Relocating To South Africa From Nigeria? Culture Shocks

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  • Relocating To South Africa From Nigeria? Culture Shocks
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  • @sphekza
    @sphekza Рік тому +11

    Cape Town experienced terrible draught in the last few years. Businesses and residents had to conserve water as the city went on a massive campaign of "Day Zero" which was an anticipated day when the city won't have even a drop of water. Well that was politically contested but I was just trying to explain the 2-3min shower restrictions.

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +3

      Thank you so much for this :)

    • @_Kvtta_
      @_Kvtta_ 3 місяці тому

      is it an infrastructure issue? if so, what are the future plans put in place to restore or improve water conditions for the satisfaction of the populous ?

  • @Sindi-N
    @Sindi-N Рік тому +70

    1. South African men love genuinely and deeply!
    2. They do not show off their wealth!
    3. They do give money if their committed, because not every girl is in a relationship for money!
    4. South African women are very much independent, and our independency is our pride as women!
    5. We definitely do not have water shortage, it was just a phase that passed!
    6. We have power cuts but we do not pay for the electricity during those power cuts, we only pay for the electricity we used!

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +4

      I really appreciate this .
      The water shortage was as at when she was there . Being independent is key ! I admire and stand for that , thank you so much for watching and sharing :)

    • @oluwashinaogunsanya6278
      @oluwashinaogunsanya6278 Рік тому

      Please how safe is durban

    • @vusip6978
      @vusip6978 11 місяців тому

      Capetown have water cut in some seasons and very strict, there's nothing wrong with that

    • @Marysmmiiith
      @Marysmmiiith 2 місяці тому

      Thank you for stating the truth about south african men, I also feel that they are more genuine and authentic than other men from certain other countries, they will not give you money so to keep you in a relationship

  • @ziphonxumalo5410
    @ziphonxumalo5410 4 місяці тому +2

    Im so surprised to see South African women defending and speaking positively of us South African men. Thank you ❤ its so refreshing
    What that woman said about South African men is very antagonizing

  • @palesamogorosi8939
    @palesamogorosi8939 Рік тому +62

    Lol this slander against South African men is tiring. Broke? Because they don't want to give you money? Girl you need to make your own money and stand on your own two feet. In South Africa, everyone works. Everyone is breadwinner - men and women. Yes your boyfriend or husband can spoil you from time to time, but remember that generally SA women are groomed to be independent and learn to be able to provide for themselves, not depend on men. Once you want to solely depend on a man for everything you become shamed and called all kinds of names like slay queen and so forth. It's merely a cultural difference that you'll need to adjust to. South African men are also not all the same entirely so generalizing is just unfair.
    Enjoy your stay :)

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +4

      You’ve said your piece !!
      I’m so grateful for the clarity , thank you :)

    • @Sindi-N
      @Sindi-N Рік тому +9

      You hit the nail on the head 🙌🏽! People should get their facts straight because they confidently validate their opinions!

    • @ajogayetunde5281
      @ajogayetunde5281 Рік тому

      I should av said ‘Most SA men are broke ‘ SA woman are very financially dependent I must acknowledge . N of course I make my own money , I have 2 flourishing businesses in my name .

    • @palesamogorosi8939
      @palesamogorosi8939 Рік тому +19

      @@ajogayetunde5281 I appreciate you having your own money, but still some of the things you said give an impression of entitlement which is creepy.
      Just understand that we're different and generally don't like showing off, so even if someone is loaded you can never really tell.

    • @gugulethukhoza9208
      @gugulethukhoza9208 Рік тому +3

      Danko. Well spoken

  • @zuluuyasabeka9303
    @zuluuyasabeka9303 Рік тому +53

    SA has the highest number of black millionaires and the highest black middle class in Africa even though we have half the population of 🇳🇬 . So how can you say SA men don’t have money🙄. South Africans are generally not flashy like Nigerians. We also don’t blow our cash on women since they were taught to be independent.

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +1

      Thanks for sharing :)

    • @Robio_scorpio
      @Robio_scorpio Рік тому +4

      No sa doesn't have the highest black millionaires its Nigeria wherever u got that information is wrong

    • @trayway9067
      @trayway9067 Рік тому +22

      @@Robio_scorpio lmao😂ur so obsessed with south africa... and yes south africa has the highest number of black dollar millionaires with wealth based in the country....read i alwys tell your read

    • @Robio_scorpio
      @Robio_scorpio Рік тому +2

      @@trayway9067 no it doesn't never did 🤣🤣🤣Nigeria has so many dollar millionaires and billionaires

    • @zuluuyasabeka9303
      @zuluuyasabeka9303 Рік тому +14

      @@Robio_scorpio Nigeria has the most billionaires in Africa. Not millionaires. Please look it up.

  • @MosesMatsepane
    @MosesMatsepane Рік тому +36

    We don’t scam people, that’s why we don’t have money as South African men. You must ask the Jollof boys to teach us, maybe that will help us to get some as well.

  • @kemmoneR
    @kemmoneR Рік тому +46

    FYI South Africans can tell if your are a foreigner

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +2

      Oh really? Even without speaking ?

    • @happygolucky4635
      @happygolucky4635 Рік тому +3

      Not true. I lived in SA 15yrs never could they think I am foreigner. You know why. I made sure to learn Zulu.since I had clicks in my language was easy to learn and I could speak Afrikaans. So Noone knew. They thought I am but I was not

    • @zuluuyasabeka9303
      @zuluuyasabeka9303 Рік тому +26

      @@happygolucky4635 You sound like you are from a neighbouring country in SADEC. Since you know Afrikaans & have clicks in your native language. So chances are you fit the stereotypical Southern African look. East Africans tend to also look like SAns since they have Bantu genes. However, West Africans are very easy to tell apart from a Southern Africans

    • @whateverstaymad8309
      @whateverstaymad8309 Рік тому +2

      @@chandie3585 yes we notice

    • @MosesMatsepane
      @MosesMatsepane Рік тому +1

      @@chandie3585 Lies, without hearing your accent there’s no way of knowing that you’re not from here. You would blend in, and people would speak to your in South African languages.

  • @shaunrhyssa2082
    @shaunrhyssa2082 Рік тому +13

    Every person who visits South Africa has their own experiences...I've been living in Cape Town for 8 months now and I'm originally from Jorburg both places are similar but different at the same time....one thing I've noticed is that when it comes to a TRUE relationship your status is just a cherry on top...money isn't that much of a factor, of course it creates financial stability but as long as your partner is open minded, smart, you help each other grow the.....yeah everything is okay...only few people show off their wealth ,most prefer a simple like 🙂 I appreciate your curiosity about SA

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      I really appreciate you for sharing.
      Very true, thanks for watching :)

  • @OkoiPatrick-gp1dj
    @OkoiPatrick-gp1dj 4 місяці тому +2

    I'm from Nigeria, you must understand that south Africa is an independent country where women and men pay bills.

  • @Lulu-wv1nt
    @Lulu-wv1nt Рік тому +21

    South Africa doesn't have jolof rice. So that was probably a Nigerian restaurant.
    South Africans are not about class.
    South Africans all work, men and women so you don't wait for a man to have something

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +2

      Oh, thanks for this information.
      It’s such a beautiful thing that y’all have a sense of independence. Thank you so much for watching :)

    • @gugulethukhoza9208
      @gugulethukhoza9208 Рік тому

      True lulu

    • @tua-tuna
      @tua-tuna Рік тому +3

      We don't eat jollof rice here.....

  • @trayway9067
    @trayway9067 Рік тому +12

    my sister south africa has the biggest middle class in africa , we have the highest number of black dollar millionaires in africa. this thing of black south african men not having money is all lies.

  • @timesup4454
    @timesup4454 Рік тому +3

    Hahaha nice video guys ,love from South Africa

  • @scholarspeaksinspired
    @scholarspeaksinspired Рік тому +3

    Hahaa...the Airport 😊😀Oh my...People always say this...I hope to travel to SA one day...travelling makes you see the world in a different light..a very insight video...I just subscribed

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +1

      Very true!
      SA is definitely part of the bucket list.
      Thank you so much :)

  • @sweetescapewithVoke
    @sweetescapewithVoke Рік тому +2

    Love the new series 👍🏽

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      Thank you!
      Please stay tuned for more :)

  • @africanandproud6792
    @africanandproud6792 Рік тому +5

    As a South African I'm fascinated by how much Nigerians love their rice. That's just weird 😂😂😂and also Nandos is not just for black people. It's for everyone and can be found everywhere in the world,although originallly from South Africa.

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +2

      Lol, it’s weird that a country love their meals ? It’s fascinating to you ? I’m very much fascinated at how shielded you’ve been .

  • @Lifewithvikky
    @Lifewithvikky Рік тому

    Really enjoyed this video

  • @ernistox
    @ernistox Рік тому +13

    I think she don't know SA yet

  • @mondeklaas1486
    @mondeklaas1486 Рік тому +11

    But my sister you can’t travel all the way from west Africa to South Africa in a hope to find jollof rice 😂😂, you Nigerians are special. An for your guest to say SA men don’t have money😢, then who does? Hayi sisi your guest was just the worse 🙆🏾‍♂️ I couldn’t finish watching this video

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +1

      Oh, you should have , she had some pretty decent things to say about your country as well .
      Thanks a lot for the clarification, stay tuned for more which hopefully you’ll love to see till the end 😅

  • @marshathomas6422
    @marshathomas6422 Рік тому +20

    I was in Cape Town 2 weeks ago and I showered for 30min with no issues.. it’s shocking to hear such because that’s not the case

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      Oooh, that’s awesome.
      According to the comments here the drought is over now :)

    • @manayesh
      @manayesh Рік тому +1

      It wasn't a drought coz agricultural production continued without interruption.

  • @sbongilenkwana5648
    @sbongilenkwana5648 Рік тому

    Great video💯💯.

  • @carolinemakunike1566
    @carolinemakunike1566 Рік тому +3

    SA men aren’t stingy. I think west Africans just have a different relationship with money. Southern Africans we tend to be more conservative west Africans tend to be more showy which isn’t a bad thing but it doesn’t necessarily mean SA men don’t have money.

  • @valentineisraelshabangu4069
    @valentineisraelshabangu4069 Рік тому +3

    Am a fan of black patriotism but the thing is what are travellers bringing to make economy better because in Europe when Dutch travels he doesn't burden the economy of Germany. In this way Africa will grow.

  • @ChisomOkeke
    @ChisomOkeke Рік тому

    Wow! A lot about South Africa. I hope to visit one of the days. There’s order in most countries to be honest. 3 minutes shower limit?😏😳😳

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      Ikr, definitely got to visit the country:)
      Thank you for watching .

  • @thabo3866
    @thabo3866 Рік тому +16

    LoL, South Africans can instantly tell when you're foreign

    • @Jozi-T
      @Jozi-T Рік тому

      we can even tell without hearing you speaking,the way you walk and the way you dress says it all.

  • @PrincessVelaryon
    @PrincessVelaryon Рік тому +7

    I am a South African woman and I have never dated a stingy SA man ever. SA men usually take care of their SA women but its just spoiling as SA women value independence. As a Nigerian you wont know this as SA men usually dont date outside of SA. Also remember that the people you may have encountered dont represent the whole country. As South Africans we are very low key and conservative so we dont flash.

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      Thanks for sharing this with us :)

  • @AdaezeAkubueze
    @AdaezeAkubueze Рік тому +1

    Let me relax and watch 🎉

  • @AmmyJ
    @AmmyJ Рік тому

    Wow, I love the clothes

  • @phungoyavhonenzhelele670
    @phungoyavhonenzhelele670 Рік тому +4

    Yes she's about water restriction, Capetown just came out of day zero where a lot of people left without water because of unexpected drought, actually it was predicted that the rest of the country could at some point experience it.

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      Oh, That’s not so nice for shower lovers 😅
      Thank you so much for watching :)

  • @vat81
    @vat81 Рік тому +7

    Yes there was a water shortage in Cape Town. But I think that's over now.

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      Oh, that’s great !
      Must have been hard for shower lovers like myself 😊

  • @Nikolizky
    @Nikolizky Рік тому +4

    Mostly we can tell if someone isn’t South African, except those from Botswana, Swaziland and Lesotho as those are our direct cousins and share similar culture and languages, some from Zimbabwe as well.
    Mozambican culture is totally different from South African culture even though we share a border, a Mozambican will struggle to assimilate in Soweto, but someone from Botswana will fit in easily.
    It’s not only about language, light skin, dark skin, tall or short, it’s about the culture and the way one carries themselves even without saying a word.
    West Africans are totally different from South Africans, in height, facial features and hair type, even if a Nigerian can learn Zulu, we’ll still see he isn’t Zulu.
    Even though your guest who visited South Africa has skin type that some can say looks South African, her facial features and mannerisms will still let people know even if she’s isn’t saying anything.
    However, there are outliers in every population sample, there are South Africans who get mistaken for West Africans, and I’m sure there are West Africans who can totally look South African in every way, in their demeanor and mannerism.
    In terms of money, I don’t know why Nigerians are so arrogant as to think they can walk into a country and have more money than the people who run that country, but it’s a general believe I’ve heard, and I think it’s just culture like I said before. SA people don’t show off, sometimes if you can’t see someone’s car and/or house, you’ll literally classify them as low class or poor, because mostly we don’t like to show off, it’s extremely frowned upon. Ask yourself, with all the infrastructure you can see, who designed it, who built it, who manages it, who got the big contract to build it, who’s getting the maintenance contracts, who’s the CFO, CEO, HOD etc. This is our country and all these things are done by us and we get paid for doing all these, and SA salaries are waaay higher than Nigerian, it’s just that it’s not in our culture to show off. Ask Nigerians who lived in South Africa for years.

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +2

      I really do appreciate this comment .
      Thanks a lot :)

  • @MichaelOlawale
    @MichaelOlawale Рік тому

    My First culture shock was in UAE i was surprised during their ramadan fasting restaurants are not allow to open during the day.

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +1

      Omg! But it makes sense nau 😂
      It’s an Islamic country so everyone’s got to fast 😂
      UAE culture shock dropping soon! Please stay tuned:)

  • @serahdonald
    @serahdonald Рік тому

    First of all, you said you are fully back and i can see it. Ok let me watch

  • @kayprincersa8129
    @kayprincersa8129 Рік тому +8

    My question is 😲WHY IS SOUTH AFRICA SO ADVICE IF SOUTHERN MEN DON'T HAVE MONEY 🙄,WHO IS BUILDING THIS COUNTRY?,In all the country is beautiful because of you Nigerians 😏

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      I didn’t entirely get your question, can you please rephrase?

    • @lady-jn3mf
      @lady-jn3mf Рік тому +6

      Exactly my question, who is building this country 🤔

  • @johannesmfolori9902
    @johannesmfolori9902 2 місяці тому

    hi beautiful queens of Africa God bless you and your family Jesus name enjoy your day I m from sauth Africa I love platform

  • @Simitsegay123
    @Simitsegay123 10 місяців тому +1

    Nigérian and SouthAfricans and others Africans country ,WE are brothers and siters.Our Aim must be to fight againt thé bad citizens in all Africans country.🙏

  • @lebohangbusiraseobi5154
    @lebohangbusiraseobi5154 Рік тому +4

    The shower issue😳 it's my very first time hearing about it,what hotel is that?

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +1

      Hearing the drought has been resolved :)

  • @thembimaseko4756
    @thembimaseko4756 Рік тому +19

    Our boys are not loud or show off kind of, they know what they want most of them are loaded, they are not in a rush like Nigerians infact your guys are scary they act as if they are in a marathon I must marry a South African sometimes it doesn't add up but it is happening everyday and our girls are buying it, Nigerian girls are beautiful and they know what they want.South African boys know what they want especially those who are monied.

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +2

      That’s a really admirable trait SA guys have. Nigerians are really in a competition 😂 can’t lie about that. But obviously we know we can’t generalize at the end of the day :)

  • @kelebogilebesong2392
    @kelebogilebesong2392 Рік тому +7

    But South Africans don’t eat jellof rice though 😂

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      So I heard ! Thanks for watching 💙

  • @Stevun515
    @Stevun515 Рік тому

    Welcome Sisters, this is home, as Nigeria is my home too.

  • @theFHBBYPAM
    @theFHBBYPAM Рік тому +4

    You look so beautiful 😍

  • @mzimhlemosiwe5047
    @mzimhlemosiwe5047 4 місяці тому

    The shower thing may be true, but I do not think she was in cape town, probably in Hermanus, cause they do announce in hotels there that each room's water is capped, especially if there is a drought..

  • @marshathomas6422
    @marshathomas6422 Рік тому +18

    In South Africa there is no jollof rice.. the one you ate was from a Nigerian restaurant funny enough 😅

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +4

      That’s really interesting.
      I guess the one she had was from a Nigerian restaurant :)

    • @minenhlekhumalo433
      @minenhlekhumalo433 Рік тому +13

      Seconded. South African culture does not have Jolof rice.

    • @marshathomas6422
      @marshathomas6422 Рік тому +10

      @@minenhlekhumalo433 yet she is from Nigeria and just bashed her own people for making bad jollof 😅

    • @sbongilenkwana5648
      @sbongilenkwana5648 Рік тому +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣vele !!

    • @MG-kx1bb
      @MG-kx1bb Рік тому +9

      @@minenhlekhumalo433 she thinks yellow spicey rice is SA jolllof,clearly Google is not her thing,we don't eat jollof in SA

  • @SheilaGakii
    @SheilaGakii Рік тому

    Wow! Cape Town must be a totally different place from your explanation

  • @AmmyJ
    @AmmyJ Рік тому +1

    I shall want to visit SA so I can experience the country for myself

  • @serahdonald
    @serahdonald Рік тому +3

    Mehn Nigerian airport needs a revamp, I have never been to SA, but this was an eye opener, i will not order Jellof rice. Sure we eat white rice lol

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      🤣😂
      Heard they are building another, hopefully that would be better.
      Thanks for watching :)

  • @AmmyJ
    @AmmyJ Рік тому +1

    She's so pretty🧡

  • @cecitv1569
    @cecitv1569 Рік тому +3

    Thanks for sharing! Never been to SA but hope to visit sometime!

  • @pelomk9022
    @pelomk9022 Рік тому +12

    Cape Town is not majority white. It might be the places she visited.

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      Yeah, guess it’s the place she visited :)

    • @MG-kx1bb
      @MG-kx1bb Рік тому +8

      But they all like to talk about cape Town and come back to say whites own the country,while they never been around enough to see in SA there's a lot of W,B,C & I who are south africans all over the country and most are rich and don't show off

    • @realsebsworld3004
      @realsebsworld3004 Рік тому

      There are more Coloureds than Whites in Cape Town.

  • @nonhlanhlamahlangu8427
    @nonhlanhlamahlangu8427 Рік тому +1

    Cape town experienced a water crisis a few years back, so yup the water thing is true

  • @beverleymasin7760
    @beverleymasin7760 Рік тому +2

    We realy can tell as south Africans physical features also give us a clue .

  • @makwatithokozani4638
    @makwatithokozani4638 2 місяці тому

    Cool 👍🏽

  • @veramooreslounge1
    @veramooreslounge1 Рік тому +3

    So we don’t even eat the same kind of foods interesting!!
    And this issue on their men is quite interesting as well😂

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      We don’t oo, that’s actually very interesting to me. Thank you so much for watching :)

  • @johannesmakoti7406
    @johannesmakoti7406 Рік тому +8

    We dont sell drugs, we dont scam people and not do human trafficking, we work hard for our momey.

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +5

      Nobody said anything about selling Dr*Gs here . Are you maybe insinuating that your media stereotyped Nigerians to these form of hustle ? I honestly feel like , if the Europeans are uninformed about Nigeria , our fellow Africans shouldn’t be uninformed as well , don’t you think ?

    • @johannesmakoti7406
      @johannesmakoti7406 Рік тому +1

      @@chandie3585 go to places like Kempton Park, Berea, Sunnyside just to name a few . U will realize im not insinuating anything its a reality. Its so unfortunate our law enforcement are not patriotic . They working with the criminals that are destroying the lives of young South Africans.

    • @gabrielann9045
      @gabrielann9045 Рік тому

      Lazy people will ever remain lazy, if you think Nigerian Men get rich by scam go do it.

    • @kessiofkerah
      @kessiofkerah 6 місяців тому

      There is no way you guys don't do those things. There are bad people every where. But stereotyping Nigerians to those jobs is not a good thing, cos anyone who really knows Nigerians will tell you they are hard working people. Do they have bad people, yes! But the 10% that want to live fast lives shouldn't be used as a yardstick to describe the rest of the nation.

    • @MoeketsiMoseme
      @MoeketsiMoseme Місяць тому

      But it's ok to generalize SA men as being lazy and broke

  • @siyandajola585
    @siyandajola585 Рік тому +6

    I don’t know where she went in Cape Town, but she’s wrong. Black people are majority. Maybe she saw tourists

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +1

      Oooh, thank you for the clarity :)

    • @kayprincersa8129
      @kayprincersa8129 Рік тому

      Cape town is full of Tourists

    • @lungamadoda6992
      @lungamadoda6992 Рік тому +3

      I was also surprised when she said she saw only whites, I think she might have gone to Capetown for a short holiday
      Capetown is multicultural there’s Black, Whites and Coloureds
      I think she’d go to Durban and say she only saw Indians only😅😅😅😅

    • @manayesh
      @manayesh Рік тому

      Did you friend visit Gugulethu, Khayelitsha or Langa to see black people? Or she just ended up in white areas?

  • @Harlymart_kamor
    @Harlymart_kamor Рік тому +5

    i realy want to visit SA cos i hear alot of good things about the place. Thank u for sharing ooooo this one we wil be spending 3 minutes inside the bathroom edakun that cant be possible ooooo if i wan shit nko and i stay long in the toilet if i have to do number 2 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      🤣😂🤣🤣
      From the comment it’s said to be over, so you’re all good now . Thanks for watching :)

    • @MG-kx1bb
      @MG-kx1bb Рік тому +2

      Do you do number 2 in your 🚿 shower as toilet and shower are not the same thing

    • @veemotaung1060
      @veemotaung1060 Рік тому +1

      It is something that happened 4 years ago because of lack of rain. Now things are back to normal. You can shower as long as you can

    • @MG-kx1bb
      @MG-kx1bb Рік тому

      Let me respond to you neh ,as far as I can see from your msg you're from Nigeria 🇳🇬 pls tell us what we see in your movies are real or not? And what we hear from stupid women in SA about Nigerian boyfriends that they bath in buckets as we see on their movies, is it the truth or propaganda

    • @ayobampilo5762
      @ayobampilo5762 Рік тому +2

      @@MG-kx1bb They don't have toilets, Nigeria is the capital of open defecation💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩I wonder how it smells in Nigeria 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

  • @terrencedludlu8370
    @terrencedludlu8370 Рік тому +2

    I don't agree with the part that says most South African woman like Nigeria man that's not true. Most is a big word, not even close.
    2ndly. it's in our culture to look down on people that show off.
    It's not that SA man don't have money it's just different social values. We are at a point in time where 50/50 rules apply woman are on the rise it's not just man doing the most but our sister too so obviously we then expect to contribute the same. Woman that's don't add value by contribution to the relationship are increasingly considered to be dead weight and won't be good for our future.
    That's my input.👍🏽

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      Thanks for your input , very much appreciated :)

  • @youme1414
    @youme1414 9 місяців тому

    I am glad you are able to survive a week in SA. How many time do they try to attack you? Be careful of that place!

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  9 місяців тому +1

      She felt really safe being in South Africa .
      Sometimes it’s better we leave the media and go experience places ourselves :)

    • @youme1414
      @youme1414 9 місяців тому

      @@chandie3585 People keep saying that not until something happens to somebody.
      Thank you though.

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  9 місяців тому

      @@youme1414 🙏

  • @johannesmfolori9902
    @johannesmfolori9902 2 місяці тому

    hi beautiful queens of America ❤

  • @Hundhammer
    @Hundhammer Рік тому

    interesting...

  • @fredrickubiri
    @fredrickubiri Рік тому +2

    Good video are you saying that south Africa is far better than Naija

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      Oh well 🤷🏿‍♀️ lol

    • @benjiza0314
      @benjiza0314 Рік тому +2

      I don't think is what she saying... She just stating differences...

  • @TheOracleVA
    @TheOracleVA Рік тому

    I am going to look for Banker in South Africa 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      🤣😂😂😂
      Give us some update , eh ?

    • @lungamadoda6992
      @lungamadoda6992 Рік тому

      😂😂😂 I don’t know which South Africans she mingled with when she was here 😅😂 but hey that’s her take on SA

  • @veramooreslounge1
    @veramooreslounge1 Рік тому +10

    I wanna go to SA so I can also experience this for myself 😂 I love her vibes😂 she says it as it is😁

  • @irenesenoe5201
    @irenesenoe5201 Рік тому +1

    Which houses have 3 minutes shower restriction🤔

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      The hotel and houses she visited as at the time she was there :)

  • @africanandproud6792
    @africanandproud6792 Рік тому +1

    I'm South African and I spend 15 minutes in the shower. But go on... I'm intrigued 🤔

  • @happygolucky4635
    @happygolucky4635 Рік тому +1

    You guys are beautiful

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +1

      You’re so kind , thank you :)

    • @happygolucky4635
      @happygolucky4635 Рік тому +1

      Love from Namibia. I was once in Lagos and it was best time of my life. Kind people. I will love to visit again. I Wana go to the markets again.

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +2

      @@happygolucky4635 This is so sweet .
      Thanks so much , please stay tuned because I’ll be bringing some market vlogs your way soon !

  • @junitakhangale5759
    @junitakhangale5759 Рік тому

    Capetown faced water crisis not so long ago..3 minutes shower might be the reason 😂

  • @bigsalas4584
    @bigsalas4584 Рік тому +7

    Come on my sister, be honest, tell the truth, about the water issue, is not the case in the entire cape town. You are bashing my country now.

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      Oh, I’m so sorry you feel that way .
      She actually said the hotel she stayed in cape town , she doesn’t know about other parts of the country , I’m guessing you didn’t hear that part . Your country is an amazing country, hardly can it be bashed 💙

  • @maxxala3418
    @maxxala3418 Рік тому +1

    Bye beautifull ladies.

  • @lizwingqondoyi3286
    @lizwingqondoyi3286 Рік тому

    Where in Cape Town were you staying?

  • @OscarineMlisana
    @OscarineMlisana Рік тому +12

    Nigerian food is primarily for you guys, our food accommodates International I'm a🇿🇦#🇬🇧

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      Ahhh, I guess :)
      Thanks for the clarity .

    • @leonmangweta3500
      @leonmangweta3500 Рік тому +5

      yes that's true...South African food can be eaten by everyone not just the people who grew up accustomed to it like natives.

    • @tyaler9805
      @tyaler9805 Рік тому +1

      Not true, Nigerian food is loved by a lot of people around the world, and when people talk about African food that they like to eat, they either talk about Ethiopian or Nigerian food.

    • @palesamogorosi8939
      @palesamogorosi8939 Рік тому +6

      @@tyaler9805 she's talking about the availability of it in South Africa, so calm down. It's not our thing in SA and as much you may perceive that it's "loved all over the world" then you'll have a rude awakening when you come to South Africa because we prefer our own cuisines. No hard feelings.
      When you visit SA, you shouldn't be shocked that there isn't Nigerian food available or that the food is different. What else does one honestly expect?

    • @tyaler9805
      @tyaler9805 Рік тому

      @@palesamogorosi8939 Who cares about your country which I have absolutely no interest in visiting. Y’all hate everything about us so of course you’ll hate what we eat to.😂 Btw, y’all food is disgusting and we have better food on average.

  • @hosealumadi5869
    @hosealumadi5869 Рік тому +3

    The water restrictions were only in CT because of the drought at that time. That’s no longer the case now

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      Yeah , so we’ve been told .
      Thanks for sharing :)

  • @tua-tuna
    @tua-tuna Рік тому +1

    We don't eat jollof rice here🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣,if wasn't for Nigerians being here and their movies we won't even know the type of food they eat. Point of correction South Africa has their own staple food we eat from traditional to modern😩😩😩. No fufu or jollof here mxm

  • @theFHBBYPAM
    @theFHBBYPAM Рік тому +9

    I haven't travelled out yet but South Africa is definitely on my list❤️

  • @JoieblissWorld
    @JoieblissWorld Рік тому +2

    I would love to visit an African country especially South Africa... I love their songs n dance

  • @Lulu-wv1nt
    @Lulu-wv1nt Рік тому +2

    The drought is over. It was in Cape Town

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      That’s such a relief!
      What ever caused it ?

  • @mogp427
    @mogp427 3 місяці тому +1

    Lol kfc is nice😮? And nandos is not nice? We sure are not the same🤣 , to know that a person has got money,how do they look like? Flashy? Hehehe we truly are not the same,one thing about SA'ns we very basic...even the rich rich you cant just tell when you see them in a mall.

  • @ronalduchenna6068
    @ronalduchenna6068 9 місяців тому

    My guy u don blow

  • @GavinTale
    @GavinTale Рік тому +1

    That Woman has given a false reflection about South Africa, mostly. I suspect she lives in Hilbro

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      Really…?
      What’s the real thing ?
      She’s just sharing her experience though :)

  • @Svig
    @Svig Рік тому +2

    Cape Town draught also known as Day Zero, was in 2018. I guess your lady friend was around Cape Town during that time. That has passed.
    She sad a lot of nonsense abt South African men which makes her look cheap.

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      Ha! Her opinion and perception of a place shouldn’t make her look any type of way , don’t you think ?
      A lot of non Nigerians have dropped inaccurate view and perception of Nigeria and Nigerians but I won’t tagged them ignorant because that’s their perception :)

  • @lu881
    @lu881 Рік тому +2

    I don't get it.
    Was she in Cape Town during the water crisis?
    That was like...4 years ago

  • @baphithi
    @baphithi Рік тому +3

    South African women drive their own nice cars, and have their own fancy jobs. You won’t tell just from looking at a person at a shopping mall sometimes, that they drive big German cars. We do not need the men’s money so they are not under pressure to do everything to make money.
    Showing off is for people who are trying to get there.

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +1

      That’s impressive & admirable !
      Thanks for watching :)

  • @mandlachonco3499
    @mandlachonco3499 8 місяців тому

    The shortage of water is only in Cape Town.

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  8 місяців тому

      Exactly. And some few years back as well :)

  • @nontozamoluqhide3828
    @nontozamoluqhide3828 Рік тому +6

    I think people before coming to sa please do a research because you guys giving folse information

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +1

      Online research isn’t always accurate y’know . She’s just giving her experience based on how she received it . No offense was meant 💙

  • @gmack7488
    @gmack7488 Рік тому +1

    I'm from Texas and I want a South African wife.

  • @World_Of_Competition
    @World_Of_Competition 7 місяців тому +2

    SA men dont date women from other countries,This is because we try to preserve our culture

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  6 місяців тому

      YOU! Don’t date woman from other countries because you’re myopic and ignorant. Speak for yourself because as much as you’ll want to ? You can’t speak for everyone ❤️

    • @LimoMolelekwa-xz8hi
      @LimoMolelekwa-xz8hi День тому

      No need to get mad, we just don't date women from other countries. It's almost frowned upon, like it's disgusting​@chandie3585

  • @natashamonyatsi4220
    @natashamonyatsi4220 Рік тому +2

    In Cape Town you hardly don’t see blacks???🤔🤔🤔 bruh which Cape Town have I been living in😂😂 because there are a lot of blacks than whites..

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +2

      Oh, thanks for sharing.
      She saw mostly whites when she was in Cape Town :)

  • @jabulanithema1467
    @jabulanithema1467 Рік тому

    The reason you see lots of white people in Cape Town is that Cape Town is an internal tourist destination, especially for Europeans. The majority of population is colored (mixed race) followed by blacks. White people form about 15%.

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      Ah! I see .
      Thanks so much for sharing :)

  • @noqhamozibi8955
    @noqhamozibi8955 Рік тому +3

    Nice vid. Glad I clicked. What I would advise Nigerian women is to associate with South African women when you visit. You'll have a totally different experience. What I have noticed with some Nigerian women who live in SA , they keep to themselves/ their own circle. Which is disappointing.

    • @palesamogorosi8939
      @palesamogorosi8939 Рік тому +8

      These people do the same thing when they go to America. They distance themselves from the Black Americans then turn around to speak smack about them. They can't coexist with host citizens. I don't understand that mentality.

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +1

      Thanks a lot . I personally feel same way . Hopefully things will become better and we’ll all be open with ourselves:)

    • @tyaler9805
      @tyaler9805 Рік тому

      @@palesamogorosi8939 Are you even in America to say this shit? Plus, the relationship between Nigerians and SA is different from the relationship between BA and Nigerians so stfu.

    • @realsebsworld3004
      @realsebsworld3004 Рік тому

      That simply mean they are in a host country to take take take and leave not to add any value that is why South Africa should make their Visa expensive.

  • @coconeli1409
    @coconeli1409 Рік тому +2

    Nibahle x

  • @ty8915
    @ty8915 Рік тому

    Lol you guys, we eat different food from west Africans but I’m sure you’d find Nigerian restaurants.

  • @manayesh
    @manayesh Рік тому +1

    My wife would be very offended to hear that RSA men dont give money to their women or dont have money.
    I promise you she'd be mad at you.

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      Why Will she be mad at someone’s perception? If it’s a wrong perception I’d say she should correct and educate rather than being mad about it :)

    • @manayesh
      @manayesh 11 місяців тому

      Coz south africans aren't homogeneous. We're of different cultures even though we're all south africans.
      As a Zulu, it's our way of life to spoil our wives and we work hard to achieve that.
      But i know one particular south african ethnic group i wont mention, that generally avoids to spend money on their women.
      For example my wife is a university qualified teacher. She became unhappy with teaching and i gave her the choice to be a housewife because i can take care of her. And she is now a housewife whos decided to do an online accounting degree this year. And im paying for all that and her whole upkeep in general.
      Im not just unique. Thats just how we Zulus generally treat our wives.

  • @fullmetaltheorist
    @fullmetaltheorist Рік тому +5

    I haven't watched the video because I know what you're going to say and the comments have confirmed that this is just another video bashing this country. Stay in nigeria if you have problems with this country and its people. You won't be missed over here.

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +1

      Aww, you should always see things for yourself . The comments are only from people’s perspective so is the video so you can’t really say . I really appreciate the comment though :)

    • @fullmetaltheorist
      @fullmetaltheorist Рік тому +1

      @@chandie3585 Nope. If the people are telling you that you're being biased against them then you're the problem. If you want come here and call us xenophobic then please just leave and never come back. We already have enough foreigners causing problems here and you'd be one less problem if you left.

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +1

      @@fullmetaltheorist Hmmm, okay 🥰

  • @Lifewithvikky
    @Lifewithvikky Рік тому +6

    See how you are shading south African guys stopeet 😃

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      Haha! We’re not shading oo

    • @MG-kx1bb
      @MG-kx1bb Рік тому +5

      One should ask If she was a tourist or someone who was looking for men to give her money to show how rich they are,in SA we work for our money mostly getting some from a man it's just a bonus.

  • @Lifewithvikky
    @Lifewithvikky Рік тому

    I think this bribing thing is only in Nigeria o

  • @mandlatembe7232
    @mandlatembe7232 Рік тому

    Chandie

  • @thembimaseko4756
    @thembimaseko4756 Рік тому +4

    Please with due respect, have you ever seen a South African in Nigeria or Ghana or Congo or Zambia?

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому +1

      I actually have no idea :(
      SA Is an amazing country , no one can deny that . Thanks for watching :)

    • @gabrielann9045
      @gabrielann9045 Рік тому +2

      Sweet heart south Africans are every were, infact their wealth mostly comes from them investing in other countries, eg Nigeria. The way we patronize them in Nigeria they should ever be greatful for us.

    • @hopebuhali3887
      @hopebuhali3887 Рік тому +2

      @@gabrielann9045 But we will never let you feel entitled to us. Never!

  • @user-yt5yj2wv5u
    @user-yt5yj2wv5u 9 місяців тому +1

    This one she dont know her story shes telling people lies

  • @khanyisakalipa9599
    @khanyisakalipa9599 Рік тому

    I have watched a lot of Nigerian content about SA, unfortunately girls I feel yours is a bit ignorant. I love Nigerian content creators, I feel you should do more research on some of your topics....one love.

  • @andyplus1352
    @andyplus1352 Рік тому +1

    I pray that Nigerians and other African do not experience xenophobic attack in the scale that happened in the past.

    • @hopebuhali3887
      @hopebuhali3887 Рік тому +1

      I pray South Africans stop experiencing the terrorism by other Africans in SA, otherwise we will have to slaughter these Africans.

    • @ayobampilo5762
      @ayobampilo5762 Рік тому +1

      I pray that Nigerians don't face tribalism like what happened during the biafra war😭one million plus lives were lost because of tribalism 😏

  • @ayobampilo5762
    @ayobampilo5762 Рік тому +5

    We don't eat Jollof this side🤕😷😩

    • @chandie3585
      @chandie3585  Рік тому

      I honestly didn’t know, not me here thinking jollof was an African food .
      Thanks for watching :)

    • @palesamogorosi8939
      @palesamogorosi8939 Рік тому +3

      @@chandie3585 Africans don't eat the same food wtf?! South Africans have their own cuisines dear.

    • @ayobampilo5762
      @ayobampilo5762 Рік тому +1

      @@palesamogorosi8939 Thank you Pali