Mind games Secrets kept all across America you blocking numbers not responding to messages following a set lifestyle tell your Husband about that nothing else matters ...like why you act however you act million others like you and you not special
Please. I have relatives whose parents have been married for over 30 years should have divorced twenty plus years ago. Their three children all have children and have never been married. One of the daughters has little girls with different fathers, and one of the fathers was in jail for years and the other is not around. Their other daughter basically doesn't work and wants to be a stay at home mom, when the father of her children is not around nor contributes financially. So she's living off section 8 and food stamps. The son lives with the mother of his children. But they sleep in different beds in the same room and he cheats. I knew someone once who grew up in a two parent household, and she was basically a hoe. Getting paid or having bills paid for walking around in lingerie is one example. Went to jail for theft once and another time for distributing ecstasy. I had to ✂️ ties. A two parent household means nothing if they have a horrible relationship, abusive (emotional or physical) to their child(ren), not good providers, or not truly present for their significant other or child(ren). Too many people get married for the wrong reason or stay in an unhealthy marriage for their children, which is sad.
@TheCurlyFitChicOriginal look up the statistics and data. Overall 2 parent households are far more likely to garner healthy children and successful adults than single parent households. Anecdotal personal experiences and "I know somebody that..." doesn't change that.
I think a lot of people forget that everybody is not suitable to be apparent. It's not about having both of them in the household. It's about who is putting what into you. Who is building your character? Who is strengthening your morals and your principles?
It absolutely is about having both of them in the household Sir, knock it off with the terrible takes smh......just be sure to do what ☝🏿 said and there's no issue......BEFOREHAND. Not making goofy comments after the fact saying "everybody aint fit".....well duh, that's why you survey them first!!
People miss their blessings all the time by starting with all of these ridiculous benchlines, especially today. The willful ignorance is very sad to watch
Agreed. With the divorce rate as high as it is, it’s rare that ppl have both parents in the house. Now you gotta think about what if one of the parents died when the child was young. Does that count? What about the parents being divorced but both are active in the child’s life? Using that as a standard is dumb but hey it’s her preference as long as she understands that she’s missing out on good guys and is gonna be single for a while.
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It is the digital market. That's been the secret to this wealth transfer. A lot of folks in the US and abroad are getting so much from it, God has been good to my household Thank you Jesus
Coming from a two parent household myself. There’s is a huge difference between the two. But would it really be fair to say “oh you didn’t grow up with both parents and I know it’s not your fault, but you don’t deserve love”. Like make that make sense A healed person is what you look for
I disagree completely. I married and had my first and only child with a man who was raised in a 2 parent household. He was very unstable tho. He had a ton of emotional issues, anger issues, he was spoiled and extremely self-centered, etc. His father never taught him how to be a man/husband/father, he was simply present. I've dated men raised by one parent who were definitely better men in many ways. The dynamic of your family truly matters, not just that there's both parents present. My now ex husband is a horrible father to our daughter, and she's both of our first & only child. 🤷🏾♀️
My dad said if you want your wife to respect you, make sure she loved her father and there was a healthy/active/consistant relationship. That can go both ways tho for men and women.
@@Fadetranada I agree. I also believe that knowing how she handled when her father told her "no" (or if he ever even told her no) is big! Another thing I will add is NEVER date a mommy's girl. A momma's boy will at least have the world set him straight - a mommy's girl will just run crying to mommy and have her told she's correct and 'everything else everywhere else all the time' is what is really wrong.
@@oladeebiazazi4538 depends on the daddy. Is he a masculine man that understands his little princess can be wrong? Or is he someone who thinks that even at 28 or 48, she's still his little princess? Has he ever told her "no"? Has she learned to accept "no"? Mommy's girl is outright impossible but daddy's girl with a weak father can add entirely new layers of problems because you not only have a maladjusted adult to deal with in the form of her, but a nonsensical guardian who shields her from all lessons in the form of him! Pay attention: is he helping prepare her for a world where she will be the matriarch of a family or is he essentially trying to replace the non romantic roles of a husband in her life. It's something to watch carefully.
@@oladeebiazazi4538 Daddy's girls can be an issue too. Most of the time the dad never turns the princess off and when they realize what they created they just laugh and deal with it. The dad is usually an ATM and she goes looking for another one.
Disagree with dad. You are respected for who you are. If you're respectable and give it, so shall you receive. The woman might not respect her father; but she can respect you. What about the woman with an absentee or deceased dad; she can't respect you.... therefore she's unworthy? A lot of men don't know their dads or had any interaction, should they be ignored by women? Respect is earned... and based on character. Plenty of people have healthy relationships with their dad, flawed character... that's not worthy of respect.
Love these topics lately: accountability and two parent VS one parent household dating. KEEP doing these segments and speaking with people on the phones unbiasly.
@@ClaxtonBay123 First thing the girl wants to see is how much money you make. She doesn't want to split bills. She would rather have everything taken care off for her and her kids. Also, the kids will remind you that your not their real dad and you can't tell them what to do even tho it's your house and your money spent on the kids clothes shoes and education. The girl will stick by her son and say hey, you have no control. #johnnyx100 triggers alot of people 😂 I know
I come from a two parent household and dated and had kid by a man who had two parents in the house and he acted like a guy who was raised by just his mom!!!! The guy who was raised by just his mom was very respectful!!!
I dated a dude who was raise by both parents & he was a WOMEN BEATER 🤷🏽♀️ He seen his daddy do it to his mother. Now, I’m married to a man who was raised by his mother & he treats me like his EVERYTHING. It really doesn’t matter because ppl gone live life like they want to.
Mind games Y'all the ones acting alike right the blocking the astrology travel do everything RIGHT mindset because we sometimes do things wrong . Another group sets the tone I'm sure it's not y'all. Neither know of each other . But for you to have all these kids going along . Babies on board you acting like people have a set lifestyle mindset . We gone tell them if y'all don't . Boston Richie help me smurk Carter Montana 700 pipeline
Mind games (All across America ATL Memphis TN Detroit STL Texas Tell your husband the truth self sabotaging relationships. You get your attitude from another woman .
I don't know how to comment on here without writing an entire book. Long story short: single-parent household, moved out at 17, became a single father at 21 when he was 3 months old (he's 16 now), I don't have mommy or daddy issues, been happily married for 4 years (been together for 8 years) with my best friend and she came from a two-parent Christian household. I didn't get into drugs or trouble, didn't drop out of school, didn't sleep around, only been in long term relationships without cheating.
I’ve dated men with both maternal parents , mom and step dad, adopted parents, just raised by mom , raised by grand parents and none of that matters. That individual person own morals and what they’ve been through shapes who they become.
Its a probability thing. Being raised in a 2-parent household IN GENERAL produces children better equipped to be mentally healthier adults with more maturity. Its just a higher probability that you will have fewer issues with relationships, treating others, showing affection, etc. if you grew up in a healthy 2-parent household. For boys especially, the negative impact of not having a father figure around the house everyday growing up is even larger than it is with girls. But of course there are exceptions to every rule/generalization.
I was raised in a two parent household and I will tell you my family dynamic was and is toxic and I would never pretend this makes me automatically "better" to be in a relationship with because of my parents staying together. My parents actually showed me everything I didn't want to be as a wife or parent. 🤷🏾♀️
I was raised in a ‘loving’ two parent household. BOTH parents were loving toward each other and toward us kids. The same with my wife. We’ve been married for nearly nine years (seems like two) and I’m living my best life. Our home is filled with love and I pray it stays that way. Not saying I agree or disagree with the lady’s comment. I do think she could have worded it better however.
This is the one. Folks try to make the exception to the rule. It’s nobodies fault but a 2 parent household statistically speaking has a better outcome. Especially with long term relationships.
Some of the situations I see in particular with men that were raised by their mothers only. 1. The mother are very possessive of them and are opinionated in their son’s relationship. It’s has if they replace them with being a partner. “They are the man in their lives.” 2. The men are momma’s boy to the point they don’t think for themselves they need their mothers’ take on everything serious in their lives. 3. For the mothers “no woman will ever be enough for their sons 4. The single mothers condone the cheating (a whole harem) and cover for their sons. While from a marital household the mothers appreciate and stand by monogamy/marital relationships. 5. Single mothers watch the money their sons give their women. because now that their sons are making money, it’s her time now to be spent on (since I was a single mother doing everything).
A two parent household is generally more stable than a single parent household. There’s a reason that prisons are mostly filled with inmates who grew up in single parent households. There are obviously exceptions to every rule, but generally speaking a two parent household is far more advantageous than a single parent household.
Exactly. A lot of people are offended because they were raised by single parent. I personally can’t date any man from a single parent cause I’m likely to bring up stats like this and my partner would be triggered.
You expect Jess and Charlemagne to know what a statistic is let alone interpret one? This is why listening to those two (Envy was surprisingly rational) is like listening to two crack heads extolling the wonders of LSD and baking soda. It's surreal.
@@simongomez4544ehh i’d say the crack epidemic/ low income jobs, redlining, the Crime Bill and poor education in generally black neighborhoods as better causes to that issue
As a man who grew up with both parents, there’s some degree of truth to it. In my observation, women who don’t grow up with a father in the home, that they love & respect. Tend to be less respectful and appreciative of men.
There's always been dating advice. Why do you think womens magazines we're so popular before the internet? Why do you think people could make money of of dumb horoscopes and crystals? As long as we are sold the Fairy tale idea of relationships from birth, the industry of "how to stop being single" Will always be here. Especially because humans hate being lonely.
My father told me to get a woman that had a 2 parent household. It's a difference ONLY if the parents were actually PARENTS. I came from a balanced household and I was taught that I would be different. And I am... And my brother is too. And both of my parents DID NOT come from 2 parent homes
Ive dated both and it just depends on how they were raised by the parents. For men who dont have a mom it does show up in different ways (especially if the mom was a deadbeat). And if the man wasnt there sometimes it shows then as well. On the flip side, Ive dated men who had both parents whose expectations were thise of what he saw (and thats not always positive). Ive had great boyfriends who were both raised by both parents and who was raised by single parents. It depends on whats being instilled in them.
I've actually married both. The one with a single mother she could be over bearing at times. And he had a hard upbringing of homelessness but worked his ass off to never deal with that again. And then the one who had both of his parents. All of them were mentally screwed up. One committed a double murder because he felt like it. My MIL was in constant competition with me. It was like her husband wasn't there but he was sitting right there. So it depends...
@NellieB40 There are exceptions to every rule. That should go without saying. In general, people have grown up in an 2 parent household are better equipped for long-term relations.
I pray to be around people with high emotional intelligence, whether it is facilitated through a balanced healthy childhood or through therapy as an adult, because some of us don't get to the privilege of having a peaceful safe loving home with both parents, or a single parent some of us come from homes with no real caregiver in it at all.
yall not sticking to the point, the fact she come from a single parent home is not the point, she talking about what SHE wants, period, the direction should be what's the facts about 2 parent vs 1 parent, not all this other stuff and situations yall bringing up
People have no choice in what family they were born into and they shouldn't be punished for that. Find someone who has good values and knows how to love and treat you and go from there.
I am from a two parent household with someone from a broken home. And yeah, dealing with her family baggage is a struggle 😢 But we love each other, so we do the hard relationship work in hopes that we break generational trauma cycles on both sides
@@gothamtylerit's beyond "for the streets", it's about being with a woman who recognizes and respects masculinity and the masculine frame. A lot of women resent things like discipline. Some may say different but remember TBC just a few months ago did a call in with women saying how much they hate hearing "no".
Yep. I guess that's why 70% of Black children are born out of wedlock and there is a 30% marriage rate. Marriage and two parent households must be horrible.
Mind games Y'all the ones acting alike right the blocking the astrology travel do everything RIGHT mindset because we sometimes do things wrong . Another group sets the tone I'm sure it's not y'all. Neither know of each other . But for you to have all these kids going along . Babies on board you acting like people have a set lifestyle mindset .
I like this conversation. As someone who grew up without a biological dad and an emotionally incompetent mother, there are both mother/father wounds that I am having to address. If someone was dealt less than an ideal hand in life, 2 parents or not, you have to assess how much work they've done to be viable in a relationship.
Do you know how many abused, abusers, narcissists, racists, and promiscuous have come from two parent households? What matters most are children raised by Balanced parents. We put too much emphasis on image and numbers and too little on worth/value.
@Oracledeborah Woman, when we say to two parent household, it’s already implied that we’re talking about balance. GEESH! Empty your cups. You all give me headaches.
@@OneDoorClosesOneDoorOpens Well then you need to specifically say that. It’s not like there isn’t a war on Black single mothers out here. The first image that pops in people’s minds when you say single parent households is single Black mothers. And balance is presumed when you say two parent households. Stop playing, sir!
@OracleDeborah Don’t get me wrong. There should be a war on single mothers because: 1. You control access to sex (meaning you choose the partner you’re going to allow to skeet inside of you). 2. You control if a child is going to be brought to term or aborted. (A man has zero control of that according to society and how women want it. 3. It’s your body and you’re the gate keeper of what’s going in and what’s coming out. Even if a man skeets inside of you, there should a back up plan in place. Modern women only wants control when it’s suits you. When I asked a women why didn’t she have a secondary plan in place, “the blame gets shifted. With 100% control if a baby is going to come out you, comes great responsibility. You all have failed miserably. You all want to be promiscuous but don’t want the shame that comes with it.
It's crazy how many women agree to this. Because in some sort of backhanded way, women are putting other women down if they're saying they won't date a man raised by just a woman. So are you saying that a woman can't raise a good man by herself? Strong women raise strong men on a daily basis.
I dated a guy from a 2 parent household. He went on to create about 7 single parent households. It’s more about your values & how you were raised. Was there healthy & happy love in the home??
@@JaylemT33 fax. You can tell by my work ethic. I drop 1 song every week after working a 40 hour work week. And it's not special. That's what a man does. These dudes on the corner hanging wit drug dealers not getting paid but they more gangsta cuz they not finna let nobody tell them what to do a no JOB. ha they aren't push overs like us. 😂 them boys got no money bro. I walk passed them every day wit my nice clothes and food. They look at me like I'm the imposter. 😂 nakers
Definitely a HUGE difference. The guy I was with for 7 years was TOXIC and raised by his mother with mommy issues. He praised his dad more than the person that whipped his butt. My current relationship he was raised in a 2 parent god fearing housewhole and it’s just been beautiful. He is RESPECTFUL and that’s #1 for me. ❤
If you lack complexity it's very difficult to analyze people and see past their facade, so people try to develop cheatcodes and pre-qualifications hoping it can make up for their inability to properly scrutinize and thoroughly evaluate their partner.
Two healthy, loving parents will produce a better child financially and emotionally than any other scenario, including one healthy parent or two unhealthy parents. That is the standard our community should aim for.
I can’t specifically say the difference has anything to do with which parents were in the home because I wasn’t really checking for it. I happened to marry someone whose parents are still together since his birth. I think he was more interested in being married because that’s what he knew, regardless of how his parents interacted. I think how they interacted helped him decide who he was and wasn’t going to be in our marriage.
I mean statistically people from a two parent home do better in marraiges. They are less likely to divorce. I’m married to someone who didn’t come from a two parent home. I wish he grew up with a father but hey that’s life. It’s hard finding guys that come from the perfect background so you just gotta find a good persojb
How Jess gonna say it don’t matter and she literally gave three examples of guys that came from a single parent household, and the relationship didn’t go well and the first thing she asked her new man was… where your mommy at?? 😂😂
She shares my sentiment I married a person from a 1 parent home, actually raised by grandparents, I regret it to this day lol I have said I will encourage my kids to marry people who come from two parent homes
Lmao it literally does not matter what number of parents someone has. What matters is if the person you’re dating was raised right. Plenty of 2 parent households are dysfunctional. 2 parents doesn’t mean good parents 😂
You can have 2 parents and one parent carries more weight than the other, abuse isn't just physical, it can be verbal and emotional. Just because a parent is present doesn't mean they're in a more healthy environment.
Dysfunction happens in all types of households BUT there is no comparison in a single parent vs a 2 parent home. If you look at other cultures that have a 2 parent home as a standard you see the benefits of it propels them far above us who celebrate broken homes and bastard children. I don't see why this is an argument... We're losing primarily because a solid family structure isn't priority in our community. *And I come from a single parent home.
@devin3955 NO ONE Is disagreeing with that point. You are slow. Most businesses fail. Should I encourage someone NOT to go into business because of it? Half of marriages end in divorce... by your logic, we shouldn't encourage marriage. THE BEST SCENARIO for a child is a TWO-PARENT household. Asians are at the top of every statistic... why.... because they embrace the nuclear family. Black Americans are so brainwashed by the enemy.... they make foolish posts like yours that say it doesn't matter. White Daddy fooled you..... Take it from a man who was raised in a two parent household, and carried the tradition with my own family... who has also been a school teacher and seen it first hand from students with one parent.... it's not even close. Stop believing the lies the enemy of progress has convinced you to buy into. Smh
My ex grew up and lived in a 2 person household and he was the worst boyfriend i ever had. He was very mentally unstable. If he would have never told me his dad and mom are still together i would have never assumed he had his dad in his life based off his actions. Moral of the story….date someone who is mentally stable and healed from any trama they may have went through regardless on if they grew up in a 2 parent household or not!
I’m married to a man who came from a broken home (no father and mother was on drugs) and dated someone prior to him with a two parent home. And what I would say is it is not about how many parents were in the house it’s about what went into raising you and once you grow up, ensuring that you are healed, and whole. I grew up with both parents and my parents often said you’re not your child’s only influence, and with that it takes a village to raise a child so you have to make sure as a parent that everyone around your child understands influence, example and impact.
Dr. Ben Carson, a retired neurosurgeon, academic, author, and politician came from a single parent household. And the Menendez brothers came from a two parent household and murdered their parents. The point is, I understand that two parent households are proven to be generally more stable and healthy. However, I would advise anyone to judge if the person came from a loving household instead. Generalizations can be dangerous and can block your blessings. I've witnessed toxicity in both types of households.
She forgot education level. That part matters too. People that come from two parent households that are educated at the college level are statistically more successful in relationships. While not a guarantee for success it definitely helps barring any psychological abnormalities.
Facts! My Bm raised by a single mom for most of her life then had a very passive step father late in life. You couldn’t tell her anything because she was coddled and couldn’t take correction from a man. Constant chaos and drama. My gf now came from a solid 2-parent home and understands the dynamics of a masculine man and a feminine mom. Such a huge difference and my relationship is soooo much more peaceful 💯
There are tons of literature on the subject. It’s well known children being raised by two parents are better in school, less likely to become teens parents etc etc. The list goes on. Or are we supposed to believe somebody’s to be more influential?
The fact that this is a debate shows that tons of black communities will not make it. If you are super religious & don’t realize God designed the two parent household your church failed you. Get your money back & try again.
I agree with her. I'd prefer to date a man from a 2 parent healthy household. Statistically, a person from a single parent household who marries someone from a 2 parent household, the marriage would be more successful than 2 people from single parent households.
I understand cause I treated my ex wife exactly how I saw my dad treat his now deceased wife. He took care of home, paid all bills. His wife was a homemaker. But my mother was the mistress, (she never married )😅 so I did the exact thing with my ex wife. But after therapy I’m a much better person!
It's strange how people can't see life beyond their personal experience. She's setting limitations on her future based on two past relationships and one of them shouldn't have even dealt with her since she was raised by a single parent, right? That ish sounds idiotic. So many types of people raise healthy successful children.
This is why you have counseling, but you have to put in the work. The other thing, because she didn't come from a two parents household. When she was able to have that experience. She realized that WHAT she wanted in her life. It's different from everybody experience...
In my personal experience, it mattered greatly. I dated women from both sides, and the women who came from a good 2 parent household were day and night better. Not even close. Besides all of this, 2 parent households are better in every measurable statistical category.
There is a misconception about men raised in two parent households. Ppl think it's greener on that side, but it's not. I noticed that they may not have mommy or daddy issues, but if the father was not affectionate towards the children and towards the wife, if the mother was a mean know it all full of drama, if the father never celebrated his wife and visa versa...then that man will embody all those negative aspects as well. I honestly had to teach and still am teaching mine how to treat me, though he is from a 2 parent household. It's rough!
I’m a woman that was raised by both parents in the home. ITS A HUGE DIFFERENCE. The men I dated have mostly come from broken homes have many issues. Do the work on yourself and stop starting families with women continuing the cycle that you grew up in.
I agree with Tha God. I come from a single parent household. My mom raised me and taught me how to treat a woman equally, and with respect. My uncle taught me not to hit women, ever, no compromise. My grandmother taught me how to do chores myself and not expect or wait on a woman to do that for me. So it is all about what principles you were taught as a child. Remember, it takes a village to raise a child. I know a guy who grew up in a two parent household, he loves his wife, provides for his family 100%, but he abuses his wife physically and verbally. So life is not that black and white. There is no rule to this. It's unwise to generalize based on our minute experiences.
Chile, relationships are doomed now. Everyone has so many prerequisites. You want someone only from a two parent household, yet YOU were raised by a single mother. 😒🚮
@Ebony0420 No. It’s usually women who have a long list of prerequisites but is bringing a high body count (more than likely) and another man’s child. 😂
That question is subjective. There are men who come from 2 parent households that are jacked up and some from single parent households that are awesome. It really depends on what the parent(s) instilled in their child(ren).
Date a Healed person.
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Yes because you can grow up in a household with two parents and still turn out horrible.
@@kb8350That's cuz just being around ain't enough. If you're around but you ain't teaching your kids shit you may as well not be around.
@@mh1970 No lies detected.
Be healed yourself
A healthy household is the goal.
Yes, because an unhealthy two parent household is like growing up with a single parent.
@@Mrsprice220that’s worse because you have two people actively bringing out the worst in each other.
Mind games
Secrets kept all across America you blocking numbers not responding to messages following a set lifestyle tell your Husband about that nothing else matters ...like why you act however you act million others like you and you not special
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That is absolutely the goal. Statistically speaking, a two parent household has a better chance of achieving that goal.
I was raised in a two-parent household. Had a kid with someone who was from a broken household.... yeah, date someone who is healed and mature.
Same situation, I agree💯
Kids need healthy and happy parents/ adults who are active and positive period.
A 2 parent household (a husband and wife) is ideal. It sets the children up for a better future. Argue with the stats.
Black people don't like stats and facts.
Please. I have relatives whose parents have been married for over 30 years should have divorced twenty plus years ago. Their three children all have children and have never been married. One of the daughters has little girls with different fathers, and one of the fathers was in jail for years and the other is not around. Their other daughter basically doesn't work and wants to be a stay at home mom, when the father of her children is not around nor contributes financially. So she's living off section 8 and food stamps. The son lives with the mother of his children. But they sleep in different beds in the same room and he cheats.
I knew someone once who grew up in a two parent household, and she was basically a hoe. Getting paid or having bills paid for walking around in lingerie is one example. Went to jail for theft once and another time for distributing ecstasy. I had to ✂️ ties.
A two parent household means nothing if they have a horrible relationship, abusive (emotional or physical) to their child(ren), not good providers, or not truly present for their significant other or child(ren). Too many people get married for the wrong reason or stay in an unhealthy marriage for their children, which is sad.
@TheCurlyFitChicOriginal look up the statistics and data. Overall 2 parent households are far more likely to garner healthy children and successful adults than single parent households. Anecdotal personal experiences and "I know somebody that..." doesn't change that.
@thecurlyfitchic how do you know they should’ve been divorced.You sound like you minding somebody else’s business.
I think a lot of people forget that everybody is not suitable to be apparent. It's not about having both of them in the household. It's about who is putting what into you. Who is building your character? Who is strengthening your morals and your principles?
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Think like that b4 u have the kid not after
It absolutely is about having both of them in the household Sir, knock it off with the terrible takes smh......just be sure to do what ☝🏿 said and there's no issue......BEFOREHAND. Not making goofy comments after the fact saying "everybody aint fit".....well duh, that's why you survey them first!!
*A parent
@@outsidethebox8406 Thank you. I was doing a talk text.
There's so many complexities and nuances in life so using this as a baseline can get you mislead.
yep🙌🏽
People miss their blessings all the time by starting with all of these ridiculous benchlines, especially today. The willful ignorance is very sad to watch
Agreed. With the divorce rate as high as it is, it’s rare that ppl have both parents in the house. Now you gotta think about what if one of the parents died when the child was young. Does that count? What about the parents being divorced but both are active in the child’s life? Using that as a standard is dumb but hey it’s her preference as long as she understands that she’s missing out on good guys and is gonna be single for a while.
Yup
*Larry Burkett's book on "Giving and Tithing" drew me closer to God and helped my spirituality. 2020 was a year I literally lived it. I cashed in my life savings and gave it all away. My total giving amounted to 40,000 dollars. Everyone thought I was delusional. Today, 1 receive 85,000 dollars every two months. I have a property in Calabasas, CA, and travel a lot. God has promoted me more than once and opened doors for me to live beyond my dreams. God kept to his promises to and for me*
There's wonder working power in following Kingdom principles on giving and tithing. Hallelujah!
But then, how do you get all that in that period of time? What is it you do please, mind sharing?
It is the digital market. That's been the secret to this wealth transfer. A lot of folks in the US and abroad are getting so much from it, God has been good to my household Thank you Jesus
Big thanks to Ms. Susan Jane Christy❤️✨💯May God bless Christy Fiore services,she have changed thousands of lives globally
How can I start this digital market, any guidelines and how can I reach out to her?
Coming from a two parent household myself. There’s is a huge difference between the two. But would it really be fair to say “oh you didn’t grow up with both parents and I know it’s not your fault, but you don’t deserve love”. Like make that make sense
A healed person is what you look for
Just because you can't control your parents doesn't mean you can't be judged on it. The same goes for height requirements in dating.
I disagree completely. I married and had my first and only child with a man who was raised in a 2 parent household. He was very unstable tho. He had a ton of emotional issues, anger issues, he was spoiled and extremely self-centered, etc. His father never taught him how to be a man/husband/father, he was simply present. I've dated men raised by one parent who were definitely better men in many ways. The dynamic of your family truly matters, not just that there's both parents present. My now ex husband is a horrible father to our daughter, and she's both of our first & only child. 🤷🏾♀️
My dad said if you want your wife to respect you, make sure she loved her father and there was a healthy/active/consistant relationship. That can go both ways tho for men and women.
@@Fadetranada I agree. I also believe that knowing how she handled when her father told her "no" (or if he ever even told her no) is big! Another thing I will add is NEVER date a mommy's girl. A momma's boy will at least have the world set him straight - a mommy's girl will just run crying to mommy and have her told she's correct and 'everything else everywhere else all the time' is what is really wrong.
What about a Daddy’s girl?
@@oladeebiazazi4538 depends on the daddy. Is he a masculine man that understands his little princess can be wrong? Or is he someone who thinks that even at 28 or 48, she's still his little princess? Has he ever told her "no"? Has she learned to accept "no"? Mommy's girl is outright impossible but daddy's girl with a weak father can add entirely new layers of problems because you not only have a maladjusted adult to deal with in the form of her, but a nonsensical guardian who shields her from all lessons in the form of him! Pay attention: is he helping prepare her for a world where she will be the matriarch of a family or is he essentially trying to replace the non romantic roles of a husband in her life. It's something to watch carefully.
@@oladeebiazazi4538 Daddy's girls can be an issue too. Most of the time the dad never turns the princess off and when they realize what they created they just laugh and deal with it. The dad is usually an ATM and she goes looking for another one.
Disagree with dad. You are respected for who you are. If you're respectable and give it, so shall you receive. The woman might not respect her father; but she can respect you. What about the woman with an absentee or deceased dad; she can't respect you.... therefore she's unworthy? A lot of men don't know their dads or had any interaction, should they be ignored by women? Respect is earned... and based on character. Plenty of people have healthy relationships with their dad, flawed character... that's not worthy of respect.
Love these topics lately: accountability and two parent VS one parent household dating.
KEEP doing these segments and speaking with people on the phones unbiasly.
yessss
I get why other cultures pick the relationship for their children. They are seeing what to look for, aside from lust, looks, and morals!
Our men have been forsaken.
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Wow
Agreed
No. Other Cultures pick based on the Bank Account of the other family. They want you to marry UP. That's about it.
I def see why arrange marriages have high success rates…
@@ClaxtonBay123 First thing the girl wants to see is how much money you make. She doesn't want to split bills. She would rather have everything taken care off for her and her kids. Also, the kids will remind you that your not their real dad and you can't tell them what to do even tho it's your house and your money spent on the kids clothes shoes and education. The girl will stick by her son and say hey, you have no control.
#johnnyx100 triggers alot of people 😂 I know
I come from a two parent household and dated and had kid by a man who had two parents in the house and he acted like a guy who was raised by just his mom!!!! The guy who was raised by just his mom was very respectful!!!
I dated a dude who was raise by both parents & he was a WOMEN BEATER 🤷🏽♀️ He seen his daddy do it to his mother. Now, I’m married to a man who was raised by his mother & he treats me like his EVERYTHING. It really doesn’t matter because ppl gone live life like they want to.
You're a outlier. Stats show single parent household raise the worse people
He SAW not he SEEN!! LEARN PROPER GRAMMAR PLEASE!
@Mrsgregg87
He’s probably a simp that doesn’t hold you to any standard. I bet you can do as you please regardless if it’s disrespectful.
Mind games
Y'all the ones acting alike right the blocking the astrology travel do everything RIGHT mindset because we sometimes do things wrong . Another group sets the tone I'm sure it's not y'all. Neither know of each other . But for you to have all these kids going along . Babies on board you acting like people have a set lifestyle mindset . We gone tell them if y'all don't . Boston Richie help me smurk Carter Montana 700 pipeline
Mind games (All across America ATL Memphis TN Detroit STL Texas
Tell your husband the truth self sabotaging relationships. You get your attitude from another woman .
I don't know how to comment on here without writing an entire book. Long story short: single-parent household, moved out at 17, became a single father at 21 when he was 3 months old (he's 16 now), I don't have mommy or daddy issues, been happily married for 4 years (been together for 8 years) with my best friend and she came from a two-parent Christian household.
I didn't get into drugs or trouble, didn't drop out of school, didn't sleep around, only been in long term relationships without cheating.
That's man. Thank you for sharing your experience to help change the narrative. Without your input people will continue to uphold stereotypes! 🙏🏾💕✨
@@EButta71 thanks for commenting. Hopefully this shines a light bright enough for others to see 🙏
These the conversations we need to have
I’ve dated men with both maternal parents , mom and step dad, adopted parents, just raised by mom , raised by grand parents and none of that matters. That individual person own morals and what they’ve been through shapes who they become.
What kind of hosehold influences their morals and what they been through
Exactly!
Amen
Damn you been around
@Bigtiff
You are what you attract.
Numbers don’t lie. 2 parent households are better.
Its a probability thing. Being raised in a 2-parent household IN GENERAL produces children better equipped to be mentally healthier adults with more maturity. Its just a higher probability that you will have fewer issues with relationships, treating others, showing affection, etc. if you grew up in a healthy 2-parent household. For boys especially, the negative impact of not having a father figure around the house everyday growing up is even larger than it is with girls. But of course there are exceptions to every rule/generalization.
I was raised in a two parent household and I will tell you my family dynamic was and is toxic and I would never pretend this makes me automatically "better" to be in a relationship with because of my parents staying together. My parents actually showed me everything I didn't want to be as a wife or parent. 🤷🏾♀️
I was raised in a ‘loving’ two parent household. BOTH parents were loving toward each other and toward us kids. The same with my wife. We’ve been married for nearly nine years (seems like two) and I’m living my best life. Our home is filled with love and I pray it stays that way. Not saying I agree or disagree with the lady’s comment. I do think she could have worded it better however.
Statistics and patterns say a lot but there are always a few exceptions.
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exactly
This is the one. Folks try to make the exception to the rule. It’s nobodies fault but a 2 parent household statistically speaking has a better outcome. Especially with long term relationships.
As a woman coming from a 2 parent household, there is definitive difference between dating a man from a single parent household- Healthy or not.
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Some of the situations I see in particular with men that were raised by their mothers only.
1. The mother are very possessive of them and are opinionated in their son’s relationship. It’s has if they replace them with being a partner. “They are the man in their lives.”
2. The men are momma’s boy to the point they don’t think for themselves they need their mothers’ take on everything serious in their lives.
3. For the mothers “no woman will ever be enough for their sons
4. The single mothers condone the cheating (a whole harem) and cover for their sons. While from a marital household the mothers appreciate and stand by monogamy/marital relationships.
5. Single mothers watch the money their sons give their women. because now that their sons are making money, it’s her time now to be spent on (since I was a single mother doing everything).
A two parent household is generally more stable than a single parent household. There’s a reason that prisons are mostly filled with inmates who grew up in single parent households. There are obviously exceptions to every rule, but generally speaking a two parent household is far more advantageous than a single parent household.
Exactly. A lot of people are offended because they were raised by single parent. I personally can’t date any man from a single parent cause I’m likely to bring up stats like this and my partner would be triggered.
With all things being equal, a two parent household will always be better.
Statistics show kids from a 2 parent household perform better in life period
You expect Jess and Charlemagne to know what a statistic is let alone interpret one? This is why listening to those two (Envy was surprisingly rational) is like listening to two crack heads extolling the wonders of LSD and baking soda. It's surreal.
Correct me if I'm wrong isn't the main issue with black on black crime due because of a father less house hold.
Black people don't like statistics. Only anecdotal personal experiences to justify dysfunction
@@simongomez4544ehh i’d say the crack epidemic/ low income jobs, redlining, the Crime Bill and poor education in generally black neighborhoods as better causes to that issue
As a man who grew up with both parents, there’s some degree of truth to it. In my observation, women who don’t grow up with a father in the home, that they love & respect. Tend to be less respectful and appreciative of men.
💥 WHEN NOBODY was giving DATING ADVICE (everybody) was HAPPIER
There's always been dating advice. Why do you think womens magazines we're so popular before the internet? Why do you think people could make money of of dumb horoscopes and crystals? As long as we are sold the Fairy tale idea of relationships from birth, the industry of "how to stop being single" Will always be here. Especially because humans hate being lonely.
No everyone was just dealing
That’s definitely not true lol
My father told me to get a woman that had a 2 parent household. It's a difference ONLY if the parents were actually PARENTS. I came from a balanced household and I was taught that I would be different. And I am... And my brother is too. And both of my parents DID NOT come from 2 parent homes
Your parents did a great job. What's your dating preference now?
Exactly
@@EButta71 dating preference? Heterosexual 😂
Ive dated both and it just depends on how they were raised by the parents. For men who dont have a mom it does show up in different ways (especially if the mom was a deadbeat). And if the man wasnt there sometimes it shows then as well. On the flip side, Ive dated men who had both parents whose expectations were thise of what he saw (and thats not always positive). Ive had great boyfriends who were both raised by both parents and who was raised by single parents. It depends on whats being instilled in them.
By the way I was raised in a 2 parent household.
I've actually married both. The one with a single mother she could be over bearing at times. And he had a hard upbringing of homelessness but worked his ass off to never deal with that again. And then the one who had both of his parents. All of them were mentally screwed up. One committed a double murder because he felt like it. My MIL was in constant competition with me. It was like her husband wasn't there but he was sitting right there. So it depends...
Double murder👀👀👀👀
Double murder…..you buried the lead. We got questions…
@NellieB40
There are exceptions to every rule. That should go without saying.
In general, people have grown up in an 2 parent household are better equipped for long-term relations.
Yes double murder. He was the longest sitting inmate at TGK in Miami.
I pray to be around people with high emotional intelligence, whether it is facilitated through a balanced healthy childhood or through therapy as an adult, because some of us don't get to the privilege of having a peaceful safe loving home with both parents, or a single parent some of us come from homes with no real caregiver in it at all.
I appreciate this comment ❤
Beautifully said.
yall not sticking to the point, the fact she come from a single parent home is not the point, she talking about what SHE wants, period, the direction should be what's the facts about 2 parent vs 1 parent, not all this other stuff and situations yall bringing up
People have no choice in what family they were born into and they shouldn't be punished for that. Find someone who has good values and knows how to love and treat you and go from there.
Sometimes parents are toxic and are bad examples! Sometimes, perhaps, it'll be better if one actually WASN'T there.
This comment should be pinned!!!
Statically two parent households are better. Maybe one of the biological parents shouldn’t be there but it should definitely be two parents
@@Him.Duncan I'll take Trial & Error over statistics any day. Stats never tell the entire story.
That’s what Usher said when he received his BET Legend award last month… that his Dad hurt & helped him even more by being absent
@@klove6149 I feel you! Sometimes a LIFETIME of trauma comes from ppl who were supposed to guide you properly! Instead, they were poisonous.
I am from a two parent household with someone from a broken home. And yeah, dealing with her family baggage is a struggle 😢 But we love each other, so we do the hard relationship work in hopes that we break generational trauma cycles on both sides
You can individualize anything. But the data will tell you that there is a difference in anyone being raised by a single mom. There is no debate.
Dating a woman raised by her father is much easier than one raised without her dad.
Bullshit I grew up on long island..most of them had father's and was still in the Streets
@@gothamtyleryep! Not enough to just be around. People just create kids and dip mentally 😂
@@gothamtylerit's beyond "for the streets", it's about being with a woman who recognizes and respects masculinity and the masculine frame. A lot of women resent things like discipline.
Some may say different but remember TBC just a few months ago did a call in with women saying how much they hate hearing "no".
@@gothamtyler you have to look at the whole data , not only your personal experience
Vice versa2🤷🏿♀️
Yes, there’s a big difference. It doesn’t mean that they won’t have trauma but men and women are moe grounded. You can really see a difference.
Just date a HEALED person. 2 parent households aint all they cracked up to be. Grass aint always greener
I’m sick of people saying that. Nobody’s completely healed. Everybody has issues…
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That is the goal. Your just trying to make it fit your narrative because you most likely didn’t have one
Yep. I guess that's why 70% of Black children are born out of wedlock and there is a 30% marriage rate. Marriage and two parent households must be horrible.
Mind games
Y'all the ones acting alike right the blocking the astrology travel do everything RIGHT mindset because we sometimes do things wrong . Another group sets the tone I'm sure it's not y'all. Neither know of each other . But for you to have all these kids going along . Babies on board you acting like people have a set lifestyle mindset .
I had both parents growing up , but I was damaged because of the disfunction that was going on.
Both parents are important.
Probability over possibility… better people come from two parent households… yall always want to focus on the small negative possibilities
I like this conversation. As someone who grew up without a biological dad and an emotionally incompetent mother, there are both mother/father wounds that I am having to address. If someone was dealt less than an ideal hand in life, 2 parents or not, you have to assess how much work they've done to be viable in a relationship.
Like TK Kirkland say.. “WHO RAISED YA”
Do you know how many abused, abusers, narcissists, racists, and promiscuous have come from two parent households?
What matters most are children raised by Balanced parents. We put too much emphasis on image and numbers and too little on worth/value.
@Oracledeborah
Woman, when we say to two parent household, it’s already implied that we’re talking about balance. GEESH! Empty your cups. You all give me headaches.
@@OneDoorClosesOneDoorOpens Well then you need to specifically say that. It’s not like there isn’t a war on Black single mothers out here. The first image that pops in people’s minds when you say single parent households is single Black mothers. And balance is presumed when you say two parent households. Stop playing, sir!
@OracleDeborah
Don’t get me wrong. There should be a war on single mothers because: 1. You control access to sex (meaning you choose the partner you’re going to allow to skeet inside of you). 2. You control if a child is going to be brought to term or aborted. (A man has zero control of that according to society and how women want it. 3. It’s your body and you’re the gate keeper of what’s going in and what’s coming out. Even if a man skeets inside of you, there should a back up plan in place.
Modern women only wants control when it’s suits you. When I asked a women why didn’t she have a secondary plan in place, “the blame gets shifted. With 100% control if a baby is going to come out you, comes great responsibility. You all have failed miserably. You all want to be promiscuous but don’t want the shame that comes with it.
@@Oracledeborahjust all that forehead in ya pfp huh?
@@markville1061 Another wounded male. #Yawn🥱🥱🥱🥱
It's crazy how many women agree to this. Because in some sort of backhanded way, women are putting other women down if they're saying they won't date a man raised by just a woman. So are you saying that a woman can't raise a good man by herself? Strong women raise strong men on a daily basis.
I dated a guy from a 2 parent household. He went on to create about 7 single parent households. It’s more about your values & how you were raised. Was there healthy & happy love in the home??
She’s %100 right
There is a big difference 😂 I WAS RAISED BY MY FATHER. not my mother. I know what she means!!!! 😂😂😂
Same
@@JaylemT33 fax. You can tell by my work ethic. I drop 1 song every week after working a 40 hour work week. And it's not special. That's what a man does. These dudes on the corner hanging wit drug dealers not getting paid but they more gangsta cuz they not finna let nobody tell them what to do a no JOB. ha they aren't push overs like us. 😂 them boys got no money bro. I walk passed them every day wit my nice clothes and food. They look at me like I'm the imposter. 😂 nakers
Grass always seems greener. But you get what you get
Am I the only one that feels like we heard a lot of downplaying the two parent households, because of the normalization of single parenthood?
Single homes are a norm in the black community that ppl don't recognize its not normal or healthy
Definitely a HUGE difference. The guy I was with for 7 years was TOXIC and raised by his mother with mommy issues. He praised his dad more than the person that whipped his butt. My current relationship he was raised in a 2 parent god fearing housewhole and it’s just been beautiful. He is RESPECTFUL and that’s #1 for me. ❤
If you lack complexity it's very difficult to analyze people and see past their facade, so people try to develop cheatcodes and pre-qualifications hoping it can make up for their inability to properly scrutinize and thoroughly evaluate their partner.
Math dont lie when it comes to a single mother or a 2 parent its always better to have the 2 parents. Mothers are for kids not for teens and up
Two healthy, loving parents will produce a better child financially and emotionally than any other scenario, including one healthy parent or two unhealthy parents. That is the standard our community should aim for.
I can’t specifically say the difference has anything to do with which parents were in the home because I wasn’t really checking for it. I happened to marry someone whose parents are still together since his birth. I think he was more interested in being married because that’s what he knew, regardless of how his parents interacted. I think how they interacted helped him decide who he was and wasn’t going to be in our marriage.
There's a difference in everyone's life
Daddy wasn't there. Mommy never cared the Album by #johnnyx100
I mean statistically people from a two parent home do better in marraiges. They are less likely to divorce. I’m married to someone who didn’t come from a two parent home. I wish he grew up with a father but hey that’s life. It’s hard finding guys that come from the perfect background so you just gotta find a good persojb
How Jess gonna say it don’t matter and she literally gave three examples of guys that came from a single parent household, and the relationship didn’t go well and the first thing she asked her new man was… where your mommy at?? 😂😂
She shares my sentiment
I married a person from a 1 parent home, actually raised by grandparents, I regret it to this day lol
I have said I will encourage my kids to marry people who come from two parent homes
Yes my BD is hell and has had our son for 3yrs but the God I serve will return my child AMEN🎉❤
Lmao it literally does not matter what number of parents someone has. What matters is if the person you’re dating was raised right. Plenty of 2 parent households are dysfunctional. 2 parents doesn’t mean good parents 😂
YES there is a difference and I’ve been saying this for the longest!
For me it is do they have healthy relationships with their parents? not whether they grew up in a two parent household or not.
You can have 2 parents and one parent carries more weight than the other, abuse isn't just physical, it can be verbal and emotional. Just because a parent is present doesn't mean they're in a more healthy environment.
Remember, this show is for entertainment purposes only. Please do not take these platforms seriously. Especially when it comes to everyday life.
Dysfunction happens in all types of households BUT there is no comparison in a single parent vs a 2 parent home. If you look at other cultures that have a 2 parent home as a standard you see the benefits of it propels them far above us who celebrate broken homes and bastard children.
I don't see why this is an argument... We're losing primarily because a solid family structure isn't priority in our community.
*And I come from a single parent home.
2 or 1 parent household it doesn’t matter some of us were raised off love and some were raised off survival !!!
Keep that energy when you get married if it doesn’t matter
Look at the Black community.... then tell me if it doesn't matter. IT ABSOLUTELY MATTERS.
@@gunnyjwells1977People like you are slow lmao the number of parents doesn’t matter if the household is dysfunctional
@@devin3955 thank you
@devin3955 NO ONE Is disagreeing with that point. You are slow. Most businesses fail. Should I encourage someone NOT to go into business because of it? Half of marriages end in divorce... by your logic, we shouldn't encourage marriage. THE BEST SCENARIO for a child is a TWO-PARENT household. Asians are at the top of every statistic... why.... because they embrace the nuclear family. Black Americans are so brainwashed by the enemy.... they make foolish posts like yours that say it doesn't matter. White Daddy fooled you..... Take it from a man who was raised in a two parent household, and carried the tradition with my own family... who has also been a school teacher and seen it first hand from students with one parent.... it's not even close. Stop believing the lies the enemy of progress has convinced you to buy into. Smh
I’m a man who was raised by a single mother. I can understand what she’s saying.
My ex grew up and lived in a 2 person household and he was the worst boyfriend i ever had. He was very mentally unstable. If he would have never told me his dad and mom are still together i would have never assumed he had his dad in his life based off his actions. Moral of the story….date someone who is mentally stable and healed from any trama they may have went through regardless on if they grew up in a 2 parent household or not!
There is a definite difference between the men I've dated from a healthy 2 parent household vs. 1 parent household.
I’m married to a man who came from a broken home (no father and mother was on drugs) and dated someone prior to him with a two parent home. And what I would say is it is not about how many parents were in the house it’s about what went into raising you and once you grow up, ensuring that you are healed, and whole. I grew up with both parents and my parents often said you’re not your child’s only influence, and with that it takes a village to raise a child so you have to make sure as a parent that everyone around your child understands influence, example and impact.
Dr. Ben Carson, a retired neurosurgeon, academic, author, and politician came from a single parent household. And the Menendez brothers came from a two parent household and murdered their parents. The point is, I understand that two parent households are proven to be generally more stable and healthy. However, I would advise anyone to judge if the person came from a loving household instead. Generalizations can be dangerous and can block your blessings. I've witnessed toxicity in both types of households.
Every situation ain't the same. People can be married and the parents can not be shit, so it's case by case
She forgot education level. That part matters too. People that come from two parent households that are educated at the college level are statistically more successful in relationships. While not a guarantee for success it definitely helps barring any psychological abnormalities.
Just because they raised in the 2 parent home doesn't mean they dont have some unresolved trauma
Facts! My Bm raised by a single mom for most of her life then had a very passive step father late in life. You couldn’t tell her anything because she was coddled and couldn’t take correction from a man. Constant chaos and drama. My gf now came from a solid 2-parent home and understands the dynamics of a masculine man and a feminine mom. Such a huge difference and my relationship is soooo much more peaceful 💯
There are tons of literature on the subject. It’s well known children being raised by two parents are better in school, less likely to become teens parents etc etc. The list goes on. Or are we supposed to believe somebody’s to be more influential?
But is that based on two parents being in the household or are there other factors at play like money?
Envy speaks outta fear of Gina leaving him!!!...😂😂
The goal is creating a two parent household for YOUR kids. Always.
The fact that this is a debate shows that tons of black communities will not make it.
If you are super religious & don’t realize God designed the two parent household your church failed you. Get your money back & try again.
Black people discussing this like it is rocket science! You are right many won't make it.
There definitely a difference. I've dated both.
I agree with her. I'd prefer to date a man from a 2 parent healthy household. Statistically, a person from a single parent household who marries someone from a 2 parent household, the marriage would be more successful than 2 people from single parent households.
Shouldn't judge a person based on where theyve been but rather where theyre going.
Its more structured in a 2 parent household especially if the parents are fully into there kids lives and not working 24/7.
The best she's ever sounded.
Imo
It depends on if family house whole is healthy.
I understand cause I treated my ex wife exactly how I saw my dad treat his now deceased wife. He took care of home, paid all bills. His wife was a homemaker. But my mother was the mistress, (she never married )😅 so I did the exact thing with my ex wife. But after therapy I’m a much better person!
It's strange how people can't see life beyond their personal experience. She's setting limitations on her future based on two past relationships and one of them shouldn't have even dealt with her since she was raised by a single parent, right? That ish sounds idiotic. So many types of people raise healthy successful children.
This is why you have counseling, but you have to put in the work.
The other thing, because she didn't come from a two parents household. When she was able to have that experience. She realized that WHAT she wanted in her life. It's different from everybody experience...
In my personal experience, it mattered greatly.
I dated women from both sides, and the women who came from a good 2 parent household were day and night better.
Not even close.
Besides all of this, 2 parent households are better in every measurable statistical category.
It's better to have a two parent household regardless! There are always anomalies.
There is a misconception about men raised in two parent households. Ppl think it's greener on that side, but it's not. I noticed that they may not have mommy or daddy issues, but if the father was not affectionate towards the children and towards the wife, if the mother was a mean know it all full of drama, if the father never celebrated his wife and visa versa...then that man will embody all those negative aspects as well. I honestly had to teach and still am teaching mine how to treat me, though he is from a 2 parent household. It's rough!
I’m a woman that was raised by both parents in the home. ITS A HUGE DIFFERENCE. The men I dated have mostly come from broken homes have many issues. Do the work on yourself and stop starting families with women continuing the cycle that you grew up in.
I agree with Tha God. I come from a single parent household. My mom raised me and taught me how to treat a woman equally, and with respect. My uncle taught me not to hit women, ever, no compromise. My grandmother taught me how to do chores myself and not expect or wait on a woman to do that for me. So it is all about what principles you were taught as a child. Remember, it takes a village to raise a child. I know a guy who grew up in a two parent household, he loves his wife, provides for his family 100%, but he abuses his wife physically and verbally. So life is not that black and white. There is no rule to this. It's unwise to generalize based on our minute experiences.
Chile, relationships are doomed now. Everyone has so many prerequisites. You want someone only from a two parent household, yet YOU were raised by a single mother. 😒🚮
@Ebony0420
No. It’s usually women who have a long list of prerequisites but is bringing a high body count (more than likely) and another man’s child. 😂
Only in the Black community is a discussion had about whether or not growing up in 2 parent households is a net benefit
That question is subjective. There are men who come from 2 parent households that are jacked up and some from single parent households that are awesome. It really depends on what the parent(s) instilled in their child(ren).
Jess gave her “Ho Facts” 😂‼️
It's dating facts. Who out here is marrying the first person they dated and had sex with?
@@Pou1gie1right they didn’t have to say ho facts. Messy af 😂😂
Y’all find any reason to hate on women
We see who may have NOT come from a 2 parent household by your comment 🤦🏾♀️