Bruh I went from an INTP to an ENFJ to an INFJ over the past 4 years. While I don’t mind being typed as an NFJ cause they’re cool, It’s gotta be a fluke or something because I’m waaay too socially handicapped to be an F type 😂
@@PearlPython It’s a fluke. Cognitive functioning preferences don’t change that way. It’s only the way we use said cognitive functioning and our perception of who we are that changes. Most people get tested on free online platforms, not by licensed professionals, and the result is mixed.
@@princessnena1573 it's not most people. No people get tested by "licensed professionals", there _are no "licensed professionals"_ in this field. If you paid someone money to 'professionally' tell you you're one of X personalities you've been scammed. It can be an interesting tool for self reflection to play around with on an informal level, but professionally/scientifically it has no basis.
@@coin5207 I think maybe with licensed professionals possibly that could mean therapists who Work with MTBI ? Since they know how to read the results.
I’m not a person of faith, but the message of “it’s okay to be mediocre” seriously needs to be heard by everyone, regardless of worldview. We should all strive to live authentically, whether that aligns with what’s “average” or not. Thank you for this!
Yes, too often 'authenticity" is interpreted as 'uniqueness', but for many people being "normal' *is* what's authentic. We don't all have to stand out from the crowd. Either way, just being yourself is good enough.
No because why did I first think when she said "the approval of the one who made me" I genuinely thought this was about having daddy issues/mommy issues💀
I’m happy ☺️ Thank you God for loving us as we are, but changing us to the point where we will not end up the same as we were before. He is good! And I am so glad to see you being open about what the Lord has done for you ❤️ It is not easy, but with him we are filled. Glory to God!!! Love to see it Kaiti (really cool how you brought a regular topic back to our Creator)
Learn about the cognitive functions theory, queen. I find it's more accurate to determine your personality type by doing that instead of taking tests online. But if you're too busy to do that I think the test on sakinorva is a good start :-)
I’ve been saying this. It doesn’t matter if you’re “basic” or are “different”. As long as you’re being true to yourself. That’s all the really matters.
I love how you love yourself and how you embrace your faith! I've always struggled with being different from others and always wanted to fit in, so it must feel good to be average so people accept you more! Even if I'm still struggling with this myself, I've accepted that I shouldn't feel bad for being disliked oe outed because God created ny unique self and I shouldn't rely on others for the way I feel for myself ❤
Yayyyyy God ❤❤❤❤ i didnt know you believe in God but its really encouraing to hear that you do. Thank you for talking about God and encouraging us :)))
same ❤ theres so much negativity lately and I understand it, but people confuse being critical of organized religion aka institutions vs disrespecting peoples faiths and its so ignorant and tiring. im glad there's positive openly religious influencers not centered around it
girl summoned a fandom 😭 edit: ok i don't know when this turned into a religious argument... by saying the word "fandom", i was referring to Blinks, who, if you didn't know, are fans of the group Blackpink. she did one of the members' solo choreos, Jisoo's Flower, in the video, which is why i said what i said. i admit that i was not very clear in my statement and apologize for any misunderstandings. however, as a Christian myself, i won't be taking part of this discussion. i believe the Christian point of view has been said already by someone, so our part has been done. i ask that you please discontinue this discussion and let God handle it.
it also reveals something very interesting : we all aspire to be different from the "norm", but we are also all drawned to fit into the "norm" and all end up being very similar. It's good to not force yourself to be into the norm, but it's not a shame if you already are !
It can actually be quite beneficial to have a common personality type. That way you'll find more people in the world that will probably have similar thought patterns and communication styles too. I can imagine it makes life much easier. :)
Although I’m agonistic, I really needed this. I’m an artist, and even since I was 12 I’ve had major comparison issues due to seeing so many artists, my age or younger, draw even better than me. It made me so depressed and even landed me in a two year long art block. Even though I’m almost 16 now and it’s been much less of an issue for me, it still hurts sometimes because it used to be such a big issue for me. I’m still learning that I’m perfectly skilled where I am right now, and although I may never get the same thousands of followers they do, there will always be people who love me and treasure my art, far more than those 13 year old prodigies I so frequently compared myself to.
Of course, there will always be people who love you and treasure your art. Just let me let you know, keep improving, focus on your personal growth and development how good you become with each step, figure out areas of weaknesses and seek ways to improve it. You won't even know how you grow into being a genius.
Oh wow um I really needed to hear this today . . . I've been really struggling with seeing the creator's presence/love for me in my life for the past year or so. Seeing how he's impacted you really reminded me that: he's still out there changing people's lives + more importantly, he isn't going to give up on me no matter how disappointing or mediocre I can be. Tears are streaming down my face right now...thank you for putting yourself out there and sharing this :')
Amen my friend! Our father never gives up on us and he makes all things new! I empathise with your situation so much having experienced similar things myself. He is working in all of us and no matter how it looks no person is better than the other, we all have our different struggles and failings and we all equally need Jesus's unending grace. Hold on my friend, keep your eyes fixed on the lord and take each day one day at a time, you'll make it through the hard times and your life will be blessed because you are his beloved child with whom he is well pleased!!!!
This is the message I need to hear today. When I was in my teens, I was struggling with my identity and trying to figure out who I am apart from Christ. But I realised without Christ, I am nothing. So now I find peace in my identity in Christ and don’t bother too much trying to figure out who I am anymore
it didn't change cause that doesn't change and you probably just took an online test full of misinformation. also INTP is not at all the most common, it's actually around the rarer ones, I think it's even rarer if you're a girl
@@StrongestLibrafluidAlive i took it from that 16personalities website. But i did change a lot throughout the years. I used to be an extrovert. Now i only switch it on when i have to socialize and prefer being alone. So i figured it might have changed as well. Oh i didnt realise it was rare, thank you.
I agree so much. I realised this this year too. Why do i need to be different to feel okay? Its bizarre and nonsensical. Media plays a big role, the main characters are often quirky and different. It's understandable where that desire which is present in most people comes from. Now all i care abt is being mediocre which honestly doesn't take away so much of my effort. all i need to do is just focuse on life. Being mediocre brings a lot of peace.
i feel you girl!! this is so similar to my experience. while i was in high school i took the mbti test and got isfj a few times. i know i shouldnt take it too seriously, but i'd be lying if i said i wasn't disappointed. it contributed to my already low self-esteem. since i was a teenager, i've always felt mediocre in every aspect of life, and i hated it. i wanted to be different and special and unique. but i think i've finally come to terms with it, and i'm still learning to love and romanticise mediocrity.
This audio was so, so good & I loved it mixed with the fun fashion content! Thank you for being open about your faith in a world where Christianity is often looked down upon; it’s so encouraging and refreshing to see it portrayed in a good light on the Internet by someone who’s a fellow gen-z!
I LOOOOVE HOW UR TALKING ABOUT JESUS MORE. We don’t have the time NOT to!!! So proud & I love (& neeeeded…& struggle with believing tbh…) this message!!
I forget which video but you mentioned your favorite bible verses and I love those it made soo happy I've always loved your channel and I love knowing we share a faith too!!
When you said human applause wouldn’t be enough I wanted to say yes she needs God and you took the words right out of my mouth! So happy to be surprised by a sister in Christ on my feed :)
As someone who is different, it's ok to just be yourself. I retook the test too and I still had the same intj result, from when I was 16, im just more assertive now
There's only one wisdom I always remember when I am thinking about my social life, and that is "the world is not about me that I don't have to fit in to what the "experts" say. In the 90's there's this brand slogan I kept in mind which states "express yourself" and so I become true to MYSELF and show who I am in whatever I do and since people change as seasons do, All I know is that I am myself even if it means I am too good to be true.😊
My philosophy is just try to be truly yourself whoever that person may be. Either you're "basic" or you're "unique" but at the end of the day we're all unique people and even if our personalities match a lot of others', we're still special in our own way in a way that no one else is :)
YOU BETTER GO AHEAD & PREACH SIS 😍💕 I didn't know you were a believer so I wws wondering what you were gonna say after you started saying how human applause would never satiate. I'm so overjoyed! Bless you, sis! This is soooo true. I've definitely chased the applause, adoration & attention of people for the majority of my life. I'm thankful He started pruning that deeply. Thank you for this reminder during the journey 🥹💕✝️
Mine always came out as INTJ mostly when I was in higher school, but a few months back I retook it and it came out a INFJ. Now after seeing this video I went on to take it again and it came out as INTJ. 🏃🏻♂️
this is what my mindset is turning into lately and i absolutely love it. I am starting to accept myself and not trying to chase others, remembering God loves me and Is with me and it is all that matters
it’s okay. you can say you were an ENTJ but now test as an ESTJ.
not me trying to figure this out lol
Bruh I went from an INTP to an ENFJ to an INFJ over the past 4 years. While I don’t mind being typed as an NFJ cause they’re cool, It’s gotta be a fluke or something because I’m waaay too socially handicapped to be an F type 😂
@@PearlPython It’s a fluke. Cognitive functioning preferences don’t change that way. It’s only the way we use said cognitive functioning and our perception of who we are that changes. Most people get tested on free online platforms, not by licensed professionals, and the result is mixed.
@@princessnena1573 it's not most people. No people get tested by "licensed professionals", there _are no "licensed professionals"_ in this field. If you paid someone money to 'professionally' tell you you're one of X personalities you've been scammed. It can be an interesting tool for self reflection to play around with on an informal level, but professionally/scientifically it has no basis.
@@coin5207 I think maybe with licensed professionals possibly that could mean therapists who Work with MTBI ?
Since they know how to read the results.
I honestly love how you’re being so open about your faith
yes we do
yess queen 🙌
Yeayyy me too it really inspires 😆❤️
I know, it's lovely and inspiring to see.
ikk
I’m not a person of faith, but the message of “it’s okay to be mediocre” seriously needs to be heard by everyone, regardless of worldview. We should all strive to live authentically, whether that aligns with what’s “average” or not. Thank you for this!
Yesss also you need to be mediocre at something at first to end up mastering it
Yes, too often 'authenticity" is interpreted as 'uniqueness', but for many people being "normal' *is* what's authentic. We don't all have to stand out from the crowd. Either way, just being yourself is good enough.
its ok to be mediocre and its okay to be different too
I first thought she was talking about her dad not her daddy in heaven😅😅 came to the comments and thought "ahh that makes sense".
@@nienkehuijbens301 love this!! As long as you enjoy the things for yourself, that’s authenticity!!
Her doing flower choreography ❤
Frrr tho!!!
also she's giving off jennie vibes 😭 esp the shades
MY GIRL PRAISE THE LORD IM SO HAPPY TO SEE THIS!!
No because why did I first think when she said "the approval of the one who made me" I genuinely thought this was about having daddy issues/mommy issues💀
I’m happy ☺️ Thank you God for loving us as we are, but changing us to the point where we will not end up the same as we were before. He is good! And I am so glad to see you being open about what the Lord has done for you ❤️ It is not easy, but with him we are filled. Glory to God!!! Love to see it Kaiti (really cool how you brought a regular topic back to our Creator)
Learn about the cognitive functions theory, queen. I find it's more accurate to determine your personality type by doing that instead of taking tests online. But if you're too busy to do that I think the test on sakinorva is a good start :-)
YESYESYESYES BASED BASED ENTIRELY FACTS-
gris pfp
I'm intrigued, I absolutely need to go look at this now, thank you for sharing ❤
i remember studying this all of covid lockdown lol
YES ILY
I’m not religious at all but I still love your message and your attitude 🥰❤️
Girl went from ENTJ to ISFJ
Do you think she is probably a ENFP?? With a developed Te?
@@failedlearningFrench ENFP aren't that common she is most likely ESFJ
@@the_bob_147 no no i didn't take the statistics in account i just said that's what I think it's her mbti and it's her mbti from personality database
@@the_bob_147 ENFP s are so common among women
@@alito238 they aren't 15% of population tho
I’ve been saying this. It doesn’t matter if you’re “basic” or are “different”. As long as you’re being true to yourself. That’s all the really matters.
haha i was not expecting that to go religious 🤣 cute outfit though!
okay i wasn’t expecting that but yes praise Him !!
Same!! Happy lil twist!
Same here, made me smile!
yessssss
moa spotted
@@ath1en yes !!
God bless you! I needed this rn! 🙏🏻❤️
I have multiple friends with the same personality type and they are so different! Everyone is unique
I’ve always been INTJ since sixth grade 🎉 it’s something I cherish and make me feel it’s okay to be different
hey! im also intj 🫶🏻
Heyyyyy ppl me too 😋😋
yes Kaiti!! I didn’t know you were a Christian but I love it! 💕💕
Everybody wants to be so unique and different- but in reality they couldn’t handle it. It’s not something that’s easy
I love this so much! Our worth is in Christ and that's enough! ❤
I honestly wasn't expecting that and I was so happy to see the ending
Amen
Amen! 😊
THIS MESSAGE IS SO POWERFUL I LOVE YOU
love, a proud sub 🫶🏽
I love how you love yourself and how you embrace your faith!
I've always struggled with being different from others and always wanted to fit in, so it must feel good to be average so people accept you more! Even if I'm still struggling with this myself, I've accepted that I shouldn't feel bad for being disliked oe outed because God created ny unique self and I shouldn't rely on others for the way I feel for myself ❤
Yayyyyy God ❤❤❤❤ i didnt know you believe in God but its really encouraing to hear that you do. Thank you for talking about God and encouraging us :)))
Me too I love it ❤❤❤
same ❤ theres so much negativity lately and I understand it, but people confuse being critical of organized religion aka institutions vs disrespecting peoples faiths and its so ignorant and tiring. im glad there's positive openly religious influencers not centered around it
@@UnBesoDeCristal yessss!!! Well said 🙏✨💖
Yess, me too ❤️
girl summoned a fandom 😭
edit: ok i don't know when this turned into a religious argument... by saying the word "fandom", i was referring to Blinks, who, if you didn't know, are fans of the group Blackpink. she did one of the members' solo choreos, Jisoo's Flower, in the video, which is why i said what i said. i admit that i was not very clear in my statement and apologize for any misunderstandings. however, as a Christian myself, i won't be taking part of this discussion. i believe the Christian point of view has been said already by someone, so our part has been done. i ask that you please discontinue this discussion and let God handle it.
😭
Fr😂😅
Religion gotta be one of the most toxic fandoms
Religion or Blinks?
@@thethingcalledlisa blinks
it also reveals something very interesting : we all aspire to be different from the "norm", but we are also all drawned to fit into the "norm" and all end up being very similar. It's good to not force yourself to be into the norm, but it's not a shame if you already are !
Gotta love Jisoo"s song 🌸 these sunnies suit you so well Kaiti 😍
Yes
You are my favorite person on youtube shorts right now. So incredibly relatable
I was with you and then that left turn at the end threw me lmao, I wish people didn’t make general good advice about religion
Why? It's her opinion
THE FLOWER REFERENCE
The way I thought this meant “the approval of my peers will never make up for the disappointment of my parents” 😭
Thanks for being open about your faith! It really helped me, it is so easy to feel alone in faith and it's nice to know I'm not
It can actually be quite beneficial to have a common personality type. That way you'll find more people in the world that will probably have similar thought patterns and communication styles too. I can imagine it makes life much easier. :)
Yesssssss girl!!! Talk about The One, the King!!! Amennnn and amen 🙏🏽 God bless
Btw you slid it in so smooth! ❤
Amen! Thanks for the reminder kaiti!
Although I’m agonistic, I really needed this. I’m an artist, and even since I was 12 I’ve had major comparison issues due to seeing so many artists, my age or younger, draw even better than me. It made me so depressed and even landed me in a two year long art block. Even though I’m almost 16 now and it’s been much less of an issue for me, it still hurts sometimes because it used to be such a big issue for me. I’m still learning that I’m perfectly skilled where I am right now, and although I may never get the same thousands of followers they do, there will always be people who love me and treasure my art, far more than those 13 year old prodigies I so frequently compared myself to.
Of course, there will always be people who love you and treasure your art. Just let me let you know, keep improving, focus on your personal growth and development how good you become with each step, figure out areas of weaknesses and seek ways to improve it. You won't even know how you grow into being a genius.
Was not expecting that testimony at the end….
Wow, you have no idea how it was fundamental for me to hear that. Really, thanks a lot❤
oh my goodness, this video was So encouraging. I love how you pointed everything back to Him.
I definitely wasn’t expecting this to be Christian content but powerful message I needed it thanks
YES! I realized awhile ago that I often fall into the "basic" stereotype. And I've just embraced it! I'm still special if I'm at or below average!
Oh wow um I really needed to hear this today . . . I've been really struggling with seeing the creator's presence/love for me in my life for the past year or so. Seeing how he's impacted you really reminded me that: he's still out there changing people's lives + more importantly, he isn't going to give up on me no matter how disappointing or mediocre I can be. Tears are streaming down my face right now...thank you for putting yourself out there and sharing this :')
Happy u realized that and remember that he cares for u so much he even knows the number of hair on ur head!😂 God bless😆❤️
Amen my friend! Our father never gives up on us and he makes all things new! I empathise with your situation so much having experienced similar things myself. He is working in all of us and no matter how it looks no person is better than the other, we all have our different struggles and failings and we all equally need Jesus's unending grace. Hold on my friend, keep your eyes fixed on the lord and take each day one day at a time, you'll make it through the hard times and your life will be blessed because you are his beloved child with whom he is well pleased!!!!
This is the message I need to hear today. When I was in my teens, I was struggling with my identity and trying to figure out who I am apart from Christ. But I realised without Christ, I am nothing. So now I find peace in my identity in Christ and don’t bother too much trying to figure out who I am anymore
This is why I love you Kaiti, you always find a way to put my thoughts into words. You are so relatable
had me in the first half, not gonna lie 😂
Yes, girl!! Praise Him!
This is so so true and It's honestly the only thing that makes me feel peace with my imperfections. Because He is perfect
Such a great message! I love how you incorporated your faith❤
Was that " Flower " by Jisoo 😭
JISOO FLOWERRREEEER HANDS
So true Kaiti! You are definitely honoring Him throughout all of your life 💖 and through your many cool and approachable advice for us. Thank You!
I'm even prouder to be an ENTJ
Bro i was infj, the rarest n became intp, most common. Personalities change. Its all okay. It will change again.
it didn't change cause that doesn't change and you probably just took an online test full of misinformation. also INTP is not at all the most common, it's actually around the rarer ones, I think it's even rarer if you're a girl
@@StrongestLibrafluidAlive i took it from that 16personalities website. But i did change a lot throughout the years. I used to be an extrovert. Now i only switch it on when i have to socialize and prefer being alone. So i figured it might have changed as well. Oh i didnt realise it was rare, thank you.
I agree so much. I realised this this year too. Why do i need to be different to feel okay? Its bizarre and nonsensical. Media plays a big role, the main characters are often quirky and different. It's understandable where that desire which is present in most people comes from. Now all i care abt is being mediocre which honestly doesn't take away so much of my effort. all i need to do is just focuse on life. Being mediocre brings a lot of peace.
This came at a really good time. I had a rough day, and God just spoke to me through you. Thank you
The truth is everyone has been created in a unique way and that's the Beauty
Of humanity 💫
your videos are so calming and so addictive to watch
they make me feel comfortable and not alone so thank you 💜
also the Jisoo choreo>>>
i feel you girl!! this is so similar to my experience. while i was in high school i took the mbti test and got isfj a few times. i know i shouldnt take it too seriously, but i'd be lying if i said i wasn't disappointed. it contributed to my already low self-esteem. since i was a teenager, i've always felt mediocre in every aspect of life, and i hated it. i wanted to be different and special and unique. but i think i've finally come to terms with it, and i'm still learning to love and romanticise mediocrity.
I love ISFJs ❤ who cares if it's "common" if it's such a loveable personality?
This audio was so, so good & I loved it mixed with the fun fashion content! Thank you for being open about your faith in a world where Christianity is often looked down upon; it’s so encouraging and refreshing to see it portrayed in a good light on the Internet by someone who’s a fellow gen-z!
Your words: 📝💕🌻✨
The video:🤪🤨😜😹
I seriously appreciate you bringing faith into this💞💞
Not what I was expecting to find on my TikTok this morning but I'm pleasantly surprised! Thank you!!❤❤
I LOOOOVE HOW UR TALKING ABOUT JESUS MORE. We don’t have the time NOT to!!! So proud & I love (& neeeeded…& struggle with believing tbh…) this message!!
KAITI IS A CHRISTIAN? YAY
First time seeing your videos, I wasn't expecting the faith aspect and I love it ❤
I absolutely love how you express your faith.
This is exactly what I’ve been going through the last few months! Finding my confidence in him, and not in human approval.
I forget which video but you mentioned your favorite bible verses and I love those it made soo happy I've always loved your channel and I love knowing we share a faith too!!
❤ I love this this authenticity about faith!
I dont know who said it but "i hate myself for wanting to be the exception" and i felt that
When you said human applause wouldn’t be enough I wanted to say yes she needs God and you took the words right out of my mouth! So happy to be surprised by a sister in Christ on my feed :)
I’m so happy to hear you talk about your faith! 🤍🥹🫶🏼
I didn’t know you were Christian ❤
As someone who is different, it's ok to just be yourself. I retook the test too and I still had the same intj result, from when I was 16, im just more assertive now
praise God! thank you for this message kaiti 🥹❤️
There's only one wisdom I always remember when I am thinking about my social life, and that is "the world is not about me that I don't have to fit in to what the "experts" say. In the 90's there's this brand slogan I kept in mind which states "express yourself" and so I become true to MYSELF and show who I am in whatever I do and since people change as seasons do,
All I know is that I am myself even if it means I am too good to be true.😊
My philosophy is just try to be truly yourself whoever that person may be. Either you're "basic" or you're "unique" but at the end of the day we're all unique people and even if our personalities match a lot of others', we're still special in our own way in a way that no one else is :)
Sort of but most most people ate still basic.
Wow this is so me! 😊 and the final quotes, got me. I need to stop struggling. 🙃
YOU BETTER GO AHEAD & PREACH SIS 😍💕 I didn't know you were a believer so I wws wondering what you were gonna say after you started saying how human applause would never satiate.
I'm so overjoyed! Bless you, sis! This is soooo true. I've definitely chased the applause, adoration & attention of people for the majority of my life. I'm thankful He started pruning that deeply.
Thank you for this reminder during the journey 🥹💕✝️
The way I wasn't sure if she was talking about her daddy issues or her faith lmao
Same she shouldve just said god she had me tripping 💀
I had no idea you’re a believer! That’s awesome! 💚 Love your vids!
I gasped. Wasn't expecting you to go there❤️ yesss Kaiti. We are because He is, it's not us that are to shine but Him thru us
Thanks for this message ❤
YESSS! IM SO GLAD YOU MENTIONED GOD! Eeeeeek! I struggle with this too and oh my goodness, so true!!!!
My favorite UA-camr rn
Omg I love everything you said!! I didn’t know you were faithful but I am too and I really needed to hear this❤️
i was not expecting the twist at the end! i love fashion youtubers and as a christian i'm genuinely happy now finding your channel :))
Honestly I’m very glad I got this reminder. I remember some kid called me mid and I felt so bad about it, thanks for the reminder.
I loved this and then you SAID THE THING ABOUT THE ONE WHO MADE YOU AND IT MADE ME SO HAPPY 🥰🥹💓💓
ahh the flower choreo ♡
and why do I relate to this so much 😭😭
The moment you referenced God, that made me suddenly smile so purely, God bless ya!!!! Amen!
What personality type were you and what are you now? Girlll you goooo >>>>
Infj I think
@@your_dream_come_true I think that’s what I am lol
She used to be entj
This video comes off extroverted sensing dominant so I think esfp or estp
@@pinkroses135 ESTP I thought
It’s really nice you and your dad have such a close bond. 😊
I love this type of shorts
I love this! I got chills! God bless
More content about your journey with Him, please!! 🧡
It's so good when you finally realize that it's so fine to be you,and don't give a f*ck about how people see u 💗
amen! Finding God honoring creators is so hard but yes sister I love this!
Mine always came out as INTJ mostly when I was in higher school, but a few months back I retook it and it came out a INFJ. Now after seeing this video I went on to take it again and it came out as INTJ. 🏃🏻♂️
THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR FAITH!
this is what my mindset is turning into lately and i absolutely love it. I am starting to accept myself and not trying to chase others, remembering God loves me and Is with me and it is all that matters
You are fearfully and wonderfully made, love ☺️💕