Are You Filled with Anger? Do this... w/ Fr. Gregory Pine, OP
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- So many people are angry today. And, I guess, there's a lot to be angry about. Well, in this video, Fr. Gregory discusses remedies to anger.
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I was about to text a Dominican Priest here in India on how to control anger. I was surprised to see the topic in notification. It’s not a coincidence, but divine providence. (Also learned from Fr. Pine).
And I was told by God my path is through India, and I saw your comment.
Meekness isn’t weakness, it’s power under control.
Meekness is definitely the most underrated virtue. It's SO HARD to be meek and takes so much self control.
then there has to be some underlying virtue God wants us to have by being meek. Trusting that God will take care of it
Dhats the difference between meek and taken advantage of
Great for me, thank you so much. I struggle with anger issues. It used to become violent, slowly improving. God bless you
Praying for you
Wow. Went to confession today. Told the priest how I feel a lot of sadness and anger. Now I see this. MUST WATCH.
Thank you for putting your self out there. I'm always telling people how amazing our priests are. Everyone just remembers the handful of bad ones that got media attention.
I get angry from my childrens outright disobedience mostly when cleaning, and their lack of respect to praying and Mass and their Grandparents. And I am in the process of learning how to temper them in a holy way.
Same here. I'm guessing this is extremely common with fathers.. we are not alone in our search for proper anger management.
@Scott- you are not the only one
I have to also work at this. Your anger stems from fear because you love your kids. I’m terrified of my kids abandoning the faith and also afraid of them clinging to the wickedness of the world instead of clinging to God.
I am always asking Mary and God to protect my kids and not have them make the same stupid mistakes I made as far as leaving the faith, immersed in pop culture, etc.,
You’ve got this!! God bless
I was disturbed by someone who had gone out of his way to support spitting on someone who bought an extravagant purchase at the store. He grew up poor and has a hard time letting others get a leg up on his accomplishments. If only I could tell him how well he’s done and not to be disturbed by those who do more, my prayers are with him.
I didn t understand whose spitting on what
I think you are saying that we should pity those who envy to such a degree!
"I will not say whether or not I like fondue" mans is so mysterious
Honestly I needed this bad this morning. Thank you! 🙏❤️
I'm angry at this video because it created in me an appetite for fondue that I cannot now satiate. J/k. Great video, as always!
Thank you Fr Pine! Would also greatly appreciate if you could speak to situations when I have expressed my anger and hurt calmly but the opposite party deflects and accuses me of having a twisted mind to have felt upset by the situation at all?
Sounds to me that you are worrying too much about what the other person is thinking of you, especially if they turn everything around on you. Just give them a good example and shrug off their limitations. Do you need to be around this person. If you do, sounds like a long term issue. But you can decide today that you can't afford to worry so much, and then leave it in God's hands, if he's got hands. This is from someone who has no qualifications, only a bit of common sense.
This was super helpful! Thank you Fr. Gregory and thank you Matt for having father make this video.
Couldn’t be more needed
Super helpful Fr Pine. A video I’ll recommend to others and wisdom I needed much earlier in life. Better late than never!
Lord Jesus Christ, unite us through Your Love. Help me, help us, to love as You Love.
Thank you very much
Thanks Fr. Pine that was helpful
This is the third time I have restarted and actually finished listening to this podcast.
Fr Gregory you "nailed it"!
Well explained, even if anger is a part of our human nature!
Maybe try the raclette from the Café du Midi.😉
"Ps 37:8 Refrain from anger and forsake wrath. Fret not yourself it leads only to evil."
With blessings and prayers
🙏🙌🙏🙌🙏
Thank you for this video I’ve struggled with anger for years
There is only one emotion, love and everything else is reacting to its loss.
I like the idea of not burying anger but reasoning things out, and probably making more allowances for the fact that we are all in a learning process at different levels. Trying to block out thoughts can make them even more of an issue, so perhaps play things down by simply caring that people suffer for their own shortcomings, and we know our own. I get angry interruptions in myself, then I think 'where's the gain in this.' I hope that over time angry thoughts won't be automatic, but fazed out for the want of peace in myeself, and as an example for others.
No God is all powerful there shouldn’t be suffer I want what I want now I waited enough
i am vey grateful for this video
This video was so timely to me, I'm dealing with anger for some time and it's very difficult, thank you, Father!
Wow, thank you!
Thank you Father. Wonderful words needed so much right now. I have a mouthy teenager who excels at getting my anger up!
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:01 🗣️ Father Gregory Pine is discussing anger and its remedies in this video.
00:15 🌡️ Anger is a prevalent emotion in the 21st century, and many people struggle to handle it effectively.
01:12 ❤️ Passions are basic movements of the sense appetite, including love, desire, delight, hatred, aversion, and sorrow.
03:17 🔥 Anger is a more complex passion related to injustice that motivates us to seek vindication when we've been wronged.
07:01 👍 It's important to recognize that anger itself is not inherently good or evil; its morality depends on how it's informed by virtue or vice.
08:39 🤐 Working through anger by addressing it openly, seeking resolution, and finding healthy outlets is encouraged.
09:48 🏃♂️ Finding ways to direct and channel your anger toward a just end is a valuable aspect of handling this emotion effectively.
10:29 🌌 The pursuit of justice and vindication ultimately prepares us for a life in heaven where justice attains perfection.
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I struggle with anxiety/ fear for which I take 2 medications to manage it. But the devil sees me weakness and tempts me with anger because of my anxiety. I have to keep a deep interior prayer life along with asking God to grant me patience and humility (several times throughout the day).
Therefore, I can become angry sometimes. I have been reading a lot about overcoming anger as well as watching videos about this topic. They are definitely helping me with this vice.
Making this timeless by saying 'in the year Something'
Oh my. This popped up on my feed as I struggle with anger at a co worker who really offended me. Wow. How lovely!
Thank you, Father! It’s as if you meant this video just for me, since I have been feeling such anger toward our politicians here in the States. I found this extremely helpful, and your presentation both interesting and humorous, and that’s not an easy thing to accomplish. Please keep your videos coming! God bless you!
I'm in the states too. Its so hard to not get angry about the political situation here. I've tried saying a hail mary when I see a political sign that makes me feel anger.
We are here to love. We are here to forgive. We are here to learn.
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@Eyes of mercy
This! 👆👆👆👆👆👆
Thank you Father
Anger is a natural instinct and emotion that's embedded with each human , reflected at the time of a course of settlement , disagreement , offence, injustice and it's common for all beings to express their anger in some or other way yet before being angry we must ask our selves is it useful , gonna help us in the long run or is their a next best action that might suit us , indeed every action has an equal or opposite reaction , if we can fix the issue at our end then we must or the course of settlement must be left to lord , if we are right then we don't have to worry .
"What Do You Do with the Mad that You Feel?" by Mr. Rogers. God bless you, Fr. Gregory😊
Easier said than done but offer up the irritation, it's an 'opportunity to practice ' patience.
@@thomasmc7752 Great point, thank you! God bless.
I pull out weeds in my backyard then I go back inside and see news headlines (not even reading those absurdities) and the anger is back… and then I am angry and tired 😫
Really good n helpful. Clear n succinct. Ty Father.
So good! Thank u father!
I think its important to remember that friars classified evil spirits as hierarchies with Satan as anger , Pride Lucifer , envy etc As most negative emotion is the influence of evil spirits . It blocks your listening to God's spirit a peace and joy surpassing all understanding .
Thank you for this!
How dare you not like fondue Father?! I'm a little angry now. Good thing you addressed it ;)
Just what i needed today!
Just believe that if you get angry through vise not virtue, then this blocks grace given to you by God.
That's enough reason to inhibit anger.
Well said! I’m going to remember this advice
Ah mon Dominicain préféré ! Très bon sujet de discussion qui me concerne personnellement et en particulier mon mari. Je vais lui demander de regarder votre vidéo. Je n'aime pas la fondue savoyarde/suisse non plus ; )
Fr. Pine and Matt, something I wanted to ask you.
I’m a true follower of Pints with Aquinas, which means I’m a Catholic. Hope everyone knows the Catholic Priest Fr. Georges Lemaître who founded the Big Bang theory. Aquinas 101 explains it all clearly. As I have strong reasons for God’s existence based on my personal experiences and of Summa Theologiae, I think instead of looking for the evidence of light (Hubble and JWST look for visible/infrared light), we must look for the existence of the sound waves that existed billions of years ago during/before the Big Bang. Because, the word of God states, in the beginning, was the “word.”
Word is the sound waves by definition.
Any thoughts?
One must also remember that as Christians are required by Jesus to forgive ALL who have sinned or trespassed against us. When I find myself in a spiral of anger, I just go to a prayer of forgiving them, ask that Our Father would grant them the wisdom to not do such a thing again. Givin my anger and need for retribution over to God. As vengence is a personal possession of The Lord and not mine.
does anyone know any good books ( maybe by a catholic author) on Joan of Arc i was listening to Joan of Arc: A Life Transfigured by Kathryn Harrison but im barley 2 chapters in and its way to blasphemous for me
Joan of Arch by G.K Chesterton.
@@elperinasoswa6772 thanks
Apparently Mark Twain wrote a good book about her.
One of the most common of all human failures, and you picked it.
And the enemy is right on top of it, and he is a master of manipulation.
But Jesus said "Wherever two or more of you are gathered in My name
I am there in the midst of them."
It's not OUR doing, it's His promise to us...even if WE'RE the angry ones.
Father, why do you have to be in Switzerland? Can you come and live in the USA? I will pay for you to live here if that’s what it takes.
I am so curious. You never mention the Word of God. It's the absolute best source for any problem. I've noticed that Roman Catholics almost never cite God's Word. Why not? He (the Lord God Almighty) is omniscient after all. I'm not angry by the way, just curious.
He mentioned words by St. Thomas Aquinas, who in turn mentioned the Word of God in every aspect of his thinking, always in alignment to scripture, without getting derailed from it. You can see how these explanations are based on someone who is very profoundly based in scripture. When you want to get treated, you ask a doctor for help, yet it is not your first thought to go into the university's library to read by yourself the medicine books or primary sources of knowledge. Of course, you could do that and read them first hand, but most probably you won't understand every single meaning of what you are reading if you are not a sage in the matter. That's why Catholics tend more to reference exegetes, and be more careful with scripture in order to avoid the chance of citing scripture in a way that doesn't apply to the subject at hand. They do cite the Word of God, just not in every single opportunity.
@FacTor This is such an excellent answer. I've had non-believer acquaintances ask me why I listen to Church rules or priests, bishops, popes. And I'm like, they are much smarter than me and figured out all the theology, and are teaching me about God in a way I can understand.
Less babble more signal sir.
I get really fed up with clergy who think they’re stand up comics. It’s ridiculous and distracting.
Thank you Father
Really good n helpful. Clear n succinct. Ty Father.