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The Empowerment and Understanding of Women of Gen X

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  • Опубліковано 26 бер 2024
  • Sometimes when you “check GenX” you get checked instead! I still stand by this mesaage! #femaleempowerment #stereotypes #haircolor #genx #genxwomen #womantowoman #myownboss

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  • @andersen6422
    @andersen6422 4 місяці тому +66

    Sit down, baby girl, you've just been schooled.

  • @assist2u
    @assist2u 4 місяці тому +69

    I'm 62 years old and on behalf of the generation that dances on the line between Baby Boomer and Gen X thank you for being the voice of our generation. All these little entitled whiny brats have absolutely no idea what we went through to get this far. They should be thanking our generations for making it possible for them to be where they are now.

    • @nadinedaugherty2869
      @nadinedaugherty2869 4 місяці тому +4

      I'm with you on the edge.
      I call myself a BoomerX.... born in a Boomer year but with the X experiences growing up! I have nothing in common with true Boomers. My dad was not in WWII. He was 12 when it ended. My experiences are nothing like my older cousins.

    • @heiditate6989
      @heiditate6989 4 місяці тому +1

      I agree. I was born at the end of 1962 so a late boomer

    • @susannpatton2893
      @susannpatton2893 3 місяці тому

      I think some forget there wasnt a straight line for that. Not everyone was 21 and in the military, some were at home and too young for service and still grew up to have kids. ​@nadinedaugherty2869

    • @heiditate6989
      @heiditate6989 3 місяці тому

      I'm 61 and I agree!

    • @Segra13
      @Segra13 2 місяці тому

      I was born in 85. Since I was a kid the worker production has gone up and the wages haven't kept up. My mom is 75 and If my dad were alive he'd be in his 80s. I was raised more like Gen X than a millienal. I was taught to work hard, and started working (officially) at 14. But the road map has been blurry and it doesn't seem like there's much hope of anything getting better financially. Just working hard doesn't cut it like it did for my parents.. my parents have college degrees they were able to work while in school and pay as they went. I was told to go to college, but now I have 60k debt for a degree that hasn't helped me land a decent paying job. I'm not whining. But if the older folks have any helpful guidance to offer, it would be greatly appreciated. The landscape has changed and the terrain looks impassable.. loosing hope that there's a way up or out.. except death.

  • @valorie3157
    @valorie3157 4 місяці тому +53

    Amen Sister!! Gex X for the win!
    We worked damn hard for what we have, we made inroads for the women who came after us and then they whine that we didn't pave the way with rose petals🤷

  • @nadinedaugherty2869
    @nadinedaugherty2869 4 місяці тому +36

    Well, little GenY or Z or whatever.....
    You want to know how to get around the corporate nonsense. I'm a BoomerX ... technically a Boomer but so close to the edge that my experiences are of the X.
    I was working at a corporation in the early 80s. We used color sprays for our hair. Fun and fast to change! A different color every night or day. And I wore it in my hair to work. And I wore the clothes I wanted to wear. Because as a BoomerX, I did and do what I want!
    And here's what happened at that corporation... I got several promotions, and several raises, in the few years I was there. I asked why me. Why not the ones who "fit in?"
    I was told, "Because you're a Maverick! Mavericks think outside the box. Mavericks have the best ideas for change and innovation. Mavericks make the best employees because they are the ones with the creative ideas! And that's why you're so valuable to this company!"
    But risk isn't what your generation is about. You were coddled and kept safe. You'll never think outside the box because the box is all you know.

  • @deysareus
    @deysareus 4 місяці тому +31

    As a latchkey kid that enjoyed making playground equipment out of building supplies left out on construction lots. I can’t say I’ve ever thought the color of my hair too important let alone someone else’s, but if that the hill she wants to “dye” on … have at it. No one had to figure out how to do my jobs for me or told me what to wear or how to look, I just did what I signed up for and got paid… I think that’s called adulting.😂

  • @BM-hb2mr
    @BM-hb2mr 4 місяці тому +54

    These kids ain't never gonna make it

    • @lorireed8046
      @lorireed8046 4 місяці тому +6

      They want the retirement/own your own business Life. They don't want to work to get there! THAT'S their real complaint! Too dang lazy and entitled.

    • @rexgrl3
      @rexgrl3 4 місяці тому

      Man, you nailed the little gutter snips!@@lorireed8046

    • @heiditate6989
      @heiditate6989 3 місяці тому +1

      @@lorireed8046 yep!

  • @ericgaskins571
    @ericgaskins571 4 місяці тому +13

    Hell yeah darlin. That's a gen x smack if I've ever seen one😅

  • @GenXfrom75
    @GenXfrom75 4 місяці тому +41

    She didn’t “check” anyone… just looked like a fool.

  • @kimberlykovach6236
    @kimberlykovach6236 4 місяці тому +10

    Damn right! GenXers rule!

  • @malissahays1352
    @malissahays1352 4 місяці тому +17

    YES, WOMAN! PREACH! You are so badass! I love it!!

  • @tarajohnson0927
    @tarajohnson0927 3 місяці тому +6

    YES QUEEN!!! 🙌🏻. I’m still in corporate America and IT is evolving-tattoos and hair colors are not much of a big deal anymore. And as gen-x, we dgaf anyway. But unless you wanna square up with a gen-xer, don’t ever say “privileged” or “retired” to us. And as a woman, you are supposed to empower fellow women. You missed our memo. 😉

  • @Wild-Moonchild
    @Wild-Moonchild 4 місяці тому +20

    You tell em Sherri!!!! You all better listen. Because when you fail, Gen X we are not going to pull your collective heads out of your arses. :)

  • @LovingSocialDistance
    @LovingSocialDistance 4 місяці тому +5

    I was the boss for 23 years. I don’t want the BS responsibility anymore. My supervisor also knows to leave me alone…

  • @themaven2017
    @themaven2017 4 місяці тому +7

    You go, girl!

  • @seek-healingheather4821
    @seek-healingheather4821 4 місяці тому +6

    Now, that was a Hella mic drop! BOOM!❤

  • @starlablackwell1518
    @starlablackwell1518 4 місяці тому +6

    Keep telling like it is🎉🎉

  • @Tiewaz
    @Tiewaz 4 місяці тому +10

    My first thought was, "If you don't like something, leave." Then I was like, I get feeling like you can't when you need the paycheck. Especially these days. However, I'd seen a video of a clever way around it...this person had long, straight hair. When it was styled to drape one direction, the hair was black. When they ran their fingers through it to flip the drape to the other side, it was an amazing dye job of rainbow. That was my kind of rebellion. I also know that getting hair professionally done is hella expensive, too, both in time and paying the stylist for product and time. (I have curly hair, so this sort of rebellion is, alas, impossible for my locks.) My suggestion would be dye your hair...and get a natural hair wig while on the clock.
    My first non-natural hairdye styling required bleaching, and then rounds and rounds of hairwashing and blowdrying. Took over 9 hours to complete and I only had to pay for the product because it was at a hairstyling school my daughter was attending. Still cost me over $100 JUST for all the product used on my head. Easily would have been over a grand.

  • @ronbrewer2721
    @ronbrewer2721 2 місяці тому +3

    How to get around corporate rules, OWN YOUR OWN COMPANY&MAKE THE RULES!

  • @Runswithwolves6323
    @Runswithwolves6323 4 місяці тому +8

    I already loved you...I love you more now!! You are a boss and she got owned!!❤❤❤❤😂😉😊

  • @martywolf2011
    @martywolf2011 4 місяці тому +6

    Sing it Sister! And this is why I’m a fan 🎉

  • @walkawayrenee4290
    @walkawayrenee4290 4 місяці тому +9

    Don't mess with Gen X.

  • @firebirdtelevision175
    @firebirdtelevision175 4 місяці тому +7

    These kids don't understand. We were challenging the status quo before they were a twinkle in their daddy's eye.

  • @doloressims5677
    @doloressims5677 4 місяці тому +4

    I dyed my hair purple. Totally freaked my boss out - had to undo it. 🤣

  • @sweettee8110
    @sweettee8110 4 місяці тому +4

    Cleared!! She can have all the seats, with a seatbelt and be real still. Next!

  • @verdad1234
    @verdad1234 4 місяці тому +8

    Girlie told on herself. Tell me you’re a modern-day corporate serf without…
    Whatev. She’ll figure it out, or not.

  • @dibbsjones
    @dibbsjones 4 місяці тому +4

    I loved this so much I had to watch it several times.

  • @jungleboots
    @jungleboots 4 місяці тому +12

    Oh. I thought it was because we were the punk generation and there is a hella of a lot more cool hair dye options today. 🤷🏼

  • @rochellethundercloud346
    @rochellethundercloud346 2 місяці тому +2

    Sherri, you said everything we have been thinking

  • @elainesteinmetz9710
    @elainesteinmetz9710 4 місяці тому +2

    HERE HERE !!..or should i say HAIR HAIR..work your way..do your days..then you can OWN your play..

  • @user-VIntuitive
    @user-VIntuitive 4 місяці тому +6

    That girl needs to shut up now before all Gen x destroys that video. She won’t get away with it.

  • @TeacupHeart
    @TeacupHeart 4 місяці тому +4

    Me remembering when we dyed our hair with kool-aid because Mom and Dad said we couldn't, and the following backlash'...That lady needs to realize, the worst corporate can do is fire you, our parents could have murdered us, and nearly did. So either grow a pair, get some cute colored hair clip-ins for the weekend, or sit down.

  • @tonette9532
    @tonette9532 4 місяці тому +3

    I love my silver and have no intent to color it, HOWEVER, one of my best friends that I have known since high school has some of the coolest multicolored hair that you ever did see. When you get to a certain point in life, you care a whole lot less about what people think that you should and should not do.

  • @meggrotte4760
    @meggrotte4760 4 місяці тому +6

    I didn't have privilege. I went through the most dramatic things in life that no one can comprehend
    Literally by the grace of jesus I did not become a statistic.
    I'm probably ten years younger than you.
    It was born in 79. This flash , if my hair goes gray , i'm dying at purple Or any other color I want
    I don't have my own business. I was doing social work overseas as a self.Supported christian missionary
    But it doesn't mean I can't have one later.
    I don't like it when people tell me what I can't or can't do
    The only one who has authority over me is jesus himself.
    I may not remember my childhood in teenage years.But I remember that spiritive not putting up with people's crap

  • @morganzweifel2488
    @morganzweifel2488 Місяць тому

    LOVE IT!!!
    What kills me is when they start rambling on about feminism, empowerment, 🤮! As you so perfectly stated in your video, we don’t need to talk about it, we just do it.

  • @jenniferhill5001
    @jenniferhill5001 2 місяці тому

    🧡 Respect sister 🤘🏼 I know there have always been women who hate on other women, but this level of disrespectful willful ignorance is ridiculous.
    In the late 90s I worked at a law firm. I was ordered to remove the eyebrow ring I had just gotten. I pushed back because I had ran it past my supervisor prior to getting it and offered to not wear it to work after it healed. They wouldn't budge so I made them fire me. I filed for unemployment and found another job. That's how you navigate the corporate situation. Bend when you can and don't compromise when you can't. You are way more valuable to them than they are loyal to you. They want you to believe there's a million people ready to take your job. It's closer to the truth to say there's a million jobs looking for good people. And some of them don't care what color your hair is.

  • @freespirit2005caa
    @freespirit2005caa 4 місяці тому +2

    Perfect response! ❤

  • @lortiz-baca7720
    @lortiz-baca7720 4 місяці тому +5

    If it’s not actually the end of the world, simply; don’t sweat it. Because when shit hits the fan, you will not survive.

  • @bonnierodger7719
    @bonnierodger7719 Місяць тому

    I’m 57. You Ms. Sherri are beautiful, smart, and FUNNY! The youngin’s now, lack basic life skills. No wonder they lash out at you. Please keep making videos.

  • @yinyangphoenix
    @yinyangphoenix 2 дні тому

    Yes, sister!!! I am so with you!!! (Gen X here)

  • @raeannaruby8306
    @raeannaruby8306 4 місяці тому +5

    I'm gunna just do what I want. I'm too old to care

  • @1Immortalmortal
    @1Immortalmortal 4 місяці тому +3

    Amen

  • @lainimitchell6312
    @lainimitchell6312 4 місяці тому +3

    I love you. That was great.

  • @dellamills8219
    @dellamills8219 4 місяці тому +2

    Truth!

  • @SecretSquirrrrel
    @SecretSquirrrrel 4 місяці тому +3

    Boom!

  • @belindahearn2662
    @belindahearn2662 4 місяці тому +4

    yes!!!!!

  • @leesmith4774
    @leesmith4774 4 місяці тому +3

    Hoorah.

  • @DexterRose
    @DexterRose 4 місяці тому +3

    well said

  • @theresaduvall6857
    @theresaduvall6857 4 місяці тому +2

    How dare a Gen z talk to a Gen X like that. You tell her Sherri.

  • @tanjatorchia2284
    @tanjatorchia2284 4 місяці тому +2

    Bravo 👏 Encore 🎉

  • @redlady222
    @redlady222 Місяць тому

    Preach. They don’t understand loyalty. We are independent AF, but we will rally behind our own. Little girl needs to learn some respect.

  • @WildlyEclectic
    @WildlyEclectic Місяць тому +1

    I STILL work in the corporate world (well, soft of, I'm a government contractor) - my hair has been purple, red (like fire engine red), pink, mermaid, blue . . . You can't tell me that it's THAT big a problem. If you CHOOSE to work for Boomer companies that have that requirement, that's on you.

  • @user-qp3ko6sv3l
    @user-qp3ko6sv3l Місяць тому

    GEN X WOMEN, BEAUTIFUL, STRONG AND UNSTOPPABLE!

  • @frauhase8895
    @frauhase8895 2 місяці тому

    Greetings from a german woman born in '76. I dye my short Mohawk in every colour I want to. And my boss knows better than to complain. It is not easy nowadays to get educated employees that work hard and don't play all day with their smartphones. Or have to leave early because of yoga lessons or whatever.

  • @user-xf8rf4uc1u
    @user-xf8rf4uc1u 3 місяці тому

    1:52 thank you didn’t see that one coming 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❌🙏🏼

  • @ivanwill
    @ivanwill 2 місяці тому

    Seriously, NICELY SAID!

  • @user-rp3mi8yc8e
    @user-rp3mi8yc8e 13 днів тому

    Your so right&awesome

  • @user-sc6zh3uk9b
    @user-sc6zh3uk9b 4 місяці тому +1

    That is 100% correct I am a boomer I agree with you. Stand up and tell people how you feel be your own person and if they don't like it then they can just leave shut up and kiss ass.

  • @Kellykittymom
    @Kellykittymom 2 місяці тому

    Yeah sis, tell her!!!

  • @holliberry2614
    @holliberry2614 3 місяці тому +1

    So nice to know that when the world fails.....Gen X will get to decide who we want to save with us....and who we will watch burn. Better be nice to us..... we know how to survive.

  • @nicolataylor6011
    @nicolataylor6011 4 місяці тому +1

    She did well naming all those colours.. (gen x) sarcasm

  • @msshellm8154
    @msshellm8154 2 місяці тому +1

    Just 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
    Step up or shut up. ✅

  • @janalovespaper
    @janalovespaper Місяць тому

    YAAASSSS!!!!! Thank you!

  • @nicolebyers5651
    @nicolebyers5651 4 місяці тому +2

  • @AandB1998
    @AandB1998 2 місяці тому

    That’s the Sherri we all know and love! That Gen who the $&@# cares who said that was just a speed bump.

  • @cventura9048
    @cventura9048 3 місяці тому

    👍👍👍👍👍😁 Love it!

  • @jameslucas5590
    @jameslucas5590 4 місяці тому +1

    ROFL. LOL. GenX to GenX... Just tell them to STFU and observe. Then they might learn something.

  • @adriennevincenti5969
    @adriennevincenti5969 2 місяці тому

    You go girl❤

  • @johnshupe6384
    @johnshupe6384 Місяць тому

    To be able to have your hair color any color you want in the business world comes with time and putting in your dues. Becoming so valuable and powerful that no one would think about questioning why your hair is bright blue or whatever. It will be seen as a power move that you can't make when your in your 20's, no real work experience and on the bottom rung of the corporate ladder. You got to get to the top before you can be individual. This also applies to owning your own business. Most of the time you have to conform, at least for a while, to corporate norms for appearance until again you become valuable and powerful enough to have an individual style: think Elon Mush, Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, and the list goes on. Some of them may wear suite but they are suites with a personal style that makes a statement. Even Donald Trumps hair was more conservative back in the day as was his style. So shut up, pay your dues, become valuable in some way and you too can run around with purple, pink, green hair someday.

  • @sherrischwartz6844
    @sherrischwartz6844 3 місяці тому

    Bless her heart, right😅

  • @sherrischwartz6844
    @sherrischwartz6844 3 місяці тому

    HELL YEAH 🎉 💕

  • @ninis810
    @ninis810 4 місяці тому +2

    God I love you! 😊

  • @jamietodd8983
    @jamietodd8983 2 місяці тому

    I love it's " I am A Boss Bitch"!! I love the fact you speak what's on your mind and you use my favorite words Fuck!!! 😂 Did you know that Samuel L Jackson's favorite word to😊😊

  • @AN-vx2ls
    @AN-vx2ls 2 місяці тому

    That’s easy you earn it. Either you own your own business or become so valuable they can’t fire you (however, this applies to men BTW).

  • @sandybanks2579
    @sandybanks2579 2 місяці тому

    You act, you will be treated.

  • @alanthibodeaux2888
    @alanthibodeaux2888 28 днів тому

    Slim Sherri for President.

  • @Masque1262
    @Masque1262 Місяць тому

    Are you hiring?? I don't know what you do besides kick ass and take names, but you're a leader I can look to (not just a boss).

  • @m_d1905
    @m_d1905 4 місяці тому +3

    Little girl, temporary wash out dye exists, wigs exist. Stop whining and make a damn decision and do it. Or maybe start your own business. The later isn't that easy I agree, but it's a choice.

  • @carriejones2231
    @carriejones2231 2 місяці тому

    Fuck around and find out. Change the hair color. See if anybody notices. I walked into a library interview with tattoos, piercings and purple hair. Got the job. Competency shines above crap like that. Now, I'm an office manager with the same ever changing look. No one bats an eye.

  • @brindomicah1392
    @brindomicah1392 8 днів тому

    Why is there so much hate for GenX now? We left everyone alone, we just want to be left alone. We took the good things we learned from our parents and we made adjustments to the negative ones. Could we come on social media complaining, yes but what does that change? Just because one door closes doesn't mean you give up, you just bust through another one.

  • @zuzauramek9850
    @zuzauramek9850 2 місяці тому

    It's funny that these Angry Young Women/Men think they can school and attack Old Pissed Off Ones. Young gurl sits down, take care of your life, and stay awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwway from our lives. (yes I am from 1977 and I am Old Pissed Off One)

  • @angelathompson1786
    @angelathompson1786 3 місяці тому

    Any questions?? 🎉😂🎉

  • @amberbriem8412
    @amberbriem8412 4 місяці тому +2

    Noice! Love you baby!

  • @VintageCardinal
    @VintageCardinal 3 місяці тому

    When you get through the corporate world and start your own business, then yes, you can dye your hair whatever you want. Hair color doesn't define you. If it does you have identity problems.

  • @Denny-ix9sx
    @Denny-ix9sx 4 місяці тому +3

    One of our silly children came to us and said that life would just be perfect if the corporate overlords would allow them to wear pink hair coloring at work. No need to be nasty in your response. Just remind your daughter, -*(In that moment, she is your child who is seeking guidance.)* -that it doesn't matter what they restrict. Because they can't inhibit your natural beauty. And that is all that any of us will ever need. That's a more proper Gen-X response.

    • @valorie3157
      @valorie3157 4 місяці тому +4

      The Better Gen X response, use temporary hair color and wear it to work. Corporate America isn't as restrictive as you think... Since when did Gen X give a fugg about convention. No risk, No reward

  • @tressas2030
    @tressas2030 2 місяці тому

    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏😎

  • @nicolenox7882
    @nicolenox7882 3 місяці тому

    I am 47 and have dealt with discrimination and sexism my entire life. I am a high level corporate person and I do what I want becuase I have proven my worth a thousand times over and wil have to every god dammed day for the rest of my life. I have paid my dues. I have my blue and purple hair becuase I am just that fucking good. I can say fuck the rules and everyone who has a problem with it. I have made it easier for the kiddies to level up. So suck it up, level up or fuck off.

  • @Exiled.New.Yorker
    @Exiled.New.Yorker Місяць тому

    Dying our hair is the consolation prize for unemployment disability and poverty.

  • @IamMCCUSA
    @IamMCCUSA 3 місяці тому

    😂 💯✅’d!

  • @rachelle6339
    @rachelle6339 2 місяці тому

    Well she’s jealous that she can’t live like you.!

  • @veronicahildinger2018
    @veronicahildinger2018 23 дні тому

    Oh look - a whiney millennial. They’re so rare. Get your camera out. I guess she shut you down -NOT. You’re my hero.🎉❤

  • @stellastarbrightk7563
    @stellastarbrightk7563 4 місяці тому +1

    No we look good they look bizarre and dipped in kool aid

  • @taz598
    @taz598 Місяць тому

    LMAO its sad that they need us to explain something that is common sense......the boss makes the rules ...so if you want mermaid hair....become the BOSS then you can make all the rules you want.

  • @donotneed2250
    @donotneed2250 3 місяці тому

    🤣🤣🤣🤔🫡🫂🫂👍🏼👍🏽

  • @Super8888Baby
    @Super8888Baby Місяць тому

    What’s the business. Can we buy things from you?

  • @dodgersfnshepard8673
    @dodgersfnshepard8673 4 місяці тому

    Aren't you a bit old to be on tiktok arguing with children..?

    • @lorireed8046
      @lorireed8046 4 місяці тому +8

      It's a perfect way to teach the kids they ain't shit. They can watch and , listen and we don't deal with screaming tantrums.

    • @CubittChaos
      @CubittChaos 4 місяці тому +5

      I didn’t see an age limit posted on TikTok? What is the limit??

    • @lorireed8046
      @lorireed8046 4 місяці тому

      @@CubittChaos 13

  • @lindahiggins7244
    @lindahiggins7244 Місяць тому

    Amen 1970 Xer