Why I QUIT my Management Consulting Job after 1 year

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  • @consultingcharlie6044
    @consultingcharlie6044 Рік тому +14

    Thank you for making a video which is both honest but doesn’t put consulting down. Probably the best quitting consulting video I’ve ever seen

  • @alexandratimofeeva5414
    @alexandratimofeeva5414 Рік тому +22

    “Thinking outside of the box rather than aligning the box on a template slide” - that phrase hit me hard

  • @indiabliss
    @indiabliss Рік тому +55

    I don’t blame you. It seemed the hours were shockingly long. Wishing you the best for your future endeavours x

  • @neetu7151
    @neetu7151 Рік тому +24

    It's a good decision you made.. working 12 hours a day is common in Dubai. It's not worth it. I quit too and now I have my own business.. never going back. Life is not all about work

  • @urnotjl
    @urnotjl Рік тому

    Thanks for you sharing Sheen! I tried to look at my job under those perspectives you mentioned.
    Unfortunately ,ticked some boxes, like WLB and negativing feelings of walking up and driving to the office! But I realised I just don't like the strict rule of 5 days work week , as I seriously enjoy the work itself and have that passion to constanly improve my skills in it! Plus, good luck with your new adventure, looking forward to your update!

  • @paurow
    @paurow Рік тому +2

    I'm so happy for you to be so true to yourself, connecting to your feelings and cutting off an environment that made you deeply unhappy! Thanks for sharing your story with us.

  • @fdoctor79
    @fdoctor79 Рік тому

    The one constant in this world is change. I wish you well on your new chapter. And know that your path will find you. God speed and continued success with your endeavors, Sheen!

  • @shyennebahar
    @shyennebahar Рік тому +1

    I am on the same boat sheen!! I'm glad you made that jump. Can't for the next journey!

  • @lindawisebear
    @lindawisebear Рік тому

    Thank you so much for sharing your story and for your honesty :) It's so refreshing!

  • @aneesaidrees2532
    @aneesaidrees2532 Рік тому +3

    I AM on the fence about quitting and I feel like the algorithm deliberately keeps bringing this sort of encouragement my way. I like it 😎😎

  • @crnaks
    @crnaks Рік тому +1

    Great video! Thank you for sharing your experience. Wishing you the best Sheen🌈

  • @sergiodeoliveira7826
    @sergiodeoliveira7826 Рік тому +6

    The conversations you have with yourself when you are in a position like this are quite something, glad you found a happy ending, wishing you an exciting adventure in your next chapter :)

  • @hawramilani
    @hawramilani Рік тому

    Thanks so much for sharing these valuable and REAL insights!

  • @hifzadinar4329
    @hifzadinar4329 Рік тому +4

    I can relate so hard for the happiness meter going super low, dreading work, and just not being able to manage a work life balance. My role is as a Business development manager. I do think for me it's the role and the actual work environment. It's just been affecting my mental health in the worst way possible. I can't help but want to take the same step as you

  • @shabnamgujadhur2131
    @shabnamgujadhur2131 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤ love that you stayed true to yourself. Sp proud of you. All the very best for the next chapter

    • @SheenGurrib
      @SheenGurrib  Рік тому

      Thank you my love ❤️❤️❤️

  • @shellyt556
    @shellyt556 Рік тому +4

    Congrats Sheen! I know you mentioned it a bit before about leaving consulting and you finally made the big step. Looking forward to seeing what you will do next.

    • @SheenGurrib
      @SheenGurrib  Рік тому +2

      Thank you so much Shelly ❤️❤️

  • @Shannyyyyyyy
    @Shannyyyyyyy Рік тому +3

    You are such an inspiration Sheen ❤ just want to say thank you 🙏🏻

    • @SheenGurrib
      @SheenGurrib  Рік тому +1

      Aww thank you, that is very sweet ❤️

  • @dylansgottekkerz577
    @dylansgottekkerz577 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for being so transparent - I have just started a new consultant job and the work life balance is very different to what I am used too.

  • @Paradox-wg9ow
    @Paradox-wg9ow Рік тому

    What a beautiful insight, thank you for sharing ! Wish you well !!

  • @meherjanurmee9566
    @meherjanurmee9566 Рік тому +55

    I got to know you from Ali's channel and let me say this now : You are someone who makes me hugely inspired and motivated to reach my goals. Thank You.

  • @Martina_E
    @Martina_E Рік тому

    Congrats I’m so happy for you and looking forward to your what you are doing next!

  • @icecreamyolama5568
    @icecreamyolama5568 Рік тому

    Great video, all the best for everything that is to come❤️

  • @drm-relationshipcoach9475
    @drm-relationshipcoach9475 Рік тому +4

    I love that you had the courage to try it enough to decide you don't like it. All the best in the new thing.

  • @sharrdashah3807
    @sharrdashah3807 Рік тому +1

    Congratulations on doing what is right for you. Honest, yet professional, knowing your health is important !!!

  • @naflahsa
    @naflahsa Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your story in such an open and honest way. I'm curious to know more about how you figured out and decided what to do next. Did you work with a coach? Looking forward to know more about what's next and all the best :)

  • @robynflynnlarge4672
    @robynflynnlarge4672 Рік тому

    Exciting times ahead. I can’t wait to hear more.

  • @leoniewong2842
    @leoniewong2842 Рік тому

    Thinking outside the box rather than aligning boxes on a powerpoint slide 🤣 omg that's bang on!

  • @nathananderson8720
    @nathananderson8720 11 місяців тому +1

    This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my UA-cam channel 6 months ago about self development. Now I have 350 subs and > 100 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.

  • @milly00
    @milly00 Рік тому

    So inspiring, can't wait for the next video

  • @bonafide11
    @bonafide11 Рік тому +1

    Good luck with your next chapter! I work internally for a Big 4 which is no where as bad as the client facing side and I feel the same about culture. Consulting will always be there if you ever change your mind.

  • @sad_to_savage
    @sad_to_savage Рік тому

    Happy for you sheen. ❤❤

  • @nidazehra39
    @nidazehra39 Рік тому +2

    Way to go woman✌🏻❣

  • @akshay8oct
    @akshay8oct Рік тому

    Thanks for such an honest video. Best wishes!

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Рік тому +5

    I’ve not been regular on the channel but I hope you know we’re rooting for you. All the best! Slayyyyyyyyyyyy Queen ❤

    • @SheenGurrib
      @SheenGurrib  Рік тому +3

      Where have you been haha thank you ❤️

    • @PokhrajRoy.
      @PokhrajRoy. Рік тому +2

      @@SheenGurrib I was busy overthinking and being chaotic lol

  • @larraib
    @larraib Рік тому +1

    I am so happy for you! I have been trying to get into the consultancy in Dubai but the barriers to entry are so high which is so disappointing. But after seeing this video, I feel kinda relieved. I am in the Tech industry and crushing things but such is life. You like what you dont have until you have it. 😂

  • @thesmartaspiranttsa5845
    @thesmartaspiranttsa5845 Рік тому

    Your honesty is commendable!

  • @panglossbabbit
    @panglossbabbit Рік тому +1

    So so true! Strongly relate to this

  • @ChiaraGiovanni
    @ChiaraGiovanni Рік тому +1

    Hi! This is the first video of yours I've encountered. I'm starting at an MBB next year after my PhD, and I'm a little nervous! I'm especially worried about WLB and making the transition from student life to the 60-hour work week hustle. Thanks for your candor!

  • @ASeSkater
    @ASeSkater Рік тому +1

    So similar to being a trainee solicitor! Thanks for sharing and being honest Sheen

  • @ummugulsumbayhatun9427
    @ummugulsumbayhatun9427 Рік тому +1

    hope everything will be better for you ❤

  • @avaq2588
    @avaq2588 Рік тому +4

    I literally related with every single word and you even articulated things in my brain that i struggle to put into words, it was like seeing someone play back my daily struggle-- literally EVERY SINGLE WORD. I make the same food decisions as you, I also struggle with having a full life when co-workers all seem to be doing crazy athletic things or hobbies, I'm miserable and all I do is complain.
    I just wanted to validate you like you are definitely not alone. I've been in consulting for 1.5 years now and I have reached a breaking point to the point where even if I wanted to stay, I'm so burnt out and unhappy that when I put in my best my work isn't even good anymore which has been so hard.
    I sadly am on a visa in a foreign country and really don't want to move back home which is the only reason I'm still in the job, but I think this video also helped me realize I need to prioritize my health, well-being and happiness and make a decision. Thank you I'm so glad I found you.
    P.S. your apartment background is GORGEOUS.

  • @shraddha0101
    @shraddha0101 Рік тому

    Hey Sheen, quite off topic but I just want to tell you your makeup is SO ON POINT,I am your skintone exactly and felt like nothing really suits my skintone ,but now that I look at you and I love my skin.

    • @SheenGurrib
      @SheenGurrib  Рік тому

      Haha thank you!!! You SHOULD love your skin xx

  • @jamsher.jehangir
    @jamsher.jehangir Рік тому

    I totally understand your situation. I think you did the right thing ❤️

  • @MohiuddinAbdulKader
    @MohiuddinAbdulKader Рік тому

    Wishing you the best for your future ❤️

  • @I_Talk_Healthy_Relationship

    I'm glad l came across your channel ❤️❤️

  • @user-up9jf1jq2w
    @user-up9jf1jq2w Рік тому +2

    I feel the same way. No excitement. No control of my time. No balance.

  • @zarinatalks
    @zarinatalks Рік тому +1

    Thanks for the video Sheen! Congrats on ending one chapter and starting another! Not trying to pry but did the new opportunity help you make a final decision to quit or did you quit first and then the new opportunity came up? 🙂

    • @SheenGurrib
      @SheenGurrib  Рік тому +2

      Thank you! I was looking to quit but was waiting for an opportunity first, so I only quit after I got the offer

  • @meaningoflifewithkavi
    @meaningoflifewithkavi Рік тому +1

    Think outside the box than aligning the boxes on template slides- wow

  • @krittikaghosh6812
    @krittikaghosh6812 Рік тому

    This is the video that I have been watching and I relate to all that you have said because I have the same background as you and I didn't get into consulting because of the long hours! Moving on to watch rest of your videos :) Also huge congratulations on your next project!

  • @graciakinyanjui6937
    @graciakinyanjui6937 Рік тому +5

    If the job doesn't serve you right quit!! work life balance is key
    you are brilliant gal you deserve better... ALL THE BEST

  • @nataliabaronamartinez1380
    @nataliabaronamartinez1380 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your experience! I’m actually struggling with work-life balance myself. I wanted to ask how different was your experience doing your PhD and working in consulting. I have considered doing a PhD but many people say it can be consuming, so I was wondering if it can be as challenging as consulting (work-life balance wise).

    • @SheenGurrib
      @SheenGurrib  Рік тому

      Oh no nothing like consulting! PhD is very self driven so people sometimes find it difficult to draw the line as to where it ends and life starts daily but in my experience my PhD was very well balanced lifestyle, except the few times with deadlines for the thesis which is normal

  • @drivethrutours1916
    @drivethrutours1916 Рік тому +1

    Have you ever directly fired someone else before? If so, how did you do it?

  • @abdurahmanyusuf5170
    @abdurahmanyusuf5170 Рік тому +1

    I am in Dubai now I watched one day your video in consulting in dubia at that time I decide to find a job in Dubai Alxamdullah finally I got it thank for your inspire ❤

    • @Jeremiah_29
      @Jeremiah_29 9 місяців тому

      Congratulations! Did you get a consulting job?

  • @andyyang4872
    @andyyang4872 Рік тому

    I feel you, being in Ens only supporting you guys, your work never sleeps 😂😂😂

  • @ingridaampiah
    @ingridaampiah Рік тому +6

    This is me right now. I’ve been in consulting since February. I joined straight out of uni. So glad that I got my dream job BUT the saddest part is that I’ve been on the bench since I joined! I’m doing tons of internal work (slide decks and meeting facilitations).
    Now I’m thinking of quitting but I’m concerned about finding the next job, as it’s not easy.

    • @SheenGurrib
      @SheenGurrib  Рік тому +1

      Im sorry to hear this but trust your gut feeling and dont be scared, just put yourself out there and apply! If it makes you feel better wait until you have another offer before quitting! Best of luck ❤️

    • @ingridaampiah
      @ingridaampiah Рік тому

      @@SheenGurrib That’s exactly my strategy. I’m on the hunt for the next job out there. Meanwhile, I’m trying to make the most out of my time here in the company. Thanks for the words of encouragement Sheen! 😊

    • @krittikaghosh6812
      @krittikaghosh6812 Рік тому +1

      Hey Ingrid, if you don't mind can you share the domain of consulting? Tech or Management of Analytics or Risk Consulting?

    • @ingridaampiah
      @ingridaampiah Рік тому

      @@krittikaghosh6812 Hi! It’s Management Consulting 😊

  • @nutauf7587
    @nutauf7587 Рік тому

    Do the hours get any shorter as you get more senior in consulting ?

  • @betterourselves
    @betterourselves Рік тому

    Happy journey

  • @HemanthBa
    @HemanthBa Рік тому

    I just finished an interview with one of the major consulting firm and they were ready and congratulated me on clearing rounds with Partners as well. Oh boy that was a stressful time! But I’m glad that they are not able to match my current package and it seems like they moved on. I don’t think it’s for me either. I do like spending intellectual time but I do relate with you on other parts like creativity and work life balance.. I mean keep control of your time with you right ?
    Happy weekend and appreciate your decision for yourself ❤

    • @SheenGurrib
      @SheenGurrib  Рік тому +1

      You escaped haha! Definitely time control is the one! Best of luck with your endeavours :)

  • @pandas9768
    @pandas9768 Рік тому +2

    U are very brave & wise.I wish U enjoy the new chapter, best wishes! A bit curious to know, will U still stay in Dubai then?

    • @SheenGurrib
      @SheenGurrib  Рік тому +5

      Thank you so much! Yesss I will still be in Dubai ❤️

  • @Ali-ew9gv
    @Ali-ew9gv Рік тому +9

    Sounds like the right decision, glad you prioritised your health!
    Edit: Foreshadowed by your woke Wednesday chat with Ali!

  • @AkachukwuMadueke
    @AkachukwuMadueke Рік тому

    ♥️

  • @gayatrimunukutla78
    @gayatrimunukutla78 Рік тому

    Heyyyyy. Am a cse grad from a tier 2 clg from India. But am not really interested in software or coding stuff and I've been gng through these videos and suggestions abt management consulting and it interested me. Im ready to put long hrs and even learn more in smth am interested rather than the coding stuff which might be not as stressful as consulting but i still wanna do it so am thinking of dng a masters in management degree.... do u think if put good efforts and if i study in a good b school I'll be able to crack a nice paying job??? Coz the masters degree is gng to be a huge deal to me. I wanna be sure before even running it with my parents. What'd u think

  • @user-li1cu2su6c
    @user-li1cu2su6c 5 місяців тому

    Strategic( in video ) or management ( in title) ??

  • @peterpiper5300
    @peterpiper5300 Рік тому

    i super envy those who do consulting and triathlon at the same time.

  • @nyaradhiambo
    @nyaradhiambo Рік тому

    (not in a weird way 😅) but your lips are beautiful and that colour is absolutely perfect
    Also, I'm sure quite a number of viewers are interested in how to get work in Dubai and get into Management Consulting... Would appreciate tips
    Also, as someone thinking about resigning, you're really making good points

  • @waterfirelord
    @waterfirelord Рік тому

    WHATTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT Sheen what fffffffff in the name of god

  • @shrosha
    @shrosha Рік тому +1

    Move to Finland, Sheen

  • @echoes4679
    @echoes4679 Рік тому +1

    There are consulting firms you can choose your time, and not overload you. Find smaller ones, like NGOs maybe.

  • @shafaqindian
    @shafaqindian Рік тому +1

    🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @marketingmedisell814
    @marketingmedisell814 Рік тому

    Quick question : I would argue that if you did a PhD at Cambridge University, working solid 12 hours and more every day, then working as a consultant should have been easier for you no?

  • @JERRRY1
    @JERRRY1 Рік тому

    Can u compare work life balance of the same with investment banking?

    • @bolu101
      @bolu101 Рік тому

      Definitely not

  • @Dam6404
    @Dam6404 Рік тому

    Plz make videos on life style and plz do motivate people

  • @Emilyghe
    @Emilyghe Рік тому +1

    Exactly. I am stuck on a job that impacted my health becuz of a horrible boss

  • @ojabs3621
    @ojabs3621 Рік тому

    You are amazing

    • @SheenGurrib
      @SheenGurrib  Рік тому

      Very kind, thank you 🙏🏽 ❤️

    • @ojabs3621
      @ojabs3621 Рік тому

      @@SheenGurrib you are welcome !

  • @anniz9148
    @anniz9148 Рік тому

    You and your friend Ali are the biggest encouragements for young people these days to not strive for employments, but rather for unrealistic expectations. There is so much influx on “famous” UA-camrs with no real life jobs. Buhuuu you were sad for starting your job from Monday to Friday … how many people feel like this 🙄🙄🙄

  • @citykeys3495
    @citykeys3495 Рік тому

    Sheen I thought u were quiting to run for PM 📫 . But we wish you well in your next endeavour

  • @vincentnnyc
    @vincentnnyc 4 місяці тому

    there is a reason why most college graduates that got a job as an investment banker or management consultant after 1 or 2 years of working there.

  • @Taichientaoyin
    @Taichientaoyin Рік тому

    May be it was for the best when I didnt get my chance to become a business consultant.

  • @dans119m2
    @dans119m2 Рік тому

    We want to know the next chapter : moving back to Mauricius, UK. Another country ? When will be the next videos.

    • @SheenGurrib
      @SheenGurrib  Рік тому +1

      Still Dubai, more coming soon I promise!

  • @zhncmp3308
    @zhncmp3308 Рік тому

    I'm glad you quit your job, congratulations!

  • @leticiafanx1684
    @leticiafanx1684 Рік тому +1

    nice video! you are very lovely and pretty :)

  • @catandcute23
    @catandcute23 Рік тому

    Lack of creativity... Can't agree more😂 always the same storyline... I am leaving as well after almost 1 year and will move from the Netherlands to Dubai for something else 😊 fingers crossed🤞

  • @Emilyghe
    @Emilyghe Рік тому

    The next video didn’t tell your new job… so tell ! 😆