Learning to Forgive with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

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  • @alexaarrah696
    @alexaarrah696 2 місяці тому

    I'm so thankful for your wisdom and honesty. I used to struggle with forgiveness (but not because petty reason's). But I've prayed a lot and worked really hard on being forgiving.

  • @britneybovell9899
    @britneybovell9899 7 місяців тому

    This is an incredibly helpful explanation. I learn so much from your channel. ❤

  • @erinmorgan5514
    @erinmorgan5514 10 місяців тому +21

    🤯 Tabitha definitely blows my mind. She is such a great example of a wife and a child of God. I loved when she said she loves how much Ken loves God FIRST!

  • @beautifultruth4777
    @beautifultruth4777 5 місяців тому

    When Tabitha didn’t understand the question of why it’s hard, I really needed to hear what she said, even though that wasn’t what he meant by the question.❤ Thank you for that!

  • @alexbarongo
    @alexbarongo 10 місяців тому +1

    You guys are amazing.. and si addictive to how you go deep and explain and explore intricate issues about life especially as Christians. God bless you and peaces be with you. Amen. All they way from Tanzania 🇹🇿 Africa. Shalom

  • @Nae26Shae
    @Nae26Shae 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank y’all so much. God bless 🙏🏽

  • @rubydiamond6009
    @rubydiamond6009 7 місяців тому

    God Bless you both, IT’s definitely helping me to become a better Woman GOD called me to be ❤

  • @katrinagarrett1423
    @katrinagarrett1423 10 місяців тому

    God has used you two to minister to my life these past few months. Thank you for being vessels. God is using y'all to change lives. Much love ❤️

  • @randolphellis2372
    @randolphellis2372 10 місяців тому

    Wow, what an amazing episode!! Thank you both for allowing GOD to use you even in your testimony to bless the world!!!

  • @tarynbutler5864
    @tarynbutler5864 10 місяців тому

    Wow what she said was absolutely powerful. My God 🩵

  • @shantakoa8596
    @shantakoa8596 10 місяців тому

    I appreciate you both❤❤❤❤now that I am in a godly relationship. I want to listen even more. ❤❤❤

    • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha
      @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha  10 місяців тому

      Glad to hear it! Don't forget to Subscribe to our channel so you don't miss anything!

  • @moniquelevy5558
    @moniquelevy5558 10 місяців тому

    Great prospective of ghosting, I've ghosted someone who I realized was almost like a fly on the wall, not disclosing anything from their own life but front seat in mine... wanting to know everything and to me that's not a friendship there's another motive and whatever the motive I wasn't interested in communicating with them anymore. Before ghosting you kind of ask questions around it to confirm that you are doing the right thing. And some people can be so let leachy that a conversation isnt received 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @AllAboutAndrew444
    @AllAboutAndrew444 10 місяців тому

    Me and my partner are dealing with this but I’m believing we’ll come out of it 🙏🏼🙏🏼😭😭

  • @deprisedepass6914
    @deprisedepass6914 10 місяців тому

    🤯🤯🤯

  • @peacelove35
    @peacelove35 7 місяців тому

    Wow... I was doing the samething, calling people crazy and it started to bother my spirit, so I started not to say it as much anyone. I will start speaking more blessing instead.

  • @Ashlynma
    @Ashlynma 10 місяців тому +9

    Thank you Pastors for this topic.
    When Ken touched on ghosting, I knew the Holy Spirit wanted me released and get understanding on forgiveness.
    I have been ghosted a few days ago by someone I had forgiven years ago, they had reached out to me recently and needed to apologise.
    I allowed them back into my space for them to ghost me.
    I forgive them for that in Jesus Name!
    I am not allowing them in my circle again, though.

  • @TrueWisdomTV
    @TrueWisdomTV 10 місяців тому +29

    I am a new subscriber to your channel and my husband and I have been married for 30 years and you guys have inspired us to start our UA-cam channel

    • @kshennel
      @kshennel 10 місяців тому +1

      Welcome. I’ve subscribed to your channel. Looking forward to your content. ❤

    • @IconicIRose
      @IconicIRose 10 місяців тому +1

      Hello I just subscribed to you guys, God will bless your plans in life

  • @mojisolaaluko-olokun
    @mojisolaaluko-olokun 6 місяців тому +4

    You two are a real blessing to marriages, I’m proud to call you my mentors ❤

  • @sunflowermama4297
    @sunflowermama4297 10 місяців тому +7

    This was such a blessing to me, thank you so much! This podcast was the catalyst I needed to send an email to my ex husband, forgiving him for cheating, giving up on the marriage, and all of the other sins that he sinned against me. I realized that my unforgiveness has been hurting only me for the past 10 years and I need to let it go! I now feel so much lighter, and feel open for God’s blessings. Thank you again for all that you both do! I will continue to pray for your ministry and for your well-being! ❤

  • @magicmya
    @magicmya 10 місяців тому +9

    I can really see how gods presence is with tabitha whenever she speaks.

  • @cls4604
    @cls4604 10 місяців тому +1

    I have a question about forgiveness and marriage can we apply the same concepts when referring to marriage especially if there is conflict and separation?

  • @mariapaul8165
    @mariapaul8165 10 місяців тому +4

    I just adore how they talk to each other with so much understanding and love. It's really inspiring❤

  • @Dr.Cherokie
    @Dr.Cherokie 10 місяців тому +4

    ‘I remember what you did!’ When pastor Tab got into this part I really felt seen. It really helps to hear how to get over THIS part about things. Thank you for this tangent. And I really love hearing how to build this muscle of forgiveness

  • @Queenbelieveit
    @Queenbelieveit 10 місяців тому +5

    God does allow you to forgive freely for He forgave us. 🙏🏽

  • @BintuItalia
    @BintuItalia 10 місяців тому +2

    Honestly FORGIVENESS is Hard especially because you can't magically forget !

  • @MrJR82
    @MrJR82 10 місяців тому +4

    Blessings from North Carolina.

  • @MyQueendom8
    @MyQueendom8 10 місяців тому +2

    OMG! God led me to your podcast a month ago BUT God really spoke to my heart listening to this segment. Tabitha and I have a few "pains" in common and I'm currently at the Thrown of God releasing hurt, pain and unforgiveness from years ago, the crazy thing is, I thought I had forgiven those people but the Holy Spirit searches the heart and revealed me to ME. And that's why I love the grace of God. Be blessed!

  • @Mrsdeepdimples1
    @Mrsdeepdimples1 4 місяці тому +1

    The way you guys have blessed me I’m beyond grateful for the both of you. Your transparency and wisdom Tab is mind blowing.

  • @Lovejones80inc
    @Lovejones80inc 10 місяців тому +3

    I truly felt freedom to forgive once I understood that it was for my salvation AND it DOES NOT mean I have to let them back in my life … weight off my chest and spirit truly forgiving people and understanding to keep distance because hurt people hurt people …I’ll pray for you from afar …AMEN ❤

  • @tash7084
    @tash7084 10 місяців тому +3

    This is right on time, my estranged father reached out and invited me over for the holidays recently. We haven’t spoken or been in contact in over 7 years. And at first I was so angry that he didn’t apologize or tell me what I felt I deserved to hear. But regardless of that I need to forgive, I mean really forgive and let go of those low emotions. thank you for this video, only God knew this was going on with me internally and this popped up on my feed. God is a healer and God leads us to our answers. Lead me to this video 🤍

  • @Queenbelieveit
    @Queenbelieveit 10 місяців тому +3

    This was good ! God bless y’all 🙏🏽💕🙌🏽

  • @percytpercyt1246
    @percytpercyt1246 20 днів тому

    Ken and Tab thankyou so much. This has helped me un my journey to forgive the closest peolple in my life who hurt me immensely. Am being made pure in heart by this teaching and my prayer life is improving: your teaching and testimony has paved way for a free flow of the KOINONIA with the Holy Ghost for me. God bless. Tatenda from Zimbabwe

  • @Rathbonek
    @Rathbonek 10 місяців тому +2

    I needed this today. Thank you 🥰

  • @cobb1224
    @cobb1224 17 днів тому

    God bless this anointed married couple. This video has blessed me beyond measure, it helped me to break some chains. God is good. May God's blessings always surround you both 💖💖💖.

  • @kelliwisekliwys2966
    @kelliwisekliwys2966 25 днів тому

    I found you today. THIS message blessed me and spoke to confirm some things for me. Unforgiveness is so important to deal with. I really appreciate your willingness to be open about your journey and lessons.

  • @robinhall3893
    @robinhall3893 10 місяців тому +2

    Hello to y’all!! From NJ
    We must forgive! Not easy but it’s possibly…Great topic!!
    That’s what l think about ( God not forgiving me)He love soooo much He GAVE!! & LOVED ❤

  • @michellelove5411
    @michellelove5411 Місяць тому

    I thank God that I’ve found your podcast. You’ve been such a blessing to me. May God continue to bless you both.

  • @charlenebuckner
    @charlenebuckner 17 днів тому

    Pastor Tabatha pray for Charlene with bout if bipolar and that I have catastrophic attack I don't trust nobody just father Jesus holy spirit my Bible I live isolated but attend church a lot ok

  • @sabrinaj321
    @sabrinaj321 2 місяці тому

    What an anointed woman of God. Pastor Ken you are blessed beyond measure to have this woman as your help mate. She is wise and the love of God permeates her being. I am learning a lot from watching you both. Thank you for your obedience and love for God's people. ❤

  • @MsSexiiBayon
    @MsSexiiBayon 10 місяців тому +12

    The way Pastor Tab explained why she would forgive Pastor Ken "IF" he ever cheated just made me cry. She got me rethinking my whole marriage foundation. Like I've always said if my husband EVERRRR cheated, I'm gone ! But whew she just shook me into another perspective of love and forgiveness. Thank you Pastor Tab!!!

  • @ashleysharingthegoodnews
    @ashleysharingthegoodnews 5 місяців тому

    I’m dropping mind blown emojis 🤯🤯🤯 this was sooo good! Thank you both! ❤ this is really preparing me for a Godly marriage

  • @KathyHenderson-iz1wc
    @KathyHenderson-iz1wc 3 місяці тому

    May God continue to bless you and keep you, and his face shine upon you. Protect you and your family in Jesus Name. Thank you for your ministry it has been a blessing to me I came upon it about 3 weeks ago when I was looking for God based material to teach our teen girls about sex and purity in a realistic way from a biblical perspective I prayed and immediately God led me to your teaching on Soul ties and I’m excited to share with them then I found your podcast you are beautiful couple that reflects the Lord and your wife is so beautiful inside and out the grace and love and wisdom that pours out of her when she speaks. I just want to say thank you. Please continue these podcast and pray for me as I begin journey of teaching our teens about sex and purity. It’s uncomfortable for me but I know it has to be done🙏🏽🙏🏽 Love you guys !!!

  • @LauraWillis-n7b
    @LauraWillis-n7b 20 днів тому

    My husband Cory found you first and introduced me into it I'm just starting off bit the first one was about the 5 things u need to do I'm excited to learn more to learn and grow with my husband

  • @WChittick90
    @WChittick90 7 місяців тому

    Excellent podcast.
    Ken can you please project your voice or come closer to the microphone. Struggling to hear you.
    Thank you.

  • @margiewilliams2131
    @margiewilliams2131 5 місяців тому

    Today i had to find out if i had forgive my husband..we had a conversation and i ask him do you think i did.He said very nice no i dont..and this really strick me.the next morning i search scrip videos..and UA-cam and found you just to know i have have I unforgiveness . thank you for the scripture.😢

  • @skyereese9739
    @skyereese9739 2 місяці тому

    I really appreciate yall! I’ve recently found you guys videos and I listen to them while I work and it puts me in such a calm head space and helps me to learn!

  • @joyannamarmar2145
    @joyannamarmar2145 4 місяці тому

    Glory be To God. Thank you for this powerful message. I am blessed 🙌 😇

  • @nokuthulamthimkhulu8008
    @nokuthulamthimkhulu8008 5 місяців тому

    There's a part where Ken talked about 'ghosting "people who' ve hurt you, well i must confess i do that alot and that's a thing with me i heal from a distance, this is what i did currently i ghosted my ex bf because i was really toxic for me and me trying to avoid him by keeping him on my phone has not helped but what helped was keeping him at a safe distance and yes i'm still taking baby steps to heal completely but i see the devil trying to remind me of the past, the very things i want to heal from, yol we need prayers 🙏🙏

  • @shanneljoneszy9534
    @shanneljoneszy9534 4 місяці тому

    Tabatha is dope for this nd how she exemplify and demonstrate her forgiveness. Blessing to the Both of you 🙏 😊

  • @careydawn1974
    @careydawn1974 7 місяців тому

    forgiveness does not need to be reconciliation. I might make you a plate but you aren’t eating at my table. I can put you in the balcony of my life. These are important things to remember when we are learning to forgive

  • @mary-janedavids6605
    @mary-janedavids6605 7 місяців тому

    Wowwww Tabatha wowww you just touched something in me I didn't know I had ❤❤🔥

  • @nokuthulamthimkhulu8008
    @nokuthulamthimkhulu8008 5 місяців тому

    For me i ghost people for peace of mind not to hurt them but to restore love towards them even if it's from a distance...

  • @wandayates4622
    @wandayates4622 5 місяців тому

    This was so awesome!!! This gives me so much hope for true genuine love ❤

  • @lamontedwards9293
    @lamontedwards9293 8 місяців тому

    I have a situation that I need help with how do I get in contact with you it’s forgiven but I believe the person is toxic

  • @grateful1010
    @grateful1010 10 місяців тому +2

    This was phenomenal to tune in on. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏽 😁❤

  • @LauraWillis-n7b
    @LauraWillis-n7b 20 днів тому

    My way was tit for tat and I've found it easier to gorgive let go

  • @lisablack5244
    @lisablack5244 10 місяців тому +1

    Wonderful content as usual, thanks guys your podcast is a blessing to me, and so many others watching, please keep it coming! 😍🙏🏽💖🥰

  • @maameodeadu-gyamfi7913
    @maameodeadu-gyamfi7913 6 місяців тому

    From Ghana......God bless you Both

  • @lamontedwards9293
    @lamontedwards9293 8 місяців тому

    So forgiveness requires reconciliation?

  • @deirdreoutlaw1578
    @deirdreoutlaw1578 10 місяців тому +1

    Ive been meditating on the story of Joseph and how he came to forgive his family/brothers and change his perspective of the situation. This episode was so helpful! Thank you ❤

  • @valentine_music
    @valentine_music 10 місяців тому +2

    Blessings from Ireland - You guys are a blessing to the Body of Christ, these topics are very helpful - Jesus told us to Love all men - but only Trust in Him, in the Scriptures

  • @marwa6215
    @marwa6215 10 місяців тому +2

    I really like this episode 🤗

  • @empresskenya3403
    @empresskenya3403 8 місяців тому +2

    Tabitha… that was the most beautiful things you said how you would forgive your husband if he ever cheated. Wow that blew my mind. Bless you both ❤

    • @mawaggy1
      @mawaggy1 8 місяців тому

      That was very powerful and I cannot even imagine but Lord have mercy. May God help me get that kind of a heart.

  • @AllAboutAndrew444
    @AllAboutAndrew444 10 місяців тому

    Seems like people get angry at the weather changes it messes with there mind

  • @angeliawhitrack6320
    @angeliawhitrack6320 4 місяці тому

    That's so powerful

  • @osenimoukhuede865
    @osenimoukhuede865 10 місяців тому

    Fry us, we are your egg sounds like a Nigerian saying.

  • @paulamarizyumul1869
    @paulamarizyumul1869 10 місяців тому +1

    Got married a month ago and your videos are really a blessing. Many times I have been rebuked by what you have been discussing in your videos.

  • @herbbbbzzz
    @herbbbbzzz Місяць тому

    My father..

  • @staciacannalla2623
    @staciacannalla2623 7 місяців тому

    wow Tabatha blows my 😱

  • @robinhall3893
    @robinhall3893 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for your love and kindness, your wisdom. I love you all so much.

  • @AikoFilms
    @AikoFilms 10 місяців тому

    40:00 mins

  • @Queenbelieveit
    @Queenbelieveit 10 місяців тому +1

  • @peachesmcsween8441
    @peachesmcsween8441 10 місяців тому +1

    Sooooo good this food! Thank you for your example couple of God❤

  • @sandralatimore2011
    @sandralatimore2011 10 місяців тому

    Wow!!!

  • @antoniafisher2059
    @antoniafisher2059 10 місяців тому

    I don’t think there’s anything wrong with ghosting. Some people are not emotional stable to handle rejection.

  • @lesliepierce740
    @lesliepierce740 10 місяців тому +1

    This whole episode is powerful!

  • @tyrinfoster7145
    @tyrinfoster7145 10 місяців тому +1

    🤯

  • @Caileeycrystaal
    @Caileeycrystaal 8 місяців тому

    Wow! Im seriously mind blown ❤I love you two because you guys are sharing true gems for an incredible and healthy marriage! Thank you guys for being the example people need.

  • @marvah99
    @marvah99 10 місяців тому

    Prraayying blessings for them????🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴😫
    Lord, HELP me to forgive! smh..
    Tab, thank you so much for sharing and teaching this❤❤ --- it's crazy how much you think you've "forgiven"... but.. to struggle with praying for them just shows there's still bitterness there😩
    Thank you again guys. Your ministry is so needed

  • @Jermailchenier-yw5tm
    @Jermailchenier-yw5tm 6 місяців тому

    Amen need to listen to this 😊it help me on today forgive is the number key help me to walk in love 💕 and overcome unforgiving
    .🙏❤️❤️✊✊🙌🙌😄👂👂👍💯💯😘

  • @kayc8088
    @kayc8088 10 місяців тому

    Hello Pastor! Today I had the Privilege to know of you!!! You see you came to my church and preached. Shepard of the Hills Porter Ranch California. I was hoping I had the pleasure of saying hello and To say how Much gladness I felt to know your beautiful wife is healthy. I wanted to say how inspired I feel to search and ask For Gods Joy- Not Mine. You Touched My Heart from the start because you said right away to let Old Relationships go except I don’t know if I can. At the same time maybe I should but I don’t know simply because we have 2 kids and my oldest only knows him as a father but in 10 yrs So much has happened n I still wear my ring 💍 I really wished I could have spoken with you but hopefully I find my answers through your Videos. My kids are 14,9,6 my boy in the middle he was so sensitive and I hate when he sees me cry because he doesn’t like to see his Momma cry but it was impossible to stop the water works especially at the end of the Sermon when you mentioned Broken Hearts 💔 my 3 kids turned and looked at me which hurt me even more because they know I love their father with all of me. But I supposed at times it’s best to Love from a distance. Anyway I can go on but I won’t. THANK YOU FOR COMING OVER TO SHEPARD PASTOR DUDLEY MADE A GREAT CHOICE. I will have your Family in Mind specially your beautiful wife. Considering I’m Scared to make an appointment myself I need to go see a Dr. 💔God Bless You Guys. Come back Soon !!!!
    P.S I’m Subscribed!!!

  • @Contentwithme
    @Contentwithme 5 місяців тому

    This blessed me. I searched for unforgiveness specifically on your podcast because I knew I’d get the prospective shift I am praying for. Even when you know something it doesn’t always make it easy to do. Blessings

  • @sofreshsomila
    @sofreshsomila 8 місяців тому

    Enjoying your podcast over here in The Bay Northern Cal! Love to see you both sharing, don't see that too often from the other half and with her own personality and substance in The Word! Go ahead PW! 💃

  • @theetyonnaashai2761
    @theetyonnaashai2761 8 місяців тому

    Wow I’ve been watching you guys for a while after the virtuous woman video just recently subscribed. I am 22 years old in my third year of college 8 hours away from my home church. Just recently during the new year I was tremendously back stabbed and hurt and I’ve been in the process of forgiving as God wants me too and when you said something about praying for them hit home for me because praying for someone that hurt you to the point you can’t even look at them is hard but because I prayed and laid the situation down I’ve seen God move for me. I’ve learned that instead of saying “it’s okay” say “ Thank You” because being hurt by the people I never thought would hurt me so unethically allowed me to draw soooooo much closer to God and really trust him more than I’ve ever have since becoming saved ! This episode really made me realize that forgiving is hard but it is necessary for your next moves with GOD
    I Thank You for being so real in your videos and so inspiring to keep going for things of God❤ May he bless you both abundantly

  • @sandrabraziel8271
    @sandrabraziel8271 5 місяців тому

    It's not dumb to forgive. It's what God did for us by sending Jesus to be our Savior. To free us from our past, present, and future sins through his death and Ressuration. A free gift to all who choose to believe in Jesus, and His finished works on the cross. Amen

  • @faithfulhealerpodcast
    @faithfulhealerpodcast 10 місяців тому

    This was really good to me. Thank you!# can't wait to share with my future hubby#

  • @mangalisopepper4507
    @mangalisopepper4507 10 місяців тому

    Thank you I always learn something new in your podcast, God bless your work In the mighty name of Jesus Christ Amen

  • @B-Icon
    @B-Icon 10 місяців тому

    I needed to hear this. I was recently asked by my suitor if I had forgiven my ex-husband, and I struggled to answer. He called me on it saying “I’m asking you a yes/no question and your answer is about our foundation.” Shortly thereafter my ex did something to hurt our daughter’s feelings, and my man then asked me “what’s up with him.” I responded, now you see why I struggled answering your question. However, I still need to do some work to fully embrace forgiveness.
    Thanks for this conversation. I will be watching it again.
    Peace and continued blessings for you both individually and collectively❤️🙏.

  • @shaniaaliyah
    @shaniaaliyah 8 місяців тому

    I definitely went through all of this & more, & i really struggled not so much on the forgiveness part but the healing process. I knew what the word of God says but i just felt like why did i have to go through that! That was where i was at and i think that i got so tired of being hurt and damaged by people that i just didnt want to be around people so i always tried to stop people coming into my life. But God really sent me this video to remind me once again that you need to let go and forgive.

  • @babeedinam8114
    @babeedinam8114 10 місяців тому

    I've been following and listening to you here from Ghana and I'm blessed. One thing I love about Tabatha I she is always positive and smiling ☺

  • @syntiabebongchu3316
    @syntiabebongchu3316 7 місяців тому

    I love this episode. It's very encouraging.

  • @Royaltenie
    @Royaltenie 8 місяців тому

    I love love love yall !! When I’m in Florida I know I have another church home to go 🙏🏽✨

  • @moniquelevy5558
    @moniquelevy5558 10 місяців тому

    I believe when we attempt to see the unlikable through the eyes of God we position ourselves to like them.. what yall think?

  • @MechelleTube80
    @MechelleTube80 10 місяців тому

    Forgiving helps with your healing process

  • @danielledenisehemphill
    @danielledenisehemphill 7 місяців тому

    I just started watching you guys this year 2024

  • @nicolenicole1105
    @nicolenicole1105 10 місяців тому

    I haven't even listened to this podcast episode yet but I just love them. So glad the algorithm connected me with them. Lol ❤

  • @AllAboutAndrew444
    @AllAboutAndrew444 10 місяців тому

    Unforgiveness I think is definitely run by a spirit of anger

  • @ireenkayira
    @ireenkayira 10 місяців тому

    This was lovely , this topic has touched my heart and has given me new discoveries on forgiveness

  • @normaramirez9687
    @normaramirez9687 10 місяців тому

    Thank you Pastors you guys always bless my life🙏🏼

  • @brendaparkerwright7481
    @brendaparkerwright7481 10 місяців тому

    What about disrespect after you forgive me