I've returned to CANADA and this is what I've noticed

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  • @peter_g546
    @peter_g546 Місяць тому +2

    I'm a Pole living in the USA. Poles are not nice but friendly, Americans are nice but not friendly. I like friendly people - being nice is cheap and easy.

    • @frankgradus9474
      @frankgradus9474 28 днів тому

      it's true that many Poles are helpful and friendly, but there are also those who you can't convince that they are wrong because they are stubborn as donkeys, petty and envious, they consider their ignorance, lack of knowledge and stupidity as a virtue and they are masters of irrelevance throwing red herrings into discussion
      see some comments here

  • @lukaszpacia-autor4023
    @lukaszpacia-autor4023 Місяць тому +3

    The second point you made is something I actually call the "appreciation culture". Simply making sure that every employee feels comfortable, and that his effort does not come unnoticed. I worked both for foreign, as well as Polish companies, and in my opinion this is something that we still need to work on in Poland. It has something to do with the right communication I guess, but it's probably much more than that.

  • @Piotr-n8s
    @Piotr-n8s Місяць тому +5

    They greeted you with kindness, that is great. But was it genuine or part of required proper conduct? Necessary condition to get and keep work, as rulled by union? Yep, you will not experience this in Poland. Being genuine and straight is valued in Poland. Superficial, verbal nicety is characteristic for the British and related cultures.

  • @PrzemysawNizioek
    @PrzemysawNizioek Місяць тому +11

    You are my favered Jew, together wirth M. Schudrich. You'r correct.. The Poles will not go out of their way to make You feel good or "inclusiv". They are regarding You as equal, no one will disrespect You by patronising behavior. Being honest and direct is expected and a value. Pretending and being overly nice is insulting. On a businest trip in Germany, in a "situation" I said that I will step in. They were supprised that I did, and I was supprised that they were suprised. YOU MEAN what You say. Cultural diferance.

    • @mkuc6951
      @mkuc6951 Місяць тому

      Przemek come on, Polak polakowi też daje w dupe

  • @Piotr-n8s
    @Piotr-n8s Місяць тому +11

    Respect for people and proper conduct are great but I am uneasy about the methods. Do people really have to be bound by detailed regulations, closely watched, continuously reeducated, belong to proper organization, etc.? Are people really inherently evil and need to be forcefully restrained or bad things are going to happen? Scary.

    • @pawelzielinski1398
      @pawelzielinski1398 Місяць тому

      That's how the unions operate. Some like it some hate it.

    • @frankgradus9474
      @frankgradus9474 Місяць тому +1

      the policy of compulsory niceness is a double edged-sword when good manners have become a thing of the past;
      today Shakespeare becomes offensive and problematic to many and friendly/good-natured/light-hearted banter has been banned;
      sad to say, but Michael's great sarcastic sense of humor is already falling victim to this policy - the strike by UA-cam;
      Brave New World by Aldous Huxley.

  • @perfectstranger7486
    @perfectstranger7486 Місяць тому +9

    Everyone is so nice and polite and crime rates just keep going up.

    • @mandelish
      @mandelish Місяць тому

      Canadians have very good functioning marketing abroad. Whoever never went there will never know what is true what a lie. The way canada presents itself is this developed country economically and socially in reality this is a third world excluding the skyscrappers. There is hate towards people not born in Canada, there is poverty Bangladesh style, there is crime NY style, and there is ignorance uncomparable with any place on this planet. There are priviledge groups who can do anything and there are those slaves who on the outside have the same rights but in reality they are denied everything but under the table sort of nobody knows way...Nobody knows under the table way is the way in this country so the bs group welcoming never impressed me for I knew there will be back stubbing right after with a smile of course and a polite 'thank you,'

  • @solaris2015
    @solaris2015 2 місяці тому +12

    Great country Canada, but hope to see you soon in Poland!

    • @marek7641
      @marek7641 Місяць тому +1

      @@solaris2015 great for walking in the forests cuz not for living

    • @mandelish
      @mandelish Місяць тому +1

      @@marek7641 Living in Toronto for instance you have little chance to walk in the forest in fact you must be really lucky to have a tree in your front yard. I had two trees when I was living there, one in front, one in the back yard and a patch of grass. There is a lot of asphalt and you have to drive for a while to see a forest - I say see because it probably belongs to somebody so you cannot walk in the forest anyway. In fact to see anything different than empty flat terrain you must drive from Toronto to BC there you going to see a difference in landscape. This is one boring, flat country site ...in fact most boring country for me. In comparison to Poland - considering both beauty and variety, Canada is a wasteland.

  • @mkuc6951
    @mkuc6951 Місяць тому +8

    Is it real niceness or fake virtue signalling? Like would people actually help you if you needed them? People in Poland are harsh, but because of their seriousness they will actually help you and follow through not just smile and say 'Yes yes im gonna help you'.

    • @frankgradus9474
      @frankgradus9474 Місяць тому +1

      a good point in general,
      but of course we have our tricksters and sly ones who say one thing and do another, those should be frowned upon.

    • @edytatehrani3934
      @edytatehrani3934 Місяць тому +4

      I remember my culture shock when I first came to Canada from Poland after I married a Canadian. I was 8 months pregnant and driving in a car with my husband when our car broke down in the middle of the street and we began pushing it for it to restart. Several men were sitting on a bench watching us. None came to help. If it were Poland, they would ask me to step aside and helped my husband. That is what I was used to. My Dad often stopped to help total strangers. In Canada, there is a lot of surface politeness, but very few people willing to step up when someone really needs help.

  • @pawelzielinski1398
    @pawelzielinski1398 Місяць тому +2

    I had the same feeling when I visited Warsaw after being away for about a decade in the 90s. I couldn't recognize the city I used to live in! Now the changes are still going on, but they are more incremental, and I do visit more often.

  • @chwalciechomika
    @chwalciechomika Місяць тому +4

    You have to be escorted home and this is good?

    • @supreme3376
      @supreme3376 Місяць тому

      Well last Time when when saw Just Walking Jude i Warsaw They wasnt have escort they crosing by a street

  • @russetbulba3199
    @russetbulba3199 Місяць тому

    What do we want? Do you want me to put my words into your mouth, Michael? I really value your individual perspective and honesty. It can be somewhat and probably is naturally biased since how can be otherwise for all us human beings? I appreciate politeness and consider it a virtue but that genuine one and much less that one legislated and forced upon the people. Smiley and sweet on the face and seething with resentment inside.

  • @sSomeawesomeneSs
    @sSomeawesomeneSs Місяць тому +2

    ive seen videos from ukrainians who immigrated to canada thinking it would be an improvement on their quality of life, only to quickly become unhappy there - late-stage capitalism, cost of living vs the living conditions (either car-dependant suburbs or crowded cities), visible homelessness, drug use, etc.
    canada is somewhat similar to the midwest usa... and in the usa, i do not miss being yelled at almost every single time (!!!!!) i go outside with my partner, by teens or men of his ethnicity saying profane or inappropriate things to us. gross behavior. to avoid this, i would have to move to an upscale area without any tweakers or hooligans, which is hard to do in the chicagoland area unless you move to an upper-class suburb lol, way too expensive.
    i do not miss regularly being catcalled, and approached by weird men or tweakers, who will not leave you alone because clearly something is wrong with their heads. i do not miss the CTA riders who regularly make the journey uncomfortable or unsafe for everyone: the men who publicly masturbate, the people who rant and rave and yell to themselves and others for no reason, the men who urinate or defecate in public areas or even in the train cars, the random acts of violence, like shooting threats or stabbings or fights. i do not miss the constant subconscious worry of losing the life of someone i love, or my own life, at any school or large public gathering because mass shootings happen way too often here.
    i do not miss the real-life obsession with people's demographics, "informed" by racial stereotypes and social media memes. i do not miss the work culture, where shareholder's profits take precedent over human rights, and we are made to feel guilty for being sick, or god forbid wanting to take a vacation. i do not miss the constant threat of losing my entire life savings and home due to a medical emergency. i do not miss dealing with upper class "boomers" who think they are the center of the universe and take out all their problems on the people serving them. i do not miss the attitude that america is #1, and americans are right about everything in the world, despite being pretty ignorant about.. most things. i do not miss most city neighborhoods becoming gentrified and turning into a monoculture of upper-class young adults from suburbia, with prices to match. the main thing america and canada have going for them is money.
    also cigarettes smell, but in poland i smell them rarely - id say i smell weed here a bit more often, but weed is also bad for the lungs and smells worse. vapes, which are more popular in canada and the usa, are also bad for the health, but have not had enough studies on them yet. but at least they dont smell...
    and i rarely saw people with bike helmets in america lol

    • @sSomeawesomeneSs
      @sSomeawesomeneSs Місяць тому +2

      actually the more i think.....
      i dont miss the food culture in america, where eating fast food is a regular occurance. i do not miss much of the food in stores being heavily processed and poor quality. i do not miss the culture where we are encouraged to become unhealthy so we later have to seek out expensive healthcare and medication to "fix" our problems. i do not miss brands and corporations dominating every aspect of life.
      i also do not miss the american political culture, which is much more degenerate than even the polish version, at times even becoming violent.

  • @smok40
    @smok40 Місяць тому +1

    Comparisons are interesting, of course!

  • @edytatehrani3934
    @edytatehrani3934 Місяць тому +1

    The reason why people offered to walk you home at night is because it is not very safe to walk alone at night in Canada these days ...😢

  • @jacekczuba4145
    @jacekczuba4145 Місяць тому +2

    Change of perspective is very important! That was really interesting. I wonder what further reflection s could be. Fir example - this greeting felt kind but was it necessary really or not? Or maybe if these were just words or real care and delivering this promise? You know, one step deeper than just observation! Even though these observations sre incredibly interesting themselves.
    Are those rules excessive and problematic or common sense and like people should behave normally?

  • @athag1
    @athag1 Місяць тому +3

    Please tell us about Canada. Love that you always give your honest opinion.

  • @benz500r
    @benz500r Місяць тому

    Are you going back to Poland after the show in Canada?

    • @lerubenfeld
      @lerubenfeld  Місяць тому +1

      Yes :)

    • @benz500r
      @benz500r Місяць тому +1

      @@lerubenfeld I'm glad to see that you like it there.

  • @marek7641
    @marek7641 Місяць тому +8

    Sounds like 1 country is for adults and other for kids that need a teacher to help them dealing with everyday life as adults

    • @lerubenfeld
      @lerubenfeld  Місяць тому +4

      A very intelligent and nuanced response. Thank you.

  • @mirthy8219
    @mirthy8219 Місяць тому +5

    Zawsze chcialam mieszkac w Kanadzie, w Kolumbii Brytyjskiej. Podobaja mi sie krajobrazy, dzika natura. Ale raczej to marzenie sie nie spelni😅

    • @lukerygielski628
      @lukerygielski628 Місяць тому

      Jest piekna ale ale ale stransnie drogo. Vancouver jest najdrosze miasto do zycia.
      Cos za cos.

    • @mirthy8219
      @mirthy8219 Місяць тому +1

      @@lukerygielski628 Dokładnie. Ale też nie mam odwagi wyjechać choć zawsze chciałam pozwiedzać świat. Ale lubię nasz kraj więc nie płacze za przygodami. Choć ciekawość zawsze zostaje.

    • @pawelzielinski1398
      @pawelzielinski1398 Місяць тому

      @@lukerygielski628 Wszystko jest względne. Jeżdzę często do Quebecu na narty. I wydaje mi się, że jest tam w miarę tanio. W porównaniu do NYC.

    • @russetbulba3199
      @russetbulba3199 Місяць тому

      Jezeli planujesz zabrac ze soba dobrych kilka milionow dolarow do Kanady, to mozesz byc zadowolony/ zadowolona. Nie licz natomiast na distatnie zycie z pracy, ktora jest na ogol ciezko dostac nie majac tzw Canadian experience i bedzie ciezko opodatkowana. Ciezko pracujacych z tej pracy dochodem ciezko bowiem sie tutaj doswiadcza podatkami. Z tych milionow kupisz jakas skromna chalupe i mozesz zyc jakis czas z tego kapitalu nie placac od niego poza odsetkami zadnych podatkow. Nie licz na szybka medycyne a moze i nie bedziesz miala dostepu do zwyklego lekarza rodzinnego calymi latami, tak wiec warto tez miec pare groszy na prywatnego lekarza czy zabieg w USA. W miedzyczasie mozesz sie raczyc widokami, ktore sa rzeczywiscie piekne. Jak sie forsa skonczy, to wrocisz do Polski, czy EU. W sumie proste.

    • @mirthy8219
      @mirthy8219 Місяць тому

      @@russetbulba3199 czyli chcesz powiedzieć że jest tak paskudnie i złe i że ludzie emigrują z Kanady?

  • @leszekleszek773
    @leszekleszek773 Місяць тому +2

    Certainly Canada is part of the English culture that is well known for its verbal and behavioral respect for other people. Although this is largely unnoticed by those born and raised in the UK, Canada, USA, Australia. Most European countries (except maybe France and Benelux) are not as sensitive to feelings. The hard European culture is in fact: you are sensitive = you are not mentally mature, so shut up... or something like that. Yeah... on the flip side you will never get the true answer in anglosphere unless you are good in reading peoples' minds.

    • @mandelish
      @mandelish Місяць тому

      Co ty nie powiesz?! LOL

  • @kellervfx629
    @kellervfx629 2 місяці тому +2

    Michael, thank you for your work!
    Best wishes!

  • @peter_g546
    @peter_g546 Місяць тому

    I like Polish way - less rules is better.

  • @mayaniebieska8425
    @mayaniebieska8425 Місяць тому +2

    Abuse of power and bullying are rife in Poland, and the arts are not excluded. There's also an unhealthy reverence credited to so called "great artists", who seem to be allowed to get away with a lot more. Luckily more people are now speaking out. I know which stories you're referring to.
    Way to go Canada.
    I'm glad you're enjoying yourself, have a good time and a great show. ❤🎉

    • @frankgradus9474
      @frankgradus9474 Місяць тому +1

      the policy of compulsory niceness as an antidote to abuse of power and bullying is a double edged-sword when good manners have become a thing of the past

    • @mayaniebieska8425
      @mayaniebieska8425 Місяць тому +2

      Compulsory niceness may be the way to restore civility and kindness, when bullying and abuse become normalised or even promoted and good manners become a thing of the past (in commerce, politics, or in the arts, all the same)

    • @frankgradus9474
      @frankgradus9474 Місяць тому +1

      @@mayaniebieska8425 there is no dispute bullying and abuse should be called out, cracked down on and ridiculed but ''compulsory niceness'' is a slippery slope;
      sad to say, but Michael's great sarcastic sense of humor, regarded as ''problematic'' by the algorithm, is already falling victim to this policy - the strike by UA-cam - so that he will have no alternative but to self-censor his jokes and mince his words to keep the big brother happy;
      Brave New World by Aldous Huxley is well worth a read.

    • @mayaniebieska8425
      @mayaniebieska8425 Місяць тому

      All I can say for myself, when I go to a public institution, a shop, a clinic, I prefer to see a smiling, empathetic, respectful official, even with a compulsory smile, rather than a resentful, unhappy and aggressive one. A prevailing attitude in Poland (kultura gnojenia). The same goes for doctors in a clinic or hospital, the same goes for a teacher in a school or academia, the same goes for an employer in your office or theatre. Empathy is the key here, and simple human civility. Yes, it may involve a bit of checking with yourself and taking responsibility for how we relate to others.

    • @russetbulba3199
      @russetbulba3199 Місяць тому +2

      @@mayaniebieska8425 A true empathy yes. But not that passive aggression masked under artificial politeness. And all those never ending ‘we are so sorry’ in lieu of solid service.

  • @kustyq
    @kustyq 2 місяці тому +2

    I like comparing countries. You know both very well, so I am very curious about your opinions.

    • @Hammster_MCR
      @Hammster_MCR Місяць тому +2

      Apples and oranges...

    • @mandelish
      @mandelish Місяць тому

      Jesli lubisz porownania to pamietaj ze porownywac Polske do Kanady to jak przyrownywac oko do dupy a dupa jest Kanada.

  • @frankgradus9474
    @frankgradus9474 Місяць тому +3

    the policy of compulsory niceness is a double edged-sword when good manners have become a thing of the past;
    today Shakespeare becomes offensive and problematic to many and friendly/good-natured/light-hearted banter has been banned;
    sad to say, but Michael's great sarcastic sense of humor is already falling victim to this policy - the strike by UA-cam;
    Brave New World by Aldous Huxley.

  • @ricken21
    @ricken21 Місяць тому +1

    Calgary? Czy tam przypadkiem nie było jakiejś olimpiady bo coś mi się kojarzy ta nazwa.

    • @Hammster_MCR
      @Hammster_MCR Місяць тому +3

      Były zimowe igrzyska olimpijskie w 1988 😊

    • @russetbulba3199
      @russetbulba3199 Місяць тому

      @@Hammster_MCR Przypadkiem :-))

  • @magda5820
    @magda5820 Місяць тому +1

    Get to the point.

  • @kamilziemian995
    @kamilziemian995 Місяць тому

    I want more videos about Canada through Jewish eyes.

    • @lerubenfeld
      @lerubenfeld  Місяць тому +1

      I live primarily in Poland now, so this is not really something I can do much.

    • @kamilziemian995
      @kamilziemian995 Місяць тому

      @@lerubenfeld I refereed to what you said at the end of this video "Do you want more videos about Canada?".

  • @BBTeZeT
    @BBTeZeT 2 місяці тому +2

    Moar Canada

  • @gigantus9001
    @gigantus9001 Місяць тому +4

    Yep, Poland is generally rude. People not trying to be nice to eachother.

    • @marek7641
      @marek7641 Місяць тому +9

      Not treating everyone as a special need child is not rude

    • @pawelzielinski1398
      @pawelzielinski1398 Місяць тому +4

      @@marek7641 it's more than that. Poles are usually rude for no reason. Taka bezinteresowna nieżyczliwość.

    • @marek7641
      @marek7641 Місяць тому +4

      @@pawelzielinski1398 podaj przykład. Nie wchodzenie ludziom obcym w dupe to bycie nie życzliwym?

    • @wojstube9359
      @wojstube9359 Місяць тому +3

      Ciekawe, bo mieszkam w Polsce 45 lat i mam pozytywne wrażenia. Może sam jestem niemiły. Nie dziwne zatem, że to wraca.

    • @pawelzielinski1398
      @pawelzielinski1398 Місяць тому +1

      @@wojstube9359 myślę, że to po prostu kwestia przyzwyczajenia.
      Ja też jak mieszkałem w Polsce to mnie to jakoś nadmiernie nie raziło. Choc czasami tak, np. gdy paniusia w urzędzie traktowała cię jak książe traktował parobka.
      Ale jak pomieszkałem trochę poza tym "pępkiem świata" to zrozumiałem, że może być inaczej i że nieznajomi ludzie potrafią być uprzejmi, nawet jeśli ta uprzejmość jest tylko powierzchowna a uśmiech nieszczery. Po prostu tutaj dawało się wszystko załatwić bez potrzeby przekupstwa, łapówek i znajomości.
      I często ludzie pomagali mi bez oczekiwania zapłaty.
      W Polsce wiele się zmieniło od czasu kiedy stamtąd wyjechałem. W większości na lepsze. Kapitalizm wymusza lepsze traktowanie klienta. Jeśli pani sprzedawczyni będzie dla mnie niemiła to po prostu jutro pójdę do innej piekarni 200 m dalej...

  • @kamilziemian995
    @kamilziemian995 Місяць тому

    I hope that you will visit Poland for few days. 😉

    • @lerubenfeld
      @lerubenfeld  Місяць тому +1

      Is this a joke? I’m not sure I understand it

    • @kamilziemian995
      @kamilziemian995 Місяць тому

      @@lerubenfeld Yes it is joke. "Canada is so much better than Poland, that Rubenfeld will stay there, so we can only hope that he will visit us for few days." Some poles think we shouldn't make jokes "Everywhere (almost) is better than in Poland", but I don't belong to this grup. And anti-jewish people commenting your video is good reason, why I want make even more jokes about that. Tasteless idiots.

  • @nnnnnn3647
    @nnnnnn3647 Місяць тому +4

    stay in Canada.

    • @kamilziemian995
      @kamilziemian995 Місяць тому +1

      It would be good for him, but bad for us in Poland.

    • @nnnnnn3647
      @nnnnnn3647 Місяць тому +3

      @@kamilziemian995 Nie sądzę.

    • @kamilziemian995
      @kamilziemian995 Місяць тому

      @@nnnnnn3647 Każdy może mieć swoją własną, durną opinię na ten temat.

    • @nnnnnn3647
      @nnnnnn3647 Місяць тому +3

      @@kamilziemian995 Zgadza się. Pan Michael ma swoją durną opinię o Polsce.

    • @frankgradus9474
      @frankgradus9474 Місяць тому +1

      you'd better buck your ideas up and get a grip on yourself;
      Michael will soon return to Krakow where he belongs and you'd better get to grips with that.

  • @jozefciszewski2074
    @jozefciszewski2074 Місяць тому +1

    You came from Krakow? You mean Ukraine city 😂 same with Wroclaw and few other. And yes, Calgary is in the west and we are the best 👌 🐄 🤠

    • @Hanna-ig2mu
      @Hanna-ig2mu Місяць тому +5

      Krakow ukrainski?
      Cos kiepsko z historia i geografia
      Albo glupi zart!

    • @adamme8369
      @adamme8369 Місяць тому

      @@Hanna-ig2mu Wyczuwam tutaj sarkazm! Po mojej ostatniej wizycie (przejazdem) w Krakowie, czyli głównie dworce czy lotnisko można by odnieść takie wrażenie.

    • @jozefciszewski2074
      @jozefciszewski2074 Місяць тому

      Cos cieniutko lapiesz.​@@Hanna-ig2mu

    • @lukezapisuj4331
      @lukezapisuj4331 Місяць тому +1

      @@jozefciszewski2074 Są Ukraińcy, którzy twierdzą, że to oni założyli Kraków. Zelensky ostatnio "pokazał" Radosławowi swoją klasę. Dlatego trzeba być ostrożnym.

    • @jozefciszewski2074
      @jozefciszewski2074 Місяць тому

      Dymac ich 😂​@@lukezapisuj4331

  • @figofagonagoitis
    @figofagonagoitis Місяць тому +1

    From your description, Canada to me looks like place from nightmares. Trained overpoliteness, unions dictating grownup people what to do, what say, how to behave, and I suppose there is only one acceptable way of all this. They will spread love around you and they will babysit you to the point it is sickening, they will even walk you home so that you would be safe. The irony is that there is even need for this. Shouldn’t Canada be safe country with all those restrain rules?

    • @edytatehrani3934
      @edytatehrani3934 Місяць тому +1

      It is not very safe to walk at night in Canada, especially for the Jews. There are bunch of random knife attacks, shootings, etc. There are homeless encampments everywhere where people do hard drugs. It is disaster. Be thankful for the safety you have in Poland 🇵🇱.