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Divorce-Proofing Your Marriage | Lifelong Commitment, Love, and Faith with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

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  • Опубліковано 30 сер 2023
  • Ever wondered how to create an unshakeable bond in your marriage that not only withstands the test of time but also grows stronger with each passing day? Are you eager to understand how to make your marriage divorce-proof? Join us as we embark on this enlightening journey into the realm of love, faith, and lifelong commitment. We share invaluable insights into the foundational principles of maintaining a strong, vibrant, and faithful marriage.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 61

  • @heathermullinax3503
    @heathermullinax3503 11 місяців тому +15

    I would love for Tabitha to talk about going through Kenneth bringing up divorce and how she moved past it. My husband and I have only been married two years and things are ok now but the first year was very rough and my husband said on a few occasions that he wanted a divorce. It has definitely effected how I trust him if at all. His actions have changed for the better but we’ve never had a conversation about things that have been said. It’s very difficult to bring up past events without him getting defensive though.

  • @shareenladd1048
    @shareenladd1048 11 місяців тому +18

    God willing I will be 45 this Sunday…..I REFUSE to jump on the bandwagon of marrying an unsaved man! I have not waited, fasted and prayed this long and not get what I’ve done the work for.

    • @Miy03
      @Miy03 11 місяців тому +1

      Happy birthday! Sunday is also my birthday! 🙏🏾🙌🏾🎉 Yes, let’s wait for God’s best, sis. Stay blessed 😊

    • @shareenladd1048
      @shareenladd1048 11 місяців тому

      @@Miy03 happy birthday twin ❤️❤️❤️🎂🎂🎂🎂

    • @missrd395
      @missrd395 11 місяців тому

      Ooo men I struggle with this because I am not surrounded by many christians 😢😢 have a blessed Birthday🎉!

    • @shareenladd1048
      @shareenladd1048 11 місяців тому

      @@missrd395 I pray God surround you with God sent Christian people

  • @bruniegonzalez9123
    @bruniegonzalez9123 11 місяців тому +16

    You guys are so on point... Being equally yoked is key! In my case I came to the Lord first, but the word says “the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife…” after a few years and a lot of praying and believing - we are now equally yoked! Praise God🙌🏼

  • @crazyleaf257
    @crazyleaf257 11 місяців тому +6

    You don't want to be submitted to someone who is not submitted to someone else. very good!!!

  • @BlackButterfly-444
    @BlackButterfly-444 11 місяців тому +4

    Wow!!! "Ask yourself 'Do I' before you say 'I Do'"!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @amazonianprincess5509
    @amazonianprincess5509 5 місяців тому

    I love it this makes me want to keep on keeping with Christ Jesus which is the only way I made it this far 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @GodsObedientChild-Deuteron6262
    @GodsObedientChild-Deuteron6262 11 місяців тому +6

    Ken and Tab, God's continued blessings be upon you and your entire families...
    You guys are marriage goals✨

  • @missrd395
    @missrd395 11 місяців тому +5

    I am single and been taking notes 📝❤thank you I am learning a lot!

  • @jabaridavid1256
    @jabaridavid1256 Місяць тому

    Regarding the prayer of Salvation. I would encourage you all to incorporate Romans 10:9-11, to establish what they truly believe about Christ and what He Did, John 3:16-17, Rom. 5:6-10
    Beautiful session you all. God Bless

  • @bargainhuntmom
    @bargainhuntmom 11 місяців тому +2

    Oooohhhh the thing about not all believers are the same, that just resonated with me

  • @mariasophiarb
    @mariasophiarb 7 місяців тому +1

    I’ve been married for 11 years. And recently after having my son I’ve realized my husband had 11 years to work on his self and change. I tried helping him charge but that then i realize that is not my job & i can’t do that. God has the ability to do so but at the end of the day it’s My husband and God. I’ve told him we need professional help

  • @Justritamich
    @Justritamich 4 місяці тому +1

    God I give you my marriage and give you all of me🙏🏽

  • @sherrynelson365
    @sherrynelson365 11 місяців тому +3

    So powerful you can NEVER go wrong with GOD!!!

  • @jenellpotts7991
    @jenellpotts7991 6 місяців тому +1

    You both are heaven sent! Thank you for your ministry and for sharing your testimony! You both are changing my heart ❤

  • @tslavens3092
    @tslavens3092 10 місяців тому +1

    I appreciate how Pastor said he had to learn to stop being interested in other women. He matured into honoring his wife and covenant.

  • @Shlautur27
    @Shlautur27 10 місяців тому +1

    Every single one of your segments ministers to me so deeply. I binge watch them all.

  • @mrs.g2103
    @mrs.g2103 11 місяців тому +2

    That’s right there! Covenant with God!!

  • @hopkinskalasa332
    @hopkinskalasa332 11 місяців тому +2

    We are definitely making you our mentors. Thank you so much.

  • @lavonnepatterson1327
    @lavonnepatterson1327 11 місяців тому +1

    Many times we want something for nothing. That’s a good word!

  • @Abundantbehavior
    @Abundantbehavior 11 місяців тому +2

    I appreciate this message! Please do more of these !!

  • @supermodeljaz6829
    @supermodeljaz6829 11 місяців тому +2

    Love it! Beautiful Tabatha your hair looks so good and healthy 🥰

  • @rubykanja
    @rubykanja Місяць тому

    I love the color matching ❤

  • @ishish8816
    @ishish8816 11 місяців тому +1

    Tabatha's hair looks ao good! Takes off about 15 years ❤ 🔥

  • @wonderbeauty10
    @wonderbeauty10 11 місяців тому +1

    This is great!! I need a series on what to do when currently married to people with red flags

  • @chimbomukwavi2158
    @chimbomukwavi2158 3 місяці тому

    Thankyou so much. I enjoy your podcasts. From Zambia.

  • @sandrashavers1516
    @sandrashavers1516 4 місяці тому

    Good word !

  • @suesue9235
    @suesue9235 10 місяців тому +1

    Thanks to you both, I needed this and I share it with my husband, such an on time podcast...

  • @indrasingh9077
    @indrasingh9077 6 місяців тому

    Thank you I enjoyed your talk

  • @Brandy07
    @Brandy07 11 місяців тому

    I needed this. I plan to listen again

  • @tonyingram3069
    @tonyingram3069 11 місяців тому

    I think I've got for my marriage. I think I have a mild wife. I think I have my life health and my strength. God, take the wheel. Deliver my marriage from what it needs to be delivered from. Deliver me from where it needs to be delivered from. I thank you, and I'll do you. You ought to send to all my joy.

  • @enochpokuaduasabre3791
    @enochpokuaduasabre3791 6 місяців тому

    I have been blessed by your podcast ,😊
    Would just like to find out curious ,Ken you have your marital ring on your finger, not seeing that of Tabatha. Any explanation for that, please 😊

  • @basilleslie555
    @basilleslie555 9 місяців тому +1

    God says He hates divorce along with other things but He didn't say He wouldn't FORGIVE anyone who did them if they repented.

  • @AB-dq6pk
    @AB-dq6pk 11 місяців тому

    Grateful for this 🙌🏼

  • @shantaepatrick5087
    @shantaepatrick5087 6 місяців тому

    Period

  • @crazyleaf257
    @crazyleaf257 11 місяців тому

    🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @jademalanchefservices
    @jademalanchefservices 11 місяців тому

    WISDOM KEYYY

  • @amandabryant5591
    @amandabryant5591 7 місяців тому

    What advice do you have for me? When I got married I wasn’t saved. Now I am but my husband is not.

  • @crazyleaf257
    @crazyleaf257 11 місяців тому

    I married someone who is not as mature and responsible as me. What now? Tell it to me straight-- do I need to just suffer now?. Pray. Trust God that even if my husband messes up everything God will still work it out.

  • @crazyleaf257
    @crazyleaf257 11 місяців тому

    I knew my husband was more immature than me when we were dating and I had misgivings. - not the best with money, cleaning up after himself, staying on top of adult responsibilities, business. All these things have been the biggest conflicts in our marriage so far. Should I have not have gotten married? I know we were meant to be but we can't get pregnant and I wonder if God's not allowing us to get pregnant because there are things that need to be fixed. Maybe there wouldn't have been so much heartache if we had waited to marry..... But we aren't that young and felt behind the 8 ball

  • @shantaepatrick5087
    @shantaepatrick5087 6 місяців тому

    Trying to look pass it but cant

  • @pamelamashaba4515
    @pamelamashaba4515 11 місяців тому +1

    Very informative and equipping for a single me,😊

  • @eerthangel
    @eerthangel 11 місяців тому

    Can you please share the link to the microphone you’re using?

  • @crazyleaf257
    @crazyleaf257 11 місяців тому +1

    I can't stand when people say well everyone I know who's married is miserable. I'm like well that sucks for you because that is not the standard especially among Christians. I've heard the people that say this are not very good Christians or not Christians at all. The thing is is that Holy marriage does not work for atheist because it is created by God for God

  • @stephyc.9026
    @stephyc.9026 7 місяців тому

    What if it's too late? What if they both fell into fornication, she got pregnant, then sought marriage counseling then got married, two years in a row within the 6 and 7th yr there has been infidelity. The spouse says they are going to change or get convicted about it but doesn't make moves to change?

  • @valentine_music
    @valentine_music 11 місяців тому

    💯💯💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 11 місяців тому

    Remember Steve Harvey

  • @ecarroll731
    @ecarroll731 11 місяців тому

    My husband and I have been separated for 8 months, We still live in the same household, just separate rooms. Multiple times I've asked him to try to work it out. And he says no, hes heartbroken. He's only here for the kids, I'm still trying to follow my covenant with god but at what point do end it all and I file for the divorce ?

    • @mrs.wilson2275
      @mrs.wilson2275 11 місяців тому +2

      I hope things get better for you! Kids deserve yo see love and a healthy marriage between their parents. You’re the example for them. They pick up on so much more than we give them credit for

    • @ecarroll731
      @ecarroll731 11 місяців тому

      @mrs.wilson2275 thank you so much 💓

    • @tabtihamusgrave9606
      @tabtihamusgrave9606 7 місяців тому

      Pray! And have you ever seen “The War Room”? It’s not based on a true story but I believe the principles are true and prayer can heal a marriage.

  • @mardec2128
    @mardec2128 5 місяців тому

    Can you do a podcast over marrying an Ungodly man and navigating porn in a marriage.

  • @Kiai808
    @Kiai808 6 місяців тому

    At the beginning Ken throwing shade on Tabitha for praising god, not cool Ken

  • @bernardearl3589
    @bernardearl3589 10 місяців тому

    What church you pastor??

    • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha
      @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha  10 місяців тому

      We are the lead Pastors of Alive Church, with locations in Gainesville, FL, Orlando, FL and a Tampa, FL location in the works.

  • @crazyleaf257
    @crazyleaf257 11 місяців тому

    OMG I know a couple who go to two different churches because the husband had a quarrel with the pastor at one 🤦🏼🤦🏼🤦🏼 so unbiblical! The biblical thing would be to reconcile with the pastor which is God's ultimate will or your whole family go to a different Church.

  • @crazyleaf257
    @crazyleaf257 11 місяців тому

    I have to do just about everything I have to clean the house I have to work a job I have to cook I have to shop I have to do the laundry I have to clean up all his dishes that are everywhere I stopped picking up his clothes he'll accidentally knock things over and not pick them up he doesn't pay attention to our finances and he doesn't keep his promises to pay more attention and to pay off the credit card I'm the rearguard and I'm the front guard and I'm the person who tries to get him to see it all and he hates it when I do and he hates my nagging and he hates my request even though I have to do it all

  • @CateWisdom-df8wl
    @CateWisdom-df8wl 6 місяців тому

    plz ken and Tabitha share you email I need counselling.