maybe experiencing personal problems, that is part of our growth. Keep moving, small step of progress is always a step towards self development. All the way here from Philippines, we love your personality. That is our komander daot. AHA!! LABAN LANG IDOL.
Kumander, you have a beautiful family back there in Wales, big hugs to your Mam and Dad... and you look more relaxed now and we are happy to see you like that. After that video of your confession, my sister was so touched that she prayed you’ll recover from all those past hurts and trauma. Leave them all in 2020 kumander because you have a very bright future ahead of you... so take care of yourself, yeah? I miss the UK, eat some pickled beetroot for me and some meusli with greek yogurt, slices of strawberry and mild cheddar with a drizzle of honey😋 I miss those.. and all the cheeses and the apple turnover at M&S😊Keep blogging Kumander, you are doing well.
I am so glad to hear that you had a great positive response from your last video and that it helped you. I loved the video please do keep making them. my suggestion is to just take us along on whatever you're doing. I'm here to see you what your doing is just filling space. 👍
Your storytelling and editing have improved a lot, KD. I think what draws people into your videos is the interesting and funny way you tell your stories. Please show us more of Wales. I'd like to know about what it's like and how people live there. Wishing you and your family all the best in this new year, KD. Stay safe and healthy! Cheers!
Hello KD from SF Bay, California. Thank you for letting us in your home. Traditions are heartwarming. Hot spiced cider with or without brandy makes winter a bit cozy. Cheers love. 🥂 It is such a privilege to be able to visit your childhood home.💗
Looking good, KUMANDER D! Keep fighting 💪 the fight. Things--like your having been given another chance at life--happen for a reason: a very good one. Keep multitasking with your vlog: It's great, precious, creative, and constructive therapy. It keeps you busy and away from negative thoughts. Always remember, you have a global support system--prayer brigade, cheerleaders--of your fellow human beings who want you to be...and do well. One day, you'll look back and will be so grateful for the rare blessing--with your infectious smile and laughter. HAPPY, HEALTHY, and BLESSED NEW YEAR 2021! 🎉💝🙏
Thanks for liking this comment👍🏼 don’t know who you are but thank you. I hope it’s you Dork! 🤣. Hey, do you have an FB, or Instagram account? Look, I said ‘I Fkn love you bro but as a bro (nothing weird and queer) and I meant it. I’m just a fan, but I want to connect but don’t want to do it here. What do you think? Jeez
your mom is pretty chill. well, she's the commander of kumander after all xD
mader kumander
Cheers Kumander....love the cat! Keep yourself busy there and live happily. Take care!
Yes make your self busy , your parent house so big , start helping them to straighten the house , make the time go by fast, and you not gone be bored . Lots of things you can do around your parent house.
Ahhhhh! UA-cam kicked me off the live chat! Thank you so much, 2700 watching the premiere, that is really so awesome!
@@mannypacu6460 🤣🤣🤣 they wanted me to watch adverts on my own video!
@@KumanderDaot 😝
Similar to the philippines... always damp. Big temperature difference, though
Sir, you really have a good life growing up...,I can see your parents house....I was in Cardiff, 4x visited my sister in laws,many years ago....
Stay strong Kumander Anselm. Winners don’t quit, quiters don’t win. GOD LOVES YOU, and he already BLESSED you with 62K+ subscribers and massive viewers that LOVE 💗 and CARE FOR YOU. Keep posting updates. I was in tears 😭 while I was watching your confession video because someone very close to me had suffered from the same mental health issues as yours, and it was a little bit more serious than yours, it was enough of a reason why I had to enroll in medical related program in order to be able to understand it better and how to help.
Good day KUMANDER! I am attempting to catch up on your videos since your last harvest. I am always trying to keep up with KULAS, BRET, YOU, BODING and others while at the same time living my own life and getting my OWN videos out. As you know, it gets very overwhelming.
It doesn't matter where we are, the PHILIPPINES will always be a part of us. I have been to the Philippines three times spending a total of 12 weeks there out of those visits. My wife is from DAVAO, a city that I couldn't help but fall in love with from my first time there. I am always eager to return there but with covid going on it is hard to say when we will be back. Watching you and the rest of the gang (AND OTHER SIMILAR CHANNELS) are my connection to the PHILIPPINES. As I have told others, I get lost in my own little world watching you all; it helps me to temporarily forget my own challenges in life and in other ways helps to motivate me to push through the day and towards the time when we can go back for another visit.
I have had my own challenges regarding emotions and anger or whatever in life when I was a younger man. I overcame some tough times, especially when my late wife was killed in a pedestrian-auto crash in 2008 by a still unknown driver. A few years later I found my FILIPINA online in DAVAO CITY. Two lonely hearts looking for true love; a world apart. That's how I came to be a part of this wonderful country, even when I am here in TEXAS.
KEEP AT IT YOUNG MAN, YOU ARE DOING GREAT!
Hello from PHILADELPHIA, USA, Anselm. I wanted to post a comment after your last video, but there were several thousand comments and I felt mine would be lost in them. Our hearts (my Filipina wife's and mine) felt so heavy for you, like we wanted to embrace you. Such courage, though, that you shared that part of yourself. We are certain such courage will help you as well as help many others who suffer likewise, but in silence. We will be lifting you up in our prayers, Anselm, as we continue to follow your Daot adventures in Wales. Looking forward to seeing more of your home, your family, your hometown and your native country. I like the little "drink of cheers" to close out your video. It goes with the "5-thirsty" you are known for. Cheers to you, Anselm! May God continue to bless you and may you know He has so. Warm regards... -Mark & Rica 😊🤙 🇺🇲 🏴 🇵🇭 🇬🇧
You guys are awesome. You've kept me going through so much!
Very heartwarming and heartfelt. Yes, mental illness is not a joke. It is a Silent killer. 😪😪😪🙏🙏🙏🙏
God bless you and we will keep you in our prayers, Kumander Daot!! Hang in there! We are all here to support you🙏🏻
Trust God..God heals
Anselm, you have so much quality in your charming personality! Most of all.....your DOWN TO EARTH HONESTY !!! Love you so much for it !!! Supporting all the way dear friend....... from Montreal, Quebec ❤️🌈🌈
Our hearts 💕 and our prayers goes out to you Kumande! It takes a lot of courage to be transparent. You might think you’re defeated at times with this sickness but not at all, you’re a brave soldier who continue to fight for living and help others who went through the same thing. We know what’s like, my daughter have BPD. Thank you for being you and please know that you’re loved more than you know.❤️❤️❤️
The whole world is cheering for your happiness..am jealous now...enjoy every minute w/ ur Dad & Mom...mine r long gone...count ur blessings....🧡🧡🧡u
When i was so sad and depressed, doing house chores and gardening helped me recovered. I am hoping for your fast recovery, prayer will help also. God bless you Kumander D!! ❤️
Kumander you can get through it. You're strong, humorous and in control of yourself which is a good indications that you can self heal yourself and of course with the help of health professionals and your family and friends including the fishes in your ponds. 🤣🤣🤣
He is amazing
Should we not ask God for total healing?
Been seeing you in others’ blogs. I love this! Love the normalcy of life, upfront, no sugar coating, no pretence, I guess I’ll call it “organic”, so natural. Gives your Phil’s followers windows to the other worlds like UK. Will follow your travels. Love your home. You’re so humble. Well travelled, your parents raised you so well. I have 5 of your age. Keep it up!! ...Watching from Canada
Prayers for complete healing. May God Bless you and your family.
Stay strong and positive thanks for keeping us up to date take care
Thank you for the homey, fun Vlog 👌🤩Nice seeing your home and your parents. Take care always and Blessed Happy New Year 🥰 Keep safe always ❤️Cheers, sending lots loves
Cheers Mate! I'm a Canadian but my roots are British my Grandfather came to Canada alone as a 16-year-old boy from Croydon. Really looking forward to seeing around your Home Town and all the best for your recovery. My Wife is a Filipina and we live in Vancouver Canada.
Thanks for sharing your life story to us. Your recent vlog may bring a lot of awareness regarding BPD. You're a great story teller and I like ypur choice of background music to ypur videos. You may still not aware of it but ypu have gained a lot of fans always waiting for your next video. Keep going ! You have a reason to be here!
Keep on smiling and fight for your precious life, you can make it!
So much respect to K. D for speaking out. Takes a strong person to do that. And he is stronger than he thinks. Plus, he has all of us his army of followers. To support and watch his vlogs. Sharing is caring.
Enjoy watching from Cambodia 🇰🇭
You just said what thousands wanted to say, thanks
God be with you always kumander d
Thank you for sharing your home. Perhaps your mom and dad are very happy seeing you for such a long time and being with them during New Year's eve. This is the time for you to bond with them and talk to them what you feel right now. Stay safe and be well.🙏🙏🙏
Dude. I wasn't going to say anything, but that video shell shocked me as I could never figure out why I have these probs--which turns out to be a lot like yours! It's good to know I'm not alone out here...and neither are you. Remember...we are the normal ones! Much love...
Be strong brother everyone have it's own problem just pray to God....He is always by our side
@@apollocorporal8621 thx bro! Stay in the fight! God's the only way I keep going
It is very touching to watch your videos. Mainly because you not only show the good times but the not so good ones as well. You are one of the very few honest vloggers. I wish you all the best with learning to live with your condition. Make this year the best one ever.
Out of the 211k people who watched your revelations few days ago, I’m sure some of them could use you as an inspiration , please carry on that positivity and show to others how to be better in times of crisis. Don’t give up!
Yes don’t give up
Be strong with this pandemic.
Everybody is dealing with this.
There's a lot of people in the countryside don't have any income in pandemic time.
They put there life in God hand.
I agree 💯%
Kumander.
You are home, enjoy this time I with your family and just relax.
This a great opportunity to gain strength to get back on track in life.
Stay strong my friend.
Welcome home for Christmas...heart rendering watching ur last vlog but I can tell u will come out of this much stronger...Philippines is ur real home and soon to be mine when travel restrictions lifted...infact this month the builders will start building my home which I'm really looking forward to seeing...take care and let's hope 2021 is better for everyone
Kumander! You CAN'T count on how many of your fingers and toes, your mom's, dad's, all of Wales, how many lives you have touched. You should be proud! I just subscribed!
I'M SOOO THANKFUL YOU'RE WITH YOUR PARENTS, STAY SAFE BE POSITIVE AND HEALTHY.
FROM CALIFORNIA.
Anselm, i’ve been living here in Germany for 20 years now and i’ve been experiencing depression as well. My tactic is focus on the present, let go of the past and not at all think too much of the future. This is my daily discipline for many years now and it seems to work. But if course, I have a lot of help from family, friends and professional therapists.
Stay strong keep the faith enjoy the precious time with your parents.
KD you are naturally funny, the part where u are figuring out anything about the parcel that u ordered. you are great now at vlogging, so continue doing anything that makes u happy then vlog it. plus stay positive like kulas. truly, every place in the world is beautiful, it is just up to us, our attitude in life that makes us happy and contented.
Great vlog. Keep doing what you are doing. Making everyone smile. Honest down to earth. Just real. Love it.
Thanks for sharing your family's holiday tradition - meal, etc. Good luck with everything.
Wow! How lucky you have a loving mother, a positive way of feeling when you are with your parents.
Enjoy the dinner w/ your family! We are praying for your fast recovery.
Yes 👍 hope everything going well and safe
Stay safe kumander !!! Bridgend loves you !!!
Hello, KD! As the saying goes, all things happen for a reason. One of the things that happened in your life in 2020 was UA-cam - it may provide the distraction and, at the same time, the focus that you will need as you work on becoming healthy again. May God bless you always.
What a nice home your family has. I can almost smell the good food that your mother prepared for Christmas. Please continue vlogging. Show us Wales and the UK, or as much as you can during this pandemic. My sincere hope goes out to you that you will stay safe and get the help you need to heal. Thank you for disclosing your medical issue. That took a lot of courage. And hopefully, the positive reposes you are getting helps you rebuild your confidence in yourself.
Enjoy bonding with your parents kd just stay safe and healthy my prayers is also for you stay strong and connect to our God 💖💖💖💖
Enjoy Life, Because is BEAUTIFUL....
Hello daot ! Good wheather in UK.
Wisteria is beautiful when it's in bloom. It must be gorgeous to see during spring time around your house 🥰
We all miss you already Kumander D🤗❤🙏😊🇨🇦
Yes me too
Kumander Daot, I’m watching your vlog from Virginia USA. I love your hometown. I started getting interested in UK as my son is studying at a University in Bristol. So brave of you to open up about your struggles. Carry on, life is beautiful!
Upload videos regularly and we will support u. We know u r a good man
I'm so very proud of you for being open and honest about your struggles. I pray the Lord will draw you close and give you peace.
Enjoy with your parent.. they are your source of energy... 👍👍
I am no stranger to people with mental health issues. My wife has major depressive disorder and regularly visits a psychiatrist. I also volunteer at a mental health facility that my sister co-own and run here in Cavite. Being around people who have varied mental health issues gave me a deeper meaning of compassion and empathy. I watch your videos (and commercials) religiously because I believe in you. And I know that with your positive attitude you can get through this. It may not or may be a long, rough, and tough haul (as I have learned with my wife's case) but it doesn't really matter. What matters is your will to not give up and face whatever life throws at you.
And by the way, those slippers are locally called 'smagool' (slang for smuggle as they are smuggled from Malaysia back in the day) in Mindanao.
pea brained my question since i was a child up until now bout' the "smagol" finally answered. thanks for sharing it 😊.
@@mylove_78 I'm not from Mindanao but I have relatives there whom I learnt it from. Cheers!
Interesting info about the origin of "smagool". Growing up in Samar, I always thought it was the local term. Thanks!
Most of us have never been to Wales, much less UK. This Yank would love to see some sights over there, especially where you grew up, favorite hang outs, schools, etc. Keep the vlogs coming and don’t forget the Patreon account! You need support from your friends!
You found your comfort zone...
Its sometimes needed for healing.
Come back stronger than ever!
With your condition and many other mental situations, a support group is needed, I think you have huge one here backing you up. Best wishes in the new year, take care. From across the pond
Sunlight and sweating will boost mood. Stay outdoors as often as possible rooting for you
You probably ate parsnip often in Philippines as they usually put it in Sinigang soup as it is aka “labanos”
Agree, as well as banana that has anti-depressant ingredient
@@spooky91107 nooo parsnip is different from labanos,they also have labanos here in UK,parsnip is cream in color
Parsnip is singkamas in pinas 😊
I love how your mom smile she’s so sweet...
KD, you had me smiling from start to end. Thanks to your family for agreeing that we get a glimpse of you all enjoying your delicious meal. We all know how delicious a Mom cooked meal is. And thanks to you for your candid storytelling of how your day is going. I look forward to more.
Lovely to see you spending time with your parents and doing a bit of memory lane. You’re mum is so brave to be on camera. I wanted to start our retirement channel but our son swore that he’ll disown us if we do.
This is great! Your video premieres an hour after Kulas's video. Looking out for both later. Happy New Year, Kumander. Stay safe and well
Stay positive in life kumander D..you are so blessed because you have your family around you...me im in quarantine right now in korea and no one is here to help and comfort me personally but i am always thankful and positive in life... i really enjoy your videos because youre so funny and true to yourself..🇵🇭🇰🇷
Hey kumander happy new year! When will you go back? Ingat po kayo...✌️😷
Your mom's laugh is contagious 😂 wishing you well Anselm. Looking forward for your Wales' vlogs! Cheers
Kumander Daot, Please stay strong and enjoy life! Keep vlogging , buddy!
Safe together
Nice to see you happy and together with your Mom an Dad, praying for you always Kumander Daot
We are glad that you are safe Kumander D. God bless and protect you always
Thank you for sharing your life to your fans. Appreciate it very much. All I can say that you are such a wonderful and kind person. Your parents must have raised you well. Keep doing what you love to do! We your subscribers will continue to support you. God bless! Watching from New Zealand.
They says the man never cried, but if this the way released u know, then u become more better man. Astig ka kumander...
thats the beauty of vlogging, people like us who enjoy watching it, would probably watch you mow the lawn for 20 minutes! So glad to hear youre going to keep vlogging, from a viewers point of view... my advice would be dont worry about the content too much. Just keep vlogging your days, no matter how mundane to you they feel.
Looking great Kumander, stay strong and sending you my prayers for fast healing.
I'm happy for you being back in the house you grew up in and in the company of your parents. I love doing that every time I'm back in the Philippines (which is not often). After the quarantine, you'll be roaming your old haunts again (well, as soon as the hard lockdown in the UK is finished, at least). Once you're out and about, please show us you eating your favourite Welsh food! :)
You are looking happy, too, which is the main thing.
Enjoy your time in Wales. I wish you and your family all the best for the new year.
Enjoy your stay in UK, we know you'll be back in the Philippines!
Thank You for welcoming us to your home and to finally see your parents. I wanted to express my well wishes on your road to recovery, and to let you know that you have an entire community here that has your support. I look forward to seeing more of your hometown and the life there. Power on...
Happy New Year Kumander! Best wishes to your parents too! Praying for your fast recovery. God bless !
Happy to see you smiling. Enjoy the time with your parents and loved ones! I can’t wait to journey around your hometown with you! Keep these raw random vlogs coming!
there's no place like home...God bless!
Family love and support
ease mental anguish,
your mother's laughter is priceless,
and your subscribbers..
oh, they love you....
Get well sooooon Kumander Daot...
What to say with someone with mental health condition
1. Do you want to talk about it? I’m always here for you.
2. What can I do to help?
3. Let’s go somewhere quiet or take a walk
4. That’s sound really difficult. How are you coping?
5. I’m really sorry you are going through this. I’m here for you
What not to say
1. I know what you mean. I had a panic attack when I saw my electric bill
2. Have you tried meditation or pray. Jesus loves you
3. Why aren’t you seeing therapist or on medication
4. Are you ok
5. There are lots of people who have it worse
6. You wouldn’t feel this way if....
Allow Anselm to express his feelings, even its negative towards your country.
So wonderful to have parents to hang out spend time with!
That’s a beautiful house when you look past the clutter, it has a lot of character and I love that wisteria. Your mom is a cool mom.
A home well lived in surrounded by the things one loves. Here in America also have books cases for all the books we have read or hope to read.
I knew someone who lived in one of these houses just by the civic center building, they are bloody massive. It's takes a lot of effort, maybe too much to keep a house like that immaculate. I like it, it looks cozy.
In order to clear the fog in your head, organization is the key de clutter wherever you go and it will help clear the mind
Hello! Anselm I deeply admire your courage to share your health problems. In a way, it will help you cope the issue as well as help others to open up about it, instead of keeping within self. It’s not a joke, much more so during this pandemic that even a person without mental problem are having a difficult time being confined & isolated. It is sad that the circumstances around us now don’t help those who need more healthy environment. That was a smart idea to go home and be with your parents now. I hope in the next few days and weeks things will get much better for you and please seek help whatever is available in your hometown. I will keep you in my prayers. Take good care of yourself, I know you will because you have the good people, friends, family praying for you and lifting your spirits up so you’ll get better. You will get there one day, be patient and hopeful. Sending you my very best wishes. 🙏🙏🙏🇺🇸🇵🇭
Please don’t do anything bad to yourself. You are worth living. Get all the medical help that you need. Everyone has disappointments and problems, so you are not alone. You have many followers and friends that care about you. Stay safe.
So how are you feeling today Anselm? I could see you are more relaxed. Being with your parents and at home during this time seems like helping you with the healing process. Just take your time. You know yourself better than we are and you have all the support you have over there, your family and medical people who knows how to handle your medical needs. Good luck and stay well.
Bonding with parents... Priceless!
Yes, please do more vlog around UK, Wales in a safe way...
We have been checking your channel everyday... You're good on taking videos and editing too, considering you justt started . Good job!👍
Expecting for more videos.
Take care and stay safe... 😷
We Love you Kumander Daot. 💖
There’s no place like home and it’s good to surround yourself with the people you love and who loves you unconditionally especially in times like this.
Happy to see that great smile. Good morning Kumander D. from the beautiful island called Philippines.
There is no island called Philippines, group of Islands, or archipelago, yes.
@@lioneljoseduterte4847 I would’ve respected you for your last name but here you are making a buffoon out of our best president’s last name.
@@CommieKilla1977 hindi ako maka recover sa kabobohan mo, ang Pilipinas ay hindi isla kundi grupo ng Isla o Arkipelago, ang major islas ay ang Luzon, Visayas at Mindanao, o kailangan ko pa bang kumpletuhin at dagdagan ang info dahil lang sa kaignorantehan at kabobohan mo? Bobo mo amputa kahit grade 3 alam yan. Kaya nga Philippine "Islands" Bobo mo amputa nakakagigil ka. Ang dapat nyang nilagay ay from the beautiful Islands OF the Philippines.
You should've invested as much time in your history classes as you had with english, stop making a fool out of yourself, bobo.
Your mother is such a sweet heart
You are an inspiration to many, keep going.
Hey! Kumander daot i want you to know that your not alone just be strong and prayers will helps, i got very sick also but im doing good now, i loved watching you at youtube your sincerity and honesty just hang on there. Believe that one day you’ll be okey, im happy that you go home and see your parents/ family. The love of our family/ parent will really helps our wounds. Stay safe be brave and strong, make a way to make your heart happy and strong like me im keep fighting. Happy New Year to you and your family😀
Remember:
Only the ones who hear not the music, think the dancers mad.
I hear the music , too.
Stay strong and God be with you.
Kumander Daot your don't worry too much. Love is all around you. It is curable, just try to control yourself, seek the help of others, family love and support. Everyone here loves you.
Im kind of sneaky with those books. I can spend the whole two weeks reading those.
Katugnaw gyod dha KD?wala mo ga snow?
Amping.
Making videos is a way of therapy. Just continue to make videos, express your self. You have thousands of people watching you and we will be your ears for each story you tell. Be well Kumander Daot
Good you’re home, bro!
The usual lockdowns here n the Philippines 😷
That's good that you feel the support from the community that follows you on your YT channel. Just keep vlogging and make it an outlet to help with your mental health and draw positive vibes and positive energy from the people who gives you uplifting advices..... remember, we only live once, embrace your life, love yourself even more and draw strength from family and friends and pray.... will keep praying for enlightenment and healing🙏🙏
I would organise the third floor: that place is amazing! Enjoy the time with your parents 👍🤙
You’ve got a cozy home with your parents enjoy every minute with them and of the the sceneries around the house. Merry Christmas 🎁 and may God bless you all.
Your so genius Kumander Daot, a lot of books in your house.. Happy New Year!
Men, i know that you dont know me personally. But i would like you to know that since i watch you with kulas, i admire your passion in helping other people. I admire that you are a honest person.
Keep that attitude men, i know that you maybe experiencing personal problems, that is part of our growth. Keep moving, small step of progress is always a step towards self development.
All the way here from Philippines, we love your personality. That is our komander daot. AHA!!
LABAN LANG IDOL.
That's exciting,waiting for more vlog about awareness KUMANDER D.
I’m glad you are with your parents. My prayers for you commander Daot
Happy new year Anselm be positive in life with god loves🇬🇷
Praying for your fast recovery, Happy New Year with your mom and dad. Enjoy every moment of Holiday.
It's more inline with your theme to sign off your Vlogs " it's five thirsty somewhere "
Trademark that phrase before someone does.
Kumander, you have a beautiful family back there in Wales, big hugs to your Mam and Dad... and you look more relaxed now and we are happy to see you like that. After that video of your confession, my sister was so touched that she prayed you’ll recover from all those past hurts and trauma. Leave them all in 2020 kumander because you have a very bright future ahead of you... so take care of yourself, yeah? I miss the UK, eat some pickled beetroot for me and some meusli with greek yogurt, slices of strawberry and mild cheddar with a drizzle of honey😋 I miss those.. and all the cheeses and the apple turnover at M&S😊Keep blogging Kumander, you are doing well.
I'm waiting for your blog idol, 5hrs.more to wait pa hahaha,excited to see you said home and garden tour hehe,,happy new year...
I am so glad to hear that you had a great positive response from your last video and that it helped you. I loved the video please do keep making them. my suggestion is to just take us along on whatever you're doing. I'm here to see you what your doing is just filling space. 👍
Oi, that food looks delish! 😋
Your storytelling and editing have improved a lot, KD. I think what draws people into your videos is the interesting and funny way you tell your stories. Please show us more of Wales. I'd like to know about what it's like and how people live there. Wishing you and your family all the best in this new year, KD. Stay safe and healthy! Cheers!
Good to see you looking happy KUMANDER KUSGAN ( I'll be calling you this from now, on it fits better on you) continue feeling better KUMANDER!!!
Alibangbang on the run here see me on tiktok Aliexplorero thanx everything be alright see you hugs to mom dad
Hello KD from SF Bay, California. Thank you for letting us in your home. Traditions are heartwarming. Hot spiced cider with or without brandy makes winter a bit cozy. Cheers love. 🥂 It is such a privilege to be able to visit your childhood home.💗
Wow, healthy food. Happy New Year, KD.
Happy new year
Looking good, KUMANDER D! Keep fighting 💪 the fight. Things--like your having been given another chance at life--happen for a reason: a very good one.
Keep multitasking with your vlog: It's great, precious, creative, and constructive therapy. It keeps you busy and away from negative thoughts. Always remember, you have a global support system--prayer brigade, cheerleaders--of your fellow human beings who want you to be...and do well. One day, you'll look back and will be so grateful for the rare blessing--with your infectious smile and laughter.
HAPPY, HEALTHY, and BLESSED NEW YEAR 2021! 🎉💝🙏
I f¥\!# LOVE YOU DUDE!!! You’re going to be okay!! Anselm, everything is going to be okay. I promise you. 🌹
Thanks for liking this comment👍🏼 don’t know who you are but thank you. I hope it’s you Dork! 🤣. Hey, do you have an FB, or Instagram account? Look, I said ‘I Fkn love you bro but as a bro (nothing weird and queer) and I meant it. I’m just a fan, but I want to connect but don’t want to do it here. What do you think? Jeez
Aaaarrgh! Don’t answer that. There must be a reason why you don’t have link here, but I figured it out. Right O👍🏼
Thank you for the house tour & showing your folks as well, stay safe sir