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  • @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast
    @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast  Місяць тому +14

    Why is it important to focus on your own progress instead of comparing yourself to others?
    How can you avoid comparing yourself to others when using social media?
    Don’t forget to download our free PDF with tips and vocabulary to help you practice! And share your answers with us in the comments below. Let’s grow and learn together! 💬

  • @nrsoff525
    @nrsoff525 Місяць тому +46

    When using social media, to avoid to compare ourselves to others, we need to know, what people show us it’s not the reality

    • @-tz8pg
      @-tz8pg Місяць тому

      ✅️ right

    • @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast
      @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast  Місяць тому +11

      Absolutely! You’re spot on-what we see on social media is often just a highlight reel, not the full picture. It’s important to remind ourselves of that and focus on our own journey instead of comparing. Great insight! 😊💡

    • @-tz8pg
      @-tz8pg Місяць тому

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ ​@LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast

  • @atNguyen-dt2vt
    @atNguyen-dt2vt Місяць тому +21

    Sometimes I forgot to enjoy my own journey, now I will celebrate even It has small improvement.

    • @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast
      @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast  Місяць тому +2

      That’s such a great mindset! 🎉 It's so important to celebrate every step, no matter how small. Enjoying your journey and acknowledging your progress will keep you motivated. Keep going-you’re doing amazing! 😊🌟

  • @LucindaLe10
    @LucindaLe10 Місяць тому +4

    Thanks this podcast very much. In the past, I often compared myself to others and I often asked myself:" Why I can't achieve what they can?" At that time, I found it challenging and difficult to gain what I wanted. However, when I become more mature every day, I realise that I should focus on myself instead of watching others' accomplishments because everyone has their own time of blooming. Now, I have got some achievements for myself after working hard and only focusing on my progress. I just want to say that we have to believe in ourselves that we can do it if we try to be better every day.

  • @huongduonghoa9866
    @huongduonghoa9866 Місяць тому +2

    I have a friend, who is good at English. But I never compare myself with her, I'm still doing my best.

  • @ei_chaw
    @ei_chaw 28 днів тому +1

    When I was younger, I used to compare to others, also I was afraid of friends getting away from me. So, I changed myself to get their attention, put myself into their mold whatever i didn't like it or not. Now, I don't compare with other anymore, instead I focus on myself, my interest, so that times later, I can see what I love, what my interest is and what should I do next. I feel more confident after I can see myself clearly. Also thanks for this podcast to understand the meaning without looking at the captions!!! 💗

  • @IKRAMIKRAM-d9h
    @IKRAMIKRAM-d9h Місяць тому +6

    We should focus on improving ourselves instead of focusing on others, because in my opinion that doesn't bring us nothing but jealousy and waste our time

  • @NguyenTu-hr1sd
    @NguyenTu-hr1sd Місяць тому +4

    I'm never compare myself to any other. I know well who I am.I'm just admired their patients with challenges but keep going to forward.I'm really appreciate person who make this podcast. It look like a mentor to guide me go the right way again.😊

  • @Marceline89897
    @Marceline89897 Місяць тому +6

    I don't avoid myself because I know that everything on social media isn't real. People on social media have another aspect that we don't know about, so don't compare yourself. Thanks again ❤

  • @shakarshakar-m6v
    @shakarshakar-m6v Місяць тому +3

    Because if we didn’t stop comparing we will see our selves in the future suffering and we lose our lives

  • @PetrusHaiBac
    @PetrusHaiBac Місяць тому +1

    After I listened to this episode, I will stop comparing myself and focus on my own journey,
    thanks, LEP for this episode.

  • @ernestorevollar3632
    @ernestorevollar3632 19 днів тому +1

    Answers:
    1) Because comparing can really hold me back from achieving what I want. I should remember that I'm valuable on my way, just like everyone else. Anyone can succeed in anything they want without focusing on what others do or are.
    2) I usually don't use social media, and I normally don't compare myself to others by just thinking about my own values, my abilities in life, the unique beauty I was born with, the fact that I'm so loved by my relatives and get many compliments from others, especially friends.
    Thanks again for bringing me another awesome podcast episode. ❤😊

  • @monlay9641
    @monlay9641 Місяць тому +1

    When I was young, I compare myself to other people. Oh! they're great but I'm not good. I feel so bad. But now , I'm not compare myself to other people anymore. Focus on my way, my job, my hobby. This video make me strength. Thank you so much indeed.

  • @SujataGadwalkar
    @SujataGadwalkar Місяць тому +1

    Thank you very much LEP 🙏 all your videos are very beautiful and helpful to learn English and your way of explaining everything is very fabulous 😊

  • @shlamit
    @shlamit Місяць тому +3

    I wish there was a channel like this in French because I am learning it too❤❤

  • @Marceline89897
    @Marceline89897 Місяць тому +2

    Because when I focus on my own life, I can't compare myself to others, and I won’t care about them. The "successful person" doesn’t care about me too either when I put all my attention on them. Therefore, the first thing I need to know is who I am in order to become that "successful person". Thank you.

  • @Marceline89897
    @Marceline89897 Місяць тому +1

    The meaning of 'strong points' is a person who has a strong mind. All he needs is his personal comfort, that's it.

  • @PhuongNguyen-rc9kr
    @PhuongNguyen-rc9kr Місяць тому +7

    Thank you all for your useful video. This is the first time I've left a comment on a UA-cam video, and I'm doing so because I truly enjoyed your video. ♥ I used to compare myself to other friends who were more successful than me, which is a bad thing. Thanks to your video, I understood that nothing is more important than myself, and I will do our best to be the best version of myself every day. Thank you again! 😍

    • @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast
      @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast  Місяць тому +3

      Thank you so much for your heartfelt comment! ♥ We're so glad that you enjoyed the video and found it helpful. It's wonderful to hear that you’re now focusing on becoming the best version of yourself and letting go of comparisons. Everyone’s journey is unique, and it's amazing that you're embracing that. Keep pushing forward-you’re doing great! 😍✨

  • @Physic-ns9tw
    @Physic-ns9tw Місяць тому

    I'm trying to focus on my self , and stop comparing my self with others

  • @chitsu4537
    @chitsu4537 Місяць тому

    Because it makes us go down our feeling and disturb our improvement so that we should focus ourselves

  • @truongchivy513
    @truongchivy513 Місяць тому +1

    I usually keep in mind the sentence that I’ve never forgotten that until at the end of the day or the month and so on. Many people don’t wanna see How do you do it perfectly , They just see the results of goals you do.

  • @NazikIshenova
    @NazikIshenova 8 днів тому

    I'm so grateful to this channel!❤❤❤

  • @otonielcuevas8907
    @otonielcuevas8907 26 днів тому

    Don't waste the time comparing yourself to others bro. You are valuable and only you need to tell it at yourself. Learn to enjoy your own journey, your goods and bads.
    The things that people upload on social media is only a face, the other face is hide. You know that they had to work hard to got to they're today.
    Smile and be thankful

  • @小星-i8z
    @小星-i8z Місяць тому +17

    fruitful🎉 I can enjoy your videos all the time and I found it easy for me to understand the meaning of your video without the captions.

  • @nursejanny
    @nursejanny Місяць тому +2

    Wow, this video was amazing! ❤ You always bring such great content and it’s so inspiring! 💖 Keep up the fantastic work, I can’t wait to see what you share next!

  • @ShahedGn
    @ShahedGn Місяць тому

    1. Because I want to be successful in the future. If I focus on others achievements I won't ‏‪achieve my goals.
    2. When l convinced that there isn't anyone has a perfect life and everyone has difficulties in the life ❤

  • @khenferasma
    @khenferasma Місяць тому

    We must don't compare ourselves to other because everyone has a challenge, journey and thoughts.

  • @LeanetCaridadCarlosPlanche
    @LeanetCaridadCarlosPlanche 29 днів тому

    Social media isn't real life, we need focus in our own progress and goals, it is the only way that we will win

  • @the.universe223
    @the.universe223 Місяць тому +1

    Thanks Leo & Gwen 🫂💚

  • @-tz8pg
    @-tz8pg Місяць тому +3

    Woooow ❤❤
    It is actually the most important topic in our life 😊😊
    be proud of yourself and your achievements and don't compare yourself with other people to achieve your goals ✨️ 💯.
    Isn't it guys ??

  • @Lavendarso
    @Lavendarso 15 днів тому

    Because when we focus on others achievements we forgot to focus on ourselves and thought why others are so lucky but why we are not like them.When you compare yourself too much you will be sad and think you can't do what others do.

    • @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast
      @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast  15 днів тому

      You're absolutely right. When we focus too much on others' achievements, it's easy to feel discouraged and overlook our own progress. It’s natural to compare sometimes, but remember that everyone’s journey is unique. Focusing on your own growth and celebrating even small steps can be so empowering. Stay true to yourself, and trust that you have your own strengths and path. Keep going-your progress matters, and you’re capable of amazing things! 🌟

  • @joker_kh5053
    @joker_kh5053 Місяць тому

    1-Because I must to know what I want to be and because of that I must to focus on my goals not the other people goals.

  • @ranagamal5139
    @ranagamal5139 Місяць тому +1

    If you still see people progress and you are sleeping you become failed and say why isn't my life like that and you be shy from yourself you must make plans and take a role model finally show your progress for society

    • @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast
      @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast  Місяць тому +1

      You're absolutely right! It's easy to feel discouraged when comparing yourself to others, but taking action and making a plan is key. Finding a role model for inspiration and showing your own progress to society can motivate you to achieve more. Focus on your journey, work hard, and your progress will shine through. Keep pushing forward! 💪🌟

  • @nrsoff525
    @nrsoff525 Місяць тому +1

    We have to focus on our own goals, progress, objectives, because people don’t care about what we do, if we do something it’s for us , but looking at the examples witch submitted by others, can permit us to improve ourselves

    • @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast
      @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast  Місяць тому

      Well said! Focusing on our own goals and progress is key, as we’re ultimately doing it for ourselves. However, learning from others' examples can inspire us and help us grow. It’s all about balance-improving ourselves while staying true to our own journey. Great perspective! 🌟😊

  • @HamzaAltamimi-up7ch
    @HamzaAltamimi-up7ch Місяць тому +3

    The best podcast topic I have ever heard. 😊

  • @HànhTrìnhCủaCúc
    @HànhTrìnhCủaCúc Місяць тому

    thank you so much
    I am full of hope about better life and I will forcus on myself

  • @Boki-BOKl
    @Boki-BOKl Місяць тому +2

    You guys know what I'm really wonder how is this channel can be so attracting and interesting and lovely
    I can't stop watching lessons from your channel thanks a lot😊😊😊❤❤❤

  • @angesguenaelemaneminko6448
    @angesguenaelemaneminko6448 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you for this episode podcast. I really appreciate your advice and learning new words.

  • @gracecruz3658
    @gracecruz3658 Місяць тому

    I would like you to explore dealing with difficult co-workers. Thanks a million!

  • @Greatlife-f7v
    @Greatlife-f7v Місяць тому

    Because when we focus on ourselves. So, there will be chance to improve ourselves and we can find our weakness and we can work on that. If we focus on others people. Then there will be no chance to improve ourselves and also we will feel jealous about others people. We should appreciate others people success

    • @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast
      @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast  Місяць тому

      You're absolutely right! Focusing on ourselves allows us to find areas for improvement and work on them, which leads to personal growth. When we focus too much on others, we miss the opportunity to better ourselves and may feel unnecessary jealousy. Instead, appreciating others' success can inspire us while keeping our own progress in focus. Great perspective! 😊🌟

  • @doktersenyum8148
    @doktersenyum8148 Місяць тому

    Don't compare that emerge negatif though such as envy, pesimis, hate yourself, insecure mostly.
    Dispite comparing the other you must inspired by other. It will make you pursue or endevour a things. It will inspire you instead make you feeling down.

    • @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast
      @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast  Місяць тому

      You're absolutely right! Instead of letting comparisons bring out negative feelings like envy or insecurity, we should use others as inspiration. Being motivated by others' success can drive us to work harder and achieve our own goals. It’s all about shifting our mindset. Thank you for sharing this positive outlook! 😊💪✨

  • @Vinguyen-h2x
    @Vinguyen-h2x 22 дні тому

    It is important concentrate on your own progress because when you comparing yourself to others : we will feel stressful and sad

  • @F__a467y
    @F__a467y Місяць тому

    thank you so much for this broadcasts

  • @srab.uuiiss.
    @srab.uuiiss. Місяць тому

    Because you are building your future right now so you have to focus on your own life and do the hardest you can to get your dream life, no one going to help you only you can!

  • @katievu93
    @katievu93 Місяць тому

    This video really helps me alot . Thanks for posting this ❤

  • @sofiamoura7364
    @sofiamoura7364 Місяць тому +1

    Lovely! I would like to ask...Can you give us tips, preparation and advices for a job interview? Thank you!

  • @thuytien2674
    @thuytien2674 Місяць тому

    This is definitely a healing podcast to me. Thanks so much.

  • @orinrindiantika2908
    @orinrindiantika2908 27 днів тому

    1) Actually if we see our success friends, it's good. After we see their celebrations, we can ask ourselves, "Why am I stagnan, Why am I just quiet?". So, we can be motivated to grow our path. We can ask ourselves, what we wants and needs in the future, then we look for success people who have same goals with ours. If we just see people who have same goals with us, we can get support system. So, we can avoid feeling of insecure with people who have different goals with us. Then we focus on and keep our motivations and deciplines.
    2) I am usually mute friends' instatory who have different goals with me. So, I just see succes people who have same goald with me. Eg. I mute people who post luxury transportations, romantic realationship, and flexing house. Because I don't have plans to have things like theirs for this time. For now, I just see focus on people who post about the education.
    3) Being good in marketing. With marketing skills, we can fulfill needs and wants people. So, we can utulize the money to fulfill our needs.
    I am so sorry if my english is bad :'D

  • @W4X-WD
    @W4X-WD Місяць тому +1

    It's okay to look at others' progress, but your goal should be to try and be in the race with them and it's not same so instead of being upset that they are better than you, you will be motivated to be good or better than
    Content creator shows you only their best moments so you can watch and have fun, but at the same time, you are comparing your life to them without knowing, so always be aware that they want you to see only good things everyone have his own challenges in life 😊 ❤

    • @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast
      @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast  Місяць тому +1

      You’ve captured an important point! It’s natural to see others' progress, but instead of feeling upset, we can use it as motivation to improve ourselves. Everyone’s journey is different, and comparing should inspire growth, not negativity. Content creators often share only their best moments, and it’s easy to forget that everyone faces challenges. Staying aware of this helps us focus on our own path and progress. Great thoughts! 😊❤️

  • @damargalih4374
    @damargalih4374 14 днів тому

    Because if you look at someone else's success, you are not going anywhere, you see and see, not doing anything. It's different if you focus on your own goal or progress. You will be increasing your skills and developing your knowledge even with a small step or progress

  • @trangphanthu662
    @trangphanthu662 Місяць тому

    In terms of the second question, social apps are such a double-edge sword. If you can feel or obtain positive energy from social media like you can learn something that effective from YT, just go ahead. In the other side, when you feel that you're exhausted comparing yourself with 8 billion people on the world, you can just follow the person or channel that you feel comfortable or satisfied to listen to. Furthermore, if you see the 2 method above are tedious, just turn off your device, go to your kitchen and make delicious lemonade to enjoy the life.

  • @PaulaThomas-h2j
    @PaulaThomas-h2j Місяць тому

    You really helped me understand the topic better!

  • @FrancelaJarquín-s6m
    @FrancelaJarquín-s6m Місяць тому

    Thank you, for your vídeos,are amazing in this moment. I'm learning English, every day I watch your videos, I have learned a lot of words and pronunciation, I'm beginner but in the future I would like to learn english fluently, Thank you again❤

    • @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast
      @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words! ❤ It's wonderful to hear that the videos are helping you learn English and improve your vocabulary and pronunciation. Keep up the great work-you’re on the right track! With your dedication, you'll definitely achieve fluency in the future. Keep going, and thanks for watching! 😊🌟

  • @Lavendarso
    @Lavendarso 15 днів тому

    Question 2 for my answer is people don't show their weakness, problems and hardworks on social media ,they show their success, happiness and achievements.So, you know you don't have to compare yourself knowing people don't show real side of them .

  • @FerdaousseBoudakh
    @FerdaousseBoudakh Місяць тому +1

    Thanks

  • @yusufly2480
    @yusufly2480 Місяць тому +1

    Very important topic love it ❤❤

  • @sahrulcalmi1885
    @sahrulcalmi1885 26 днів тому

    Thanks for the video😊

  • @Rayan-p5w
    @Rayan-p5w Місяць тому

    Amazing work 👏🏻thank you

  • @なつめぐ-n1w
    @なつめぐ-n1w Місяць тому +1

    nice topic!
    thanks!

  • @shakarshakar-m6v
    @shakarshakar-m6v Місяць тому

    Well social media is a good stuff if we want to improve our selves for example we can use it for learning or sharing good stuffs and the hard time that we been through the hole time and giving good advice a bout our journey

    • @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast
      @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast  Місяць тому

      Absolutely! Social media can be a powerful tool for learning, sharing experiences, and offering advice. It’s all about how we use it to grow and inspire others through our journeys. Thanks for sharing your perspective! 😊🌟

  • @mixshortt
    @mixshortt 14 днів тому

    Thanks ❤❤❤❤

  • @trangphanthu662
    @trangphanthu662 Місяць тому

    In the first question, the answer is included in the question. Because that's not our achievement. Concentrating on improving ourself can help us make more friends, widen our knowledge all around the world, give us relaxing time, which focusing on the other success can't do.

  • @hoanghuy3510
    @hoanghuy3510 Місяць тому

    when you pay attention on someone else's progress you can feel i'm not good enough. you feel more stressed and anxious, you will forget what are you doing and you feel bad

  • @IFATUNH
    @IFATUNH Місяць тому

    Q1. Because this is your life and no one care your life except your family.
    Q2. No use social media.

  • @alenabelay8471
    @alenabelay8471 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you for your videos, you are the best.
    I want to ask and offer to you. Can you create separate playlists for each level ?. I mean, separately playlist for Beginners, separately playlist for Intermediate. It will be more convenient for using.
    Thanks.

  • @PhươngHoaLê-y6r
    @PhươngHoaLê-y6r Місяць тому +1

    Your video is so helpfulllllll

  • @nwelay6244
    @nwelay6244 Місяць тому +3

    Social media waste our time right?

    • @liveoforange
      @liveoforange 5 днів тому

      I don’t think so. Social media is not too bad or too good. It depends on how we use it and sets a limit time for it. For some people they have to use social media for working like KOLs, actor ,….. so in this case it’s not waste their time but if you don’t have to use it so often you can ignore it

  • @ayanali9514
    @ayanali9514 Місяць тому

    Thanks ❤good podcast

  • @miki-hx8br
    @miki-hx8br Місяць тому

    my sister said she can see my progress in life. not only me, but also other siblings other people she can see and notice. and i cant see that. i cant see my progress, im getting better. she said the person me now is better than when im in high school

    • @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast
      @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast  Місяць тому

      It's so amazing that your sister can see your progress and growth, even if it's hard for you to notice it yourself. Sometimes, we’re too close to our own journey to recognize how far we've come. Trust her words, and know that you're improving, even if it doesn’t always feel obvious. You’re doing great, and it’s wonderful to hear that you’ve grown so much since high school. Keep going-you’re on the right path! 😊💪

  • @juanitoeldronero
    @juanitoeldronero Місяць тому

    Amo estos Podcast :)

  • @عبدالرحمنيسرى-ث8ض
    @عبدالرحمنيسرى-ث8ض Місяць тому

    I love it the channel.
    I wanna speak like you however i trying

  • @براءةعلي-ه9ه
    @براءةعلي-ه9ه 8 днів тому

  • @chaimatakkouk7798
    @chaimatakkouk7798 Місяць тому

    ❤❤

  • @harunsaglam8050
    @harunsaglam8050 Місяць тому

    Compare sometimes can be bad and good but if you really think of it no people around the world are not born with same and the circumstances they live through are all different. So you can see someone is not succesful as you but you can see someone who is much succesful than you. This is not bond to just one thing. I mean maybe if i born in Egypt i would be better than my current life. Maybe i would with disability or i would be president, a super mind. No one knows what to happen if i were them. We just have one life and i think we should do as best as we can because we won't live this life again and ruin this life with anxiety or overthinking is not worth. We can't know what would happen so just don't think.

    • @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast
      @LEP-LearnEnglishPodcast  Місяць тому +1

      You’ve shared a very insightful perspective! It's true that everyone’s life circumstances are different, and comparing ourselves to others can be both positive and negative. We never truly know what someone else has been through or how different things could have been for us. Focusing on doing the best we can with the life we have is so important, and you’re right-overthinking and worrying about what might have been isn’t worth it. We only have one life, so let’s make the most of it. 😊🌟

  • @saramedjkoune
    @saramedjkoune 5 днів тому

    Don’t compare someone else’s harvest season to your planting season …

  • @nawminmin3302
    @nawminmin3302 Місяць тому

    Could you set the pdf file. It’s really helpful.

  • @OumaymaRayachi
    @OumaymaRayachi 18 днів тому

    Question 1 :
    We should focus on our own success instead of others' success because simply you have a life and you should live .if you focus on other's success you are not able anymore to enjoy you live because you already have spent you energie in others' lives and success

  • @nwelay6244
    @nwelay6244 Місяць тому

    I am fear a lot public speaking

  • @PhuongTran14.08
    @PhuongTran14.08 Місяць тому

    Voices in videos are so like automatic AI voices😄 Plz confirm that is all human voices

  • @renondiy7602
    @renondiy7602 Місяць тому

    Is this us accent or uk pleas can i want know ?

  • @MustafaAbushakiema
    @MustafaAbushakiema День тому

    STOP COMPARING YOURSELF WITHE OTHER PEPOLE 😉❤

  • @MarziyaQoyilova
    @MarziyaQoyilova Місяць тому

    Please without subtitles

  • @stevegufdavidson5981
    @stevegufdavidson5981 Місяць тому

    7615 Krajcik Gateway

  • @KhantKhantHlaing
    @KhantKhantHlaing Місяць тому

    Thanks

  • @MustafaAbushakiema
    @MustafaAbushakiema 8 днів тому

    ❤❤❤