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- When The Plans Of The Narcissist And New Supply Fail Hard.
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In 2018, when I was discarded, I cried for an entire year every single day.
I was depressed and stayed home, locked in my room, fully isolated.
I thought I'd lost the last man I was ever going to be with. I saw a future with him and I wanted to be married to him desperately!!!
Somehow, I healed. I took 2019 and 2020 to heal. In 2021, the NS reached out to me.
She confirmed to me what I'd already known. That he abused her and thrashed her.
In that moment, I knew, God was telling me, IT WAS NEVER YOUR FAULT !
My deliverance was complete from that demon in 2021 after that phone call.
All glory to the Lord Jesus.
When they try to return, never accept them back.
Access denied forever 👍
Facts
Amen 100% it's a joke and they're laughing at you inside if you do
After you reject them at that point, they will scream!
Neverrr
Hindsight is definitely 20/20. You can't fix the past. It's not your fault. Whoever thought that there are people that can't love?
Right Lisa? Hindsight is Eagle vision!
It’s really shocking now I see how serial killers can do what they do it hard to understand wow
"This [new supply] is PERFECT for ME, I'm sooo happy"... LOL, yeah if I had a nickle every time I heard that one. They just love to put it in your face when their latest scams and piracy seem to be going their way, but when the storm clouds of their self-sabotage and karma come rolling in they will be raging in silence and shame
All you have to do is smirk and say good! Best of luck to both of you!…. And focus on yourself go on a nice vacation and realize you just dodged a massive bullet. It’s better to figure this out now than 1 day later.
@karmic-brands
😂😂😂 That is SO TRUE… They brag and boast when they think things are going great, but they hide in shame and embarrassment when it fails like all the other failures.
It’s all comical how they then have to continue lying and then lie about lying about the lies they lied about 🤭😆🤦♂️
The new supply will always fail them. They're looking to people instead of God. And I truly wonder if narcissists can even look to God, since theyre "perfect" already and the problem is in everyone else
Always 100%
They can’t
They are their own God - but it’s a fake self.
God God God. Drop it there's no God lady.
@danielmulcahi6327
If GOD wasn’t REAL, it wouldn’t trigger you. Do you get this emotional about Santa Claus?
That sinful spirit inside of you gets angry at the mention of GOD because God is real and that demonic spirit triggered in you knows it.
Men seem to fall for what they see and women fall for what they hear.
I fell for what I heard.
I fell for what I was led to believe.
🎯 wisdom 🕊❤️🙏
This is happening to me now, today, in real time. Everyday is more painful than the day before. It's like she has become a completely different person.
To the people that think all hope is lost Like Dave says It's not lost you are worthy you are loved the way out is turning to A merciful God who sees what you have been through and he will help you and heal you I speak from what I know sendibg you 🙏 ❤ ❤
As my therapist says, “most narcs don’t have an alcohol problem, they have an emotion problem’ -
They’re not able to self-regulate their emotions so they look outside of themselves for assistance. That explains what Dave said in another video about how we can never have a bad day or get sick in these type of situationships…
We’re expected to be their emotional barometers.
The people they are around aren't normal.
This is exactly why my ex will get nothing but silence and absence from me. I will never talk to her or see he ever again. They will not change and they only want to remain in contact to have power over you. My ex hoovered several times by trying to make indirect small talk. I left the message unread and deleted it. She is blocked on everything along with anyone shes knows that I'm aware of. Theres billions of people on this planet, find someone new.
I wish I could go full no contact with mine, but we have kids together. But since I figured her out, and have been "grey rocking" I can tell its driving her insane. Shouldnt have discarded me like I was nothing after 9 years and 2 kids. Never again will she have power over me. Just hope she doesnt start the smear campaign once she gets out of rehab again, I think the rehab environment is her new "supply, because I'm sure she's playing victim and being coddled by her girl friends there, we talked on phone like 2 months ago and could hear them walking by like "love you you're so pretty/beautiful". So once she had all that affection from rehab environment she discarded me like nothing. Left me crying on the floor trying to figure it all out. And now I have figured it out and I'm all set!
Remember that the way they are at the end is who and how they really are, and that is why it is so shocking, like you are talking to a stranger and nothing meant anything….and it didn’t.
Yes, and It takes radical acceptance to digest this unwanted truth to move on
YES. Nothing is real and everything meant nothing except to us SANE ones.
Omg! I remember the utter "shock" of it all. 😮
@@Healinglove Just so horrible, like you never meant anything to them at all.
@@RelaxRestoreReleaseRestart , I didn't mean anything to IT, it was a whole lie, the marriage, the relationship, future faking, ALLLLL of it. 9 year's with a pathological liar.
After being in a narcissistic abusive relationship for nearly 4 years, I just hit a point where I got tired of being neglected and I just completely shut off, I became so indifferent that I guess I wasn't good supply anymore. After the final discard, I maybe kept her unblocked for around a few weeks, and finally blocked her for good. It's been around 2 months since I've heard her voice and like 3-4 weeks of complete no contact, and it's wonderful. Now when I self reflect on it, I cannot believe I had standards so low, and allowed all of that to happen. I was lucky enough to have seen glimpses of her negligence while I was with her, so I didn't get married to her or have any children thankfully. For those that do, I understand it would be a lot more difficult, the answer is definitely go no contact if it's possible for your situation, it's only hard initially, believe me, you will eventually not even think about them, you'll just think healthy thoughts for YOU.
This is the samething that I did , that time u say enough is enough.
This is the samething that I did , that time u say enough is enough.
I had exactly the same. I became cold. Started questioning everything without talking. Became silent. I emotionally detached. And than they betrayed me.
Everything is backwards and works opposite.
Everything they say is turned around.
Never look back. Don’t follow them on social media. Don’t ask mutual acquaintances what’s happening.
It never ends well for narcissists but they will present an image of being happy which will upset you.
“No contact “ means no contact.
I had an argument with my ex Narc and she suddenly rose from a lying down position to a standing position without using any of her limbs to propel her up. It was like watching a possessed demon.
I believe you. I saw some scary stuff, too. I thought exorcism is humbug, but now I start to believe it could be a necessary weapon.
i séen the my ex narc shouting at me and scared as if i was gonna attack her after arguing and then all of a sudden she fainted and then got up after i put water on her and then all of a sudden she spoke to me perfectly normal like nothing happened its crazy these narcs are demon possessed
My ex bf is beside himself because I’ve gone no contact. The stories from that relationship are unreal. He even chased me to my car with a honey baked ham. He was in his robe. I only imagine the neighbors were talking. Crazy stuff! I’m fully ignoring texts and calls. His messages go from I love and I miss you to f you! I fing hate you. Still he’s getting zero response from me.
Definitely are all possessed. My Ex narc hears voices, that was his last night inside my home. ⛔️📵
By the time I was discarded two months ago, she hadn't been calling me by name for two months... Couldn't even look me in the eye 😢😔
The most chilling experience I've ever felt...
The stonewalling is the worst ..
@@G-Sagittastellium It was unbelievable ... Totally the worst
That's par for the course, they need a villain
That’s horrible
The contempt is something else
when i discarded ...they did a whole 360, even in the hoover calls- he couldnt even say my name i was referred to "hey"..hey pick up, hey dont do this, hey please i need your help, i need you (my favorite lol) oh and i got one, hey ...you can toss your self...... then 2 weeks later i got a request to 'track my whereabouts" ?
The discard is your biggest COMPLIMENT!
take it and RUN!
Edit : When I heard you say " the new supply is laughing on the boat while you're dying in the ocean " 😂😂😂 How do you relay the truth with such humour ?
And "It might be too soon to come back with an air tank for you." LOL.
No, I can’t forget what I saw-
His backup supply was waiting in the wings, and was engaged to her within months. Lol! He never deserved me.
True, Dave. The way you describe a narcissist, is like a "marionette" like you'd see at the circus, with Satan pulling their strings. Or a wooden dummy sitting on a ventriloquist's lap. And that ventriloquist happens to be the devil incarnate.
An empty meat suit controlled by evil. Evil is the spiritual locomotion that keeps them running.
Lol Michael!
I looked at the narc, like Pinnochio going to Pleasure Island...... he ended up a jackass he haw!
There's a lot of debate over whether or not demons and narcs are one and the same. They aren't..but, they ARE being oppressed by outside forces and there's NO question about that! It's DEFINITELY evil and at the end of the day, there's really only two kinds of people: good or evil. It's THAT simple..and, while I relied on my Lord, she relied on my money! Money is the 'preferred lower case 'g' of the narc..
😂😅 Dave you make me laugh I have been out 7 months he left had new supply at his job I suspected it I told him if I find out he was sleeping with her I'm done never looking back. One month later he punched me in my face on my birthday he finally left a month later and was living with the Co worker who knew we been together for 15 years of helll!!! I still have hard days but I'm free of the 3 hour tour!!! Thank you Dave❤
🕊❤️🙏
They need warm bodies because they are cold like reptiles
They are LIARS AND leeches.
Inside and out!
@@P4Eight it's funny I just realized my ex favorite pet animal was a chameleon
Oh my goodness ! That true self absolutely comes pouring out when they're drunk!! It's quiet the scene , the things they say... wow it's truly unreal , you're just standing there like who the heck are you ? What are you
Dave I love the Gillian’s Island reference 😂! & True most people will walk right by homeless people etc. I work with homeless / addiction/ mental health , and I’ve also been homeless. & Yes their true colors really come out when they’re drinking ! Thank you for your continued support and your validating, encouraging content. ❤️🙏☕️☕️
lol, thanks!
Some of those "homeless" have better morals and ethics, than a lot of these narcissistic leaders and successful people, who helped to stack the deck, so to speak, that put these people where they are. A lot of these homeless were used by their own family members, then abandoned in their time of need.
Its scary how quick their personality comes out! I always just assumed she was a mean drunk
Dave thank you for posting this, I’ve been listening to you for almost a year. Your videos have helped me to finally understand what I’m dealing with. Been with my covert narc since I was 16. He has really done a number on me for sure, now I’m 45 and finally after all these years realizing he will never change is shattering. I’m completely broken and trying to fight my way out of this loveless marriage. It’s been nothing but disappointments and lies. Complete shock and shame these last few years. You are such an inspiration Dave! God bless you!
God Bless You Summer
I met my ex at 14. Married till I was 40. I'm 46 now. Me ex has gotten worse. Very much life changing experience. I love my life. I love God the father.
@summerhomez9845 I can empathize. I have been with a narc for 35 years 💔 The mask finally dropped and it's humiliating to realize that I was in love with an emotional con artist. Stay close to God and He will strengthen you and give you wisdom. I am on my way to the other side of this. I'm not there yet but even the journey is better than daily interactions with the narc. God bless you 🙏🏻🤗🙏🏻
My husband of thirty years met a woman on the internet, spent all our retirement fund, borrowed on the house until it was in foreclosure & quit paying for all bills months before he left. Then he lied about how much money he made so the court awarded him spousal support against my child support. He kept fighting me in court to get custody of our son. At this point I went commando no contact & revealed to the court the decades of physical abuse I had suffered. He keeps lying to this day about that horrible fact. Now he is alone with heart disease from alcoholism & the girlfriend is in prison for felony drunk driving. Oh and I have the house which is worth quite a bit.
Same here. Still waiting for a fair court trial. Though I am not too hopeful as he always plays the victim role "poor sick man in the wheelchair". Since 9 years he has a deadly desease, with an average survival rate of 2-3 years. He is so evil that even satan does not want him.
The Narcissist will also follow you around on Social Media. Under different aliases on messenger. "Ignore them!!!"
How can you tell if the narc is following you on social media???
More common than we care to admit.
Yes, the devil shows up for the date.🥂 They are low grade-to the max
I dated a narcissist she was involved in witchcraft and yoga through the years she married a producer now it's somewhat else problem for me I ran far away I'm amazed how God takes care of his sheep praise the lord Jesus Christ
AGAIN, my friend..you've hit the nail on the head and right on time! I think I mentioned it about the attempted "hoovering" on Friday - right after you mentioned the "Friday thing" in another video. I KNEW it was coming and I have NO intentions of 'caving' to this. Not my problem anymore. He wanted to sleep with my girlfriend so..now, he's stuck with her - or not. Don't care just as long as it ain't me! I KNEW there wasn't gonna be another schmuck with this patience! Everybody else is smarter than I am and I can't count how many times I've even told her that..that "no other guy is gonna put up with your bullshit!" Now, she knows I was right and..now, it's too late. For once, I'm enjoying myself..
15 years married, left for the potential new supply who he believed didn’t want to date a married man. Turned out she wasn’t interested in him at all. This was 30 years ago. He has never had any significant relationship. I went no contact and never looked back
Definitely blessings to you brother. How many toxic relationships will somebody with a True Heart put up with until they know they've got to heal with inside? It's evil toxic people are very good at what they do. You aren't the first and you won't be the last of their evil. Distance yourself and stay close to the Lord and your own life protect what is good.
All I can say is wow!!! From the cuteness of the drinking Jekyll and Hyde to going to the bathroom behind the dumpster, to the three hour tour. Thanks for making me laugh but sadly it’s all true!
Right?!
That was a very good analogy.
Every time I watch Night of the Living Dead, and see the graveyard scene when John and Barbara go to place a wreath on their dad's grave, and they're kidding around: "They're coming to get you, Barbara!" I think of a narcissist.
An evil, living dead meat suit, coming for all of us eventually, especially if we have anything to offer. We are like a public utility to them, like a power company, or the gas company, or the city water department, supplying them for as long as we have that supply to give.
But when we get sick, or can no longer supply their need, or we happen to go "belly up", they're done with us. They throw us away like an old retread tire that's blown out.
He wanted to make me jealous with the younger new supply. Her words was his not difficult to love, he just met the wrong ones.bless them
In this situation as we speak She thinks she's better
This happened to me I was SO DOWN and a *knock knock* at the door, welcomed most recently was me stupidly and depressed accepting a bible study with Jehovah's Witnesses .. now I know what spiritual narcissism is and need to make a quiet exit. The hypocrisy is ASTOUNDING. It seemed so good at the start but I can't unsee what I've seen, I cannot unhear what I've heard and I cannot stand the organization, delusional AF. It is bad, real bad. The pride and narcissism is a prereq once you're past the love bombing. The "Be one of us" mentality made me cringe. The gossiping... I cannot unhear what I've heard.
I didnt even watch the whole video and spot on! DAVE!! .. this video was made for me!!
No doubt!
@@janettheresamagorian9494 hi Janet, this is my personal experience. In their Enjoy Life Forever training manual, once it gets to section 2 and into section 3 and 4 really got me thinking about mental conditioning, and cognitive dissonance, but they will call it "Putting on the new personality", being a faithful slave to God's organization and having undivided Love for Jehovah. My mom is a baptized JW and shoved the "How to make real friends" JW movie at me when I was crying to her about my narc ex and how I was feeling. And said "YOU NEED TO LEARN HOW TO MAKE REAL FRIENDS!" so I took a Bible study with her friend after she knocked on the door for field service, she was just wanting to fill hours 30 hours a month now moved down to 15 hours. How kind and compassionate the love bombing stage was with my Bible study teacher until I realized she's not even listening to me, schizophrenia runs in her family and I can see how it's affecting her and her ability to be a mother and a nice person because she's going mentally unchecked just using her faith as a medical and mental crutch. I went to a couple suppers at her house and seeing how she treats her daughter made me sick(home schooled, bribed with money, no real experience in friendships, saying she will kick her out at 15 if she chooses to leave the faith etc) she's married to an elder also. Hearing how cruel she is to "worldly people" either behind their backs, or to their face and refuses to apologize to not make herself look in the wrong. Then it got me thinking and digging deeper, how is this the True religion, and looking for answers on where contribution money goes a lot that's going to settle sexual abuse lawsuits and used as hush money, the Governing Body and how delusional they are, how they really see people and how they choose the "anointed ones", their talks for Jesus Memorial etc. These are not my kind of people. I also started taking note in my body how stressed I was and cruel to myself about needing to fit their cookie cutter description of a faithful slave to Jehovah and I started breaking out again(same as with my ex narc boyfriend except not this badly) around my hairline and on my back. I noticed other women have a lot of cystic acne in the congregation I was attending too and at a supper how a father of one of them talks to and about people.
Then I have a lot of tattoos and my Bible study teacher texted after I declined accepting clothes her daughter grew out of because they would show my forearms "oh that sucks, tattoos are terrible to try and dress up, we're not judging you though!" And give me the Leviticus scripture. It's a no for me. I tried when I was 15ish to study with them then to please my mom and wasn't going to drop all of my worldly friends in high-school back then, so I thought at 31 try it again and no, I won't be fitting in stress free and don't want to be a "be one of us" type of person. I'll continue to let God see me through the lense of his son Jesus Christ's blood and learn about the Heavenly Father's true love and compassion. I am however going to the memorial on the 4th, only so they won't start treating my mother like crud beneath their shoe and that's it. I could go on and on but that's in short how my experience went with them.
Hope you learn the Bible the wittness are the truth
@@juliedaly2381 no they absolutely are not. They mental condition, indoctrinate false pseudo truths, they're deceptive, love bombers and lost. The Watchtower Society is cooked. They protect pedophiles, coddle their abusers and shame the abused. There is no free thought and no love to be found in any Kingdom Hall or Bethel. They're fake and wear a mask (the new personality)
I had to watch this again. Our marriage was planned so he could steal money from me and split w/new supply.
When he started dressing up and leaving, not answering my calls , getting test testrone shots and gaslighting me I thought I was going crazy. No protector anymore. He was no one I knew and loved.
This man dropped a straight Gem! 💎 words delivered with no sugarcoat! 100 raw 💪
Excellent video as always Dave. The analogy about them just floating up to the surface and instantly forgetting about you is spot-on! It actually gave me chills because that is truly what it felt like. You go from hero to zero in the blink of an eye. I don't think everyone in the world is heartless when it comes to not stopping to help others. I actually just watched a show last week called "I Survived", and a really empathic couple stopped to help a would-be "troubled motorists" and he tried to murder them but luckily they both survived, only to say they would never feel comfortable helping a stranger like that again. It's sad to think that a lot of us can't even help people who really need it because we are afraid of being victims ourselves, and it happened to me years ago, too. I actually pulled over to the side of my alley to let a bicyclist pass so I wouldn't hit him and he must have been watching me pulling into my garage because he attacked me and stole my purse and threatened to kill me. I didn't even know if he had a weapon or not, because he had my head push down with something pressed against my throat, but at the time it all happened so quickly... you just never know.
Hitting Home more & more !
So glad to help
You amazing bro - God Bless You †††
My energy felt so drain or I felt tired and felt like I was walking on eggshells
Interesting that you mentioned their demeanor when they consume alcohol, Dave. I have a story for you.
I invited him to celebrate New Year's eve in 2017 going 2018 with my family.
He and my dad, they start drinking liquor.
My dad is cool. He starts falling all over the place. He could barely walk !
We decided to drop him off at the hotel on our way back . Guess what he does on our way home in the car ?
He tries to kiss my mom. On the lips.
😂😂😂
He was sexually attracted to my mom. Does this in front of me.
My mom is mixed race and very beautiful.
And he's always told me he liked mixed race women. Yeah , got my answer there.
So good Dave ❤ I cannot believe that it's been almost 4 years since I first found your videos...He's been gone over 3 years now...mind blowing 🤯 I quit using the word discarded, because that's what happens to trash..I'm not trash..I thank God every day for opening my eyes and tossing him out..and for finding your videos Dave...it's been quite a while since I've viewed...needed to see if you were still helping people Dave.. God Bless you Dave...he got married to the supply he left for and just passed of cancer 3 months ago
My 1st ex narc just triangulated my son who is getting married. He is now not talking to me! The wedding is 2 months away, so sad.
Love my son but he believes his dad.
I'm sorry you're going through that, that really hurts. 🤗❤️🙏
Happy Saturday Dave! Always thrilled to see you and hear what you have to say!
Happy Saturday Janee! I appreciate that
To flip the script, start celebrating the fact you were discarded by a narc. I mean well done you, you were proven to be unevenly yoked with a devil, good for you! What a happy time
This is the best explanation I have ever heard of a narc discard!! I am going through this right now, pure hell!! The cruelty is demonic!!!
The new supply sometimes thinks “it’s going to be different with me, im different and our relationship is different” They are the narcs minion there to humiliate the primary enough to make them compete. The narc makes the new supply think that he’s leaving for good but NEVER DOES. That’s the joke 😂
Yes!! You Can Make This!! 🙌❤✝️
This channel is a spiritual ministry. No other channel touches the topic of narcissism from a Christian/Biblical viewpoint. This truly is spiritual warfare. I never thought this type of people existed until I met one. The devalue and discard phases were brutal. In my case the love bombing lasted years, but mixed with red flags. She showed absolutely no empathy towards me and one of her last messages before she blocked me was "God bless you".
We need a new one of these please.
My soulmate and wife for 24 years turned into a fking craigslist roommate
She was dining at the Y
I called her a lesbian adultress
She tossed me like a candy wrapper
The new supply is 100% a downgrade. Been there, done it, bought the T-shirt.
Whoa 😳 man good point on the empathy thing
Not caring when we’re sick or vulnerable, I haven’t seen that point anywhere with all the UA-camrs 👍
Thanks 🙏
It's true what you say, they're ugly side comes out with drink.🚩😏
Or, cocaine and crack 😢
This is all true teaching. You will reach light at end of a dark tunnel. Keep seeking God. He will make you well. I'm better than I ever was. Free from evil grip.
After my whole life being abused by narcissists, I have felt Iike I was in the Twilight Zone!!! But God has finally given me the courage to Go No Contact to 4 to 5 of them, and not go back!! Thank you Jesus!!!
I prayed for the answers why my ex narc was such a cold, heartless parasite, and God lead me to all the answers. Feels so good to know it wasnt me and I'm not crazy, and I was enough just not for her because nothing will ever be enough for her.
@@HorizonHipHop Amen Horizon🙏 God was strengthening 💪us thru all the abuse.👺 Were still here!!"Take that you unloving, demons, in empty meat suits. And once God helps us to leave, you'll look for us in everyone you'll see, but you'll steal never find us. Were going to find out what it takes to do something nice for our selves for once
@@Rose-dl6xg 💪 they cant beat humans with actual hearts
43 years and then he left me and over night he changed
Don't know what goes on that empty black hole. Enjoy your life now.
Like it was nothing yes...
@@Narcologyunscripted
Exactly
"Drunken speech are Sober thought's"
🤭👎😔Totally can relate‼️, my narcissist never ever took care of me when I was sick, I even would have to drive myself to the emergency room. If I got sick on a vacation which I usually did because I worked myself to death and got absolutely no sleep, and then I would get sick. He told me that I planned on being sick and that I will have to pay the clinic bill for diagnosis of pneumonia or strep throat, with my Christmas money that I got as gifts. He would have me and get our kids ready as he left me at my parents house and my mom would help me or would get my kids ready when he decided to come back and pick them up and bring them over to his parents house, during our vacation. Oh, what sweet memories. LOL
The devil showing up after a couple drinks is so true. I had never seen that before. It showed me that there is a deep darkness within her.
Thank you very much. This reached my heart!
I am so glad!
Another Great Video 🕯️
Blessings Sir 🙏🏽
Thank you for going this in depth so we can understand better 🙏
There's a double vision in life it's only a One-Shot once they destroy you they turn to others but if you survive them and you keep on going your survival is what they didn't expect now they can't get away with any other abuse then you will be a seared burning memory in their sight and hearts you are above them and you will not be destroyed
The narc ran off dumped his 3 kids and myself, and remarried, the new victim doesn't trust him she's always keeping tabs on him and she is very controlling.
I bet she’s a downgrade too
Hi Dave, Cheers to you (I’m sipping Chai Tea ☕️:) First, Thank you for your heart & willingness to share wisdom re: narcs.
Excellent Analogy about how they leave you w/o a lifeline- in my case, Add to That being Abandoned suddenly & left w/ 5 School -age kiddos. NOW, that Those “ kids” are ALL Successful young Adults, Suddenly the former in laws (Outlaws, to me😉) Try to come
Around as if All is Well when they’re Actually Estranged. If it’s any consolation, it doesn’t end well for people w/ this dysfunction:
My parent who was extremely Attractive & Played the field ALL Their married Life ended up blind & bed-ridden, drinking themselves into an oblivion. They recently passed away & all I could do was Hope they accepted Christ as their Lord & Savior.
Again, Thank you for using your platform to help give Hope to those who don’t know What they’re yoked up w/ & encouragement to those of us who Escaped❤ Continued Blessings to you😇
Thank you
The new supply is prob a narc too. It’s disgusting.
Especially if you were married or engaged to the narc, and the new supply knew it. Sick cowardly covetous scumbags who don't have the stones to look you in the eye. Oh well, we're free and enlightened now might as well celebrate🎉
Dave you are on 🔥 just now! 👌🏼
BLESSINGS AND THANK YOU!
The drinking.. I would have complete strangers to me telling me how they couldn't stand my ex. He was in the military and when they were some military function where there was alcohol when it was a casual setting, he would drink and just make a fool out of himself and me. One time in particular I remember a Norwegian sailor that was at the same base in the same Squadron for training and therefore was at the same function, he made it abundantly clear how much he couldn't stand my husband. When the night ended, and people were trying to help load him into my car, that Norwegian guy did not understand why I was with who I was with. One of many times. I wasn't looking for anybody I just wanted a husband who truly loves me.
All my friends disliked my narc ex, she even messaged a few and threatened them. I wasnt allowed to have friends. And she became a nasty alcoholic too, i think they drink to self medicate their NPD because they're miserable parasites.
@@HorizonHipHop They do a never-ending list of impossible to understand things that they do. I don't want to understand I tried for a long time and allowed myself to be manipulated by him and to be intimidated by him but even after I was through with him I had difficulty. I attracted just the same type of people but in a different type of way. I realize that it is much to do with me and especially at vulnerable points of my life and my awful habit of trying to make whoever I'm with happy and would in turn, in my eyes hopefully make me happy or at least temporarily. It is a miserable existence and they will suck the very life right out of you. I have to stay pretty prayed up and have kept to myself for quite a long time. I am just going to let the Lord take care of any needs that I might have for the future.
I had a dream of drowning in the water. And I was staring up to the sky.. God. While the narc was sitting in a chair smirking at my predicament
So...Many years ago I had this dream about my ex. In the dream, we were stranded in the middle of the ocean (vastness) on a big, huge, navy ship, like an airplane carrier, nobody else on board, no crew, no other people, just us. The backstory (in real life) is we homesteaded almost 60 acres of land in a very rural area for many years raising a family. Over the years, he would go and be gone for days, weeks, sometimes months, and I would 'keep the home-fires burning' with four young children in tow. This was before the days of cell phones, and communication was spotty at best. I was well acquainted with being alone in a remote area, and loneliness, which eventually became my solitude, and I was OK with it. In the dream, a helicopter comes and lands on the ship. We are standing there together, the helicopter lands and he runs to it. For some reason I In the dream, I am rooted to the ground and I cannot move from the spot I'm standing in. He gets into the helicopter..and flies away. Not a wave, not a backward glance, laughing and joking with the people on the helicopter and just...flies away. I remember in the dream, just standing there looking at the vastness of my surroundings and being completely alone on this huge ship in the middle of the ocean, (nowhere) and the feeling of being completely alone, was overwhelming. I looked up at the sky...and the sun was shining...and I knew God was there even if he wasn't anymore. The Great I AM would be there with me and never leave or forsake me...Never abandon me like he did...The next thought... just before I woke up: I wonder if there is any fuel in this thing? Hmmm...I wonder if I could sail this thing: I wonder where is the engine room? Hmm...I can try can't I? Who's going to yell at me and say I'm doing it wrong.? I bet I could start this thing up, and figure out how to run it. I mean, I'm in the middle of the ocean, right? Hmmm I bet there are provisions for a crew on this ship...I bet there are. I bet I have everything I need to survive for this next little while...if I just go look...you know, something to do while I figure this out. You know, I always said I liked adventure. Well, here it is! My mother taught me, and she taught me well, when calamity happens: Take stock. Figure out what YOU have to do to survive. As soon as you start finding the things you need for survival (and you will). Next thing you know you're sailing a navy ocean liner through the vast ocean like butter, leaving a huge wake of froth behind you, having the time of your life. Flip the script.
Can't stop whistling Gilligan now. Lotta coffee
the discard is a blessing.
Thanks!
Janee you are so kind! God Bless You!!!
@@Narcologyunscripted you too!😇🥰
Perfect
hey brother david , i wrote you mail. Jesus bless you :) high 5 for your work , thank you !
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Hmmm my soon to be ex husband helps a lot of people out but he ditched me when I needed him most. He's shacked up with the secretary at his work but he filed for divorce so I'm sure that pleases his new supply. This is all new to me and I'm in need of healing. I'm not on social media but apparently 5 days after he discarded me,he reactivated his account (according to my attorney). His entire family has ghosted me and my daughter.
So evil 😈 I guess I'm still ruminating that he's gonna actually change for this next thing 🤷♀️ I don't know how to unlove this fake man I've been married to
Alcohol is not only sign of narcisist... its a sign of their victim
You don't have to agree with me... but don't demonise ppl who are weak
Every day, my ex narc drank. There were two people I was dealing with, with the narc…the sober narc, and drunk narc. Eventually, both were horrible! But the peeing behind the dumpster is so accurate. Mine loved to pee behind anything and even openly. It was incredibly disturbing behavior he had, and huge red flags going up constantly, but I turned the other way. You can’t unsee what you see…but your perspective changes when you realize who they really are. Gross and disgusting individuals!
He called me the alcoholic
I did a thought experiment...I listened to this as my ex’s supplier she left for me. I was an equal, if not a better supply, I had less ancillary people and distractions not present my life he had. He handled it like she wanted. He was completely trauma bonded to her, she “feared” him. So she monitored his “blocked” messages ya know just in case. She loved it. I got tired of the fakery and left suddenly. So I’m seeing this from the third point of the triangle..sooooooo gross
My covert narc got soppy when drunk and started grooming people - particularly an employee half his age.
Interesting really as he was full of barely concealed anger, envy and resentment when sober.
Left in middle of ocean ....you get yourself to the surface struggling...then for a min after the shock,you get your breath....then the sharks come and tear you apart while Narc and new supply are looking down while you are picked apart.Those sharks being his flying monkeys.. And let me say not all Narcissist are beautiful...Mine was overweight and not attractive.But I was the fixer you see...I wanted him to see his potential.I was way above his status and appearance.After divorce all said we all were saying why is she w that
Going to the bathroom behind dumpsters is right... it wasnt a rebel without a cause it was just a tradgedy that was waiting to be unfolded. It had no common courtesy at all and had no reason to be a gentleman in front of me because they had their teeth sunk in already in their eyes. Lol! Absolutely ridiculous fiendish behavior on their part.
Thank you❤i discarded me when I discovered him cheating and left without an explanation..not a care..has a new supply😢..i m shocked..he said I was the love of his life..
Exactly, and you forget they and their flying monkeys are laughing as they do it when nothing is funny ever. Sadistic comedienne s in their own minds.
Remember, they are going to have to answer to GOD one day. Stay Strong, Sis❤
The alcohol brings things to a boil fast
Right
The devil shows up literally😢
New accepted them back 🔙
The narcissist is like Mr. Howe. He was willing to even leave his wife stranded on the island.S.M.H. BLEZZ # KEEP DA CHANGE
My ex posted a song called fair trade in the playlist about me.
She left me for a polyamorous woman that has an only fans following she could leech off of. She also gets weed and free photo edits from her too.
However the song lyrics go...
"I can never love her, she a busy body
Baby, if you want me, can't be turnin' up with everybody, nah
Can't be fuckin' on just anybody, yeah
I got feelings for you, that's the thing about it, yeah
You know that, it's somethin' when I sing about it, yeah"
& At the end it goes...
"I don't understand why you blame me
Take me as I am, it's the same me
Senseless sight to see
Senseless sight to see
Up on a mountain (up on a mountain)
Search through the valley (search through the valley)
You hear me calling (you hear me calling)
Won't you come find me? (Won't you come find me?)
Please don't forsake me (please don't forsake me)
All of a sudden (all of a sudden)
My heart is breaking (breaking)
I feel it coming, I, I"
She might not be getting the supply she needs from this new person and is trying to triangulate her with me.
She might be trying to see if she still has me as a back up plan.
She might be trying to get more supply from me because she wants me to chase after her still.
She may be comparing me to the new supply and she probably realized I was a better doormat.
However I am absolutely not allowing her back in. I will make it look like im open to seeing where things go once she goes to therapy for her narcissism. But I won't actually take her back. She belongs to the streets. Cheated on me the entirety of our 1.5 year relationship and is blaming me for it all. That is a huge character flaw I won't tolerate.
What does it mean if the narc bought this huge house did all these things to make me look bad and now just 3 years later he’s renting that same house out?? Sounds like the new supply isn’t working out
My ex quickly moved a new woman into the new house he bought for us because I didn't move in immediately. I decided to visit (out of state) for a while first ...so many weird red flags. After knowing him 😮33 years, he slowly revealed a person I didn't know (evil, transactional relationship, not real love, etc.)
My story is so different!! But it is an interesting story needless to say.
What happened?
Do narcs ever work in groups against 1 target
But do god help the narcs or have mercy or because god see and they are sick people
I didnt recognized him . Two diffrents persons .. scaryyy really. Yes worst thing ever . And without a reason . He ask me to marry him 5 times in 2 years and didnt mean anything i dont even know why he ask me? If he didnt mean it... And after one year call me . I didnt answer him.He stalked me when i wanted to leave him early in the relatishit he broke my window he left me pregnand . And came back like nothing happened . To dissapear again. When he wanted to meet me i say : No