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What a beautiful thing, a sister-in-law being selfless and a stranger giving the gift of life.
Rachele Kemi
Yeah i was thinking the same. I was just sitting gere thinking.. would my sister inlaw do this for me and my husband.. i mean.. thats a really REALLY MAJOR DECISION to make. And the stranger lady, what a beautiful heart to help couples like she does. ♡
Wow Jill is amazing! First thing she said after she gave birth was did you see ok? She made me teary.
Kristen Welch it was Jill's bio child. She's not a surrogate, she's ultimately adopting out her own child.
pussiriffic It is her own egg that was mixed with Oliver's sperm so it her baby from a biological and genetic perspective. Yet she is still acting as a surrogate.
I'm happy for the surrogate lady. She had made many couples very happy.
Kathy Mathers my mother donated 100s of eggs and says nothing is more satisfying and rewarding than receiving thankyou letters from parents and children who used her eggs.
I know, right? I do not know why people are hating on surrogates and the procedure. It is one thing that a healthy woman does not carry herself. But for some, it is not an option. And adoption is not always an option. People should stop stigmatizing surrogacy. It is not the issue.
@@dakotaquinn2675because it’s an exploitative industry. If you don’t know there is info on it online.
Bless that surrogate Jill beautiful lady....she just gave birth and she is like "did you see ok" to the father 👏👏💕
I'm dying to know where that crazy woman got the idea that you can "buy" a child in America by dropping off a sperm sample at a clinic & coming back later for a baby! Something tells me she's been reading things on the internet & believes everything that pops up.
Yeah I was like, uh what? Maybe if she went to India or some other 3rd world or developing country. lol
As scary as it sounds, you can actually buy sperm via the web in the United States. By no means have I ever heard of being able to drop sperm off and coming back for a baby though, lol.
Yeah, you can buy sperm pretty easily, I think. But uh... not a baby. lol
I thought the same thing.
I don't think she meant literally that simplistic but I read surragettes can get paid $60,000 on top of the expenses. it depends on the state.
Am i the only one who cried when the baby girl was born. Im having my own soon but it made me so happy to see that woman finally become a mother.
Morgan Moments my 2nd is 4mths old and i cry everytime someone gives birth or finds out theyre expecting. Its such a beautiful thing to experience.
Man i cant wait til i have my little one idk why but i cant stop watching shows like this 😊
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Lol Paula threw the whole chicken in the bin. Hormones can really turn you into a monster haha
I love that one of the surrogates was a heavier lady, I want to be a surrogate after nine of my own and they were all easy and healthy babies, but I was told I wouldn't be able to help a couple because I was heavy- which posed no problems for my last 9 pregnancies.
Amanda Wilder Nine pregnancies?? Woah. Do you actually have nine children that you're raising?
Amanda Wilder surrogate right here. I just had a baby on the 1st of January 2018. Ts surrogate (traditional surrogate. Meaning my egg) I know a lady who is heavier. She's had 12 baby's 4 hers the rest surrogates. If you do ts there's nothing they can do. There's site's on facebook that help you match with people that you don't need to go through cots there books are closed anyway, I'm indi meaning independent so i don't go through an agency . P.s it's illegal to advertise yourself as a surrogate in the UK. Good luck
Why is she smoking indoors and in the company of the woman who hopefully is carrying her baby?
She said she'd sacrifice anything to have a child, but not her smoking, apparently. If she was anticipating having children, shouldn't that be the first thing she works on?
Is that all you can focus on
Teresa Hance I agree/ some are completely clueless !!!!!
Disgusting isn't it. Imo smoking around children should be considered child abuse. I grew up with heavy smokers and had terrible health issues
This was NOT unusual or strange years ago. When I became a nurse, nurses were allowed to smoke in the lounge of the hospital! Doctors were big smokers. In 1970’s.
Everyone should stop judging parents who go through IVF and surrogacy saying that they should adopt. It’s a personal choice and they have every right to do whatever they feel is best for them. If everyone here commenting saying they should adopt a baby would adopt one themselves then there would be very few babies left to adopt. It’s not for everyone
Disgusting and SELFISH!!!!!!
I have to agree with you. But some people just don't understand what is really going on. They are so quick to judge
I myself was adopted as a child. I love my adopted mom and she is the only mom I have in my eyes. But having a child that is your flesh and blood is something magical. Seeing parts of yourself in you kids is amazing. I totally understand why someone would turn to surrogacy
It’s funny how adopted kids understand that more than anyone. Unfortunately there’s not a surplus of newborns waiting to be adopted. And most ( not all) want healthy white babys and that’s not reality
At least where I live, most adoptable kids either have fetal alcohol syndrome or are born addicted to drugs.
Not everyone is equipped to suitably raise such a child.
If that younger woman really cared about having a healthy baby, she shouldn't be smoking in the same room as the surrogate mother.
lucy83060 agreed !!!!!
Was just thinking about commenting something similar. I don't get why you would do that.... idk maybe she was so out of her mind with nerves that she completely forgot. If that was me though you couldn't pay me enough to smoke near my surrogate.
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lucy83060 that might be ignorance mistaken for care
I have a child of my own, but have also had foster children. One foster son stayed with me the longest and he really is still my son, would have adopted him had he not been sent back to his abusive mother after 2 years. It is possible to love another child as your own. I hope these families consider adoption, it's a beautiful thing.
Twee Widdershins helaas gebeurt dat ook soms. Gelukkig had hij jouw voor die twee jaren.
E.A.F. No the system should be designed where children stay with their families. It messes kids up to take them away from their moms, dads and families and put them with strangers. We were treated worse in Foster homes than we were at home. And it depends on your social worker, some are bad some are good.
It is. When you want to adopt. But not when you want a biological child.
Expectations are different in these situations. And trying compensate infertility with adopted child can be disappointing.
i would adopt in a second but my country has a 8 yr waiting list and its around $40,000 and once you turn age 40, they only want to give kids to younger couples, i have no choice to do surrogacy now and the child will have no bio link to me, not sharing DNA doesnt bother me, i just want a child to love. i would much rather adopt that go through surrogacy.
@@rosie7836 the cost of adoption is unbelievable especially with the many children needing care, you nearly always have to foster an then pray there’s a chance it goes permanent. We foster, have our own, an it’s no different to me the love is incredible a child is a child I can’t explain it, but many people don’t feel the same. Prayers for you that you can find a beautiful child to love and care for 💕🙏
Christian...don't kiss your baby if you have an outbreak on your lips..you will pass it on.
Paula is an amazing person. God bless her.
I have tried for 14 and a half years to have my Husband's baby😔I got pregnant a month ago, finally, but lost it😣😭My Mom said get a surrogate, but I would feel like she would be the mother, NOT me, even though its my egg, she's carrying it, connected to it by blood and umbilical cord...Idk, just feels weird to me I guess!
Karizma Charles I'm very sorry for your loss.
Sorry hug mum
Sorry to hear that.... this was 3 years ago... l really hope that your dream has become reality!
Seriously?!?! As an American, I’m a bit insulted to know that we “sell” babies here! That couldn’t be further from the truth!! We have very tough laws for surrogacy and adoptions and we do not have a “pick up your baby” policy!
If America had tough laws, we wouldnt hear about so many kids being abused in foster homes.
Its not selling babies its allowing people to become parents!!
except they aren't parents, they're looking after someone elses child
NoobKiller Roof birth parents and a mother/father can be two totally different things.
NoobKiller Roof There are different types of surrogacy: if a woman has had severe endometriosis or other gynaecological problems resulting in a total hysterectomy (removal of the uterus) but still has functioning ovaries, we have what is called "full surrogacy". This is where the "eggs" are taken and injected with her partner's sperm. The resulting embryo(s) are then implanted into the uterus of a surrogate and the embryo(s) and hence any child is the genetic offspring of the couple. In cases where the ovaries aren't working or have been surgically removed, the ovaries of the surrogate may be used with the sperm of the male partner so the resulting embryos are genetically partly that of the surrogate - she's donated her eggs as well as her uterus. "Full surrogacy" is psychologically easier by comparison to the surrogate donating her own eggs, and more widely accepted.
No it’s selling babies, no matter how you look at it. Regardless if it allowing people to become parents. It’s treating humans like a commodity. No different than organ shopping. It’s providing people with organs that they can’t live without.
@@Adara007 I need a help here please I want to be a mother but my uterus remove but i still have a ovaries please I need more information how can i come up with baby with my partner
I don't appreciate Sue's opinion on America I found it to be an insult or Oliver not caring for the seriousness of his surrogate's body. Birth is serious!!
Odd couple, l think.
He seemed insensitive to anything and very selfish.
Someone offers to go through the process of having a baby for you and you sit there forcing her to breathe your smoke. That is really bad for the baby and everyone else in the room. It can cause babies to have a lot of health problems.
I was asked by my adoption lawyer after having a baby who was conceived by a stranger at knife point for surrogacy as his wife could not keep a baby in her womb. Of course I had just delivered and so for maternal and child health you must wait. It never came about but I was considering it as it is not purchasing a child but rather caring for a person to put their life on hold to bear a child with usually your genetics depending on what the difficulties were for the couple who are getting the child. Surrogacy is a beautiful thing so long as everyone keeps to their promises and agrees to everything before hand and no one is taken advantage of.
avaorchid Coo story bruh
That would be adoption. Surrogacy is a bit different.
Olivia Hardin u still have to adopt the baby through courts 😀
danielle daffers yes but surrogacy means either part of fully genetically related to you. Adoption is not surrogacy because the child isn't genetically related to the adopee
I'm so sorry that your embryo didn't survive I cried for you hope you look to adopt 😢
emily maynard What did your crying do to help?
its called empathy....
@@savage101. Sociopath.
They said Jill self inseminated herself & used her own egg, Jill isn't a surrogate, she's the biological mother.
no thats still a surrogate
pussiriffic no there's different terms of surrogates. Ts meaning traditional surrogate (the surrogates egg and fathers sperm) gs surrogate meaning either mothers egg or donated and fathers sperm implanted into the surrogate. Do research. Just because she's biologically related to the child it doesn't mean she's not a surrogate
It’s not a surrogate, a surrogate is someone who has no biological connection to the baby. She’s given her egg as well
Gallifreyan Refugee You’re wrong! She is the biological mother....she’s giving the baby up, but she’s the mother!
That must be a struggle to do. There's not enough money in the world that will make me give up my own child. I'll surrogate, yes. Not giving away my own child.
Colin is the sweetest husband. I hope things turned out ok for them to build a family through adoption.
Hey. This is beautiful. I can't tell how happy I am. To see surrogacy being supported. So many people talk about it. But people who come out and talk about their stories. Then go for options like these. Kudos to them. They are strong. And doing their best. We should always stay by their sides. And support them than bashing them. Cheers.
I nearly adopted my son to a couple and in the end because of a wrong diagnosis..the couple decided my son wasn't good enough for them...come to find out my son was completely healthy and nothing wrong with him...I'm so glad that couple was stuck up. And shame on the Dr who said my son has down syndrome when he showed absolutely no signs of it before or after birth..
I've also considered surrogacy but apparently after having 6 healthy babies I'm not good enough....wtf
I actually know some people who deliberately chose a down syndrome child. Their reason....that the down syndrome child deserves parents that love them just as a healthy child does and it is beautiful to watch them with their little boy.
Olivia Hardin I would adopt a child with Down's syndrome! They're the most loving and beautiful people in the world, and if I found out my unborn child had it, I'd be concerned about the potential health issues, but I'd be thrilled, it would make 0 difference to me what so ever.
i didnt expect them to take on any hardache and in the end which was in fact a day later we ALL found out that my son did not have down syndrome..and as far as im concern beggers cant be choosers i was giving a life to a couple who cant have kids themselves lol...so glad i kept my son i the end anyway
im also saying that drs should not jump to conclusions about diagnosing...my son showed absolutely no signs except for apparently his crease on his hand went straight across...didnt mean anything he was just incompetent even as far as suggesting it in front of a whole room of people. plus the adoptive parents as stuck up as they were were there at the birth... forgot to bring milk for my son and he had to wait in her arms for over an hour while husband went to buy milk and bottle i ended up putting him on my breast lol so here they were bonding with my son then gave him a name then changed there minds... not that it matters just saying.. some people dont deserve any tyoe of baby with conditional love like that
Being induced is the worst. Its better to let the baby come naturally when it is ready
I really felt for paula when the news came through that it did not work.:(
It kills me when people have kids and don't want them when there are so many couples that want to have children desperately and cannot. I feel so bad for Christian and her husband they've been through so much and I hope that they were able to adopt after this documentary. May God bless you both!
I am 4 month hoping to find a couple who can take the child no hope yet
WOW THIS ENTIRE SEGMENT WAS SO TOUCHING. WHEN JILL GAVE BIRTH TO ALEXANDRA, THE ONIONS CAME OUT OF NOW WHERE, (CRYING), AND I LOVE HOW JILL DID NOT GRAB THE BABY WHEN THEY LAID ALEXANDRA ON HER. THAT WAS IMPORTANT...NOT ONLY SO SHE WOULD NOT GET ATTACHED TO THE BABY, BUT ALSO SO THE MOM WOULD BE THE FIRST TO HOLD HER. I BET MANY PPL DIDN'T NOTICE THAT. SHE KEPT HER ARMS BY HER SIDE, AND THE NURSES GRABBED THE TOWEL WRAPPED IT AROUND THE BABY, THEN HANDED HER OFF TO HER MOMMY. AND WHEN THE SISTER N LAW SURROGATE GOT THE PHONE CALL 2 HOURS LATE ABOUT THE PREGNANCY TEST, I THOUGHT SHE WAS PRANKING CHRISTIAN AND COLLIN, BY LOOKING LIKE SHE HAD BAD NEWS. I GUESS BECAUSE I WAS HOPING FOR THE BEST, ESPECIALLY SINCE THAT WAS HER LAST EMBRYO. AND THEN WHEN SHE STARTED TURNING RED AND CRYING, I WAS LIKE TELL HER IT'S A PRANK ALREADY AND YOU ARE JUST KIDDING. SADLY SHE WASN'T. THAT BROKE MY HEART. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME UNDERSTAND, THIS MAY BE A DUMB QUESTION, BUT WHY CAN'T THEY HAVE ANY KIDS AND SHE IS SO YOUNG? DOES SHE NOT HAVE ANYMORE EGGS, DID SOMETHING HAPPEN, DID THEY EXPLAIN WHY AND I MISSED IT? AND I THINK I GET WHY THEY DON'T WANT TO USE THEIR SISTER N LAW'S EGGS AND HIS SPERM, BECAUSE THAT IS HIS SISTER RIGHT, SO THAT WOULD PROBABLY FEEL LIKE INCEST TO THEM. AND I GET IT, SHE WANTS HER OWN ANYWAY. THIS SUCKS, ONLY BECAUSE THERE ARE SOOO MANY PPL IN THIS WORLD WHO HAVE CHILDREN AND DON'T WANT THEM, BUT IT SEEMS AS IF THE ONES WHO SEEMS LIKE THEY WOULD BE GREAT PARENTS SUFFER AND CAN'T CONCEIVE.....UGGHH!!! BLESS ALL OF YOU. CONGRATS TO ALEXANDRA'S PARENTS THO. I WOULD LOVE TO SEE AN UPDATE ON THEM.
Everyone is commenting on Christian smoking. Remember, this was the UK in the 90s, everyone smoked in front of everyone and they did it everywhere
Nikki Harrison no it wasn’t the 90’s
Sorry I replied that comment
This wasn't the 90's, lmao. This was filmed in the mid 2000's.
They are using cellphones that is Not the 90's🙄
Exactly, It was no different here in America. I remember going to restaurants as a kid and people smoking all the time. It was before research found that second hand smoke was just as deadly.
The video was so beautiful. Kids are such a blessing and life without kids is nothing. I want to be a mother gosh!!! i have been waiting for it since 8 years. I was TTC but nothing worked. My husband also asked me for adoption but i wanted my won biological baby. So we are visiting a clinic in ukraine for our procedure and my hopes are high. Clinic has the highly experienced staff and doctors. So i hope my journey goes well.
what is TTC
@@pearlkelly6337 TTC = trying to conceive.
My heart is broken to bits for Collin and Christian as well as Paula and Andrew...💔😭💔😭💔
People never know how a situation is unless they have been in it I didn’t think I could have children for years and it broke my heart and I never considered adopting cus I wanted my own child that had my dna and genetics I don’t see anything wrong with it but who wouldn’t want they own child and to carry a baby and give birth or just have a baby that is actually theirs you can’t force somebody to want to adopt a damn child here I am pregnant with my second baby and I couldn’t be more happier it is truly a blessing to have a baby some people just want to experience that and some people deserve just that
It is for sure a very good video out there. I found this video very useful. Infertility is really a bad experience one has to face. But it is all natural and one can do nothing against it. Surrogacy is really a blessing for couples like us who are infertile or can't conceive. Finding a surrogate mother is not an easy task but your video proved very much helpful in this case. Although there are many very well reputed and good clinics which offer surrogacy. But not all can afford them. So they go out finding surrogates on their own. SO this video is very helpful for such couples. Keep posting videos like this. Best of luck!
Surrogacy has really changed people's lives. I have just gotten into this whole thing. Finding a surrogate was a difficult task. I am glad that these day's there are clinis that provide surrogates. I went to a clinic in Ukraine. They are nice healthy women who care for your child like it's their own.
My sis and her husband divorced and immediately started fighting over the 12 embryos they had frozen. Court documents started flying back and forth and in the end the embryos thawed during an electrical failure. Hmmmmm. My sister said she asked if any other people lost their embryos. They assured her that no one else had! Fishy if you ask me.
She may need to quit smoking......Not good.
This is a fantastic series. My god, I loved it. I'm actually undergoing surrogacy. It's great to watch something you can relate to. I really hope your journey is successful. You deserve the best! Keep hope, and don't lose hope. It'll work out!
Any news Kimberley ?
I hope you had a healthy baby
Jill is such a good woman she deserves so many good things in life 💋
You can't buy a baby in America. Lol pick out a pic in and book and go pick it up when it's ready??? What the heck???
Right? I was like, "what is this woman talking about?"
I can't believe that she even thought you could buy a baby in America !!!!!!!!
Team Schroeder Don't kid yourself! That's adoption which 99% of the times is buying a baby. She was spot on
kar jam ok.. and you can pick the kind of kid you want?? You don’t have adoption in your country?
kar jam also with adoption you are not paying for the child it self. You are paying for the court stuff the paperwork. The home study’s and much more. No one is making a profit from adoption. If you don’t know that then get educated before comment about adoption. We have adopted. And not a penny goes to buying a child. Supporting that child alone coast more money then you pay for an adoption. The lady in the video made it sound like you order a child and then you go pick it up. If anyone thinks it like that or even close to that easy. They have no respect for the children being adopted and shouldn’t adopt
I just wanted to hug her after hearing her cry😩
16:36 respect to this lady 🙌
The cigarette should have never been smoked in the room
I don't know what to say. The struggle is very exhausting. I know because I've been there. Infertility had been a long journey. And in the end, surrogacy was the only option. Now I would say, I wouldn't have it any other way. We love our baby very much. It doesn't matter if someone else carried it.
If I could buy a baby in America, I would have 5 kids. They don’t let you buy babies here.
Wow I can't imagine not being able to have children. I'm 32 yo and pregnant with my 3rd child . My other two children are 14 and 12 and I always wanted to have another child . I was nervous when I finally decided to have another baby and not being able to have more children would be horrible know . I remarried and my spouse doesn't have children and this is something I wanted to share with him .I am blessed to be a mother.
Adoption is a beautiful thing. I hope it will work out for them.
personally i will never really understand why more people dont consider adoption.
Aurielle agreed however I do believe it's partly due to people being uneducated, it's never talked about in schools or in most family dynamics it doesn't have to be discussed people wouldn't know how to start
I wish I could adopt. I have tried many times over the past several years. I went to one agency they said no I am not healthy enough as I have some health issues that can restrict movements and I have mental health issues, then another said no I am not married, another I don't make enough money, and I would need to have an actual support system which I don't have
Jessica ELLIS have u considered fostering?
Caribbean Curls I have but they say no because of the no support system I have no actual family or friends and suffer some mental health issues still
I don't see why people are so obsessed with having their own baby. In the UK alone there are over 100,000 kids without a home. Why not adopt?
Can't compare adoption to having your own child.
Emma Rennie Because for many of us adoption is not an option because of financial or health issues. I have always wanted to adopt but because I am low income and have chronic migraine, and fibromyalgia etc I would never be approved to adopt.
I went through hormone treatments to get pregnant, failed, then conceived naturally and my son just turned nine. He got an infection at birth which almost killed him and caused brain damage, he is a wonderful child but has autism, adhd and tourettes. I have since miscarried three times and given up all hope of ever having another child.
Things aren't always as simple as you think.
Terhi Mäkinen well you should know better then to have kids if you are not in a position to have financed one.
Naomi Beery wth? Judgmental much? I don't think any SES, race, culture, disability, education level, religious beliefs, daily pain can negate most women's natural maternal need/urge.
Emma Rennie saw t dew c bcc d 😴
I’d like to know where they are now
The baby just came out so easily😳😳( I know it wasn’t easy but... wow)
6th baby!!!
The more babies you have, the easier it gets to deliver
May God bless myself
And everyone who is wishing for and wanting babies
With babies babies and more babies
Twins Triplets multiples
Healthy Beautiful Babies
Believe
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Nothing is impossible
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I cringe everytime I see someone giving a needle without gloves on. So nasty🤢😷
😢 I was really hoping and crossed my fingers!! Wish the embryo survived!!
Oh, that's so sweet and touching!!!! Surrogacy is a real miracle for those who are infertile or can't c arry themselves!!!! Infertility can happen to anybody, I think, even if we try our best to have a maximum healthy lifestyle... No, that's not a guarantee, unfortunately! So, God bless surrogates who save families from useless living without a child!!!
Is there any update on these two couples?
This is so beautiful. Surrogates are such humble people. Bringing smiles to the face of infertile couples is a big thing. Keep smiling guys. People like u make me feel positive and motivated. Thank you so much for sharing. I am infertile. Now I am going for surrogacy. I am going to meet Biotex clinic. They are coming to visit London in August. I am really excited to meet them. I know this is the best option I have. My friends have gone there and have done their treatment from there. I am a little bit nervous. Hoping for best. Prayers needed. Nothing is impossible until or unless one lose hope. My best wishes for your future.
I love this documentary. I've been watching it for a while. Your struggles are really sad to see. But, I really hope it ends well. This is the most difficult stage of the process. But, keep the faith. It'll work out for you. Good luck and have a good day.
I feel so sorry for women who can’t have kids. I feel so embarrassed to think that it just happened if you wanted it to. Me and my hubby wanted a baby and the next month it happened. And I’m so excited but feel bad that it’s not as easy for others
I feel sorry for ppl who have kids. What a miserable life...
Wow you must be lots of fun.@@No-xs1no
I would carry someones baby for free. The medical side of it is expensive enough without having to pay for the person to simply go through with it. I would meet the couple, then make a decision. I'm more of a giver then a taker, it would be an honour to give the gift of a child to those who couldn't have one themselves if they seem like they truly deserve it.
I'm also need a help to be coming a mother please 😭😭😭😭
Hi dear
Please I read your comments about wanting to help someone have a baby? Could you help us have a baby?
one was not a surrogate in my opinion, she gave her own child away. I can't imagine doing that, and not once but six times
luna Yes and very thought that the baby looked just like hér mother!
luna no there's different terms of surrogates. Ts meaning traditional surrogate (the surrogates egg and fathers sperm) gs surrogate meaning either mothers egg or donated and fathers sperm implanted into the surrogate. Do research. Just because she's biologically related to the child it doesn't mean she's not a surrogate
aww they have an African grey parrot :)
I was really hoping for a good outcome, for the 2 couples
So sad 😭.
Some times life is truly beautiful x
OMG I CANNOT BELEIVE SHE IS SMOKING!!!!!!!!!!!
Is there any updates to find out if Christian and Collin were able to adopt??
2:51 wow
I'm sorry but Jill and Oliver give me creeps. Again sorry. I'm just not a touchy feely person.
They are creepy and weird. I agree with you
Can't believe this woman smoking!!
Charmaine Snyman you choose for you and she chooses for herself. Its not a crime. If it bothers you then you have issues.
Charmaine Snyman Who are you...the Virgin Mary?
Get over it
People that have or are able to have their own children are always the most nasty about those that cannot. Always quick to deny other parents that longed for child.
smoking is disgusting.
roo linson she shouldn't have smoked around the pregnant woman
But she weren't pregnant.....
roo linson kills too
Drinking is disgusting too. It’s nasty.
Christian said her greatest pain was not knowing what a child of hers would look like. Fortunately, there are computer apps these days that can produce pictures that combine the looks of any two people. :)
Jill you are a wonderful sister.
i love these 💚
I always look forward to the reviews or documentaries which has dissimilar perception. I love to hear about the perception of the individuals. This should be the one thing that IP only want families no matter where the child comes from. Either that is adopted or not. There should be much more positivity in this world that would help the IP to build their families happily without considering the perceptions of the other.
I can gladly carry someone's in my womb at NO cost at all,, I want to see every woman become a mother if that's their wish,,
Madre es la que pone el óvulo ni la que paga ni la que gesta.
IVF has come so far! As a person who went through IVF, it was so interesting to see how they did it all those years ago. The rollercoaster of emotions going through hasn't improved though, but the actual process has improved greatly.
EMBRYO ADOPTION.. ttc couples should try that once IVF with your own eggs or donor eggs+ husbabd sperm dont pan out.. try embryo adoption... so many babies on ICE just waiting to be chosen!
It is heartbreaking for me to see that newborn taken from its bio mother....breast milk is so important. The downfall with surrogacy in my eyes
This Kim woman is an extremely gorgeous English woman she reminds me of Lady Diana ❤
I hate how they called it 'her husbands child'
People who really love children will adopt if they can't have biological child.Saying that you only can love your biological child is like people loving dogs but only pure breads.Love can not be limited by genes. Either you love or you don't. There are so many children waiting to be adopted, so there is no lacking of need for love.
Irena Kuvizic thats ridiculous. Loving your biological child isn't just simple. There are hormones involved and genes. Its a different kind of love for your biological children. You can learn to love an adopted child but birthing your own is very, very different.
Irena Kuvizic i would love to adopt but the process is so strict
NayLouise24 but these women aren’t birthing their own, they’re using surrogates.
QUEENBEE200384 but it’s biologically theirs
For me love is very biological. I never loved or liked kids before having my own. When my son was born, the love just came. A gift from nature.
I tolerate and even love other children much more now, but it is totally not the same.
lol that cat tattoo
Finding the best surrogate mother is always a difficult part in solving the problems related to infertility. The most important thing here to notice is that they are paying a lot of amount to these mothers. They even don't know about them but i came to know about a clinic. This clinic is providing the surrogate mothers and your can choose according to your choice. This clinic is based in Ukraine and working great so please try atleast once.
u hope Jill (Gill) gets to play a role in the upbringing in the baby's life and be part if the family I mean she's owed that much
Actually I don’t think surrogacy is a bad thing . There are people who dreamt of having children when they were merely children themselves . However , not everyone is able to realize that dream , and they also realize that they just don’t have the capabilities of raising a child . If people like these have the health to carry a baby for someone else and they are willing to do so , they should go for it . I think it would be the upmost privilege to carry a child on the inside. Should my health treat me differently I would have gone for it . However given that I feel some 50 year old people are healthier than me , I unfortunately can’t carry a child to term . So much can go wrong with the baby and myself given my health condition.
Yes I am aware that these surrogates can die giving birth but ultimately all human beings in this earth will die someday . No one is immortal .
There is always a debate on surrogacy vs adoption. Everyone has the right to get its own baby. A baby that is biologically related to you. A child would never like to listen that he/she was adopted. Surrogacy has solved this problem. Now the couples get their own child. Europe is the best infertility clinics. They are doing the best jobs.
How does one apply to be a surrogate?
They can adopt! There's hundreds and thousands of children, babies and teens that need a mum and dad there's hope
Sarah Aussie Pride how many kids have you adopted?
Where did she get the idea it was easy to get a baby in America??
This is such a heartwarming documentary. Awww. 😍
Hey. Such a wonderful video. It is never easy to face infertility. I am an infertile woman. It is like a curse. I want to be a mom. But I think it is not in fate. I am now deciding to go for surrogacy. I need prayers.
I'm in texas I'll be your surrogate if you haven't found one yet
@@jdozeparsons3249 i want to be a mother also I don't have uterus but I have ovaria i'm Namibia gal
@@selmakambala well if youre in texas hit me up
Still could have had a baby that was biologically his would have been somthing
very informative video. In the case of a gestational carrier, the woman carrying the pregnancy is in no way biologically related to the child she is carrying; the eggs and sperm are derived from the intended parents. One of my friends also suffered same issue. But she had twins by this treatment. It will added information to your knowledge. Surrogation is the best option. This method will work.
She smoked and cried.
Strange that the lady takes a seat in front instead of next to the 2 days old baby...
adela sardela I didn't sit in thr neck with my babies when they were born
Why is that strange??
That Liverpool girl must quit smoking.
The older woman is annoying,
That is what I said! So disrespectful and obnoxious.
That mother to be needs to stop smoking!!! She obviously does not care about the health of those around her. Quite selfish I think.
Omg are you kidding me? Get over it, smoking had nothing to do with this story.
@@wildfirerebel99 but if Paula were pregnant it would matter, the baby could have health issues and a premature birth.
A time comes in your life when a child becomes a need. We all want and deserve to experience parenthood. It starts to eat the infertile people inside. I have been through this. But im glad i found this amazing clinic in ukraine. Thing have completely changed for me now. I have a one year old son of my own. I fought with my infertility and became a mother.
by taking advantage of poor women in Ukraine 😒
This is such an eye opener. There are couples who are going through a lot out there. I am sure this is just a few than what others can do. Many people are looking for ways to become parents. To those who nature blessed with fertility. Should be appreciative and thankful too. This is why it breaks my heart to see abortion cases. When I remember what others can go through to just be pregnant. Yet others are misusing that opportunity. I am glad that this has been highlighted. So others can learn from this. Being pregnant is an opportunity and should not be. It should act as a lesson instead. I am really touched at the extent some parents will go. We have also heard some cases of parents even going to lengths that are not healthy for them. I have been in Bio tex clinic and I have seen similar cases.