Mama Cow Rejects Calf, So Far

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  • Day Four and our Milk Cow (who lost her calf) is still rejecting an adopted calf. I feel defeated, but the sunshine on day four brings hope. Get Richard’s (free) training HERE: bit.ly/RichardsClass
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  • @nanajack8527
    @nanajack8527 3 роки тому +143

    I know it sounds awful but can you not put a hobble on Flossies back legs to stop her kicking the calf away, just for a short while when the calf needs feeding. It may speed things up a bit for Flossie to accept her.

    • @theJustinRhodesShow
      @theJustinRhodesShow  3 роки тому +64

      It's a possibility, but with hobbles you run the risk of them only behaving when they are in them. Plus, I've had a cow fall while wearing hobbles and it wasn't pretty.

  • @m.b.6402
    @m.b.6402 3 роки тому +169

    1. Let Flossie go "too long" daily, till she's actually uncomfortable.
    2. Just stick to the stanchion for now.
    3. Separate Flossie and the calf nights. Or days. Or whatever works for you.
    4. Right now the calf is a "pest." It's "not hers" and it's forever going for her udder. But Flossie is USED to calf-sharing, she's USED to being put in the stanchion to be milked, and she's USED to having no access to the calf at night--and vice versa. And you've trained her to stand and be milked already. Put that to use. By giving her no "pest" in the night, and fat, full, painful udder that needs to be stripped, and the familiar setting of the stanchion, the calf is safe, Flossie's not feeling badgered, and you can adapt your own half-share of the milking to conform to the calf's need. Even if Flossie is never willing to put up with the calf out of the stanchion, the calf eats, the cow's got the advantage of a milking calf, and you've got your milk.
    It's worth it. Look, you're getting a good genetics heifer calf and the advantages of half-share even if you do have to put up with the stanchion ritual.

  • @hrisaacs07
    @hrisaacs07 3 роки тому +43

    I’m so sorry they are still struggling to connect. It took our cow about 7 days to accept a adoptive calf. There is hope.

  • @AliJaeJR
    @AliJaeJR 3 роки тому +115

    The poor baby has decided shes been kicked and head butted enough times. Poor thing. She's fought and fought...she just needs to be loved

  • @robinwhitlatch4497
    @robinwhitlatch4497 3 роки тому +97

    Hi Justin. The key with Flossie may be put her in the stanchion before giving her pellets instead of in the paddock. If she kicks calf stop behavior by hobbling back legs or tying one hind leg up. The calf is less aggressive with attempts to nurse because she knows the cow is going to hurt her when she tries. It may take going out 3 to 4 times a day, put cow in stanchion, give pellets, if she kicks at calf hobble, and nurse calf to finally get cow to give in. She most likely will not try to kick with hobbles or 1 hind leg tied up and if she does most likely be one time only. Kicking cows are dangerous cows and can badly injure and or kill humans. Be careful!!

  • @whodat2210
    @whodat2210 3 роки тому +116

    The calf is scared she got kick so many times I feel sorry for her. I am coming to bottle feed her lol

  • @sixpinkoneblue
    @sixpinkoneblue 3 роки тому +42

    My heart is hurting for that little calf now. I thought Flossy would have adopted her by now. Darn it.

  • @lori3967
    @lori3967 3 роки тому +39

    Flossie you old stubborn thang. Let that sweet baby nurse.

  • @parnellbeth
    @parnellbeth 3 роки тому +21

    Maybe Flossie needs a beer?

  • @Mary-yu3sn
    @Mary-yu3sn 3 роки тому +119

    Baby calf looks defeated ,not full of life like when you got her..

  • @libertymicrofarm6032
    @libertymicrofarm6032 3 роки тому +98

    Probably should have left them in the stall together for the 3 days like your mentor told you

  • @valeriab9735
    @valeriab9735 3 роки тому +33

    I know it sounds gross but I was taught to take the skin of the dead calf an wrap it around the orphan

  • @peggymoncrief386
    @peggymoncrief386 3 роки тому +11

    I just want to cry for that poor calf! Breaks my heart!

  • @calebkz
    @calebkz 3 роки тому +71

    I feel like you need to back off on milking her, flossy needs to get a little uncomfortable so that when the calf goes to nurse she gets some relief. Also, I wouldn't feed the alfalfa outside the stanchion; maybe feeding her outside in the paddock is teaching her that she doesn't need to go into it.

  • @Pladitootinous
    @Pladitootinous 3 роки тому +23

    I know humans and cows are different but I couldn’t help but recall that day four is the hardest breast-feeding day when you have a newborn. No idea if that’s related but this made me think of it.

  • @mnelmyfisher1692
    @mnelmyfisher1692 3 роки тому +17

    It took my jersey 2 weeks to accept a calf

  • @phillipgregory6517
    @phillipgregory6517 3 роки тому +4

    Jamaica here hello I truly respect all you do on the farm your really a good husband and father

  • @quietpassage
    @quietpassage 3 роки тому +38

    Is it possible that her tests are sore? I’m remembering how she kicked when you were washing them days ago and she’s still been sporadically uncompliant with your milking as well as the calf nursing. Just a thought... but I realize I.know nothing about it really. (My thought was also inspired by your comment that Flossie wanted the calf to come with her yet won’t let it nurse...)

  • @carolyngaulin8297
    @carolyngaulin8297 3 роки тому +26

    I am sure Justin will never let her starve because he's keeping a eye on the baby cow , he knows a lot about cow he's has a lot of help he can away call some one that knows what to do ! Don't give up baby cow !

  • @gelwood99
    @gelwood99 3 роки тому +4

    I keep hoping for a miracle with Flossie! I can't wait for the next video to see how it is progressing! Praying the work pays off and a corner is turned!

  • @paintingwithtastefromcanva7165
    @paintingwithtastefromcanva7165 3 роки тому +9

    Dont giveup. Art and bri did the same thing with a new calf to their cow. It took some time but eventually mother cow gave in to baby cow. Persistence is key.

  • @MikeInMexico
    @MikeInMexico 3 роки тому +2

    Always appreciating every upload, Justin. Your videos get me through tough weeks and hard times. Thank you for all you share. All my best from Mexico City.

  • @NYMusic89563
    @NYMusic89563 3 роки тому +21

    Can we please get a story on arun? Sp? Life story interview ?

  • @MaxGriffinJames
    @MaxGriffinJames 3 роки тому +2

    Love Richard myself too. And he's excited again after a downer year. Really happy for him.

  • @prashantpandey1285
    @prashantpandey1285 3 роки тому +1

    Your honesty n work ethic is amazing. Day in day out. As i slog myself through work each day, your quote ”nunca pare trabalhando" is a big motivation.

  • @christineortmann359
    @christineortmann359 3 роки тому +6

    What an ordeal- praying she accepts the calf.

  • @dormiaria8780
    @dormiaria8780 3 роки тому +3

    I love the boys getting up early and doing chores just cause they want something

  • @shirleyscaff8888
    @shirleyscaff8888 3 роки тому +14

    I have high hopes for Flossie to adopt the calf. Patience is the key.

  • @angelacross2216
    @angelacross2216 3 роки тому +2

    So glad you’re learning from Richard Perkins. He really knows his stuff.

  • @danetteepperly6917
    @danetteepperly6917 3 роки тому +3

    It’s sad 😢 poor calf hope it gets better soon ......

  • @This1LifeWeLive
    @This1LifeWeLive 3 роки тому +1

    Aww, poor lil guy, you are certainly doing your best to keep everyone happy and healthy 😔

  • @CopperValentine
    @CopperValentine 3 роки тому +37

    I suspect you gave her too much alfalfa in the pen, so she didn’t care about the lure. Better luck for tomorrow, or today I guess. 😄

  • @dianemcdowell7378
    @dianemcdowell7378 3 роки тому +2

    😪 praying for Aunt Flossie and sweet baby❤️

  • @cynthiavanderscoff
    @cynthiavanderscoff 3 роки тому +23

    Maybe you should try to lock up flossy in the stall with the adopted calf. Like the owner suggested.

  • @dt8ustotten285
    @dt8ustotten285 3 роки тому +5

    Hang in there.. you are doing the best that you can and then some. That calf is a spitfire and keeps hanging in there. You did what is best looking towards the future.. this too shall pass :-)

  • @terrihulm873
    @terrihulm873 3 роки тому +22

    They have to smell like each other... When I was a kid we used shaving cream on each of their noses ...

  • @theeggtimertictic1136
    @theeggtimertictic1136 3 роки тому +14

    When my grandad had sheep he used to skin the dead lamb and put the skin on the adopted lamb to help the mother take up with her new baby ... but that probably wouldn't help in your case as it's a few days after ... Good luck 👍

  • @chrstinamercado2205
    @chrstinamercado2205 3 роки тому +5

    Man flossy is being super stubborn about adopting this calf. I still have hope that she will adopt her.

  • @stephanienewton4982
    @stephanienewton4982 3 роки тому +1

    Popped over to Richards channel, cheers nice to hear my accent again, cheers Justin. I do hope Flossie relents with the baby calf.

  • @flossybeans4714
    @flossybeans4714 3 роки тому +19

    She is going to kill that calf yet. So dangerous with those horns and being such a wild cow.

  • @realtalkwithretta1309
    @realtalkwithretta1309 3 роки тому +7

    I'm praying that there will be no more rejection by Aunt Flossie.. it's just going to take a little bit longer than we all anticipated. Let's all pray please because we don't Justin to take another loss.

  • @KelikakuCoutin
    @KelikakuCoutin 3 роки тому +6

    Rejection. Life is full of it. Little cow has got to keep on going through it all. How now, brown cow.
    Thanks for the great content.
    Keep up the good work.
    בס״ד

  • @LionCome
    @LionCome 3 роки тому +13

    Can you not give her the alfalfa unless she lets her nurse? Hold it in front but no access?

  • @ladysparkle1576
    @ladysparkle1576 3 роки тому +1

    I enjoyed watching this video. I hope mama cow comes around to nurse the baby.

  • @uberchaz11
    @uberchaz11 3 роки тому +5

    i can sense your heart is breaking for the calf. your a wonderful man justin!. i hope this chapter has a happy ending for you and the calf. all the best.

  • @413Stoner
    @413Stoner 3 роки тому +1

    I love what you do my g..

  • @kitcarson1388
    @kitcarson1388 3 роки тому +4

    Poor calf. 😢

  • @JaninesPlace
    @JaninesPlace 3 роки тому +6

    Try moving Flossie to fresh grass and then see if she will let the calf nurse. She’ll be distracted by the fresh grass.

  • @bettyarel8941
    @bettyarel8941 3 роки тому +5

    I'm amazed that she's rejecting that calf. Cats and dogs who lose their babies often will adopt orphans

  • @cathygainge3033
    @cathygainge3033 3 роки тому +7

    It might be too late but have you been putting Flossie's milk on the calf each day? That way she smells right to mum. The more she drinks, the more she smells like mum too.

  • @budgiebreeding
    @budgiebreeding 3 роки тому +28

    your guy you got the calf from said very specifically to put her in a STALL. leaving the mamma out on pasture with her heard and everything familiar might well be keeping her on track to reject. remove her from all familiar and put them in a stall like your guy said.

  • @linmcdon1662
    @linmcdon1662 3 роки тому +5

    I have no clue what I am talking about. Will it help Flossy, if you talk to her/tell her to let the calf get some milk. The guy was saying that Flossy knows that you are her master. Can you not treat her as if she is a dog and take control of Flossy-pet her, stroke her, to calm her down-let her know everything is ok? I think animals understand us more than we know. I can see that Flossy acts better, when it is just you, her, and the calf - and you speak to her/try to persuade her to comply. If she still will not comply, I would tell her firmly/forcefully to allow that calf to get some milk. Take control, my man, take control.

  • @therichsodyssey
    @therichsodyssey 3 роки тому +6

    I'm so invested on how the mama and baby is doing I keep checking right away. I hope everything goes well 🙏

  • @judepicton6252
    @judepicton6252 3 роки тому

    Justin that was mixed wasnt it ,I was willing witb you every second ,so emotional.

  • @GinaKayLandis
    @GinaKayLandis 3 роки тому +6

    I hope she eventually adopts the calf. It may just take a little longer.

  • @okxymiagaming6807
    @okxymiagaming6807 3 роки тому

    Love your videos ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @mellane4608
    @mellane4608 3 роки тому +4

    Justin: Two things: 1 Don't milk Aunt Flossy, allow that utter to fill and get uncomfortable.
    2 Rub flossy's manure all over the calf. (This may be too late, would have been better day one)

  • @kathleenomalley7838
    @kathleenomalley7838 3 роки тому +5

    hobbel aunt flosie so she can't kick the calf IMHO

  • @perforatedpaperplane
    @perforatedpaperplane 3 роки тому +8

    You might ask the lab if they have destroyed the carcass of the dead calf yet. Usually its best to drape the calf in the hide of the deceased one. Maybe if they have had it on ice you could still use it. Or since she is fine with the calf nursing when she can't see it retro fitting a halter with some carriage blinders, or a blinder(blinker) hood might be am idea.

  • @lsutalski6369
    @lsutalski6369 3 роки тому +36

    Looks like you're going to hand feed. Poor thing, at this point that baby's going to starve death.
    And plus it doesn't want to have anything to do with her.
    Very sad indeed.

  • @kathybelles701
    @kathybelles701 3 роки тому +5

    I wouldn't give up. Just keep on it and she will eventually accept the calf. It is still to young to quit.

  • @catarogue
    @catarogue 3 роки тому +1

    just started the video i hope she adopts the calf

  • @shirleybird6422
    @shirleybird6422 3 роки тому +2

    I've read it can take up to two weeks for her to change her mind but she will eventually accept the calf

  • @brendasnider7130
    @brendasnider7130 3 роки тому +1

    Poor Mama so confused. Your kids are Amazing 👏 you are a great Dad. And Mom is terrific too.😁❤👍 you have Amazing kids as well ❤. Can't wait to see your new baby when it's time. No hurry want you to go full term. 😉🥰👍

  • @barbarahuber1409
    @barbarahuber1409 3 роки тому +12

    I'd put Flossie in the stanchion before giving her any alfalfa and I'd hobble her back legs so the calf can drink her full without being kicked. Sooner or later she'll get used to the calf. Because the more of her milk the calf drinks the more she'll smell like Flossie and the more Flossie will be inclined to accept her.

  • @johnathancribb2732
    @johnathancribb2732 3 роки тому +1

    Don’t give up!!!!!

  • @CrawfordFamilyFarm
    @CrawfordFamilyFarm 3 роки тому +2

    I haven't watched the videos about the calf yet but on our farm we will put pancake syrup on the calf and after the cow licks the calf clean they seem to have a better chance accepting it with its own scent on the calf.

  • @Junkinsally
    @Junkinsally 3 роки тому +4

    Need to halter train the milk cows. Makes them easy to lead.

  • @jessicapabon2105
    @jessicapabon2105 3 роки тому +2

    You can't force an animal to adopt especially with such a wide window that has already passed. How old is this calf 10 days old maybe 11? That's a long Gap in between. That motherly gap of adoption for a lot of animals is within the first 24 hours the most critical. But all hope is not lost. You did get a very beautiful calf out of it and on top of that I think she is going to be probably your top friendliest cow!! I would just bottle feed her it doesn't take long. I think that's something the kids would really enjoy

  • @gamemastertz3787
    @gamemastertz3787 3 роки тому +13

    Plot twist: the calf was told by his mama not to drink so she can get come alfalfa.

  • @gtbkts
    @gtbkts 3 роки тому +1

    Commenting for support

  • @katherinekinnaird4408
    @katherinekinnaird4408 3 роки тому +2

    So challenging to watch the calf. You are teaching us all . Prayers for success.

  • @GenerousLife
    @GenerousLife 3 роки тому +3

    I think I’ve heard you say that Flossie has not been handled as much, but what if you started brushing her to distract her while the calf is trying to nurse, probably in the stanchion.

  • @keiheaherakiwi1611
    @keiheaherakiwi1611 3 роки тому +1

    Morning everyone come on mama let her do it

  • @michellewallace3152
    @michellewallace3152 3 роки тому +2

    With being a cow and how they dont like change shes had a lot of stress and new routine. How long does it usually take for Flossie to adapt to any sort of change? Keep persevering 💗

  • @farmwife3622
    @farmwife3622 3 роки тому

    Poor darling little calf.😪

  • @lovedairycows
    @lovedairycows 3 роки тому +4

    since she keeps kicking the calf I would look into one of these kow kant kick look it up on google
    what it is is a clamp you put on the cow so she can't kick it might work out good for mama excepting the calf. We use it when a cow just freshened and keeps kick the milker off for a couple of days after that they are fine

  • @ladykfirst
    @ladykfirst 3 роки тому +7

    So hard to watch that hungry baby..getting walloped.
    But I just know it's gonna work🙏🏼

  • @melissakasner9722
    @melissakasner9722 3 роки тому

    I feel so bad. That's sad. Come on flacie

  • @kristinasue848
    @kristinasue848 3 роки тому +1

    That is very good

  • @fauziahismaun2212
    @fauziahismaun2212 3 роки тому +7

    Please bottle-feed the calf with the milk from Aunt Flossy. It must be very hungry.

  • @jeffreyscholfield6659
    @jeffreyscholfield6659 3 роки тому

    I wonder what would happen if you put them back in the same stall again, I know it might cause a bit of stress but what would happen?

  • @Goadenhomestead
    @Goadenhomestead 3 роки тому

    Im sorry if this sounds gruesome but what did you do with the calf that was lost? I was told to leave them on the back corner of the property for the wildlife, I was told to burn them, I was even told to bury them

  • @kiahpeace9090
    @kiahpeace9090 3 роки тому +1

    I do believe I'm first 😁. Only watched since flossy's very sad calving. So far your rather interesting. I love your whole lifestyle 🥰.

  • @cheriejohnson9445
    @cheriejohnson9445 3 роки тому +1

    Poor little calf

  • @jongunzel
    @jongunzel 3 роки тому +2

    Love your videos and family!
    Have you tried hobbling Miss Flossy while she's in the head gate? Keep her from kicking until she settles down and let's the calf eat?

  • @BBFSGaming
    @BBFSGaming 3 роки тому +1

    You know it can be a science have a look into the New Zealand dairy system all pasture and paddock based you can measure your grass in Basic ways to laser measure systems. The simplist method is using a pasture plate meter and then using certain calculations for the type of grass or mis you have wi give you the dry matter content which is what the whole system is based around. You can also map your grass growth so you know when you need to speed up the rotation or pull paddocks out to silage or make hay ect

  • @catarogue
    @catarogue 3 роки тому +1

    heart breaking watching it but its life ;-(((

  • @aryan1956
    @aryan1956 3 роки тому +1

    You're not on Flossy's good list today. LOL

  • @carol67460
    @carol67460 3 роки тому

    Hi from Kansas

  • @oliviapierce7065
    @oliviapierce7065 3 роки тому +3

    Will you bottle feed the baby?

  • @Lynrick1
    @Lynrick1 3 роки тому

    😢😢😢 heart breaking

  • @MonicaRrtx
    @MonicaRrtx 3 роки тому +1

    I wonder if you remove the calf, will she look for her? maybe seeing the calf removed, will open the motherly side of crazy flossy, like remembering when her baby was taken away... see if there is any emotion.

  • @jimsullivan7639
    @jimsullivan7639 3 роки тому +7

    Milk Flossie then bottle feed the calf?

  • @gilliancook4072
    @gilliancook4072 3 роки тому +2

    Maybe keep the sheep away from flossie could be putting flossie off the calf

  • @washingtonmustang243
    @washingtonmustang243 3 роки тому +2

    Just a thought, if after 10 days flossie Still won’t take the calf Why not try Phyllis? And just swap their roles.

  • @wendydavey1319
    @wendydavey1319 3 роки тому +1

    Come on, Flossie. Feed the baby.

  • @lazeeshomestead
    @lazeeshomestead 3 роки тому +1

    what about adding side bars to the stancion to keep her from moving and kicking.

    • @theJustinRhodesShow
      @theJustinRhodesShow  3 роки тому +1

      It's possible, but eventually she's gonna need to stand for the baby out in the open.

  • @kajsaftw9694
    @kajsaftw9694 3 роки тому +2

    The calf need moore milk ! This is not working. Try something else ! Or the calf will soon bee too week ?

  • @annettemaddalone4297
    @annettemaddalone4297 3 роки тому

    could you hobble the cow so it dont kick the calf