The Bible Told us Never to Mess with Sexual Sin (This is Why)

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  • @offthekirb
    @offthekirb  3 роки тому +326

    I'd really like the privilege to be able to keep preaching God's Word into your life, so please consider subscribing (click link) : ua-cam.com/users/offthekirbstreetpreaching

    • @devinreed5725
      @devinreed5725 3 роки тому

      🤮

    • @austinfusselman656
      @austinfusselman656 3 роки тому +1

      Hello and Merry Christmas! (Late)
      God bless! 🙂✝️

    • @user-ng4lj8us2x
      @user-ng4lj8us2x 3 роки тому +3

      Hey Joe Kirby
      My name is
      Paul Schilling
      Please pray for me
      I'm struggling with watching pornography
      I wanna really stop
      So I can better serve the Lord Jesus Christ
      I really would appreciate it Joe....
      God bless you and your family always....
      🙏🙌🙏🙌🙏🙌👼👼🔥🔥🔥👼🙌🙏🙌🙏

    • @user-ng4lj8us2x
      @user-ng4lj8us2x 3 роки тому +1

      I'll be praying for you to
      Joe Kirby
      🙌🙏🙌🙏🙌🙏🔥🔥

    • @higurashianduminekoconnect1702
      @higurashianduminekoconnect1702 3 роки тому +5

      I don't struggle with pornography as in looking at pornography but I do struggle with lust which is no different and I struggle with the sin of masturbation this is kind of an uncomfortable topic but I thought I would just be brave enough to admit it

  • @endercassidy8135
    @endercassidy8135 4 роки тому +3254

    I got hooked before the age of 10... I'm 15 now... I've been clean of it for awhile, but still get the tempation. Please pray for me!

    • @jonathant752
      @jonathant752 4 роки тому +156

      Hey there! I totally get you. What you need is to confess to fellow christians, your Dad, mom, brother, sister, or Pastor, some people who will help you. This is never a battle to be fought alone, James says confess your sins to one another and pray for one another so that you may be healed.
      You need the support of the local church, and if not accessible because of covid 19 then atleast your family members should know.
      If you have already confessed to your parents, or pastor, that's okay, but if not yet, you need to now. The Devil will want to keep you from confessing to other christians, so that he has power to keep you in the cycle of relapsing over and over, that is slavery, Christ came to set us free.
      If you listen and do what I've suggested, very probably the Lord will heal you, He has the power to transform you, and make you stand strong under temptation. Just as Corinthians says no temptation has overtaken you beyond your strength to endure, but the Lord will also provide a way out.

    • @andrematthee1053
      @andrematthee1053 4 роки тому +133

      Temptations can come and go my friend but not your salvation...
      I will be praying for you, as a young person you still have a lot of life and energy in you. Use it for good use it to stop temptation, ask and pray to God and he will help, maybe not at that exact moment but it will happen...
      Love and peace, you are strong enough to face your temptations and say no...

    • @TomBennett1
      @TomBennett1 4 роки тому +61

      I totally no where you are coming from and I'll truly pray for you. I'm 34 yrs old and I've struggled with this until July 7th I've never been able to get control of the situation until I truly gave my total trust in Jesus Christ my Lord and Savior and really started to drive deeply into the KJV Bible. Again brother I will pray for you and remember that it is an abomination to the Lord to do so. I've not looked back since all thanks to God.

    • @neytirisully1423
      @neytirisully1423 4 роки тому +37

      I'm exactly the same, and same age too! I've prayed for you, brother in Christ. We are called not to be happy but Faithful to Christ.

    • @starryknight4690
      @starryknight4690 4 роки тому +24

      I am younger than that maybe 6, I am 16 now... and it’s still a problem now...

  • @arya3104
    @arya3104 4 роки тому +922

    Another tip: every time you have the urge, watch videos like these which promote the gospel so ur mind gets distracted. Not only does it distract u, but it makes u closer to God at the same time

    • @mocoloco7578
      @mocoloco7578 3 роки тому +17

      niceonelol I rlly try to do that but it just makes me feel ashamed. I just feel like not talking to God bc of my guilt.

    • @Stian11
      @Stian11 3 роки тому +18

      @@mocoloco7578 we all are guilty, i encourage you to cry out to god for forgiveness and deside in your heart you really want to live a holy righteous life to bring god glory, I encourage you to ask for the Holy Spirit to guide you and convict you from your sins, god bless you in the name of Jesus Christ amen

    • @mocoloco7578
      @mocoloco7578 3 роки тому +3

      Stian Strand okie thank you

    • @hiyoritokisada594
      @hiyoritokisada594 3 роки тому +1

      Nice!

    • @dionfrutos7997
      @dionfrutos7997 3 роки тому +4

      Great advice that will work.

  • @spiritualrecovery3300
    @spiritualrecovery3300 3 роки тому +308

    I have struggled with heroin addiction for years and I’m so happy that Jesus has set me free from it!

  • @9256steven
    @9256steven 4 роки тому +1431

    This young man truly is a Man of God, and his voice is so soothing and healing.

  • @jameswebb3064
    @jameswebb3064 3 роки тому +834

    You have no idea how many young men you are blessing with this. Thank you.

    • @godlyhedge6403
      @godlyhedge6403 3 роки тому +9

      Amen!

    • @bradiano3764
      @bradiano3764 3 роки тому +7

      Amen 🙏🏼

    • @racketyjack7621
      @racketyjack7621 3 роки тому +15

      It isnt just the young men my friend. I'm 63. This is truth we all need to hear.

    • @childofgod7528
      @childofgod7528 3 роки тому +13

      Am a 14 year old boy and i used to see that and now Jesús save me and i don't like that stuff anymore

    • @KingKong-od8nn
      @KingKong-od8nn 3 роки тому +9

      I'm 15 and this video helps! Brother

  • @サバテルエール
    @サバテルエール 3 роки тому +320

    I'm 14 years old many years ago I was addicted with lust but I confess to God that I have sin against him many times and sometimes I still doing it but I never give up until God gave me the victory to overcome lust. I thank you Lord 🙏

    • @johnnyraybaca1690
      @johnnyraybaca1690 3 роки тому +7

      A MUST READ....AFTER DEATH...WHAT???
      You know we’re just passing through this world to get
      to The next, whether it be Heaven or Hell. “YES!”
      There is a Hell!!!
      Most people do not want to know this
      BUT IT’S TRUE. Like it or not, there is a HELL!
      And “YOU” make the choice.
      You may be thinking to yourself:
      I’ve lived a good life.
      I’ve never hurt anyone.
      I am no different than anyone else.
      I do good things for people.
      Heaven and Hell are on Earth.
      “Nice try!” I’ve heard them all!
      But the bible says “THERE IS ONLY ONE WAY TO
      GET TO HEAVEN!
      But there are many ways that lead to HELL!
      Oh, and yes!
      You can try to say that no one ever warned you about
      Hell, BUT YOU HAVE JUST BEEN WARNED
      WHEN YOU READ THIS AND NOW YOU ARE
      HELD ACCOUNTABLE.
      Now it’s too late to act dumb.
      And when you see God face to face (and you will….
      because everyone gets judged by God when they die!)
      You will be held responsible for knowing this and for
      being warned about Hell!!
      WE ARE ALL SINNERS….sin is anything that
      separates us from God. The bible tells us that any form
      of idolatry, witchcraft, murder or murderous thoughts,
      stealing, lying, adultery (sex outside of marriage), same
      sex marriage, hatred, unforgiveness, etc…. are all sin.
      God has seen every sin we have ever committed.
      Yes, EVERY sin.
      Now you CAN’T get up to God and say,
      “Hey I didn’t know the consequences, let’s make a
      DEAL.”
      God has already said in the bible “This is the deal!”
      You Must accept Jesus Christ for your sins or
      else...
      HELL!!
      I know you may not like it, but it’s true.
      You ask yourself, “How do I stay out of Hell?
      THIS and ONLY this...!
      Admit that you are a sinner because we all are.
      Every one of us.
      Be willing to turn from sin and REPENT.
      Believe that Jesus Christ died for our sins and
      rose from the dead as the ONLY atonement.
      He took your punishment for your sins.
      Through prayer invite Jesus Christ into your
      life.
      “What to pray?”
      “Dear God, I am a sinner and I need your
      forgiveness. I believe that Jesus Christ shed His
      blood and died for our sins. I am willing to turn
      from sin and invite Jesus Christ into my heart and
      my life as my personal savior.”
      THAT’S IT! Now your off to a good start
      surrender your life to Jesus…. get a bible and read
      it every day and do what its says, to get to know God
      better, also tell others about what Jesus Christ has
      done for you.
      Don’t just take my word for it! Look this stuff up in
      the bible for yourself.
      1. Revelation 20: 10
      2. Revelation 21: 7
      3. Luke 16: 19….Through...16: 31
      4. John 3: 35
      5. Acts 2: 38
      6. 2nd Peter 2: 21
      Please don’t go to Hell. You won’t like it. You
      can’t just try it for a weekend...ITS FOREVER!
      You are not promised another day on Earth.
      Tomorrow might be too late. Heaven and Hell are
      both F O R E V E R!!!
      And it’s up to you which one you’ll choose. I tell
      you this not because it’s my law, but because it’s
      God’s law and it’s that simple.
      In Hell you are awake and there is no rest. You get
      to feel continual torment FOREVER AND EVER AND EVER!!
      Sorry there’s no sugar coating this!
      “But” the truth will set you free.
      I’m not asking you to go to my church or give me one
      thin dime, I’m just asking you to turn to God..... JESUS

    • @tameramares5785
      @tameramares5785 3 роки тому

      God bless you.💙🕇💙

    • @tameramares5785
      @tameramares5785 3 роки тому +6

      @@johnnyraybaca1690 Let me tell you how BEAUTIFUL your post is! Thank you for putting it so simple, yet with complete truth. It's almost as if you took my own exact feelings and words and typed them out. I too feel like yelling to the world from mountain tops.."DON'T GO TO HELL. I LOVE YOU TOO MUCH!!" I pray in agreement with you for many souls to be saved from your post...AMEN! Keep evangelizing! I Praise God for the works He is doing in you! Meet you some day in Heavenly Paradise my brother...🤗🕇🤗💙

    • @johnnyraybaca1690
      @johnnyraybaca1690 3 роки тому +3

      @@tameramares5785 ..... thank you ALL GLORY TO JESUS.... I wrote that bible tract 23 years ago .... GOD told me that word for word trust me Im not that smart.... its nice to see someone thinks like the Bible ....as you do... be blessed ....Pastor Johnny ray....

    • @shuyizhang6043
      @shuyizhang6043 2 роки тому +2

      I confess that I have been lusting and sinning I want to over come this

  • @naomizmiti
    @naomizmiti 4 роки тому +869

    I got into pornography when I was 10. I felt so filthy. I confessed so many times that I eventually lost my guilt. But God came through. The first thing He had me do was confess to my parents. They've been loving and supportive prayed for me. But I still struggled with lust. This year, the Holy Spirit prompted me to overhaul my entertainment....the hardest thing I've ever done. But as soon as I obeyed, it's like the burden just lifted! The temptations are fewer and less intense now. Jesus is working 🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @lesselll.c2974
      @lesselll.c2974 3 роки тому +26

      I tell myself if I go back to sin I am weak don't sin everytime I struggle with lust I keep saying that and is very helpful you're a good man have a good day

    • @mocoloco7578
      @mocoloco7578 3 роки тому +24

      Hehe lucky if I confessed to my parents they would kick me out and I'm not even done with middle school 🙁

    • @alfahaule890
      @alfahaule890 3 роки тому +25

      Am in the same condition ...please pray for me ...

    • @howtoseries5931
      @howtoseries5931 3 роки тому +19

      I'm not really addicted to that. It's been like 10 months or so since I've watched that. But I really struggle with lust.

    • @RhodaMapenzi
      @RhodaMapenzi 3 роки тому +11

      Please....pray for me too...

  • @iwantyourcookiesnow
    @iwantyourcookiesnow 3 роки тому +461

    At age 42 I got married. She was Brought to me by God. Don’t give up guys!

    • @cathy3546
      @cathy3546 3 роки тому +63

      Our story was similar. We met at church. Married at age 41 & 42. First and only marriage for both of us. Went into marriage acknowledging that God brought us together and that marriage was forever. We had almost 20 wonderful years of marriage before God called my husband home unexpectedly. God is good even when life is hard.

    • @zippyblessed839
      @zippyblessed839 3 роки тому +2

      Thats Great

    • @AWoolySheep
      @AWoolySheep 3 роки тому +1

      What I find I extremely important and by far most helpful nowadays is studying MUCH scripture. The word of God, after all, has the POWER to save.
      Try GOD'S PROMISES - supreme victory, I tell you...
      Ezekiel 36:22-36
      22 “Therefore say to the house of Israel, ‘Thus says the Lord God, “It is not for your sake, O house of Israel, that I am about to act, but for My holy name, which you have profaned among the nations where you went. 23 I will vindicate the holiness of My great name which has been profaned among the nations, which you have profaned in their midst. Then the nations will know that I am the Lord,” declares the Lord God, “when I prove Myself holy among you in their sight. 24 For I will take you from the nations, gather you from all the lands and bring you into your own land. 25 Then I will sprinkle clean water on you, and you will be clean; I will cleanse you from all your filthiness and from all your idols. 26 Moreover, I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; and I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. 27 I will put My Spirit within you and cause you to walk in My statutes, and you will be careful to observe My ordinances. 28 You will live in the land that I gave to your forefathers; so you will be My people, and I will be your God. 29 Moreover, I will save you from all your uncleanness; and I will call for the grain and multiply it, and I will not bring a famine on you. 30 I will multiply the fruit of the tree and the produce of the field, so that you will not receive again the disgrace of famine among the nations. 31 Then you will remember your evil ways and your deeds that were not good, and you will loathe yourselves in your own sight for your iniquities and your abominations. 32 I am not doing this for your sake,” declares the Lord God, “let it be known to you. Be ashamed and confounded for your ways, O house of Israel!”
      33 ‘Thus says the Lord God, “On the day that I cleanse you from all your iniquities, I will cause the cities to be inhabited, and the waste places will be rebuilt. 34 The desolate land will be cultivated instead of being a desolation in the sight of everyone who passes by. 35 They will say, ‘This desolate land has become like the garden of Eden; and the waste, desolate and ruined cities are fortified and inhabited.’ 36 Then the nations that are left round about you will know that I, the Lord, have rebuilt the ruined places and planted that which was desolate; I, the Lord, have spoken and will do it.”

    • @saldromedia5057
      @saldromedia5057 2 роки тому +4

      Hell yeah that's up I think I watch porn cuz I lost my son n his mom n lost hope of having them but God is moving her heart I feel it I feel I'm losing my job I e become broken I'm scared I'm on my knees asking for rependence I'll give you an update this for bringing the words of Jesus to me

    • @lucymcnamara4558
      @lucymcnamara4558 2 роки тому +1

      So happy for you ❤️

  • @bobmerritt5173
    @bobmerritt5173 Рік тому +51

    I struggled with lust for 63 years. Repenting, prayer and fasting helped me break the cycle. Thank you Jesus. Thanks for the words of encouragement Joe!

    • @markphelps9218
      @markphelps9218 Рік тому +2

      I hear you, I am 63 years old and struggled with massage parlors about 23 years, and been married the whole time. God please help me to repent, and do whatever next is necessary.

  • @heartylegend2002
    @heartylegend2002 4 роки тому +1139

    Also cut off movies or music that promotes sexual stuff. It gives you this idea that sex is fun and it will give you a lot of pleasure. Now sex is fun but that should be kept in marriage.

    • @offthekirb
      @offthekirb  4 роки тому +141

      I agree totally, should've included that one tbh!

    • @dominikamimari427
      @dominikamimari427 4 роки тому +31

      Same thing with alot of reggae music i grew up listening to them and thinking how caughty it is but they promote sex, cheating, marrying after marrying like it's weird to me you know

    • @djo_shorts6154
      @djo_shorts6154 4 роки тому +8

      @@yogmaer2k God bless you

    • @diana77709
      @diana77709 4 роки тому +9

      @@offthekirb I admire you dear brother and friend in Jesus Christ! Keep blessing other's Joe! God bless you and your wife big!🦋

    • @heartofdixieprepping4797
      @heartofdixieprepping4797 4 роки тому +2

      Me too.

  • @darylsimons1111
    @darylsimons1111 4 роки тому +204

    I am a 54 old male, single, disabled and a bad memory. I try to walk with the Lord daily, I sing him praises and I watch and read Jesus as much as possible. My true problem is I can't remember what I read to preach as others do. I have Jesus and he gives me strength but the ones I love "everyone" are hard to reach and I know I shouldn't worry because God has everything under control. What I'm trying to say is, I pray they will be in Heaven with me before the lord so they will be in heaven. I want my family saved, oh Lord I want my family saved! What can I do I ask, Hell is not where I want them all to be. I cry and my heart aches (always) now while writing this. I know my Lord will wipe away our tears and I can't wait to be with him forever, I just pray that my family, friends, neighbors and enemies will be there to. God Bless you in Christ Jesus Love you all in Christ Jesus.

    • @johnkarp7076
      @johnkarp7076 3 роки тому +7

      Amen brother

    • @nuggets4357
      @nuggets4357 3 роки тому +13

      Me too its hard to talk to them about Jesus i understand you but as you know we need to do it so they can hear the gospel i know its very hard it feel impossible but it is gonna be worth it so much you know it i pray for you brother take care and dont stress

    • @ABB14-11
      @ABB14-11 3 роки тому +8

      This message touches my heart deeply! I too was greatly troubled by the salvation of myself but also others whom have not truly accepted Christ yet. Let's continue to pray.

    • @starlet5350
      @starlet5350 3 роки тому +6

      Love you too Darly. May God grant us grace, enough grace, to continue our journey of salvation. And may He grant your heart's desire in Jesus's Name. Amen!

    • @vanessakosgey9211
      @vanessakosgey9211 3 роки тому +5

      You are so brave ❤ may God bless you.

  • @Rampaigee
    @Rampaigee 3 роки тому +79

    Struggled with fornication for many years, told myself it was okay because everyone was doing it. Since recommitting myself to God, I turned away from that sin and have been celibate for two years. The desire to do that sin is gone. I had to ask God to close spiritual doors, consecrate myself, and sever soul ties. He is able. There is hope. Don’t let the devil tell u you can never change.

    • @Dogtraining1784
      @Dogtraining1784 2 роки тому +1

      Amen sister! Its been 5 years for me now. Keep going!

    • @vinnyedo7306
      @vinnyedo7306 Рік тому

      Show like Joe I had fornication problems lost sin which I thought at the time okay I wasn't hurting anyone however I was hurting myself and Jesus.. so now you're going to be surprised I received the blessing the blessings not what you think it is prostate cancer... I can tell you it was a blessing it's taken away all the Lost desire it's made my mind clear and I thank the Lord for it everyday and now I listen to The Joe Kirby Ministries

    • @richardsoderkvist6383
      @richardsoderkvist6383 5 місяців тому

      I am really praying and believing and trusting the Lord for a real nice Christian wife.Holdimg onto the wonderful truths and promises of God.

  • @KoreaYear
    @KoreaYear 4 роки тому +308

    I decided to save myself for marriage when I was 20.
    I'm 32 now and still single.
    My patience is really being tested.

    • @gretemarie8989
      @gretemarie8989 4 роки тому +45

      Keep going in name of Christ

    • @chasingthethunder2936
      @chasingthethunder2936 4 роки тому +20

      Grace of God is sufficient for you.

    • @beemo6221
      @beemo6221 4 роки тому +38

      That's beautiful. I hope God blesses you with a wonderful, fulfilling marriage. His Will be done.

    • @Richesfam
      @Richesfam 3 роки тому +21

      Some people are not meant to marry, O believe if you read the latter of pauls in the Bible. But if you are willing, just pray for the LORD to bring her the right onw

    • @gloriatoo22
      @gloriatoo22 3 роки тому +3

      Wah...okey

  • @lionoffireministries
    @lionoffireministries 4 роки тому +667

    Whoever is reading this now... God will hear your cry and heal your wounds and scars! He will wash over you with his love and comfort ☺️ Just *KEEP BELIEVING* *EVEN WHEN IT'S HARD* 🙏💕🎆😊😇🙌

    • @twindr4kes
      @twindr4kes 4 роки тому +8

      Cereal Killer listen, that was me but for a week or two. I stayed faithful through it. God uses these as tests to see if you will still be faithful or if you will fall away from Him. He also uses it to build your character. The Holy Spirit is holding on to you as hard as he can. Stay in the fight my friend 🙏🏽❤️

    • @KanyeIsKing
      @KanyeIsKing 4 роки тому +1

      the devil made me see the truth, you believe in an old man who was delusional

    • @Soappyy-55
      @Soappyy-55 4 роки тому +1

      Amen 🙏🏽

    • @jezyeledulan8345
      @jezyeledulan8345 4 роки тому

      Amen

    • @mariemandeng545
      @mariemandeng545 4 роки тому +1

      @Cereal Killer what ever the situation i assure you that there is always a way out.God never abandon his people

  • @kratomgaming
    @kratomgaming 3 роки тому +92

    This sin is an addiction, its so hard to overcome by yourself! Lord God, Please help us all struggling with this sin, please give us strength and endurance to fight it and flee from it. Thank you God! In your Holy Name, Amen!
    Fight. We can do this guys!

    • @AWoolySheep
      @AWoolySheep 3 роки тому

      What I find I extremely important and by far most helpful nowadays is studying MUCH scripture. The word of God, after all, has the POWER to save.
      Try GOD'S PROMISES - supreme victory, I tell you...
      Ezekiel 36:22-36
      22 “Therefore say to the house of Israel, ‘Thus says the Lord God, “It is not for your sake, O house of Israel, that I am about to act, but for My holy name, which you have profaned among the nations where you went. 23 I will vindicate the holiness of My great name which has been profaned among the nations, which you have profaned in their midst. Then the nations will know that I am the Lord,” declares the Lord God, “when I prove Myself holy among you in their sight. 24 For I will take you from the nations, gather you from all the lands and bring you into your own land. 25 Then I will sprinkle clean water on you, and you will be clean; I will cleanse you from all your filthiness and from all your idols. 26 Moreover, I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; and I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. 27 I will put My Spirit within you and cause you to walk in My statutes, and you will be careful to observe My ordinances. 28 You will live in the land that I gave to your forefathers; so you will be My people, and I will be your God. 29 Moreover, I will save you from all your uncleanness; and I will call for the grain and multiply it, and I will not bring a famine on you. 30 I will multiply the fruit of the tree and the produce of the field, so that you will not receive again the disgrace of famine among the nations. 31 Then you will remember your evil ways and your deeds that were not good, and you will loathe yourselves in your own sight for your iniquities and your abominations. 32 I am not doing this for your sake,” declares the Lord God, “let it be known to you. Be ashamed and confounded for your ways, O house of Israel!”
      33 ‘Thus says the Lord God, “On the day that I cleanse you from all your iniquities, I will cause the cities to be inhabited, and the waste places will be rebuilt. 34 The desolate land will be cultivated instead of being a desolation in the sight of everyone who passes by. 35 They will say, ‘This desolate land has become like the garden of Eden; and the waste, desolate and ruined cities are fortified and inhabited.’ 36 Then the nations that are left round about you will know that I, the Lord, have rebuilt the ruined places and planted that which was desolate; I, the Lord, have spoken and will do it.”

    • @EsterWinsjansen-cm3pd
      @EsterWinsjansen-cm3pd Рік тому +1

      “How can a young man keep his way pure? By keeping it according to Your word. With all my heart I have sought You; Do not let me wander from Your commandments. Your word I have treasured in my heart, That I may not sin against You. Blessed are You, O Lord; Teach me Your statutes. With my lips I have told of All the ordinances of Your mouth.”
      ‭‭Psalms‬ ‭119‬:‭9‬-‭13‬ ‭
      I know of someone who listens to 100 chapters in the Bible a day. Fill your mind with the Word of God and God will help you..

  • @sunrise8015
    @sunrise8015 3 роки тому +550

    I just cut off Netflix, it's true I am introducing my kids to a world of sin. It stops now.

    • @gabehcuod681
      @gabehcuod681 3 роки тому +54

      Very good decision. Netflix is POISON.

    • @konagirl805
      @konagirl805 3 роки тому +52

      Agree, Netflix and the media in general glorify all things sinful.

    • @jas8034
      @jas8034 3 роки тому +12

      Proud of you

    • @mikenewell9217
      @mikenewell9217 3 роки тому +17

      Its everywhere and your struggle will be there struggle someday.were all tested. Its not about food, fast from your sins. Strength through victory in the Lord.

    • @dropzonewarzone5251
      @dropzonewarzone5251 3 роки тому +12

      thats not enough action. take that tv outside and beat that beast with a baseball bat Preferably on roman catholic SUN worship day. the steeple people will watch you in horror destroying one of thier gods.

  • @pas3487
    @pas3487 4 роки тому +521

    This message is so true, God sees sin bigger than we can ever imagine. His omniscience has seen the terrible things it does to people including yourself. God wants the best for us guys!!! 😢🥰 Lets strive to not go our own way or satisfy our sinful desires. We got this! because know that God’s got this! His arms are wide open, pray to Him and He will provide💖💖💖

  • @jcin4489
    @jcin4489 3 роки тому +46

    I used to struggle with this sin. But one day when my mum took me to church. The pastor said to the congregation that the Lord is merciful and he is willing to forgive as long as I let him. My heart pained me from the moment my mum told me to go with her but when I raised my hand that day my heart calmed down and I felt free and still am. For those struggling with the same you can do it, you can let go of this sin. Let the Lord guide you.

  • @apaitiamalupo7232
    @apaitiamalupo7232 4 роки тому +292

    Mine Started when i was molested by my cousin who was 18 and i was 7..over and over again
    He is now married and at times i feel lost...i was bisexual when i was in my early 20's i got involved in several bi sexual relationships...i stopped it 2 years ago..i knew it was wrong...i studied the bible...i was supposed to get married to a lovely woman who had a son...but she left me...left me depressed...
    The bible and praying lifted me up..
    Im just so happy with God Jesus

    • @jaymilla4345
      @jaymilla4345 4 роки тому +15

      Each one of us is on a journey. Some more treacherous, tortuous and trying than others but the one constant is that we, once we accept to walk with God, would never be alone. Remember " all things walk together for those that love God and are called unto His purpose". It is well.

    • @Derellrassy87
      @Derellrassy87 4 роки тому +4

      Amen God is good brother and he loves you we suffer.with sin and God is doing marvelous things for us in Jesus name

    • @jiayouchinese
      @jiayouchinese 3 роки тому +3

      I had a very similar situation, so glad you overcame it.

    • @odiahebuka5790
      @odiahebuka5790 3 роки тому +3

      Thank you for sharing this testimony. It encouraged me

    • @warrior4christ490
      @warrior4christ490 3 роки тому +1

      🙏👑🙏
      Jesus Loves You!!
      You are Special to Him!
      God is Good..And He Will Never Leave you..Amen! Thank you Jesus!! 🙌🙏🙌

  • @TheonlyDaani
    @TheonlyDaani 4 роки тому +298

    Did you know:
    we are in the last generation and the Bible says the last last generation won't end before he comes and takes his people.
    That he said : the last generation will be after Israel has become a nation.
    Israel became a nation in 1949 and the Bible says a generation is 70years or 80 years by his will.
    Repent there is still time
    Turn to Jesus and repent of your sins
    I pray to God you find your way
    Don't forget to spread the word ❤️

    • @sidemenstuff326
      @sidemenstuff326 4 роки тому +6

      BIG 1RENZON so since 2019 already happened does that mean he will come around 2029? I’m confused

    • @TheonlyDaani
      @TheonlyDaani 4 роки тому +1

      @@sidemenstuff326
      No I don't no

    • @Ellenamingleheart
      @Ellenamingleheart 4 роки тому +56

      Sidemen Stuff No one knows the hour or day, Jesus will come like a thief in the night - revelation 16:15. Get closer with God, repent and be ready ❤️

    • @stacyeandrew2
      @stacyeandrew2 4 роки тому +16

      Sidemen Stuff
      They are confusing two separate events. There is catching away of the church taking us UP TO HIM and Him coming down WITH THE CHURCH to fight. We literally may be weeks away from rapture!!

    • @jethrowilliamhyramgrecia672
      @jethrowilliamhyramgrecia672 4 роки тому +4

      Christian doctrine are beggining to decline over the years

  • @oliviaoneill121
    @oliviaoneill121 3 роки тому +139

    When i was 10 i was exposed to it. At first it was just curiosity but then it turned into a regular thing . I felt so ashamed about it
    Im 13 now and I am so happy that I gave my life to Jesus it has made me a better person. Obviously in not perfect but i feel like Jesus changed me for the better. God bless everyone 😇🙏

    • @_quixote
      @_quixote 3 роки тому

      Are u still watching ph or no

    • @LeonardoHira
      @LeonardoHira 3 роки тому +2

      same man, same..

    • @NarrowedPath
      @NarrowedPath 3 роки тому +1

      Truth is this addiction is too strong only Jesus can save anybody from it. My advice is to keep strong in prayer coz relapses are common. Limit your use of the internet and also censor the kind of movies and shows you watch. Majority of movies and tv shows today are literally soft porn. Please STAY AWAY from them. In fact don’t even subscribe to Netflix!

    • @charbelmansour7981
      @charbelmansour7981 3 роки тому

      Can you pray for me I'm trying again to stop porn I hope i'll be able ,Amen Thank God for everything ,Thank you my brothers and sisters in Christ

    • @NarrowedPath
      @NarrowedPath 3 роки тому

      @@charbelmansour7981 I’m praying for you brother! And remember that he whom the Son sets free is free indeed.

  • @suketo8064
    @suketo8064 4 роки тому +161

    Joe, I would like to thank you for helping me get over this sin, and I´m only 13 years old. Now I read the Bible every day and I pray to God every morning, every evening, And every night. And today makes one month since I quit that sin. May God be with you and bless you, and thank you for everything.

    • @suketo8064
      @suketo8064 4 роки тому +6

      @harlyn queenzle I will, Thank you and God bless you.

    • @Jo-qc6mk
      @Jo-qc6mk 4 роки тому +2

      The earlier the better

    • @junomcgaff3479
      @junomcgaff3479 4 роки тому +3

      God bless you kid, you can make it!

    • @alicenakiri5257
      @alicenakiri5257 4 роки тому +1

      @@junomcgaff3479 god bless you.

    • @alicenakiri5257
      @alicenakiri5257 4 роки тому +1

      @harlyn queenzle I can help you and I have FB but I don't have my phone with me I can help you when I get home.

  • @b3nythomas284
    @b3nythomas284 4 роки тому +264

    Pls Pray for me.The temptation is hard.

    • @stephenewuakye1193
      @stephenewuakye1193 3 роки тому +9

      God is ever ready to flee you

    • @Shot_Gunner
      @Shot_Gunner 3 роки тому +9

      I’m praying for you! Right now. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻. I am right there with you. You are NOT alone.

    • @b3nythomas284
      @b3nythomas284 3 роки тому

      @@Shot_Gunner thank you so much

    • @bradiano3764
      @bradiano3764 3 роки тому +2

      Same bro Heavenly Father I pray this is Jesus’ name please help this man or woman with his or her temptation of lust. In Jesus’ name, AMEN 🙏🏼

    • @-ShajanJ
      @-ShajanJ 3 роки тому +1

      Also me

  • @laurynfairchild6771
    @laurynfairchild6771 3 роки тому +33

    As a wife, thank you for making this video to prepare future husbands or even people who are already husbands. This sin not only affects the person committing it but also their significant other and the world of human trafficking. I don’t say this to create more shame but rather encourage anyone watching to not lose hope because the Lord is good and He is making all things new.
    Thank you for teaching grace and truth!

    • @Amir06023
      @Amir06023 2 роки тому

      I jerk infront womans in18 .17 when i see my famili beliv i imotion sin and angry frme self and when see my family cry why i do it and after death how wiildoing with me their victim familys and i cant beliv that

  • @halihorror
    @halihorror 4 роки тому +269

    I have struggled with sexual sin in my past, and sometimes the desire still comes over me. Last night I felt a heavy, sexual spirit try to take over and get me to sin again. It was so strong that I almost felt out of control of my own body...I almost gave in. I fought the sexual spirit by shutting off my phone and going to sleep. In my dream, I was part of a large "school" of girls but we were really gathered together to be given to men who fancied us the most. I was called to a room whose door was a cloth curtain. The woman who led me to this room pulled the curtain back and a man was waiting inside. I didn't want to go in...there was no furniture, just a man lying on a blanket on the concrete floor, waiting for me...I wanted to leave. I felt objectified, humiliated, and unloved. I woke up from that dream to this video notification. God bless Off The Kirb Ministries and thank God for this video's perfect timing. We are strong enough to fight by the grace of God!

    • @AbrahamForJesus
      @AbrahamForJesus 4 роки тому +20

      Yeah, music, movies, shows, friends, co-workers, and/or anything we let enetertain our minds will affect the way we think. Sometimes I must remind myself that I am a child of God and act accordingly, God's word being always the way. 😊

    • @vangogo6819
      @vangogo6819 4 роки тому +6

      @@AbrahamForJesus Same here.

    • @jasonrutherford1722
      @jasonrutherford1722 4 роки тому +9

      god bless you god giving me this message to like always he is here to help us as ling as we stay in communication with him i live you Jesus i love you God co tinie to help us and fight all sin in this filthy world in Jesus name Amen

    • @halihorror
      @halihorror 4 роки тому +13

      @Scott Burn thank you so much for your encouraging words. I actually created and uploaded the Lana Del Rey song videos that you're referring to 8 years ago and hadn't thought about them since becoming born again. I will definitely be deleting them now that you've reminded me, as well as looking through my subscriptions list/Spotify playlists to purge anything that has an unholy message. Thank you and God bless you! ✝️

    • @vangogo6819
      @vangogo6819 4 роки тому +10

      It's hard to tell by my name but I too am a woman who was delivered from sexual sin that went on for a long time, I thought I would never be delivered, but our Lord Jesus is Faithful and in His time,delivered me. But we need to to the legwork, read God's Word, pray, put away worldly (and a lot of "Christian" music and entertainments, especially on the internet).
      It's not easy, I still have an occasional dream or remember an old lover, and I pray fervently to be delivered from that. I keep the Scripture verse "Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things". Philippians 4:8. Also " I can do all things through Christ, which strengtheneth me". That's just one of many verses that are helpful, just keep doing the best you can with the Lord's help. God bless you, your sister in Christ(and in struggles) Linda(vangogo). 😊🤗🌹💗🙏

  • @Diana-wm1dw
    @Diana-wm1dw 4 роки тому +272

    please pray for my Mum (Mihaela) shi is sick and she don.t have Lord Jesus.Please

    • @gracegotthis3704
      @gracegotthis3704 4 роки тому +6

      Praying for you and your mom IJN

    • @sapphire19885
      @sapphire19885 4 роки тому +4

      I just prayed for her. God Bless

    • @purityisdopetv821
      @purityisdopetv821 4 роки тому +6

      I pray total healing and salvation for your mummy in JESUS MIGHTY NAME. I pray in the Name of JESUS that your mum will receive an encounter with MIGHTY JESUS, that will total bring her deliverance spiritually and physically in JESUS NAME

    • @tilltheend7902
      @tilltheend7902 4 роки тому +4

      The Lord Jesus died for her.

    • @fruityloop2143
      @fruityloop2143 4 роки тому +1

      May God bless your mother

  • @leejamory
    @leejamory 4 роки тому +133

    1 Peter 5:7 “Turn all your anxiety over to God because he cares for you.” Jesus loves you dont give up on him❤

  • @yvonnecamacho9773
    @yvonnecamacho9773 4 роки тому +233

    Joe... I’m a 78 year old person.. what I hear is” why buy it when I can get it for free?”. There is too much promiscuity out there, fornication is free for all, in and out of WiFi. PARENTS need to spend more time educating their children about the Bible and what God wants from them from their early childhood so they can be aware and be obedient and show their love for him as he shows for them. It’s their responsibility, no one else’s. Boys must have respect for girls and vice versa and realize they’re not toys to be used and thrown away. Entitlement is a killer.Too many parents entitle their children then cry..”why me?”after they’re not taught but only entitled because” I don’t want my children to lack anything they want “ but not what they really need..Jesus and his Laws to love, respect, care, cherish, not abuse....” Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”. In my lifetime I’ve seen this world change for evil so quickly that I’m happy to be going home any day now.

    • @offthekirb
      @offthekirb  4 роки тому +28

      Yvonne it's heartbreaking but in just 5 years the world has waxed a lot worse, I as millennial am shocked by how the teenager act and speak today and it wasn't that long ago I was their age! - Joe

    • @bonniemoerdyk9809
      @bonniemoerdyk9809 4 роки тому +6

      Yvonne, Amen my dear sister in Christ! I too cannot believe how much the world has changed for the worse. It's not a total shock since the Bible warns us, but it still is a shock! Just these last few months....I can't get over how much more Evil this world has become in such a short time. Yes, parents should be teaching their children what God expects of us. I see so much Entitlement, and it leads nowhere good that is for sure! I've read that Sociopaths and Psychopaths have a huge sense of entitlement. I grew up a little bit on the poor side, and I am Grateful for that! I too, will be glad to leave this sin-sick world! God Bless and take care Yvonne!!

    • @yvonnecamacho9773
      @yvonnecamacho9773 4 роки тому +4

      Bonnie Moerdyk Thank you Bonnie, always let god be the first in your life, you will never go wrong.

    • @nonami_066xswqoqowiwl
      @nonami_066xswqoqowiwl 4 роки тому +2

      I’m 16

    • @bonniemoerdyk9809
      @bonniemoerdyk9809 4 роки тому +3

      @@yvonnecamacho9773 ...Amen to that! By the way, my parents chose the name Yvonne for me when mom was pregnant, but that last evening while she was in labor, they changed it to Bonnie, to sound more Scottish which is where our ancestors came from. Personally, I love both names! Low and behold, last month I was looking at a baby names book and found out after all these years that Bonnie and Yvonne are the same name, just in different countries!

  • @rinzo3408
    @rinzo3408 3 роки тому +54

    I'm a Nigerian watching this from Cyprus. Your videos have been such a blessing and a source of liberation. God bless you so much for all you do 🙏.

  • @christiantales6051
    @christiantales6051 4 роки тому +178

    “Jesus can fix a broken heart but he needs to find all of the pieces first”
    Remeber God Loves you no matter what

  • @martynwyldbore5755
    @martynwyldbore5755 4 роки тому +281

    Very strange how this came up, I just looked at porn for the very first time in a long time and feel guilty and so I should, confessed to God and then to my wife... I pray I won't go back to this horrible place that I was in before I became saved... thank you again lord for this message...

    • @offthekirb
      @offthekirb  4 роки тому +37

      God bless you Martyn and well done for confessing to your wife that takes real courage! Keep on - Joe

    • @martynwyldbore5755
      @martynwyldbore5755 4 роки тому +15

      @@offthekirb thank you again, my brother and me and my wife always try and be truthful towards each other, key word try....

    • @sheila9048
      @sheila9048 4 роки тому +9

      @@martynwyldbore5755 The fact that you try and are able to be honest no matter how much it may hurt or upset speaks volumes.

    • @mariemandeng545
      @mariemandeng545 4 роки тому +2

      The spirit of God is in you keep on asking him to make you hate those thing and when ever the image appears before you or the need of it just scroll or ignore it God through our Lord Jesis has given us the power to resist sin.

    • @liviloo8783
      @liviloo8783 4 роки тому +4

      Martyn Wyldbore
      You are not alone. Guilt is good, it means you still have the Holy Spirit.

  • @Nate-tz5jd
    @Nate-tz5jd 3 роки тому +147

    Please pray for my step sister and my mother, my step sister has not yet excepted Jesus and my mother has not fully repented and excepted Jesus in her life

    • @graciejones8417
      @graciejones8417 3 роки тому +5

      I pray for them💜

    • @auggameryt1235
      @auggameryt1235 3 роки тому

      🙏🙏

    • @believer431
      @believer431 3 роки тому

      Accepted* excepted feels like excluding

    • @gabrielbarbosa7882
      @gabrielbarbosa7882 3 роки тому

      Your situation reminds me of mine. My mother is on the same place, and my brother is far. I will pray for you as we are both hanging in there.

    • @nuggets4357
      @nuggets4357 3 роки тому

      Prayed for them

  • @matthewadeleke8023
    @matthewadeleke8023 4 роки тому +183

    This channel opened my eyes to the point of no return. I'm with God.

    • @20greeneyes20
      @20greeneyes20 4 роки тому +7

      Good for you Matthew !!! You get it and you won't be sorry. God is watching everything we do.
      We will go Home very soon....

    • @jas8034
      @jas8034 3 роки тому +5

      @@20greeneyes20 amen, let's keep fighting brothers

    • @Mr.Looooong
      @Mr.Looooong 3 роки тому +3

      Keep going...

    • @j.e.m8149
      @j.e.m8149 3 роки тому +2

      🙏❤️

  • @Mizu-Koe
    @Mizu-Koe 4 роки тому +299

    Hi, if you're reading this comment can you please pray for me I want to stop this sexual sin, and my anger, I'll gladly appreciate it if you pray for me.

    • @Mizu-Koe
      @Mizu-Koe 4 роки тому +2

      @@yogmaer2k Thank You For The Message, I can't express how grateful I am for God to touch your heart to help people like me who suffers from sin.

    • @unionscripturairedesevange6237
      @unionscripturairedesevange6237 4 роки тому +10

      Let the be light in your heart in the name of Jesus-Christ.Sins power over you be broken in the name of Jesus-Christ.

    • @jonathant752
      @jonathant752 4 роки тому +8

      The first step is always confession before God and the church. Find mature people who are close to you and confess your sins, James says confess your sins to one another and pray for one another so that you may be healed.

    • @brittanygibbons5989
      @brittanygibbons5989 4 роки тому +2

      Praying for you 🙏🏻❤️

    • @flowerangel5514
      @flowerangel5514 4 роки тому +7

      If you are addicticed to pornography
      you should do some research about porn....most of the people on those videos are being forced to do it...you are just watching a human being getting raped on camera

  • @ngabiranopeninnah7855
    @ngabiranopeninnah7855 3 роки тому +26

    I've been addicted for about 3 years.I'm still addicted, I shared it with my mom,but nothing has changed. I love this ministry and I think its a foundation for my betterment. You really speak to my soul, dude.

    • @michaelwduffy
      @michaelwduffy 3 роки тому +2

      You got this my friend we are all struggling with sin but by the grace of god we will all get through this!

    • @EsterWinsjansen-cm3pd
      @EsterWinsjansen-cm3pd Рік тому

      “How can a young man keep his way pure? By keeping it according to Your word. With all my heart I have sought You; Do not let me wander from Your commandments. Your word I have treasured in my heart, That I may not sin against You. Blessed are You, O Lord; Teach me Your statutes. With my lips I have told of All the ordinances of Your mouth.”
      ‭‭Psalms‬ ‭119‬:‭9‬-‭13‬ ‭
      I know of someone who listens to 100 chapters in the Bible a day. Fill your mind with the Word of God and God will help you..

    • @tbirdthompson6098
      @tbirdthompson6098 9 місяців тому

      Joe you are such a blessing , your wisdom is great ,

  • @asmrjayzel3759
    @asmrjayzel3759 4 роки тому +269

    I just committed the sin and I saw this notification 😭

    • @offthekirb
      @offthekirb  4 роки тому +72

      Hope it helps you to overcome! God is able! - Joe

    • @xplicit.27
      @xplicit.27 4 роки тому +32

      you’re not alone brother... i fell into this sin two days ago.. if u go to church i recommend u speak to your pastor and pray with him

    • @julius6378
      @julius6378 4 роки тому +10

      Same I committed it yesterday and I’m about to fall into it again.. lord Jesus please help me.

    • @EVA-ki5vw
      @EVA-ki5vw 4 роки тому +3

      @@julius6378 I'm feeling the same😢

    • @wassup934
      @wassup934 4 роки тому +1

      Same here...

  • @amourseya4300
    @amourseya4300 4 роки тому +329

    When you get the urge to watch pornography,it’s the enemy tempting you, rebuke that demon .take every thought captive make it obedient to Jesus Christ. 2 Corinthians 10:3 -5.the more you let the flashbacks play in your mind ,the easier it will be for you to fall it

    • @datkiddmixx
      @datkiddmixx 4 роки тому +19

      Memorize 2 Corinthians 10:5 if you can because it's helped me so many times in spiritual warfare, it really helps me find the root of these thoughts so much easier

    • @offthekirb
      @offthekirb  4 роки тому +14

      Amen good advice!

    • @popscyclep8084
      @popscyclep8084 4 роки тому +1

      I never get the urge to watch pornography! I sure don’t think of my pillow as sexual

    • @gonzbry7272
      @gonzbry7272 4 роки тому +4

      I fell twice today... 😔

    • @brynn_luv_gaza39
      @brynn_luv_gaza39 4 роки тому +3

      Constantly renew your mind

  • @littleteethkeith
    @littleteethkeith 3 роки тому +62

    I’m so addicted to my phone. My marriage crumbled because my wife was always on her phone and I was begging her for attention. Now that we are over I have nothing so I have become addicted to my phone. My job is so depressing that I cannot even being to explain. I think I watch pleasant things on my phone to escape all the negative things in my life. I’ll watch car rebuilding videos or marksmanship videos. I should be reading my Bible but I’m not. Please pray for me. I’m so stuck and lost.

    • @certifiedsimp7114
      @certifiedsimp7114 3 роки тому +3

      Will be praying for you give more time to Jesus Christ for nothing is impossible for him

    • @brees5697
      @brees5697 3 роки тому +3

      You have the most important gift even when you lose someone you love. You have yourself. It is so cliche, until the day it clicks. The moment, small habits, or realization of liking yourself and doing things that enable you to feel good about yourself. It is so hard with a job that kills the spirit or joy for living; but reading the Bible has consoled and revived me and I think it can you too. I wish you peace and to have hope. 💫

    • @stevemadison7895
      @stevemadison7895 3 роки тому +1

      Jordan Peterson's Thesis: "Life is misery, suffering and death. Our purpose is to find a way to live a true and noble life in the face of our mutual and inescapable fate." Peterson has tons of youtube vids. Invest some of your screen time consuming that content. Happy Day!

    • @davidm4566
      @davidm4566 3 роки тому

      If you're addicted (this is a real thing!) then I would suggest starting small: go camping and leave the phone off for the weekend. Or just leave it on airplane mode for a day- read, go for a walk, etc. you will find that you have SO MUCH more time on your hands.
      Best thing is to turn it over to God- he will hep!

    • @davidm4566
      @davidm4566 3 роки тому

      PS. I'm so sorry this happened to you

  • @lovedbyYahuah
    @lovedbyYahuah 4 роки тому +163

    For me, as a woman, it is staying away from romance novels/inappropriate novels. As women, we love words. I started reading romance novels at age 11 and it started off with innocent ones and then slowly I would find ones that had a little sex here and there and then I found erotica and it was over then. God helps us and thank you for these tips!! Very helpful

    • @Sammythatjewishnerd
      @Sammythatjewishnerd 3 роки тому +18

      If you really want to read about people falling in love, I love Beverly Lewis’s Amish novels. They have romance in them, but they keep it pure and God centered

    • @lovedbyYahuah
      @lovedbyYahuah 3 роки тому +2

      @@Sammythatjewishnerd Thank you for the recommendation!

    • @courage-3954
      @courage-3954 3 роки тому

      @@lovedbyYahuah with women you have to use words to become aroused. Men it’s visual beauty. Why are you women weird like that?

    • @charmcharm2352
      @charmcharm2352 3 роки тому +11

      Hi I can totally relate. I am an avid reader not so much romance now in my adult years but for many years my number one go to was horror. I loved that stuff. Also horror movies. Anything of the supernatural. For a long time I was not bothered by it but over the years as I prayed more, read my bible more and spent more time with God I realized that my appetite for it lessened. There would be times I would become literally sickened by some passages and would actually throw the book in the garbage. As time went on, I found that I was not even drawn to those types of books and movies anymore. I still like a good mystery or science fiction but I find I am not even tempted by the darker stuff. I am still an avid reader and my taste is wide and varied. I am now very careful in choosing my books. There is a wonderful author, one of the few romance novelists that I still read, tho her books are not strictly romance to be honest. Her name is Francine Rivers. Please try out her historical 3 book series about a Jewish slave girl named Hadassah set in the 20 years or so after Jesus 's death . I promise you won't be disappointed. Unfortunately I find that many Christian authors are not quality writers. Rivers is one of the exceptions. I've read her books over and over and everyone I've recommended her books to praise her novels and skill. I would love if you would check her out and come back and give me your thoughts as I love hearing what people think of my book recommendations. 😁 Be blessed always and may God continue to guide and strengthen you in your Christian journey.

    • @lovedbyYahuah
      @lovedbyYahuah 3 роки тому +1

      @@charmcharm2352 Hi!! Oh my goodness, I also have always been drawn to horror movies. And I LOVE Francine Rivers!!! She’s one of my favorite authors and although she includes romance it always points back to Christ. Thank you for sharing this with me! ☺️

  • @alexandrahowell7657
    @alexandrahowell7657 4 роки тому +108

    There’s also blockers we can use :) not to mention delete any friends on social media who post sexual things (if you have it), boycott any sexual movies, songs etc

    • @chasingthethunder2936
      @chasingthethunder2936 4 роки тому +1

      Please, recommend me a blockers for android.

    • @lunkusemariannah7454
      @lunkusemariannah7454 3 роки тому +4

      I had to uninstall Netflix because of the movies they show. Some are too sexual no others are too evil.

    • @jesusismysaviour1165
      @jesusismysaviour1165 3 роки тому +1

      Do something which you like except seeing these kind of videos or photos and the good thing is I am gonna stop too so if you are doing then just stop it and pray to God amen

    • @cloaker2829
      @cloaker2829 3 роки тому

      still can look at the images on chrome, unfortunetly

    • @JosephsCoat
      @JosephsCoat 3 роки тому

      It’s a practical tool, but it doesn’t appease the heart issue.

  • @williamlaure-smith5060
    @williamlaure-smith5060 3 роки тому +12

    Beautiful words Joe...from South Africa a country that desperately needs intercession by the Lord

  • @soji9727
    @soji9727 4 роки тому +247

    I think my sexual sin is almost gone. I thank God for this🙏🏽

    • @calliegilliland8327
      @calliegilliland8327 4 роки тому +7

      same! maybe. no, DEFINITELY, because freedom is constant and ALWAYS attainable with God ❤️

    • @aybsss5831
      @aybsss5831 4 роки тому +2

      Amen🙏

    • @tearyowl6075
      @tearyowl6075 3 роки тому +1

      Amen🙏 Glory to GOD

    • @Michelle-zz7no
      @Michelle-zz7no 3 роки тому +1

      Stay in the word of God and in prayer!! God bless you! I prayed for you!! God is good!! 🙏🙏❤️❤️

    • @veerarora7124
      @veerarora7124 3 роки тому

      Please share with us. How you started and how it went.

  • @offthekirb
    @offthekirb  4 роки тому +64

    I'm really sorry about the ads on my videos recently/ I don't monetise my channel because of personal convictions, but UA-cam has started putting ads on my videos because of some of the "copyrighted music" I used believing it was royalty free. Anyway I hope it doesn't distract too much from the message. If you're struggling with guilt and doubting whether God could still love you after sexual sin, please please watch one of these videos. I think they might help you! - ua-cam.com/video/igvF_90GP7g/v-deo.html

    • @joellukewarriorforjesusthe293
      @joellukewarriorforjesusthe293 4 роки тому +5

      Hey Joe Im currently going 9 days without I haven't really been tempted which is rare normally Im tempted on the 5 and six day thanks for the video Joe hope your well I really think I will get free

    • @craigkitching4883
      @craigkitching4883 4 роки тому +4

      Hebrews 10-31 "it is a fearful thing to fall in the hands of a living God". God bless you Joseph. You have given me soo much hope and i have been convicted of my sin for 4 whole days and it is very scary but we need that as the body of Christ. If anybody reads this please please talk to a pastor or a non judge-mental friend. You may think the Lord will never forgive you but coming from a person who was a filthy mess 6 month ago, Jesus Christ paid the penalty and declared "IT IS FINISHED". No more strongholds satan or i will dip arrows in the blood of Jesus and fire them into your camp. Spiritual warfare is the key to staying victorious and being on guard. Destroying fear by John Ramirez (Godspeed magazine) will equip you. Keep up the good work Brother and God bless you all.

    • @Ghost-wr2zu
      @Ghost-wr2zu 4 роки тому +2

      Hey man umm it's weird but is there a way I can reach to you? Do you have Instagram?

    • @siddarthm3423
      @siddarthm3423 4 роки тому +2

      @@joellukewarriorforjesusthe293 Happens. You'll feel this sudden freedom from it, yet remember it is one of the ways the devil plays with. Trust me, you'll get strong temptation in few days, but.... Never lose hope. And cling on to God to help you out of it. That was the way I found my saving. Indeed, the Holy Spirit works and helps you out. But then, it is your decision at the end, to either fall in for the temptation, or listen to the voice of God. And God Bless You! And may He help you out from this. Cheers!

    • @veritasardens6547
      @veritasardens6547 4 роки тому +2

      This sin of pornography took root in my life a few years ago in my early 30's when a guy with whom I wanted to stay in touch for his skills in the Spanish language (since I am into learning languages), started sending me porn videos instead, I told him to stop but he did not listen. Although I blocked him, the sin stuck and it also kind of led me to another sin which is masturbation. These are sins with which I had no connection through my years of schooling and even at college here in India, even at college, when guys were encouraging me to come and see, I would advise them and walk away without even entering their room.
      Of late, I am not using my smartphone that much, only if it is required. The Bible talks about "temperance" as a fruit of the Holy Spirit which I have been asking God for, I still need more grace to fight the sin of masturbation which came in through pornography. I want deliverance from this and I am trusting God to save me from it, maybe you could make a video on this as well. I am not married yet.

  • @nordra375
    @nordra375 11 місяців тому +3

    PRAY FOR THAT MAN AND ALL OF THE PEOPLE.✝✝✝

  • @dreamwavemermaid
    @dreamwavemermaid 4 роки тому +235

    Please pray for me I am 25 and single. I desire a husband, a best friend, so much since I was 9 years old. I love to serve others and to love more than anything in life, God blessed me with these gifts and it hurts so much not having a husband and children to serve and give love to. It is all I long for in life. If I had the chance to marry at 18 I would have. I am thankful for this season of singleness and have grown so much in my relationship with God, I have felt quite content the last year however in recent months I have been feeling so lonely and I have so much love to give I need my best friend please pray for me God bless you all

    • @jas8034
      @jas8034 3 роки тому +29

      Be sure not to idolise this, and keep God as the focus. I don't want to twist ur words but just wanted to say, will pray for you sister :)

    • @Tc-rn8lh
      @Tc-rn8lh 3 роки тому +7

      Will do, I will keep you in my prayers! 💖
      May God bless you!

    • @ageldong9324
      @ageldong9324 3 роки тому

      @@Tc-rn8lh am waiting

    • @abadirzulu5249
      @abadirzulu5249 3 роки тому +11

      Everything you said line's up what happen in my life i well pray 4 u tonight. As new Christian i just wanna get know christ sometimes i tell myself i just wanna stay single and be close to god u are wonderful soul stay close to jesus🙏💓 stay strong

    • @rainagamingmagex2195
      @rainagamingmagex2195 3 роки тому +27

      I felt the same exact way when I was 25 I wanted someone but I was lonely I was very picky I would not date anyone that smoked I wouldn't date anyone that would drink and I definitely wouldn't do things until after I was married I thought I would never find anyone because I was so picky and I prayed and prayed and out of the blue one day I did not even expect it to come I found my husband a man of God and everything I asked for God provided and he will provide for you he loves his children. This marriage is amazing and magical I will pray for you my friend for I understand where you are. God bless you stay safe

  • @EVA-ki5vw
    @EVA-ki5vw 4 роки тому +222

    Not pornography but anything that makes you commit sins, whether it's internet or real live object just cut it off
    For me it was my crush

    • @Heavenly.Ministries
      @Heavenly.Ministries 4 роки тому +21

      Pray & Fast to gain self control
      (Sexual purification)

    • @Nate-cm9lg
      @Nate-cm9lg 4 роки тому +27

      I’ve realized that the reason why I liked my crush was because I lusted for her... and the way I interacted with her, just made it worse. Now, we’re just friends, and I’m happy about that. I understand what I did wrong, and I’m glad I know that.

    • @Crmsn97
      @Crmsn97 4 роки тому +4

      I have the same problem but i dont know how to end it it feels so impossible for me but i know i need to

    • @dave7825
      @dave7825 4 роки тому +3

      Nate so what was wrong that you did?

    • @nonami_066xswqoqowiwl
      @nonami_066xswqoqowiwl 4 роки тому +1

      ✝️✝️✝️❤️❤️❤️

  • @brendachagolla1016
    @brendachagolla1016 3 роки тому +31

    I thought quarantine was awful I’ve dealt with depression since 8th grade I’ve been on medication and didn’t help so I really started to get very very depressed in my own thoughts but one night I remember I was tired of this life and got on UA-cam searching for god and felt something amazing 🥺 quarantine has made me closer to god and my depression is more controllable. I haven’t cried myself to sleep anymore. Instead I watch you and I feel soooo blessed. My life has turned to better. God is real and pure love 😭🖤 I went from , I hate my life to .. I’m so blessed 😭 I have food, clothes, a family, and so much more. I have nothing to complain about. I’m so glad I found god right now before it was late I’m only 19 and very very close to god that’s crazy because everyone my age is doing drugs and selling their body on onlyfans or even free it’s gross and I pray for them 🥺 I’m so blessed to have found him this young and in general. God loves you

    • @offthekirb
      @offthekirb  3 роки тому +3

      Bless you sister Brenda, it's amazing you have found God young. Keep walking with Him even when it's hard, you will never regret it and He will never leave your side! - Joe

    • @michaelwhite8031
      @michaelwhite8031 3 роки тому +1

      God bless and keep you

    • @happyvedra
      @happyvedra 3 роки тому

      This is really awesome!!

    • @revelation1189
      @revelation1189 3 роки тому +1

      Hallelujah, God is good!!!
      Capitalize G in God when referring to the real God btw.

    • @godlovesyou1622
      @godlovesyou1622 3 роки тому

      Amen 🙏🙏

  • @Artificialintelligence-xd8pb
    @Artificialintelligence-xd8pb 4 роки тому +129

    I figured fasting helps in breaking and fighting sexual sin and porn,brother Joe continue with the Lord's work you are very inspiring, big up from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪

    • @greatanswers410
      @greatanswers410 4 роки тому +2

      Do you know of a good church in Kenya?

    • @Diana-wz8hc
      @Diana-wz8hc 4 роки тому +4

      Same... I don't trust most churches in Kenya they lack the holy spirit or you find people who fake speaking in tongues its so 😔 sad.. Here people think God is a far a way being and the holy spirit is only for pastors they don't know important thing is the relationship with Jesus.....they are still stuck in the prosperity gospel.... Secular media is rotting my brothers and sisters away😔.

    • @wangarimercy6997
      @wangarimercy6997 4 роки тому +2

      @@greatanswers410 Hi I'm from Kenya too. There are indeed some good churches here. Just ask the Lord to lead you to one and listen to the guidance of the Holy Spirit.

    • @Artificialintelligence-xd8pb
      @Artificialintelligence-xd8pb 4 роки тому +2

      Parklands Baptist is a good Church located in Westlands opposite kiprop center but unfortunately they are doing online services due to corona, but let the holy spirit guide you and you can also pray for discernment to know if any Church you attend is good and in line with the scriptures, good day and God bless

    • @Heavenly.Ministries
      @Heavenly.Ministries 4 роки тому +1

      Fasting is to gain self control

  • @ChristinaaArmani
    @ChristinaaArmani 4 роки тому +78

    I mainly watched this video because I love this ministry and I’m so glad I did. I’m pushing 40 and not married and was really starting to give up on it. God used Joe to tell me I shouldn’t lose hope. God may have something wonderful for me just around the corner. Thank you Joe 🙏

    • @austinp7866
      @austinp7866 3 роки тому +3

      If there is one thing I know, it's that there is a perfect someone out there for everyone. Never lose help, Madam.

    • @AWoolySheep
      @AWoolySheep 3 роки тому

      What I find I extremely important and by far most helpful nowadays is studying MUCH scripture. The word of God, after all, has the POWER to save.
      Try GOD'S PROMISES - supreme victory, I tell you...
      Ezekiel 36:22-36
      22 “Therefore say to the house of Israel, ‘Thus says the Lord God, “It is not for your sake, O house of Israel, that I am about to act, but for My holy name, which you have profaned among the nations where you went. 23 I will vindicate the holiness of My great name which has been profaned among the nations, which you have profaned in their midst. Then the nations will know that I am the Lord,” declares the Lord God, “when I prove Myself holy among you in their sight. 24 For I will take you from the nations, gather you from all the lands and bring you into your own land. 25 Then I will sprinkle clean water on you, and you will be clean; I will cleanse you from all your filthiness and from all your idols. 26 Moreover, I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; and I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. 27 I will put My Spirit within you and cause you to walk in My statutes, and you will be careful to observe My ordinances. 28 You will live in the land that I gave to your forefathers; so you will be My people, and I will be your God. 29 Moreover, I will save you from all your uncleanness; and I will call for the grain and multiply it, and I will not bring a famine on you. 30 I will multiply the fruit of the tree and the produce of the field, so that you will not receive again the disgrace of famine among the nations. 31 Then you will remember your evil ways and your deeds that were not good, and you will loathe yourselves in your own sight for your iniquities and your abominations. 32 I am not doing this for your sake,” declares the Lord God, “let it be known to you. Be ashamed and confounded for your ways, O house of Israel!”
      33 ‘Thus says the Lord God, “On the day that I cleanse you from all your iniquities, I will cause the cities to be inhabited, and the waste places will be rebuilt. 34 The desolate land will be cultivated instead of being a desolation in the sight of everyone who passes by. 35 They will say, ‘This desolate land has become like the garden of Eden; and the waste, desolate and ruined cities are fortified and inhabited.’ 36 Then the nations that are left round about you will know that I, the Lord, have rebuilt the ruined places and planted that which was desolate; I, the Lord, have spoken and will do it.”

    • @oxyblue80
      @oxyblue80 2 роки тому

      What happens when your wife watches pr0n more than me? Lol

  • @Ryux4x4
    @Ryux4x4 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you very much. This brought me to tears. When I get hungry during a fast I speak this scripture " Man shall not live on bread alone but on every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God." When I spoke this God sustained me all day it was awesome. Thank you very much for the encouragement. God Bless you

  • @janhollingsworth8946
    @janhollingsworth8946 4 роки тому +103

    I’m a 12 year old girl, and your videos help me everyday The beginning of this year I was saved, I did so many things that I look back on that I have done that i feel ashamed of but today I know I am forgiven and I will fall again and be forgiven and that’s why i love the lord with everything I have, and why i am trying to put away these temptations, and desires. I have friends my age that are not Christian or saved, and since I’m young I can’t relate to people my age because few know the lord that are 12 or even a little older, I only know adults who are saved, I talk to my grandmother a lot, I would like to know more about the age of accountability I feel a lot older than I am like I’m 21 which I’m grateful for to be able to reach that accountability to know Jesus Christ and to be born again through the lord, but also unsure because my friends and people my age are not in a relationship with the lord, like I am.

    • @Jo-qc6mk
      @Jo-qc6mk 3 роки тому +17

      Felt the same last year. Im 13 btw. U gotta remember that its not gonna be easy. Trust me, u dont wanna live without God in ur life.
      I was so tierd of being the only Christian that i decided to stray from God. Worst. Decision. Ever.
      I became a toxic person. I lost my compasion for people. I lost my desire to go to school, etc
      Im trying to come back but its hard. Its harder to stray and then come back to God. Its better to stay with God through our teen years.
      This world doesnt have anything to offer. Nothing will satisfy u here. Not netflix, not relationships, not even grades.
      Ur relationship with God is enviable and wholsome. Keep going at it mate. Its worth it

    • @saveme2169
      @saveme2169 3 роки тому +5

      Hey, same here! Just know you not alone ok?

    • @shekinahabidrogers
      @shekinahabidrogers 3 роки тому +5

      Much Love and Prayers for you girl! 🥰 I am not into this kinda stuff but I really love watching these videos, cz my father says to beware of sin in the age of 12-19 btw I am Also 12 😇❤

    • @julietmora9005
      @julietmora9005 2 роки тому

      ❤️💛💚💙 ... ❤️💛💚💙 ... ❤️💛💚💙 ... ... ❤️💛💚💙 ... ❤️💛💚💙 ...

    • @michelebear9802
      @michelebear9802 2 роки тому

      I have committed sexual sin about jesus can God forgive me😖I'm saved and been baptized it's like I've let my mind go can God forgive me😶 though I rly want to know I
      Still know he loves me but can he forgive

  • @sherinjose01
    @sherinjose01 4 роки тому +69

    1 John 1:9
    If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

  • @josephabilash9108
    @josephabilash9108 3 роки тому +38

    I have to watch this videos everyday because I fall into sin everyday😭

  • @Sorana44
    @Sorana44 4 роки тому +60

    In late 90’s I was big on Internet and chat rooms, I became addicted to that cause I was so alone, even though I was in church. God was talking to me through preaching and my private study of the bible. The last he said me
    Before I leave him was Ezequiel 24:13. After that I fall in a spiral of incontrolable sin,I searched on the internet for people who are willing to meet me , just to find out they only wants to use me, I lost everything, get pregnant, enter in a relationship of verbal and physical abuse, and almost take my child and my own life. I reached the bottom. But My Lord Jesus, rescue me and take me from my right hand and put me on the Rock again, I am so grateful, now it is 16 years from my reconciliation with Jesus, I am sooo happy even though I don’t have anything that I lost before, not even my work! Back then God tells me to get away from the internet, only recently I am again using this media, now with a sound mind and with a God purpose, but took me more than 8 years to learn to ,and yielding to God. So, please hear the word of God today and let him guide you. God bless you ❤️

    • @abadirzulu5249
      @abadirzulu5249 3 роки тому

      That tough me sister in christ just know ur loved by jesus. 🙏💓😥

    • @AWoolySheep
      @AWoolySheep 3 роки тому +1

      What I find I extremely important and by far most helpful nowadays is studying MUCH scripture. The word of God, after all, has the POWER to save.
      Try GOD'S PROMISES - supreme victory, I tell you...
      Ezekiel 36:22-36
      22 “Therefore say to the house of Israel, ‘Thus says the Lord God, “It is not for your sake, O house of Israel, that I am about to act, but for My holy name, which you have profaned among the nations where you went. 23 I will vindicate the holiness of My great name which has been profaned among the nations, which you have profaned in their midst. Then the nations will know that I am the Lord,” declares the Lord God, “when I prove Myself holy among you in their sight. 24 For I will take you from the nations, gather you from all the lands and bring you into your own land. 25 Then I will sprinkle clean water on you, and you will be clean; I will cleanse you from all your filthiness and from all your idols. 26 Moreover, I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; and I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. 27 I will put My Spirit within you and cause you to walk in My statutes, and you will be careful to observe My ordinances. 28 You will live in the land that I gave to your forefathers; so you will be My people, and I will be your God. 29 Moreover, I will save you from all your uncleanness; and I will call for the grain and multiply it, and I will not bring a famine on you. 30 I will multiply the fruit of the tree and the produce of the field, so that you will not receive again the disgrace of famine among the nations. 31 Then you will remember your evil ways and your deeds that were not good, and you will loathe yourselves in your own sight for your iniquities and your abominations. 32 I am not doing this for your sake,” declares the Lord God, “let it be known to you. Be ashamed and confounded for your ways, O house of Israel!”
      33 ‘Thus says the Lord God, “On the day that I cleanse you from all your iniquities, I will cause the cities to be inhabited, and the waste places will be rebuilt. 34 The desolate land will be cultivated instead of being a desolation in the sight of everyone who passes by. 35 They will say, ‘This desolate land has become like the garden of Eden; and the waste, desolate and ruined cities are fortified and inhabited.’ 36 Then the nations that are left round about you will know that I, the Lord, have rebuilt the ruined places and planted that which was desolate; I, the Lord, have spoken and will do it.”

  • @clairelaskey5592
    @clairelaskey5592 4 роки тому +28

    Unbelievable, I just read this last night in Corinthians. God keeps coming to me in such beautiful unique ways. Thank you. Blessings to you.

  • @johnzahm193
    @johnzahm193 3 роки тому +30

    I have a good woman who I plan to one day marry, our relationship is pure but I still struggle with lust. There are times when I really hate myself because I have broken my covenant with my girlfriend, myself and most of all God. It's been a roller coaster and your words have helped me. I thank God for you Joe love you brother.

    • @cobrablack2066
      @cobrablack2066 2 роки тому

      Wait for it , i can tell you it will be better ... and it may free you frome being with the wrong woman

  • @ndaysahh9144
    @ndaysahh9144 4 роки тому +44

    I have been a victim of pornography when I was 13 years old, I am already a member of the church that time but not yet baptized. That time I've been doing it for three days and in those moments I really felt like the Holy Spirit is fighting for me. After I do it I am telling myself that it will be the last and when it was the next day i just did it again. And theres this video that i have to play but inside, it tells me not to because I will regret it in the end and thank God I did not.
    And through God's grace He showed me the consequences of being a porn addict and it really shook me and made me cry because What I did was really bad and I sinned in God's presence.
    But one night I felt really bad and I just want to surrender it to God and I felt sorry for what I did. And when I opened my bible I have read the verse of 1 John 1:9
    "But God is faithful and fair. If we confess our sins, He will forgive our sins. He will forgive every wrong thing we have done. He will make us pure."
    And now I am turning 16 happily serving the Lord, free from the lust of these world, battling everyday and continuing asking,seeking, and knocking for Him.😊😇
    Blessed be the Name of the Lord😊
    God bless you too, its not too late my friends😊

    • @chitiprudence8777
      @chitiprudence8777 3 роки тому +3

      Amen 😀

    • @Tc-rn8lh
      @Tc-rn8lh 3 роки тому +1

      Amen. May God bless you!

    • @jedimonk993
      @jedimonk993 3 роки тому

      Same I have a porn addiction,I know I'm sinning yet I keep doing it

  • @anthonystjohn8689
    @anthonystjohn8689 4 роки тому +35

    Praise God! I've been struggling with looking at naked pictures and sending them ... I prayed last night even though I didn't wanna give it up but knew I was hurting myself and upsetting GOD. This video is no mistake! I love how even in darkness GOD never stops fighting for us ever though we don't deserve it. I love how the LORD has been using you to help others. May all glory and praise go to our LORD and savior Jesus Christ!

    • @rebeccagladstone166
      @rebeccagladstone166 4 роки тому

      Become one It is not that hard just believe in God he loves you more than you think 🙂

  • @craighenry9512
    @craighenry9512 Рік тому +8

    Joe, these have been wonderful for me. I can tell others, what starts at 18 can wreck your life for years. But it’s time for me to let God help me rid myself of this for good. I am 61 and am just tired of this wrecking my life. This is a battle I can win. I know of others who have and I had a similar battle with alcohol that I shed after 33 years. God helped me through that ( Alcohol free for 7 years, now!). So I know I can beat lifelong addictions with God’s help. I have had this one for 10 years longer, hut time means nothing to God. He loves me and He’s got my back and I have to remember that.

  • @andrewsanga3737
    @andrewsanga3737 4 роки тому +88

    You are a great man

    • @offthekirb
      @offthekirb  4 роки тому +20

      I'm not just ask my wife!! God bless you thank you for watching :)

    • @greatanswers410
      @greatanswers410 4 роки тому +4

      @@offthekirb I've heard that one before......

    • @supersayian4221
      @supersayian4221 4 роки тому

      change ur pfp ...

  • @laripakasohtun9562
    @laripakasohtun9562 4 роки тому +41

    I'm early
    Where sins run deep
    Your grace is more
    I really need abundant mercy God
    🙏🙏

    • @dheerajkamble1502
      @dheerajkamble1502 4 роки тому

      I was listening to the same song right before I watched this video.

  • @michaelkkrasting
    @michaelkkrasting 3 роки тому +10

    Definitely needed to hear this, i'd always struggled with this sin, but listening to this message and having a lady in my life whom I've grown spiritually with has helped tremendously

  • @thomasbassett4905
    @thomasbassett4905 4 роки тому +51

    Hi Joe! After being saved by the Lord Jesus, I have slowly found a deep hatred growing in my heart for sexual impurity. Slowly, but surely, I have let my lustfulness go. Thank you for the great work! It is a Truth to make one dance that God is so merciful!

    • @ericentgoh9633
      @ericentgoh9633 4 роки тому +1

      hi Thomas
      I just want to help all our brothers in Christ.I used to struggle with sexual sin and I had been enslaved by it for years but I have been living in light for months. please install detoxify app if you have an android phone. that app has helped so many men to live in light..May grace and blessings of God be with you till the end of time..

  • @omaribishop5409
    @omaribishop5409 4 роки тому +83

    I'm fighting with my habit of sexual sin. Although I'm young, I've been giving in to it all my life. It's at the point where I am tired of giving in to the sin, but when I try to push it away it just keeps coming back. Please pray for me

    • @mr.graves2867
      @mr.graves2867 4 роки тому +4

      I understand I'm fighting it too but know there's a man in Texas who was where you are and will be praying for you, you can get past this Jesus got me through it. God bless you and yours and know it will happen

    • @offthekirb
      @offthekirb  4 роки тому +8

      Please watch till the end I have a warning to young people (regarding seeds) as I feel most passionately that I want the young to stop while they are still young! - Joe

    • @jordant889
      @jordant889 4 роки тому +4

      @@offthekirb As a teenager who has had numerous struggles with lust, I really appreciate the messages you've been sharing. They've been a profound blessing to me :)

    • @haloed-hero
      @haloed-hero 4 роки тому +1

      Do not isolate yourself for too long, that's when the devil comes to play
      When you feel you're being tempted shut off the phone or computer immediately or go take a break gets some fresh air.
      Have to watch out for what you watching ask yourself what keeps leading me to watching porn and correct that. Start watching healthier things, like reading Bible

    • @Mighty18957
      @Mighty18957 4 роки тому +1

      I feel for me tossing the chains of lust and gambling and other sins off me was when I started to fear the lord, for it says the fear of the lord is the start of wisdom. I repented and recommitted my live to the lord. Seek the lord continuey for all is possible with are lord and savior Jesus. Praying for you

  • @jossingerextreme7802
    @jossingerextreme7802 3 роки тому +7

    Have been struggling lust since 14 years old , been praying to God to help me destroy this temptation . Praise God !!!!!

  • @jordannicolas9820
    @jordannicolas9820 4 роки тому +45

    Hey you!!!
    Ya you!!!
    God Bless you with many more years😁😊😉❤️🙏

    • @offthekirb
      @offthekirb  4 роки тому +9

      God is so gracious Jordan, Amen for giving us life! - Joe

    • @astra4536
      @astra4536 4 роки тому

      You too!

  • @maureentuohy9423
    @maureentuohy9423 4 роки тому +41

    Wise beyond your years young man! God Bless you.

  • @kojosenyo1160
    @kojosenyo1160 3 роки тому +11

    This message just ripped through my heart. You have blessed me through and through. If I should speak my testimony right now..... I'd have written volumes of novels.
    Thank God for preachers like you.
    May your ministry keep growing daily and may the hands of God continually remain you
    Amen 🙏🏿

  • @m3ow21
    @m3ow21 4 роки тому +46

    "Fasting is like a lawnmower" very well said

  • @roxtavinay
    @roxtavinay 4 роки тому +11

    The Idea of "Social Media Fasting" is Awesome ... Excited to try that 👍

  • @scotthoenig8953
    @scotthoenig8953 3 роки тому +16

    Preach on, Joe! You always point God's Children in the right Way. Your advice is truly inspiring. We all praise God for you and your ministry.

    • @AWoolySheep
      @AWoolySheep 3 роки тому

      Try GOD'S PROMISES - supreme victory, I tell you...
      Ezekiel 36:22-36
      22 “Therefore say to the house of Israel, ‘Thus says the Lord God, “It is not for your sake, O house of Israel, that I am about to act, but for My holy name, which you have profaned among the nations where you went. 23 I will vindicate the holiness of My great name which has been profaned among the nations, which you have profaned in their midst. Then the nations will know that I am the Lord,” declares the Lord God, “when I prove Myself holy among you in their sight. 24 For I will take you from the nations, gather you from all the lands and bring you into your own land. 25 Then I will sprinkle clean water on you, and you will be clean; I will cleanse you from all your filthiness and from all your idols. 26 Moreover, I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; and I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. 27 I will put My Spirit within you and cause you to walk in My statutes, and you will be careful to observe My ordinances. 28 You will live in the land that I gave to your forefathers; so you will be My people, and I will be your God. 29 Moreover, I will save you from all your uncleanness; and I will call for the grain and multiply it, and I will not bring a famine on you. 30 I will multiply the fruit of the tree and the produce of the field, so that you will not receive again the disgrace of famine among the nations. 31 Then you will remember your evil ways and your deeds that were not good, and you will loathe yourselves in your own sight for your iniquities and your abominations. 32 I am not doing this for your sake,” declares the Lord God, “let it be known to you. Be ashamed and confounded for your ways, O house of Israel!”
      33 ‘Thus says the Lord God, “On the day that I cleanse you from all your iniquities, I will cause the cities to be inhabited, and the waste places will be rebuilt. 34 The desolate land will be cultivated instead of being a desolation in the sight of everyone who passes by. 35 They will say, ‘This desolate land has become like the garden of Eden; and the waste, desolate and ruined cities are fortified and inhabited.’ 36 Then the nations that are left round about you will know that I, the Lord, have rebuilt the ruined places and planted that which was desolate; I, the Lord, have spoken and will do it.”

    • @Amir06023
      @Amir06023 2 роки тому

      Hi

  • @classic567
    @classic567 4 роки тому +40

    I was abt to commit it then I remembered the guilty feeling after doing it and that u cant let go of a sin if you love it

    • @haloed-hero
      @haloed-hero 4 роки тому +3

      Tht post guilty feeling I know it all 2 well let's me know it was wrong

    • @vanessalitton7795
      @vanessalitton7795 4 роки тому

      Doing good I’m proud of you

  • @arennayak1009
    @arennayak1009 4 роки тому +12

    brother I love your preaching so much , let the word of god reach to the corners of the world. Amen.

  • @lollipop7458
    @lollipop7458 3 роки тому +8

    You’re a great teacher, Joe. I feel blessed & that much more enriched in my faith after I watch your videos. I thank God for you, sir. May God continue to bless your ministry, U, & your family. And God bless everyone reading this as well. ❤️

  • @diagofernandes3514
    @diagofernandes3514 4 роки тому +24

    PRAYER FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO HAS SEXUAL SINS!!! Psalms 25:7:- “ Do not remember the sins of my youth or my transgressions: according to your steadfast love remember me, for your goodness' Sake, O lord! ”

  • @jimmyjames6712
    @jimmyjames6712 4 роки тому +159

    I married to over come sexual lust, but i got into even more sins of masturbation and porngrophy,because my wife wasn't into this sex thing. She said " she just felt sexually used by me" i loved her but things got out of hand of, because of sex! We used to argue a lot. She was later delivered and i was too delivered from lust. Now i can live without sex for months and im good. Please don't marry, because of lust, marry because of love and because its good for man to marry. Married people always make a good and strong spiritual team. Remember, thou shall not lust. Lust ( of anything) is demonic, please don't bring it in marriage, first get delivered from lust, then marry!

    • @Ifeomaaaa.a
      @Ifeomaaaa.a 4 роки тому

      Thank uu sir 🙏🏾! Have a bless day

    • @tinsaetesfaye3716
      @tinsaetesfaye3716 4 роки тому

      How do you get delivered? Can you explain that to me please?

    • @jnh2174
      @jnh2174 4 роки тому +8

      As a husband your wife causes you to sin if she withholds herself. Your wife is your as you are hers. Going months at a time is not being godly on her part. She needs to repent. The Bible says you can be apart for a short time when its agreed upon and only to give yourself wholly to say prayer.

    • @jimmyjames6712
      @jimmyjames6712 4 роки тому +5

      @ J Clint, we are good now. What i meant, is that im longer controlled by sexual lust but by love.

    • @jasonwilliams8321
      @jasonwilliams8321 4 роки тому

      Sounds like you married a frigid chick.

  • @jodeedugger7570
    @jodeedugger7570 3 роки тому +5

    I told my mom about your ministry and how much I like you and how soothing you are to me. 💜🙏👍

  • @benjaminfreeman8111
    @benjaminfreeman8111 4 роки тому +7

    "Lovers of pleasure, rather than lovers of God". I kept hearing this over and over...with His help I finally listened to His voice. It is still a struggle though especially when I lay down to sleep. Choose Him, talk to Him, He is there for us in the darkness.

  • @zel948
    @zel948 4 роки тому +39

    "The second look is fatal..."
    Thank God and thank you for this video, and your channel.

    • @offthekirb
      @offthekirb  4 роки тому +6

      Amen all glory to God! Without Him we can do nothing!

    • @g.williams2047
      @g.williams2047 3 роки тому +2

      The first look you can run. The second look will grab you in.

  • @paulhudson4254
    @paulhudson4254 3 роки тому +50

    Get over your “all or nothing” attitude. As you recover from “porn addiction” remember: relapse is part
    of recovery. Recovery is a “process not an event.” Notice you are beginning to fall less and less, take
    heart and focus on you progress not your failure! Prayer, Confession and Bible study! 🌺☦️🌺

    • @misstramaine1981
      @misstramaine1981 3 роки тому +1

      Amen! Thanks for that wisdom.

    • @davidm4566
      @davidm4566 3 роки тому +4

      All or nothing means to quit cold turkey. Get rid of all of the stash of magazines, videos, bookmarked sites, etc.
      You're right, though, that we will relapse. When it happens, repent immediately, get back up, and keep moving. And don't beat yourself up for stumbling!

    • @AWoolySheep
      @AWoolySheep 3 роки тому

      What I find I extremely important and by far most helpful nowadays is studying MUCH scripture. The word of God, after all, has the POWER to save.
      Try GOD'S PROMISES - supreme victory, I tell you...
      Ezekiel 36:22-36
      22 “Therefore say to the house of Israel, ‘Thus says the Lord God, “It is not for your sake, O house of Israel, that I am about to act, but for My holy name, which you have profaned among the nations where you went. 23 I will vindicate the holiness of My great name which has been profaned among the nations, which you have profaned in their midst. Then the nations will know that I am the Lord,” declares the Lord God, “when I prove Myself holy among you in their sight. 24 For I will take you from the nations, gather you from all the lands and bring you into your own land. 25 Then I will sprinkle clean water on you, and you will be clean; I will cleanse you from all your filthiness and from all your idols. 26 Moreover, I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; and I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. 27 I will put My Spirit within you and cause you to walk in My statutes, and you will be careful to observe My ordinances. 28 You will live in the land that I gave to your forefathers; so you will be My people, and I will be your God. 29 Moreover, I will save you from all your uncleanness; and I will call for the grain and multiply it, and I will not bring a famine on you. 30 I will multiply the fruit of the tree and the produce of the field, so that you will not receive again the disgrace of famine among the nations. 31 Then you will remember your evil ways and your deeds that were not good, and you will loathe yourselves in your own sight for your iniquities and your abominations. 32 I am not doing this for your sake,” declares the Lord God, “let it be known to you. Be ashamed and confounded for your ways, O house of Israel!”
      33 ‘Thus says the Lord God, “On the day that I cleanse you from all your iniquities, I will cause the cities to be inhabited, and the waste places will be rebuilt. 34 The desolate land will be cultivated instead of being a desolation in the sight of everyone who passes by. 35 They will say, ‘This desolate land has become like the garden of Eden; and the waste, desolate and ruined cities are fortified and inhabited.’ 36 Then the nations that are left round about you will know that I, the Lord, have rebuilt the ruined places and planted that which was desolate; I, the Lord, have spoken and will do it.”

    • @christopherkennawi9675
      @christopherkennawi9675 3 роки тому

      I need help I fall after a day or 2 im so ashamed 😞

    • @AWoolySheep
      @AWoolySheep 3 роки тому

      @@christopherkennawi9675 believe God! Trust in his name. Read Hesekiel 26! His power that resurrected Christ is great! Read God's word, it has the POWER TO SAVE!!

  • @lovelyjandi6257
    @lovelyjandi6257 4 роки тому +31

    God bless u all. Amen🙏💕.
    I'm a 21 year old virgin girl never been in any relationship and I thought I can watch filth on internet since I sometimes crave for. But anyway I love God so much and I will never give my life to wrong hands

    • @morningnight8390
      @morningnight8390 4 роки тому +4

      It's not worth it sister.

    • @lovelyjandi6257
      @lovelyjandi6257 4 роки тому +1

      @@morningnight8390 what is not worth it?? My faith?? Or my lust??
      Yes's I do know I make mistakes but I'm really sorry for them 🙏💕

    • @morningnight8390
      @morningnight8390 4 роки тому +2

      @@lovelyjandi6257 My message was incomplete. I support the idea of keeping your faith over your desire or lust. You are doing the right thing.

    • @lovelyjandi6257
      @lovelyjandi6257 4 роки тому +2

      @@morningnight8390 thanks my friend. God bless u . Amen🙏💕 stay safe plz. Take care. Much love

    • @dikvleesachterhoofd
      @dikvleesachterhoofd 4 роки тому +1

      Stay safe sister! Bless you too

  • @nenaalderete5696
    @nenaalderete5696 4 роки тому +8

    Thank you Yeshua for seeing me and my struggles. Thank you for being with me. Thank you for your mercy. Amen.
    Thank you for your videos 😊

  • @creationnbeauty
    @creationnbeauty 3 роки тому +5

    Joe I am struggling over years ...I am crying inside...I love your teaching, I want to work with you atleast one day...hope it will be done one day...

  • @stevenknapp2850
    @stevenknapp2850 4 роки тому +32

    Wow. Im married finally. I've struggled with addiction. I've been able to quit drugs. I still got a fowl mouth, but I've settled my anger depression and anxiety down. But porn im struggling with. I've thought about fasting and I thought I'd do it for three days lol. amazing that this video said fast for three days. God is definitely telling me to. God bless you and your ministry.

    • @allengeorge5364
      @allengeorge5364 3 роки тому

      samee idk why but the 3 day fast popped up in my mind somehow earlier

    • @suzannegriffiths4795
      @suzannegriffiths4795 3 роки тому

      Steven Knapp seek God. Fasting itself is nothing. It was knowing God, and giving our old ways to Him that opens up a healthy relationship with Him and others, and a new heart, clean spirit, and the ability to be led by the Spirit of God.
      Blessings!

  • @YeshuaIsTheTruth
    @YeshuaIsTheTruth 4 роки тому +58

    I'm 27, and this issue hasn't gone away in the 15 years since I started except when I was willing to submit myself fully to God. There was about a year when I wouldn't act if I was unsure or thought I might be tempted. I went without acting on my lust for nearly that whole year. I became prideful towards the end of the year and thought it was no longer an issue for me. That's when I fell and acted on my sin. I thought I had done so good or that I had been blessed so much, but that whole time I still had lust in my heart. It festered and grew. Then it manifested.
    Now I plan to fast. It says in the Bible that the Lord works a good work unto completion. It also says that some demons only come out through prayer and fasting. I don't think I am possessed (because no evil spirit can dwell in conjunction with the Spirit of the Lord, who lives in me), but I do think there is a stronghold on my mind.
    I've also been wearing Tzitzit (the tassles described in the book of Numbers). And when I look at them I do remember the commands of God, just like it says we will in Numbers 15:37-41. God bless. I'll be praying for lots of you, and I hope lots of you will pray for me too. We need to be unified in Christ.

  • @bobbiewhite1647
    @bobbiewhite1647 3 роки тому +2

    I have no wifi at home and no cellphone service.. I only use wifi at work to listen to this guys ministry, some music and other positive messages... god bless you all...

    • @ambrose9968
      @ambrose9968 3 роки тому +1

      God bless you too bobbie

    • @offthekirb
      @offthekirb  3 роки тому +1

      God bless you Bobbie this is so encouraging to hear!

  • @connorhalim6257
    @connorhalim6257 4 роки тому +11

    While watching this I got really tempted. I've been struggling with this for years.

  • @naom1720
    @naom1720 4 роки тому +150

    Im early. Yes.

  • @mackenziepeek9317
    @mackenziepeek9317 2 роки тому +3

    I've struggled with this for over a decade. and it's on beena short time since I stopped but it was through prayer and keeping this channel on all day. I put your videos on and listen to all of them. it keeps my mind on the gospel and on God which helps me stay on the path I'm trying to walk. I was baptized when I was 16 but I fell very far from God from for many years. I got so wrapped up in my pain I forgot the one that could truly heal it and Ive decide this past week enough is enough and I'm trying to get back on the path of God.

  • @theresatheresa7315
    @theresatheresa7315 3 роки тому +4

    Help us lord, to overcome sin, Amen.
    More grace to this ministry.

  • @lemohthepoet
    @lemohthepoet 4 роки тому +7

    I repeat this video many times . It's got a message. I know we are many of us

  • @BaC0n78
    @BaC0n78 3 роки тому +17

    I still have this issue for years. But this year I will have self control over my Sexual Urges. It controlled me in a bad way and I use for it for relief from my stress. But I should go to God to let go of my stress. Thank you for your messages.

  • @liltzone3251
    @liltzone3251 4 роки тому +14

    God thank you for bringing this as my recommended

  • @manasseh7
    @manasseh7 4 роки тому +55

    i need Joe as a neighbor !

    • @braedenrampersad70
      @braedenrampersad70 4 роки тому +2

      With prayer and taking steps in the right direction you can become like Joe, may God bless you

  • @richardbarry04553
    @richardbarry04553 11 місяців тому +3

    Thank you brother Joe. I think God has been ignoring my prayers because I was having so much trouble overcoming this sin. I was married for 13 years until my wife divorced me and I’ve been alone for almost four years now. Just memories alone prompt me to commit this sin - I don’t necessarily even need pornography. I’d love to have a new wife but the Lord hasn’t seen fit to send me anyone and I am in a terrible financial situation and can’t be a provider. I’m barely surviving. I am going through so much suffering and I’ve been praying to God for healing and help with my problems but I just keep going on like this. I’m making progress with the help of the Holy Spirit in overcoming this horrible sin. I’ve asked God to set me free of it. I hope the Lord will heal the pain issues that are still causing me so much trouble. Making it very hard to work. I need the Lord to bless my life and end this terrible loneliness.

  • @Pharaoh126
    @Pharaoh126 4 роки тому +4

    I've struggled deeply with this particular sin. A much needed video, has provided me encouragement and hope.

  • @tevvmusic
    @tevvmusic 4 роки тому +42

    It's been nearly 2 months since I've committed this sin. Unfortunately though, I still deal with lust and adultery in my heart. Extremely difficult to get rid of these images from my mind, even after 2 months!

    • @letsgoogaming1398
      @letsgoogaming1398 4 роки тому +1

      TevvMusic Just forget about all feelings about your wife and start to ask her questions despite her responses. My friend you need your wife to talk to and rid yourself of your feelings of adultery and lust. Just remember that you would not like someone to look at your child like that, so why should you look at someone else’s child like that? Your wife is everything and should be to you. Understand that others are more important than yourself when you seek refuge. Other can help you and prayer and GOD will deliver you from the evil one. Pray for yourself mate. Peace to you man 🙏🏻

    • @tevvmusic
      @tevvmusic 4 роки тому +1

      @@letsgoogaming1398 I don't have a wife.

    • @timowen2307
      @timowen2307 4 роки тому +2

      With the help of the holy spirit, You can do this brother! Trust in him.

    • @iamspartacus6713
      @iamspartacus6713 4 роки тому

      @@tevvmusic interesting as you have adulterous thoughts???

    • @tevvmusic
      @tevvmusic 4 роки тому

      @@iamspartacus6713 I've committed adultery in my heart if I looked at a woman with lust. It's in the beatitudes

  • @charlesjones4236
    @charlesjones4236 2 роки тому +2

    Thank u kind sir for your humility. God bless u

  • @captaincruchtime
    @captaincruchtime 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you so much for this video! This is a must watch for those struggling with sin and has fallen to temptation. God bless!