Hi, everyone! I hope this video will come in handy for you or someone you know. If you gained something from this video, please give it a thumbs up and subscribe to my channel for more. Here are the timestamps for each lesson: 0:52 1. Everything will happen in its own time. 1:48 2. Follow the 80/20 rule for relationships. 3:18 3. You have inherent worth. 6:10 4. Learn to take failures in stride. 7:01 5. Let people grow. 8:08 6. Learn to apologize sincerely. 9:17 7. Isolation is the enemy's playground. 10:48 8. Therapy will change your life. 11:58 9. Steward your anxiety. 12:55 10. Be present. 14:03 11. Wealth does not bring fulfillment. 14:40 12. You can choose your character. 15:45 13. Stop gaslighting yourself. 16:44 14. A significant other cannot complete you. 17:41 15. Learn to parent yourself. 18:30 16. Pursue your dreams earnestly. 19:21 17. Train yourself to have an abundant mindset. 20:36 18. Accept hardship as the pathway to peace. 21:18 19. Character is more important than image. 22:34 20. Treat others gently and you will be treated gently in return. Here is the book that changed my life for the better: amzn.to/3k0hmvJ
Hi Ahn! This is truly a masterpiece. I am just in awe at how God's power and wisdom works in your life. May God bless you so much more, and may your heart continue to grow in His love. And I want to strive to become like you and Jesus. I, too, came from a chaotic home. The outside felt more like home than what's inside mine growing up, and a lot of times even up to this day. I am 25 now. I had a beautiful and thriving relationship with a friend for almost 4 years. And I nearly lost it. It may not be as good as it used to be but i am thankful it didnt collapse completely into nothing. It was during these moments that my personal issues were exposed, lots of pain and hurt i've been nesting since I was little. I have become this anxious and nervous wreck. I have a number of good friends around me but i dont want what happened to my aforementioned friendship to repeat on the new friendships i found and onto my future relationship/family. I would really appreciate it if you could give us more practical tips/provide resources how to parent ourselves. I want to commend you again for this well-done video. The Lord will surely bless you much much more you could ever ask for/imagine. I wish you all the best, lovely soul! 😘😘❤️❤️
Your videos always have an inspiring message to learn and they're extremely beautiful 🤩 and calming to soul 🥰 Thankyou for sharing your life lessons with everyone ❤️❤️
When you let go of control, you will learn to live peacefully because surrender is peaceful. You will be amazed how things magically fall into place when you let go of the illusion of control and trust God.
Anh, I'm turning 20 this September and you are one of those people I choose to follow. I couldn't be more grateful of how you've influenced my life and how you've drawn me closer to God. I know that I'm still far from the person whom God wanted me to be but I'm on my way. Thank you for being a wonderful steward. God bless you. ♡
Thank you for your advice! Letting go of control is a big one for me. Handing over to God my want for control has made things easier in my life. I’m at peace knowing his plans are better than my own 🥰
I’m twice your age, but Abba has gifted you with precious wisdom. I’m just now able to use my journal I ordered from you (I’m the one who broke her elbow two months ago). I just watched this video and now I’m watching with pen and paper to write down the 20 things you mentioned. Some I knew, some are brand new! Thank you for sharing.
I've been so anxious about my future lately, at that stage in my life where I feel the urgent need to sort my life out. I needed this video so much. 💜 thank you 💜
Oh my, I’m crying. Thank God for this video, I really needed so hope and advice for my 20’s. I’m 22 so I have time to undo some and create other habits, thank you 🙏🏼☺️
Wow!!! When God wants to talk to someone, He will use any means. I'm going through that experience wanting to fix peoples problems. The Lord always, always surprises me. I praise God and thank Him for using you. God Bless you sis. I always watch your videos. You have a soothing voice and very wise and sound advices. I've learned a lot from you.
I can literally watch your videos the whole day everyday of my life. You are such an inspiration to me, I love everything about your channel!....I want to greet you first a very Happy and bless Birthday! You're such a blessing to me.
Happy Birthday Anh! This was such a great video as I am turning 28 next month! Love that you mentioned money cannot buy a sense of fulfillment and as I am ending my 20's I can definitely say it buys short term happiness but nothing more.
I am 24 and have been told that I should be now doing/achieving certain things, which makes me think that I am too late in life. I have been given opportunities back then which I opted to turn down because of anxiety and now I feel like God wil no longer give me the same opportunities because of what I did. But your video has given me a new perspective when it comes to discovering the things that matter more. Thank you so much🥰
Thank you so much for such soothing and healing videos. I have been following you since 3 years and I have seen your journey, it's incredible. Every time I watch your videos I feel peaceful and calm👍 😘❤
Thank you so much Anh for your kindest words❤️ "Be your own parent, give yourself the self care and nurture, talk to yourself as you would to your 5 yo self" ❤️ Thank you so much!!!❤️
Hi Anh! Thank you so much for creating this video. It reminded me and I’ve learned a lot from this one. You’re such an inspiration to me - all of us. God bless you. 🥰
Specially ur voice is so soothing n calm..whenever I feel low in my life I usually watch ur motivational videos..for students pursuing their high school degrees, living alone in hostels ,such motivation is required..keep motivating us and allow us to love u more❤️
As crestons wife speaking it was supposed to say about glad you have learned valuable lessons that have improved and changed your quality of life through life lessons that have changed and improved your life
Incredible person reading this, you have everything there is to succeed in life, whatever that is for you. Go after the life you truly want NOW! ✨ I believe in you! Love - Nat ❤️
What a beautiful introspection you have done.😊 I'm so happy that you use a lot of verses in the Bible to explain what you learn! Thank you so much for sharing it. It helps me a lot🙏🏼❤️
This is moving & too beautiful for words...sharing this with my teenage daughter..thank you Anh for this reassuring & uplifting talk.Stay blessed as always..addicted to your calming posts.
I did the same. My narcissistic ex alienated me from our daughter. Soooooo much pain and loss. I have been challenged in my faith greatly. I send my daughter emails hoping she will get them and read them as I don't have her phone number or address at school. I won't give up hope that she will face the truth of why her dad is and what he did and that we can be reunited before I die. Thank you Ahn for a beautiful reflection.
Ahn, thank you so much! I've really missed this kind of videos (like the ones in 2019) and it felt godsent to me to watch this one and get so many answers.
I am in my near 18 and I really really appreciate ur videos sister i need so much things to learn u truly inspire me to want to be better version of myself❤ Sending u lots of love sister 😌❤
I am in my thirties and still can apply some of your thoughts. We learn and grow all life. I am glad I have found your channel ( just over a year ago). I know that it was God who led me to it then. Thank you for the content you are making. Greetings from Polish fan from the UK. God bless,,🙂
I'll be turning 29 at the end of August as well! You are such a wise person, I always find inspiration in your videos. Time flies and the best we can do is to summarize the lessons life taught us and improve our mindset to pursue our hapiness. We are blessed to live these days with all the challenges that they offer. We have the chance to learn everything we want, adapt easily at sudden changes, be part of a worldwide community, take care of our environment and help other beings, we are actually super-humans already, however sometimes we still focus only on the negative things and we don't realize how amazing we already are. You are such a sweet and comforting person although you went through a lot of hard times in your life, I have a lot of respect for you and your work and I really think your videos are already a sort of therapy for people who need a caring friend in their life. Thank you for your constant amazing content! Bless you
This is a great video! I'm going to share it with the group I facilitate at Celebrate Recovery for Post-Traumatic Stress, Anxiety, & Depression. Everyone is well over 20. 😊
Thank you so much for your content and what you said in this video! I am in a very relatable season and what you said really encouraged and blessed me. Thank you for all of the incredible hard work you put into your videos! I can see how much diligence, love, time, and effort you put into every video. Your video style is so relaxing and I am so glad that I found your channel a few months ago!
Absolutely love this video. It's beautiful and deeply impactful. I'm a 24 year old UX Designer and hearing these points really made my day. And I absolutely love your soothing colour palette and tone of voice. It was a perfect way to start my weekend morning 💛
Thank you so much...I am 24 year old Srilankan girl..I learnt lot of things from you...madam your vedios are very nice and clam...I love them...such a positive vedio ..I didn't t know how to keep clean my room even..but when I saw your vedios I learnt lot of things .mI don't have a house yet but In my mind I live in my dream house ..I am student yet..one day I will buy appartement or house ... At the past I didn't love my self..I suffered from depression badly...but now gradually I learn how I love my self....Thank you so much for making this type of vedios .you are more inspirational person in my life....I hope your reply ..... Love you so much from 🇱🇰 Ayesha
Thankyou for the best knowledge so far. Being in your 20s is quite confusing and scary but this video is so so informative and calming. Loads of love to you ❤️✨
Thank you so much. Your video inspire me so much. My heart feel warmer. Watching your video is such a therapy to me. I don't know if you understand this but Cảm ơn chị rất nhiều
🧡I LOVED this video!! So glad I found your channel!!🙌🏼 (Can you share the recipe of the dressing you used for the cucumber pls? That looked delicious) 😍
Hi, everyone! I hope this video will come in handy for you or someone you know. If you gained something from this video, please give it a thumbs up and subscribe to my channel for more. Here are the timestamps for each lesson:
0:52 1. Everything will happen in its own time.
1:48 2. Follow the 80/20 rule for relationships.
3:18 3. You have inherent worth.
6:10 4. Learn to take failures in stride.
7:01 5. Let people grow.
8:08 6. Learn to apologize sincerely.
9:17 7. Isolation is the enemy's playground.
10:48 8. Therapy will change your life.
11:58 9. Steward your anxiety.
12:55 10. Be present.
14:03 11. Wealth does not bring fulfillment.
14:40 12. You can choose your character.
15:45 13. Stop gaslighting yourself.
16:44 14. A significant other cannot complete you.
17:41 15. Learn to parent yourself.
18:30 16. Pursue your dreams earnestly.
19:21 17. Train yourself to have an abundant mindset.
20:36 18. Accept hardship as the pathway to peace.
21:18 19. Character is more important than image.
22:34 20. Treat others gently and you will be treated gently in return.
Here is the book that changed my life for the better: amzn.to/3k0hmvJ
These stamp stamps 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 that was so sweet of you
Hi Ahn! This is truly a masterpiece. I am just in awe at how God's power and wisdom works in your life. May God bless you so much more, and may your heart continue to grow in His love. And I want to strive to become like you and Jesus. I, too, came from a chaotic home. The outside felt more like home than what's inside mine growing up, and a lot of times even up to this day. I am 25 now. I had a beautiful and thriving relationship with a friend for almost 4 years. And I nearly lost it. It may not be as good as it used to be but i am thankful it didnt collapse completely into nothing. It was during these moments that my personal issues were exposed, lots of pain and hurt i've been nesting since I was little. I have become this anxious and nervous wreck. I have a number of good friends around me but i dont want what happened to my aforementioned friendship to repeat on the new friendships i found and onto my future relationship/family. I would really appreciate it if you could give us more practical tips/provide resources how to parent ourselves. I want to commend you again for this well-done video. The Lord will surely bless you much much more you could ever ask for/imagine. I wish you all the best, lovely soul! 😘😘❤️❤️
Your videos always have an inspiring message to learn and they're extremely beautiful 🤩 and calming to soul 🥰
Thankyou for sharing your life lessons with everyone ❤️❤️
This video refreshed my soul. Thank you so so much, Anh. Happy belated birthday! God bless you and yours!
Thank you Anh for this one. 🙂
When you let go of control, you will learn to live peacefully because surrender is peaceful. You will be amazed how things magically fall into place when you let go of the illusion of control and trust God.
I'll take a chance on it then
Yes, trust Jesus
I could not agree more ! This has brought so much peace.
Anh, I'm turning 20 this September and you are one of those people I choose to follow. I couldn't be more grateful of how you've influenced my life and how you've drawn me closer to God. I know that I'm still far from the person whom God wanted me to be but I'm on my way. Thank you for being a wonderful steward. God bless you. ♡
Thank you for your advice! Letting go of control is a big one for me. Handing over to God my want for control has made things easier in my life. I’m at peace knowing his plans are better than my own 🥰
I’m twice your age, but Abba has gifted you with precious wisdom. I’m just now able to use my journal I ordered from you (I’m the one who broke her elbow two months ago). I just watched this video and now I’m watching with pen and paper to write down the 20 things you mentioned. Some I knew, some are brand new! Thank you for sharing.
Praying for a smooth healing process for you!
I've been so anxious about my future lately, at that stage in my life where I feel the urgent need to sort my life out. I needed this video so much. 💜 thank you 💜
Oh my, I’m crying. Thank God for this video, I really needed so hope and advice for my 20’s. I’m 22 so I have time to undo some and create other habits, thank you 🙏🏼☺️
Wow… just wow. This hits at any age. Thank you
Hi!! I speak Spanish but i understand your words... I like the. Way you talk with the word of God❤
I used to listen to this over and over again. To God be the glory.
I am 32yrs, 10 months old and I am grateful I bumped into this video today. Thank you Anh, I really needed to hear this today❤️🙏🏽.
My 20th birthday was literally 3 days ago! This video comes at a PERFECT time! Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
Beautiful!🌷
Thank You 💗!
I don’t have enough words to express how much your videos and words encourage me again and again.
Thank you Anh.
Happy birthday Anh. Thank you for all that you do for us and for helping us! May God keep you healthy and happy.
Thank you for this, Anh. You bring so much positivity in this community. God bless you with so much more!
Wow!!! When God wants to talk to someone, He will use any means. I'm going through that experience wanting to fix peoples problems. The Lord always, always surprises me. I praise God and thank Him for using you. God Bless you sis. I always watch your videos. You have a soothing voice and very wise and sound advices. I've learned a lot from you.
The cinematography and lessons were so beautifully woven! Thank you for this video :)
I can literally watch your videos the whole day everyday of my life. You are such an inspiration to me, I love everything about your channel!....I want to greet you first a very Happy and bless Birthday! You're such a blessing to me.
Anh, I am so thankful to have found your videos on yt. They are so uplifting, so inspiring, and certainly encouraging. Thank you so much!
Happy Birthday Anh! This was such a great video as I am turning 28 next month! Love that you mentioned money cannot buy a sense of fulfillment and as I am ending my 20's I can definitely say it buys short term happiness but nothing more.
So true!
Hitting 28 next month too. Hello fellow sept babies.
I had to be 35 to appreciate this video. Thank you Anh
I am 24 and have been told that I should be now doing/achieving certain things, which makes me think that I am too late in life. I have been given opportunities back then which I opted to turn down because of anxiety and now I feel like God wil no longer give me the same opportunities because of what I did. But your video has given me a new perspective when it comes to discovering the things that matter more. Thank you so much🥰
Thank you, and God bless! 🤍
Thank you so much for such soothing and healing videos. I have been following you since 3 years and I have seen your journey, it's incredible. Every time I watch your videos I feel peaceful and calm👍 😘❤
Thank you so much Anh for your kindest words❤️ "Be your own parent, give yourself the self care and nurture, talk to yourself as you would to your 5 yo self" ❤️ Thank you so much!!!❤️
Thank you so much Anh. I really appreciate everything that you are. This one is incredible.❤️
Excellent video! Makes sense no matter what age a person is. Thanks for sharing.
You are 100% correct... God is in control and we are perfect because He created us in His Image and He is Perfect. Love your way of looking at life. 😊
I like the idea of learning to parent ourselves the way we wanted to be parented. But it’s hard to unlearn…
Love your video so much! It changes lives :D God bless!
So young, and you've already learned a WHOLE lot. You'll grow in power with every year. Bless.
Hi Anh! Thank you so much for creating this video. It reminded me and I’ve learned a lot from this one. You’re such an inspiration to me - all of us. God bless you. 🥰
I love how you added Bible verses ☺ i may not be 20 but as a teenager I feel like what your saying is valuable, so thank you and God bless 😊
Specially ur voice is so soothing n calm..whenever I feel low in my life I usually watch ur motivational videos..for students pursuing their high school degrees, living alone in hostels ,such motivation is required..keep motivating us and allow us to love u more❤️
I loved how beautifully you reused all the beautiful shots from your previous videos and apartments.....saw each video of yours thoroughly
Thank you so much 😊
As crestons wife speaking it was supposed to say about glad you have learned valuable lessons that have improved and changed your quality of life through life lessons that have changed and improved your life
I'm only a year younger than you, Ahn. And you've inspired me to pursue my dreams. I'm gotta do just that!
Thank you so much for sharing these valuable points. You truly inspire me to be a better version of myself in life ❤️ Lots of love ❤️🎉
You got this!
Incredible person reading this, you have everything there is to succeed in life, whatever that is for you. Go after the life you truly want NOW! ✨
I believe in you! Love - Nat ❤️
Great reminders for all ages. Thank you☀️
What a beautiful introspection you have done.😊 I'm so happy that you use a lot of verses in the Bible to explain what you learn!
Thank you so much for sharing it. It helps me a lot🙏🏼❤️
This is moving & too beautiful for words...sharing this with my teenage daughter..thank you Anh for this reassuring & uplifting talk.Stay blessed as always..addicted to your calming posts.
I did the same. My narcissistic ex alienated me from our daughter. Soooooo much pain and loss. I have been challenged in my faith greatly. I send my daughter emails hoping she will get them and read them as I don't have her phone number or address at school. I won't give up hope that she will face the truth of why her dad is and what he did and that we can be reunited before I die.
Thank you Ahn for a beautiful reflection.
Your 13th point resonated with me. I hadn't realized I do that to myself all the time. Thank you, God Bless -A 29 year old woman :)
Amen to God always humbles you when you think you've got it all figured out
Thank you for being you Anh!
Thank you so much! I was about to cry!!
Me clicking on this video and not only getting calm and wisdom, but scripture
I needed to hear several of these today.
Happy birthday anh
Thank you ahn for this very insightful lesson in life that you share ... you are indeed blessed by God to blessed others with your talent
It is lovely !!!!each point you touch!!!!very nice for my soul!!!a kiss from argentina !! What a nice view from your balcony!!!!
This video is so wholesome.♥️♥️ References of scricptures is so beautiful.Thank you for sharing what you have learned. Highly motivated 🤗🙌
Thank you for sharing, I truly enjoyed this segment and inspired. I will be sharing you with my friends and family.
Beautiful Anh, thank you for sharing these 20 life lessons 😊👍🏻
Each and every video of yours works like a helping hand. Your channel is all I need to maintain my sanity. :)
Ahn, thank you so much! I've really missed this kind of videos (like the ones in 2019) and it felt godsent to me to watch this one and get so many answers.
Keep inspiring others. God bless.
I love your channel…your words always moved me , so as your god given voice….
Amen! Awesome video, as always! I am so thankful for you! May God continue to bless 💕
Lots Of Love To you!❤️
I love your videos and I’m 41 ❤️
I am in my near 18 and I really really appreciate ur videos sister i need so much things to learn u truly inspire me to want to be better version of myself❤
Sending u lots of love sister 😌❤
I am in my thirties and still can apply some of your thoughts. We learn and grow all life. I am glad I have found your channel ( just over a year ago). I know that it was God who led me to it then. Thank you for the content you are making. Greetings from Polish fan from the UK. God bless,,🙂
I'll be turning 29 at the end of August as well! You are such a wise person, I always find inspiration in your videos. Time flies and the best we can do is to summarize the lessons life taught us and improve our mindset to pursue our hapiness. We are blessed to live these days with all the challenges that they offer. We have the chance to learn everything we want, adapt easily at sudden changes, be part of a worldwide community, take care of our environment and help other beings, we are actually super-humans already, however sometimes we still focus only on the negative things and we don't realize how amazing we already are. You are such a sweet and comforting person although you went through a lot of hard times in your life, I have a lot of respect for you and your work and I really think your videos are already a sort of therapy for people who need a caring friend in their life. Thank you for your constant amazing content! Bless you
Thank you for sharing these life lessons Anh
Wow the plants is so beautiful
Hi Anh, u r so sweet, I'm additcted to ur videos and u inspire me a lot..much love❤️
Very Powerful video I’m taking notes and pausing; This is a great video and I thank you for making it.
I'm back watching your videos.
I turned 25 on the 3rd and I'm excited for what lies ahead for the rest of my 20's. Thanks Ahn this was helpful. 💜
Didn't want the video to end. ❤️
Thank you so much, I gained a lot from this video❤
This is a great video! I'm going to share it with the group I facilitate at Celebrate Recovery for Post-Traumatic Stress, Anxiety, & Depression. Everyone is well over 20. 😊
What an honor! I love CR. We have one at our church and it’s been life-changing for so many people.
So beautiful said love!
All of this is so true and helpful. And sometimes yet so hard at the same time. I think I'll be watching this video again later :)
Learned so much from your videos.
your videos are always good, but this one is one step further. thanks for sharing beautiful words and a glimpse of your life. God bless us all.
Thank you so much for your content and what you said in this video! I am in a very relatable season and what you said really encouraged and blessed me. Thank you for all of the incredible hard work you put into your videos! I can see how much diligence, love, time, and effort you put into every video. Your video style is so relaxing and I am so glad that I found your channel a few months ago!
thank you for this video. So lovely again
Happy (early) Birthday, Anh Lin!!
Absolutely love this video. It's beautiful and deeply impactful. I'm a 24 year old UX Designer and hearing these points really made my day.
And I absolutely love your soothing colour palette and tone of voice. It was a perfect way to start my weekend morning 💛
Precious lessons from life! Thank you so much for sharing! You are such an inspiration 🦋🌸
Thank you for this upload. Full of gems, thank you, thank you so much.. What a reminder.. 🎉🎁❤️
Sounds like you have learned alot of valuable lessons crestons wife that have improved your quality of life I'm glad to hear that
Ahhhh ... So heart-warming..... so cozy...
That was great 😍👌👌👌 it was so lovely dear Anh 🙏💕
I am excited to watch this
I'm so blessed watching your videos in the morning. It helps me become a better person. God bless you Ahn.
Thank you for the affirmations and reminders!
Thank you so much...I am 24 year old Srilankan girl..I learnt lot of things from you...madam your vedios are very nice and clam...I love them...such a positive vedio ..I didn't t know how to keep clean my room even..but when I saw your vedios I learnt lot of things .mI don't have a house yet but In my mind I live in my dream house ..I am student yet..one day I will buy appartement or house ... At the past I didn't love my self..I suffered from depression badly...but now gradually I learn how I love my self....Thank you so much for making this type of vedios .you are more inspirational person in my life....I hope your reply .....
Love you so much from 🇱🇰
Ayesha
Thankyou for the best knowledge so far. Being in your 20s is quite confusing and scary but this video is so so informative and calming. Loads of love to you ❤️✨
I love how you handle the car park incident! ❤
Absolutely wonderful message. I look forward to your videos all the time.
I'm blessed ❤️Thank you Ahn
Thank you so much. Your video inspire me so much. My heart feel warmer. Watching your video is such a therapy to me. I don't know if you understand this but Cảm ơn chị rất nhiều
Thanks for sharing !
This video reminds me back in the old days!
🧡I LOVED this video!! So glad I found your channel!!🙌🏼 (Can you share the recipe of the dressing you used for the cucumber pls? That looked delicious) 😍
I love the video and the way you showed your daily activities while taking about self-care