Blind Couple Prove Life is for Living

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  • Опубліковано 7 чер 2019
  • Blind since birth, Martine has now established herself as a change agent and global leader in the blind and disability communities.
    In this inspiring and curious story that proves anything is possible, we follow Martine and her husband Gary - a New Zealand blind cricket rep - as they navigate their darkened world.
    In 2018, Martine Abel-Williamson won Attitude’s Supreme Award.
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  • @MM-yh2mi
    @MM-yh2mi 5 років тому +117

    As a mama raising a daughter who has been blind since birth, it is always encouraging to hear stories of adults living successful, independent lives. Maybe we will move to NZ.

  • @bekkleable
    @bekkleable 5 років тому +87

    I reckon a blind therapist would be really helpful for autistic adults,definitely something for ppl that can't relax around eye contact

    • @amandaserena2007
      @amandaserena2007 4 роки тому +6

      Wow, this is so smart!

    • @MagicalAuroraDream
      @MagicalAuroraDream 3 роки тому +7

      Interesting thought. I have my bachelor's of science in psychology, hoping to get into grad school once life is more stable, and I've talked quite a bit with professors on the advantages and disadvantages of my sight. On one hand, I can't see facial expressions, or really make good eye contact since I can't really see eyes. On the other hand, my lack of visual analysis might perhaps be more of a comfort than a bother depending on the person. Also, my hearing is very important to me, so auditory cues are definitely things I can pick up on. I'm still very early in my education, though, so I'll see how it pans out as I go 😄

    • @lexiwarhurst5321
      @lexiwarhurst5321 3 роки тому +4

      Great point! I know I'm a year late on your comment, but also for anyone paranoid or depressed. Being able to feel not judged on superficial appearance would make lots more comfortable.

    • @Anonymouse85
      @Anonymouse85 3 роки тому +3

      The second she said she was a therapist, the first thing i thought was 'oh gosh, i wish she was my therapist.' I really struggle with people looking at me, always fearing a judgemental look. I'd be able to talk to this lady (who seems super capable!) in a much more freely manner than i would to someone with good eyesight.

    • @randommess6667
      @randommess6667 2 роки тому

      I think loads of people would like talking to a blind therapist, It might seem weird at first for some people i guess who havent ever met a blind person before, But Iv never met a blind person and I would not find it weird at all lol

  • @MrsBee-uo2lc
    @MrsBee-uo2lc 4 роки тому +7

    The mom broke my heart when she said "don't forget me" 😞

  • @justt9507
    @justt9507 5 років тому +122

    Scared me for a minute ,I thought you didn't realize that milk is bad! I was looking at it like NOOO! It was nice to see this and learn a few things such as the color detector , have a blessed future!

    • @HannahJoy333
      @HannahJoy333 5 років тому +6

      Me too!

    • @bernicebernardino5230
      @bernicebernardino5230 5 років тому +2

      Me too! I screamed at my laptop! LOL

    • @dyingsun23
      @dyingsun23 5 років тому +5

      At first I was thinking "Wow, you can buy 2 litre bottles of cream in NZ", until I realised that was supposed to be milk :)

    • @makaylaandhenry9160
      @makaylaandhenry9160 4 роки тому +1

      Yeah I was like noooo

    • @Manda8789
      @Manda8789 3 роки тому +1

      Tara Menjares it scared me too lol

  • @rosamorel9621
    @rosamorel9621 5 років тому +24

    Let me start writing that they are having a better life than mine. Cooking, friends, sports. I loved her jewelry, how she enjoys to mach. He is a such a great partner. God bless them .

  • @HannahJoy333
    @HannahJoy333 5 років тому +51

    Martine and Gary, thank you for sharing your perfect family with all of us!

  • @andreabarns1128
    @andreabarns1128 5 років тому +5

    Thank God this lady didn't listen to the doubters and used their ignorance to empower herself and teach others. Her positivity is contagious and I hope this is spread far and wide...

  • @amandaserena2007
    @amandaserena2007 4 роки тому +7

    Omg, I love her mother!! What a wonderfully sweet woman. Aw. Melts my heart. People dont appreciate the elderly enough.

  • @missybailey2829
    @missybailey2829 5 років тому +17

    A husband and wife team 💙💙💙 great job on your award 👏👏💋💋

  • @kiiraadams261
    @kiiraadams261 5 років тому +18

    Omg they’re such a beautiful couple. Wish I were friends with them , loving their humour.

  • @joannie420
    @joannie420 5 років тому +29

    I admire them both so much, what amazing impeccable people

  • @cherbrowne1637
    @cherbrowne1637 3 роки тому +3

    A million 'likes' for this video about a lovely couple. I wish I lived next door; they would be amazing friends because they are warm and funny and witty and love life xxx

  • @delooaes
    @delooaes 5 років тому +25

    Best country for people with disabilities... By watching all the programs. I must say New Zealand is the best.

  • @kimwilliams3026
    @kimwilliams3026 4 роки тому +13

    A blind psychologist, that just means she has an extra skill, not judging by vision. Also it might make others with vision issues , disabilities or social differences feel more comfortable.also as a client you know they really are not just committed but passionate about their job, otherwise they wouldn’t have shrugged off other people’s disapproval.

  • @Papin47
    @Papin47 5 років тому +33

    Power couple extraordinaire, thanks for allowing us this inspiring glimpse into your lives.

  • @shayroberts795
    @shayroberts795 5 років тому +9

    When he started pouring the milk 😂 oh bless their hearts, absolutely lovely & dedicated people

  • @rdcochrane1746
    @rdcochrane1746 3 місяці тому

    Having had the very real pleasure of working with Martine beit all the way from China, I can only applaud this heartfelt window into this truly amazing person's life.

  • @terrys8808
    @terrys8808 5 років тому +24

    Beautiful people. Good to see this positive relationship. Great work you do!!❤

  • @demijour1234
    @demijour1234 4 роки тому +2

    My best friend's younger sister is blind. She is a lawyer now working for a University in Waterloo, Ontario Canada and her husband is also blind and he is a Music Therapist (plays the piano). He works with elderly patients with Alzheimer's. They both are also fantastic singers and have done concerts. They have a 3 year old girl (so adorable) and she can see. She is pregnant with her second child and is due, I think in January or February 2021.
    Anything is always possible and just because you have a disability doesn't mean you are exempt from having a family or having a career and making a difference.

  • @anammuniz7259
    @anammuniz7259 5 років тому +74

    She is blind and she studied criminology and psychology I can do it too..

  • @kimbrower7242
    @kimbrower7242 3 роки тому +2

    Wow they both so amazing. Love the sweet realtionship between the mom and daughter. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤗

  • @BrokenxPaperxDolls
    @BrokenxPaperxDolls 4 роки тому +5

    11:09 "were going to have a great time" whilst he grates cheese, good timing Attitude 😂

  • @be-kind-to-the-earth8364
    @be-kind-to-the-earth8364 4 роки тому +2

    How amazing is this love story. Their fur babies are absolutely beautiful ❤️

  • @bettygorske2136
    @bettygorske2136 5 років тому +4

    Omg, such Lovely Souls and they are hilarious!! What an inspiration to us all! The dogs are Beautiful, just like their love for one another! God Bless You All🙏🙏🙏🙏💜💜💜💜💜💜😘

  • @MelissaCox1992
    @MelissaCox1992 2 роки тому

    So good to see blind people being represented as well-ajusted, indipendent, happy and productive people.
    To be completely honest, I know plenty of people that don't work, and it's simply because they iether can't be bothered, or aren't motivated at all. As a blind person, I'm so glad that I live in a world where people like us and other disabilities are activly accepted by all comunities, I am also incredibly graitfull for the technealogical advances throughout the last 25 years.

  • @genevievechoghari5987
    @genevievechoghari5987 4 роки тому +1

    What a wonderful and inspiring story... People like you make the world better for every one. Thank you

  • @eduardopadilla5505
    @eduardopadilla5505 5 років тому +9

    Great love and life story!

  • @AlexizEcstasy
    @AlexizEcstasy 4 роки тому +4

    I actually dated this guy who both his parents were blind and they had 4 kids!! The mom cooked n did all the mothering duties n the dad even worked!

  • @drea4360
    @drea4360 4 роки тому +2

    Beautiful couple so happy they found each other 😊

  • @Jonsweets
    @Jonsweets 4 роки тому +3

    How do they do things around their own home while being blind it amazes me

  • @juliestevenson9151
    @juliestevenson9151 2 роки тому

    Amazing couple so brave and managing to keep a beautiful home well organised clean tidy and enjoying their lives

  • @tonialenza4938
    @tonialenza4938 4 роки тому +1

    Those dogs are so well behaved, and beautiful

  • @keztukariri
    @keztukariri Рік тому

    Martines on her best behavior in the kitchen for the camera lolzzz love it 😍😂😍😂 and her mama, just beautiful ❤❤❤

  • @nomam7358
    @nomam7358 3 роки тому +1

    They are so positive 🙏🏽

  • @keiheaherakiwi1611
    @keiheaherakiwi1611 5 років тому +3

    This channel is so awesome thank you for posting I miss NZ my home so much .... kiwi in oz

  • @swilson5346
    @swilson5346 5 років тому +4

    Such great sense of humor from you both!❤️😍😂

  • @sahpem4425
    @sahpem4425 4 роки тому +2

    Absolutely wonderful!

  • @jessallen6507
    @jessallen6507 5 років тому +1

    Gary is so awesome.

  • @riotmusicproducer1499
    @riotmusicproducer1499 4 роки тому +1

    How inspirational! Y’all made me feel very lazy! Thank you for showing me how much more I
    Can be doing

  • @SundayBoy72
    @SundayBoy72 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your life moments. inspirational. god bless both of you. hugs.

  • @zz-xl7vl
    @zz-xl7vl 5 років тому +5

    I like how he said catch u later instead of see you later 4:00 ( don’t take it the wrong way)

  • @thebeachroc
    @thebeachroc 4 роки тому

    What a wonderful woman. Intelligent, articulate, driven and beautiful advocate. Ps, I would happily have her as my therapist.

  • @marvinboyles190
    @marvinboyles190 3 роки тому +1

    They do very well for being blind

  • @Char-ho1rs
    @Char-ho1rs 5 років тому +8

    Thank you so much, lovely to see 🥰🙂

  • @stephanieb7311
    @stephanieb7311 4 роки тому

    What an inspiring lady. Godbless them both and their doggies.

  • @tracycolleran80
    @tracycolleran80 5 років тому

    Fills me with inspiration & hope

  • @Kestral182
    @Kestral182 3 роки тому

    I'm South African, so my accent is similar to hers. Everytime she said 'OK Google' my phone stopped playing the video and the Google assistant came on 😅
    I'm happy that they are living life to the fullest. It's our greatest tragedy that we haven't made the world more accessible both physically and as in the mindset of society.

  • @truenorth6999
    @truenorth6999 4 роки тому

    Much respect and Arohanui to you both. Now my lil guy has started school at BLENNZ. I would love to remember my own personal life goals and retrain/work again. So this is such an inspiring message!!! Many Blessings to you both 🌟💫

  • @ChassityNOubre_88
    @ChassityNOubre_88 3 роки тому

    What an amazing & powerful couple they are. They compliment each other so well. They're definitely couple goals. I love how they live life fully, regardless of any obstacles in the way. They don't seems to complain either. I wish this episode was longer or had a pt.2 to follow up. I pray you guys have a long happy life🧡
    P.S. I thought that color detector was the coolest gadget.

  • @HelenaMikas
    @HelenaMikas 5 років тому +1

    Such an inspirational video .Great people *

  • @sharonisaac445
    @sharonisaac445 4 роки тому +1

    God Bless you and your Husband

  • @lspbeautea4791
    @lspbeautea4791 4 роки тому +1

    Amazing attitude! ❤️

  • @patriciakelly69
    @patriciakelly69 5 років тому

    What an amazing couple.x

  • @swilson5346
    @swilson5346 Рік тому

    You’re mom was so protective of you.😊

  • @heatherbowlan9822
    @heatherbowlan9822 5 років тому +6

    What a lovely couple ! There dog s are wonderful awesome !

  • @heidihokes1971
    @heidihokes1971 4 роки тому

    What a beautiful couple!! I learned new things!! It never occurred to me about them needing an at home
    Braille machine or that one even existed! Makes perfect sense, though, now that they mentioned it. And I certainly never knew a color machine even existed!! Absolutely brilliant!!!

  • @smiley78410
    @smiley78410 5 років тому

    Lovely couple. Congratulations good on u

  • @arcana830
    @arcana830 4 роки тому

    Aww I love those dogs so much

  • @joaoermensongomes
    @joaoermensongomes 4 роки тому +1

    story intersting! very well

  • @LectronCircuits
    @LectronCircuits 4 роки тому +1

    Obviously life is for living; that's why it's called, "life." Cheers!

  • @RainRemnant
    @RainRemnant 3 роки тому

    Inspiring as always... ❤

  • @donnylincoln5628
    @donnylincoln5628 5 років тому +1

    Your amazing couple

  • @nomam7358
    @nomam7358 3 роки тому

    This humans r the strongest 👌🏽❤️🙏🏽

  • @Anonymouse85
    @Anonymouse85 3 роки тому

    What a great couple and oh my, very funny couple as well!

  • @nomam7358
    @nomam7358 3 роки тому

    Wow👌🏽. Kind mom😊

  • @keztukariri
    @keztukariri Рік тому

    That kūri puts my travel life to shame! So cool 😊😊😊

  • @keztukariri
    @keztukariri Рік тому

    Love you Martine, youre friggen hilarious 😂

  • @nomam7358
    @nomam7358 3 роки тому

    The dogs r jst so healthy n always excited whn visitors come. Sweet😅😊👌🏽😘

  • @regenbogentraumerin
    @regenbogentraumerin 3 роки тому

    I love how they pronounce her first last name like 'able'. She's disabled but still proves that she's able to do whatever she wants, so it kinda fits :)

  • @82mabli
    @82mabli 5 років тому +5

    I never thought about the fact, that Alexa would be very helpful for the blind.

    • @nikitanair6566
      @nikitanair6566 5 років тому

      I was thinking about how they could set up the whole house with that and it could make a world of difference. Magic of technology.

  • @valenciasmith7310
    @valenciasmith7310 5 років тому +2

    I jus think that its amazing how they get around so good being blind I think I would go crazy to never being able to see I jus think that is a blessing 😇😇🙌🏾🤞🏾

  • @yourworstnightmare8241
    @yourworstnightmare8241 4 роки тому

    My google heard her ask her google what the weather was like in New Zealand so my google started giving the weather as well 😂😂

  • @sabrina1985
    @sabrina1985 5 років тому +1

    Hallo Martine and Gary, what a nice video. It would be nice if you make weekly vlogs like these. I would subcribe and follow you 2. Its entertaining, educating, en maybe you learn nice people. Its a way to connect with people. And like i said i would follow your stories . Love sabrina

  • @10-OSwords
    @10-OSwords Рік тому

    Do they make brail label makers or is there a program where you can print brail pages like from a brail printer? Seems like that tech would be so helpful for organization & putting instructions on things like washer machines. I'm fully sighted & I have like 6 different sticky notes programs for different categories...can't live without em.

  • @jnhosier3
    @jnhosier3 3 роки тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @ashleycampbell1843
    @ashleycampbell1843 4 роки тому

    You can do anything, no matter what

  • @ernasetiani8157
    @ernasetiani8157 3 роки тому +1

    😍😍

  • @nomam7358
    @nomam7358 3 роки тому

    I like how she even takes effort to dress well, self love 😊

  • @OfficialAuntMoose
    @OfficialAuntMoose 4 роки тому +1

    My favorite parts are seeing the one dog drool.

  • @truthseeker3907
    @truthseeker3907 5 років тому

    Thumbs up! :)

  • @keiheaherakiwi1611
    @keiheaherakiwi1611 5 років тому

    Inspirational story thank you for sharing

  • @mausbar3146
    @mausbar3146 4 роки тому

    What kind of writing device did she used and how does it work?

  • @pantyflash
    @pantyflash 3 роки тому

    Like, even though your eyesight is hosed, you're totally awesome. Way to go, babes!

  • @rosegold973
    @rosegold973 5 років тому +9

    I got sooo worried at first! Like that camera man better not let them drink that old ass milk!!

    • @xxconnie73xx
      @xxconnie73xx 5 років тому +3

      Rose Gold i wasnˋt afraid of that, because i think that the sense of hearing and the sense of smelling might be very aware of any changings

    • @rosegold973
      @rosegold973 5 років тому +1

      xxconnie73xx true they could smell it for sure

  • @missywiley3140
    @missywiley3140 4 роки тому

    Who was the duo in the tuxedos?

  • @nikitanair6566
    @nikitanair6566 5 років тому +1

    Maybe she could print out tags for her bags and clothes which describe it to her- colour, shades, multicolored or not etc in Braille and attach them so that she'd have help. I saw someone else do it and thought it was quite a nifty idea.

    • @ClearwaterKB
      @ClearwaterKB 5 років тому +1

      At her age I am sure she has her system that works for her. I believe she has those items for occassional use but carries on quite well without them.

    • @nikitanair6566
      @nikitanair6566 5 років тому +1

      @@ClearwaterKB oh yeah of course. She seems super sorted. Was just a suggestion, no shade meant. 😅🤷

  • @haleymae1694
    @haleymae1694 5 років тому +1

    What was the singing at the end? Can somebody explain?

    • @muls9571
      @muls9571 5 років тому

      I think it's traditional Maori singing. Not 100% sure though.

  • @johnleed6774
    @johnleed6774 3 роки тому

    Used to have MILLIONS of views. What the hell happened to it?!?!?!

  • @19irving
    @19irving Рік тому

    Is blind cricket like beep baseball in the US?

  • @kadinewalters6044
    @kadinewalters6044 3 роки тому

    Thank God he realized that the milk was spoiled

  • @LectronCircuits
    @LectronCircuits 4 роки тому

    Awesome Kiwis! Bummer that their vision is basically shot to Hell. All the best. Incidentally, very cute dogs. Cheers!

  • @EON897
    @EON897 3 роки тому

    I would love for you guys to come on my show on blending the blind and sighted. I dated a totally blind guy and I'm totally sighted come check us out and be part of the show I'm booking for Sunday 22 of November or later at 730pm pacific, 1030pm eastern

  • @Inciliusnebulifer
    @Inciliusnebulifer 3 роки тому

    Man, those guide handles look so uncomfortable, wish they had more padded handles for the persons comfort.

  • @jimmyisherenow
    @jimmyisherenow Рік тому

    Did she put metal in the microwave?

  • @akossarfo-kantanka7231
    @akossarfo-kantanka7231 4 роки тому

    7:26 Am I the only American who had a mini heart attack when she got in on OUR drivers side of the car. Lol at this point America is doing everything wrong 😅

    • @TammyTravelsTheWorld
      @TammyTravelsTheWorld 3 роки тому

      OMG yessssssss! LMAO - I was like, GURL I BELIEVE IN YOU AND ALL BUT WHAT ARE YOU DOING -- then I remembered it was NZ and they have the steering wheel on the opposite side of the car.

  • @nancyvallejo9149
    @nancyvallejo9149 4 роки тому +1

    Can they just fix it with surgery?

  • @robinsmith3987
    @robinsmith3987 4 роки тому

    Maybe you should feed the dogs more often. They were eatting as though they were starving.