【Malaysia vs Japan】Our Crazy Dating Culture | 日本とマレーシアのデート文化を比べてみた

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  • @ookayyyy7579
    @ookayyyy7579 4 роки тому +964

    “nak makan mana ?”
    is the most stressing topic ever .

    • @darkabyss8066
      @darkabyss8066 4 роки тому +50

      and their reply is "makan kat mulutlah "

    • @nurnatra43
      @nurnatra43 4 роки тому +31

      "makan kat mamak lah, "
      They replied
      "kan dah makan kat situ "

    • @eepycatshark
      @eepycatshark 4 роки тому +17

      Yeaaa its like the hardest question asked in my car

    • @mirska9
      @mirska9 4 роки тому +13

      Oh shit, that was an absolute nightmare

    • @farthurf.5221
      @farthurf.5221 4 роки тому +2

      Makan ada di tudung saji

  • @Raaz387
    @Raaz387 4 роки тому +314

    If women ask "where to eat?".....your answer is repeat the question...

    • @nuraimanakmal6480
      @nuraimanakmal6480 4 роки тому +33

      Dont suggest to her where to eat....n u will regrets

    • @blursedfly3504
      @blursedfly3504 4 роки тому +4

      Fucking same

    • @ismailhashim3378
      @ismailhashim3378 4 роки тому +17

      Just said i want eat u..

    • @rushdrift
      @rushdrift 4 роки тому +12

      "makan apa?" U leh want "makan apa?" then the cycle repeat till you get into an argument till end up at mamak stall,closest nasi lemak joint or McDonald/kfc.

    • @sitimrs3221
      @sitimrs3221 4 роки тому +1

      Haha..stress btl ni..

  • @putrinabillaaleyabintimohd8819
    @putrinabillaaleyabintimohd8819 4 роки тому +462

    The single one can't relate to either dating culture 😂😭

    • @budakgemuk90
      @budakgemuk90 4 роки тому +5

      I feel you....

    • @heenimfiara911
      @heenimfiara911 4 роки тому +6

      Single where ever you are. We are same. Hahaha. No boundary

    • @jessicaikumi5571
      @jessicaikumi5571 4 роки тому +1

      I can relate so much 😭😭

    • @yuciehayashi266
      @yuciehayashi266 4 роки тому +3

      Omg finally something I can relate.

    • @ginyahya9678
      @ginyahya9678 4 роки тому +3

      yeah.. order 2 dish just because both looks delicious.. end up tapau back leftover.. and eating silently alone... at home... (T . T)

  • @j.klaustar6717
    @j.klaustar6717 4 роки тому +349

    indeed mans in Malaysian got no privacy when around with girlfriend

    • @aera-xv2kd
      @aera-xv2kd 4 роки тому +36

      i’ve gave them privacy..i didn’t control them at all..didn’t check their phone etc..but they said i didn’t care about them..mans are complicated 🤷‍♀️

    • @sassysummer16
      @sassysummer16 4 роки тому +2

      erm i honestly prefer this...

    • @kyonamugench.
      @kyonamugench. 4 роки тому +1

      @@aera-xv2kd ik ik! Thats why choose men wisely

    • @jompisini
      @jompisini 4 роки тому +5

      I object. I trust my partner so much. Even we are husband and wife now, never i had check my husband phone so do my husband never check my phone.

    • @littlemissai8997
      @littlemissai8997 4 роки тому +5

      @@aera-xv2kd me too.. but he end up cheated on me almost many times.. and i became insecure. Men are indeed more complicated.

  • @Teng1024
    @Teng1024 4 роки тому +298

    My boyfriend is Japanese and I’m Malaysian, he does hold my bag some times but I didn’t ask for it. ちょっとびっくりした😳but I did asked いいの?and he will say いいよ、もちろん😌shopping part is very true... instead of waiting outside the shop or sitting at the bench, he will give opinion and choose clothes together which was really fun! Even what to eat we will discuss together instead of leaving the choice to only one of us. Food sharing part is not a problem as long as we asked each other’s permission politely ☺️ always start with itadakimasu and ends with gochisosamadeshita!

  • @aisyahrosli1454
    @aisyahrosli1454 4 роки тому +297

    sometimes we don't know what to eat until we get into a fight 😂😂

    • @yuhee9518
      @yuhee9518 4 роки тому +11

      Aisyah Rosli ahahah . my ex japan bf always prepare where to go, where to eat HAAHHA becoz he knew i cant decide HAHAHAAH

    • @zhongli8146
      @zhongli8146 4 роки тому +2

      World war 3 began😂

    • @aqmareesyaanuar4105
      @aqmareesyaanuar4105 4 роки тому

      Yes

    • @neo2790
      @neo2790 4 роки тому +3

      This is malaysian culture 🤣🤣🤣 friend also can quarrel 😂😂😂

    • @Bankgexplore
      @Bankgexplore 3 роки тому +1

      Haha... Typical malaysian couple...

  • @slmbkdk
    @slmbkdk 4 роки тому +229

    Not only phone password, your Malaysian gf will know all your social media password & have the access to read all your fb / ig / whatsapp / line or any messages from the phone.
    Btw nice slurrp there. 4:07 . i wish i can do that well :

    • @hajarahmad473
      @hajarahmad473 4 роки тому +19

      This must be new generation thing. Am in my 60s never had I ever asked nor bother to check my late hubby's password, nor check his phone messages. This also applies to majority of my friends. So is this a new generation habits of malaysian couples or plain generalisation

    • @zarulsr20detify
      @zarulsr20detify 4 роки тому +6

      Sy dh 15thn kawin tak pernah check hp dia....klu dia nk keluar dgn kwn pun sy jarang tanya nk kemana....selalunya somi dh siap2 ckp dia g mana.....jd tak semua sy nk ambik tahu...janji dia bertanggungjwp sudah....

    • @Amethyst0614
      @Amethyst0614 4 роки тому +6

      This must be pc culture... traditionally every spouse is at least aqquainted to their partner's family and friends incase anything happens

    • @ismailhashim3378
      @ismailhashim3378 4 роки тому +6

      Bank pin number pun dia tau lah..haha

    • @tiana8249
      @tiana8249 4 роки тому +5

      This sometimes become absurd.. One time i though i whatsapping my friend.. Talking about very personal thing.. Turn out she give her phone to his boyfriend together with all fricking password.. When i go to class my friend's boyfriend make fun of me.. I am so betrayed.. Never trust ur friend who is have boyfriend especially the one who first time having a boyfriend..

  • @NicoBonTV
    @NicoBonTV 4 роки тому +443

    Aki , who is Jennifer ?

  • @thats_not_breezyshes_soo_windy
    @thats_not_breezyshes_soo_windy 4 роки тому +209

    I think the last one if you take food without asking He/She will reply back “Main ambik Je😐”

  • @naomimishima5699
    @naomimishima5699 4 роки тому +76

    Times have changed, there’re many young husbands in Japan who carry their wives’ handbags these days...even my not-so-young husband😜

  • @HanemMini
    @HanemMini 4 роки тому +69

    1:00 Buy lah, Buy lah.

    • @MKMF57
      @MKMF57 4 роки тому

      The best way to make it fast...

    • @zackrocky8027
      @zackrocky8027 4 роки тому

      That's why many man wallet become empty until we know it and its too late😭

  • @togerthetigerking951
    @togerthetigerking951 4 роки тому +73

    The Malaysian privacy is true my friend told me that his GF know his Instagram password, Facebook, WhatsApp and ETC. I responded with a laugh.

    • @nuratiqah3656
      @nuratiqah3656 4 роки тому +9

      Meanwhile, my ex bf asking for my social media'z password and read my whatsapp. I never do that to him 😂

    • @mirra_wan
      @mirra_wan 4 роки тому

      Nur Atiqah uppp aku stuju..

    • @littlemissai8997
      @littlemissai8997 4 роки тому

      Well not me.

  • @tunmifzal5058
    @tunmifzal5058 4 роки тому +56

    Malay gf is just the boss

  • @arelunk
    @arelunk 4 роки тому +102

    "Her opinion is stronger." OUCH. 😂

  • @mayrose3675
    @mayrose3675 4 роки тому +29

    1:00 '' buy lah buy lah'' you using chinese slang now 😂😂😂😂

  • @wahidamanap8424
    @wahidamanap8424 4 роки тому +27

    as a malaysian, i can totally relate to all the situations LOL!!! this is 100% me and my husband

  • @incineratorium
    @incineratorium 4 роки тому +2

    Nice! Pretty accurate for the Malaysian part. I don't know about Japanese culture expect from the anime.

  • @najwawakana2545
    @najwawakana2545 4 роки тому +72

    I'm a malay and my husband are from germany... and we have so much of culture different😅😅🇲🇾🇩🇪

  • @quynhanhpham3761
    @quynhanhpham3761 4 роки тому +23

    My malaysian husband would never agree to hold my bag under any circumstance 🤣 In emergency case, he will ask me to put my bag on the floor or on the table he will watch for it 😂

  • @MAR-gq9wt
    @MAR-gq9wt 4 роки тому +32

    totally true especially about the decision making and that craving stuff. lol

  • @calvinlee9130
    @calvinlee9130 4 роки тому +91

    That's quite accurate, maybe except for the carrying bag part or its just me.

    • @nightwing7950
      @nightwing7950 4 роки тому

      nah i dont carry my wife's bag as well

    • @blursedfly3504
      @blursedfly3504 4 роки тому +5

      I did. usually after that I start walking flamboyantly and embarrass her

    • @raytvmy
      @raytvmy 4 роки тому +1

      Not until when it's necessary only

    • @stayanne2136
      @stayanne2136 4 роки тому +2

      many malay couple is like that

    • @milocylium6612
      @milocylium6612 4 роки тому +1

      I did lol..because scare got rob hahaha romantik la sgt

  • @alexanthony9913
    @alexanthony9913 4 роки тому +54

    that so true😂😂😂
    especially the privacy part.there is no privacy for Malaysian girl.they must know everything

    • @kizoritoram9956
      @kizoritoram9956 4 роки тому +1

      Yeah even if you hide your secret for 10 years they will secretly find out because of their detective expert skill.
      Edit: plus woman instict

    • @alexanthony9913
      @alexanthony9913 4 роки тому

      @@kizoritoram9956 well,that is one of the reason why man dislike sharing thier privacy especially thier social media password😅😅

    • @littlemissai8997
      @littlemissai8997 4 роки тому

      @@kizoritoram9956 yup mmg dh kantoi ex aku tipu aku, long distance relationship kot. Aku bleh rse with my instinct.

    • @littlemissai8997
      @littlemissai8997 4 роки тому

      @@alexanthony9913 Certain malay guy always cheating that's why.

  • @KN-cs8dp
    @KN-cs8dp 4 роки тому +51

    Usually when we eat out, my partner and I will say "try this" or "this taste good" while shoving each other's foods into each other's mouth. If my partner finishes his food, I will cry and said "why you finish your food and didnt left anything for me??? I want to taste it, so I don't have to buy it next time!! “
    The only acceptable answer is" the food doesn't taste good that's why I finished it without giving you" and I'll be "Thank God! You are so sweet and caring!" (to not let me taste something I'll regret later

  • @rocket_89
    @rocket_89 4 роки тому +1

    Great video btw. Really love it. 😂

  • @Tatatatatarutaru3
    @Tatatatatarutaru3 4 роки тому +7

    I was so surprised especially about the privacy part.
    Japanese girls occasionally know the bfs' phone password but not usual I guess... I as a Japanese,or just me, think that's too possessive, but most of girls might need that kinda relationship.
    But comes to shopping part I prefer Malaysian bf's one! Shopping and choosing things together is fun, but I want to experience that my bf passes me his wallet to buy my clothes😂👼

  • @affin1176
    @affin1176 4 роки тому +13

    The last part should be like this:
    B: *grab his gf's food without permission*
    G: So, you have choosen DEATH

  • @syazanahuda3328
    @syazanahuda3328 Рік тому +1

    The last one, we malaysian do ask permission first before taking other foods because it looks rude to suddenly taking someone's food

  • @YotaOnKai
    @YotaOnKai 4 роки тому +2

    ヤバーホントだ!!😂 私インドネシア人だけど、やっぱりインドネシアとマレーシアのスタイルめっちゃ似てるわ。動画を作ってくれてありがとうございます!とても面白いです!☺

  • @seantwentyfour471
    @seantwentyfour471 4 роки тому +2

    Thanks for this. I’m very familiar with the Japanese aspect, but am considering dating a lady in/from Malaysia.

  • @angiegan4703
    @angiegan4703 2 роки тому +3

    I personally prefer Malaysian dating.

  • @farahin28
    @farahin28 Рік тому +1

    The food thing and boundary applies to friends too. 😂 We just drink our friend’s drinks hahaha. In fact, we even insist them on tasting our food and feel bad if they don’t. We would say “eh, makan la makan la. Rasa la ni, sedapp”. I think we feel closer that way

  • @syfer5812
    @syfer5812 4 роки тому +1

    Love your content,
    Keep it up!

  • @SuevyYukiko
    @SuevyYukiko 4 роки тому +1

    マレーシア人です:
    Never understand why girls need someone else to carry their hand bag.
    .
    Personally don’t feel the need for your partner to pay for your shopping goods.
    .
    Never understand why some girls check their partner’s phone.
    .
    But the above does happen to most people.
    わかりません🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @_eLf45
    @_eLf45 4 роки тому +2

    different culture makes life so much more interesting

  • @amevaio92
    @amevaio92 4 роки тому +14

    i am a msian guy, lucky i have jp girlfriend lol...gonna visit her in tokyo next july...良かったわ、色々勉強した(笑

  • @qouryeah613
    @qouryeah613 4 роки тому +21

    Her opinion is stronger that true 🤣🤣

  • @chupoposama
    @chupoposama 3 роки тому +1

    It's almost universal fear, when it comes to making food decisions, the GF says "anything"...the roulette games begin...

  • @bdbgh
    @bdbgh 4 роки тому +1

    It's scary how on point some of these examples for Malaysia are, not just for dating but for social situations like the food sharing thing

  • @chew1291
    @chew1291 4 роки тому +20

    1:00 buy ra- buy ra hahaha...niceeee

  • @pakhang3247
    @pakhang3247 4 роки тому

    Nice video quality. The place and background so beautiful

  • @MrCyberizal
    @MrCyberizal 4 роки тому +3

    Hahahahaha amazing man.. u made it almost perfect...

  • @zenruhqe2432
    @zenruhqe2432 4 роки тому +50

    Boombooclat : this two perhaps will date each other ʕ•ᴥ•ʔwwwwwwww

    • @lizanisyam585
      @lizanisyam585 4 роки тому +10

      But the girl already got married la

    • @zenruhqe2432
      @zenruhqe2432 4 роки тому +3

      De Luna im just saying. :)

  • @anasakinaismail905
    @anasakinaismail905 4 роки тому +1

    Hahahaha good video!
    For me i don't like my boyfriend carry may bag😂 but most other thing is true especially on privacy things

  • @tiana8249
    @tiana8249 4 роки тому +2

    I love guys who can makr decisions..

  • @kestiameshad
    @kestiameshad 4 роки тому +2

    😂 I'm Malaysian and married and I can say that while every couple is different, the first two really doesn't apply. My husband never carries my bag unless I want to try on a jacket or have to leave my bag behind, and he never pays for my clothes LOL! True about the rest, though! Haha

  • @azimajim831
    @azimajim831 4 роки тому +1

    Wow aki already be a Malaysian guy.... "Buylah buylah" hahahaha.....

  • @JayCee2020
    @JayCee2020 4 роки тому +3

    I feel like Japan is in a world of its own, whereas other countries are pretty much like Malaysia lol

  • @nsbrawr9999_
    @nsbrawr9999_ 4 роки тому +1

    The sharing food is really true in Malaysia, but of course we will only do it with someone closer heheh

  • @annmcfly
    @annmcfly 4 роки тому +2

    As you get older together, married whatever the "where to eat" question will continue till the end. 😂

    • @yusasmayusoff8046
      @yusasmayusoff8046 Рік тому

      So true! We’ve been married almost 30 years and this “nak makan kat mana?” still a headache till now.

  • @dberambot
    @dberambot 4 роки тому +26

    Wkwkwk wadu. Untung la sweet2.. aku single tak pernah merasa semua tuuuu .. sob sob sob :/

  • @panzlithium
    @panzlithium 4 роки тому +9

    The food sharing, I can see it from iChang channel lol

  • @amarulhusairie697
    @amarulhusairie697 3 роки тому +1

    If your food looks & taste delicious than hers,once she taste it, that food belong to her already. 🤣

  • @cang9695
    @cang9695 4 роки тому +1

    haha that's interesting -- if you not mention then nobody see the different !! good work !!

  • @mr.taufikzainal699
    @mr.taufikzainal699 Рік тому +1

    In Malaysia, women always right

  • @azrulaimandpih6e233
    @azrulaimandpih6e233 4 роки тому +12

    Why so accurate😂

  • @acilalif470
    @acilalif470 4 роки тому

    Keep it up 😁

  • @tokding
    @tokding 4 роки тому +1

    If we were meant to be together, there should be no boundaries at all, and ofcoz in whatever we do

  • @nnlim5757
    @nnlim5757 4 роки тому +2

    There is one saying in Malaysia:the best food is the food you took from others

  • @WhitneyTan
    @WhitneyTan 3 роки тому

    Pretty accurate 🤣
    1. I love it when he holds my bag, much relief and love felt ♡
    2. We share the same passwords but never pry 🤣.
    3. Malaysians selecting where to eat is almost impossible, my partner and I always dont have a specific place in mind, we list out a bunch of places but mostly end up going back to our fav hawker area 🤣.
    4. We usually offer our food before taking a bite.
    Which dating culture do ya'll prefer? Malaysia FTW

  • @Geedi1977
    @Geedi1977 4 роки тому +5

    Very funny 😂 and interesting 🤔

  • @ishmaildeco990
    @ishmaildeco990 4 роки тому

    Lol this is such a great video dude. Gives us an incite into your cultures.

  • @annaxx953
    @annaxx953 4 роки тому

    分かりみが深いです😂✨✨

  • @coolwei1427
    @coolwei1427 4 роки тому +3

    The bag one is sooooooo true. My mom always tell me to hold her bag. I’m boy and it’s always feel cringe to walk around look like girls. I’m 14 btw

  • @foulstar1933
    @foulstar1933 4 роки тому +2

    Damn the food sharing in Malaysia is really relatable to me... 😂

  • @shahriltheangler
    @shahriltheangler 4 роки тому

    Spot on

  • @nurulhamizah4670
    @nurulhamizah4670 4 роки тому

    I think its about yourself mentality , for me , i respect my partner n he respect me . And all those typical malaysian stuff we dont do , except for deciding on what to eat(which at last, we at pizza n chill at home) can cause a huge fight :)

  • @kazama2212
    @kazama2212 4 роки тому +8

    You know you don't have to deal with "where to eat" things if you don't have a gf😏

  • @mayukiko
    @mayukiko 4 роки тому +16

    So, is Aki willing just close your eyes and pay? I mean your girlfriend's clothes.

  • @khrlazfradnan497
    @khrlazfradnan497 4 роки тому +2

    My youtube full with video aki from japan and ichang RM 🤣🤣🤣

  • @jacklee9628
    @jacklee9628 4 роки тому

    True!!!

  • @DGuitaro259
    @DGuitaro259 4 роки тому

    すみません aki-san, i've seen certain of でとstyles in japan especially anime ろまんしく😅 , i hope it same as real life or not perhaps, とあきさん? im really like otokoto japan style date, love it much

  • @perantauhepi8151
    @perantauhepi8151 4 роки тому

    Hahah I love this comparison.. It almost true...

  • @shafia33
    @shafia33 4 роки тому +1

    How about saying I love you? I remember my Japanese friends telling me they don’t say I love you to their spouse everyday, as it is “kimochi warui” while in Malaysia if you don’t say it they would sulk 🤣

    • @kuraiiz612
      @kuraiiz612 4 роки тому

      Hahahah in malaysia the husband doesn't say I love you the wife gonna throw a fit for the whole day 😂

  • @heavenlysadist
    @heavenlysadist 4 роки тому

    His birthday? Nope. Our Anniversary? Nope.
    That is the main reason why I wanted my privacy to be more tightened actually mine is like a shape password

  • @astraldreamstarot14
    @astraldreamstarot14 3 роки тому

    4:15 the no boundaries 😂👏👏

  • @paulalim84
    @paulalim84 4 роки тому

    I agree with no boundary hahaha not only with gf/bf but also frens and family 😂😂

  • @fayye4748
    @fayye4748 4 роки тому

    The makan part is quite true for malaysian.guys follows girls decision more

  • @PuteriAina
    @PuteriAina 4 роки тому +1

    i must say malaysians really don't have boundary when it comes to food because it's a norm to just taste friends' foods because we'll usually
    just say "ha, take la. more more" lol

  • @noname-cg1gj
    @noname-cg1gj 4 роки тому

    So true

  • @leimau2739
    @leimau2739 4 роки тому

    勉強になります😁

  • @nurazmina7457
    @nurazmina7457 4 роки тому

    Her opinion is stronger. That really right😂. Even after marriage, women always right😂

  • @obi6037
    @obi6037 4 роки тому +1

    Im a malaysian but i carries my own bag😂😂
    wait after watching the video i realize I do all the japanese do😂

  • @chronostone3488
    @chronostone3488 4 роки тому +4

    For me, for a man to hold woman's handbag is for safety. Banyak kes ragut, banyak orang cedera dan mati kena ragut. Jadi untuk keselamatan elok la kaum lelaki bawakan handbag, sebab jarang peragut nak ragut lelaki, kena fikir dua kali.

  • @akiyahentai3449
    @akiyahentai3449 4 роки тому

    Hello aki nice to meet you :)

  • @KarinKishimei
    @KarinKishimei 3 роки тому

    As Malaysian, don't touch my food. 🍲😂 Ask for it first

  • @forest3245
    @forest3245 4 роки тому +5

    In relationship or not I am not sharing my food 😂

  • @dronepilot1333
    @dronepilot1333 3 роки тому +2

    When you have a Malaysian wife you have no privacy about your ATM cards' password too.

  • @dunyamurni9752
    @dunyamurni9752 4 роки тому +1

    Time valentine jugaklh kluar vid recommendation ni.... So... Why I've even watch this. Its hurt in my kokoro becoz im single hahahaha.... Just kidding

  • @KheizlinaDanial
    @KheizlinaDanial 4 роки тому +3

    My husband will eat my left over also. 🤣🤣🤣 So accurate

  • @etelfon6722
    @etelfon6722 4 роки тому

    This video reminds me of my relationship with my siblings not only gf.

  • @pinkhair8872
    @pinkhair8872 4 роки тому +1

    JAPAN IS JAPAN
    MALAYSIA IS MALAYSIA!!

  • @Az-rv8gg
    @Az-rv8gg 4 роки тому +2

    An anime character once said
    " I ask him what to eat for dinner and he said anything is fine but 'anything is fine' was more difficult to decide"
    Sorry I don't remember what anime it is 😅😅😂😬😅😅😂😅😅😂😂😅😂😂😅😂😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂

  • @kkmm5797
    @kkmm5797 4 роки тому +1

    水色のソファー可愛すぎる

  • @donutrangerr
    @donutrangerr 4 роки тому +1

    NO WONDER MY GIRLFRIEND GIVES HER HANDBAG TO ME, ITS BECAUSE SHE THINKS ITS ACCEPTABLE

  • @heavenlysadist
    @heavenlysadist 4 роки тому

    3:46 "Her opinion is stronger"
    Me: What the fu-
    I usually fine with anything if it's for my least favourites not my dislikes foods

  • @nishiki_guy
    @nishiki_guy 4 роки тому

    Well... Rather than "No Boundary" I'm just used to sharing 😂

  • @fairuzhashim5604
    @fairuzhashim5604 4 роки тому +2

    I really need a guy who can decides where to eat instead of asking "nak makan mana?"

  • @Mr.x88
    @Mr.x88 4 роки тому

    u two so funny..i like it

  • @ka.9214
    @ka.9214 4 роки тому +2

    ネックレス一緒の持ってます〜💕💗💕おそろいだうれしい

  • @ri3yt
    @ri3yt 4 роки тому

    If I have to meet someone I’ve always try to be punctual or 15min early bcoz I don’t like them waiting for me, and I’ve done this for years, recently I just try to be late like my friends did because I’ve already make peace with it that Malaysian will never be punctual.