Drunk-Dialing Gone Wrong
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- Опубліковано 16 лют 2023
- The plaintiff says he began dating the defendant when she was 19 and he was 30, and they broke up four years ago. He claims she began using crack after they split, and he’s suing her for the balance due on a loan. The defendant says the plaintiff was an alcoholic who abused her and her children. She’s countersuing for harassment over voicemails he left her.
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So sorry for the loss of the defendants child. 🙏🏽
What type of parenting and childhood and development do you think a 19 year old with three children who then spent 20 years with an abusive drunk had? What type of coping skills has she developed, what type of intellectual and emotional maturity has she developed? None of this should be shocking
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She probably have mental health issues and don't even know it
Which is why Judge Mathis needs to stop blowing over these men and their ages.
Lol wow he was going in, not hunchback and slew foot 😂
It was the slew foot for me 😂😂
It’s not funny but it’s funny af
If he taps his shoe against the floor one more GD time I'm going to lose it!!🤣🤣
😂😂😂 I was thinking the same thing. Work my last damn nerve
istg 😭😭😭
Yes! I hate when they tap the table
I just saw this comment after I said the same thing 😂😂😂😂😂😂 clicking them heels 😂
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This is about a loan. She borrowed it, owes him, and needs to pay
Period!!
Exactly
FACTS‼️
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Facts!
She was a girlfriend for a decade. She had 3 kids at the age of 19. He was 35 preying on someone that was barely legal. This is the most pitiful love story ever.
You're right
Legal is legal that has nothing to do with anything
@@c4choze Doesn't change the fact that he preyed on a 19 year who is barely legal
@c4choze you must like to chase them young girl also.
@@andrewhinds6302 no kid my wife is older than me but at the same time women mature faster than men and men are the head of every relationship according to the Bible. In ancient times women were always younger than men and these were Pious men. The problem is your mindset is to condition with this Roman Gentile paganistic world.
I knew from the way the plaintiff walked in it was going to be a trip...
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And tapping his feet while talking🙄
Omg!!!! I said the exact same thing even the hard bottom shoes 🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣 my exact sentiments....that slowwww stroll said it ALL🤣
@@jaymama4125 walked in real smooth...
Interesting that she said a child died and not my child….she definitely still has some trauma surrounding that which I can understand 😢
I caught that. I said damn so it was your child!
Yeah, I caught that, too..
@@virtuoussoulhealer3644 Did you catch that it was a TRAUMATIC experience?
@@wordplay6665 What about the trauma part? Did you miss that?
It’s like she’s trying to disassociate from the event
JM has no understanding of young girls he has all the sympathy in the world for young boys who make mistakes or who are not faithful in their relationships when they're young but no empathy for girls it's sad. We know that no nineteen-year-old girl is going to want to have three kids - there was some stuff going on and her environment in her background maybe neglect abuse whatever that she had no control over
That part!!!!!! No empathy at all!!!!
I nearly died of shock when she said her poor child died in a house fire fire off all things usually people are ill or a way like that either way so sorry for her loss condolences to her
🗣️☎️You hunch back slew foot BLEEP 😂😂😂
She was 19 with 3 Kids dating a Man in his 30's ✌
I agree with u for once. She was definitely for the streets and he wasn't shit for getting with her.
@Mz Fancy she basically needed a place to stay...
He was in his 40's.
@@NKAB4 Yup
Lord 😱! I just had my 1st child when I was 19 and my 2nd and last one @ 22. How the world 🌎 she have 3 @ 19..smh 🤦♀️
Those voicemails were hilarious 😂
It sounds like he has multiple personalities and talking to at least 3-4 people!! 😂
He wanted his money lol
😂😂😂 I couldn’t hold laugh in
She wasn't to afraid to ask for his money. Pay him , lady
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Yepp!
Them voicemails was hilarious lol
Messages had me weak 😂😂
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So sorry for the lost of her child.
Did you notice how weird she said it though? She said "a child died". Not hers. Odd.
@@christiancordy639 I just said that! What do you mean a child?? She probably disassociates herself with the child. Maybe it’s a copin mechanism 🤷🏽♀️
@@ayana188 Definitely possible but typically when parents mourn their child, this is not how they speak about them. House fire? Don't know the cause? A child died? I don't assume she did anything but how she said it was mad weird and super suspicious. I stopped watching this video after that honestly cause it just made me feel so odd.
@@christiancordy639 it’s true, I look at her strange behind that too, and he didn’t even speak on that part they both suspect
@@ayana188 I agree wholeheartedly.
The thing is with her is when she needed his help to pay for the repairs of her car he was fine and great, but when she felt she should go back on her word he became a monster. It’s sad how people will use you for their gain and then after you’ve helped out and it’s time for them to payback you are a bad person 🤔I don’t get it.
Because they are users! I hate users!
the way she cocked her head when she said "i believe so" told everything. what a liar.
Say that again!!!!?
And then she tried to get on here and play the super-victim. Why would she return to him asking for stuff after leaving for 6 years if he was such a negative influence in her life?
Anybody that ever had a drunk family member know what’s up. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 he legit just wanted his money he wasn’t gonna do nothing to her. I’m weak at them voice mails because you can clearly tell he has been drinking. He also says he loves her and will help her he just didn’t wanna be played. He’s a happy drunk you can tell he was just mad about that money.
If that's a happy DRUNK I hate to see a mad/ mean drunk
I get what you're saying 😂 I come from a long line of drunks and Im a firm believer in "a drunk man tells no lies"... but I understand when a drunk is just talking cuz they're drunk seriously...her playing this victim though is killing me 😂😂look how long she was with him and trying to play him to be the fool she better be glad he wasn't my uncle... she knew what she was doing
Yes he just wanted his money.
@@dayontaemenifee1209 What would your uncle have done?
Nothing funnier than a drunk uncle 🤣 😂 😅 😆 💀
That’s not an uncle that’s a whole grandpa / great grandpa
It’s the woman in the pink & black staring at the plaintiff like she wants to slide him her number! 😂😂😂 He is too cool.
Rest peacefully to the child that was lost in the fire…🙏🏾🙌🏾🕊️
@3:32 She pissed me off by saying "a child". No honey "my child, my baby" 😑
That was weird how she said that.
Everybody grieve differently
When she said "a child" I assumed it wasn't her child. Who talks like that especially losing your baby.
@@maximumblackness1 Ur correct luv. This isn't abt her grieving tho. It's abt how she referenced who it was that passed/the relation to who passed.
@@jasminwilliams7097 yea normally they would say my son or my daughter.
Ladies----if you can't have a man respect you then it is BEST to be by yourself. This guy is an example of what's out here
You tell 'em!!
Shut up….. He got his money lmao
That part
And she's an example of what's out there. Sorry ass woman that's always looking for a man to take care of her.
She had 3 men before him. She opened up her womb to anyone. Stop this bs. She is no victim.
If Judge Mathis ever left UA-cam, I'd lose it.
I'm mad his show was canceled!
You and me both 😅
@@jaymama4125 His show is coming back on a Byron Allen network with the other judges. Look it up. Just saw it on Sherri Shepherd show
yea his show with WB is cancelling not himself he announced that 2 days ago that hes doing his own show wit another production (black company) in AUGUST 2023
He will still have a show on another network but WB will probably pull all these episodes off youtube.
A lot of people trashing her for being 19 with three kids, but hardly ANYONE bothered by a 35 year old admitting to getting with her because she was naive 🤔 Exactly why this stuff keeps happening 🤦🏾♀️
And by law her ass is grown at the age of 18!seh wasn't to naive 3 kids by the time she was 19 with 3 different baby daddies before she was 19!
Cause two legal adults wanna be together???
Naive and 3 kids does not mix.....now does him being 35 make it a good moral decision on his part for being with a 19yr old? no but she has 3 kinds and was of age so nothing innocent and naive about that...now one has to wonder if all 3 kids have the same father.
They’re a bunch of victim shamers he wAs a pedo predator
@@Agntculboik9 No he was too old for her he should have found a woman his own age
He was drunk in that voicemail 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
I notice When ppl can't use you anymore.. you are worthless to them & worse than the devil!!!!! I'm glad he got his judgement!!!!
wtf he thought a 19yr old wanted from him? lmao....
That is so true
A 35-year-old with a 19-year-old mother sounds like behaviors of the devil to me.
Hmmm y she a “ A CHILD” like it wasn’t hers I didn’t like that 😡
Exactly 💯
She is just disassociating herself from the situation.
The man was clearly DRUNK on that recording and she tried to use that so she didn't have to pay her debt..
She wasn't to scared to take his money.. 🤷🏽♂️
Shiiiiddd I’ve watch plenty of First 48 episodes of cases like this. Luckily he was sane enough to bring it to court.
That Uncle Daddy foot stomp😂😂😂
He said she was smart, yet she had 3 kids @ 19 years old...lol
That’s smart 😂
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Being smart and having common sense..
and some young women thoughts relating to men can be completely different things🤷🏿♀️
She was naive but smart 🤦🏿♀️
Exactly 😂😅😂😅😂😂😂😂😂
My condolences to the defendant on losing her son in the house fire @3:31. How awful.
My mom had me at 19, my older sister at 17, my brother at 20, and her last at 33, no big deal. It's a lot judgement on here why tho nobody's perfect but God period peaceeeeee
Exactly.
To much freaking judgement period in the comments on social media
Because it’s a hot mess
@@beb5407 facts
Don't think it's really judgement. It's more of just being concerned.
I am infuriated with the Judge for this; that was a clear threat. How does the judge know that he would not harm a fly?
Because he took her to court and not to the morgue
@@Hazel.Eyed.Gemini That does not mean that he would not do it. My mom always told me that when you are intoxicated the truth comes out so those threats could have become a reality.
That part! That sounded like a credible threat.
@@Hazel.Eyed.Gemini there have been several abusive plaintiffs that brought their victims to court
@Austin Barry "Liquor makes the truth come out," is a widely accepted myth that is not allowed in court. Liquor can make you also say a lot of BS too, and most judges need a lil more than drunk, slurred talking to make s judgement. Morally, he is dead wrong, but legally, he has some breathing room.
I’m gonna miss you Judge Mathis! Not just you but Peoples Court too?!? Life won’t be the same!
What? People's court as well?
What are we supposed to watch now? They could have given him 1 more season to make 25 years
Hopefully they'll continue uploading episodes to this youtube channel at least
He got picked up by a new network from Byron Allen and will be having a new show soon. I just read about it
The Peoples court judge she is more bias than Judge Mathis
3 kids by 19 🤦🏾♂️
They just glossed right past that.
With a 30 yr old grown ass man smh
And he was gone shut her down😂😂😂😂
I knew this was going to be good when he strutted in 🤣😂 he was a mess with all that toe tapping
The defendant should've paid back that loan.
Very true.
@@misterbee66 yes👍💯
@@charlessantee8329 👍💯
@Charles Santee 👎
@Austin Barry 👎
the voice mail was funny as hell lmaoooo
They cancelled our Judge y’all😞after 24 seasons. Idk what ima do to get through work now😭😭💔
Yesss I received that news feed and got in my feelings 🥺
Whatttttttt nooooooo
Bout time, he needs to go and do things that he actually enjoys
I will watch every single re-run 3x if I have too! Lol I’m never leaving Uncle JM 😂
He has a new show already starting in fall called Mathis Court
He abused her in the past so she had a reason to be afraid. He got with her when she was 19 and she was in a hard place and he saw an opportunity to have a young girl so he could control her and do whatever he wanted. If he does all of that on the phone imagine how he was raging out on her in person. I am glad for her that she got out of that situation and she needs to just stay away from him.
get over your self
the 19 year old grown woman with 3 kids was not a victim
justlearner2012 Exactly
@@ivonned32 He did prey on her because he much older than her classic manipulation
@@ivonned32 just bc a 19 yr old has 3 kids does not mean anything about their maturity level. The life experience, way of thinking, and maturity of 19 is not comparable to a 35 yr old.
"The rational part of a teen's brain isn't fully developed and won't be until age 25 or so. In fact, recent research has found that adult and teen brains work differently."
@@ivonned32 Did having 3 kids make her grown? Having 3 kids at 19 makes one incapable of being victimized? How did she become impregnated with those 3 children? I know you don't know, but evidently you think you do!
The way the plaintiff keep clicking them heels on the floor 😂😂😂😂 every time he say something, he click them heels 😂
Threats suddenly a joke????
Right like why is the audience cackling
This isn't a comedy show! Wasn't anything funny about his tirade. Had it been a White, Asian, Latino man speaking that way to a woman, no one would have laughed. Why do they think it is okay to laugh at this abusive behavior? Go back and look at her hands when he's going off like that. She didn't think it was funny and she feels it as if he was in the situation again. Maybe there is no excuse for not paying him back but come on THIS IS A SITCOM WHERE THESE STRANGERS GET TO Be entertained by being verbally abusive to this former girlfriend. He used her anyway. Common law marriages that all go to sh*t. After using her and beating her up for the duration of it. I'm just sorry she couldn't find a better man to partner up with. Imagine the psychological damage the children witnessed being in his presence on a daily basis. And then to lose a child too? SHEESH!!
Look how he strolled in🤣🤣🤣 I’m done
He’s drunk in the vm too 😳 😂 she needs to get and STAY FAR FROM HIM! glad she never had kids with him.
They look damn near the same age tho😳
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I can't stop laughing at this comment 🤣 🤣
It was the church shoes tapping for me😂😂
The voicemail !! 😭😂💀🤦🏽♀️
3 kids at 19??? How is that even possible. i bet 3 kids with 3 dudes too
She suppose to have 3 by women?
Very.... my mom had 3 at 18.... and 5 total before she was 21.... and now I'm 37 with no children.... cycle broken....
@@insanelybeautiful4090😂😂😂
One child is a mistake but 3 before 20, you knew better after the first child.
She needed a place to stay and he thought he had found an easy lay as she already had many children.
Bingo
How did her 3 pregnancies come about (meaning what were the circumstances)? Can you answer that question with facts? Or is venom and condemnation the only way you know how to examine and render conclusions on other people's lives and backgrounds?
This was a good episode. Too funny.
He ain’t gone hurt a fly or bust a grape 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😭🤣😭😂
I'll love to see that recording in a Skit..🤣
Now that was crazy & funny at the same time...
I don't know who side I'm on now..🤣😭😂😳🤣
Sad ! She could not figure out the words when JM asked to verbalize what might be some issues when 30 gets with 19, but she is right at those differences in age all kinds of things can go wrong.
Did you miss the part when they say she has 3 kids already?
Miss Ann Adventures The relationship was problematic because of the age difference
@@ivonned32 That has nothing to do with and older man preying on her
@@ivonned32 In your mind, what is the significance of that fact?
I know these are old episodes, but I just read that Judge Mathis has been cancelled- no more new episodes after this year, in May. Sad to see him go…
Yes indeed! I’m gonna miss his shows! Sometimes he’s off the mark but I love them all!
Ohhhh nooooo not unc...I love his shows...been watching since a kid...
@@lilyna8515 same here. I’ve probably seen almost every episode since season 2. It was a surprise, I figured they would let him get to season 25, but nope. They cancelled People’s Court also, but that show got boring during Covid, when they added her husband.
He'll be the first person she calls when she needs help.
It might take several calls, but, he'll say yes.
lol
3 kids 3 daddies got with a 35 year old ... Any choice after that of course wasn't gonna be a dream setting... She already known to make bad choices in life... 🤷🏾♂️🫣
That is not a reason to think bad about someone... Shit happens.. life happens
@@spliffanysplamos7230 accountability is women's kryptonite... 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ Especially when you have the sisterhood backing the bad choices...
@@spliffanysplamos7230 nah. If you’re 19 with 3 kids and 3 baby daddies you don’t need to be in a relationship. You need to grow and mature.
😂 it’s the voice recording for me !!!
Right 😂😂😂
This reminds me of another case where the defendant in the case was old school and left drunk messages like that on the plaintiffs voice-mail. Imma have to find the case. 🤣🤣🤣
She stayed with that man long enough for her kids to get."old enough" to not require her full attention and split lol
The voicemails were hilarious. I needed that laugh
Mathis has me dying with laughter 😂😂
If she was ANY TYPE OF SCARED of him- ain't no way she gon beg to use his car or borrow money when they haven't been together for years! & if she was SCARED- she would have paid him back immediately because she would not have wanted that side of him to come out! That man was just talking noise!(Like my 4'10" self do!🤣) That's why he brought her to court! A crazy MAD man would have put all 4 of her tires on flat, sugar in the tank, keyed her car, etc... He still loves her & didn't want to see her struggling
y’all swear y’all know these people
I love your comment ((Facts!!!👈💪💪💪
@@jules8655 🤣🤣🤣🤣 right!!! You sound like my husband!
@@maryleach9799 ❤️
I love JM!!!! However, I’m under the impression that these older males are all on drugs or alcohol if they date this young. 😢. This has to be some form of abuse.
So what are older women on when they date younger men 🤔🤔🤔
@@mikebratton2751 the same exact mess!! I don’t trust them either.
wealthy men do it all the time. I’m young and love dating older
Absolutely!
@@mikebratton2751 predators, just like men
My condolences to her for the loss of her child
U 35 and dating a 19 y/o that still didn't make it any better and u knew he was older & he has a bad memory
I just read that Judge Mathis has been canceled! Say it ain't so! it's been a great run! Thank you, Judge Mathis!
Peoples court cancelled as well. I'm thinking another network or avenue may pick them up.
He did his time💯
If he don't stop clicking those hard bottoms. 🤣I don't know if he's tap dancing or trying to get from oz
3 kids at 19??? She's constantly making bad decisions. He also made a bad decision even dealing with her. She's for the streets.
Also, banks still exist. Get a loan. Take some damn accountability.
Could’ve been abused at a young age
19 is barely an adult... So she was a teenager. As we see he's much older. So I'm willing to bet the father of her children is probably older too.
No telling what her childhood trauma, but u will blame her regardless for her "bad decisions" as a teenager 🙄
@@euqinom8561
19 years old makes her a full grown woman fool.
Men are considered full grown by 18 years old, and can fight in wars....
@@euqinom8561 There is a lot of blame going on in these comments. I am literally sick of vicious finger-pointing people without compassion, understanding, or knowledge.
Not he called her SLUE FOOT 😂😂😂
I’m gonna miss this show so much!!
Right i just seen the news of the JM show cancelling 🤦🏾♀️ 😔
Ohhhhh Noooooooo!!!!😩😩😩😩😩
Can we sign a petition
He was getting too temperamental and senile.
His ruling were just flat out bizarre at times.
They made the right decision cancelling this show.
Come to Judge Judy
@@genxer6928 I been in her but she don’t post full rulings on her channel
I'm in a bind Nate 😂😂
I’m So Happy I Escaped The Man Who Would Call Me Drunk And Be With Them Shenanigans
You them voice mail i replay them again lol 😂😂😂he was drunk lol
He sounds like a drunk family member in my family and it's a few of em 😆 🤣
The why the defendant walked into court looked like an episode of Martin 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
She lost me when she said “a child died in a fire“. You mean YOUR CHILD?? ..Her baby died in a fire and she says it so matter of factly. 🤯. Boffum elevators don’t go all the way to the top. 🤣🤣
What type of parenting and childhood and development do you think a 19 year old with three children who then spent 20 years with an abusive drunk had? What type of coping skills has she developed, what type of intellectual and emotional maturity has she developed? None of this should be shocking
@@worldhealthrn Werr not talking about a 19yr old woman. She’s grown (in court). I don’t know what video you watched, but I’m talking about TODAY. Keep up 👏🏽
Hopefully men walk away first before putting hands on anyone. But the defendant most definitely owes for the loan in this case.
Passyone....that's a new one for the list.
It's the recordings for me..😂😂😂
I wonder how many bridges did the defendant burn with other people before she felt she had no other option but to slither back to a man she claims is so abusive when he’s drunk (which appears to be often) that she’s afraid of him? Apparently, she was not fearful enough to avoid seeking a loan from, according to her, a man she said is verbally and physically abusive when inebriated. It had been several years since they were in what she described was a volatile and violent relationship after their first year together. In fact, according to the defendant it’s possible that the plaintiff might have allegedly been involved in the fire that ended the life of one of her children. And yet this is the person that she chose to reach out to for financial help? That sounds crazy. Why risk the potential harm to yourself to borrow money just to get your car fixed? Why not ask someone else who isn’t an alleged “threat” to you? Thank goodness the plaintiff had the presence of mind to get a signed document stating that the defendant would pay him back the money that she borrowed. Good job on the decision Judge Mathis!
If this man taps his feet one mo time 🤦🏾♂️😂😂😂
Lady, please. He was all of those things you claimed before you asked for his help. Pay the man.
I CANT BELIEVE THIS SHOW IS GETTING CANCELLED IVE WATCHED THIS MY WHOLE LIFE😢😢😢😢
Good, Mathis cases involving Dv he truly shows his male chauvinistic views personified😫😫 Each and every time
@@Kisses2die4 irregardless this has been a huge part of my life I’m shocked
He's a WHOLE HOT MESS!!! It's the foot tapping that gives it away!!!
Omg the voicemails😭
Man he liked em young and she liked seasoned 😂😂😂. That’s a long time to be dating without marriage.
How can she be smart and naive?
Dude is an old mack from way back, I hear his shoes clicking. Jive turkey!!!!!
Can we ALL try to figure out how we can sign a petition. To at least get him back on or to another network?
No
@Rose Marie, great idea!!!!
My sincere condolences of your child 🙏🏼
Called ha ass a hunch back mad times lmfaooooooo
If she were really scared you would think after those voicemails she would have paid him
so wtf his old self thought a 19yr old wanted from him? Some men are so delusional LMAO
19 with 3 kids? Wow she's a baby having babies. She's in the street,and the boys were ploughing away.
They voicemail 😂
he thought a teenager with THREE kids was naive to the streets??!! is that what he said?
19 w 3 kids she wasn’t that smart