My aunt is 50yrs old and has no child, she went through a lot and finally accepted she can't have kids and it's not a ticket to heaven. She now loves herself and living her best. It wasn't easy though....nilimtoa kwake cha nguvu because she was even suicidal. These days yeye husema I gave her what nobody else ever did.
Am sorry to say this woman has not accepted herself from the heart despite her experience she is still not loving herself at all kagoni thanks for being lenient with her but much is meant for herself she needs to allocate herself first
Am in my 20s struggling with infertility married to the best man trying to conceive for 3yrs + my case is primary infertility where by have never conceived not aborted even once.....am still believi g God will show me and everyone struggling with infertility mercy.......in Jesus name....Baby dust to anyone looking for a child including me❤
ladies, let wisdom prevail....mwanaume amekuchapa, karibu akuue over and over alafu unarudi uko...na hauna ata watoto na yeye?? girls don't wait for a second beating or second miscarriage or alete bibi mwingine!!!!! Enda oshea watu manguo and then u rent a ka - small room uanze maisha!! This is not meant to hurt the guest, no, this is to challenge women to wake up!!
Everything happens for a reason...may God meet your heart desire...wenye wanaringa na watoto do they know what future holds for those kids? They might regret having those kids.. God sees and hears
This is an example of the Stockholm syndrome. When an abused person gets used to abuse, they somehow regard the abuser as a saviour. It is mental distress
@Monica Kagoni....I feel your frustration and anger. And by the way Ms. Mary is in total denial and her mind is stuck kwa IVF. And until she gets preggers and holds her own.....😭😭😭😭. She needs all the counselling in this world.
Big hugs Mary, thank God you're a live. Family isn't always blood & can be toxic. It's the people in your life who want you in theirs. Take away ladies, love yourself enough to walk away. This is very traumatic, children do not define us, find your healing first and focus on yourself Mary. Its ok to cut off toxic people from your life including family.
Am not doubting her but I have some questions? 1.Alisema her dad died after mimba ya tatu then akasema her dad was mrefi na walimfukuza saa nane usiku? 2.was married in 2014 which she was also not sure...nine years down the line"alikaa na her husband for some years,2 years bila Mzee,2 year in the 2nd marriage,2 years in the 3rd,na alipata mtoi wa 4 husband alikua nursery na alimuasha class 2 last year"is my masematic not working?
On the introduction I support 50% and do not support 50%. Why? You can call yourself your name and mama your father or mother as per our traditions. Also mama the name of the mtoto you want to have wa kuzaa or for adoption. Let us celebrate motherhood as per our traditions and also give our real names as we introduce ourselves. Oo nawe Kagoni haria uikaraga kana school witagwo Mana..... let's also encourage adoption cos it also makes one a mother. Tusichelewe sana to make decision on that.
The shocking thing is the so called "servant of God" saying he has gotten tired of her What a shame. Uyo ameitwa na God au alijituma??? God never gets tired of us. Men can get tired,but God will never get tired. God will never leave you nor forsake you Cleave to God
very unfortunate story. I also think that Mary does not understand her infertility problem. its not that she cannot get pregnant (she got pregnant five times), her problem is carrying pregnancy to term. Medically, I believe her problem is with the uterus since her abortion happened months after conception. As such, IVF won't help her since she still has to carry the pregnancy to term. what maybe can help her is a surrogate with someone else egg or her own egg if she still have her ovaries available for egg harvesting
Very true ,she needs a good gynaecologist to take her through the pregnancy, the doctor can put Mcdonald Stitch around her cervix if she miscarries few months after conception, it means her cervix is very weak to hold pregnancy to term.
I don't know why people are so evil including her own family who rejected her. Wanja i would tell you to take heart because our God does not sleep and sees all you've been through. I hope Monica can source a therapist for Wanja coz it seems the pain is still raw, she needs to heal first. 🙏🏾
Some times ladies tujipedage kwani lazima uzalie mtu 😢😢😢😢 mimi nilizalia mwanaume watoto watano na tukachana dunia inatakaga aje nimestragle kulea watoto watano peke yangu 😢😢15 yrs
Wooiye. Kagoni this s a painful story. Let our sister know that there s this option of adoption. Me I have a sister who after 12yrs n marriage without a child , they adorped & r happily married. Ajiamini maisha n yake & God's knows all these.
Pengine the amniotic fluid inaisha before 9 months she can go to Kenyatta hospital watamueka bed rest na they monitor the amniotic fluid when it reduces watoi mtoto apelekwe nursery. Had a friend with the same problem
Yaani anatafuta IVF akuwe single mother who said kids are achievement😮 mimi am already regretting being a mum mwingine anaomba mtoto kweli Mungu hapangiwi…vitu nishawahi pitia na mtoto wangu niliishi kutamani ningezaliwa tasa but all in all I still thank God
Very sad indeed! I listen to her story and it’s really sad. Sometimes we blame and believe on the culture’s belief and we conclude on untruth things. To me this lady was suffering from endometriosis. She was getting pregnant but the inner lining of her uterus could not hold firm the baby unfortunately. I 100% blame her family for not supporting their child. So sorry for what she went through. I pray God for her to see her through 🙏🏾
If by any chance niolewe ....I will never let anybody son treat me like trash ona andu aitu mandege nii ingiuma thii o karima ngagua...mambo zingine sio normal aki
Kagoni , am very furious with the story. Why would some suffer like this in the hands of a man. Mary hakujipend aki. Let empower our gals,na wajipenpede Mimi aki nimeshindawa kumaliza hii story But all in all my mungu akusaidie
I don't want to judge u bt u were desperate, fast love we espect from our selves fast 😮how can someone keep on mistreating u still ua blibe by love which is not working 😮ua lucky he wasn't that toxic to kill u, Sijui wanawake anakuanga na shida gani coze once I see red frag twice is enough for me to workout, ona sasa watu hujiletea, who said MARRIEGE is the end life 🤔🤔🤔😏😏vitu zingine ni mtu ujitakia anyway I blame u & sorry for Wat u wanted to go through let us learn from this 😥😥
When the pain's excruciating till it's hard to shed tears..sadness and depression are written all over her face, she has been tortured psychically,spiritually and mentally..all can tell her is that having infertility issues doesn't define a woman she need to accept herself in order to start her healing journey which is going to be a process also she need to completely cut of negative and toxic people from her life.. Then seek deliverance for that spirit of rejection.
Woiii kagoni this is how death comes to marriage .oh God of Ibrahim' how was this lady desperate in such a way she was waiting for death .kagoni I can't understand a thing here .what a life ????
Wa utuku ucokagio utuku Was told that n i told a in law hata hao 2 nko nao sikununua. Aliyempea kaninyima. Their son will marry... Sio ye wa kwanza harakisheni Nkt God b with u ..Shalom Shalom shalom Glory to God with a thankful heart. Halleluya Family family family.....history n God will judge u harshly
Am turning 30 trying for 5years now n still struggling op one day God will turn around n make mother I really cry seeing pregnant woman I feel hopes gone when someone ask me about children .. this is really painful process op God knows as well how we feel
@@lisamagua9026 ukitaka kumsaidia msaidie lakini jua ako na kijana anaitwa davy soma comments utaona kuna wale wanamjua,,,sina chuki naye lakini alidanganya na sai najua davy ako high sch
@@lisamagua9026 2014 tuliishi na yy plot moja alikuwa single lakini alikuwa na mtoi wake davy kitu najua alikuwa anatamani mtoi mwingine,thereafter alienda kuolewa rongai lakini hakufanikiwa kupata mtoto yy si tasa vile anasema
Power of words, power of giving power to someone, people society to speak in your life to stop seeing you whole first before getting blessings from God. Susan please be very clear you want God's will in your life. Kindly remember you are a Mum, it does not make you a Mum coz a child went through your baby. Heaven has recorded those who are in heaven are your children and even the ones you tried your best to raise when they lost their Mother. Part yourself in the back, love yourself. God loves you so much, been here alive says you have more work to do for him. Please seek Gods guidance to give you true friends who will walk this journey with you and give yourself permission to get your self esteem back fully coz discouraments are taking you back and forth.
Wuuueh karibu monica umwage chozi aki, she made me cry also but why would pple hate you that much including yua own parents n siblings nawewe pia ujichukie kiac hio ya kuletewa watu wakurape? That was so gross!! Ulifaa kujipenda Wanja juu hio chuki ya huyo mwanaume ilikuwa too much. Why??
this is the saddest story ive heard in a long while,i blame the ladys family,total snakes,watu hawawezi shikilia mtoto wao?what have people become aki,just because the husband was spending a few coins on them?
My aunt didnt have kids but they agreed with my late uncle amtafutie wife aoe wapate watoto but they agreed my aunt was the one to stay with the kids and raise them n they are all happy!upto now they are all grown ups !huyo mwaname ni mjinga tu saana my dear you can adopt one!!sorry mary!!that is why dennis mutara alisema tutihikanagia niundu wa ciana,ciana ni kiheo kuma kwi ngai!! Pole
I feel for this woman lakini mimi sielewi mtu akuletee wanawake kwa nyumba, akufanyie ujinga zake and naunaendelea kufungua miguu, aaiii hiyo nguvu wanawake hutoa wapi. Anyway pole kwa yote
Mama davy seriously unadanganya wakenya hujawahi zaa wewe sio tasa sema ukweli 2013 na 14 tuliishi na wewe plot moja hapo kariobagi s kwa police,,what i know ulikosa mtoi wa pili lakini wewe si tasa
You could be right I know a sister 7 kids passed most fika 9mths but die just B4 birth others miscarried, the 8th is now 5yrs but a servant of God stood with her till birth, the 9th passed no. 10 is alive and the lady almost died after giving birth it was mambo yakwao
Ile mistake alifanya ni kusolve spiritual matter physically. Ile tyme alianza kupoteza mimba alifaa aende kwa magoti mwanzo aulize GOD first nini mbaya na yeye before aende kwao ama kwa kinabwanake.coz yeye (GOD) ndio anafichuaga yaliyo ya siri ambayo wanadamu hawajui.but i i am sorry 4 wht you went through na Mungu akupe nguvu za kuendelea na life.
Why forcefully stay in such none existing marriage !? what if he hit you badly to death 😮!? isn’t it better to go be employed as a house help somewhere and be in peace !!⁉️Onawe wari na rwaku 😮
What I understands mtoi is additional to marriage juu hkuna watu wakiona Kwanza kuomba wapate mtoi nikujikuta na mimba na si lazima ukipenda mtu don't expect mtoi it a God will kaa na mpenzi wko kma unapenda
Pole ni nini mbaya na wale watu mmesaliwa pamoja na wazazi wako uhai kwani na vile wazazi wanapenda watoto wao Mungu awaone kwasababu niwao wamekupatiana kwa mzee huyo juu ya pesa
Am very sorry for this lady but what i know is that we dont get married because of the babies but its because of love ,we stay together coz of love ,God is the only one who chooses to give baby or not,what i can advice mary is that firstfall love yourself,dont listen to what pupil talks about you even when u get a baby they will always talk,and i know God will change your life forever,the tears that you have cried for long it will end because there is God of another chance,I pray that today God will do something in your life soo be happy God is coming🙏🙌
The infertility story aside..... What with the family ,your own family ... This is what leads to cutting off family completely... God remember this woman heal her wounds
Being barren is painful people judge you as if you chose to be barren I suffered the same but God gave me children miraculously God over ruled every word spoken and gave me new tubes am a mother of 3 girls .....Metha ya Kagoni . Host me one day I give my testimony
My aunt is 50yrs old and has no child, she went through a lot and finally accepted she can't have kids and it's not a ticket to heaven. She now loves herself and living her best. It wasn't easy though....nilimtoa kwake cha nguvu because she was even suicidal. These days yeye husema I gave her what nobody else ever did.
Am sorry to say this woman has not accepted herself from the heart despite her experience she is still not loving herself at all kagoni thanks for being lenient with her but much is meant for herself she needs to allocate herself first
Am in my 20s struggling with infertility married to the best man trying to conceive for 3yrs + my case is primary infertility where by have never conceived not aborted even once.....am still believi g God will show me and everyone struggling with infertility mercy.......in Jesus name....Baby dust to anyone looking for a child including me❤
ladies, let wisdom prevail....mwanaume amekuchapa, karibu akuue over and over alafu unarudi uko...na hauna ata watoto na yeye?? girls don't wait for a second beating or second miscarriage or alete bibi mwingine!!!!! Enda oshea watu manguo and then u rent a ka - small room uanze maisha!! This is not meant to hurt the guest, no, this is to challenge women to wake up!!
Monica- your shows are amazing, they educate and inspire❤
Mimi ni mwanaume Lakin mabo zingine siwezi fanyia mtu mwanamke ni Baraka
Nani Ali danganya watu... Eti watoto ni license ya ndoa😭😭😭😭Ooh my God... Kumbuka wamama wote wenye wana struggling to get kids🙏🙏🙏🙏💔💔💔
Everything happens for a reason...may God meet your heart desire...wenye wanaringa na watoto do they know what future holds for those kids? They might regret having those kids.. God sees and hears
This is very sad. This kind of animosity surely.
That's true kagoni..aconite miguee uria woka 😂on a higher note..tell her to be strong and to stop crying ❤❤❤❤
Monicah keep it up 🌹🌹🌹hizi ndio tabia zinafanya tuko na kibindi cha "WATHIREKO" "Mary God is working Wonders
This is an example of the Stockholm syndrome. When an abused person gets used to abuse, they somehow regard the abuser as a saviour. It is mental distress
Woi this lady has gone through alot, may God heal your life and give you peace. 🙏🙏🙏
I feel for her she ha gone through hell. Imagine your relatives supporting your man to mistreat you. May God heal her n give her peace
@Monica Kagoni....I feel your frustration and anger. And by the way Ms. Mary is in total denial and her mind is stuck kwa IVF. And until she gets preggers and holds her own.....😭😭😭😭. She needs all the counselling in this world.
This man ad his family wanajua mahali walikuwa wanapeleka watoto.
Big hugs Mary, thank God you're a live. Family isn't always blood & can be toxic. It's the people in your life who want you in theirs. Take away ladies, love yourself enough to walk away. This is very traumatic, children do not define us, find your healing first and focus on yourself Mary. Its ok to cut off toxic people from your life including family.
A very sad story. Mary may our loving Lord give you healing. Asante Monoca for this awakening story!!!
Woiye Mary pole sana for what you have gone thru
Woii, Wanja pole sana sana kwa hayo yote umepitia. May Almighty God bless you with a baby. ❤
Ipo siku..... May Lord see you through Mary. I love your determination n u wll b blessed
So sad,, but l think,, ugetafita nyumba ujikarishe and start from scratch,, kusema hauna kwa kwenda sikuelewi😮😮
Am not doubting her but I have some questions?
1.Alisema her dad died after mimba ya tatu then akasema her dad was mrefi na walimfukuza saa nane usiku?
2.was married in 2014 which she was also not sure...nine years down the line"alikaa na her husband for some years,2 years bila Mzee,2 year in the 2nd marriage,2 years in the 3rd,na alipata mtoi wa 4 husband alikua nursery na alimuasha class 2 last year"is my masematic not working?
Father in law ndiye alikufa.
Kuna venye
Ako na mtoi
God bless her heart and soul..Monica I have stayed up listen to this moving sad story..I wish she could just adopt a child❤❤❤
On the introduction I support 50% and do not support 50%. Why? You can call yourself your name and mama your father or mother as per our traditions. Also mama the name of the mtoto you want to have wa kuzaa or for adoption. Let us celebrate motherhood as per our traditions and also give our real names as we introduce ourselves. Oo nawe Kagoni haria uikaraga kana school witagwo Mana..... let's also encourage adoption cos it also makes one a mother. Tusichelewe sana to make decision on that.
Adoption..... can also give you peace.
My thinking 🤔
Exactly 👍
Adoption is not for everybody.
The shocking thing is the so called "servant of God" saying he has gotten tired of her
What a shame. Uyo ameitwa na God au alijituma???
God never gets tired of us. Men can get tired,but God will never get tired. God will never leave you nor forsake you
Cleave to God
Wueeh! Niko Kwa hii shinda lakini sitakubali kufika hapa. Naelewa Chenye huyu mama anasema Kwanza hapo Kwa kutengwa na kujitenga.
Pole sana kwake.
Kukosa mtoto ni uchungu sana
The abuse start gradually, people get used to it . They keep hoping that things will get better, but they get worse. .
Very true
Monica namesake -your shows are amazing and educate and inspire me alot❤
very unfortunate story. I also think that Mary does not understand her infertility problem. its not that she cannot get pregnant (she got pregnant five times), her problem is carrying pregnancy to term. Medically, I believe her problem is with the uterus since her abortion happened months after conception. As such, IVF won't help her since she still has to carry the pregnancy to term. what maybe can help her is a surrogate with someone else egg or her own egg if she still have her ovaries available for egg harvesting
I have seen the same case with my neighbour
I second you....IVF its for people who are having difficulties getting pregnant... She should opt for surrogacy.... Ivf isnt an potion for het
Very true ,she needs a good gynaecologist to take her through the pregnancy, the doctor can put Mcdonald Stitch around her cervix if she miscarries few months after conception, it means her cervix is very weak to hold pregnancy to term.
@@hannahrhodah2018 hasemi ukweli ako na boy child called davy
@@phyliswangui6919 kama ameshaazaa tena case yake ni rahisi, she just need to get a good gynaecologist
Of all The stories Monica, this is The sadest of all. I hope that Mary gets peace. Monica.. could we all women cheap in And support Wanja go for IVF.
They removed her fallopian tubes so that might be impossible
Does anyone know what became of this woman,I missed the story when it was aired and would want to know how she is now 😢
I don't know why people are so evil including her own family who rejected her. Wanja i would tell you to take heart because our God does not sleep and sees all you've been through. I hope Monica can source a therapist for Wanja coz it seems the pain is still raw, she needs to heal first. 🙏🏾
Very sad story,May God see you through...that man will never die before he pays for all that 😢😢
Some times ladies tujipedage kwani lazima uzalie mtu 😢😢😢😢 mimi nilizalia mwanaume watoto watano na tukachana dunia inatakaga aje nimestragle kulea watoto watano peke yangu 😢😢15 yrs
Hugs 🤗🤗🤗 Mary may God remember you..... Above all God loves you n you are his daughter.
Wooiye. Kagoni this s a painful story. Let our sister know that there s this option of adoption. Me I have a sister who after 12yrs n marriage without a child , they adorped & r happily married. Ajiamini maisha n yake & God's knows all these.
Pengine the amniotic fluid inaisha before 9 months she can go to Kenyatta hospital watamueka bed rest na they monitor the amniotic fluid when it reduces watoi mtoto apelekwe nursery. Had a friend with the same problem
Yaani anatafuta IVF akuwe single mother who said kids are achievement😮 mimi am already regretting being a mum mwingine anaomba mtoto kweli Mungu hapangiwi…vitu nishawahi pitia na mtoto wangu niliishi kutamani ningezaliwa tasa but all in all I still thank God
Very sad indeed! I listen to her story and it’s really sad. Sometimes we blame and believe on the culture’s belief and we conclude on untruth things.
To me this lady was suffering from endometriosis. She was getting pregnant but the inner lining of her uterus could not hold firm the baby unfortunately.
I 100% blame her family for not supporting their child. So sorry for what she went through. I pray God for her to see her through 🙏🏾
If by any chance niolewe ....I will never let anybody son treat me like trash ona andu aitu mandege nii ingiuma thii o karima ngagua...mambo zingine sio normal aki
Kagoni , am very furious with the story.
Why would some suffer like this in the hands of a man.
Mary hakujipend aki.
Let empower our gals,na wajipenpede Mimi aki nimeshindawa kumaliza hii story
But all in all my mungu akusaidie
Riu muhiki athirekagia muhiki mwenzake Niki? This is bad.aciari kafa mwana onjio tondu nimurateithio😢😢
I don't want to judge u bt u were desperate, fast love we espect from our selves fast 😮how can someone keep on mistreating u still ua blibe by love which is not working 😮ua lucky he wasn't that toxic to kill u, Sijui wanawake anakuanga na shida gani coze once I see red frag twice is enough for me to workout, ona sasa watu hujiletea, who said MARRIEGE is the end life 🤔🤔🤔😏😏vitu zingine ni mtu ujitakia anyway I blame u & sorry for Wat u wanted to go through let us learn from this 😥😥
True
you are blaming her with this kind of english?
We're the parents,,let's teach our girls their worth
May u heal mama
I feel very bad for her but don’t say you have nowhere to go, enda ata utafute kazi ya nyumba
i know her woiye,when did life get this tough aki,its well
When the pain's excruciating till it's hard to shed tears..sadness and depression are written all over her face, she has been tortured psychically,spiritually and mentally..all can tell her is that having infertility issues doesn't define a woman she need to accept herself in order to start her healing journey which is going to be a process also she need to completely cut of negative and toxic people from her life.. Then seek deliverance for that spirit of rejection.
Woiii kagoni this is how death comes to marriage .oh God of Ibrahim' how was this lady desperate in such a way she was waiting for death .kagoni I can't understand a thing here .what a life ????
Wa utuku ucokagio utuku
Was told that n i told a in law hata hao 2 nko nao sikununua. Aliyempea kaninyima.
Their son will marry...
Sio ye wa kwanza harakisheni
Nkt
God b with u ..Shalom Shalom shalom
Glory to God with a thankful heart. Halleluya
Family family family.....history n God will judge u harshly
Sad story indeed, may God give you peace mary n may he bless you dear
Am turning 30 trying for 5years now n still struggling op one day God will turn around n make mother I really cry seeing pregnant woman I feel hopes gone when someone ask me about children .. this is really painful process op God knows as well how we feel
Hi,@wanja na ukitry ku adopt kababy maybe itapunguza pain as you continue to heal and wait upon Our Lord.
Thank you Kagoni for your wonderful shows.
Agnes huyu anadanganya ako na mtoi anaitwa davy yeye si tasa
@@phyliswangui6919 be for real coz I was invested in her story
@@lisamagua9026 ukitaka kumsaidia msaidie lakini jua ako na kijana anaitwa davy soma comments utaona kuna wale wanamjua,,,sina chuki naye lakini alidanganya na sai najua davy ako high sch
@@lisamagua9026 2014 tuliishi na yy plot moja alikuwa single lakini alikuwa na mtoi wake davy kitu najua alikuwa anatamani mtoi mwingine,thereafter alienda kuolewa rongai lakini hakufanikiwa kupata mtoto yy si tasa vile anasema
@@lisamagua9026 kama umeinvest kwake still ni poa shida alitaka sympathy na yy si tasa hahaha mama davy ni mkora
Mary God is with you have be meeting beasts coz my Friend does have a kid she is happy married Wanja tosheka na mungu mtoto si everything
Woooi,Ngai,nie no gwirire wiitikire na umenye ngai ndacenjagia namesake
How much is that process and where
huyu syo IVF anata ni pesa
Huyu mama tuliishi na yeye kariobagi na alikuwa na kijana wake aged 10 alikuwa anaitwa davy aaaiii nimeshangaa
My neiba,she had a son,mama Davy,,
Waah izi story ni za lini kwani na Mimi najua mtoto wake sai ako high school,mtoto kijana,Davy
Mama Davy ii yote n uwongo...
Kagoni apa huna content
Pesa inatafutwa
God as you remember this lady please remember my aunt too she is going through hell aki God remember this lady aki
Very emotional & educative too..
Keep up the good work @MonicaKagoni
Ngai mwathani ahe mutumia uyu thayu
Na rîkorûo Mary oimagarire o erûo nyûmba ciao no cioyûo tondû nîakîremirûo nî kûgîa ciana.😢 Mwathani aromûmîrîria.
Very painful, but all in all Mungu mbele 🙏🙏. May God give her peace ✌️💓💖💖
Arume Kai kwendaga atia.... Mutumia aciara mutikurera.... Mutumia aga ciana no thina... Nikii kiuru na inyui
May God give you peace mamie...ni Mungu pekee anajua roho yako tu na ni Yeye pekee anaweza ponya roho yako...hugs gal
Kagoni ur not talking bad we need t9 have vichwa good n leave all to God kugìa na kwaga mwana nì wira wa Ngai
Ngai woooiiiye pole dada na muthuri ucio Ngai amuone
I feel you mary and may God give you peace for your desire to have a child may God fulfill your heart desire.....pole sana and God loves you
Power of words, power of giving power to someone, people society to speak in your life to stop seeing you whole first before getting blessings from God. Susan please be very clear you want God's will in your life. Kindly remember you are a Mum, it does not make you a Mum coz a child went through your baby. Heaven has recorded those who are in heaven are your children and even the ones you tried your best to raise when they lost their Mother. Part yourself in the back, love yourself. God loves you so much, been here alive says you have more work to do for him. Please seek Gods guidance to give you true friends who will walk this journey with you and give yourself permission to get your self esteem back fully coz discouraments are taking you back and forth.
I understand what she goes through. Am in the same predicament. It's too painful. Mary, Pray for peace in your heart.
Pole mami, kuna gyno mzuri sana wa nasaidia watu if you get pregnant update gyno mzuri
Ruth, remember, you are all good as you are...childless or not! ❤
Wuuueh karibu monica umwage chozi aki, she made me cry also but why would pple hate you that much including yua own parents n siblings nawewe pia ujichukie kiac hio ya kuletewa watu wakurape? That was so gross!! Ulifaa kujipenda Wanja juu hio chuki ya huyo mwanaume ilikuwa too much. Why??
Aki what people go through juu ya marriage may God heal her heart
Shocking 😯, woi woi, that abuse and then perseverance , God have mercy on 😢her.
Grace to you Kagoni and to wanja double Grace and self love 💕
this is the saddest story ive heard in a long while,i blame the ladys family,total snakes,watu hawawezi shikilia mtoto wao?what have people become aki,just because the husband was spending a few coins on them?
Sometimes we go through allot ..... similar to my case I was laped by four men ....juu ya kulala kwa kichaka but naomba mungu anipee nguvu
Monica you have soo many questions like most of us why did she continue staying there? So painful 😢😢
So painful story
It's sadly unbelievable....learning our self worth is important
This is so painful how I wish she left after the third miscarriage......wueeh😢
Am not judging lkn self love n ya maana she could have left kitambo aki maybe that's hubby's side had smthng...tujipende for real
Ngai 💔😭.... May God give her peace 🕊️
My aunt didnt have kids but they agreed with my late uncle amtafutie wife aoe wapate watoto but they agreed my aunt was the one to stay with the kids and raise them n they are all happy!upto now they are all grown ups
!huyo mwaname ni mjinga tu saana my dear you can adopt one!!sorry mary!!that is why dennis mutara alisema tutihikanagia niundu wa ciana,ciana ni kiheo kuma kwi ngai!!
Pole
May God punish that man…and for her family gosh betrayal of the highest level this is very sad and painful 😢may God see this lady through
I wish ungejipenda na uondokee hayo yote kitambo
Thanks God for giving me children is very painful to stay without baby hugs you mamaa
Painful story may God heal you
The spirit of rejection is following you mama
Kombolewa
I feel for this woman lakini mimi sielewi mtu akuletee wanawake kwa nyumba, akufanyie ujinga zake and naunaendelea kufungua miguu, aaiii hiyo nguvu wanawake hutoa wapi. Anyway pole kwa yote
Watu huvumilia iyo yote aje ?? Where is your self love..if you don't have somewhere to go tafuta kazi househelp uondokee MTU WA hiyo Aina kwanza
Saddest story this year😢. God have Mercy on her and ❤🙏🏾🙏🏾
Mama davy seriously unadanganya wakenya hujawahi zaa wewe sio tasa sema ukweli 2013 na 14 tuliishi na wewe plot moja hapo kariobagi s kwa police,,what i know ulikosa mtoi wa pili lakini wewe si tasa
Thanks alot uyu mama tumishi na yeye kenol bt ile kuleta wanaume kwa nyumba n more fire...mama Davy alikiroga mwenyewe...
Mama Davy ata hana adabu akidanganya kagoni...mbna halie...
Imajin
I feel this lady amerogwa . Mungu amkubuke tu . It's so painful
@Kamau rayherb if you don't anything good to comment kindly be quiet 😢. This lady heart is aching 💔.
@@annem2980 Toa ujinga hapa , what's hard for you to understand ? Umeona pahali I have added her pain?
You could be right I know a sister 7 kids passed most fika 9mths but die just B4 birth others miscarried, the 8th is now 5yrs but a servant of God stood with her till birth, the 9th passed no. 10 is alive and the lady almost died after giving birth it was mambo yakwao
@@kamaurayherb8614 ati ujinga?? Kwani ulimuroga?? As per your words. Nani mjinga hapa???
@@monicaclark7079 . Kabisa something isn't right na hyo sio kawaida. I wish apate pastor mzuuri amsaidie.
I have no words but just justice for Wanja.She has gone through hell.May God help her heal quickly.
Ile mistake alifanya ni kusolve spiritual matter physically. Ile tyme alianza kupoteza mimba alifaa aende kwa magoti mwanzo aulize GOD first nini mbaya na yeye before aende kwao ama kwa kinabwanake.coz yeye (GOD) ndio anafichuaga yaliyo ya siri ambayo wanadamu hawajui.but i i am sorry 4 wht you went through na Mungu akupe nguvu za kuendelea na life.
Why forcefully stay in such none existing marriage !? what if he hit you badly to death 😮!? isn’t it better to go be employed as a house help somewhere and be in peace !!⁉️Onawe wari na rwaku 😮
Me huchukia kuvumulia kwingine watu huvumilia kwani kuna taji utapeana juu ya kuvumulia humiliations na mistreatment
it's called spirit of rejection. Hadi wazazi wanakukataa. The devil is a liar. God see her through
What I understands mtoi is additional to marriage juu hkuna watu wakiona Kwanza kuomba wapate mtoi nikujikuta na mimba na si lazima ukipenda mtu don't expect mtoi it a God will kaa na mpenzi wko kma unapenda
God help me never to been a witness to a person who can mistreat my family member unjustly
Pole ni nini mbaya na wale watu mmesaliwa pamoja na wazazi wako uhai kwani na vile wazazi wanapenda watoto wao Mungu awaone kwasababu niwao wamekupatiana kwa mzee huyo juu ya pesa
Pole sana kwa hayo umeyapitia.mungu wa Sarah bado yupo
God intervene I pray this woman to testify
Am very sorry for this lady but what i know is that we dont get married because of the babies but its because of love ,we stay together coz of love ,God is the only one who chooses to give baby or not,what i can advice mary is that firstfall love yourself,dont listen to what pupil talks about you even when u get a baby they will always talk,and i know God will change your life forever,the tears that you have cried for long it will end because there is God of another chance,I pray that today God will do something in your life soo be happy God is coming🙏🙌
The infertility story aside..... What with the family ,your own family ... This is what leads to cutting off family completely... God remember this woman heal her wounds
Being barren is painful people judge you as if you chose to be barren I suffered the same but God gave me children miraculously God over ruled every word spoken and gave me new tubes am a mother of 3 girls .....Metha ya Kagoni . Host me one day I give my testimony
Lazima ungekaa huko na wewe na hizo mateso,huyu sielewi ni mwanamke wa aina gani ama nikutojipenda,jua kujipenda wewe