You MESSED UP your LIFE…Now what?
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
- My journey to accountability started by using my mistakes and conflicts as an opportunity to learn and take accountability of my own actions .
Through journaling, I gained clarity on the recurring problems I faced.
It became clear that to break free and find better situations, I realized I had to take ownership.
After all, you can't transform what you suppress or ignore.
Accountability became an invitation for positive change in my life.
Those negative parts of ourselves, the ones we call "demons," are still a part of us.
We try to act like they're not there, but they linger in the shadows.
But they are still a part of us.
True growth comes from awareness and by acknowledging these shadows, we disarm them and take back control.
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Simmy Goraya : / simmygoraya
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Shot and edited : / praveen0202
Assisted by : / manpreetbhamraa
Chapters:
02:56 How journaling helped me in taking accountability
05:24 How to avoid problems by understanding your mistakes?
09:20 Being kind to yourself
11:53 Trust the timing
How are we liking the videos so far? Leave your comments so I know what you guys would like to see next
Hey I literally love you 😘
And I want your philosophy to rest of my life 💖🧬
Really helpful videos dii. I can really relate to u. Ur thoughts and everything. I m also a girl who thinks a lots and whose mind is really f up
Simmy G..deep inside we all know..k thik h mistake r part of life but usko accept kr k move ahead..khud sambhal na is big thing.. thanks for explaining very critical things in this video.. nature also supporting u like.. thunder ..during ur deep talks..
A master piece simmy 💕💞❤️ em in love with your tone ❤
Simmy it was such a good video, I connect with you so much at this point of time in my life .
Just turned 25 and feels like everything about my life is changing. I know i want to be a better person and I’m willing to do everything it takes.
Cheers to our journey of being self aware & fighting our inner demons
Hi Simmy, loving the series so far. I am glad you are putting across your lessons and learnings out across on social media, I am learning and trying to understand with you as well. Honestly, it's very helpful. Through your this video, I could finally understand what accountability means and how can I implement it in my life. One thing I am juggling up with is, how to figure out the mistakes and lessons by ourselves? The 2 day time period you mentioned in your journey, how could you figure out your mistakes and lessons by your own or you took outside help to understand? Your guidance would be truly appreciated🙏 I am somebody who is actually trying to learn and unable to figure things out so help if you can.
I'm a 26-year-old guy and I feel powerful. I truly understand the power of manifestation and how it can transform our entire lives. This video really spoke to me. Your story about overcoming challenges through manifestation resonated deeply with me.
Thank you for sharing your inspiring journey!
Simmy, you talk so deep and everybody can connect if they understand. your videos are eye opening
The more genuine you are within yourself, the more free you would become. But to face your own flaws you must have courage otherwise you can't face your own wrong doings, biases, disingenuous ways of your own behaviour in various things.
Becoming a sincere person is the most beautiful and enriching experience in life but it takes courage and understanding of life in an inclusive and deeper sense.
वीर भोग्य वसुंधरा
There is a long way for you to go..and that is the truth but the truth initially feels like a demon that steals hope but eventually it's the key to freedom and the end of suffering.
My attention span has become so low that it is hard for me to stick to any video for more than 5 mins.
This video was coming repeatedly and I have been watching you from your earliest days, I had ignored it several times. Sitting at Andheri Stn in all the hustle bustle I thought let's give it a chance, one thing that really hooked me was, SAME PROBLEM BAAR BAAR AND THE WAY YOU HAVE EXPRESSED IT, IT FELT LIKE you're expressing my emotions.
Your voice indicates how much trauma you have gone through. Stay strong ♥️
Beautiful and every word was true. I am 18 and have got some really down phases of my life and could actually see i had managed myself in these. Thank you di❤
Koi itna relatable kese ho sakta h ♥️🌸
Hats off.. finally someone said this 🙌
Didi absolutely in love with your series. Make a video on relationship advices especially for the ones who are in their 20’S. since you’re more wiser it would great to learn more from you.
This is the most honest content I have watched on internet.
GOD, she is so HONEST!!!😭😭😭
I could connect with this. Keep up the good work Simmy. I too sat and wrote 3-4 pages after watching your video. 😇
Thanku ❤ you gave me the courage to talk to myself jo mai bhut time se ignore kr rhi thi, thank you mam ❤dil se
Thunder added just the right emphasis to your expression. Keep going, the nature is with you :)
❤ It's really nice to hear you again. Not at all boring. ....
Just want to say... Thank you so much
Thank you so much dear ❤ you gave me courage 🙏
Ahh omgg what
this video is actually all about a realisation simmi you are truly solving my queries for life mannnn😭😭
Somewhere you are giving those hidden answers what I m trying to find ♥️
These series was truly the best best things l have watched like everytime you made me to realise what i actually supposed to do with sittty situations ✨💓🥺🥺🥺
Loved it❤ Please continue this series!
Simmi di your effort is make us more powerful or calmer person love from odisha❤
I am new to this channel....shayad ab main apka pehle wala content bhi dekhu......agr purane subscriber ja rhe hain to naye bhi aa rhe hain like me😊❤❤
Thanks for this life experience, Simmy. I'm equally glad to see caring and calming comments rather than the regular vitriolic ones.
As an empathetic individual, who seems to understand this accountability episode, I realize that whatever you said is the same feeling many of us have, however, seldom do we have the guts to speak and let it out in the universe. This is a power that you have, and keep honing it.
My heart feels a little better today, especially through this video. Self-reflection has fantastic perks. Thanks, once again.
Tq so much ❤
Hi di ,aj mera ek result aya and aj fir mai fail ho gai ,its been 6 long years full of all bad emotions regret ,sorrow, irritations and what not but still i have that one ray of hope that ill make it. But aj fir jb negative result aya toh i was num kuch bhi reasoning ni hai mere pass khud ko dene ko and eise he yt scroll krte hue mujko apka ye video mila aur apne jo kuch bhi bola i relate toh each damn word ,i m scared ,scared ki agr maine apne ap ko accountable kiya toh kya mere pass vo courage bachegi ki mai apne next exam ke liye padh pau ,scared kya agr maine khud ko accountable bnaya toh kya mere andr himmat hogi ki apne ap ko ek aur chance du ,ek bar fir exam likhu ,ek bar fir vo sabhi sapne dekhu jo mai last 6 saal se apne liye dekh rhi hu....aur agr decision nikla ki hmko ab exams ni dene chiye toh fir mai kya krugi ,coz padhne aur exam dene ke alawa toh kuch aur kra he ni maine aur na kuch aur socha.
I m scared ..
Which exam?
This what really needed. What's next
LOVING these videos!!
Thank youu so much simmy........Its so relatable❤❤🩹
I found it very nice . Inspirational tbh. But I’d suggest please try to avoid repetition. I felt you have been saying same things back n back forth.
So relatable🙂🌸
How beautifully you explain🥹
How to deal with toxic parents and family trauma?
Just stop cheating
It's been quite a while since I've had a good night's sleep. I've ruined my mental as well as physical health because I'm unable to see a way out of whatever I'm facing right now. Countless hours of crying until I get breathless. If that is what you call depression, then so be it. The worst part is pretending in front of the world that you're doing fine. I've tried a lot to get up and let it go, but I've always failed.
Simmy, I want you to know that you're helping so many people out there like me to get up once again, stronger, and try to face the hurdles and grow from them. Everyone says why are you hurting yourself this much....just let it go....just go and chill in life. But I really can't. I think these approx 20 min talks are what I've been needing all this while. It makes me feel like someone is actually understanding me and telling me that I'm not alone and I can come out of this. Thank you for this.
You can talk to me if you want ! There is nothing shame to admit about your mental health issues ! Here for you! Feel free to reach out because I m aslo suffering from this
Please try meditation..it really helps...just start with basic breathing techniques 🕊️
Read RamCharitManas
Didi I'm just 19 and I'm very very very grateful that i got to see your video ....
Literally ..hume kabhi ek insaan chahiye hota hain jo bas baithal kr ye samjhaye ki khud ki galtiya pakad ..and you're that person ...
Alot of things learnt from you through this .... Thanks for the guidance and a reality check that you've given ...❤
Yess , I am also going to complete 20 years of age after a couple of months 😊
At 30 I realised this 😔
Well said ma'am.... There is a demon behind every person's wrong doings..... .. One should always be careful of it...... Fixing our accountability is better than regretting over our mistakes for whole life.......
I found your channel recently. I can't thank you enough for making this series. I watched every single video of yours on acknowledging self- journey, trust me, I learned a lot from you. Thank you for making these videos.❤️
I am glad you’re enjoying the series 🤗
@@simmygoraya6060Aapki aawaj mai dard hai didi 😢 mai smj shkhti hu. Coz sem happened with me right now God bless uhh ❤❤🎉
Hii Simmy didi. I am 20 now and whatever you shares your life experiences and solutions with us I can relate with it. I also expirences this same things but I couldn't tell anyone because I didn't knew how to tell this in words. I also face same kind of problems in my life from last 4 years and I figured out that biggest demons inside of me is fear, laziness and instant pleasures. And I am in the journey to kill this demons. You are 10 years older than me because of you I can clearly see what things should I do and shouldn't do in my 20's. This video is so knowledgeable. Thanks a lot for this video.
Wow! This is an eye opener. Please don’t stop making such videos Simmy!
❤❤ God bless you simmy goraya sister thankyou 🙏🙏💐
Unfortunately, I am doing this at 40. And as you said, it's so much to take on. But I tell myself it's better late than never. And still hope for a better future. 🥺😒
Hey 40 is when life really changes, trust me. If possible pls read the book 'the surrender experiment ', you will get all your answers
This vedio hits different 👍🏻🙌🏻thank you ma'am 🙌🏻
This video came at the right moment..I was holding myself accountable and video just came out of nowhere.
You know what Simmy? I have been battling through a lot of inner demons and other upheavals inside as well as in my social life. I struggled a lot and i lost a lot of things in my life. But yet when i started doing this i gained a better version of myself. This process is still going on. I am still learning, taking my accountability and improving with time. At the same time i am kind to myself as well. You know Simmy ?? Your videos are highly therapeutic as well as relative. Loads of love to you. I feel proud on you and what you're doing. I know this inner work is hard. God bless you to your pure soul, kind nature and genuineness. Keep shining...❤❤
With regards
Prateek kumar
Well, I must say Simmy you are an extremely strong individual who has recognized the need to go inwards and fight with those demons to be a better person with each passing day. It's ruthless as you say and it takes hell lot of courage to go there sit in the shit, smell it and then learn to clean it well. Not every person has the courage to do so , kudos to you girl. And I wish you more peace, more battles won with your inside demons so you come out even more stronger and rise like a phoenix. I'm in the process of doing it learning from your experiences too and progressing with it. Thank you for making this video and sharing the gems that you have as experiences within you.❤
In my life i m always focused but surrounding always tried to mess up and did tan tanaaaa tan😊
This has been something I've been saying to myself for a while now lol
I can't tell you what incredible work you are doing.The casual way of saying life experiences which is almost common to many,but never spoken about so deeply is actually what is required..Just turned 32, and can connect to each and every thing that u r talking about and fighting them one by one..inside ..Please carry on..Feels I m not alone in the journey ❤️ beautifully done 👍
Hey Di. Am turning 20 in September. And from the past few weeks, I have been regretting many things that happened in the last 3-4 years. I was perceiving this feeling as negative. But just like you said, we must take the mirror and see what were the minus points we had in the whole situation. Thanks for letting me know that this taking out mirror, sitting in feelings, realising mistakes is actually a good thing. I'll now focus on learning those things and letting go of the baggage. You're the older sister I needed honestly. And I hope you also are happy and doing well. Again, lots of love and thankyou so much. This video resonated to me on so many levels I can't even explain. Every line was full of wisdom 💕🫂✨
True
Me too.... Same Same Buddy❤❤
She's the one I'm addicted to now i was suffering from alot since past 3 months and putting things under the carpet and was about to end my life but she has encouraged me to live my life by taking accountability of my own actions and decisions
God bless you abundantly with lots of happiness and prosperity ❤ thankyou soo much for existing and making such videos go ahead and make many more you're helping alot of people deal with things
i also feel the same due to toxic environment at my work place
4 5 baar sunn chuki hu ye video m abhi It takes a lot to take action even after understanding the problem but I promise myself nothing will go under carpet
VIDEO IDEA: How to think clearly ?
I am here, just because of thumbnail. 😂😂😂.
This video appeared on my feed at the perfect timing. I guess it is important to take accountability for things. Maybe now knowing this I can change old habits for the better, so thank you.
I didn't knew, I needed to hear this today. I have been going through the same problems over and over again and was feeling stuck, not knowing how to cope up with those situations. After watching this video, I feel I got a better clarity and taking accountability could be the very first step I could do to improve my situation. Thank you for sharing this video with us.
Loved every word, can relate to everything that you've said. Thank you for making this video Simmy. Yes, one day we all will make it big.
Do you know what am i thinking right now " How can someone be soo similar to my thinkings"
Me too whole of her vedio I was crying
I saw this video immediately after you posted it, but back then I was not able to connect with it, but today when I rewatched it, I realised that its not only me who is going through this, there are people, and we could learn from just hearing them out. So thanks Simmy. Keep on doing such videos.
I feel so proud to say I've been doing this since I was 22
Amazing content
Thank you ✨
This is very useful . I follow you every day.
But i am looking for .can u please help me??
A humble request to you.
Maine aapki phle bhi videos dekhi h ..
And I find same meri life Mai hota. H same feel hota...
Achha lag rha hai I am not only. One. Feeling these kind of things...
Koi aur bhi h. Same feel kr rha h...
But I pray ki.. ase jyda kisi ko aur ko feel na ho because it's. Very pain full as well... Thanks to put it. As it is. 🎉 But acha lgta h bcz mai aapse chhoti hu...to lgta chlo mere pass thoda sa time extra h. jab aap. Happy ho. To mai bhi happy. Ho skti hu in my future ❤
First of all, thank you so much for sharing this. You won’t believe that yesterday I went for a random drive alone and thought about everything you shared today, especially self-accountability and today I was going to drop a very good friend of mine at the bus station. I randomly began talking about how I learn most of the things so late in life and the next thing I told him that what exactly does late realization means. Just because one doesn’t follow the timeline orchestrated by society, one is either labelled as a slow learner or inefficient. As you were sharing your thoughts I realized, you and I share the same ideologies. It literally made me feel that I was looking at a mirror. Looking forward to more vlogs from this series. Please don’t ever stop sharing your thoughts. You’re doing a magnificent work. Godspeed to you!!
Uff uff uff. No words Simmy di 🙃🙃.. thanks thanks thanks! One tight hug from my side.... Hum kar lenge yaar sab kuch..... And you know what the one thing that I've learnt is that ki everything is in the thoughts.. it's all about us not the others..... I mean life ke equations pehle sai hi clear ho toh kya hi baat hai.....❤
Well thanks for the video... I was looking for some solutions to what I can do and from ur video i got ki mujhe likhna chahiye pen paper par kya kya hua and kya galat kiya and bhagvan kya lesson dena chahte h ... Jisse ye chize firse repeat naa ho and I learn my lesson well
Thanks.....
I’m from Pakistan and love to hear your talk about oneself what he needs an feel ❤🎉
Keep going ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yeah, I am here, and we definitely have something in common. I kind of broke into tears while listening to this. Because whatever you said was just so relatable and I felt like yeah, I am not alone. :) Please keep up with the series. It’s so raw and beautiful.
I really really needed this.... Video thnkuu so much... Di.. Now so many things... Are clear in... And i can.. See it very clearly... ❤thnkxx di.
It’s like you are my future self talking in front of me
Thank you for this reminder
All of your videos are I don’t know how but kahi na kahi connect krti hai meri journey se ❤️
Thank you thank you so much simmi di ❣️
Much needed video. ❤❤
Can suggest the books u read plzz...
Or u plzz write a book plzz..
I need this content...
U r literally helping me with all the bad I have been facing since literally 6 yrs
Going through the same, did almost the same, I can feel you like while playing the vedio I could feel the voice inside me and was thankful at the same time that I am at right path🎉
I love you simmuuuuu❤we will Sail through it together one day I am very much sure about it. Bole baba and shyamjiii are with us❤
the philosophy is hard to understand. too many expectations can lead to wrong paths, especially for teenagers. they've to live simple first. your experience can help others too, sure! It was good. that's why I like!! 🙂
Early morning slap from anyone parents/bf/roommate twice a week
+
Tab Alprazolam 0.5mg at bed time 💤🕓
That's all you need sweety
Thank you so much Simmy for bringing this series to us!! We are so much involved in the hustle culture that we tend to forget lot of inner work we need to do!! It's not external world rather your inside world that matters! I hope everyone get the courage to work on their inertia!! Lots of love 😊
@simmygoraya6060 it's totally me , bs abhi tak yeh pata nhi tha ki ye normal he 😂😂 ,, yeh saare tarike mene aapna liye he , khud ko daat kar fatkar kar samjhaya or heal Kiya
Can feel how badly you are trying to control your tears through your voice,and this is me I'm going through the same and can feel you deeply. Thank you for figuring out a way for yourself and sharing it with us, helping us overcome the same challenge. Sending you lots of love and blessings Simmi❤
I was just thinking how people i knew since school, college are thriving in their life and i never thought i would be struggling so much for so long, it made me so dissapointed that i was thinking that i should die. sometimes we feel we should shut ourselves off. i wish i could leave this world and start again.
This series is so helpful. Nobody has ever talked on these topics with such a clarity and practical approach. Thank you so much simmy for these videos. ❤
Am so glad I found your channel. You sound like you are going to therapy. Kudos to the work you are doing. Just wanted to tell you that I am learning all you are learning now at the ripe old age of 56 and I look back at a waster life, not wasted few years. So pls know that you are very lucky that you have all these insights at such a young age. Your honesty and sincerity are wonderful and make you are beautiful person. If I had a daughter I would have loved her to be like you. Shine on! All my love ❤❤
Wasted*
Thank you Simmy didi for such karmic lessons, you sure are blessed with devi's blessing to have this much wisdom
I am ur new subscriber ❤❤ first time seeing ur videos..
..inspiring n motivating me.❤❤
I'm confused between entrepreneurship and job... I'm extremely confused... financial background ok ok hai but business karne jitna nhu hai... sachme samajh nhi aa rha career me aage kaise jau... engineering ki khudki marji se kyuki wo hi karna tha ab puri zindagi konsa career choose karna hai wo decide nhi kar pa Rahi... different different domains me knowledge hai mujhe kyuki mujhe knowledge gain karna pasand hai...but life me hum sabkuch nhi kar sakte ,kisi ek industry me hi upar ja sakte hai sabse jda aur wo konsa hai mere liye idk....i love travel vlogging, engineering background se hu but psychology me v interest hai parapsychology, science, technology, astronomy etc khatam nhi hoga 😂
Koi ye comment padh rha hai to please mujhe kuch guidance dedo...bass koi mil nhi rha jisse suggestion lu.... relationship me v 0 hu...try kia but nhi chala so usme aur interest nahi hai ab career v rula rha hai 😅 btw I'm 24 years old.
Aur jisko bhi soch soch me dar lag raha ho if hum apne demons se fight karenge toh voh humse dur ho jayega coz humko is demons me attachment he itni ho gyi ho khone ka dar ho. Toh ye socho ki pura maha dev bethe hai aur bol rahe hai tu iska sath codh mein tera aur karib aa jaunga.. toh asani hogi use codhne me..🕉️🔱
Today i'm really in this situation and searching answers inside then opened youtube and got this video in front of me. That's universe blessing for me. Thanks @simmy goraya
Place the camera on a tripod or something.
But nahh aesthetic bhi to banNa hai
How can someone share their deepest life stories with someone holding the camera.
There's a polite way to put across your concern but no you PPL just love to rant to look cool may u get some inner peace bro
@@archanatoppo9664 you are free to be offended but am I wrong? NO.
Life can be change and I've to do it quickly ☺️... thanku di ♥️
I am finding the solutions of my problems because of you
u're the best best best person to enter in my life,manifesting the best for u today and always
I've been watching you for the past 4 years but this simmy didi is something different😌
I'm gonna follow this accountability thing for sure
😃 BTW I'm 19 I think it's the perfect time to learn all this.
Thank you so much 😊
Your videos are spot on for my life…Goodbye was so relatable and now find answers here aswell!
Love you Simmy ❤️
Thank you so much 🤗❤️
From all the niche you have picked up so far, You're killing it with this one. Totally nailing it with the heart to heart connect and the utmost level of genuineness and authenticity. Totally loving each and every bit of it .❤❤
Kuch bhi... Tumhari life me kya hi problem ho sakta hai sabkuch toh pahle se hi badhiya chal raha hai.. fir bhi khud ki life ko struggle samajh rahi ho... 🙄
Am gonna turn 21 next month and this video is exactly what I am facing right now. There is one problem that's just not ending, it's coming back to me again and again and again, and it's breaking me more every time it occurs again. This phase of my life has been so difficult, that I think I needed a video like this so that atleast I know what I have to do next and yes I am gonna go back to my hostel now, open my journal and write everything that I did in the past 2yrs, hold myself accountable and get those demons out of that party.
wow must say i found you at the right time simmy..so do we take one problem at a time? what if they are interrelated?
How thankful I am to you, you can never ever imagine.
You have taught to live life which majority of people don't know yet.
I am highly thankful to you, God sent you to save lives of many 🙏
YOU ARE AN ABSOLUTE LIFE SAVER!!!!!!❤
This is what was needed, thank u sooo much for posting this video
Pinning it down in my diary❤