This coaching video, without a doubt, is the best of this young lady's Truthful offerings to us men. I commend her on her knowledge, wisdom, and wish I would have seen/heard this many yrs. Ago. I honestly believe that my good friend/Coach Tony Robbins, would agree with me on my comments. Thankyou Ms..Apollonia. I am a fan.
This woman is right in some ways....What is missing? Most young girls, sit on Daddy's Lap and they are told from a very, very young age by their Daddy, " Girls are Sugar and spice and everything nice" Hence, the superior attitude, many young woman have.Most Young men must "Battle" through the indifference shown to them,when they are young..Strong men =Battle....Many entitled woman= Daddy's Girl......
NAH .... you dont ask a fish how to fish genius............... the only reason abudance works is because you dont look desperate. simple as that. women dont know what they want. thats why they hate you one day and love you the other.
@@youtubevideos3963 Truth spoken..abdundant mentality saves a man from being desperate. It makes a man relaxed, happier, fulfilled and let go when she isn't making effort.
She's not "one in a million", she's "one of a million," don't be afraid to be your own man without her. So when you do find her, she appreciates the man you've become on your own.
Let her be "one in a million"... With the world population being 7.8 Billion, (falsely) assuming a 50/50 male / female split and assuming 50 % being of legal age, there's still 1950 more than her even if she was "one in a million". So almost 2000 other "one in a million" available is enough for abundance :D
@@vaughnamir.6457 even though it may not be true, it helps with the mindset to move on easier. instead of sulking and wondering why she reject you like theres something wrong with you, its better to know that you have worth and she missed out on it. this will also help you move on quickly
12:24 Start of Seven Habit to Cultivate Abundance Mindset 01. Shift your brain to positivity 02. Know your standards and take pride for it 03. Practice gratitude on what you have in life 04. Your personal journey is different, stop comparing to others 05. Stop hiding in bubbles, live with purpose and build social momentum 06. Having emotional balance and control with abundance mindset, not scarcity mindset 07. Learn and understand attraction, invest in making yourself better physically, mentally, and emotionally
Thanks for this summary. Though it wasn't a walk in the park, but a testament as i appreciate a lot that I could figure these out on my own when i was still very young. Today, my woman crave me like an addict.
Have an abundance mentality men. That means, stop caring what women want from you because there's always another one that will expect less and still want to be with you.
It's not about NOT CARING, or GIVING LESS unless YOU want less. It's about having abundance enough to know your standards and also appreciating someone who has standards for herself too.
Anthony M I agree with you. The less you care, the more they do. Women DO NOT value men that pursue unless you’re a 10 or rich. Also dating is a numbers game. Men generally have to approach more women since majority of women only give chances to a select few.
Life is a relationship life is a journey a journey is a relationship believe it or not your relationship is more important than the people in the relationship just like the family the family is more important we say God country family or God family country contains you you were God country family you are the relationship plus and minus positive and negative right and left subject object
I am a woman entering a relationship with a man with an abundance mentality. It is highly attractive. I think this also works in reverse. Men appreciate a woman with an abundance mentality as well. I know myself well - my values, goals, my own very positive attitude. I am not a classic beauty, but never seem to have a difficult time attracting men. The difficulty has been finding the right one. I think I have, and we are moving forward. Men, find an abundance mentality and practice it daily. You will attract a similarly aligned woman. It may or may not be the first one you meet, but that's okay. Persevere! ♥️
I learned about this after my last break up, I saw my flaws and insecurities and took responsibility for where I had weak mentalities. This is too true.🙌🏾
-Tom - If she rejected you disrespectfully you should just leave her and continue to move on positively to you’re goals or etc. Don’t do the same thing of what she did to you continue to respect other people with a positive mindset.
exactly !!! by dating, in the relationship, do 1 mistake and you are out of the game. why would you want to invest into a person that is not even able to love you ???
@@ApolloniaPonti Let's keep it real here: Most women aren't exactly into "struggle love". Very few are seemingly willing to get down in the trenches with a man and help him build from scratch, so I'll have to concur with Fernando on this one.
To have the scarcity mentality and then overcome it is beautiful!! Always remember: " The one who falls and gets up is so much stronger than the one who never fell" ;)
Even before I began achieving, I was broke but working towards my dreams, it was still enough to attract some amazing women. I truly believe it is a mindset. But a man must actually be willing to make the self-sacrifice and develop self-discipline. To actually find a man who is willing to do the work to change is rare. Most suffer from the greatest sin, Pride. See all the broke guys driving those leased BMR's? A self-made man isn't trying to impress anyone. Why would he? He doesn't need to prove anything to anyone. It's reflected in how he lives.
Where I live, guys don't lease BMRs. They buy Ferraris. Which means they buy women, as all men do. Great for those who can buy real beauty while it's fresh. The rest of us are learning not to be suckers any more. No gold diggers, but no fatties, either. Good luck, ladies.
This is me now I attract some amazing women while chasing my dreams running a business but I fuck it up Everytime which leaves me forever single. The dating stage doesn’t go anywhere. They end up losing interest because of me. I overthink too much. I move to fast.
If only women had the capacity to demonstrate empathy for men... instead of rejecting a man who thinks he isn't good enough the women should make the man feel and show him that he is good enough, but that would actually require her to love you which most women are incapable of doing which is why this channel is so successful.
Have 3-4 girls , when one meets your list slowly focus more on the one , but go slow, we all make mistakes its life , just be positive , there are plenty of women out there
it's not about what she wants, rather what she responds to. in this case abundance mentality means "I have options, and you can be replaced with hotter one"
I finally get it its better to say there are more things that can make you happy than being mad over something you can not change just accept it and move forward love yourself more then anyone else
Couldn't agree more with this! I used to think it was all about pick up lines, going to gym etc but it's all inner game. The more abundant my mindset is becoming the more incredible my life is becoming, and not just with women but with all aspects of my life. Thanks Apolonia, your content is life changing!
Wow! Mega high value content you have provided. Perception is projection, perception is intepretation. There is no failure, only feedback going forward! Knowing where I stand is key. Staying PRESENT and in my power allows me to choose be in the abundance mentality as opposed to scarcity/victim mentality.
This is right on point!! It matters, if you make it matter! A great man is a man who aspires to better himself and is wise enough to keep company with those with whom he has mutual respect. These are people who tell him what he needs to hear, not just what he wants to hear! Confidence is key! I learned this from an older woman, a senior who befriended me when I was a freshman in university. She schooled me on being confident enough in my own skin, so as to only give value to people who have earned my respect. Negativity from people who have not earned your respect, was irrelevant to me. I stopped internalizing the negativity of others. Many of these people are trying to use dominance over you, by affecting your emotional state, to boast their self-esteem. Once you understand that you determine the power that others have over you, you will soar. You will start setting goals and achieving them. You start working on WHO you are, and then you will be able to handle the outcome. I know that good things will come my way, because I have developed the skill and character to achieve it. You have enough confidence to accept when something is not a match. You do not rely on others to make you happy. You understand that a relationship with the right person may enhance your life, but you do not look to her to make you happy. Putting the responsibility for your happiness on another, is needy, and in fact, it is selfish. A confident, self-assured man, has developed himself, and subsequently, he has something to contribute to a relationship. We live in a society where women can do for themselves. They do not NEED you. But the right woman, the right match, will be with you me cause they WANT you!
I see no reason why a woman couldn’t benefit from this. This mindset can be applied to anything you want, a new job, a tennis championship, a college degree or a life partner. With the idea of abundance in mind, you will start to see ALL opportunities, not just the one in front of you. Apollonia is very sharp, worth following.
Alpha I'm from Zimbabwe. I used your couching advice and I am winning any woman I desire. They are clinging and call me a Movie Star. I don't fake it I stand my ground and communicate my needs and demand ground rules. We can't just date blindly without direction and menu of expectations. I'm even blocking time wasters and fence sitters. I am more focused on my goals. Big hugs 🤗 for brain 🧠 training and I maintain best standards possible. Big thanks Gorgeous 1. Keep us posted. I'm the pilot and captain of my life.
Thanks a million for the validation of this video. It really works. I started practising this about a month ago and I noticed accelerated positive changes. 1. I got more relaxed. 2. Let go of things within my control 3. Enjoy the flow 4. Ultra-high confidence 5. Attract more women There is a social perfume released when a man has an abundant mindset that women perceives.
Appolonia, I am pursuing the abundance mentality, Been authentic balanced,I recognise my faults and am removing these stopping them moving on. Dont expect all woman to want me seek the best in me, So I am best of me to build relationshop on a solid foundation.
Must say, this video was generally an uplifting reminder on having purpose. So much so, that finding a partner now doesn't seem so important, plus you'll probably find an even better one when bettering ones self
Excellent video Apollonia . This is key and if anyone gets this they are on their way. It wasn’t until I got this mentality that I realized I could date when and who I wanted. I didn’t have to compromise anymore. I took rejection as one of life’s circumstances and inconvenience that comes our way once in a while. Now I meet women who want to date me but I don’t want to because I’m in a stable relationship but I have options when I’m not even looking. It’s a powerful mindset.
The one thing that we have to understand as humans is that we all act and respond to situations different men and women get turned down or rejected I had to learn not to limit myself but I keep my intregity of who I am I will not try to be something that I am not but I had to learn that over time my peace of mind is very valuable to me I really enjoy how you bring all of these things to the light for men because I do love a beautiful woman who is intelligent and passionate and have a great heart and I believe that is you and I know that if you can change your thinking you can change your world human behavior is really deep in so many levels ....
Nice video session from Apollonia Ponti concerning abundance mentality. Typically it is all about positivity in side of a man and establishment of standards also investing in all terms including physically, mentally and emotionally. What a great tutoring by Ms. Ponti
The more I think the more I realise I don't know any other speech that I have heard in my life in around 19 minutes that contains so many truths and a so immensely powerful message. My most honest and deepest thanks for such an incredible video Apollonia, from Barcelona, Spain.
Being a 64 year young ,is can understand the concept of an abundance mindset, I been practicing this for a few years and have recently met someone that is very impressed with me and my lifestyle and is all because of this concept and what I have on my plate to offer. I'm totally great full for your advice on these matters, Thank you!
Hello Apollonia, happy Thursday. An abundance mindset is a great subject. When you have a abundance mindset is shows that you have a plans and goals. When I'm focused on working out, studying, and meeting new people/woman. They may see your self-confidence, self-worth, and how your carry yourself in how you communicate.
Well said! Nice to see you again here. Hope you're doing well. Thanks for your continuous support. You're someone who's watched this channel since day one. ;-)
@@ApolloniaPonti Thanks and no problem. I have been busy with work & working out from home. Since the gyms are closed. Thanks again for all that you do!
It's been tough to learn but it was very freeing to understand that rejection and non interest wasn't a bad thing. And that time, energy, and emotions being spent on her could be used somewhere else that would make me better. Had to go through a lot of trials to get there, and I still get haunted by it every now and then. That's why I love your content. Helps new get on the right track.
Great video! Very truthful! I have finally found someone at my level! She is 8 years older but is successful in her own business. If it wasn't for my abundance mentality I wouldn't have attracted her into my life. Thank you for the video!
So an older woman who has been ran through, been around the block and decides to settle is now at your level? Common man.. Have some dignity and look for a woman who's 8 yrs younger. I mean when you were 20 she was 28.. I'd rather you be 28 and date a 20 yr old and mold her to become the woman you want.
Ms. Apollonia whatever you are saying is very true. I am experiencing this in my life currently. Your videos are really helpful in having a right mindset. You are a genuine content creator. Deep respect for you. Thank you for posting such content. I feel you have a real understanding of what you say and it's not superfifical. Wishing you loads of success. Thank you!
I agree, when I am in my vortex and in flow, women always show up in my life. And regarding the abundance mentality, most women won't admit this, but they know it is true.
This was exactly what I needed to hear. I’ve been so confused as to why all of my relationships with women have been so turbulent.... I believe I now know why. Thanks for making this video!😃👍☀️
This is one of your most important videos you have done so far. So many good points and light bulbs going off in the end. You just keep getting better.
I have to pause to write this. “I entitled to get this. Why, because you were born?”. The other day I saw a video where these people saying “housing is too expensive it shouldn’t be like this, house is a human right and should be no cost” OMG. You are correct, these people do exist. OK Continue...
Abundant mentality, one of my great attributes that kept me going forward. Now When I let my guards down, meeting the lady that want to be apart my life. Appolonia you express so much love, in with sharing this knowledge, telling us(men) to work on making our abundance mentality great. Thank You! ❤💯🎁 (This is great to have in a women too) the kind of woman I know I will want.
Love this! I'm 46 now and single. I'm finding myself in a constant state of nostalgia realizing all these little 'one-liner' perspectives I preached in the 90's haven't changed. I used to impress my friend's with my fearless approach to women, and my #1 saying was, "IT'S ALL IN THE NUMBERS"!!! I would say, if I get 10 phone numbers a weak, inevitably one of them will get me what I want, which, the goals have changed somewhat from hit and run to higher aspirations, but the mentality still makes sense. That's my takeaway but of course I'm writing instead of listening, guilty, but it's in this abundance I choose to have it all, some call it multi tasking, right now, i'm just being abundant. I love this word. I'm going to exploit it to gather all the positivity I can and then abundantly distribute this to others cause in-so-doing, my 'abundant value' skyrockets! 'The more abundance you give, the more abundance you keep' abundance as energy. Abundant joy, abundant gratitude. Is that your abundance, or are you happy to see me? I am independent, frugal and abundant, a living legend in my own mind, king of my own domain, volunteer, available between a given set of hours. Only on the market for a limited time. Chop chop ladies. If you want me at the finish line, make yourself seen. Abundant perspective. Abundant vibration, abundant love
You are a great soul! Thanks for sharing all your life experiences and helping others to cope up with their life as well. God bless you with an abundance of health and weatlth.
Ms Apollonia, your videos and messages are spot on. As an Alpha married to a very strong woman, your videos supplement what I already know and try to practice. Also gives me little nuggets that I shall pass on to my son one day. Thumbs up
Yet sometimes (read: many times) counterintuitive actions work like a charm ... You could have a scarce mentality but if you are truly "unstoppable" yet patient, not in a hurry, the woman will see the power (value) in your persistence, but at the same time you have to respect yourself and have high selfesteem ... It's hard, but if you want "only that girl" it can be done ... We are not animals ... You have preferences ... You want that and not this ...
I am out there in public and at work where I have lots of contacts. These are all contacts through which I can talk and address things. People are drawn to my level of standards and I am very grateful to the people I meet. However, there is a problem. At my age of 64 years, it is hard to find a woman who could be my companion. It is very easy to talk to women, but it is more difficult to have her become my friend. It is almost impossible to have her on a date or become my girlfriend. They think I might be that creepy old guy.
Lost my wife due to lack of effective communication. I was living in scarcity mindset due to her strong arming me into marrying her. I resented her unknowingly even tho I knew I loved her. She couks never get my full experience and I held back so much but I provided alot. Now she dumped me I'm in pain but I'm seeing how much of a problem she was. I'm learning how to let go and better myself. It's tough but the only way to overcome is being grateful and optimistic
Either a woman wants to see you or she doesn't. You will NEVER convince her to want to spend time with you. The only thing you will convince her of, is that she doesn't want to spend time with you. If it's not her idea to be with you, she won't.
Whoa, there was so much game in this video it might as well have been a roth ira. Best of all time fire, this girl is a relationship guru and I love how its not rooted in dark psych or gimmicks but genuine positive and healthy living. you are truly coming from a place of caring and abundance.
Great video! You hit it on the money between 10:39 and 10:45. I'll take that several steps further. Abundance mentality is also having the belief that even if a man himself isn't ever able to find love in his life, he will be just fine, as long as he loves and accepts himself for who he is, which stems from self acceptance/love.
There's this guy I almost dated. He explained that the main reason his past relationships didn't work was because they were disrespectful and they never valued him. As we started hanging out I realised this guy didn't even respect himself. I understood why it was soo hard for him to be respected by other women. I decided to break things off coz if I stayed I would have disrespected him too. Well, I was honest with him and told him why I couldn't be with him
@@taolang603 Well, 1. He had friends who didn't respect him (even publicly) but he still kept them and tolerated it 2. He couldn't express his opinion or stand on certain things (never figured whether it was due to lack of confidence, I don't know) 3. The guy would literally never stand up for himself. He wasn't assertive. 4. It was quite clear he didn't believe in himself and really insecure abt his potential and would sometimes make jokes like 'not everyone (referring to himself) can succeed in this world.' 5.he would not speak up and express his emotions when 'hurt' and would make excuses abt him not even attempting to go for his goals. Honestly it was EXTREMELY emasculating. It's very easy for a quality woman to respect a masculine guy regardless of his current social status.
Thank you for this!!! Looking back on some women I dealt with, I definitely had the scarcity mindset at times. I’m going to keep listening to you as a dating coach! Again, Thanks so much!
Me and my ex been together for 1 year and 7 months ... its been 3 weeks apart and i now know that i have to respect myself ... not letting her only text or call whenever she feels like and im right there to answer .... left her on seen and will stay that way ... she knows how to text again if she wants
Another video full of wisdom, thanks Apollonia. Wouldn't the world be a different place if these teachings were taught in school, as part of the curriculum. Imagine how much smoother the world would be, people understanding other people.
Believing in possibilities in my life was the factor that changed my attitude toward my girlfriend and re attracted her. Great vid. By the way, your hair looks great, fit you perfect
Apollonia, excellent advice for all of us - what we feel INSIDE shows on the OUTSIDE; be attractive to yourself inside and you'll be attractive to others outside. I love your positivity - thumbs up.
I just subscribed to your channel because I see you for who you are. I watched a few of your videos and saw that you are genuine and honest. Qualities that I can align with. Thank you
A good book to read that piggybacks on what Apollonia is saying is “Can’t Hurt Me” by David Goggins. I read this book in addition to watching, channel, and doing a one hour coaching with Apollonia’s team. I’m seeing great progress. This book “Can’t Hurt Me” is #4 on Amazon’s most popular books as of last week. I highly recommend it to every man on here. I’m on my second read now.
Jeez!!! She just broke down the story of my dating life in 1 video. I've learned so much already and I'm definitely not gonna remain the same after this. Thank you so much Apollonia
Qigong meditation and taoism realy helped me with this mentality. I no longer need a women, I feel relaxed confident and very good during the day. When I see a beautiful women I meet her from the mentality of giving her a part of my abundance of sexual beautiful energy. Instead of needing her to feel good.
A guy was asking for advice on how to get better at talking to women, and people used the word practice "It bothers and annoys, enrages me a lot when people use the word practice, because for women, there is no such thing as practicing talking to men because women's lives are on autopilot when it comes to talking to men since puberty, due to all of the constant attention they've been getting since then, women are forced to, have no choice but to learn how to talk to men, and they gain it right away by doing nothing since they don't have to open their mouth first." When I read that on a forum, I feel it changed my mindset and perspective on talking to women
First time commenting on your channel and it was overdue. Your insight into what I personally am going through, is like I called you up and we are having a session. You speak directly to me and it’s freaky really. I am sure others are feeling the same when they first hear you. Not sure how you know or can relate to what men go through, but keep it up. Will be liking this one too and rewatching it again. Keep up the great therapy you offer here AP.
I had to reject three women because they didn't care anything about me and chest wasted my money. But now I'm happy now because after this virus is over I am going to meet face to face with with my girlfriend for the first time.
When it comes to courting; both women and men have a role to play. If she isn’t willing to play that role, then move on and find one that will. It’s simple, if she wants you, she will make it known. Never chase.
A woman should never be your main focus. She is welcome in your life, and should be contributing to your well being. But DO NOT make her your main focus. Then you will be fine.
This coaching video, without a doubt, is the best of this young lady's Truthful offerings to us men. I commend her on her knowledge, wisdom, and wish I would have seen/heard this many yrs. Ago. I honestly believe that my good friend/Coach Tony Robbins, would agree with me on my comments. Thankyou Ms..Apollonia. I am a fan.
This woman is right in some ways....What is missing? Most young girls, sit on Daddy's Lap and they are told from a very, very young age by their Daddy, " Girls are Sugar and spice and everything nice" Hence, the superior attitude, many young woman have.Most Young men must "Battle" through the indifference shown to them,when they are young..Strong men =Battle....Many entitled woman= Daddy's Girl......
NAH .... you dont ask a fish how to fish genius...............
the only reason abudance works is because you dont look desperate. simple as that.
women dont know what they want. thats why they hate you one day and love you the other.
@@youtubevideos3963 Truth spoken..abdundant mentality saves a man from being desperate.
It makes a man relaxed, happier, fulfilled and let go when she isn't making effort.
This one is so good .
My life has changed after watching these videos . I wish I would of known about this sooner .
She's not "one in a million", she's "one of a million," don't be afraid to be your own man without her. So when you do find her, she appreciates the man you've become on your own.
If she is one in a million, there are still 700,000 just like her.
On Point..
@@armanddimeo6575 Your math is off. It means there's 7,000 like her. The odds don't look so great now, do they?
Let her be "one in a million"... With the world population being 7.8 Billion, (falsely) assuming a 50/50 male / female split and assuming 50 % being of legal age, there's still 1950 more than her even if she was "one in a million". So almost 2000 other "one in a million" available is enough for abundance :D
Exactly
Her rejection doesn't mean there's something wrong with me, it just means her judgment sucks.
neither statement has to be true. I don't know what leads you to believe you'd be romantically/sexually compatible with everyone
@@vaughnamir.6457 even though it may not be true, it helps with the mindset to move on easier. instead of sulking and wondering why she reject you like theres something wrong with you, its better to know that you have worth and she missed out on it. this will also help you move on quickly
👆🏾☝🏽🏆👏🏿🎯
@@vaughnamir.6457 until the person wants something the other person has, ie money. Then everything goes out the window.
if a bunch of women are rejecting you... um well...
12:24 Start of Seven Habit to Cultivate Abundance Mindset
01. Shift your brain to positivity
02. Know your standards and take pride for it
03. Practice gratitude on what you have in life
04. Your personal journey is different, stop comparing to others
05. Stop hiding in bubbles, live with purpose and build social momentum
06. Having emotional balance and control with abundance mindset, not scarcity mindset
07. Learn and understand attraction, invest in making yourself better physically, mentally, and emotionally
Thanks for this summary.
Though it wasn't a walk in the park, but a testament as i appreciate a lot that I could figure these out on my own when i was still very young. Today, my woman crave me like an addict.
@@fh.7287 why?
Have an abundance mentality men. That means, stop caring what women want from you because there's always another one that will expect less and still want to be with you.
It's not about NOT CARING, or GIVING LESS unless YOU want less. It's about having abundance enough to know your standards and also appreciating someone who has standards for herself too.
Apollonia Ponti 💯
@@ApolloniaPonti ? youre waffling...''abundance enough to know......'' these are two different concepts
Anthony M I agree with you. The less you care, the more they do. Women DO NOT value men that pursue unless you’re a 10 or rich. Also dating is a numbers game. Men generally have to approach more women since majority of women only give chances to a select few.
Apollonia Ponti if you want less, you give me more. You want more, you give less. Make them crave the other pieces.
Nobody needs relationships to be happy. Once you realize that, you will automagically become more attractive.
Life is a relationship life is a journey a journey is a relationship believe it or not your relationship is more important than the people in the relationship just like the family the family is more important we say God country family or God family country contains you you were God country family you are the relationship plus and minus positive and negative right and left subject object
Ahahahahhahaaaaaaaaaaa
"automagically"...I like it
I read your comment an realized there is alot of that going on
No, we don't NEED relationships to make us happy, but we may still WANT one anyway.
I am a woman entering a relationship with a man with an abundance mentality. It is highly attractive. I think this also works in reverse. Men appreciate a woman with an abundance mentality as well. I know myself well - my values, goals, my own very positive attitude. I am not a classic beauty, but never seem to have a difficult time attracting men. The difficulty has been finding the right one. I think I have, and we are moving forward. Men, find an abundance mentality and practice it daily. You will attract a similarly aligned woman. It may or may not be the first one you meet, but that's okay. Persevere! ♥️
I learned about this after my last break up, I saw my flaws and insecurities and took responsibility for where I had weak mentalities. This is too true.🙌🏾
She rejected me disrespectfully, I disrespected her by acting like she didn’t exist.
That’s a lil toxic but you did what was best for you. I’m proud of you Tom
Good job man
-Tom - If she rejected you disrespectfully you should just leave her and continue to move on positively to you’re goals or etc. Don’t do the same thing of what she did to you continue to respect other people with a positive mindset.
I did exactly that too and can't tell you how effective it turned out to be. She got crazy and now she is making efforts to get noticed.
Thank you all for support and positive comments, forget to mention, she is desperate for my attention and validation. I must do what I have to do.
Men do all the work, women wait at the finish line to pick the winner.
exactly !!! by dating, in the relationship, do 1 mistake and you are out of the game. why would you want to invest into a person that is not even able to love you ???
Perhaps, but in that case they still have to wait until someone seeks them out. Both sides have their challenges. Many women don't get sought.
Mostly true
Wrong mindset. Women should be doing the work as well. If you believe this you will either do the work or none at all.
@@ApolloniaPonti Let's keep it real here: Most women aren't exactly into "struggle love". Very few are seemingly willing to get down in the trenches with a man and help him build from scratch, so I'll have to concur with Fernando on this one.
To have the scarcity mentality and then overcome it is beautiful!! Always remember: " The one who falls and gets up is so much stronger than the one who never fell" ;)
Even before I began achieving, I was broke but working towards my dreams, it was still enough to attract some amazing women. I truly believe it is a mindset. But a man must actually be willing to make the self-sacrifice and develop self-discipline. To actually find a man who is willing to do the work to change is rare. Most suffer from the greatest sin, Pride. See all the broke guys driving those leased BMR's? A self-made man isn't trying to impress anyone. Why would he? He doesn't need to prove anything to anyone. It's reflected in how he lives.
I needed to read this.
Where I live, guys don't lease BMRs. They buy Ferraris. Which means they buy women, as all men do. Great for those who can buy real beauty while it's fresh. The rest of us are learning not to be suckers any more. No gold diggers, but no fatties, either. Good luck, ladies.
This is me now I attract some amazing women while chasing my dreams running a business but I fuck it up Everytime which leaves me forever single. The dating stage doesn’t go anywhere. They end up losing interest because of me. I overthink too much. I move to fast.
Where I'm from, dudes just jack cars on a reg.
“Comparison is the thief of joy,” - Theodore Roosevelt
It’s very ironic how the fear of losing a woman is exactly the thing that drives her away. Great video!
Yes! Thank you!
If only women had the capacity to demonstrate empathy for men... instead of rejecting a man who thinks he isn't good enough the women should make the man feel and show him that he is good enough, but that would actually require her to love you which most women are incapable of doing which is why this channel is so successful.
Have 3-4 girls , when one meets your list slowly focus more on the one , but go slow, we all make mistakes its life , just be positive , there are plenty of women out there
This video is key, I watched this video a few times when I stumbled on it.
Learn from the lost relationship let it push you too be a better person grow from it
Life Starts With Perspective & Perception, It's All Mental First. 💯
it's not about what she wants, rather what she responds to.
in this case abundance mentality means "I have options, and you can be replaced with hotter one"
I finally get it its better to say there are more things that can make you happy than being mad over something you can not change just accept it and move forward love yourself more then anyone else
Couldn't agree more with this! I used to think it was all about pick up lines, going to gym etc but it's all inner game. The more abundant my mindset is becoming the more incredible my life is becoming, and not just with women but with all aspects of my life. Thanks Apolonia, your content is life changing!
Wow! Mega high value content you have provided. Perception is projection, perception is intepretation. There is no failure, only feedback going forward! Knowing where I stand is key. Staying PRESENT and in my power allows me to choose be in the abundance mentality as opposed to scarcity/victim mentality.
This is right on point!!
It matters, if you make it matter! A great man is a man who aspires to better himself and is wise enough to keep company with those with whom he has mutual respect. These are people who tell him what he needs to hear, not just what he wants to hear!
Confidence is key! I learned this from an older woman, a senior who befriended me when I was a freshman in university. She schooled me on being confident enough in my own skin, so as to only give value to people who have earned my respect. Negativity from people who have not earned your respect, was irrelevant to me. I stopped internalizing the negativity of others. Many of these people are trying to use dominance over you, by affecting your emotional state, to boast their self-esteem. Once you understand that you determine the power that others have over you, you will soar.
You will start setting goals and achieving them. You start working on WHO you are, and then you will be able to handle the outcome.
I know that good things will come my way, because I have developed the skill and character to achieve it. You have enough confidence to accept when something is not a match. You do not rely on others to make you happy. You understand that a relationship with the right person may enhance your life, but you do not look to her to make you happy. Putting the responsibility for your happiness on another, is needy, and in fact, it is selfish. A confident, self-assured man, has developed himself, and subsequently, he has something to contribute to a relationship.
We live in a society where women can do for themselves. They do not NEED you. But the right woman, the right match, will be with you me cause they WANT you!
well this video isn't only saved my relationship, it saves my whole life. thank you
I’m a woman and I feel I need it myself too. Important lesson to all human
Happy to see you here. xoxo
I see no reason why a woman couldn’t benefit from this. This mindset can be applied to anything you want, a new job, a tennis championship, a college degree or a life partner. With the idea of abundance in mind, you will start to see ALL opportunities, not just the one in front of you. Apollonia is very sharp, worth following.
@@ApolloniaPonti mam
You are doing good job
For humanity.💐💐
yeah dont foget to stop being VICTIM and narcissist also make up is just ugly as fuk
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what women want: everything
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I had to learn this lesson the hard way Miss A.P. What you are saying is so true. Great video.
You are so welcome
Alpha I'm from Zimbabwe. I used your couching advice and I am winning any woman I desire. They are clinging and call me a Movie Star. I don't fake it I stand my ground and communicate my needs and demand ground rules. We can't just date blindly without direction and menu of expectations. I'm even blocking time wasters and fence sitters. I am more focused on my goals. Big hugs 🤗 for brain 🧠 training and I maintain best standards possible. Big thanks Gorgeous 1. Keep us posted. I'm the pilot and captain of my life.
I agree, I’m 67 years old and wish I really understood this earlier...
Thanks a million for the validation of this video. It really works. I started practising this about a month ago and I noticed accelerated positive changes.
1. I got more relaxed.
2. Let go of things within my control
3. Enjoy the flow
4. Ultra-high confidence
5. Attract more women
There is a social perfume released when a man has an abundant mindset that women perceives.
Appolonia, I am pursuing the abundance mentality, Been authentic balanced,I recognise my faults and am removing
these stopping them moving on.
Dont expect all woman to want me
seek the best in me, So I am best of me
to build relationshop on a solid foundation.
Must say, this video was generally an uplifting reminder on having purpose. So much so, that finding a partner now doesn't seem so important, plus you'll probably find an even better one when bettering ones self
Excellent video Apollonia . This is key and if anyone gets this they are on their way. It wasn’t until I got this mentality that I realized I could date when and who I wanted. I didn’t have to compromise anymore. I took rejection as one of life’s circumstances and inconvenience that comes our way once in a while. Now I meet women who want to date me but I don’t want to because I’m in a stable relationship but I have options when I’m not even looking. It’s a powerful mindset.
If you ask 100 random females to have sex with you, at least one will. It is simply a numbers game.
The one thing that we have to understand as humans is that we all act and respond to situations different men and women get turned down or rejected I had to learn not to limit myself but I keep my intregity of who I am I will not try to be something that I am not but I had to learn that over time my peace of mind is very valuable to me I really enjoy how you bring all of these things to the light for men because I do love a beautiful woman who is intelligent and passionate and have a great heart and I believe that is you and I know that if you can change your thinking you can change your world human behavior is really deep in so many levels ....
Nice video session from Apollonia Ponti concerning abundance mentality. Typically it is all about positivity in side of a man and establishment of standards also investing in all terms including physically, mentally and emotionally. What a great tutoring by Ms. Ponti
The more I think the more I realise I don't know any other speech that I have heard in my life in around 19 minutes that contains so many truths and a so immensely powerful message. My most honest and deepest thanks for such an incredible video Apollonia, from Barcelona, Spain.
Being a 64 year young ,is can understand the concept of an abundance mindset, I been practicing this for a few years and have recently met someone that is very impressed with me and my lifestyle
and is all because of this concept and what I have on my plate to offer. I'm totally great full for your advice on these matters, Thank you!
This is your best video 🔥
"Everything requires work to maintain." This was a great one. Technical note: slight buzzing sound in the background.
Great video.
Talk about educational, informative and timely. This is applicable to me right now and you hit it on the head. Thanks!
Awesome! Thank you for your comment. :)
Hello Apollonia, happy Thursday. An abundance mindset is a great subject. When you have a abundance mindset is shows that you have a plans and goals. When I'm focused on working out, studying, and meeting new people/woman. They may see your self-confidence, self-worth, and how your carry yourself in how you communicate.
Well said! Nice to see you again here. Hope you're doing well. Thanks for your continuous support. You're someone who's watched this channel since day one. ;-)
@@ApolloniaPonti Thanks and no problem. I have been busy with work & working out from home. Since the gyms are closed. Thanks again for all that you do!
It's been tough to learn but it was very freeing to understand that rejection and non interest wasn't a bad thing. And that time, energy, and emotions being spent on her could be used somewhere else that would make me better. Had to go through a lot of trials to get there, and I still get haunted by it every now and then. That's why I love your content. Helps new get on the right track.
This is so on time for me. 80% of what you said was all stuff that I've realized and have been meditating on for the last few days.
Great video! Very truthful! I have finally found someone at my level! She is 8 years older but is successful in her own business. If it wasn't for my abundance mentality I wouldn't have attracted her into my life. Thank you for the video!
So an older woman who has been ran through, been around the block and decides to settle is now at your level? Common man.. Have some dignity and look for a woman who's 8 yrs younger. I mean when you were 20 she was 28.. I'd rather you be 28 and date a 20 yr old and mold her to become the woman you want.
This Chanel not only dating, it is also self improvement and spiritual growth🙏
Ms. Apollonia whatever you are saying is very true. I am experiencing this in my life currently. Your videos are really helpful in having a right mindset. You are a genuine content creator. Deep respect for you. Thank you for posting such content. I feel you have a real understanding of what you say and it's not superfifical. Wishing you loads of success. Thank you!
Thanks for sharing!!
you make me realised who i was supposed to be, not what people expect from me. and wake me up from slumber, i need it, thks
I agree, when I am in my vortex and in flow, women always show up in my life. And regarding the abundance mentality, most women won't admit this, but they know it is true.
This was exactly what I needed to hear. I’ve been so confused as to why all of my relationships with women have been so turbulent.... I believe I now know why. Thanks for making this video!😃👍☀️
Glad it was helpful!
This is one of your most important videos you have done so far.
So many good points and light bulbs going off in the end. You just keep getting better.
Don’t know why there are dislikes for a video that sheds nothing but light. Appreciate the content Apollonia
Apollonia is the only woman who's real with us guys, I appreciate that
great info worth a listen
Glad you think so!
I have to pause to write this. “I entitled to get this. Why, because you were born?”. The other day I saw a video where these people saying “housing is too expensive it shouldn’t be like this, house is a human right and should be no cost” OMG. You are correct, these people do exist. OK Continue...
Abundant mentality, one of my great attributes that kept me going forward. Now When I let my guards down, meeting the lady that want to be apart my life.
Appolonia you express so much love, in with sharing this knowledge, telling us(men) to work on making our abundance mentality great. Thank You! ❤💯🎁
(This is great to have in a women too) the kind of woman I know I will want.
Love this! I'm 46 now and single. I'm finding myself in a constant state of nostalgia realizing all these little 'one-liner' perspectives I preached in the 90's haven't changed. I used to impress my friend's with my fearless approach to women, and my #1 saying was, "IT'S ALL IN THE NUMBERS"!!! I would say, if I get 10 phone numbers a weak, inevitably one of them will get me what I want, which, the goals have changed somewhat from hit and run to higher aspirations, but the mentality still makes sense. That's my takeaway but of course I'm writing instead of listening, guilty, but it's in this abundance I choose to have it all, some call it multi tasking, right now, i'm just being abundant. I love this word. I'm going to exploit it to gather all the positivity I can and then abundantly distribute this to others cause in-so-doing, my 'abundant value' skyrockets! 'The more abundance you give, the more abundance you keep' abundance as energy. Abundant joy, abundant gratitude. Is that your abundance, or are you happy to see me? I am independent, frugal and abundant, a living legend in my own mind, king of my own domain, volunteer, available between a given set of hours. Only on the market for a limited time. Chop chop ladies. If you want me at the finish line, make yourself seen. Abundant perspective. Abundant vibration, abundant love
You are a great soul! Thanks for sharing all your life experiences and helping others to cope up with their life as well. God bless you with an abundance of health and weatlth.
Your every line was like a golden word , i wrote everything down , just everything!
Thanks lot. Love from India❤️
Ms Apollonia, your videos and messages are spot on. As an Alpha married to a very strong woman, your videos supplement what I already know and try to practice. Also gives me little nuggets that I shall pass on to my son one day. Thumbs up
Wow, thank you!
Yet sometimes (read: many times) counterintuitive actions work like a charm ... You could have a scarce mentality but if you are truly "unstoppable" yet patient, not in a hurry, the woman will see the power (value) in your persistence, but at the same time you have to respect yourself and have high selfesteem ... It's hard, but if you want "only that girl" it can be done ... We are not animals ... You have preferences ... You want that and not this ...
I am out there in public and at work where I have lots of contacts. These are all contacts through which I can talk and address things. People are drawn to my level of standards and I am very grateful to the people I meet. However, there is a problem. At my age of 64 years, it is hard to find a woman who could be my companion. It is very easy to talk to women, but it is more difficult to have her become my friend. It is almost impossible to have her on a date or become my girlfriend. They think I might be that creepy old guy.
Lost my wife due to lack of effective communication. I was living in scarcity mindset due to her strong arming me into marrying her. I resented her unknowingly even tho I knew I loved her. She couks never get my full experience and I held back so much but I provided alot. Now she dumped me I'm in pain but I'm seeing how much of a problem she was. I'm learning how to let go and better myself. It's tough but the only way to overcome is being grateful and optimistic
Either a woman wants to see you or she doesn't. You will NEVER convince her to want to spend time with you. The only thing you will convince her of, is that she doesn't want to spend time with you.
If it's not her idea to be with you, she won't.
Whoa, there was so much game in this video it might as well have been a roth ira. Best of all time fire, this girl is a relationship guru and I love how its not rooted in dark psych or gimmicks but genuine positive and healthy living. you are truly coming from a place of caring and abundance.
Apollonia is God sent.... Doing a good job
Thank you. xo
You're Most welcome...
This is the best video you’ve ever made. Very informative. I need to practice what you taught. Thank you Apollonian
Great video! You hit it on the money between 10:39 and 10:45. I'll take that several steps further. Abundance mentality is also having the belief that even if a man himself isn't ever able to find love in his life, he will be just fine, as long as he loves and accepts himself for who he is, which stems from self acceptance/love.
You are amazing Apollonia!
I had relashionship Issues lately and your Videos have helped me A LOT in so many ways! Thank you!
stumbled on your videos, probably some of the most unspoken about, well-presented content!
There's this guy I almost dated. He explained that the main reason his past relationships didn't work was because they were disrespectful and they never valued him. As we started hanging out I realised this guy didn't even respect himself. I understood why it was soo hard for him to be respected by other women. I decided to break things off coz if I stayed I would have disrespected him too. Well, I was honest with him and told him why I couldn't be with him
What was he doing to not respecting himself?
What do you mean by not respecting himself?
@@taolang603 Well, 1. He had friends who didn't respect him (even publicly) but he still kept them and tolerated it
2. He couldn't express his opinion or stand on certain things (never figured whether it was due to lack of confidence, I don't know)
3. The guy would literally never stand up for himself. He wasn't assertive.
4. It was quite clear he didn't believe in himself and really insecure abt his potential and would sometimes make jokes like 'not everyone (referring to himself) can succeed in this world.'
5.he would not speak up and express his emotions when 'hurt' and would make excuses abt him not even attempting to go for his goals.
Honestly it was EXTREMELY emasculating. It's very easy for a quality woman to respect a masculine guy regardless of his current social status.
Yeah like what made you think that
Hey girl, if you still know the guy, why don't you message him these videos from Apollonia?
Dear God protect and bless Apollonia and her family in Jesus' name. You said what I needed to hear.
Thank you for this!!! Looking back on some women I dealt with, I definitely had the scarcity mindset at times. I’m going to keep listening to you as a dating coach! Again, Thanks so much!
Shoutout To All Of The Men & Women Who Gave Me Great Advice On The Abundance Mindset. 💯
Me and my ex been together for 1 year and 7 months ... its been 3 weeks apart and i now know that i have to respect myself ... not letting her only text or call whenever she feels like and im right there to answer .... left her on seen and will stay that way ... she knows how to text again if she wants
Another video full of wisdom, thanks Apollonia. Wouldn't the world be a different place if these teachings were taught in school, as part of the curriculum. Imagine how much smoother the world would be, people understanding other people.
Believing in possibilities in my life was the factor that changed my attitude toward my girlfriend and re attracted her. Great vid. By the way, your hair looks great, fit you perfect
I must say honestly speaking. Your video's are like light in the darkness for all of men. To understand things when it comes to women's
you don't pull any punches! You tell it like it is! And that is very refreshing! Thank you for your Super and very Helpful advise!
Apollonia, excellent advice for all of us - what we feel INSIDE shows on the OUTSIDE; be attractive to yourself inside and you'll be attractive to others outside. I love your positivity - thumbs up.
Well said!
I just subscribed to your channel because I see you for who you are. I watched a few of your videos and saw that you are genuine and honest. Qualities that I can align with. Thank you
A good book to read that piggybacks on what Apollonia is saying is “Can’t Hurt Me” by David Goggins. I read this book in addition to watching, channel, and doing a one hour coaching with Apollonia’s team. I’m seeing great progress. This book “Can’t Hurt Me” is #4 on Amazon’s most popular books as of last week. I highly recommend it to every man on here. I’m on my second read now.
I just want to say thank you for this! I’m in the process of getting through this mindset and this video hits the nail on the head! I appreciate you!
Jeez!!! She just broke down the story of my dating life in 1 video. I've learned so much already and I'm definitely not gonna remain the same after this. Thank you so much Apollonia
Qigong meditation and taoism realy helped me with this mentality. I no longer need a women, I feel relaxed confident and very good during the day. When I see a beautiful women I meet her from the mentality of giving her a part of my abundance of sexual beautiful energy. Instead of needing her to feel good.
A guy was asking for advice on how to get better at talking to women, and people used the word practice
"It bothers and annoys, enrages me a lot when people use the word practice, because for women, there is no such thing as practicing talking to men because women's lives are on autopilot when it comes to talking to men since puberty, due to all of the constant attention they've been getting since then, women are forced to, have no choice but to learn how to talk to men, and they gain it right away by doing nothing since they don't have to open their mouth first."
When I read that on a forum, I feel it changed my mindset and perspective on talking to women
You’re one of the most amazing and helpful person on here, I am grateful for you 🙏🏽
Apollonia, you are likely the best woman dating coach to exist in the 21rst century, thank you so much for your wisdom
First time commenting on your channel and it was overdue. Your insight into what I personally am going through, is like I called you up and we are having a session. You speak directly to me and it’s freaky really. I am sure others are feeling the same when they first hear you. Not sure how you know or can relate to what men go through, but keep it up. Will be liking this one too and rewatching it again. Keep up the great therapy you offer here AP.
I had to reject three women because they didn't care anything about me and chest wasted my money. But now I'm happy now because after this virus is over I am going to meet face to face with with my girlfriend for the first time.
Does she know she is your girlfriend?
Your teachings are so geniune!
When it comes to courting; both women and men have a role to play. If she isn’t willing to play that role, then move on and find one that will. It’s simple, if she wants you, she will make it known. Never chase.
Thank you for sharing this golden philosophy! Oh! And the other videos are great, too! :)
A woman should never be your main focus. She is welcome in your life, and should be contributing to your well being. But DO NOT make her your main focus. Then you will be fine.
You are so right.
Just the information that I needed a reminder of this week. Thank you very much A.P.
Glad it was helpful!
15:45 Scarcity Mindset - Actions vs Words - Ego, Reaction, Scarcity
Always demand the best for you in every aspect of life, you deserve it!
Insightful as ever. It was great speaking with you today, I’m so excited about the future now 🤗
this may be your most profound teaching, AP... thank you!
Excellent content. As a man that is back on the dating scene for the first time in 16 years, I really needed to hear this.