This was hard to watch. From her introduction, to interrupting the interviewer, and just not answering the questions… and she had a top education? I’m confused 😩
Ppl love to quote the scripture that says that women should submit to their husbands. They never read the next verse that says men should treat their wives like God treats the church. Both sides should show respect and loyalty. Marriage is not just one sided.
I AND MANY MEN HAVE MISSED ON SO MANY OPPORTUNITIES WITH THE CONTROL STUFF. WISDOM MUST RULE THE HOUSEHOLD. WHO's EVER IDEA MAKES THE MOST SENSE FOR THE HOUSEHOLD WILL RULE
I have been to Tanzania numerous times I started a business there, and my significant other is there. She is so easy to get along with. Nice guys are appreciated in Africa.
Well done, Mark. Appreciate the effort and remarks. What I understand is respect each other, as well as oneself in another's house. And appreciate the differences we all may bring to the table. Thanks.
@@SkhumbuzoMathabela-wq8ug I cannot marry out of my cultural even thought I said love is universal meaning it applies to anyone but my case is different because I know myself and it would be a disrespct and a shame to my great ancestors for me to marry the decendents of their coloninzer and mines to so again I say No I cannot and I will never marry a Pink man and besides am already marry to an Afrikan man born and grow up in Afrika
What's happening mark, good interview but seems like she's having a hard time staying on task with your Q's, she's all over the map, not sure if its a language problem or not, may be an english to Swahili translator would have made the difference for her to grasp your questions😊
It's a language thing, she is presenting as if speaking in swahili. That's why it's coming out weird and convoluted. But she's on point on what she's trying to say if you take time to hear her
She is wise. I believe around the 13 minute mark, what she was expressing was that men are expected to fend for themselves and look out for dangers and that in itself is a gift from God. That said, I believe that men understand they would be held accountable or that they are the first line of defence in a family if there's a robbery or have to pay the consequences therefore they naturally want to caution the family decisions. Great convo and interview folks..
Mark.. I was getting excited thinking that you had found that beautiful African Queen, until she proudly stated that she was engaged to a "Black" American man.. She's a very GOOD representation of a Tanzanian woman, a bit vocal but sweet, and homeboy better put a ring on that real quick and I hope the sister don't put anymore tats on that lovely body 😉
@@Unguja If you take into account where her mind is and that traditionally braids is not a problem. It is an invention of Africa then he might not mind those things.
@@cmartin5903 I’m a realist and I would say that if you ever here someone say a person mind before looks there lying. It’s always looks first and then the mind afterwards. I’m quite sure she failed the looks test first so Mark didn’t have to go for the mind test.
This is not a across the board. I know of AA women married to men from the continent. They married their wives for love, and attributes of a good wife and mother. One of those attributes wasn't being submissive to them. You see some men realize that if he dies, and she remarries, she will submit to the next husband and any children he leaves behind may not be well treated and she will submit and allow it.
She did a great job in this interview! I respect her opinion based on her experience. I will leave it at that due to each of us bring different experiences.
Iam ugandan but whenever anyone wanted to go anywhere in our family its not a problem but you need to communicate your mother or father or husband has to know where you are how long you gonna be there in case you are late in this modern world give a call
Bright and beautiful young lady. Im just old fashion and don’t like seeing tattoos on our young ladies. But that’s just my own personal issues. She’s obviously found a man that values her as is. Thats all that matters 🌹
Well observed😂, and the over exaduaration about international school while not speaking the English and normally those proper international school girls are not fast with the Afro American dudes 😅
She said her Mom passed away…she is paying respect to her mother by having a tattoo inscribed on her body“ R.I.P Mom”. What more greater love can someone show to their Mom than inscribing a permanent memorial to one’s mother on their body? R.I.P to your mother young lady.👍🏿🇺🇸
Some people here had a bad education. I am trying to read the comments, but I can't understand what most of the people are saying. During a 36-minute conversation, if you write a one word comment how will anyone know which part of the conversation is being referred to? There is something called a sentence which is the basic way to say something sensible. It would be interesting if we all comment in sentences and reference the part of the conversation we are talking about.
She is talking about specialization and areas of responsibility. This makes a lot of sense because no man is an island. That’s why the president has a administration. She is smarter than she looks.😂
Why can't a woman ♀️ be her own self in choices staying in her place and still let the MAnnnN DIFINANTLY lead and be head of household? A women is not to be abused or be disrespectful she leads as well in a woman ♀️ headdress in her place ..I believe you friend does not understand a women is not to be mistreated or manipulated living in fear ....Mr Mark let's laugh together🤦🏾🤷🏾 on this statement...🧐🤔💭 I Guess that's why I don't GOT A MAnnnN 😮😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💃🏽 HALLL'LA BLESSINGS TO you my friend from AFAR San Fernando Valley Tujunga California USA appreciate you sharing and seeing thru others eyes 👀
I really don't understand why demure would be a choice. Women should be respectful, but so should men. Both can be reserved. Neither has to act shy. She meant submit. Submission doesn't have to include bowing down. The problem with men looking for a submissive wife is what happens if you have children and you die? What is she remarries? Will she not be submissive to that husband. What if his decisions involve not properly caring for or abusing your children. Will she submit and allow it?
@@lindafannin-watts What I think people are talking about is manners. I think some men want women to be socially polite, knowing how to hold and express an opinion or a point of view without generating a "war" with your partner. This calls for subtle behaviour from both sides, we can't just say the woman has to be submissive. That word is crude and aggressive because if someone is told to be submissive, it is an order from one who is up on high to one who is lower. In this day and age things will get complicated if women must be inferior to a man. Some women are highly intelligent the same as some men. What do we say next, women should not be educated? Do you see where all this is going? I think what we should all learn is manners, how to be graceful and diplomatic socially and clearly being demure embodies a kind of subtle graceful behaviour which would move our society away from the rougher ghetto types we now have.
@@vicferrmat4492 I understand what you are stating. Unfortunately that is not what is being promoted on many channels. I am not saying Mark is promoting submission by women, but many men are. Some of these same men have fathered children they do not support. I just want our people to realize it's very dangerous to submit to anyone. Cults are led by men reading the Bible. Look at all the hundreds of people that starved themselves and their children to death in Kenya. Following a so called man of God. Did some of those include families where the wife submitted to the husband's decision? Our family destruction was engineered. Most women are respectful. The media promote those women and men that are not as role models for our youth. That is where our problem lies.
Hi Mark. I have been watching your UA-cam channel for quite some time now. I used to live in South Africa but have recently relocated back to my home country, Tanzania. I am currently residing in Dar-es-Salaam. I would like to meet up with you if it is possible. I am interested to meet some of your colleagues from the States too. I have a few things to discuss with you and anyone that might be interested from your circle of influence. Thanks.
The title should be that men should come to Africa for love because the women in Africa are raised right. She's explaining Biblical truth and natural law regarding how men and women should be, and the fact that men and women are different, and our differences should be embraced and appreciated for their complementary qualities as God ordained it to be. In Catholic terms, we say that men and women are equal in dignity but different in vocation. Sadly, Western culture has lost a sense of these wholesome values that are so essential to good family life and the health of a society. Men are to be the head of the household and the decision-makers, women the heart of the home and nurturing a good home life for the children. She's a beautiful woman with good values. Thank you both for a good & interesting discussion. Glory to Jesus Christ!
First of all are you referencing the King James VERSION of the Bible? Or other Bibles based on the King James VERSION. They added VERSION to the name for a reason. There were many versions that European Kings created. The King James version stuck because that was the version used when they started to conquer other countries. A true leader listens to the advice of those being led. It is the responsibility of those being led to know when the leader does not deserve to be followed. When you submit, you abdicate your responsibility not follow poor leadership.
@@lindafannin-watts No, I'm referring to the Bible from the King of kings. Not from an earthly king that's been accommodated from the sins of that king's predecessor so that he can divorce and "re-marry" in defiance of the Word of God.
The way she introduced herself, you can tell that she's not familiar with western culture and codes ( thats absolutely fine because she doesn't have to ,shes is from tz) . She gave so much information about her by stating how many there are etc which from western perspective when it comes to introducing oneself is unnecessary 😂. She could have talked about her name , place of birth, nationality and profession ,thats it. Who care whether she's from NOT from a rich family or NOT being from a rich family. But anyway, I like the interview. Im african living in North America I have to admit that western way of doing things has somehow destroy my way of seeing SOME of ways of handling things in Africa 😅 like introducing yourself
I have faith in us and i think we will get to the promise land because we survived against all they have done to us, no other race have suffered and humiliated like the black race.We had no therapy to overcome 500yrs of brutality and oppression and against the odds we still thrives but the battle is not over .To every poison, there is a antidote.The people of the sun cannot loose but sadly many will not make it so like in any battle there always be casualties and it happens in nature, the soldier ant or bee is prepared to sacrifice his life for the survival of the colony so be it.
How I knew these Americans will come up with that. You people repulses me. Just because she is not A black girl she is a brown girl you start saying shit like this to our Afro girls. Ooh get fuckeed man. She is brown and proud. Afro Tanzanian.
Let women be subject to their husbands, as to the Lord: 23 Because the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ is the head of the church. He is the saviour of his body. 24 Therefore as the church is subject to Christ, so also let the wives be to their husbands in all things. 25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ also loved the church, and delivered himself up for it:
@@MPFXT I speak from experience I don't quote what make-believe people say and that is so call Pauline speaking not your so called christ cuz your so call christ never put foot in a church if he exists he when to synagogue not a church cuz he is a Jew and these mzungu in Tanzania back to my comment these old goats being with these your men of childbearing age most of the mzungu woman are so old they finish having children they just want sex and the boys just want money and martial things but they must allow these young men to be free and go back to their villages and have their families but I don't see were this lawlessness and advantage taken is in your so called christ and his books so let's keep it real
Whats the difference? You say black to mean Africa. Derogatively demeaningly . Africa is different shades of Afro wooly hair browns. You also say "people who looks like you" black. Blacks all over the world. So you people keeps saying. As if everyone walks around saying they are black.
@@princessprincess7708 Let's play the mind game,since you like starting confusion! Ready,Set, Let's Go! Your turn! Sitting behind that keyboard in China!
All women speak in the language of emotions. I got a headache trying to follow this woman's answers. That's frustrating to men. Lady, get to the point! Anyway, thanks for the interview, Mark.
Mark you have to show me and African Male leader that can stand next to Mia Amor Motley, The Chinese are the Ones, replanting the desert of Ethiopia, the religious people have not a clue of what to do..We are wasting to much time on religion and it's views all that will do is forever divide us, just look and see who's rebuilding Pakistan,,, This women seems to be speaking from the point of view where women are now allowed to express themselves..
I agree with you about religion. I find that colonised people believe in providence. They are not rational, they think there is some omnipotent supreme being looking after them. It is not true because it does not work but they keep believing. In the modern world we are all a part of, the nations who have power are rational and they utilise science.
Even when using religion. People use the king James VERSION of the Bible, or Bibles written based on the King James version. The word version tells you it's altered. There were other versions that other European kings had created, but the King James was what was in force when they invaded other lands. Many books were removed. This women submission is ridiculous. There have been so many women in freedom struggles on the front lines, not at home just cooking and cleaning for their husbands
Brother mark can you be specific when you say foreign men; in case you are not aware we the bantu people are not marry outside our group; especially the mzungus( known as the heathens in the bible).
As a Ugandan 🇺🇬 teacher, I have taught many Tanzanian 🇹🇿 students here in Uganda. But I have never understood why so many Tanzanians don't speak good English. It's even obvious this lady who says she studied in an international school is still struggling with the English language 😊😮
The advantage Ugandans we have English has been taught before we even got independent. On top of that we got alot of good schools and very dedicated teachers.
Example. Mis Josey. And the duke Jackson with a ugandan . Both got a trash English. Come on now. Lol😂 So are the Kenyans . Only Auston has a girlfriend from Rwanda with good English
@@princessprincess7708 Are you sure ? Who educated both presidents of Kenya and Uganda. One wrote the constitution of Kenya and the other one is called your founding father. Ask Rwanda where everyone wants to go, we taught kagame how to tie his shoes. More congo too we educated their president. That is a lot not to bitch about it.
Mark I know your married to a Tanzania lady I’ve been watching a listening to you lol you divorced your wife in Las Vegas and headed to the mother land good for you my bro do u!!!
How did her father raise them when her mother passed. I'm in my 60's raised by two parents from the country (rural area) in the US. My parents raised their children to be strong. They did not raise their daughters to submit to men, or their sons to submit to women. My parents worked as a team. My father did not expect submission. He was strong enough to stand on his own strength. My parents saw us all as intelligent and expected us all to behave that way. We were raised to believe that a husband and wife to work as partners. As far as some of the other things she stated about the women's behavior. I have worked in the Information Technology field for over 30 years. Over ninety percent of that time, I was the only women on the team. I worked with men of different races, from different countries. Men can gossip, be just a petty, whine about the slightest issue, create as much nonsense and drama as women. I've observed it in my over 30 years of work. I, the woman, has been the voice of reason on many occasions. The idea that women are the ones causing the most drama is absolutely a LIE. It's on both sides. There were just as many problems while working in an all-male environment as with working with other women, and sometimes more. If men were so rational and wise the world wouldn't be in the condition that it's in. After all its led by men. There is a balance. God gave both genders the ability to reason and intelligence for a reason. We are meant to provide balance to each other in the areas where we are different. Not for one side to submit to the decisions of the other. Just like there are women that are foolish and who's decisions can negatively impact the family, there are men that are foolish who's decisions can negative impact the family.
She's a Godly woman; Let women be subject to their husbands, as to the Lord: 23 Because the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ is the head of the church. He is the saviour of his body. 24 Therefore as the church is subject to Christ, so also let the wives be to their husbands in all things. 25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ also loved the church, and delivered himself up for it.
@@MPFXTAm sure if the Husband is mature, responsible, Respectful living nd Caring there would be no issue although to be fair both men nd women hv their strengths nd weaknesses guess it works when they compliment eachother on their weaknesses nd strengths working as a Team.
@@MPFXT You do not know if she is Godly. Even ministers that turn out to be pedophiles quite Bible verses. Just because she thinks (says) wives should submit to their husbands you say she's Godly when you know nothing about her. 😂 You don't even know if she was speaking of her free will since her husband was standing by off camera. You don't know what truly goes on in their home behind closed doors. But let's get to this Bible you are quoting. Please tell me what VERSION that is. And I stress the word VERSION. Are you translating from the original non-English text? Are you using a Bible that did not have any of the books removed? Are you using your discernment when translating and understanding, or are you just accepting what Europeans told you the passage meant? Do you believe in "Slave obey your master"? Should we have remained slaves and just obeyed like they told us on the plantation? There are many books in the Bible. There were also books removed by European Kings that created their version of the Bible, took it around the world and dictated the meaning to people. And here we are hundreds of years later quoting the same book with the same interpretations. This is not a Godly word. I know of many husbands that have taken diseases back to their devoted wives. I know of many husbands that have beat and tortured their devoted wives, and their children. I know of many husbands that have squandered money on alcohol, prostitutes, and other foolish things and didn't provide the essentials of day to day life for his wife and children. No one should blindly follow anyone. God gave men and women equal brain capacity for a reason. A wife is equally responsible for her children. She is responsible for being able to discern if that husband is fit to lead. God loves his children. He doesn't doom them to submit and be led by a fool. A man isn't fit to lead a family just because he is a man.
Check out the tribe in Ethiopia tatoes are done by a blade they have pierced their lips a massive stretched bottom lip. Africa tribes used to wear tattoos before even the western.
I was a little surprised too. Those are not cultural tattoos. I was also surprised by the spaghetti string top with what looks like bra straps showing. I'm not judging her or saying it's good or bad. I was just surprised based on what I'm always reading about the conservative dress in Tanzania, especially in the smaller cities. She did say she was raised in a smaller city. Again, not judging, just a little surprised.
Yes, especially if you are marriage minded, and are interested in being submissive. If you want to be a boss chick, just stay in the west, have pookies babies and buy a dog. Because quality men in the west not marrying you.
What is she going on about? She is not answering the questions being asked and is just rambling all through. From the way she articulates, she clearly did not go to an international school in Tanzania.
She means one of those schools that uses "English" as a medium of instruction and private paying school that been defining themselves as "international" but are not really. There are some real international school but are prohibitive in fee to the average middle class to afford
But what she said is very correct, she was only presenting as if she is conversing in Swahili that is why it was not clear what she's on about. But if you take time, you will understand she was making good points
@@BongoZaidi No, what she said is not correct. She comes across to me as parochial and naive especially when it comes to the men/women relationship dynamics. She is not exposed enough.
@@R33Polol that as well. But the society she's from is pretty parochial hehe if the term is correct or is fitting the environment. It might sound naive from where you are from, but works for where she is, and believe me, they are far from naive, I live here and can attest
@@patriciastricklen6372 never tell me what to do in my continent. And am As no anything. I dont speak like you backward people As a black As a black As a this. And that . That is not English. But wait. You are slllaves so they did nor give you proper education. You take so much drrrugs you think everyone is a skunnk
@@patriciastricklen6372 I never touched drugs in my life . I GOT NO IDEA WHY YOU WOULD SAY AM A Skunk. AND DONT EVER TELL ME WHAT TO DO IN MY OWN CONTINENT. YOU ARE A FOREIGNER SO STFUP. DRUGS IS SOMETHING YOU DOIN YOUR COUNTRY USA
Does anyone else find this word 'submissive' cringing. And annoying? You submit to God your God Almighty. Not a human being. Is there another word to replace this " submissive" vomicious word the way it is being used.
No that's exactly what she means. If you recall in the conversation about men being better at certain things, and women being the source or cause of issues.
Let women be subject to their husbands, as to the Lord: 23 Because the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ is the head of the church. He is the saviour of his body. 24 Therefore as the church is subject to Christ, so also let the wives be to their husbands in all things. 25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ also loved the church, and delivered himself up for it:
@@princessprincess7708 Are you sure you want to keep your comment as is? On judgment day - you'll have to answer to the fact that you're shaking your head and criticizing the Word of God, accusing the Word of God.
This was hard to watch. From her introduction, to interrupting the interviewer, and just not answering the questions… and she had a top education? I’m confused 😩
Ppl love to quote the scripture that says that women should submit to their husbands. They never read the next verse that says men should treat their wives like God treats the church. Both sides should show respect and loyalty. Marriage is not just one sided.
Like God treat’s the church???? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ppl also to hear what they want to hear, she did explain that both sides must show mutual respect and loyalty🙄
I AND MANY MEN HAVE MISSED ON SO MANY OPPORTUNITIES WITH THE CONTROL STUFF. WISDOM MUST RULE THE HOUSEHOLD. WHO's EVER IDEA MAKES THE MOST SENSE FOR THE HOUSEHOLD WILL RULE
The relationship dynamics she describes is generally true for most of Africa. Can’t think of any African country where this doesn’t apply 🇳🇬
As an Nigerian, I'm happy for The African American brother who found this God-fearing beautiful African princess.
@RobertsDigital that's not his woman.
Which black women ,.?ain’t their black women in African already 😮🤷🏽♀️ this question don’t make sense just me
So many negative comments. I enjoyed hearing what she said. She is talking about respect.
I have been to Tanzania numerous times I started a business there, and my significant other is there. She is so easy to get along with. Nice guys are appreciated in Africa.
I’m lost 💁🏻♀️
Well done, Mark. Appreciate the effort and remarks. What I understand is respect each other, as well as oneself in another's house. And appreciate the differences we all may bring to the table.
Thanks.
Good show and loved your content Mark!
Love is universal
One never knows where love will find them ❤
Would you marry a white man?
@@SkhumbuzoMathabela-wq8ug I cannot marry out of my cultural even thought I said love is universal meaning it applies to anyone but my case is different because I know myself and it would be a disrespct and a shame to my great ancestors for me to marry the decendents of their coloninzer and mines to so again I say No I cannot and I will never marry a Pink man and besides am already marry to an Afrikan man born and grow up in Afrika
What's happening mark, good interview but seems like she's having a hard time staying on task with your Q's, she's all over the map, not sure if its a language problem or not, may be an english to Swahili translator would have made the difference for her to grasp your questions😊
It's a language thing, she is presenting as if speaking in swahili. That's why it's coming out weird and convoluted. But she's on point on what she's trying to say if you take time to hear her
@@BongoZaidi💯 and here Mark demonstrates that he is a good listener and patient . 👌🏽 matched emotional intelligence.
She is wise. I believe around the 13 minute mark, what she was expressing was that men are expected to fend for themselves and look out for dangers and that in itself is a gift from God. That said, I believe that men understand they would be held accountable or that they are the first line of defence in a family if there's a robbery or have to pay the consequences therefore they naturally want to caution the family decisions. Great convo and interview folks..
Well said.
Mark.. I was getting excited thinking that you had found that beautiful African Queen, until she proudly stated that she was engaged to a "Black" American man.. She's a very GOOD representation of a Tanzanian woman, a bit vocal but sweet, and homeboy better put a ring on that real quick and I hope the sister don't put anymore tats on that lovely body 😉
@@princessprincess7708 Your point and elaborate if you will.
Tats and fake hair are an instant turn off why would you want Mark to marry that.
@@Unguja If you take into account where her mind is and that traditionally braids is not a problem. It is an invention of Africa then he might not mind those things.
@@cmartin5903 I’m a realist and I would say that if you ever here someone say a person mind before looks there lying. It’s always looks first and then the mind afterwards. I’m quite sure she failed the looks test first so Mark didn’t have to go for the mind test.
I enjoyed the conversation💜
Awesome interview, lots of good info learned. Western women looking to date an African man better be prepared to submit.
This is not a across the board. I know of AA women married to men from the continent. They married their wives for love, and attributes of a good wife and mother. One of those attributes wasn't being submissive to them. You see some men realize that if he dies, and she remarries, she will submit to the next husband and any children he leaves behind may not be well treated and she will submit and allow it.
I submitted 🔫 please stop bull,🔩🤨
Very humble ✊🏾🌍& blessed people
She's speaking truth ♥
She did a great job in this interview! I respect her opinion based on her experience. I will leave it at that due to each of us bring different experiences.
Yeah i agree with you
What do you disagree to ?
@@TheAKD56 who is this question for sir? I never stated I disagree if you read my comment.
Bless her heart.
I like this girl. I think there’s a lot to what she’s saying. She should have her own UA-cam channel.
THANKS MARK!!!
i couldnt understand the responses at all😔
Iam ugandan but whenever anyone wanted to go anywhere in our family its not a problem but you need to communicate your mother or father or husband has to know where you are how long you gonna be there in case you are late in this modern world give a call
Bright and beautiful young lady. Im just old fashion and don’t like seeing tattoos on our young ladies. But that’s just my own personal issues. She’s obviously found a man that values her as is. Thats all that matters 🌹
Tattoos on women are huge red flags, unless it's tribal cultural tattoos, but the tattoos on this young woman seem very westernised and misguided.
Well observed😂, and the over exaduaration about international school while not speaking the English and normally those proper international school girls are not fast with the Afro American dudes 😅
I mean one of the tattoos clearly says "R.i.p. Mom". What's wrong with that?
@@oz-zyok. you zoomed in and read the tattooz
She said her Mom passed away…she is paying respect to her mother by having a tattoo inscribed on her body“ R.I.P Mom”.
What more greater love can someone show to their Mom than inscribing a permanent memorial to one’s mother on their body? R.I.P to your mother young lady.👍🏿🇺🇸
You too primitive
Mark, just be careful and take care of yourself. You are a very intelligent young man.
Some people here had a bad education. I am trying to read the comments, but I can't understand what most of the people are saying. During a 36-minute conversation, if you write a one word comment how will anyone know which part of the conversation is being referred to?
There is something called a sentence which is the basic way to say something sensible. It would be interesting if we all comment in sentences and reference the part of the conversation we are talking about.
Huh?
X u proffessor
Okay.
Awesome vlog today 👊🏿👊🏿👊🏿
i love this topic kaka Mark, Wish we Retalk about this, i can provide straight info about this topic. #Moses
This is all good but respect goes both ways.
Great information!
For someone who is more advance in education than some people she sure is not making much sense or maybe there is a lack of understanding
She is talking about specialization and areas of responsibility. This makes a lot of sense because no man is an island. That’s why the president has a administration. She is smarter than she looks.😂
I love my Tanzanian man so caring, thoughtful, sensitive to my needs, understanding ,helpful, charming , loving and SWEET
Why can't a woman ♀️ be her own self in choices staying in her place and still let the MAnnnN DIFINANTLY lead and be head of household? A women is not to be abused or be disrespectful she leads as well in a woman ♀️ headdress in her place ..I believe you friend does not understand a women is not to be mistreated or manipulated living in fear ....Mr Mark let's laugh together🤦🏾🤷🏾 on this statement...🧐🤔💭 I Guess that's why I don't GOT A MAnnnN 😮😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💃🏽 HALLL'LA BLESSINGS TO you my friend from AFAR San Fernando Valley Tujunga California USA appreciate you sharing and seeing thru others eyes 👀
Hi Mark "submissive" is the wrong word. I think a more accurate word is "demure".
Women who are demure are attractive.
I really don't understand why demure would be a choice. Women should be respectful, but so should men. Both can be reserved. Neither has to act shy. She meant submit. Submission doesn't have to include bowing down. The problem with men looking for a submissive wife is what happens if you have children and you die? What is she remarries? Will she not be submissive to that husband. What if his decisions involve not properly caring for or abusing your children. Will she submit and allow it?
@@lindafannin-watts What I think people are talking about is manners. I think some men want women to be socially polite, knowing how to hold and express an opinion or a point of view without generating a "war" with your partner. This calls for subtle behaviour from both sides, we can't just say the woman has to be submissive. That word is crude and aggressive because if someone is told to be submissive, it is an order from one who is up on high to one who is lower. In this day and age things will get complicated if women must be inferior to a man. Some women are highly intelligent the same as some men. What do we say next, women should not be educated? Do you see where all this is going?
I think what we should all learn is manners, how to be graceful and diplomatic socially and clearly being demure embodies a kind of subtle graceful behaviour which would move our society away from the rougher ghetto types we now have.
@@vicferrmat4492 I understand what you are stating. Unfortunately that is not what is being promoted on many channels. I am not saying Mark is promoting submission by women, but many men are. Some of these same men have fathered children they do not support. I just want our people to realize it's very dangerous to submit to anyone. Cults are led by men reading the Bible. Look at all the hundreds of people that starved themselves and their children to death in Kenya. Following a so called man of God. Did some of those include families where the wife submitted to the husband's decision?
Our family destruction was engineered. Most women are respectful. The media promote those women and men that are not as role models for our youth. That is where our problem lies.
Absolutely 👍🏾
Sure! If they are willing to do the work.
Hi Mark. I have been watching your UA-cam channel for quite some time now. I used to live in South Africa but have recently relocated back to my home country, Tanzania. I am currently residing in Dar-es-Salaam. I would like to meet up with you if it is possible. I am interested to meet some of your colleagues from the States too. I have a few things to discuss with you and anyone that might be interested from your circle of influence. Thanks.
The title should be that men should come to Africa for love because the women in Africa are raised right. She's explaining Biblical truth and natural law regarding how men and women should be, and the fact that men and women are different, and our differences should be embraced and appreciated for their complementary qualities as God ordained it to be. In Catholic terms, we say that men and women are equal in dignity but different in vocation. Sadly, Western culture has lost a sense of these wholesome values that are so essential to good family life and the health of a society. Men are to be the head of the household and the decision-makers, women the heart of the home and nurturing a good home life for the children. She's a beautiful woman with good values. Thank you both for a good & interesting discussion. Glory to Jesus Christ!
First of all are you referencing the King James VERSION of the Bible? Or other Bibles based on the King James VERSION. They added VERSION to the name for a reason. There were many versions that European Kings created. The King James version stuck because that was the version used when they started to conquer other countries.
A true leader listens to the advice of those being led. It is the responsibility of those being led to know when the leader does not deserve to be followed. When you submit, you abdicate your responsibility not follow poor leadership.
@@lindafannin-watts No, I'm referring to the Bible from the King of kings. Not from an earthly king that's been accommodated from the sins of that king's predecessor so that he can divorce and "re-marry" in defiance of the Word of God.
@@lindafannin-watts I submit to God and His, One, True Church, and I don't submit to ANY form of racism, historic or theological falsity.
@@lindafannin-wattsTruth right there.
@MPFXT So if u Yr husband is violent, constant cheating, selfish etc are women meant to be submissive t such a man.
The way she introduced herself, you can tell that she's not familiar with western culture and codes ( thats absolutely fine because she doesn't have to ,shes is from tz) .
She gave so much information about her by stating how many there are etc which from western perspective when it comes to introducing oneself is unnecessary 😂. She could have talked about her name , place of birth, nationality and profession ,thats it. Who care whether she's from NOT from a rich family or NOT being from a rich family.
But anyway, I like the interview. Im african living in North America I have to admit that western way of doing things has somehow destroy my way of seeing SOME of ways of handling things in Africa 😅 like introducing yourself
I have faith in us and i think we will get to the promise land because we survived against all they have done to us, no other race have suffered and humiliated like the black race.We had no therapy to overcome 500yrs of brutality and oppression and against the odds we still thrives but the battle is not over .To every poison, there is a antidote.The people of the sun cannot loose but sadly many will not make it so like in any battle there always be casualties and it happens in nature, the soldier ant or bee is prepared to sacrifice his life for the survival of the colony so be it.
Put your faith in God, the Creator of us all!
She is very knowledgeable and makes sense some of you just not trying to listen to understand
YESSSSS!!!!!!
Very interesting topic.
She favors you Mark.
Yes
Oh wow I would fall in love with this girl but her bleached skin is something else.. to specify I wouldn’t share ugali with her.☹️
How I knew these Americans will come up with that.
You people repulses me.
Just because she is not A black girl she is a brown girl you start saying shit like this to our Afro girls.
Ooh get fuckeed man.
She is brown and proud. Afro Tanzanian.
Point of correction
The mzungu women are not submissive to the Tanzania maaci men its the other way around
Different strokes for different fokes
Let women be subject to their husbands, as to the Lord: 23 Because the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ is the head of the church. He is the saviour of his body. 24 Therefore as the church is subject to Christ, so also let the wives be to their husbands in all things. 25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ also loved the church, and delivered himself up for it:
@@MPFXT I speak from experience I don't quote what make-believe people say and that is so call Pauline speaking not your so called christ cuz your so call christ never put foot in a church if he exists he when to synagogue not a church cuz he is a Jew
and these mzungu in Tanzania back to my comment these old goats being with these your men of childbearing age most of the mzungu woman are so old they finish having children they just want sex and the boys just want money and martial things but they must allow these young men to be free and go back to their villages and have their families but I don't see were this lawlessness and advantage taken is in your so called christ and his books so let's keep it real
Stop talking about ABWs. Start talking about African women more. Great video.
Whats the difference?
You say black to mean Africa. Derogatively demeaningly .
Africa is different shades of Afro wooly hair browns.
You also say "people who looks like you" black. Blacks all over the world. So you people keeps saying. As if everyone walks around saying they are black.
@@princessprincess7708Your babies are Black skunks with a Chinese stripe down it's back,so what's the problem ??
@@princessprincess7708 Let's play the mind game,since you like starting confusion! Ready,Set, Let's Go! Your turn! Sitting behind that keyboard in China!
She has freckles so she didn’t bleach her skin. And she also looks like she was always light skin.
Who goes on top and what goes where. I’m surrounded by idiots.
#StuffOver40’slike
All women speak in the language of emotions. I got a headache trying to follow this woman's answers. That's frustrating to men. Lady, get to the point! Anyway, thanks for the interview, Mark.
ok I was trying to figure her out
she's got to be an introvert..we travel to Mars and back to say "Johnny went to the store"😅😅😅
Bla bla bla car…
I like their teeth and lips.. Black Men.
Amen to all men are the same.❤
Mark how do you deal with all of those mosquitoes in Tanzania? They were eating me alive, I couldn't take it .
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I stopped noticing so much after some time but some areas are worst than others
@@markmeetsafrica Peppermint oil is a natural mosquito repellent. Greetings from Minnesota USA.
She isnt talking in a straight line. Its frustrating me.
Mark you have to show me and African Male leader that can stand next to Mia Amor Motley, The Chinese are the Ones, replanting the desert of Ethiopia, the religious people have not a clue of what to do..We are wasting to much time on religion and it's views all that will do is forever divide us, just look and see who's rebuilding Pakistan,,, This women seems to be speaking from the point of view where women are now allowed to express themselves..
I agree with you about religion. I find that colonised people believe in providence. They are not rational, they think there is some omnipotent supreme being looking after them. It is not true because it does not work but they keep believing.
In the modern world we are all a part of, the nations who have power are rational and they utilise science.
Even when using religion. People use the king James VERSION of the Bible, or Bibles written based on the King James version. The word version tells you it's altered. There were other versions that other European kings had created, but the King James was what was in force when they invaded other lands. Many books were removed. This women submission is ridiculous. There have been so many women in freedom struggles on the front lines, not at home just cooking and cleaning for their husbands
@@lindafannin-watts That's what I'm talking about.. ridiculous..
Brother mark can you be specific when you say foreign men; in case you are not aware we the bantu people are not marry outside our group; especially the mzungus( known as the heathens in the bible).
Well..no babymamas
And you really think there are no Tanzanian men that have abandoned their children?
@@lindafannin-wattsAgain... no baby mamas.
I think she interrupts often, while Mark never did. Not very submissive in my AA opinion. Very aggressive and surprisingly tatted up.
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Calm Down
@@HughJass-313 I am calm, and I don't need to be schooled by a young lady from a different culture.
@@elevenfiftynine
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She's talking about _HER_ Culture.
Don't be so INSECURE.
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@@HughJass-313 Mark specifically asked what she could advise AA women about dating a Tanzanian gentleman.
@@elevenfiftynine no his tittle say black women
As a Ugandan 🇺🇬 teacher, I have taught many Tanzanian 🇹🇿 students here in Uganda. But I have never understood why so many Tanzanians don't speak good English. It's even obvious this lady who says she studied in an international school is still struggling with the English language 😊😮
The advantage Ugandans we have English has been taught before we even got independent. On top of that we got alot of good schools and very dedicated teachers.
Hahaa. Get out of here. We hear a lot of Ugandans on these platforms they are No better at all😂
Example. Mis Josey.
And the duke Jackson with a ugandan . Both got a trash English.
Come on now. Lol😂
So are the Kenyans .
Only Auston has a girlfriend from Rwanda with good English
@@princessprincess7708 Are you sure ? Who educated both presidents of Kenya and Uganda. One wrote the constitution of Kenya and the other one is called your founding father. Ask Rwanda where everyone wants to go, we taught kagame how to tie his shoes. More congo too we educated their president. That is a lot not to bitch about it.
Tanzanians speak Portuguese 🤷🏽♂️
Black magik in the eriaa.
She is brown . She knows her colour is brown. Unlike you people. Brown magic.
Mark I know your married to a Tanzania lady I’ve been watching a listening to you lol you divorced your wife in Las Vegas and headed to the mother land good for you my bro do u!!!
Considering he moved there at the age of 19, if he was married before, THEY probably married too soon, and weren't properly prepared for married life.
I wish they WOULD. Good riddance!
How did her father raise them when her mother passed. I'm in my 60's raised by two parents from the country (rural area) in the US. My parents raised their children to be strong. They did not raise their daughters to submit to men, or their sons to submit to women. My parents worked as a team. My father did not expect submission. He was strong enough to stand on his own strength. My parents saw us all as intelligent and expected us all to behave that way. We were raised to believe that a husband and wife to work as partners. As far as some of the other things she stated about the women's behavior. I have worked in the Information Technology field for over 30 years. Over ninety percent of that time, I was the only women on the team. I worked with men of different races, from different countries. Men can gossip, be just a petty, whine about the slightest issue, create as much nonsense and drama as women. I've observed it in my over 30 years of work. I, the woman, has been the voice of reason on many occasions. The idea that women are the ones causing the most drama is absolutely a LIE. It's on both sides. There were just as many problems while working in an all-male environment as with working with other women, and sometimes more. If men were so rational and wise the world wouldn't be in the condition that it's in. After all its led by men. There is a balance. God gave both genders the ability to reason and intelligence for a reason. We are meant to provide balance to each other in the areas where we are different. Not for one side to submit to the decisions of the other. Just like there are women that are foolish and who's decisions can negatively impact the family, there are men that are foolish who's decisions can negative impact the family.
She's a Godly woman;
Let women be subject to their husbands, as to the Lord: 23 Because the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ is the head of the church. He is the saviour of his body. 24 Therefore as the church is subject to Christ, so also let the wives be to their husbands in all things. 25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ also loved the church, and delivered himself up for it.
Truth right there. I AGREE
@@MPFXTAm sure if the Husband is mature, responsible, Respectful living nd Caring there would be no issue although to be fair both men nd women hv their strengths nd weaknesses guess it works when they compliment eachother on their weaknesses nd strengths working as a Team.
@@MPFXT You do not know if she is Godly. Even ministers that turn out to be pedophiles quite Bible verses. Just because she thinks (says) wives should submit to their husbands you say she's Godly when you know nothing about her. 😂
You don't even know if she was speaking of her free will since her husband was standing by off camera. You don't know what truly goes on in their home behind closed doors.
But let's get to this Bible you are quoting. Please tell me what VERSION that is. And I stress the word VERSION. Are you translating from the original non-English text? Are you using a Bible that did not have any of the books removed? Are you using your discernment when translating and understanding, or are you just accepting what Europeans told you the passage meant?
Do you believe in "Slave obey your master"? Should we have remained slaves and just obeyed like they told us on the plantation?
There are many books in the Bible. There were also books removed by European Kings that created their version of the Bible, took it around the world and dictated the meaning to people. And here we are hundreds of years later quoting the same book with the same interpretations.
This is not a Godly word. I know of many husbands that have taken diseases back to their devoted wives. I know of many husbands that have beat and tortured their devoted wives, and their children. I know of many husbands that have squandered money on alcohol, prostitutes, and other foolish things and didn't provide the essentials of day to day life for his wife and children.
No one should blindly follow anyone. God gave men and women equal brain capacity for a reason. A wife is equally responsible for her children. She is responsible for being able to discern if that husband is fit to lead. God loves his children. He doesn't doom them to submit and be led by a fool. A man isn't fit to lead a family just because he is a man.
He didn't rise them , most men put their children other women family members 🙄
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Why not
This woman is not making sense.
I miss miss cate. Mrs cate
You guys look like siblings
Black man worching the show .no Black no life, if found witheut Black shadow should be killed
Are there a lot of women on the continent with tattoos?
In Kenya yes!!
It's a very new trend due to Instagram.
I would say no I visited Tanzania Ausha never did see anyone with tattoos I went to zanzibar for 3 months didn't see anyone there with tattoos either
Check out the tribe in Ethiopia tatoes are done by a blade they have pierced their lips a massive stretched bottom lip.
Africa tribes used to wear tattoos before even the western.
I was a little surprised too. Those are not cultural tattoos. I was also surprised by the spaghetti string top with what looks like bra straps showing. I'm not judging her or saying it's good or bad. I was just surprised based on what I'm always reading about the conservative dress in Tanzania, especially in the smaller cities. She did say she was raised in a smaller city. Again, not judging, just a little surprised.
No
Yes, especially if you are marriage minded, and are interested in being submissive. If you want to be a boss chick, just stay in the west, have pookies babies and buy a dog. Because quality men in the west not marrying you.
I can't listen to the video . She feels like she is fighting the way she is speaking.
But kuddo to her she feels superior to Americans😊
Them skunk babies you got over in China think they are superior as well,right?
The interviewee was good but she got them tattoos like a Western female. That's a bad sign of problems yet to come.😊
What is she going on about? She is not answering the questions being asked and is just rambling all through. From the way she articulates, she clearly did not go to an international school in Tanzania.
Can you please explain yourself so we know what you're saying?
She means one of those schools that uses "English" as a medium of instruction and private paying school that been defining themselves as "international" but are not really. There are some real international school but are prohibitive in fee to the average middle class to afford
But what she said is very correct, she was only presenting as if she is conversing in Swahili that is why it was not clear what she's on about. But if you take time, you will understand she was making good points
@@BongoZaidi No, what she said is not correct. She comes across to me as parochial and naive especially when it comes to the men/women relationship dynamics. She is not exposed enough.
@@R33Polol that as well. But the society she's from is pretty parochial hehe if the term is correct or is fitting the environment. It might sound naive from where you are from, but works for where she is, and believe me, they are far from naive, I live here and can attest
Language is a problem here for both Mark can't speak Swahili and the lady can't speak English.
@@Chanell32funny that most people from government schools here speak better English than her from international school
I think she is too much. She talks like she is fighting🙉
As a Skunk you should shut up!!
@@patriciastricklen6372 never tell me what to do in my continent. And am As no anything. I dont speak like you backward people As a black As a black As a this. And that . That is not English. But wait. You are slllaves so they did nor give you proper education. You take so much drrrugs you think everyone is a skunnk
No.
The lady is very naive.
They are a type she is talking about, but don't let them fool you with that. They have their ways and ain't naive as you think
How so?
@HughJass-jv2lt Based on their intent or goals, they may seem or are submissive but fully knowing what they are doing. That is not a naive person
My skin is not black. Therefore am not A black woman
No your skin is skunk mixed with Chinese!!
@@patriciastricklen6372 I never touched drugs in my life . I GOT NO IDEA WHY YOU WOULD SAY AM A Skunk.
AND DONT EVER TELL ME WHAT TO DO IN MY OWN CONTINENT.
YOU ARE A FOREIGNER SO STFUP.
DRUGS IS SOMETHING YOU DOIN YOUR COUNTRY USA
@@patriciastricklen6372 if you love Chinese so much . Why don't you go there and have sex with them. You are obsessed with them . For the look of it.
@@patriciastricklen6372 You are always begging for my attention. Is there no man in your life?.
Am not A lesbian love.
Does anyone else find this word 'submissive' cringing. And annoying?
You submit to God your God Almighty. Not a human being.
Is there another word to replace this " submissive" vomicious word the way it is being used.
No that's exactly what she means. If you recall in the conversation about men being better at certain things, and women being the source or cause of issues.
Let women be subject to their husbands, as to the Lord: 23 Because the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ is the head of the church. He is the saviour of his body. 24 Therefore as the church is subject to Christ, so also let the wives be to their husbands in all things. 25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ also loved the church, and delivered himself up for it:
@@MPFXT You do not take bible in literal interpretation.
You people don't even know how to know the meaning. Smh
Yeah the replacement word is SHUT UP!!
@@princessprincess7708 Are you sure you want to keep your comment as is? On judgment day - you'll have to answer to the fact that you're shaking your head and criticizing the Word of God, accusing the Word of God.