Your Heart in a Toxic Relationship

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  • What happens to your heart when you are in a toxic relationship. Casi Creativo Animated Videos. Like and Subscribe for more!

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  • @whittenaw
    @whittenaw Рік тому +2361

    This is a pretty great way to explain the cycle of abuse.

  • @rowdybliss
    @rowdybliss Рік тому +1073

    Perfect visualization of what trauma bonding looks like.

  • @LuisSalazarRollan
    @LuisSalazarRollan Рік тому +3760

    For english people, at the end of the video, ORT means Otra Relacion Toxica, which means Another Toxic Relationship in spanish

  • @mlemay2486
    @mlemay2486 Рік тому +671

    I think anyone who has been in a toxic relationship can 100% relate to this perfect cartoon

  • @Veronica.John10-10
    @Veronica.John10-10 Рік тому +156

    Perfect example of Narcissistic Abuse

    • @sukaina3333
      @sukaina3333 Рік тому +5

      I'd add dismissive avoidants' abuse as well :(

    • @Casper-TheMaineCoon22
      @Casper-TheMaineCoon22 Місяць тому

      People abuse people, disorders don’t abuse people. “Narcissistic abuse” is an ableist term

  • @mugo2935
    @mugo2935 Рік тому +650

    Listen up guys. Don't immediately trust anyone who feels too good to be true. Anyone who feels like the perfect friend within a short time of knowing them is likely manipulating you.
    Normal people take time to know each other. You need to earn one another's trust before you can be comfortable around each other. It's just how the world works; you have to earn good things.
    Therefore, be very skeptical of a person who's willing to give you the world or tells you that you're the most amazing person they've ever met, yet you haven't known each other for a significant period.
    Such people do that to make you dependent on their resources or approval, which is why they'll randomly hurt you, as that allows them to gauge how much control they have over you.
    Such individuals are typically driven by the need to control others so they can get you to do whatever they want.

    • @davidm4566
      @davidm4566 Рік тому +26

      Yep- it could be lovebombing. Set boundaries and it helps to see if the person is toxic or not.

    • @HumbleFoxGaming
      @HumbleFoxGaming Рік тому +14

      Why do you sound like you are speaking from experience.
      Or maybe you are one of them cold persons. Hehehe.
      But any you are right.

    • @mugo2935
      @mugo2935 Рік тому +27

      @@HumbleFoxGaming Experience is the best teacher my friend. I wouldn't want anyone to go through what I had to go through in the name of trying to be accepted or fitting in.

    • @anoushkadas9755
      @anoushkadas9755 Рік тому +11

      @@mugo2935 You are absolutely correct and this is what exactly happened with me in a friendship and i can relate u completely....and when you get out of those toxic friendships...the heart and mind feels so calm and relieved😌😌 which Iam feeling nowadays...every relationship takes time to nurture!

    • @mugo2935
      @mugo2935 Рік тому +2

      @@anoushkadas9755 awesome bro. Yeah man, you just gotta set those boundaries and only love those who respect them

  • @fgghug4042
    @fgghug4042 Рік тому +454

    The way it looked so calm then he just pushes him off the carpet

  • @user-sw9wi1ni2y
    @user-sw9wi1ni2y Рік тому +118

    "What did I do to you" hit so hard

  • @davidm4566
    @davidm4566 Рік тому +323

    Going through a divorce and my heart skips beats sometimes and my chest hurts often.
    It was a toxic relationship, too.

    • @sanskarsharma1138
      @sanskarsharma1138 Рік тому +11

      I felt this same 3 yrs back and whatever they described its hella true bcoz pain in ♥️ just feels like that and believe me you will heal n heal more effeciently and hope you will get the best partner after this

    • @davidm4566
      @davidm4566 Рік тому +4

      @@sanskarsharma1138 Thank you for the kind words.

    • @sanskarsharma1138
      @sanskarsharma1138 Рік тому

      @@davidm4566 n don't 4get 2 invite me on mareiage when you find the best partner 4 ur life who is really genuine 😊

    • @priyabarai427
      @priyabarai427 Рік тому +4

      It is not good for your heart...I believe you are experiencing extreme stress which results in increased heart beats...Try breathing techniques and eat satvik food....hope it helps😊😊😊

    • @davidm4566
      @davidm4566 Рік тому +8

      @kren katbamon I was a very good husband. I wasn't perfect and made mistakes, but she turned out to be a narcissist that supplied emotional abuse. Toward the end I shut down and ended up grayrocking her. I wasn't that great of a husband at that point, but when you've dealt with years of emotional abuse you tend to leave or shut down.

  • @sudeshnadas3814
    @sudeshnadas3814 Рік тому +80

    Can feel this, when other person behaves warm and cold, that trauma is unexplainable and miserable.

    • @anoopraj7036
      @anoopraj7036 11 місяців тому +2

      Very much same I am also feeling..... the person hurts again and again yet we can go far from them and give them a more chance to hurt 🤕

  • @anoushkadas9755
    @anoushkadas9755 Рік тому +153

    This video really taught us that our heart and our well being is more important than any toxic relationship....I felt so emotional after watching this video,now relieved because my heart is healing after getting out of those toxic environment...😌😌

  • @sukaina3333
    @sukaina3333 Рік тому +37

    This is so true! 😢💔.. I hope no one ever gets in a toxic relationship.

    • @roguejester4986
      @roguejester4986 4 місяці тому

      My mother was in several, she was so desperate for them to stay ignoring that she ruins her children.

  • @esztervarga5431
    @esztervarga5431 Рік тому +43

    As someone who's trust broken so many times, I relate to this

  • @AnimationNation2
    @AnimationNation2 Рік тому +9

    That “you’re so sensitive” hurts because it doesn’t make any sense at all
    It’s more like we have to say “you’re toxic”

  • @anacoelho7603
    @anacoelho7603 Рік тому +80

    I've never seen anything that resonated so much with my life. Thank you for giving me clarity

  • @ly1278
    @ly1278 Рік тому +237

    I have been in this heart shoes and trust me.. It hurts like alot

    • @ŽaliaUgnis
      @ŽaliaUgnis Рік тому +5

      Me too...

    • @spxcemxn3079
      @spxcemxn3079 Рік тому +3

      Hope you're doing okay rn..

    • @EmpressAshe
      @EmpressAshe Рік тому +2

      😪 Same

    • @davideloi9176
      @davideloi9176 Рік тому +3

      Most people have

    • @thegaspingcatfish
      @thegaspingcatfish Рік тому +3

      It never stops hurting. The best thing I ever did was close my heart off to any new relationships to avoid being in another toxic one ever again

  • @dougnutdaisy9822
    @dougnutdaisy9822 Рік тому +80

    Rt stands for relationship trauma

    • @sabr_inappropriate
      @sabr_inappropriate Рік тому +5

      it stands for toxic relationship

    • @PossiblyQw9
      @PossiblyQw9 7 місяців тому +4

      ​@@sabr_inappropriate the r is first so it stands for relationship trauma and not toxic relationship bc then that would be tr

    • @Pinkdiva-gv8lx
      @Pinkdiva-gv8lx 4 місяці тому +4

      This is the English version of a channel that speaks Spanish, RT stands for relación tóxica

    • @thatonedude9269
      @thatonedude9269 4 місяці тому +2

      ​@@PossiblyQw9the original is in Spanish so RT is not "relationship trauma" but instead "Toxic Relationship"

    • @Vobo-Ghure
      @Vobo-Ghure 3 місяці тому

      @@sabr_inappropriate And what about ORT 3:03...??

  • @Gutiotyu
    @Gutiotyu Рік тому +24

    Mh hm.
    Sometimes some people quickly ended up in another relationship just to heal from past relationship without even realizing the red flags.

  • @infini.tesimo
    @infini.tesimo Рік тому +23

    A previous person I just separated ways with was like this. Could not separate personal from business. Had a boyfriend that she called a husband who did not do anything to financially help with or help do anything else to assist supporting her and her business goals. For some reason she stayed with him because I can only presume was for sex because no healthy human would even stay with someone that not only did that but also got hit abusively and had their property destroyed by them such as the work laptop. She pushed away her entire family and only allegedly kept them around for bailing her out of financial hardship because she herself wouldn't get a normal job to support herself even though she was doing a non profit business. It was always gaslighting people make her get things she wanted and even threatened to kill herself as way to make you feel bad about her situation and when you called her out on it she'd take whatever you said when it contradicted her narrative and it could appear as being an asshole when out of context and blasted that out on social media to get more people feeling bad for her to get more money for free. I am so glad I don't have to deal with that anymore.

  • @ramblincapuchin9075
    @ramblincapuchin9075 Рік тому +18

    I think the premise of people being social is that you look for decent outcomes for yourself and we look for weakness in other people, which is pruning for instant gratification
    Human beings want to feel like they've got a good beat on things, so information which is foreign needs to reflect the same. A new person coming along offering sweet nothings has bypassed that natural skepticism to remain in the know
    So the trouble is, because we are inherently selfish, we are always on the beat to make ourselves righteous. On the other hand no in is going to look out for your well being but you. You just forgot that when an intrusion occurs, you needed to be in the driver seat in maintaining who you let come in and out of their lives. Otherwise someone who is not fit to maintain net positives will end up taking you for a ride

  • @munduswebster5664
    @munduswebster5664 Рік тому +35

    Such a versatile display of true emotion in a comical sense. Sensational!

  • @sunandapaul007
    @sunandapaul007 Рік тому +11

    It's really true ... A perfect visualisation of our feelings 🙂

  • @PrincessTatyanna
    @PrincessTatyanna Рік тому +10

    I’ve had my fair share of toxic relationships and I’m glad to be out of them but it has caused me to be less trusting though

  • @shakilaoliver2542
    @shakilaoliver2542 Рік тому +17

    I had to run away and I'm in domestic violence shelter as we speak. I didn't my religion was abusive till he threw me out in a different stae after taking all my money, putting me in debt, and I rather be in the shelter with nothing than the times I was happy with him

  • @hiddenblastrider2198
    @hiddenblastrider2198 Рік тому +14

    They forgot the part where the heart ends it's own life.

    • @imbored01
      @imbored01 Рік тому +4

      Isn’t that too dark?

    • @sandidsaman7723
      @sandidsaman7723 10 місяців тому +1

      Thats why we have to keep moving forward alone and stop caring about others who dont deserve it
      Its okay to leave people behind , trust yourself ,go find yourself, its futile to live on other's expectation , life just goes on

  • @erikastone9183
    @erikastone9183 Рік тому +12

    The first toxic relationship in the video kinda reminds me of Doug from Family Guy cuz the way he talks is sending a types of red flags, like he talks is about how great he his and how he wants to do nice things for you when in reality all he really wants to is hurt you.

  • @taylorthompson9752
    @taylorthompson9752 Рік тому +10

    Finally something to resemble what toxic should be disposed of forever

  • @San-lh8us
    @San-lh8us Рік тому +86

    these animations are way too high quality for the amount of views they have

  • @abhinandp4206
    @abhinandp4206 Рік тому +44

    I am sure the channel have the potential to reach 1million subscribers or even more

    • @katekatey279
      @katekatey279 Рік тому

      Exactly ❤

    • @a.v.r3237
      @a.v.r3237 Рік тому

      The original channel 🗿🗿🗿

    • @abhinandp4206
      @abhinandp4206 Рік тому +1

      @@a.v.r3237 o ya i wasn't aware of the original channel when i watched there video i though they where new in here

  • @hectorsauceda4419
    @hectorsauceda4419 Рік тому +6

    Narcissism is painful

    • @sukaina3333
      @sukaina3333 Рік тому +3

      Dismissive avoidance is painful as well 💔

  • @almondiefrancis9451
    @almondiefrancis9451 Рік тому +16

    I love the spanglish in these videos. Just discovered this channel. I got rid of my RT last year, best day ever lol

  • @Fairymairy123
    @Fairymairy123 Рік тому +6

    “I am on another planet man”😭

  • @marvelfoxmorty5057
    @marvelfoxmorty5057 Рік тому +5

    The owner of this heart must be too easy to get fooled

  • @jesussdaughter788
    @jesussdaughter788 Рік тому +9

    it's most relatable 😂😂😂, I truly wanna appreciate it to put this contain

  • @FelixTheCat1919_PSN
    @FelixTheCat1919_PSN Рік тому +9

    The RT guy reminds me of the villain, Dr. Facilier, from 'The Princess and The Frog'.
    Too good to be true until it gets ugly..😼

  • @James-qz6os
    @James-qz6os Рік тому +11

    1:51 It's So Funny With A Fire Hose Or Water Pulling The Heart

  • @Ludak021
    @Ludak021 Рік тому +2

    Please make part II of this, just continue from where this ended. Much appreciated. :)

  • @PolyScope
    @PolyScope Рік тому +5

    So good relationship don't have ups and downs, just pleasant moments until the end.
    I wanna know, because all my relationships were like the one in the video.

    • @sukaina3333
      @sukaina3333 Рік тому +4

      I don't think so.. there are ups and downs in every single relationship... However, I believe if both partners care, respect, and love each other, they can overcome downs and conflicts. This is what I believe to be a healthy relationship.

    • @PolyScope
      @PolyScope Рік тому +1

      @@sukaina3333 I think you're right, and what you said is important.
      Thank you very much 🙂

    • @sukaina3333
      @sukaina3333 Рік тому +2

      @@PolyScope You're welcome! I wish you meet a caring partner that treats you well and makes you happy and relaxed. (and I wish myself the same😇)

    • @Tatusiek_1
      @Tatusiek_1 Рік тому

      @@sukaina3333Sometimes all you can do is dream.

    • @sandidsaman7723
      @sandidsaman7723 10 місяців тому

      Thats why we have to keep moving forward alone and stop caring about others who dont deserve it
      Its okay to leave people behind , trust yourself ,go find yourself, its futile to live on other's expectation , life just goes on

  • @kerruo2631
    @kerruo2631 Рік тому +6

    Jokes on you, I've never been in a relationship

    • @miha3847
      @miha3847 Рік тому

      😮😮😮😮 good for you

  • @vivian0001
    @vivian0001 Місяць тому

    That's exactly what someone I trusted in did to me. Still painful

  • @Anshikaa25o
    @Anshikaa25o Рік тому +2

    Oh my God 😍 your creativity is on the top. Thank you for this video ❤

  • @EvilBandeez
    @EvilBandeez Рік тому +23

    1:16 some people are going to repeat this scene.

    • @JaggedBird
      @JaggedBird 9 місяців тому

      Foot fetishists and ASMR enjoyers. There's elements of the latter in that scene so if wouldn't surprise me if the former isn't the reason. It's RT's voice and music I'd say... Or rather, it's visual with the hand movement idk I never understood visual based ASMR triggers

  • @Jacques-w6z
    @Jacques-w6z Місяць тому

    HA!The way he pushes him off the carpet gets me every time.

  • @mrdjzeph7170
    @mrdjzeph7170 Рік тому +18

    1:14 man wat da hell is this💀

  • @ellhawa
    @ellhawa 6 місяців тому +1

    I'm crying , I was in toxic relationship 3 years and finally I ended it.

  • @sheilatorejo1670
    @sheilatorejo1670 4 місяці тому

    Oh my gosh thr roller coaster of emotions I felt watching this video.

  • @RayMak
    @RayMak Рік тому +1

    It takes long to heal

  • @acat3652
    @acat3652 Рік тому +7

    It is so accurate. I have been through this.

  • @私o
    @私o 7 днів тому

    Never trust someone who always hurts you and forgives you because of that . Instantly, they are trying to trick you

  • @LittleRedRobyn
    @LittleRedRobyn Рік тому +3

    I love your video's, thank youuuu! ❤️

  • @user-ix6vv8lo5j
    @user-ix6vv8lo5j Рік тому +1

    toxic relationship? more like any relationship

  • @mahinahar6111
    @mahinahar6111 3 місяці тому

    Thousands time true they just know how to give pain continuously. 💔💔💔💔💔💔

  • @pbaebarbiep_wasrestricted7396
    @pbaebarbiep_wasrestricted7396 Рік тому +1

    Have been in a toxic relationship and since then the one person who truly loves me is been treated toxic by me
    Am trying so hard to stop been toxic to him but i can't control my anger

  • @vidhugill
    @vidhugill Рік тому +3

    I want to meet the creative team... So good man so good

  • @Tom-80-321
    @Tom-80-321 Рік тому +1

    Should say your heart eventually in every relationship

  • @Ropewatch
    @Ropewatch Рік тому +2

    You know what? I‘m starting to feel like I‘m RT. I need to change.

  • @leonidcatalan228
    @leonidcatalan228 21 годину тому

    Its sad how this is so real

  • @1980ify
    @1980ify Рік тому +1

    This is Deep
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    Very Deep
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    .

  • @justinpigg1694
    @justinpigg1694 Рік тому +4

    this pretty accurate

  • @hannaholivia4
    @hannaholivia4 5 місяців тому +1

    This is the first time I’ve seen blood on this UA-cam channel

  • @beautifullife0987
    @beautifullife0987 Рік тому +5

    This is the so terrifying 😭

  • @TheRealWildberry
    @TheRealWildberry 7 місяців тому +1

    The part that the heart got a paper cut gives me a new phobia💀💀💀

  • @warai-san
    @warai-san 3 місяці тому

    Heart's naiveness is killing me 😭 adorable...

  • @gabebarden7064
    @gabebarden7064 Рік тому +4

    0:42 literally drugs

  • @jasmineolinan5343
    @jasmineolinan5343 Рік тому +2

    Im a fan,from all ur vids.Very creative👍👍👍

  • @Vitartial
    @Vitartial 10 місяців тому +1

    Brain: You never learn, do you

  • @Sinead77G
    @Sinead77G Рік тому +3

    I felt really uncomfortable when heart fell off the menten like it was happening right now in me

  • @trailermovies6357
    @trailermovies6357 3 місяці тому

    Wow , as a great description as it's a crucial and sensitive experience ❤

  • @clarence1810
    @clarence1810 7 місяців тому +1

    This is so true

  • @TheDarkizer
    @TheDarkizer Рік тому +1

    bruh atleast i need 2 years to heal my heart to start over again.

  • @Idk_what_to_call_channel_name
    @Idk_what_to_call_channel_name Рік тому +22

    The blood
    ITS PERFECT

  • @rizwansboringlife2850
    @rizwansboringlife2850 Рік тому

    it really open my mind , i relating myself with it

  • @JaggedBird
    @JaggedBird 9 місяців тому

    I've been in this type of relationship before... it's terrifying

  • @ABC-xy8mg
    @ABC-xy8mg 11 місяців тому

    This channel is so freaking great 😂❤💯👍

  • @kavinandan5337
    @kavinandan5337 Рік тому +2

    ORT - open relationship trauma

  • @diana.156
    @diana.156 Рік тому +1

    Amazing work 😻✨

  • @Nangnumasvlogs
    @Nangnumasvlogs 4 місяці тому +1

    1:20 the feet-

  • @Waltyworld
    @Waltyworld Рік тому

    Love this channel

  • @AdisaKola
    @AdisaKola Рік тому +1

    And to think about it, I have been in one of them 😭 thank god I quit it

  • @raviolilover6927
    @raviolilover6927 Рік тому +4

    Heart got high lol

  • @alanstargalaxy6516
    @alanstargalaxy6516 Рік тому +1

    OTHER RELATION TOXIC

  • @kimberlylewistyner2070
    @kimberlylewistyner2070 6 місяців тому +2

    0:54 omg !!!!!

  • @animationinworld7
    @animationinworld7 Рік тому +1

    Why heart is keep believing this RT😢

  • @tionia
    @tionia 4 місяці тому

    And if u will experience something like that one after another (and not only with partners, but also parents and 'friends') end scene look like that: heart pushing away anyone who wanna come to u from 1km distance, especiall when u also have INFJ type of personality. U just learning that most safe for u its just not meeting and talking to anyone as much as u can because u must defending yourself not only from toxic ppl but also from your shitty persolality (shitty because of this toxic world) e.g. to prevent your empathy from taking control again because only what u know its pain from that... 😢

  • @-The_guy-0
    @-The_guy-0 21 день тому

    Our hearth is like a poor soul and trusts so many people and wants good relations. But in this part listening the brain would be better

  • @snowball3743
    @snowball3743 Рік тому +6

    1:18…this is cursed😊

  • @Astratheprotogen
    @Astratheprotogen 6 місяців тому +2

    3:03
    R and T should switch places since TR is toxic relationship

    • @lilithbeanieboos
      @lilithbeanieboos 2 місяці тому

      Different language

    • @Astratheprotogen
      @Astratheprotogen 2 місяці тому

      @@lilithbeanieboos why the hell is there a different language on a English video it must be a mistake

  • @savitajadhav1314
    @savitajadhav1314 Рік тому +1

    and the next trap is overthinking

  • @burutatung
    @burutatung Рік тому +4

    RT seriously looks like my EX

  • @eli_chaps
    @eli_chaps Рік тому

    Some accurate stuff. Sooo accurate.
    Perfecto

  • @blixxy537
    @blixxy537 Рік тому +1

    1:46 escape, theres no back bars

  • @punchy1006
    @punchy1006 Рік тому

    Damn that heart got some huge grippers

  • @user-vu6kp9pp9b
    @user-vu6kp9pp9b Рік тому +1

    True enough

  • @RIP__DRAGONBALL__CREATOR_AKIRA

    We need a video :"your organs when u drink"

  • @ighproperties5076
    @ighproperties5076 4 місяці тому

    I was in a relationship once she was diagnosed with depression but in reality she was Bipolar.. Ever live with a Bipolar woman who is not taking the right medication? It is like a prison one moment everything is great this is how you wish she would be all the time then all hell breaks loose and she take a hammer to the walls and breaks things. Saying it is your fault. All this in front of her Son who is 12 at the time. Yep then one day she hit the walls again threw the hammer at my head broke my own children's pictures they made for me and her own son call the the Sheriffs and had her taken away then put in a mental facility... After all that you want to love her but she needs help.... sad really. She is gone now and I hope her son is doing well he texts me sometimes and says Mom is screaming again... I hope she finds help

  • @Cuphead_DLC
    @Cuphead_DLC Місяць тому

    0:53 that sounds like when you destroy an apple in mpg

  • @Wh1sperso
    @Wh1sperso Рік тому +2

    WHY IS THIS TRUEEE AUAGGHG

  • @aarontravis2385
    @aarontravis2385 Рік тому

    That's how they get you they break you your heart

  • @sidra884
    @sidra884 2 місяці тому

    Hats off to u!

  • @countryballphil9722
    @countryballphil9722 Рік тому +2

    The toxic is for stomach