Just wanted to say I've read all the comments and I am so truly thankful for the overall response to this video. This was a video I stressed about making for far too long and it really is a huge weight off my shoulders. Feel like there's more I want to say, but I'm hopeful that thank you is enough
At the end of the day. We do what we feel is right. If this is right for you the true fans will support you John. I look forward to watching your career expand and take off like I know it will!!
Don't worry John it's all good! I kinda figured it was something like this but hey if the trio comes back awesome! If not then that's also completely fine
Props to Mikey and Jack. No drama, no diss tracks, no boxing matches, just a handshake and a goodbye. Both of them are amazing people to be able to do that for the mutuals involved. I hope everyone, including you John, is okay and dealing with the situation well. Much love, brother.
This broke my heart. Just to let you know, we watch you for you and your amazing content. Not Mikey’s love for Drowzee or Jack’s ungodly shiny luck, but your creative and enjoyable content that brings us all so much joy. Don’t feel that we only want more Mikey or more Jack, we just want you to make the content you want to make because no matter what you do, you make it so much fun. Just let your content be how you want it to be and don’t worry about the restrictions of having two friends that aren’t friends. Being stuck in the middle is awful, but that just means that you must be a great friend to both of them, and we all think you’re a great person too.
a lovely sentiment, and one i agree with heavily, but as he mentioned, sadly the youtube analytics prove it's not exactly the mindset of a good chunk of his subscribers
Playing mediator is one of the most exhausting things you can go through. I’m so happy you decided to respect yourself, and I’m glad things are sorted out. I love all of the videos from you, Mikey and Jack. You all are amazing content creators that feel like friends keeping me company while I do whatever else. You are a beautiful person, John. Much love to you and your family, and merry Christmas ❤️
This is such a tough situation but everyone involved handled it beautifully. I hope this helps calm the comments regarding jack/mikey. some people just can’t be friends, and that’s ok!!
Sounds like a personal rift causing a split between Mikey and Jack. I totally understand that feeling of being the common friend between to people/two groups of people that don't want to interact with each other and having to deal with the question of, "Do I do this thing with this person/people, or do I do it with the other? I feel like no matter what I do I feel like I'm going to upset somebody."
As someone who enjoyed the trio content a lot I'm really happy you made this video. I'm thankful I've never asked for the collabs but I will admit I missed them and while that probably isn't gonna change this video makes me happy because it explained what happened without judging them. And respect to all of you for being mature about it! I hope you feel better now as you don't deserve the bombardment of people asking you about it.
Always sucks being the middle man, you made the right decision making this video. There’s no reason you should be suffering because of an issue that ultimately has nothing to do with you.
"And let's be honest, a lot of them were there just to see extra Mikey videos or extra Jack videos. They're not really there for me." made my heart shatter. It's super unfortunate to be a people pleaser watching your friends do well, knowing you aren't doing the same. It puts you in such a weird and uncomfortable place where you don't know what to do or say, it feels as though your choosing between your well being or your friends well being. I have defended this matter before to as much extent as I can, even before this upload. Jack had actually spoken out about what had happened between him and Mikey very briefly on his Instagram. When you posted the trailer for your 24 hour stream on Twitter, I replied to a few comments and let them know what had happened (to the best of the knowledge I had prior to your clarification) and tried to respectfully, and quietly, get less attention focused on the Jack and Mikey stuff. But John, I hope you read this, as I am sincerely a huge fan of all three of you. I relate to you, however, the most. Your content is just fine without the two of them, it's just fine with the both of them. You have nothing to prove to the haters who will only ask for Jack and Mikey content. Being a middle man between the three of them is an awkward situation: only magnified by the group who only use you for extra content from either person. Being there is understandably tough and I really, really appreciate this video giving us a closer look at how things kind of felt behind the camera: all while retaining respect to your friends. Even if your channel itself isn't doing too well publicly, just remember there are a bunch of people here who genuinely appreciate your content and what you do, without the need for collabs, pleasing others, or whatever other thing people demand. Just do what you do best and we'll watch it. Thank you, John. I hope this video helped get all of that stress out of your system and helps you move past it. Much love.
I also want to add to this in case you see this John. Keep in mind that people like the videos with you and Jack/Mikey BECAUSE you are there too. People like seeing friends have fun together. And they like it A LOT. Let me give an example that you might recognize from the perspective of an audience rather than your perspective as a creator: Markiplier Makes videos. Markiplier makes are videos where Mark, Ethan, and Tyler make various things (often food with no recipe, but sometimes they build stuff) and they have fun as friends. These videos are great and average around 10 million views. His solo videos average around 3 million views. Tyler and Ethan have less followers than Mark does (and no shade to them, theyre all great) so its not like people are only there to see Tyler or Ethan. People just like seeing them all together having fun. Its the same thing with your collabs. People want to see you together having fun, not because they want to see people who arent you. And i know it can feel like that the way people in the comments talk, but if you ask them WHY they are so eager to see such collabs and they answer honestly they arent going to say "because i want to see more prplclf" theyll say that "when you guys are together you seem to have a lot of fun and its fun to watch." Try not to take it personally.
@@taylorhillard4868Exactly, I’m not watching a PM7 Mandjtv or Purplecliffe collab for one person, I’m watching it for both because I love seeing them interact all three are amazing Poketubers in their own right, with their own humor and insight, and they all deserve respect
I'm proud of you for coming out about this, I can't imagine how hard this would've been to film. The bit about your own subscribers not wanting to watch your solo vids broke my heart, you're absolutely amazing and lovable, keep up the amazing work!!
One thing I enjoy is seeing John happy. Although I am not the biggest fan of John, whenever I do watch your videos or see you make appearances, I notice your joy just around your friends and it makes your videos entertaining to watch as your joy seems so much like your character, making my experience on UA-cam more fun. Although Mikey and Jack just went their separate ways without much drama, the feelings you’re facing are enough for you to make the video and drama in your own life. I’m glad you stepped out to talk about it, and I’m glad to be a subscriber to see content we subscribers enjoy and watching a joyful PM7 brings it so much more life. Hope things continue to get better for you
I went into this video worried that I might lose respect for one or both but I am pleasantly surprised that after listening to this, I have gained respect for both of them. Thank you for posting this, we love you!
@@xxhowisuxxdefinitely, he’s the kinda guy you don’t want in your friend group at school at first, but then he ends up there, and he’s one of the best guys you’ve ever Met, he’s fun to hang around
I’m so sorry you had to be the middle person for this. It sucks feeling like you have to choose between people to hang out with and have pressure from parasocial weirdos who don’t know anything and just try to point the finger. You’ve all been very professional about this and I’m glad yall realized that your mental health matters more than content. While I didn’t quite get the situation I figured that if they wanted to make videos together they would. It’s not on you to try to bridge the gap between two people especially in an age where people are just a dm or text away. It’s baffling you got blamed for them not hanging out. Please take care of yourself and I hope you’re able to do more cool videos without limiting yourself. ❤❤❤
Watching this has been a message of great importance in a time of need for me. I have two "friends" in my college who just mostly ignore me, and whilst that doesnt parallel your situation at all really, hearing from another people pleaser that I can put myself first and that I shouldnt worry about how they'll react if it means I'll enjoy being at my college much more, as I have wanted to distance myself from them (especially one of them, the other one can be nice by himself) for a while, and haven't because I'm worried how that'll effect them. I feel like I'm a footnote around them, like I don't matter as much. And I needed to hear, even if you didn't mean this, some words of encouragement to do my own thing and be mature and just move on. Love your content, hope you feel better after doing this
I hope that you can find your happiness, too, you should surround yourself with people who you love the energy of, you deserve to have a happy life. Another comment on here said "don't light yourself on fire to keep others warm", so make sure that after giving your friends everything they need, you save some for yourself, too. :)
It’s death by 1000 cuts. I’m sure even the most indifferent person would get broken down by 1000s of comments harassing you about this. Mature candid video, honesty much appreciated 🙏
God I relate to the whole "where's Mikey" situation, every single time I do a collab. It's so obnoxious how people assume I'm the one not inviting people when I try my best to be as inclusive as possible. When you work for weeks on a thing and people only care about who ISN'T included, and blame you, for some reason, it's disheartening. (especially when it's someone you did reach out to) People politely request the presence of other Poketubers, but MandJTV fans rudely demand Mikey's presence.
A lot of people felt their favourite creator just got left out but in reality sometimes its not in their schedule or interest to collab they have a lot of contents same as you... I also understand your frustration to the fans that's rude and demand to much
That does suck that you had to deal with those fans when you just want to make fun collab video with other UA-camrs. I could imagine this is also painful for Mikey too as he just want to have fun with his own videos but the fans keep wanting him to be included in a collab. Anyway love your videos of poketubers creating a Pokémon and art design you drew 👍
I agree, Mandjtv fans can be the absolute worst when it comes to bothering others about collabs. I feel like Mikey needs to address it at some point, or at least call out their bad behavior.
@@marioandfriends_official Even if he does, the determined ones will keep at it. I'm not really sure if you can hold someone accountable for their fans. People will act like assholes independent of a person they like, and I would hate for someone to blame Mikey, especially after he's only recently come back. I get fans can be ikrsome but Mikey isn't responsible for how his fans act.
Some people just don't pick up on hints or social cues. The trio videos were amazing and special but even during those videos it is BLATANTLY obvious that Mikey and Jack don't click. There were times where Jack would do something goofy or dumb like he does that we all love him for and Mikey wouldn't even so much as smirk. Mikey is more reserved and serious and he and Jack just don't click. I'm super proud of them and glad they handled it maturely and just moved on with everything. Much respect. I hope you're doing well too John. Don't let your audience bother you there are more of us here for you and your content than you think there are. Much love big guy ❤️ keep making wonderful content.
My thoughts exactly, like I’m not the best at reading social cues, but them getting on each others nerves was pretty clearly not just a bit to me. I’m sure it was played as one and played up as an actual joke sometimes, but i remember watching videos and being like ‘I don’t think that’s actually a bit, mikey kinda seems genuinely upset’ (and there were probably points for Jack like that too I just didn’t know him as well) When trio videos stopped i assumed something happened and they decided to stop working together. It really sucks johns had to go through all this because of people not being able to make a simple assumption and let things go. He doesn’t deserve this harassment over something out of his control
It's incredible how many people think friends have to be attached at the hip and do everything together. In the TTRPG space (D&D and the likes) its pretty common to hear the advice "hey, maybe you are all friends but how you want to play the game is fundamentally at odds. If that is the case, continue being friends, but split the table." I always assumed that this was what happened to them, that the way they play this game is so different to each other that, despite everyone loving the game itself, playing together wasn't fun. We now know that it wasn't the case, but it boggles my mind that people would skip past this conclusion over 2 years and just go "why aren't you making this happen?"
Same. I thought it was so obvious that John was clearly like the child between his two divorced parents at christmas dinner. I was kinda happy that the 3 stopped making videos together cause it was sometimes painful to watch. But i thought it was just me. So when i found out that they aren't friends anymore I wasn't even surprised. I am happy how they handled it but I feel really sad for John. Cause, like he said, he is the one who has the right to be sad about it. Not us, random people on the Internet
I was honestly a little dumb about not knowing what was going on.. I liked the videos with the trio but when they didn't make videos ever again I kind of just didn't think about it.
Everyone loves a collab, but this isn't a collab channel John. This is your space. I am disappointed in the people who have pointed fingers at you; I literally can't wrap my head around the fact that someone thought that you would maliciously leave people out of something... Gross. No thank you. Your sense of humor, the amazing ideas you come up with for your videos, and your love for what you do make this channel what it is. It's you. Sending all the good internet energy and I'm looking forward to watching your future content. ^-^
I'll be honest, I found you through Mikey. I don't think that's that big of a surprise, but like... That doesn't mean I'm not here for you or anyone else. My favorite part of the JMC, the videos with Purplecliff, the videos all three of you used to make, is that like... Your friendships feel genuine and *you guys* feel genuine. From the first video I watched (one of the ones where you had to catch a specific pokemon in a randomizer), I've been here for *you guys*. Group content or solo. Keep up the beautiful work and I'll never not enjoy a video you release, because I'm not here for the game or the other people, when I click on a PM7 video, it's for PM7 and anyone else you have in that video, if anyone else, because you all make it entertaining in your own unique and amazing ways. Edit: fixing spelling and punctuation.
I'll admit, I found you through MandJTV, but I stayed because I love your vibe and your content. Proud of you for taking care of yourself and your mental health. I'm here for the long run for you and your content, man. Hang in there.
Same here. I discovered PM7 through the John Michael Cup and even though I watch both creators, I'm only subscribed to John. His content is more my style and it helps me unwind after a long day. Keep your head up John! We are here for you!
Me, as well, I found you through the JMC, but you were so funny, and just made his videos come to life, that I started watching you. I love all the (former) trio’s work and what they separately do or do together. You are you, and I think God has given you such a great gift and such a great opportunity and lifestyle. Thank you for opening up, even when it was hard. I really appreciate it, considering I didn’t know this was going on. We’re all here for you, man. ❤
I completely understand, john, the trio has brought me so much pure, wholesome joy and i was kinda living in denial that it was eventually going to return but the truth is what's important. Thanks for the memories, you all have given me a lot of joy, I'll never forget the fantastic memories i made watching 3 friends goofing around having so much fun. Thank you, John, Mikey and Jack. You three gave me a lot of motivation, inspiration and comfort
I'm sorry you were hurting. I'm happy you are moving forward. I'm thankful you are open and honest. There are plenty of us here who enjoy you. Both your videos and you as a person. You are a great creator. I hope you know that! ❤ keep it up. This isn't an easy thing no matter what others think. You've got this! 🎉
John, as one of your probably older audience members, I have to say you very tactfully and respectfully handle all of this. I am so sorry you have had to deal with viewers who don't understand that not everyone has to be friends all the time. That you can be respectful of others but don't have to hang out and be friends. I love to watch all three of you individually can completely see why Mikey and Jack would not work as co-workers and why you do work well with both. I hope this helps lay to rest the nagging you have had to deal with. Wish you the best and can't wait to see what you do next.
I'm one of PM7s older audience too. And just watching the older videos I could actually see it coming too. Had this same thing happen a few times between myself and other friends and also being stuck between two friends. Seen it happen from all sides. And it boils down to, these things happen sometimes. Pick up amd move on, don't get caught in the middle. John is totally doing the right thing here. Just point to the video and let it go.
@@DrawciaGleam02 Just some underlying tension in their interactions and words. The older you get. The better you get at reading people and knowing two people are getting on each others nerves. And to A never put them together again, or B stay clear of particular subjects whenever one or the other is near.
@@DrawciaGleam02 As a 10 year teacher, I definitely saw some signs of two people I would not put together in a "group " for any real long-term situation. Mikey, I find, tends to want things done in a very methodical way and with clear reasoning, while Jack is a bit more of a jump with two feet and kinda see what happens. The "chaos" that Jack can bring (while very enjoyable and he has made it definitely work for him) is very opposite to what it sounds like Mikey expects. John is such a lovely, easygoing personality that he blends well with both energies. Again, they are three very smart, enjoyable, and effective people, but in the long term, I can see why the two can rub each other in the wrong way. And of course, I don't know these people, but that is just based on what I have seen over the years of watching all three.
I will never understand: 1) how anyone could blame John for the decisions of two grown ass men that very obviously wasn’t caused by him 2) stay subscribed to John for other people he works with. John is one of the most creative Poketubers on the platform. Great ideas, great execution and great overall vibe. Truly the epitome of “If John has one fan, it’s me. If John has no fans, I’ve died.” Thanks for the transparency (not that we needed it because it wasn’t our business), and thanks for all the great years of content, John!!
Im like 89% sure that the people acting like John was to blame are little kids coping with the fact their favorite youtubers aren't best friends. Little kids grow up on movies and TV shows where the group of bffs stick together no matter what, so reality hits them hard when they see their favorite friendships end like this.
I'm sorry for you john and Im sure I speak for most of the community when I say we are saddened you've had to go through this, and you must have been doubting yourself etc when in truth you are a great guy, an honest guy and your content is so wholesome and fun and you shouldn't have to answer for mikey and jack everyone has their own decisions and that's ok and hopefully In future this won't be brought up again. Keep being you and making great stuff, much love from Jersey
Majority of their audience is kids (which is nothing wrong about. Someone gotta make quality entertaining contents for kids). So they will always want their creator to stick together being buddy buddy. Kids dont understand like two people doesnt like one another while also respecting each other. Its normal phenomenon for child.
You took the absolute best path you could have taken both on a personal and professional level, anyone that has been around for your UA-cam career would know without a doubt that whether it's inviting or not inviting a friend your decision is never without reason as long as yourself mikey and Jack are happy and healthy then People should respect and accept the way things are, much respect friend, keep up the amazing work with whatever it is or whoever it's with just as I know you will again huge respect from here in the UK
I love all three of you guys. I am sad you don’t work together, but I am glad that it did not harm anybody and they solved it maturely. I hope you do good and that you take off and are happy. You are my favorite of the old trio(though Mikey was the first one I watched). I sincerely appreciate you and all you do. You made me happy when I thought about S side. I sincerely hope that you are happy forever. With love, A random guy on the internet.
I won't lie, I clicked on this video for the tea, but John again manages to make a beautifully articulated, meaningful video explaining something people were curious about. Thank you, PM7, for dropping your walls the slight amount you do so we can see the heart behind the mind of one of the most entertaining people on UA-cam.
I am not surprised they don’t like each other. Jack is so chaotic and Mikey so straight laced. You’re very laid back so you can handle them both but they’re very different. Idk why people always bug you about this, they should just enjoy what you do make. The event was super cool and fun and I hope people didn’t ruin it for you.
That’s exactly what I was thinking about the two of them. Mikey HATES when something goes wrong against him, and Jack just shrugs it off and rolls with the punches
@@Jlaps941This is still a while ago but jack has adh so he has some what to a pass on this but still neither are REALLY to blame but mickey >:3) should of taken the situation better
@@Berrywcue335 idk how he could’ve taken the situation better than he already did. They realized they don’t work well together in videos, so they just don’t collaborate anymore. Seems pretty professional to me, especially since they have mutual friends like John
I can appreciate this for sure. Your own mental health is the most important thing and you got to keep yourself sane in content creation and the public eye. I've been a huge fan of Mikey and Jack and you for many many years and I'll continue to watch all three of you. You three have mastered creating content that people can go back and enjoy over and over again. The content is already there so there's no excuse for people not to be able to still enjoy them. I've watched your type lock probably three times over. I've watched Mikey's videos more times than I can count. I've even watched Jack's last to leave discord videos probably three or four times because they're just great content. So keep doing what you're doing and I definitely look forward to more solo content from you.
Honestly, this is one of the most mature ways to tackle this situation and it shows how genuine and sweethearted you are. Keep doing the amazing work you have been doing and we will all have your back John
Mikey and Jack are grown men who are responsible enough and have enough self respect by moving on instead of beef. there's enough people in the world to have standards and not be lonely. I know they won't mind you speaking on it. audience opinions will always be a spectrum and at the end of the day you're the captain of your own ship.
Honestly, I love whenever John gets a chance to interact with people he isn’t usually collabing with. Videos with Wolfey, Superblah, and the little interactions during Showdown tournaments (both the ones he competes in and the one he ran) are videos and streams I love to see. Not to say I don’t love the other videos, but John’s a really fun and enjoyable person to watch, and his interactions with people who aren’t Jack and Mikey feel just as special as the rest, and I love seeing them occur. I think I remember Shiny Catherine being a part of the Kanto thing (though her busy schedule at the time exhausted her from streaming), and I was super hyped to see the two of you in the same place. I look forward to what comes next in 2024!
Trust me when I say that the people who disagree with their decision or feel like they can blame you just don’t understand really how this works. The fact that Mikey and jack can decide not to stay upset that they can step back and realize that they need to end the friendship takes a much bigger person than anyone understands. We are all proud of them for settling it and for you because being able to handle this is not easy when you are the 3rd party and love the friendship and trio. I am glad that this is all working out reasonably and I can’t wait to see the next PM7 video, guest stars or none.
This just makes me so sad because I grew up on y’all. I remember being 9, and watching your guys’ videos all the time. U guys were a big part of my life and it’s fun to back and watch your old videos. I appreciate you updating us on this.
as much as i love your videos with mikey, we are here for YOU. i’m not the kind of person who watches every video just because i like the creator, but i can’t remember the last time i missed one of yours. i’m having a hard time putting into words just how much good your presence on this site has done, so i’ll just say thank you. don’t light yourself on fire to keep others warm. all the love and respect for you, dude ❤
Yeah, he was the cheesecake to their strawberry or cream. They both are special and extravagant when eaten alone but with John it was a whole meal. He is just the grounded wholesome meal in this analogy. I watch all three of them. Jack looses himself in his short term videos and insanity, mikey looses himself in his routines and more often his own head, but john is always just chilled, grounded and goodhearted content. There is a reason why he is the first one to talk freely about this.
Honestly John, you’ve handled this very professionally. You focused on the aspects of the conflict that affect you, left the stuff that’s not your story to share out, and avoided speaking ill of either party. Major props for that, and I hope sharing this helps get some of the hurtful messages to stop.
i am one of those fans that wishes you all still made videos together, but the decisions made along this journey were very mature. while i’ll miss seeing mikey and jack together in the same video they’re still amazing creators that i can watch seperately. love you and all the boys john.
Hi John, I know this will get lost in the sea of support you're already getting, but I hope one more really helps sink it in. You're an amazing creator and I follow you because you're an inspiration and you make me laugh. I love how honest you are with the serious stuff, like this, as well. You have a maturity about it and I'm glad that them not being friends hasn't affect your friendship with either of them as well. Your content is amazing and I look forward to any notifications from you. I'm really excited about all the stuff to come! Here's hoping you and your family have an amazing holiday season and a wonderful new year! Hopefully the New Year brings a fresh start to all of these comments and you can focus more on what you need as a person as well! We all love you, John!
I’m sorry that all this happened to you John, I know I’m a random guy on the internet but I want you to know I’m proud of you for making all the responsible decisions that you can and I hope people will leave you alone about this whole situation
It's definitely unfortunate to hear both Jack and Mikey aren't friends anymore but that doesn't mean you should be completely affected You're easily one of the most creative pokemon content creators I'm looking forward to whenever you make more stuff since it's just fun to watch you play a pokemon game Keep up the grind John 🐶☺️👍
I know I’m late, but honestly as fun as all three of you were, I kinda saw it coming. Jack and Mikey always seemed to not mesh as well together… you always brought it together as the middle man and made it perfect, but I always had a feeling that a fallout possibly happened. It’s definitely rough to be the middle man, especially if there’s fallout… I wish the best for you…
As someone who also struggles with trying to take care of others at my own expense, I really feel for you on this one. And I gotta say as much as I love seeing you collab with other UA-camrs your solo videos are some of my absolute favorites
I’m sad that this trio isn’t happening anymore but I’m more sad about how you tell that people have been villainizing you. You definitely don’t deserve that and I’m a great fan of all the three of you guys and watching pretty constantly great content ☺️
John we literally don’t deserve you. You are so sweet and amazing and I’m sorry people did that. We love you so much and I hope everything gets sorted out.
i like mikey but hes def a lil more sensitive seeming than purple. purple is a lil more "wild" and whatnot. so while this sucks to hear, it makes sense. not everyone vibes together perfectly
I admit I stumbled on your stuff from watching MandJTV, but I've come to greatly enjoy your videos both on your own and with others. I'm glad you were able to maintain your friendships without drama tainting it. Continue to grow and find your stride, and do it your way.
PurpleCliffe IK tweeted about this once. He asked everyone to respect the situation that he and Mikey probably wouldn't be doing any videos together anymore. It's been at least two years since that tweet. I was sad but people have creative differences. Also you must make your own mark upon the world. People can be friends but not good coworkers or the reverse of that. Boundaries must be respected.
Thank you PM7 for expressing your feelings. It is hard to keep things bottled up. Mental health is always a priority. You and your family have a wonderful holiday. I cannot wait to see what you bring in 2024. ❤😊
Having two people not mesh well within a friend group is always a hard thing to figure out. You want to spend time with both of them but it feels like you have to pick and choose who to be with at any point. Something I've kinda learned is to really not try to force it. I feel like the way you guys handled it was absolutely the correct way. I've had a couple friends where I kept trying and it just made it where instead of them silently going their different ways it instead ended with hostility between them. Some people just don't mesh well, and that's okay. It's especially difficult when it's a group of 3 where you can't really isolate yourself at all. It's easier if it was something like a party with 10 people where they don't really need to interact much. I've felt overwhelmed with a lot of this sort of stuff and I don't have hundreds of commenters constantly pestering me about it. When the trio videos stopped I just kinda figured "oh I guess they just stopped making them" and kind of left it there. Figured maybe Jack was busy or you and Mikey wanted to focus on JMC. It sucks that it had to come to a point where a video needed to be made just to discuss it. Sometimes people just disagree or just don't get along and that's perfectly fine.
I've dealt with situations like this AND been in situations like this. I'm still young myself so mistakes can be made, but thankfully a lot of friendships that have 'ended' have had some sort of closure, some negative, some positive and some neutral. But what I make sure is that every friendship I've closed off, I've at least *tried* to get a word in with them, some let me and agree to disagree, some came back and are now in good terms, and some just won't even let me get near them out of bitterness, which is fine, I'm never gonna see them again anyway, but still, friendship can be tough. sometimes. With my thoughts of when I noticed they stopped recording together, I've thought similar, and honestly?- Expected it. Don't get it twisted, I wasn't hoping they'd break it up, hell no, I literally love their dynamic, but I started to notice how Mikey reacted to some of Jack's jokes and I think to myself "Oof, I feel a slight amount of tension" and when that compiles over and over, I think Mikey finally decided to break it off was understandable. I'm obviously not making Jack out to be a bad guy, while I don't know him personally I'm sure he's a genuinely good person, and from many streams and videos I've watched of him, he seems to be. Sometimes his jokes may strike a nerve but they're ultimately not malicious. With all that being said, I think both of them handled it very well and I'm glad John let them handle it on their own and they agreed to just... break it off, it's normal- it happens. I respect them both humongously for it.
For some reason I was under the impression that Mikey and Jack were still friends, but just didn't want to make videos together. This is sad to hear, but it's life. Thanks for telling us John, even though it wasn't really any of our business. :)
What you did behind the scenes was very mature and I really like that so much. More people need to do that. Just wish fans need to understand that you guys are still human beings at the end of the day and then they clearly should have seen that something happened behind the scenes that you guys weren’t doing anything anymore, but there maybe could have been a way to tell the fans that there has been a disbandment, but then people will still be upset and then you’ll probably still get comments. People will still be people. Glad you made this video John
While I’ve always wondered what did happen behind the scenes between Jack and Mikey, I never said anything and never bothered anyone about it. I remember Jack saying on one of his streams a while back of something like “people can be civil with each other, and not make content together”. He seemed to really have something on his mind when he said that, because people then and even now STILL ask about it. It honestly has gotten annoying for me to see as a viewer, so I can imagine what it’s like for you guys. People need to be as mature the creators mentioned in the questions, and just accept that people grow apart and move on. But no matter what, I’m still a big fan of all three of you guys. I was a Purplecliffe fan when he was on Twitch, and I remember being like “wait, Purplecliffe and Pokemen7 know each other and are friends!?!? WHAT!?!?!” Same thing happened too when when I first saw you and Mikey collab together. I love all three of you guys, and will always support you all. Thank you for the content on your main channels and on this channel, John 💚
I appreciate you making this. Obviously I enjoyed the trio videos but knowing why they stopped, I can't complain. The issues you described honestly really simulate a lot of the stress I face currently, so this has really been life-changing advice I will take away from this ❤
The Platinum series with you three is legendary enough _(exactly _*_because_*_ of the dynamic between all of you... and also because of Jack's insanity)_ that I don't even mind that you guys have moved on. It's a shame that there won't be more, but it's perfectly understandable. 3:35 That sounds absolutely crazy! I should watch it some day. :)
The sound of anger, heartbreak and just pure exhaustion in Johns voice in painful to hear. John I'm so sorry that as you fans we've driven you to feel this way. this entire issue was not our business, John is just trying to be a good friend to both of them, and everyones constant accusations only make things worse!
As someone who deals with drama between friends often, stop concerning about it. I know often it gives stress as you do care about what happens to them. But I learned the hard way that people cross their own path, sometimes together, sometimes not. And all you can really do to help yourself, is let go. Hope you are doing alright mate. Love from Belgium 🇧🇪
Hey man I think you’re an amazing UA-camr. Me and my kids always get excited when ever you up load anything and we watch your old stuff on repeat. You don’t need others, you have so much talent all on your own. Keep that head up and that crown polish king!!
As someone who’s often found themselves in the middle of two great people who just didn’t get along with each other, or grew apart over time, I’m proud of you for not trying to “fix” things. It’s natural that not all people will get along, and trying to force folks to be friends when they just don’t click will only strain the friendship between them even more, and turn you into the group’s therapist (which is never a good situation to be in)! You handled this well, and even though I know how much it can suck that two of your friends don’t get along anymore, it was the right thing to do to leave it be and not insert yourself into the situation. Also I must confess that I used to be one of those commenters who would ask you three to keep doing videos together… I watch all three of you guys religiously, and I love seeing you collab with your friends, but now that I know the full story, I (and hopefully everyone else who’s been begging all this time) will promptly shut up! You and your friends shouldn’t have to feel uncomfortable and force a smile for our entertainment, and I’m personally very glad that you’re all moving forward with your individual careers happily and genuinely; you all deserve it! 👍
As a fellow people pleaser who's found himself in the middle of arguing friends too many times to count over the past few years...I feel this. I'm glad that you were able to get this off your chest!
Just wanted to start by saying thanks to all three of you guys for making such cool and unique content. I am sorry to hear about the end of Mikey and Jack's friendship and the stop to any 3 man videos. I am glad everything was mutual and not a messy dramatic ordeal. Thanks for keeping us updated on a private matter between friends look forward to seeing what all you come out with in 2024. Also i recently got back into playing Pokémon over the past few months thanks to my gf. Jack, Mikey, and yourself are all amazing youtubers with unqiue content. Not to take anything away from Mikey and Jack but i got into watch all of y'all's videos by seeing your solo content and then through your group videos. You got this man!
Thanks for the video, John. I was wondering why I hadn't seen any trio videos and I feel closure. Really glad that there was no intense and chaotic drama, really shows everyone's maturity. Still enjoy everyone's videos and am happy to be able to not expect a trio video with anxiety. I'm sorry you had to deal with a ton of messages and I hope that people that are curious will all watch this video and stop bothering you. Anyway, keep up the good work, John, and thanks again for the explanation.
Something people have to learn is that behind the screens, they’re just people, with their own lives, own relationships. They shouldn’t be forced to endure each other to make people they don’t know be happy. I’m sorry that you had to be in the middle of things, I’ve been in the same situation, it hard and can really drain you. Thanks for sharing, watching you and Mandjtv had affected my childhood immensely.
When one door closes, another one opens. What matters is your health and feelings. I got drawn by the trio videos about 4 months tops ago. Fun times! But thats not everything, your own projects I love too! The way you describe your life and progress, highlighting the importance of your (mental) health and with it being a good example how important it is ❤
Being honest the videos including the trio were the funniest pokemon videos I've seen on UA-cam. I am more of a purplecliffe fan but always like jack and mikey making jokes on eachother . I wish they can resolve the issue someday.
Found you through MandJ and watched collabs with you 3 while also watching your collabs with just one at a time. Can confidently say you were the glue. You have the personality to get along with many different personalities. It always seemed a bit like mikey and Jack were opposites. Jack uses a lot of loud goofy humor and Mikey seems a bit dry in the humor department. Kind of assumed those two wouldn't last. But from one lover of frogs to another I am excited to see your channel continue to grow
Wouldn’t say dry but just a different kind of humour. I find jack’s jokes repetitive and sometimes obnoxious. I prefer punny and slightly cheesy jokes.
I love all 3 of you guys content and honestly barely realized you guys dont make content as a trio anymore. You are 3 entertaining individual not side channels for each other.
You're too pure for this world, and it is amazing to see you get this off your chest. It is so difficult to be the middle person in a disagreement, and even worse when you have an audience. I hope this helps you to move forward, and I wish you the best of luck 💜
My first experience with Jack was actually your collabs, I remember not really liking him because of the way he acted, especially with Mikey. And it’s not because “oh he’s a bad person” it’s just… they clearly don’t share any similar views. It always felt like they were at each other’s throats, even on camera. Once I watched Jack separately and with other channels, I really liked his content. It’s just the two don’t mesh well, and that’s something people need to understand. Yeah sure they may get along at first, but that’s just to be expected. Someone’s true colors don’t show until later into the relationship. As someone who went through drama within my friend groups which caused some people to never speak with each other again, I understand that feeling. But to have hundreds of people looking at it and going: “HEY WHY AREN’T YOU INTERACTING, WHY WONT YOU COLLAB AGAIN?”, ugh I can’t even begin to imagine how much pressure that would be. People have lives outside of the screen and others seem to just forget that. Maybe it’s possible you could have someone new on the channel that Mikey or Jack could click with or just new collabs in general. Mixing it up can possibly get you out of that funk and there’s a lot of potential with the people you chose for the Kanto challenge
I feel really bad when I see people ask about you doing collabs instead of just enjoying your videos. Sure you guys are funny together, but you're also very funny just on your own too. You have a great voice to listen to, you're hilariously sassy, and your love for frogs is so wholesome! Please just keep being you, your fans adore you John!
Seems to me like the two of them put you in a horrible position, the fact that you still cater to them both to make sure there all happy proves your an amazing friend. It's not fair this is a video you had to make but I think you made the best of a bad situation and i'm glad this situation has allowed you to grow as a human. I love your videos and content, with or without your friends, keep being you and screw the comments
In all honesty though they both really should have put out some sort of statement, the responsibility should not have ever been on you. tbh i'm here for pokemon content dude 🤣😊
@@-ststudios-3020they aren't required to speak of their personal lives in a public fashion. What happened is their business and their business only. John did right, for his own sake, by making this video and he did more right by respecting their privacy concerning the specifics of the disagreement. Expecting to know the intricacies of famous people's lives has proven, time and again, to do no good for anyone involved. Just look at the way the American public has made entertainment of celebrities personal lives, treating them as some sort of reality soap opera. And I honestly don't think they "put" John into a situation. John was the middle friend, with two friends who didn't get along. It was an unhappy turn of events that no person is to blame for. Nobody put anyone into any situation. John expecting them to be friends just for his sake would have put them into an unfair situation. Some people just don't get along, period. They don't get along, which isn't their fault it just happens. John being a people pleaser isn't his fault. He took a soggy deck and decided to throw it out instead of making a house of cards with it, because he knows it wouldn't have lasted, no matter how much he wished it could have.
@@clintmcbride7830 You know what, you have completly changed my point of view. and as an aussie I agree only americans are capable of having parasocial relationships, everyone else in the world is perfectly fine 🤣🤣 (I was only trying to show my support for one of my fave poketubers)
I’m happy you’re doing what you need to do for yourself and mental well-being. It is unbelievably exhausting being a people pleaser and it takes effort and willpower to break the patterns that have become normal. Props to you for taking those steps for yourself
Truly, how mature of each and every one of you. Mature of them to let things be and not try to argue or pull you in their direction, and of you John, to not only take a step back from the whole situation, but to also be able to maintain those friendships separately without having to associate one with the other. I miss the collabs, sure, but i’m subscribed to you FOR you, FOR PM7. You are an incredible person and despite the not-so-perfect outcome in that sense, i respect you all more for all taking the high road. Much love to you!
It's so rough to be in the middle of a friendship falling apart, because there's nothing you can do. It's okay to be sad and grieve those times. I want to thank you for the collabs you did, because I was introduced to you from Mikey's channel, and I was introduced to Jack and Wolfey from you. You're a connector, you like to build connections to others, and it's so great to be introduced to new creators through you, because I get to love so many people's content. I've loved all the new content and ideas and new in-jokes for your channel. And I adored your draft league season! That series made me so, so happy, I loved the framing of it like a real sports league and the stories of the "players". Long live Bubby the GOAT! I can't wait to see where you go next.
Good for you on speaking your truth, man. To be honest, I always saw cracks in their friendship looking back. Especially watching the minecraft series on Mikey's channel. It felt like you got along swimmingly with both but Mikey and Purplecliff butted heads at times, which friends will do. Hell even me and my younger brother butt heads sometimes when playing games together especially playing survival games. But it seems like you all have moved past and found a path to amicably walk.
Props to UA-cam. I didn't even know you had a second channel and this is one of those little questions I had in the back of my head I thought would never get an answer. Wish the best for all three of you
We're about the same age and you've reached a similar point to me in some friendships. One thing I've learned over time through my friendships is that sometimes friendships are temporary. And that's okay. People grow and change. And just cause you and another person don't click together to be or stay friends doesn't mean one of you is "wrong" or "bad". Sometimes that's just how it goes. There are several people I don't talk to anymore, but don't wish any ill will on them. Life is a constant series of changes, and you have to learn what to fight against, and what is okay, even if it's hard
No lie I'm only subscribed to you out of the three of you and have been the whole time. Please don't think that the entirety of your audience is here for other people. I PM7 guarantee that you have the ability to grow the channel regardless of who you work with. I love the content and hope nothing but the best for you! I hope this somehow helps you in the way you've helped so many of us.
Dude I don’t know a single person in life who doesn’t have more than one friend group that don’t interact together. Whoever has made you feel bad about this situation I’m sorry they did. I love your content because your a great guy, please don’t others get you down. But good on you for letting things like this go. Appreciate the work you do. Thank you.
The one thing both Mikey and Jack publicly and consistently praise has been your creativity. Never let anyone stifle it, because it's one of the reasons people - including other content creators - respect your work and you. You make very enjoyable videos, by yourself and with others.
Being the friend stuck in the middle is such a tough job, that no one ever asked for. Being a mediator is actually exhausting, especially when you love both friends a lot. I’m proud of you for speaking up for yourself and (hopefully) closing this discussion for good. You deserve to just be yourself on your channel and do the videos you like. Videos are a lot better when the creator has fun doing them, and I wish that for you Xx
Thank you for being so candid with us, even though you didn't have to divulge any of this information to the public. Stress stemming from friendships are the absolute worst, and a friendship "breakup" of sorts is the poop icing on top of the crappiest cake imaginable. I hope that by getting your feelings out there that you can get back to a place of being happy and excited to working with whoever you want to work with, in whatever way you want to do it. Much to you love my dude! 💕
Yes this. I adore Mikey and John, I've never disliked Jack for not getting along with Mikey, he's just not my vibe but I love watching johns collabs with anyone
For me it was the opposite, I'm a huge fan of all three but if I had to choose a favourite, It would be Purplecliffe. However I respect all three of them and understand that MandJTV and him just simply didn't work out. It was no one's fault, just a shame that it did.
John i just want to say you did the most mature thing you could,and to let you know matter if your just doing a solo or playing with friends i will always watch your videos because youll always have me as a fan because i dont just love your content but i also love your personality that makes the games you play and the videos you make feel more lively.
the way you express your vulnerability about this matter and the act that you did this video for your own sake show how of a mature and incredible human you are. thanks so much for your honesty, jhon!!
Thank you for this. I LITERALLY have never thought about why the three of you stopped. The content from all three of you is still high quality and the videos with Mikey feel like their own special standalone thing.
I gotta say I was first a fan of Mikey and jacks then a video of u popped up with mikey now I do love y'all's videos together but I gotta say I enjoy watching y'all individually for different reasons and it also got me playing pokemon more which has ended up making me love it more so thank you to all three of y'all!
I always thought there was tension between Jack and Mikey, and that's unfortunate but some people don't click and can't work together I get being a people pleaser, I myself was one until I had a moment where it wasn't worth it, and I'm glad you found that John. Happy for you.
I know it’s a shame they aren’t making videos together anymore, but I think we should all focus less on the content and at least be happy that they split off on decent terms. They had a disagreement, and they both agreed that this was the best decision going forward. You guys need to focus less on what we lose from this and appreciate that this is what the people involved decided was best for them, because if things escalated any further we may have lost a lot more than just the trio videos.
I completely understand what it's like being in a friend group where a couple of people don't like each other but put on a mask of sorts to act all friendly. If Mikey and Jack don't wanna do stuff together anymore then that's completely reasonable. We still have the JMC and the collabs between you and Jack so at least they're still here and people should be happy that you're still able to interact with either one of them period
John, you're such a wonderful guy. I genuinely look forward to every time you upload, whether it's with your friends or by yourself. It's tough. It's very tough being stuck in the middle of a feud. You shouldn't have to carry all of that on your shoulders. Hopefully now, after seeing this, people will think twice before they bombard you with comments and questions. You're not just an "internet personality" you're a human being. And you're so cool for wanting to share this with us. Have the most wonderful of days, my froggy friend.
My man first off thank you for making this video. I can tell that you needed to do this for your mental health. That is the most important thing. I can sympathize with your plight. I’ve been in situations where I’m friends with 2 people who don’t like each other. I know how awkward that can be and it seems like you’ve done the best thing you can by not trying to force a relationship between them. Now I’m not going to lie I found your content through you’re videos with Mikey. And I have not warhead a ton of your videos. Judging by you’re personality that has been a mistake on my part. You seem like a really fun guy, not to mention a super funny guy, with the most outrageous shiny luck ever. I’m looking forward to all the new content that you’ll be putting out this coming year. I also suspect that my girlfriend and I will be doing a long overdue binge of your catalog of undoubtedly amazing videos.
As someone who constantly has to mediate, a *lot* of drama, myself, I agree that this was handled pretty much the best way that it could have been. I've seen friends cut each other out of their lives only to talk and yell at each other over something stupid, so them just mutually agreeing that they aren't really suited to be friends and leaving each other alone peacefully? That in itself, is kind of a miracle, in my opinion. All three of you make amazing content, too, and while it's sad that you won't be making trio videos, know that more than a few of your viewers support you, from the comments even before mine. I just hope you all stay as you are and don't end up hating one another for any reason, best of luck to both of them, and you as well, John.
Just wanted to say I've read all the comments and I am so truly thankful for the overall response to this video. This was a video I stressed about making for far too long and it really is a huge weight off my shoulders. Feel like there's more I want to say, but I'm hopeful that thank you is enough
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At the end of the day. We do what we feel is right. If this is right for you the true fans will support you John. I look forward to watching your career expand and take off like I know it will!!
Don't worry John it's all good! I kinda figured it was something like this but hey if the trio comes back awesome! If not then that's also completely fine
Don't worry bro
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Props to Mikey and Jack. No drama, no diss tracks, no boxing matches, just a handshake and a goodbye. Both of them are amazing people to be able to do that for the mutuals involved. I hope everyone, including you John, is okay and dealing with the situation well. Much love, brother.
Can someone explain what happened?
@@Bananabread810 watch the video, John explains everything from his POV
@@Bananabread810 TL;DW, Mikey and Jack had a disagreement. That's literally it.
Fancy seeing you here😂
@@JakeyXY Hey girl, you come here often? 😘
I’m glad you got this off your chest. Cheers for being real and respectful towards everyone involved!
oh hi shiny catherine
So... Tandemaus or Dunsparce?
@@devincetee5335 dunsparce 100%
It’s just a much better shiny hunting experience lol
I love your content
hi shiny catherine
This broke my heart. Just to let you know, we watch you for you and your amazing content. Not Mikey’s love for Drowzee or Jack’s ungodly shiny luck, but your creative and enjoyable content that brings us all so much joy. Don’t feel that we only want more Mikey or more Jack, we just want you to make the content you want to make because no matter what you do, you make it so much fun. Just let your content be how you want it to be and don’t worry about the restrictions of having two friends that aren’t friends. Being stuck in the middle is awful, but that just means that you must be a great friend to both of them, and we all think you’re a great person too.
I agree SO MUCH
Well put
Yeah we watch it for the content not for personally liking someone 😅
a lovely sentiment, and one i agree with heavily, but as he mentioned, sadly the youtube analytics prove it's not exactly the mindset of a good chunk of his subscribers
@@justaweeb7708yeah it’s pretty sad. i used to be that way until i actually watched his videos and loved him so much.
Playing mediator is one of the most exhausting things you can go through. I’m so happy you decided to respect yourself, and I’m glad things are sorted out. I love all of the videos from you, Mikey and Jack. You all are amazing content creators that feel like friends keeping me company while I do whatever else. You are a beautiful person, John. Much love to you and your family, and merry Christmas ❤️
Sorry can someone explain what happened I don't understand
This is such a tough situation but everyone involved handled it beautifully. I hope this helps calm the comments regarding jack/mikey. some people just can’t be friends, and that’s ok!!
Yeah :/
Honestly a good lesson for people to learn. You can't force people to like you, and that's ok
I agree sadly
Im just happy that my assumptions turned out right.
Hey hey its Hoodlum love your vids
Sounds like a personal rift causing a split between Mikey and Jack. I totally understand that feeling of being the common friend between to people/two groups of people that don't want to interact with each other and having to deal with the question of, "Do I do this thing with this person/people, or do I do it with the other? I feel like no matter what I do I feel like I'm going to upset somebody."
As someone who enjoyed the trio content a lot I'm really happy you made this video. I'm thankful I've never asked for the collabs but I will admit I missed them and while that probably isn't gonna change this video makes me happy because it explained what happened without judging them. And respect to all of you for being mature about it! I hope you feel better now as you don't deserve the bombardment of people asking you about it.
Always sucks being the middle man, you made the right decision making this video. There’s no reason you should be suffering because of an issue that ultimately has nothing to do with you.
Yea really. It's sad
Mhms
Yea just been a middle man earlier today...
"And let's be honest, a lot of them were there just to see extra Mikey videos or extra Jack videos. They're not really there for me." made my heart shatter. It's super unfortunate to be a people pleaser watching your friends do well, knowing you aren't doing the same. It puts you in such a weird and uncomfortable place where you don't know what to do or say, it feels as though your choosing between your well being or your friends well being.
I have defended this matter before to as much extent as I can, even before this upload. Jack had actually spoken out about what had happened between him and Mikey very briefly on his Instagram. When you posted the trailer for your 24 hour stream on Twitter, I replied to a few comments and let them know what had happened (to the best of the knowledge I had prior to your clarification) and tried to respectfully, and quietly, get less attention focused on the Jack and Mikey stuff.
But John, I hope you read this, as I am sincerely a huge fan of all three of you. I relate to you, however, the most. Your content is just fine without the two of them, it's just fine with the both of them. You have nothing to prove to the haters who will only ask for Jack and Mikey content. Being a middle man between the three of them is an awkward situation: only magnified by the group who only use you for extra content from either person. Being there is understandably tough and I really, really appreciate this video giving us a closer look at how things kind of felt behind the camera: all while retaining respect to your friends. Even if your channel itself isn't doing too well publicly, just remember there are a bunch of people here who genuinely appreciate your content and what you do, without the need for collabs, pleasing others, or whatever other thing people demand. Just do what you do best and we'll watch it. Thank you, John. I hope this video helped get all of that stress out of your system and helps you move past it. Much love.
I also want to add to this in case you see this John. Keep in mind that people like the videos with you and Jack/Mikey BECAUSE you are there too. People like seeing friends have fun together. And they like it A LOT.
Let me give an example that you might recognize from the perspective of an audience rather than your perspective as a creator: Markiplier Makes videos. Markiplier makes are videos where Mark, Ethan, and Tyler make various things (often food with no recipe, but sometimes they build stuff) and they have fun as friends. These videos are great and average around 10 million views. His solo videos average around 3 million views. Tyler and Ethan have less followers than Mark does (and no shade to them, theyre all great) so its not like people are only there to see Tyler or Ethan. People just like seeing them all together having fun.
Its the same thing with your collabs. People want to see you together having fun, not because they want to see people who arent you. And i know it can feel like that the way people in the comments talk, but if you ask them WHY they are so eager to see such collabs and they answer honestly they arent going to say "because i want to see more prplclf" theyll say that "when you guys are together you seem to have a lot of fun and its fun to watch."
Try not to take it personally.
I’m kind of dense sometimes but what really happened between those two?
@@Fatfish33W Basically Mikey and Jack have an argument during setting up an event 2 years ago. They haven't talk much since.
@@taylorhillard4868Exactly, I’m not watching a PM7 Mandjtv or Purplecliffe collab for one person, I’m watching it for both because I love seeing them interact
all three are amazing Poketubers in their own right, with their own humor and insight, and they all deserve respect
I'm proud of you for coming out about this, I can't imagine how hard this would've been to film. The bit about your own subscribers not wanting to watch your solo vids broke my heart, you're absolutely amazing and lovable, keep up the amazing work!!
One thing I enjoy is seeing John happy. Although I am not the biggest fan of John, whenever I do watch your videos or see you make appearances, I notice your joy just around your friends and it makes your videos entertaining to watch as your joy seems so much like your character, making my experience on UA-cam more fun. Although Mikey and Jack just went their separate ways without much drama, the feelings you’re facing are enough for you to make the video and drama in your own life. I’m glad you stepped out to talk about it, and I’m glad to be a subscriber to see content we subscribers enjoy and watching a joyful PM7 brings it so much more life. Hope things continue to get better for you
I went into this video worried that I might lose respect for one or both but I am pleasantly surprised that after listening to this, I have gained respect for both of them.
Thank you for posting this, we love you!
Cliffe is goofy, but overall a standup guy. You can tell that he's not there for the money. Don't know him personally, obviously.
@@xxhowisuxxdefinitely, he’s the kinda guy you don’t want in your friend group at school at first, but then he ends up there, and he’s one of the best guys you’ve ever Met, he’s fun to hang around
I’m so sorry you had to be the middle person for this. It sucks feeling like you have to choose between people to hang out with and have pressure from parasocial weirdos who don’t know anything and just try to point the finger. You’ve all been very professional about this and I’m glad yall realized that your mental health matters more than content.
While I didn’t quite get the situation I figured that if they wanted to make videos together they would. It’s not on you to try to bridge the gap between two people especially in an age where people are just a dm or text away. It’s baffling you got blamed for them not hanging out.
Please take care of yourself and I hope you’re able to do more cool videos without limiting yourself. ❤❤❤
Watching this has been a message of great importance in a time of need for me. I have two "friends" in my college who just mostly ignore me, and whilst that doesnt parallel your situation at all really, hearing from another people pleaser that I can put myself first and that I shouldnt worry about how they'll react if it means I'll enjoy being at my college much more, as I have wanted to distance myself from them (especially one of them, the other one can be nice by himself) for a while, and haven't because I'm worried how that'll effect them. I feel like I'm a footnote around them, like I don't matter as much. And I needed to hear, even if you didn't mean this, some words of encouragement to do my own thing and be mature and just move on. Love your content, hope you feel better after doing this
I hope that you can find your happiness, too, you should surround yourself with people who you love the energy of, you deserve to have a happy life. Another comment on here said "don't light yourself on fire to keep others warm", so make sure that after giving your friends everything they need, you save some for yourself, too. :)
It’s death by 1000 cuts.
I’m sure even the most indifferent person would get broken down by 1000s of comments harassing you about this. Mature candid video, honesty much appreciated 🙏
God I relate to the whole "where's Mikey" situation, every single time I do a collab. It's so obnoxious how people assume I'm the one not inviting people when I try my best to be as inclusive as possible. When you work for weeks on a thing and people only care about who ISN'T included, and blame you, for some reason, it's disheartening. (especially when it's someone you did reach out to) People politely request the presence of other Poketubers, but MandJTV fans rudely demand Mikey's presence.
Hi truegreen!
A lot of people felt their favourite creator just got left out but in reality sometimes its not in their schedule or interest to collab they have a lot of contents same as you... I also understand your frustration to the fans that's rude and demand to much
That does suck that you had to deal with those fans when you just want to make fun collab video with other UA-camrs. I could imagine this is also painful for Mikey too as he just want to have fun with his own videos but the fans keep wanting him to be included in a collab.
Anyway love your videos of poketubers creating a Pokémon and art design you drew 👍
I agree, Mandjtv fans can be the absolute worst when it comes to bothering others about collabs. I feel like Mikey needs to address it at some point, or at least call out their bad behavior.
@@marioandfriends_official Even if he does, the determined ones will keep at it. I'm not really sure if you can hold someone accountable for their fans. People will act like assholes independent of a person they like, and I would hate for someone to blame Mikey, especially after he's only recently come back. I get fans can be ikrsome but Mikey isn't responsible for how his fans act.
Some people just don't pick up on hints or social cues. The trio videos were amazing and special but even during those videos it is BLATANTLY obvious that Mikey and Jack don't click. There were times where Jack would do something goofy or dumb like he does that we all love him for and Mikey wouldn't even so much as smirk. Mikey is more reserved and serious and he and Jack just don't click. I'm super proud of them and glad they handled it maturely and just moved on with everything. Much respect. I hope you're doing well too John. Don't let your audience bother you there are more of us here for you and your content than you think there are. Much love big guy ❤️ keep making wonderful content.
My thoughts exactly, like I’m not the best at reading social cues, but them getting on each others nerves was pretty clearly not just a bit to me. I’m sure it was played as one and played up as an actual joke sometimes, but i remember watching videos and being like ‘I don’t think that’s actually a bit, mikey kinda seems genuinely upset’ (and there were probably points for Jack like that too I just didn’t know him as well)
When trio videos stopped i assumed something happened and they decided to stop working together.
It really sucks johns had to go through all this because of people not being able to make a simple assumption and let things go. He doesn’t deserve this harassment over something out of his control
It's incredible how many people think friends have to be attached at the hip and do everything together. In the TTRPG space (D&D and the likes) its pretty common to hear the advice "hey, maybe you are all friends but how you want to play the game is fundamentally at odds. If that is the case, continue being friends, but split the table." I always assumed that this was what happened to them, that the way they play this game is so different to each other that, despite everyone loving the game itself, playing together wasn't fun. We now know that it wasn't the case, but it boggles my mind that people would skip past this conclusion over 2 years and just go "why aren't you making this happen?"
It was obvious? I thought everyone liked each other, but alas. Sometimes things just don’t work out and that’s fine.
Same. I thought it was so obvious that John was clearly like the child between his two divorced parents at christmas dinner. I was kinda happy that the 3 stopped making videos together cause it was sometimes painful to watch. But i thought it was just me. So when i found out that they aren't friends anymore I wasn't even surprised. I am happy how they handled it but I feel really sad for John. Cause, like he said, he is the one who has the right to be sad about it. Not us, random people on the Internet
I was honestly a little dumb about not knowing what was going on.. I liked the videos with the trio but when they didn't make videos ever again I kind of just didn't think about it.
Everyone loves a collab, but this isn't a collab channel John. This is your space. I am disappointed in the people who have pointed fingers at you; I literally can't wrap my head around the fact that someone thought that you would maliciously leave people out of something... Gross. No thank you.
Your sense of humor, the amazing ideas you come up with for your videos, and your love for what you do make this channel what it is. It's you. Sending all the good internet energy and I'm looking forward to watching your future content. ^-^
I'll be honest, I found you through Mikey. I don't think that's that big of a surprise, but like... That doesn't mean I'm not here for you or anyone else. My favorite part of the JMC, the videos with Purplecliff, the videos all three of you used to make, is that like... Your friendships feel genuine and *you guys* feel genuine. From the first video I watched (one of the ones where you had to catch a specific pokemon in a randomizer), I've been here for *you guys*. Group content or solo.
Keep up the beautiful work and I'll never not enjoy a video you release, because I'm not here for the game or the other people, when I click on a PM7 video, it's for PM7 and anyone else you have in that video, if anyone else, because you all make it entertaining in your own unique and amazing ways.
Edit: fixing spelling and punctuation.
I'll admit, I found you through MandJTV, but I stayed because I love your vibe and your content. Proud of you for taking care of yourself and your mental health. I'm here for the long run for you and your content, man. Hang in there.
Same here. I discovered PM7 through the John Michael Cup and even though I watch both creators, I'm only subscribed to John. His content is more my style and it helps me unwind after a long day. Keep your head up John! We are here for you!
Me, as well, I found you through the JMC, but you were so funny, and just made his videos come to life, that I started watching you. I love all the (former) trio’s work and what they separately do or do together. You are you, and I think God has given you such a great gift and such a great opportunity and lifestyle. Thank you for opening up, even when it was hard. I really appreciate it, considering I didn’t know this was going on. We’re all here for you, man. ❤
Same I just thought that no one had time to get together then I heard this now I know what actually happened
@@mariannaulrey3786 I knew John via competitive and then he stopped it then I refound him during collabs with Mikey
Same, I found John through Mikey’s channel, but now I watch both of them often, together and alone.
I completely understand, john, the trio has brought me so much pure, wholesome joy and i was kinda living in denial that it was eventually going to return but the truth is what's important. Thanks for the memories, you all have given me a lot of joy, I'll never forget the fantastic memories i made watching 3 friends goofing around having so much fun. Thank you, John, Mikey and Jack. You three gave me a lot of motivation, inspiration and comfort
Lmfao this is so dramatic...
@@SC51793Read the room mate
Top comment and only on response lemme change that
Just me or does this read as if someone died?
Yea it was funny while it lasted
Found your videos from MANDJTV but I like your very own unique style. I have been starting to say Big Feesh every once in a while lol
I'm sorry you were hurting. I'm happy you are moving forward. I'm thankful you are open and honest. There are plenty of us here who enjoy you. Both your videos and you as a person. You are a great creator. I hope you know that! ❤ keep it up. This isn't an easy thing no matter what others think. You've got this! 🎉
John, as one of your probably older audience members, I have to say you very tactfully and respectfully handle all of this. I am so sorry you have had to deal with viewers who don't understand that not everyone has to be friends all the time. That you can be respectful of others but don't have to hang out and be friends. I love to watch all three of you individually can completely see why Mikey and Jack would not work as co-workers and why you do work well with both. I hope this helps lay to rest the nagging you have had to deal with. Wish you the best and can't wait to see what you do next.
well said
I'm one of PM7s older audience too. And just watching the older videos I could actually see it coming too. Had this same thing happen a few times between myself and other friends and also being stuck between two friends. Seen it happen from all sides. And it boils down to, these things happen sometimes. Pick up amd move on, don't get caught in the middle. John is totally doing the right thing here. Just point to the video and let it go.
@@mistv901
"just watching the older videos I could actually see it coming too"
Oh really? what were the signs?
@@DrawciaGleam02 Just some underlying tension in their interactions and words. The older you get. The better you get at reading people and knowing two people are getting on each others nerves. And to A never put them together again, or B stay clear of particular subjects whenever one or the other is near.
@@DrawciaGleam02 As a 10 year teacher, I definitely saw some signs of two people I would not put together in a "group " for any real long-term situation. Mikey, I find, tends to want things done in a very methodical way and with clear reasoning, while Jack is a bit more of a jump with two feet and kinda see what happens. The "chaos" that Jack can bring (while very enjoyable and he has made it definitely work for him) is very opposite to what it sounds like Mikey expects. John is such a lovely, easygoing personality that he blends well with both energies. Again, they are three very smart, enjoyable, and effective people, but in the long term, I can see why the two can rub each other in the wrong way. And of course, I don't know these people, but that is just based on what I have seen over the years of watching all three.
I will never understand:
1) how anyone could blame John for the decisions of two grown ass men that very obviously wasn’t caused by him
2) stay subscribed to John for other people he works with.
John is one of the most creative Poketubers on the platform. Great ideas, great execution and great overall vibe. Truly the epitome of “If John has one fan, it’s me. If John has no fans, I’ve died.”
Thanks for the transparency (not that we needed it because it wasn’t our business), and thanks for all the great years of content, John!!
Im like 89% sure that the people acting like John was to blame are little kids coping with the fact their favorite youtubers aren't best friends.
Little kids grow up on movies and TV shows where the group of bffs stick together no matter what, so reality hits them hard when they see their favorite friendships end like this.
Because twitter, instagram, and TikTok are toxic wastelands
For #2, I personally came here to see more of Mikey and PM7s chemistry, but I stayed because I just like his content.
I'm sorry for you john and Im sure I speak for most of the community when I say we are saddened you've had to go through this, and you must have been doubting yourself etc when in truth you are a great guy, an honest guy and your content is so wholesome and fun and you shouldn't have to answer for mikey and jack everyone has their own decisions and that's ok and hopefully In future this won't be brought up again. Keep being you and making great stuff, much love from Jersey
Majority of their audience is kids (which is nothing wrong about. Someone gotta make quality entertaining contents for kids). So they will always want their creator to stick together being buddy buddy. Kids dont understand like two people doesnt like one another while also respecting each other. Its normal phenomenon for child.
You took the absolute best path you could have taken both on a personal and professional level, anyone that has been around for your UA-cam career would know without a doubt that whether it's inviting or not inviting a friend your decision is never without reason as long as yourself mikey and Jack are happy and healthy then People should respect and accept the way things are, much respect friend, keep up the amazing work with whatever it is or whoever it's with just as I know you will again huge respect from here in the UK
I love all three of you guys. I am sad you don’t work together, but I am glad that it did not harm anybody and they solved it maturely. I hope you do good and that you take off and are happy. You are my favorite of the old trio(though Mikey was the first one I watched). I sincerely appreciate you and all you do. You made me happy when I thought about S side. I sincerely hope that you are happy forever. With love, A random guy on the internet.
I won't lie, I clicked on this video for the tea, but John again manages to make a beautifully articulated, meaningful video explaining something people were curious about. Thank you, PM7, for dropping your walls the slight amount you do so we can see the heart behind the mind of one of the most entertaining people on UA-cam.
I am not surprised they don’t like each other. Jack is so chaotic and Mikey so straight laced. You’re very laid back so you can handle them both but they’re very different. Idk why people always bug you about this, they should just enjoy what you do make. The event was super cool and fun and I hope people didn’t ruin it for you.
That’s exactly what I was thinking about the two of them. Mikey HATES when something goes wrong against him, and Jack just shrugs it off and rolls with the punches
@@Jlaps941This is still a while ago but jack has adh so he has some what to a pass on this but still neither are REALLY to blame but mickey >:3) should of taken the situation better
@@Berrywcue335 idk how he could’ve taken the situation better than he already did. They realized they don’t work well together in videos, so they just don’t collaborate anymore. Seems pretty professional to me, especially since they have mutual friends like John
@@Jlaps941 Ye I know it’s just I still feel kinda sad about it in general
they're adhd vs autism personified
I can appreciate this for sure. Your own mental health is the most important thing and you got to keep yourself sane in content creation and the public eye. I've been a huge fan of Mikey and Jack and you for many many years and I'll continue to watch all three of you. You three have mastered creating content that people can go back and enjoy over and over again. The content is already there so there's no excuse for people not to be able to still enjoy them. I've watched your type lock probably three times over. I've watched Mikey's videos more times than I can count. I've even watched Jack's last to leave discord videos probably three or four times because they're just great content. So keep doing what you're doing and I definitely look forward to more solo content from you.
Honestly, this is one of the most mature ways to tackle this situation and it shows how genuine and sweethearted you are. Keep doing the amazing work you have been doing and we will all have your back John
Mikey and Jack are grown men who are responsible enough and have enough self respect by moving on instead of beef. there's enough people in the world to have standards and not be lonely. I know they won't mind you speaking on it. audience opinions will always be a spectrum and at the end of the day you're the captain of your own ship.
Honestly, I love whenever John gets a chance to interact with people he isn’t usually collabing with. Videos with Wolfey, Superblah, and the little interactions during Showdown tournaments (both the ones he competes in and the one he ran) are videos and streams I love to see. Not to say I don’t love the other videos, but John’s a really fun and enjoyable person to watch, and his interactions with people who aren’t Jack and Mikey feel just as special as the rest, and I love seeing them occur. I think I remember Shiny Catherine being a part of the Kanto thing (though her busy schedule at the time exhausted her from streaming), and I was super hyped to see the two of you in the same place. I look forward to what comes next in 2024!
Trust me when I say that the people who disagree with their decision or feel like they can blame you just don’t understand really how this works. The fact that Mikey and jack can decide not to stay upset that they can step back and realize that they need to end the friendship takes a much bigger person than anyone understands. We are all proud of them for settling it and for you because being able to handle this is not easy when you are the 3rd party and love the friendship and trio. I am glad that this is all working out reasonably and I can’t wait to see the next PM7 video, guest stars or none.
This just makes me so sad because I grew up on y’all. I remember being 9, and watching your guys’ videos all the time. U guys were a big part of my life and it’s fun to back and watch your old videos. I appreciate you updating us on this.
as much as i love your videos with mikey, we are here for YOU. i’m not the kind of person who watches every video just because i like the creator, but i can’t remember the last time i missed one of yours. i’m having a hard time putting into words just how much good your presence on this site has done, so i’ll just say thank you. don’t light yourself on fire to keep others warm. all the love and respect for you, dude ❤
Yeah, he was the cheesecake to their strawberry or cream. They both are special and extravagant when eaten alone but with John it was a whole meal. He is just the grounded wholesome meal in this analogy.
I watch all three of them. Jack looses himself in his short term videos and insanity, mikey looses himself in his routines and more often his own head, but john is always just chilled, grounded and goodhearted content. There is a reason why he is the first one to talk freely about this.
thank you for saving me a 2 page essay, cus that's exactly what I feel
Honestly John, you’ve handled this very professionally. You focused on the aspects of the conflict that affect you, left the stuff that’s not your story to share out, and avoided speaking ill of either party. Major props for that, and I hope sharing this helps get some of the hurtful messages to stop.
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@@jordanandjohnathanpollak6536 what
i am one of those fans that wishes you all still made videos together, but the decisions made along this journey were very mature. while i’ll miss seeing mikey and jack together in the same video they’re still amazing creators that i can watch seperately. love you and all the boys john.
Hi John, I know this will get lost in the sea of support you're already getting, but I hope one more really helps sink it in. You're an amazing creator and I follow you because you're an inspiration and you make me laugh. I love how honest you are with the serious stuff, like this, as well. You have a maturity about it and I'm glad that them not being friends hasn't affect your friendship with either of them as well. Your content is amazing and I look forward to any notifications from you. I'm really excited about all the stuff to come! Here's hoping you and your family have an amazing holiday season and a wonderful new year! Hopefully the New Year brings a fresh start to all of these comments and you can focus more on what you need as a person as well! We all love you, John!
I’m sorry that all this happened to you John, I know I’m a random guy on the internet but I want you to know I’m proud of you for making all the responsible decisions that you can and I hope people will leave you alone about this whole situation
It's definitely unfortunate to hear both Jack and Mikey aren't friends anymore but that doesn't mean you should be completely affected
You're easily one of the most creative pokemon content creators
I'm looking forward to whenever you make more stuff since it's just fun to watch you play a pokemon game
Keep up the grind John 🐶☺️👍
Didn't expect to find a fellow Blazblue fan here!
@@Mega34765 me neither
I know I’m late, but honestly as fun as all three of you were, I kinda saw it coming. Jack and Mikey always seemed to not mesh as well together… you always brought it together as the middle man and made it perfect, but I always had a feeling that a fallout possibly happened. It’s definitely rough to be the middle man, especially if there’s fallout… I wish the best for you…
As someone who also struggles with trying to take care of others at my own expense, I really feel for you on this one. And I gotta say as much as I love seeing you collab with other UA-camrs your solo videos are some of my absolute favorites
I’m sad that this trio isn’t happening anymore but I’m more sad about how you tell that people have been villainizing you. You definitely don’t deserve that and I’m a great fan of all the three of you guys and watching pretty constantly great content ☺️
John we literally don’t deserve you. You are so sweet and amazing and I’m sorry people did that. We love you so much and I hope everything gets sorted out.
i like mikey but hes def a lil more sensitive seeming than purple. purple is a lil more "wild" and whatnot. so while this sucks to hear, it makes sense. not everyone vibes together perfectly
yeah their personalities clashed. purplw being wild and Mikey being sensitive and sometimes a know it all.
I admit I stumbled on your stuff from watching MandJTV, but I've come to greatly enjoy your videos both on your own and with others. I'm glad you were able to maintain your friendships without drama tainting it. Continue to grow and find your stride, and do it your way.
PurpleCliffe IK tweeted about this once. He asked everyone to respect the situation that he and Mikey probably wouldn't be doing any videos together anymore. It's been at least two years since that tweet. I was sad but people have creative differences. Also you must make your own mark upon the world. People can be friends but not good coworkers or the reverse of that. Boundaries must be respected.
Thank you PM7 for expressing your feelings. It is hard to keep things bottled up. Mental health is always a priority. You and your family have a wonderful holiday. I cannot wait to see what you bring in 2024. ❤😊
Having two people not mesh well within a friend group is always a hard thing to figure out. You want to spend time with both of them but it feels like you have to pick and choose who to be with at any point. Something I've kinda learned is to really not try to force it. I feel like the way you guys handled it was absolutely the correct way. I've had a couple friends where I kept trying and it just made it where instead of them silently going their different ways it instead ended with hostility between them. Some people just don't mesh well, and that's okay. It's especially difficult when it's a group of 3 where you can't really isolate yourself at all. It's easier if it was something like a party with 10 people where they don't really need to interact much. I've felt overwhelmed with a lot of this sort of stuff and I don't have hundreds of commenters constantly pestering me about it. When the trio videos stopped I just kinda figured "oh I guess they just stopped making them" and kind of left it there. Figured maybe Jack was busy or you and Mikey wanted to focus on JMC. It sucks that it had to come to a point where a video needed to be made just to discuss it. Sometimes people just disagree or just don't get along and that's perfectly fine.
I've dealt with situations like this AND been in situations like this. I'm still young myself so mistakes can be made, but thankfully a lot of friendships that have 'ended' have had some sort of closure, some negative, some positive and some neutral. But what I make sure is that every friendship I've closed off, I've at least *tried* to get a word in with them, some let me and agree to disagree, some came back and are now in good terms, and some just won't even let me get near them out of bitterness, which is fine, I'm never gonna see them again anyway, but still, friendship can be tough.
sometimes.
With my thoughts of when I noticed they stopped recording together, I've thought similar, and honestly?- Expected it. Don't get it twisted, I wasn't hoping they'd break it up, hell no, I literally love their dynamic, but I started to notice how Mikey reacted to some of Jack's jokes and I think to myself "Oof, I feel a slight amount of tension" and when that compiles over and over, I think Mikey finally decided to break it off was understandable. I'm obviously not making Jack out to be a bad guy, while I don't know him personally I'm sure he's a genuinely good person, and from many streams and videos I've watched of him, he seems to be. Sometimes his jokes may strike a nerve but they're ultimately not malicious.
With all that being said, I think both of them handled it very well and I'm glad John let them handle it on their own and they agreed to just... break it off, it's normal- it happens. I respect them both humongously for it.
For some reason I was under the impression that Mikey and Jack were still friends, but just didn't want to make videos together.
This is sad to hear, but it's life. Thanks for telling us John, even though it wasn't really any of our business. :)
What you did behind the scenes was very mature and I really like that so much. More people need to do that. Just wish fans need to understand that you guys are still human beings at the end of the day and then they clearly should have seen that something happened behind the scenes that you guys weren’t doing anything anymore, but there maybe could have been a way to tell the fans that there has been a disbandment, but then people will still be upset and then you’ll probably still get comments. People will still be people. Glad you made this video John
I'm proud of John for moving past this. It must've been really hard to let go of this. Good luck for the future.
While I’ve always wondered what did happen behind the scenes between Jack and Mikey, I never said anything and never bothered anyone about it. I remember Jack saying on one of his streams a while back of something like “people can be civil with each other, and not make content together”.
He seemed to really have something on his mind when he said that, because people then and even now STILL ask about it.
It honestly has gotten annoying for me to see as a viewer, so I can imagine what it’s like for you guys. People need to be as mature the creators mentioned in the questions, and just accept that people grow apart and move on.
But no matter what, I’m still a big fan of all three of you guys.
I was a Purplecliffe fan when he was on Twitch, and I remember being like “wait, Purplecliffe and Pokemen7 know each other and are friends!?!? WHAT!?!?!”
Same thing happened too when when I first saw you and Mikey collab together.
I love all three of you guys, and will always support you all.
Thank you for the content on your main channels and on this channel, John 💚
I appreciate you making this. Obviously I enjoyed the trio videos but knowing why they stopped, I can't complain. The issues you described honestly really simulate a lot of the stress I face currently, so this has really been life-changing advice I will take away from this ❤
The Platinum series with you three is legendary enough _(exactly _*_because_*_ of the dynamic between all of you... and also because of Jack's insanity)_ that I don't even mind that you guys have moved on. It's a shame that there won't be more, but it's perfectly understandable.
3:35 That sounds absolutely crazy! I should watch it some day. :)
The sound of anger, heartbreak and just pure exhaustion in Johns voice in painful to hear. John I'm so sorry that as you fans we've driven you to feel this way.
this entire issue was not our business, John is just trying to be a good friend to both of them, and everyones constant accusations only make things worse!
As someone who deals with drama between friends often, stop concerning about it. I know often it gives stress as you do care about what happens to them. But I learned the hard way that people cross their own path, sometimes together, sometimes not. And all you can really do to help yourself, is let go.
Hope you are doing alright mate.
Love from Belgium 🇧🇪
Hey man I think you’re an amazing UA-camr. Me and my kids always get excited when ever you up load anything and we watch your old stuff on repeat.
You don’t need others, you have so much talent all on your own.
Keep that head up and that crown polish king!!
As someone who’s often found themselves in the middle of two great people who just didn’t get along with each other, or grew apart over time, I’m proud of you for not trying to “fix” things. It’s natural that not all people will get along, and trying to force folks to be friends when they just don’t click will only strain the friendship between them even more, and turn you into the group’s therapist (which is never a good situation to be in)! You handled this well, and even though I know how much it can suck that two of your friends don’t get along anymore, it was the right thing to do to leave it be and not insert yourself into the situation.
Also I must confess that I used to be one of those commenters who would ask you three to keep doing videos together… I watch all three of you guys religiously, and I love seeing you collab with your friends, but now that I know the full story, I (and hopefully everyone else who’s been begging all this time) will promptly shut up! You and your friends shouldn’t have to feel uncomfortable and force a smile for our entertainment, and I’m personally very glad that you’re all moving forward with your individual careers happily and genuinely; you all deserve it! 👍
As a fellow people pleaser who's found himself in the middle of arguing friends too many times to count over the past few years...I feel this. I'm glad that you were able to get this off your chest!
As a another fellow people pleaser, I agree. I hope John and you, have a great year now that it’s 2024 ❤️
Just wanted to start by saying thanks to all three of you guys for making such cool and unique content. I am sorry to hear about the end of Mikey and Jack's friendship and the stop to any 3 man videos. I am glad everything was mutual and not a messy dramatic ordeal. Thanks for keeping us updated on a private matter between friends look forward to seeing what all you come out with in 2024. Also i recently got back into playing Pokémon over the past few months thanks to my gf. Jack, Mikey, and yourself are all amazing youtubers with unqiue content. Not to take anything away from Mikey and Jack but i got into watch all of y'all's videos by seeing your solo content and then through your group videos. You got this man!
Thanks for the video, John. I was wondering why I hadn't seen any trio videos and I feel closure. Really glad that there was no intense and chaotic drama, really shows everyone's maturity. Still enjoy everyone's videos and am happy to be able to not expect a trio video with anxiety. I'm sorry you had to deal with a ton of messages and I hope that people that are curious will all watch this video and stop bothering you. Anyway, keep up the good work, John, and thanks again for the explanation.
Something people have to learn is that behind the screens, they’re just people, with their own lives, own relationships. They shouldn’t be forced to endure each other to make people they don’t know be happy. I’m sorry that you had to be in the middle of things, I’ve been in the same situation, it hard and can really drain you. Thanks for sharing, watching you and Mandjtv had affected my childhood immensely.
This is why a lot of creators chooses to do content by themselves and not collectively. Not blaming anyone in general.
When one door closes, another one opens. What matters is your health and feelings. I got drawn by the trio videos about 4 months tops ago. Fun times! But thats not everything, your own projects I love too! The way you describe your life and progress, highlighting the importance of your (mental) health and with it being a good example how important it is ❤
Being honest the videos including the trio were the funniest pokemon videos I've seen on UA-cam.
I am more of a purplecliffe fan but always like jack and mikey making jokes on eachother .
I wish they can resolve the issue someday.
Found you through MandJ and watched collabs with you 3 while also watching your collabs with just one at a time. Can confidently say you were the glue. You have the personality to get along with many different personalities. It always seemed a bit like mikey and Jack were opposites. Jack uses a lot of loud goofy humor and Mikey seems a bit dry in the humor department. Kind of assumed those two wouldn't last. But from one lover of frogs to another I am excited to see your channel continue to grow
Wouldn’t say dry but just a different kind of humour. I find jack’s jokes repetitive and sometimes obnoxious. I prefer punny and slightly cheesy jokes.
@rubychen2635 yeah I wasn't sure how to phrase it, but i see that for sure
I love all 3 of you guys content and honestly barely realized you guys dont make content as a trio anymore. You are 3 entertaining individual not side channels for each other.
Huge W take on the situation honestly, settling it in person no internet drama and a simple goodbye. Honestly that just shows emotional maturity.
You're too pure for this world, and it is amazing to see you get this off your chest. It is so difficult to be the middle person in a disagreement, and even worse when you have an audience. I hope this helps you to move forward, and I wish you the best of luck 💜
My first experience with Jack was actually your collabs, I remember not really liking him because of the way he acted, especially with Mikey. And it’s not because “oh he’s a bad person” it’s just… they clearly don’t share any similar views. It always felt like they were at each other’s throats, even on camera. Once I watched Jack separately and with other channels, I really liked his content.
It’s just the two don’t mesh well, and that’s something people need to understand. Yeah sure they may get along at first, but that’s just to be expected. Someone’s true colors don’t show until later into the relationship.
As someone who went through drama within my friend groups which caused some people to never speak with each other again, I understand that feeling. But to have hundreds of people looking at it and going: “HEY WHY AREN’T YOU INTERACTING, WHY WONT YOU COLLAB AGAIN?”, ugh I can’t even begin to imagine how much pressure that would be. People have lives outside of the screen and others seem to just forget that.
Maybe it’s possible you could have someone new on the channel that Mikey or Jack could click with or just new collabs in general. Mixing it up can possibly get you out of that funk and there’s a lot of potential with the people you chose for the Kanto challenge
I completely agree. I don't love the trio videos and I always felt that jack was unnecessarily rude to Mikey.
I feel really bad when I see people ask about you doing collabs instead of just enjoying your videos. Sure you guys are funny together, but you're also very funny just on your own too. You have a great voice to listen to, you're hilariously sassy, and your love for frogs is so wholesome! Please just keep being you, your fans adore you John!
Seems to me like the two of them put you in a horrible position, the fact that you still cater to them both to make sure there all happy proves your an amazing friend. It's not fair this is a video you had to make but I think you made the best of a bad situation and i'm glad this situation has allowed you to grow as a human. I love your videos and content, with or without your friends, keep being you and screw the comments
In all honesty though they both really should have put out some sort of statement, the responsibility should not have ever been on you. tbh i'm here for pokemon content dude 🤣😊
@@-ststudios-3020they aren't required to speak of their personal lives in a public fashion. What happened is their business and their business only. John did right, for his own sake, by making this video and he did more right by respecting their privacy concerning the specifics of the disagreement. Expecting to know the intricacies of famous people's lives has proven, time and again, to do no good for anyone involved. Just look at the way the American public has made entertainment of celebrities personal lives, treating them as some sort of reality soap opera.
And I honestly don't think they "put" John into a situation. John was the middle friend, with two friends who didn't get along. It was an unhappy turn of events that no person is to blame for. Nobody put anyone into any situation. John expecting them to be friends just for his sake would have put them into an unfair situation. Some people just don't get along, period. They don't get along, which isn't their fault it just happens. John being a people pleaser isn't his fault. He took a soggy deck and decided to throw it out instead of making a house of cards with it, because he knows it wouldn't have lasted, no matter how much he wished it could have.
@@clintmcbride7830 You know what, you have completly changed my point of view. and as an aussie I agree only americans are capable of having parasocial relationships, everyone else in the world is perfectly fine 🤣🤣 (I was only trying to show my support for one of my fave poketubers)
I’m happy you’re doing what you need to do for yourself and mental well-being. It is unbelievably exhausting being a people pleaser and it takes effort and willpower to break the patterns that have become normal. Props to you for taking those steps for yourself
Truly, how mature of each and every one of you. Mature of them to let things be and not try to argue or pull you in their direction, and of you John, to not only take a step back from the whole situation, but to also be able to maintain those friendships separately without having to associate one with the other. I miss the collabs, sure, but i’m subscribed to you FOR you, FOR PM7. You are an incredible person and despite the not-so-perfect outcome in that sense, i respect you all more for all taking the high road. Much love to you!
It's so rough to be in the middle of a friendship falling apart, because there's nothing you can do. It's okay to be sad and grieve those times. I want to thank you for the collabs you did, because I was introduced to you from Mikey's channel, and I was introduced to Jack and Wolfey from you. You're a connector, you like to build connections to others, and it's so great to be introduced to new creators through you, because I get to love so many people's content. I've loved all the new content and ideas and new in-jokes for your channel. And I adored your draft league season! That series made me so, so happy, I loved the framing of it like a real sports league and the stories of the "players". Long live Bubby the GOAT! I can't wait to see where you go next.
Good for you on speaking your truth, man. To be honest, I always saw cracks in their friendship looking back. Especially watching the minecraft series on Mikey's channel. It felt like you got along swimmingly with both but Mikey and Purplecliff butted heads at times, which friends will do. Hell even me and my younger brother butt heads sometimes when playing games together especially playing survival games. But it seems like you all have moved past and found a path to amicably walk.
Props to UA-cam. I didn't even know you had a second channel and this is one of those little questions I had in the back of my head I thought would never get an answer. Wish the best for all three of you
We're about the same age and you've reached a similar point to me in some friendships. One thing I've learned over time through my friendships is that sometimes friendships are temporary. And that's okay. People grow and change. And just cause you and another person don't click together to be or stay friends doesn't mean one of you is "wrong" or "bad". Sometimes that's just how it goes. There are several people I don't talk to anymore, but don't wish any ill will on them. Life is a constant series of changes, and you have to learn what to fight against, and what is okay, even if it's hard
No lie I'm only subscribed to you out of the three of you and have been the whole time. Please don't think that the entirety of your audience is here for other people. I PM7 guarantee that you have the ability to grow the channel regardless of who you work with. I love the content and hope nothing but the best for you! I hope this somehow helps you in the way you've helped so many of us.
Dude I don’t know a single person in life who doesn’t have more than one friend group that don’t interact together. Whoever has made you feel bad about this situation I’m sorry they did. I love your content because your a great guy, please don’t others get you down. But good on you for letting things like this go. Appreciate the work you do. Thank you.
Oh yeh Fogs rule!!
As a big fan of all 3, it's a lil sad but I 100% respect everyone involved! The two were civil, and John has done incredibly!
The one thing both Mikey and Jack publicly and consistently praise has been your creativity. Never let anyone stifle it, because it's one of the reasons people - including other content creators - respect your work and you. You make very enjoyable videos, by yourself and with others.
Don’t worry, I completely understand! You do what you need to do John! We’ll all support you either way! ❤
Actully mikey has mention purplecliff once and he said they didnt really hit it on in the friendship department but their no hard feelijg between them
when did Mikey ever mention Purplecliffe
@@matteolovito872He posted about it
Being the friend stuck in the middle is such a tough job, that no one ever asked for. Being a mediator is actually exhausting, especially when you love both friends a lot. I’m proud of you for speaking up for yourself and (hopefully) closing this discussion for good. You deserve to just be yourself on your channel and do the videos you like. Videos are a lot better when the creator has fun doing them, and I wish that for you Xx
Thank you for being so candid with us, even though you didn't have to divulge any of this information to the public. Stress stemming from friendships are the absolute worst, and a friendship "breakup" of sorts is the poop icing on top of the crappiest cake imaginable. I hope that by getting your feelings out there that you can get back to a place of being happy and excited to working with whoever you want to work with, in whatever way you want to do it. Much to you love my dude! 💕
If it makes you feel better; PurpleCliffe isn’t really for me, but when you collab with him, I watch the video anyway, because you’re in it.
Yeah, my thoughts exactly.
Yes this. I adore Mikey and John, I've never disliked Jack for not getting along with Mikey, he's just not my vibe but I love watching johns collabs with anyone
Absolutely with you on that.
For me it was the opposite, I'm a huge fan of all three but if I had to choose a favourite, It would be Purplecliffe. However I respect all three of them and understand that MandJTV and him just simply didn't work out. It was no one's fault, just a shame that it did.
100% agree, can’t stand purplecliffe
John i just want to say you did the most mature thing you could,and to let you know matter if your just doing a solo or playing with friends i will always watch your videos because youll always have me as a fan because i dont just love your content but i also love your personality that makes the games you play and the videos you make feel more lively.
the way you express your vulnerability about this matter and the act that you did this video for your own sake show how of a mature and incredible human you are. thanks so much for your honesty, jhon!!
Thank you for this. I LITERALLY have never thought about why the three of you stopped. The content from all three of you is still high quality and the videos with Mikey feel like their own special standalone thing.
I'm sorry John, I'm happy you could use this space to vent and I hope this situation improves!
I gotta say I was first a fan of Mikey and jacks then a video of u popped up with mikey now I do love y'all's videos together but I gotta say I enjoy watching y'all individually for different reasons and it also got me playing pokemon more which has ended up making me love it more so thank you to all three of y'all!
I always thought there was tension between Jack and Mikey, and that's unfortunate but some people don't click and can't work together
I get being a people pleaser, I myself was one until I had a moment where it wasn't worth it, and I'm glad you found that John. Happy for you.
I know it’s a shame they aren’t making videos together anymore, but I think we should all focus less on the content and at least be happy that they split off on decent terms. They had a disagreement, and they both agreed that this was the best decision going forward. You guys need to focus less on what we lose from this and appreciate that this is what the people involved decided was best for them, because if things escalated any further we may have lost a lot more than just the trio videos.
I completely understand what it's like being in a friend group where a couple of people don't like each other but put on a mask of sorts to act all friendly. If Mikey and Jack don't wanna do stuff together anymore then that's completely reasonable. We still have the JMC and the collabs between you and Jack so at least they're still here and people should be happy that you're still able to interact with either one of them period
John, you're such a wonderful guy. I genuinely look forward to every time you upload, whether it's with your friends or by yourself. It's tough. It's very tough being stuck in the middle of a feud. You shouldn't have to carry all of that on your shoulders. Hopefully now, after seeing this, people will think twice before they bombard you with comments and questions. You're not just an "internet personality" you're a human being. And you're so cool for wanting to share this with us. Have the most wonderful of days, my froggy friend.
My man first off thank you for making this video. I can tell that you needed to do this for your mental health. That is the most important thing.
I can sympathize with your plight. I’ve been in situations where I’m friends with 2 people who don’t like each other. I know how awkward that can be and it seems like you’ve done the best thing you can by not trying to force a relationship between them.
Now I’m not going to lie I found your content through you’re videos with Mikey. And I have not warhead a ton of your videos. Judging by you’re personality that has been a mistake on my part. You seem like a really fun guy, not to mention a super funny guy, with the most outrageous shiny luck ever. I’m looking forward to all the new content that you’ll be putting out this coming year. I also suspect that my girlfriend and I will be doing a long overdue binge of your catalog of undoubtedly amazing videos.
As someone who constantly has to mediate, a *lot* of drama, myself, I agree that this was handled pretty much the best way that it could have been. I've seen friends cut each other out of their lives only to talk and yell at each other over something stupid, so them just mutually agreeing that they aren't really suited to be friends and leaving each other alone peacefully? That in itself, is kind of a miracle, in my opinion. All three of you make amazing content, too, and while it's sad that you won't be making trio videos, know that more than a few of your viewers support you, from the comments even before mine. I just hope you all stay as you are and don't end up hating one another for any reason, best of luck to both of them, and you as well, John.