Why Are Men Suddenly Attracted To Bigger Women?

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  • Chris and Macken Murphy discuss why men are now more attracted to bigger women. What does a recession have to do with men's preferences for women according to Macken Murphy? Do men still prefer thinner women to bigger women according to Macken Murphy?
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  • @ChrisWillx
    @ChrisWillx  24 дні тому +12

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    • @gortys3929
      @gortys3929 24 дні тому

      Macken Murphy’s take on fat women is way too analytical…

    • @tedcrilly46
      @tedcrilly46 24 дні тому

      @@gortys3929 take it with a pinch of salt.
      (and a cheeseburger)

    • @acmhfmggru
      @acmhfmggru 24 дні тому +2

      @@gortys3929 he's just desperate to justify his fetish. no I'm not wrong, it is everyone else who is just lying but secretly agree with me! that's gotta be it!

    • @jonesy7425
      @jonesy7425 23 дні тому

      Counter Question: Is this the same for women in terms of preference towards men? 🤔

  • @KairiDivine
    @KairiDivine 24 дні тому +738

    The majority of men are not.

    • @Cool2023FtwNoice
      @Cool2023FtwNoice 24 дні тому +6

      INdeed ⚙️👍👍

    • @rafresendenrafresenden.1644
      @rafresendenrafresenden.1644 24 дні тому +8

      Not really true, just look at marrieds couples

    • @LastMinuteGuess
      @LastMinuteGuess 24 дні тому +37

      @@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 that's just called getting comfortable. Most happy marriages end up with both people gaining some weight, hence "dad bod". Doesn't mean that is how the men were starting out.

    • @tedcrilly46
      @tedcrilly46 24 дні тому +6

      Ive been moving cargo crates in my pickup, and need a counterbalance up front.
      I love you Bertha.

    • @fadedglory1045
      @fadedglory1045 24 дні тому +10

      @@LastMinuteGuess that's right. And many have left because a person lets themselves go and become fat.

  • @WarDamnATL
    @WarDamnATL 24 дні тому +97

    He did a poor job defining heavy. Men have always been attracted to women with curves in the right places. Curvy and obese are obviously completely different.

    • @susanlindarice
      @susanlindarice 23 дні тому +4

      surely you want a woman with childbearing hips ? there is a difference between strong muscly bulk and unhealthy fat and does anyone want to caress a 'bag of bones'? applies to men too?

    • @adamcraig1468
      @adamcraig1468 23 дні тому +6

      ​@@susanlindaricehips are based on bone structure. The curves you want are the wide hips not fat. So I want wide hips with healthy body fat

  • @citizenpunx
    @citizenpunx 24 дні тому +554

    We’re not.
    They want us to be lol.
    There is no way I’m spending 2+ hours a day in the gym just to date a Big Mac in a bikini.

    • @rafresendenrafresenden.1644
      @rafresendenrafresenden.1644 24 дні тому +23

      A lot of gymbruhs date big girls

    • @TheGoodMMADog
      @TheGoodMMADog 24 дні тому +21

      If you’re basing who you date on how long you spend in the gym, you probably aren’t getting women in the first place.

    • @rafiazmi
      @rafiazmi 24 дні тому +25

      Big mac in a bikini is wild ngl 😂

    • @lmr1049
      @lmr1049 24 дні тому +12

      gymcels out in full force today

    • @tedcrilly46
      @tedcrilly46 24 дні тому +4

      We are, according to studies, if youd listen.
      Our preferences change up and down, depending on production/economy.

  • @Thisguy152
    @Thisguy152 24 дні тому +649

    To answer your question, no.

  • @hanef8852
    @hanef8852 24 дні тому +387

    I honestly don't know a single man who is "suddenly" attracted to bigger women

    • @theninjaofmusic
      @theninjaofmusic 24 дні тому +29

      It wasn't suddenly for me. But i've always been attracted to them. I think part of this may just be that the men who are attracted to bigger woman are far more comfortable talking about it now than even 10 years ago.

    • @carninuz1
      @carninuz1 24 дні тому +21

      ​@@theninjaofmusicI have to agree here; I've been into bigger women since puberty, but only now in my 30's do I feel comfortable expressing the preference.

    • @anthonypillarella
      @anthonypillarella 24 дні тому +9

      ​@@theninjaofmusic This lines up with my experience.
      My "type" is well within the healthy range, but was considered "big" when I was in high school and the standard was ridiculously thin. People legitimately gave me a hard time for it.
      Now it's somewhat popular.
      If I was into actually big women, I'd have kept that SILENT.

    • @christianc8453
      @christianc8453 24 дні тому +9

      I’m a chubby chaser. Just a preference but I didn’t wake up one day, it’s been there as long I remember.

    • @davagevorriose8046
      @davagevorriose8046 24 дні тому +5

      @@carninuz1 That's very interesting, I would think most men would feel less comfortable expressing preferences now because we're so often shamed for "fetishizing" now. I wonder how common it is to feel more comfortable.

  • @RollOutRory
    @RollOutRory 24 дні тому +345

    We're not

    • @tedcrilly46
      @tedcrilly46 24 дні тому +3

      We are. If you read the title in the context of whats said. Its technically correct.
      Although its a bit misleading. Thats to generate clicks.

    • @davagevorriose8046
      @davagevorriose8046 24 дні тому +2

      @@tedcrilly46 Ask heavy set women how much attention they get compared to their peers.

    • @tedcrilly46
      @tedcrilly46 23 дні тому

      @@davagevorriose8046 thats not the contention.
      If youd watch the video you might understand.

    • @davagevorriose8046
      @davagevorriose8046 23 дні тому

      @@tedcrilly46 Logic it out.

    • @blackittyluv
      @blackittyluv 23 дні тому

      If you look up women’s bodies in art before the industrialization era none of them are obese or overweight. They’re all thin. This is fake science

  • @itumelengdichabe8051
    @itumelengdichabe8051 24 дні тому +210

    Im not

  • @Black_Void_
    @Black_Void_ 24 дні тому +143

    There's "bigger" as in nice and curvy and then there's just plain fat, The latter clearly says a person has no impulse control which is bad for a multitude of things nevermind just looking bad.

    • @EbonyPope
      @EbonyPope 24 дні тому +23

      Yeah but too many seem to misunderstand his argument. He is clearly talking about curvier girls not really fat ones.

    • @mothegoat6865
      @mothegoat6865 24 дні тому +4

      @@EbonyPopeno he’s not

    • @rafresendenrafresenden.1644
      @rafresendenrafresenden.1644 24 дні тому +3

      @@mothegoat6865 kid get out the internet

    • @mothegoat6865
      @mothegoat6865 24 дні тому +1

      @@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 what? 😂

    • @DefaultFlame
      @DefaultFlame 23 дні тому +1

      Exactly. And everyone's standard for where the limit between curvy and fat varies by culture and individual. Almost no one from any culture thinks a sphere is sexy. (No, women, Lizzo is not sexy.)
      Personally, my range of attraction seems to be wider than the average person (not intended as a pun) but there are limits in both directions.
      Though, my tolerance for "a little too much" is greater than my toleration for "a little too little." A little too fat puts me off more on an intellectual level, while a little too thin puts me off on a visceral level. WAY too fat also puts me off on a visceral level.

  • @fadedglory1045
    @fadedglory1045 24 дні тому +168

    Nonsense. Absolute nonsense. Just saying.

  • @stanleykachuik2589
    @stanleykachuik2589 24 дні тому +188

    The bigger they are, the more invisible they become 😅
    It's a woman's superpower 💪🏻

  • @offthetrail5675
    @offthetrail5675 24 дні тому +67

    When 60%+ (and growing) of woman are fat, the choices are diminishing. Does not mean it's a new preference.

    • @theoutsider6191
      @theoutsider6191 23 дні тому +5

      Ah, now we know why 30% of men don't want a relationship.....

    • @rishnix
      @rishnix 23 дні тому +4

      @@theoutsider6191 Not going to say it's the only reason, but it is a big one. Pun intended.

    • @kh9242
      @kh9242 22 дні тому +1

      You can only buy what's in stock or preorder

    • @theoutsider6191
      @theoutsider6191 22 дні тому

      @@kh9242 Must be why purchasing is gonig off a cliff 🙂

  • @RobG811
    @RobG811 24 дні тому +231

    Just because there is a grocery store down the street doesn't justify being fat, there is probably a gym down the street too.

    • @elinope4745
      @elinope4745 24 дні тому +3

      A grocery store down the street gives you the luxury of being able to quick and easily pick up fresh food and vegetables. You don't need the prepackaged for longevity processed garbage that causes obesity.
      Having a grocery store down the street is a reason you are thin, not fat. If they were fat, it would be that they are fat in spite of the fact that fresh and healthy food is nearly always available.

    • @adeleg4759
      @adeleg4759 24 дні тому

      Food deserts...

    • @RobG811
      @RobG811 24 дні тому +2

      @@elinope4745 I wouldn't say the grocery store down the street is the "reason" your thin. Whether your eating healthy foods or unhealthy foods, it all comes down to calories. You can eat junk food and still be thin if your in a caloric deficit.

    • @alphonsemarolle5785
      @alphonsemarolle5785 24 дні тому

      @@RobG811 It's a reason you're thin in the sense that you don't need to bulk up fat in order to survive scarcity periods

    • @DimitriTheBarbarian
      @DimitriTheBarbarian 23 дні тому

      There is a street. Just need a pair of good running shoes. No membership required

  • @Kharnan
    @Kharnan 24 дні тому +211

    Absolutely not. Fat is gross. :(

    • @art2736
      @art2736 23 дні тому +1

      There's a difference between fat and thick. They aren't talking about fat women.

    • @acmhfmggru
      @acmhfmggru 23 дні тому

      @@art2736 they are absolutely talking about fat women

    • @art2736
      @art2736 23 дні тому +1

      @@acmhfmggru yeah dnt know why I said that I think they are saying that thick women are fat. On that I disgree.

  • @TacoSupreme82
    @TacoSupreme82 24 дні тому +208

    we're still not.

    • @The-Oneness11
      @The-Oneness11 24 дні тому +5

      Really think about it. What looks sexier? A super skinny girl with no titties or booty, or a more curvaceous woman who isn't fat but has fat on her. Even me being a woman who is straight understands that the more curvaceous woman is sexier to look at. The skinnier shape is more child-like while the curvy shape is womanly.

    • @TacoSupreme82
      @TacoSupreme82 24 дні тому +9

      @@The-Oneness11 once again, your preference, not mine.

    • @McFedro
      @McFedro 24 дні тому

      ​ @TacoSupreme82
      Talking about preferences, TacoSupreme82 is talking for TacoSupreme82 only!
      The sentence above was rewritten at request of TacoSupreme82. The original sentence stated: "Talking about preferences, please talk only for yourself).

    • @McFedro
      @McFedro 24 дні тому

      ​@@The-Oneness11TRUE!!!!!!!

    • @TacoSupreme82
      @TacoSupreme82 24 дні тому +1

      @@McFedro as a trans man, my pronouns are we/us.

  • @pauldavis7146
    @pauldavis7146 24 дні тому +59

    If I were taking shots every time this dude says "Right?" I'd be fucking hammered by the 2 minute mark.

  • @KairiDivine
    @KairiDivine 24 дні тому +78

    I disagree with the statements implying this is a growing trend among first-world countries with a preference towards bigger women. I think there is a lot of reaching here. Maybe people are just more unhealthy and settle with what they can get, more so than this being what men prefer.

    • @rafresendenrafresenden.1644
      @rafresendenrafresenden.1644 24 дні тому +3

      I see it more times than not

    • @rodm1525
      @rodm1525 24 дні тому +2

      People were healthier the last century and men preferred heavier women at least pre 70’s

    • @tenj00
      @tenj00 24 дні тому +6

      True. Laziness is growing and people are getting fat.

    • @kollow
      @kollow 24 дні тому +7

      Men who married a woman with a normal BMI who now have overweight to obese wives is pretty common. I don't know of any man who has divorced his wife for her weight. It happens, but I think he is more likely to stay married since he would be blasted as a complete a**hole if he did divorce her.

    • @LastMinuteGuess
      @LastMinuteGuess 24 дні тому +3

      @@kollow Yeah men don't have a preference for fat women. They marry women with a normal BMI and then the women get obese over time. The men do too, hence "dad bod" so it is normal in a marriage for both people to get comfortable.

  • @lordpraisestone8314
    @lordpraisestone8314 24 дні тому +71

    I feel like many people in the comments mistake "bigger women" with literally obese women. I don't think that's the extent of "bigger" he's talking about at all, rather he is talking about women that don't have those instagram model kinds of bodyfat percentages but those in the higher end of normal weight or maybe the very low end of overweight (measured by bmi). Women with those kinds of bodies can still be very healthy and fit and in my opinion also look very good.

    • @rafresendenrafresenden.1644
      @rafresendenrafresenden.1644 24 дні тому +11

      Dude is just incels getting angry at Chris because he doesn't perpetuate their echo chamber.

    • @davagevorriose8046
      @davagevorriose8046 24 дні тому +9

      Not so sure I agree. He brought up the Jordan Peterson example, and iirc that model was pretty heavy. Medically, "obese" is a line a LOT of Americans (and westerners in general) cross without realizing it, it's not as heavy as I think most people would think.
      You still make a good point though, the guest isn't giving "bigger" a precise, objective definition; it leave a lot up to our interpretation. Maybe not the best science.

    • @Jjroberson114
      @Jjroberson114 23 дні тому +1

      Actually I think he’s the one trying to conflate the two.

    • @art2736
      @art2736 23 дні тому +5

      Thick not fat.

    • @jordanedwards9681
      @jordanedwards9681 16 днів тому

      @@davagevorriose8046 that model was pretty hot ngl

  • @DELTA-ib2iu
    @DELTA-ib2iu 24 дні тому +164

    General rule of thumb: if a feminist tries to make it a reality it's probably not true, on a fundamental level.

    • @JoyfulSeal-sh9cw
      @JoyfulSeal-sh9cw 24 дні тому +5

      I'm truly baffled at how many times a guy cosplaying as a highly logical creature hurls out a knee-jerk emotional response to something factual because it offends them 💀

    • @davagevorriose8046
      @davagevorriose8046 24 дні тому +5

      @@JoyfulSeal-sh9cw Wow, imagine if "a guy" said the same thing about "a woman." The hypocrisy is real.

    • @chanchchanchellor1545
      @chanchchanchellor1545 24 дні тому

      Ermmm general rule of thumb wtf are u talking about none of this matter love who you want to love

    • @davagevorriose8046
      @davagevorriose8046 23 дні тому +2

      @@chanchchanchellor1545 It matters. I wouldn't expect a self respecting woman to want to live with a misogynist, and I can't blame a man for not wanting to devote his life to a misandrist. You might fall in love with them, but I can't imagine the arrogant abuse that followed would be tolerable for long.

    • @PossibleBat
      @PossibleBat 20 днів тому

      When you stop referring to people in generalizing terms such as "feminist", you’ll have something of value to say.

  • @TheGreyFox0
    @TheGreyFox0 24 дні тому +152

    Says who ? The answer is no

  • @ALTheFreeMan
    @ALTheFreeMan 24 дні тому +21

    A few drunk guys knocked down some chubbies during a dry spell and now everyone is losing their minds, lol!

  • @danielfallon3988
    @danielfallon3988 24 дні тому +11

    For me I've always found curvy women more attractive. My wife and I are polar opposites. I'm tall and slim, train every day, low body fat. She's short, heavier than me, doesn't train. Its personal preference for me, she's been like this as long as I've known her. I love the curves, what does it matter? Each to their own. I find skinny women unattractive. So what?

    • @lokeshsankarramesh423
      @lokeshsankarramesh423 21 день тому

      There's a difference between curvy and flat out overweight/obese.

  • @GWills-ys6rd
    @GWills-ys6rd 24 дні тому +75

    Umm, I don't think so. Health is important, especially at the age of 40+.

    • @Rayzur99
      @Rayzur99 24 дні тому +2

      Lol. Watch the video before commenting

    • @Pilkie101
      @Pilkie101 24 дні тому +3

      Not buying any of this lol

    • @acmhfmggru
      @acmhfmggru 24 дні тому +2

      ​@@Rayzur99i watched the video and he's full of it. just wild speculation and projection from bargain barrel Steve Jobs.

    • @rafresendenrafresenden.1644
      @rafresendenrafresenden.1644 24 дні тому

      @@acmhfmggru you cant prove him wrong

    • @davagevorriose8046
      @davagevorriose8046 24 дні тому +2

      @@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 He doesn't objectively define anything; you can't "prove him wrong" if his conclusion is subjective view of weight.

  • @LaytonObserves
    @LaytonObserves 24 дні тому +95

    Funniest thing about this is that it explains the stereotype of black men being attracted to thicc women

    • @EbonyPope
      @EbonyPope 24 дні тому +4

      Yup. Also he means thicker not fat. Of course men prefer more curves than less curves on average. You nee a certain percentage to have big boobs.

    • @acmhfmggru
      @acmhfmggru 24 дні тому +7

      ​@@EbonyPopehe's explicitly talking about fat people, not slightly overweight.

    • @EbonyPope
      @EbonyPope 24 дні тому +4

      @@acmhfmggru No just in the case of the Zulu. In general he was talking about the slight changes in preference during bad economical times. People don't just start dating super fat chicks all of the sudden. But there is definitely a less pronounced effect and they go for thicker women. That isn't something controversial for anyone who knows about evolutionary psychology. That is old news.

    • @acmhfmggru
      @acmhfmggru 24 дні тому

      @@EbonyPope you didn't watch the interview?

    • @nupc717
      @nupc717 23 дні тому +3

      @@EbonyPope the curves thing is also new
      if you study mags from the 90s etc the women were SKINNY

  • @theninjaofmusic
    @theninjaofmusic 24 дні тому +18

    As a guy who is attracted to bigger women. It's a huge advantage, because i had access to about 30% of the dating market that most men don't.

  • @mimocriminel8592
    @mimocriminel8592 24 дні тому +123

    Fuck no

  • @the_timinator77
    @the_timinator77 24 дні тому +32

    A big reason (no pun intended) that guys prefer skinnier girls is because it means they're healthier, so no serious health issues in the near future, they can do things as a couple like hiking or tennis or whatnot, live longer together, and she can get pregnant without issues, too.

    • @rodm1525
      @rodm1525 24 дні тому +10

      Skinny has never meant healthy only to ignorant

    • @Black_Void_
      @Black_Void_ 24 дні тому +21

      @@rodm1525 He said skinnier, Not skinny... reading comprehension matters. There are no benefits to having mounds of fatty tissue hanging off your body. It introduces health issues and also limits your lifestyle quality and definitely limits the things you can do with a potential partner. I know, I've been there.

    • @lordpraisestone8314
      @lordpraisestone8314 24 дні тому +5

      @@Black_Void_ Yeah, and the video title also only says bigger, not big. Nowhere did anyone talk about women with "mounds of fatty tissue" being suddenly more attractive.

    • @michalamoodie8632
      @michalamoodie8632 24 дні тому

      ​@@rodm1525exactly back in the olden days it meant they had diseases.

    • @alphonsemarolle5785
      @alphonsemarolle5785 24 дні тому

      Because you live in the modern society he's describing. In a society with less and unpredictable food abundance, being fatter is the sign that she can get pregnant without issues and will have no health issues in the near future

  • @battlepug3122
    @battlepug3122 24 дні тому +173

    This Macken guy is cringe af.

    • @kollow
      @kollow 24 дні тому +20

      I have no idea who he is. But a dagger arm tat proves total badassery in my totally sarcastic opinion.

    • @aronapple7760
      @aronapple7760 24 дні тому +4

      He literally said in this podcast men don’t want women to have money. Wtf

    • @alexmartin628
      @alexmartin628 24 дні тому +3

      @@kollow I remember he said women are attracted to tattoos because they're akin to having battle scars lel.

    • @rafresendenrafresenden.1644
      @rafresendenrafresenden.1644 24 дні тому +1

      Why He is not wrong in anything he said

    • @adamcraig1468
      @adamcraig1468 23 дні тому

      ​@@aronapple7760men aren't interested in women's money though

  • @seanmurphy7011
    @seanmurphy7011 24 дні тому +44

    We are?

  • @freeottis
    @freeottis 24 дні тому +16

    Juggernaut law - the theory that the very most unattractive women receive a surprisingly large amount of attention from men, sometimes more attention than women of average attractiveness.
    There is a large contingent of incels whose approaches have largely consisted of juggernauting, as they feel they have no chance with women they find attractive.

  • @Icarianbrother
    @Icarianbrother 23 дні тому +6

    Southland: Dewey- "Fat chicks are awesome, they're just like mopeds. They're fun to ride until you're caught on one".

  • @Mr.Boring_Man
    @Mr.Boring_Man 24 дні тому +39

    Dude is projecting 3rd world desperation onto western countries. 😂😂😂
    He never defines "heavier".

  • @murphymacken
    @murphymacken 24 дні тому +27

    Please watch for 30 seconds before commenting 😂 first words I say are that in Western countries (and wealthy nations generally) men prefer lighter women.

    • @lt9690
      @lt9690 24 дні тому +3

      Yeah, hopefully your message isnt lost on people just because of the title on this clip...

    • @alphonsemarolle5785
      @alphonsemarolle5785 24 дні тому

      It seems people don't have the ability to understand that what they've always known might not be what has always been before them

    • @amaliria
      @amaliria 21 день тому +1

      I think the title of the video is very misleading and doesn't fit to what you say.

    • @TheDallasDwayne
      @TheDallasDwayne 18 днів тому

      Your comment should be pinned, sir. Thank you for an informative interview.

    • @shanesimons5801
      @shanesimons5801 17 днів тому +1

      You are wrong on your theory. Healthy glow and beautiful natural colourful skin that makeup mimics is achieved through exercising and healthy diet. Universally that woman who looks like that is beautiful. Excess calories is not beautiful. Toned and lithe generates the beautiful skin that signals she is healthy enough to reproduce.
      The curves are beautiful only when there is low fat.
      Men know woman’s feelings are important however and so are willing to have a range of fat which is acceptable. But lower BMI without being unhealthy is better.

  • @maxaalde
    @maxaalde 24 дні тому +5

    I feel that modern day body positivity has made it impossible to discuss body types without any visual reference. I like somewhat curvy girls, but these days that's how obese women would describe themselves

    • @LorraineBusch
      @LorraineBusch 24 дні тому +2

      I think the body positivity movement started as a good thing but now it's not doing good. It's legit glamorizing obesity... which is sad. Obesity kills...

  • @MajikalCowpoke
    @MajikalCowpoke 24 дні тому +12

    The WHALE ON HIS ARM got me 💀💀💀

  • @GJones247
    @GJones247 24 дні тому +7

    As a former BGC (Big Girl Connoisseur), I can confirm it is a survival mechanism. Especially in college.

  • @bantyrFish
    @bantyrFish 24 дні тому +8

    “women engage in tons of caloric acquisition” made me giggle like I never have before

  • @konsolennerd
    @konsolennerd 24 дні тому +8

    That’s a hard no.
    Women didn’t accept or want me when I was just a little obese. I remedied that through diet and exercise. So why exactly should I accept an obese partner myself? What he is talking about Seems more like wishful thinking.

    • @m.czandogg9576
      @m.czandogg9576 24 дні тому +8

      TBF, women hold fat much differently than men. For men it usually goes to their stomach first.
      With women it could mosty go to thighs, butt or boobs first and that's way more attractive IMO

    • @konsolennerd
      @konsolennerd 24 дні тому +2

      @@m.czandogg9576 the crazy thing is, I had previously never cared about shallow things like looks until quite a few of them started rejecting me in vile ways and vicious language I won’t repeat here. Losing weight taught me so many lessons. Now I’m rejecting those same types of women and apparently I’m the bad guy for putting standards on them. Accountability really does seem to be a lot of women’s kryptonite😂

    • @m.czandogg9576
      @m.czandogg9576 24 дні тому +3

      @@konsolennerd Genuine kudos to your improving yourself. I'm not sure what you or the women you rejected looked like but looks matter to a certain extent.

    • @mpatrick8673
      @mpatrick8673 24 дні тому

      @@konsolennerd do you mean the slim women were vicious before your weight loss?

    • @konsolennerd
      @konsolennerd 23 дні тому

      @@mpatrick8673 yeah and even those with a clearly raised BMI had some pretty rude verbal putdowns

  • @GrubWarp
    @GrubWarp 24 дні тому +10

    I already know that title is clickbait

  • @jonathancortez3003
    @jonathancortez3003 24 дні тому +8

    Define bigger, because as a latino I admire fit women and Curvy woman. I wouldn't consider the curvy woman to be obese but I do know that they obviously have more fat on them as compared to the other more fit women. And amongst latinos and black Americans we can see them same leaning towards Curvy women. But i will admit that fat/obese are off-putting to me.

  • @maxwillson
    @maxwillson 24 дні тому +5

    The people in the comment section didn't listen to the guy. He's saying that poor societies like fatter women and wealthier societies like skinner women. This totally makes sense because Western societies hit their peak in the 2000s and now we're spiraling into poverty. His logic makes total sense.

    • @maxwillson
      @maxwillson 24 дні тому

      @@BPrim-ce5zw Probably because it means more food for yourself as well LOL

  • @BIGARMADA1988
    @BIGARMADA1988 24 дні тому +16

    I don't think men are. Men will always be more attracted to slimmer women in general the same way women are attracted to tall healthy somewhat muscular men. I think what's going on is because men aren't as shy about saying what they like versus women, the outliers of men that like bigger women became more vocal about it during that time where SI and other magazines were starting to put plus sized models on the cover of their magazines, so it made it seem like most men prefer bigger women to slimmer women which isn't the case.

    • @rafresendenrafresenden.1644
      @rafresendenrafresenden.1644 24 дні тому +1

      women are attracted to tall healthy somewhat muscular men??? I just see women liking pretty boys, kpop idols, etc

    • @BIGARMADA1988
      @BIGARMADA1988 24 дні тому +2

      ​@@rafresendenrafresenden.1644I forgot to put status, so you are sort of right about the k pop boy band types of guys women are into. I also didn't really specify age as well, younger women may be more attracted to the boy band type of guy verses older women who may be attracted to more rugged older looking types of guys. There's always exceptions like this but in general, most women like guys that are at least taller and bigger than them muscular wise, at least to an extent.

    • @Madonnalitta1
      @Madonnalitta1 24 дні тому

      Agreed. Aragon over Legolas any day.

    • @badart3204
      @badart3204 24 дні тому +1

      Completely ignoring the big boobs phenomenon and big butt phenomenon. Bigger typically doesn’t mean tub of lard it means curvier with the distribution mainly going to those spots. Nobody likes apple shape

    • @Thisisausername556
      @Thisisausername556 24 дні тому

      @@rafresendenrafresenden.1644The girls who like that are on birth control. On e they get off, they’re more likely to be attracted to more masculine features.
      There are several studies on birth control and its relation to attraction.

  • @gageorion7646
    @gageorion7646 24 дні тому +11

    Some men, like myself, most definitely like bigger chubbier women. You do you, no shame to whoever's likes whoever's, but many do. He is right about that

    • @Chiefmane1
      @Chiefmane1 24 дні тому +1

      He said men pick bigger women out of scarcity. That is true.

    • @gageorion7646
      @gageorion7646 24 дні тому +2

      @@Chiefmane1 not denying you there, you're right. My first girlfriend was a thin model like woman, I just prefer bigger girls, and there are people who always have and will

  • @adamwilson44889
    @adamwilson44889 24 дні тому +43

    This guy is saying the African Zulu tribe has a lot of obese women? I doubt this.

    • @Rayzur99
      @Rayzur99 24 дні тому +11

      That's the thing. They don't have many. But the ones that are obese see a lot more attention

    • @bugz138
      @bugz138 24 дні тому +8

      @@Rayzur99 prolly cause they are low hanging fruit lol

    • @KevinJDildonik
      @KevinJDildonik 24 дні тому +10

      Bro. Imagine living in a primitive society. You don't have refrigeration. If there is a bad season and the crops dry out, people you know may die from starvation. Meanwhile the village elder has a couple daughters with fat thighs. The smart man wants to know their secret.

    • @EbonyPope
      @EbonyPope 24 дні тому +2

      No but that wasn't the question. It was about what they think is sexy. And yes that a lot of Black men find thicker women more attractive is old news.

    • @carninuz1
      @carninuz1 24 дні тому +1

      That's a misunderstanding at best, and an intentional misrepresentation at worst

  • @theunikronus7204
    @theunikronus7204 24 дні тому +5

    When he is talking about higher BMIs having more sexual value, he isn't talking about women from my 600lb life guys. Those women are incredible outliers in every part of the world.
    What he is talking about, I think, can be seen just recently in our culture, i remember in the mid to late 2000s that a huge thing for women was the thigh gap, being so skinny that your thighs dont touch each other while you are walking or you could see their ribcages. Girls were starving themselves on purpose to try and be what was seen as the most sexually attractive. These days, you dont see that as much, if at all. Models these days are much thicker and more curvatious than they were 15 - 20 years ago, and the economy has only gotten worse since then.
    I am not saying it's an incredibly tight-knit theory, as it has only been researched for 20 years, and these kinds of theories take ages to lock down, but I can say that I have seen evidence to support it just in my own lifetime.

  • @minimatemasterworks
    @minimatemasterworks 24 дні тому +37

    I gotta hand it to Chris he does a good job of getting people with the absolute worst take on things.

    • @MadMax2069.
      @MadMax2069. 24 дні тому +2

      😂😂😂

    • @dlmsarge8329
      @dlmsarge8329 24 дні тому +1

      Has it gotten worse since he started wearing shorts during interviews and violating the guests personal space with the spacing of the chairs??

  • @jrobertlysaght
    @jrobertlysaght 24 дні тому +3

    The media is pushing that preference. Men haven't just changed preference. Strong women and beta males is the goal.

  • @michaelr5606
    @michaelr5606 24 дні тому +7

    Without defining “Bigger Women” the question is meaningless.
    Personally I don’t find skinny women attractive. Touching them is even worse. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with skinny girls and plenty of guys love that but it’s not my thing. That’s doesn’t mean I’m attracted to obesity though. My girl is far from obese but she has bigger thighs, butt, and hips than she’d prefer. I absolutely love it. I find that extra cushion very feminine and it just feels good.
    I’m not a big jacked body builder type dude but people give me compliments on my physique. I don’t know about bf% but nothing is soft and I have a 6 pack. A hard body pressing or bouncing against a hard body isn’t my thing. She loves how solid and masculine I feel and I love how soft and feminine she feels.
    There’s a lid for every pot I guess.

  • @CitizenoftheWorld1
    @CitizenoftheWorld1 17 днів тому +1

    The fact that at least 90% of male celebrities aren't dating or married to plus size women proves Murphy's theory. As a black man I know all too well about the stigma that we like bigger girls, but all the black entertainers I see are never around them.

  • @Slim-MMA
    @Slim-MMA 24 дні тому +8

    Desperation is the answer.

  • @clownhands
    @clownhands 24 дні тому +2

    Being gay and coming from a family that hates fat people, I was shocked when I made straight friends in my neighborhood and found out they were all low key into big girls

  • @Madonnalitta1
    @Madonnalitta1 24 дні тому +3

    I don't believe it for a second.
    This guy thinks boobs were made for guys, you may like them chaps, but they're mammary glands not sexual organs. Smh.

  • @florinmiu469
    @florinmiu469 24 дні тому +3

    I have lived in a communist country when food scarcity was a real problem (during communism and a few years aftewards). Almost no guy in my school/highschool was into fat girls. Also, I haven't changed my preferences after 5 days of full-fasting (only water). Just because you can concoct an evolutionary-based explanation doesn't make it correct.

  • @MrJackwork
    @MrJackwork 24 дні тому +16

    Speak for yourself.

  • @blueberrymcphuckerson9821
    @blueberrymcphuckerson9821 24 дні тому +6

    A lot of you guys didn't pay attention to the dude. His answer to the question is that it depends on your environment and what you're going through (even e.g. his miniscule example of before vs. after a meal): it's not a simple "Yes." or "No."
    JFC.

  • @CorfeCastle.
    @CorfeCastle. 24 дні тому +4

    He’s talking BS.

  • @Chiefmane1
    @Chiefmane1 24 дні тому +4

    I listened to the whole video, he said generally men pick bigger women out of scarcity. Men with options tend to go for women in shape. Thats 💯.

    • @The-Oneness11
      @The-Oneness11 24 дні тому

      A lot of women are aware that men with resources prefer skinnier. That's why we are always dieting and trying to lose weight.

    • @rafresendenrafresenden.1644
      @rafresendenrafresenden.1644 24 дні тому

      Do they?

  • @restingsmirkface
    @restingsmirkface 24 дні тому +2

    We are NOT attracted to large women.
    Some men might settle since so many women are large.
    (Did not watch, just responding to the title. Not worth my time)

  • @christinamckinney2370
    @christinamckinney2370 20 днів тому +1

    I think that it’s CONFIDENCE that’s attractive and the movement of women feeling BEAUTIFUL in their own bodies irrespective of what men think is what’s leading to men approaching bigger women these days. Cultures change. And so do preferences. Images of beauty have always been fluid. Long, thick hair, short, bobbed hair, large breasts, small breasts, etc, etc. Now, finally….women just don’t care anymore. We’re enjoying the body we were given. Period!

  • @TIOLIOfficial
    @TIOLIOfficial 24 дні тому +15

    I love that the comments under this are all just " We're not".

  • @teenafrench7236
    @teenafrench7236 24 дні тому +2

    Thanks for doing this. I'm on a health journey after a traumatic event and my BMI ballooned to over 52. With lots of support I hope to get down to a healthier BMI of 25-30. I needed to hear this even if it's just to encourage me. Really appreciate it🎉😊

  • @ericgee198
    @ericgee198 24 дні тому +3

    lol - no men with options are "into bigger women"

  • @The-Nightwatch
    @The-Nightwatch 24 дні тому +8

    Nah...

  • @dahliaherrod4301
    @dahliaherrod4301 23 дні тому +1

    This is where it's useful to have a woman involved in the conversation. Sometimes men can't see the forest for the trees. When speaking of thick or heavy women, one must consider shape first. If a woman has a relatively smaller waist with wider hips and thighs, she's still desired by men. That's why Zulu men still want their women. They tend to be hourglass and pear shaped, even as they gain weight.
    This is NOT true for rectangle and apple shaped women-the women built like SpongeBob SquarePants. Those women are not the preference, even amongst men who like heavier women. Just look at a catalogue or online shop and you'll see what shape is heavily favored even in plus-sized clothing.

  • @vailmcc
    @vailmcc 24 дні тому +3

    Nope! Since when is being overweight and out of shape sexy?

  • @tobbele1010
    @tobbele1010 24 дні тому +3

    those men are just desperate most of the time, no attraction there

  • @mustang607
    @mustang607 24 дні тому +23

    Gluttony, and other deadly sins, are making a comeback thanks to wokethink.

  • @kimellis8340
    @kimellis8340 24 дні тому +3

    Bigger as in well developed round large glutes, yes. Bigger as in it looks like someone poured pantyhose full of cottage cheese, hell no. Bigger as in still a mesomorph, yes. Bigger as in either pear or apple endomorph, he’ll no.

  • @SeniorAdrian
    @SeniorAdrian 24 дні тому +3

    I am. Death by Snu Snu.
    EDIT: Oh wait, he said body fat? Meaning fat? What is this guy on about? Lol.

  • @crimson6172
    @crimson6172 22 дні тому +1

    All the men I know that has ever said they are attracted to bigger women are just coping. How do I know? Every time after they level up, gets in better shape and/or obtain higher status, their "attraction" to bigger women is suddenly gone. What a mystery huh? 😂

  • @TinyRonSwanson
    @TinyRonSwanson 24 дні тому +1

    We’re not. Bigger women just approach us guys. The reason we won’t approach women is out of fear of being accused of something or of rejection. It depends on the dude, but most of the time these are contributing factors

  • @0num4
    @0num4 24 дні тому +2

    We should differentiate when we say "bigger." A woman with a bit of body fat who is otherwise in decent shape, that's sexy. A woman who looks like Gorlock the Destroyer...that's utterly disgusting (though I'm sure there are a few dudes out there who prefer women at that size). So I think the hypothesis generally holds up, but fails hard toward the extremes.
    A woman with a BMI of 38 is what I would consider morbidly obese--at least at or near average height levels (BMI skews heavily against taller folks). At that level, one's body is having to compensate for its extra weight, and on a long enough time line will begin to suffer chronic health issues.

  • @MeadeSkeltonMusic
    @MeadeSkeltonMusic 23 дні тому +2

    Anytime someone brings up "evolution" I tune out .

  • @Scarletpimpanel73
    @Scarletpimpanel73 24 дні тому +2

    The problem with evolutionary psychology is that we are trying to explain the present via a past we know even less about.

  • @Owl-of-Minerva
    @Owl-of-Minerva 24 дні тому +3

    "Fatty boom boom"
    Is a celebration of big women. It's a reggae song.
    Jamaica is a resource poor country.
    The hypothesis is spot on.

  • @reformed1trick739
    @reformed1trick739 22 дні тому +1

    In the context of an abundance of resources, it makes sense that skinny women are sexy. It signals the ability to remain healthy in that environment of abundance

  • @tiny8626
    @tiny8626 24 дні тому +2

    Yeah this Macken Murphy guy is really unlikeable.
    From his opinions to general demeanour, this was one of the few episodes I couldn't get through.
    Please don't have him again

  • @funkycowie
    @funkycowie 24 дні тому +2

    Nope, i prefer a fitter woman as do most.

  • @Paulus_Wachu
    @Paulus_Wachu 23 дні тому +1

    No. 99.9% are not. If you give the mic to the 0.01%, they'd make you believe that all men are attracted to bigger women.

  • @Slaughter327
    @Slaughter327 24 дні тому +7

    Define bigger, no one wants to date a stick but at the same time no one wants to date the base of the tree either.

    • @purplefyrus5370
      @purplefyrus5370 24 дні тому

      Bro ive been around entire communities where 300+ is the GOAL, you need to “Widen” your scope of what encompasses “everybody”.
      World is a big place 😂

  • @adamc436
    @adamc436 24 дні тому +1

    ‪From Americas, Rome, Saxony, Poland, to the Scandinavias, arabic, and Proto-Slavic countries, as well as Asia, this was NOT the case. I have thousands of historical resources depicting the opposite of what he’s suggesting.‬
    In addition, obese women have significantly higher risks during pregnancy. There are plenty of studies on this, and most prospective parents learn about this when they have their first kid.
    ‪Maybe in some African hunter-gatherer societies it’s corollary, but I’m not convinced it’s a general rule.

  • @kysersaucey
    @kysersaucey 24 дні тому +3

    The devil is a liar.

  • @john_snow9435
    @john_snow9435 18 днів тому +1

    Heavy because you are sexually developed and heavy because you are a sack of dough is not the same thing.

  • @Matches-M
    @Matches-M 21 день тому

    Am wrong in assuming that what I need in a time of scarcity vs what I value in a partner are different? Yes I may need food in times of scarcity but I shouldn’t over eat it when it isn’t scarce. Not sure if that makes sense or not.

  • @ABColden
    @ABColden 24 дні тому +1

    i must have missed this update..

  • @suzannortega6671
    @suzannortega6671 5 днів тому

    They’re not. Some “men” are just easily influenced & have are easily influenced & conditioned to do as they’re told.

  • @das5842
    @das5842 24 дні тому +1

    Short answer: We aren't.

  • @NoctecPaladin
    @NoctecPaladin 24 дні тому +5

    Just looked at the BMI chart and my preference in women's body types confirms that I have caveman brain

  • @Jordyphysique
    @Jordyphysique 24 дні тому +2

    Speak for yourself bud. Wild take

  • @frankexchangeofviews
    @frankexchangeofviews 24 дні тому +18

    "It's not my style to comment on specific women's bodies" three seconds after giving a judgement on the attractiveness of a woman's body. Smooth.

  • @i_youtube_
    @i_youtube_ 24 дні тому

    Where do I find that thing used on the walls for isolating sound echo? What is it called?

  • @theuruguayanpolyglot8706
    @theuruguayanpolyglot8706 24 дні тому

    interesting!

  • @cmm867
    @cmm867 24 дні тому +1

    I strongly disagree with this guy. You cannot group people’s mate preferences based purely on 1) where they are from, or 2)their class/status in society. People are all different and have different tastes. These blanket theories can be dangerous sometimes. Everyone is an “expert” these days

  • @Ticalafon
    @Ticalafon 24 дні тому +2

    The ratio of likes vs dislikes speak for itself

  • @Ryan-wx1bi
    @Ryan-wx1bi 24 дні тому +2

    Maybe some guys can see their altered, photoshopped pictures online and think they look good.. but i guarantee you, face to face, they will not be attracted to them

  • @PLF...
    @PLF... 24 дні тому +2

    They aren't mate

  • @BaseballCFG
    @BaseballCFG 20 днів тому

    Fit, feminine, petite women are what I find attractive.

  • @JustWantedToGrill
    @JustWantedToGrill 24 дні тому +8

    Uh, we're not.

  • @camilove318
    @camilove318 24 дні тому +9

    Guess i need to gain some weight.... 😂😂😂kidding

  • @armorbearer9702
    @armorbearer9702 15 днів тому

    I wish there was some pictures of the women in the video or a link leading to the pictures in the description.