Your husband is completely wrong and disgusting for marrying a second wife and then telling you. Men like this have NO respect for women’s feelings. You should never have accepted it but you did because you had been with him so long and couldn’t leave. ITS WRONG HE DOESNT RESPECT YOU.
SubhanAllah!💜True That! السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته You never know when you’re gonna need one another. Hubby might not be around at that time. May الله make it work for all of us to get along by HIS infinite grace/mercy اللهم آمين 🧕🧔🏽♂️🧕 “WORTHY CO-WIVES”
As a third wife, yes there is a worthiness factor. For Example, purity is a huge issue to my husband. This is the one area where he will not change his mind. When we were talking he was happy that I was not someone who slept with a bunch of other women. I am glad that I did not sleep around because that would have destroyed what we have found. I am a new wife and so we have been long distance for 13 days and I am so glad to have one of my sisterwives coming to help me finish packing and then we have a road trip to my forever home. I could think of no others who I would ever want to be with.
My wife is very critical of any woman who has interest in me. And while I agree there needs to be a level of standard for bringing people into our family. Life is short and we can not always predict someone's value until they try to show us.
Don't judge if you are a christian because if you read your bible right, every single Prophet ( Moses, Abraham, Jacob, Joseph, David and Salomon) had multiple wives. I am to selfish to share my husband in that way but I'm not judging others. For some woman a co-wife may be the best thing ever, for others it may not. You may find yourself to be the only wife and still unhappy.
the title and thumbnail had me rolling off the floor... you've won yourself a new subbie from south africa with this level of honesty
Worthy Co-Wives
Your husband is completely wrong and disgusting for marrying a second wife and then telling you. Men like this have NO respect for women’s feelings. You should never have accepted it but you did because you had been with him so long and couldn’t leave. ITS WRONG HE DOESNT RESPECT YOU.
Wow you know about their life a lot, probably more than they do...
mannnnnn stop it. You Must don't know OPR.
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SubhanAllah!💜True That! السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته You never know when you’re gonna need one another. Hubby might not be around at that time. May الله make it work for all of us to get along by HIS infinite grace/mercy اللهم آمين 🧕🧔🏽♂️🧕 “WORTHY CO-WIVES”
As a third wife, yes there is a worthiness factor. For Example, purity is a huge issue to my husband. This is the one area where he will not change his mind. When we were talking he was happy that I was not someone who slept with a bunch of other women. I am glad that I did not sleep around because that would have destroyed what we have found. I am a new wife and so we have been long distance for 13 days and I am so glad to have one of my sisterwives coming to help me finish packing and then we have a road trip to my forever home. I could think of no others who I would ever want to be with.
I am pro polygyny (husband with multiple wives) and I embrace this Sunnah 🎉❤🫶🏿🤲🏾☝🏿Alhamdulillah
All parties involved in polygany should have secure attachment style since it's healthier and fosters growth and development
@bryanotieno explain what you mean by 'attachment style' please?
Walakum asalaam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu ya Uhkti.
My wife is very critical of any woman who has interest in me. And while I agree there needs to be a level of standard for bringing people into our family. Life is short and we can not always predict someone's value until they try to show us.
Don't judge if you are a christian because if you read your bible right, every single Prophet ( Moses, Abraham, Jacob, Joseph, David and Salomon) had multiple wives. I am to selfish to share my husband in that way but I'm not judging others. For some woman a co-wife may be the best thing ever, for others it may not. You may find yourself to be the only wife and still unhappy.