Silent Treatment or Disengagement by the Narcissist?

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  • Опубліковано 7 лют 2025
  • #hgtudor #narcissist #narcissism
    Has the narcissist disengaged from you or is "just" a silent treatment?
    Understand the use of the Present Silent Treatment, the Absent Silent Treatment and how to understand when it is not (or no longer) a silent treatment and is now disengagement.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 29

  • @fingerscrossed2453
    @fingerscrossed2453 Рік тому +5

    These people are sick - Tudor is the exception in that he makes videos about this topic which are helpful.

    • @martaparente
      @martaparente Рік тому +3

      Yes he makes videos but he acts like this to other people too - you get that? There aren’t any exceptions

  • @ava198
    @ava198 2 роки тому +18

    He is back! He can take us off the shelf now. Everyone freely fuel him please I hate being on the shelf. 💖🥰

  • @margaritagomez3490
    @margaritagomez3490 Рік тому +7

    The first silent treatment got me to google it and it brought me straight to a narcissist!!! I have been learning ever since. I’m on my 5th silent treatment. Each time a little longer. He just started coming around again. I keep it low fuel, and I keep it friendly. Cause I hear they can be really mean . I work with him so I really can’t get away. But keeping my distance……
    HG this is good to hear, I will be disengage 🤗👍. That’s my plan!!! He don’t know that I know. Even though I do care for him, I know it’s best for me.❤

  • @thanksamill
    @thanksamill 2 роки тому +12

    Welcome back.

    • @cyndigooch1162
      @cyndigooch1162 2 роки тому +2

      thanksamill He was giving his many followers the silent treatment again! 😉

  • @ImadeUlook
    @ImadeUlook 2 роки тому +6

    Just here in the comments to boost the algorithm ❤️🇿🇦

  • @ANGELSVEN
    @ANGELSVEN 2 роки тому +8

    "...comfort crumb..." 😆

  • @sylviekins
    @sylviekins 2 роки тому +13

    Not being involved with a narcissist myself, the silent treatment seems extremely childish. It is sad and surprising that it seems to work to provide fuel for some people.

    • @somethinggood9267
      @somethinggood9267 2 роки тому +1

      Why are you watching this video If you haven't been involved with the narcissist? Research?

  • @cybersal7
    @cybersal7 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for coming back!

  • @cyndigooch1162
    @cyndigooch1162 2 роки тому +2

    It's delightful to see you back again and I'd been wondering how you were finding time for certain people! I'm very aware that it's none of my business though. 😊

  • @PeacefulEmpire
    @PeacefulEmpire 2 роки тому +1

    好喜欢你,很真诚,遇到知己的感觉。要多幸运才能遇到这样的人。

  • @De_Bengels
    @De_Bengels 2 роки тому +6

    the last 2 times he yelled that he didn't want anything to do with me anymore..... great I told him you can leave me alone now....blocked me but unblocked me again ...but for me he is and remains blocked and I have been ignoring him completely for 5 months now

  • @Ilawsa
    @Ilawsa 2 роки тому +5

    One day he started an absent silent treatment to me i was so stressed especially that nothing bad happened between us i start texting him asking him whats wrong sometimes insulting sometimes crying until he finally responded after 10 days, and asked me to stop texting and calling him until he calls me by himself, and i didn't know what this mean bcs i know that they dont ask for that as they need fuel from our texting and pleading ! After watching this video i understand that his demand mean a disengagement.

  • @Lailat854
    @Lailat854 2 місяці тому

    Last time he gave me silent treatment for more than two years ago - and I understood that this silence has a name and there was something called covert narcissist- I went silent. Totally silent.
    Today I am still silent, except concerning grown up kids, in laws etc. but then only with few words then silent again.

  • @patriciaduarte7039
    @patriciaduarte7039 2 роки тому +1

    So contriving and malicious are the varying mannerisms and mechanisms of the narcissist. In this case using
    silent treatment and or disengagement. The latter being a means to an end of a sort.

  • @hollyhayes9640
    @hollyhayes9640 2 роки тому +5

    Disengagement. The Silent Treatment just allows them to think that they'll get back into your life at some point. I haven't talked to my "Mom" in 20 years (neither has my brother, though I don't know how long it's been since he last spoke to her). 🤔

  • @forensicfaithinprofiling
    @forensicfaithinprofiling 2 роки тому +5

    Hi HG.
    Thank you for all of your brilliant education.
    I rather enjoy my NC - GOSO.
    You've helped me avoid Hoover's, and triangulation.
    I even ignored the smear campaign and the flying cotery using your strategies.
    Silence is wonderful now, rather than those times when I was w exe narc dealing with those cold stares, and painful, silent days..
    I'd like to keep it that way.
    Silent.
    Disengaged.
    So may I ask about Hoovering, or 8f you can do a video regarding my question,....
    If the former IPPS was disengaged from, and met all 5 criteria of disengagement, (along w that strong NC/GOSO,) will we ever have to be concerned of exe narc hoovering years down the road?
    Thank you for your consideration in answering my question.
    Once I knew, I grew.
    I got out and stayed out following your strict guidelines of your Tudor Treatments.
    Thank you again.

  • @thomasbarnhouse3884
    @thomasbarnhouse3884 9 місяців тому +3

    They try it with me I just don’t say anything and couldn’t care less it gets them angry lol it’s funny

  • @StaceyLozano-fz1ul
    @StaceyLozano-fz1ul 3 місяці тому

    How disgusting and hateful, extremely selfish!!!!

  • @lesleyashton4950
    @lesleyashton4950 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you - it all makes sense now. 5 months on now from the discard that came completely out of nowhere for me, this was the last piece of the jigsaw I couldn’t get my head around. Ah the warped and cruel mind of a covert narcissist! Thank God I’m not allowed in there anymore. Just as he’s not allowed in my world of calm spirituality, kindness, love and fun. Long may it last. 🫶🏻

  • @jennyroy681
    @jennyroy681 2 роки тому +2

    🥂💕

  • @selmamilisic8000
    @selmamilisic8000 2 роки тому

    🙄😱scary