taking myself on a date | dating myself ep. 2

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  • @Hollistar91
    @Hollistar91 3 роки тому +74

    It's almost therapeutic to sit here and watch you evolve and overcome insecurities. (Finances permitting) I'd definitely recommend that you do this more often! Your smile is cute and you looked so content

  • @Radisgrek
    @Radisgrek 3 роки тому +26

    I don’t know if Helena or anyone else will even read this. This video made me feel so many emotions. I’ve been in a psych hospital for a month, trying to work on a multitude of chronic issues. I’ve realised just how lonely I am and how much I’m craving connection and company. I’m relying too much on others not to feel empty. I really hope and want to get to this point that Helena is in where I can go on dates with myself, just for me, and enjoy my own company and solitude. I want to be alone without feeling lonely.
    Thank you for this video Hels, love your work 💛

    • @berenicel388
      @berenicel388 2 роки тому +2

      💛 I read this, you seems to be wanting to get better, you're already in the journey that will get you where you want to be, keep going, I hope you are getting better each days, stay strong, send hugs

    • @Radisgrek
      @Radisgrek 2 роки тому

      @@berenicel388 Thank you so much cx

    • @saracas93
      @saracas93 2 роки тому

      This is so frickin relatable. I think it's amazing that you know what you want and your making steps towards that. That is huge and should be celebrated. Good luck and look after yourself 💕

    • @Radisgrek
      @Radisgrek 2 роки тому

      @@saracas93 Thank you xx

  • @naomik25
    @naomik25 3 роки тому +23

    just got back from a holiday abroad by myself and i felt so free and came back feeling refreshed and amazing! Can relate so much to the thing about people asking why you're going alone but honestly its just something necessary sometimes! And whenever I wait for my friends to do things years and years pass by before we manage it!

  • @nimishasainiokay
    @nimishasainiokay 3 роки тому +8

    I just want to thank you Helena for existing and making me realise that life is worth living! 💕

  • @verveine2241
    @verveine2241 3 роки тому +11

    really needed this today, your videos always bring so much comfort to me, thank you for that

  • @ksefthue8181
    @ksefthue8181 3 роки тому +11

    Refreshing to hear someone vocalise the stress that makes with making"basic" decisions 😁 part of the reason I love watching your videos. I do enjoy the what I eat as recommendation for delicious vegan food to eat (non vegan but preserving with reduction). Just great content as always!

    • @ksefthue8181
      @ksefthue8181 3 роки тому +1

      Side note: took myself out ish recently to get a tattoo that I've always wanted while doing frightening things for me, taking my partners car unexpectedly and going somewhere I've never been before, this for me was a self care and enjoyment moment 😊

  • @thepostivevegan4858
    @thepostivevegan4858 3 роки тому +11

    Omg I'm literally taking myself out for a date tomorrow after my job interview 💕 you're such an inspiration to really practice self love ❤

  • @janahammoud6627
    @janahammoud6627 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for this video because I’ve always loved going out by myself but I’ve always felt disconnected. Not ashamed or embarrassed, just disconnected and distracted, like anxious on the inside and not feeling emotional with myself. Im learning to reconnect to my inner child in therapy currently so I could feel connected to myself as a whole , and in this video I tried to see myself in this video, and and I learned how to just be okay with who i believe I am now, in the moment. I don’t need to know who I truly am(because we are not fixed, we keep changing) or feel loving to myself all the time to deserve to have a time alone doing things that are filled with beauty.

  • @lukarummens8969
    @lukarummens8969 3 роки тому +9

    I'm so in loooooveeee with your editing. It's so beautiful and such a vibe

  • @esmeshields2457
    @esmeshields2457 3 роки тому +2

    this feels like hug. i needed this rn

  • @esztersimon2210
    @esztersimon2210 3 роки тому +2

    This is officially my comfort channel, your videos literally always give me a nice and relaxed mood:)

  • @margaretliston8950
    @margaretliston8950 2 роки тому

    I relate to this so much. I went through a divorce about a year ago and I still forget that I can just do whatever I want. I always have a constant sense of uneasiness, like whatever I'm doing is wrong. Great Video!

  • @saracas93
    @saracas93 2 роки тому

    Hi Helena,
    I only recently came across your channel and I've been making my way through all of your older videos since. I'd been wanting to find a new UA-cam channel I could relate to, and I find your content so inspirational. You seem so down to earth and I love that the type of content you speak about isn't typical shallow stuff, it's meaningful and important ❤️
    Hope you are keeping well.
    Sara x

  • @Vaymo
    @Vaymo 3 роки тому +3

    This is my favourite type of content from you! 😊

  • @mells3167
    @mells3167 3 роки тому +2

    I love these kind of videos! I wish I could take myself on a date but social anxiety stops me

  • @beckahansen7291
    @beckahansen7291 3 роки тому

    omg i stayed here for two nights in the summer and it was the most wholesome thing ever! rye thai and mahdi spice were unreal for vegan options if you wanna go back again and if you wanna stay cannot recommend the hope anchor enough they provide breakfast, vegan sausages milk and butter it was insane, also the globe inn for drinks xx

  • @kimthaelf
    @kimthaelf 3 роки тому

    i'm SO PROUD of you doing all this and seeing you grow so much!!! these videos give me a lot of happiness and motivation to do it myself

  • @vina221
    @vina221 3 роки тому +1

    Love this- i find myself missing out on things because i’ll wait for my friends to be free and i need to just doing stuff for myself.

  • @Will-st1pg
    @Will-st1pg 2 роки тому

    Thank you. I will definitely be trying this sometime. In uni I was alone away from my family halfway across the world so the experience of being alone was very painful (and especially tied to my ED because I would take myself on long walks and go to the grocery stores but never buy anything), one of my goals is to be able to be more comfortable being alone and enjoy it (it’s difficult because when you are alone you are stuck with those terrible thoughts, but I’m working on it).

  • @abbieharmsworth
    @abbieharmsworth 3 роки тому +3

    Absolutely love this video Helena 💜 you inspire me endlessly :)

  • @tea-chip-cookies
    @tea-chip-cookies Рік тому

    I would love to organised a therapeutic trip by myself somewhere. But my anxiety would kick in about all the things that may go wrong or mean people I may encounter 🤦‍♀️💔

  • @daniellacohen7924
    @daniellacohen7924 3 роки тому

    This video is so beautiful
    I didn't take care of myself in the last few months, in general I'm the type of person that puts himself last, and this video is a really good reminder that I need to take some time for myself
    Thank you lovely
    Sending you love from Israel 💓

  • @ameliawiseman1158
    @ameliawiseman1158 3 роки тому +2

    I didn’t realise you could get to Rye by public transport I’m so happy to know you can as I’ve always wanted to go, I’m so doing this soon when I have the time :)

  • @gabrielaj4778
    @gabrielaj4778 3 роки тому

    your videos make me feel better immediately !! and I also learn a lot from them, ily

  • @Claraa77
    @Claraa77 2 роки тому

    thank you for existing. everytime i struggle you remind me to keep going and take care of myself

    • @helenarosecope
      @helenarosecope  2 роки тому +1

      proud of you xxxx

    • @Claraa77
      @Claraa77 2 роки тому

      @@helenarosecope love you so much 💖

  • @Torsee
    @Torsee 3 роки тому

    Absolutely loved this visit with you!
    You can see you did remove yourself from the mundane. Beautiful smiles!

  • @RyanCook92
    @RyanCook92 3 роки тому +1

    Every time you say "Rye" it makes me look around to see who's addressing me

  • @jennasspiritualjourney8349
    @jennasspiritualjourney8349 3 роки тому

    I just found your channel and am so excited to follow your journey 🙏 this video was so healing to watch as I often struggle with the fact that I am alone. Thank you for sharing a piece of your adventure!
    PS: how old are you? ♥️♥️♥️

  • @elisazouza
    @elisazouza 2 роки тому

    i did this recently cos of you and filmed it and it was the best experience

  • @Athenawiller
    @Athenawiller 3 роки тому

    This video came in at the best time ❤️ Thank you for this video I needed it thanks for you

  • @didu2689
    @didu2689 3 роки тому

    gosh I love this content from youuuuuuu

  • @annawinstone
    @annawinstone 3 роки тому

    You make me feel so grounded

  • @holliebrien3631
    @holliebrien3631 3 роки тому

    You're such a Ray of sunshine love your videos! Xox

  • @poppyharling8169
    @poppyharling8169 3 роки тому

    outfit is ON POINT

  • @xmiss.bunnyx
    @xmiss.bunnyx 3 роки тому +1

    I really recommend a self date to lewes. It's in Sussex too. They have a beautiful castle and the actual town in stunning 😍 similar to rye x

  • @lydiajoystuart4082
    @lydiajoystuart4082 2 роки тому

    I decided to go on a date by myself too! But I decided a date where there was no "start" time because I get really stressed by being late, showing kindness to myself.

  • @fanny.barrier
    @fanny.barrier 3 роки тому +1

    Travelling around europe on my own rn 💜

  • @mayah25issa44
    @mayah25issa44 3 роки тому +4

    I wish if I can leave the house on my own I literally can’t even go to my house backyard without my mom knowing or with me. I have a really overprotective mom and it’s a bit overwhelming, and if you wonder oh maybe you’re to young... I say nooooooo I’m 22 years old how depressing 😩

  • @susan_e
    @susan_e 3 роки тому

    Did you say Mermaid Street being the most photographed in UK was a 'rare' fact or a 'Rye" fact? 😀 Love your videos! Thank you for taking us with you on your date day! Being at the beach always calms me and your beach was no exception - thank you! My anxiety's been really high today and I needed this video - I always look forward to seeing that you've posted.

  • @Erika-pq7ip
    @Erika-pq7ip 3 роки тому

    You're giving me ideas for more solo dates😍😍

  • @kirstyhan
    @kirstyhan 3 роки тому

    You should come visit the orkney islands in the north of Scotland for your next date, honestly if you want to get outside and appreciate nature orkney is amazing, I have lived here my whole life, surrounded by the sea and beaches it’s beautiful!

  • @Mia-fx4lk
    @Mia-fx4lk 3 роки тому

    i love this thankyou.

  • @mireiafortunybernal5920
    @mireiafortunybernal5920 3 роки тому

    honestly, thank you

  • @scribblezgfx
    @scribblezgfx 3 роки тому

    Helena you look so good in the puffer jacket, Gaz Oakley needs to sponsor you buying giving you the VEGAN Winter Jacket. Also are there any plans to do a week of only cooking food from Vegan recipe books ?

  • @fairycalledfae
    @fairycalledfae 3 роки тому

    needed this love you darling

  • @scribblezgfx
    @scribblezgfx 3 роки тому

    This video will be my holiday

  • @ngreat4390
    @ngreat4390 2 роки тому

    When you're late for a date even with yourself 😜🐱😹😹😹

  • @hakikeSan
    @hakikeSan 3 роки тому

    Your smile is so lovely ! :)

  • @serenegeeks
    @serenegeeks 2 роки тому

    I love your smile😃💓

  • @carriegoodwin4624
    @carriegoodwin4624 3 роки тому

    Looks like u had the best day, wish I had the confidence to do the same!!!
    Can I ask where ur gorgeous turquoise ring from pls, need something that beautiful in my life xxxx

  • @madeliefeikelboom4114
    @madeliefeikelboom4114 2 роки тому

    14:24 I laughed a little too hard to this oh my cow

  • @mialinklater3584
    @mialinklater3584 3 роки тому

    Helena you need to come to Edinburgh you’d love it Plus it’s my home x

  • @elizamalone511
    @elizamalone511 3 роки тому

    Obsessed w the Lego people

  • @saraatppkdotpt8140
    @saraatppkdotpt8140 3 роки тому

    Really cool video! Entertaining content!

  • @jasmineaulsebrook5675
    @jasmineaulsebrook5675 3 роки тому

    Wish castify made them for Oppo phones. Love your videos hell

  • @rebeccajames858
    @rebeccajames858 Рік тому

    Aaaargghhh you left all those incredible chippies 😢

  • @rachelshelton7247
    @rachelshelton7247 3 роки тому

    i miss england 🥺

  • @davidthescottishvegan
    @davidthescottishvegan 3 роки тому

    Love 🥰 this awesome, beautiful, cool,gorgeous & fantastic Helena self love ❤ and dating herself video. Love 💕Helena.

  • @Torsee
    @Torsee 3 роки тому

    Remember people watching is fun!
    Where are the people going at the station? What’s their story?

  • @evieratna1064
    @evieratna1064 3 роки тому

    I am fangirl!!!!!!

  • @neurodivergentdawn
    @neurodivergentdawn 3 роки тому

    In love

  • @ina9028
    @ina9028 3 роки тому

    💜💜💜

  • @izzym184
    @izzym184 3 роки тому

    Early!! ❤️❤️

  • @Torsee
    @Torsee 3 роки тому

    Wouldn’t it be nice to sit on the beach with sign..reasonable human being wanted…magically they’d apply.
    Alone myself.

  • @mvp2883
    @mvp2883 3 роки тому

    The incels need to see this