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If you are there on vacation and want to date a bar girl thats fine, be straight up with her and tell her you want her to be your holiday girlfriend and negotiate a price. Understand that you will also pay all her expenses while there. Then leave the area you picked her up at. Go on a trip to another area and enjoy your time with her. Once your time in Thailand or any other country is up, go back to where you met her and say your goodbyes and leave. Never think she is really in love with you, it is just a building transaction. Face it, it is there job to get you to fall in love with them and get as much money as they can from youm
Hi Nolan. Thanks for creating this video and some good information and opinion. Couple of points. There is no contract between the girl and the bar. They talk about 10 day contract etc, but there is no physical agreement or contract that is signed. If a girl wants to walk away she can do that, although she would loose money. No Thai lady has an excuse of no iD. It is very easy to get an iD card even if you are not in your own province. Just walk into the local Ampur office. Any girl telling you this is probably not Thai or has other things she’s not being honest with you about. But, to work on jobs like 7/Eleven and hotels they will need a certain level of education which needs documentation. That’s the number one reason they don’t work on those sort of jobs. Nobody has to work in a bar Thanks again.
A couple of the girls that I know working up here are from Burma and are unable to get IDs here and a few others that can't for various reasons. It's definitely not common but something I have ran into here. Thanks for the clarification, definitely need to spend more time down south to see more how it is there. Think I will be stuck in Chiang Mai for a bit what with the new bar.
A bar girl isnt yours. Its just your turn. Date isn't the word.....Rent and per hour. Rent is paid by lady drinks and before boom boom. If you think differently. Put the beer down and resd this again
I am one of the guys who fell for a bar girl in Nov24. I spent 7 days with her in Patts and BKK, had an amazing time, the financial damage was super managable and since I came back home we are constantly writing on Whatsapp, have video calls almost daily and she doesn't ask me for money. Up until know everything is super chill and nice, no love bombing from her side, commnication is very consistent, she does the things she announces etc.. Of course she is busy at certain times, but for some reason I don't mind her doing her bar girl thing. And I really have feelings for her. Of course this will lead nowhere, but I feel like there is some genuine connection here and I don't see how she is manipulating me or anything. There is waaay too much communication from her side to think this would just be a Customer retention thing. I'm really enjoying it.
@@lkabong5529 that's the most interesting thing. If this is just a service, what you get for money is even better than I tough. I still see no downsides to my situation.
@@lkabong5529 yeah, I get it, but that's the most interesting thing: if all this is nothing more than a service, the service is even better than I tought. I serioulsy do not see and downsides to my situation.
Most of the girls working in the bars in Chiang mai at the boxing stadium where your bar is aren't beautiful. Maybe 10 % are. Many are fat and pushing 40 or more. Even the young ones aren't beautiful, just average in most cases.
Some even go as far as not accepting money for sex. That's the hook. A gamble she takes for a bigger pay out later. She is not into you. Moral of the story, avoid bar girls. Go for the Starbucks barista or the fruit stall girl or the waitress at the restaurant near your hotel or the perfume girl at the mall. Be creative and sincere, you'll go far
I think you need to spend a bit more time here to learn!! You don’t speak Thai so you must rely on someones help!!! as without an honest Thai manager you are limited? Those bars that have stayed the distance the owners had expendable cash & lived in Chiangmai a long time. eg. Nick ex Mad dog; Sandy UN Irish Pub; Ron who owned ChiangMai Saloon. The beer bars never last….. esp in a noisy centre all competing…..
Hey everyone, if you're in Thailand, or coming soon, and interested in nightlife but don't know where to start then please check out my Thailand Nightlife group.
www.skool.com/thai-nightlife-5952/about
Cheers!
thank you
If you are there on vacation and want to date a bar girl thats fine, be straight up with her and tell her you want her to be your holiday girlfriend and negotiate a price. Understand that you will also pay all her expenses while there.
Then leave the area you picked her up at. Go on a trip to another area and enjoy your time with her. Once your time in Thailand or any other country is up, go back to where you met her and say your goodbyes and leave. Never think she is really in love with you, it is just a building transaction.
Face it, it is there job to get you to fall in love with them and get as much money as they can from youm
They are lovely, honest😂😂😂
Outstanding All Around
5 MINS OF MY LIFE I WASTED
All a fantasy...Remember that!
I went to last bar in CM last week. To be honoust, you know already what I will say……🤣🤣🤣
Good info
Hi Nolan. Thanks for creating this video and some good information and opinion.
Couple of points.
There is no contract between the girl and the bar. They talk about 10 day contract etc, but there is no physical agreement or contract that is signed. If a girl wants to walk away she can do that, although she would loose money.
No Thai lady has an excuse of no iD. It is very easy to get an iD card even if you are not in your own province. Just walk into the local Ampur office. Any girl telling you this is probably not Thai or has other things she’s not being honest with you about. But, to work on jobs like 7/Eleven and hotels they will need a certain level of education which needs documentation. That’s the number one reason they don’t work on those sort of jobs. Nobody has to work in a bar
Thanks again.
LePub you’re spot on! No excuse to get id! The bars is easy money that’s all, like OF in the USA, easy money!
A couple of the girls that I know working up here are from Burma and are unable to get IDs here and a few others that can't for various reasons. It's definitely not common but something I have ran into here.
Thanks for the clarification, definitely need to spend more time down south to see more how it is there. Think I will be stuck in Chiang Mai for a bit what with the new bar.
You must do something to the dull concrete walls in your bar.
I will in the future, just getting things done slowly. Had some things I needed to get done, thats something I can do over time.
A bar girl isnt yours. Its just your turn.
Date isn't the word.....Rent and per hour.
Rent is paid by lady drinks and before boom boom. If you think differently. Put the beer down and resd this again
I am one of the guys who fell for a bar girl in Nov24. I spent 7 days with her in Patts and BKK, had an amazing time, the financial damage was super managable and since I came back home we are constantly writing on Whatsapp, have video calls almost daily and she doesn't ask me for money. Up until know everything is super chill and nice, no love bombing from her side, commnication is very consistent, she does the things she announces etc.. Of course she is busy at certain times, but for some reason I don't mind her doing her bar girl thing. And I really have feelings for her. Of course this will lead nowhere, but I feel like there is some genuine connection here and I don't see how she is manipulating me or anything. There is waaay too much communication from her side to think this would just be a Customer retention thing. I'm really enjoying it.
It's almost as if she's good at her job😂
Cool. You've got this 👍.
@@andrewrobinson2565 haha, yeah I know mommy/ daddy/ the buffalo might get cancer tomorrow 😅
@@lkabong5529 that's the most interesting thing. If this is just a service, what you get for money is even better than I tough. I still see no downsides to my situation.
@@lkabong5529 yeah, I get it, but that's the most interesting thing: if all this is nothing more than a service, the service is even better than I tought. I serioulsy do not see and downsides to my situation.
Most of the girls working in the bars in Chiang mai at the boxing stadium where your bar is aren't beautiful. Maybe 10 % are. Many are fat and pushing 40 or more. Even the young ones aren't beautiful, just average in most cases.
I tried to pay directly for mangos but honestly I can’t do it anymore just doesn’t feel natural
It's hard to believe they do it for money. 🤪🤪
"no fear of being rejected sitting having a drink with a bar girl" that's reaching
Of course, it can happen 😂😮.
@@andrewrobinson2565 typically this only happens on snowy days 😂
@@silasketgaskets8709 Try not showering on a hot day ☀️? 😁
@@andrewrobinson2565 the smell of cash far outweighs any other odor. sitting and drinking that is. i assume a shower is mandatory before other stuff.
Whats hard is im not paying these for some of these girls in pattaya and it has me questioning 😅 if this one girl likes me genuinely
No she doesn't.
Some even go as far as not accepting money for sex. That's the hook. A gamble she takes for a bigger pay out later. She is not into you. Moral of the story, avoid bar girls. Go for the Starbucks barista or the fruit stall girl or the waitress at the restaurant near your hotel or the perfume girl at the mall. Be creative and sincere, you'll go far
I think you need to spend a bit more time here to learn!! You don’t speak Thai so you must rely on someones help!!! as without an honest Thai manager you are limited? Those bars that have stayed the distance the owners had expendable cash & lived in Chiangmai a long time. eg. Nick ex Mad dog; Sandy UN Irish Pub; Ron who owned ChiangMai Saloon. The beer bars never last….. esp in a noisy centre all competing…..
Because they can’t do in their countries.
Dah