She’s just running her mouth. How about traveling with your 4 children for now instead of trying to add a new man to this already chaotic and embarrassing situation.
This show is a child molester and abusers dream come true! It introduces the most vulnerable and mentally unstable ppl to the world of ppl who look for ppl like this for easy access. So sad.😢
Yup! Parents have to be vigilant. With meeting people online and irl. Often I see these cases where kids are abused or killed by their parent's boyfriend or girlfriend.
You’re correct. Sadly, most women do not even consider the idea that there are men who seek out lonely single mothers simply to have access to their children. They also know that their desperation will allow them to turn a blind eye to the abuse should they become aware of it. These kids are in SO much danger in SO many ways.
@whateverman2674 respectfully, it is THEIR problem. They are creating children and bringing them into the world and putting them at every statistical disadvantage and then they do it again, and again, and again... Children don't choose their parents mothers choose the father's and father's choose the mothers. These are terrible LIFE decisions, not just bad personal choices that need to be addressed. These types of people don't care about how their choices affect the children that they create. To admit to how wrong it is, is to say THEY HAVE A PROBLEM...most won't take accountability, it's always someone else's fault. Let's stop giving them an out. Uncle Sam is not going raw in these people
She never had anyone talk to her about the situation. Shit caught her off guard . That's why black community is failing. They encourage this ignorance multiple baby daddies. Just straight disfunction
Don't blame the so called sketchy baby daddy ....she controls access to sex ....she allowed 4 different seeds to entire her body ....she the sketchy one
A lot of them just cross their fingers and wish on a star. Some just want as many babies as they can get. It's rarely about who the man actually is, because if they cared then they would not find out who he is after they became pregnant. The simple and short answer is- they don't really care.
I wonder that too. Especially after you have one and see how hard it is. I guess she does not believe in any form of birth control or require the man to wear a condom.
@@FaithandNovanot necessarily.. there are plenty of people born into mess, but vow to not repeat the cycle/do better for themselves .. I know of a few personally 😎
Kendra you are to patient with this woman with kids. An’t no body dealing with this baby makers with no morals. All she want is someone to give her money to help them with them bills.
Even if Kendra broke it down in every language, used numbers and percentages, charts and diagrams this woman is just too delusional to see how delusional she is
Not the pie chart and graphs, and still don't get it. You are so right. Where did we all go wrong? It's 2nd hand embarrassment, and almost unbelievable that a person could be this lost.
Well let me tell you why she doesn't get it because after 2 kids she had a man that had a 3rd with her and after the 3rd she had a man that had a 4th with her and everyone is assuming that they left her, everyone is assuming that they didn't provide for her and her children, her delusion is not actually delusion because men have actually done what you all say that they won't
Honestly I get the sense that she was a “slow learner” in school. She appears to struggle cognitively and reasoning is definitely a challenge. Bless her heart, because her DMs are finna be flooded to plug her guts with baby #5 💔
Delusional is simply not strong enough of a word to describe this woman. This is the kind of woman who raised these young cats out here being a menace to society.
@@Gem-n-life then the only option is to stop sleeping with them and procreating with them. A woman has the final decision in whether she's going to have to pookies children or not. She didn't do that just once she did it 4 times. Smh
She has 4 kids and wants a man that likes to travel. He travels with you, he's got to take all 4 kids that he didn't produced and pay for their food/lodging/entertainment. She wants to go 50/50 if she and her 4 kids move in with the man. She brings in 5 people. He brings in one, but he's gotta go 50/50 with her. If he wants to eat a nice juicy stake for dinner, he has to buy 6 stakes. Every day that he's with you, he's reminded that 4 other dudes have ran through you. And, he's gotta deal with 3 other dudes coming by the house to pick up their kids. What does he get out of this?
“So what would you say to a man that’s concerned that you have 4 kids by 4 different men?” “Yes.” 😂😭 I hate that I laughed so hard at that. Pray for the kids y’all. 😅
Some people are just unaware. I fault their parents, and their upbringing. I even fault their teachers and the school. There are too many people walking around with just air in their head. It's beyond sad and pathetic. So, again, I fault their parents or lack thereof.
The non accountability/lack of self awareness is just sickening to watch. Judging by the flow of this interview, she will continue to attract the same type of man while adding additional children with each partner until reaching menopause! Best wishes to her & any man who dares to embark!
@@HelpANiggaOut My wife was confused as to why a man would sleep with a woman he deems not to be his type and I really believe she was confused so i had to just tell her straight unfortunately yes men will sleep with women they dont see themselves wifing or seriously being with even when they aren't really attracted to them. It aint right sure but its actuality
Girl we’re dealing with your kids now while you’re on live…kids screaming is just a different type of feeling. Ppl w/o kids do not have the will power to deal ESPECIALLY if it’s not our flesh and blood and still then it’s a nightmare.
@@adams8830What she's saying is he looks busted in his pfp. So no women are coming near him in order for him to procreate ( Hence taking the choice away from him anyway). The fact I had to explain that means your as dense as the women in the video!
5 jobs, 4 kids with 4 different fathers…. Girl… if you don’t focus on yourself and them darn kids!!! Them kids need you more than you need to find a man right now it appears 😩
From now on, I’m just gonna grab a bottle of Moscato before looking at Kendra’s videos LOL, because whew Chile.😅 These people make me weary. Ain’t NO WAY I would trade places with Kendra; Bless her heart.
Who wants to come into a situation having a bunch of screaming kids just as Kendra said.... Obviously those kids are going to be raised very disrespectfully to the stepfather... It would really put the nail on the coffin is the fact that she's blind in delusional to the fact of what the man will be going through by getting with her.... It's all about her.... And this was turned around and there was a guy like this he will be getting ripped apart also... I'm just so happy that Kendra put her in her place
She is ridiculous. I always want to vouch for women but we don't claim her. You not only dated 4 men who could all be described as menaces in some way but had children with them and she doesn't see her own part in why she's literally failing at life and dating. I feel for her kids.
Why do you “always want to vouch for women?” I don’t feel the innate desire to always vouch for men. Men hold each other accountable. The sisterhood needs to start doing the same.
@marcm83 was my criticism of her not clear? Like, clear af. Men don't hold each other accountable for cheating, for sexual assault and violence the way yall should because if yall -as a whole-at the very least held your immediate circle to a higher standard just on those things, our community would be in a better place. I am a girls girl and will generally stand with other women BECAUSE misogyny beats us down enough and actually harms us. At the same time, I call bullshit when I see bullshit, and this woman was on bullshit as I already said.
@@Krimsunpoetry It came with a weird a$& disclaimer. Why vouch for an entire group without learning about them? Men build prisons to hold other men accountable what the hell are you talking about? And drop the sass, it was a question, don’t let it ruin your week.
@marcm83 you couldn't ruin my week if you actually even wanted to. You don't need to like or agree with my disclaimer. Prisons weren't built for accountability, they were built for legalized slave labor. For men and women. Notice how a lot of criminals aren't in them, especially for sex crimes. There are plenty of men who vouch for other men, even if you're not one of them. We watch the discourse every time we hop on these apps.
Imagine if a 32 year old man came on saying he does Uber and instacart, with four kids and four babymamas. Dont say "work on yoself sis", "its somebody out there for her". Keep that same energy you would with the dude, "broke", "dusty", "pookie", "he dont deserve no woman"
One thing I really haven’t noticed until Kendra pointed it out, when some of these people get on here they are sooooo Quick with The flaws toward their ex but can barley name THEIR own flaw 😌 girl you got more then one flaw lol
Exactly! Like this one the other day talking about he meet a lot of damaged women, but when he named his flaws he said “I care too much.” “I work too hard.” Like cmon 😂😂🤦🏾♂️
Her mother isn’t the issue. Mothers aren’t supposed to be the disciplinarians because it’s a masculine role. Good fathers provide discipline and structure. You should ask where is her father?
@@buffalo.blackkstrong male structure and parenting is called "narcissistic" and controlling by modern women. Baby mommas need to become lesbians. The man who made the kid with you is always horrible and the new man can't instill discipline.
You can get contraception for FREE if you are down bad. There is actually no excuse or acceptable reason to repeat this dysfunctional pattern four distinct times. I'm so disheartened by this
Women sometimes the problem is US. If we have multiple failed relationships we have to sit back and reflect on the roles we play. We pick who we are and people who treat us the way we feel about ourselves. As a mother with 4 kids her priority need to be raising those babies, becoming financially stable and learning to truly love herself. She’s looking for love and companionship in all the wrong places. She doesn’t understand now but eventually she will get to a point where enough is enough, hopefully. Praying for her healing and strength as she raises those children❤
@@xSoSurreal More than that as women and young ladies they should understand their bodies. Know when their cycle comes, and use some form of natural birth control or man made BC. It's reckless behavior on both sides, and children have to grow up with the bare minimum because of the choices of their so called adult parents.
I got the feeling this isn't the first time anyone has tried talking to this lady but she never really listens because she has all of the answers, even though its very obvious she really isnt that smart. I've known others like her. Her head is hard.
They say a hard head makes a soft behind, and that is why she has 5 to 6 little jobs trying to make ends meet. Not 1 or 2 men, but 4 different men have her out here burning rubber in these streets all because she did not know how to pick a quality man. And it's one thing to sleep with Pookie, but to have his baby is the utmost absolute not.
IF ANY MAN HIT HER UP IT'S YOUR FAULT. She a stone wall she wont move or adjust. She has all the answers. I heard her babies in the back isn't this a nightly show? She does not live in her truth she lives in her decisions.
“What are 3 flaws you have to work on?” “Being patient… umm lemme see…just being patient” “You only have one flaw?” “Yup” “… You sure?” “Yep!” “… That’s your final answer?” Lololol Kendra had like at least 10 in her head 💯
Kendra she totally understands what you're saying. She just doesn't want to accept it in her reality. Her reality is distorted so she can look in the mirror daily. This lady is a walking whole red flag liability.
Why can't these women take accountability for their actions?!?! I don't get it..... STOP HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX with men until you know who they are..... Really shouldn't be having unprotected sex until they put a ring on your finger. Who in their right mind wants to sign up for this???
@@A-Thomas I can agree “somewhat” , but it’s facts and figures based on were research is conducted. This insane behavior that is being witnessed-live in a living color is not the majority. This behavior is not indicative of all women, or black women. … Just saying… As one lightly peruse through the male basher channels -they accuse dam near every woman on /about something. You can hear the hurt and pain in their voice as they spit what is supposed to be facts when a % of it is bs for the youtube coin. * there’s hurting pain on both sides….
4 kids by 4 different men is not a good look. It tells an intelligent man that she makes terrible decisions. She will be a girlfriend for the rest of her life as she should. A total disaster.
And any man that fucks her is just as big of an idiot as she is because we see she isn’t into protection. We see she doesn’t have an issue popping out kids for deadbeats. We see she makes bad decisions. You fuck her and you’ll be baby daddy number 5
It's single mothers, that make it more difficult for single mothers to date. For every single mother that might genuinely have just ran into bad luck. There are dozens of women like this.
I was thinking this. I’m a single mother of 2. 11 year age gap because of accountability that I picked the wrong one in my 20s. Struck out in my 30s but I watch this and I’m like smh she’s making us ALL look bad. 4 kids 4 dads no career and wants a husband making 50k etc. how can she not see her 50/50 is not equal.
@@PARISGx1 you sound stupid! You just want to start an argument with a stranger over the internet which is weird AF! I meant black women since I am a black woman.
It’s really sickening that with black women it’s almost guaranteed that when she asks how many dads the answer is almost always multiple men!! The recklessness and rebelliousness and immorality in the black community is unconscionable!!
@@Simply_sankofa no it’s not crazy. Women carry the children and must value their bodies enough to choose wisely and marry before they carry!! Stop the nonsense!!
Imagine being a single guy with no kids and you give this woman a chance and she tells you “we gotta be married before I have your baby” and she’s already got 4 to 4 different men and never been married 🤣🤣she deserves a slap for that the AUDACITY
3:04 “A guy that likes to travel”. 😂😂😂😂😂 She’s stringing together 5 minimum wage jobs with 4 kids and is looking for a man to fly her to Cancun one weekend and Rome the next. 😂😂 Get a bus pass and keep it moving.
I was scrolling for this comment. How is it that she's okay if the guy lives out of town? How is she gonna get there? Who is going to watch the children while she's out of town?So many questions to be answered.
This girl had me looking at the screen saying shut up and LISTEN! She’s in the situation she’s in (4kids and 4 dads) because no one can tell her anything. She knows everything. Let her figure the crap out on her own.
I appreciate seeing how much Kendra has grown. She gets it. She asks the real questions. She challenges both men and women on the chaos in their lives that they want to offer to someone else. She is truly a gem. God bless her.
Black women get a genocide free pass. These are the type of women creating monsters. It's not funny anymore. They have babies with these thugs, criminals, for government assistance, in turn creating monsters that grape, rob and salvage the community. I dont see why people don't look at this as a terrorist genocidal act.
Some women with children refuse to understand that the number of children she has greatly impacts the new man! She talking about "50/50" - her 50% would be more like 80% if the guy doesn't have to deal with her kids... She had an answer for everything. Very delusional AF!
Right and he’s only bringing himself while she comes with a whole team. Even if it was 50/50, it’s a lot more than it would be if he found someone with no kids and paid all the bills
Normally, Kendra finishes the interview with " Keep me posted", but this time she knew it was a lost battle and said " good luck". SMH! It is what it is.
I think she’s a little slow lol. The way she couldn’t understand the point Kendra was trying to make about a man dating a woman with kids. It was like she was speaking to a brick wall. Kendra should’ve just hung up. I applaud her for her patience cause I couldn’t do it.
I think you need to tell the police that. I mean it is literally bm k1ll1ng each other, and the police getting their licks in too. It would be great if all the "bruthas" get their passports and actually go. Maybe the crime rate would go down. Disclaimer *I'm natural, no weave, married* cause you know bm love to pull that goofy sh1t outta their azz 😂. Yall dudes saving yourself in the comment section of a kendra g video (a black woman 😂)
Right! Her priorities need to be the kids, her health - because diabetes is knocking on her door, skilling up / education and making money. She really has plenty to get on with, worrying about getting a man. 🙄
She is not in a position right now to date. She really needs to concentrate on being a mom because someone right now taking her seriously is slim to none.
So she was dating pookies and Ray Ray's just like most modern women and now that she's 35 and hit the wall now she's looking for a good guy to settle down with... She let a person that went to jail for life get her pregnant.... This is a sad case of being stuck in the hood😢
How crazy is it that you’re basically letting anybody you meet raw dawg you. Hate how yawl see something on IG that sounds good to you, and feel comfortable saying it out in the open sounding crazy
How is she READY TO TRAVEL w/4 Children of school age and under 10. She REALLY doesn't get it!
I said the same thing!!!
She’s just running her mouth. How about traveling with your 4 children for now instead of trying to add a new man to this already chaotic and embarrassing situation.
This show is a child molester and abusers dream come true! It introduces the most vulnerable and mentally unstable ppl to the world of ppl who look for ppl like this for easy access. So sad.😢
This is exactly what I see. Sexual predators that have easy access to vulnerable children. Women…please protect your children.
I Agree
Yup! Parents have to be vigilant. With meeting people online and irl. Often I see these cases where kids are abused or killed by their parent's boyfriend or girlfriend.
You’re correct. Sadly, most women do not even consider the idea that there are men who seek out lonely single mothers simply to have access to their children. They also know that their desperation will allow them to turn a blind eye to the abuse should they become aware of it. These kids are in SO much danger in SO many ways.
This comment needs more likes and to be on top because this is DEFINITELY TRUE
She’s not getting it. No matter how you frame it, no matter what examples you use, no matter why you feel that way, she doesn’t get it.
She lacks self awareness, and has an answer for everything. That’s tons of arguments waiting to happen.
Technically a man could casually date her and nothing to do with her kids. I’ve seen guys date mothers for years and never meet their kids.
She knows. She doesn't care.
She gets it, she just don't wanna HEAR it 🤣🤣🤣🤣
She has nasty attitude with Kendra
She gets it, she is just committed to justifying her degenerate behavior.
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Spot on
What really triggers me about women like this is they will swear there kids are not effected by the multiple broken homes
They believe, that they themselves, turned out perfectly fine. As a result, they are repeating the same decisions of the last generation.
But it's not their problem. If the laws back them up....why not do it? Don't get mad at them. Get mad at the lawmakers
@@whateverman2674what a stupid, irrelevant comment.
@whateverman2674 respectfully, it is THEIR problem. They are creating children and bringing them into the world and putting them at every statistical disadvantage and then they do it again, and again, and again...
Children don't choose their parents mothers choose the father's and father's choose the mothers. These are terrible LIFE decisions, not just bad personal choices that need to be addressed. These types of people don't care about how their choices affect the children that they create.
To admit to how wrong it is, is to say THEY HAVE A PROBLEM...most won't take accountability, it's always someone else's fault. Let's stop giving them an out. Uncle Sam is not going raw in these people
She's dense af
She pissed me tf off honestly
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She never had anyone talk to her about the situation. Shit caught her off guard .
That's why black community is failing. They encourage this ignorance multiple baby daddies. Just straight disfunction
Most black people are, especially ones from the hood
The fact that she has sketchy baby daddies is a major red flag.
She attracts Nug Nugs cause that’s her level
Choosing sketchy baby daddies is not uncommon these days... unfortunately
That's like the 16th thing wrong with her
Bruh, come on 🤯.......She screams 🚩🚩🚩🚩
Don't blame the so called sketchy baby daddy ....she controls access to sex ....she allowed 4 different seeds to entire her body ....she the sketchy one
She's such a great mom so much so that she made sure that each one of her 4 children had their own father.
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Every comment section have this comment. Clearly we need more creativity.
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@@yasmeen7875 Nah, this joke works every single time.
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Today is our 31st anniversary. Watching this makes me appreciate my wife more.
Congrats mane 🎉. That’s amazing.
This show made me cancel my divorce proceeding. It's not that bad
23 over here. I feel the same way
This was PAINFUL AF to watch. She doesn't have a single grasp on reality. Every stereotype summed up in 13 minutes 😥
What makes a woman decide to have 4 children by 4 different men and not require anything SMH
A lot of them just cross their fingers and wish on a star. Some just want as many babies as they can get. It's rarely about who the man actually is, because if they cared then they would not find out who he is after they became pregnant. The simple and short answer is- they don't really care.
I wonder that too. Especially after you have one and see how hard it is. I guess she does not believe in any form of birth control or require the man to wear a condom.
Foundation, if she was born into mess she’ll see nothing wrong with it.
@@FaithandNovanot necessarily.. there are plenty of people born into mess, but vow to not repeat the cycle/do better for themselves .. I know of a few personally 😎
Kendra you are to patient with this woman with kids. An’t no body dealing with this baby makers with no morals. All she want is someone to give her money to help them with them bills.
Even if Kendra broke it down in every language, used numbers and percentages, charts and diagrams this woman is just too delusional to see how delusional she is
In every language 😂😂😂😂😂
Not the pie chart and graphs, and still don't get it. You are so right. Where did we all go wrong? It's 2nd hand embarrassment, and almost unbelievable that a person could be this lost.
Black Girl Magic, says she can have whatever she wants!!🤷🏿♂️
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Well let me tell you why she doesn't get it because after 2 kids she had a man that had a 3rd with her and after the 3rd she had a man that had a 4th with her and everyone is assuming that they left her, everyone is assuming that they didn't provide for her and her children, her delusion is not actually delusion because men have actually done what you all say that they won't
Just because someone can hear you,doesn't mean they understand you!!!!!
Ok she ain’t heard NATHAN that Kendra said 🤦🏾♀️🤣
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Wow,I felt kinda sorry for her,no guidance at all,I wonder where's her parents are,hopefully the kids don't grow up misguided
Oh this breeder fully understands, she's just trying to be ignorant on purpose.
You running gutter show today!!!😅
I’ll never understand getting pregnant by multiple men that are not relationship material. 4 kids by 4 men is sad and reckless.
@@HelpANiggaOut a lot of men have sex with anyone and anything why would her being for the streets matter? She is exactly the type they want.
Strong D had her pulling in tight.
Honestly I get the sense that she was a “slow learner” in school. She appears to struggle cognitively and reasoning is definitely a challenge. Bless her heart, because her DMs are finna be flooded to plug her guts with baby #5 💔
Lol I didn’t want to say it but yup
That fact you think her dm's is going to be flooded tells me it's a lot of pookie & ray ray's out there and brothas are thirsty.
@@naryb2165💯..she is vacant as an abandoned building and the pookies are here for it lol
Pretty much
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Delusional is simply not strong enough of a word to describe this woman. This is the kind of woman who raised these young cats out here being a menace to society.
Who are fathered by men just like that. Since it’s so many of them out there like this, it stands to reason, the men who do this are the majority.
She's past delusional, she doesn't even seem like she has the intellectual capacity to understand the problem
@@Gem-n-life then the only option is to stop sleeping with them and procreating with them. A woman has the final decision in whether she's going to have to pookies children or not. She didn't do that just once she did it 4 times. Smh
Facts
A cat will run away farrrrrr from her.
She has 4 kids and wants a man that likes to travel. He travels with you, he's got to take all 4 kids that he didn't produced and pay for their food/lodging/entertainment. She wants to go 50/50 if she and her 4 kids move in with the man. She brings in 5 people. He brings in one, but he's gotta go 50/50 with her. If he wants to eat a nice juicy stake for dinner, he has to buy 6 stakes. Every day that he's with you, he's reminded that 4 other dudes have ran through you. And, he's gotta deal with 3 other dudes coming by the house to pick up their kids. What does he get out of this?
I don’t know why when they have many children they don’t know they should go 70/30 cause they bringing a party 5 DOESNT equal 1 l Ike you said
He’s going to have some digestive problems if he’s eating stakes 🤣 *steaks. However, I agree with your entire comment.
@@Gem-n-life 😂
He only has to buy 3 steaks 🥩.
6\2=3
Played
“Your kids are a blessing to YOU!” Kendra could’ve stopped right there.
Edit: This woman understood and received absolutely NOTHING Kendra said.
Saying "your kids are a blessing to you" is the same as saying 4 different raw unprotected D, is a blessing. Who encourages this? Smh.
@@what77undit's insane frfr
@@what77und whoa....took it a bit too far with the alphabet anology
No one ever held her accountable.
@@Iknowyoumadnow when it happens 4x, you just say it out loud and to the point.
She is NOT getting it.😢
She is delusional.🙄
She knows EVERYTHING already, and you can NOT tell her anything.
“So what would you say to a man that’s concerned that you have 4 kids by 4 different men?” “Yes.” 😂😭 I hate that I laughed so hard at that. Pray for the kids y’all. 😅
She left a man who was abusive but she said she got her baby daddy in check.
She's windmilling. Any answer that can justify her decisions is the answer she's gonna go with, even if it doesn't make sense.
Caught that ✌️
Yep
And one of them
Is doing life in prison-oooook
@@saraliburd7752I wonder if the one doing a life sentence, is the one who was abusive towards her.
@@halimad.6401 honestly they probably all were
She pissed me off! Like you’re not getting it. Anybody that signs up for this I pray for you. 😅
Nevermind I see what you're talking about now 😀
I think she a special needs woman she can function but it’s obvious something isn’t right I pray for her children though
Some people are just unaware. I fault their parents, and their upbringing. I even fault their teachers and the school. There are too many people walking around with just air in their head. It's beyond sad and pathetic. So, again, I fault their parents or lack thereof.
They always sign up for it that's why she has 4 baby daddies going on number 5 😂
@@GETBIG4WARD Exactly what I was thinking shes special needs and these men just dumping in her taking advantage of her.
I am impressed with Kendra's patience ...I couldn't !!
This woman is below average. If she was hot I can see a man coming. She big and 4 kids! She sounds crazy
I really ain’t got the patience at all I would hand snapped!
I have the patience cuz I’ve come to learn that a lot of adults are ok with dysfunction and it’s not my job to try to change them.
Right, I would have hung up on her within the first 5 minutes. 🙄
Agreed Kendra getting better with these lives
She claims to have her baby daddies in check but couldn't get any of the four to marry her.
Kendra has seen the light and is trying to put these women up on game, but, a lot of them don’t wanna listen.
Exactly they are refusing to learn and have some self awareness
She doesn’t even know what she doesn’t know. This was heartbreaking
Yeah🥴‼️
Very heartbreaking.
No it's not heartbreaking, it's ratchet!
Very heartbreaking because you can see the lack of awareness to the issue. Smh
@@bippityboppityboo2u I can see my young self in parts of her comments
She knows it all! That's why she got 4 kids and 4 baby daddies. The next time we get an update she'll be on #5
I don't think any man is desperate enough to get mixed up in that.
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@@JD2.0N54 4 already did.
The non accountability/lack of self awareness is just sickening to watch.
Judging by the flow of this interview, she will continue to attract the same type of man while adding additional children with each partner until reaching menopause!
Best wishes to her & any man who dares to embark!
Some people need to be single
Absolutely Zero Accountability!!!
I feel like she's delayed mentally.
@@HelpANiggaOut My wife was confused as to why a man would sleep with a woman he deems not to be his type and I really believe she was confused so i had to just tell her straight unfortunately yes men will sleep with women they dont see themselves wifing or seriously being with even when they aren't really attracted to them. It aint right sure but its actuality
This is exactly how this is going to play out because she simply doesn’t get it smh.
Girl we’re dealing with your kids now while you’re on live…kids screaming is just a different type of feeling. Ppl w/o kids do not have the will power to deal ESPECIALLY if it’s not our flesh and blood and still then it’s a nightmare.
Facts I can’t bare the noise FR
So one baby daddy is a murderer, got it. What MAN in his right mind will want to deal with this?
So glad I’m single with no kids thank you Jesus
Proud of u
@@thewinzerfamis it by choice tho?
@@bigbawlzlebowski8886I was thinking the same thing lol the pfp says it is not by choice lol
@takinganewapproachpodcast2994 So you'd rather she be a single baby-mother with multiple children by multiple men.
@@adams8830What she's saying is he looks busted in his pfp. So no women are coming near him in order for him to procreate ( Hence taking the choice away from him anyway). The fact I had to explain that means your as dense as the women in the video!
Kendra you’re fighting a losing battle! She’s lost
Right! 4 kids 4 different men. She big! No man is signing up for this 😂😮
Yea it’s over for her
5 jobs, 4 kids with 4 different fathers…. Girl… if you don’t focus on yourself and them darn kids!!! Them kids need you more than you need to find a man right now it appears 😩
She SCREAMIN 4 help😅
Them bad Ass kids.. check out @01:30 .. the kids are in the back telling each other to 'STFU!' Lmaooo
Them kids are a terror 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
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@@TheEmpresstouchbykaleahhotel room u mean broom closet 🧹 😂
She is so lost, it's kind of sad!!!!! Whoever raised her dropped the ball completely!!!
She was the ball😂
@@DarnellHolland-mct25 Pretty Much!!
Being delusional and looking as sloppy as she does is wild.
Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply
Yes, I call that listening with their mouth and talking with their ears🤷🏾♀️😑
From now on, I’m just gonna grab a bottle of Moscato before looking at Kendra’s videos LOL, because whew Chile.😅 These people make me weary. Ain’t NO WAY I would trade places with Kendra; Bless her heart.
If she really wanted to she could clean her content up. Most of these people that come on here are ridiculous.
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Whew! She’s a walking, talking red flag! She clearly lacks discernment and self accountability too 😭
I think a lot of people missed your point on what you're stating here It's nothing but facts🎉
Who wants to come into a situation having a bunch of screaming kids just as Kendra said.... Obviously those kids are going to be raised very disrespectfully to the stepfather... It would really put the nail on the coffin is the fact that she's blind in delusional to the fact of what the man will be going through by getting with her.... It's all about her.... And this was turned around and there was a guy like this he will be getting ripped apart also... I'm just so happy that Kendra put her in her place
She is ridiculous. I always want to vouch for women but we don't claim her. You not only dated 4 men who could all be described as menaces in some way but had children with them and she doesn't see her own part in why she's literally failing at life and dating. I feel for her kids.
She’s pitiful.
Why do you “always want to vouch for women?” I don’t feel the innate desire to always vouch for men. Men hold each other accountable. The sisterhood needs to start doing the same.
@marcm83 was my criticism of her not clear? Like, clear af. Men don't hold each other accountable for cheating, for sexual assault and violence the way yall should because if yall -as a whole-at the very least held your immediate circle to a higher standard just on those things, our community would be in a better place.
I am a girls girl and will generally stand with other women BECAUSE misogyny beats us down enough and actually harms us. At the same time, I call bullshit when I see bullshit, and this woman was on bullshit as I already said.
@@Krimsunpoetry It came with a weird a$& disclaimer. Why vouch for an entire group without learning about them? Men build prisons to hold other men accountable what the hell are you talking about? And drop the sass, it was a question, don’t let it ruin your week.
@marcm83 you couldn't ruin my week if you actually even wanted to. You don't need to like or agree with my disclaimer. Prisons weren't built for accountability, they were built for legalized slave labor. For men and women. Notice how a lot of criminals aren't in them, especially for sex crimes. There are plenty of men who vouch for other men, even if you're not one of them. We watch the discourse every time we hop on these apps.
Imagine if a 32 year old man came on saying he does Uber and instacart, with four kids and four babymamas. Dont say "work on yoself sis", "its somebody out there for her". Keep that same energy you would with the dude, "broke", "dusty", "pookie", "he dont deserve no woman"
She needs to work on herself, get a CAREER, and form a relationship with JESUS! Having a man shouldn't even be in her agenda 📇!
No... Black women would screw him. The baby mother drama is the draw.
One thing I really haven’t noticed until Kendra pointed it out, when some of these people get on here they are sooooo Quick with The flaws toward their ex but can barley name THEIR own flaw 😌 girl you got more then one flaw lol
Exactly! Like this one the other day talking about he meet a lot of damaged women, but when he named his flaws he said “I care too much.” “I work too hard.” Like cmon 😂😂🤦🏾♂️
@@nmmboy these ppl are a mess but it be entertaining… 😅😅
@@brittanydoraa Lol facts, Extremely entertaining 😂🥴
How could you just now notice that? It's nearly every guest.
"Barley" is a grain 🌾 *Barely
How do you have 4 baby daddies and none of them worked out? No one wants to deal with her long term. Now she’s requiring marriage for another kid 😂😂😂
Her mentality unfortunately is the reality for many like herself...No one ever checked her for wrong choices. It's normalize in her world
Tubal ligation
When Kendra says "wipe your screen", she actually means the camera lens lol. Wiping your screen doesn't do shit for us 😂.
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Finally Kendra you’re pushing back on these women with these ratchet answers and little thought put nto what they say. Thank you!
Good lawd this "girl" is exhausting, very immature, where is / was her mother? she's clueless.
I think she has special needs im serious
Her mother isn’t the issue. Mothers aren’t supposed to be the disciplinarians because it’s a masculine role.
Good fathers provide discipline and structure. You should ask where is her father?
They've probably washed their hands of the situation as she probably wasn't listening to the guidance anyway.
@@chantelvenessa you know what I think you right they knew that before they got her pregnant but you right she won’t listen anyway so it’s futile
@@buffalo.blackkstrong male structure and parenting is called "narcissistic" and controlling by modern women.
Baby mommas need to become lesbians. The man who made the kid with you is always horrible and the new man can't instill discipline.
I know one flaw; She doesn't like to use any form of birth control.
She doesn’t like to use any form of protection, either… another flaw!!
She doesn't know how to put the fork down
You can get contraception for FREE if you are down bad. There is actually no excuse or acceptable reason to repeat this dysfunctional pattern four distinct times. I'm so disheartened by this
The poverty mind is strong with that one.
I think some women actually like the look of small army in tow and no man.
Some just don't care cause their normal is all they know.
Exactly!! Birth control, morning after and abortions are all free if you’re low income! They have these children because they’re stupid!
I've seen condoms at dollar tree. Name brand. No excuses
Her intelligence quotient is DEFINITELY NOT in the triple digits. Not even close. This was painful to watch.
Women sometimes the problem is US. If we have multiple failed relationships we have to sit back and reflect on the roles we play. We pick who we are and people who treat us the way we feel about ourselves. As a mother with 4 kids her priority need to be raising those babies, becoming financially stable and learning to truly love herself. She’s looking for love and companionship in all the wrong places. She doesn’t understand now but eventually she will get to a point where enough is enough, hopefully. Praying for her healing and strength as she raises those children❤
This is a respectful comment. ❤❤❤
They always got an excuse for EVERY baby daddy they have except they loose as a goose an let anybody go raw.
Right. Because why on earth do you have multiple baby daddies. Jeez. Make SOMEBODY wear protection.
@@xSoSurrealChile… 🤦🏾♀️
They always find out they’re no good, AFTER the baby.
@@xSoSurreal More than that as women and young ladies they should understand their bodies. Know when their cycle comes, and use some form of natural birth control or man made BC. It's reckless behavior on both sides, and children have to grow up with the bare minimum because of the choices of their so called adult parents.
@@MrsRease2011the minute the embryo implants is the moment of clarity for modern BW.
She dodged that accountability like the Flash 🤣🤣🤣🤣
shes the representation of how these BW think and Are....this is what they ARE
Yeah…like the Matrix!!
I got the feeling this isn't the first time anyone has tried talking to this lady but she never really listens because she has all of the answers, even though its very obvious she really isnt that smart. I've known others like her. Her head is hard.
Yep.. which is sad because she in her 30’s
They say a hard head makes a soft behind, and that is why she has 5 to 6 little jobs trying to make ends meet. Not 1 or 2 men, but 4 different men have her out here burning rubber in these streets all because she did not know how to pick a quality man. And it's one thing to sleep with Pookie, but to have his baby is the utmost absolute not.
Hard head make a soft A$Z!!
Most BW are like this, it’s quite common
IF ANY MAN HIT HER UP IT'S YOUR FAULT. She a stone wall she wont move or adjust. She has all the answers. I heard her babies in the back isn't this a nightly show? She does not live in her truth she lives in her decisions.
“What are 3 flaws you have to work on?”
“Being patient… umm lemme see…just being patient”
“You only have one flaw?”
“Yup”
“… You sure?”
“Yep!”
“… That’s your final answer?”
Lololol Kendra had like at least 10 in her head 💯
I was waiting for Kendra to say “let me help you out with that “
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Kendra she totally understands what you're saying. She just doesn't want to accept it in her reality. Her reality is distorted so she can look in the mirror daily. This lady is a walking whole red flag liability.
... with 4 little liabilities
EXACTLY..THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I SAID
Why can't these women take accountability for their actions?!?! I don't get it..... STOP HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX with men until you know who they are..... Really shouldn't be having unprotected sex until they put a ring on your finger. Who in their right mind wants to sign up for this???
I know women are the gatekeepers when it comes to sex but men need to start protecting their seed too.
She didn't know no one was crazy until she had a baby 4 times by for different men. Gtfoh, bad decision making!
*anyone
Welcome to our world Kendra 😊
She a keeper !!!
You can keep her
HARD PASS !!!
Kendra is starting to learn the hard way what men have been complaining about for all of these years.
My wife and I were just sitting here saying the exact same thing.
@@A-Thomas😂😂
Segments and clips of many of these videos/gals will end up on many of the YT channels where men are bashing women.
@@askpam9558 Is it bashing when there’s facts, figures and video evidence to prove that these types of women are in the majority in the western world?
@@A-Thomas I can agree “somewhat” , but it’s facts and figures based on were research is conducted.
This insane behavior that is being witnessed-live in a living color is not the majority.
This behavior is not indicative of all women, or black women. … Just saying…
As one lightly peruse through the male basher channels -they accuse dam near every woman on /about something. You can hear the hurt and pain in their voice as they spit what is supposed to be facts when a % of it is bs for the youtube coin.
* there’s hurting pain on both sides….
4 kids by 4 different men is not a good look. It tells an intelligent man that she makes terrible decisions. She will be a girlfriend for the rest of her life as she should. A total disaster.
not even that some mans side piece at best
@@slinkiegirl2001 a hook up and cum dumpster at best
She will end up with the same type of men her baby daddies are because that’s the only kind that will touch her.
And any man that fucks her is just as big of an idiot as she is because we see she isn’t into protection. We see she doesn’t have an issue popping out kids for deadbeats. We see she makes bad decisions. You fuck her and you’ll be baby daddy number 5
It's single mothers, that make it more difficult for single mothers to date.
For every single mother that might genuinely have just ran into bad luck. There are dozens of women like this.
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I wouldn’t say dozens loll.. dont allow yourself to be fooled by the narrative…
@@IzzysDiaries97 What ratio would you estimate? Inquiring minds would like to know.
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I was thinking this. I’m a single mother of 2. 11 year age gap because of accountability that I picked the wrong one in my 20s. Struck out in my 30s but I watch this and I’m like smh she’s making us ALL look bad.
4 kids 4 dads no career and wants a husband making 50k etc. how can she not see her 50/50 is not equal.
We need to start being ashamed of letting multiple men bust it wide open and impregnating us. This looks so bad!
“We”?
You mean “YOU”
that sounds like a YOU problem 😬
@@PARISGx1 you sound stupid! You just want to start an argument with a stranger over the internet which is weird AF! I meant black women since I am a black woman.
spot on i was called toxic for saying the same
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Sad sh** man
Who else says “goddamnit!!!” when you find out someone on here is the same sign as you?
The last thing she needs is a damn man.
How she plan to do all this traveling with 4 kids??😒😒😒
Lmao I’m screaming at the screen like you ain’t going anywhere with 4 children 🥴
@@Onlyfansera She frustrated me. I wanted to hug her and, slap her ass at the same time.
She poor! Overweight! 4 kids! No man is coming 😮😢
@@Quinten4M-I was wondering if she was pregnant with the 5th child. 🥴
@@Gem-n-life Girl, Me too!!!!!
Single Fathers with 4 kids or more, come get your wife!!! She will cook for all 10 of you!!!
Trust me a man with 4 kids would rather be single than date a woman with 4 kids with 4 different dads
@@HelpANiggaOut My 9th boyfriend has arrived with all 20 of his accounts. Welcome!!
WHO TF is living together BUT y’all paying bills separately. You’re not making any Sense at all.
It’s really sickening that with black women it’s almost guaranteed that when she asks how many dads the answer is almost always multiple men!! The recklessness and rebelliousness and immorality in the black community is unconscionable!!
It’s crazy to only hold BW accountable for the state of the black family. Signed a 30 year old BW without children or any baby daddies.
@@Simply_sankofa no it’s not crazy. Women carry the children and must value their bodies enough to choose wisely and marry before they carry!! Stop the nonsense!!
@@Nell654 again, you just described me but that doesn’t stop men from not making babies with women that aren’t their wife….
@@Nell654if black men weren’t cowards, they would run these so called Pookies out of their communities.
I agree. It's disgraceful.
She’s absolutely right, you shouldn’t worry about that. Leave her be and let that be somebody else’s problem 😂😮💨👌🏽
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She called Kendra, but Kendra didn't call her, what are you saying? That problem could be someone in your family.🤔🤔
@@gloriajordan2330 Lmao but it’s not. My family have more respect for themselves. Nobody told her to embarrass herself on social media 😮💨🤷🏽♂️
She’s living in a hotel room with a one year old and calling Kendra to find a man. Sad. 😢
That didn't seem like a hotel room
Definitely low income housing with the red fire alarms inside the house.
The hope is the man will get her out of her current predicament.
@khrisstake2210 Look at the lock, the room charge notice on the door, and the luggage cart inside the room.
A hotel if the men take care and their kids why are you in a hotel. One flaw ???
YES THE PORCH LIGHT IS ON BUT NOBODY'S HOME TRUST ME 🤦🏾♀️
Imagine being a single guy with no kids and you give this woman a chance and she tells you “we gotta be married before I have your baby” and she’s already got 4 to 4 different men and never been married 🤣🤣she deserves a slap for that the AUDACITY
Why would a single guy give her a chance
I wouldn’t look her way even if she had no kids
That’s most modern women these days. They finally have standards after having a few kids
@@jailamink6489 the mofo said imagine foo, use your imagination lol
A slap with baby powder on the hand!
She's running a marathon having babies for multiple men every couple of years.
Travel where?
Travel to the hospital that's what she meant 😂😂😂
3:04 “A guy that likes to travel”. 😂😂😂😂😂 She’s stringing together 5 minimum wage jobs with 4 kids and is looking for a man to fly her to Cancun one weekend and Rome the next. 😂😂 Get a bus pass and keep it moving.
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For real! Smh!
I was scrolling for this comment. How is it that she's okay if the guy lives out of town? How is she gonna get there? Who is going to watch the children while she's out of town?So many questions to be answered.
@@KimmieB1993 Magical thinking.
Could you imagine if she ever went to Miami? Naw if she ever went to Atlanta she would think she was hot ish!
This girl had me looking at the screen saying shut up and LISTEN! She’s in the situation she’s in (4kids and 4 dads) because no one can tell her anything. She knows everything. Let her figure the crap out on her own.
Missy if Johnny had 4 apples, and he ate two how many apples would Johnny have left?
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If you come on Kendra that's all the red flag you need
😂😂😂 kendra said so you get answer for everything.....omg that made me bust out laughing
I appreciate seeing how much Kendra has grown. She gets it. She asks the real questions. She challenges both men and women on the chaos in their lives that they want to offer to someone else. She is truly a gem. God bless her.
She needs to go ahead and accept the name that's been going around for her. #TheGodMother 🤷🏿♂️
@@prid6427 word!!
Agreed!
Black women get a genocide free pass. These are the type of women creating monsters. It's not funny anymore. They have babies with these thugs, criminals, for government assistance, in turn creating monsters that grape, rob and salvage the community. I dont see why people don't look at this as a terrorist genocidal act.
she's definitely growing but she still gives horrible advice. she still has the mindset of a modern woman.
💡This should be a light bulb moment. 👏🏿Thank you Kendra for trying
This is why she's by herself because the lack of listening
I think she’s on the Autism spectrum.
Everything was going over her head
Some women with children refuse to understand that the number of children she has greatly impacts the new man!
She talking about "50/50" - her 50% would be more like 80% if the guy doesn't have to deal with her kids...
She had an answer for everything. Very delusional AF!
Right, his 50 is still going towards them kids lol
Right and he’s only bringing himself while she comes with a whole team. Even if it was 50/50, it’s a lot more than it would be if he found someone with no kids and paid all the bills
We as women have to take accountability for picking chosing our past mates don't just say I picked a mommas boy
"We as women...". How about "I" need to or "I" should? Idk why people elect themselves as spokespersons for others.
I agree
A lot of us lack accountability and self reflection. This woman is trifling at 32 years old with four fatherless children.
Normally, Kendra finishes the interview with
" Keep me posted", but this time she knew it was a lost battle and said " good luck". SMH! It is what it is.
I think she’s a little slow lol. The way she couldn’t understand the point Kendra was trying to make about a man dating a woman with kids. It was like she was speaking to a brick wall. Kendra should’ve just hung up. I applaud her for her patience cause I couldn’t do it.
Nothing going on behind the eyes of this one...empty as a strip club on Sunday morning 😂
Why do you think you're single.? Because I'm shy meanwhile have 4 kids 4 baby daddies
She makes babies with the lights off😅
I started laughing so hard lol
@@maggien222 😭😭🤣🤣
Save Yourself Black Men!!
I think you need to tell the police that. I mean it is literally bm k1ll1ng each other, and the police getting their licks in too. It would be great if all the "bruthas" get their passports and actually go. Maybe the crime rate would go down.
Disclaimer *I'm natural, no weave, married* cause you know bm love to pull that goofy sh1t outta their azz 😂.
Yall dudes saving yourself in the comment section of a kendra g video (a black woman 😂)
Nono noooo nooo ❤❤
Too late 4 already
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Well black men are the ones laying up with these women 😢
I bet her favorite holiday is Labor Day.
I don't think that holiday means.... Oh, never mind!!!
Oh, now I get it. 😄
😂😂 Good one!
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😂😂😂 logggg out sir 😩
4 different men but I gotta be the one that’s the hero? Hard pass
50/50!? Not with 4 kids. That’s gonna cost you 80/20. You the 80.
Normally I just watch and say nothing…but ma’am ma’am ma’am…do you hear yourself. This is chaos and confusion at it finest
Maybe somebody getting out of prison in need of a place to stay is what she can hope for
She needs to focus on herself and kids, get a degree which will increase her earning power. Men will always be out there.
Right! Her priorities need to be the kids, her health - because diabetes is knocking on her door, skilling up / education and making money. She really has plenty to get on with, worrying about getting a man. 🙄
@@chantelvenessa😂😂😂 ikr
no they won’t
@@keith7644 We are all entitled to our opinions.
@@Mzmemphiz which men want to be with an older woman
She is not in a position right now to date. She really needs to concentrate on being a mom because someone right now taking her seriously is slim to none.
You call her mom, I call her a breeder.
So she was dating pookies and Ray Ray's just like most modern women and now that she's 35 and hit the wall now she's looking for a good guy to settle down with... She let a person that went to jail for life get her pregnant.... This is a sad case of being stuck in the hood😢
How crazy is it that you’re basically letting anybody you meet raw dawg you. Hate how yawl see something on IG that sounds good to you, and feel comfortable saying it out in the open sounding crazy
This was exhausting. I'll just pray for her at this point.