Notes for myself 🌸- dont be afraid to stand out 🌸- dont try so hard to fit in 🌸- the polarity effect (there are ppl who will hate me but there are also ppl who will love me for who i am) 🌸- dont be afraid to not be liked by anyone 🌸- give ppl something they cant get anywhere (belonging, acceptance, etc.) 🌸- go after what i want despite what ppl think of 🌸- unforgettable ppl are disciplined 🌸- dont be afraid to get cancelled. Get cancelled. 🌸- change is the only constant 🌸- embracing solitude (dont try to fit in if im not comfortable doing it)
the last part is so real. I've always felt lonely and not belonging with anyone, but this one time I saw somebody saying on the internet "of course you don't fit in, you're custom made" and it just made sense.
@@tintedqualia i think what she/he is trying to say is if you change your self like idk attitude looks and people like the way you look or how your attitude is and more and more people develop around you staring and all it makes you feel nervous and uncomfortable😅 idk how to explain
I've always had this kind of insecurity about being "forgettable", so to speak, I even complained "I'm so incredible how come they act so indifferent towards me", anyway I learned a lot in this video, thank you alessia!❤
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
We all then went through it i did it like 2 days ago i been reading self help books on headway. The hardest part is walking away from someone you love and forgiving yourself for your actions. Im being feeling like this for a year. And said when you let the person back in and they up snd leave again.
@@Persephonesmind thank you thank you thank you soo much, cause of your videos things have been so better for me, im soo grateful that I came across you, you gave me the confidence I needed, I'm just so grateful to you. Please keep on making videos, i appreciate everything about you, thank you. I too lovee you soo much.💗🌸
You are defining me. This is exactly how I am. It took a long time because I was a people pleaser but I am totally magnetic now, they either hate me or are obsessed with me. 🔥
im so happy to relate to everything u were saying. I was never afraid of standing out and all of my friends, relatives or even people I just met told I was really extravagant and that I easily stand out, that I looked smart and confident. I am proud of being somebody that u can spot easily and proud of being myself. LOVE U ALESSIA. im proud of being unforgettable.
For the individuals who fear being disliked will eventually become slaves to other people's judgement, as a result they end up seeking validation from strangers, which speaks to their emptiness
Peace be upon you,Alessia. I appreciate you so much as a Muslim. Music is haram in islam and most videos have background musics on it but i really appreciate you for not putting unnecessary background musics on your videos!:) and i most definitely appreciate your perfect timing and work you do for us🤎 cannot thank you enough for how much you builded so beautifully my personality as a person,truly by your help i gained so much knowledge and become unrecognizable whenever i follow your advices.🤎If you're reading this i love you beautiful queen!🤎🤎
Been looking at so many related videos these days but here at yours I finally got all my answers! You solved all my doubts. Thank you so much, you are amazing!!! ❤
True guys, I realized this way before that I'm the only child in my family who kind of break the traditions and their rules coz simply I've my own reasons and at some points, I just don't find them meaningful. Now I started to notice how some (cousins) are getting inspired by me lmao and its like they've been waiting for someone to speak up. P.s being the odd one is definitely not for the weaks. The amount of hate I got from my own relatives and friends just by simply choosing what I love to do is insane. But I'm also somehow happy that yes I'm not doing anything wrong, I'm just doing what I love and saving another generation of my family to suffer from all those mentally exhausting things. I'm proud of myself. Thanks for this video. It just boosted up my confidence. I love this!
You have truly changed my life, and I am forever grateful to you. Your aura has changed since the first few videos you’ve made, and I can tell you’ve had even more spiritual growth, and I’ve grown a lot since first watching you. You are like a mentor to me
OH MY GOD, I just thought “if Alessia posted a video right now it would be perfect” and you just did. How can you always appear at the perfect timing EVERY SINGLE TIME?? It’s unbelievable how connected I feel to you. I love you so much beautiful🤍
queen posted❤ could u do next time another video talking about detachment in borderline terms? How do you PERSONALLY dealt with detachment as a borderline person? For me is kinda complicated (I also have a sociopatic diagnosis so every time I know someone I tend to manipulate them without even realizing and they leave me as soon as they recognizing that). It would be interesting seeing how you mature your detachment (I know is not easy, and it takes TIME and TERAPY) but everyone has a different way (as a borderline)
I was the one girl who always quiet and can't do nothing even tho i am annoyed with loud people cz i am afraid of ppl won't like me if i say my opn but this vd make my life changes! Thank you persephonemind, we all say in union
yea ! I am one of them. i don't fit in with those group. i am the one who always speaks up, even though so many people hates me.. but there are so many people who loves me as i am. i am so blessed....
Your videos truly are a sign from god I asked god for a sign and in the same minute not even same minute not even 10 secs later I got a video notification . Maybe it’s finally time to be who I am?
Alessia! everytime I see you, my mind says she is so beautiful but today without eyelashes you are looking incredibly beautiful. More power to you. i love you.
"People only remember you as much as you triggered their emotional responses". God this is so so true.
FRR
THE TIMING???? CRAZY.
Notes for myself
🌸- dont be afraid to stand out
🌸- dont try so hard to fit in
🌸- the polarity effect (there are ppl who will hate me but there are also ppl who will love me for who i am)
🌸- dont be afraid to not be liked by anyone
🌸- give ppl something they cant get anywhere (belonging, acceptance, etc.)
🌸- go after what i want despite what ppl think of
🌸- unforgettable ppl are disciplined
🌸- dont be afraid to get cancelled. Get cancelled.
🌸- change is the only constant
🌸- embracing solitude (dont try to fit in if im not comfortable doing it)
thanks :)
the last part is so real. I've always felt lonely and not belonging with anyone, but this one time I saw somebody saying on the internet "of course you don't fit in, you're custom made" and it just made sense.
THIS.
one thing I realized if you change for the better and people close to you feel uncomfortable with your change, you're doing it right
How so
@@tintedqualia i think what she/he is trying to say is if you change your self like idk attitude looks and people like the way you look or how your attitude is and more and more people develop around you staring and all it makes you feel nervous and uncomfortable😅 idk how to explain
I AM NOT AFRAID OF PEOPLE HATING ME.. I LOVE MYSELF SO MUCH. I LOVE THE WAY I AM..
I LOVE THAT AND I LOVE YOU may you always be happy.
alessia sharing lessons in her human body suit after astral travelling
Girl why r u getting prettier? Like every single video u become much prettier than before
This made me feel so much better. The polarization is so true for me, people either love me or they hate me.
Reall
Mother looks so beautiful ❤
I've always had this kind of insecurity about being "forgettable", so to speak, I even complained "I'm so incredible how come they act so indifferent towards me", anyway I learned a lot in this video, thank you alessia!❤
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
We all then went through it i did it like 2 days ago i been reading self help books on headway. The hardest part is walking away from someone you love and forgiving yourself for your actions. Im being feeling like this for a year. And said when you let the person back in and they up snd leave again.
natural lashes make you look so effortlessly gorgeous girl
The timing is soo right! Thank you so much for this video. I love youuu. ❤️🎀
I love you!!
@@Persephonesmind thank you thank you thank you soo much, cause of your videos things have been so better for me, im soo grateful that I came across you, you gave me the confidence I needed, I'm just so grateful to you. Please keep on making videos, i appreciate everything about you, thank you. I too lovee you soo much.💗🌸
IT'S EXACTLY WHAT I'M ASKING FOR RN
You are defining me. This is exactly how I am. It took a long time because I was a people pleaser but I am totally magnetic now, they either hate me or are obsessed with me. 🔥
im literally so proud of you🤍
@@1hearthv we go, ladies.🔥
Can you please tell me your personal tips as to how did you reach this stage?
mama is sooo beautiful, like a cute villain awww
She's so pretty. It seems like her beauty increases day by day. Her aura is also becoming more and more positive everyday. Love you 💌Ty for this video
the way i was crying and u posted this. the universe rlly knows me when i need help wow
Hope you released everything and you‘re better now 🤍
im so happy to relate to everything u were saying. I was never afraid of standing out and all of my friends, relatives or even people I just met told I was really extravagant and that I easily stand out, that I looked smart and confident. I am proud of being somebody that u can spot easily and proud of being myself. LOVE U ALESSIA. im proud of being unforgettable.
For the individuals who fear being disliked will eventually become slaves to other people's judgement, as a result they end up seeking validation from strangers, which speaks to their emptiness
the way i was crying and u posted this. the universe rlly knows me when i need help
THE TIMING??? YOU SHOWED UP IN MY DREAM TODAY TOO
was my fit hard?
@@Persephonesmind I bet it was haha
@@Persephonesmind YES BAE YOU ALWAYS GET IT RIGHT 💋
"people always want what they can't easily get"
Peace be upon you,Alessia. I appreciate you so much as a Muslim. Music is haram in islam and most videos have background musics on it but i really appreciate you for not putting unnecessary background musics on your videos!:) and i most definitely appreciate your perfect timing and work you do for us🤎 cannot thank you enough for how much you builded so beautifully my personality as a person,truly by your help i gained so much knowledge and become unrecognizable whenever i follow your advices.🤎If you're reading this i love you beautiful queen!🤎🤎
Oh my God, my heart beat so fast when I saw the notification😭💗💗💗💗💗
your our light when we feel darkness in our journey✨️Thanks Dear
I was listening song called "unforgettable" loll
Been looking at so many related videos these days but here at yours I finally got all my answers! You solved all my doubts. Thank you so much, you are amazing!!! ❤
True guys, I realized this way before that I'm the only child in my family who kind of break the traditions and their rules coz simply I've my own reasons and at some points, I just don't find them meaningful. Now I started to notice how some (cousins) are getting inspired by me lmao and its like they've been waiting for someone to speak up. P.s being the odd one is definitely not for the weaks. The amount of hate I got from my own relatives and friends just by simply choosing what I love to do is insane. But I'm also somehow happy that yes I'm not doing anything wrong, I'm just doing what I love and saving another generation of my family to suffer from all those mentally exhausting things. I'm proud of myself. Thanks for this video. It just boosted up my confidence. I love this!
PERFECT FOR BACK TO SCHOOLLL
Alessia I feel so proud of you
Great video! Also I love that you started using less face filters, you are so so so beautiful ❤
I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS SM!!!
Omg tysm Alessia 💕You’re my favorite UA-camr
You have truly changed my life, and I am forever grateful to you. Your aura has changed since the first few videos you’ve made, and I can tell you’ve had even more spiritual growth, and I’ve grown a lot since first watching you. You are like a mentor to me
When you show people the thing that they don't have . They'll love or hate you.
OH MY GOD, I just thought “if Alessia posted a video right now it would be perfect” and you just did. How can you always appear at the perfect timing EVERY SINGLE TIME?? It’s unbelievable how connected I feel to you. I love you so much beautiful🤍
You manifested it, I love YOU! 🥹🤍
Mother always knows when to post ❤❤❤❤
You look so gorgeous I’m in awe
DON'T BE AFRAID OF GETTING CANCELLED🎀💅
Video about social anxiety please 😢😢🥺🥺🥺🥺❤❤❤❤
You look so beautiful against that pale pink ❄️
Thank you for the guidance 🪽
queen posted❤ could u do next time another video talking about detachment in borderline terms? How do you PERSONALLY dealt with detachment as a borderline person? For me is kinda complicated (I also have a sociopatic diagnosis so every time I know someone I tend to manipulate them without even realizing and they leave me as soon as they recognizing that). It would be interesting seeing how you mature your detachment (I know is not easy, and it takes TIME and TERAPY) but everyone has a different way (as a borderline)
I was the one girl who always quiet and can't do nothing even tho i am annoyed with loud people cz i am afraid of ppl won't like me if i say my opn but this vd make my life changes! Thank you persephonemind, we all say in union
yea ! I am one of them. i don't fit in with those group. i am the one who always speaks up, even though so many people hates me.. but there are so many people who loves me as i am. i am so blessed....
i absolutely love this omg thank you soooo much for this!
Perfect timing omg🤍
Timing!!! Needed this one😭
Your videos truly are a sign from god
I asked god for a sign and in the same minute not even same minute not even 10 secs later I got a video notification .
Maybe it’s finally time to be who I am?
thank u so much love, your videos are such high quality
Love your videos so much !! You say a lot of thing that i’ve always thought ❤
This video is a gem literal gem
the timing is insane. literally.
I love what you did to your hair it looks amazing
Always on point
Your hair look amazing girly❤️❤️❤️
I will dye it blonde next month…. Never let them know your next move (but I let you know 😎🙏🏼)
@@Persephonesmindomg can’t wait to see it!! But seriously you look stunning in every hair colour 💕💕
Omg the timing of your videos are perfect whatt 😭❤❤
ngl this moved me, thank you ❤
Absolutely stunning, and such a great topic to talk about!
YOU CAN READ MY MINDDDDDD!!! 😭✨💖
I was searching for a video to watch. And in that minute Alessia sent that she uploaded
Alessia,I love your hair!🤎
i just woke up and ofc this vid is here when i need it omg
Thank you Alessia Ma'am. I really needed to hear this, Just know that I'm so grateful to you for teaching me. I love you💓
This is really inspiring ❤
Persephone!! Pls tell me what type of highlights you did to your hair, so gorgeous gurl
I asked for medium brown highlights/bayalage
I was just thinking that why they always label my opinions as overthinking, i have valid points to say what I'm rationally thinking.
I am so happy i found you.i feel so much better bcause im going to high school next year😅
I found you 3 days ago and I’m loving your content girllll 🎉❤
your like my online older sister that i never had
You look so pretty in new hair! 🔥🌹✨
Alessia could you also upload your videos also as podcasts? So I could listen to them outside? Your voice and words help me calm my anxiety
Very valuable ,thank you
Hey queen !!! Tons of love from the deep of my heart!! love u 💋💕
Your videos cure me. Keep going.❤
I really love her I hope her good day
Tymss for always being with for us!!😭
Sending blessings ❤🙏
This was just so perfect 😮❤
Im Rania a new subcriber from Algeria you changed my life thank you ❤
"Thank you alessia" we all say in unison
You’re only spitting fax and you’re gorgeous girl ❤
i mean if making me the villain makes her feel better do it , lol
ur validity depends on degrading me when ion even care about em 😂😭 boohoo
Never wanted to fit in, never will. 😂❤
You are the best . Thank you sweetheart 👑
Should I focus on the beauty of the queen or the video? Mashallah, my beauty🥹✨️🎀
You know it's a good day when your insta notification says, "New videooo💋"
That haircolour suit you Mashallah ❤
mom wake up alessia just posted 🎀
Needed this so much❤
off topic but can you do a makeup tutorial??? i’ve seen your makeup in your other videos and it looks so good!!
I live in hostel and phone is not allowed there 😢😭 ( in India) and I watch ur at holidays!!!god 😭 11:04
Girl where are you studying 😭... I can relate to ..I have faced the same thing
Alessia! everytime I see you, my mind says she is so beautiful but today without eyelashes you are looking incredibly beautiful. More power to you. i love you.
Thank you my dear, I love you!!♥️
BABE UR SO PRETTY 🙁🙁💞💞💞💞💞
I love youu thank you so much ❤️
THANK YOU FOR EXISTING
OMG! Loved it seriously -
omg that wasso deep and true..
THE TIMING😭😭😭