Gentlemen in the cream sweater was so grounded and took the time to fully understand and analysis each situation before jumping to conclusions love that ❤
What some of you might not notice is : Mothers sometimes gets jealous that there's someone can take care of their son and now his son wouldn't be focusing on her as much. its normal to feel that way and it's your job as a man,to decide at the end of the day,what's best for you. If you rely entirely on your mother's validation for your own future with another person,then you're not ready for marriage.
Exactly the trust should be set from the way they’ve raised you and should continue to speak and try give advice but at the end of the day it’s your own choice
@@Yimika777”religious mindset” isn’t letting your dad beat your poor mumsie every night. That’s sociopathic behaviour. Stop conflating religion with this shit. That’s why more and more people are leaving religion every day.
You guys ever had to grow up with no dad, a mum addicted to crack spending the money for food for little brother on crack. Its hard to treat her with a level of respect that you have never recieved. I grew up looking after my mum whilst she was a crack addict. Sorry if im rude to her
you don't have to be sorry for anything. Our parents are not god. They're humans. They're also living for the first time. They are realising and experiencing a lot of things for the first time ever. They make mistakes and when they continuously do it, that goes to show they don't care. A lot of parents become bad people. I'm sorry to everyone who has to deal with that trauma.
"Not to lift a finger"...If I truly had the money to never worry financially. My women wouldn't work but Financial stability is crucial for a man's mental health. So, if you can't retire your lady. As your women she has to take some load to help you which in return is helping her because you're in a good space
I feel like someone could mean the world to you, they could be a good judge of character, they might know you like the back of their hand, but you should never make a decision based off an opinion, an observation or a feeling. You should definitely listen and reflect , take in consideration what they are saying. But never make a decision based purely on someone’s pov of a person YOU chose just because you love them. We are not perfect we all make mistakes and misunderstand or misjudge at some point of our lives, we are not perfect. Because you love your family you should definitely take into account their perspective. But remember, YOU chose this person, YOU are investing your time on that relationship. At the end of the day is YOUR LIFE, YOUR DECISION. If there’s something I’ve learned in life is that someone might love you with all their heart, want and wish the best for you and still not know 100% what’s truly good for you.
Guys, can you do a session when you were not at your best and may have been challenging for your mothers/parents? Maybe those "teenage years" when you made unwise choices/decisions/actions which could have taken your life in a different direction and caused your parents grief, disagreements, and sleepless nights. Just would like to hear about your maturity journeys. Please keep the same 4 panellists
6:13 what a shit take 😂 it’s case by case leave it at that, no respect should be had for absent parents / abusive parents, It’s easy to say stuff like this but try live it 🤷♂️
Wallahi, I beg you get someone who ain’t successful like you man to talk about these subjects. Especially bout the disrespecting parents, you need to actually understand if your parents were together or even a part of your life. YOU were lucky
For those that dont know, i prove some verses from the quran signifying the importance to paraents: "Worship Allah and join none with Him in worship, and do good to parents," “Your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him, and do good to parents. If any one of them or both of them reach old age, do not say to them: uff (a word or expression of anger or contempt) and do not scold them, and address them with respectful
I would hate to have a husband who so easily just wants me to not work. I need someone to push me to be independent on my own so we are able to work dependently together.
If you're pushed to be independent, that's what you're going to become used to and as a result, it'll be harder for you to work "dependently together". That's the opposite of what you would want. In reality, you should be encouraged to become more dependent so if anything, both of you can work together as a team and if need be, you can become more reliant on him when the time calls for it, e.g. during pregnancy and raising up a child.
not tryna violate , but how did dem man meet harry pinero because if you do the maths when chunkz was in yr 7 harry was in yr 12 , so like i genuinely dont understand . but i wouldnt mind hearing out the story
This whole topic comes across as insincere coming from 2/3 of this group. Either keep pretending to be holier than thou religious virgins who have no contact with women and don't speak about these topics, or disclose what is going on in your love lives and speak openly. You can't play this middle-ground. As you can see from the lamentable views, people aren't buying it.
Darkest has always been my fave cos hes so funny but….hes lowkey husband material…his wife is very lucky🥲
Low-key???
Very high key....he seems very responsible
Defo darkest on 2 alt accs
😂@@suzyhollis6639
Allahumabarik
Agreed I used to think chunks was husband material but darkest wins for sure
“Im killing them” is crazyyy😭
Gentlemen in the cream sweater was so grounded and took the time to fully understand and analysis each situation before jumping to conclusions love that ❤
What some of you might not notice is : Mothers sometimes gets jealous that there's someone can take care of their son and now his son wouldn't be focusing on her as much.
its normal to feel that way and it's your job as a man,to decide at the end of the day,what's best for you.
If you rely entirely on your mother's validation for your own future with another person,then you're not ready for marriage.
Exactly the trust should be set from the way they’ve raised you and should continue to speak and try give advice but at the end of the day it’s your own choice
Darkest is fs a good husband ☝️standing by his wife and ignoring outside input bc it’s HIS relationship purrr
The way these men respect their parents is a green flag the way they talk about them is just something rare in today's world.
Bro this is golden man
You guys need to talk more about this
I truly am watching a long clip. This truly shows their chemistry
Love hearing guys this young so grounded and genuine about maturing in relationships ❤
When your dad has been abusive to your whole family, u fuckin stick up for youself and your family don’t give a fuck if it’s disrespectful
they’re religious… you don’t have a religious mindset
@@Yimika777”religious mindset” isn’t letting your dad beat your poor mumsie every night. That’s sociopathic behaviour. Stop conflating religion with this shit. That’s why more and more people are leaving religion every day.
Love Harry’s ability to bring another perspective, that shows compassion and understanding.
You guys ever had to grow up with no dad, a mum addicted to crack spending the money for food for little brother on crack. Its hard to treat her with a level of respect that you have never recieved. I grew up looking after my mum whilst she was a crack addict. Sorry if im rude to her
you don't have to be sorry for anything. Our parents are not god. They're humans. They're also living for the first time. They are realising and experiencing a lot of things for the first time ever. They make mistakes and when they continuously do it, that goes to show they don't care. A lot of parents become bad people. I'm sorry to everyone who has to deal with that trauma.
"Not to lift a finger"...If I truly had the money to never worry financially. My women wouldn't work but Financial stability is crucial for a man's mental health. So, if you can't retire your lady. As your women she has to take some load to help you which in return is helping her because you're in a good space
I love this content, bold and honest, I'm a lassie, helps me understand where men are coming from....so not all men are bad...
Im Christian but im impressed at how grounded yall are about Muslim..God and everythng religion thats commendable forever top salute
Loved this episode!! Keep these topics up 🤭🤭
I feel like someone could mean the world to you, they could be a good judge of character, they might know you like the back of their hand, but you should never make a decision based off an opinion, an observation or a feeling. You should definitely listen and reflect , take in consideration what they are saying. But never make a decision based purely on someone’s pov of a person YOU chose just because you love them. We are not perfect we all make mistakes and misunderstand or misjudge at some point of our lives, we are not perfect. Because you love your family you should definitely take into account their perspective. But remember, YOU chose this person, YOU are investing your time on that relationship. At the end of the day is YOUR LIFE, YOUR DECISION. If there’s something I’ve learned in life is that someone might love you with all their heart, want and wish the best for you and still not know 100% what’s truly good for you.
Best pod 🙏🏽 these red flags did take notes
this clip is dope! more red flags please🙏
Making me a better man through a podcast is crazy thanks guys
Keep it up ya going to go far ❤
holy smokes this ep banged
These guys are the best❤
Had to catch a glass of water too 🤣
U mean wa'er😂😂😂
Filly: "Where's that belt?"💪💉
Harry: "you lost it"😂
Filly : " sorry!"
😂😂😂
A mother’s discernment is strong!
Guys, can you do a session when you were not at your best and may have been challenging for your mothers/parents? Maybe those "teenage years" when you made unwise choices/decisions/actions which could have taken your life in a different direction and caused your parents grief, disagreements, and sleepless nights. Just would like to hear about your maturity journeys. Please keep the same 4 panellists
Nahhhh...... Happy spouse Happy House that goes for you Both .
Filly deffo smelt something bad loool
Filly spot on at 12:20
4 lovely classy Men! ❤
14:04 where can we find guys like thisss
2:06 no way Laurence works with them 😂
6:13 what a shit take 😂 it’s case by case leave it at that, no respect should be had for absent parents / abusive parents, It’s easy to say stuff like this but try live it 🤷♂️
I feel like she can look after me LMA0 💀💀💀💀💀
Wallahi, I beg you get someone who ain’t successful like you man to talk about these subjects.
Especially bout the disrespecting parents, you need to actually understand if your parents were together or even a part of your life.
YOU were lucky
12:05 - 12:30 Filly 👏🏽🫶🏽
Your parents sound like they’re everything to you so here’s a question, what do you think you would do without your parents?
Filly talking 👏
Nah hearing all this makes me rethink my 4 year relationship that just ended
Thought the playback speed was at 2x at some points 😂
For those that dont know, i prove some verses from the quran signifying the importance to paraents:
"Worship Allah and join none with Him in worship, and do good to parents,"
“Your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him, and do good to parents. If any one of them or both of them reach old age, do not say to them: uff (a word or expression of anger or contempt) and do not scold them, and address them with respectful
I would hate to have a husband who so easily just wants me to not work. I need someone to push me to be independent on my own so we are able to work dependently together.
nice input to the content!
If you're pushed to be independent, that's what you're going to become used to and as a result, it'll be harder for you to work "dependently together". That's the opposite of what you would want. In reality, you should be encouraged to become more dependent so if anything, both of you can work together as a team and if need be, you can become more reliant on him when the time calls for it, e.g. during pregnancy and raising up a child.
10:08 nobody saw the hand🤨
Social anxiety will do that to you, its super normal
I love their show but i would like to add every woman should have a work ethic so they know what hard work means
not tryna violate , but how did dem man meet harry pinero because if you do the maths when chunkz was in yr 7 harry was in yr 12 , so like i genuinely dont understand . but i wouldnt mind hearing out the story
Ohh my filly wife me already
Mumzy is always right 100%!
This whole topic comes across as insincere coming from 2/3 of this group. Either keep pretending to be holier than thou religious virgins who have no contact with women and don't speak about these topics, or disclose what is going on in your love lives and speak openly. You can't play this middle-ground. As you can see from the lamentable views, people aren't buying it.
Not that deep bro go outside
@@oliverj6280 Look up any words you didn't understand in the dictionary, pumpkin.
@@pneron2032 Yeah ur 45 no one says that💀 Go pay ur bills bro
@@oliverj6280 Of course I'm 45, chocolate buns. What an insight 🙄
@@pneron2032 Werid guy you
😂😂😂
🇵🇬,.,.
Biggest red flag is being butterz like Darkest