If You're In A Long Distance Relationship - WATCH THIS | by Jay Shetty

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  • @sairamraccha8512
    @sairamraccha8512 5 років тому +1065

    Long distance relationship is the true test to the love

    • @Jivi_Galaxy
      @Jivi_Galaxy 4 роки тому +9

      💯💯💯💯💯

    • @efe8085
      @efe8085 4 роки тому +7

      Wooow powerful

    • @nis-flix737
      @nis-flix737 4 роки тому +7

      I agree 🤗❤️

    • @loisdinelo2300
      @loisdinelo2300 4 роки тому +5

      It's not a test of anything.Its just two people who are not ready for a relationship rushing into one and 99% of the time it doesn't end up well

    • @arushisharma9397
      @arushisharma9397 4 роки тому +2

      That's so true

  • @ChrisMizo
    @ChrisMizo 5 років тому +859

    *have you ever felt heart pain before? Long distance makes it 10x worse, but I can say Long distance is worth the journey.*

    • @khinwaiwai7590
      @khinwaiwai7590 5 років тому +13

      Chris Mizo me and my boyfriend met before he left the city that we met we been together for one month and we both leave the city and it’s been 7 months distance and he suddenly tell me he lost his feelings i don’t know what to do I’m confusing and hurting I dunno i feel I’m going crazy I love him with all my heart I tell I let you do what you want but please stay with me he said yes but he will never be the same as before and hearing that words my heart broken after all he still texted me and asked me how am I and still jealous of what I posted I really need someone help how can I win him back even though we are in distance he need 3 years for his study but really I want him back I pray every day for me I just commit my way to the lord I trust also in he and I know he will do it for me :)

    • @HDC_XiaoWan
      @HDC_XiaoWan 4 роки тому +7

      I have never met in the true life my girlfriend, and we are together since 9 month, all is possible, just show that you are enough strong for the people you love, if you love a people but don't said her just because of the distance it's mean you don't love her enough, or that you are not enough strong to support that, because à long distance relationship is hard but possible

    • @doramartinez6366
      @doramartinez6366 2 роки тому

      How do you get past the physical part of never getting a kiss or hug or being held ??

    • @VishDumb
      @VishDumb 2 роки тому

      Lol no it's not worth

    • @DrAthin-999
      @DrAthin-999 2 роки тому

      @@khinwaiwai7590 argh may god bless you... May things go smoothly between both of you and may you guys get married together.... I am about to face the same issue... My girlfriend has gone for her studies and now she wants me to come over there and study the same thing which is not possible because my parents are sending me abroad for further studies.... I dont know i may leave this month... I dont know what will be the consequences.... I want her for the whole life and i can even wait for her for five whole years but she says the same... She says dont expect the same attachment after you go... That really breaks my heart.... But i am still confused and worried what to do... Should i study with her? Or should i disobey my parents and leave for higher studies.... I am in a very bad dilemma... Please help me out... You guys are already going through this.... What should i do?

  • @agapeshekinah4444
    @agapeshekinah4444 5 років тому +1508

    Long distance relationships do work when both are committed💞 was in a long distance relationship for 4years & we got married last year💕 clocking a year next month💃💃💃

    • @God-r4d
      @God-r4d 5 років тому +11

      Agape Shekinah congratulations!! and yes that is definitely the goal! 😌

    • @ExodiaSMASH
      @ExodiaSMASH 5 років тому +6

      How did you guys find time to meet? I’m I. A LDR and we want to meet but financiers are a bit difficult atm

    • @imkhithamacanda8771
      @imkhithamacanda8771 5 років тому +20

      I needed to see your comment. It gave me hope. 🥰

    • @iisrahandianirahandiani5708
      @iisrahandianirahandiani5708 5 років тому +4

      I happy to hear that ..I hope someday it will be like you💐

    • @asima.sinanovic63
      @asima.sinanovic63 5 років тому

      did you move to your husbands city or did he ? and if so how was it leaving your family behind?

  • @duchi882
    @duchi882 5 років тому +1616

    *The Hardest Long Distance Relationship:*
    1. You are alive and he/she isn't

    • @tysonzion13
      @tysonzion13 5 років тому +26

      Damnnn!!

    • @khrawnam
      @khrawnam 5 років тому +13

      You are the top comment

    • @arkadipta6667
      @arkadipta6667 5 років тому +17

      Means if he/she is thanosed by god

    • @nazimhassan2951
      @nazimhassan2951 5 років тому +17

      damn you just touched my heart

    • @SiddChhetri
      @SiddChhetri 5 років тому +17

      You’ll see that person again. Someday😇

  • @aromacookingchannel7781
    @aromacookingchannel7781 5 років тому +567

    I love the way the comment section turned into a philosophy class

  • @viperafangs
    @viperafangs 5 років тому +613

    3 years online friends talking everyday about anything and everything. Soon, we both fell in love. I turned 18 and he came to see me for my birthday from Asia to Europe. Now two years forward of video calls, text messages and long to short visits, flying back and forth... after a lot of challenges and a long path, we are planning to move in together next year. I've never been more sure and loved anyone more than I love him and vice versa.

    • @lemonvalley77
      @lemonvalley77 5 років тому +3

      all the best to you

    • @nesy5041
      @nesy5041 4 роки тому +8

      you give me more hope, It’s been 16 months for me in a LDR relationship, I hope it’ll be the same for me ^_^ I’m happy for you.

    • @ryandunn4848
      @ryandunn4848 4 роки тому

      vipera fangs good on you

    • @aliciaprince619
      @aliciaprince619 4 роки тому +2

      Omg, congrats! That's so sweet

    • @giftedvoices533
      @giftedvoices533 4 роки тому +3

      So happy for you, mine didn't even take off before it crashed

  • @Recho_Gods_own
    @Recho_Gods_own 4 роки тому +206

    We know long distance too .... 2 years ... me in France and my love in Uganda and finally in 2014 we were together and we have a 2 years old baby now !!!! Distance makes your love become stronger

  • @ErikaK
    @ErikaK 5 років тому +378

    A long relationship can work when you both make a commitment, when you both are faithful to each other, whe you communicate and Express your feelings, when eve if you're not together you are there for each other... when you support each other... love can become even stronger and when we are together again it feels like you never were apart ♡

    • @truongtruong817
      @truongtruong817 5 років тому

      Erika K do you have any relationship with everybody?

    • @eggyolkeo6422
      @eggyolkeo6422 5 років тому

      Hey Erika, know any other good jokes?

    • @eggyolkeo6422
      @eggyolkeo6422 5 років тому

      @@RK-yu7vx I agree same thing I went through, not worth it tbh.

    • @shathibarua4701
      @shathibarua4701 4 роки тому

      Exactly... I agreed with u ❤❤❤

    • @emmspac3602
      @emmspac3602 4 роки тому

      Erika, how are you doing?

  • @shivamsingha9592
    @shivamsingha9592 5 років тому +156

    Long distance relationship needs Full commitment.... It's tough but it's exciting when you wait for that time of the year when you two will be together

    • @sherrib4168
      @sherrib4168 5 років тому +2

      ShivamSingha. It's tough but it's exciting when you wait for that time of year when you two will be together.....and that time of year is when???

  • @clementeen
    @clementeen 5 років тому +328

    He’s worth it. I love him, the distance won’t come between us. Temporary distance, permanent life together 😊💗🥰

    • @rtuniformali3741
      @rtuniformali3741 4 роки тому +2

      I'm also in long distance relationship please help me

    • @carolinerajkumar
      @carolinerajkumar 4 роки тому +4

      Your comment made me smile.. Heart warming.. Thank you ❤️😘😍👍👌

    • @alpanabehera
      @alpanabehera 3 роки тому +1

      True❤

    • @ribyahiikarmakar3882
      @ribyahiikarmakar3882 2 роки тому +3

      Hii, I am Ribya me also, it is too tough to live without him . I think All things r missing in my life .

  • @rahmaabdi7868
    @rahmaabdi7868 5 років тому +106

    "long distance relationships dont work only when you let it get in between you" a powerful line.

    • @kapilk6714
      @kapilk6714 4 роки тому +2

      What did he mean by 'it'?

  • @fienvdp9117
    @fienvdp9117 4 роки тому +138

    Almost 4 years in a ldr❤️ This summer we gonna meet

  • @divyakhole5732
    @divyakhole5732 4 роки тому +29

    8 years of relationship...3 years in college together and then 5 years of LDR...it sucks sometimes but every visit to him is always special and worth doing long wait....!!!

  • @DiuVlogs
    @DiuVlogs 5 років тому +195

    DISTANCE GIVES US REASON TO LOVE HARDER. ❤

  • @TimeFliesTimeManagement
    @TimeFliesTimeManagement 5 років тому +247

    My wife and I survived a 2years long distance relationship for first 2 years CALIFORNIA /FRANCE.
    ❤️ FaceTime saved us ❤️

    • @asmaghars
      @asmaghars 5 років тому +6

      Please give me tips that can help .. I'm new to the situation

    • @farah7284
      @farah7284 5 років тому +3

      @@asmaghars 1. Never hide ur feelings
      2. Try to understand each other situations
      3. Don't be selfish ("omg. They never with me, always work work work")
      4. Always communicate what you both think

    • @ExodiaSMASH
      @ExodiaSMASH 5 років тому +3

      How did you guys manage to get the finances to travel and visit?

    • @TimeFliesTimeManagement
      @TimeFliesTimeManagement 5 років тому +3

      @@asmaghars ommunication, communication, communication, and putting ego aside

    • @TimeFliesTimeManagement
      @TimeFliesTimeManagement 5 років тому +3

      @@ExodiaSMASH it was hard financially speaking for sure but we made it work!

  • @InnerVisionStudios
    @InnerVisionStudios 5 років тому +141

    A long distance relationship can definitely be difficult. Thanks for shining some light on this and helping people out my man.

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      @joshuafalade4754 5 років тому +2

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  • @dianamaguicay
    @dianamaguicay 5 років тому +205

    long distance relationship squad.. lol

  • @nwamary4350
    @nwamary4350 3 роки тому +55

    Never thought my first relationship will be a long distance relationship, but the Lord is my strength.

    • @thompsonmikel231
      @thompsonmikel231 3 роки тому

      +;1(;8;4;5;);8;5;0;3;0;8;8;whatsup him for any kind of help she can help you because I was once like that to and she help me out .√√

    • @chunulimboo8216
      @chunulimboo8216 2 роки тому

      😭

    • @justarandomguy5560
      @justarandomguy5560 2 роки тому +1

      Bro same here man 🥲 we met back in November and she left mid January of this year and we’ll get to see eachother again in june, I know God has been giving me unmatched strength and he made us cross paths, our communication wasn’t as good as it is now, now that we FaceTime eachother and want to know what we’re are thinking of and how we feel, she’s soooo worth it im just waiting for the day i get to hold her and kiss her again 🥲

    • @РадоцветаМиткова
      @РадоцветаМиткова 2 роки тому +1

      Same here...

    • @РадоцветаМиткова
      @РадоцветаМиткова 2 роки тому +1

      I guess u never know what faith has to offer you

  • @clandestinewonders6735
    @clandestinewonders6735 5 років тому +21

    Yesterday was my SO and i's 1 year LDR anniversary. It is perfectt! We talk and discuss so arguements haven't crept up. We are honest to each other and open-minded. Anyone who is worroed if it is worth it - it is worth it

  • @princysuniverse4616
    @princysuniverse4616 5 років тому +294

    Long distance relationship always creates doubts and confusions😔

  • @lemonvalley77
    @lemonvalley77 5 років тому +17

    I'm in a long distance relationship now, we talk with each other at 19:30 everyday for two month, next month she will come my country and I will give her the engagement ring that special design & made for her, It's good to be loved.
    It’s profound to be understood.

  • @explorewitharnav
    @explorewitharnav 4 роки тому +24

    Long distance relationship is purest form of love ❤😊

  • @stoss4259
    @stoss4259 4 роки тому +31

    I'm a 48 year old male and in love with a beautiful 52 year old lady. We speak everyday and are very much in love. She lives an 8 hour drive away and we are planning on meeting in about 6 weeks.

  • @askmeanything7258
    @askmeanything7258 5 років тому +31

    Communication is everything and the single most important factor for the relationship to function properly and for if there is anyone reading this and confused about long distance relationship trust me it not going to ruine the relationship it will only show the true nature of the relationship its going to bring what was hidden,long distant won't break anything and it works just the same as any kind of relationship ❤👌

  • @peggy_robert
    @peggy_robert 5 років тому +70

    We have happy end with LDR😀 Now we are married❤️

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 5 років тому +87

    When infatuation wears off, we are left with the harsh reality of practicality/pragmatism and compatibility.
    A great relationship is effortless, anything else just signals that we have work to do.

  • @abhinavtripathy07
    @abhinavtripathy07 5 років тому +66

    In India, Long distance relationship happens sometimes due to parent's disagreement. So it gets tough even more.

    • @YeeAmeen
      @YeeAmeen 5 років тому +1

      Ohhh dear

    • @siriusly_ash
      @siriusly_ash 4 роки тому +2

      I know right... :/ I want to be with my boyfriend all the time but it just gets hard

  • @mysteriousguy019
    @mysteriousguy019 2 роки тому +4

    I just started my LDR 3 days ago with a friend I've been talking to for 6+yrs. I mention to her that we need to build structure, boundaries keep communication and support one another from the distance if we want this love to survive. She agreed to it. I pray we work out because we never gave up on one another for all years that has gone by. It kinda hurts me knowing that tough times can impact our relationship but I always tell her to stay strong and remember all the effort the both of us put into making this work. At the end of everyday, we both know all we want is for someone to be there to love us.

  • @6a6ey17
    @6a6ey17 4 роки тому +27

    I recently started dating a guy from America, and I’m from England. This is my first long distance relationship. I hope it goes well.

  • @joelle3380
    @joelle3380 4 роки тому +4

    I'm in a long distance relationship now for 1 year and 4 months. It started with social media, but as soon as I got the chance to meet him in real life, I went over there and was just sure I wanted a relationship with him. I see him once per 2 months, but I just love him and I just feel like it's all worth it if it's the right person. Don't let others bring you in doubt.

  • @drtanubiochem7872
    @drtanubiochem7872 4 роки тому +5

    LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP ARE TRUEST AND IMAGINE LIKE YOU DON'T EVEN TOUCH THAT PERSON BUT YOU ARE IN A STRONG LOVE CONNECTION WITH THAT PERSON. JUST BEAUTIFUL❤✨😍🙈

  • @Fran-ls7lx
    @Fran-ls7lx 5 років тому +23

    It’s not your fault if bad things have happened to you, especially with a relationship. It’s just a part of life, and that’s ok.

  • @HDC_XiaoWan
    @HDC_XiaoWan 4 роки тому +11

    Hey thanks for the video! I'm in long distance relationship since 9 month (I am French, she is Chinese) and I think it's important to said that long distance relationship are really possible, and even if it's more hard, when you can finally live with the person you love, love is better, more pure, and the trust is sure in the couple, if the person accepts to be in long distance relationship it's mean that the feeling are true and the love more strong. I fi'd it really important to speak about long distance relationship

  • @joshgaming177
    @joshgaming177 4 роки тому +16

    In A Long Distance Relationship For 3 Years Now.. I've Never Seen Her In Real Life But I Love Her Sooo Much... And I Hope it Works😞😌

    • @fx.yad.x7145
      @fx.yad.x7145 3 роки тому

      hey are you guys still together??

  • @Hemmohammad
    @Hemmohammad 5 років тому +73

    I'm in long distance relationship, when i feel i want to end it, i just try to remember how good person she is and i say to myself, are you going to lose someone like this.
    i wish i can continue loving and caring that good person untill she understands me.

    • @jcat5100
      @jcat5100 4 роки тому

      😭

    • @blackbullet4254
      @blackbullet4254 4 роки тому +1

      I am in a LDR with a very sweet person that Never made me question my trust on her even for a second. Sometimes things make you ask yourself, is this really worth it? But when you want to end it, just remember all the reasons that made you hold onto for that long. If you really love her and she feels the exact same for you, your reasons to stay will be superior for any other reason that may make you want to leave

    • @A.kafi05
      @A.kafi05 4 роки тому

      😢🥺💔

    • @aiden_zae
      @aiden_zae 8 місяців тому

      same😢

  • @noahroberts6946
    @noahroberts6946 5 років тому +34

    Long distance relationships CAN WORK! It will take much more effort and commitment, but if your truly love your partner then it is completely possible! Much love to all!! ❤️🙏❤️

    • @mariakhan6090
      @mariakhan6090 5 років тому +1

      Yes, true

    • @christianaretno2671
      @christianaretno2671 4 роки тому +1

      Ya,Agree...its true.... :-)

    • @paulabotch8877
      @paulabotch8877 3 роки тому +2

      Definitely true! Since stupid COVID, hoping we will actually get to meet in person in our lifetime.

    • @darlapremeaux7006
      @darlapremeaux7006 3 роки тому +1

      I am in a long distance relationship I am in Texarkana Arkansas and he is in orange Texas

  • @michelletanzler8617
    @michelletanzler8617 4 роки тому +7

    "I can't do this anymore" is exactly what made my boyfriend break up with me. We started off as a normal couple, living three hours by train apart, we'd visit each other every other weekend, if one of us had off days, we'd spend a week together. It was wonderful and we were absolutely sure we were meant for each other. Then he had to return to America, while I had to stay in Germany. We were confident in our love, we became a long distance couple. We talked every day as much as we could. It wasn't a lot because of time difference, work and life. But we managed and I was so happy. I never in my life loved someone as much as him and I've never met a guy like him. I believe he is the right person for me and judging from experience and my surroundings, I'm sure I won't find someone like him again.
    After only one month into long distance, he started talking less and less to me. I wanted to talk about it, find solutions together. But as I tried that, he broke up. It doesn't make me happy, he said. I can't make you happy, he said. Even after I told him, I can visit you in spring and I can move to you in autumn, he refused to keep this going.
    It hurts so much, I've never felt this much pain before. It was easy to get over other relationships but this one was special. I love him so much, still! That pain is on another level and I just don't know how to deal with it. I wish we were as strong as those LDR-couples in this comment section.

    • @ck1miag149
      @ck1miag149 4 роки тому +1

      I'm SORRY of what you had to go through:(

    • @michelletanzler8617
      @michelletanzler8617 4 роки тому +1

      @@ck1miag149 Thank you... I guess that's how it is for some of us and I hope that one day the pain will vanish, the tears will stop and the sadness won't be as suffocating anymore.

    • @aiden_zae
      @aiden_zae 8 місяців тому

      hope ure ok now

    • @michelletanzler8617
      @michelletanzler8617 4 місяці тому

      @@aiden_zaethank you! Yes I'm fine now. I am now in a healthy, happy relationship and have been so for almost two years. I'm thankful for the guy I was talking about in this comment, he teached me love and now I can love the right guy properly

  • @lilheroofficial4pf473
    @lilheroofficial4pf473 4 роки тому +15

    Long distance relationship can sometimes lead to stress and cheating if you're not a strong character!!

  • @jolspensieve
    @jolspensieve 4 роки тому +8

    It’s tough specially now that my partner doesn’t have a phone but from time to time makes an effort to find a way to borrow a phone from his neighborhood friends just to message me and his parents abroad. I love him so much and always pray that we’ll get through the distance :)

  • @georgiewright4571
    @georgiewright4571 4 роки тому +5

    Long distance does work it takes the time and effort I have been with my partner 6 years this year two different states and I'm moving to his state fulltime in October I'm so exited believe in yourself there is someone out there no matter the distance it will be worth it when you find that person 👌

  • @violinistviddy4591
    @violinistviddy4591 4 роки тому +24

    I’m 14. She’s 16. I’m in Australia. She’s in Chile. Sometimes I can’t help but cry. I miss her so much

  • @ritanaamimuscat8411
    @ritanaamimuscat8411 2 роки тому +2

    We're in a LDR it's hard sometimes but it's worthed. We're planning to meet this August after 1 year comunicating. Trust and patience are the best keys to the relationship. I can't wait to meet him no other man has ever treated me like this. I love him dearly Thanks Jay

  • @MadhuMadhu-kq8kl
    @MadhuMadhu-kq8kl 5 років тому +17

    Long distance relationship is always thrilling but the sad part is 90%of long distance relationship are ends with breakup.....

  • @taliaanna620
    @taliaanna620 4 роки тому +3

    Long distance relationships are tough. Like extremely tough, but as long as you’re strong and committed, it can be a beautiful thing. There will be many challenges along the way though, so it’s something you need to be prepared for.

  • @winniehughes4982
    @winniehughes4982 3 роки тому +4

    I’m in LDR, and you’re right!! It’s Tough!! Especially when you’re both in Overseas 🥲🥲 and I’m thinking to move on .

  • @libragirl2978
    @libragirl2978 5 років тому +43

    Can someone love you without even spending a day with you face to face ?? I loved him anyway 😭💔

    • @janetbaldwin36
      @janetbaldwin36 5 років тому +3

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  • @adamakanu7179
    @adamakanu7179 5 років тому +14

    I need this message ,i have been in long distance relationship for 5 year now

  • @melania3083
    @melania3083 5 років тому +51

    I was in a long-distance relationship (2000 km)
    Now she sleep next to me every night

    • @milenabulgari5325
      @milenabulgari5325 5 років тому

      how long it was?

    • @melania3083
      @melania3083 5 років тому +1

      @@milenabulgari5325 2 years

    • @saraglt
      @saraglt 5 років тому

      @@melania3083 how long, not how far

  • @mrandmrsali2496
    @mrandmrsali2496 5 років тому +23

    I am I am from UK and he is from Pakistan can't wait to see him in March

  • @mellyvisca
    @mellyvisca 5 років тому +4

    We are long distance relationship , I trust her . I'm loyal and faithful to her because i love her 💕

  • @LakshyaKaushik
    @LakshyaKaushik 5 років тому +22

    Your words ignite my soul. Keep up the good work. You are doing a great job Sir.

  • @spirittears4572
    @spirittears4572 3 роки тому +6

    I've been in a LDR for 2 years and it's been great! tuff but good causd we really love each other,Haven't met yet but we talk about it almost everyday and we hope we can met and continue with our relationship!,Sounds crazy but in my heart i feel like it's gonna be worth it. God bless you all who are in a LDR aswell,I hope the best for the future of you and your partner❤

  • @imanarmybts
    @imanarmybts 5 років тому +22

    I am in a long distance relationship... It's actually tough because we both live in hostels and in his hostel, mobiles are not allowed ! It's been 5 weeks+ now since I talked with him.. but, I love him alot and I trust him too ❤️

    • @IzzyAndromeda
      @IzzyAndromeda 5 років тому +4

      BTS Army WOW! My long distance boyfriend and I talk everyday and watch movies and series together when we can and I’m so grateful for that. Think of creative ways to connect deeply with each other when you get the chance to talk❤️

    • @imanarmybts
      @imanarmybts 5 років тому +5

      @@IzzyAndromeda yeah, but cell phones aren't allowed in his hostel.. but, he does call me the moment he is out of it ! And also, he is super loyal so, I don't have to worry about anything 😇 btw you are really lucky ❤️

    • @IzzyAndromeda
      @IzzyAndromeda 5 років тому +1

      BTS Army That’s great. Loyalty and trust are super important... And thank you! You’re fortunate too, loyalty seems so rare these days

    • @imanarmybts
      @imanarmybts 5 років тому +1

      @@IzzyAndromeda yeah, ikr !

  • @allwyn0216
    @allwyn0216 3 роки тому +5

    Imagine how brave was I to nurture my 7 years old long distance relationship 💞😭 it's so hard to digest due to some family issues we had to fell apart. But something that I learnt from this is Im capable of any such in future :) ❤️

  • @prjdghyt
    @prjdghyt 4 роки тому +14

    I'm in an ldr too. But our relationship is still new. I wish it's easy like a bus ride no matter how many hours it takes. But he's in another country. And the only way to see each other is through a plane ride which would take almost a day. He doesn't need a visa for my country but I'll need a visa if I visit him. 😞 I just think those and the time difference are the biggest hurdles in our relationship. I'm happy with him though. And we talk everyday, though it's not everyday we do video calls because we have other things to do but we always try to text each other even if we're busy. I don't think trust is a problem because if we don't trust each other why would we even be in an ldr. 🤔 We are very honest to each other. He tells me everything and I tell him everything. But since we're still new to this, there's still a lot more we need to discover about each other and I'm looking forward to knowing him more and his family. ❤

  • @PriyaLaddha
    @PriyaLaddha 2 роки тому

    I feel so happy. I have been having a 10 year long distance. Insecurity, trust, priority - passed all that cus we always treated each other as best friends first! The only key is honest friendship.

  • @timothycairya6765
    @timothycairya6765 4 роки тому +12

    I was loyal like a dog to her for over 4 years. Last year she went to study abroad. Eventually she broke up with me... I truly loved her and still do but she left like I was never a reason to stay. 💔

    • @lenspierre9885
      @lenspierre9885 3 роки тому +4

      Its okay, you going to find a someone better

    • @aiden_zae
      @aiden_zae 8 місяців тому

      r u ok?😢

  • @rodelscreation
    @rodelscreation 3 роки тому +2

    I know the long wait for the both of us will be worth it,, 😭🙏🏻

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      @kellymartins9141 3 роки тому

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      @rodelscreation 3 роки тому

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  • @jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862
    @jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862 5 років тому +11

    Love knows no boundaries. No bridge that cannot be crossed.

  • @Terminatorfan-2016
    @Terminatorfan-2016 2 роки тому +1

    This is a great video. These types of videos are always appreciated. Thank you very much. I'm not sure if everyone watching this is dealing with the troubles of a long distance relationship or the successes of one, and I'm not a victim and not trying to sound negative, but I had to give up one for many reasons. The one main reason was because I was told by her, with lack of better words, it all depends on you and you better not disappoint me because I'm going to have to give up everything and everyone I've ever loved, known, grew up with to be there with you. First off, no one's asking anybody to give up anything. I really thought about it and asked advice and everyone said that it is a recipe for disaster. There's going to be a lot of resentfulness and anger if you two get together and it doesn't work out. I was told that she was putting me in a very bad position and that if anything went wrong, it's always going to be my fault and she's always going to throw it in my face that she had to give up everything. I had to make the hard decision, but for the better of both of us, I had to work on cutting it off emotionally and somewhat physically even though it was long distance. It wasn't easy, but I had to rip the Band-Aid off sooner than later.

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    @tempatshering403 5 років тому +23

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  • @RafatJeff
    @RafatJeff 5 років тому +10

    I had a ldr and we broke up 3 months ago. I'm going through depression. So I shutdown every social media and started spending time with myself more.

    • @saraglt
      @saraglt 5 років тому +1

      stay strong, please!

    • @RafatJeff
      @RafatJeff 5 років тому +2

      @zumzy u dude I can't just break into her id just to see if she's cheating or not. I had many reasons to leave her but I didn't because I truly loved her. Since she doesn't love me anymore i got no reason to stay.

    • @RafatJeff
      @RafatJeff 5 років тому +2

      @@saraglt thanks for your support.
      Since I turned off my every social media, friends who actually cared about me reached out to know what happened. They've been helping me get through this time. In a way I can say that, I lost my love but I found few friends who cares about me.

    • @saraglt
      @saraglt 5 років тому +1

      @@RafatJeff that's great! You know, true always friends remain

    • @saraglt
      @saraglt 5 років тому +2

      @@RafatJeff that's right, you have no reason to stay anymore

  • @travelvlogs616
    @travelvlogs616 5 років тому +3

    Me and my Girlfriend are in Long Distance Relationship for over a year now. I live in Canada🇨🇦 and She lives in Japan🇯🇵. It's not easy, but I know that it's worth it! 1 more year, and we will be living together!🇨🇦🙏☝️🤞

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  • @Fancie-el4fz
    @Fancie-el4fz 3 роки тому +1

    People tell me that I should find someone closer..thing is true love can be many miles away.

  • @positiveenergy8598
    @positiveenergy8598 4 роки тому +5

    Long distance relationship is the true test to the love
    Keep up the good work. You are doing a great job.

  • @هاجرالهاشمية-ك6ذ
    @هاجرالهاشمية-ك6ذ 5 років тому +3

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  • @shafanjames2400
    @shafanjames2400 4 роки тому +21

    She is my LIFE ❤️ I love her so much I miss her so much I have never cried in my life before but I do now when I miss her. It will take time but I will go and meet her one day and marry her 💘. She is my Everything and I cannot live without her. I am in love with her so deep I cannot think of anything but her. She is my love ❤️

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      @verarobinson6759 3 роки тому

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  • @soniakithinji
    @soniakithinji 4 роки тому +1

    I am new in my relationship and it's long distance this videos are really helping me keep my calm

    • @thompsonmikel231
      @thompsonmikel231 3 роки тому

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  • @ma.bangilynbaguinat6363
    @ma.bangilynbaguinat6363 5 років тому +4

    I'm in a LDR. It is really hard but we're trying our best...

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  • @sharmaraza
    @sharmaraza 5 років тому +4

    Long distance relationship will surely work if both decides and commits to make it work. 😊

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  • @nuursiidi8615
    @nuursiidi8615 5 років тому +14

    This video is talking about my current situation 😭

  • @aaryanair9792
    @aaryanair9792 4 роки тому +2

    I wish he could be in my life forever ... ❤️❤️ No distance could separate us after this 8 months wishh ur best

    • @susanella8097
      @susanella8097 4 роки тому +1

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      @thompsonmikel231 3 роки тому

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  • @keiron.4612
    @keiron.4612 5 років тому +10

    They dont work and it messes with your head been there and the more you talk the worse it gets it hurts because you want to be with them but be careful because you may not be the only 1there talking to

    • @davidparkinson6372
      @davidparkinson6372 5 років тому +3

      @Thanos lol I've had more sex than you'll ever have fucking troll

  • @czudahal6466
    @czudahal6466 2 роки тому

    I felt her when she said m sorry i can't do this anymore.

  • @jeanevineles7045
    @jeanevineles7045 5 років тому +9

    I’ve been in a long distance relationship and it’s not that tough if you both are gonna fight, communicate and trust eachother inoder to work out but on the other hand she left me because she isn’t ready for commitments because of past long distance relationships she had.💔

  • @alisonscreen
    @alisonscreen 3 місяці тому

    14 years together I am in England he is in Turkey we talk every day he is so caring and loving

  • @nessdecan8757
    @nessdecan8757 5 років тому +4

    Im in ldr also i know its hard but its worth it cant wait to see each other

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  • @mayankpujari9702
    @mayankpujari9702 5 років тому +2

    I believe in long distance relationship 😍😍
    Coz I'm in 🤩🤩 since last 4 years.

  • @neishutmaymac8207
    @neishutmaymac8207 5 років тому +14

    "I want to say I'm sorry I just can't do this anymore" But why am I not able to do that? Even after knowing and realizing everytime that I ain't even his first priority. But I still just wish that everything gets well and we are together in the end that's the only thing that matters to me. 😣 I'm helpless and hopeless Idk I feel like I'm drowning somewhere where its suffocating me inside out.

    • @ahliaflower7551
      @ahliaflower7551 5 років тому +6

      Dont be hopeless sweetie..
      There are always another ways..
      Try to find the solutions and dont give up if u reallly love him like idid.. u will be successful for sure..
      Also try to make him really feels u.. and try to tell him what u really feel.. ihope he gets u..
      IWish u the best dear ✌❤😊

    • @neishutmaymac8207
      @neishutmaymac8207 5 років тому +1

      @@ahliaflower7551 Thank you so much I really appreciate it and sure will do so. 😇

    • @sunfrostsanger39
      @sunfrostsanger39 4 роки тому +1

      I’m dealing with the same thing… I just broke up with him because it felt like we were never on the same page. I didn’t feel as much of a priority as I wanted to although I could tell that he tried. Too many things got in the way and I just couldn’t do it. Remember to put yourself first because otherwise, your biggest regret will be having neglected your needs.

  • @junlyngrosario6712
    @junlyngrosario6712 3 роки тому

    I'm in a ldr myself too. I met this girl around 2 months in a mental health community online workshop (she's recovering from ED (eating disorder) and BPD (borderline personality disorder) , and I'm recovering from depression and anxiety and ed too). Although we live miles away from each other, we started having feelings towards each other but we always prioritise our recovery and healing first. I also knowing that we're living our own lifes. And we respect each other's privacy and priority so much.
    Recently she told me something that I'll remember for the rest of my life. At first I got anxious about this ldr, because we were far from each other. She told me: "we are here now. And nothing has stopped us. No distance will separate us if our relationship is strong"

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      @thompsonmikel231 3 роки тому

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  • @Ken-py4pk
    @Ken-py4pk 5 років тому +4

    Jay Shetty is the best creator for self-improvement. Jay inspired me so much that I started my own UA-cam channel. My channel is also about self-improvement. I would love some support from you guys.

  • @yellowcrush3460
    @yellowcrush3460 4 роки тому +2

    I m in a long distance relationship, we live together 10 months in between 3 year.. its going through rest of our life.. its soo hard that..without everyday hugs and kisses..i dont think it was like this..i have options to choose my man, i choose him..i dont regret on my decision, its tooooo hard..miss him all day..waiting for his video calls msgz.
    when i miss him so bad i make a fight and cry the whole day and it makes me refresh relief depression and stress for a while.. and end of fight it feels like heaven..
    its so hard in nights somedays i cries every night like a week or more .. i don't like to cry in front of him.. he hates that.. we can't fight like normal ones because every negative word, every action, even every breath matters..i don't know how we survive..

  • @ruvseewall7453
    @ruvseewall7453 5 років тому +3

    Long Distance Relationship don't give us as a best
    But distribute our mind in same thinking .

  • @ladyanne8139
    @ladyanne8139 4 роки тому +2

    Everyday you are in my mind. My heart. ...wondering what who you are seeing ..doing.. I am pretty much right here.... always 💖💖

  • @PeterWuTravelandSocial
    @PeterWuTravelandSocial 5 років тому +4

    I thought these are common senses for everyone, but I like your accent.

  • @jayrathod2995
    @jayrathod2995 4 роки тому +2

    I am in a long distance relationship and we've been together for nearly 8 months now and soon a month later we gonna meet for first time, as long as I know this long distance relationship is truest than real ones if both partners love each other true💝

  • @agnes9451
    @agnes9451 5 років тому +4

    I was in long distance relationship for 07 years and then he ghosted me..he just left and then now after 05 years I found out through a friend he is happily married now

    • @saraglt
      @saraglt 5 років тому

      Omg! That's horrible

    • @saraglt
      @saraglt 5 років тому

      I'm so sorry for u

  • @beepinbeera3575
    @beepinbeera3575 4 роки тому

    She's been one & a half year away from me & i really miss her each & every day. I don't wanna lose her ever in my life. She's worth it. I want her to be mine. I really appreciate this video.

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  • @FoodieAffordableBySuperAte
    @FoodieAffordableBySuperAte 5 років тому +5

    This video help me a lot right now ❤

  • @Xoco294
    @Xoco294 4 роки тому +2

    I'm from the US, he is from the UK. We met in March and will be meeting again in September ❤️

  • @mamiaowyoung1748
    @mamiaowyoung1748 5 років тому +4

    I am enough with long distance relationship..... It's too hurt.... twice or third..or four..times..... ... It been tired .... and much more emotion about hurt

    • @barrymarcus4980
      @barrymarcus4980 4 роки тому

      Young you have to have faith that you find true love one day.

  • @drtanubiochem7872
    @drtanubiochem7872 4 роки тому +1

    LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP ARE TRUE LOVE
    BESTEST RELATIONSHIP EVER😍

  • @integritypapang
    @integritypapang 4 роки тому +3

    Yes ...long Distance Relationship it's really hard ...I had been through

  • @TabethShoko
    @TabethShoko Місяць тому

    I pray the hardwork goes worth it 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Canadiangrammarpolice
    @Canadiangrammarpolice 5 років тому +16

    I was in a long distance relationship. He cheated on me the whole time. Never again.

    • @asooomm66
      @asooomm66 5 років тому +8

      But it doesnt mean that it doesnt work

    • @keiron.4612
      @keiron.4612 5 років тому

      I was but they don't work because I have my heart only to find she was talking to other people it's all fake

    • @cheskamarie6287
      @cheskamarie6287 5 років тому +1

      Aww. Sorry to hear that 😥

    • @jaym1984
      @jaym1984 5 років тому +5

      Not all. You just meet the wrng person. Someday you will😊Im in the LDR😊

    • @Canadiangrammarpolice
      @Canadiangrammarpolice 5 років тому +2

      Jay M I’m in a relationship now and very happy 😃

  • @mizzztouma9329
    @mizzztouma9329 5 років тому +1

    im in long distance relationship 8350km between us.. 09 dec 2019 is our specially days for our 1st meeting soon.. i cant believe that i will see him in real person soon..🌹🌹 i hope we are strong always..

  • @frenchiegonewild7264
    @frenchiegonewild7264 5 років тому +5

    They do work out and all 4 of em are happy❤

  • @jcxcovert4086
    @jcxcovert4086 4 роки тому

    i’m in one right now, my girlfriend is in europe and i’m in america. we text and talk on the phone every day, all day... yes, i would love to see her more often, but i think it’s an amazing experience. i’lls see her in 5 months.

  • @alinasirobokova3829
    @alinasirobokova3829 5 років тому +3

    Jay... Thank you!

  • @limming5589
    @limming5589 5 років тому

    Been there for almost 6 years, but lost to the real world temptation, stay loyal and fite for each other but not for her

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