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  • Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of the Whittaker family of Odd, West Virginia.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 8 тис.

  • @SoftWhiteUnderbelly
    @SoftWhiteUnderbelly  Рік тому +620

    Here's a link to a GoFundMe campaign to help the Whittaker family purchase a new home: gofund.me/c3d062e7.
    For those preferring other ways to donate, you can also use PayPal @marklaita824 or cashapp $swumarklaita.

    • @jehouse61
      @jehouse61 Рік тому +130

      Mark, can I donate for a doctor for Ray?

    • @sharonlewer4088
      @sharonlewer4088 Рік тому +3

      @@jehouse61 they have already taken him to doctors. This is just a scam. These people are trying to get their money.

    • @wvgirl7264
      @wvgirl7264 Рік тому +4

      They need home healthcare in a bad way and someone to come on a daily basis to clean, do their laundry, take their trash out, help them bathe, etc. or else a new home isn't going to benefit them much. I mean it would for a while but it would be just a matter of time before it's in the same condition as the current home. Unfortunately, none of them have the mental capacity to take care of a home or themselves. I am in no way shape or form trying to be rude, it's just the reality. Yes Betty is the main caregiver but she's on the same spectrum as the others with the exception of being able to communicate a little better. They all receive SSI and Medicaid so that should cover those expenses. I don't have a clue why this hasn't already been put into place, maybe it has and they don't want any part of it, or maybe people just can't tolerate it. Who knows but I do wish them the best of luck.

    • @wvgirl7264
      @wvgirl7264 Рік тому +39

      @@jehouse61 I'd say they have taken Ray to a doctor but with his mental state, I doubt he will let anyone touch him much less attempt to give him any kind of shot and/or surgeries. That's just my guess.

    • @FoamBros603
      @FoamBros603 Рік тому +59

      If people want to donate to buy me a new house just lmk. Lmfao if life was that easy

  • @SoftWhiteUnderbelly
    @SoftWhiteUnderbelly  Рік тому +6626

    I rarely have time to read comments on my videos, but yesterday I took a peak and after reading a couple very sweet comments, I decided to read more. After reading many comments yesterday (all of them very kind and compassionate) it made my day. I’m so proud of the community we’ve built here. I think this is my proudest moment since starting SWU.

    • @caitlinjohnny3828
      @caitlinjohnny3828 Рік тому +124

      Stay awesome mark!

    • @Dolly-Days
      @Dolly-Days Рік тому +86

      ❤️ Love this community! Thanks for all the hard work!

    • @doubled3962
      @doubled3962 Рік тому +118

      Thank you Mark ❤ for visiting this sweet family , and advocating for them 🙏💕💯

    • @Anne-Marie_ThatGirl
      @Anne-Marie_ThatGirl Рік тому +90

      a interview with just the ladies of the family, some kind of shopping spree. ... that would be lovely, 🙂

    • @Iluvmemore38
      @Iluvmemore38 Рік тому +45

      I will be & thanks Mark for all u doing & good deeds! 👍 keep safe.❤️💖

  • @Americanhoney86
    @Americanhoney86 Рік тому +1302

    Oh my heart just about burst when Lorraine jumped up and greeted you both. The growth is incredible. We need more Marks in this world.

    • @PianoGirl76
      @PianoGirl76 Рік тому +49

      Me too! I swear she said "Hi, Marky." That was precious!

    • @myoldvhstapes
      @myoldvhstapes Рік тому +23

      @@PianoGirl76 Yes, I also heard "Marky!"

    • @debzwatchin
      @debzwatchin Рік тому +18

      She must have made Marks day ❤

    • @cherylnixon7800
      @cherylnixon7800 Рік тому +15

      I know, and she remembered the lady too I think her name is Lauren. That was sweet.

    • @Adrienne.p
      @Adrienne.p Рік тому +5

      Me too 😍

  • @jillianpantano6461
    @jillianpantano6461 Рік тому +2701

    Lorraine saying "hi" absolutely melted me. She doesn't ever talk, and the fact she got up, all excited and said hi to both of them. Just melted me

    • @pepinyostep3592
      @pepinyostep3592 Рік тому +68

      IKR! I teared up when she went to hug his assistant

    • @spacejew-zf7zn
      @spacejew-zf7zn Рік тому +9

    • @carold1603
      @carold1603 Рік тому +86

      I think I heard Lorraine say "I'll take a hug!" after Lauren hugged Ray. I'm pretty sure she said "Come on in!" a few minutes before that. It was so uplifting to see this lovely lady open up and clearly verbalize what she's thinking. Amazing!

    • @VioletJoy
      @VioletJoy Рік тому +28

      That speaks volumes. 😭

    • @laswan5
      @laswan5 Рік тому +30

      My favorite moment in the video. I felt so happy!!

  • @Vikram777ish
    @Vikram777ish Рік тому +291

    I hope Ray's knee pain is dealt with and his health gets better. Dude is a cool person 🙌🏻

  • @iDanielaRamone
    @iDanielaRamone Рік тому +837

    Timmy is always busy. He’s either coloring, writing, or doing a word search. He’s always keeping his mind active. I love that. This family has really grown on me.

    • @Rifboukidan020
      @Rifboukidan020 Рік тому +33

      And always smiling to

    • @peg1518
      @peg1518 Рік тому +33

      I noticed that too, haha it's so adorable. In the Walmart one when he was so excited about the coloring book, my heart melted

    • @indigofay
      @indigofay Рік тому +7

      Same here!

    • @glenalguire6960
      @glenalguire6960 10 місяців тому +9

      He’s got the mind of a child , I’m sure part of it’s because no one has ever taken the time to educate him , it’s nice to see him enjoying himself

    • @FieryWench77
      @FieryWench77 10 місяців тому

      @@glenalguire6960he’s the only one to graduate high school

  • @lauriep9067
    @lauriep9067 Рік тому +700

    It makes my whole day when Mark brings us back to see everyone . I love to see Rays face light up when he sees him . Thankyou for another great episode.

    • @dottieparker7274
      @dottieparker7274 Рік тому +11

      To really show your appreciation, why not donate a few dollars to the house fund?

    • @wesleyAlan9179
      @wesleyAlan9179 Рік тому +24

      ​@@dottieparker7274
      Why the Hell would anyone take the time to make the comment you made is beyond me.

    • @roryhennessey1983
      @roryhennessey1983 Рік тому

      ​@@dottieparker7274strange comment

    • @dottieparker7274
      @dottieparker7274 Рік тому +8

      @@wesleyAlan9179 🤣 Well Wesley Alan, because: 1) didn't take much time, it's Sunday and there's nothing to do in France on Sundays except go to mass (this is taking much longer), 2) 'ya never know, might add some cash for purchase of house (would've thought that's pretty obvious). Does this demystify?

    • @Carleon.
      @Carleon. Рік тому

      @@dottieparker7274 YOU MY DEAR ARE FORGIVEN IN ADVANCE, LOL WE ALL KNOW YOU SUFFER GREATLY FROM A DEEP ROOTED MENTAL INSTABILITY AS IT SHOWS! YOUR ELDERS PARTICIPATED IN INCEST BREEDING THEREFORE YOU ARE A PRODUCT OF INCEST & MAL SEX PRACTICES! HENCE THE REASON WHY YOU MAKE FOOLISH COMMENTS & CANNOT FORMULATE AN INTELLIGENT THOUGHT OR CONTRIBUTE TO THE WORLD YOURSELF IN A POSITIVE MANNER! MAY GOD HAVE MERCY ON YOU & FIX YOUR HEART!😇😇

  • @Lisa-px3vi
    @Lisa-px3vi Рік тому +388

    Loraine sure came to life when she saw Lauren, I’ve never heard her speak before, it melted my heart. God bless you both.

    • @wandarose4274
      @wandarose4274 Рік тому +12

      I noticed how excited Lauren got...she did express her feelings of gradatude! Sweet!❤

    • @Jaque1961
      @Jaque1961 Рік тому +2

      @@wandarose4274 No, no no. Lorraine, not LAUREN. LAUREN IS A VISITOR!!!! 🤬

    • @theresaohman7187
      @theresaohman7187 Рік тому +5

      Yes, seeing Lorraine come alive and was so happy talking away and hugging you two ❤

    • @iuidit2809
      @iuidit2809 Рік тому +6

      yeah i also think that Lorraine is interested/ likes Lauren.
      Lorraine talked more with her, when Lauren made breakfast in one of the videos

    • @Schemez-16vhiphopbeatz
      @Schemez-16vhiphopbeatz 6 місяців тому +1

      Yeah the hug was epic

  • @kerrijacobi
    @kerrijacobi Рік тому +146

    If this family drank alcohol or there were a few alcoholics in this family, these documentaries wouldn’t even work. That’s what makes these video documentaries so wholesome. Love this family. They literally can’t be blamed for how they are. They didn’t choose this. They are doing the best that they can. God bless them and everyone that is helping them.

    • @paulakestel1007
      @paulakestel1007 6 місяців тому +10

      Betty has the weight of the world on her shoulders

    • @lisao7600
      @lisao7600 5 місяців тому

      ​@@paulakestel1007have you watched the more recent documentary videos from a couple months ago?

  • @britp288
    @britp288 Рік тому +948

    Timmy and his coloring book make me smile. Keeping his mind busy! Ray showing off his new pants so proudly… and then of course Lorraine comfortable as can be. Mark you are a absolute good hearted man for helping this family thrive again. ❤

    • @davechristian7543
      @davechristian7543 Рік тому +13

      Trust me things aren't as perfect as u make out 'They actually look super depressed to me i no that much as there doesn't look like much happiness n joy going on there sweetheart.

    • @britp288
      @britp288 Рік тому +61

      As true as that may be , watching their journey from the start of Mark meeting them they have come a long way. Sometimes we have to find the positive in bad situations to appreciate the growth we’ve made.

    • @steingoblin6
      @steingoblin6 Рік тому +3

      10:04 man i skipped randomly to some part to get it going there he is xd

    • @southphillylilly
      @southphillylilly Рік тому +68

      @@davechristian7543 they are much happier than you. They live simply and care for each other ,they're not condescending in a UA-cam comment section .....
      And they are cared for by others , much more than you can say for yourself

    • @dottieparker7274
      @dottieparker7274 Рік тому +7

      ​@@southphillylillyYou sound like a caring person. It'd be great if you could donate at least a couple of dollars to the house fund.

  • @truckingwithtobee
    @truckingwithtobee Рік тому +437

    I’ve never seen Lorraine be so talkative before the videos. That is so cool how she’s so happy to see you guys❤

    • @jg2283
      @jg2283 Рік тому +19

      Guessing she gets more verbal the more she gets comfortable with people. Guessing they've been through a lot, and tend to be (rightfully so) a bit hesitant of outsiders.

  • @pamelamoore8188
    @pamelamoore8188 Рік тому +354

    This family is a testament that happiness is a state of mind. They don't care that they don't have the best home, clothes, shoes, social standing etc . . . they are just happy for what they have and for being with each other. You can tell that they would do anything for each other. This was compelling and I thank you for bringing them to us.

    • @nocapstreet8291
      @nocapstreet8291 Рік тому

      They’re literally inbreds bro. They lack the intelligence to even care 😂

    • @benbewust
      @benbewust Рік тому +13

      Sorry but they not used to anything else.

    • @945hilo
      @945hilo Рік тому +7

      @@benbewustmaybe so but they’re is folks who are genuinely like that, the exception with the Whitaker’s is they have dreams and aspirations like all of us do, but are content for what they do have and can’t aspire to do better so what they have is appreciated more than anything else.. they have the basics and more importantly they have love for each something that’s severely lacking in this world.

    • @redpilloahu_808
      @redpilloahu_808 Рік тому +3

      Society would not be a happy place if everyone was like this, no matter your state of mind. People should need a license to have a baby.

    • @redpilloahu_808
      @redpilloahu_808 Рік тому

      ​@KillaBeatz33 Nice Simpson's reference. I think there's also an episode where Lisa gets dumb, finds happiness, only to lose it to being smart again.

  • @Trumpwins-i2g
    @Trumpwins-i2g Рік тому +65

    Please don't let Ray suffer. He should be on Celibrex ( arthritis medicine) he will have no more pain. Someone needs to take him to the doctor

    • @robertagagnon8643
      @robertagagnon8643 3 місяці тому +2

      @@Trumpwins-i2g yes they should take care of his. Knee

  • @doracook6989
    @doracook6989 Рік тому +76

    Wow, Lorraine! What joy to see her get up, smiling and hugging. Such true emotions.

  • @Lilrosa-cs1pn
    @Lilrosa-cs1pn Рік тому +126

    I love Betty. She keeps them all together and always happy! So glad you are able to help them.

    • @CassieShakespeare
      @CassieShakespeare Рік тому +6

      Yep, Betty's my favourite 💖💖💖

    • @LisaMarie-xp4ym
      @LisaMarie-xp4ym Рік тому +3

      I adore Betty and Lorraine to bits!❤

    • @ValouQc
      @ValouQc Рік тому +11

      It would be such a relief for her to be in a house that’s easier to maintain and it will be easier to have a cleaning crew visiting the house once a week.
      These couches had a long life, I think their time is done!

    • @waywardangel6356
      @waywardangel6356 Рік тому

      ​@@ValouQcagree! A gardener & a cleaner or 2, once or twice a week to help maintain would be ideal. I'd happily volunteer a day if I lived closer. Australia is a little too far away! 😊

  • @jacksonhickey2151
    @jacksonhickey2151 Рік тому +263

    You can see how much theyre life has improved since you started helping them. It makes me so happy to see them all smiling and exited to see you. You are a my hero.

  • @peg1518
    @peg1518 Рік тому +131

    I was sitting in a bout of depression that I'm working on after finally ending my dance with alcoholism, and have binge'd out on the videos of this family and the comments....and I want to express so much immense love to Mark for making these videos and shining such a beautiful light on the beauty of aspects of life often shoved into the darkness....and so much love to the people in the comments showing such immense compassion, empathy and humanity...you give me hope for the state of our species.....and to this family, thank you for showing that you can be happy just by being. Sometimes - probably all the time - that is just enough. We just tend to forget. This series has given me a deep remembering, and my soul thanks you all. If you're reading still, I don't know you but I love you anyway for being a human in this human experience with me, trying to figure it out and doing our best. You're doing great. Celebrate the little victories, and always be compassionate. Every story matters. Including yours. What an amazing channel........helping me remember what an amazing world....

    • @Desiredbalance
      @Desiredbalance Рік тому +11

      Very well put. Same to you. When you have dark days come back to this comment and read it to yourself like someone who cares wrote it to you. We so often will say the best things others but the worst things to our self. Use this as a reference to love yourself and remind yourself
      You matter too. There are many beautiful moments in ours days even the darkest ones. And we can always do something to pull out of our heads. Meditate, walk, draw, write, read, take a bath, dance, sing, journal, clean, the list goes on. One love. Proud of you for taking steps to stops drinking and loving yourself

    • @briannabeen5727
      @briannabeen5727 Рік тому +9

      As the person above me said, remember to be kind to yourself as well!!! I don’t know you either but Jesus loves us all even if that’s not your following❤

    • @LadyCleo1
      @LadyCleo1 Рік тому +5

      Well done with the alcohol. I was an alcoholic 20 years ago after my sister died but made it back. I can drink and stop it just like that. Unfortunately a member in my family did not make it back so I wish journey every sucess😊.

    • @laureenaquadros8422
      @laureenaquadros8422 Рік тому +8

      Thank you for sharing your story. Alcholism and depression are very hard to deal with. My father being 72 years and us losing my mother to cancer took the step of joining AA and get the help he needs. He has battled this from his early teens and we have lived through it all these years. Its tough but I want you to remember your loved, you matter, your strong and its a choice and if you are too overwhelmed to choose - always seek help. Keeping you in my prayers - God bless 🙏

    • @aright2lucidity
      @aright2lucidity 11 місяців тому +4

      Very well said, you are right on all counts.
      What Mark has done here is to inadvertently allow most everyone who watches to connect with the deepest part of our humanity. Our ultimate goodness. It's a place so many have lost touch with and didn't even know it.
      Much strength to you on your journey. :)

  • @WackyCookies
    @WackyCookies Рік тому +69

    Mark- There are so many layers of thoughts and emotions that come up when I watch these folks.
    The level of compassion and love that you demonstrate towards the Whittakers in a world ( and country) that is is sick with a lack of compassion is remarkable.
    Can we chip in and find a cleaning/maintenance service for them? I know it’s hard up there, but if they get a new place they need someone to help them keep it up so it doesn’t get trashed.
    Love and helping others is the only real thing that remains in this world long after we are gone.

    • @prophez23
      @prophez23 Рік тому +6

      I really wish I lived anywhere near their area I would be there to help them all the time. I love doing that kind of stuff for people. There's a couple different families I help in my area.

    • @Bella-ht5jb9he3z
      @Bella-ht5jb9he3z Рік тому +11

      ​@@baublesanddollsI agree with you and Ray needs a doctor. He's in pain. I feel bad for him. ❤

  • @TheRealMistyDawn
    @TheRealMistyDawn Рік тому +418

    Amazing to see the effects of friendship. From the first video to now, you can see how at ease the family has got with Mark. The engagement has increased noticeably.

    • @dottieparker7274
      @dottieparker7274 Рік тому +8

      It'd be amazing if you donated a few dollars to the purchase of the house.

    • @deborahrich2666
      @deborahrich2666 Рік тому +7

      Hope you can get enough for furniture too!

    • @dottieparker7274
      @dottieparker7274 Рік тому

      @@deborahrich2666 Amen! 👍

    • @Blacktd-h1d
      @Blacktd-h1d Рік тому

      @@dottieparker7274 stop trying to extort people

  • @piper7485
    @piper7485 Рік тому +57

    Very humble ❤. Mark asked Betty if it'd make her happy if she got a new house and she didn't hear him correctly, but she says she's happy 😊. She's happy with her life the way it is. I wish there were more people in this world that just appreciated what they have at the moment and quit trying to compete with the neighborhood. Peace and love to Mark, Lauren and the Whittaker Family ❤

  • @debrawalls1379
    @debrawalls1379 11 місяців тому +36

    Please keep us posted with updates from this special family. It makes hard times a little more bearable to see innocent people like this family. Thank you for showing us this humble precious family.

  • @issy2008m
    @issy2008m Рік тому +137

    Nice to see how talkative Lorraine was! 🤗 I’m so happy they have visitors from all over the country. Mostly, I’m grateful that you came into their lives to share such innocence and family with all of us. Thank you for all that you do for them & the immense joy that you’ve added to their lives as well as your viewers. God bless you 🙏🏼🩵🩵🩵

    • @m_one1
      @m_one1 Рік тому +4

      i love Lorraine. shes definitely #1 in my book, always smiling and listening, happy to see others enjoying themselves.

    • @pinkythechihuahua3156
      @pinkythechihuahua3156 Рік тому +3

      Timmy did pretty good coloring his bear and blond girl.

    • @issy2008m
      @issy2008m Рік тому

      @@pinkythechihuahua3156 Yes that was some very impressive coloring!! He loved how proud Larry was of him. 🤗

  • @annaraines4756
    @annaraines4756 Рік тому +772

    If they get the new house maybe we can all donate to pay for Betty to have a person come in a couple times a week to help her clean. Trying to take care of everyone has to be overwhelming for her . She's so precious.

    • @Samiam88
      @Samiam88 Рік тому +46

      If one of them has a charted diagnosed disability they may be able to get it paid for as well or at least help towards paying for something like that. Idk how it works with each state but I know I’m Missouri they have lots of help for people either on Medicaid or with disabilities that lots of people aren’t even aware of they can receive.

    • @Penguin2777
      @Penguin2777 Рік тому +29

      That’s such a good idea. They need another helper. It’s too much for her to do it all herself at her age

    • @karenpribble250
      @karenpribble250 Рік тому +38

      I agree. It would be a shame to get them a new house and
      for it to end up like this one

    • @bettekanikula8101
      @bettekanikula8101 Рік тому +29

      And they deserve new furniture too!

    • @msatxgault560
      @msatxgault560 Рік тому +5

      ​@@Samiam88exactly.

  • @frankie6849
    @frankie6849 Рік тому +133

    Love seeing these guys so content in their own little part of the world. And those dogs look happy and very well cared for too.

  • @joshsilva3241
    @joshsilva3241 Рік тому +58

    I, probably like a lot of people, began watching this family as a kind of curiosity. Upon first glance, they may seem a little different than most people you'll run into in life, but they really seem to be nice, loving group. I actually cried at one of these videos, when he came back to visit and was greeted with smiles and hugs. It's good to be reminded that we shouldn't judge others unfairly.

    • @LisaNance-j3h
      @LisaNance-j3h 11 місяців тому

      She doesn't need to wear shorts over there tho.

    • @Gil-q6k
      @Gil-q6k 3 місяці тому

      Yeah we are all humans with feelings. We all breath, eat, and respect the same way! May Lord Jesus shield this family from all harm, and sickness and shower them with happiness and good health. In JESUS name I pray 🙏 Amen.

  • @scotthansen5894
    @scotthansen5894 Рік тому +131

    I’ve been following you for a long time and what you have done for these people is nothing short of a miracle. With your money you could be sitting on a beach somewhere but you chose to do this. It’s amazing. Your amazing. All the best to you.

  • @Image-X
    @Image-X Рік тому +273

    This is the first time I’ve seen Lorraine act that way. Was so eager to greet them and give hugs. So awesome. I donated for their home and I hope everyone else does too. It would help them so much and is a way to give back for them opening their life up to us.

    • @supertoshaful
      @supertoshaful Рік тому +6

      Me too

    • @vaekkriinhart4347
      @vaekkriinhart4347 Рік тому +2

      I would donate too, but I dont own a credit card, and I'm not gonna use my debit card online ever

    • @blackbat908
      @blackbat908 Рік тому +5

      @@vaekkriinhart4347 lol

    • @krissisnow6964
      @krissisnow6964 Рік тому +13

      Lorraine likes women, she’s always been friendly with Marks assistant. I imagine she has a fear of men that she doesn’t know seeing as she was SA & had Timmy as a result.

    • @kate4biglittlevoices
      @kate4biglittlevoices Рік тому

      @@vaekkriinhart4347well I e got news for you , if you ever have used that card?’if you you set a pin for it and authorized it- you HAVE used it online -

  • @remembermichael6
    @remembermichael6 Рік тому +650

    The first time I watched these videos I was so ignorant, I looked at these people as if they weren’t human. I admit that. This video really shows me what a strong, healthy family dynamic the Whittakers have. Not only with how they treat each other but their dogs too. Wonderful people.

    • @leesaunders1930
      @leesaunders1930 Рік тому +5

      🤭🤭🤭

    • @gallen2101
      @gallen2101 Рік тому +14

      I have to admit I was also

    • @cristysanders4660
      @cristysanders4660 Рік тому +20

      Thank you for joining us to the side of no judgement

    • @1961-v9k
      @1961-v9k Рік тому +21

      It learns most of us a lesson that we shouldn’t judge anyone or any situation until we know for sure the bigger picture ❤
      Wouldn’t the World be a better place 👍🏼

    • @jenruiz7606
      @jenruiz7606 Рік тому +7

      Growth. Love it ❤️

  • @l.a.gothro3999
    @l.a.gothro3999 9 місяців тому +12

    I love how the kitchen is slowly-but-surely being decluttered. The warmth of these folks is so touching and wonderful.

  • @markbryan502
    @markbryan502 Рік тому +146

    Thank you Mark for the bonus time with the Whittakers. I honestly can’t get enough of this honest and wholesome family. I would love to see them move to Beverly Hills, but next door is just fine. I can’t think of a more deserving family. I am blessed to have spent time with them. Poor Ray, his knee is really bringing him down. I pray he finds relief. Somehow I can understand his and Timmy’s way of communicating, just one more surprise the Whittakers have blessed me with. Thank you Mark for bringing this blessing into my life.

  • @1105kross
    @1105kross Рік тому +116

    Look at Lorraine go!! I love that she’s talking more!! And Ray, ugh, my heart…he needs to see a doctor for his knee. He’s probably in so much pain. He laid down and that was it. He’s usually not like that. I’m so happy to see that go fund me total so far. I know that you’ll be able to get that money no problem. I’ll donate this Friday. So awesome for them to be able to have a new home with their own rooms. New bedding for Ray definitely. I love this family! You’re an angel mark. ❤
    Edit: Ray is like begging for help by showing you his knee every time you go over to him. Please keep us updated if he sees a doctor. I hope he’s able to.

    • @Thexanman999
      @Thexanman999 Рік тому +5

      Yes I kept screaming in my head at the screen about how it’s SO obvious.
      (I have epilepsy, and once after a grand mal seizure. I woke up out of a two week coma, unable to speak, unable to understand what people were trying to communicate to me like 80% of the time, I was brain dead basically, in constant fear.)
      AND IN THIS VIDEO ITS ALLLL I SAW HAPPENING! He is hurting and needs help. He needs to go get a prescription from the doctors.

    • @melissaaldosari8024
      @melissaaldosari8024 Рік тому +2

      In the meantime, cold packs and a heating pad can help. This is heartbreaking. 💔

    • @1105kross
      @1105kross Рік тому +4

      @@Thexanman999 oh wow! Glad you’re ok. I really hope at this point they’ve taken him to see a doctor.

  • @DereliqueMahBAWLS
    @DereliqueMahBAWLS Рік тому +247

    Mark you are an inspiration to mankind. You restore my faith in humanity more and more just by being so genuine and always willing to help those in need.
    I can’t believe in 1 days there’s 77k raised already!
    That’s absolutely incredible! I feel like they will be able to get that house before winter at this rate!

    • @jennifreakthompson8888
      @jennifreakthompson8888 Рік тому +5

      I thought the same thing but some of those donations are weeks even months old. It's still amazing though.

    • @ballistic02
      @ballistic02 Рік тому +7

      shit.. I could use a house now that I think about it.

    • @crazyray610
      @crazyray610 Рік тому +1

      @DereliqueMahBAWLS Are you big Ed from 90 day fiance?

    • @GreenSlug420
      @GreenSlug420 Рік тому +7

      Realistically wont they not look after it, considering the house they live in now is a crap shoot? They have time to clean, why not do it and then expect people to donate for a new house..

    • @mrmime7453
      @mrmime7453 Рік тому

      The trailer needs more work than just cleaning. plus it is small and there isn't enough room, poor betty sleeps on the sofa so others can have proper beds. @@GreenSlug420

  • @onejacket4603
    @onejacket4603 11 місяців тому +11

    Your visits are a breath of fresh air to this family, a ray of sunshine. Thank you.

  • @KatieWierzbicki-mf9ov
    @KatieWierzbicki-mf9ov Рік тому +114

    Lorraine seems to opening up to you more and more and hearing her talk a ill bit just made my heart smile! And what a sweet gesture of Ray pulling u up a chair to sit and watch some TV with him! Everyone seems to be more happier now then they were at first...Betty loves her visitors. I would love to meet up with a bunch of subscribers and go down there and help out in anyway we can...maybe cleaning inside the house and porch and whatever fixing outside might need just to go do something to help Incase they can't get the new house they'll at least have a clean home to live in

    • @moondog9086
      @moondog9086 Рік тому +3

      I've said the same thing about wanting to go help them in some way.

    • @heatherchrisco9106
      @heatherchrisco9106 Рік тому +3

      I was just telling my husband that I know we're not able to help but it would be nice if someone would go and clean their house for them. It just breaks my heart seeing it in such bad conditions and I know they're not able to clean it up properly themselves.

    • @lynnkalles2055
      @lynnkalles2055 Рік тому +1

      I'd love to help them get the newer home xoxo ❤

  • @Jones11b
    @Jones11b Рік тому +96

    What you guys do for this family is unbelievable…you’re great human beings

  • @MrPolycarpe13
    @MrPolycarpe13 Рік тому +82

    What you have done and created here Mark, is nothing short of a minor miracle. Amazing reach and way more interesting than shooting glamour shots! Kudos to you!

  • @Themonsta875
    @Themonsta875 Рік тому +56

    Timmy going straight to heaven he just so happy and calm!

    • @ellachristina7730
      @ellachristina7730 5 місяців тому +1

      Timmy is going straight to heaven because of how he is.

    • @Themonsta875
      @Themonsta875 5 місяців тому

      @@ellachristina7730 did you come up with that , all by yourself ?🤦🏾🤷🏾‍♂️🤣🤣

    • @GodLovesUs.LoveOurGod
      @GodLovesUs.LoveOurGod 3 місяці тому

      He is sweet😌…Jesus is the only way to Heaven, hope He finds it

  • @jasmintuck4410
    @jasmintuck4410 Рік тому +130

    I live In the UK and think our current cost of living crisis is hard but when you see the most lovely family living like this it really makes you realize how lucky us Brits are. I've not much money but donated towards the new house. I hope rays knee can be treated too, felt he wasn't himself on this visit x thanks mark for your channel and letting people into such interesting lives such as the Whittaker's

    • @matthewblackwood4704
      @matthewblackwood4704 Рік тому +10

      Trust me these people are better of than any British person these days, or anyone anywhere else in the world.

    • @jasmintuck4410
      @jasmintuck4410 Рік тому

      @@matthewblackwood4704 I think you are probably right actually! Our government is trash in England! The amount of freedom the whittakers have sounds pretty enticing

    • @Valhal1776
      @Valhal1776 Рік тому +7

      They may be nice people, but let's not play dumb. This isn't your average Appalachian family, and the vast majority can work and achieve a much higher quality of life than can these folk.

    • @TraceyMariexx
      @TraceyMariexx Рік тому +2

      ​@@matthewblackwood4704a
      Maybe elsewhere in the world but definitely not better than any British person..

    • @zoiefinnian3540
      @zoiefinnian3540 Рік тому

      @@matthewblackwood4704 To have a life this uncomplicated in such a beautiful place would no doubt be a blessing in disguise of sorts, like going back in time. It reminds me of being around my grandparents in the early 70s ,in their home, with everyone in my family all around just laughing and talking.
      But then you throw in the history of incest in the family, along with the dire destitution, possible SA and rampant, heroin and fentanyl, use all over the Appalachian mountains, and it takes much credibility away from that feeling that they really have anything better. To be honest, they are drowning. They are getting older and most of the weight of taking care of everyone falls onto Betty who I believe is in her 70s or 80s. That’s a lot of stress Mark is an Absolute angel. ❤

  • @pippadot679
    @pippadot679 Рік тому +259

    Mark, I've noticed how comfortable the whole family has gotten with you now. It's like night & day from the start of this until now. You can see the happiness and pride when they are showing you things or explaining things to you. Really hell of a job you've done well with them. People really enjoy
    watching the
    family. (Or any regulars on your channel). I'm sure their dogs need vet care too. Id sure donate to that. I'm sure Timmy needs coloring supplies and colors/pencils. You are doing such a fabulous job out there. Safe travels.

    • @colby8104
      @colby8104 Рік тому +3

      Peoples moods change when they're offered free goods/money

    • @hoosierladyus48
      @hoosierladyus48 Рік тому +11

      @pippadot679, they trust Mark and I'm sure that's pretty hard for people who live out in the middle of no where to do. I know I thoroughly enjoy watching the Whittakers. I am an animal lover as well and I also would donate to send their pets to the vet.

    • @prophez23
      @prophez23 Рік тому +25

      ​@@colby8104don't be bitter. I'm not one to accept charity and I'm also not quick to give just for the sake of giving but I did give a little to them and I think it's great that others have. But I don't think it's all the money and free stuff that has made them nicer or more accepting to Mark. They're just simple country people like I am and the kindness comes from building a relationship with others and seeing that you can trust them. They'd be the same regardless if Mark helped them or not. But anyway it's nothing wrong with helping others especially those who have lived the majority of their lives with hardly anything. Remember it wasn't the Whittakers that asked for anything it was Marks idea to help them and his audience who chose to donate. So if you feel inclined to help then please do they definitely need it and deserve it but if not then don't be mean towards those who want to or have.

    • @carolseven3802
      @carolseven3802 Рік тому

      @@colby8104they have been the same since he met them with nothing in his hands.

    • @Crazy__Canuck
      @Crazy__Canuck Рік тому +11

      ​​@@prophez23👍you're spot on. I don't recall ever hearing them ask for anything whatsoever.

  • @MarieLuvsNate
    @MarieLuvsNate Рік тому +157

    They need their own channel. Weekly or monthly videos. I can't get enough of this precious family. I hope they're able to get that new house. Sending love and prayers to the Whittaker family!❤

    • @LuchadorMasque
      @LuchadorMasque Рік тому +8

      now that would be interesting

    • @_flyinlion_8995
      @_flyinlion_8995 Рік тому +6

      Netflix series would make money but the image would come off as exploiting them ?

    • @malenyluna5275
      @malenyluna5275 Рік тому

      ​@@_flyinlion_8995this, I rather occasional updates then them getting exploited and plus it can get too invasive.

    • @trackjosh
      @trackjosh Рік тому +6

      @@_flyinlion_8995better off just doing UA-cam, Netflix notoriously doesn’t pay well.

    • @ShareeTheHero
      @ShareeTheHero 2 місяці тому

      I agree, Netflix would totally exploit them. Keep it wholesome and unfiltered and safe. Safe for them. Don't let anyone exploit them for money. They apparently have family and people keeping them physically safe?...let us be the ones who keep them internet safe🤍 -Sharee

  • @nancykoeper1734
    @nancykoeper1734 11 місяців тому +24

    You can feel the genuine love this family has for each other. They make me smile.

    • @scottm1846
      @scottm1846 7 місяців тому

      It's called meth

  • @cynr5456
    @cynr5456 Рік тому +163

    While watching this my husband pointed out how amazing it is that this family knows exactly what the other one is saying with out even having full words! Just beautiful I love the Whittakers and really hope everyone can pull together like Mark said even 5 dollars and help them get that new house!

    • @Blacktd-h1d
      @Blacktd-h1d Рік тому +1

      Ur married to captain obvious ?? How cool

    • @birdsteak9267
      @birdsteak9267 Рік тому +7

      @@Blacktd-h1d Yet having good manners eluded you.

    • @leftoverblunts
      @leftoverblunts Рік тому +3

      ​@@Blacktd-h1doh wow you're so clever and edgy 🙄 go away

    • @wandarose4274
      @wandarose4274 Рік тому +1

      The dogs are having as much fun as the people...The family!

    • @sj1345
      @sj1345 Рік тому +2

      @@Blacktd-h1dain’t no need for sarcasm.

  • @trudybreland3614
    @trudybreland3614 Рік тому +87

    It's so great to see Lorraine interact finally. Such sweet folks, so glad you are now considered part of their family.

    • @Elizabeth-no9vq
      @Elizabeth-no9vq Рік тому +7

      Had the biggest smile on my face when she came in for the greeting and hug!!

    • @snackskassian8565
      @snackskassian8565 Рік тому +3

      Amazing how one day out to the state fair can bring out that kind of joy and confidence.

  • @priscillaa.3624
    @priscillaa.3624 Рік тому +442

    Thank you for not judging this family and treating them with respect like they deserve. I am an accountant married to an aerospace engineer whom I share a 3 year old child with and we live really comfortably but it wasn't always that way for me. I was raised by a single mother who was struggling to make ends meet. Our house was falling apart, filthy, our couches all ripped up, and our showers were moldy. I was always too embarrassed to invite my friends over growing up from past experiences of having people over. They were always visibly uncomfortable they would try to hide but i can always tell therefore I never liked having anyone over. A lot of my aunts, uncle, etc judged our family and would say we were the poorest of the whole family. They eventually stopped inviting my mom over for family reunions because of course what could we offer at the time when we lived in poverty. It was such a hard time for me but now im grateful for it because now I know who my real friends are and it motivated me to give my mom a better life. My son has never known what poverty is like and will never know what it's like. It is sad how many people will humiliate you when you have nothing.

    • @wesleyfeltner5946
      @wesleyfeltner5946 Рік тому +23

      God bless you.

    • @nolenrobinson8900
      @nolenrobinson8900 Рік тому +2

      He definitely judges them.

    • @priscillaa.3624
      @priscillaa.3624 Рік тому +6

      @@wesleyfeltner5946 Thank you. God bless you as well.

    • @careyhutcheson4473
      @careyhutcheson4473 Рік тому +12

      I'm sorry you had to experience that but I'm happy you grew something beautiful out of it.

    • @Smokey31691
      @Smokey31691 Рік тому +9

      When your down most ppl wanna kick you in the nuts so you can't get back up it's sad but true it sucks honestly I kinds grew up the same way and that's why I'm such a hard worker now and when I'm not working I'm hustling mowing grass what ever I can to keep a cash flow coming in he'll I'll clean up cow shit if the moneys right lol

  • @karsinmielke9648
    @karsinmielke9648 8 місяців тому +8

    The world needs more sweet souls like this family. Just genuine people.

    • @cornburglar
      @cornburglar 4 місяці тому +1

      Erm.. not really. Betty is a shady individual and there’s a lot of drug addiction in the younger kids.

  • @kellyherring1391
    @kellyherring1391 Рік тому +147

    Poor Ray, you can tell that he really is in a lot of pain with his knee. Praying for the Whittaker’s.
    It is really great how respectful and kind you are to them all, Mark!

    • @moemo284
      @moemo284 Рік тому +8

      He obviously needs a knee replacement

    • @melindahall5062
      @melindahall5062 Рік тому +8

      Now they should be able to get state funding for medical….new car, new house, clean up not so easy.

    • @julybailey2326
      @julybailey2326 Рік тому +13

      Poor man atleast get him some aleve oral tablets and some rub on anti-inflammatory gel or something. At least until he can see a doctor asap

    • @joanndeason2847
      @joanndeason2847 Рік тому +14

      Yes, I hate to see Ray in pain. Probably the extra walking at the fair aggravated his knee. He needs some anti inflammatory medicine. I bet he could learn to use some muscle rub when it hurts. Just have to be sure he washes his hands afterwards.

    • @theresaohman7187
      @theresaohman7187 Рік тому +6

      I pray Ray can get some help and relief from his knee pain. He needs a good heating pad

  • @Cindy-cj8bw
    @Cindy-cj8bw Рік тому +437

    There's something kinda comforting, knowing that no matter what's going on in the world, the Whittaker's and their dogs will be right there on the porch... Feel better soon Ray ❤

    • @TZLORD4892
      @TZLORD4892 Рік тому +1

      The feel better is highly unlikely.

    • @202true
      @202true Рік тому +2

      Somehow you’re right 😂

    • @emdeejay7432
      @emdeejay7432 Рік тому +18

      I know, right. They're just always there on the porch, taking in the day while Ray screams at the passing cars, lol.

    • @Cindy-cj8bw
      @Cindy-cj8bw Рік тому +1

      @@emdeejay7432 😂

    • @Cindy-cj8bw
      @Cindy-cj8bw Рік тому +1

      @@TZLORD4892 Hope not...

  • @Mediocre_JT
    @Mediocre_JT Рік тому +153

    Two Whittaker family vids in two days? Awesome! I see a few families like them in other parts of West Virginia and it makes me so happy that they're beating treated so well. That's the first time I've seen Lorraine talk and hug, shes such a sweetheart. Mark, you and Lauren are making the world a better place.

    • @rumham7466
      @rumham7466 Рік тому +2

      Is Lauren his sister?

    • @LisaMarie-xp4ym
      @LisaMarie-xp4ym Рік тому +1

      Me too!! Such a treat. I was going to save it for super time but couldn’t resist in the afternoon!! ❤

    • @teijaflink2226
      @teijaflink2226 Рік тому +4

      ​​@@baublesanddollsOh okay I thought she was his girlfriend first but then I saw some say she's his sister, so I was bit confused. The Whittakers seem to like her, specially Timmy and the one legged dog Jack.

    • @Ned88Man
      @Ned88Man Рік тому +2

      it really was crazy to see how Lorraine reacted after all those videos in which she didn't interact with Mark at all.

  • @sarakomas6471
    @sarakomas6471 Рік тому +9

    I fell in love with this family. Especially Ray. You are so very good to them and it melts my heart
    Thank you for treating them so well ❤️

  • @Telluridepilot
    @Telluridepilot Рік тому +121

    Mark you have given the Whittaker’s a great sense of normalcy that otherwise wouldn’t have happened. Your kind heart and generosity along with compassion make a huge difference in their lives. You’ve opened them up to a new outlook and can clearly see they love you in their own way. The fact that people come from everywhere to befriend and visit them shows that we still have kind people in this world. I realize you may not always get a fair comment from certain people but you taking time to open your heart says a lot about you as a person. I’m sorry I forgot the young lady’s name but she deserves credit as well. It takes a special person to have patience and good heartedness in a world with so much negativity. Thanks again from a friend in Telluride Colorado.

    • @philipnativio3923
      @philipnativio3923 Рік тому

      Just don't forget to Tell ur ride if u ever want 2 visit them Stewart

    • @jennross6466
      @jennross6466 Рік тому

      Did they know normalcy before Mark rocked up to their property? If not, how did Mark show them this if they didn't know that this existed and how did they learn something they didn't know anything about? Basically how did this inbred family learn normalcy and how did Mark make them understand that this was normalcy?

    • @pennyrockysmomma4445
      @pennyrockysmomma4445 Рік тому

      Unfortunately I think people “visit “ them for entirely the wrong reasons.

  • @mulletmama88
    @mulletmama88 Рік тому +91

    it warms my heart to see Lorraine warm up to you so much over the years. She has been trying to communicate more and more with you.

    • @CassieShakespeare
      @CassieShakespeare Рік тому +9

      Good to see...it's heartwarming to see Lorraine come out of her shell. 💖💖💖

    • @rondelby2482
      @rondelby2482 Рік тому +4

      Things are improving thanks to you Mark.

    • @danmasters1568
      @danmasters1568 Рік тому +3

      ​​@@CassieShakespeareThe poor woman was raped in '79 and gave birth to Timmy. I can't begin to comprehend the magnitude of trauma that caused her. It's wonderful to see her come out of her shell and learn to trust someone outside of the family. It also speaks volumes about Mark's genuine kindness, patience and generosity. God bless Mark and God bless this precious family. 😊

    • @natasharush8604
      @natasharush8604 Рік тому

      ​@@danmasters1568omg do you no who did that to her? Was it a family member?

    • @danmasters1568
      @danmasters1568 Рік тому

      @@natasharush8604 IDK

  • @teresahamilton9779
    @teresahamilton9779 Рік тому +142

    I love the affirmations they give one another. Like with Timmy’s picture, they encouraged & give positive affirmation! This family is precious!

    • @charlottes95
      @charlottes95 Рік тому +2

      It reminded me of my grandparents complimenting my coloring as a kid. You could tell it made Timmy so happy, so sweet.

    • @HAIRHOLIC_1
      @HAIRHOLIC_1 Рік тому +1

      I thought that too, they might now have much, but they have each other, and they absolutely sure do love one another, the way they where all genuinely proud of Timmy’s work 🥹❤️

  • @jojo-ir9um
    @jojo-ir9um 9 місяців тому +8

    I worked in Social Services, when I first started the administration told us not sit on cloth furniture. Thank God there are people like you to be able to show others how to show compassion to families like this.

  • @mooserepellant.
    @mooserepellant. Рік тому +192

    I just love your relationship with people, Mark. The donations are flooding in already! I can't wait to see the next update of them in their new home

    • @hopejones1139
      @hopejones1139 Рік тому +6

      I'm so excited for them!!! God bless them all! 😘

    • @yolandadeosarran5376
      @yolandadeosarran5376 Рік тому

      The first time you were able
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    • @jonathaninteriano8389
      @jonathaninteriano8389 Рік тому +5

      Then the next update when they turn the house into something that can be used in a Saw movie

    • @sp-1973
      @sp-1973 Рік тому +3

      ​@jonathaninteriano8389 stop projecting your inner hate onto others, it's really not attractive!

    • @kimglass4851
      @kimglass4851 8 місяців тому

      They spent the house money already so they will be staying put

  • @Littlekitten_
    @Littlekitten_ Рік тому +43

    Love the positive comments ❤ I hope Ray feels better ! The dogs are so adorable ! I can’t wait to see this family again!

  • @MrWannakno
    @MrWannakno Рік тому +40

    Yes, myself and my family absolutely love the Whittakers they are absolutely infectious and you can’t help but to love them they have just tugged on my heartstrings and melted me from head to toe. May God continue to bless them and their animals peace and love and good vibrations.

  • @TerryPayne-e6m
    @TerryPayne-e6m 11 місяців тому +8

    You know these people live the simplest life. I love watching your stories of them. They are just true honest downhome people

  • @Sp-np7xe
    @Sp-np7xe Рік тому +189

    I wouldn't mind sitting on the porch with this family. Such beautiful souls. Betty is an encyclopedia of the family history and everyone's ages. She's a real angel on earth taking care of everybody.

    • @lotusinspired310
      @lotusinspired310 Рік тому +10

      Yes she is a blessing to her family.

    • @mannykiller
      @mannykiller Рік тому +5

      that 1 guy still ain't in jail for SA some lady in the woods

    • @mech0p
      @mech0p Рік тому +2

      @@mannykillerWho ray? Of course hes not and never will be. When it comes to people with sever handicaps shit happens and its on the handler not the person. I work at a special needs camp and we have to be on top of the guys there especially ones that are new beacuse they can do some fucked shit sometimes and you just have to make sure to watch them because they dont know better. They dont know right from wrong. Also im sure they talked with the people up the road and figured out the situation to make sure it didnt happen again not to mention they said it happened a long time ago.

    • @blackBrad18
      @blackBrad18 Рік тому +4

      Ray just has a speech impediment, he knows right from wrong. Other than that he is just old and not that smart..@@mech0p

    • @mech0p
      @mech0p Рік тому +1

      @@blackBrad18 Hes got more than just an impediment he's def got some severe intellectual disabilities and has the mentality of like a 6 yr old. So while he may no right from wrong on somethings its taken him almost 70yrs to get to this point. They said the sa happened a long time ago probably in his 20s-30s so you can assume what he knew was at the mentality of someone younger than that at that time. I mean even in the video they were talking about how wild he used to be.

  • @ronda1444
    @ronda1444 Рік тому +18

    Awww, I'm only 2 min in and seeing Lorraine get up to hug the both of you brought tears to my eyes. She used to be so shy, and now she has so much trust & love for you. ❤ God Bless you Mark. We need more people like you in this world❣️🙏

  • @heathermills2066
    @heathermills2066 Рік тому +299

    Poor Ray ! I think the reason that he’s laying on the couch isn’t isolation but it’s because of his knee. He could possibly need knee surgery or steroid shots or something to get him out of pain. He really does need medical attention. I also want to thank you Mark for all that you’re doing for them ♥️
    Our country is filled with people like this and if it weren’t for people like you then no one would be getting the help and attention that they need

    • @HAIRHOLIC_1
      @HAIRHOLIC_1 Рік тому +29

      I was thinking the exact same, he’s isolating because he’s suffering with knees pain, he’s basically like a injured animal that would hide.

    • @datwhitechocolate
      @datwhitechocolate Рік тому +13

      I think he was trying to show that his knee hurts due to him sleeping like that. Just my opinion

    • @mrs.childers8333
      @mrs.childers8333 Рік тому

      @@datwhitechocolateI thought these people had bought them All new beds a few years ago

    • @idkanymore3382
      @idkanymore3382 Рік тому

      ur not a doctor hun, get outta here

    • @naosch94
      @naosch94 Рік тому +4

      I hope he gets that sorted soon, i had sciatica in my knee and the pain was horrible, got corticosteroid injections and got rid of the pain. HELP RAY

  • @dinosaursneverexisted8985
    @dinosaursneverexisted8985 Рік тому +5

    Why am I so fascinated with this family? I've watched hours of them chatting. I think it's refreshing to see people content and happy. These people probably don't have smart phones and social media. I kind of long for a simpler life like they have.

  • @bolson509
    @bolson509 Рік тому +66

    In our affluent, bored society, it takes a family like the Whittakers to remind us of what it takes to be happy. They never let adversity interfere with loving and supporting each other. They show us that, even in the worst of circumstances, we can still CHOOSE how we respond to life's challenges. Happiness is not a passive emotional state; it's a conscious decision & moral obligation to others. In many ways, the Whittakers are living a richer life than the Kardashians. Mark, you've done the Whittakers and all of us a great service!

    • @leftoverblunts
      @leftoverblunts Рік тому +4

      what a lovely sentiment. I couldn't agree more ❤

    • @angeladoll9785
      @angeladoll9785 Рік тому +4

      So true!!!! We as a society can learn SO much more from families like this than the Kardashians!

    • @theresaohman7187
      @theresaohman7187 Рік тому +3

      Great statement, the Rich don't have any idea what love is all about sometimes. Less is more and it shows.

  • @toddhakesley9004
    @toddhakesley9004 Рік тому +69

    The look on rays face when he saw mark walk in was priceless and definately made my day. Your good people Mark, they are blessed to have met you

  • @wendyvanzyl3064
    @wendyvanzyl3064 Рік тому +350

    I felt so incredibly sorry for Ray as he continuously tried to point out his painful knee.If it is indeed arthritis, treatment can be sought to relief his pain.Imagine the agony he is going through without the ability to express it adequately..His body language and behaviour, however, clearly displays his continuous discomfort. As a nurse, I have such empathy for him, my heart breaks

    • @bell4textu973
      @bell4textu973 Рік тому +20

      I suspect the problem is menisci, who are two shock-absorbing discs of cartilage inside the knee joints.
      The pain can be caused by this and a small operation can make him completely well. He will needs to take a x-ray to see how the wound is. Ray need something for his pains.

    • @wendyvanzyl3064
      @wendyvanzyl3064 Рік тому +12

      @@bell4textu973 I agree it needs investigation and diagnosis as you say, and meanwhile symptomatic treatment of his pain, untill a diagnosis and treatment can commence...totally agree

    • @spanqueluv9er
      @spanqueluv9er Рік тому

      @@wendyvanzyl3064 It’s already been diagnosed, it’s arthritis. They say so in this very video ffs. Pay attention.🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤡

    • @bocabec6744
      @bocabec6744 Рік тому +8

      @@bell4textu973 Not sure if he can have OTC NSAIDS or not but the poor guy needs something. Plus, is there anyone who is responsible enough to give him the medicine when he needs it? Pain puts a damper on anyone. At 75 and pounding over the New England roads for 50 years, my body is shot.

    • @IanMoone-f2v
      @IanMoone-f2v Рік тому +11

      Yeah he needs to see someone Ray doesn't seem like the kind of person to just complain if it weren't serious.

  • @adamlancaster77
    @adamlancaster77 11 місяців тому +8

    Ray is my boy, I absolutely love him ❤️ I've been brought up with disabled people in my family, I can see say is so loving

  • @spicyhummus6266
    @spicyhummus6266 Рік тому +216

    The way Ray just yelled and waved at the passing car, the things they do make me laugh & it's so great to see them all in good health! Bless them all

  • @rodnelson729
    @rodnelson729 Рік тому +20

    This family has so much of what so many families are missing... That is love and compassion.. Thank you Mark for sharing these wonderful people

  • @hetaes
    @hetaes Рік тому +86

    Lorraine's response to you two was precious. Of course, Ray is just adorable. I hope everyone donates. I agree, that house is overpriced for where it is. Sellers are just being greedy right now, but sometimes the greed is absurd like this one. The location simply isn't worth it. You have my donation. Good luck with finding them a home.

  • @Ken-yj1fs
    @Ken-yj1fs 6 місяців тому +3

    Mark is a very sweet and wonderful gentleman . Thank you fur looking out for this family . In the end , your good deeds will be rewarded by the great one in the heavens above .

  • @reenym6211
    @reenym6211 Рік тому +177

    This family is the sweetest. They didn’t have a choice to be born the way they are but with the lack of education, finance n health they are really starting to fade out of the “surviving” stage and into “thriving” with all the help they are getting now. Look at em go! Loraine more social, Betty probably less stressed, ray getting some health help and tummy getting to enjoy the fun things in life. Mark u really did change some lives here and I’m sure Betty and Larry are extremely happy with the help they have now. Blessings to you and lauren! ❤

    • @mannykiller
      @mannykiller Рік тому +5

      that 1 guy still ain't in jail for SA some lady in the woods

    • @summerrain1378
      @summerrain1378 Рік тому +1

      What guy do you keep talking about? @@mannykiller

    • @wvgirl7264
      @wvgirl7264 Рік тому

      @@mannykiller Who are you talking about?

    • @jessicajustice5564
      @jessicajustice5564 Рік тому

      ​@trustnone13 yea I'm curious too

    • @Jaque1961
      @Jaque1961 Рік тому +1

      TIMMY, NOT "TUMMY "...JESUS CHRIST

  • @Queen.AnneBoleyn
    @Queen.AnneBoleyn Рік тому +139

    When Ray pulled the seat up for you, I was just thinking how kind and respectful his heart is. ❤️ I hope he gets some help for his knee. I also hope they get that house next door, because they deserve a nice, clean home to live in. Let's make that happen!

    • @sleepynightowl1550
      @sleepynightowl1550 Рік тому +44

      I agree they deserve a nice, clean home as much as anybody does. But the problem arises with upkeeping it that way. They don't only need a new house to start fresh and accommodate everyone, they need someone who comes help clean it for them, too.
      Who is gonna do that?

    • @TheFoxyshade
      @TheFoxyshade Рік тому +7

      I am so touched by you Mark n ur assistant too!!! They obviously have love for u guys! 😊. It breaks my heart that one of the dogs lost his leg however he seems to manage very well! I hope the dogs get fixed too! Ray needs meds for the inflammation 😢. Anyhoo, I also believe that they would need someone w a good heart ❤️ to help keep their home more orderly! In time I guess 😊. Thank you Mark!!

    • @beatrizaguillon1596
      @beatrizaguillon1596 Рік тому +28

      I think a cleaning service would be more than happy to come in once a week to help with housework. Betty could use the help.

    • @lifeoflw84
      @lifeoflw84 Рік тому +17

      He needs his knee checked!!!

    • @loispoe4849
      @loispoe4849 Рік тому +3

      @@lifeoflw84 immediately

  • @jenniferthomason3431
    @jenniferthomason3431 Рік тому +33

    Awww it warmed my heart so much when Larry was telling Timmy how good of a job he did on his coloring book. Timmy was so proud 🥹

  • @Nigusi1985
    @Nigusi1985 Рік тому +5

    Sweet people. I love the fact that their neighbors are protecting them. And so are you with your gentle ways ❤️

  • @akilahm4
    @akilahm4 Рік тому +45

    This family is so sweet and kind and even though they don't have much, they have each other and love and it's truly touching. The dogs even show how happy they are always wagging their tails and you can tell they feel the love. I truly hope they are able to get the house, they deserve a big piece of more hapiness in life.

  • @iandism
    @iandism Рік тому +38

    How lovely to see that the family are safe and well. And what a wonderful welcome from Lorraine, who is usually so quiet. Thank you Mark, for keeping us updated. I have personally loved the transformation of the whole family, and become quite attracted to them all. May they continue to be happy and content in their lives. I live on the Island of Guernsey, part of the channel islands between France and England, so you have reached a long way. All the best to you and the Whitttaker family

  • @conniehanses
    @conniehanses Рік тому +306

    I love just sitting on the porch with you, listening to all the conversations. Watching the dogs play and nobody on their phone..they spend more quality time together than anyone...happy safe travels Mark💙🌎✌️

    • @danmasters1568
      @danmasters1568 Рік тому +22

      It's great, isn't it? A family actually being a _family!_ No cellphones or laptops seducing them into their own little separate worlds. I see nothing but warm familial love here. It's good to see. 😀

    • @OG-GHOST2
      @OG-GHOST2 Рік тому +5

      Amen

    • @OG-GHOST2
      @OG-GHOST2 Рік тому +5

      ​@@danmasters1568good eye

    • @derekwpennington1796
      @derekwpennington1796 Рік тому +14

      The no phone is the best part. The world was better in the 80s when very few had mobile phones. Now everyones lazy and schools have gone to hell as they can google anything. My kids never had a school book one time they could bring home, only had 4 in a classroom but stayed in classroom. Think it was for looks😂😂😂.

    • @mysticrose17
      @mysticrose17 Рік тому +13

      They have a closer family than I do! ❤

  • @L_Bhoo
    @L_Bhoo 8 місяців тому +26

    Someone needs to help them clean up this place 😢 no one should have to live like that.

    • @polskigirl8547
      @polskigirl8547 8 місяців тому +4

      They don’t have to….they choose to…..takes one person to supervise them to clean up…

  • @herinnergy1995
    @herinnergy1995 Рік тому +20

    When Ray pulled the chair out for Mark it made my heart melt.. although he clearly has a delay he understands kindness.. wishing this family the best.

  • @blakliztmuzik
    @blakliztmuzik Рік тому +38

    One of the most compelling, and heart warming series ive ever seen

  • @brenreidy8763
    @brenreidy8763 Рік тому +181

    Mark, what you've done here is nothing short of a spectacle of the human spirit. This entire saga has been heartwarming, informative, eye opening, and fun. This family not only deserves respect, but they deserve to be seen in a different light that you've very much provided. They look happier and healthier than EVER. Thanks for sharing this experience with us.
    PS - Glad to see Jack is OK!

    • @kmjr2400
      @kmjr2400 Рік тому +1

      💯 percent agree with you !!!!

    • @shippys2043
      @shippys2043 Рік тому +2

      I felt my perspective shifting throughout these Whittaker videos. In a time when “it’s all about me” this family reminds of of the strengths of unity. For all it disturbed me it equally enlightened me

    • @steverussel9842
      @steverussel9842 Рік тому

      Calm down

    • @Lpm920
      @Lpm920 Рік тому +2

      Well said. Mark has been a god send.

    • @Lpm920
      @Lpm920 Рік тому

      @@steverussel9842go play with a cat.

  • @xXxWhiskeytangoxXx
    @xXxWhiskeytangoxXx 10 місяців тому +6

    I hope this shut all those haters up saying theye weren't capable of caring for an injured dog. He looks healthy and happy as can be

  • @mandys3624
    @mandys3624 Рік тому +45

    Oh my! The greetings from Ray and Lorraine especially melted my heart! ❤

  • @ravenblue7805
    @ravenblue7805 Рік тому +26

    I love that the Whittakers enjoy their celebrity at the state fair and whenever they go into town, and that good folks from all over come by to visit.
    I think that Marks’ revealing documentation and authentic friendship over the years with this lovely family has certainly shone some more sunshine and warmth into their lives, and ours..
    God bless ♥️😊✌🏽

  • @mickyfitzko6024
    @mickyfitzko6024 Рік тому +28

    Mark im from southern wv and what you have done and are doing for the Whittakers is amazing to watch over the years. Its the main reason i subscribed the the channel in the beginning and now i watch alot of your content and im for sure sending money to help them get this home. Im a disabled combat vet and not rich but i can for sure throw 20 or 25 there way! Thanks for all you do for this family brother!

  • @jojo-ir9um
    @jojo-ir9um 9 місяців тому +18

    I'm sure they all have disability checks, Social Services have people who will take them to the grocery store,help to keep the home clean and take them to Dr appointments. Someone's not doing their job at the County.

  • @invisible1051
    @invisible1051 Рік тому +67

    Ray seems to have come the furthest since meeting mark, hes proud of his new jeans even, from the first time meeting he wasnt bothered by anything, now he treats mark like family and is so talkative and relaxed and proud of himself, heartwarming ❤

    • @invisible1051
      @invisible1051 Рік тому +4

      And for that reason I'm gonna donate, I'm a mother of three, unfortunately raising them alone as life didn't turn out as expected for my family, but if I can spare a 10 I'll do it

    • @mikepietronudo3486
      @mikepietronudo3486 Рік тому

      Donating to rich people is dumb. He has more money then u no point

    • @markleach116
      @markleach116 Рік тому +2

      It was so sweet when Ray pulled up a chair so Mark could watch TV with him ... and then asked Marrk to check his leg ...🥲

    • @sarahbethany2443
      @sarahbethany2443 Рік тому +1

      Timmy and Lorraine have also really blossomed

  • @TheMrdhyde
    @TheMrdhyde Рік тому +34

    You can tell by following this through the years that Mark has made a huge impact on these folks lives. Especially Ray. I bet Ray does not come around to anyone but Mark. You are a great guy Mark. I know it's nothing to do with money. These people have a much better quality of life because of Mark.

  • @000Sunshine82
    @000Sunshine82 Рік тому +44

    Its so heart warming to see how far along they have all came as far as opening up and expressing themselves.Its a joy to be able to keep up with them through you Mark..❤❤❤❤

  • @chedderbug2820
    @chedderbug2820 11 місяців тому +4

    This family has such a strong sense of community and family. Something so essential to our well being yet becoming so hard to find in this day and age. I've been so blessed watching these videos of this family. Praying for health and blessings for each one of them. ❤

  • @poohbeared40
    @poohbeared40 Рік тому +24

    I envy how close they are. Just that alone makes them wealthier then most Americans. Thank you for always being so kind to these people, and I thank the Whittakers for allowing the world a peek into their lives. Ray and Lorraine are probably my favorite two but definitely I really love them all. I truly enjoy watching all the videos Mark posts, it's so interesting to see a glimpse into other people's lives and experiences. People intrigue me so much......even though I am one of them. LOL. Thank you and may God bless those sweet people!! Never complain about anything, happy with what they have and so appreciative for anything they get.

  • @stephaniedip1967
    @stephaniedip1967 Рік тому +28

    Mark you’re such a kind and compassionate man. We need more people like you and your family in the world ❤

  • @millename
    @millename Рік тому +113

    Timmy wouldn’t change his coloring book for pizza! Good boy! And all those dogs wagging their tails just melted my heart.❤️

    • @Jerry-hj1lb
      @Jerry-hj1lb Рік тому +8

      Haven't seen anyone turn down pizza in a long while. Dogs are great very friendly. God bless them all.

  • @emilymarie6329
    @emilymarie6329 8 місяців тому +2

    i fell in love with this family!! they are all so sweet and you can tell they enjoy having visitors, it’s nice that their neighbors protect them!! they can’t help how they grew up, and it’s not their fault that their parents made certain choices!!!

  • @garybryson130
    @garybryson130 Рік тому +25

    I live in Australia, came across these videos by accident, have watched all of them and so have some of my friends as well now, these people are probably happier than families that think they are much better off than the Whittakers, well I am much better off in money terms but I think they are much happier in life, a good life lesson for all I think, Good luck in the future for the Whittakers . Just donated a small amount of money to get them there new house, that would help them out so much, please help if you can. Cheers from down under.

  • @jenniferbuynitzky412
    @jenniferbuynitzky412 Рік тому +24

    I honestly love this family. I know they struggled but they continuously warm my heart. Thank you for doing all that you do for them.

  • @DereliqueMahBAWLS
    @DereliqueMahBAWLS Рік тому +258

    I adore Timmy. I’d guess that he has the mind of a 4-5 year but he’s always so happy when Mark visits. And he was so proud about his coloring book. And he did such a good job!

    • @marthalouise701
      @marthalouise701 Рік тому +33

      Yes and did you see him yesterday on the rides at the State Fair? He was brave enough to go on the Ferris Wheel and was so happy! Go Timmy. Maybe he’ll have new inspiration to draw what he saw there 😊

    • @robertadam7182
      @robertadam7182 Рік тому +33

      He actually graduated high school

    • @hannakinn
      @hannakinn Рік тому +17

      It was really nice how his Timmy's older relative was praising Timmy's coloring. You could tell it made Timmy happy. Timmy's used to always be writing on paper or pretending to. If I remember correctly Timmy's went to school. Timmy's seems to be getting progressively worse as he ages. Did he have a stroke? I wonder if Timmy's has a progressive disease.

    • @marthalouise701
      @marthalouise701 Рік тому +8

      @@hannakinn I just thought he switched to coloring because he likes to write sometimes and color at other times. But you may be right as he might be struggling more and that’s why he is focused on coloring now.

    • @juliec1257
      @juliec1257 Рік тому +25

      Hey, maybe people would buy some of Timmy’s pictures to help. I would. Just an idea

  • @Billy-MF-Wright
    @Billy-MF-Wright Рік тому +21

    It was truly a blessing walking up and meeting the Whittaker's at a Burger King..There really the nicest ppl you ever wanna meet..I let em all know how great thay are doing..ESPECIALLY..Timmy and the cross word's puzzles and his coloring..Am 💯 glad thay have a friend like Mark..We've been praying Thay find a new home..

    • @noneyourbusinesbish
      @noneyourbusinesbish 10 місяців тому +1

      Saw that and you were really nice to the family. Thank you

    • @Billy-MF-Wright
      @Billy-MF-Wright 10 місяців тому +1

      @noneyourbusinesbish I just really tryed to tell them what EVERYONE else was thanking..It's amazing how close they really are...EVERYONE watching over each other..

    • @noneyourbusinesbish
      @noneyourbusinesbish 10 місяців тому

      @@Billy-MF-Wright love it

  • @janetczernecki7779
    @janetczernecki7779 Рік тому +19

    Thank you Mark for helping this precious family. I hope they can buy the house next door, and Ray get his knee treated. ❤

  • @Voodoodollgaming
    @Voodoodollgaming Рік тому +55

    You can tell just how good you guys are to this family.
    All their faces light up when they see you both. You guys are a blessing to them all.

  • @SacredMoonCo
    @SacredMoonCo Рік тому +14

    I recently came across these videos and didn’t know how i would feel about watching them. Maaannn this family has grown in me. They are so sweet and authentic. They all smile so much bigger now than from the beginning!! I think they love you Mark🥰