I am sure there would be many people like me who just wanted to put my arms into the screen and give you a cuddle.You don’t have to be brave in front of us, you are our special Kate. Your mum was so proud of you and do believe you Toby and Lee enhanced her last bit of life.She lives on in you. Let the tears flow, they heal.
You are amazing Kate and so brave. I think you’ve been amazing doing this video. Grief is hard and it’s awful to see you in pain but it’s good your showing that it is ok to cry and your beautiful words about your mum x I’m glad your back continue being amazing xxx 💗
It's always sad talking about your mum when she is no longer here...I cried everytime someone asked how I was or said sorry....You never get over it but you learn to live your life in a different way and go on....So glad to see you back and I bet your mum will be watching you and feeling so proud..xx
Dear Kate, so very sorry for your loss. I did see Mr. Carrington's video which he kindly posted for you. That was very thoughtful of you both to let your viewers know what was happening. Since then we have held you close in warm thoughts as you navigate life without your dear mom. You are very brave to go back on line so soon after. Your mom sounds like such a wonderfully, strong person and has left you a wonderful example of how to live. I pray that her example will give you strength each and every day. It is good to talk about our loved ones and it will get easier over time. Big hugs to you. ❤️ xx
Well done Kate for being you and keeping things real as you always do. Grief is a painful thing to try and process and the first year is filled with such emotional challenges. All the "firsts" can be tough. Birthday, Christmas etc but it's alright and normal to be sad, happy even angry but above all you have to remember that you a re celebrating and life lived and a person loved. I think you did a good job of showing that to people and if anyone is going through a similar thing then I'm sure this video will make them feel less alone xx
Glad to see you coming back! I've been there and done that too! It takes a while but we muddle true! And your son will help you get back quickly because he will need you to be there for him... And you will!!! Your video was lovely!!!
There are two things that I learned when my Ma died. The first is that grief is like standing with your back to the sea. Every now and then you get but by a wave. Sometimes it's a small wave, and sometimes it's a big wave. The second was something that someone said to me, in the middle of all the crazy, that I clung on to, and it was, that "whatever it was, it was the right thing at the time". The main thing, is to make time for you. I don't know how old you are, but for all of those years, you have had your Mum, and you can't just get over it, it's going to take time, and energy. One step at a time. One tear, one laugh, one memory of something that she said. She is in your heart, and that is where she will stay. Not gone, just not there. Hugs x
Thank you for sharing this with your UA-cam family! Your so brave and we all are here no matter how long you need! Hard to see you upset! We all never forget but time is a healer! 💗 xx
Kate you're so brave, tears a streaming down my face.... I don't know what to say.... I lost my dad almost 15 years ago and it's still like it was yesterday... It's so lovely to hear you talk so fondly about you're mom.... She was an amazing woman.... I just want to send my sympathies to you and your family... You are the nicest person ever and you have a heart of gold.... Please take time to grieve your own way and in your own time... Thank you for being you Kate... Welcome back, we've really missed you..Xxxx
Kate I absolutely love your videos and think you are such a lovely girl. I look forward to your videos they make my day as I'm a bargain hunter/car boot lover. I lost my mum 3 years ago she was 63. Your video really moved me and it sounds like you had some lovely times together. Like you say some days are easier than others and that's ok. I'm sending you lots of well wishes and hugs and really look forward to seeing more of you and your mugs of the daaaaaayyyy! X
Well done Kate, that was a super real video. I dread the day I lose Mum, (Dad already gone). Been thinking about you, take care and enjoy the memories. Xxxx
Welcome back , sending lots of love and thank you for sharing your story, my daughter died 2 yrs ago and talking to people and being positive helped me so much ❤️
That must have been so hard for you bless you, I sobbed with you until the end, stay strong Kate it’s what your mum would have wanted and get back to the fun videos we all know and love you for xx
That was a very brave video and I really admire your strength... your mum would be proud of you and want nothing else for you, but to move positively forwards, happily doing what you enjoy. I know this NO WAY compares to your level of grief, but I recently lost my 17 yr old dog, Millie. She joined me on my camper trips and was a big part of my channel, and losing her has been tough... house empty of her presence. Grief is grief, at what ever level, but the only way is forwards. Not sure if you remember, but you encouraged me to go to my first ever Music Festival.. Latitude. Well, Kate... thank you so much. I plucked up the courage and did it - all on my own! Latitude 2019 OMG Wow! So young lady... get out there, pick yourself up... treasure those memories, as mum is with you in your heart forever... you have a lovely warmth... may your channel grow and grow. 🌻🤗🌻
So sorry for your loss 💕 your mum would be so so proud of you! Your the loveliest person ever! We all love you so much! Cant wait to see what videos you have coming! Just take your time, we will all be here xxxx
Bless you for doing this video she was and always will be your inspiration. You are a true credit to her. Glad you’re back though you’ve been missed xx
So good to see you, Kate. My mother and I were so close and for two years after she passed away I would still pick up the phone to call her automatically thinking, Oh I've got to tell mother something that happened. We are all here for you and sending you our "virtual" support. Can't wait to see more of your videos.
So sorry Kate. Its awful to lose a parent I miss my mum every single day. Good to see you back looking lovely. Your dad will need you more now. God bless. Xx
Hi Kate!! 👋🏻 So glad you’re back and feeling ok!! Big hugs to you 🌻💐☀️💕 Looking forward to the next weekend vlog! Hope Rufus, Lee & Toby are doing well xx
So sorry for the loss of your mum. I lost my mum 10mth ago so I know how you feel. There is no time on how quickly you Greif so don't apologise for Being upset it natural it's ok to cry it's your mum. Sending hugs welcome back ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
So sorry for your loss, I sadly lost my lovely mum 4 years ago and I still have wobbly days, but it does get easier. So pleased to see you back, I’ve missed your lovely smiley face & your ‘mug of the daaayyy!!’ xx
Such a lovely video Kate, feel your pain and keep going! Our mums are always with us. When you see a white feather on the ground it’s your mum looking after you 😘
So glad to see you back hun, but take all the time you need. We definitely understand. I lost my daughter almost 3 yrs ago and some days I'm okay, but then others I'm a wreck. You just go at your own pace. Just always know that we are here supporting you and sending good thoughts to you. xxx
The loss of a parent is devastating, they say time heals, my father passed away 40 years ago aged 49 when I was 15 and to this day I still can’t hold back the tears when I think or speak about him (I have tears streaming down my face as I type this) thinking of you and your beautiful family, remember the happy times. How is Toby coping? Children sometimes surprise us at how strong they are. Sending love.... Julie xxx
Hi Kate, lovely to see you, missed you. Both my parent's have passed away they died 2 year's apart. Both had long term illness and it was a relief in one way as they were out of pain. But the selfish part of me miss them so much. I still go to ring them sometimes but it does get easier. You will always have your memories of your lovely mum. Your mum would be so proud of you. Take one day at a time, sending love to you all. Take care xxx
Such a down to earth lady you are! What an inspiration your mum is! Always follow.you and watch your videos. My heart is br9ken for you but just remembr she is now not suffer8ng and watching over you. Take one day at a time so n8ce you have shared this with us when you didn't have to but that want makes you such a down to earth norfolk girl! X
Good to see you back big big hugs to you take care xxxi it's ok not to be ok my mum died 7years ago and I still have bad days it's good you have family and friends round you xx
Oh Kate you poor darling! I so felt for you doing that video! Of course you will get upset and have sad times but over time you will learn to live with those feelings. I lost my dad a few years ago and discovered he had been writing a journal for years that no one knew about. What a comfort it was in those early days to see his hand writing and read this thoughts! Things like that mean nothing to other people but for you they are so important. So I guess what I’m trying to say is keep strong remember your lovely mum anyway you need to! So lovely to have you back! Big hugs to you lee and Toby!! Xx
I just found you from MrCarrington. I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom. I lost my mom 23 years ago and it is still sad but not as hard. Let yourself grieve. I look forward to watching all your other videos.
This was always going to be the hardest video for you to do....the first one after your dear Mum passed and all I wanted to do was give you a big hug and tell you it is fine to show your emotions. That's why we all love you.....your honesty ❤ your Mum would be so proud of you Kate. Much love to you and your family and welcome back to your UA-cam family xxx
Aww bless your heart Kate. I’m so sorry for the loss of your dear mum. It’s heartbreaking to see you grieving but you’re so strong to be able to show your emotion to the outside world. Sending you much love during this most difficult time xx
I know how you feel Kate we lost someone this week on Thursday we lost are rabbit dusty she passed on the way to the emergency vets she was 8 years old I found your video very comforting and I completely understand what you are going through x
So lovely to see your sweet face today. You did remarkably well, Kate, quite a strong lady. We all love you and support you during this most difficult time. I know you brought comfort to others today with sharing your sad loss. Hugs and prayers. 🙏
*MASSSSHOOOSIVE HUGS* I'm glad your back but take your time, 💕 Hope your all doing well, Were here for you through thick & thin, I'tll be okay hun i'm crying myself, I never knew your mum but she seemed like a amazing lady & she will always be there for you, I loved when your had her in your vlogs & you have these amazing memories, my grandad used to say before he passed even tho I wouldnt be able to see him he would be they & sometimes I do feel like he's here poking me in the right directon, Anyyyyyway I MISSED YOU!! you are fricken amazing 💕💕💕
Bless you Kate, well done for wanting to say Hello to us, but you can take as long as you need. I love your videos and that you are like a friend to everyone 😘 It's lovely that you and your mum had such a lovely relationship. xx
Lovely to have you back Kate, it's never easy to lose a parent. My dad died three days after my nineteenth birthday which was so hard, although I do think the older you are the harder it is to get over a parent passing away. Sending you all my love and looking forward to some new vlogs. All my love Joanne xxx
welcome back kate nice to see you back , I lost my mum on the 22nd of July 2019 so I understand it's hard x and just do as much filming as you can we understand we will still be here for you X
It's ok to not be ok. It sucks to lose your mom. Been almost two years now for me and I miss her every day. Love and happy memories of mom to you from Minnesota, USA.💜
OH KATE PLEASE BE STRONG. ...I LOVE YOU AND YOUR FAMILY SO MUCH. ..YOU'RE SUCH A LOVELY GIRL. ..I LOST MY BEAUTIFUL ACADEMICALLY BRILLIANT AND TALENTED DAUGHTER JUST LAST YEAR WHILE SHE WAS TAKING HER MASTERS IN CRIMINOLOGY AND LAW. .NO ONE EVEN CHECKED HER ROOM. ...I HOPE YOU DON'T MIND ME SAYING THIS BUT YOUS WERE SO ALIKE. ..BE BRAVE BE STRONG. ....I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.....LAURA'S MAM.....ANN.🌹 😇🕊💔👸🍾💋XXXXXXX
Welcome back Kate....you did really well getting through your first video since losing your lovely mum....you will probably find your emotions will catch you out at the most random times but it's fine to laugh or cry at any time. I lost my mum and sister 13 years ago and my dad 2 years ago, things still catch me out all the time....I find it's normally either a tune on the radio or seeing a beautiful rainbow that sets off the tears :-)
Good to see you back Kate, we can all tell how hard it was for you to do this video!! Family means everything!! Treasure the memories of the time you had with your Mum and make some more great memories with Lee and Toby!! All the best!
Oh Kate I'm deeply sorry for your loss. I also lost my partner 4.5 weeks ago. He was only 59. It was so sudden. I'm so glad you have good support around you. Toby will keep you busy I'm sure. I'm in tears watching this. Bless you sweetheart. Lot's of love to you and your's xx
Welcome back. We've missed you and your mug of the day. I'm so pleased that you have so many lovely memories to look back on. Your mum would be so proud of you and how you've come back with such dignity and grace xxx
Lovely to have you back Kate, thank you for posting this video even though it's obviously so hard for you. Sending you lots of love during this hard time and we'll all still be here for your mugs of the day! Xx
It's never easy to lose someone close, when that person was ill for quite sometime you can feel that it may never happen, because they seem to battle through. Your right looking at photos and talking about good memories is the best way to go, your mum had a great personality and a warm loving glow. I'm so glad you guys got to spend quality time together. With love and lots of hugs from my family to yours.
Hi Kate, it's so lovely to have you back. I know you how your feeling with being up and down, I lost my mum a few years ago and I really miss her. I glad your doing well love to you, Lee and Toby xx
So lovely to see you back Kate. One day at a time, I lost my main parent, my Dad, 17 years ago aged just 59, and I still have my moments, so please don't ever apologise hun xx
So lovely to see you back Kate, was so sorry to hear about your mum. My dad passed away 3 years ago and it's the hardest thing. I still find it hard to talk about it. Looking forward to watching your hauls again and mug of the daaay. Love Emma x
Awww Kate so glad your back. I wish I could give you a big hug. I lost my mum two years ago and I miss her everyday. Im so sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of love. Xxx
Welcome back hun sorry to hear the sad news, I’ve not lost my mum yet but she’s in a nursing home with Alzimers and dementia I do dread the day anything happens big hugs to you
Oh sweetheart, I’m so sorry for your loss. I almost lost my brother last week, he’s just 54 and had a massive heart attack that he wasn’t expecting to survive. It’s been a crazy emotional week. I lost my Dad in 2005 aged 67, and I still have a wobble. I can tell you that as time passes, memories get happier and it’s easier to remember the good times and laugh with family and friends. But don’t rush or force yourself on our account. You’re allowed to grieve. Sending 🤗 🤗 ❤️❤️
Bless you Kate - early days darling - but you are doing beautifully. Great to see the support from Mr Carrington - content creators supporting each other - well done xxx
I lost mum 11 years ago dad even longer. It hits me on birthdays and Christmas and mothers day and farthersday. You never get used to it.its just trying to live with it. You will feel her around you on occasions.
Ohhh Kate. Your such a lovely lady. Your sooo amazing don’t be sorry. You have feelings and they’ll hit when you don’t expect it. Your mum will be proud and saying just be positive and look forward to tomorrow. Soooo nice to see you back xx
Great to have you back but I’m so sorry to learn of the loss of your mum. I’ve been out of circulation for the last 5 weeks too as I’ve been over to Canada to visit my daughter and family for the birth of her second baby. I lost my mum last November so know what you are going through, you will have good days and bad days but you will get through and slowly slowly the bad days get fewer as you become more able to focus on the many happy memories you have. Take care
Aww bless ya, yes I’m in tears but it’s because we care for you and I’m sure most of us have been or are in the same situation as you, so we know the pain, we know and understand the highs and lows and tears through laughter and tears through a thought and memory. This was always going to be a bit of a hard blog because it’s the first one talking to us all, lots of deep breaths and taking one day at a time. You are doing the right thing by facing and acknowledging your feelings, don’t bottle them up xxxx The other reason why I’m in tears is because my husband and I are having to make a heartbreaking decision with our boy Snoopy (I say boy because he’s more than a dog) I know you’d understand because you have Ruffs and I can see how much he is loved by you and your family. Your mum will always be with you, she will be in your heart and soul, never stop talking to her and letting her how you are feeling and things that you are doing, keeping her spirit alive and in your heart. So it was really lovely to see and hear you and you have been in my thoughts and prayers, I was thinking of Toby to and I hope he’s doing ok xxxxx Have a lovely time in Scotland with your boys and see you in your next blog P.S. will your boys let you mooch in the charity shops in Scotland? Hahaha Night night Kate and sweet dreams hun xxxxxxx
I’m so sorry for your loss. I really feel for you. My mum passed away on the 6th June this year and nothing prepares you for how that feels. I’m really thinking of you and sending lots of love xx
I’ve waited to comment - I lost my mum at the end of May and I wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss. I could see from the moment you appeared that something huge and sad had happened.How brave you are for doing this video - I’m sure that your mum would have been so proud of how you handled yourself. Stay strong and lovely, and remember her often and with love. Thinking of you xx
I'm so sorry your going through the grief of losing your mum, I myself am goin through the same grief after losing my mum at the end of May, everything you said was like hearing how I feel put into words, you just get on with the normal things and then it just hits you, doesn't matter where you are or what your doing, everyone finds their own way of coping and getting through their grief and we can only do it our own way in our own time, sending love and best wishes xx
Kate - it is sixty years since my mother died, and I think of her just about every day. You were fortunate to have such a good mum, and that will be why you are one too. Eventually you live with loss and it becomes part of you, so keep her memory alive and cry when you need to.
So lovely to see you back Kate,this was such a brave video,well done for getting through it,your mum would've been so proud, she was a lucky woman to have you all so close and caring for her so well. Much love xx
Lovely to see you again. My wonderful mum passed away many years ago and I still miss her every day .you have wonderful memories of your mum so she will always be with you .sending big hugs xx
Aww bless you Kate, worried about us when you're going through such a hard time yourself. It's great to see you back again. Take it easy, it's still very early days and you will be up and down. Looking forward to seeing the vlog with Iwan hes been talking about xx
Sorry for your loss Kate xxx be very proud of her xx Made me shed a few tears; lost my mum when i was 37 some 19 years ago so i know how you feel. It's hard but gets easier as the months go by. Looking forward to your Charity shopping vlogs.
Ooow Kate I'm so sorry for your loss. I can feel your pain, I wish I could give you a hug just because I know how you feeling I lost my dad. You take you time hun & look after yourself do what you need to do. Really upset me to see you upset. So lovely to see you back. This is my son's ID Lots of Love & healing to you my lovely Sakina xx
Aw Sweetie as much as I'm happy to see you back it was hard seeing you like that. I had no idea your Mum was on oxygen all day long.Although I thought something was wrong when you took Rufus in. How lovely that you could spend all that time together.Love to the 3 of you.xx
Welcome back Kate, all of us who have lost a loved one can appreciate how hard making this video was for you. Your mum will forever be in your heart and mind, so you don't need to say sorry about getting emotional we all understand. Sending you all lots of love xx
Bless you sweetie. I am so sorry to hear about your Mum. I lost my Mum many years ago. So I know how it feels and you are doing great. Sending you love and hugs xxx
Aw Kate I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my dad 24 years ago and my mum 5 years ago. The loss of a parent is tough but I think losing your mum is harder. I was sat watching this video crying along with you but it is lovely to see you back with your 'mug of the daaay'. Take care and lots of love xx
So good to see you. So proud of you for carrying on, even though you've been through a devastating loss. . We are with you at this time and want you to be well, and take care of sweet Lee and Toby and of course, take care of yourself. We don't mind you're crying; it's so lovely to hear about your mom and what a fantastic lady she was. It explains a lot about why you are so fantastic. Please take your time. As CormacksGirl said, we will still be here.
So sorry for the loss of your Mum.😥 It is nice to have you back. Take your time lovely, we'll still be here!❤️
Thankyou ❤️
I am sure there would be many people like me who just wanted to put my arms into the screen and give you a cuddle.You don’t have to be brave in front of us, you are our special Kate. Your mum was so proud of you and do believe you Toby and Lee enhanced her last bit of life.She lives on in you. Let the tears flow, they heal.
Welcome back Hun so sorry to hear about your lovely mum our thoughts are with you and your family xx
Thankyou xx
Oh Kate you are just so brave and we’ve all missed your bright, funny, enigmatic ways - and of course ‘mug of the daaaay’ ❤️
Ha ha thanks! ❤️
So happy to see you back! Sending you and your family lots of love 💗 I just wanted to give you a big hug!
Thankyou xx
You are amazing Kate and so brave. I think you’ve been amazing doing this video. Grief is hard and it’s awful to see you in pain but it’s good your showing that it is ok to cry and your beautiful words about your mum x I’m glad your back continue being amazing xxx 💗
Thank you 💛 sorry only just seeing these comments now as the app has changed 💛 really appreciate it xxx
It's always sad talking about your mum when she is no longer here...I cried everytime someone asked how I was or said sorry....You never get over it but you learn to live your life in a different way and go on....So glad to see you back and I bet your mum will be watching you and feeling so proud..xx
So sorry for your loss Kate thinking of you I lost my dad 2 months ago it's terribly hard. It is lovely to see you back and mug of the day 💞 x
Ahh so sorry ❤️ Thankyou xx
Nice to have you back.. So so so sorry for the lose of your mum. Take your time to grieve. Big hugs xx
Thankyou xx
Dear Kate, so very sorry for your loss. I did see Mr. Carrington's video which he kindly posted for you. That was very thoughtful of you both to let your viewers know what was happening. Since then we have held you close in warm thoughts as you navigate life without your dear mom. You are very brave to go back on line so soon after. Your mom sounds like such a wonderfully, strong person and has left you a wonderful example of how to live. I pray that her example will give you strength each and every day. It is good to talk about our loved ones and it will get easier over time. Big hugs to you. ❤️ xx
Well done Kate for being you and keeping things real as you always do. Grief is a painful thing to try and process and the first year is filled with such emotional challenges. All the "firsts" can be tough. Birthday, Christmas etc but it's alright and normal to be sad, happy even angry but above all you have to remember that you a re celebrating and life lived and a person loved. I think you did a good job of showing that to people and if anyone is going through a similar thing then I'm sure this video will make them feel less alone xx
Welcome back. Lots of love. Well done Kate, I've Missed you. I lost my dad very suddenly last year.. xx
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Welcome back Kate,I think missing a loved one is the hardest thing to come to terms with.xx I miss my dad everyday.
Your mum sounds like an amazing person, and so is her daughter, much love x
Glad to see you coming back!
I've been there and done that too!
It takes a while but we muddle true!
And your son will help you get back quickly because he will need you to be there for him...
And you will!!!
Your video was lovely!!!
There are two things that I learned when my Ma died. The first is that grief is like standing with your back to the sea. Every now and then you get but by a wave. Sometimes it's a small wave, and sometimes it's a big wave. The second was something that someone said to me, in the middle of all the crazy, that I clung on to, and it was, that "whatever it was, it was the right thing at the time". The main thing, is to make time for you. I don't know how old you are, but for all of those years, you have had your Mum, and you can't just get over it, it's going to take time, and energy. One step at a time. One tear, one laugh, one memory of something that she said. She is in your heart, and that is where she will stay. Not gone, just not there. Hugs x
Thank you for sharing this with your UA-cam family! Your so brave and we all are here no matter how long you need! Hard to see you upset! We all never forget but time is a healer! 💗 xx
Kate you're so brave, tears a streaming down my face.... I don't know what to say.... I lost my dad almost 15 years ago and it's still like it was yesterday...
It's so lovely to hear you talk so fondly about you're mom.... She was an amazing woman.... I just want to send my sympathies to you and your family... You are the nicest person ever and you have a heart of gold.... Please take time to grieve your own way and in your own time...
Thank you for being you Kate...
Welcome back, we've really missed you..Xxxx
Kate I absolutely love your videos and think you are such a lovely girl. I look forward to your videos they make my day as I'm a bargain hunter/car boot lover. I lost my mum 3 years ago she was 63. Your video really moved me and it sounds like you had some lovely times together. Like you say some days are easier than others and that's ok. I'm sending you lots of well wishes and hugs and really look forward to seeing more of you and your mugs of the daaaaaayyyy! X
Well done Kate, that was a super real video. I dread the day I lose Mum, (Dad already gone). Been thinking about you, take care and enjoy the memories. Xxxx
Sending you the biggest hug ❤️❤️ don’t apologise for being upset xx sending so much love 💕
Welcome back , sending lots of love and thank you for sharing your story, my daughter died 2 yrs ago and talking to people and being positive helped me so much ❤️
Bless you Kate, your mum was definitely a really lovely lady.I know this because she made a lovely,caring,beautiful girl like you x
That must have been so hard for you bless you, I sobbed with you until the end, stay strong Kate it’s what your mum would have wanted and get back to the fun videos we all know and love you for xx
Thankyou xx
That was a very brave video and I really admire your strength... your mum would be proud of you and want nothing else for you, but to move positively forwards, happily doing what you enjoy. I know this NO WAY compares to your level of grief, but I recently lost my 17 yr old dog, Millie. She joined me on my camper trips and was a big part of my channel, and losing her has been tough... house empty of her presence. Grief is grief, at what ever level, but the only way is forwards. Not sure if you remember, but you encouraged me to go to my first ever Music Festival.. Latitude. Well, Kate... thank you so much. I plucked up the courage and did it - all on my own! Latitude 2019 OMG Wow! So young lady... get out there, pick yourself up... treasure those memories, as mum is with you in your heart forever... you have a lovely warmth... may your channel grow and grow. 🌻🤗🌻
So sorry for your loss 💕 your mum would be so so proud of you! Your the loveliest person ever!
We all love you so much! Cant wait to see what videos you have coming! Just take your time, we will all be here xxxx
Bless you for doing this video she was and always will be your inspiration. You are a true credit to her. Glad you’re back though you’ve been missed xx
Big hugs to you. I lost my dad 3 years ago and it’s hard but with the help of loved ones and memories you will start to feel better xx
So good to see you, Kate. My mother and I were so close and for two years after she passed away I would still pick up the phone to call her automatically thinking, Oh I've got to tell mother something that happened. We are all here for you and sending you our "virtual" support. Can't wait to see more of your videos.
So sorry Kate. Its awful to lose a parent I miss my mum every single day. Good to see you back looking lovely. Your dad will need you more now. God bless. Xx
Hi Kate!! 👋🏻 So glad you’re back and feeling ok!! Big hugs to you 🌻💐☀️💕 Looking forward to the next weekend vlog! Hope Rufus, Lee & Toby are doing well xx
So sorry for the loss of your mum. I lost my mum 10mth ago so I know how you feel. There is no time on how quickly you Greif so don't apologise for Being upset it natural it's ok to cry it's your mum. Sending hugs welcome back ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
So sorry for your loss, I sadly lost my lovely mum 4 years ago and I still have wobbly days, but it does get easier.
So pleased to see you back, I’ve missed your lovely smiley face & your ‘mug of the daaayyy!!’ xx
Such a lovely video Kate, feel your pain and keep going! Our mums are always with us. When you see a white feather on the ground it’s your mum looking after you 😘
Sorry for the loss of your mum. Its lovely to have you back. Your such an amazing person and I love watching your videos. Lots of love xx
Oh it's lovely to see you . So sorry to hear about your mom Kate . Been thinking of you all xx
Thankyou xx
So glad to see you back hun, but take all the time you need. We definitely understand. I lost my daughter almost 3 yrs ago and some days I'm okay, but then others I'm a wreck. You just go at your own pace. Just always know that we are here supporting you and sending good thoughts to you. xxx
bless your little heart I lost my brother in May and two weeks later my husband lost his sister so know how yuor feeling xx❤️
Ahhh so sorry xx
The loss of a parent is devastating, they say time heals, my father passed away 40 years ago aged 49 when I was 15 and to this day I still can’t hold back the tears when I think or speak about him (I have tears streaming down my face as I type this) thinking of you and your beautiful family, remember the happy times. How is Toby coping? Children sometimes surprise us at how strong they are. Sending love.... Julie xxx
Hi Kate, lovely to see you, missed you. Both my parent's have passed away they died 2 year's apart. Both had long term illness and it was a relief in one way as they were out of pain. But the selfish part of me miss them so much. I still go to ring them sometimes but it does get easier. You will always have your memories of your lovely mum. Your mum would be so proud of you. Take one day at a time, sending love to you all. Take care xxx
Such a down to earth lady you are! What an inspiration your mum is! Always follow.you and watch your videos. My heart is br9ken for you but just remembr she is now not suffer8ng and watching over you. Take one day at a time so n8ce you have shared this with us when you didn't have to but that want makes you such a down to earth norfolk girl! X
So sorry for your loss. Sending big hugs🤗❤️
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Welcome back Kate, you did amazing xx looking forward to your upcoming videos xx
Good to see you back big big hugs to you take care xxxi it's ok not to be ok my mum died 7years ago and I still have bad days it's good you have family and friends round you xx
Oh Kate you poor darling! I so felt for you doing that video! Of course you will get upset and have sad times but over time you will learn to live with those feelings. I lost my dad a few years ago and discovered he had been writing a journal for years that no one knew about. What a comfort it was in those early days to see his hand writing and read this thoughts! Things like that mean nothing to other people but for you they are so important. So I guess what I’m trying to say is keep strong remember your lovely mum anyway you need to! So lovely to have you back! Big hugs to you lee and Toby!! Xx
Sending you lots of love 😍 it's nice to have you back but do take your time and don't push yourself ❤️❣️💕
Thankyou xx
I just found you from MrCarrington. I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom. I lost my mom 23 years ago and it is still sad but not as hard. Let yourself grieve. I look forward to watching all your other videos.
This was always going to be the hardest video for you to do....the first one after your dear Mum passed and all I wanted to do was give you a big hug and tell you it is fine to show your emotions. That's why we all love you.....your honesty ❤ your Mum would be so proud of you Kate. Much love to you and your family and welcome back to your UA-cam family xxx
Aww bless your heart Kate. I’m so sorry for the loss of your dear mum. It’s heartbreaking to see you grieving but you’re so strong to be able to show your emotion to the outside world. Sending you much love during this most difficult time xx
I'm so sorry for your loss beautiful, breaks my heart to see you so sad sending you big big hugs. ❤️😘 xxxxxxx
I know how you feel Kate we lost someone this week on Thursday we lost are rabbit dusty she passed on the way to the emergency vets she was 8 years old I found your video very comforting and I completely understand what you are going through x
So sorry for your loss kate xx
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So lovely to see your sweet face today. You did remarkably well, Kate, quite a strong lady. We all love you and support you during this most difficult time. I know you brought comfort to others today with sharing your sad loss. Hugs and prayers. 🙏
*MASSSSHOOOSIVE HUGS* I'm glad your back but take your time, 💕 Hope your all doing well, Were here for you through thick & thin, I'tll be okay hun i'm crying myself, I never knew your mum but she seemed like a amazing lady & she will always be there for you, I loved when your had her in your vlogs & you have these amazing memories, my grandad used to say before he passed even tho I wouldnt be able to see him he would be they & sometimes I do feel like he's here poking me in the right directon, Anyyyyyway I MISSED YOU!! you are fricken amazing
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Thankyou xx
Bless you Kate, well done for wanting to say Hello to us, but you can take as long as you need. I love your videos and that you are like a friend to everyone 😘 It's lovely that you and your mum had such a lovely relationship. xx
Sry for your loss hun it will take time and you are very brave to come on a chat to us all I have missed you sending a big hug 😍😘♥️xx
Lovely to have you back Kate, it's never easy to lose a parent. My dad died three days after my nineteenth birthday which was so hard, although I do think the older you are the harder it is to get over a parent passing away. Sending you all my love and looking forward to some new vlogs. All my love Joanne xxx
welcome back kate nice to see you back , I lost my mum on the 22nd of July 2019 so I understand it's hard x
and just do as much filming as you can we understand we will still be here for you X
That's the date I lost my mam too. It was my birthday xx
It's ok to not be ok. It sucks to lose your mom. Been almost two years now for me and I miss her every day. Love and happy memories of mom to you from Minnesota, USA.💜
OH KATE PLEASE BE STRONG. ...I LOVE YOU AND YOUR FAMILY SO MUCH. ..YOU'RE SUCH A LOVELY GIRL. ..I LOST MY BEAUTIFUL ACADEMICALLY BRILLIANT AND TALENTED DAUGHTER JUST LAST YEAR WHILE SHE WAS TAKING HER MASTERS IN CRIMINOLOGY AND LAW. .NO ONE EVEN CHECKED HER ROOM. ...I HOPE YOU DON'T MIND ME SAYING THIS BUT YOUS WERE SO ALIKE. ..BE BRAVE BE STRONG. ....I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.....LAURA'S MAM.....ANN.🌹 😇🕊💔👸🍾💋XXXXXXX
Welcome back Kate....you did really well getting through your first video since losing your lovely mum....you will probably find your emotions will catch you out at the most random times but it's fine to laugh or cry at any time. I lost my mum and sister 13 years ago and my dad 2 years ago, things still catch me out all the time....I find it's normally either a tune on the radio or seeing a beautiful rainbow that sets off the tears :-)
Welcome back,Kate. I missed you. Very sorry about your Mom. The mug of the day matched the same blush tome as your duvet cover. Very pretty.
Good to see you back Kate, we can all tell how hard it was for you to do this video!! Family means everything!! Treasure the memories of the time you had with your Mum and make some more great memories with Lee and Toby!! All the best!
Oh Kate I'm deeply sorry for your loss. I also lost my partner 4.5 weeks ago. He was only 59. It was so sudden. I'm so glad you have good support around you. Toby will keep you busy I'm sure. I'm in tears watching this. Bless you sweetheart. Lot's of love to you and your's xx
So sorry for the loss of your mum. Lovely to see you back xx
Welcome back. We've missed you and your mug of the day. I'm so pleased that you have so many lovely memories to look back on. Your mum would be so proud of you and how you've come back with such dignity and grace xxx
Lovely to have you back Kate, thank you for posting this video even though it's obviously so hard for you. Sending you lots of love during this hard time and we'll all still be here for your mugs of the day! Xx
It's never easy to lose someone close, when that person was ill for quite sometime you can feel that it may never happen, because they seem to battle through. Your right looking at photos and talking about good memories is the best way to go, your mum had a great personality and a warm loving glow. I'm so glad you guys got to spend quality time together.
With love and lots of hugs from my family to yours.
Hi Kate, it's so lovely to have you back. I know you how your feeling with being up and down, I lost my mum a few years ago and I really miss her. I glad your doing well love to you, Lee and Toby xx
So lovely to see you back Kate. One day at a time, I lost my main parent, my Dad, 17 years ago aged just 59, and I still have my moments, so please don't ever apologise hun xx
So lovely to see you back Kate, was so sorry to hear about your mum. My dad passed away 3 years ago and it's the hardest thing. I still find it hard to talk about it. Looking forward to watching your hauls again and mug of the daaay. Love Emma x
Aww Kate, I shed a little tear with you watching this. I’ve been there myself. Glad you’re ok. Take each day at a time! Happy that you’re back 🌻
Awww Kate so glad your back. I wish I could give you a big hug. I lost my mum two years ago and I miss her everyday. Im so sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of love. Xxx
Welcome back hun sorry to hear the sad news, I’ve not lost my mum yet but she’s in a nursing home with Alzimers and dementia I do dread the day anything happens big hugs to you
Oh sweetheart, I’m so sorry for your loss. I almost lost my brother last week, he’s just 54 and had a massive heart attack that he wasn’t expecting to survive. It’s been a crazy emotional week. I lost my Dad in 2005 aged 67, and I still have a wobble. I can tell you that as time passes, memories get happier and it’s easier to remember the good times and laugh with family and friends. But don’t rush or force yourself on our account. You’re allowed to grieve. Sending 🤗 🤗 ❤️❤️
Bless you Kate - early days darling - but you are doing beautifully. Great to see the support from Mr Carrington - content creators supporting each other - well done xxx
I lost mum 11 years ago dad even longer. It hits me on birthdays and Christmas and mothers day and farthersday. You never get used to it.its just trying to live with it. You will feel her around you on occasions.
Ohhh Kate. Your such a lovely lady. Your sooo amazing don’t be sorry. You have feelings and they’ll hit when you don’t expect it. Your mum will be proud and saying just be positive and look forward to tomorrow. Soooo nice to see you back xx
Great to have you back but I’m so sorry to learn of the loss of your mum. I’ve been out of circulation for the last 5 weeks too as I’ve been over to Canada to visit my daughter and family for the birth of her second baby. I lost my mum last November so know what you are going through, you will have good days and bad days but you will get through and slowly slowly the bad days get fewer as you become more able to focus on the many happy memories you have. Take care
Hello Kate. Lovely to see you on you tube again. I’m so sorry for your loss and send you big hugs. Xxx
Aww bless ya, yes I’m in tears but it’s because we care for you and I’m sure most of us have been or are in the same situation as you, so we know the pain, we know and understand the highs and lows and tears through laughter and tears through a thought and memory.
This was always going to be a bit of a hard blog because it’s the first one talking to us all, lots of deep breaths and taking one day at a time.
You are doing the right thing by facing and acknowledging your feelings, don’t bottle them up xxxx
The other reason why I’m in tears is because my husband and I are having to make a heartbreaking decision with our boy Snoopy (I say boy because he’s more than a dog) I know you’d understand because you have Ruffs and I can see how much he is loved by you and your family.
Your mum will always be with you, she will be in your heart and soul, never stop talking to her and letting her how you are feeling and things that you are doing, keeping her spirit alive and in your heart.
So it was really lovely to see and hear you and you have been in my thoughts and prayers, I was thinking of Toby to and I hope he’s doing ok xxxxx
Have a lovely time in Scotland with your boys and see you in your next blog
P.S. will your boys let you mooch in the charity shops in Scotland? Hahaha
Night night Kate and sweet dreams hun xxxxxxx
I’m so sorry for your loss. I really feel for you. My mum passed away on the 6th June this year and nothing prepares you for how that feels. I’m really thinking of you and sending lots of love xx
I’ve waited to comment - I lost my mum at the end of May and I wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss. I could see from the moment you appeared that something huge and sad had happened.How brave you are for doing this video - I’m sure that your mum would have been so proud of how you handled yourself. Stay strong and lovely, and remember her often and with love. Thinking of you xx
I'm so sorry your going through the grief of losing your mum, I myself am goin through the same grief after losing my mum at the end of May, everything you said was like hearing how I feel put into words, you just get on with the normal things and then it just hits you, doesn't matter where you are or what your doing, everyone finds their own way of coping and getting through their grief and we can only do it our own way in our own time, sending love and best wishes xx
Kate - it is sixty years since my mother died, and I think of her just about every day. You were fortunate to have such a good mum, and that will be why you are one too. Eventually you live with loss and it becomes part of you, so keep her memory alive and cry when you need to.
Bless you so much Kate xx I lost my mum 2 1/2 yrs ago, it does get easier and you have lovely memories xx
So lovely to see you back Kate,this was such a brave video,well done for getting through it,your mum would've been so proud, she was a lucky woman to have you all so close and caring for her so well. Much love xx
Lovely to see you again. My wonderful mum passed away many years ago and I still miss her every day .you have wonderful memories of your mum so she will always be with you .sending big hugs xx
Aww bless you Kate, worried about us when you're going through such a hard time yourself. It's great to see you back again. Take it easy, it's still very early days and you will be up and down. Looking forward to seeing the vlog with Iwan hes been talking about xx
Welcome back lovely lady. Your mum sounds like a very special person. Big hugs :)
Sorry for your loss Kate xxx be very proud of her xx
Made me shed a few tears; lost my mum when i was 37 some 19 years ago so i know how you feel.
It's hard but gets easier as the months go by. Looking forward to your Charity shopping vlogs.
Sending a big hug - cherish your memories of your mum. I know how you are feeling as I lost my mum when she was just 56. We all love your videos x
Ooow Kate I'm so sorry for your loss. I can feel your pain, I wish I could give you a hug just because I know how you feeling I lost my dad. You take you time hun & look after yourself do what you need to do. Really upset me to see you upset. So lovely to see you back. This is my son's ID Lots of Love & healing to you my lovely Sakina xx
Aw Sweetie as much as I'm happy to see you back it was hard seeing you like that. I had no idea your Mum was on oxygen all day long.Although I thought something was wrong when you took Rufus in. How lovely that you could spend all that time together.Love to the 3 of you.xx
Great to have you back lovely Kate!💛
Welcome back Kate, all of us who have lost a loved one can appreciate how hard making this video was for you. Your mum will forever be in your heart and mind, so you don't need to say sorry about getting emotional we all understand. Sending you all lots of love xx
Bless you sweetie. I am so sorry to hear about your Mum. I lost my Mum many years ago. So I know how it feels and you are doing great. Sending you love and hugs xxx
Aw Kate I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my dad 24 years ago and my mum 5 years ago. The loss of a parent is tough but I think losing your mum is harder. I was sat watching this video crying along with you but it is lovely to see you back with your 'mug of the daaay'. Take care and lots of love xx
So good to see you.
So proud of you for carrying on, even though you've been through a devastating loss. . We are with you at this time and want you to be well, and take care of sweet Lee and Toby and of course, take care of yourself. We don't mind you're crying; it's so lovely to hear about your mom and what a fantastic lady she was. It explains a lot about why you are so fantastic. Please take your time. As CormacksGirl said, we will still be here.
Hello Kate you back, missed you xx