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  • It's often the case that when someone says or does something to you that seems mean-spirited, they are offloading the hurt someone else inflicted on them at an earlier time. In her new book, Rising Strong, Brené Brown attempts to get at the heart of this vicious cycle. For more on #supersoulsunday, visit WatchOWN.tv/SSS
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  • @Coryraisa
    @Coryraisa 5 років тому +21

    That's how so many fights and estrangements ignite...when people create a crazy false story in their head, especially about another person's motives or intent.

  • @LightworkBeacon
    @LightworkBeacon 8 років тому +49

    I feel what she is describing is an awakening to self-awareness.

    • @TheBearrish
      @TheBearrish 8 років тому +1

      +TheLeigha72 Yeah I think it's a kind of mindfulness. That's really interesting.

    • @CoachingHigher
      @CoachingHigher 3 роки тому

      Totally. #1 skill 🤍

  • @KeifusMathews3
    @KeifusMathews3 4 роки тому +22

    Can you imagine meeting her in a bar? what great conversation you would have

    • @gabardjean-paul3779
      @gabardjean-paul3779 3 роки тому +2

      providing you are able to sustain the discussion Bro. ! she is very very smart and INTROVERT !

  • @thankfulforlife
    @thankfulforlife 3 місяці тому

    Acceptance is everything.

  • @zorazorazorzzora8333
    @zorazorazorzzora8333 8 років тому +50

    Never long enough...just when I am getting into it, the clip ends...

  • @GabrielleWilliams317
    @GabrielleWilliams317 2 роки тому +1

    I need to change alot of stories I've been telling myself for years.

  • @zynarang
    @zynarang 8 років тому +50

    This piece really speaks to me. Thank you Brene!

    • @sarahsahar5622
      @sarahsahar5622 7 років тому +2

      Zynara Ng me2 I cried, because I didn't get it this deep when my mom told me about how my experiences (as a kid) were not always exactly what happened.

  • @writtenIntheskys
    @writtenIntheskys 6 років тому +56

    I wish she was my therapist

    • @katherineprongos3929
      @katherineprongos3929 4 роки тому

      You and the rest of us.

    • @tdeniseechols7434
      @tdeniseechols7434 4 роки тому +1

      lol. That's not the type of social worker she is but therapists like myself utilize a lot of her work to help clients.

    • @thankfulforlife
      @thankfulforlife 3 місяці тому +1

      You can perform therapy on YOU with these truths already.

  • @Arnoldpeter521
    @Arnoldpeter521 7 років тому +7

    there is so much truth and accuracy in this. thank you

  • @katherineprongos3929
    @katherineprongos3929 4 роки тому +1

    Ingenious analysis. My brain is squeaking with astonishment.

  • @mimibadge
    @mimibadge 7 років тому +15

    NAILED IT. Love this woman

  • @ginny0015
    @ginny0015 7 років тому +2

    Just finished this book, her best I believe. The woman is a genius.

  • @joyjones6927
    @joyjones6927 Рік тому

    “…because they have been socialized to be emotionally self-reliant and to feel ashamed of needing anything from anyone, particularly from a woman.”

  • @mamawhys3773
    @mamawhys3773 6 років тому +10

    It's like watching your own brain work in survival mode. Something I have been noticing recently. I will catch myself and say out loud, no, that's not what it is. What is the root of the issue?

  • @mollyneemairenicanna6809
    @mollyneemairenicanna6809 8 років тому +3

    The negative monologue .Thank you both

  • @Dan-qp1el
    @Dan-qp1el 7 років тому +7

    This really resonated with me.....thank you.

  • @ceochala
    @ceochala 8 років тому +8

    My two favorites! 😍

  • @pambennett8967
    @pambennett8967 6 років тому +3

    What’s hard is to keep telling yourself the right story. Because my stories include old habits and as soon as I stop thinking about it, it feels like the old self hate self distrust puts itself back in the drivers seat, and I have to immediately take it out and rewrite it again. It makes me feel like I’m lying to myself when I try to change the narrative to something more positive and casting myself in a more
    Favorable light

    • @krismorris4010
      @krismorris4010 2 місяці тому +1

      After watching this, if I start ruminating, I ask myself "What story are you making up?" and it immediately stops the spin cycle. I am sure the question activates another part of the brain.
      It has been a game changer for me.

  • @hyperchord
    @hyperchord 6 років тому +2

    I've just now gotten curious about my emotional triggers. The whole left v right, conservative v liberal business thats been going on absolutely tears me up. My parents argued a lot when I was growing up. I wonder if they are connected in some way

  • @goddessesanewconsciousness4540
    @goddessesanewconsciousness4540 8 років тому +1

    Thank You Oprah for all that You do :)

  • @Mrsdent921
    @Mrsdent921 3 роки тому

    But actions do speak louder than words

  • @karenholtzclaw3135
    @karenholtzclaw3135 3 роки тому

    Thank you

  • @truemagneticnorth
    @truemagneticnorth 3 роки тому

    So much wisdom in this great clip!!! Thank you for sharing!

  • @MP-fk9em
    @MP-fk9em 2 роки тому

    Brilliant 🌟

  • @zorazorazorzzora8333
    @zorazorazorzzora8333 8 років тому +2

    I love Brene...just love her... I purchased a Kindle HD, downloaded the book.. I just can't seem to get into reading on the Kindle. I need to buy Rising Strong hardcopy... I've read Brene's first 2 books, for course they were hard copy. I gotta ready Rising Strong...

  • @mollyneemairenicanna6809
    @mollyneemairenicanna6809 8 років тому +2

    Wow............brilliant to both of you......Amazing but im sure I do it!

  • @janew2489
    @janew2489 7 років тому +1

    Omg Brene you are the best!

  • @corinneyoung8166
    @corinneyoung8166 2 роки тому

    Wow - Love love love, thank you !!

  • @deeinkc
    @deeinkc 8 років тому +2

    So good!

  • @lizgichora6472
    @lizgichora6472 7 років тому

    I LOVE that book! It has been a GIFT to me..Thank you .

  • @cannabiskid
    @cannabiskid Рік тому

    Well explained.

  • @MarcelinRuth
    @MarcelinRuth 6 років тому

    Waouh! Thanks a lot Brene ! That’s give power to improve myself

  • @sandraalvarez2058
    @sandraalvarez2058 8 років тому

    What amazing interview and thanks for all I received from you I am from Lima, Perú

  • @darkfeather6857
    @darkfeather6857 6 років тому +1

    Interesting, but it sounds as if a step is missing. Wouldn't the reckoning be: a button was pushed, let me figure out why, after I ask this person what they meant by that comment, gesture etc. If it was intended because my "stories" about this person are accurate that is one thing I can deal with. If the person was just sighing for no reason, that is completely different.

  • @boipelopee
    @boipelopee 8 років тому +3

    Goes back to what Miguel Ruiz said about "assumption".

  • @karenmeyer9869
    @karenmeyer9869 4 роки тому

    Could have used this last night b4 I went crazy.

  • @mollyneemairenicanna6809
    @mollyneemairenicanna6809 8 років тому +1

    I really enjoyed this.....

  • @Karoliina93
    @Karoliina93 7 років тому

    love this woman💖

  • @darrylgarrison2943
    @darrylgarrison2943 8 років тому

    Love her work...

  • @healthandbeauty3888
    @healthandbeauty3888 8 років тому

    I am so glad to have found this channel~ :-)

  • @SamsonPavlov
    @SamsonPavlov 9 років тому +5

    Hey OWN! Could you broadcast Earthlings?

  • @fitnessasphilanthropy515
    @fitnessasphilanthropy515 5 років тому

    Well. That book's going on my wishlist now...

  • @lizgichora6472
    @lizgichora6472 7 років тому

    Very interesting...thank you!..

  • @americamunoz7506
    @americamunoz7506 8 років тому

    She is really good

  • @yliu4093
    @yliu4093 2 роки тому

    Which book they are talking about? Can anyone let me know it so I can go buy one? Thanks? Happy holidays!

  • @roxana7482
    @roxana7482 6 років тому

    Just wow.

  • @creationslandscapedesigns
    @creationslandscapedesigns 6 років тому

    Some people's automatic reaction is negative. Even if they don't have all the facts, they still go to a negative place. I don't think I will ever understand why people must do that.

  • @JudesViews
    @JudesViews 6 років тому +1

    I want more of this interview...where is it??????

  • @Mrs_Chiques
    @Mrs_Chiques 7 років тому +1

    I want to know more...what happens next?!

  • @RoyMontero
    @RoyMontero 6 років тому +1

    0:00 - Are You Hooked on a False Story? - Brene Brown
    REM NOTES: The truth is that you should not believe everything you believe to be true as true until you fact check it. WHY? Because your parents and your "teachers in life and the issues of life" may not have taught you what is true when it comes to friendship/relationship situations.
    Since you ALWAYS behave in alignment with what you believe, it will become evident to those people in your circles of influence that you believe a lie or two or more about friendship/relationship issues of life.
    Brene brings this least traveled discussion between people to light.
    ua-cam.com/video/5RsPjFnNdw4/v-deo.html

  • @gavinburnes6344
    @gavinburnes6344 6 років тому +4

    Instead of creating a crazy story, go the the dictionary of self

  • @TheNesbittExperience
    @TheNesbittExperience 6 років тому

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @joanjettboy
    @joanjettboy 8 років тому

    ❤️

  • @naturagrace6898
    @naturagrace6898 7 років тому +2

    1:04-1:05...what is she saying? She spoke way too quickly there and I cannot figure out that one word, "The stories you make up about your fall need to be really...." Really what? I even slowed it down and cannot understand at a slower speed either...

  • @parulparida8280
    @parulparida8280 5 років тому

    What ?

  • @reikiwarrior8888
    @reikiwarrior8888 4 роки тому

    lisa a romano is much better at explaining codependency issues than brene as I find that she uses a lot of words to explain the core of the issue, its like she just rambles on and on before she makes her point, yawn

  • @lwnaALiraq
    @lwnaALiraq 7 років тому

    :)