2.1 = 21 kids for every 10 couples...or .1% growth rate. One is born for every death, basically. If we go any lower, our population is in Decline. That's why it's so bad Those pesky guide stones... remember the ideal population?
NOWHERE is world peace a promise of God. Meanwhile millions of Bible believing and obeying Christians have marriages that reflect Jesus and what the Bible says a husband and wife can be like!
They out there brotha. And ones that do all that and more!! Believe me. I got one. Trust GOD brotha. Be patient. His timing is PERFECT!!💯🙏🙌❤️ I wish I would have. I'm one of those that'd be on that body count statistic.🤦♂️😭 But GOD Blessed me with the best one!! Super Grateful💯🙌🗣
My husband and I have been talking about this subject lately. So many single, childless relationship gurus nowadays. Whatever happened to getting advice from our elders? Or even just those with more lived experience than us? People get offended when I say there’s nothing a single person can tell me about marriage. But it’s true. If I’d listened to the advice I’ve been given from single (and even divorced) people, there’s no way I’d still be married.
I’m single and I’ve been telling my friends I’m only taking advice from married people because they achieved what I want. Im not sure what’s with following people who haven’t accomplished the goals that you want. I also try to give minimal advice because I know that I’m still trying to figure things out.
What a load of pride, if your partner falls away from God, becomes a homosexual and decides to divorce you there's nothing you can really do about it. As for your other ignorant and prideful statements they are well addressed in the excellent book by Sam Allbery, "7 Myths about Singleness" in particular chaper 5, which covers the myth "Singleness Hinders Ministry". You my friend have turned your marriage into an idol if you think there's nothing singles can contribute to your marriage and pride comes before a fall.
@@JanusDuo You assume too much. I didn’t say anything about people whose spouses have wronged them. Avoiding advice from the ignorant people isn’t prideful. What’s prideful is these internet relationship gurus who’ve never been in a monogamous relationship, let alone a marriage, trying to dish out advice. Again, you assume to much. And what is it with you internet Christian’s always trying to accuse someone of making something an idol or some other mess? Again, you assume too much.
@@JB-kr3xz My grandparents are my blueprint. They gave me plenty enough marriage and dating advice while they were living. If I require more, I ask older married women or my Christian counselor. But I absolutely will NOT take advice from single people. They’ve yet to say anything worthwhile. And honestly, neither have over half of the divorced people I’ve spoken to either.
@@ArkaydeTheSage Well if you haven't seen your error stay consistent and be sure you're not taking Jesus or Paul's marriage advice considering they're single people and single people can't give good marriage advice. As far as the content creators being criticised, Ruslan is taking them out of context. I've seen the full context and he's assuming they have a different perspective than they do. Not that they don't need critisism but this is a straw man he's arguing against in this video. I guarantee I spend more time in brick and mortar church meetings and home based Bible studies than most so it seems we both assume something about each other. My assumption is based on what you revealed about yourself, yours is just made up.
We as Christians, especially men, need to be more courageous in the examples we lead, in speech and life. Voddie echoed the same, a husband is priest, prophet, provider, and protector for his wife and family. No woman would be ashamed or afraid of that, I know my wife isn't.
@@fitbchristopher every story in the Bible shows that women tend to be self destructive if they don’t have men or women keep them in check. Look at feminism. Look at divorce and how to favors women. Look at the beginning of the Bible where eve is not put in check and she just becomes self destructive by disobeying God. Now I won’t leave out Adam, and he fell because he didn’t stick to his purpose of being the leader. Men need to keep themselves in check because when men fail, women fail, but women must be protected from themselves because they have a tendency to self destruct, and we see that with an explosion of OF, sexual immorality(the minority of men sleeping with the majority of women), and feminism where women now are more depressed than ever in the west. I stand by what I said. You’ll disagree with me because feminism in the church tells you to.
No, actually, we don't need to do or be any of those things. We can just focus on our own lives and our own work, and navigate around the massive social messes that we did not create. Until we are offered REAL INCENTIVES to deal with any of that crap, men will continue to remain away from the church, marriage, college, etc.
@@sullathehutt7720 so just ignore Jesus commandment? Matthew 5:13: “You are the salt of the earth, but if salt has lost its taste, how shall its saltiness be restored? It is no longer good for anything except to be thrown out and trampled under people’s feet." then we truly won't be good for anything but to be trampled under people's feet.
When it comes to relationships, I listen to my Nigerian Parents. They have been in a joyful and fulfilled marriage for 35 years. The only thing is that I want a marriage even better than theirs. I used to be afraid of marriage after working in a divorce court and coming across the redpill. My sisters are all in beautiful marriages. I am trusting more in God now and have seen my faith growing stronger than my fear. I will be 29 next week.
The Power of the Praying Wife by Stormie Omartian (who has been married for years…lol) has helped changed my marriage so much! So greatful for this book and her experience in how to be a wife that is God honoring.
My wife and I love those books! That’s our go to wedding gift, the power of praying Wife and the power of praying husband, as well as Paul David trips new morning mercies devotional.
High value man doesn’t mean you’re free to cheat on women. Masculinity has nothing to do with promiscuity. This particular ideology from Red pill community is just another shade of feminism. Sex liberation just like feminism. You’re contributing or giving in to feminism rather than adhering reinforcing traditional gender roles for both parties.
Yet, biology, society, and even Scripture, seem to indicate otherwise. Human males are clearly designed to spread their seed far and wide. As uncomfortable as it may be for some, this fact remains.
Being Single Christian women living in chastity is not that easy specially in this present society. Definitely I would love to be housewife serving my family rather than serving outside of house! I am waiting on God to let that happen in my life. A strong Godly man spiritually and mentally who knows his role in house. Otherwise I will live a life of celibacy if God don’t have any plan for me to be with another person.Either way I am Thankful to Lord.
I also find it hard, not because of today’s feminism. I realized many Christians I looked up to had committed a lot of sexual sins in their past (elders with multiple divorces, children out of wedlock, ect). It’s one thing for non Christians to do this. I didn’t care- they do not follow my standards. However, I realized I had to really take ownership of these standards for myself, and develop my relationship with God further.
For women its really easy though, there are alot of traditional christian men who would love to marry a virgin wife. Its rare and valuable in our time.
The 2.1 is not necessarily relaying to life expectancy but rather some families have more or less children, therefore with simple maths we end up at 2.1 on average. This comment is no hate, I enjoy your videos, but many youtubers talk about statistics they can’t clearly break down, which creates more confusion🙏🏾
Excellent message today man! Yes we need men to really man up in everyway! Especially if they want a biblical wife. Get strong, work hard, be generous, and be a shining example for the lord.
I am a woman who has a 2 and 3-year old in daycare and I would love to be the one who raises them and not have them in daycare. Kids that young need their mother.
What's stopping you? Do the math. Make it work on your husband's salary or tell him to get a 2nd job. You literally have a 4 year window of time with Littles. It goes fast.
I think it is personal so statement like young kids need their mother, makes it sounds like women who decide to work when their children are young and they have the financial capability not to, are somehow bad mother or not parenting right.
@pesibelau554 I am not saying that. Sometimes the mother feels it is in their best interest to be the one making the money or just don't have the choice. I don't judge because I have no choice. But I would have loved it if my ex husband would have stopped partying and helped me so I could be there for my children instead of having them in daycare. We need more men to step up and give us the option.
@@AnitaSoler It's very hard to get into a traditional marriage lifestyle after you already set the expectations that you would be working from the start, that is something that needs to be discussed at the start of the relationship.
@@RDCFemmes i don’t think that’s what she’s implying, she works so she would be essentially calling herself a bad mom which is not true, both working moms and stay at home moms are amazing,’one is not better than the other 💕
Your part's not done yet! Raise three godly children and help with the nine grandchildren! Stay healthy so you can assist with the 27 great-grandchildren, too!
I birthed 4 and my father is 1 of 16 kids!! I have 52 1st cousins on his side out of those cousins some had 6-8, most others 2-4 & I can't think of 1 that had 0.... our family tree has all kinds of branches!! Keeping the Carter name alive!!
🙌 you just exposed a monumental truth!! Half truth is worse tha lies if i am asked. Church has been avoiding these subjects in young people and turned their eyes in opposite direction when the "subject" was raised or seen coming!! God's the creator and designer per excellence... we need Him to walk in His excellence.
I pray that people begin to see Gods love for us in the scriptures. A loving father provides wisdom and truth to his kids not to bash truth over our heads, but because he knows in the end it will only benefit us.
This is good. The "worse than an infidel" verse is always taken out of context, since it was about people letting family members rely on church handouts. However the overall message is spot on. The Church needs to address all the concerns, the Gospel remains relevant in all cases.
The whole issue is the church needs to engage in talks About sex more. And the framework in which purity culture exists it’s always framed as putting shame on women. It’s been scientifically proven that women also have equal sex drives to men.
Yeah the amount of times I've heard pastors comment that women's drives aren't as much or sex isn't as much as a priority, that may be true for some but there's a lot of women where that doesn't apply or isn't accurate. Would love to see more open conversations in church.
It's absolutely proven that women do not have the same sex drive as men !!! Ask any married man. Women are aroused by some men on some circomstances, husbands or not, but it is not at the same level as men. It is pretty clear, exceptions are not the rule. Women are responsible as well as men for what they allowed, it will never change, there is nothing acceptable about promiscuity, it's up to the adult person to preserve themself and moreso women who are the only one who can get pregnant.
I'm not sure about this. I am not disagreeing that there is a lot of shame thrown on women, but I think it happens in the other way. I am a young man, and I can tell you the teaching I've had has been tough. I have a lot of shame because of my past. I know the responsibility placed on me as a dude and I feel a lot of shame, guilt, and regret for the times I have failed.
SOME women have equal sex drives to men. Some women have greater sex drives than men. Most women however have weaker sex drives than men.This is brute fact. What people aren’t saying is that there are ways to increase a woman’s libido so she will desire sex more frequently.
Honestly it feels like men get shamed a lot more nowadays for any inkling of sexual attraction. Most women do not understand Male physiology and sexuality
I honestly really hate what’s being advertised. I grew up taught to be married and I dealt with men who lie and waste your time. I got pressured so much to have sex.
Pastor Josh is the pastor at our home church. You won’t find a better communicator of the Bible than Josh. Love all the videos Ruslan. Keep growing the kingdom
One other thing... the other half of your commentary on women wanting to stay home. Is women have to be willing to live within the means the man provides. The community should push men to achieve more but that achievement may never come, or take a long time. Women need to be disabused of their desire for the best life. Otherwise the unofficial harem will remain in effect.
True. Most young men are lost now because of the push for female empowerment. The thing is the Lord will provide a way a woman can earn a little money. There’s childcare, , sewing and alterations , craft sales, other things.
@@MeanBeanComedy no one wants to willingly live in poverty and a neighborhood filled with violence. Most people are trying to get out of those neighborhoods and it certainly isn’t an idea place to raise children. Of course everyone should be realistic and that’s where you have to ask yourself the question if you can live on one income and still live in a decent neighborhood or will it take 2 incomes? Do you want your children to live in a gang filled area? These are the questions I believe every young single person needs to ask themselves and their potential partners.
Love this. “Level up” is always a good message when people are in a relationship with God. Especially if they’re representing God. It SHOULD be hard to be a representative of God. The bar IS high because Christ is the bar. But coming into relationship with Christ has to be easy. Because people can’t get themselves right. At best they’ll be whitewashed tombs, clean on the outside but dead on the inside. Step 1 is the relationship. Step 2 is walking the walk. Step 3 is extending what you’ve been given to everyone else around you. 🙂
I agree with what you are saying. Looking at the title about being in church leads me to another observation. Church in the western world has become a spectator activity. In my opinion if our gatherings became every member participating, our environment would change dramatically and quickly. If each person had a word, a testimony, and encouragement, a question, a perception, a prophesy, etc, rather than a one person show of teaching a bunch of observers, things would get real, very quickly. Leaders would have to learn to answer hard questions and deal with real life issues and not just speak into the congregation from afar. That being said, it may be possible that "covid" may be the best thing that has happened to the church in this generation. Getting people to stand on their own and grow, rather than sitting like baby birds with their mouths open for the pastor to drop in a bit of food. Just thinking out loud.
I other words the Church should be actively discipling and making space for those disciples to disciple others. It could be that simple but yes we don’t see it as much. Crazy thing is it should be easier to do given the technological advances we have now in social media. The Church should teach and train and also equip its members.
@@Nitra813 That's one way of saying it. What I had in mind is an environment where every person present has the opportunity and is encouraged to share their life, their gifts and talents with the whole group. This is nearly impossible in a traditional evangelical setting, where people are more encouraged to keep quiet and listen and not disturb the preplanned agenda of the church staff. Nothing like organic meetings where everyone participates.
Hey Ruslan, I just wrote a book about relationships coming from a Christian perspective. I’d like to send you a copy and see what you think. Where can I get in contact with you to know where to send it?
I think the two income families makes having kids so expensive. If you both work daycare is crazy expensive. If you can stay home putting an extra bed in the kids room cost almost nothing. Cooking for 2 kids instead of 4 really doesn't cost much more. We always have tons of left overs with 3 kids.
"the bar is high" ehhhhh that's not what Jesus says: "Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls." - Matthew 11:29 People need to stop saving themselves and let the gospel change them. Everyone has areas they need to work on. I get what Ruslan is saying but I'm concerned it's giving this you gotta save yourself attitude in the name of Jesus. The pressures to change should be at the feet of the gospel. Learn who you are and never stop your hunger to understand the meaning of the cross. It's a lot deeper than you think!
One more thing: hate to disappoint a lot of you (judging by these comments), but following Christ is NOT redpill lite. If you think it is, then you must have the wrong Jesus. Judging by these comments, y’all would have witnessed the radical ways in which Jesus elevated women (still elevates women, by the way), and you wouldn’t have known what to do with yourselves.
@@R._L. Say. What was the name of the non-Jewish member of the original 12? Can you tell us how he gained apostolic status? Oh, or what about the name of the white member of the original 12? Can you tell us how he gained apostolic status?
Please don’t bash Andrew Tate, PRAY for him. Andrew has converted to Islam. He was an atheist prior to Islam. Pray for his soul and for his brother, Tristan.
Pearly thing and Andrew tate are funny though😂😂.. Their arguments on why men can be promiscuous and woman shouldn't based on science, as if they are scientist themselves😂.. They just are supporting the concept of stay at home moms and men being the provider nothing else..
it would be more interesting to look into the reason why women are opting out of marriage and childcare. When you hear story like Achraf Hakimi and the reaction of men accress the globe, women are seriously asking what's the point? Women have the most to lose when they decide to start a family: it is taxing on their health (physical and mental), it affects their finances and theu careers and when they find themselves in an unhealthy marriage and decide to leave, they still be denied things that will help them no to make the children live in poverty. By the way, even before I became a Christian, I stopped calling myself a feminist. I am anti-feminism.
You’d think if the woman are calling for most of the divorces, it’s because they’ve had it with the conditions they’ve been put in, so I’d say divorced women should speak to men to help them so more men and women on what not to do to stay happy.
Creative take. Now, considering a few facts: 1) While women are the gatekeepers of sex, men tend the gatekeepers of relationships. 2) Most breakups are initiated by women. 3) Most alimony and child support payments go from men to women (> 90%). How surprising would it truly be that... 4) Most single men are no longer actively engaging in the dating scene 5) Marriages are at an all-time low. And, lastly... 6) The birth rate is dropping below the replacement threshold The issue seems to stem from an obvious current reality, one that can be summed up in the following question: In western societies, what are the *incentives for men* to get married?
@@R._L. It's literally the most priceless incentive: a longer, healthier, and happier life. Unfortunately, the red-pill talking points never tell the truth about this fact. They spend so much time hating on the proverbial woman that will take them for the money they don't yet have, that they don't point out the obvious stats around life expectancy and health outcomes for married men vs. single. Also the great thing bout facts, is the question 'why.' Do you know why women typically initiate divorce? Because on average women tend to feel stifled by marriage in the 21st century standard where most household's need a dual income AND she's still primarily responsible for child-rearing, cleaning, cooking, and other domestic work. And do you also know why men aren't "actively engaging in the dating scene" as you put it? Because they don't possess the skills to get dates and as a result aren't seeing much luck when they try (particularly with online dating). You're not helping young men step up to the plate if you're being intellectually dishonest about the same stats we can all google. Asking why is a good start.
@@nicholebestman2517 Upon closer inspection, the happiness and longevity stats for married men seem to, interestingly, disregard divorce and separated families, which is, at best imcomplete; or, at worst, deceiving.
@@R._L. that’s actually not fully true. Though these stats don’t account for men who are separated, they do account for men whose marriages ended in divorce or widowhood. The results are the same: men who are married (and stay married) are healthier and live longer than their counterparts.
Fresh & Fit Logic: 1.) Women should marry young and be a virgin (or close to one) so after she marries a high value man, he can cheat on her from time to time, in exchange for security and family. 2.) A man sleeping with other women is not cheating unless he spends a lot of money on her. 3.) If a woman divorces her man, it’s her loss because she loses her dating value that’s unrecoverable even more with children, in spite of gaining money. 4.) A man loses money after divorce which can be recovered in other ways while a woman after a divorce loses dating value which can’t be recovered. 5.) High value man should add more body count to women so he can disqualify her for marriage for having more than a 10 body count. 6.) Men care about a woman’s past yet don’t care about adding more body count to her past. 7.) Men are biological wired to spread their seeds therefore he has the natural urge to cheat yet he’s not impregnating every woman he sleeps with as biologically wired let alone marrying each of them.
Cute caricature. 🤡 Best to not represent their truthful take on things. 🤫 Who knows how young men could be swayed by it, instead of following the conventional socially-approved programme... 😁
1-2% divorce rate for Christians who attend church every week, instead of 50% (or potentially higher for “Christians”). The LEAST likely to be involved in domestic violence is Christians who attend church every week, one study says.
Nice to hear. Although, it may be simply that one of the first thing to go when married couples are having major issues is their joined church attendance. (Imagine the prying eyes and juging stares at such a difficult time...) That said, curious about the study. If available, a link to it would be appreciated.
While I will always nitpick ruslan for his characterization of redpill manosphere,mainly because I beleive christianity owes them for basically being the ones to call out that this shit has to stop. I violently agree with him otherwise. There is one thing I think your message is missing though ruslan nad its important because Its the only way I can see for this not to happen again. The church needs to talk about in the most unflattering way who we are as human beings. It needs to talk about our sinfulness not in biblical terms but in real practical terms easily demonstrted by our day to day activities. It is because of our sinfulness that these proscriptions work. It is because of our sinfulness than the sexual liberation failed. But if we only every talk about our failings and human instincts in abstract terms like sinfulness. the message i think misses alot of people who came to the church for guidance but never coudl get past looking for a justification for why its proscriptions are something we should do. This is less important now when the train wreck is all around us for those who have eyes to see. But when we get to the point where we are successful, Examples will be scarce. So scarce that they will be easily excused as extreme's not worth consideration. Which will lead to the cycle repeating itself.
Red pill guys tell men they can go sleep with as many women as they want and there are no consequences, they tell them even religious women will not care about their high body count. This is not true, and they are misleading other young men. Red pill seems to be about men who want their cake and eat it too.
“The church needs to talk about in the most unflattering way who we are as human beings.” All of scripture explicitly states that humanity is evil and that God is the only force for good in this universe. The church has spent the past 2000 years preaching this message. Every church that I’ve been to, every sermon that I have ever listened to has spoken about human nature in the most unflattering and brutally honest way. “It needs to talk about our sinfulness not in biblical terms but in real practical terms easily demonstrated by our day to day activities.” Bro literally thousands of churches do this. What sermons have you been listening to? Seriously, have you never come across a single pastor that speaks in these terms? What area of the country do you live in?
@@armandvega2752 been to church in a god fearing christian Caribbean country. Been to churches in the states. None of them talk about what sinfulness looks like in real everyday life. Sure do talk about it in the abstract biblical sense though
Rev 2. God created animals for Adam, he named them but In time Adam still needed.... So he put him in a deep sleep 😴.... And made him a "HELPER" called Eve and it was good..... So technically and I'm not a red pill. But according to the word the Woman was created as a "Helper"... Alot of blue pill women would not agree. Anyways just a thought.
A lot of the current issues in society stem from the assumption that men and women are the same. Although possibly well-intentioned, this assumption is, in most aspects, objectively a mistake. Regardless, the truth always comes out in the end.
sex outside of marriage is like drugs, you spend your time chasing the high you got when you started, the curse of the information age is people can seek out advice that tells them what they want to hear, rather than listen to advice that would help them in the long run ,but difficult to hear
Just to comment. There are some errors. In 2020 the divorce race is only 25% and the marriage rate is now only 50%. It seems like the people who shouldnt be married are no longer marrying. It should work itself out in the future.
I went to a few bars last night with a buddy of mine and it seemed like women have gotten less and less classy in terms of attire and behavior. Men have as well with behavior but as a man who is trying to keep Gods commands and believes in Christ I see it harder to find a wife with so much promiscuos lifestyle.
The actual stat, Ruslan, is that 56% of women in 2019 would rather work than be a home maker. And that the percentage of women that would rather work outside the home has continued to increase over the last 3 decades, not decrease. And you may want to consider the fact that in societies with reasonable maternity leave and child care (ex. European countries), the percentage of women that would rather work jumps up even higher. Last thing, what’s actually biblical is that BELIEVERS are priests, not just the husband.
Ruslan- Much love for you my brother. Love your content. Keep being bold for Christ! Just to help you out a little bit... Any decimal point related to birth rates is just about mathematical averages. For example: Say you have two married couples. One couple has five children. The other has none. The birth rate of that hypothetical population of four adults is 2.5 (5 total children divided by 2 couples). It's not that anyone lost a child or anything. Last point- If you want some encouragement about the future of the U.S., take a look at some of the available studies regarding birthrates of Conservative Christians vs. Liberal Progressives in this country. Plainly put, as long as good Christian parents do their job and bring up their children to fear the Lord, there will be a massive swing in the population in a generation. Standby...
I think everyone is being hard on the little red headed woman. She atleast talks of trying harder on your marriage before throwing in the towel. She has a lot of really good points and is trying to save marriages.
They are clear differences. One tries to adhere to a framework that is acceptable today's gynocentric worldview. The other exposes the truth about intersexual dynamics. Both are trying to recruit young men because their are the driving force of any human society, and a good majority of them are currently checked out for lack of incentive.
No culture, nation, ethnicity or religion in any space or time allowed female promiscuity and came to this conclusion separated by time, space, language, culture and religion....... until now
For every 10 couples, 9 must have 2 kids and 1 must have 3 kids. That is basic replacement rate. Population wise, China and Western Europe are in decline. China might not be here in 10 years. Western Europe might not be here in 20 years.
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2.1 = 21 kids for every 10 couples...or .1% growth rate.
One is born for every death, basically. If we go any lower, our population is in Decline. That's why it's so bad
Those pesky guide stones... remember the ideal population?
I just want a wife who will love me as I love her. I don't want a lover, a maid, or a personalized cook. I want a life partner.
You can have that in this country.
But there are options that are different than your preferences.
U might want to read what the bible has to say about marriage, then u will know what to expect
NOWHERE is world peace a promise of God.
Meanwhile millions of Bible believing and obeying Christians have marriages that reflect Jesus and what the Bible says a husband and wife can be like!
They exist. They are in the Church.
They out there brotha. And ones that do all that and more!! Believe me. I got one. Trust GOD brotha. Be patient. His timing is PERFECT!!💯🙏🙌❤️ I wish I would have. I'm one of those that'd be on that body count statistic.🤦♂️😭 But GOD Blessed me with the best one!! Super Grateful💯🙌🗣
My husband and I have been talking about this subject lately. So many single, childless relationship gurus nowadays. Whatever happened to getting advice from our elders? Or even just those with more lived experience than us? People get offended when I say there’s nothing a single person can tell me about marriage. But it’s true. If I’d listened to the advice I’ve been given from single (and even divorced) people, there’s no way I’d still be married.
I’m single and I’ve been telling my friends I’m only taking advice from married people because they achieved what I want. Im not sure what’s with following people who haven’t accomplished the goals that you want. I also try to give minimal advice because I know that I’m still trying to figure things out.
What a load of pride, if your partner falls away from God, becomes a homosexual and decides to divorce you there's nothing you can really do about it. As for your other ignorant and prideful statements they are well addressed in the excellent book by Sam Allbery, "7 Myths about Singleness" in particular chaper 5, which covers the myth "Singleness Hinders Ministry". You my friend have turned your marriage into an idol if you think there's nothing singles can contribute to your marriage and pride comes before a fall.
@@JanusDuo You assume too much. I didn’t say anything about people whose spouses have wronged them. Avoiding advice from the ignorant people isn’t prideful. What’s prideful is these internet relationship gurus who’ve never been in a monogamous relationship, let alone a marriage, trying to dish out advice. Again, you assume to much. And what is it with you internet Christian’s always trying to accuse someone of making something an idol or some other mess? Again, you assume too much.
@@JB-kr3xz My grandparents are my blueprint. They gave me plenty enough marriage and dating advice while they were living. If I require more, I ask older married women or my Christian counselor. But I absolutely will NOT take advice from single people. They’ve yet to say anything worthwhile. And honestly, neither have over half of the divorced people I’ve spoken to either.
@@ArkaydeTheSage Well if you haven't seen your error stay consistent and be sure you're not taking Jesus or Paul's marriage advice considering they're single people and single people can't give good marriage advice. As far as the content creators being criticised, Ruslan is taking them out of context. I've seen the full context and he's assuming they have a different perspective than they do. Not that they don't need critisism but this is a straw man he's arguing against in this video. I guarantee I spend more time in brick and mortar church meetings and home based Bible studies than most so it seems we both assume something about each other. My assumption is based on what you revealed about yourself, yours is just made up.
We as Christians, especially men, need to be more courageous in the examples we lead, in speech and life. Voddie echoed the same, a husband is priest, prophet, provider, and protector for his wife and family. No woman would be ashamed or afraid of that, I know my wife isn't.
we need to restrict women then. protect them from themselves.
@@IffyEdem what?? How on earth did you come to that conclusion?
@@fitbchristopher every story in the Bible shows that women tend to be self destructive if they don’t have men or women keep them in check. Look at feminism. Look at divorce and how to favors women. Look at the beginning of the Bible where eve is not put in check and she just becomes self destructive by disobeying God. Now I won’t leave out Adam, and he fell because he didn’t stick to his purpose of being the leader. Men need to keep themselves in check because when men fail, women fail, but women must be protected from themselves because they have a tendency to self destruct, and we see that with an explosion of OF, sexual immorality(the minority of men sleeping with the majority of women), and feminism where women now are more depressed than ever in the west. I stand by what I said. You’ll disagree with me because feminism in the church tells you to.
No, actually, we don't need to do or be any of those things. We can just focus on our own lives and our own work, and navigate around the massive social messes that we did not create.
Until we are offered REAL INCENTIVES to deal with any of that crap, men will continue to remain away from the church, marriage, college, etc.
@@sullathehutt7720 so just ignore Jesus commandment? Matthew 5:13: “You are the salt of the earth, but if salt has lost its taste, how shall its saltiness be restored? It is no longer good for anything except to be thrown out and trampled under people’s feet." then we truly won't be good for anything but to be trampled under people's feet.
When it comes to relationships, I listen to my Nigerian Parents. They have been in a joyful and fulfilled marriage for 35 years.
The only thing is that I want a marriage even better than theirs. I used to be afraid of marriage after working in a divorce court and coming across the redpill. My sisters are all in beautiful marriages. I am trusting more in God now and have seen my faith growing stronger than my fear.
I will be 29 next week.
What does it mean to be a man?
A priest, provider, and protector.
And capable, confident, and competent.
Provide what? Protect from what?
@@aleksandrac9335 Men 😢
The Power of the Praying Wife by Stormie Omartian (who has been married for years…lol) has helped changed my marriage so much! So greatful for this book and her experience in how to be a wife that is God honoring.
This was helpful early in my marriage as well
@@Veri7a I just bought 5 copies to give to my married friends 😂 🤍🤍🤍
My wife and I love those books! That’s our go to wedding gift, the power of praying Wife and the power of praying husband, as well as Paul David trips new morning mercies devotional.
@@thebullgator That’s so cool! Im a wedding photographer and give out these praying cards from Daily Grace Co as a little gift for them.
Y’all are FIRE 🔥 discussing hot topics from a biblical perspective. This is the content I been looking for for the past year
High value man doesn’t mean you’re free to cheat on women. Masculinity has nothing to do with promiscuity.
This particular ideology from Red pill community is just another shade of feminism. Sex liberation just like feminism. You’re contributing or giving in to feminism rather than adhering reinforcing traditional gender roles for both parties.
Yet, biology, society, and even Scripture, seem to indicate otherwise.
Human males are clearly designed to spread their seed far and wide.
As uncomfortable as it may be for some, this fact remains.
Being Single Christian women living in chastity is not that easy specially in this present society. Definitely I would love to be housewife serving my family rather than serving outside of house! I am waiting on God to let that happen in my life. A strong Godly man spiritually and mentally who knows his role in house. Otherwise I will live a life of celibacy if God don’t have any plan for me to be with another person.Either way I am Thankful to Lord.
I also find it hard, not because of today’s feminism. I realized many Christians I looked up to had committed a lot of sexual sins in their past (elders with multiple divorces, children out of wedlock, ect). It’s one thing for non Christians to do this. I didn’t care- they do not follow my standards. However, I realized I had to really take ownership of these standards for myself, and develop my relationship with God further.
For women its really easy though, there are alot of traditional christian men who would love to marry a virgin wife. Its rare and valuable in our time.
🙄 Good Lord, how hard is it really to just not have sex lol. You birds are ridiculous.
I love it. Respect Ruslan. May God raise up godly men, amen!!
The 2.1 is not necessarily relaying to life expectancy but rather some families have more or less children, therefore with simple maths we end up at 2.1 on average. This comment is no hate, I enjoy your videos, but many youtubers talk about statistics they can’t clearly break down, which creates more confusion🙏🏾
Excellent message today man! Yes we need men to really man up in everyway! Especially if they want a biblical wife. Get strong, work hard, be generous, and be a shining example for the lord.
Needed this seriously!
I am a woman who has a 2 and 3-year old in daycare and I would love to be the one who raises them and not have them in daycare. Kids that young need their mother.
What's stopping you? Do the math. Make it work on your husband's salary or tell him to get a 2nd job. You literally have a 4 year window of time with Littles. It goes fast.
I think it is personal so statement like young kids need their mother, makes it sounds like women who decide to work when their children are young and they have the financial capability not to, are somehow bad mother or not parenting right.
@pesibelau554 I am not saying that. Sometimes the mother feels it is in their best interest to be the one making the money or just don't have the choice. I don't judge because I have no choice. But I would have loved it if my ex husband would have stopped partying and helped me so I could be there for my children instead of having them in daycare. We need more men to step up and give us the option.
@@AnitaSoler It's very hard to get into a traditional marriage lifestyle after you already set the expectations that you would be working from the start, that is something that needs to be discussed at the start of the relationship.
@@RDCFemmes i don’t think that’s what she’s implying, she works so she would be essentially calling herself a bad mom which is not true, both working moms and stay at home moms are amazing,’one is not better than the other 💕
With the grace of God my third son will be born in August. Glad to know we are doing something positive for society 😅.
Wheeeww!!! I broke out in praise dance when you talked about raising the bar 💃🏾👏🏾💃🏾👏🏾💃🏾👏🏾💃🏾👏🏾
Of course you would!
Every time I listen to you I gain so much wisdom and yet you are so much younger than I but god has put you in my path and I am happy.😊
I birthed 3 so I did my part 😂😂
Your part's not done yet! Raise three godly children and help with the nine grandchildren! Stay healthy so you can assist with the 27 great-grandchildren, too!
Appreciate you soldier 😂 👊
Me too!
I birthed 4 and my father is 1 of 16 kids!! I have 52 1st cousins on his side out of those cousins some had 6-8, most others 2-4 & I can't think of 1 that had 0.... our family tree has all kinds of branches!! Keeping the Carter name alive!!
@@MeanBeanComedy very true, she just mentioned the easy part. The most important part is how you raise them😊
🙌 you just exposed a monumental truth!! Half truth is worse tha lies if i am asked.
Church has been avoiding these subjects in young people and turned their eyes in opposite direction when the "subject" was raised or seen coming!!
God's the creator and designer per excellence... we need Him to walk in His excellence.
“The bars high” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😆👏🏾. Yes. Show some accountability and responsibility lovd to see it.
I pray that people begin to see Gods love for us in the scriptures. A loving father provides wisdom and truth to his kids not to bash truth over our heads, but because he knows in the end it will only benefit us.
This is good. The "worse than an infidel" verse is always taken out of context, since it was about people letting family members rely on church handouts. However the overall message is spot on. The Church needs to address all the concerns, the Gospel remains relevant in all cases.
i aint gone hold you but you doing your thing!
The whole issue is the church needs to engage in talks About sex more. And the framework in which purity culture exists it’s always framed as putting shame on women. It’s been scientifically proven that women also have equal sex drives to men.
Yeah the amount of times I've heard pastors comment that women's drives aren't as much or sex isn't as much as a priority, that may be true for some but there's a lot of women where that doesn't apply or isn't accurate. Would love to see more open conversations in church.
It's absolutely proven that women do not have the same sex drive as men !!! Ask any married man. Women are aroused by some men on some circomstances, husbands or not, but it is not at the same level as men. It is pretty clear, exceptions are not the rule.
Women are responsible as well as men for what they allowed, it will never change, there is nothing acceptable about promiscuity, it's up to the adult person to preserve themself and moreso women who are the only one who can get pregnant.
I'm not sure about this. I am not disagreeing that there is a lot of shame thrown on women, but I think it happens in the other way. I am a young man, and I can tell you the teaching I've had has been tough. I have a lot of shame because of my past. I know the responsibility placed on me as a dude and I feel a lot of shame, guilt, and regret for the times I have failed.
SOME women have equal sex drives to men. Some women have greater sex drives than men. Most women however have weaker sex drives than men.This is brute fact.
What people aren’t saying is that there are ways to increase a woman’s libido so she will desire sex more frequently.
Honestly it feels like men get shamed a lot more nowadays for any inkling of sexual attraction. Most women do not understand Male physiology and sexuality
I died when you yelled “Yuck!” 😂
It's almost like God doesn't haven't to punish a person for sexual sin-it's sin, not God, that brings the death.
Very understated truth but an incredibly powerful one
Ruslan rapping was the last thing I just expected to see. But then it was good! And God said behold his rapping is good!
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I honestly really hate what’s being advertised. I grew up taught to be married and I dealt with men who lie and waste your time. I got pressured so much to have sex.
God be with the people of this world and Jesus bless Ruslan 🙏🕊️✝️
Pastor Josh is the pastor at our home church. You won’t find a better communicator of the Bible than Josh. Love all the videos Ruslan. Keep growing the kingdom
I want someone that loves God more than she loves me!
Most underrated comment. Can't love someone else properly until you love God and yourself first. You cannot pour from an empty cup right.
brothers and sisters the substitution of "delete" for "death" has to be one of the funniest forms of censorship ever.
You got the bars my man! Sheesh nice bruh nice!! 😜🎤💯🌴
One other thing... the other half of your commentary on women wanting to stay home. Is women have to be willing to live within the means the man provides. The community should push men to achieve more but that achievement may never come, or take a long time. Women need to be disabused of their desire for the best life. Otherwise the unofficial harem will remain in effect.
Good point. Wise man. How old are you? Are you married?
True. Most young men are lost now because of the push for female empowerment. The thing is the Lord will provide a way a woman can earn a little money. There’s childcare, , sewing and alterations , craft sales, other things.
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no one wants to willingly live in poverty and a neighborhood filled with violence. Most people are trying to get out of those neighborhoods and it certainly isn’t an idea place to raise children.
Of course everyone should be realistic and that’s where you have to ask yourself the question if you can live on one income and still live in a decent neighborhood or will it take 2 incomes?
Do you want your children to live in a gang filled area? These are the questions I believe every young single person needs to ask themselves and their potential partners.
@@qesther1241 Your options aren't choosing between the Hood or the Hamptons. You can find somewhere in between that's safe.
I had you playing in the background and you caught my attention when you quoted the Chris Rock song. 😂
Love this. “Level up” is always a good message when people are in a relationship with God. Especially if they’re representing God. It SHOULD be hard to be a representative of God. The bar IS high because Christ is the bar. But coming into relationship with Christ has to be easy. Because people can’t get themselves right. At best they’ll be whitewashed tombs, clean on the outside but dead on the inside. Step 1 is the relationship. Step 2 is walking the walk. Step 3 is extending what you’ve been given to everyone else around you. 🙂
Awesome video!!! Sending to my little brother 🔥
At what point do women "step up"? At what point do women take responsibility for their actions?
That’s what I have been saying as well…
Luke 21:15
For I will give you a mouth and wisdom, which all your adversaries shall not be able to gainsay nor resist.
For more on this, you can read Glenn Scrivener's The Air We Breathe, Tom Holland's Dominion, and Kyle Harper's From Shame to Sin.
I agree with what you are saying. Looking at the title about being in church leads me to another observation. Church in the western world has become a spectator activity. In my opinion if our gatherings became every member participating, our environment would change dramatically and quickly. If each person had a word, a testimony, and encouragement, a question, a perception, a prophesy, etc, rather than a one person show of teaching a bunch of observers, things would get real, very quickly. Leaders would have to learn to answer hard questions and deal with real life issues and not just speak into the congregation from afar.
That being said, it may be possible that "covid" may be the best thing that has happened to the church in this generation. Getting people to stand on their own and grow, rather than sitting like baby birds with their mouths open for the pastor to drop in a bit of food. Just thinking out loud.
I other words the Church should be actively discipling and making space for those disciples to disciple others.
It could be that simple but yes we don’t see it as much.
Crazy thing is it should be easier to do given the technological advances we have now in social media.
The Church should teach and train and also equip its members.
@@Nitra813 That's one way of saying it. What I had in mind is an environment where every person present has the opportunity and is encouraged to share their life, their gifts and talents with the whole group.
This is nearly impossible in a traditional evangelical setting, where people are more encouraged to keep quiet and listen and not disturb the preplanned agenda of the church staff. Nothing like organic meetings where everyone participates.
This is great! The Bible says count the cost! The cost is high we shouldn’t try to cheapen it
Hey Ruslan, I just wrote a book about relationships coming from a Christian perspective. I’d like to send you a copy and see what you think. Where can I get in contact with you to know where to send it?
What’s worse is that Ruslan read the world line as the US. The US line is already below 2.1 3:43
Ruslan, definitely one of your best vids I loved this topic so much
this is good content!! praise God!
I think the two income families makes having kids so expensive. If you both work daycare is crazy expensive. If you can stay home putting an extra bed in the kids room cost almost nothing. Cooking for 2 kids instead of 4 really doesn't cost much more. We always have tons of left overs with 3 kids.
Hey Ruslan, you mixed up the United States graph to the World graph. US is already heavily under 2.1.
"the bar is high" ehhhhh that's not what Jesus says: "Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls." - Matthew 11:29
People need to stop saving themselves and let the gospel change them. Everyone has areas they need to work on. I get what Ruslan is saying but I'm concerned it's giving this you gotta save yourself attitude in the name of Jesus. The pressures to change should be at the feet of the gospel. Learn who you are and never stop your hunger to understand the meaning of the cross. It's a lot deeper than you think!
Inspired point.
One more thing: hate to disappoint a lot of you (judging by these comments), but following Christ is NOT redpill lite. If you think it is, then you must have the wrong Jesus. Judging by these comments, y’all would have witnessed the radical ways in which Jesus elevated women (still elevates women, by the way), and you wouldn’t have known what to do with yourselves.
So true. Even the woman found in adulterer was given Grace by Jesus Christ. He didn’t join in with the men to stone her.
Say... What was the name of the female member of the original 12 Disciples of Jesus of Nazareth?
And, how did she attain apostolic status?
@@R._L. Say. What was the name of the non-Jewish member of the original 12? Can you tell us how he gained apostolic status? Oh, or what about the name of the white member of the original 12? Can you tell us how he gained apostolic status?
AMEN!!! 🙏🏼 ur speaking facts!!!!
Please don’t bash Andrew Tate, PRAY for him. Andrew has converted to Islam. He was an atheist prior to Islam. Pray for his soul and for his brother, Tristan.
The bar is high men, so jump up, grab it, and start getting your reps in.
I just want a husband that loves God and His Word and me!!!!! 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
But he should have a job right?
@@mika274 Of course! That's just for survival!
Shout out Josh Howerton!! Dallas ,TX!
Raise the bar. Love that concept
Pearly thing and Andrew tate are funny though😂😂.. Their arguments on why men can be promiscuous and woman shouldn't based on science, as if they are scientist themselves😂.. They just are supporting the concept of stay at home moms and men being the provider nothing else..
Exodus 4
22 And thou shalt say unto Pharaoh, Thus saith YHWH, *Yisra'eyl (Deut.**28:15**-68) is My son, even My Firstborn:*
Josh Howerton a real one man that’s my pastor
DFW in the house lol
Great vidio 👍🏻
You misread the birthrate chart. The line you kept pointing to was worldwide. The US line was below it and already below the 2.1 line for a while.
Brother for The Rock eyebrow in the thumbnails now ☠️😂
Yes preach!
A person cannot repent if they feel no need to. The Bible shows us our sin. So the word of good has the answers!
I will join to The " Amish Tribe "
Just tired with this Modern Progresive Toxic Era !!
Emotional Damage !!
amen brother
PREACH!
The bar is high!! but no one talks about it. just grab a donut and coffee after service and go home lol
On the chart, I think the USA is the dark blue and the world is gray. The current USA fertility rate is 1.64.
Spot on.
it would be more interesting to look into the reason why women are opting out of marriage and childcare. When you hear story like Achraf Hakimi and the reaction of men accress the globe, women are seriously asking what's the point? Women have the most to lose when they decide to start a family: it is taxing on their health (physical and mental), it affects their finances and theu careers and when they find themselves in an unhealthy marriage and decide to leave, they still be denied things that will help them no to make the children live in poverty. By the way, even before I became a Christian, I stopped calling myself a feminist. I am anti-feminism.
You’d think if the woman are calling for most of the divorces, it’s because they’ve had it with the conditions they’ve been put in, so I’d say divorced women should speak to men to help them so more men and women on what not to do to stay happy.
Creative take.
Now, considering a few facts:
1) While women are the gatekeepers of sex, men tend the gatekeepers of relationships.
2) Most breakups are initiated by women.
3) Most alimony and child support payments go from men to women (> 90%).
How surprising would it truly be that...
4) Most single men are no longer actively engaging in the dating scene
5) Marriages are at an all-time low.
And, lastly...
6) The birth rate is dropping below the replacement threshold
The issue seems to stem from an obvious current reality, one that can be summed up in the following question:
In western societies, what are the *incentives for men* to get married?
@@R._L. It's literally the most priceless incentive: a longer, healthier, and happier life.
Unfortunately, the red-pill talking points never tell the truth about this fact. They spend so much time hating on the proverbial woman that will take them for the money they don't yet have, that they don't point out the obvious stats around life expectancy and health outcomes for married men vs. single.
Also the great thing bout facts, is the question 'why.' Do you know why women typically initiate divorce? Because on average women tend to feel stifled by marriage in the 21st century standard where most household's need a dual income AND she's still primarily responsible for child-rearing, cleaning, cooking, and other domestic work.
And do you also know why men aren't "actively engaging in the dating scene" as you put it? Because they don't possess the skills to get dates and as a result aren't seeing much luck when they try (particularly with online dating).
You're not helping young men step up to the plate if you're being intellectually dishonest about the same stats we can all google. Asking why is a good start.
@@nicholebestman2517
Upon closer inspection, the happiness and longevity stats for married men seem to, interestingly, disregard divorce and separated families, which is, at best imcomplete; or, at worst, deceiving.
@@R._L. that’s actually not fully true. Though these stats don’t account for men who are separated, they do account for men whose marriages ended in divorce or widowhood. The results are the same: men who are married (and stay married) are healthier and live longer than their counterparts.
I think you read the stat for the world as the stat for the US, I believe we’re below where we need to be
Fresh & Fit Logic:
1.) Women should marry young and be a virgin (or close to one) so after she marries a high value man, he can cheat on her from time to time, in exchange for security and family.
2.) A man sleeping with other women is not cheating unless he spends a lot of money on her.
3.) If a woman divorces her man, it’s her loss because she loses her dating value that’s unrecoverable even more with children, in spite of gaining money.
4.) A man loses money after divorce which can be recovered in other ways while a woman after a divorce loses dating value which can’t be recovered.
5.) High value man should add more body count to women so he can disqualify her for marriage for having more than a 10 body count.
6.) Men care about a woman’s past yet don’t care about adding more body count to her past.
7.) Men are biological wired to spread their seeds therefore he has the natural urge to cheat yet he’s not impregnating every woman he sleeps with as biologically wired let alone marrying each of them.
That’s what secular dating advice gets you.. disaster 😂
Cute caricature.
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Best to not represent their truthful take on things.
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Who knows how young men could be swayed by it, instead of following the conventional socially-approved programme...
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Well I'm counting for a couple couples lol married 14 years 6 kids later and divorce isn't an option till death! Oh and we are 34and 35
1-2% divorce rate for Christians who attend church every week, instead of 50% (or potentially higher for “Christians”).
The LEAST likely to be involved in domestic violence is Christians who attend church every week, one study says.
Nice to hear.
Although, it may be simply that one of the first thing to go when married couples are having major issues is their joined church attendance.
(Imagine the prying eyes and juging stares at such a difficult time...)
That said, curious about the study. If available, a link to it would be appreciated.
I would also add that that has not been my experience in my marriage or in those in my church, re: those having major marriage issues
While I will always nitpick ruslan for his characterization of redpill manosphere,mainly because I beleive christianity owes them for basically being the ones to call out that this shit has to stop. I violently agree with him otherwise.
There is one thing I think your message is missing though ruslan nad its important because Its the only way I can see for this not to happen again. The church needs to talk about in the most unflattering way who we are as human beings. It needs to talk about our sinfulness not in biblical terms but in real practical terms easily demonstrted by our day to day activities. It is because of our sinfulness that these proscriptions work. It is because of our sinfulness than the sexual liberation failed. But if we only every talk about our failings and human instincts in abstract terms like sinfulness. the message i think misses alot of people who came to the church for guidance but never coudl get past looking for a justification for why its proscriptions are something we should do.
This is less important now when the train wreck is all around us for those who have eyes to see. But when we get to the point where we are successful, Examples will be scarce. So scarce that they will be easily excused as extreme's not worth consideration. Which will lead to the cycle repeating itself.
Red pill guys tell men they can go sleep with as many women as they want and there are no consequences, they tell them even religious women will not care about their high body count. This is not true, and they are misleading other young men. Red pill seems to be about men who want their cake and eat it too.
Totally agree
“The church needs to talk about in the most unflattering way who we are as human beings.” All of scripture explicitly states that humanity is evil and that God is the only force for good in this universe. The church has spent the past 2000 years preaching this message. Every church that I’ve been to, every sermon that I have ever listened to has spoken about human nature in the most unflattering and brutally honest way.
“It needs to talk about our sinfulness not in biblical terms but in real practical terms easily demonstrated by our day to day activities.” Bro literally thousands of churches do this. What sermons have you been listening to? Seriously, have you never come across a single pastor that speaks in these terms? What area of the country do you live in?
@@armandvega2752 I am assuming the OP is speaking about the popular mega churches that preach prosperity and nonbiblical nonsense..
@@armandvega2752 been to church in a god fearing christian Caribbean country. Been to churches in the states.
None of them talk about what sinfulness looks like in real everyday life. Sure do talk about it in the abstract biblical sense though
In Jesus name Amen High standards let's Goooooooooo
Christian men need to be in the Manosphere!!
Rev 2. God created animals for Adam, he named them but In time Adam still needed.... So he put him in a deep sleep 😴.... And made him a "HELPER" called Eve and it was good..... So technically and I'm not a red pill. But according to the word the Woman was created as a "Helper"... Alot of blue pill women would not agree. Anyways just a thought.
A lot of the current issues in society stem from the assumption that men and women are the same.
Although possibly well-intentioned, this assumption is, in most aspects, objectively a mistake.
Regardless, the truth always comes out in the end.
sex outside of marriage is like drugs, you spend your time chasing the high you got when you started, the curse of the information age is people can seek out advice that tells them what they want to hear, rather than listen to advice that would help them in the long run ,but difficult to hear
Just to comment. There are some errors. In 2020 the divorce race is only 25% and the marriage rate is now only 50%. It seems like the people who shouldnt be married are no longer marrying. It should work itself out in the future.
Links to the studies would be welcomed.
So what does my best friend do. She cant unsleep with someone. Is it just over for her
I went to a few bars last night with a buddy of mine and it seemed like women have gotten less and less classy in terms of attire and behavior. Men have as well with behavior but as a man who is trying to keep Gods commands and believes in Christ I see it harder to find a wife with so much promiscuos lifestyle.
Bars are probably not the best places to look
Bars!!!
The actual stat, Ruslan, is that 56% of women in 2019 would rather work than be a home maker. And that the percentage of women that would rather work outside the home has continued to increase over the last 3 decades, not decrease. And you may want to consider the fact that in societies with reasonable maternity leave and child care (ex. European countries), the percentage of women that would rather work jumps up even higher. Last thing, what’s actually biblical is that BELIEVERS are priests, not just the husband.
The .1 means that every 9 couples 1 has 3 babies instead of 2 childs.
Imagine we all died out from lack of babies, instead of climate change, AI/robots, or some unpredictable natural disaster.
got a link to that post?
I’m confused.. what’s “pearly things”? I know you have to moderate certain words you say, but I couldn’t decode this one
_JustPearlyThings_ is a UA-cam channel.
Ruslan!!!! The music sounds fire!!! New fan for sure! Love the content
Ruslan-
Much love for you my brother. Love your content. Keep being bold for Christ!
Just to help you out a little bit... Any decimal point related to birth rates is just about mathematical averages. For example: Say you have two married couples. One couple has five children. The other has none. The birth rate of that hypothetical population of four adults is 2.5 (5 total children divided by 2 couples). It's not that anyone lost a child or anything.
Last point- If you want some encouragement about the future of the U.S., take a look at some of the available studies regarding birthrates of Conservative Christians vs. Liberal Progressives in this country. Plainly put, as long as good Christian parents do their job and bring up their children to fear the Lord, there will be a massive swing in the population in a generation. Standby...
There goes the depopulation debate.
It’s almost like people can’t do math. 🤷♀️
I think everyone is being hard on the little red headed woman. She atleast talks of trying harder on your marriage before throwing in the towel. She has a lot of really good points and is trying to save marriages.
Have you watched her content? Because her advice is 'never leave, no matter what. especially if you have kids'. And that's not good advice at all.
@@RedSoloCuppppp Lol calm down.
@@joerodriguez6282 lol Pearl is that you?
Also she is not little at all... She's 6ft
Yup, they're throwing her under the bus to stop the truth from getting out. Hit dogs holler.
What’s the deal with pearlythings ?
Honestly, idk the difference between what he says and what andrew tate says 9:02
It's just in the manner it's said between both of them.
Yes, the difference is the end game & the methods to reach the goals, but they're on the same page generally speaking.
They are clear differences.
One tries to adhere to a framework that is acceptable today's gynocentric worldview.
The other exposes the truth about intersexual dynamics.
Both are trying to recruit young men because their are the driving force of any human society, and a good majority of them are currently checked out for lack of incentive.
No culture, nation, ethnicity or religion in any space or time allowed female promiscuity and came to this conclusion separated by time, space, language, culture and religion....... until now
Not true
For every 10 couples, 9 must have 2 kids and 1 must have 3 kids. That is basic replacement rate. Population wise, China and Western Europe are in decline. China might not be here in 10 years. Western Europe might not be here in 20 years.
Jesus is king 👑 ❤🙏
2.1 is just a average!