MY EXPERIENCE DOING ONLYFANS.. DO I REGRET IT?

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  • Опубліковано 19 гру 2024

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  • @Tylerspaghetti420
    @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +5

    Hiii!! Thank you for all of the love on this video. In order to keep this video "peaceful" I have been deleting some comments. Please refrain from using generalized statements like "women are - or your generation is -". I never delete comments but I don't want anyone watching my videos to feel bad about themselves due to comments under any of my videos. I understand not supporting doing OF, I don't necessarily support it either. But please don't spread hate on a group of people that you have never met. To be clear, you can share your opinions all day, and I encourage you to do so. Just refrain from hateful comments. Again, thank you SO much, for the love on this video. I premiered it and it had 7 likes and no views, yall are crazy 😂.. thank you for supporting me and sharing your comments below

    • @simeacalvinlifeobserver3741
      @simeacalvinlifeobserver3741 6 місяців тому +2

      @Tylerspaghetti420 Will this immediately destroy your ability to get a normal JOB!!!. or are you still able to get out NOW!!!! (Because of taxes/ government knows about the income you are making/ IRS into employer hands INFO)
      Asking a question???

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +1

      @simeacalvinlifeobserver3741 I'm out of it!! Thank you for asking :) I quit in 2021. No plans of EVER returning

    • @decwow
      @decwow 6 місяців тому

      "...you can share your opinions all day, and I encourage you to do so. Just refrain from hateful comments...."
      I've commented, and scrolled the comments. You are questionable at understanding what is "hateful" and what isn't. Hate isn't determined by how you feel about what someone's said.
      And as someone that has been around on UA-cam since it was first launched, I sincerely suggest you not attempt to grow a channel by deleting discussion. That might work on platforms like Instagram and TikTok where the userbase is mostly female, but the UA-cam userbase is mostly male and over here, censorious control over your comments will get you publicly roasted.. mercilessly.
      Calmly and respectfully engaging in disagreements is much more productive. Tone policing will not work. People WILL notice that comments are deleted and they WILL blame you for it, especially after you've admitted it.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      @decwow i am deleting hate. That is what I am doing. I don't want to make other women in the comments have to see the things I have deleted. You also cannot see the comments I have deleted, so you have no idea what these people are saying about me and women. Hate is hate. Hate speech is not tolerated here. As you can read in the comments I am allowing people to share rude things about me.. I'm not deleting that. I'm deleting hateful statements that put groups of people down (not me).

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      You act like I am censoring people by deleting comments calling all women wh*res and useless.. that is not appropriate..

  • @joyfultrails
    @joyfultrails 6 місяців тому +66

    How did we ever get this place as a society where young girls are willing to show the most personal private parts of their body to the whole world… With no thought, no regard for what’s going to happen in the future when her employers see these pictures, when her husband discovers these videos, when her children see these pictures and videos. This is all so sad. Modern day prostitution.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +7

      I agree with you partially. It was so mainstream in 2020 and nobody around me even blinked an eye when I started an OF. A lot of my friends, especially my online friends, had an OF. It definently should not be normalized and I think there should be more regulation on it tbh

    • @RealDevastatia
      @RealDevastatia 6 місяців тому +1

      It seems that many girls already have it planned out that they'll join OnlyFans or some other SW platform on their 18th birthday, like that's what they're looking forward to as a life goal. It makes me wonder how much underage grooming is involved on the part of those platforms and/or the women who are already on them.

    • @RealDevastatia
      @RealDevastatia 6 місяців тому

      @@Tylerspaghetti420 Not sure why that comment was deleted. It wasn't disrespectful. I simply made an observation.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +1

      I'm not sure what comment you're saying is deleted. I've only deleted one comment so far and it was not posted by you

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      Agreed!!

  • @pennywise4843
    @pennywise4843 6 місяців тому +21

    “I hate the phrase selling your body.” Only fans is literally, selling your body. Just own it, accept it and grow beyond it. We all make mistakes.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +1

      I haye the phrase, I honestly don't get it. If I am selling pictures of my body, how am I selling my body? If a photographer sells pictures of the grand canyon, are they selling the grand canyon? And I'm not trying to argue or say that you're wrong, I just can't see your perspective. But thank you for sharing!

    • @pennywise4843
      @pennywise4843 6 місяців тому

      @@Tylerspaghetti420 yes, they are selling the Grand Canyon. That’s the selling point. I appreciate it feels bad to accept but accepting harsh truths is the way to progress. You seem like a great person and I’m sure you have a very bright future. Just be honest with yourself, even if it hurts in the short term.

    • @skkrtskkrt-5210
      @skkrtskkrt-5210 6 місяців тому +12

      ​@@Tylerspaghetti420 perfect example of mental gymnastics
      You sold your body, and now its there FOREVER, congratulations🎉

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      Totally! I'm not saying you're wrong I just don't see your perspective. I do get what you're saying though thank you for explaining :)

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      My body will be here for a bit I hope!! Not sure if I'm gonna be cremated or not tho :/ hm

  • @trith72
    @trith72 6 місяців тому +17

    Going to a LOT more regret in about 13 years......

    • @NullLang
      @NullLang 6 місяців тому

      more like now

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +3

      For sure! That's how we grow :)

    • @richardgrace5043
      @richardgrace5043 6 місяців тому

      @@Tylerspaghetti420not when you can’t find a high value partner because of an OF because your past reflects on them especially if (as I said they are any form of high or medium value man) they own their own business and and have too make deals and arrangements with other companies for contracts (because most companies not only run full background checks on person they are doing business with including all social media but if they see said person has a partner they also do a full background including social media on said partner

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +1

      I can't grow because I can't find a high value partner due to them needing a background check?

    • @trith72
      @trith72 5 місяців тому

      @@Tylerspaghetti420 That's not a dating problem, that's an issue with modern females chasing the wrong type of men, in the wrong places, at the wrong time. There are literally millions an excellent young men out there who are passed over by the warped modern feminist mindset of "I'm a 10 I deserve a Gigachad from the .0005% of all males in the world" ....and these men are usually not ever what they seem. You ladies are doing it to yourselves...stop overvaluing yourself, that's the first step, and stop looking for men in the world's toilet...get off of social media and dating apps...modern women are at an all time low in terms of value, but consider themselves to be at an all time high. It's a very sad situation...

  • @MrMaerok
    @MrMaerok 6 місяців тому +2

    Just got this randomly on my feed. Read through a lot of the comments and wanted to chime in as there seems to be a lot of judgmental, low IQ people out there with no life experience.
    This is an incredibly brave video and you deal with the comments in an incredibly mature way. Its honestly refreshing to see someone able to deal with such negativity so well. Never regret your past, its what gives you experience and makes you the strong person you are today. If other people judge you, that's their problem not yours, and an easy way of picking who to spend your time with.
    Only very dull people and liars have no past.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      Thank you so much for commenting

    • @MrMaerok
      @MrMaerok 6 місяців тому +1

      @@Tylerspaghetti420 You deserve it :) Don't listen to the negs, travel, do everything you can, love, live and never regret!

  • @dashady187
    @dashady187 6 місяців тому +14

    I mean the sad part is that car wont last forever, the phone will be outdated in a few years. Those reasons will be gone, but the fact you did OF wont go away. I guess it's temporary gains vs life long consequences.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +1

      Agreed! It won't go away. I'm incredibly grateful that I have a car, a place to live, a phone, food on the table, and my family and friends. My bonds last forever, not materialistic things, but I am still very happy with what I have

    • @makalanibandele2348
      @makalanibandele2348 6 місяців тому +1

      @@Tylerspaghetti420 These people don't know. Future generations may have a more progressive view of having nude pictures on the internet. You're going to be alright, I feel like deep down you know this already.

    • @dashady187
      @dashady187 6 місяців тому +1

      @@Tylerspaghetti420 Agreed its always best to be grateful for all of the things that we do have in life.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      I know I'll be alright, thank you for commenting I appreciate you

    • @decwow
      @decwow 6 місяців тому

      @@makalanibandele2348
      "Future generations may have a more progressive view of having nude pictures on the internet."
      You think your silly little 20th century failed political philosophy is going to change millions of years of evolved human nature?
      *_That kind of arrogance already killed hundreds of millions of people last century. Don't add to it._*

  • @TheOriginalHuckleberry
    @TheOriginalHuckleberry 6 місяців тому +5

    One cool thing about history, is that it is history. You'll NEVER meet anyone that hasn't made big mistakes and small mistakes. Regard them as learning experiences and move ahead, never back. Move on.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you!! Appreciate this!

    • @VantaBlackhole
      @VantaBlackhole 6 місяців тому +1

      Not all “Mistakes” need to be learned. I don’t need to jump from a 50 story building to know things won’t end well for me. She willingly made a bad choice not a mistake.

  • @Manny17NJ
    @Manny17NJ 6 місяців тому +20

    304

  • @Necromonger69
    @Necromonger69 6 місяців тому +6

    Unfortunately, some of the comments here are true about finding a relationship. A well-made man who has worked hard to become successful will not marry an ex OF girl. I wish you luck.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +2

      Thanks for your input! I don't agree that a well made man won't marry an ex of girl. But I definelty know that is a hell no to a lot of men, and that's fine. I do not want to make my partner uncomfortable. Anyone I am with will know my entire history, if they are not okay, then we will part ways. Some men respect humans and their past no matter how bumpy the road was 🥰

    • @indi_prime
      @indi_prime 6 місяців тому +3

      @@Tylerspaghetti420he will never respect you, just like you will never respect him, all the while it was just a choice that choice can be made again. Unless and until you consider your sinful acts as actually sinful they will continue to define you

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      @indi_prime it's alright if you believe that, thank you for sharing.

    • @indi_prime
      @indi_prime 6 місяців тому

      @@Tylerspaghetti420 its not a belief, its a reality you will spend your life avoiding or run headfirst into blindly, over and over until you accept it, good luck sorting good from evil in your future endeavours, you'll need it. The moment you tell a man you did OF you are filtering away most with self-respect, which is a prerequisite for them respecting you, I do not envy you

    • @MajesticLawnGnome
      @MajesticLawnGnome 6 місяців тому

      Just smash bro why would you get married what a ridiculous Idea lol there is zero benefits to a man. You can claim anything you want a piece of paper you signed over with the state isn't going to make or guarantee anyone is going to stay just have fun.

  • @soldier09r
    @soldier09r 6 місяців тому +2

    Proud of you for making this. I would normally scrutinize but there’s enough of that in the comments and people have already said what is already known.
    I do wish you success in your future love life though. Thank you for telling others what this was like. It will be tough but I think you know that now. Good luck!

  • @rfrancoi
    @rfrancoi 6 місяців тому +2

    Serious question: What was the biggest lesson that you learned? And has your view on men or people in general changed (in a bad way)?

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +3

      Biggest lesson I learned is not to jump into something (especially something so serious as OF) without knowing what I'm getting into and the consequences. My view on men has changed a lot, but it's also changed a lot since being in a healthy relationship with a man. In the past I didn't want to date men because it felt like all the men I was with had one interest and it was sex. Now after separating myself from an audience of men that mainly want sex (my audience on OF) and being in a committed monogamous relationship, I respect men so much and value how different every man is and what they bring to the table in a relationship. Thank you for asking

    • @rfrancoi
      @rfrancoi 6 місяців тому +2

      @@Tylerspaghetti420 Great answer, and very happy that you are being open minded and not looking down on all men. You are very young, and I wish you the best.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      Thank you

  • @NullLang
    @NullLang 6 місяців тому +12

    You knew what you were signing up for, come on now. We can blame society all we want but you had a choice.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +1

      I did!! Never said I didn't have a choice

    • @AdzaanMaiiTso
      @AdzaanMaiiTso 6 місяців тому +2

      just say you didn't watch the video before commenting next time, lol. she never once said otherwise.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +1

      THANK YOU LOL

  • @AP-bc7mg
    @AP-bc7mg 6 місяців тому +3

    In my personal opinion, I just find it sad we are at a point in our society where young women such as yourself consider something like OF their best option for a steady income. You can never take that back, and lord knows who has what of you now, forever. Not judging you at all, this is from a father of daughter's - I understand the predicament and have dated an OF model myself in the past. Just a sad situation.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +1

      Totally agree. I hope people going forward take more time into making decisions like this. Thank you for sharing

    • @AP-bc7mg
      @AP-bc7mg 6 місяців тому +1

      @@Tylerspaghetti420 Well, onward and upward! Cheers to your new beginning!

  • @true_plays_games
    @true_plays_games 6 місяців тому +2

    It sounds like you got out before any significant damage was done…
    But there was still damage done. You could’ve been doing an internship, starting to get work experience, literally anything else.
    It’s good to see a young person, reflecting on this behavior and not leaning into it. Work hard, make goals, and settle down with the right person. Don’t do OF.
    Good luck.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      For sure!! Definently could have spent my time better elsewhere. Especially at 18, I should have been in college lmao!! Now I'm 21 just starting classes

  • @bradpnw1897
    @bradpnw1897 6 місяців тому +2

    You seem like a very nice person I'm glad you're not doing only fans anymore I'm glad you learned a lot. May God bless you 🙏 and you find peace within yourself and your mind. That sounds like you got a good man in your life, give him a hug for me please❤--the heart and the hug is for your man😊. Got to love and appreciate the honesty. Create healthy boundaries when it comes to online people and people you work with but when it comes to your family and your loved ones if you truly love them and they love you be honest with them. Either way you're refreshing your maturing and you've learned from your mistakes and you're moving on and you're doing better. Keep kicking ass.

  • @RealDevastatia
    @RealDevastatia 6 місяців тому +4

    There's no such thing as "not allowed" on the Web. When you view a page, your browser downloads all of the images on that page. That's how it works. It puts them where you can't easily find them, but they're still on your hard drive.

  • @jameellamar
    @jameellamar 5 місяців тому +1

    having the confidence to speak on your experience doing something that people publicly shame is commendable. i think we've all done something we're not truly proud of but not many people will speak on it and admit that maybe it wasn't in their best interests. also men (and embarrassingly myself) should be held accountable for purchasing and consuming nsfw content that encourages more women to take part in it. it is NOT just women's fault for why onlyfans is so popular

  • @luffydobrasil1758
    @luffydobrasil1758 6 місяців тому +2

    Hey, thanks for sharing.
    I will share my thoughts too if that's okay. Feel free to skip.
    I could not not notice you still have a little bit of coping instead of actually owning the consequences of your actions in some ways (if you rewatch you may find a couple of these, the most obvious one being "my biggest regret" followed by "do I actually regret it?" which appears to me you are coping by confusing "accepting the results of your actions + I've grown" [good] with "I maybe don't regret it because maybe I would do it again and look I learned some stuff" [bad/coping]), but in general good shit! Keep working on yourself and hopefully things will continue to get better.
    You still have your entire life ahead of you so don't stress too much about it... enjoy shit, and continue taking more responsibility as you can. You don't need to but I would ask you to continue spreading awareness (even though right now it probably doesn't feel like that's what you are doing, so I mean... just keep sharing your thoughts as you are already doing - doesn't need to be public but that would be great!). The only thing we can do about our regrets is accept them, learn from them, and move on. You are already on the right path and seem to be doing well!
    Also, lastly, don't give too much power to regrets... I used to do the same. At the end of the day, they are bad feelings just like any other: if you process them they will eventually go away. Because the alternative is realizing you will have to live with this feeling forever for no reason. And we wouldn't do that to people we like. But it's hard liking ourselves because we live in our skin, so here is a cool video about it that helped me: watch?v=ss7QOgJJlVQ

    • @luffydobrasil1758
      @luffydobrasil1758 6 місяців тому +1

      also your bf sounds like an awesome dude

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you SO MUCH!! I totally agree with you. I am still confused on my entire thoughts on a lot of things that I've done, including starting an OF. Thanks again for sharing, it's definently something I want to think on more!

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      Thank you

  • @Deep_Pains
    @Deep_Pains 6 місяців тому +48

    Find Jesus.

  • @claude434
    @claude434 6 місяців тому +4

    hello guys i want to talk my experience as a 304...

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      Use your words my dear

    • @claude434
      @claude434 6 місяців тому

      @@Tylerspaghetti420 oke... ""you are a 304"

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      😪😪 omg ow my feeelinnngggs claude!!

    • @claude434
      @claude434 6 місяців тому

      is your parents feeling as hurt as you when they know you are a 304??

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      Claude I didn't even know what a 304 was I am a grown adult lol. I don't keep up with kid slang anymore I doubt my parents do either

  • @MohammedAli-h3z3r
    @MohammedAli-h3z3r 6 місяців тому +5

    Whats done is done learn from it and pursue a meaningful future something that gives u purpose

  • @katapaa7013
    @katapaa7013 6 місяців тому +6

    the fact they promote 18 year olds creating an account is predatory

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      Agreed!! It was so popular during covid everyone was promoting it

    • @samuelmontypython8381
      @samuelmontypython8381 6 місяців тому +1

      Honestly being able to go die overseas for a rich man's war and get $150k in immortal student loan debt that can't be removed through bankruptcy at 18 is arguably worse haha

    • @indi_prime
      @indi_prime 6 місяців тому

      @@samuelmontypython8381 who is this "rich man" causing all the wars? can you name him? [is he the vestige of your father whom you blame for everything?] or do you just think in culturally handed down cliches to justify and equivocate away everything? or just the things that are inconvenient to your feelings at any given time? Soldiering has varying levels of honourability, sure, but its a required service which provides social stability and protects people, even passively, from invasions, or at least did. Reflexively comparing whoring above service is one of the reasons no one wants to serve you people anymore, arrogant twats

    • @Hello2uu2
      @Hello2uu2 6 місяців тому

      @@samuelmontypython8381 nah no one will judge you for doing that

  • @blakeluvsu1
    @blakeluvsu1 6 місяців тому +1

    this just got recommended to me and this whole thing was fascinating

  • @Saint_TrillTX
    @Saint_TrillTX 6 місяців тому +4

    I just want you to know that Jesus does love you, even if you don’t understand the magnitude of what He really did for you on that cross. The problem with todays culture is that they will cancel anyone who pushes against the grain our forms their own opinions, but I promise you God doesn’t cancel people. When you fall, He tells you to get back and to continue following Him. Truly you are His daughter and He is your loving Father. If you don’t know much about Him, I say just ask Him to reveal Himself to you. For it is written “Ask and it shall be given, seek and you shall find, knock and it shall be open”. God Bless you

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +1

      This is probably one of my favorite comments on this video. Thank you SO MUCH

    • @Saint_TrillTX
      @Saint_TrillTX 5 місяців тому +1

      @@Tylerspaghetti420 hey Tyler, I hope you’ve been doing well since you posted this video. Stay blessed and stay positive 🙏🏽✝️

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  5 місяців тому

      @SoldierOfChrist316 thank you so much

  • @Canal-gi8di
    @Canal-gi8di 6 місяців тому +2

    Selling your boddy... A SW said once, to the blue collar guy, ( if you think your not selling your boddy to you boss and you have sore back in your 30's think again ),

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for explaining it this way, I get it now :)

  • @citizen_or_civilian
    @citizen_or_civilian 6 місяців тому +5

    Your parents failed you kid.

  • @ronibrewer9956
    @ronibrewer9956 6 місяців тому +1

    I watched this video being a firm believer in how bad only fans is and how it objectifies young girls. its makes them believe that their body is all they are worth and its not true. I do agree that this has been a learning experience for you and all you really can do is look at the positives and move on, you cant change the past. I'm really not the type of person to ever comment on any video ever but this really struck me as its a problem for many developing young women and its upsetting that they resort to this. You are worth so much more than your body. Show the world your heart and soul and I can see you impacting the lives of women all around the world. Now that is learning from your mistakes. I think more people need to share their experiences with only fans and the way its has affected them so people will come to the light. everyone has messed up in their lives but the best way to sort something out is through love, compassion and trying to understand one another without just rejecting a person. Ive messed up and done wrong and so have we all you are no different, you just didn't have the guidance that the rest of us are so blessed to receive. people will say you need Jesus or this or that, If they really had Jesus they would put a lot more compassion into the comments they are writing and actually try and help you. I think you are a person that has been put here for a reason, you can change the lives of many, save the lives of many and help many people through your experience. I wish you nothing but love and a beautiful life, i hope you can gift the world that too. I'm just a tipsy 18 year old lad who got home after a night out in the UK who also hasn't made the best decisions but i wish you nothing but the best.

  • @GrimdeathGriffin
    @GrimdeathGriffin 2 місяці тому +1

    Anyone who judges onlyfans people must do well dating wise with not being personal.I've had a lot of short term things that leaves you more open minded and look at dating,meet, apps or social media groups very differently.I understand body dismorphia also as I take pictures of myself I look fat or have thin arms or need a tan.Not think I'm good looking.Sorry for the novel.Hope your well.

  • @TheAlmightyRedPillNation
    @TheAlmightyRedPillNation 6 місяців тому +6

    Once a 304 always a 304

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +1

      What makes me a 304 exactly?

    • @SwiFTDBL
      @SwiFTDBL 6 місяців тому +8

      @@Tylerspaghetti420you did OF lol

    • @TheAlmightyRedPillNation
      @TheAlmightyRedPillNation 6 місяців тому

      @@Tylerspaghetti420 you are involved in sex work, which is ultimately prostitution, not to mention it's degenerate aswell.
      You're laughing now, but what you don't realise is that these videos stay on the internet for ever, and so does your 304 content.
      Once you get passed 30 you're gonna wish you preserved your value.
      No man wants to wife a 304 showing themselves for every man to see.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +3

      ​@SwiFTDBL doing OF makes me a number???! Atleast it's higher than the 3 the other commenter gave me

    • @SwiFTDBL
      @SwiFTDBL 6 місяців тому

      @@Tylerspaghetti420 pretty sure your being sarcastic but just in case- 304 means Hoe if you didn’t know…

  • @0815Catgus
    @0815Catgus 6 місяців тому +9

    Bro you'll never be a trad wife ever.

  • @Lycurgus1982
    @Lycurgus1982 6 місяців тому +2

    It takes no talent whatsoever to show your body. This method of luring men into giving you their money by doing little to nothing is the biggest scam in human history. The fact that young women are making a killing off of desperate men can't be blamed, but they certainly do not deserve respect.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +1

      I get your point but I think there are so much worse scams than porn. I'm sure many people who have watched this video are consumers of porn, therefore contributing to the exact thing they are hating on

    • @Lycurgus1982
      @Lycurgus1982 6 місяців тому

      @@Tylerspaghetti420 porn is free.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +1

      A lot of of pages are free as well

    • @Lycurgus1982
      @Lycurgus1982 6 місяців тому

      @@Tylerspaghetti420 it is quite a revelation for a man when the illusion of their ideal women falls away. Women who commodify their bodies lose customers when this happens, but for those who want love, this is the best thing that can happen to them.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      It depends on the man, there are people who like to show off their partner. This is NOT me saying thats what i want or wanted, but there are men that like this kind of thing ​@Lycurgus1982

  • @McSalty087
    @McSalty087 6 місяців тому +12

    OF as a 3/10 women😂. You should do an IQ test

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      I know right, and I have. My IQ is pretty low, spot on my guy

    • @pizzamanpodesta145
      @pizzamanpodesta145 6 місяців тому

      A 1/10 who hasn't done OF is more attractive than a 3 who has done OF

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      Dude u gotta make me a negative then PLEASE I'm begging

  • @cisco2031
    @cisco2031 6 місяців тому +2

    Your future man will also have a big issue with you doing OF in the past.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +1

      Considering I have a boyfriend I'm not sure who the future man you're referring to is?

    • @cisco2031
      @cisco2031 6 місяців тому +1

      @@Tylerspaghetti420 He will grow some resentment towards you over time. Remember this comment

    • @Warntator
      @Warntator 6 місяців тому

      @@cisco2031 she will get bored and move on long before that

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      How long do I have until he grows resentment? Just so I know from the expert Cisco

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      He's someone I learn from everyday, if anything he would get bored of me first lmao

  • @dominichoward4833
    @dominichoward4833 6 місяців тому +1

    These comments are wild to me. Yeah OF is wild but we gotta have this same energy for simps who pay for OF.
    Paying to see a women nude is goofy to me

  • @pizzamanpodesta145
    @pizzamanpodesta145 6 місяців тому +1

    How is your relationship with your father? Is he a good role model?

    • @Warntator
      @Warntator 6 місяців тому

      I think you know the answer to that lol

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      I actually appreciate this question. Me and my dad were super close when I was growing up and then became VERY distant. I'm not sure if that has anything to do with this but it may. I had a rough relationship with both of my parents growing up, my mom especially.

  • @katsugo69
    @katsugo69 6 місяців тому +1

    What's the meaning of your shirt?

  • @Trecesolotienesdos
    @Trecesolotienesdos 3 місяці тому +1

    I don't tink i've ever slated an OF girl. Why? It's needless. It's just people doing a job. It's pretty weird. a person lliterlly pleasures themselves over an OF girl, so why be mea to them? lol. Sorry for the graphic and crude posting, but it doesn't make sense to me.

  • @realtopcorner
    @realtopcorner 6 місяців тому +6

    Who pays for you?😂 Respectfully

  • @Abdulrahman_Hi
    @Abdulrahman_Hi 3 місяці тому

    What shocks me most is that they don't regret doing bad things to themselves, and to the society as a whole.
    Sister in humanity, you were what you denied you were, an object.
    You sold your sacred body to the many eyes of other sinners. You don't seem to know right from wrong.
    I pray to Allah to protect me and my family with this degenaracy, and I pray Allah guides you and forgives you for your evil doings. Ameen.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  3 місяці тому

      I'm not an object and no human or living being should be considered an object. I respect your opinion that what I did was wrong, as we all have different views on things (especially if it's anything taboo). However calling me or anyone an object is not appropriate.

    • @Abdulrahman_Hi
      @Abdulrahman_Hi 3 місяці тому

      @Tylerspaghetti420 Hi Tyler. I was referring to your past state of selling your body to viewers. God forbid you keep posting steamy pics of yourself, or still adamant that your selling of your body to everyone willing to pay is not objectifying yourself, then you are only delusional as such.
      Instead, PLEASE be honest with yourself, don't be delusional, repent, seek forgiveness in Allah, and always keep in mind that Allah is The Most-Merciful, Most-Forgiving.
      I pray Allah forgives me and you and guides us to the right path. Ameen.

    • @Abdulrahman_Hi
      @Abdulrahman_Hi 3 місяці тому

      Hi Tyler. I was referring to your past state of selling your body to viewers. God forbid you still keep posting steamy pics of yourself, or are still adamant that your selling of your body to everyone willing to pay is not objectifying yourself, then you are only delusional as such. You are what you allow yourself to be.
      Instead, PLEASE be honest with yourself, don't be delusional, repent from all types of degeneracy, seek forgiveness in Allah, and always keep in mind that Allah is The Most-Merciful, Most-Forgiving. I pray Allah forgives me and you and guides us all to the right path. Ameen.

  • @nicholasgutierrez9940
    @nicholasgutierrez9940 6 місяців тому +1

    I dunno about OF but my only experience in women having body issues is from my ex. She could have been a model, like no joke, people said it all the time. But she never saw herself like that, she hated people looking at her. It was because she had an eating disorder when she was younger and never really recovered from it. She tried to, went vegan for a bit before the stress of life got to her. She would dress very... revealing if that makes sense. But not to get attention from other people. She would do so, because she worked really hard to be healthy and wanted to show it off. And she was really sexual, so sometimes she would show off lingerie. I didn't really understand it from my perspective. I don't know why showing your assets equals confidence. She did though, that's all that mattered. It was weird when she would wear see through shirts/pants with a thong. I have a guess though. Her dad wanted to abort her and abandoned her mom. He would always tell her that he wanted to be in her life but never showed up. He would promise one thing and always break it. So she grew up very insecure and always wondered why she was abandoned. Maybe this was her way of trying to get attention, any attention. She was smart enough to know guys wanted her body though. We unfortunately did a lot of damage to each other. Not by our fault. Some dick head wanted to get in her pants and manipulated her into thinking I was abusing her. Then she started abusing me. Sad cycle. I hope she gets better, but last time I heard she had a mental break down.
    Anyway, shit be complicated. Don't worry, keep focused in life. As long as you take responsibility for stuff and be up front about who you are, in its totality, people will accept you.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      I'm sorry you both went through that. I hope both of you are doing well now

  • @R0d_1984
    @R0d_1984 5 місяців тому

    If you hate yourself, have no respect for yourself and have some kind of trauma....
    Your not selling, you're giving away for free...

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  5 місяців тому

      I feel like your statement is missing a lot of words and context

  • @monkoyostudios1717
    @monkoyostudios1717 6 місяців тому +1

    i love twenty one pilots too.....

  • @commiserable4626
    @commiserable4626 6 місяців тому +1

    This saddens me deeply. Should've just kept this to yourself. Took it with you to the grave. But acceptance is a part of growth, so I guess good for you. Hope it'll get better. Feminism gave you all a choice. Still went for the prostitution route. It's not my life so I think I should not care any less. But not caring is basically condoning atrocities like this to happen. Something has to be done here. I'm sure it's not entirely your fault. You were given a choice. Someone made it so you had to choose. You just made the choice. Bad choice but still. Ugh.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      I like to be open, I love sharing and I like feedback. Thank you!

  • @Aspartame69
    @Aspartame69 6 місяців тому

    On a tangent. Great eyes. Its amazing that 'diversity' consists of various shades of brown hair eyes and skin, while boring white people have a massive range of beautiful hair and eye colours.

    • @decwow
      @decwow 6 місяців тому +1

      Noticed that too? "People of Color" apparently just means shades of ONE color. But then.. maybe they're being honest since they don't call it "People of Colors".

  • @Alberta_Wolf
    @Alberta_Wolf 6 місяців тому +7

    One day, you're going to find the guy of your dreams, and then someone will show him your OF and he'll split.
    Unless he's a POS, then he MIGHT be ok with it.
    So thats what you've limited yourself to for the rest of your life.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      My boyfriend has known me since high school, and knows about my OF. I get what you're saying but I've had no issues so far. I don't keep my past a secret, so I won't have any partner split because of my OF.

    • @Alberta_Wolf
      @Alberta_Wolf 6 місяців тому +2

      @Tylerspaghetti420
      If you're truely happy with what you're doing then so be it. I know you don't think so now but one day a time will come when you'll very much regret it.
      Do you think a new car is worth selling yourself for?
      If so I don't think you had nearly enough self worth to begin with.
      Enough of my moral soap box though. I honestly wish you the best.

  • @klkandiez7941
    @klkandiez7941 6 місяців тому

    Good for you dude. Get your bag, take your power from old men who would rather squander their wealth on simptivities. Don't let their hatred of your craft warp your perspective on reality. Spiteful people spread hate.

    • @indi_prime
      @indi_prime 6 місяців тому +2

      Crawl back into your gooner cave scum

    • @ritualcloset
      @ritualcloset 6 місяців тому

      And only someone this diluted and lost would confuse empowerment with comodifying their body and selling it to broken men.
      No one that is against OF is spreading hate. They are simply against the spread of a pervasive societal cancer.

  • @rkgaustin
    @rkgaustin 6 місяців тому

    Link?

  • @hassannaeem101
    @hassannaeem101 6 місяців тому +1

    Most of these comments are fucked up and i cant imagine how bad the ones you've deleted are. It was interesting hearing your story and just know that the people talking shit are 9/10 gonna be neckbeard virgins. Thank you for sharing your experience

  • @VitorFerreiraMn
    @VitorFerreiraMn 6 місяців тому

    link

  • @EricMoore790
    @EricMoore790 6 місяців тому +2

    She is cute, I hope you find what you are looking for.

  • @vampire_kiril
    @vampire_kiril 6 місяців тому +1

    you can delete comments all day, but you cant delete the actions that have consequences.
    you should have never gone naked for some guys to give you chump change.
    did you really think every girl is making 10,000$ a month and youre not getting scammed?
    do you really think any great man is gonna settle for a girl that did only fans?

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      I never tried to delete consequences or my actions. I am sharing my experience, and hopefully stopping people from making the same mistakes as me for the same reasons as me. I do not like comments calling my partner a bad man for being with me, stuff like that is not appreciated. None of my actions show anything toward his character

    • @decwow
      @decwow 6 місяців тому

      @@Tylerspaghetti420
      "None of my actions show anything toward his character"
      They potentially do, but that's mostly up to him. They demonstrate what he is willing to tolerate, which could also be phrased as "what people are able to get away with making him put up with". The important part though, is that his motivations for the decision are what actually determine the meaning of his choice to even be partnered with an ex-OF girl. I wouldn't sweat it. If he's a good guy, then just let it be.

  • @cisco2031
    @cisco2031 6 місяців тому +2

    Fast money comes with slow problems. Your kids may hate you when they go to school.

  • @alika5771
    @alika5771 6 місяців тому +5

    Guys pay to see you? Wow

  • @khockhong
    @khockhong 6 місяців тому +1

    not thing last 4 ever like spare tire use worn out dont use still go flat

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +1

      Explain what you really mean by this 🤨

    • @simeacalvinlifeobserver3741
      @simeacalvinlifeobserver3741 6 місяців тому +2

      @@Tylerspaghetti420 I think he means we all get older. (health scares/physical accidents) on the list too.
      So please plot and plan in order to live as comfortably as possible in your later years.
      Don't keep using the flat tire = Know when to have a back plan and when to use it.
      >>>>>>>>>>

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +1

      ​@simeacalvinlifeobserver3741 thank you for explaining :)

  • @ReactionQueenBoss2001
    @ReactionQueenBoss2001 5 місяців тому +1

  • @RJavier007
    @RJavier007 6 місяців тому +1

    She mid

  • @Mr_Phage
    @Mr_Phage 6 місяців тому +1

    Of all the mistakes people make in their lives, this is a pretty minor one. Don't be too hard on yourself.

  • @YouTubeSpareTime
    @YouTubeSpareTime 5 місяців тому

    I am sorry but you seem like a nice girl, not sure what possessed you to start OF. You should’ve went to College and became something worth discussing, life is too short to make poor choices or to blindly walk through life… good luck with your future endeavours

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  5 місяців тому

      If I'm not something worth discussing to you, I'm not sure why you are deciding do discuss my life? People make decisions and learn from them. I'm glad I have had the ability to choose things for myself

    • @YouTubeSpareTime
      @YouTubeSpareTime 5 місяців тому

      I am referring to your former occupation, not you personally, I don’t think you’d openly discuss doing OF for a living at a family gathering, I guess you just have a regular job now?

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  5 місяців тому

      I do. I'm working and taking college classes atm

    • @YouTubeSpareTime
      @YouTubeSpareTime 5 місяців тому +1

      @@Tylerspaghetti420 I hope it’s all going well for you, good luck with college especially

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  5 місяців тому

      @UA-camSpareTime thank you

  • @BG-tr2oh
    @BG-tr2oh 6 місяців тому +5

    What’s the OF address?

    • @Mike-np1ir
      @Mike-np1ir 6 місяців тому

      Replies to everyone but you. Lol

  • @handsanitizer2457
    @handsanitizer2457 6 місяців тому +1

    Why stop you have some good content 👍 also don't ask for the content, if she doesnt want to sgare the leaks, I wont either. Also, i suggests you put that money in lots of investments.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      Thank you!! And I am, I love investing!! Would love to learn more about it as well :)

  • @TheKentanthony
    @TheKentanthony 6 місяців тому +1

    Time to used dem money on investments while ya can still work :D dividends, invest in businesses or something to not work for anyone. It will be glorious!

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much!! I'm investing a bit right now but really want to learn more about it!

  • @Hawtload
    @Hawtload 6 місяців тому +1

    Sorry for all the rude comments.
    It's a shame that the economy we live in now is so bad that people are forced to do unscrupulous things for money.
    From a guy's perspective, it's crazy that some of these OF girls can make hundreds of thousands of dollars a month, while as men we have zero opportunities to make that kind of money without literally putting our lives in danger.

    • @ritualcloset
      @ritualcloset 6 місяців тому +3

      Forced? Come on man.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      I totally get that. I was never forced to make any of my accounts, it was simply something I wanted to do. I also had a lot of male friends who started an OF and saw NONE of the success that women see. Its a lot harder for men in jobs like this!

  • @mattfiorello1885
    @mattfiorello1885 6 місяців тому

    Hi Tyler Spaghetti Do Your Nails

  • @manuelsilva3754
    @manuelsilva3754 6 місяців тому

    can i tell people you are my girlfriend?

  • @Mospot
    @Mospot 6 місяців тому +2

    @tylerspaghetti420 you said you got into a serious relationship and it’s not because of him you quit and than continued on saying the relationship is the reason you quit it. There’s no shame in quitting something that I believe is bad for something better such as getting into a relationship. It’s not cool to let your ego and pride get in the way of possible a great life. If you respect some1 and it’s the reason you left say it and if you also respect yourself and left say that too. Wish you the best

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  6 місяців тому

      Yeah I was editing this and heard myself and was like what am I saying rn. To clarify, he never told me to quit. But I quit because I got into a serious relationship, i wanted to spend more time with my partner and not time talking to random guys about nudes. It wasn't something he told me to do, i chose to quit because I didn't think I could be in a relationship whole doing OF.

  • @Flibbybibby
    @Flibbybibby 5 місяців тому

    Who cares about you or your life or any of our opinions.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  5 місяців тому +1

      Well I do

    • @Flibbybibby
      @Flibbybibby 5 місяців тому

      @@Tylerspaghetti420
      And you’re the only one that does about..
      YOUR LIFE. Not every aspect has to be shared.
      Might be the narcissistic tendency which led you to OF in the first place. Not just you, but ffs people need to grasp…
      Y’all’s life just isn’t that interesting.

    • @Tylerspaghetti420
      @Tylerspaghetti420  5 місяців тому

      @Flibbybibby omg that's so true bestie, love your insight!!

    • @Flibbybibby
      @Flibbybibby 5 місяців тому +1

      @@Tylerspaghetti420
      Love your sarcasm! You won me over. 😘

  • @drewdevon2009
    @drewdevon2009 5 місяців тому

    please answer my email Miss Spaghetti 🙏