Joe Ryan was cleared of any wrong doing after an exhausting investigation. It is on the court records in case Summer wants to read it. Lori did herself no favors by speaking at sentencing. It was odd that she never once mentioned Alex, her so called protector. Charles never came to visit, wonder why🤔 her dreams of grandiosity makes her super dangerous, she sees herself above any laws & any judgement. Calling Tammy her eternal friend was insulting & outrageous, stating her kids have clear her of any wrong doing was appalling. When, I ask, have we seen Lori worried for her kids? NEVER!! She was dancing on a beach while her kids lay in the cold ground buried like animals. No punishment is enough for this woman, I wonder how well received her BS will be at her new forever residence...
Agree 100% I sure wish these people would stop saying those kids were abused by Joe Ryan. Lori lied then too and I’m sure she has something to do with Joe’s death.
What really bothers me is when they start on for Joe Ryan it was never proven then he molested his daughter and it's sickening that they continually degrade that poor man even in his grave this family is disgusting this is just my opinion
I agree. It just proves that this whole family is as crazy as Lori. There never was any proof of Joe molesting the kids. I think they were all brainwashed and manipulated by that crazy Lori
Colby remembers being abused by him Some people have very bad situations where more than one parent can be abusive. It's not always that if one is bad the other must be good
@@niaselah3348 I'm not saying Colby is lying, but Colby was very young when this allegedly happened, and Lori is a master manipulator. Look how she coerced Tylee into telling the police that Charles was abusing them on the day Charles was killed. I don't believe that Charles threatened them and hit Alex, and I don't believe Tylee's statements to police from that day.
I strongly feel it was a ruse and she convinced Tylee it happened. I also feel she was poisoning Tylee her entire life, so she could be viewed as ‘the good mom’.
Any positive Lori did as a mother was erased when she murdered her children. I understand her sister trying to hold onto those memories. Lori betrayed her entire family by what she did.
What Lori did will also ravage the LDS church in the near future. They will use this experience to discount any truth. In the end many people will die because of her acts. Her kids are doing great, and their jobs (Lori said they were busy) is to help those in the spirit world and also to be guardian angels to their family. @@Mataylor17
Not to denigrate summer’s tribute to her niece and nephew, but it was my understanding that the allegations of abuse by Mr. Ryan upon his daughter Tylee were found to be false, unsubstantiated and just a vindictive and manipulative ploy by Lori Vallow to deprive Mr. Ryan of his parental rights. Am I misinformed here?
interesting.. the evil mother accused Charles Vallow with cheating in order to take his truck, empty the bank account and depart with cult leader Chat Duncebell.
Summer and Lori keep up the unproven accusation against Tyler’s father, and yet Lori aided in that sweet young woman being murdered, dismembered, burned, and buried in a fire pit. What a monster.
Why didn't you listen to Charles when he told you Lori was crazy and threatening to kill him since you said she was acting crazy since late 2017 or early 2018? Instead your entire family turned against Charles!! That was before she met Chad!!!
What was it she told Lori about supporting her with her mission, do you remember? (too lazy to search my notes). She was fully supportive of Lori's crazy.
@@QJacPLowhen I heard that he had so many phones on one plan for her the kids & members of her family, I said this family is all about money incentives & opportunity! It was like 11 phones he had on one plan. Wife & kids being on the phone plan UNDERSTANDABLE! But other grown people? Hell no you get your own plan! She got over on people and her family supported it!
I know this won't be popular but all I heard was the blame game and excuses for Lori being a wonderful mother. She was married 5 times and moved her kids around so she could live a dream life. A literal "nightmare".
@lynette599 I agree that she did not do these murders due to mental illness but because she is a narcissist. She should have gotten the death penalty. How can anyone, especially a mother, kill her children in this horrific manner. I hate that everything gets put down to her faith. Please stop this story that Lori had this severe mental illness as it makes me sick. She did what she wanted because she craved money and fame and sex and couldnt care about her kids. She is a disgusting murderer. The fact that she was married 5 times is also telling.
Listening to what Lori rambled about prior to the judge sentencing her, can't really blame someone for thinking she's nuttier than a fruitcake. I think she's evil. I think she's psycho too. Maybe she's the one who is possessed by a demon.
@@lynette599well that's obviously the only way their family can process, understand and make sense of this, is that ahe had a break, and there is truth in that, though she is obviously also clearly evil
It's sad to see that Lori's family's eyes are still blind to the monster she has been her whole life! She is a narcissist! She was NEVER a good mother! Her children were props to get attention and praise for herself! She probably caused Tylee's illnesses! She probably convinced the kids that they were molested! The more her kids went through, the more attention and praise she got for "being a great mother!" I'd be surprised if she didn't cause Joe Ryan's heart attack. This woman is not mentally ill, she's just evil! This didn't start when she met Daybell, she's been evil all along!
Proven that Tylee was groomed. Note after Charles’ murder she drove to fast food. She never cooked and contributed to Tylee’s obesity/health issues. She hated Joseph and Kay so the kids were disposable pawns.
@@Malama_Ki She´s born evil her dad is evil too the murdering in my oppinion started with the very suspicious death of her sister Stacy in 1998 i think Lori killed her. She has never been a great mother it was all for the Lori Show
@@ChristianBitz-Nielsen95 I agree. I’m wondering if Stacy caught Lori and Alex playing GOT and they overdosed her with insulin. Alex went to prison over Joe and I wonder if he killed him too? They didn’t find the body for two weeks so no conclusive evidence. Lori looted the place and the kids got survivor benefits from SSI which Lori later kept and was convicted for. She’s as evil as they come. Her statement in court shows just how much of a selfish, narcissistic, sociopath she is. I’m glad her and Alex are gone and I hope they BBQ Chad. Both Melanie’s are evil too. The bodycam of Melanie B(P) is chilling when the officer discovers Alex sitting there as the hitman. Zulema: I heard three words and knew she was manipulative and only in it for self glory too.
She is minimizing the horror of what her sister did by saying she is sad about "what happened". She is using passive voice to avoid saying "my sister murdered her children". This family needs to straight up forcefully denounce Lori and stop avoiding reality. With a few notable exceptions, this whole family has avoided reality for decades.
Think she’s still processing the sheer horror- maybe you wouldn’t know until you walked in her shoes- these are the things that can make people sick enough to cripple or end lives- I’m sure she’s trying to literally survive for those that still need her
@@silvergirl7810 All Summer had to do, was making a tribute to the value of Kylee's life. I draw the line when she includes her exalted version of Lori and trashes an exonerated dead man, over a problem almost 20 years ago. She didn't choose to talk about the last known picture of the children with Alex at Yellowstone, did she, and what a wonderful uncle he was? Yes, Summer... Lori good, Joe Ryan bad...! Yes, this is the same Summer we saw on television in 2019, when the children went missing.
@@purpleamber1 So far, the Tammy Daybell family, seems to have a grasp in reality...Chad's children, not so much. I have watched many videos on cults, particularly religious cults, and have learned a lot. Don't people have enough in their lives, without living every waking minute for a cult? The Cox family is like a cult, any deviation from the family narrative gets one ostracized. Summer, even though she knows her narrative won't be popular with the public, insists on inflicting it on the public, in a last ditch effort. Someone should have advised her not to go there...
My heart breaks for Joe Ryan. This is hard for me to say, but truly is what's in my heart. I'm a childhood SA survivor. I have read all the available child custody documents pertaining to Colby and Tylee. The likelihood of Lori manipulating her children (and proven by the courts to be the case) to believe the most atrocious things about JR seem more likely than not. This woman didn't just become unhinged in 2019...her delusions simply became untenable when she murdered her children for financial and religious gain. I'm sorry for Colby. I truly am. He has unquestionably had a traumatic childhood and life. I just don't trust he wasn't coerced at a young age to believe certain things. I've never doubted an SA survivor, and by all accounts, Joe Ryan was not the best parent...but the level of deception and manipulation Lori reigned on her nearest and dearest - it has to be logically called into question. I'm not disbelieving what Colby believes because that is valid. I still just feel bad for the soul of Joe Ryan who cannot defend himself to these heinous accusations.
Finally someone has her back. Three years and change it has taken though. It is a beautiful tribute. But sad it has taken this long to have a single person come forward for Tylee.
Her letter was all about how wonderful Lori was and Tylee nothing on JJ or Charles. She blames Joseph for abusing the kids, she still believes what her wonderful sister said.
The fact that this tribute by Aunt Summer included pictures was really helpful in understanding the loss of the children in her life. I hope that time will help heal her loss. I would like to thank her for sharing herr feelings this way. Even complete strangers like me, grieve with you over your loss of Tylee and JJ.
Seeing the photos was so very nice. My ears didn't hear very much about JJ Only Tylee. And that's sad. I know that the Woodcocks spoke about him more, though.
I feel for Lori's family members. However, it's a shame that Summer Shiflet is still repeating defaming comments about some of Lori's past victims without considering the lies Lori has told them repeatedly. Defaming people in Lori's past is getting old. These people are unable to defend themselves any longer, and if there's anything we absolutely know, it's that Lori is a liar.
Lori’s lies to different people about different topics. Lori did not become narcissistic late 2017- early 2018….she has apparently lied all along to get the sympathy vote from different people. Digs at Joe Ryan and Charles Vallow shows she still has not come to terms with the life of lies Lori has told her and others.
Yes, Lori started down the road she is on long before 2017. Unfortunately, Summer is still in denial about some of her sister's lying and manipulative behavior.
Thank you. I meant every word. I lived in Idaho when this story broke, before it went nationwide. With Idaho being such a small "town", things like this feel very personal. And Nate was on it every minute, holding nothing back. The best reporter in Idaho Falls for sure, maybe the state, in my humble opinion. @@tommycoyote3258
Nate, this is a great interview with Summer. I am so glad Summer got to make her statements about the children and even better with the photos. Thank you, Nate for your superb coverage of this awful case.
Hmm If any one in entire family would have listened to Charles....Came forward..... Would the children be alive? How about Tammy? What does Garth actually know?
Lol! If you think Chad manipulated her you have not listened to Lori's histroy even before he came into her life. Why do you think Tammi had to die? Who was pressuring whom to have her killed? It was in her texts to him.
@@hazelhadley-britt6396 Where did I say Chad manipulated her? I simply meant she had to have a NDE, because he did! She's so narcissistic she couldn't let him out do her goddess status! Oh btw, I have watched and listened to this case from day one, so please don't assume anything about me because you can't comprehend a comment.
Lori is not delusional… If a lie is repeated long enough it becomes truth to some… I pray that one day this family accepts the truth instead of making excuses…. And yet no one speaks of the brother Alex…amazing
That isn’t an excuse. The woman is absolutely delusional, it doesn’t change what she did. Admitting someone has a mental health issue doesn’t negate their actions. Do not pretend to know more than the people actually involved. Stick to your computer screen, but don’t be fooled into thinking you know more than them because of news reports you have watched. Absolutely absurd.!
@@samantham8696 She believes she is always right. Everyone else is wrong. She sounds like trump. I alone can fix it. Lies, Lies, Lies. Out of body experience my ass. I can't wait until she goes to a real prison. She is going to get her comeuppance.
I was disgusted with Lori’s statement. I had pancreatitis twice. It is painful. I almost died twice. But it healed and I am fine now. My lipase level was 5000 the first time and the second time it was 10,000. According to my doctor, 125 is average. He said I should’ve died both times that it was a miracle I didn’t. And the reason I’m telling you this in case somebody says well you didn’t have it as bad as that little precious child but I had it really really bad. She would have healed. She would have had a wonderful life, and as long as she watched the saturated fats, she wouldn’t have an issue with the pancreas. I am really sad that she acted like she did a favor for Tylee. She got what she deserved. As for resting in the arms of Jesus, when she dies, she needs to accept responsibility and ask God’s forgiveness. But as long as she won’t accept responsibility, she can’t ask God for forgiveness for something that she doesn’t think she did wrong. I pity her. Thank you for all your hard work Nate. We appreciate your shows.
Pancreatitis sounds horrific. It turns out it can and has been induced in children by their own mothers who, clinically speaking, have what is called Munchausen By Proxy which has been recently renamed as Factitious Disorder Imposed on Another. It is entirely within the realm of possibility that Lori had a hand in Tylee's physical suffering early on in life. That is exactly the behavior of someone who sees their child as an extension of themselves rather than the child being a fully separate entity. These are the kinds of parents that can justify horrific behavior including causing health issues to then look like a heroic parent for helping to "solve" the apparent health problem. Much like the credit Summer gives to Lori. As though without Lori, Tylee would have most certainly died. Fits pretty well with Lori's own take that she saved Tylee from future suffering by taking her life at 16. These are the parents that believe they have the right to take their child's life, and that the right is fundamentally theirs. Sickening.
I've had multiple surgeries growing up and went through pain galore but that doesn't mean that I didn't have a happy life or I wanted to die. Medical illnesses and problems does not justify murder and I bet Tylee would have wanted to live her life and not be taken away from this earth in a such brutal and vicious way by the people who should have been looking out for her. She probably went through worse things in her final moments than she did in her prior lifetime. Lori just wants to justify her twisted crimes and she should be ashamed for saying this.
@@y2ksurvivor Tylee went through a lot of stress and crap she should not have gone through in that whole custody battle. Who knows what caused her to be sick and if Lori was causing it but I do believe that a LOT of things contributed to it. Poor girl is in a better place than she was with most of the people in her young life. She didn't deserve to do the way she did though 😥
While my heart hurts for Lori's family and the loss they feel, there's still parts of their stores I can't buy yet. From all I've heard of of Lori and Joe Ryan's divorce, there is nothing in the paperwork that alludes to any abuse of Tylee. I may be wrong.
Lori claimed that Joe abused both Colby and Tylee to get an upper hand in the divorce. Investigators and two psychiatrists determined that the allegations were false.
Am sorry I don't think she was abused all lies Lori made up she always been evil just got worst down the road.This family still can't believe she's done this and all the lies.
You aren’t wrong, the court proved these kids were not abused. Joe actually got custody and then he mysteriously winds up dead? Joe was her first victim
You would think the family would not take this time to rip Joe but, yet they still do. Says a lot to me. I do t want to feel this way towards Stacy and her mother but, it’s so wrong and cruel.
I know it is so easy to look back and say “Coulda, woulda shoulda…” however, it’s hard to get past the fact had the family reached out to Charles and listened to him so much may have been avoided.
Charles told you about your sister and you turned your back on him and they killed him. NO sympathy for you or your family. Y'all partied that same day Charles' was dead and you believed Lori when she said Charles was cheating on her when he didn't and you still are saying Joe vio lated his own daughter when that's not so! Shame on you. Shame on all of you.
I wonder if she'll be called to testify in Charles's case? That will be interesting. This isn't over yet. God bless Kay, Larry,Kresha,Todd, all of the families! Samantha, Tammy's sister and aunt, her dad, they all broke my heart!! This was all because of GREED!! EVERY SINGLE ONE of these MURDERS could have been prevented!!! Charles should HAVE NEVER BEEN KLLED! He would have taken those kids and she knew it but she wanted ALL of their money! JJs, Tylees, & Charles!!
@@pj89-96 She is guilty too. They knew LV was whack, they are talking it now but didn’t care enough before to convince LE to check her nutty azz out? It doesn’t feel right to me, but 🤷♀️
Thank you! Someone had to say this. Those kids were "missing", Summer and her mom did absolutely nothing to try and find them. They went all over TV spreading Lori’s nonsense. I’m glad her eyes are starting to open and hopefully she continues to do the work to heal past her family system of dysfunction.
The statements Lori made about the happiness of the 3 victims in the hereafter is the rationalization she has for the actions she took. It's not a delusion. All criminals have a rationalization. Lori wanted (lusted for) power, money, attention, and a particular man. She arranged her life to acheive what she wanted.
This interview sadly confirms my suspicion that not only was Tylee killed for money but also because she outshone her beauty pageant Mom. A lot of narcissistic Moms are loving towards their daughters as they are trying to mold them into little mini-me’s. Something that is easy to do when they’re young. But when puberty hits and they become independent they start to disagree and that is a very serious offense to a malignant narcissist mother.
Lori saw age was catching up with whatever beauty she might have had while Tylee was becoming a beauty in her own right. That and laziness getting fast food for both kids.
That’s similar to Chad never mentioning a “near death” experience until he heard Julie Rowe saying she did. He jumped right on that bandwagon, immediately. Looks like Lori has taken to jump now, wanting to be like Chad.
Exactly and it's a prerequisite to being a member of Chad's Church of the First Born is to have had a NDE. At sentencing Lori mad up the story about dying when she was in the hospital having Tylee and she said her spirit fell to the floor? It was probably just her uterus not her spirit. Lori is delusional and still thinks she's the queen and Chad's the king of the 144k.
It took me over three years to even look at this case! I also had a two-year-old granddaughter that was murdered! I do not believe that Lori is delusional, I believe she is a narcissist and a murderer! I do believe that she went down the rabbit hole of religion and has tried to use it in her advantage to murder for money lust and control! I am so sorry for your loss! Losing a loved one to murder is the worst thing that can happen to a person! I Apologize If my words seem harsh but this is my true opinion!
Crystal I'm so sorry to hear about your grandchild. I imagine cases like this would be difficult, confronting and triggering for you.. I hope you're ok🙏🏽 I tend to agree with you. Lori showed tendencies of narcissism at a younger age. There really is no excuse for what she done..😢
@@ralsharp6013Thank you! These horrible crimes with children in them, are very triggering for me! I will never understand how a person can take the life of a child! My granddaughter has been gone for five years! She was two at the time, she lived with her dad and his girlfriend! It was proven the girlfriend caused the death of my granddaughter and only served 3 1/2 years in prison! She was given the offer to plea! Without being graphic she beat my baby girl to death! She is now out living her life very grandiose without a care in the world! Unfortunately we never got justice! But I’m so glad that this woman will spend the rest of her life in prison! May God watch over all the children!
@@crystalransom8575 I hope no appeals in the Lori case, would be an insult to the victims, family and judge Stevens stealthy decisions. I'm so deeply sorry that your family didn't receive the same justice for your grandbaby. 3 1/2 years is but a tap on the wrist. I imagine that would make a person's Cup feel half empty at times. Well done to you, for finding your cup half full within this verdict. 🙏 I pray for your families continuous healing 💧
And to everyone worrying about JR & bashing Summer for mentioning it, back off! It’s entirely disrespectful to Colby & Summer is desperately trying to get through this. I choose to believe Colby, but the truth is that none of us know. They are all going through hell, so if you can’t be supportive then step off, haters! Be supportive of this families grief & keep hurtful opinions to yourself. Unbelievable. RIP Tylee, JJ, Tammy & Charles.❤
Attacking a dead man who was investigate and cleared seems to deflect from the fact that YOUR SISTER IS A LAIR AND MURDERER! Still enabling seems to be a family problem.
Why should summer apologize for her sister? It was Lori’s choice to do what she did. It would be hard for any family to process that their loved one is a murderer.
@@surelooksresourceful6032 She should apologize because she is a hypocrite, a philanderer and enabled Lori on her murderous path until it was inconvenient for her to continue to do so.
I kept thinking SHE SOUNDS EXACTLY LIKE JULIE ROWE! And when you think about the others I always say “I wonder how Melanie gibb, zulema & the other Melanie were when they had these “meetings” because I do believe we got a certain Melanie gibb a certain zulema & a certain Melanie p once the case was picked up & they were summoned to court. Just imagine how volatile & animated they were before law enforcement got involved!
She's going to have fun in prison!! She'll find a few followers I'm sure. AFTER she's been thrown around 3 or 4 times for murdering her children !! She'll be protected tho, like Chris Watts and the other POS, they'll be put in protective custody or with the pos just like themselves! I think she only fuled the fire when she opened her mouth!! IMO 🤬
It was a speech to her king Chad to tell him her new revelation about a false near death experience and Tammy is her friend working hard in heaven as is JJ and Tylee made me want to throw up it was so convoluted and so self serving. Anyone who reads this was officially on the record would laugh if it wasn't so serious and she killed her babies.
Chad can’t totally be blamed for Lori’s behavior! After all, it wasn’t Chad’s children who were eliminated to get what they both wanted, just his wife. Lori allowed her own children to become the “dark ones,” AND her husbands to be destroyed.
Daybell uses religion as an excuse to commit heinius crimes, as well as to excuse her inexcusable, vile actions. We've seen this type of behavior over and over again.
Adam ghosted Charles after he flew to Phoenix to help with Lori. Adam says in interviews he tried to help Charles but the FOIA documents show that Adam went out to Tucson to visit a friend instead of helping Charles. Hopefully they’ll show all of that in Lori’s trial in AZ. Adam loves publicity (like the rest of the Cox family) and is twisting the truth. He bailed on Charles and didn’t contact to police, his wife had to email the Chandler police. Adam is not telling the truth but it’s in the police reports. Watch the videos of the police talking to him and not just Adam’s interviews.
The fact that she told a different story to different family members proves it is someone’s delusional they don’t pick and choose which story to tell whom they are just delusional all across the board
I don't even care to Summer, they all cheered her on with her terrible ways. lori is a serial killer. She is not delusional, it's the game she always plays. Lying on Joe Ryan about molestation.. What a near-death experience when making Tylee, Summer stop it! Y'all are not much different than Lori.
It's understandable the family needs to believe Lori is mentally ill. It's probably the only way they can make sense of this tragedy. How I see it, though, is Lori is not mentally ill. She's willfully choosing her "delusions". She's lost in her fantasy world, but that doesn't make her mentally ill. It makes her a spoiled rotten adult who believes the world is her oyster and all will bow to her. A lot of her delusions more than likely came from Chad. For some reason, and it's not often explainable, Chad and Lori connected in a way most people will never experience. Unfortunately, it was a connection that lead to the complete and total devastation of those around them. They could have had the life they wanted if they had each divorced their spouses and sent the children to live with relatives; however, that scenario didn't feed into the "chosen one" delusion. Lori knows better...deep down inside...she knows better. Right now she is still playing the chosen one game. After Chad's trial, it probably won't take long before the cracks in her fantasy world begin to show.
Her whole family enabled her and still is. Her brother told a detective how she and Alex were planning to murder Joe Ryan and dispose of his body. None of the Coxes were alarmed? And then Alex assaulted him. None of them found it concerning? She's only admitting to 'delusions' because it fits her story.
Also Chad is a broke loser who was financially supported by his wife. And Lori is used to the finer things in life. Had they each divorced they would have been living off welfare or a hairdresser’s salary; it would’ve been hard to keep up their “divine” fantasy.
The fact that Lori was calculated about what delusions to share with each member shows that she was a highly manipulative narcissist, not someone with delusional disorder, like the sister says
I deal daily with someone who has suffered from delusions due to severe mental illness, and I do not see the same behaviors exhibited by Lori. Their psychosis impacts almost every aspect of life and makes functioning very difficult. Lori may have religious delusions, coupled with personality issues, but it does not appear to be the same as those associated with a schizophrenia or schizoaffective diagnosis.
Only thing is this is the first mention he has had of Tylee and a single person to represent her. He spoke of JJ and Tammy the majority of his coverage. That has always been a thorn in my side. Glad she finally gets to be seen as a human being and a beautiful soul.
How do you know Tylee wasn't abused? Colby himself stated that their father sexually abused them. So why are you sitting Bea screen declaring that Tylee was never abused?
@@susanmetz9892because a lengthy and thorough investigation by experts including forensic psychologists found Joe innocent of the charges and they recommended the children should be protected from Lori.
@@susanmetz9892court documents & Tylee's guardian ad litem showed there was no evidence of abuse. In fact it indicated that it was believed Lori was coercing Tylee to make accusations. Tylee was put thru hell during that custody battle. By her mother
@@susanmetz9892 wasnt he accused of doing jsomething bad to this wife?? And why keep the Ryan name?? Kids say lies to make a parent just like lori's very young and wanting to please mommy, In order to get her way. Its done ALL THE TIME. It was one of the lies a family member of mine used to get rid of her ex. for support payments on 5 kids... Then while she was causing my fam member to lose EVERYTHING while sleeping with1 of many of her lovers reporting her husband was attacking her to police and to hurry out and help, they realized FINALLY SHE WAS LYING, BECAUSE HE WAS SITTING IN JAIL ALREADY PICKED UP THE DAY BEFORE.. So liars lie. And common sense speaks volumes.
I think she's delusional, psychotic, crazy but no-one likes to think that. Also greedy, selfish, self centred & thinks she's more important than she is. We've seen Charles & Colby (the most credible out of everyone) say she's seriously nqr & not who they knew. Lori still doesn't think she's done anything wrong.
Well fuck, why bother with medical science when we can just deem everyone evil🙄🤷♀️ The more stereotypes you make about this sorta crap, the more it continues. You got 2 cents to share? Put it towards scientific funding instead of talking out your ass and enabling more & more to become "evil."
So sad to hear how blatantly Joe Ryan's name is dragged through the mud, coming from a woman who lives for lies, I wish there was someone to speak up for him, listening to her sister it seems they are quite dysfunctional as a family 💔🙌
Jesus couldn't help her. The Bible says do not kill. She is responsible for the deaths of several people. She got what she deserved most of us would want the death penalty.
Her sister trying to state it started with chad nah she was crazy way before to be honest she making excuses for her sister can’t no man tell me to kill my kids she did and she wasn’t think evil if that true why she didn’t and let be no she took her kids money to be she new what she was doing it wasn’t demon her niece is Ass crazy as her , and also she had Charles set up to get insurance lmao he got her after death go Charles many men’s need to learn if ur wife is acting different and has affair please please change ur insurance ur will don’t be stupid because Charles wasn’t but many of u guy let the women blind u she not crazy but greedy , thank he changed he’s insurance he wasn’t stupid good boy Charles
I wish Lori had heard this. Even though it probably wouldn’t have knocked any sense into her. Tylee is the one person in this case I feel we hardly knew about. Thank you Summer for sharing some of her beautiful life with us.
Absolutely ripped my heart she was a whisper compared to all the other victims. I get JJ had his grandparents involved. But till now, it seems not one person defended Tylee. And it was upsetting to see her just be a ghost without a story. I’m glad she spoke up too. We now can see she did have someone in her corner. ❤ Just wish she would have had an advocate the entire trial and before.
I agree, thanks for sharing thoughts on beautiful Tylee, I always felt like no spoke out for her. When I watched Tylees interview with the police, my heart broke for her. I saw how hard it was and how she was torn apart protecting her mother. She was an innocent child and her mothers choices are heartbreaking.
Summer, the phone call you made to Lori while she was in jail broke my heart. If there were any times in your conversations with her, that one should have hit the heart. You tried, we heard this. Bless your heart, as you unpack what this whole situation has brought upon you. It's not your job to help others at this time in your family. They must go through the same process. May the Lord show you the way. 😢
Imagine if she would have been making those sad heartbreaking calls to TYLEE YOU KNOW THE ONE SHE HADNT SEE SPOKEN TO IN HOW LONG THE ONE EVERYONE BUT THE FAMILY WAS LOOKING FOR .. THATS WHATS HEARTBREAKING HERE
Delusional disorder? Again, playing the victim. Or making her out to be a victim still! Stop!!! Or choosing pride, wickedness, evil, sin, and the adversary to deceive.
Very touching! But, as her sister, she is helping her in her 'mental illness' appeal. Her attorney said that they will use that to appeal! I hope the persecutor and the judge did enough to block any possibility of her getting away with her wicked deeds once again!
@@koitsenka Unfortunately I was in a situation where my recently deceased wife was thought to be possessed. You wouldn't believe what I went through. The Mental Health System came up with bipolar & schizoaffective disorders, 8 months later they added Alz Dementia at age 65. I took care of her 24/7 for her last 7 years with a month & 1/2 break when she was in a long term nursing home. I being a Christian prayed for her to be delivered from any evil spirit activity & still am not sure exactly what was going on with her. She passed on 2/1/23.
The problem with this lady is that they enabled Lori and still continue to do so...its very sad..blaming Joe Ryan again..he is not there to defend himself....Stop it Lady
I agree the cox family has been exposed to be a bit self absorbed…I feel summer probably wrote a letter to sway the judge to not give her lengthy sentence! But the law is the law…lori will be an inmate until it’s her time!
Lori will always be delusional by choice and a very dangerous person. She broke just a little yesterday when they discussed Tylee. She absolutely knows how those children were terrified and suffered in their final moments
Apparently, there is testimony by Kay woodcock & Larry and others that she WAS, a wonderful mother. Lori has a mental illness and who knows when it manifests itself.
I don’t get how some of you are so quick to talk badly about some of these people. Clearly, Lori has had issues for a while. None of us will ever know for sure if Joseph Ryan abused the kids. It happens. But Lori could have lied about it and manipulated the kids into making things up. I know everything about this case, including the opinions of the court therapists. She definitely has it in her. Summer still believing those accusations is normal. Most of us would hope that allegations would be taken seriously, so it’s not abnormal that Summer would still have those feelings. The lady has been through a lot. Her sister killed her kids and made the entire family famous for the worst reasons. She’s traumatized and still loves the sister she grew up with. Leave her alone. There are so many people out there that deserve this negative attention. Find them.
Summer and her mom are still trying to protect their sister. I get it, they love her. But in protecting her and standing by her they have enabled her poor behavior throughout the years. They have “sided” with her and believed in her above common sense. This interview is just a continuation of that. If Lori is delusional how is it that money so perfectly worked out so her and her husband had funds? If this was just her being delusional how was it that she lied to so many people so effectively? Quit giving Lori the benefit of the doubt. She is a cold blooded manipulative murderer. Chad didn’t cause her behavior. She did what she did and tried to cover it up. That’s not delusional, that’s straight up evil.
@@susanmetz9892Lori did not allow psychologists in her case at all. Narcissists don't do therapy.. There are many people who've experienced narcissistic family members and have learned this through therapy. As to Lori- MANY psychologists profiling her on youtube.
I have a good friend who was convinced that Mark Zuckerberg was trying to contact her. She brought it up most days. How I reacted to it, is that I nodded, or didn't say anything. A few weeks after she stopped saying it, she thanked me for simply listening to her and not deriding her about her comments. She said it helped to hear herself say the things out loud, which allowed her to hear how odd they sounded. That said, Lori isn't delusional. She's an opportunistic liar. She was calculating in her manipulation of dozens of people around her. And still is. She's a sociopath whose disorder was under wraps until her relationship with Chad uncovered it. His encouragement and involvement spurred her on to commit the crimes she needed to, to get what she wanted.
@@ellievazquez5293 I spoke the truth, there's no way she didn't know and participate in the murder of her children and Tammi..... Too many people have made excuses for the murdering b for far too long......
With tears in my eyes.... I thank you for creating this fine tribute to Tylee. What a kind, so heartfelt tribute. God bless the remaining members of this family . Love you
From what has been reported there seems to have been much dysfunction in Lori's family...Summer seems somewhat oblivious ( or in denial) that Lori was obviously mentally ill, narcissistic, and a manipulator all along. Summer is still in denial about Joe Ryan...Lori purposefully made his life a living hell, even mental healthcare professionals saw through Lori's lies about Joe Ryan. This doesn't sit good with me. I guess Summer and her mother have painted their own picture, leaving out important facts, touching up where need be, glossing over...this must be the only way they can handle it. Its still dysfuntional.
@DMContreras59 I think we got this because she was chosen to be Tylee's victim advocate while Kay Woodcock was chosen to be JJ's. I don't think anything should be read into this that way.
@@fionnmaccumhaill3257 TYLEES aunt Annie tried to read a statement for tylee and was denied because of summer . summer should have stepped down and let annie do it it was so sad no one was there on tylees behalf.. if thats not selfish i dont know what is.
@@fionnmaccumhaill3257 She was appointed Tylee's representative in court not social media and she failed to appear when it mattered. We get this, on this particular platform for other reasons......
I Knew That Near Death Experience Wasn't True. Another Thing To Align Her Version With Chad's Near Death Experience. Thank You For Sharing Tylee With Us 💞
Tylee's murder wasn't a suprise to them. Charles Vallow had already warned them that Tylee would be the next victim. He literary begged them to protect her. They didn't do anything about it apart from going national TV, defending Chad Daybell and Lori Vallow up until the kids bodies were found. So l am wandering what beautiful tribute you are talking about?
Summer was joking to Lori about killing Charles herself. She seemingly had no problem with the idea of depriving the children of their provider and protector which would ultimately leave them exposed to murder by her own sister who she both supported and encouraged. Shilfet is not a commendable person.
I hate that through all the heartbreak of the loss of Tylee and JJ there is still an element of protection by this woman of Lori. Lori was deemed competent to stand trial yet, she keeps referring to her delusional disorder and mental illness. As far as I’m aware Lori is a monster has always been a monster, plotting and colluding with Alex to do evil cruel things well before chad came along. Stop looking to blame someone else for who she is and acknowledge that perhaps, it’s her family that have a delusional disorder!.Multiple people are dead, two of them Lori’s own kids and the only common denominators are, Lori and her strangely devoted brother Alex. Chad may be a pos but don’t act like she wasn’t evil before he came along. Lori seems to always eliminate the obstacles in her life Alex, just did the dirty work for her but even he, ran out of use for her.
Very disturbing that Lori sister is buying into and accusing Joe Ryan of sexual wrongdoing when it comes to those kids there was no proof of that and it just plays to the whole scenario that that whole Cox family is not right
Something they need to understand is that Lori isn't mental ill. She has several different personality disorders. There is a marked difference. She,has had these her whole life but, lost control when she met Chad and decided in her sick and twisted mind that he was worth more to her than her own children. She is a born predator.
This entire scenario, plotted out by summer and other cox's, to NOT appear in court and to make thisntone deaf appearance just makes me violently ill. Whonknows whatvger witness statemebt actually says! Her "letter" is laden w propaganda, and summer knew she would be boooed for continuing the lies and excuses. Go away, Sunmer!!! And all Cox family! The only thing required is a real apology. But thwy have no shame, and no morality.
@@lisacole690 I believe her point is LVD doesn’t have psychosis. A personality disorder is not an eligible diagnosis for the insanity defense. Many people are diagnosed with personality disorders and don’t commit murder. She’s a psychopath
And this is backed up by all the marriages she has had. She jumped from one man to the next each one being able to offer her more until the only thing a man could offer her was to raise her up to a godly state. She already thought she was untouchable. Her brother Alex worshipped her and that confirmed her belief. I think they killed Joe Ryan and got away with it. But everyone is right. Lori is less mentally ill and has several personality disorders.
The way Summer speaks of Lori shows her cognitive dissonance. She still wants to believe that Lori isn't WHO AND WHAT SHE IS! @Nate, if you get an interview with Lori's mom, can you PLEASE ask her why she said she spoke to JJ when we now know, he had been murdered? I'm done with sparing these people's feelings! Charles, JJ, Tylee and Tammy wouldn't be gone if SOMEBODY wouldve had Charles' back and corroborated what he was telling police. And whatever happened to the women Lori told that she paid Alex to kill Joe?? Its so frustrating how so much of this was preventable, if not for people ignoring the lunacy!🤬
She’s definitely a narcissist. Most narcissists don’t kill their kids though. They aren’t good parents in many ways; but not usually murderers. I do believe that the delusional and histrionic disorders also contributed.
I'm sorry but this sisters just as delusional she wants to still believe in this killer I guess that might happen with siblings but she has to face the fact that her sister's that just a killer and evil Woman I could almost feel bad for the sister but I don't because she's not facing reality
I'm very sorry for Summer - after all, not one, but two of her siblings were involved in all these murders. Alex is now dead, and can't be charged, convicted or acquitted, but there was plenty of evidence at Lori's trial to show that he was around at crucial times. Is the family at all angry that their son/brother was drawn into Ms Daybell's web? He did, after all, pull the trigger on Charles.
I wish all the pictures and your speech could've been seen and heard during sentencing. I cried so hard hearing what an amazing young lady Tylee was. Thank you for sharing all of that with everyone.
What about her brother’s participation in these deaths. Someone had to perform these brutal attacks on these children. She never mentioned him. Was he delusional or simply manipulated by his sister who he loved?
Summer did say in that phone call that she was glad he was gone if he played a part in the murders. Don't know what she feels about him but it has to be difficult, knowing that the family you loved had something to do with a heinous crime like this.😥💔
It is amazing that certain people think that Lori is delusional and blame mental health issues. From what I understand by hearing Megan (a 1st cousine) as a guest in the "Hidden True Crime" podcast, Lori's narcissism and feelings of entitlement were nurtured at home, specially by her father who preached the superiority of their family, and by immediate family members who always supported Lori's intrigues, except Adam (Lori's brother), who continued to be in contact with Charles and tried to help him, while the other family members allienated him. Chad Daybell just gave another boost to Lori's narcissism and feelings of entitlement, leading Lori to the extreme of murdering her own children and husband. With all my respect, I think that is time for Lori's sister and especially Lori's parents to see the monster that Lori is. Lori is not a victim of Chad's manipulation or mental health disease.
Thank You!! I’ve been saying the same thing! Hearing Summer blame everything on Chad is so ridiculous and nauseating. Yes, he played a part but Lori has been on the edge her whole life, she is an expert in hiding it. Chad was merely the means to finally break out and be her true self.
We’ll said, thank you!! Where are Lori’s parents? From other interviews I’ve seen, Lori’s mother (and father) encouraged and enabled Lori with a home life that was, seemingly, somewhat perverted, especially between Lori and Alex. I agree with all those who assert that Lori is not delusional but a raving narcissist.
I think Adam may have helped Lori as well, he talks a tough game and acted like he was on Charles side but someone tipped Lori off that Charles and Adam were coming to town. I think maybe Adam was playing both sides of the fence. Just my opinion.
@@tillitrueheart971Lori’s mother I don’t believe has spoken to her, she said on a doc that I watched that she isn’t the Lori she knew. She even packed up all the pictures and any reminders of Lori, so her Mom isn’t supporting her even though I’m sure she loves her, we can’t help loving our family.
Thank you Summer for sharing these precious memories of Tylee and JJ. I'm so sorry for this devastating loss that you and your family are experiencing.
Lori is not crazy, she’s not mentally ill (proven by a mental evaluation and hospital stay), she’s evil, pure evil. Many of her family members ignored her evil behavior almost her entire life and even fed it. They have some responsibility in what happened to Charles, Tylee, JJ, and Tammy too.
Sell everything she owns and give it to Colby. Colby needs held up, he's struggling. I feel so bad for these families. Lori's statement was a slap in everyone's face. Do not put a penny on her books.
Please share this memorial of Tylee over and over and over! This angel baby EARNED these words and SO MANY MORE. Tylee, you will never be forgotten. You were so strong. I am so sorry that you were so confused in your final days. I am so sorry that you were let down by your favorite person. I wish we had the pleasure of hearing you sing and watching you love as you grow. Summer - thank you!! I needed to hear this. ❤️❤️❤️
I read that they never proved the abuse of Tylee .Also it is rumored that she confessed to people in Hawaii that she had Joe Ryan killed. To me she is a lot like Lori.
I’m in my late 40’s now and I can not even fathom my life having been ended at only 16. I mean,picture yourself when you were 16. So young. So so young…I can’t imagine my life ending then. And so violently. SO betrayed. I can’t imagine not ever getting to live the life I’ve lived,a lot of life and experiences that would’ve been denied. I cry for her. She has had so much denied to her.😞
I believe Lori is deliberately keeping herself delusional to avoid taking responsibility for her heinous actions, which is typical behavior for a narcissist. Narcissists are stubborn to the bone and will never allow for the possibility that they might be wrong about something, because that would destroy the image they try so desperately to project to the world. Lori knew what she was doing was wrong because she went to great pains to hide it from everyone, telling different lies based on the person and the circumstances. A person who doesn't know right from wrong will stay consistent with their narrative, and Lori hasn't done that. I believe she is not allowing her mind to veer to any thoughts that contradict her own narrative. I've lived with a few staunch narcissists and I see all the common denominators in them and Lori. I'm so glad Lori is never getting out of prison because there's no doubt in my mind that she would continue doing things according to her own personal moral compass, which has proven to be faulty. I pray that every family and person affected by her crimes will find peace eventually, although I know the pain will never completely go away. I pray they all find the real God, the God of the Bible, and find His perfect peace that surpasses all understanding.
You're 100% correct! Her mental diagnosis was she's a narcissist, histrionic personality, high-religiosity BUT is totally SANE..she chooses to be like she is and "thinks" HER way is the ONLY way!! That's why they didn't find her incompetent, people are asking WHY, HOW, did they NOT find her INSANE after she spoke yesterday..they didn't listen closely to what Judge Boyce said and apparently never paid attention when she had been released both times she'd been in the mental hospital.. it's because she's a manipulating pos!!
I agree with your assessment, but wonder what kind of delusion Lori would have found without any god being involved. A belief in god itself speaks to delusional thinking.
I feel for Summer, but also hope she and her family take some responsibility for the enabling and secrecy in their family system. They alienated and isolated many of their own relations in an effort to protect Lori, and their behavior, though it did not cause the children’s deaths, certainly did nothing to prevent or reduce harm. This is the perfect example of how secrets do not keep people safe.
Not enough attention was given to Tylee's life throughout this whole trial in my opinion. Summer is a complicated person as is the whole Cox family, but she clearly loved Tylee. I'm glad she is giving Tylee a voice.
@@Privyone Watch Summer and Janis's old interview from before the bodies were found. Summer seems to condone the murder of Charles (since she believed all of Lori's lies about Charles). If Summer thinks that she and her family are above the law, and that whoever she hates deserves to die, then no one is safe from her either. Which is why her brother Adam moved to Kansas for a time. He was afraid that Summer would tell Alex and Lori where to find him and kill him. There was some reference way back that Summer and Janis had gone through Adam's phone that he had set down and they then forwarded information about Charles movements to Lori so she could effect her assassination of Charles.
I think we don’t hear as much about Tyler’s life because Lori really isolated her. Tylee was kept close to home and was very much under her mother’s thumb.
Thanks Summer for giving Tylee’s story. I don’t think there was enough focus on her and who she was. You, and your extended family have lost so much. I pray you’ll find strength and endurance through your faith.
If she cared about Tylee she would have read a victims impact statement on her behalf in court. She was appointed Tylee's representative and had a moral responsibility to deliver a statement on her behalf. If she wasn't up to task she should have passed on being designated her rep.
She didn't give Tylee's story. Tylee's story is much tradegic than that. Tylee's step father had already warned all family that Tylee would be next victim before he got murdered. Tylee's dear aunt Summer knew that but she did zero about it. Now she is representing Tylee and getting credit for it. lsn't this tradegic?
@@hayalistanbul5418exactly. I can't stand this praise of someone so willing to keep their head in the sand. she pretends all this is so new to her, but she grew up with a religious nut dad. Lori isn't much different from their dad according to their cousin who did an interview with Mormon Stories here on YT.
@@y2ksurvivor This is so annoying each time someone talks to media, people go lovey-dovey about them. They don't check their facts, the back ground story etc. lt has started with Melanie Gibb, now with Summer Shitflet. This lady actively played a part in murder of Charles Vallow. She knew Tylee was in danger, like Melanie Gibb, and she didn't do anything about it. So l can't get why people have such a high regard for? lf she wants to represent Tylee, first she should start with an apology....
What a lovely tribute by Summer. She’s definitely a strong individual and loved JJ and Tylee. That’s how people want to remember them. Not for their murders. RIP JJ and Tylee.
Words such as “disorder” and “mental illness” don’t stick in our throats as badly as “sin and evil” do. I’m not without compassion and understanding, but we’ve got to say what it is.
Joe Ryan was cleared of any wrong doing after an exhausting investigation. It is on the court records in case Summer wants to read it. Lori did herself no favors by speaking at sentencing. It was odd that she never once mentioned Alex, her so called protector. Charles never came to visit, wonder why🤔 her dreams of grandiosity makes her super dangerous, she sees herself above any laws & any judgement. Calling Tammy her eternal friend was insulting & outrageous, stating her kids have clear her of any wrong doing was appalling. When, I ask, have we seen Lori worried for her kids? NEVER!! She was dancing on a beach while her kids lay in the cold ground buried like animals. No punishment is enough for this woman, I wonder how well received her BS will be at her new forever residence...
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💯 agree
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I fear this may be wrong though as Laurie's son admitted his dad did stuff to him 😢
Agree 100% I sure wish these people would stop saying those kids were abused by Joe Ryan. Lori lied then too and I’m sure she has something to do with Joe’s death.
What really bothers me is when they start on for Joe Ryan it was never proven then he molested his daughter and it's sickening that they continually degrade that poor man even in his grave this family is disgusting this is just my opinion
I agree. It just proves that this whole family is as crazy as Lori. There never was any proof of Joe molesting the kids. I think they were all brainwashed and manipulated by that crazy Lori
Colby remembers being abused by him
Some people have very bad situations where more than one parent can be abusive. It's not always that if one is bad the other must be good
@@niaselah3348 I'm not saying Colby is lying, but Colby was very young when this allegedly happened, and Lori is a master manipulator. Look how she coerced Tylee into telling the police that Charles was abusing them on the day Charles was killed. I don't believe that Charles threatened them and hit Alex, and I don't believe Tylee's statements to police from that day.
I strongly feel it was a ruse and she convinced Tylee it happened. I also feel she was poisoning Tylee her entire life, so she could be viewed as ‘the good mom’.
He probably was manipulated by his mother giving him false claims of abuse that Colby may truly believe this there is no evidence of abuse documented
Any positive Lori did as a mother was erased when she murdered her children. I understand her sister trying to hold onto those memories. Lori betrayed her entire family by what she did.
Yes she did. I have a sister who betrayed me. I was heart broken also. 💔 I can identify what Summer is going through.😥
her sister is probably grieving the loss of the good person she may have used to be
What Lori did will also ravage the LDS church in the near future. They will use this experience to discount any truth. In the end many people will die because of her acts. Her kids are doing great, and their jobs (Lori said they were busy) is to help those in the spirit world and also to be guardian angels to their family. @@Mataylor17
@@Rev12.10stop, just stop. They should be here.
@@Rev12.10 You sound like Lori Daybell.
I fail to see Lori as delusional when she was lying to her family about the details of her life. She KNOWS what she’s done needed to be hidden.
❤ this ❤ She is a master manipulator
Amen and amen - no excuses for evil behavior
Being delusional doesn’t mean they can’t be aware of it. So they speak about their delusions to who ever is willing to believe them.
The lies expose her. Consciousness of guilt. If she were delusional, she would have no sense of guilt. Bingo!
Bingo!
Not to denigrate summer’s tribute to her niece and nephew, but it was my understanding that the allegations of abuse by Mr. Ryan upon his daughter Tylee were found to be false, unsubstantiated and just a vindictive and manipulative ploy by Lori Vallow to deprive Mr. Ryan of his parental rights. Am I misinformed here?
You are very well informed!
Your correct
interesting.. the evil mother accused Charles Vallow with cheating in order to take his truck, empty the bank account and depart with cult leader Chat Duncebell.
Alex even told his ex wife that the allegations were made for leverage in the custody and as an excuse to assault Mr. Ryan.
Summer and Lori keep up the unproven accusation against Tyler’s father, and yet Lori aided in that sweet young woman being murdered, dismembered, burned, and buried in a fire pit. What a monster.
Agree
Why didn't you listen to Charles when he told you Lori was crazy and threatening to kill him since you said she was acting crazy since late 2017 or early 2018? Instead your entire family turned against Charles!! That was before she met Chad!!!
They sure kept taking his money for their phones, cars and who knows what else though!!!!
@@QJacPLo Yes they did!
What was it she told Lori about supporting her with her mission, do you remember? (too lazy to search my notes). She was fully supportive of Lori's crazy.
@@StellaFl Lori's whole family was supportive of her crazy and as obvious in this interview, still are and making excuses now!!! 😒
@@QJacPLowhen I heard that he had so many phones on one plan for her the kids & members of her family, I said this family is all about money incentives & opportunity! It was like 11 phones he had on one plan. Wife & kids being on the phone plan UNDERSTANDABLE! But other grown people? Hell no you get your own plan! She got over on people and her family supported it!
I know this won't be popular but all I heard was the blame game and excuses for Lori being a wonderful mother. She was married 5 times and moved her kids around so she could live a dream life. A literal "nightmare".
and removed every man from the equation
YES. And I was unhappy to hear this sister blame the murders on 'mental illness'.
@lynette599 I agree that she did not do these murders due to mental illness but because she is a narcissist. She should have gotten the death penalty. How can anyone, especially a mother, kill her children in this horrific manner. I hate that everything gets put down to her faith. Please stop this story that Lori had this severe mental illness as it makes me sick. She did what she wanted because she craved money and fame and sex and couldnt care about her kids. She is a disgusting murderer. The fact that she was married 5 times is also telling.
Listening to what Lori rambled about prior to the judge sentencing her, can't really blame someone for thinking she's nuttier than a fruitcake. I think she's evil. I think she's psycho too. Maybe she's the one who is possessed by a demon.
@@lynette599well that's obviously the only way their family can process, understand and make sense of this, is that ahe had a break, and there is truth in that, though she is obviously also clearly evil
It's sad to see that Lori's family's eyes are still blind to the monster she has been her whole life! She is a narcissist! She was NEVER a good mother! Her children were props to get attention and praise for herself! She probably caused Tylee's illnesses! She probably convinced the kids that they were molested! The more her kids went through, the more attention and praise she got for "being a great mother!" I'd be surprised if she didn't cause Joe Ryan's heart attack. This woman is not mentally ill, she's just evil! This didn't start when she met Daybell, she's been evil all along!
Totally agree.
Totally agree with every point you made!
Proven that Tylee was groomed. Note after Charles’ murder she drove to fast food. She never cooked and contributed to Tylee’s obesity/health issues. She hated Joseph and Kay so the kids were disposable pawns.
@@Malama_Ki She´s born evil her dad is evil too the murdering in my oppinion started with the very suspicious death of her sister Stacy in 1998 i think Lori killed her.
She has never been a great mother it was all for the Lori Show
@@ChristianBitz-Nielsen95 I agree. I’m wondering if Stacy caught Lori and Alex playing GOT and they overdosed her with insulin. Alex went to prison over Joe and I wonder if he killed him too? They didn’t find the body for two weeks so no conclusive evidence. Lori looted the place and the kids got survivor benefits from SSI which Lori later kept and was convicted for. She’s as evil as they come. Her statement in court shows just how much of a selfish, narcissistic, sociopath she is. I’m glad her and Alex are gone and I hope they BBQ Chad. Both Melanie’s are evil too. The bodycam of Melanie B(P) is chilling when the officer discovers Alex sitting there as the hitman. Zulema: I heard three words and knew she was manipulative and only in it for self glory too.
She is minimizing the horror of what her sister did by saying she is sad about "what happened". She is using passive voice to avoid saying "my sister murdered her children". This family needs to straight up forcefully denounce Lori and stop avoiding reality. With a few notable exceptions, this whole family has avoided reality for decades.
The only extended Cox family member telling the truth is Megan Conner. Thanks for pointing out Summer's game playing!
Think she’s still processing the sheer horror- maybe you wouldn’t know until you walked in her shoes- these are the things that can make people sick enough to cripple or end lives- I’m sure she’s trying to literally survive for those that still need her
The whole family is messed up. The Daybell family seems less messed up somehow. Chad seems to be the bad apple.
@@silvergirl7810 All Summer had to do, was making a tribute to the value of Kylee's life. I draw the line when she includes her exalted version of Lori and trashes an exonerated dead man, over a problem almost 20 years ago. She didn't choose to talk about the last known picture of the children with Alex at Yellowstone, did she, and what a wonderful uncle he was? Yes, Summer... Lori good, Joe Ryan bad...! Yes, this is the same Summer we saw on television in 2019, when the children went missing.
@@purpleamber1 So far, the Tammy Daybell family, seems to have a grasp in reality...Chad's children, not so much. I have watched many videos on cults, particularly religious cults, and have learned a lot. Don't people have enough in their lives, without living every waking minute for a cult? The Cox family is like a cult, any deviation from the family narrative gets one ostracized. Summer, even though she knows her narrative won't be popular with the public, insists on inflicting it on the public, in a last ditch effort. Someone should have advised her not to go there...
My heart breaks for Joe Ryan. This is hard for me to say, but truly is what's in my heart. I'm a childhood SA survivor. I have read all the available child custody documents pertaining to Colby and Tylee. The likelihood of Lori manipulating her children (and proven by the courts to be the case) to believe the most atrocious things about JR seem more likely than not. This woman didn't just become unhinged in 2019...her delusions simply became untenable when she murdered her children for financial and religious gain. I'm sorry for Colby. I truly am. He has unquestionably had a traumatic childhood and life. I just don't trust he wasn't coerced at a young age to believe certain things. I've never doubted an SA survivor, and by all accounts, Joe Ryan was not the best parent...but the level of deception and manipulation Lori reigned on her nearest and dearest - it has to be logically called into question. I'm not disbelieving what Colby believes because that is valid. I still just feel bad for the soul of Joe Ryan who cannot defend himself to these heinous accusations.
ABSOLUTELY! 100% agree with this comment! Very well stated! 👏👏👏👏
Where did you read the documents pertaining to Tyler and Colby. Can you please share a link?
I've heard it mentioned several times that could have been Alex not Joe. I believe that's possible
@@janetmosier9182I really think lori and alex murdered Joseph!! And I don't believe Joseph did what ld claimed!!
A Murderous Heart channel on YT. It's ran by Annie Cushing, Joe Ryan's sister. The whole Cox family is terrible and the FOIA docs prove it.
I’m so glad that Summer shared her letter. Finally someone placed light on Tylee the right way. She was a beautiful soul.
❤️ RIP Tylee and JJ.
Finally someone has her back. Three years and change it has taken though.
It is a beautiful tribute. But sad it has taken this long to have a single person come forward for Tylee.
Charles sister spoke for Tylee in the court. You hear how she spoke of her?
YASSSS!!!! I'm so glad tylees family spoke for her.
@@SoapDishMama💯💯💯💯
Her letter was all about how wonderful Lori was and Tylee nothing on JJ or Charles. She blames Joseph for abusing the kids, she still believes what her wonderful sister said.
The fact that this tribute by Aunt Summer included pictures was really helpful in understanding the loss of the children in her life. I hope that time will help heal her loss. I would like to thank her for sharing herr feelings this way. Even complete strangers like me, grieve with you over your loss of Tylee and JJ.
Seeing the photos was so very nice. My ears didn't hear very much about JJ Only Tylee. And that's sad. I know that the Woodcocks spoke about him more, though.
@@smcarneysummer was tylees chosen representative so it makes sense that her statement was about Tylee
@@RachelXKnight666 yes. Wish it had been Annie, but wonderful that she was remembered so vividly.
I feel for Lori's family members. However, it's a shame that Summer Shiflet is still repeating defaming comments about some of Lori's past victims without considering the lies Lori has told them repeatedly. Defaming people in Lori's past is getting old. These people are unable to defend themselves any longer, and if there's anything we absolutely know, it's that Lori is a liar.
Yes!!! She’s obviously lied her entire life. She’s evil and gross
Lori’s lies to different people about different topics. Lori did not become narcissistic late 2017- early 2018….she has apparently lied all along to get the sympathy vote from different people. Digs at Joe Ryan and Charles Vallow shows she still has not come to terms with the life of lies Lori has told her and others.
Yes, Lori started down the road she is on long before 2017. Unfortunately, Summer is still in denial about some of her sister's lying and manipulative behavior.
And she has a world stage to repeat them.
Because the cox family are a unit, an organism that cares only for itself. Theyre all manipulative, liars, and weird.
Thank you, Nate for your dedication, perseverance and your excellent coverage of this horrific case these many years. You deserve a medal.
For real. I've read Nate's articles and updates throughout this whole case, and he's the real MVP for bringing us some awesome coverage.
Totally agree. He has a sense of respect and integrity about him which I find so refreshing.
What a heartfelt, incredibly beautiful testimony
Thank you. I meant every word. I lived in Idaho when this story broke, before it went nationwide. With Idaho being such a small
"town", things like this feel very personal. And Nate was on it every minute, holding nothing back. The best reporter in Idaho Falls for sure, maybe the state, in my humble opinion. @@tommycoyote3258
Nate, this is a great interview with Summer. I am so glad Summer got to make her statements about the children and even better with the photos. Thank you, Nate for your superb coverage of this awful case.
Hmm
If any one in entire family would have listened to Charles....Came forward.....
Would the children be alive?
How about Tammy?
What does Garth actually know?
Of course Lori had to have a near death experience because Chad had 2 of them! Disgusting!
I’ve seen many family members and friends say they’ve never heard of her past NDE. I’m sure that was a lie
Lol! If you think Chad manipulated her you have not listened to Lori's histroy even before he came into her life.
Why do you think Tammi had to die? Who was pressuring whom to have her killed? It was in her texts to him.
@@hazelhadley-britt6396 Where did I say Chad manipulated her? I simply meant she had to have a NDE, because he did! She's so narcissistic she couldn't let him out do her goddess status! Oh btw, I have watched and listened to this case from day one, so please don't assume anything about me because you can't comprehend a comment.
She sure pulled that one out of the book of Whori. 👿
I about fell out of my seat hearing her say that. Both of them lied about that.
Lori is not delusional… If a lie is repeated long enough it becomes truth to some… I pray that one day this family accepts the truth instead of making excuses…. And yet no one speaks of the brother Alex…amazing
That isn’t an excuse. The woman is absolutely delusional, it doesn’t change what she did. Admitting someone has a mental health issue doesn’t negate their actions. Do not pretend to know more than the people actually involved. Stick to your computer screen, but don’t be fooled into thinking you know more than them because of news reports you have watched. Absolutely absurd.!
Isn’t believing that lies or untruths are truth part of the definition of delusional? I’m not saying I think she is but…
@@samantham8696 What is wrong with you? Coming @ people as a rabid dog ....
@@samantham8696 She believes she is always right. Everyone else is wrong. She sounds like trump. I alone can fix it. Lies, Lies, Lies. Out of body experience my ass. I can't wait until she goes to a real prison. She is going to get her comeuppance.
It’s an ongoing process to digest this whole family horror story.
I was disgusted with Lori’s statement. I had pancreatitis twice. It is painful. I almost died twice. But it healed and I am fine now. My lipase level was 5000 the first time and the second time it was 10,000. According to my doctor, 125 is average. He said I should’ve died both times that it was a miracle I didn’t. And the reason I’m telling you this in case somebody says well you didn’t have it as bad as that little precious child but I had it really really bad. She would have healed. She would have had a wonderful life, and as long as she watched the saturated fats, she wouldn’t have an issue with the pancreas. I am really sad that she acted like she did a favor for Tylee. She got what she deserved. As for resting in the arms of Jesus, when she dies, she needs to accept responsibility and ask God’s forgiveness. But as long as she won’t accept responsibility, she can’t ask God for forgiveness for something that she doesn’t think she did wrong. I pity her. Thank you for all your hard work Nate. We appreciate your shows.
Pancreatitis sounds horrific. It turns out it can and has been induced in children by their own mothers who, clinically speaking, have what is called Munchausen By Proxy which has been recently renamed as Factitious Disorder Imposed on Another.
It is entirely within the realm of possibility that Lori had a hand in Tylee's physical suffering early on in life.
That is exactly the behavior of someone who sees their child as an extension of themselves rather than the child being a fully separate entity. These are the kinds of parents that can justify horrific behavior including causing health issues to then look like a heroic parent for helping to "solve" the apparent health problem.
Much like the credit Summer gives to Lori. As though without Lori, Tylee would have most certainly died. Fits pretty well with Lori's own take that she saved Tylee from future suffering by taking her life at 16.
These are the parents that believe they have the right to take their child's life, and that the right is fundamentally theirs. Sickening.
I've had multiple surgeries growing up and went through pain galore but that doesn't mean that I didn't have a happy life or I wanted to die. Medical illnesses and problems does not justify murder and I bet Tylee would have wanted to live her life and not be taken away from this earth in a such brutal and vicious way by the people who should have been looking out for her. She probably went through worse things in her final moments than she did in her prior lifetime. Lori just wants to justify her twisted crimes and she should be ashamed for saying this.
@@y2ksurvivor Tylee went through a lot of stress and crap she should not have gone through in that whole custody battle. Who knows what caused her to be sick and if Lori was causing it but I do believe that a LOT of things contributed to it. Poor girl is in a better place than she was with most of the people in her young life. She didn't deserve to do the way she did though 😥
While my heart hurts for Lori's family and the loss they feel, there's still parts of their stores I can't buy yet. From all I've heard of of Lori and Joe Ryan's divorce, there is nothing in the paperwork that alludes to any abuse of Tylee. I may be wrong.
Lori claimed that Joe abused both Colby and Tylee to get an upper hand in the divorce. Investigators and two psychiatrists determined that the allegations were false.
Am sorry I don't think she was abused all lies Lori made up she always been evil just got worst down the road.This family still can't believe she's done this and all the lies.
You aren’t wrong, the court proved these kids were not abused. Joe actually got custody and then he mysteriously winds up dead? Joe was her first victim
Correct
You would think the family would not take this time to rip Joe but, yet they still do. Says a lot to me. I do t want to feel this way towards Stacy and her mother but, it’s so wrong and cruel.
I know it is so easy to look back and say “Coulda, woulda shoulda…” however, it’s hard to get past the fact had the family reached out to Charles and listened to him so much may have been avoided.
Charles told you about your sister and you turned your back on him and they killed him. NO sympathy for you or your family. Y'all partied that same day Charles' was dead and you believed Lori when she said Charles was cheating on her when he didn't and you still are saying Joe vio lated his own daughter when that's not so! Shame on you. Shame on all of you.
I wonder if she'll be called to testify in Charles's case? That will be interesting. This isn't over yet. God bless Kay, Larry,Kresha,Todd, all of the families! Samantha, Tammy's sister and aunt, her dad, they all broke my heart!! This was all because of GREED!! EVERY SINGLE ONE of these MURDERS could have been prevented!!! Charles should HAVE NEVER BEEN KLLED! He would have taken those kids and she knew it but she wanted ALL of their money! JJs, Tylees, & Charles!!
@@pj89-96 She is guilty too. They knew LV was whack, they are talking it now but didn’t care enough before to convince LE to check her nutty azz out? It doesn’t feel right to me, but 🤷♀️
Thank you! Someone had to say this. Those kids were "missing", Summer and her mom did absolutely nothing to try and find them. They went all over TV spreading Lori’s nonsense.
I’m glad her eyes are starting to open and hopefully she continues to do the work to heal past her family system of dysfunction.
Agree and why didn't she stand up in court and read this in support of Tylee 😡😡
@@brendawells2876 Probably didn't want Lori to KNOW she wrote it in favor of her victims. Smh
Im not sure why she is trying to say such good things about her sister right after hearing all the evil she imposed on her children.
Disturbing
The statements Lori made about the happiness of the 3 victims in the hereafter is the rationalization she has for the actions she took.
It's not a delusion. All criminals have a rationalization.
Lori wanted (lusted for) power, money, attention, and a particular man. She arranged her life to acheive what she wanted.
This interview sadly confirms my suspicion that not only was Tylee killed for money but also because she outshone her beauty pageant Mom. A lot of narcissistic Moms are loving towards their daughters as they are trying to mold them into little mini-me’s. Something that is easy to do when they’re young. But when puberty hits and they become independent they start to disagree and that is a very serious offense to a malignant narcissist mother.
Yes.
I’m wondering if Lori was the cause of Tylee’s illnesses. She could be more twisted and horrible than we thought
Not only that. Tylee knew moms secrets. Charles death comes to mind.
Lori saw age was catching up with whatever beauty she might have had while Tylee was becoming a beauty in her own right. That and laziness getting fast food for both kids.
You are very correct.
That’s similar to Chad never mentioning a “near death” experience until he heard Julie Rowe saying she did. He jumped right on that bandwagon, immediately. Looks like Lori has taken to jump now, wanting to be like Chad.
Exactly and it's a prerequisite to being a member of Chad's Church of the First Born is to have had a NDE. At sentencing Lori mad up the story about dying when she was in the hospital having Tylee and she said her spirit fell to the floor? It was probably just her uterus not her spirit. Lori is delusional and still thinks she's the queen and Chad's the king of the 144k.
I'm sorry Summer, but Lori is NOT delusional. She's lieing. I hope and pray for healing for you.
It took me over three years to even look at this case! I also had a two-year-old granddaughter that was murdered! I do not believe that Lori is delusional, I believe she is a narcissist and a murderer! I do believe that she went down the rabbit hole of religion and has tried to use it in her advantage to murder for money lust and control! I am so sorry for your loss! Losing a loved one to murder is the worst thing that can happen to a person! I Apologize If my words seem harsh but this is my true opinion!
Crystal I'm so sorry to hear about your grandchild. I imagine cases like this would be difficult, confronting and triggering for you.. I hope you're ok🙏🏽
I tend to agree with you. Lori showed tendencies of narcissism at a younger age. There really is no excuse for what she done..😢
@@ralsharp6013Thank you! These horrible crimes with children in them, are very triggering for me! I will never understand how a person can take the life of a child! My granddaughter has been gone for five years! She was two at the time, she lived with her dad and his girlfriend! It was proven the girlfriend caused the death of my granddaughter and only served 3 1/2 years in prison! She was given the offer to plea! Without being graphic she beat my baby girl to death! She is now out living her life very grandiose without a care in the world! Unfortunately we never got justice! But I’m so glad that this woman will spend the rest of her life in prison! May God watch over all the children!
@@crystalransom8575 I hope no appeals in the Lori case, would be an insult to the victims, family and judge Stevens stealthy decisions.
I'm so deeply sorry that your family didn't receive the same justice for your grandbaby. 3 1/2 years is but a tap on the wrist. I imagine that would make a person's Cup feel half empty at times. Well done to you, for finding your cup half full within this verdict.
🙏 I pray for your families continuous healing 💧
Thank you for sharing pictures and stories of Tylee, your tribute was beautiful!
And to everyone worrying about JR & bashing Summer for mentioning it, back off! It’s entirely disrespectful to Colby & Summer is desperately trying to get through this. I choose to believe Colby, but the truth is that none of us know. They are all going through hell, so if you can’t be supportive then step off, haters! Be supportive of this families grief & keep hurtful opinions to yourself. Unbelievable. RIP Tylee, JJ, Tammy & Charles.❤
Attacking a dead man who was investigate and cleared seems to deflect from the fact that YOUR SISTER IS A LAIR AND MURDERER! Still enabling seems to be a family problem.
It's upsetting to hear agreed. Can't we have any sorry
Well said
Why should summer apologize for her sister? It was Lori’s choice to do what she did. It would be hard for any family to process that their loved one is a murderer.
Totally agree !
@@surelooksresourceful6032 She should apologize because she is a hypocrite, a philanderer and enabled Lori on her murderous path until it was inconvenient for her to continue to do so.
Lori's statement was like she was making a podcast for her followers not a statement for sentencing.
YES!!! I thought the exact same thing! That she's positioning herself to lead some morons who buy that BS and want to follow her.
I kept thinking SHE SOUNDS EXACTLY LIKE JULIE ROWE! And when you think about the others I always say “I wonder how Melanie gibb, zulema & the other Melanie were when they had these “meetings” because I do believe we got a certain Melanie gibb a certain zulema & a certain Melanie p once the case was picked up & they were summoned to court. Just imagine how volatile & animated they were before law enforcement got involved!
She's going to have fun in prison!! She'll find a few followers I'm sure. AFTER she's been thrown around 3 or 4 times for murdering her children !! She'll be protected tho, like Chris Watts and the other POS, they'll be put in protective custody or with the pos just like themselves!
I think she only fuled the fire when she opened her mouth!! IMO
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It was a speech to her king Chad to tell him her new revelation about a false near death experience and Tammy is her friend working hard in heaven as is JJ and Tylee made me want to throw up it was so convoluted and so self serving. Anyone who reads this was officially on the record would laugh if it wasn't so serious and she killed her babies.
She's a narcissist, rarely can they overcome this type of mental disorder.
A psychologist has said that Lori’s parents have shown signs of narcissism too which makes sense.
@@susankeefer5981did you read that online? I would love to see it.
@@susankeefer5981Mostly her dad
@@XjtBA It was a series on UA-cam and podcasts, Hidden True Crime with psychologist Dr. John Matthias.
@@ChristianBitz-Nielsen95 Her mom too.
Chad can’t totally be blamed for Lori’s behavior! After all, it wasn’t Chad’s children who were eliminated to get what they both wanted, just his wife. Lori allowed her own children to become the “dark ones,” AND her husbands to be destroyed.
Daybell uses religion as an excuse to commit heinius crimes, as well as to excuse her inexcusable, vile actions. We've seen this type of behavior over and over again.
Summer doesn't mention how the entire Cox family, except for Zac and his dad, turned their backs on Charles Vallow who was begging for help.
Adam ghosted Charles after he flew to Phoenix to help with Lori. Adam says in interviews he tried to help Charles but the FOIA documents show that Adam went out to Tucson to visit a friend instead of helping Charles. Hopefully they’ll show all of that in Lori’s trial in AZ. Adam loves publicity (like the rest of the Cox family) and is twisting the truth. He bailed on Charles and didn’t contact to police, his wife had to email the Chandler police. Adam is not telling the truth but it’s in the police reports. Watch the videos of the police talking to him and not just Adam’s interviews.
My opinion Lori is not delusional. Its just her lies
I concur
Like a fox...
The fact that she told a different story to different family members proves it is someone’s delusional they don’t pick and choose which story to tell whom they are just delusional all across the board
Greedy
Exactly. Lori was vicious before she ever met Chad. She was lying to punish people back with Joe Ryan.
I don't even care to Summer, they all cheered her on with her terrible ways. lori is a serial killer. She is not delusional, it's the game she always plays. Lying on Joe Ryan about molestation.. What a near-death experience when making Tylee, Summer stop it! Y'all are not much different than Lori.
Yes , Those allegations were disproved .
It's understandable the family needs to believe Lori is mentally ill. It's probably the only way they can make sense of this tragedy. How I see it, though, is Lori is not mentally ill. She's willfully choosing her "delusions". She's lost in her fantasy world, but that doesn't make her mentally ill. It makes her a spoiled rotten adult who believes the world is her oyster and all will bow to her. A lot of her delusions more than likely came from Chad. For some reason, and it's not often explainable, Chad and Lori connected in a way most people will never experience. Unfortunately, it was a connection that lead to the complete and total devastation of those around them. They could have had the life they wanted if they had each divorced their spouses and sent the children to live with relatives; however, that scenario didn't feed into the "chosen one" delusion. Lori knows better...deep down inside...she knows better. Right now she is still playing the chosen one game. After Chad's trial, it probably won't take long before the cracks in her fantasy world begin to show.
Her whole family enabled her and still is. Her brother told a detective how she and Alex were planning to murder Joe Ryan and dispose of his body. None of the Coxes were alarmed? And then Alex assaulted him. None of them found it concerning? She's only admitting to 'delusions' because it fits her story.
Idk she's got her blinders on pretty tight .
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Also Chad is a broke loser who was financially supported by his wife. And Lori is used to the finer things in life. Had they each divorced they would have been living off welfare or a hairdresser’s salary; it would’ve been hard to keep up their “divine” fantasy.
And you got your psychology degree where?
The fact that Lori was calculated about what delusions to share with each member shows that she was a highly manipulative narcissist, not someone with delusional disorder, like the sister says
Exactly. She is a callous psychopath!
I deal daily with someone who has suffered from delusions due to severe mental illness, and I do not see the same behaviors exhibited by Lori. Their psychosis impacts almost every aspect of life and makes functioning very difficult. Lori may have religious delusions, coupled with personality issues, but it does not appear to be the same as those associated with a schizophrenia or schizoaffective diagnosis.
Agree. She knew what she was doing. She may have some mental issues but that does not mean that she was insane at the time of these murders.
Lori is not delusional or insane she's just selfish and wanted a life free of children
with LOTS of $$$ and to be the goddess Chad said she was
To be fair you can be both 😂
Exactly. She is a callous psychopath!
@@savannahsmiles1797with lots of dead spouses insurance $$$$, then living of Tylee and JJ's social security after they were callously SNUFFED out
I thought the abuse of Tylee was made up by Lori and the father was later found innocent of those accusations.
Nate is a fantastic interviewer and news journalist.
Only thing is this is the first mention he has had of Tylee and a single person to represent her. He spoke of JJ and Tammy the majority of his coverage. That has always been a thorn in my side. Glad she finally gets to be seen as a human being and a beautiful soul.
She manipulated all of you, and she is still trying. Tylee was never abused. She made that all up... manipulation.
How do you know Tylee wasn't abused? Colby himself stated that their father sexually abused them. So why are you sitting Bea screen declaring that Tylee was never abused?
@@susanmetz9892because a lengthy and thorough investigation by experts including forensic psychologists found Joe innocent of the charges and they recommended the children should be protected from Lori.
@@susanmetz9892court documents & Tylee's guardian ad litem showed there was no evidence of abuse. In fact it indicated that it was believed Lori was coercing Tylee to make accusations. Tylee was put thru hell during that custody battle. By her mother
Thank you👍. People have been calling me all kinds of bad for pointing out the same thing.
@@susanmetz9892 wasnt he accused of doing jsomething bad to this wife??
And why keep the Ryan name??
Kids say lies to make a parent just like lori's very young and wanting to please mommy, In order to get her way. Its done ALL THE TIME. It was one of the lies a family member of mine used to get rid of her ex. for support payments on 5 kids...
Then while she was causing my fam member to lose EVERYTHING while sleeping with1 of many of her lovers reporting her husband was attacking her to police and to hurry out and help, they realized FINALLY SHE WAS LYING, BECAUSE HE WAS SITTING IN JAIL ALREADY PICKED UP THE DAY BEFORE..
So liars lie. And common sense speaks volumes.
Lori is not delusional. Shes 100% evil.
Sincerely, a beautiful tribute to the children.
I think she's delusional, psychotic, crazy but no-one likes to think that. Also greedy, selfish, self centred & thinks she's more important than she is.
We've seen Charles & Colby (the most credible out of everyone) say she's seriously nqr & not who they knew.
Lori still doesn't think she's done anything wrong.
Well fuck, why bother with medical science when we can just deem everyone evil🙄🤷♀️
The more stereotypes you make about this sorta crap, the more it continues.
You got 2 cents to share?
Put it towards scientific funding instead of talking out your ass and enabling more & more to become "evil."
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Exactly. She is a callous psychopath!
Lori does have delusional disorder and narcissist and histrionic personality disorders! No normal person acts or thinks like that! Not even close!
So sad to hear how blatantly Joe Ryan's name is dragged through the mud, coming from a woman who lives for lies, I wish there was someone to speak up for him, listening to her sister it seems they are quite dysfunctional as a family 💔🙌
Yes, Allegations that were disproved .
You people need help and a life of your own.
Lori is NOT delusional. She's just playing the Jesus card in case it works. It's all she has left.
And to protect herself from other inmates. She is an actor playing a delusional
Jesus couldn't help her. The Bible says do not kill. She is responsible for the deaths of several people. She got what she deserved most of us would want the death penalty.
She speaks to Jesus on a regular basis apparently 😆 he's probably given her a wide berth
Her sister trying to state it started with chad nah she was crazy way before to be honest she making excuses for her sister can’t no man tell me to kill my kids she did and she wasn’t think evil if that true why she didn’t and let be no she took her kids money to be she new what she was doing it wasn’t demon her niece is Ass crazy as her , and also she had Charles set up to get insurance lmao he got her after death go Charles many men’s need to learn if ur wife is acting different and has affair please please change ur insurance ur will don’t be stupid because Charles wasn’t but many of u guy let the women blind u she not crazy but greedy , thank he changed he’s insurance he wasn’t stupid good boy Charles
Jesus thinks she’s great. Guess it’s not Jesus, then.
I wish Lori had heard this. Even though it probably wouldn’t have knocked any sense into her. Tylee is the one person in this case I feel we hardly knew about. Thank you Summer for sharing some of her beautiful life with us.
Lori could care less!
@@jankasza5538Exactly.
Lori isn't able to show empathy. She's sick.
I’m willing to bet, that Lori has heard this and much, much more. Lori does not give a flu@k.
Absolutely ripped my heart she was a whisper compared to all the other victims. I get JJ had his grandparents involved. But till now, it seems not one person defended Tylee. And it was upsetting to see her just be a ghost without a story.
I’m glad she spoke up too. We now can see she did have someone in her corner. ❤
Just wish she would have had an advocate the entire trial and before.
I agree, thanks for sharing thoughts on beautiful Tylee, I always felt like no spoke out for her. When I watched Tylees interview with the police, my heart broke for her. I saw how hard it was and how she was torn apart protecting her mother. She was an innocent child and her mothers choices are heartbreaking.
Summer, the phone call you made to Lori while she was in jail broke my heart. If there were any times in your conversations with her, that one should have hit the heart. You tried, we heard this. Bless your heart, as you unpack what this whole situation has brought upon you. It's not your job to help others at this time in your family. They must go through the same process. May the Lord show you the way. 😢
Oh I so agree with this. That was one of the most heartbreaking conversations I have ever heard.
I'll never forget hearing that call 😢💔
Beautiful!
Amen
Imagine if she would have been making those sad heartbreaking calls to TYLEE YOU KNOW THE ONE SHE HADNT SEE SPOKEN TO IN HOW LONG THE ONE EVERYONE BUT THE FAMILY WAS LOOKING FOR .. THATS WHATS HEARTBREAKING HERE
Delusional disorder? Again, playing the victim. Or making her out to be a victim still! Stop!!! Or choosing pride, wickedness, evil, sin, and the adversary to deceive.
Very touching! But, as her sister, she is helping her in her 'mental illness' appeal. Her attorney said that they will use that to appeal! I hope the persecutor and the judge did enough to block any possibility of her getting away with her wicked deeds once again!
Lori is less crazy than evil. Don't give her excuses.
They are not mutually exclusive. She is both.
@@koitsenka how about possessed?
@@lionheartmerrill1069 , i certainly wouldn't rule it out.
The fact that Lori "cherry picks" what she says and to who is evidence that she's manipulative. Lori is not delusional nor does she have any disorder.
@@koitsenka Unfortunately I was in a situation where my recently deceased wife was thought to be possessed. You wouldn't believe what I went through. The Mental Health System came up with bipolar & schizoaffective disorders, 8 months later they added Alz Dementia at age 65. I took care of her 24/7 for her last 7 years with a month & 1/2 break when she was in a long term nursing home. I being a Christian prayed for her to be delivered from any evil spirit activity & still am not sure exactly what was going on with her. She passed on 2/1/23.
The problem with this lady is that they enabled Lori and still continue to do so...its very sad..blaming Joe Ryan again..he is not there to defend himself....Stop it Lady
Agree
They're still making excuses she's not delusional she's evil
They always will! Disgusting! They are like Lori, they can't say I'm sorry either!
I agree the cox family has been exposed to be a bit self absorbed…I feel summer probably wrote a letter to sway the judge to not give her lengthy sentence! But the law is the law…lori will be an inmate until it’s her time!
Lori will always be delusional by choice and a very dangerous person. She broke just a little yesterday when they discussed Tylee. She absolutely knows how those children were terrified and suffered in their final moments
She's brainwashed and took a mainstream religion straight to the terrestrial level and beyond.
Bingo
It’s vile for her to talk about what a good mother Lori was.
It’s not vile! It’s her experience with her sister.
@@Kim-Berly200 It's her delusion.
Apparently, there is testimony by Kay woodcock & Larry and others that she WAS, a wonderful mother.
Lori has a mental illness and who knows when it manifests itself.
The entire family is vile, some are just worse than others.
@@kimberlynance2711yeah, munchausen mom's are often seen as great mothers while they induce pancreatitis in their children. pfft.
Wow! After all the lies that Lori told, Summer still believes that Tyler’s father was abusive. Highly questionable at this point.
Same
I don’t get how some of you are so quick to talk badly about some of these people. Clearly, Lori has had issues for a while. None of us will ever know for sure if Joseph Ryan abused the kids. It happens. But Lori could have lied about it and manipulated the kids into making things up. I know everything about this case, including the opinions of the court therapists. She definitely has it in her. Summer still believing those accusations is normal. Most of us would hope that allegations would be taken seriously, so it’s not abnormal that Summer would still have those feelings. The lady has been through a lot. Her sister killed her kids and made the entire family famous for the worst reasons. She’s traumatized and still loves the sister she grew up with. Leave her alone. There are so many people out there that deserve this negative attention. Find them.
Summer and her mom are still trying to protect their sister. I get it, they love her. But in protecting her and standing by her they have enabled her poor behavior throughout the years. They have “sided” with her and believed in her above common sense. This interview is just a continuation of that. If Lori is delusional how is it that money so perfectly worked out so her and her husband had funds? If this was just her being delusional how was it that she lied to so many people so effectively? Quit giving Lori the benefit of the doubt. She is a cold blooded manipulative murderer. Chad didn’t cause her behavior. She did what she did and tried to cover it up. That’s not delusional, that’s straight up evil.
And you got your psychological degree where?
@@susanmetz9892Lori did not allow psychologists in her case at all. Narcissists don't do therapy.. There are many people who've experienced narcissistic family members and have learned this through therapy. As to Lori- MANY psychologists profiling her on youtube.
I don’t get it. They should of been protecting those kids, Tylee told them she DID NOT WANT TO GO TO IDAHO. They should of listens and helped her
@@julesjay424 , totally agree!!!
Summer is not an enabler. You don't even know them.
I have a good friend who was convinced that Mark Zuckerberg was trying to contact her. She brought it up most days. How I reacted to it, is that I nodded, or didn't say anything. A few weeks after she stopped saying it, she thanked me for simply listening to her and not deriding her about her comments. She said it helped to hear herself say the things out loud, which allowed her to hear how odd they sounded.
That said, Lori isn't delusional. She's an opportunistic liar. She was calculating in her manipulation of dozens of people around her. And still is. She's a sociopath whose disorder was under wraps until her relationship with Chad uncovered it. His encouragement and involvement spurred her on to commit the crimes she needed to, to get what she wanted.
Summer is in denial and still making excuses for her child murdering sister......
Be respectful and sensity to some one else pain....
@ellievazquez5293 I didn't find post cruel.
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I spoke the truth, there's no way she didn't know and participate in the murder of her children and Tammi..... Too many people have made excuses for the murdering b for far too long......
She disgusts me
@@ellievazquez5293that was respectful should see how I would of worded that 😂
With tears in my eyes.... I thank you for creating this fine tribute to Tylee. What a kind, so heartfelt tribute. God bless the remaining members of this family . Love you
From what has been reported there seems to have been much dysfunction in Lori's family...Summer seems somewhat oblivious ( or in denial) that Lori was obviously mentally ill, narcissistic, and a manipulator all along. Summer is still in denial about Joe Ryan...Lori purposefully made his life a living hell, even mental healthcare professionals saw through Lori's lies about Joe Ryan. This doesn't sit good with me.
I guess Summer and her mother have painted their own picture, leaving out important facts, touching up where need be, glossing over...this must be the only way they can handle it. Its still dysfuntional.
I agree
Thank you, Nate. I am heartbroken for Summer and her family. She showed a lot of courage faith. I love her tribute. ❤
Loved her tribute...to TYLEE, where was her tribute to JJ?! There wasn't one!
@@DMContreras59 EXACTLY THEY DONT CARE JUST WANT MEDIA ATTENTION.. THEY NEED TI HIDE IN SHAME TILL THIS DIES DOWN NO ONE IS BELIEVING THIS BS
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I think we got this because she was chosen to be Tylee's victim advocate while Kay Woodcock was chosen to be JJ's. I don't think anything should be read into this that way.
@@fionnmaccumhaill3257 TYLEES aunt Annie tried to read a statement for tylee and was denied because of summer . summer should have stepped down and let annie do it it was so sad no one was there on tylees behalf.. if thats not selfish i dont know what is.
@@fionnmaccumhaill3257 She was appointed Tylee's representative in court not social media and she failed to appear when it mattered. We get this, on this particular platform for other reasons......
I Knew That Near Death Experience Wasn't True. Another Thing To Align Her Version With Chad's Near Death Experience.
Thank You For Sharing Tylee With Us 💞
What a beautiful tribute, Summer. The world’s hearts break with yours for the two precious children that were taken too soon. ❤
Too little, too late.
Too soon. When is too soon I wonder. Too soon for what?
Tylee's murder wasn't a suprise to them. Charles Vallow had already warned them that Tylee would be the next victim. He literary begged them to protect her. They didn't do anything about it apart from going national TV, defending Chad Daybell and Lori Vallow up until the kids bodies were found. So l am wandering what beautiful tribute you are talking about?
Summer was joking to Lori about killing Charles herself. She seemingly had no problem with the idea of depriving the children of their provider and protector which would ultimately leave them exposed to murder by her own sister who she both supported and encouraged. Shilfet is not a commendable person.
@@hayalistanbul5418Thank you.
I hate that through all the heartbreak of the loss of Tylee and JJ there is still an element of protection by this woman of Lori. Lori was deemed competent to stand trial yet, she keeps referring to her delusional disorder and mental illness. As far as I’m aware Lori is a monster has always been a monster, plotting and colluding with Alex to do evil cruel things well before chad came along. Stop looking to blame someone else for who she is and acknowledge that perhaps, it’s her family that have a delusional disorder!.Multiple people are dead, two of them Lori’s own kids and the only common denominators are, Lori and her strangely devoted brother Alex. Chad may be a pos but don’t act like she wasn’t evil before he came along. Lori seems to always eliminate the obstacles in her life Alex, just did the dirty work for her but even he, ran out of use for her.
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AMEN!
And Chad would have been next to get the chop👹
@@margmckay3257 Yep! Without any doubt!
Yes!!!!
Very disturbing that Lori sister is buying into and accusing Joe Ryan of sexual wrongdoing when it comes to those kids there was no proof of that and it just plays to the whole scenario that that whole Cox family is not right
The tribute was lovely. Aside from that nothing Summer has to say holds any value. They're still catering to & covering for Lori.
Disturbing
I’d rather she not show us how great Lori was. So I will watch something else. Thank you.
Totally agree
I don't think you're understanding the concept of delusional thinking.
Yep
Deny what you can't admit and admit what you can't deny.
Something they need to understand is that Lori isn't mental ill. She has several different personality disorders. There is a marked difference. She,has had these her whole life but, lost control when she met Chad and decided in her sick and twisted mind that he was worth more to her than her own children. She is a born predator.
This entire scenario, plotted out by summer and other cox's, to NOT appear in court and to make thisntone deaf appearance just makes me violently ill. Whonknows whatvger witness statemebt actually says!
Her "letter" is laden w propaganda, and summer knew she would be boooed for continuing the lies and excuses.
Go away, Sunmer!!!
And all Cox family!
The only thing required is a real apology. But thwy have no shame, and no morality.
but... a personality disorder IS a mental illness......!
Personality disorders are considered serious mental illness.
@@lisacole690 I believe her point is LVD doesn’t have psychosis. A personality disorder is not an eligible diagnosis for the insanity defense. Many people are diagnosed with personality disorders and don’t commit murder. She’s a psychopath
And this is backed up by all the marriages she has had. She jumped from one man to the next each one being able to offer her more until the only thing a man could offer her was to raise her up to a godly state. She already thought she was untouchable. Her brother Alex worshipped her and that confirmed her belief. I think they killed Joe Ryan and got away with it. But everyone is right. Lori is less mentally ill and has several personality disorders.
The way Summer speaks of Lori shows her cognitive dissonance. She still wants to believe that Lori isn't WHO AND WHAT SHE IS! @Nate, if you get an interview with Lori's mom, can you PLEASE ask her why she said she spoke to JJ when we now know, he had been murdered? I'm done with sparing these people's feelings! Charles, JJ, Tylee and Tammy wouldn't be gone if SOMEBODY wouldve had Charles' back and corroborated what he was telling police. And whatever happened to the women Lori told that she paid Alex to kill Joe?? Its so frustrating how so much of this was preventable, if not for people ignoring the lunacy!🤬
She is a narcissist not delusional.
She's both and histrionic.
She’s definitely a narcissist. Most narcissists don’t kill their kids though. They aren’t good parents in many ways; but not usually murderers. I do believe that the delusional and histrionic disorders also contributed.
She’s a sociopath
It's more than that. She's a psychopath.
Narcissists are delusional. My mother thinks she is never wrong and never at fault. She is perfect in her own eyes.
Why didnt she stand for Tylee in court ? It was sad that Tylee wasnt given this kind of sweet tribute . This family has their blinders on imo
I'm sorry but this sisters just as delusional she wants to still believe in this killer I guess that might happen with siblings but she has to face the fact that her sister's that just a killer and evil Woman I could almost feel bad for the sister but I don't because she's not facing reality
I'm very sorry for Summer - after all, not one, but two of her siblings were involved in all these murders. Alex is now dead, and can't be charged, convicted or acquitted, but there was plenty of evidence at Lori's trial to show that he was around at crucial times. Is the family at all angry that their son/brother was drawn into Ms Daybell's web? He did, after all, pull the trigger on Charles.
I wish all the pictures and your speech could've been seen and heard during sentencing. I cried so hard hearing what an amazing young lady Tylee was. Thank you for sharing all of that with everyone.
What about her brother’s participation in these deaths. Someone had to perform these brutal attacks on these children. She never mentioned him. Was he delusional or simply manipulated by his sister who he loved?
Summer did say in that phone call that she was glad he was gone if he played a part in the murders. Don't know what she feels about him but it has to be difficult, knowing that the family you loved had something to do with a heinous crime like this.😥💔
It is amazing that certain people think that Lori is delusional and blame mental health issues.
From what I understand by hearing Megan (a 1st cousine) as a guest in the "Hidden True Crime" podcast, Lori's narcissism and feelings of entitlement were nurtured at home, specially by her father who preached the superiority of their family, and by immediate family members who always supported Lori's intrigues, except Adam (Lori's brother), who continued to be in contact with Charles and tried to help him, while the other family members allienated him.
Chad Daybell just gave another boost to Lori's narcissism and feelings of entitlement, leading Lori to the extreme of murdering her own children and husband.
With all my respect, I think that is time for Lori's sister and especially Lori's parents to see the monster that Lori is. Lori is not a victim of Chad's manipulation or mental health disease.
Thank You!! I’ve been saying the same thing! Hearing Summer blame everything on Chad is so ridiculous and nauseating. Yes, he played a part but Lori has been on the edge her whole life, she is an expert in hiding it. Chad was merely the means to finally break out and be her true self.
We’ll said, thank you!! Where are Lori’s parents? From other interviews I’ve seen, Lori’s mother (and father) encouraged and enabled Lori with a home life that was, seemingly, somewhat perverted, especially between Lori and Alex. I agree with all those who assert that Lori is not delusional but a raving narcissist.
It is also amazing certain people think they know more than the sister and parents because they listened to a cousin on a podcast.
I think Adam may have helped Lori as well, he talks a tough game and acted like he was on Charles side but someone tipped Lori off that Charles and Adam were coming to town. I think maybe Adam was playing both sides of the fence. Just my opinion.
@@tillitrueheart971Lori’s mother I don’t believe has spoken to her, she said on a doc that I watched that she isn’t the Lori she knew. She even packed up all the pictures and any reminders of Lori, so her Mom isn’t supporting her even though I’m sure she loves her, we can’t help loving our family.
I'm so sorry for everyone affected by this evil woman. Sending you love, Summer.
Thank you Summer for sharing these precious memories of Tylee and JJ. I'm so sorry for this devastating loss that you and your family are experiencing.
Lori is not crazy, she’s not mentally ill (proven by a mental evaluation and hospital stay), she’s evil, pure evil. Many of her family members ignored her evil behavior almost her entire life and even fed it. They have some responsibility in what happened to Charles, Tylee, JJ, and Tammy too.
Sell everything she owns and give it to Colby. Colby needs held up, he's struggling. I feel so bad for these families. Lori's statement was a slap in everyone's face. Do not put a penny on her books.
Yeah i wouldn’t give her any funds for her jpay lol but knowing the parents & her siblings they will continue to put money on her books.
The suffering of so many is palpable . Thank you, Summer. Beautiful tribute🙏
I can’t even imagine the fear, confusion, and betrayal those beautiful children experienced when they realized their own mother was killing them
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And their aunt, other close family members were warned about it but did nothing about it....
Heartbreaking 😥😥😥🥺🥺
Please share this memorial of Tylee over and over and over! This angel baby EARNED these words and SO MANY MORE. Tylee, you will never be forgotten. You were so strong. I am so sorry that you were so confused in your final days. I am so sorry that you were let down by your favorite person. I wish we had the pleasure of hearing you sing and watching you love as you grow. Summer - thank you!! I needed to hear this. ❤️❤️❤️
My cousin passed away at the age of 33 with pancreatitis it is very very painful 😣
I read that they never proved the abuse of Tylee .Also it is rumored that she confessed to people in Hawaii that she had Joe Ryan killed. To me she is a lot like Lori.
Alex attempted to kill Joe Ryan and went to prison for it.
@@THXx1138 Yes that's right. So Lori has been diabolical for longer than her sister is claiming. Was Alex in jail when Joe Ryan died?
My guess is the abuse was invented to justify Alex wanting to kill him.
I’m in my late 40’s now and I can not even fathom my life having been ended at only 16. I mean,picture yourself when you were 16. So young. So so young…I can’t imagine my life ending then. And so violently. SO betrayed. I can’t imagine not ever getting to live the life I’ve lived,a lot of life and experiences that would’ve been denied. I cry for her. She has had so much denied to her.😞
I believe Lori is deliberately keeping herself delusional to avoid taking responsibility for her heinous actions, which is typical behavior for a narcissist. Narcissists are stubborn to the bone and will never allow for the possibility that they might be wrong about something, because that would destroy the image they try so desperately to project to the world.
Lori knew what she was doing was wrong because she went to great pains to hide it from everyone, telling different lies based on the person and the circumstances. A person who doesn't know right from wrong will stay consistent with their narrative, and Lori hasn't done that. I believe she is not allowing her mind to veer to any thoughts that contradict her own narrative. I've lived with a few staunch narcissists and I see all the common denominators in them and Lori.
I'm so glad Lori is never getting out of prison because there's no doubt in my mind that she would continue doing things according to her own personal moral compass, which has proven to be faulty.
I pray that every family and person affected by her crimes will find peace eventually, although I know the pain will never completely go away. I pray they all find the real God, the God of the Bible, and find His perfect peace that surpasses all understanding.
You're 100% correct! Her mental diagnosis was she's a narcissist, histrionic personality, high-religiosity BUT is totally SANE..she chooses to be like she is and "thinks" HER way is the ONLY way!! That's why they didn't find her incompetent, people are asking WHY, HOW, did they NOT find her INSANE after she spoke yesterday..they didn't listen closely to what Judge Boyce said and apparently never paid attention when she had been released both times she'd been in the mental hospital.. it's because she's a manipulating pos!!
I agree with your assessment, but wonder what kind of delusion Lori would have found without any god being involved.
A belief in god itself speaks to delusional thinking.
Joe Ryan was a victim of Lori’s Lies about abuse! And his death was due to Alex’s assault!!
I feel for Summer, but also hope she and her family take some responsibility for the enabling and secrecy in their family system. They alienated and isolated many of their own relations in an effort to protect Lori, and their behavior, though it did not cause the children’s deaths, certainly did nothing to prevent or reduce harm. This is the perfect example of how secrets do not keep people safe.
I think there are a lot of secrets in Cox family
Thank you for giving her the opportunity to express her love for these children. Such a hard place for this family! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🫂
Not enough attention was given to Tylee's life throughout this whole trial in my opinion. Summer is a complicated person as is the whole Cox family, but she clearly loved Tylee. I'm glad she is giving Tylee a voice.
What makes Summer a complicated person? Instead maybe she a normal person dealing with a high profile complicated situation?
@@Privyone Summer is for sure a complicated person. As most all of us our.
@@Privyone very true
@@Privyone Watch Summer and Janis's old interview from before the bodies were found. Summer seems to condone the murder of Charles (since she believed all of Lori's lies about Charles). If Summer thinks that she and her family are above the law, and that whoever she hates deserves to die, then no one is safe from her either. Which is why her brother Adam moved to Kansas for a time. He was afraid that Summer would tell Alex and Lori where to find him and kill him.
There was some reference way back that Summer and Janis had gone through Adam's phone that he had set down and they then forwarded information about Charles movements to Lori so she could effect her assassination of Charles.
I think we don’t hear as much about Tyler’s life because Lori really isolated her. Tylee was kept close to home and was very much under her mother’s thumb.
She doesn’t say that her sister is evil and is responsible for the murders. She just says that she is mentally ill. This downplays these atrocities.
Wow, Lori has quite a grip on her sister. Lori is a narcissist. She is not a victim. Period, the end.
This was heartbreaking. The contribution that Tylee and JJ could have given to the world will never be seen.
Nate knows when to be quiet and let people talk god bless you Nate
Thanks Summer for giving Tylee’s story. I don’t think there was enough focus on her and who she was. You, and your extended family have lost so much. I pray you’ll find strength and endurance through your faith.
If she cared about Tylee she would have read a victims impact statement on her behalf in court. She was appointed Tylee's representative and had a moral responsibility to deliver a statement on her behalf. If she wasn't up to task she should have passed on being designated her rep.
She didn't give Tylee's story. Tylee's story is much tradegic than that. Tylee's step father had already warned all family that Tylee would be next victim before he got murdered. Tylee's dear aunt Summer knew that but she did zero about it. Now she is representing Tylee and getting credit for it. lsn't this tradegic?
@@hayalistanbul5418exactly. I can't stand this praise of someone so willing to keep their head in the sand. she pretends all this is so new to her, but she grew up with a religious nut dad. Lori isn't much different from their dad according to their cousin who did an interview with Mormon Stories here on YT.
@@y2ksurvivor This is so annoying each time someone talks to media, people go lovey-dovey about them. They don't check their facts, the back ground story etc. lt has started with Melanie Gibb, now with Summer Shitflet. This lady actively played a part in murder of Charles Vallow. She knew Tylee was in danger, like Melanie Gibb, and she didn't do anything about it. So l can't get why people have such a high regard for? lf she wants to represent Tylee, first she should start with an apology....
What a lovely tribute by Summer. She’s definitely a strong individual and loved JJ and Tylee. That’s how people want to remember them. Not for their murders. RIP JJ and Tylee.
Words such as “disorder” and “mental illness” don’t stick in our throats as badly as “sin and evil” do. I’m not without compassion and understanding, but we’ve got to say what it is.
Nate, thank you for your coverage and compassion!
Oh my goodness, thank you Nate!