My Dear viewer, I know this story is very emotive. I know we would be tempted to call Victoria names and even rub it on her face that Karma is a b*****but please let's be respectful in our comments. Let's remember that we follow a God of second chance. Let's remember that some of the greatest saints like St Paul, St Mary Magdalene, St Augustine, were once great sinners. Let us bless Victoria with the same words of Jesus 'Go and do not sin again.' Let us pray and hope that the woman whose this message is intended for will soften her heart. That the Holy Spirit may give her the resolve and the power to forgive her and bless Victoria's kids. And for those of us who may be in such destructive relationships, may we; in this period of lent, call to mind our sins and change our ways. AMEN This my plea to you my faithful follower. Yours Monica
Monica I have gone through hell with my.girls bcoz of one woman who broke my home it hurts so much.bcoz watoto hawakufika kwenye walikua wafike kimasomo vitu mingi ziliharibika may they stop breaking marriages aki watoto wanaumia but machozi tumelia.Mungu atatulipishia
Pole dia take heart vengeance belongs to God may their be bright in jesus name ..he got our backs whatsoever the hardship of traitors and dark moments in the name of marriage
@@wairimusimiyu So far I feel like most people are disregarding the feelings of the first wife. She is entitled to her feelings too and while the guest is remorseful, the first wife should not be forced or rushed into forgiving. Also, why is the husband being let off the hook here? He was as much in the wrong as she was.
@@betty541 a wise person will just forgive without being forced that's why many of us are not really bothered whether she will forgive or not. If she is human, and also makes mistakes,she will forgive. Bcoz she can't receive forgiveness from GOD if she doesn't forgive others We are just rejoicing n celebrating this woman whose eyes,GOD HIMSELF has opened. That's all
Keziah, I hear you..but let's agree to disagree here. I am uncomfortable with people telling the aggrieved party how to feel and what to do and yet she alone is in those shoes. There is nothing unwise about taking things at her own pace and doing what she pleases...it is her life we are talking about here..not anyone else's. Plus not all of us are necessarily religious, so the whole God won't forgive you if you don't forgive others does not fly. Shw should do as she sees fit..let's allow her the grace to do so. Thank you.
A broken spirit and a contrite heart, the Lord will not despise. The Lord has already forgiven her. This is the heart that David had, a repentant heart. May the Lord bless you Veronica.
@ruthkinyanjui read your Bible baby girl the book of Psalms is mostly David repenting and crying to God for forgiveness and partially him praising and honoring God. @LucyKiiru I echo you 💯
Well done Victoria for coming out clean and owning your mistakes. You've opened many our hearts and eyes. It's time to do the right thing before kids suffers. No one is perfect in the eyes of the Lord and he has surely forgiven you. Lots of love girl
Ngai amaruturure oothe aria mathukitie micii yene nginya uria waiyire wakwa tondu nindamukanitie ngimwira muthuri ucio ena mutumia na ndaiguire may God deal with her and others good job monica kagoni im praying for families because hii mipango ya kando needs to go God made Eve for Adam only mariage is for one man one wife
What a woman who humbles herself this much. Thank you Monica for asking questions and in a tone that is very compassionate... God bless you always make me come back for wonderful content.
This lady is bold enough and genuine. You are already forgiven and the man too is to blame because he had all the time to make her a second wife officially .
Waa i don't know even what to..the humbleness of this lady is in another level..even she didn't let it go far, only 7yrs and here she is asking for forgiveness..what a precious lady..u open my eyes in another way and thank you Victoria
Kiumbani ni kiumbani, I had a relationship with an married man but alikua njangiri, I caught him with other younger girls than me. Don't beat yourself so much, mistakes are there to be made. Gods Grace is unlimited.
Please call a spade a spade,alikosea because even after knowing Yuko na family,she continued staying.,.woi muka mukoro ethagwo gwa thokana.... it's indeed painful... when you break a home,you start battles with God!!!! and that's a fact!
These are what we call genuine mistakes....She never knew anakosea mtu.The good thing about her story is that she is apologetic..I hope the 1st wife will forgive her.
She has repeatedly repented so whether the first wife has forgiven her or not before God she has confessed her sins . Am am a victim of this my husband married a second wife took him to our matrimonial home slept on my bed and was left confused 13 years now .The wife is so proud she abused me with the support of the family and my husband .But I hold no bitterness on them have sincerely forgiven them and moved on with my kids all are grown up now and I thank God .
She is such a strong woman, and accepting her mistakes! May the goat wife find in her heart to forgive you💖💕. May God heal your babies, nothing is impossible with Him🙏🙌
Great job Monica as usual, it’s wonderful to see someone taking full accountability, may God hear your repentant heart & heal your spirit,my hope is that in our country or rather African culture we are going to start distributing the shame evenly, it all started with this man who knew very well he was married when he began chasing after her
Baby gal, don't be too hard on yourself, children do get sick, even those that belong to the goat wives get admitted over and over ....pray for your children,God is a loving and compassionate,full of mercy and a million more chances.... complete healing to your babies,Amen
It is because of people like you that my family is never stable to date 40 years of tears in marriage. May the Lord have mercy on our homes and the tears that we shed everyday.If you have truly left that family.May the Lord forgive you to even give you eternal life coz He died to save us all.
@@ruthwangari3403 ,my comment got nothing to do with families, cheating partners or what nots, it's about her and her children...the pain of a mother seeing her kids suffer,Point is, she should dedicate her children to God ,He is a God of mercy and full of second chances I'm sorry about your 40 years of tears,my comment was just about the sickly kids,God hears and heals...after all this woman has already left the man and the goatwife already forgave her and they met
, I'm man with his young family 👪 and I thank God but I vividly remember how my own mother suffered n the hands of ths core wives, I remember one day, side chick approached my mum and told her that she's surprised to know she's not dead since my dad told her mum died few year's ago, battle never ends there and I remember another side chick made my mother life miserable to an extent of running 🏃♀️ 😢 to every pastor's to seek for help which she couldn't get. , instead they drained her financially, my mum had a lot of bitterness and it affected me so much being her last born, close friend and confidant. Sadly my mum could not cope so well with grief and she died peacefully and my entire life wrecked 💔 😔 I have never recovered but it's well with my soul. After the burial dad would bring different ladies at our matrimonial home 🏡 and it crashed my spirit, even during the burial any person could tell he was not there mentally only busy body when me, my brother and sister's overwhelmed by the grief which shook 💔 the entire village..to cut the story short my dad life has never be the same again after few year's and I hate him so much..I always confess to my wife even though I'm man things can happen, I will never let her go through what my lovely mum went through and may the lord help me I pray...may she continue resting peacefully n God hands and may dad pay the heavy price.
@@eunicedallas4508 very sad to hear that, through my own experience please advice your mama to run 🏃♀️ for her dear life, but mostly they don't want to go always justification that I'm here because of you as my children and I always wonder is it better to move on and enjoy the rest of your life with your children or u stay, die and your lovely children left struggling like I do?? I always blame my mum too bcz my agreement was when I left for greener pastures she will move away but she didn't now look how I struggle with her loss...anyways God knows better btw I wish you well together with your loved one's.
Thumbsup Mrs Kagoni for a job well done, yu're such a darling may our almighty God bless you. Victoria,kutenda kosa si kosa but kosa nikurudia, yu've known and repented your sins and hakuna dhambi ambayo our God hawezi samehe and we hope that your co-wife will also forgive you. We are all sinners it's just that we sin differently,so i can't judge you. All the best Victoria,it is well ❤️❤️❤️
A story that is very close to home... without mentioning names and relationships am gonna briefly tell a story here ....so this one woman that got married as a second wife put the first wife through so much hell till she left, this second wife now settled there completely and got kids ...first child a bit disabled second child celebral palsy third child shida za akili so she thought ati ni karma or maybe she is paying for the hell she put the first wife but truly the first wife left na akawaachia Mungu and went on to raise her children....alikua mtu anajua Mungu na kumpenda so aliwaachia Mungu na kueka watoto wake na maisha ya watoto wake kwa mikono ya Mungu.....first forward to second wife's third child she started regretting and apologizing to the first wife...the husband left her akisema halei differently abled children till now huyo mama analia yet the first wife other than ile machungu ya what she went through before leaving hananga shida na wao...this is a message for anyone that wants to put another woman through such pain, any gachugwa intending to come destroy a family and such please think twice
That is why is is key to stop engaging in premarital sex n wait till marriage....to avoid having kids outside wedlock,ladies should also stop day dreaming for a tall handsome rich man and give sailor a chance that avail themselves in their peak times,not waiting till 30s and then say there are no men...to marry. N start dating married men,wen maybe they rejected a man who would have bin a good husband all to herself
Kagoni ni wamaka!! Even me and I believe the real wife has cried earnestly to God through prayer.Dont joke with prayers.Prayers move mountains and go far.Let it be a lesson to all ladies who are in the same trap.She is bold and very strong to speak out.May the real wife accept her apology.We have all sinned and have fallen short of God's glory.For the sake of not missing heaven because of bitterness and unforgiveness its better to forgive.Shalom.
Beautiful soul, heart after God, broken spirit in our days there is this kind of girls we thank God Victoria thank you for brave act, May Almighty God bless you
I am not judging Victoria and I really sympathize with her predicament but why do I keep getting the feeling that Victoria will have a hard time convincing many of us that she didn't leave the man because he got unwell and the money taps shut? I am positive that if the man's money kept flowing, Victoria's conscience that she was in an 'adulterous relationship' and all that crap about caring for the first wife and her children would not have bothered her... it never did until the man got sick. Guys, don't be cheated. Let's stick to our wives. This will be your fate with that Gacungwa.
Am guessing the sickness brought forth the urge to escape. All the talk didn’t express why she is now leaving cos the supposed awakening caught up with her conscious.
Mr Ndichu can i tell you something? I know you are wrong for this reason. Me i got married after my divorce to a divorced man. I was not in the picture when they divorced with his wife. But after staying with him for 8 years, i started feeling guilty cos of being a second wife. I knew the wife moved on and lives in America, so its not that i was making her cry but all the same i felt guilty. I talked to him about it, he was really surprised and told me there was no way we could separate. He is ok financially and he asked me if i lacked anything. I insisted and told him i was ready to suffer without him than live with the guilt. We do not have a kid together but he love my kids alot. So i know its not about money this lady is doing this. Its her love and fear for God and so you are wrong to judge her. I even know another lady who fellowship with cff church huko kwa Bishop Harrison, she was married as second wife to a former mayor of Nairobi who is super rich. But when she got saved, she had 3 kids but she chose to leave that marriage and apologised to the first wife. So, its not about money brother.
@@sonitabaraka You women move on when there is no love.. so had the man continued to pour his love on you, you'd still be there. So, no real repentance. Ni taps run dry
another woman did the same to me and even went to a point ya kuniambia...."usifikirie huku utarudi tafuta mbaba akuoe"those words burnt my heart so much ..i cried to God na for sure he answered me Ngai gutiri thoome atoooe ..This woman deserves forgiveness...lakini mimi huyu wangu i will never forgive her ever ..and she will continue to suffer forever
As a child underwent through much because of similar issues. But i thank God for He has remembered us in great way. His glory is upon us. Mam underwent through much pain and till today they still wonna humiliate her. But our love and support to her can't give them the chances.
I just love this woman..atleast shès open her burweins and eyes na akajua alikosea kuharibu boma ya mwanamke mwingine...forgiven she is since ame accept her mistake and trust me u God will bless her & her kids...this gives me hope that the woman whom also ruined my marriage of 13yrs will soon apologise also though siwezi rudiana na huyo mtu but if she comes for apology am gonna forgive her
Victoria 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 You are a brave woman May God bless you and your children Don't worry God does not look for the perfect ones,He perfects us. Thanks Monica for the interview.
To be honest, i don't blame this lady. She went in as a second wife, and there is nothing wrong with that. If the blame was to come, then am blaming the MAN
Victoria is a class act. Full of wisdom, humbleness and above all, ability to self correct. She loves God and his creation. She is not just seeking God’s mercy, she cries for the healing of his creation-the hurt first wife. You can’t find a better human being than Victoria. Victory unto her.
Na kama inawezekana yule madam akona mzee wangu anaweza mwachilia kama vile huyu amefanya!! madam God bless you very much and your childrens will never lack anything 🙏🙏🙏
Wow..she is a woman if courage. She has owned up her mistakes and God has forgiven you Victoria. Mimi nlitoka kwangu nikakuja dubai kufanya kazi ya housemaid nikaacha myoto wa 7mnths na wakati nlimaliza 3mths huku the other woman sent me a message mocking me to a point of telling me that i will go home in a coffin. So Victoria you have a golden heart.
I salute her for this, I wish my mother confessed like this woman after ruining a home making the first wife to be driven out of her home.They said she was insane but i am sure she was suffering from depression. Being her firstborn I've really paid for their sins but I thank God He recently delivered me after repenting on their behalf when I realised it could be the reason i was leading a miserable life.I was a bright student but I never advanced my education to my desired level and ended up doing odd jobs for survival.I thank the neighbours and certain aunties who dared to tell me the truth after observing my predicaments, God bless them. Our God is Faithful,I am in a better position now and i swore never to wreck anyone's home either by marriage or being a side chick. I am in my tenth year since i divorced and I am happily single. Can someone advise me whether there is something else i am supposed to do kindly.
@@janetshiku186 please relax utakuwa na blood pressure Old Testament was written to suite those old days. We are going with the New Testament you are forgiven because of the blood spilled at the Calvary. Period. Ma shida zako saa hii ni fate na poverty.
Me and my children we have gone through hell since 2007 he has never help even a penny but I blame my ex husband because I don’t know what he told her, but those who do it knowingly may God punish them because I can’t be able to explain the pain I have gone through and still going through May God vindicate us, I know you are God of vengeance
She's so brave to come out coz some women will start dropping comments n they r sidechiqs n have the audacity to point fingers. As the Bible says, confess ua sins and you will be forgiven.....
Muthuri wene ndoigire ndikamweda handu ndi ona angikorwo ari bilionea reke thina undie bwana yangu alinifanya tu hivi victoria amefanyia mama mweza lakini najua kilio Changu siku moja tu nitalipishiwa
Someone did that to my children, put a barrier between them and their dad, for many years they have not seen each other, even if they meet on the way, they cannot recognize each other
Victoria your my hero, God bless you for tough decision you made. May God reward you abundantly with your kids and bless and heal them. God will use you heal many families. I salute you 👏
u r one in a million mummy don't blame urself don't regret God made u go through this so that ukuje ku warn Wanawake wa kurukia nyumba za wengine na kutesa wamama na watoto wao God has forgiven you
I'm not judging,but I will say this,when you're consciously sinning,accept punishment yako kama umefurahi😐.God forgives but Jehova renders justice properly 🤷
Nobody can be happy when under punishment What we call conscious sinning, may not be conscious at all When demons blonde someone's eyes,they never realize how evil their actions are Let's thank GOD that finally, her spiritual eyes have opened n she has repented
This thing of blaming demons and the devil I just don't buy. She is sane, she is an adult and so that means she knew what she was doing. She has taken responsibility and that is good, but tuache kuwekelea shetani tukikosea.
@@betty541 do you know the power of sin....do you know the devil is very subtle,,,how did he manage to convince Eve to eat the fruit....if you knew the power of sin..haungeongea hivo....I don't blame you though...but just ask yourself why did it cost Jesus's life for pardon of sin...just meditate it.... kindly
Talk to Pastor Kepha ..kuna Soul ties here..are your husband's parents alive?maybe they said something after you named your children after them! The pain and prayers of the first wife has reached God...please 1st wife forgive her. God forgives us who are you not to do the same!!
I have pitied her. Forward ever backward never. Let's wait and see what is about to happen. God is the final judge. Ngorp hehenjeku Ngai ndangiaga kumuigwa.
Aki wanaume!!!! Ati alifanya introduction ___ huyu ni mke wangu na my daughter, and this is Victoria 🤔 who is Victoria to him? Much as we blame her, the man was also wrong
Waaaaaaah this story made me flow in tears because it's reminds me of my elder sister marriage which was so good until other woman came across , my siz went through hell the woman abused my sister so much but when God is on your side always you remain a Víctor today my siz doing well n her kids too ....but it took her a lot.
Metagwo nyaciamburi ni kwambura.... if you have never been betrayed by your partner, you cannot understand the pain. The pain/heartache is unbearable. Trust me
How sure are you !? Mathew 16:19 …. whatever is loosed here on earth is loosed in heaven and what’s bound here on earth is bound in heaven . If the wife has bound her she is bound !
I wonder what Gospel many Christians know or understand. Forgiveness is from God. No human being really forgives another. Ask Forgiveness from God. Then forgive yourself. Forgive yourself.God forgave you 2000 Years ago. Period.
Monica you have done a good job here! The first wife and children have lived with the pain of absence of a father and husband in their lives. I greatly commend the kind of restraint that the first wife and daughter show when around the second wife. The first wife and her children must be given time to work through the process of forgiveness without being rushed, it will not be easy and it may never happen all the way. They do have very painful wounds.
For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God..... Every Saint is a sinner who fell down and got up.... What Victoria did may be wrong but finding the courage to stand up and own her mistakes matters.... Our God is Mighty to save.... May you find peace and forgiveness.
I know the first wife(real wife) a beautiful woman of God, a loving mother and grandmother. She's my friend in Church. So prayerful and dedicated. I never knew what she's been through until recently. Oh my GOD. I CAN ATTEST TO HER GOD. INDEED GOD FIGHTS FOR HIS OWN. there's so much I can write here but lemmy just pause for now.
This is the true revival. confession and repentance. Almighty God we thank you for this one beautiful heart, Victoria you are a victor and today things has turn around for you. God will bless you in a very special way. you are not condemned you are a true disciple of Christ. Jesus is saying to you I will not judge you go and sin no more. Once again thank you Victoria many will learn a lesson from you and God will use you to rescue many others who have found themselves in such an in sidence. REVIVAL is here with us. Thank you Monicah your platform is such a blessing God bless you too
"As far is East is from West, so has He separates us from our sins".. God is pleased with such a heart, may He restore your peace and life. And if it His will, may He bless you with a husband of your own.
You will not like her if you know what happened after the demise of the man he is talking about. Ask her to come here again and explain some very serious and ugly scenarios upon his death. The wife is so born again and I think she's so mature.
Victoria am so proud of you for being bold enough to come out and ask for forgiveness,find the wife and apologize to her face to face,even if she doesn’t forgive you that’s between her and God..I hope and pray that she will release you from the heart..God will see you through
When David killed Huria akachukuwa bibi yake, Mungu alituma mjumbe amuambie atakufa kwa hio dhambi, lakini Daudi hakuanza kupeana excuses mbali alikumbali dhambi yake na akatubu na Mungu akamsamehe, soo this woman I like her coz she realized her sins na ametubu and God is love He forgives every sin 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Victoria…you are a woman and a half ..God loves you so much to have shown you your mistakes…on the other hand I wish you were that woman who took my husband away from me..this moment I would have my husband back. Dear God,, tell the woman who has my husband to return him back..I need him,,our children needs him..may she have sleepless nights,,
My Dear viewer,
I know this story is very emotive. I know we would be tempted to call Victoria names and even rub it on her face that Karma is a b*****but please let's be respectful in our comments. Let's remember that we follow a God of second chance. Let's remember that some of the greatest saints like St Paul, St Mary Magdalene, St Augustine, were once great sinners. Let us bless Victoria with the same words of Jesus 'Go and do not sin again.'
Let us pray and hope that the woman whose this message is intended for will soften her heart. That the Holy Spirit may give her the resolve and the power to forgive her and bless Victoria's kids.
And for those of us who may be in such destructive relationships, may we; in this period of lent, call to mind our sins and change our ways. AMEN
This my plea to you my faithful follower.
Yours Monica
Amen
She's so mature,owning up to mistakes she did is the best thing ever.May she find peace.
May God see you thru,and heal your soul
Victoria don't worry..wanaume dio wabaya cos hawatocheki.
Women should stop blaming themselves
Monica I have gone through hell with my.girls bcoz of one woman who broke my home it hurts so much.bcoz watoto hawakufika kwenye walikua wafike kimasomo vitu mingi ziliharibika may they stop breaking marriages aki watoto wanaumia but machozi tumelia.Mungu atatulipishia
Very true mungu atakulipishia hio machozi na ya watoto wako pia
@erick ngenye Usipatikane. Hakuheshimu hata kidogo. Na watoto wako walikosa masomo.
Mimi nalea wangu watatu peke yangu na baba yao ana enjoy tu maisha na mwanamke mwingine na watoto wao but Mungu atatulipizia tu
Pole dia take heart vengeance belongs to God may their be bright in jesus name ..he got our backs whatsoever the hardship of traitors and dark moments in the name of marriage
It's very true
My beautiful neighbor ..happy to see you ..there's nothing nice like a sincere confessing heart God hears🙏
She is a very wise lady. Knowing you are wrong and admitting it, n asking for forgiveness is wisdom from above
GOD will bless you my sister
Asking for forgiveness when the first wife and kids were crying alikua ana Raha tu..weee reke nemwo
@@wairimusimiyu So far I feel like most people are disregarding the feelings of the first wife. She is entitled to her feelings too and while the guest is remorseful, the first wife should not be forced or rushed into forgiving. Also, why is the husband being let off the hook here? He was as much in the wrong as she was.
No she is not
@@betty541 a wise person will just forgive without being forced that's why many of us are not really bothered whether she will forgive or not. If she is human, and also makes mistakes,she will forgive. Bcoz she can't receive forgiveness from GOD if she doesn't forgive others
We are just rejoicing n celebrating this woman whose eyes,GOD HIMSELF has opened.
That's all
Keziah, I hear you..but let's agree to disagree here. I am uncomfortable with people telling the aggrieved party how to feel and what to do and yet she alone is in those shoes. There is nothing unwise about taking things at her own pace and doing what she pleases...it is her life we are talking about here..not anyone else's. Plus not all of us are necessarily religious, so the whole God won't forgive you if you don't forgive others does not fly. Shw should do as she sees fit..let's allow her the grace to do so. Thank you.
This is the best show ever monica kagoni many marriages will heal God bless you and extend your territories
A broken spirit and a contrite heart, the Lord will not despise. The Lord has already forgiven her. This is the heart that David had, a repentant heart. May the Lord bless you Veronica.
Exactly 💯
David never sinned, he took a divorced wife🙏🏼
@@ruthkinyanjui4700 David killed Uriah in order to sleep with the wife isn't that sin to u?
@@tabbiemwas7478 the problem is that our society has normalised male infidelity.
@ruthkinyanjui read your Bible baby girl the book of Psalms is mostly David repenting and crying to God for forgiveness and partially him praising and honoring God.
@LucyKiiru I echo you 💯
Well done Victoria for coming out clean and owning your mistakes. You've opened many our hearts and eyes. It's time to do the right thing before kids suffers. No one is perfect in the eyes of the Lord and he has surely forgiven you. Lots of love girl
Ngai amaruturure oothe aria mathukitie micii yene nginya uria waiyire wakwa tondu nindamukanitie ngimwira muthuri ucio ena mutumia na ndaiguire may God deal with her and others good job monica kagoni im praying for families because hii mipango ya kando needs to go God made Eve for Adam only mariage is for one man one wife
Aki kube akuna mwanaume hana side chick mungu akubuke wa mama
😅😅wangu nilimwambia siku Mungu atashuka kunilipishia hataamini,Sasa pia yeye amejua hajui
Waah pia mm nilipigia co wife wangu then akaambia my ex ati nilimtusi 🙆good thing my ex knew matusi haiezi toka kwa mdomo yangu 🤔this mipango aki
Might you were not his wife.If you keep holding that bitterness God will never come through for you.
What a woman who humbles herself this much. Thank you Monica for asking questions and in a tone that is very compassionate... God bless you always make me come back for wonderful content.
This lady is bold enough and genuine. You are already forgiven and the man too is to blame because he had all the time to make her a second wife officially .
Waa i don't know even what to..the humbleness of this lady is in another level..even she didn't let it go far, only 7yrs and here she is asking for forgiveness..what a precious lady..u open my eyes in another way and thank you Victoria
Monica your parting shot words are so beautiful and encouraging. Thanks for such educative interview
I like the way Monica ask questions, very effective and efficient. Monica,you are full of wisdom, may God help you always.
Kiumbani ni kiumbani, I had a relationship with an married man but alikua njangiri, I caught him with other younger girls than me. Don't beat yourself so much, mistakes are there to be made. Gods Grace is unlimited.
That is the man. What about you. The lady is not referring to the man but herself.
First wives pesa zote zinapelekewa slayqueens,but there is God in heaven ,what goes round comes round
That's a lie every man who respects his wife and kids will never do that
Madam Jesus....mwanaume mgani anaedeangwa kwake?
I hope Betty wamaitha will listen to this coz Ruth wa mum has seen it all..
Na Tabby kamotho even after loosing her son and another epileptic hakuachana na bwana ya wenyewe
And Mary Lincoln. I guess the 1st wife of njogu wa Njoroge keeps crying.
Please call a spade a spade,alikosea because even after knowing Yuko na family,she continued staying.,.woi muka mukoro ethagwo gwa thokana.... it's indeed painful... when you break a home,you start battles with God!!!! and that's a fact!
having kids with the man unafaa uelewe mtoto si mkate ataenda kuuza, kids come with responsibilities
You left him when he fell sick and money got scarce.
Your pastor never told you that having someone's husband is a sin?....
Wow that heart is genuine and the request for forgiveness is deeply true.. my classmate Vicky God has heard your request. you're forgiven🙏
Wise lady and that the Start of healing,God is God of mercies and they start after knowing your mistake.
I just love the ending, kagoni umemalizia vizuri saana,kudos
Monica is wiser than her age. No wonder she's so blessed
She's very eloquent n understands the meaning of real confession, repentance and forgiveness 🙏🙏🙏🙏
This is an eye opener for me... Needed to hear this
These are what we call genuine mistakes....She never knew anakosea mtu.The good thing about her story is that she is apologetic..I hope the 1st wife will forgive her.
I think she knew exactly what she was doing. She says as much in her confession and apology.
She has repeatedly repented so whether the first wife has forgiven her or not before God she has confessed her sins . Am am a victim of this my husband married a second wife took him to our matrimonial home slept on my bed and was left confused 13 years now .The wife is so proud she abused me with the support of the family and my husband .But I hold no bitterness on them have sincerely forgiven them and moved on with my kids all are grown up now and I thank God .
She is such a strong woman, and accepting her mistakes! May the goat wife find in her heart to forgive you💖💕. May God heal your babies, nothing is impossible with Him🙏🙌
Aki first wife mungu awape nguvu,mtu akikamuuuua akimaliza anarudishia first wife 😭
Weeee
Na Ana apologize with crocodile tears🤣🤣
@@graxekary9847 akwende huko jangili
The first wife must be very prayerful.She is a wise woman hakuna mahali alitusiana or fought a physical fight .He fought on her knees and she has won
I remember I prayed to God and told Him to let His will be done! Then boom vitu zikawa poa
Great job Monica as usual, it’s wonderful to see someone taking full accountability, may God hear your repentant heart & heal your spirit,my hope is that in our country or rather African culture we are going to start distributing the shame evenly, it all started with this man who knew very well he was married when he began chasing after her
First wife is always blessed as the founder of home
Hapo kwa "founder" pana key
Baby gal, don't be too hard on yourself, children do get sick, even those that belong to the goat wives get admitted over and over ....pray for your children,God is a loving and compassionate,full of mercy and a million more chances.... complete healing to your babies,Amen
I agree polygamy has been there since kitambo
Never make someone cry coz of selfishness...put yourself in the shoes of that woman umepata kwa hiyo nyumba.
It is because of people like you that my family is never stable to date 40 years of tears in marriage. May the Lord have mercy on our homes and the tears that we shed everyday.If you have truly left that family.May the Lord forgive you to even give you eternal life coz He died to save us all.
@@ruthwangari3403 ,my comment got nothing to do with families, cheating partners or what nots, it's about her and her children...the pain of a mother seeing her kids suffer,Point is, she should dedicate her children to God ,He is a God of mercy and full of second chances
I'm sorry about your 40 years of tears,my comment was just about the sickly kids,God hears and heals...after all this woman has already left the man and the goatwife already forgave her and they met
, I'm man with his young family 👪 and I thank God but I vividly remember how my own mother suffered n the hands of ths core wives, I remember one day, side chick approached my mum and told her that she's surprised to know she's not dead since my dad told her mum died few year's ago, battle never ends there and I remember another side chick made my mother life miserable to an extent of running 🏃♀️ 😢 to every pastor's to seek for help which she couldn't get.
, instead they drained her financially, my mum had a lot of bitterness and it affected me so much being her last born, close friend and confidant.
Sadly my mum could not cope so well with grief and she died peacefully and my entire life wrecked 💔 😔 I have never recovered but it's well with my soul.
After the burial dad would bring different ladies at our matrimonial home 🏡 and it crashed my spirit, even during the burial any person could tell he was not there mentally only busy body when me, my brother and sister's overwhelmed by the grief which shook 💔 the entire village..to cut the story short my dad life has never be the same again after few year's and I hate him so much..I always confess to my wife even though I'm man things can happen, I will never let her go through what my lovely mum went through and may the lord help me I pray...may she continue resting peacefully n God hands and may dad pay the heavy price.
This is sad enough, 🥲🥲, I won’t say much, My mom has been and still is in those shoes though she’s still alive, but her health has deteriorated a lot
@@eunicedallas4508 very sad to hear that, through my own experience please advice your mama to run 🏃♀️ for her dear life, but mostly they don't want to go always justification that I'm here because of you as my children and I always wonder is it better to move on and enjoy the rest of your life with your children or u stay, die and your lovely children left struggling like I do?? I always blame my mum too bcz my agreement was when I left for greener pastures she will move away but she didn't now look how I struggle with her loss...anyways God knows better btw I wish you well together with your loved one's.
🙏🙏🙏🙏
Very heartbreaking Stevey. God be with you and your siblings
@@judymburu8898 Amen 🙏 🙌 👏
This woman deserves forgiveness from God and the cowife.She is one in a million.Victoria may God intervine and wipe your tears
Nimesome kitu kubwa sana.....ngai akugirie maithori Victoria
"if you've never sinned stone this lady"
Let's not judge. I believe the Lord has forgiven her,she has repented and requested for forgiven.
Bt yur not the first one to do so huyu mzee angeongea na first wife amwabie so take heart Victoria.....may GOD heal yur kids watapona tu.
I believe the same thing but people who don’t believe in forgiveness they can’t forgive.May God bless Victoria. She’s already forgiven
I wish you are the cheated wife then we shall accept your words. Otherwise ni moshi
God doesn't judge us but every choice we make in our life good or bad it has consequences
Only those in her shoes that can side with her ! A sincere forgiveness is asked to the person that one has offended period !
I love monica ,u r soo mature 👏, I love ur shows ,mungu akuogoze unapo fanya interviews zako na familia yako
Thumbsup Mrs Kagoni for a job well done, yu're such a darling may our almighty God bless you.
Victoria,kutenda kosa si kosa but kosa nikurudia, yu've known and repented your sins and hakuna dhambi ambayo our God hawezi samehe and we hope that your co-wife will also forgive you.
We are all sinners it's just that we sin differently,so i can't judge you.
All the best Victoria,it is well ❤️❤️❤️
It's good to seek forgiveness but you made somebody suffer alot
VICTORIA YOUR. For given be blessed
One of the best show emotional and am looking forward to first wife respond
Me too coz am wondering wat will she say
Atii aroigireee endiee mbereeee🤭🤭🤭🤫🤫🤫🤔🙉🙊
A story that is very close to home... without mentioning names and relationships am gonna briefly tell a story here ....so this one woman that got married as a second wife put the first wife through so much hell till she left, this second wife now settled there completely and got kids ...first child a bit disabled second child celebral palsy third child shida za akili so she thought ati ni karma or maybe she is paying for the hell she put the first wife but truly the first wife left na akawaachia Mungu and went on to raise her children....alikua mtu anajua Mungu na kumpenda so aliwaachia Mungu na kueka watoto wake na maisha ya watoto wake kwa mikono ya Mungu.....first forward to second wife's third child she started regretting and apologizing to the first wife...the husband left her akisema halei differently abled children till now huyo mama analia yet the first wife other than ile machungu ya what she went through before leaving hananga shida na wao...this is a message for anyone that wants to put another woman through such pain, any gachugwa intending to come destroy a family and such please think twice
May God make all sidechicks leave married men we are suffering taking care the kids alone.
Amen and Amen
Amen
That is why is is key to stop engaging in premarital sex n wait till marriage....to avoid having kids outside wedlock,ladies should also stop day dreaming for a tall handsome rich man and give sailor a chance that avail themselves in their peak times,not waiting till 30s and then say there are no men...to marry. N start dating married men,wen maybe they rejected a man who would have bin a good husband all to herself
Kagoni ni wamaka!! Even me and I believe the real wife has cried earnestly to God through prayer.Dont joke with prayers.Prayers move mountains and go far.Let it be a lesson to all ladies who are in the same trap.She is bold and very strong to speak out.May the real wife accept her apology.We have all sinned and have fallen short of God's glory.For the sake of not missing heaven because of bitterness and unforgiveness its better to forgive.Shalom.
And if she cried to God..and God heard her cry..let her do what God commands us to do forgive and love.
Muthuri uyu waku niwe wina mahitia, ndari na utheri ,Ari na uhinga, uhinga niithaga ria gikuu, akurehe utherini Ruo ni ruguthira,nake NGAI onekane:
Beautiful soul, heart after God, broken spirit in our days there is this kind of girls we thank God Victoria thank you for brave act, May Almighty God bless you
I am not judging Victoria and I really sympathize with her predicament but why do I keep getting the feeling that Victoria will have a hard time convincing many of us that she didn't leave the man because he got unwell and the money taps shut?
I am positive that if the man's money kept flowing, Victoria's conscience that she was in an 'adulterous relationship' and all that crap about caring for the first wife and her children would not have bothered her...
it never did until the man got sick.
Guys, don't be cheated. Let's stick to our wives. This will be your fate with that Gacungwa.
All things work together for good the circumstance may have come to release her from bondage
Am guessing the sickness brought forth the urge to escape. All the talk didn’t express why she is now leaving cos the supposed awakening caught up with her conscious.
Mr Ndichu can i tell you something? I know you are wrong for this reason. Me i got married after my divorce to a divorced man. I was not in the picture when they divorced with his wife. But after staying with him for 8 years, i started feeling guilty cos of being a second wife. I knew the wife moved on and lives in America, so its not that i was making her cry but all the same i felt guilty. I talked to him about it, he was really surprised and told me there was no way we could separate. He is ok financially and he asked me if i lacked anything. I insisted and told him i was ready to suffer without him than live with the guilt. We do not have a kid together but he love my kids alot. So i know its not about money this lady is doing this. Its her love and fear for God and so you are wrong to judge her. I even know another lady who fellowship with cff church huko kwa Bishop Harrison, she was married as second wife to a former mayor of Nairobi who is super rich. But when she got saved, she had 3 kids but she chose to leave that marriage and apologised to the first wife. So, its not about money brother.
I hadn't even thought of this interesting perspective! Something to consider🤔
@@sonitabaraka You women move on when there is no love.. so had the man continued to pour his love on you, you'd still be there. So, no real repentance. Ni taps run dry
another woman did the same to me and even went to a point ya kuniambia...."usifikirie huku utarudi tafuta mbaba akuoe"those words burnt my heart so much ..i cried to God na for sure he answered me Ngai gutiri thoome atoooe ..This woman deserves forgiveness...lakini mimi huyu wangu i will never forgive her ever ..and she will continue to suffer forever
Watu wa kusoma comments tuko wapi?
As a child underwent through much because of similar issues. But i thank God for He has remembered us in great way. His glory is upon us. Mam underwent through much pain and till today they still wonna humiliate her. But our love and support to her can't give them the chances.
I just love this woman..atleast shès open her burweins and eyes na akajua alikosea kuharibu boma ya mwanamke mwingine...forgiven she is since ame accept her mistake and trust me u God will bless her & her kids...this gives me hope that the woman whom also ruined my marriage of 13yrs will soon apologise also though siwezi rudiana na huyo mtu but if she comes for apology am gonna forgive her
Victoria 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
You are a brave woman
May God bless you and your children
Don't worry God does not look for the perfect ones,He perfects us.
Thanks Monica for the interview.
Mungu nifunze kunyamaza.. though ya dunia utalipia hapa Hapa..wiyumie gacungwa
To be honest, i don't blame this lady. She went in as a second wife, and there is nothing wrong with that. If the blame was to come, then am blaming the MAN
Tru
Seems like everyone overlooks the role of the man in creating such messes.
And it is the man who pursued Victoria.
True
Yes and muigai wa njoroge and de john demethew are examples
Ici ndeto ma irutúhaga but God restores.
Victoria, God be with you. May you be forgiven.
Victoria is a class act. Full of wisdom, humbleness and above all, ability to self correct. She loves God and his creation. She is not just seeking God’s mercy, she cries for the healing of his creation-the hurt first wife. You can’t find a better human being than Victoria. Victory unto her.
Hio part ya hosi imenikumbusha mom na her then Co wife😥😥😥 . Ngai ni ngai. Live long mami anna Wanjiru.
Na kama inawezekana yule madam akona mzee wangu anaweza mwachilia kama vile huyu amefanya!! madam God bless you very much and your childrens will never lack anything 🙏🙏🙏
She will in Jesus mighty Name
This lady is genuine. May God forgive her!
Very genuine,God has already forgiven her it’s my prayers.
If she has repented she is already forgiven
Wow..she is a woman if courage.
She has owned up her mistakes and God has forgiven you Victoria.
Mimi nlitoka kwangu nikakuja dubai kufanya kazi ya housemaid nikaacha myoto wa 7mnths na wakati nlimaliza 3mths huku the other woman sent me a message mocking me to a point of telling me that i will go home in a coffin.
So Victoria you have a golden heart.
May God bless the work of your hands ndio uweze kulea watoto
Athuri makamaguo mbeca ciathira agatiguo acoke kwa mutumia wake Atari kindu kana ee muruaru
I salute her for this, I wish my mother confessed like this woman after ruining a home making the first wife to be driven out of her home.They said she was insane but i am sure she was suffering from depression.
Being her firstborn I've really paid for their sins but I thank God He recently delivered me after repenting on their behalf when I realised it could be the reason i was leading a miserable life.I was a bright student but I never advanced my education to my desired level and ended up doing odd jobs for survival.I thank the neighbours and certain aunties who dared to tell me the truth after observing my predicaments, God bless them.
Our God is Faithful,I am in a better position now and i swore never to wreck anyone's home either by marriage or being a side chick.
I am in my tenth year since i divorced and I am happily single.
Can someone advise me whether there is something else i am supposed to do kindly.
Thank you for making a good decision
You never did anything wrong stop beating yourself you are fine. Shida zako ni fate
@@salomenewsome4188 Really, I may not be sure but the Bible says that God shall apply vengeance for your sins up to the fourth generation.
@@janetshiku186 please relax utakuwa na blood pressure Old Testament was written to suite those old days. We are going with the New Testament you are forgiven because of the blood spilled at the Calvary. Period. Ma shida zako saa hii ni fate na poverty.
@@salomenewsome4188 I am at peace now, thanks for ua advice
Me and my children we have gone through hell since 2007 he has never help even a penny but I blame my ex husband because I don’t know what he told her, but those who do it knowingly may God punish them because I can’t be able to explain the pain I have gone through and still going through May God vindicate us, I know you are God of vengeance
Very true may they never now peace those who do it intentionally
@Essie M Official hugs dear that pain cannot be compared with anything karma will be served them well
Gal pray n God will judge those who pass you through pain
Metha ya kagoni I agree with you..
May the healing power of God reach Victoria's children in jesus Big name.
AMEN
AMEN
AMEN
She's so brave to come out coz some women will start dropping comments n they r sidechiqs n have the audacity to point fingers. As the Bible says, confess ua sins and you will be forgiven.....
True
it seems your mpango wenu is here too au
Muthuri wene ndoigire ndikamweda handu ndi ona angikorwo ari bilionea reke thina undie bwana yangu alinifanya tu hivi victoria amefanyia mama mweza lakini najua kilio Changu siku moja tu nitalipishiwa
She deserves forgiveness,how I wish my stepmother see this,she been hell on earth putting a barrier between us and our dad
Someone did that to my children, put a barrier between them and their dad, for many years they have not seen each other, even if they meet on the way, they cannot recognize each other
Victoria your my hero, God bless you for tough decision you made.
May God reward you abundantly with your kids and bless and heal them.
God will use you heal many families.
I salute you 👏
Power of prayer.may she be forgiven and become a lesson to other destroyers
u r one in a million mummy don't blame urself don't regret God made u go through this so that ukuje ku warn Wanawake wa kurukia nyumba za wengine na kutesa wamama na watoto wao God has forgiven you
she is a beautiful girl in heart. There is not sin that is unforgivable. God will never reject the prodigal son
Huyu ni wife material
I like ur courage Victoria, I hope and pray that woman will find a place in her heart and forgive you..
I'm not judging,but I will say this,when you're consciously sinning,accept punishment yako kama umefurahi😐.God forgives but Jehova renders justice properly 🤷
Very true💯
Nobody can be happy when under punishment
What we call conscious sinning, may not be conscious at all
When demons blonde someone's eyes,they never realize how evil their actions are
Let's thank GOD that finally, her spiritual eyes have opened n she has repented
This thing of blaming demons and the devil I just don't buy. She is sane, she is an adult and so that means she knew what she was doing. She has taken responsibility and that is good, but tuache kuwekelea shetani tukikosea.
Well said
@@betty541 do you know the power of sin....do you know the devil is very subtle,,,how did he manage to convince Eve to eat the fruit....if you knew the power of sin..haungeongea hivo....I don't blame you though...but just ask yourself why did it cost Jesus's life for pardon of sin...just meditate it.... kindly
Talk to Pastor Kepha ..kuna Soul ties here..are your husband's parents alive?maybe they said something after you named your children after them! The pain and prayers of the first wife has reached God...please 1st wife forgive her. God forgives us who are you not to do the same!!
Kosa sio kosa, kosa ni kurudia kosa.....by the way she is beautiful
I have pitied her. Forward ever backward never. Let's wait and see what is about to happen. God is the final judge. Ngorp hehenjeku Ngai ndangiaga kumuigwa.
kwanza sita ku judge hindi iria wamotoraga mbeca ciake ndwaririkana mutumia wake mwenye alistrugle to build her family anyway may God forgive you
Remember she was reminding him of his family
She is really an amazing lady 😍 I love how she understands marriage
The tears I cried in 2019 and the tears my son cried in 2020 are about to be answered...God of vengeance hurry for us please 🙏🙏
May God answer you speedily! I saw my mom cry those tears and I cried alongside her. But God heard us and acted. May He do the same for you.
2022..The year of confession 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏And plz Arume twiragei Maa mugiuka kwenda gutuma ndugu naithui..mnatubooo
Thank you for sharing your story. This is a huge lesson to we young ladies who are about to make such irrational relationship decisions.
Victoria, May God bless you, utendewe makuu vile ata wewe kweli umeona baya , i lk your decison and it's good to repent, be blessed
I don't know why Victoria is apologising she was married as second wife ...feel free mamaa kids being sick it's normal mahe dawa nimekuhona
Her conscience is alive unlike many home breakers.. that is the reason she is apologizing
Na aache dhambi
Esther wi co wife handu.haaa
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@@faithwamwara3409 ona dingirota
Aki wanaume!!!! Ati alifanya introduction ___ huyu ni mke wangu na my daughter, and this is Victoria 🤔 who is Victoria to him? Much as we blame her, the man was also wrong
Waaaaaaah this story made me flow in tears because it's reminds me of my elder sister marriage which was so good until other woman came across , my siz went through hell the woman abused my sister so much but when God is on your side always you remain a Víctor today my siz doing well n her kids too ....but it took her a lot.
It’s sad but believe me Karma is real, good to hear she is okay🙏🏼
Thanks Monica for your good job Victoria your soo beautiful and humble may the Lord forgive and heal your children's future your blessed
Metagwo nyaciamburi ni kwambura.... if you have never been betrayed by your partner, you cannot understand the pain. The pain/heartache is unbearable. Trust me
Courageous and religiously principled, wish yu luck in all your future endeavors.
Wonderful realizing and repenting may GOD hear your prayers
Do you have to go through all this stress to consider your ways?
Metha ya kagoni great interview madam, you have done it perfectly, giving her the best time to speak, good questions, you are good in interviewing
A free woman she is..Whoever does not forgive her its on you….(including co-wife)Far as God is concerned she is free like a bird
How sure are you !? Mathew 16:19 …. whatever is loosed here on earth is loosed in heaven and what’s bound here on earth is bound in heaven . If the wife has bound her she is bound !
Amen,
@Blessed mama very true👍✅
I wonder what Gospel many Christians know or understand.
Forgiveness is from God.
No human being really forgives another.
Ask Forgiveness from God.
Then forgive yourself.
Forgive yourself.God forgave you 2000 Years ago.
Period.
@@jennifermcwhortet7934 Good backed up by a scripture or scriptures ….thats what “ Golpel” is ….
Monica you have done a good job here! The first wife and children have lived with the pain of absence of a father and husband in their lives. I greatly commend the kind of restraint that the first wife and daughter show when around the second wife.
The first wife and her children must be given time to work through the process of forgiveness without being rushed, it will not be easy and it may never happen all the way. They do have very painful wounds.
Ooooh what a testimony Victoria God will bless and place you in space
Very true victoria ngari ya thirikari ndiri hindi igatuika yaku.
For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God..... Every Saint is a sinner who fell down and got up.... What Victoria did may be wrong but finding the courage to stand up and own her mistakes matters.... Our God is Mighty to save.... May you find peace and forgiveness.
I know the first wife(real wife) a beautiful woman of God, a loving mother and grandmother. She's my friend in Church. So prayerful and dedicated. I never knew what she's been through until recently. Oh my GOD. I CAN ATTEST TO HER GOD. INDEED GOD FIGHTS FOR HIS OWN.
there's so much I can write here but lemmy just pause for now.
This is the true revival. confession and repentance. Almighty God we thank you for this one beautiful heart, Victoria you are a victor and today things has turn around for you. God will bless you in a very special way. you are not condemned you are a true disciple of Christ. Jesus is saying to you I will not judge you go and sin no more. Once again thank you Victoria many will learn a lesson from you and God will use you to rescue many others who have found themselves in such an in sidence. REVIVAL is here with us.
Thank you Monicah your platform is such a blessing God bless you too
Just forgive yourself and don't accuse yourself harshly God is God of forgiveness and of another chance your children are blessing in Jesus might name
You are a strong woman Victoria ,blessed and forgiven.
God be with you always
This is what is called repentance. May the Lord God help her and the innocent children
"As far is East is from West, so has He separates us from our sins"..
God is pleased with such a heart, may He restore your peace and life.
And if it His will, may He bless you with a husband of your own.
Who are we to judge this lady?! I love this lady. She's very genuine and God fearing and that's enough for me.
You will not like her if you know what happened after the demise of the man he is talking about. Ask her to come here again and explain some very serious and ugly scenarios upon his death. The wife is so born again and I think she's so mature.
Victoria am so proud of you for being bold enough to come out and ask for forgiveness,find the wife and apologize to her face to face,even if she doesn’t forgive you that’s between her and God..I hope and pray that she will release you from the heart..God will see you through
When David killed Huria akachukuwa bibi yake, Mungu alituma mjumbe amuambie atakufa kwa hio dhambi, lakini Daudi hakuanza kupeana excuses mbali alikumbali dhambi yake na akatubu na Mungu akamsamehe, soo this woman I like her coz she realized her sins na ametubu and God is love He forgives every sin 🙏🙏🙏🙏
may God bless that woman ,mungu hupenda roho Kaa iyo Victoria utaenda Bali Sana ,be blessed
Victoria…you are a woman and a half ..God loves you so much to have shown you your mistakes…on the other hand I wish you were that woman who took my husband away from me..this moment I would have my husband back. Dear God,, tell the woman who has my husband to return him back..I need him,,our children needs him..may she have sleepless nights,,
I pray that God may grant you peace, peace to the 1st wife and heal your children. You are a strong woman it's not easy to share such a story.