I would never suggested that they get a dog,as nice as they seem, they have too much going on and going to add another child to the mix. They need to wait until they can get a better handle on things.
If you don't even have time or will to teach a dog basic toilet rules, don't get a dog. If this basic things prove to be such a hassle, having a dog for its entire life isn't something you will be able to provide. I suggest rehoming 100%, the dog deserves it.
It always surprises me how families with kids will put time and energy into their kids but expect their puppies to just come as a perfectly behaved dog with little care or needs
I’m not sure they put enough time in for the kids and that’s not to say they are bad parents but when you add a dog to the mix you have to teach not just the dog but teach the kids how to be around the dog.all I saw was total wildness. I know the woman loves the dog but they don’t have a clue. PUPPY TRAINING CLASSES!!!
@@amazonwarrior770 exactly, kids riding bikes inside? And standing on the kitchen table? Running around wild is to be expected with kids, (outside) but they too need boundaries and I saw none, let alone the poor puppy. I bet he never gets walked either, poor little thing.
Right? My aunt passed away and I wanted to take in her dog, but her son said no that he’s going to keep him. I get he doesn’t want to get rid of him because it was his mom’s, but the dog was matted, stinky, and the nails were horrible long. My sister and I bathed him and cut the matting off and did the best to even the hair out the best we could with the little scissors I found in the house. My mom even asked if she could have the dog and he said no. My mom even went and bought him food because it had ran out. So if he’s barely home, and not giving him the attention, why not rehome him. I took my dog to work since she was a puppy which helped me potty train her real fast, so I was willing to do the same with him. I hope he changes his mind and lets me have him. He’s a very sweet and friendly dog, he just needs a bit of help with potty training and the fact that he’s a runner as soon as the door opens, but I’m willing to work in that.
its not bad for a large family to have a dog but it is bad that the kids have no boundaries with the dog. its dangerous and in the end the dog pays the biggest price ..
I don’t think is a poor dog. I think the parents should put the little dog in his place! As a mother I take charge No one bites my kids or my husband or any other person. This parents are letting this dog to walk over them.
I don't think those parents realize just how costly, both in time and money a new baby will be for them, especially as shelby becomes an adolescent and dogs don't really become fully grown before they're 1 year old & 7 months - 2 years old. No way they will have the time for shelby with a new baby in the house alongside the other very young children, and I imagine the older kids will have to do a lot of babysitting for the siblings which can damage their relationships to their parents.
Maybe it's intentional, given he seems to be the one wanting her to have another child. I was on Team Shelby from the get-go. I agree, she's reinforcing it.
For real, I’ve seen one too many families looking for high energy breeds at the shelter or with breeders to “keep up with the kids”. You will never tire a high energy dog in the same way a child tires out, you’re just going to have a dog that’s bored (i.e destructive) and anxious.
Indeed. I think having more that 2 kids, in this new millennia, is too much. And they're thinking about having 6?? Always quality, never quantity, when it comes to broods. I'm talking about both children....and pets.
I don't understand the obsession of having a bunch of kids. Science has provided this magical thing called birth control. This couple could benefit greatly from it.
@@ssoforlife which was a and not necessarily what happens every time or all of the time. There are many you tubers who note that they get comments about how they treat their kids or pets or livestock based on one view and that it doesn't represent their lives. We could do the same to you and point out that you watch a family on video and you just sit there and criticize them. I said what I saw.
This poor dog doesn't look like it has ever been groomed. So many owners of poodle x's buy these dogs under the misapprehension that the dogs are low maintenance when it comes to grooming :(
Oh heeeelllll nooooo, he pees in beds. Nah we dont play that here. People think they can get a cute dog and just feed it and cleanup their poop (some dont even do that) and thats it, their work is done. If you dont have time to train them - dont get one. If you dont know how to train - learn. Dogs arent just cute fluffy things to spoil. They are intelligent sentient beings who need leadership.
They need to go out often enough. Who has a dog that pees constantly in the house, who doesn't think, maybe we should have let him out, and keep doing so, preemptively?
First issue- 5 children in a house while trying to raise a puppy. That puppy has received no guidance at all. And they’re wanting a 6th child? Why even have a dog, they’re quite overwhelmed as it is. This puppy’s behavior is so bad, so severe at such a young age I’m on the side that this family can’t handle pets.
Two minutes into this video, I felt sorry for the dog. There is too much going on in this household. I plan to watch it till the end to see Victoria do her magic. But I am stressed out watching this. This dog deserves much better than this family at the moment.
My family has recently gotten puppies that are litter-mates. They are currently too young for professional training + at home training. So it’s been a lot of googling and common sense referring to at home training so far. There is no way we’d have kept our puppies without google’s help. 😰
this is so awesome, so exciting to see the full episodes! these owners were so responsive and responsible, once they were shown how to help their dog they actually stuck with the training and saw the rewards! happy for them
I’m in shock I’ve never seen such an aggressive puppy. My doodle was an angel. Ya he got rambunctious at times but he never growled or attacked. We have a family of 7 just like them with young kids.
@@trint3089 the video is about a doodle so I was relating my puppy to that one. Also mutts are a mix of more than 3 breeds so mine would be considered a mix not a mutt
@@meelomoo no, a mutt is 2 or more breeds- and there is nothing wrong with that. A doodle is a mutt. If that offends you, then you are the one who has the problem.
I loved this lesson. People some times don’t realize what they are doing to try and live on the dog is actually the cause of the conflict! This man is AMAZING 🤩 to be so committed and dedication he’s showing to mend and build this happy safe relationship again is inspiring 🙏👍🙏 Well Done!!
Wow too much negativity towards this couple, who has opened up their doors to meet us in the middle. I hope anybody about to drop their dog at a shelter happens to watch any of these videos. It proves anybody can do it. How many people abandon dogs every year without a shroud of remorse? So well done family, for being upfront about your problems and reaching out for help plus making it all work!! That dog looks happy, so am I.
I watch a yt family of 4 bio and 4 adopted kids, that do not tell people their family size because they are instantly judged. They find that pretty petty and miserable.
@@leagarner3675 Well, unless both parents are SAH, they probably parentify their oldest, too. No wonder they'd feel that way, when they're guilty of the same. 🤦🏻♀️
That is my question too! They will have waaaaay more time for a baby and ignore the dog. It happens I've seen it before. 😞 5 is enough. 6 pushing it for the dog.
Growing up as a kid, we had a cockapoo. She was the smartest dog we had and never had these issues. Train your dog and discipline him in a positive reinforcement way. She’s possessive of the mom
How hard is it to Google / UA-cam videos on puppy training? How can people get puppies and be this clueless 7 months in *sigh* Victoria is hardly talking rocket science- kindness, empathy and training! Problem was never Shelby. At least these guys finally sort help!
I feel like this couple have a baby obsession. Because why in the world are you thinking of having a 6th child when you have very small children AND a puppy you have no time for?? not to mention all the other kids? Just because you can afford it doesn't mean you should do it! ETA: One thing I like about this couple is that there's no push back against Victoria. They truly seem willing to learn, and they don't want to give up on their dog.
Yeah, they seem rather unprepared to even take care of 1 human child, I don't know why in their right minds they decided to have 5 AND a PUPPY, not even a dog that's already gone thru puppy stage, no, YIKES, Yeah they def seem just baby obsessed,
@@flonny1340 Or he does, and she goes along with it. Each time he brings up another, her smile doesn't look very happy or sincere. Is he considering her or their other kids? I want to ask him, what's wrong with taking care of the 5 they have, and giving them the attention they deserve?
They've got way too many kids to look after a puppy. They would've been better off with an older dog that's already trained and doesn't need as much attention as a puppy would need.
Seems like a classic baby lover, want babies, not really kids. As soon as the smallest hits a milestone, (like talking and becoming more independent) the craving for a new newborn sets in. I think the puppy was brought in to stagger that need, but it doesn't work that way.
If you don’t have time to fully train a puppy, consider getting an older dog from a shelter. They’re usually trained really well and there are so many that need homes!
Only downside is they won't live that long and that's can be tough if you love the dog. But these people need to get a cat, they need something more self sufficient.
Technically the majority of dogs in shelters were given up for 'training issues' (people who don't have time to fully train a puppy) but it is still a great idea to find the occasional trained dog.
We have 5 kids and a Saint Bernard puppy, it’s a lot of work but we knew what we were getting ourselves into and made an informed decision. She is well trained and a delight to have as a member of our family. Dogs are really healthy for kids, even when there’s 5 of them, you just have to put in the work to train them. Children are a blessing 💗 this family is precious and It looks like they are switching gears.
You know what, not even surprised at this. It is always the people which so clearly don't have control that just want more, more more. I mean look at them, a CHILD that is IN THE KITCHEN and RIDING A BIKE. And you're telling us that they were thinking about adding another child to this mess?!(yes, I said mess). Truly delusional, and not living in reality, I just know those kids have problems as well.
Yes. I didn't notice the bike, but noticed a child standing on the kitchen table in her shoes, and another one sitting on the kitchen counter. That would never have happened in my mother's home.And all he seems to care about is making her have another. When he brings it up, her smile doesn't seem very happy or sincere. Is he thinking about her and the other kids, who need enough time and attention, or just his number goal?
🧿🧿🧿I know this is beside the point, but I love seeing a husband so in to his wife. And so awesome to have such a big family and home still so in to her. Just her. Nothing but love. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I don’t think they put in any effort at all towards training the dog. Surprised they are thinking of having another child there’s already 5 and they are young
@@erinli3445 that's because they need consistency with boundaries and need to be taught how to do what you want them to do. They don't come already programmed (puppies that is).
@@erinli3445 who's saying it's a walk in the park!? It's common knowledge puppies NEED training... hopefully they learned and will actually continue training.
I love how Victoria transforms lives. The success stories get me in my feelings 😭😭😭😭 Shelby is a gorgeous doggo. I also love how Victoria gets owners to understand whats going on in their doggo’s brain, to see things from the dog’s point of view. So powerful and effective at training, and always does it with kindness 💜💜💜
Shelby looks just like my dog! He's 9 years old. Great with the older adults that I do hospice respite with. Not great with little kids who want to treat him like a stuffed teddy bear. He came to my home because, after living with a teenager & his parents, he couldn't handle it when Grandma was babysitting the little ones.
I can’t believe those 2 even *thought* of having another kid when they don’t even have control of their dog and are unable to keep the kids they do have safe.
Why do so many people think dogs come magically knowing everything? Puppies especially are just like kids, you have to teach them everything! They're not born potty trained or leash trained or anything else. If you're not ready to teach a dog to do the things you expect of them, don't get a dog.
Mine does great with 3 (and a cat) even though the baby likes going ATV mode and crawling all over her. Almost like they're all individuals and have different personalities lol
In earlier episodes of It's Me or the Dog (mid 2000's or so) it was more understandable why people were uncertain or lacked knowledge around dog training. But in this day and age, with tiny computers in our pockets, search engines, free lessons and tutorials all over the internet, even TV channels dedicated to animal education? What is the excuse??
He wants to be a good boy. He just doesn’t know how. As someone who has a dog who’s reactive, if you’re willing to help them, they just want to please you. Mine is the happiest good boy now. But we also know his triggers.
(haven't watched the episode yet) but i would think the mum having Shelby on her lap as she gets aggressive/protective would just be fueling this behavior - if my dog acted this way he would be straight on the floor
Cocker spaniels have a slight aggression problem and poodles are very sensitive, bad mix. I see quite a few being rehomed because of behavioural issues.
Imagine having two lol I have a 4 year old and a 6 month old. The 4 year old is well-behaved and obedient due to basic training, setting boundaries, routine, etc. It helps to have knowledge about poodles and cocker spaniel regarding their temperament and unique personality. One thing I learned about Cockapoos is that they are definitely food and treats driven so it’s easy to train them with treats
My step-dad had a blue heeler that was the same way. He had cancer (my dad) and I know the dog could sense it. He was protecting him. When he died that poor dog was LOST. My husband had to put on my step-dad coat, go outside, get him and feed him and love on him. Once we did that one time and brought him to investigate he was OK. Still sad and he grieved, but he calmed down and attached to my mom. Thank goodness. Now he's a very good, working boy.
He also continues trying to touch and pet Shelby when the dog's freezing, staring, growling. Hopefully the family got some education about dog body language as well, so they could learn to listen to Shelby's warnings as well as change the behaviours.
Toileting 7-8 times a day in the house?? Excuse me but why is this animal not getting access to outside? WHY do people think keeping their animal inside all day is “spoiling” and “loving”. It’s cruel. Your animal, just like your kids & yourself, deserve to have access to fresh air, wind, sun, rain, grass and nature. In Australia most dogs are outside all day. Unless of course the weather doesn’t permit.
Why do these people want to have another child 🤷🏼♀️, they DON'T even have time for the dog OR their own children!! They need to get their priorities in place, and BE RESPONSIBLE, NO MORE CHILDREN, 5 is too many already!
But can't any dog can bite if they're not listened to? They don't listen when hes telling them to: not take his bone, not touch his mom when hes there, and not pet him when he is telling them he doesn't want it... the only problem with rehoming him would be to find a person who would listen to him. Don't think he had a tough background, i think he just doesn't feel comfortable or relaxed in this home, with the need to guard his things all the time ?
@@zoeyruas1333 I'm in welfare. The problem with a dog with a bite history, for whatever reason, is that they're more likely to bite again. It does depend on the dog though. If the dog, for example, bit a screaming child, you could possibly rehome it to a house without children. But if it still got hold of a diffetent child after being adopted, you (the shelter) can be made liable, huge problem. Some dogs cam be rehabilitated and trained, but it's not fair to the new owners or the dog when people just rehome a dog with a bite history. Give the problem to someone else
I feel bad for them they got a pup thought it would miraculously just train itself? So glad they got help. Now this is exactly how you train a dog. Wasn’t the dogs fault. At all. How graceful is this trainer. The calmness. The potty training, the treats to let him sit on the sofa to relax. Now it’s time to train the kids to not be lunatics 🤣🤣🤣🤣 kids are high stress and it truly is a loud chaotic house. The dog needed an escape crate area. It’s removed but not isolated. What a great trainer. Everyone owning a pet for the first time needs to watch training videos. 99% of the time it’s the owners fault on what’s going on
I'm glad there dealing with this now cuz one mess up the kids could get bit and torn and could get as damaged enough to get 26 stiches and trust me I already have had that and am still healing from a wound that bad from something else
People are sick. Too many kids. How about take care of what you have and if you want an animal take care of and have time. Don’t expect to have a good mannered dog when you have that am at kids. Ans want more. I have none and probably can’t now. That is overboard. Give the dog time and attention if you wanted him. Take care of the kids you do have. You have more than enough
12:21 this is exactly true for all living beings. Human and animals alike. You should always be kind, no matter what to everyone. You should always be inclusive and respectful and kind and gentle and understanding and forgiving. You should always try to look at things from other peoples point of view. trying to get a better understanding of someone else will make you not only a better person, but it will teach you about how you want to be treated and how you would feel in that situation. People heard this in kindergarten . kindness and understanding and empathy and how to treat others the way you want to be treated and how to put yourself in someone else’s shoes and not judge a book by its cover. This is what makes us human. Be kind, no matter what. Treating others with kindness and forgiving others is not for them. It’s for you. It helps you be a better person and helps you get along better with other people -find friendship or even find love. Treat everyone the way you want and believe you should be treated.❤
My dogs know when they did something wrong, and they know they will go to their crate after for a small amount of time. No different than a kid going to their room fora timeout. They still love their crates and go in voluntarily to rest without my guidance throughout the days! So this is a big misconception, in my opinion.
Yes, but there's a very fine line with doing that. Your dogs may do that and be fine with it, but if I did that to my boy, he wouldn't go back in voluntarily. He loves his crate and goes into it when he sees me getting ready to go out (generally the only time I use it now), but he's a very sensitive boy and if I told him off and then put him in his crate, he'd no longer go in voluntarily. I've only ever used the crate as a good safe place for my dogs, which is what they were intended for, and Victoria says the same.
If it is something to do with fear and less to do with overstimulation and impulse control, this may not be the right approach (using a crate for a timeout). Especially if they are already more anxious/ stressed in their crate.
I love how the couple is so cooperative and actually want to learn how to make their situation better
I would never suggested that they get a dog,as nice as they seem, they have too much going on and going to add another child to the mix. They need to wait until they can get a better handle on things.
You can tell they love each other, and are still very much attracted to each other. I mean the 5 kids could tell you that too.
If you don't even have time or will to teach a dog basic toilet rules, don't get a dog. If this basic things prove to be such a hassle, having a dog for its entire life isn't something you will be able to provide. I suggest rehoming 100%, the dog deserves it.
It always surprises me how families with kids will put time and energy into their kids but expect their puppies to just come as a perfectly behaved dog with little care or needs
I’m not sure they put enough time in for the kids and that’s not to say they are bad parents but when you add a dog to the mix you have to teach not just the dog but teach the kids how to be around the dog.all I saw was total wildness. I know the woman loves the dog but they don’t have a clue. PUPPY TRAINING CLASSES!!!
@@amazonwarrior770 exactly, kids riding bikes inside? And standing on the kitchen table? Running around wild is to be expected with kids, (outside) but they too need boundaries and I saw none, let alone the poor puppy. I bet he never gets walked either, poor little thing.
Right? My aunt passed away and I wanted to take in her dog, but her son said no that he’s going to keep him. I get he doesn’t want to get rid of him because it was his mom’s, but the dog was matted, stinky, and the nails were horrible long. My sister and I bathed him and cut the matting off and did the best to even the hair out the best we could with the little scissors I found in the house. My mom even asked if she could have the dog and he said no. My mom even went and bought him food because it had ran out. So if he’s barely home, and not giving him the attention, why not rehome him. I took my dog to work since she was a puppy which helped me potty train her real fast, so I was willing to do the same with him. I hope he changes his mind and lets me have him. He’s a very sweet and friendly dog, he just needs a bit of help with potty training and the fact that he’s a runner as soon as the door opens, but I’m willing to work in that.
And they want another kid 🙄
Love how stressful their home is yet they're adding a 8th person to the family, that poor dog
its not bad for a large family to have a dog but it is bad that the kids have no boundaries with the dog. its dangerous and in the end the dog pays the biggest price ..
I don’t think is a poor dog. I think the parents should put the little dog in his place! As a mother I take charge No one bites my kids or my husband or any other person. This parents are letting this dog to walk over them.
I don't think those parents realize just how costly, both in time and money a new baby will be for them, especially as shelby becomes an adolescent and dogs don't really become fully grown before they're 1 year old & 7 months - 2 years old. No way they will have the time for shelby with a new baby in the house alongside the other very young children, and I imagine the older kids will have to do a lot of babysitting for the siblings which can damage their relationships to their parents.
@@maplesierradoodles These "parents" aren't parents, they're breeders.
Why stressful ?! Maybe for you , not for people like me for example.
The wife as sweet as she is reinforcing the behavior by petting him when he attacks her husband lol
Maybe it's intentional, given he seems to be the one wanting her to have another child. I was on Team Shelby from the get-go. I agree, she's reinforcing it.
She can get bc without telling him
If you have a chaotic, jumped-up household, you’re going to have a chaotic, jumped-up dog. Better to have a calm home for a calm dog.
For real, I’ve seen one too many families looking for high energy breeds at the shelter or with breeders to “keep up with the kids”. You will never tire a high energy dog in the same way a child tires out, you’re just going to have a dog that’s bored (i.e destructive) and anxious.
Juggling another child when you can't even deal with a puppy? Insane.
Yeah
Keep your legs shut and look after the pup!
@@ZyliceLiddell I would say to him: zip your pants up and look after the pup!
Indeed. I think having more that 2 kids, in this new millennia, is too much. And they're thinking about having 6??
Always quality, never quantity, when it comes to broods. I'm talking about both children....and pets.
I don't understand the obsession of having a bunch of kids. Science has provided this magical thing called birth control. This couple could benefit greatly from it.
While the dog is being very aggressive the wife just sits there and smiles
And rewards him with more cuddles. She's been reinforcing his biting.
I have never seen. young dog, still puppy really behave like that.
Judging someone from a short video clip of their lives is not good practice.
@@leagarner3675 umm hello?? i didn't say anything about their life at all. I said what i saw
@@ssoforlife which was a and not necessarily what happens every time or all of the time. There are many you tubers who note that they get comments about how they treat their kids or pets or livestock based on one view and that it doesn't represent their lives.
We could do the same to you and point out that you watch a family on video and you just sit there and criticize them. I said what I saw.
Oh gosh I feel bad for any groomers that have had to deal with this dog! I hope the owners are at least honest with them about the risk of biting
As a groomer, I was thinking the same thing. That puppy is a major liability
By that groom I can tell that he doesn’t get groomed
That pup doesn’t look like he’s ever seen a groomer
This poor dog doesn't look like it has ever been groomed. So many owners of poodle x's buy these dogs under the misapprehension that the dogs are low maintenance when it comes to grooming :(
I'm not so sure, the nipping here is resource guarding, he could be just fine at the grommer's ! As long as mom isn't around 😂
Don't get a dog if you don't have time to train.
esp with 5 kids!!
I agree
Periodt
they just didn`t know how now they do and its all fine : )
I agree
18:43 those were the cutests little bounces ever!
Great to see some new full episodes. Great work as always, Victoria!
Just adorable.🥰😄
Was thinking the same thing.
yes agree : )
Oh heeeelllll nooooo, he pees in beds. Nah we dont play that here.
People think they can get a cute dog and just feed it and cleanup their poop (some dont even do that) and thats it, their work is done. If you dont have time to train them - dont get one. If you dont know how to train - learn.
Dogs arent just cute fluffy things to spoil. They are intelligent sentient beings who need leadership.
Exactly 💯
That bed pee was a cry for help.
They need to go out often enough.
Who has a dog that pees constantly in the house, who doesn't think, maybe we should have let him out, and keep doing so, preemptively?
First issue- 5 children in a house while trying to raise a puppy. That puppy has received no guidance at all. And they’re wanting a 6th child? Why even have a dog, they’re quite overwhelmed as it is. This puppy’s behavior is so bad, so severe at such a young age I’m on the side that this family can’t handle pets.
Two minutes into this video, I felt sorry for the dog. There is too much going on in this household. I plan to watch it till the end to see Victoria do her magic. But I am stressed out watching this. This dog deserves much better than this family at the moment.
So they were literally willing to get rid of their dog before even googling the basics of how to train him like an average person would do?😭
IKR
My family has recently gotten puppies that are litter-mates. They are currently too young for professional training + at home training. So it’s been a lot of googling and common sense referring to at home training so far. There is no way we’d have kept our puppies without google’s help. 😰
So then they got some help to get the tools and apparently kept the dog. So what's your point?
You do realize that they opened their lives up to public scrutiny to get that help.
First episode?
I love how nice and clean their home is with such a huge family.
You're delusional if you think it's like that when they're not on TV. Come on. Don't be so childish.
@@CS-uc2oh lol go to bed
this is so awesome, so exciting to see the full episodes! these owners were so responsive and responsible, once they were shown how to help their dog they actually stuck with the training and saw the rewards! happy for them
I’m in shock I’ve never seen such an aggressive puppy. My doodle was an angel. Ya he got rambunctious at times but he never growled or attacked. We have a family of 7 just like them with young kids.
Doodles are just mutts. You could have just said my mutt
You probably raised your children how to behave around dogs from the beginning. The kids in this video not so much.
@@trint3089 why does it bother you so much
@@trint3089 the video is about a doodle so I was relating my puppy to that one. Also mutts are a mix of more than 3 breeds so mine would be considered a mix not a mutt
@@meelomoo no, a mutt is 2 or more breeds- and there is nothing wrong with that. A doodle is a mutt. If that offends you, then you are the one who has the problem.
I loved this lesson. People some times don’t realize what they are doing to try and live on the dog is actually the cause of the conflict! This man is AMAZING 🤩 to be so committed and dedication he’s showing to mend and build this happy safe relationship again is inspiring 🙏👍🙏 Well Done!!
Wow too much negativity towards this couple, who has opened up their doors to meet us in the middle. I hope anybody about to drop their dog at a shelter happens to watch any of these videos. It proves anybody can do it. How many people abandon dogs every year without a shroud of remorse? So well done family, for being upfront about your problems and reaching out for help plus making it all work!! That dog looks happy, so am I.
Yeah, I knew this would be an easy fix or at least an easy plan for fixing.
Structure, Boundaries, Routine...that's all the little guy needed.
Don't forget the kids, I always thought they needed that as well.
When crate training you also need to train the kids to leave the dog alone when it goes to the crate.
I'm so glad u guys are posting full episodes. I love these sm ❤
If you have 5 small children, (and for reasons I can't understand, you want a 6th child) why add a puppy to all this chaos?
honest to god, seems like they’re obsessed with giving birth 🤢
Right? And I bet the oldest is default babysitter for the middle kids. 🤦♀️
@@danastein8603 oh absolutely
I watch a yt family of 4 bio and 4 adopted kids, that do not tell people their family size because they are instantly judged. They find that pretty petty and miserable.
@@leagarner3675 Well, unless both parents are SAH, they probably parentify their oldest, too. No wonder they'd feel that way, when they're guilty of the same. 🤦🏻♀️
Please take a long walk with this dog, every day!
Anyone can learn this stuff on UA-cam or over the phone!
Q: “How do we stop him from weeing indoors?”
A: “Take him outside more!”
Oh ya!
If they can’t take care of their puppy, how on earth do they plan on taking care of ANOTHER child?
That is my question too! They will have waaaaay more time for a baby and ignore the dog. It happens I've seen it before. 😞 5 is enough. 6 pushing it for the dog.
Never mind...it's their business. Children are awesome!
Growing up as a kid, we had a cockapoo. She was the smartest dog we had and never had these issues. Train your dog and discipline him in a positive reinforcement way. She’s possessive of the mom
How hard is it to Google / UA-cam videos on puppy training? How can people get puppies and be this clueless 7 months in *sigh* Victoria is hardly talking rocket science- kindness, empathy and training! Problem was never Shelby. At least these guys finally sort help!
If they don't want Shelby I'll take him. He is so darn cute
Stuff having another kid; look after the dog! There are too many humans anyway! 😂👌
@@ZyliceLiddell Agreed!
Same! He seems like he wants to be a good boy. He just has no guidance.
True hsha😂
I feel like this couple have a baby obsession. Because why in the world are you thinking of having a 6th child when you have very small children AND a puppy you have no time for?? not to mention all the other kids? Just because you can afford it doesn't mean you should do it! ETA: One thing I like about this couple is that there's no push back against Victoria. They truly seem willing to learn, and they don't want to give up on their dog.
Yeah, they seem rather unprepared to even take care of 1 human child, I don't know why in their right minds they decided to have 5 AND a PUPPY, not even a dog that's already gone thru puppy stage, no, YIKES, Yeah they def seem just baby obsessed,
@@flonny1340 Or he does, and she goes along with it. Each time he brings up another, her smile doesn't look very happy or sincere. Is he considering her or their other kids? I want to ask him, what's wrong with taking care of the 5 they have, and giving them the attention they deserve?
Yeah, they don’t seem to grasp that those kids are gonna grow into teens and young adults. What are they gonna do then?
They've got way too many kids to look after a puppy. They would've been better off with an older dog that's already trained and doesn't need as much attention as a puppy would need.
Seems like a classic baby lover, want babies, not really kids.
As soon as the smallest hits a milestone, (like talking and becoming more independent) the craving for a new newborn sets in.
I think the puppy was brought in to stagger that need, but it doesn't work that way.
If you don’t have time to fully train a puppy, consider getting an older dog from a shelter. They’re usually trained really well and there are so many that need homes!
But kids like puppies, ya know? /s
I agree 💯 I have a Ragdoll but am thinking about a senior dog instead of a pup.
Only downside is they won't live that long and that's can be tough if you love the dog. But these people need to get a cat, they need something more self sufficient.
Technically the majority of dogs in shelters were given up for 'training issues' (people who don't have time to fully train a puppy) but it is still a great idea to find the occasional trained dog.
@@josefine7095 Puppies become adult dogs long before human kids become adult humans. Better to teach them that puppies are not puppies forever.
We have 5 kids and a Saint Bernard puppy, it’s a lot of work but we knew what we were getting ourselves into and made an informed decision. She is well trained and a delight to have as a member of our family. Dogs are really healthy for kids, even when there’s 5 of them, you just have to put in the work to train them. Children are a blessing 💗 this family is precious and It looks like they are switching gears.
Here's the thing tho, I don't think they put in the work for anything regarding their children
@@flonny1340 Agreed. They were letting the kid ride a bike in that small kitchen, they have no control in that house.
Who knew having literally any training instead of none would make a suchdifference
Omg! I would be weeing on myself with five kids! Poor 🐕
You know what, not even surprised at this. It is always the people which so clearly don't have control that just want more, more more. I mean look at them, a CHILD that is IN THE KITCHEN and RIDING A BIKE. And you're telling us that they were thinking about adding another child to this mess?!(yes, I said mess). Truly delusional, and not living in reality, I just know those kids have problems as well.
Yes. I didn't notice the bike, but noticed a child standing on the kitchen table in her shoes, and another one sitting on the kitchen counter. That would never have happened in my mother's home.And all he seems to care about is making her have another. When he brings it up, her smile doesn't seem very happy or sincere. Is he thinking about her and the other kids, who need enough time and attention, or just his number goal?
Plus also shrieking at the dad when he said no and mother-dear just sits there...oh man!🙄
Commitment is the key here
Beautiful puppy I must say
Finally! Full episodes
🧿🧿🧿I know this is beside the point, but I love seeing a husband so in to his wife. And so awesome to have such a big family and home still so in to her. Just her. Nothing but love. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
“I can’t believe he peed outside” has this dog never once went potty outside????
She said I can't believe he peed outside so easily.
I don’t think they put in any effort at all towards training the dog.
Surprised they are thinking of having another child there’s already 5 and they are young
they did in the end tho and they clearly love their dog,dogs r great but they really arnt easy somtimes
@@erinli3445 that's because they need consistency with boundaries and need to be taught how to do what you want them to do. They don't come already programmed (puppies that is).
@@m6666 exactly its complicated even if your experience rasing a puppy still isnt a walk in the park
@@erinli3445 who's saying it's a walk in the park!? It's common knowledge puppies NEED training... hopefully they learned and will actually continue training.
I love how Victoria transforms lives. The success stories get me in my feelings 😭😭😭😭 Shelby is a gorgeous doggo. I also love how Victoria gets owners to understand whats going on in their doggo’s brain, to see things from the dog’s point of view. So powerful and effective at training, and always does it with kindness 💜💜💜
How can you get a puppy and not toilet train? 🙄🤫
Yeah, nasty...and absolutely makes no sense, it's not that hard getting a puppy used to a potty routine! Smh..
Shelby looks just like my dog! He's 9 years old. Great with the older adults that I do hospice respite with. Not great with little kids who want to treat him like a stuffed teddy bear. He came to my home because, after living with a teenager & his parents, he couldn't handle it when Grandma was babysitting the little ones.
I love watching full episodes!
Victoria you are the best! I learn a lot from you, even though I have calm dogs hahaha
Hugs from Brazil ❤️🇧🇷
I can’t believe those 2 even *thought* of having another kid when they don’t even have control of their dog and are unable to keep the kids they do have safe.
Definitely no boundaries for this dog and rules.
and that’s why you don’t get a backyard bred doodle for thousands of dollars 😅
If a puppy is already acting that aggressive it's the environment
This dog deserves a better home
That dog is so loved
What are you on about????
1:25 the woman let the dog go to bite him
I don’t think she wants him around either
Maybe she doesn’t want baby #6 lol
She kept patting him too lol
@@thatbitchonthehorse5303 exactly, she was reinforcing his behaviour.
lol, agreed. I wouldn't want this man around. With 5 kids and him pressing her for a 6th, I'm on Team Shelby and Mom.
Why do so many people think dogs come magically knowing everything? Puppies especially are just like kids, you have to teach them everything! They're not born potty trained or leash trained or anything else. If you're not ready to teach a dog to do the things you expect of them, don't get a dog.
that dog has to deal with 6 kids? poor thing. My puppy already gets stressed when he has to play with two xD
Mine does great with 3 (and a cat) even though the baby likes going ATV mode and crawling all over her.
Almost like they're all individuals and have different personalities lol
I like how she’ll “TRY hard to train him” and it takes less than one minute each time!
Thank you soooo much for the 10+ minute video!
I love watching Victoria work!!
I don't understand having large families in this day & age.....
In earlier episodes of It's Me or the Dog (mid 2000's or so) it was more understandable why people were uncertain or lacked knowledge around dog training. But in this day and age, with tiny computers in our pockets, search engines, free lessons and tutorials all over the internet, even TV channels dedicated to animal education? What is the excuse??
Very good point! There is no excuse! It’s pure laziness.
He wants to be a good boy. He just doesn’t know how. As someone who has a dog who’s reactive, if you’re willing to help them, they just want to please you. Mine is the happiest good boy now. But we also know his triggers.
(haven't watched the episode yet) but i would think the mum having Shelby on her lap as she gets aggressive/protective would just be fueling this behavior - if my dog acted this way he would be straight on the floor
they shouldn’t have gotten a dog tbh, esp since they’re thinking of having a 6th kid? and most of their kids are under the age of 10? bruh
I only just started the video, but how the hell do you mess up so bad that a cockapoo is aggressive?
yeah im kind of wondering the same thing especially at such a young age.
Cocker spaniels have a slight aggression problem and poodles are very sensitive, bad mix. I see quite a few being rehomed because of behavioural issues.
Imagine having two lol I have a 4 year old and a 6 month old. The 4 year old is well-behaved and obedient due to basic training, setting boundaries, routine, etc.
It helps to have knowledge about poodles and cocker spaniel regarding their temperament and unique personality.
One thing I learned about Cockapoos is that they are definitely food and treats driven so it’s easy to train them with treats
We used to have a mini poodle (purebred) that had aggressive tendencies like this and was very protective over my mom
My step-dad had a blue heeler that was the same way. He had cancer (my dad) and I know the dog could sense it. He was protecting him. When he died that poor dog was LOST. My husband had to put on my step-dad coat, go outside, get him and feed him and love on him. Once we did that one time and brought him to investigate he was OK. Still sad and he grieved, but he calmed down and attached to my mom. Thank goodness. Now he's a very good, working boy.
Second and i love this channel its me or the dog victoria is a very good person and i see this chanell every day love y victoria
Doodles are *GORGEOUS!* 😃
thanks for uploading!! i was waiting 😄
Wow what a difference giving the dog something to do makes! I was so surprised!
Great full episode! Love it!
Another episode of the owners not having a clue how to train a dog.
Wow, new full episodes 😍😍😍
A full episode 🤩🤩🤩
I am sure this episode was uploaded a while ago. I seen it before
Agreed. This is total BS it's a rerun.
Correct, this channel uploads clips, full episodes are I think cause of legal things~
It seems Adrian reaches for Shelby tentatively which likely scares the dog. I hope this couple learns to speak dog.
He also continues trying to touch and pet Shelby when the dog's freezing, staring, growling. Hopefully the family got some education about dog body language as well, so they could learn to listen to Shelby's warnings as well as change the behaviours.
1:25 why did she just not even attempt to grab the dog and let him get her husband?
Because she already has 5 kids and he wants her to have another one, lol
Toileting 7-8 times a day in the house?? Excuse me but why is this animal not getting access to outside? WHY do people think keeping their animal inside all day is “spoiling” and “loving”. It’s cruel. Your animal, just like your kids & yourself, deserve to have access to fresh air, wind, sun, rain, grass and nature. In Australia most dogs are outside all day. Unless of course the weather doesn’t permit.
YOU ARE AWESOME VICTORIA 🐾❤️🐾
Finally a new full episode!
Thanks for uploading!!!
Why do these people want to have another child 🤷🏼♀️, they DON'T even have time for the dog OR their own children!! They need to get their priorities in place, and BE RESPONSIBLE, NO MORE CHILDREN, 5 is too many already!
Mind your business
You can't just rehome a dog with a bite history. They shouldn't have gotten him in the first place
I wonder what his background was.
But can't any dog can bite if they're not listened to? They don't listen when hes telling them to: not take his bone, not touch his mom when hes there, and not pet him when he is telling them he doesn't want it... the only problem with rehoming him would be to find a person who would listen to him. Don't think he had a tough background, i think he just doesn't feel comfortable or relaxed in this home, with the need to guard his things all the time ?
@@zoeyruas1333 I'm in welfare. The problem with a dog with a bite history, for whatever reason, is that they're more likely to bite again. It does depend on the dog though. If the dog, for example, bit a screaming child, you could possibly rehome it to a house without children. But if it still got hold of a diffetent child after being adopted, you (the shelter) can be made liable, huge problem. Some dogs cam be rehabilitated and trained, but it's not fair to the new owners or the dog when people just rehome a dog with a bite history. Give the problem to someone else
@@zoeyruas1333 but I agree. The house is a big problem
Love this family they just needed to learn
finally full episode! :D
He is so Adorable 🥰
Dogs add soooo much to our lives …. I adore mine
This is the best UA-cam channel
"This is going to make such a difference!" - what, you mean actually toilet training your puppy?
Well done parents - you got this. Xx
I feel bad for them they got a pup thought it would miraculously just train itself? So glad they got help. Now this is exactly how you train a dog. Wasn’t the dogs fault. At all. How graceful is this trainer. The calmness. The potty training, the treats to let him sit on the sofa to relax.
Now it’s time to train the kids to not be lunatics 🤣🤣🤣🤣 kids are high stress and it truly is a loud chaotic house. The dog needed an escape crate area. It’s removed but not isolated. What a great trainer. Everyone owning a pet for the first time needs to watch training videos. 99% of the time it’s the owners fault on what’s going on
Full episodes are back, yay!
Not only the dog but also the kids are not disciplined.
I always love these types of videos
You are greatest Victoria you are amazing best ever I love you ❤️
Oh my goodness and I thought my poodle puppy was bad . God I hope this family provides relief !
I've seen possessive jealous dogs ... That's a possessive jealous dog .. not a dog fearful of getting scolded
I'm glad there dealing with this now cuz one mess up the kids could get bit and torn and could get as damaged enough to get 26 stiches and trust me I already have had that and am still healing from a wound that bad from something else
People are sick. Too many kids. How about take care of what you have and if you want an animal take care of and have time. Don’t expect to have a good mannered dog when you have that am at kids. Ans want more. I have none and probably can’t now. That is overboard. Give the dog time and attention if you wanted him. Take care of the kids you do have. You have more than enough
12:21 this is exactly true for all living beings. Human and animals alike. You should always be kind, no matter what to everyone.
You should always be inclusive and respectful and kind and gentle and understanding and forgiving.
You should always try to look at things from other peoples point of view. trying to get a better understanding of someone else will make you not only a better person, but it will teach you about how you want to be treated and how you would feel in that situation.
People heard this in kindergarten . kindness and understanding and empathy and how to treat others the way you want to be treated and how to put yourself in someone else’s shoes and not judge a book by its cover. This is what makes us human. Be kind, no matter what.
Treating others with kindness and forgiving others is not for them. It’s for you. It helps you be a better person and helps you get along better with other people -find friendship or even find love. Treat everyone the way you want and believe you should be treated.❤
BIRTH CONTROL IS A BEAUTIFUL THING
Minding you business is too
@@fybdrilltime3166Exactly! People have such nerve! No kids, one kid, 15 kids, butt out!
My dogs know when they did something wrong, and they know they will go to their crate after for a small amount of time. No different than a kid going to their room fora timeout. They still love their crates and go in voluntarily to rest without my guidance throughout the days! So this is a big misconception, in my opinion.
Yes, but there's a very fine line with doing that. Your dogs may do that and be fine with it, but if I did that to my boy, he wouldn't go back in voluntarily. He loves his crate and goes into it when he sees me getting ready to go out (generally the only time I use it now), but he's a very sensitive boy and if I told him off and then put him in his crate, he'd no longer go in voluntarily. I've only ever used the crate as a good safe place for my dogs, which is what they were intended for, and Victoria says the same.
If it is something to do with fear and less to do with overstimulation and impulse control, this may not be the right approach (using a crate for a timeout). Especially if they are already more anxious/ stressed in their crate.
@@smash4236 exactly