Trans Girl Reacts to Jerry Springer's "Transgender Reveals"
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- Опубліковано 30 лис 2020
- Trans Girl Reacts to Jerry Springer's "Transgender Reveals"
Reacting to Trans Women on Jerry Springer
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This show is scary. Why do we think of trans people as less of humans?! This makes no sense. AT ALL
yeah um the 90s and 2000s were extremely tr@nsph0bic.
Srsly people are people
I do disagree with a lot of trans people in the idea of not telling their potential partners about their previous identity and some other things ,I have noticed that a lot of ppl do act like it's a crime to talk to or about a trans person .
@chris white exactly !
I don't get why these trans women would go on shows like this
Sucks you didnt get to the Jerry clip, when a trans woman comes out to partner and he says "I dont care, i love you"
it was actually sweet
Awww omg
Linkk plsss
Don't know if any of these are the one they're looking for, but in that vein:
You Were Born A Boy... But I Don't Care // Jerry Springer
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Happy Ending with a Transgender Women (The Jerry Springer Show)
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Ill Try Anything Once Twice If I Like It LOL
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@@tyronethames2472 thanks!
That was weird
"I was born a man."
Am I the only one imagining a full-grown adult man popping out of someone?
Plop 👨🏻
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@@FudgeEater you forgot this 🔨
No
eeeewwwwww...
liked
you got that in my head
Soooo I’m a cis female dating a trans girl who came out and started transition after we started dating. We’ve been together 2 and a half years, I just want every trans person to know there is hope of finding happiness and someone who will accept you for who you are!!
QvQ this makes me happy
I am a trans girl who hasn't had opportunities to really start transitioning cause I'm to young to start on anything other then just make up, hair and clothing
And I worry about relationships and stuff I need someone who dose genuinely like me as a girl and I worry sometimes if the people I do date end up seeing me as a dude and stuff :(
I just really need someone in my life who I can be sure loves me as much as I love them and thinks of me genuinely as a girl
Will never happen no straight man will be attracted to you unless they have some fetish. In which case they will do it with you to get the kink out of your system but won’t commit to you because you are a man and always will be. You can’t have kids and have a penis. He won’t want to bring you home to mom that’s for sure
@@Richie_Alpha_Rabbit69
Maybe you won't and maybe a lot of guys like you
But truth is I wouldn't date an ass whole like you in the first place
And there are plenty of men out there who aren't terrible
And besides I know personally I'm more into women anyway
Also FYI
We trans girls actually can have vaginas
So
Just saying
And there are plenty of cis girls who can't get pregnant
So
@@karilemon7570 Am I terrible for speaking truth? You have the talking points down but deep down you know that a straight man wants a woman and not someone who believes they feel like one. What if you always get looked at as a man in woman’s clothes? Can you control how other people see you? If me a 6 foot two 250 pound man decides to become a woman do I get to tell men they are terrible for not seeing me as a woman? Even if I get the fake slash drilled in my pelvis it’s not real it’s crazy to think that a man with that surgery is the same as a real woman who cannot conceive a child due to some medical problem. It’s fantasy and you need to understand gay men don’t want this and lesbians don’t want it either for the most part. I hope you work through this and have a happy life I know I was able to get through my perversions and be happy with who I am as a man. I can finally have peace thanks to Jesus Christ and he can save anyone.
10:10
I like how the last guy is like "do I look gay?" And someone in the audience yells "yea" 😂😭😂😭😂
😂😭
😂 bruh
****lol****
Hate how toxic masculinity constantly becomes women's problem to deal with.
Not gonna lie, comments like these rub me the wrong way. Anyone can be toxic and it ends up being everyone else's problem to deal with.
@@ymarascough1765 you obviously don't know what toxic masculinity is, do some research before commenting.
@@ShearF3ar I'm a woman... all I'm saying is I don't agree with using the buzzword "toxic masculinity" to describe something that people from all walks of life and backgrounds are guilty of. For example you assuming my gender based on nothing other than a viewpoint is a trait of toxic masculinity, however you may be a woman or non-binary so toxic masculinity doesn't seem appropriate.
@@ymarascough1765 heya ymar, I just read your comments and was thinking maybe you're a bit confused on the term toxic masculinity. When people say this, they are not saying masculinity is bad or toxic. Toxic masculinity is a description of societies pressures on men to be masculine, to not cry, to be the breadwinner, to do the hard work, to have lots of sex and to not show emotion. Its a toxic mindset that men and boys are indoctrinated into. Toxic feminity exists too!! I can explain more if you want. The og commenter was trying to say that toxic masculinity is very present in this video.
@@ymarascough1765 lols #NotAllMen right? SMH
In seriousness im assuming you didn't mean to be dismissive and simply aren't aware of the context. So its all good.
Ill explain: Samantha was pointing out that a transwoman saying something like, "you didn't complain when we were hooking up." Can get you killed by the man you say it to. The reason for this is because despite what he feels inside, he becomes a target for ridicule by toxic parts of society when they perceive him as gay (and thus not manly. which like, realy!? Nuthin more manly than two dudes goin at it in a barn, just sayin.) for being attracted to transwomen. So he lashes out at the woman because he wants to reclaim his "lost manhood."
Our toxic cultural idea of masculinity litteraly has a built in claim that its more manly to be violent and beat up or even kill transwomen than it is to accept (unwaranted) ridicule for being attracted to a transwoman.
Its just like how women are told not to dress a certain way or they might draw the attention of a rapist.
Its putting the responsibility for a man's action onto the woman instead of solving the problem, which is toxic masculinity.
The best cure for toxic masculinity is wholesome masculinity. Its not telling women to walk on eggshells because they might inadvertently harm a man's feelings.
Jerry Springer takes serious subjects and turns them into a Freak Show.
Seeing the pain on the woman’s face after he said “I don’t wanna be with a man I wanna be with a woman” made me choke back a sob
Yeah maybe if she told him man to man (pardon the pun) rather than embarrassing him on national tv that wouldnt of happened 😂😂
@@kakerobertson1965 as a trans girl I agree with u it's better if she told what's the reality bcuz it could really be dangerous if she won't and he found out
@@mattydudak5250 I feel like she should’ve said something before he was already emotionally invested. Everyone isn’t going to be into being in a relationship with a trans person, and you shouldn’t lie by omission to people. What’s for you is for you and maybe that person just isn’t for you. I feel like he would’ve had a better reaction if she hadn’t done it on national TV with a live audience watching him
@@PrincessZaire100 girl!!! You nailed it!!♥️♥️
Who else is OBSESSED with Samantha's hair
I'm pretty sure she uses function of beauty but I could be making that up
@@dominickjohnson2548 what’s that?
Jealous of*** 🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️😍
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Is it all real?
Hey bb just here to say trans women are women, trans men are men, and non-binary people are non-binary
Thank you 🥺 I was feeling kinda down and you just made my day better :D
*thats truth*
Thank you, even though you didn’t mean only me it hit right in the heart❤️❤️
I’m not trans but I’m still LGBTQ and this makes me really happy to hear
Periodt👾💫⭐🌟💛
Whether you hate that or not it's true so go satown transphobe👹
I am transitioning late in life. I am 62 now. I am constantly miss gendered everyday and it hurts so much I just want to crawl into a hole and cover myself up. I am tall (6’2”) and after going through chemo about 15yrs ago I gained a lot of weight even though my entire life beforehand I was thin. No matter how I look and was brainwashed into thinking when I was young I have always known I am a woman. I really hate having horrible parents and not being able to be me since childhood. I can’t wait till the pain ends
I’m rooting for you Joanna. 🥺 it’s never too late to find peace in being who you are.
Keep fighting sis. It’s never too late to become who you truly are.
Hey Joanna. My same story except I’m 58 and no cancer, but heavy. Homemade conversion therapy I call it.
I came out in Jan 2019. Two months before lockdown. It’s been hell since.
I hope this message finds you well and coping with our same troubles.
Sincerely
@@karicardiff4976 yes it suck’s coming out late in life, but I have to admit it is better. I at least
@@joannalamb4542 agree 100%💖
Our society has so much to learn. As a fifth grade teacher I will say, many more kids are coming out younger and are more open and accepting. I’m hoping we continue to grow and stop treating trans people like a joke. My students love James Charles ( although I’m not assuming he’s trans- to my knowledge he says he is a gay man) but even the boys think he’s cool and like him. It made me realize times are changing. Also I live in Miami so maybe things are a little more progressive down here than in other parts of the country.
im not trans and im shaking im so angry how did you film this and stay that calm??? you amaze me
I think at some point you get used to hearing these things unfortunately, on the inside we're always seething but it's just accepted that life's like that for us
sounds like a snowflake
@@uwunetwork what?
@@bandamani Thats so sad and I hope one day the rest of society will also be angry. Until then know there are so many people who are standing behind you cheering you on and ready to help where ever you ask for it. You are perfect and valid if no one has told you that recently.
@@kyriewoolsey9608 thank you sm :)
I’m guessing the trans people on that show don’t necessarily consider themselves men, but were told by the show’s producers to say they did. More likely to elicit conflict that way.
Agreed. Weaponized transphobia that ultimately perpetuates transphobia.
This is correct.
Yeah, his whole show was scripted and fake. It was a nasty, disgusting, exploitative show.
Theze episodes some of them are 20 years old
@@donnymoney4222 Even older than that. He was biggest in the 90s. There were so many trash daytime talk shows in the 80s and 90s.
Omg look at me at 16!!! Lmao I can’t believe y’all got my episode up here 🖤🖤🖤
Not all guys are like that clown. You are really beauitful. I wish I can have a women like you one. Stay proud, postive and blessed:)
What was it like?! Did they coach you on what to say/not say?
No world is changing with positvity of growth. To grown as man. Is to learn and understand. Hate is to fall as boy from the chosen place as a man.
@@flora11y yes the only thing that they kept true was my name..everything else was scripted even setting up who was gonna be my man, they found him on MySpace at the time lol definitely an acting thing
@@rashadwatkins5217 aww that’s extremely sweet of you thank you 🖤
okay so I gotta say that “I’m a man too” was a: such a clap back, b: absolutely inaccurate, and c: if it was framed better like “then i’m a man too” as in women shouldn’t be shamed for doing what men do, or “i was a man too” it would’ve been so fucking powerful but dammit jerry springer you did us so dirty.
Samantha YOU’RE RIGHT!! It is fake/scripted. A friend of mine was on Jerry Springer for a “ love triangle “ he wasn’t even dating either of them. Show set it all up.
I also met a guy who was a little person and they paid him to act wild on air, it’s all scripted
The acting is scripted the stories are real your friend was not on the show clearly I also know people that were on there the situations are definitely real
The situation’s are real. At least some of them are. my cousin has a friend who was on it. From what he told my cousin what they do is they go into the dressing rooms and hype each side up like “oh my god can you believe/did you hear what that bitch said?” Then they send them out and have them go at it.
You are fake and scripted.
Tell us more sis
I have a friend and his wife that was on Springer and i can tell you for sure they are coached and the shows is very heavily edited
yes I was on Springer, they paid for my trip to Chicago paid for hotel and food and then told use what to say and what to do on the show. I wasnt allowed to hit people since I was over 18 and the other guy wasn't. My part of the show was overly exaggerated but the story was mostly true. We filmed the show for hours but was edited down to an hour episode with commercials and other things cutting in was probably 30-45 minutes
@@scottbright2207 what were you on for?
@@skinflutey I was on because I helped a girl I knew move out of her boyfriends house, his family didn't like her and called the show and made me out to be the other guy but my part was exaggerated
@@scottbright2207 thanks for explaining
I also know someone personally who was on the show! They told me as well how stripted it was. How they paid for this and that..
Idk man if a trans woman was like "ok so I was born a dude" I'd just be like "alright well I used to be a child"
A child isnt a gender tho
@@Hugulubugulu The fact that you can't see the analogy I was making purely because age and gender are not the same thing explains why you're not smart enough to understand my point
@@HedeccaTamer Why I replied like that is because I thought you'd be alright dating with a trans based on your comment by comparing being born as a child to altering one's gender
If you're alright with that, then I respect your choice tho
@@Hugulubugulu Ooh it came across like you were saying my point was wrong because age and gender are different haha, my bad
@@HedeccaTamer no worries lol
the fact that this was actually a show lowkey makes me wanna cry
Boo hoo
"i was born a man" - i just wanted to say that I was born a baby not a *man*
i was born a man full beard power tools in hand then after a quick cigarette i drove my mother home
@@furcaswolfbane7334 🤣
You born male or female and there is intersex too
@@__yt9081 I was born a dragon
@@__yt9081 that is not related to the post at all
The second one was so heartbreaking because she was being so gentle
She took a guy on national tv to embarrass him. Id be pissed if this shit happened to me. Should feel sorry for the guy
@super not gay
Right, but his reaction was explicitly transphobic and then called her a gay man. I don’t feel bad for either of them because they both acted horribly.
Gentle until she wanted to fight him?
@@kakerobertson1965 are you ok?
@@adrian6591 bruh your parents called you Adryan, i should ask you the same thing
If my girlfriend came to me and said hey I'm trans I would be like Hey I started dating you for your personality not your genitals I would love her no matter what 😁
That second clip really hurt. When that audience started applauding him, that cut deep and I'm cis. She deserves better.
Its newish. Prob is 2017. We didnt have the term "thot" in the 90's.
Very true! 😒
@@_samanthalux just wanted to say I've been watching ur channel for awhile..you've really grown into an amazing young woman!
@@luxie2155 what is a "thot"?
@@kingmonde a "thot" is a newish slang term for "slut".
@@kingmonde its an acronym for : That Hoe Over There. Its stupid language 🙄
I always hated these surprise 'I'm a transgender woman', segments it always felt like they just do that to perpetuate transphobia, idk it always felt so hateful
Same
It was years ago though, media was very transphobic at that time
It is and isn’t but it does give transgenders a knowledge of thier existence .....not all episodes end badly
@@__yt9081 there’s a difference between acknowledgment and hatred.
@@memeju1ce thanks Captain obvious
Seeing these videos as a kid, and seeing my parents reaction to it kept me in the closet for a decade longer than I should have.
Original Air Date Probably was in The Early 2000 I Feel Made For Her Honestly
They didn't use the word thot back then...
when I was a kid I used to tune into Jerry Springer all the time just so that I might see a trans woman on the show. Every time I hoped that the transwoman would be accepted by the guy she had been keeping her transness a secret from and when finally one guy actually was ok with it I was really happy (although it made me sad that the crowd acted like he was nuts for it). It also annoyed the shit out of me that the transwomen usually said: "I'm actually a man" when coming out on the show. I kind of wondered if they were coaxed into saying that by the producers to make it more shocking for the audience. I was actually contacted by the Maury show once a long time ago because they wanted to have me on one of their shows where they have a bunch of cis passable transwomen on but I turned it down (being on a trash show like Maury was not that appealing to me)
I always found Jerry Springer funny but the trans ones were painful. Its like they wanted to paint a picture of how trans ppl act.
@@alyah9098 Shows like Jerry Springer exist so that working-class people can watch poor people make fools of themselves and think "I may not be successful but I'm doing a hell of a lot better than these losers." The whole premise of the show is incredibly sad and exploitative and fuels some of the worst perceptions people can have about each other.
@@AConnorDN38416 thats sad and extremely weird. I mean they even had an segment where they'd roast the people on stage. I hope thats not true, especially since the show was known mostly from those who had no cable. The show is gone now though.
I always suspected Jerry Springer of being staged, like wrestling. And those trans reveal clips made me cringe even back in the '90s and 2000s. Why did people have to be so backward back then? WHY? We trans women are women, trans men are men, and nonbinary people are nonbinary. We trans girls aren't drag queens. There's no point where the girly stuff comes off and we become men. What you see is what you get. These are my real boobs. These are my real hips. No, you can't touch my boobs, hips, or anything unless I invite you.
I agree! I ain’t a fan of jerry springer.
This is absolutely awful. Trans people deserve love and respect and it breaks my heart how "taboo" it is to date a trans person
Their loss.
I’m dating a trans woman. Couldn’t be prouder of her. ♥️
@Lucinda Rossing same
@Funny Lady I mean I would.
@Funny Lady I'm not even going to waste my time on this..
I actually remember an episode that I saw when I was little. It was a trans man telling his girlfriend that he had been assigned female at birth and she didn't react violently, angry, the crowd didn't yell or jeer at them or shame either of them for being together or attracted to one another.
Just remembering that episode about trans men and seeing how the show treats trans women, it seems like they have a problem with the women in particular.
I was sent here by my friend who's trans and honestly I've learnt so much from this channel. Helping me get closer to her and understand my best friend better... Thank you Miss Lux you are incredible 😁
the “unless you’re a trans man you’re a man” i just felt so validated🥺🥺
@Leon Chameleon no no no i’m a trans man she said that that trans men are real men and it made feel vaild
I'm also a trans boy and I felt the same
@@Nb-by6uo that’s great:)
I will add my hat to the ring of trans men, lol, still getting through the video. Also, omg, is it just me, or is there more hateful/rude comments than on some of the other videos of Samantha's? I think it's the topic, cause people are more jumpy about it. Still sad to see though.
Nonetheless, happy trans man noises!
@@kiralonely1307 i agree i wish there wasn’t hateful commentss but yasss happy trans man noises
"If you're a girl attracted to a trans woman, it's a little gay...sorry"
Offense not taken, I am very attracted to you 😅😅
how are you gay if you are fully a woman no penis nothing makes 0 sense
@@alexmaganda5827 cis women can't be gay?????
@@alexmaganda5827 Uh, gay women exist. Lesbians are gay as well, duh.
ME lol she's so beautiful
@@alexmaganda5827 gay can be used as an umbrella term.
You’re so graceful the way you reacted to this and the way you were able to express the hurt.
In the third clip the whole “you should have told me right away” and everyone cheering just shows not one person that agreed with him has ever even had the base knowledge to take a second and think from anyone’s perspective but their own. Like he’s literally saying (while they met at a bar and didn’t even know each other) “you should have told me something deeply personal, difficult, potentially traumatizing, and that could have anything from extreme insults to being attacked to even murder” like.... no? She did not have to say anything until she wants to, Until she was safe and ready to do so by her own volitions entirely
You genuanly don't have to be trans to feel bad for trans people. I can't imagine the pain some trans people must have experienced by watching those clips. Seeing people that don't accept you for who YOU are, seeing people who are laughing at you and calling you by the wrong pronouns is just DISGUSTING and so, so painful to watch! I can literaly cry for trans people ANY day...
If you're trans and ur reading this, I am so so sorry that there are dumb people out there that want to make you feel terrible or who don't believe in you. Just know that there are a lot of people like me who accept you. You are who you are and God bless you! Stay strong❤
This is so sweet. I totally agree with you... People are so toxic, it makes me feel super depressed
Thank you so much! ❤️
I just want to say that you are valid and I'm sorry you have to go through all that as a trans person, I hope it gets better. You all deserve love and to live the way you are without fear ❤️
I feel empathy for a lot of the trans people around our area. I thought that being a gay guy was difficult, and it is, for many, sadly. But people treat trans people, especially women, like they're sub-human. And no one deserves to be hated, degraded, and disrespected, when they're just being them, and not hurting anyone!
I thank you all so much. ❤️
I love that it’s always “born a man” just for dramatics... like when they were born they were a full grown man i don’t get it lol🙄🙄🙄
@@mikelitt5838 man means adult male human so yeah it’s weird to say born a man
@@mikelitt5838 Yeah, that would be weird. But because your statement is an oxymoron. Once you've been born, you're not a fetus. No one is born a fetus, that's fundamentally impossible by definition.
In that case does 'born male' work for u, snowflake?
@@spamaccount2407 all y’all talking shit don’t even have enough balls to use your name or real picture 😂😂😂😂😂😂 your life must be real pathetic if this is what you do in your free time... does it make you feel better about yourself?
@@spamaccount2407 and yes born male is accurate good job👍🏻
I started crying when I noticed you were visibly upset with one of the reveals. The hostility situated on trans women is heartbreaking and that show definitely didn’t combat that in the way that it should’ve. Ugh, I just want to let you know I love you so much bby girl ❤️ Your input for this video was everything 🙌🏻💞
"Do I look gay?"
What do straight people think gay looks like? If you walk down a crowded street, can you point out everyone who's gay based solely on their looks? Fuck no! People think I'm straight and I'm nowhere near that at all
i remember seeing an episode from Mauray or the Jerry Springer (i dont remember) where a girl came out as trans and the guy actually said something like "Well I'm willing to try anything once" and they kissed
idk i thought that was so sweet how he was open and willing enough to give her a chance and not see her any different ❤️
Jerry Springer: I think I found the clip :)
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Tyrone Thames thank you!!
Tbh, I think Jerry Springer and Maury are pretty much the same concept. Only difference is that Maury tries to find the baby daddy, Jerry wants to “settle” disputes
Another show that is similar to Jerry Springer, is the Steve Wilkos Show. Steve was head of security on Jerry Springer so that’s probably why he started his own show lol
did you guys hear that elliot page came out as trans today? that’s pretty cool
Damn, what a king
Who 🤠
im going to be honest i had to look up who they are but im proud of him :D also it said he uses he they pronouns so i hope im not misgendering them
The girl from Juno I loved her :|
Juicy Smooyay Wow, you're so brave for insisting on misgendering someone. Truly a hero.
in case it wasn't clear, that was sarcasm
the perfect time to tell someone is the first time you talk to them and you work it into the conversation.
It's amazing how much your channel has changed throughout the years!
Meanwhile my girlfriend and I don't have any problems because we're both trans. :3
aw, i wish you two the best!
my girlfriend and i are chill bc she accepts me as trans and is super accepting 🥰
awee =3
My boyfriend is cis and I'm trans and he's the most supportive sweetheart ever
T4t fr
I remember seeing one of these shows where the guy was cool with the transgender reveal. I actually clapped because it was nice to see someone being open minded.
It was afew years ago, so I’m sorry I can’t remember which show it was.
@@ericishappy1979 yeah I remember the guy saying after the trans woman came out to him that he’s gonna give it a shot anyways. Honestly it was the only trans reveal in Jerry Springer with a happy ending.
@@user-ub9mm4vr5k was it a Jerry springer episode?, I thought it was another show. Ah well, at least someone else remembers the episode I mentioned. Thanx
@@ericishappy1979 yes, it was a Jerry Springer episode, I just don’t remember which video it was.
Anyone got a link to that episode? Just curious.
i found ur channel like 5 hours ago and haven’t been able to stop watching since,,, i’m obsessed
First, your necklace is adorable! The way you explain and respond to clips is perfect.
The first two made me depressed, and the last made me embarrassed. (I'm a trans girl btw)
Same
@@mayholland9474 Thanks for the warning, I'll try to stay safe.
@Akiko Kanaro Thanks for being considerate ❤️
@@mayholland9474 most of them are trans women of color.
@@mayholland9474 there's been 128 deaths from trans women this year- it makes me sad since i'm genderfluid, and i have a lot of lgbtq+ friends.
Probably the worst time to tell your BF that your trans is when you're on the Jerry Springer show.
I think sometimes they did that so bouncers could stop the men incase they freaked out and tried to assault/kill them
I don't know anyone gets invited to Springer, without expecting some next level bullshit to be dropped in their lap? I love my husband more than anything. I'd never hurt him. But I told him long ago, that if he ever invites me to go on Springer with him, I'm gonna just swing on him, right then and there without an audience! 😄
I would date a trans woman. But i would prefer to know she's trans early on in the relationship. Biological kids is important to me.
@Shrödinger Kat Good advice.
i don't know how you have the patience to sit through videos like this lmao also on an unrelated note you're ridiculously cute
This really does address the fears I have concerning coming out as trans and making that leap. I know that as a trans woman, I'd be putting myself in heightened levels of dangers in the dating atmosphere; men and women alike. Truly frightening.
Hi! Trans guy here. It does actually get easier once you make that leap, at least on your mental health. Passing is 90% confidence, 10% effort. Just try not to draw too much attention to yourself and remember, you don't have to pass 100% and be completely stealth in order to be respected. Just don't go into public restrooms (if you can help it) I use Refuge Restrooms to find gender-neutral restrooms in my area.
I'm sorry that you have to struggle with fear for your safety in order to be your true self. I'm sorry that's how this world makes you feel. It breaks my heart.
@@W41K.3R I totally get it. I haven't made the transition yet as I'm actually waiting until my next appointment this Christmas Eve to tell my GP. I'm a relatively cautious individual already considering I've done so much research to make sure my area was at least progressive (I live in the outer perimeter of Atlanta and my specific county happened to be heavily democratic thanks to the election results, so yay), but it's still quite dangerous here. Despite Atlanta becoming a major hotbed for the LGBT community as of late, there's still a stigma surrounding the trans community. Just 2 months ago, a trans woman was shot dead in broad daylight here in Georgia. I know I need to be confident in myself (which, after encountering my dear friend who is also trans and my non-binary co worker, I am), but my inner self is just screaming not yet. I don't know. I'm just a mental mess and can't think straight. I should hurry up and tell my physician and start my life. You're right that I do need more confidence.
@@darkartist9936 well, at least you can make an informed choice. That's more than I had. Just gotta fake it 'til you make it I guess. I'm still androgynous and I carry a knife. Good luck with your appointment. I hope the pain eases soon.
Yeah, sometimes you forget how little time it has been that they give positive representations of trans people.
same.
"You do you-
Actually, maybe don't"
-Samantha Lux
That one guy calling her gay has the same energy as my work colleagues saying "he's a lesbian" when talking about me👍
holy shit the guy who was actually already dating the girl... i get being upset your partner didn't tell you, but it's like the second he knows she's trans she's no longer human to him, wtffffff
You really have to think about the other person in this situation. That’s a very dishonest thing to do, sorry to say it and I have no problem with peoples life choices and I respect their choices but no matter how anyone feels it’s doesn’t change facts and people have to understand that. You cant expect people to respect your life preferences if you don’t respect there’s. It’s a 2 way street.
@@tonygianelli5002 right i was going to say the same.. like be honest from the jump that ur trans.. they think that by lying its going to make them fall in love with them and not care that they are trans but that only makes things worse ... mess with the wrong person and they might even go as far as killing u for lying to them about being trans... its deep
@@LizRenay I know there were more comments to our comments but since our comments are constructive and not destructive I guess UA-cam didn’t like that and deleted the rest of them. Just more censoring people’s opinions but yes I agree with you as well.
@@tonygianelli5002 agreed.
Well I mean your whole relationship was a lie. Wtf do you really expect
I thought the first one, the girl roasted the dude and that’s why everyone was so hyped.
I’m an idiot.
same😅
Im a bigger idiot i still dont unDerStand-
Same
I thought the same thing
Exam Mole honestly i didn’t see it as her calling herself a man, she said if i’m a thot then what are you ‘i’m a man’ her: ‘then i’m a man too’ idk that’s how i saw it 😂
its awesome she comes out in wedding dress and jerry has a wedding frame brought out
hahah they even play the wedding music with the church pianos ♥ by tc great videos
and TYSM FOR MAKING THE KETCHBEAUTY VID
its refreshing to hear opinions presented in a serious and thoughtful way. thank you ms.lux yours, jeana repetto :)
I remember watching these as a kid and being “um no those are ladies”
And I still full think/know that
You know you lying. Nobody was thinking that at this time. Most people didn’t even know transgender was a thing then.
@@FlowerTower some people where raised knowing what trans was, but they might have said that because they looked physically feminine
@@FlowerTower I know what trans was since I was 10 😒
@@ines1084 are you 10 today? Cuz I was born in 1996 and when I was 10, there was no trans visibility. Nobody in regular life even knew that was a thing - we just called them shemales.
It’s fucked up but it’s true. Wasnt nobody walking around like, « ou have gender dysphoria? You likely fall under the trans umbrella. » that simply wasn’t a thing until relatively recently.
And I’m not saying trans people didn’t exist - they definitely did. But nobody really understood them or bothered to respect them. And like I said, there was no visibility so the average person had never met someone trans or anything.
@@flynnpoindexter7352 but they don’t look physically feminine. Y’all just lying.
did y’all hear about elliot page coming out? I’m so proud 💘💘
Don't know who that is but good for them. :-)
Yes, just today as a matter of fact! So exciting!
Yessss been a fan of them since 2009🖤🖤🖤
@@NintendoGameTube1 yeah me neither but I'm so proud of him!
@HW_Throws Haven't heard of either one.
New Fan here. Recently discovered your videos and all i can say is you're amazing! Love the personality, love the look, love everything about you! About to binge all of the videos i have missed.
There was a good one, where the girl said "I used to be a man" and the dude said "I'd try anything once" and they made out.
Who else just saw the news about Elliot Page's coming-out and can't sleep cuz feels? 😭🏳️🌈
Yeah I was soo happy for him 🥰
First thing I saw when I typed his name was a vid from Clownfish TV. The transphobes are already malding...
@Madelyn Stanton the actor from umbrella academy
a groovy person. Hope he's doing well and the terfs lose their kneecaps.
For real!
Hey Samantha!!! Girl - I'm in my thirties and I grew up watching that garbage. Jerry Springer is the worst, and he's no advocate! The fact that he had transgender women on the show having such a private, uncomfortable, delicate conversation makes me absolutely sick. Trans people are not to be treated as a sideshow just because they have a different journey than cis people. He's a harbinger of human misery. I was just thinking about all the representation of trans people, namely women, in pop culture up until what.....2019??? The 90's was especially bad. Ace Ventura, Friends, Scary Movie, SOTL, The Crying Game, the list goes on and on. I cringe when I think about it. I had to re-educate myself, because the movie "Trans America" was what I thought being transgender was all about. Representation is still sorely lacking in representation. Thank God we FINALLY elected the first trans woman to Congress!! The point is, I had to go to UA-cam to re-socialize myself and learn about who trans people were, what their struggles were, how amazing they are. You and other trans creators are VITAL for our society! My young children are watching and listening - even if it doesn't seem like they are. It's so important to me for them so see and listen to your stories and your voices. You are a TRUE pioneer. I support you wholeheartedly, you are a beautiful, worthy woman inside and out! I embrace all my trans sisters, brothers, and theys and I want to teach my children to do the same. Representation MATTERS!
Wow! You speak so powerfully and eloquently! Your children have such an awesome role model! You give me hope for the future generation.
agreed i watched it a lot as a kid later i realized how bad this stuff is.
@@Felicia1 thank you! It's what I strive for! I always want my kids to feel nothing but total acceptance and love, and show the same to others :)
@@ddjsoyenby I know! Isn't it weird to re-watch stuff from our childhood that we used to think was funny or didn't notice but now we just watch and go, "Uhm....how was this even allowed?"
@@gabriellew.2070 yeah thankfully we grew up and matured.
If you're in a relationship and one of them thinks that the other is able to give them a bio child then maybe its something you should talk about
your necklace is so beautiful, i love your shirt too, your vibes are so pure and soft omg i'm in love
Jerry Springer, along with Caitlyn Jenner were my first introductions to trans-people. Predictably, I wound up being transphobic. Now I'm possibly an egg and I hate the damn show. My Grandma loves it unfortunately...
Thank you so much for educating yourself friend
@@frankie9698 someone who might not agree with the gender they were assigned at birth, but are unsure
i’m very egg rn
I’m very afraid to come out for some reason. I know i am trans but at the same time, i want to be very discreet about my transition. I don’t want people to know of my pre everything self
@@linkinlog8543 I wish you the best and encourage you to follow your heart in what you want to do and keep your circle of support close to you, regardless you're human and you're beautiful. Be the true you.
@@aorekagaming412 thank youuuu 💖
the second woman’s face falling the minute he says “i don’t want to be with a man” it’s so sick
How if your straight then your straight why would you want to be with a man, that would make your gay.
@@isiahwood9968 trans women aren't men, so it doesn't make a man gay to be with a trans woman
@@whytho8856 it depends if the Male knows the trans were born a Male or if the Male is ok with the trans having a penis
@@Knightfall-rb7md first of all not “the trans” that’s dehumanising. secondly it makes 0 difference it is not gay to be in a relationship with a trans woman if it was sexual stuff pre surgery it’s blurred lines but still not homosexual.
@@ashleyford7932 I'm just gonna say there is a HUGE difference,but I'm not gonna argue with someone who gets offended with me saying "the trans" as if that's not what they are?
You are a beautiful lady anyone would be lucky to be near you. I'm glad you reviewed these videos. I have learned so much about stereo types that people have about trans women since watching your channel, and videos like these definitely facilitate the learning of those false stereo types.
You did a awesome job on this Samantha... Great information.💋..
Jerry Springer was a scripted show. They even had stunt performers and fight choreographers
I think they reacted like that because of ignorancy, but it really is sad, like it is such a huge problem since a lot of transgender people die from stuff like this, just always try to stay safe.
I think it's ignorance and the pressure from the audience to react badly to it
@Username umm I have never heard of a trans woman not disclosing her being trans before being intimate with a person, but I don’t think it’s something you disclose on let’s say a first date because you might not even be intimate with that person and don’t want to disclose your biology on a dinner date
It’s also good to mention that it could get trans women killed to disclose that they are trans so they choose to play it safe before getting to know the person and see if it’s safe to tell which I think is totally valid
@chris white Maybe in a perfect world trans girls and women could walk around advertising the are trans, but it is often very dangerous on a first encounter, or in a public situation, many haters out there many on a crusade to shame and hurt trans women and the men who love them, the many murdered women are proof of that.
Of course once you get to the point when you both feel comfortable enough
(and like all women, trans women need to feel safe enough to trust you are o.k and confide in you) then is the time to disclose, otherwise screw your fragile egos/ feelings, a girl/ woman's safety is more important.
You should tell a guy at the beginning so you know that you like each other for who you are. Some people have different standards and you must respect them and in turn you will be respected
Jerry: why ur all yelling my name?
"Trans people aren't MEN" 😂 As a trans man, I love you
we aren’t men, we are lost lesbians remember?
@@lane13 Right, right. I forget. Not even into women, but I like to joke that I'm a man who's not a man (because I'm nonbinary and have very little gender, practically none). Just love that she forgot trans men exist for a hot second there. That's a very human mistake.
@@beltheblasphemer9223 well she then corrected herself saying "Unless you are a transman"
Wait, what?! In the first clip they literally allow a hate crime to be committed and condoned on T.V.?! That is insane!
Uh this is Jerry springer people come on here to see fights, whatever crime you wanna call it.
It wasn't a hate crime.. He beat someone for lying to him... Not a hate crime dude had every right to be pissed
I'm sure the bouncers got between them to stop any fighting
@@FlowerTower they didn't hook up though.
@@shimeih2287 I’m 99% sure they did and that’s why I commented this. But if they didn’t then I take the comment back.
Girl your amazing and so down to earth keep up the good work
This is such a great video, thank u for making this, us Trans women from the 80’s were brought up not knowing how to express ourselves, shows like this use to sale and get ratings for making us feel guilt and shame because of our inner being.
I wish I passed well enough to have to explain to people that I'm trans.
Hey, on the bright side at least they recognize you as trans instead of just assuming you are the gender you were assigned at birth without any hesitation or uncertainty whatsoever. I don't even bother explaining to all the people who do that to me that I'm actually non-binary because then I wouldn't have the time or energy to do anything else. Being "clocked" as trans, even while still being not entirely accurate, is actually a bit of a pleasant occurrence to me on the rare occasions it happens. Stay strong, sister.
You look like a rockin cool chick to me!
@@gabriellew.2070 thank you Gabrielle 😀
Sis i looked at your pfp and got so confused about your comment at first lol u pass beautifully to me, (ps I LOVE your hair, super pretty bangs suit you so well!) 💗💗💗
I looked at ur pfp and u pass really well! Ur a gorgeous and really pretty woman!!!
I hope one of these girls tell their story and how they were treated behind the scenes, I truly don't understand why trans women are displayed this way on the show.
From watching your video about your relationship with your dad I know how hard this must have been for you to film, my love goes out to you
Anyone that signs up for Jerry Springer knows what they signed up for.
Hey Samantha ! I'm a closeted trans male and I wanted to let you know that your videos really help me feel better about who I am ! Thank you for being such an icon
Good luck!
@@benjamindavey4782 thank you !!!
I didn’t realize how toxic that is on jerry springer I’m glad that that show is gone
@SyrenTrillbad Entertainment it was so homophobic and transphobic, it just needed to go.
@@flwerby that’s what made it good
The show was meant to be a comedy type situation not an intellectual gathering of information it's a great show lol
off topic, but i love getting ads of samantha sponsoring something on a samantha lux video, it just hits differently
I can’t stop watching your vids Samantha😅
I'm cis and I remember watching these Jerry Springer episodes alllll the time as a kid and laughing at them. Back then I thought I didn't see anything wrong with trans people but now watching your video I've realized that I also didn't fully understand what being trans was. I thought these things were okay to laugh at because I thought trans women were men who just liked to dress up as women and deceive people and its because my ONLY exposure to the trans community was through shows like Jerry Springer and Maury.
Same
I didn’t understand it because of how I was raised. I didn’t know what to call trans people and even though I tried to be respectful I constantly misgendered because I was too young to understand.
Now as I realize I’m a bigender bisexual I finally somewhat get it.
This form of "entertainment" has been referred to as trash TV for a reason.
yeah ikr.
"girls don't be her" 🤣🤣🤣 I died. Your reaction was funny. And I agree with everything you said Samantha ❤❤❤❤
9:25 I think she took off her heels to show that she was quite smaller than him, because from the beginning it seemed that they were the same height
lmao I'm so obsessed with hunter I like literally screamed when she mentioned her
Saaame
Omg hunter is a queen this is kinda bragging but I look like her lol and I’m her height ;)
your profile pic is ✨exquisite✨
@@amijah_ thank u I love mel
time stamp? i l;ove hunter 2
The slang word "thot" is VERY recent and didn't exist in the 90's (trust me, I would know that was my childhood era lol) and "thot" didn't exist in the early 2000's either, and no one was "texting" yet until at least the mid to late 2000's, so this episode was very recent. I guess the show is STILL running...... Wow 😂 news to me.... yea they posted it in 2017. That date was correct. That episode is very recent.
Yeah that's what made me think 2017 was accurate. I was like I know thot was not a word back in the 90's lol
What does that word mean, anyway?
@@gamehero6816 it's a synonym of slut, whore, bitch etc...
I think you are doing well showing these and educating. Jerry Springer was was one of the original 'reality shows'. Yes they were paid more for sensational comments and often the participants were told lies about each other to foster the idea that the other person 'deserved' to be shamed.
I know that people will learn from your commentary though.
sending you so much love and strenght for these triggering react videos .
Yikes, I don’t get why so many people like these shows, they’re so cringe even before they do their x-phobic segments of the week.
Ignorance, growing up with these shows (personal experience), but sometimes people are mean and enjoy the pain of others.
samantha: pauses the video
me: tries to unpause the video
me: realises
CAN I JUST SAY UR MAKEUP IS GORGEOUSSSSS OMG UR SO PRETTY, I'm new to ur channel so I don't really know what to refere to you as. you you maybe let me know. I understand if you dont want to. I just wanted to say im very supportive of you being trans!!!!
Honey I can't even imagine how hard that it hits to watch these episodes as a transwoman. Big hugs to you.