Imagine when those twins is 14 and she have a 12 and 11 year old ALSO around school time and 2 baby daddies GONE that fall on her or her husband to provide for those kids shoes for those 4 is 250 and that’s if you buy cheap shoes clothes forget it she need prayer
This woman is exactly why there is a cycle of poverty within the black community. She has created a generation of underprivileged children. What an accomplishment. Bravo.
The poverty situation is bigger than her & her decisions. It is so shocking go see your comment. Males lay their seeds. Tell them stop dropping them around just like this white man said on a Podcast as a caller. He cussed that Black man out. Lol. People will have sex without marriage. So tell Men stop Releasing themselves in women if they aren't going to raise their child.
Unfortunately those like her live in a bubble where dysfunction is common. You can only hope that the children can realize having 5 kids out of wedlock is not normal and move far differently than their mother. I wouldn't trust her to lead her children in that direction, because in her mind she's doing a great job... she just doesn't know any better, and probably never will.
Her attitude needs a adjustment her language also I’m going to pray for her and her children she reminds me of Sukihana she acts just like her without the nastiness
I think she knows what it’s about, women like her, like to shift the argument… That’s why she immediately started talking about other women who wear wigs and make up knowing damn well that’s not what anybody was talking about
so true i fear for them kids because her situation is crazy, she can say she wants a man that will accept her for her and not judge her but in reality the man she will attract is a man who has several kids with different women, or she will be a side piece, or a man telling her i just want FWB she has absolutely no leverage in the dating mkt, no decent man will want he, that is what kendra was trying to say
Take away the food stamps housing programs and public assistance. This woman would not be this cocky and full of herself. I do want the best for this Sista
I hate to say this but the kids are out of control, crying, wants mommy attention on the Kendra show, they need to be fed, give them their bottle of milk, or cereal, go cook lunch, dinner, bathe them, put them to bed, change pampers, pull-ups, pick up dirty diapers, clean the house, I bet crumbs and empty bowls all over the apt. This is sad and I feel like crying because I want to know where her parents at?
This caller thinks that the chaos she has created is normal. What’s even worse, is her children will think that their environment is normal. The cycle will continue.
She can’t even hold a conversation without the distraction, interruption and attention multiple children require. Folks with kids are so defensive but never empathetic to this fact when considering what others have to deal with when dating them.
She’s combative, doesn’t listen or take criticism well, she comes with 5 kids and up here not caring about her appearance. I’m trying to figure out what she didn’t understand…
And thought she was a catch because she was 25 and her kids are taken care of. What else are they meant to be? So so sad. I wonder how many more BDs she will rack up over the next decade 👀
This is one of the dustiest loud and chaotic people who has ever pressed the request button. She's so hostile and defensive knowing she FUQED UP. She should be WILLING TO LISTEN to a successful elder woman trying to give her advice on how to facilitate change in her life. She's going to keep popping out babies that will be living in poverty. And before one of you says that she isn't poor, look up what day care teachers make now think about what it takes to provide for 5 kids and get back to me.
This show proves daily that majority of ppl are delusional as hell... you can't take care of 5 kids well as a single mom. Even if you can provide, mentally and emotionally you must be half dead. I have one kid, a teenager, and I ain't had that good ass deep sleep since she been in my house. Can't imagine 5. Bless her.
Same here !! I have one son & haven’t really rest in 3 years he’s 3 since i became a Mother 1 is enough I’m 30! It’s hard with 1 child extremely this lil lady here smh
Right! I got 3 boys all over 6. My fiance and I have great paying jobs and it's still hard! She most definitely gets assistance, even still emotionally it's a lot to tend to one, cause you have to make sure everyone feels loved,ok and included. I cry alot, praying I'm not failing mine.
Sis, if you read my comment.. as a mom that is 44 years old, and this is coming from a place of love, focus on your children.. you have very small kids! It's ok to just focus on your kids for a while! Please, just focus on your kids..❤❤
Sis, if you read my comment….as a dad that is 49 years old, and this is coming from a place of pure judgement and harsh criticism, focus on keeping yourself and your spawn far the fck away from me, my wife, my black suburban princess of a daughter, and the son I’m raising to be a provider. I don’t want you any where near my well manicured lawn. I hope things work out for you and your brood, but at the end of the day I don’t give af either way, just don’t be near me and mine. Bye!
Uhm are there not men who have the same situation as far as kids out there looking for somebody? A couple done popped up on here. The problem is these men don't want women with multiple kids and fathers. Isn't it ironic
@@GETBIG4WARD he might be a reformed pookie. Meaning he used to make questionable choices, but he's matured and learned from them.He might respect her situation. I don't know why y'all on here acting like there hasn't been several on this show wanting women with one or no kids😒
Appearance is unkept, kids screaming all over the place, she isn’t receiving the message and she isn’t going to change UNLESS she gets the help she needs… Sb - Kendra is good because I would’ve hung up. 😂
It's this "IDGAF about what people have to say" attitude that manifests in people with no accountability for bad decisions. And individuals that applaud "rappers" like Sukihana and Sexy Redd's song "Hoodrats"... It's such as shame that our ancestors fought and died for these people to be who represent us even when we are not all like that.
She might be intelligent but she hasn’t had a good night sleep since before electricity 😩. Seriously, i thought the same thing. Her intellect is on par with a 15 year old
That “Hi” was on que. When someone asks if “You need to check on the kids ?” That’s the polite way of saying that yo kids are too loud to proceed with a normal conversation.
She’s aggressive because she’s stressed and hearing somebody tell you you’re down bad will make someone combative. Usually they’ll be sad after the fight due to the truth sinking in. I feel like I could see the sadness in her face when Kendra made valid points and critiques about her situation.
Young girl . It’s about not creating Broken homes. As a black community . You passing your traumas to your kids . It’s not just about providing food and clothes , ITS MORE THAN THAT !
Her children deserve to have fathers that she doesn’t call “crazy” on an online dating show. They are disadvantaged because of the choices SHE made when SHE chose their fathers. Being young is not an excuse. This is what she clearly cannot comprehend. I feel so sorry for her children.
Look if I had 5 kids and came on a dating show, hair did, nails did, everything did. Kids would have been settled and acting like perfect angels, matter of fact they would have been sleep. I would definitely not be combative and definitely wouldn’t have said “a man is an accessory which is equivalent to useless. Cause if I had 5 kids, I’m need dude to see some benefits. 🤦🏽♀️ yeah she needs to date when the kids are older.
This is what men such as myself have to deal with in our community. If one ain’t a pookie, in the streets or corporate pookie, I shouldn’t be shamed into accepting this type of behavior from a woman. I don’t put all bw in the same pot as her but as a people we need to stop defending women like her and the men who laid with her. This keeps us as a race at the bottom. It’s too much of this dysfunctional behavior going on reproducing out of wedlock with nothing but the govt to be the Daddy. Now I guarantee the dudes she dealt with were bottom feeder dudes also and what’s the chances they have successful situations going on to even have sex with her? This is why therapy is needed. Unfortunately it’s men who are worse than her and got money, prime example NBA Youngboy who has more kids and I don’t think he is 25 yet. Too many kids are raised with no family values, even in reproduction.
It's weird how much we baby people. I knew all the stuff Kenda was saying back when I was 16. I'm the exact same age as this woman (25 yo) and wish we would stop treating grown adults like children lol.
you have to EARN meeting her kids😂..the entitlement, the sassiness, the ratchetness... Kendra 's been trying to help ya'll ladies, you just don't listen It s the Chaos in the background for me.
Lmao listen, that’s the biggest lie ever told. From the times I used to date single mothers, they damn near force the kids in your presence almost immediately 😂 The fact she has a 1 year and 2 month old says she’s lied 😂
Chaos definitely blew me! But earning to meet your kids is a must. Everybody that you meet, shouldn't meet your kids. Period! Ppl weird and like to get close to parents, just for the kid
@@kaciousrobinson440 no man will EARN to meet her kids.. she s not a prize. 25 y o with 5 kids and several sketchy BD... why would any man sign up to that? it s not like she s giving feminine and peaceful vibe.
This is truly a sad situation 😞. Her kids will definitely suffer from her emotional pain,and current circumstances. Being a single mother with 5 kids at 25 is a recipe for disaster. She's very angry 😠, hyper aggressive, and beyond reasoning. 😮😮😮😮😮
@@Lboogie703 This was epic and crazy for sure. I don't like to say it but those kids are really going to suffer mentally, and emotionally because can't provide any direction for what they desperately need.
They kill me your not going to meet my kids.... ok had no plans on it. Go back with them kids father. 25 with 5 kids she's angry because she knows she fked up her life
This was very depressing and chaotic. So sad. Kendra tried to help her see some truth. This young mother needs mentorship to help her succeed for herself and her kids.
This girl is preaching so hard she showed us how much effort she puts into herself. NO EFORT AT ALL. I know being a mom is hard, but how do you show up for work. Are you allowing yourself time to care for you. Care about your appearance? You have to show the respect to yourself that you want others to give you💯
I can only assume they really want all the benefits for themselves.. the mothers who say that are the type to stay in the room with their man all day while the children are just doing whatever.. take the big fish for herself and the children get crumbs
I wonder would all these single moms with 3 plus children rattling off about “I take good care of my kids. I don’t need a man to do nothing for my kids.” would feel that way if they didn’t have public assistance of some type?
I'm a product of a single mom of 7 and only two of us have the same father. It is the biggest struggle to have a family, stay connected and be raised cohesively under one roof. We visited our fathers separately and came back with completely different upbringings. It's hard being in such chaos, very hard. I wish her the best and that her kids have a much better experience than me. Kids deserve love, attention but most importantly stability and consistency in their lives. Praying for you sister and continue to being a DOPE mom 💫
@@danielademideyea that a dope mom compliment is why this lady pushed back soo hard when Kendra tried schooling her. She used to ppl complimenting her for being a single mom of 5 . In this “everyone gets a trophy” culture we live in now we can’t just be real with folks and that confuses the person who needs to be schooled
@@ariamason9324we already know about this… we’ve been telling y’all for years and y’all scolded us for it… and then Kendra comes on here shows it to y’all again and finally y’all see it… 😂
Kendra you handled her with so much patience and care; Bravo to you 👏🏽. She feels bad about her situation but she’s trying to convince herself that she’s fine with it. As soon as Kendra accepted her request she said “I look a mess” then spent the majority of the time arguing that she’s fine looking how she looks. This was so sad.
This title, KG reaction to her scream, “is that a crying baby? Is that your baby?”, and the fact we actively hear “mama” while she is like… “they fine” has me in a whirlwind.
She can’t see or hear past her current chaos. She can’t even admit that 5 kids at age 25 with 3 different men is a problem. Dating should be the last thing in her mind.
The background noise with all those children!! I got tired from listening to all of that😩and when she said a man is like luxury bag i hollered 😭the wifi went out so must be God telling her to tend to the babies. messy fr
@@allMinabe lmao That luxury part had me dying! Like the nerve this woman has is unmatched 😂😂😭 My ears haven’t been so irritated like that since that one dude had a smoking detector that was making beats 😂😭😭
What she doesn't realize is that each time she had another child, she made it more difficult for the other children. She demonstrated that she had no discipline, self-control and that she learned nothing from her past choices. She's defensive because she's upset. But that hurt and upset should be aimed at herself.
She got kids screaming in the background, she cannot even keep the phone in her face, and she has 3 baby's daddy's. One is in and out of jail and the other she describes as crazy. Then there's the 5 kids all 6 and under, including a fresh newborn. What decent/quality guy is signing up for this?
She’s angry about her plight and doesn’t want to admit it. She’s not trying to HEAR the wisdom that Kendra is desperately trying to offer her. She needs to hear Kendra or anyone trying to help her do better for herself and her children. She doesn’t understand what a relationship truly is. I admire that she wasn’t cussing her children out and was gentle with them🙏🏽
“Each one of my kids saved me from something”….. i have no words for this woman. And the burst of confidence at the end after she was scrambling for a hat when she came on because she even said herself she looked “crazy”…
She can put a positive spin on damn near every negative outcome in her life . I wish we would’ve got to her three flaws cuz I’m sure she would’ve struggled to think of one
@@Scam-ish exactly they always do, but yet the first thing she mentioned about one of the dad's was that he's crazy!🙄She has a toxic attitude and won't listen, she's got a lot to learn!
Omg. 😩😩She was way too defensive when Kendra is just trying to help. She doesn’t understand that is not just your physical appearance. This young lady is not even close to being ready to date. She needs to focus on raising her children.
@@adams8830 You people are crazy. Her environment is not chaotic. It is what you should expect in an environment with 5 small children. It is normal for their age.
“I do everything for myself…” How is that possible for a 25 year old teacher who has five children? If she gets government assistance, then she’s not doing all this by herself. She’s getting a lot of help and is looking for more help.
A daycare worker is not being paid what a teacher makes. She barely looks like she has a high school diploma. Try living in some type of supplemental housing and getting food stamps and cash assistance. She balls out at tax time for her kids and that makes her a great mom. Bye Felicia
single mothers always say this. when you check their background they're getting: food stamps, child support maybe, section 8, welfare. Whole life funding and brought to you by the United States Government lol
What do I need to change about myself? Bringing all these children in the world with no father in the home, birth control, understand any man with you has to accept 5 children that aren't his, sharing you five different ways🤷🏽♀️
It's crazy bc she's so deep in her impoverished mentality, she doesn't think there's an issue here. It seems like she was more concerned with what comments said than the well being of her babies.
@@amilllion1she was stuck on her outward appearance she would not get off the hair and lashes thing. It’s sad some think all they need is some cosmetics and boom they are a different person
Exactly...her brain can't grasp what the host was trying to say. She kept talking about wigs and makeup. She lacks self reflection and critical thinking. She loves the monetary benefits she gets by having 5 kids. I'm sure she has no college funds for those 5 kids.
That's modern women of today that you ladies from the mid 80 til now instill this garbarge in there daughters so this is the result deez girl didn't learn this crap from a manor a father
This live is indicative of the life she’s living and what a potential suitor would have to deal with: impulsiveness, chaos, poor planning, poor choices, unavailability and indecisiveness.
I love how you all think you personally have to go through something to understand it. We learn from observation sometimes. Or does this logic only apply to marriage.
@@inquiring_mind6485 that’s like us men observing a woman giving birth and then us saying yea we understand what it’s like holding a child for 9 months and then giving actual birth. Even tho we are there observing we still have no idea what is like 👍
I love how Kendra didn't participate in her argumentative behavior. Seemed like she was itching for a little push-back/fight. Kendra let her speak until she ran out of steam then she calmed all the way down. #Breathless
This is part of the problem right here as to why Black men are reluctant to step up and take care of Black women. Saying you don’t need a man is a bit delusional. We need each other. It’s great that this young lady is doing what she’s supposed to do as a mother, but having a quality man in your life will make things a million times easier.
I think the term "need" is what gets people. In reality, you can absolutely live a fulfilling life without a partner. We do need each other for certain things but I dont see anything wrong with a person saying "I don't need a man/woman in my life right now". I wasted many years of my life believing i needed a man... it only led to low self esteem and depression.
@@texasbelle333 no no no - in the context of dating, relationships, marriage, kids *family*, and *legacy* men & women ABSOLUTELY *NEED* each other..and to state otherwise or to try and find some nuisance is laughable & tragic, especially for our people & our history in this country. It is completely foolish to go on a dating show, when you presumably want something serious to lead to marriage & family, to then fix your mouth to say you don't need a man. A man would never say he doesn't need a woman in the context of family & legacy.
She has 5 kids and an attitude. “I make it happen. A man is like a luxury… like a bag.” This situation is so crazy that this young lady is so preoccupied that she can’t even be positioned in the camera correctly. She really believes that her situation is cool. 5 kids at 25… in THIS culture… and he won’t have to “help”?🤦🏽♂️
And all the baby daddies are nothing Axx ninjas 🥷🏾. It’s like do these ppl not know about birth control???? A simple pill everyday will keep the baby away even if you forget get that thing they put inside of you or a shot. This all could have been avoided!!!
There are many types of men. She qualifies for more, but most men don’t suit the bill - and that’s understandable. She needs to focus on raising her children instead of focusing on men. At the right time, God will insert an honorable man in her life IF she is living with integrity herself. But to say that a young mother of 5 doesn’t deserve a man of integrity is corrupt.
@God-Love-Freedom Like C.K. 4883 sais, "She really qualifies for is Pookie and Ray Ray" and unfortunately, that's the truth. I would disown my sons if he brought a ratchet woman, her drama/problems and her kids in my home. Fortunately, neither of my sons would look twice at her and they're childless and in school and I'm hoping they date a girl who has something going on for herself and doesn't come from a broken family/background. Good luck to her though, because she is going to need it.
Did she say that a man is just a luxury like a Bag?! Men could never get away with objectifying Women like this today. I applaud Kendra for speaking to her with love. Children are blessings, but few men are going to share you with the 3 other men that a woman has created a child with. As a man, I am always aware that the father or fathers will always be a part of your life and how you treat them is a reflection of how you will treat me as a man. Thank you Kendra for having this conversation and helping women see themselves the way we view them.
She's missing the whole point because she is not in a mental place to accept the message. I had a guy friend argue me down about a situation that I just did not understand. As life continued to happen I was placed in a situation that directly mirrored exactly what this man was trying to tell me and it wasn't until THAT moment, moooonnnths down the line that I agreed with him. Had to call him and apologize. 😩 I Pray this was a seed that she'll nourish as time goes on. 💜🙏🏾
Nobody’s making her do anything, so she will refuse so, that girl is finished… She is the classic. “I’ve been doing this all my life so I know what I’m doing”… I’ve seen women that are the older version of her with 8+ kids… Her kids are taken care of likely because of the government im positive ….
She stepped into motherhood before fully exploring her journey as a woman, resulting in a shield of defensiveness around her choices, barricading her from the transformative wisdom of accepting guidance.
My mother had one child out of wedlock (Me ) and she never dated or brought men around me until l left her house at 19. She taught me don’t have children unless your married and committed to that person because a child / children need both their parents. This girl is a victim of a single mother and lack of knowledge of birth control and self control.
So your mother didn't get married after all that time? That is crazy to me. She taught you one part, but showed you no value in the home when it comes to family. Many children have said Ma I didn't see you do it, so who are you to take advice from in that area.
Half of girls who are impregnated are impregnated by men who are at least 6 years older. She’s not a victim of a single mother, she’s a victim of no leadership in the Black culture.
@@1fattgirlmah1you should probably reread the comment. I think her point was that her single mom chose to put her child first and not bring any men around her child. So maybe 19 years later she was not interested in getting married. Or maybe she did get married. That's not the point of the comment.
What she wants “someone who accepts her for who she is, someone who will not judge her for having children and/or there for the children” she also doesn’t desire marriage right now….. basically the same men she’s been attracting. Sending her healing and loving energy ❤️🙏🏾
Her home sounds like chaos… Raise ya kids, don’t worry bout dating right now . I say that with love
Imagine when those twins is 14 and she have a 12 and 11 year old ALSO around school time and 2 baby daddies GONE that fall on her or her husband to provide for those kids shoes for those 4 is 250 and that’s if you buy cheap shoes clothes forget it she need prayer
A damn shame
All she's going to do is make another baby. She needs to go sit it down already.
Yes parenting is a full-time job
And she is aggressive as well
It’s like she’s trying to convince us that being 25 with 5 kids and 3 baby daddies is okay…
But she’s really trying to convince herself 🥴🫠
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She was “young and dumb” lol
Cus bless her but no. I have none and when I’m depressed or anxious life is no rainbow here. Sounds tough
They're all trying to convince us of that 😂. They swear it's cool.
Exactly!
Marriage isn’t for her but being a single mother is !?!? Stuff like this is destroying the black family.
Exactly
5 kids damn sho ain’t for me 😂😭😭
Are u gonna take care of them kids then
Completely agree
Legend says she's going for 10 kids
I SWEAR UNTIL I STARTED WATCHING KENDRAS SHOW I DIDN’T REALIZE HOW MANY PPL HAD SHEETS ON THEIR WINDOWS 😂😂😂😂😂
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Not Ms got it all together!
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Omg, that’s a pet peeve of mine! That and crooked pictures!
Or how many people ignore their smoke detectors.
This woman is exactly why there is a cycle of poverty within the black community. She has created a generation of underprivileged children. What an accomplishment. Bravo.
how long have we been saying it and shes just combative fighting to be a 🪳
The poverty situation is bigger than her & her decisions. It is so shocking go see your comment. Males lay their seeds. Tell them stop dropping them around just like this white man said on a Podcast as a caller. He cussed that Black man out. Lol. People will have sex without marriage. So tell Men stop Releasing themselves in women if they aren't going to raise their child.
Unfortunately those like her live in a bubble where dysfunction is common. You can only hope that the children can realize having 5 kids out of wedlock is not normal and move far differently than their mother. I wouldn't trust her to lead her children in that direction, because in her mind she's doing a great job... she just doesn't know any better, and probably never will.
Poverty factory
Yep, if “when you know better, you do better” had a face 🥺
This woman is so damaged. She will pass on the damage to those 5 kids.
Her attitude needs a adjustment her language also I’m going to pray for her and her children she reminds me of Sukihana she acts just like her without the nastiness
@@GETBIG4WARD she has no clue what she is doing wrong she is copying her environment
Family therapy is needed for all.
Prolly never finished high school, has a little girl's rain.
She nor damaged this is what was taught to her look how she said a man is a luxury only a mother will say that too her so this is her belief
She cannot LEARN anything because she believes she KNOWS EVERYTHING 🥺
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Exactly
@SincerelyFrancisit’s not her zodiac signs fault. It’s just her personality
Exactly. Yet someone is supposed to be willing to date that? Come on.
The worst kind of people
Natural beauty isn't always about appearance but the way someone carries themselves.
A fool DESPISES correction. Proverbs 15:5
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Wow thank you for reminding me of that. I have to remember that for me too.
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Yes
She really thinks the criticism is about a wig, lashes, and nails? Lawdddddddd!
Yeah, it wasn’t clicking.
She's the one that keeps going back to looks. Which leans toward an insecurity. This whole thing was sad.
I think she knows what it’s about, women like her, like to shift the argument… That’s why she immediately started talking about other women who wear wigs and make up knowing damn well that’s not what anybody was talking about
She’s too shallow minded to understand that she’s telling her she needs to change her way of thinking to attract better dudes
😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅😅😅😮
The fact she really thought KG was talking about looks is a dead give away that she isn't ready mentally
so true i fear for them kids because her situation is crazy, she can say she wants a man that will accept her for her and not judge her but in reality the man she will attract is a man who has several kids with different women, or she will be a side piece, or a man telling her i just want FWB she has absolutely no leverage in the dating mkt, no decent man will want he, that is what kendra was trying to say
Take away the food stamps housing programs and public assistance. This woman would not be this cocky and full of herself. I do want the best for this Sista
Exactly
I agree with you 100%.
My cuz got 6 and she don't get any of that but her mama takes care of them while she party like a rock star so that's y she keeps having kids
I AGREE WITH YOU ONE BILLION PERCENT. ITS HARD OUT HERE WITH MOFOS THAT DON'T HAVE ANY KIDS AND SHE GOT FIVE?
I hate to say this but the kids are out of control, crying, wants mommy attention on the Kendra show, they need to be fed, give them their bottle of milk, or cereal, go cook lunch, dinner, bathe them, put them to bed, change pampers, pull-ups, pick up dirty diapers, clean the house, I bet crumbs and empty bowls all over the apt. This is sad and I feel like crying because I want to know where her parents at?
It’s not your appearance, baby girl it’s your mentality. I thank God every day for my daughters 🙏🏾❤️
Sad she dont get that. And her appearance is a direct reflection of her mental state. That in itself is a red flag
This caller thinks that the chaos she has created is normal. What’s even worse, is her children will think that their environment is normal. The cycle will continue.
She doesnt need counseling. She needs a hysterectomy
Nailed it
She missed it
This was the most CHAOTIC call I’ve ever witnessed on this show.
Read this as one of them screamed
Presentation isn’t always about looks . IT’s attitude ma’am
In this case- BOTH are terrible 🙄
Exactly
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Oh my god I lm screaming , it’s not your looks lady! It’s YOU . She just ain’t getting it
She don't need to be on a dating show. Mama her kids....
She can’t even hold a conversation without the distraction, interruption and attention multiple children require. Folks with kids are so defensive but never empathetic to this fact when considering what others have to deal with when dating them.
5 kids, 3 baby daddies and she’s only 25. Wow.
Did you hear her mouth she thinks a man is a accessory that’s the worst 💩 I heard in weeks 😂😂😂
She gave her best years to Pooky and Ray ray.. 5 kids later she's on Kendra looking for simp.
She just need to check out the game until her kids are grown
@@GETBIG4WARD yes she has the game twisted. 😂
@@matthewdolton8654 I have to agree on this one.
She’s combative, doesn’t listen or take criticism well, she comes with 5 kids and up here not caring about her appearance. I’m trying to figure out what she didn’t understand…
This is a woman's nature , too take no accountability and have every excuse in the world for her shortcomings
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😬 she missed every point and had a rebuttal for everything. You can tell she’s used to defending her actions
And thought she was a catch because she was 25 and her kids are taken care of. What else are they meant to be?
So so sad. I wonder how many more BDs she will rack up over the next decade 👀
Exactly
Focus on being a mother.
A relationship with a man who isn’t the father of those children should be your least worry.
Exactly
She's lonely. 😅😅😅
That's the bottom line
She needs help, she still wants sex, and all of her friends and family tell her she deserves a good man to come along and accept her how she is.
If a man tries to get with her it’s because he’s down BAD.. An ex convict need somewhere to live and will more than likely try to control her home
Facts,like damn wth is going on
This is one of the dustiest loud and chaotic people who has ever pressed the request button. She's so hostile and defensive knowing she FUQED UP. She should be WILLING TO LISTEN to a successful elder woman trying to give her advice on how to facilitate change in her life. She's going to keep popping out babies that will be living in poverty. And before one of you says that she isn't poor, look up what day care teachers make now think about what it takes to provide for 5 kids and get back to me.
i see nobody challenged you on your assertion 😂
You spoke nothing but facts
Looking back, she’s been beat
A well established man definitely wants to come home to this every day
That's what I've always been saying lol
LMAO😂
All those screaming kids and a combative woman with a terrible attitude. Goodness.
Yes any somewhat established man wants to come home to this... It a line waiting to come home to this..😂😂😂😂😂
Cocaine's a helluva drug!!
This show proves daily that majority of ppl are delusional as hell... you can't take care of 5 kids well as a single mom. Even if you can provide, mentally and emotionally you must be half dead.
I have one kid, a teenager, and I ain't had that good ass deep sleep since she been in my house. Can't imagine 5. Bless her.
Same here !! I have one son & haven’t really rest in 3 years he’s 3 since i became a Mother 1 is enough I’m 30! It’s hard with 1 child extremely this lil lady here smh
Right! I got 3 boys all over 6. My fiance and I have great paying jobs and it's still hard! She most definitely gets assistance, even still emotionally it's a lot to tend to one, cause you have to make sure everyone feels loved,ok and included. I cry alot, praying I'm not failing mine.
she's on public assistance...no way she takes care of 5 kids herself as day care teacher.
Daycare workers make nothing unless they manage or own the daycare
Well and if you remove all public assistance are they able to take care of them?
Sis, if you read my comment.. as a mom that is 44 years old, and this is coming from a place of love, focus on your children.. you have very small kids! It's ok to just focus on your kids for a while! Please, just focus on your kids..❤❤
Sis, if you read my comment….as a dad that is 49 years old, and this is coming from a place of pure judgement and harsh criticism, focus on keeping yourself and your spawn far the fck away from me, my wife, my black suburban princess of a daughter, and the son I’m raising to be a provider. I don’t want you any where near my well manicured lawn. I hope things work out for you and your brood, but at the end of the day I don’t give af either way, just don’t be near me and mine. Bye!
@@Roccofan huh???
@worldpeace0266 You have your comment for her, that is mine.
@@Roccofan oh, well good for you dude!
She’s a child herself
She's still too immature to be receptive to the type of advice Kendra is giving her. Kendra is coming with a wisdom she isn't ready for 🤷🏾♀️
It’s always hard to hear when the truth start truthing 😂😂😂
Amen! Truth is always stomping on feelings 😂 They better toughen up! Lol
AMEN! Too many out here in their feelings. Truth is toxic to these people.
😂😂
How many kids do you have ? I got 5 kids ok ....I'll repeat it every 5 minutes
Especially when the kids are hollering 💀
She is so aggressive. Life has def came at her fast. She looks older than 25. Smh poor thing
She will continue to make poor choices. I know a couple women like her.
i would look like an oap with 5 kids and no man to look after
Idk about “poor thing”…
Why would a man who has something going for himself want a woman with 5 kids!? Is this a joke? 🤦🏾♂️
it is delusion on biblical proportions
Uhm are there not men who have the same situation as far as kids out there looking for somebody? A couple done popped up on here. The problem is these men don't want women with multiple kids and fathers. Isn't it ironic
4 kids under 5 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️at 25...damnnn!!!
@@DeepBreathingMeditationmost men who have 5 kids be Pookies
@@GETBIG4WARD he might be a reformed pookie. Meaning he used to make questionable choices, but he's matured and learned from them.He might respect her situation. I don't know why y'all on here acting like there hasn't been several on this show wanting women with one or no kids😒
Appearance is unkept, kids screaming all over the place, she isn’t receiving the message and she isn’t going to change UNLESS she gets the help she needs…
Sb - Kendra is good because I would’ve hung up. 😂
“Each baby taught me something…” obviously it wasn’t to not have the next one. 😢
Right!
😅😮
Or buy a condom
😂😂😂😂🤦♀️
Lol OMG lol
It's this "IDGAF about what people have to say" attitude that manifests in people with no accountability for bad decisions. And individuals that applaud "rappers" like Sukihana and Sexy Redd's song "Hoodrats"... It's such as shame that our ancestors fought and died for these people to be who represent us even when we are not all like that.
She reminds me of Sukihana just not the nasty part
All she makes Is bad life choices
A mind is a terrible thing to waste 😮💨
Yeah, in certain situations, other people's opinions matter.
U part of the problem
There should be a law where it’s mandatory to take an intelligence test before conceiving children 🤦🏽♀️
💯💯💯💯💯
She might be intelligent but she hasn’t had a good night sleep since before electricity 😩.
Seriously, i thought the same thing. Her intellect is on par with a 15 year old
The population will drop drastically.
Not with y’all and this “ my body my choice “ thing y’all believe
I fucking died with the “I have a 1 year old and a 2 month old”. Like, holy shit, you ain’t even healed yet.
That “Hi” was on que. When someone asks if “You need to check on the kids ?” That’s the polite way of saying that yo kids are too loud to proceed with a normal conversation.
Sure that's true
You think she's intelligent enough to understand that? 😂
She doesn't care for those children . They're like pets to her . I know a chick like that and she has a very mean spirit like this woman .
And she couldn't even hear that 💀
Kids in the back turnt up like they were at a Tupac Concert. Screaming 'Dear Mama can you save me' 😭
She should have pressed the request button when she didn’t have them around here or at least when they was sleep
She’s aggressive because she’s stressed and hearing somebody tell you you’re down bad will make someone combative. Usually they’ll be sad after the fight due to the truth sinking in. I feel like I could see the sadness in her face when Kendra made valid points and critiques about her situation.
Same 💯
Absolutely 💯 almost like her aggression was a defense mechanism
I think she simply may be tired of being judged.
I agree 1000%
They press to go on live thats on them they know what the show is about.
Young girl . It’s about not creating Broken homes. As a black community . You passing your traumas to your kids . It’s not just about providing food and clothes , ITS MORE THAN THAT !
Thank you. It's so much more.
Her children deserve to have fathers that she doesn’t call “crazy” on an online dating show. They are disadvantaged because of the choices SHE made when SHE chose their fathers. Being young is not an excuse. This is what she clearly cannot comprehend. I feel so sorry for her children.
Look if I had 5 kids and came on a dating show, hair did, nails did, everything did. Kids would have been settled and acting like perfect angels, matter of fact they would have been sleep. I would definitely not be combative and definitely wouldn’t have said “a man is an accessory which is equivalent to useless. Cause if I had 5 kids, I’m need dude to see some benefits. 🤦🏽♀️ yeah she needs to date when the kids are older.
I think she needs to live a couple more years to fully appreciate what Kendra's trying to teach her.
This is what men such as myself have to deal with in our community. If one ain’t a pookie, in the streets or corporate pookie, I shouldn’t be shamed into accepting this type of behavior from a woman. I don’t put all bw in the same pot as her but as a people we need to stop defending women like her and the men who laid with her. This keeps us as a race at the bottom. It’s too much of this dysfunctional behavior going on reproducing out of wedlock with nothing but the govt to be the Daddy. Now I guarantee the dudes she dealt with were bottom feeder dudes also and what’s the chances they have successful situations going on to even have sex with her? This is why therapy is needed. Unfortunately it’s men who are worse than her and got money, prime example NBA Youngboy who has more kids and I don’t think he is 25 yet. Too many kids are raised with no family values, even in reproduction.
It would be too late by then
There will be more kids in the mix in a couple more years.
This is a lost cause 😢
@cd6741 Absolutely. By 35 she'll have a minimum of at least two more kids.
It's weird how much we baby people. I knew all the stuff Kenda was saying back when I was 16. I'm the exact same age as this woman (25 yo) and wish we would stop treating grown adults like children lol.
you have to EARN meeting her kids😂..the entitlement, the sassiness, the ratchetness...
Kendra 's been trying to help ya'll ladies, you just don't listen
It s the Chaos in the background for me.
Lmao listen, that’s the biggest lie ever told. From the times I used to date single mothers, they damn near force the kids in your presence almost immediately 😂 The fact she has a 1 year and 2 month old says she’s lied 😂
She is the prize. Don't be jealous
Chaos definitely blew me! But earning to meet your kids is a must. Everybody that you meet, shouldn't meet your kids. Period! Ppl weird and like to get close to parents, just for the kid
@@kaciousrobinson440 no man will EARN to meet her kids.. she s not a prize. 25 y o with 5 kids and several sketchy BD... why would any man sign up to that? it s not like she s giving feminine and peaceful vibe.
@@nmmboywell that should've been red flags for you. You never bring kids into a relationship early on our "force" anything regarding kids
This is truly a sad situation 😞. Her kids will definitely suffer from her emotional pain,and current circumstances. Being a single mother with 5 kids at 25 is a recipe for disaster. She's very angry 😠, hyper aggressive, and beyond reasoning. 😮😮😮😮😮
Right!!! She wouldn't even let Kendra TALK!
@@Lboogie703 This was epic and crazy for sure. I don't like to say it but those kids are really going to suffer mentally, and emotionally because can't provide any direction for what they desperately need.
The sad part is that she sees nothing wrong, so her kids will think it's okay to.
It's difficult to watch. She is so young and just don't get it🤦🏽♀️
@@TheCakediva08 She needs a good female friend, and mentor like yesterday or else it's not gonna be good for the future.
They kill me your not going to meet my kids.... ok had no plans on it. Go back with them kids father. 25 with 5 kids she's angry because she knows she fked up her life
If she’s arguing with Kendra and Kendra’s giving her grace. Imagine how she would talk to her man. Scary! 😳
And the kids..
A man will throw his hands up and just walk away
FR cause Kendra was so patient.
This was very depressing and chaotic. So sad. Kendra tried to help her see some truth. This young mother needs mentorship to help her succeed for herself and her kids.
The trauma, arrested development, and chaos that these mothers get away with passing down to their children is criminal.
And let’s not forget about the absentee fathers
Very much so!
Pin this comment! This was hard to watch
The chaos they spread to society!
Criminal
This girl is preaching so hard she showed us how much effort she puts into herself. NO EFORT AT ALL. I know being a mom is hard, but how do you show up for work. Are you allowing yourself time to care for you. Care about your appearance? You have to show the respect to yourself that you want others to give you💯
Seems like a very difficult way to live. Bless her and those children 🙏🏾
& the daddies to those children 🙏🏿
Extremely!!!! Why would anyone choose this for themselves or their kids?
@@foxyboop4164 not everyone makes it out, unfortunately. Maybe one of her kids will be an outlier and break the cycle.
She made it seem like it was all under control tho. No need to bless her. No ounce of humility came out of this woman.
She’s angry at the wrong person. Just like Kendra said she should take some responsibility.
No way she expects to date a man and him NOT PAY FOR ANYTHING FOR HER KIDS. That’s a lie
I believe her. Seems like raw peen is her only requirement.
It's August, kids need back to school clothes and supplies.
Exactly, I hate when they say that. That’s just not realistic.
exactly… any man worth his salt with character would feel obligated to help out. all lies
Rent, Groceries. That alone !
I hate when ppl have kids and say they won’t have to be a step dad???? How not!!!???!! That sounds dumb!!🙄
I can only assume they really want all the benefits for themselves.. the mothers who say that are the type to stay in the room with their man all day while the children are just doing whatever.. take the big fish for herself and the children get crumbs
I wonder would all these single moms with 3 plus children rattling off about “I take good care of my kids. I don’t need a man to do nothing for my kids.” would feel that way if they didn’t have public assistance of some type?
good question but you know they not going to answer that because it forces them to self reflect and take accountability
i think the gov't should make it harder for these baby mamas to get public assistance
Exactly
Did she say a “man is a luxury, like a purse”? I can’t take yall serious. 😂😂
Yep she did😅
She’s as deep as a puddle 😒
And that is why she and many others are in these situations…they don’t take life and relationships serious
I'm a product of a single mom of 7 and only two of us have the same father. It is the biggest struggle to have a family, stay connected and be raised cohesively under one roof. We visited our fathers separately and came back with completely different upbringings. It's hard being in such chaos, very hard. I wish her the best and that her kids have a much better experience than me. Kids deserve love, attention but most importantly stability and consistency in their lives. Praying for you sister and continue to being a DOPE mom 💫
Appreciate you sharing this. I wish people were more honest about how chaotic growing up like this is and the impact it leaves.
People don't realize the effects of having multiple children by multiple men! 1 child yes but to continue I will never understand!
A DOPE mom? You must be out of your French Toast mind.
@@danielademide a doped up mom she meant, she's gonna need some substances to keep believing everything she said 😂
@@danielademideyea that a dope mom compliment is why this lady pushed back soo hard when Kendra tried schooling her. She used to ppl complimenting her for being a single mom of 5 . In this “everyone gets a trophy” culture we live in now we can’t just be real with folks and that confuses the person who needs to be schooled
Lawwwwd please stop calling until the house is still and you can sit down in peace. Be a mother first!
I make my 18 son watch these interviews. Talk about scared straight.
Same!! 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
What does his dad think of this
Now that’s good parenting!!! Keep up the good work
@@ariamason9324we already know about this… we’ve been telling y’all for years and y’all scolded us for it… and then Kendra comes on here shows it to y’all again and finally y’all see it… 😂
Kendra's show is the new Jerry Springer lol
If there is any man that signs up for this then you deserve whatever is going to happen to you. This is a tragedy.
Facts
Amen
Agree
Say less
We already know what's going to happen. He will be the next baby daddy
Kendra you handled her with so much patience and care; Bravo to you 👏🏽. She feels bad about her situation but she’s trying to convince herself that she’s fine with it. As soon as Kendra accepted her request she said “I look a mess” then spent the majority of the time arguing that she’s fine looking how she looks. This was so sad.
This title, KG reaction to her scream, “is that a crying baby? Is that your baby?”, and the fact we actively hear “mama” while she is like… “they fine” has me in a whirlwind.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I couldn't ignore that either whew child 😂
Yea that shit is very alarming. As a parent I can’t ignore that
She can’t see or hear past her current chaos. She can’t even admit that 5 kids at age 25 with 3 different men is a problem. Dating should be the last thing in her mind.
She looking for d gotta be because this is nuts.
Chaos!!! this shit stessed me out
Naw she gon have some more..more government assistance
Them churrin had a whole concert and battle royale back there while she was arguing with Kendra. I could tell she works at a daycare 😂😭😭
Right. It's like she doesn't even hear the noise.
@@adams8830 Lol exactly, I can’t stand people who could ignore crying babies like that 🥴
The background noise with all those children!! I got tired from listening to all of that😩and when she said a man is like luxury bag i hollered 😭the wifi went out so must be God telling her to tend to the babies. messy fr
@@allMinabe lmao That luxury part had me dying! Like the nerve this woman has is unmatched 😂😂😭 My ears haven’t been so irritated like that since that one dude had a smoking detector that was making beats 😂😭😭
😩🤣
So argumentative and combative, WOW! I pray she sees a therapist so her children can reap the benefit of healing and wholeness.
She won’t she will probably live and die in that situation and them kids will never have a chance to succeed. Sad
Her wifi was like f this
Sitting around talking to a therapist won't feed them kids
What she doesn't realize is that each time she had another child, she made it more difficult for the other children. She demonstrated that she had no discipline, self-control and that she learned nothing from her past choices. She's defensive because she's upset. But that hurt and upset should be aimed at herself.
💯 right.
Nudf said
She got kids screaming in the background, she cannot even keep the phone in her face, and she has 3 baby's daddy's. One is in and out of jail and the other she describes as crazy. Then there's the 5 kids all 6 and under, including a fresh newborn. What decent/quality guy is signing up for this?
A predator
cricket's😂😂😂
She’s angry about her plight and doesn’t want to admit it. She’s not trying to HEAR the wisdom that Kendra is desperately trying to offer her. She needs to hear Kendra or anyone trying to help her do better for herself and her children. She doesn’t understand what a relationship truly is. I admire that she wasn’t cussing her children out and was gentle with them🙏🏽
More embarrassing part for her was being told on a public platform. She's not in denial. She was just fine until she started reading the comments
Smh, all that truma and delusional. She is not even listening
It’s a mental illness to press the button to be on a show and then not be ready or looking for anyone 🙄
They look soooo foolish ‼️😳
I’ll be honest as a Black American man , this is depressing. I gotta go sage 😢
Oh stop it plenty of women with no kids on here everyday... Stop with that boo hoo black male stuff!
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
I agree with you 😂😩
Me being from the islands, I'm gonna need a bush bath. Use some cactus and aloes to wash off the juju.
11:15 - she said 'you judge a book by its cover'
Damn right, you got 5 kids on the cover, We're not tryna go thru that book 😂
She has a lot of growing up to do. Her current attitude will keep her as a “forever baby mama”
“Each one of my kids saved me from something”….. i have no words for this woman. And the burst of confidence at the end after she was scrambling for a hat when she came on because she even said herself she looked “crazy”…
She can put a positive spin on damn near every negative outcome in her life . I wish we would’ve got to her three flaws cuz I’m sure she would’ve struggled to think of one
Insecure and Defensive AS FUCKKKKKK
@@Scam-ish exactly they always do, but yet the first thing she mentioned about one of the dad's was that he's crazy!🙄She has a toxic attitude and won't listen, she's got a lot to learn!
@@nataliawilliams8551 it’s interesting how the crazy only comes after the babies
Each one of your kids saved you of something yeah a bill check email you might get another child support check 🤡🤡🤡
Omg. 😩😩She was way too defensive when Kendra is just trying to help. She doesn’t understand that is not just your physical appearance. This young lady is not even close to being ready to date. She needs to focus on raising her children.
She needs so much change she is on the struggle bus and don’t and a man on it
Right. Even if she had makeup and wig on, her environment was so chaotic and loud.
@@adams8830 You people are crazy. Her environment is not chaotic. It is what you should expect in an environment with 5 small children. It is normal for their age.
@@1fattgirlmah1go date her then!
“I do everything for myself…”
How is that possible for a 25 year old teacher who has five children? If she gets government assistance, then she’s not doing all this by herself. She’s getting a lot of help and is looking for more help.
I didn’t know care teachers made so much
Guaranteed she gets government assistance plus whatever child support she gets
A daycare worker is not being paid what a teacher makes. She barely looks like she has a high school diploma. Try living in some type of supplemental housing and getting food stamps and cash assistance. She balls out at tax time for her kids and that makes her a great mom. Bye Felicia
She is not a teacher
single mothers always say this. when you check their background they're getting: food stamps, child support maybe, section 8, welfare. Whole life funding and brought to you by the United States Government lol
I have to continue to be there for my 3 daughters and teach my daughters integrity , self-respect, and maturity so that they end up on this platform
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Kendra and her hat were very patient 😊
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🤣🤣🤣
🤣 The hat has had enough of the effery! Lolol
It's the hat and ribbon around it for me.
😂
What do I need to change about myself? Bringing all these children in the world with no father in the home, birth control, understand any man with you has to accept 5 children that aren't his, sharing you five different ways🤷🏽♀️
It's crazy bc she's so deep in her impoverished mentality, she doesn't think there's an issue here. It seems like she was more concerned with what comments said than the well being of her babies.
What do I need to change about myself? For starters your priorities. #1 should be your children.
It’s a dangerous thing to believe no change is required ( with any human) wtf!
@@foxyboop4164 She doesn’t think there’s an issue because she’s not the person that has to deal with it,
@@amilllion1she was stuck on her outward appearance she would not get off the hair and lashes thing. It’s sad some think all they need is some cosmetics and boom they are a different person
The fact that she thinks the way she looks is the problem 🙏🏾
Mindset all wrong
It's Top 3 on the list 💀
That's part of it 😂
Exactly...her brain can't grasp what the host was trying to say. She kept talking about wigs and makeup. She lacks self reflection and critical thinking. She loves the monetary benefits she gets by having 5 kids. I'm sure she has no college funds for those 5 kids.
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
They always say they’re not ready but request Kendra
It’s unfathomably selfish to create children where they won’t have a father to prove you don’t need a man.
That's modern women of today that you ladies from the mid 80 til now instill this garbarge in there daughters so this is the result deez girl didn't learn this crap from a manor a father
I agree...this is just trifling....
Please tone your vernacular down so they can understand your thoughts. 😂
Don’t worry, the government has her back
Thank you!!!!….they use the government as their crutch
This live is indicative of the life she’s living and what a potential suitor would have to deal with: impulsiveness, chaos, poor planning, poor choices, unavailability and indecisiveness.
Lol a woman like this doesn't have suitors. She got nuccas.
😂😂😂
Since I've been watching (over a year now) I've always said when the call is chaotic so is their life.
Eloquently said
@@cd6741 🎯
I love how people that have never been married can say what marriage is like.
Exactly
Exactly
I love how you all think you personally have to go through something to understand it. We learn from observation sometimes. Or does this logic only apply to marriage.
@@inquiring_mind6485 that’s like us men observing a woman giving birth and then us saying yea we understand what it’s like holding a child for 9 months and then giving actual birth. Even tho we are there observing we still have no idea what is like 👍
@@dwainegabriel1807you better say that‼️‼️‼️ Cuz they swear they be knowing. It’s the married people THEY be around.
I love how Kendra didn't participate in her argumentative behavior. Seemed like she was itching for a little push-back/fight. Kendra let her speak until she ran out of steam then she calmed all the way down. #Breathless
This is part of the problem right here as to why Black men are reluctant to step up and take care of Black women. Saying you don’t need a man is a bit delusional. We need each other. It’s great that this young lady is doing what she’s supposed to do as a mother, but having a quality man in your life will make things a million times easier.
I think the term "need" is what gets people. In reality, you can absolutely live a fulfilling life without a partner. We do need each other for certain things but I dont see anything wrong with a person saying "I don't need a man/woman in my life right now". I wasted many years of my life believing i needed a man... it only led to low self esteem and depression.
@@texasbelle333 no no no - in the context of dating, relationships, marriage, kids *family*, and *legacy* men & women ABSOLUTELY *NEED* each other..and to state otherwise or to try and find some nuisance is laughable & tragic, especially for our people & our history in this country. It is completely foolish to go on a dating show, when you presumably want something serious to lead to marriage & family, to then fix your mouth to say you don't need a man. A man would never say he doesn't need a woman in the context of family & legacy.
I'm a nanny and work in a daycare. It's definitely possible for kids to not be crying most of the time.
She is not concerned with those kids only the government checks that take care of them.
Well damn 😶😶😶🗣️
Exactly !!! This is a case of poor management . Because you’re all on the internet trying to date but your children aren’t settled 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Sounds like you’re NOT a mom.
Sounds like you're ghetto and don't know how to calm your kids down.@@domlaw1502
You tried, Kendra. Some people just don't get it.
She gets it, she just doesn’t care and stuck in her ways🙄
@@kristinjohnson8164how someone ruins their life at such a young age is bad
48 laws of power told us we can not explain something to people who are not ready mentally to comprehend 🤦🏾♂️ so sad
Kendra, you have my absolute respect in your quest to bring enlightenment to this young lady. Sad she was not able to receive it. 🏅🏆🏅👋🙏🏾
Am I messy for reading entanglement 😂😂😂 had to reread
She has 5 kids and an attitude. “I make it happen. A man is like a luxury… like a bag.”
This situation is so crazy that this young lady is so preoccupied that she can’t even be positioned in the camera correctly.
She really believes that her situation is cool. 5 kids at 25… in THIS culture… and he won’t have to “help”?🤦🏽♂️
25 with 5 kids and 3 bd’s…did you even try at life girl?! DAMN!!! She need a damn chastity belt!!! You have to judge because this is ridiculous.
@@TruckinGal-by1so 7 min mark ma’am
@@tyragotbanks5042- You’re right I was trying to delete that comment. Sorry fam. 👍🏾
@tyragotbanks5042 I swear she is reckless with her womb
And all the baby daddies are nothing Axx ninjas 🥷🏾. It’s like do these ppl not know about birth control???? A simple pill everyday will keep the baby away even if you forget get that thing they put inside of you or a shot. This all could have been avoided!!!
Not a chastity belt lmbo 😂😂😂
When Kendra was trying to break down the whole kid thing and one of them started screaming, I busted out laughing😂😂😂😂😂
This was rough. Keepin' it a buck, the only thing she really qualifies for is a pookie or a ray ray. God bless the children 🙏🏽
There are many types of men. She qualifies for more, but most men don’t suit the bill - and that’s understandable. She needs to focus on raising her children instead of focusing on men. At the right time, God will insert an honorable man in her life IF she is living with integrity herself. But to say that a young mother of 5 doesn’t deserve a man of integrity is corrupt.
@God-Love-Freedom Like C.K. 4883 sais, "She really qualifies for is Pookie and Ray Ray" and unfortunately, that's the truth. I would disown my sons if he brought a ratchet woman, her drama/problems and her kids in my home. Fortunately, neither of my sons would look twice at her and they're childless and in school and I'm hoping they date a girl who has something going on for herself and doesn't come from a broken family/background. Good luck to her though, because she is going to need it.
She will meet someone when all those kids over 21
@God-Love-Freedom lol if that's the case why don't you hook her up with your son. She seems lovely 😂😂
That’s it, that’s all!!!
As a woman who’s not a baby momma, it will never be a flex or a blessing to be a baby momma. Especially to 3 different men
Agreed. Too many women are proud to have kids by gutter trash men. Very sad.
Seriously! That life is insufferable.... All the baby mommas at my job hate their lives, they hate their bodies, they tell me this daily🤷♀️🤷♀️
Some people just really going straight to hard mode fr
At some point some people should be disqualified from calling in looking a partner .
Did she say that a man is just a luxury like a Bag?! Men could never get away with objectifying Women like this today. I applaud Kendra for speaking to her with love. Children are blessings, but few men are going to share you with the 3 other men that a woman has created a child with. As a man, I am always aware that the father or fathers will always be a part of your life and how you treat them is a reflection of how you will treat me as a man. Thank you Kendra for having this conversation and helping women see themselves the way we view them.
She's missing the whole point because she is not in a mental place to accept the message. I had a guy friend argue me down about a situation that I just did not understand. As life continued to happen I was placed in a situation that directly mirrored exactly what this man was trying to tell me and it wasn't until THAT moment, moooonnnths down the line that I agreed with him. Had to call him and apologize. 😩 I Pray this was a seed that she'll nourish as time goes on. 💜🙏🏾
Some people have a lack of understanding. She's talking but not absorbing the knowledge.
Nobody’s making her do anything, so she will refuse so, that girl is finished… She is the classic. “I’ve been doing this all my life so I know what I’m doing”… I’ve seen women that are the older version of her with 8+ kids… Her kids are taken care of likely because of the government im positive ….
@@KNByam Yep, exactly!!
@@JDMHaze She speaking from a lack mindset and a survival mentality. Unfortunately, some never become more than that.
She stepped into motherhood before fully exploring her journey as a woman, resulting in a shield of defensiveness around her choices, barricading her from the transformative wisdom of accepting guidance.
Wow! Excellent point. Very insightful.
She's a lost cause.
That’s a great point. I think that’s why these conversations are important for us to have with this upcoming generation.
@@hammertyme8392 It's NEVER too late to change. It's ALL about the MINDSET.
@@hammertyme8392 There's a story behind every action and choice.
My mother had one child out of wedlock (Me ) and she never dated or brought men around me until l left her house at 19. She taught me don’t have children unless your married and committed to that person because a child / children need both their parents. This girl is a victim of a single mother and lack of knowledge of birth control and self control.
A word!👏🏾
So your mother didn't get married after all that time? That is crazy to me. She taught you one part, but showed you no value in the home when it comes to family. Many children have said Ma I didn't see you do it, so who are you to take advice from in that area.
my mother had me at 20.....no more kids till i was 15 and she was married. its ok to make a mistake but what did you learn from it?
Half of girls who are impregnated are impregnated by men who are at least 6 years older. She’s not a victim of a single mother, she’s a victim of no leadership in the Black culture.
@@1fattgirlmah1you should probably reread the comment. I think her point was that her single mom chose to put her child first and not bring any men around her child. So maybe 19 years later she was not interested in getting married. Or maybe she did get married. That's not the point of the comment.
Kendra god bless you and the patience you showed this MESS!!!
At this point, all I can do is laugh to keep from crying!
Do both.😅😅
💯 😢
These fools ain't worth tears.
Yea this is sad asf I feel bad for the kids
My grandmother always said that!!!
Girl your cornbread ain’t done in the middle if you think someone wants to sign up for this 😂😂
That’s hilarious
This comment 😂
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What she wants “someone who accepts her for who she is, someone who will not judge her for having children and/or there for the children” she also doesn’t desire marriage right now….. basically the same men she’s been attracting. Sending her healing and loving energy ❤️🙏🏾
Exactly!
When Kendra said you need to change she's not talking about your appearance. She's talking about your mindset 🤦