Txheeb Yus Tus Txiv Rov Qab. 3/27/2023
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I would never give a man that satisfaction to take him back - bye with the garbage 🗑️
I can't finish this story. I tried. I just can't with women with this mentality. Good luck.
No one will truly understand you because they were not in your shoes. I’m happy that your husband came back to you. You’re right, love is love. You guys shared so much memories together already. If you moved on and found another man, it probably weren’t be better anyway and you guys have kids together.
The whole time May told your story I'm rolling my eyes 🙄 How could you degrade yourself so much?!?! If it's me.....everytime he gets on top of me, I would see her. Hell no!
These niam mos ab are something else though! Thick face as hell! They need a 90s jump to teach them some lessons.
He must be the last man for you to fight this hard. I can't saw I understand what you went thru but no way I would have any ounce of respect for a man like that. I have to love myself also.
I don’t think we will truly ever know what to do until we’re in her shoes too.
Love is a 2 way street. I would not fight for someone who doesn’t love me. Set him free so he knows karma.
Agree with you. A real man who truly loves his wife will not put himself in a position that he will lost her.
Man!.. txiv neej tas lawm tiag tiag li os.😅😅😅😅
It's your life hon. If he told me that he hated my guts, I'm not sure I'd want him back.
Yep, he'd get spit at I'll happily walk away.....
I'm glad you gave it your all for your marriage. I'm glad you are able to forgive your husband and take him back even tho he married a 2nd wife. You had a crappy SIL to be cheating with your husband and then marry him too. Glad you were able to take him back from her. No one will fully understand you until they have walked in your shoe. Now you can say you can live with no regrets and that you gave it your all. Wishing you all the best.
I've also heard a similar story from someone I know. They have been married 50+ years. And yup! Her husband did something similar, they separated for like 3 to 5 years, he came back crawling to her. She took him back (it wasnt easy), and he has been forever faithful to her and pouring his love to her. He realized she was a gem. And she took took him back with your same reasoning or similar to it. They are both retired now and happily still married traveling the world together. Their children happy and have a strong foundation to fall back on when they need their parents.
Everyone is different.
It's your life, your story. some woman are prideful and would just let it go, but Glad you did everything in your power to save your marriage. Only those who've walked in your shoes will understand. People who don't will just say...if it was me, I'd leave or find someone else. Sounds like the grass was not that green on the other side for him either that's why he was willing to come back to you. Hopefully he will be good to you going forward so your kids can have something to be thankful for in the end as well.
Not necessarily "prideful," but they have realized their worth and love themselves enough to let the cheater go and realized that their life is happier without him.
Wish u best luck.....remember cheater always be cheater....hope it last.
Good job lady. Do whatever it takes to get you man. Hopefully he will continued to love you for the rest of your life. Good luck!
So proud of you sister so glad you 2 got back together…
Leejtwg tsi taug txojkev no mas phem tshajplaws. Tus uas nyob tom qab mas raug mob tshalplaws hauv qab ntuj no os.
I am in this situations right now.
@@pangher8903 hopefully things will work out for you, sis.
@@pangher8903 I totally agree with you. No one knows only you. I will not give up 25 years of marriage to a trash slut 10 years divorced lady. At the end…he came back….hahah those woman are dirty and dry and cold. When he came back, it was not easy…there were shit he got to do. Good luck to you.
You did well sister! You did the right thing. All these women on here can say whatever they want but in the end, your husband also chose to stay with you. I applaud you for not letting go easily!
It's ok sister .. it's your life not everyone will understand you. I took mine back after what he did to me too. We are doing better then ever since. Good luck to you both
You’re such good wife. You are the winner
Idk if you're smart or stupid for wanting and fighting for someone like that back. I am not one to forgive easily so i know i will never take someone like that back. Life with him will never be the same. But to each their own. Some women love their own miseries.
He has to willing to stay with you otherwise he'll leave you again later. Cheaters don't stop unless he's sitting on wheelchairs or no bullets.
As a wife you have every right to fight for your husband. People do stupid things for lust and love. It's good that you stood your ground and continued to romance him back to your heart.
This 💯
All these Hmoob men suffered a stroke thinking about green grass in Laos 100% but never thinking about the aftermath 🙄 like really? What makes you think in your condition a girl in Laos is going to stay and love you till death. Never learn
Hmong Americans deserved it. You and your brother deserved it. Half of the stories on this channel are about Hmong Lao using Hmong American's money and as a bridge into the US but the more people talk about it, the more Hmong Americans go to Laos to marry and bring them into the US. We see the most Hmong Americans, most are young, go to Laos in 2022 after reopening. We also see the most Hmong Lao coming to the US in 2022. This trend will continue into the foreseeable future. What's changing is Hmong Lao aren't as poor as they were 10 years ago and with so many young Hmong Americans going to Laos now, Hmong Lao are picky now... they now prefer only those under 45.
I would not do what this lady does, if a love doing to me l would never want to look at that a person at all...
After listening to the whole story...to each his own. Do what you feel like to make your life better.
I don’t know when Hmong OG women do not love themselves, but yet still continues to fight and hurt themselves when their husbands don’t even want them anymore 🙄😑
Hmong are brainwashed to think that they can't live, can't have a life or as Hmong put it, "Tsis muaj neej" if they don't have a wife or a husband as if just living isn't "muaj neej". So they would rather have a cheating, abusive husband/wife than no husband/wife. They would rather be a 1st, 2nd, or 3rd wife than not having a husband.
Because she values their relationship. This young generation would not understand.
Only you know your spouse. This generation is a bunch of know it all. Everyone makes mistakes and I’m glad he have made the right choice to continue with his wife.
Why value someone that doesn't value you or respects you? Being walked all over, used and disrespected is something good now! Sorry, that this generation isn't desperate and know what's right and wrong. And that we don't need to put up with this kind of bullshit.
@@chasingthedragontail8760 "bc they value their relationships?" Everyone value their relationships, but at some point u have to draw the line and cut your losses. U have to set boundary and stand firm, unlike this woman here. This newer generation value their relationships, AND at the same time KNOW their worth, love themselves, have self-respect, and know when to let go and move on. Staying with a cheater and fighting for him may seem like she values her relationship, but it certainly doesn't seem like she loves herself enough. And self love should supercede exterior relationships. This woman was displaying desperation and weakness more than valuing her relationships. What about her relationship with her brother? Obviously she didn't care about that.
Lol. I really want an update on this story in the near future. Depending on their age, it’s only a matter of time until this lady is back to the same routine of chasing her cheating husband. 😂
Don't feel bad for this woman. Man, like this isn't worth fighting for. Have some self respect and dignity. If he did it once. He will do it again.
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Coj cov Tim tuaj mas haj yam yuav mob strok ntxiv naw !
I totally understand the pain you go through but I struggle with people who don't love themselves and allow someone to treat you like this but yet still want them back. I'm sorry but it's called you have no self worth. We should always learn to empower ourselves and move on. I can't finish this one. I'm beginning to be frustrated with women who don't love themselves.
Agreed. How could she still be with her husband that cheated on her with her SIL! Very disappointing in her.
Yep especially when there is a child involve, no way.....
Agreed 100%
And having to face her own brother bc she's still married to her cheater husband who ruined her brother's marriage? Must be awkward at family functions.
The fact that she's on here, trying to make it seem like it's something good that she did. Smh
Tus me sister aws!! Do what is best for you, it’s your life and your business not anyone else!! Do not care about what peoples said!! Keep fighting for what is right, find what you’re lose. Good luck to you!
Poj Hmoob koj mas thiaj keej tiag tiag. Yog Kuv ces tso tes plau nrhiav tus tshiab zoo dua. Txiv neej ntxeev siab lawm ces yeej tsis kawg
Yog txawj xav li koj ces zoo tshaj lawm ❤vim cov sab nraum yeej tsi hlub u li yu tu nawb yeej meem uv ces zoo dua rog koj zoo siab heev tseem coj tau koj tu txiv rov lo
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I agree with this sister about taking this cheater husband back. I am in the same boat with you.
Just make sure all the assets are in your name so next time you don’t loose everything because he hasn’t finished what he started with. Good luck.
I agree with trying to keep and fight for love! You can only do it for so long though, not everyone can understand how much you love him. It might work for you but not others. Im glad he came back.
Yes, your decision but just a reminder, a cheater will always be a cheater.
From the start I already knew where this story is going. These men and women who sleeps with their sibling’s wife/husband are disgusting! Idk about taking back someone who betrayed me and my family. Someone who could sleep with his own sister in-law is not someone to be trusted. Next thing you know he’ll sleep with your cousin claiming she seduced him with 🍑 good luck, lady!
A good story for what NOT to do. Sounds super desperate for a cheater. Unfortunately he’s gonna cheat again. I hope not but we all know once a cheater always a cheater. Good luck 😂
Tus txiv ntxeev siab ib zaug lawm ces txhob ntseeg tas2 nawb
So Happy to see some of these comments are in the positive side. If you can't say anything nice Don't say it. Good job for supporting. In a hmong woman's life this is probably the best therapy for her, to hear positive words. She done mistakes already. By hearing everyone says" it ok" that's is all we need to move on. Lessons learned.
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@@nghiasungthi ,
Kuv qhuas koj yog tus zoo tshaj
And this is why the cycle within the Hmong community continues
In life there are many decisions that we make, made or will be make. Live n learn. Like they say, someone else junk is someone else treasure. What he did is unfaithful. But what she said at the end is somewhat true. Hope we all reacted with our conscious not with our anger. Like they said someone else junk is someone else treasure. Hope you fighting n keep what’s yours, not end up with some someone’s junk, he thought that was treasure. In life, it’s easier said than done. But of course one decision, agree or disagree but as long as what makes you happy that’s life.
You do you sister. I wouldn't fight for him. A cheater will cheat. He betrayed you with your brother's wife. Both you and your brother deserved better.
Niam tais aww, koj yog kawg li lawm os, peb sawvdaws tsi perfect, ib leeg yeej Txawj ua yuam kev ib yam, yog yus txeeb tau kav tsij txeeb kom tau yus tus yus ib txwm hlub rov los yog tias nws yeem los, tiaj thaum mas nws ua yuam kev lawm ces nws yuav txaj txaj muag rov los lawm tabsis it’s worth fighting for your love. Don’t stop fighting for the one you love.
It's ok to forgive if it makes u happy, not alot of people will be like you sis, but I'm glad it worked out for you & your husband.
Txhob xyaum niag pog no nawb. Yus txeeb tsis tau ib tug neeg twg.
Come back, when he cheats on you again.
Wow peb hmoob liam tiag li os i feel so sorry for a part of your life but glad you both back together, but be careful sister he might be smart inside you didn’t see he will hide ur sister in-law in other side🫣🫣
Nrog koj zoo siab uas koj tus honey rov qab xaiv koj yayyyy👏👏happy ending
I’m so happy with you too also your husband still love you too that’s why he coming back
Zoo tiag nyiam mloog kj
I'm glad you fought for him
Do not do what this lady did. An unfaithful man is never worth fighting for. Stop degrading yourself just so he would stay. Have some self respect hmong women. We need to do better.
100% agree
So many in here are in support of this woman and her decision. Makes me wonder if these women will do the same too. If so then this cycle will never end.
Agreed. A man worth fighting for is an honorable, faithful man, NOT a cheater. Cheaters are a dime a dozen. By taking her cheating husband back, she unwittingly just gave him permission to cheat on her again in the future. Beyond stupid, totally pathetic!
I left the first one for wanting to another young chick… married to a second one…. He was a cheater, I left that one too!
I married this 3rd one!
Told him… before he cheats…. He needs to leave first!
I have zero tolerance for these kind of men!
Yup. Agree.
Zaj no mas zoo mloog ua kev kawm kawg li. Ua qhov zoo es thiaj yeej txhua yam
Sister, if someone cheating on you he is no longer love you. Just let him go!!!! Be smart!!! He came back because he has no where to go so divorce him!!! Take him for child support!!! Men like him deserve to be homeless!!!
You are a good woman, good for you.
Tshaj plaws li os tus me muam aw. Koj yog ib tug niam tsev very smart
I dont get this lady. He told her not to touch him or he'll hate her even more. Why fight for a loser like that. Why take him back. Come on hmong ladies, learn to love yourself n have self respect. You don't need a toxic reason to let him go. He cheated on you and can't stand you anymore even tho you did nothing thats your reason. This is America, everyone works to pay their own bills. You don't need a loser husband to complete you. Just think if it was the other way around, he wouldn't even look at you anymore. He'd be so disgusted by you. Wake up!!!
It’s about winning only.. not worth taking back a unfaithful man..
In the past, if you chose to leave, it was a sin. Nowadays the sin is if you choose to stay. People look down on you for choosing to save your marriage and to forgive. I understand not being able to get past a situation and making the conscious decision to leave. But they are people (both spouses) who choose to START over from a mistake. They both learn from it and build a new life together. Only you know if you can forgive and rebuild. I have a friend who tried for a year, but she left after it was clear her husband was not willing to join her. Another friend, she and her husband grew stronger from that mistake and they rebuilt.
Congratulations... To the owner of the story....
Good for you sister. Fight for what is yours. Don’t let these homewreckers win.
Koj mas tshaj lij kawg li os viv ncaus koj yeej lawm os mog nrog koj zoo siab os kuv los yeej xav ib yam li koj thiab os mog
Never fight for a cheater....a cheater will not fight for you....a cheater will be a cheater
Zaj neej neeg no txawv kawg thoab koj yeej ua tau zoo kawg nkaus lawm
This is one of the reason why men look down on women so much. We allow men to stomp us to the ground and we still take them back at the end. You show them your weakness, and now they know about your weaknesses and will eventually take advantage of it again and again. It’s not all about that you cannot find a man like your ex husband, but it’s all about your dignity and value.
Bc he knows if he looses one, he still has the other to fall back on. That's why so many men continue to cheat and come back bc women like this tolerate it. He only came back bc he realized the mistress was no good and he has no where to go so he came back to her, but she thought she "fought and won" him back.
Koj siab ntev thiab koj uas tau Niam kawg.
U are the smarter u did right
What a good wife. Thanks for sharing.
Koj ua tau zoo kawg nkaus os vivncaus. Kuv nrog koj zoo siab.
Kuv lub neej zoo n kaus l
Koj os sister e....I listened with tears.
Keej kawg lawm thiab ma
Only long hearted hmoob women can endure this kind of dramatic painful marriage.
Not exactly. A hmong woman can be long heart and not endure this kind of marriage. This says nothing about having long heart.
@@maryly09 your comments feels to me like you’ve been in this situation before. Everyone makes mistakes. Ib tus niam tsev siab ntev thiab loj is rare these days.
So if you are the one who get the elephant ear and no one believes you or take you back, would it hurt? For some their love is too strong! For some, there’s really nothing else! So we can not blame one another!
Cov poj hmoob nplog mas ntsej muag loj tshaj plaws
I could never take back a man who cheated on me. If I know forsure that my husband slept with someone, pack your shit and gtfo.
Final koj mus coj tau koj tus txiv los lawm nrog koj zoo siab kawg li forgot niag poj dab os.
This story is nasty lol. Y’all have fun.
Zoo Siab Nrog koj mog sister
Congratulations
Tus viv ncaus koj mas ua tau zoo kawg os thov qhuas koj ua tau lub siab ntev kawg coj tau koj tus txiv rov qab los rau koj.
Koj ua yog lawm hos peb tsis thuam koj o mog peb zoo siab nrog koj xwb nawb koj mas keej kawg li o ua tsaug ntau ntau
Lawv aw nej tuaj2 mloog tej niag neej neeg tsiaj no nej pab222222 sau ntawv cem kom 2 niag tsiaj tuag tsuag2 mus thiab lau
Zoo kawg li lawm os
Pab koj zoo siab koj coj tau koj tus txiv rov qab nrog koj ua li koj ua yog lawm koj mas siab zoo tshaj plaws neeg nyob qab ntuj no li os thov kom koj ntsib kev noj qab nyob zoo tsis txhob muaj mob muaj nkeeg lawm yav tom ntej li nawb
Koj yuav mob stroke li koj tus nus ib hnub twg mas poj hmoob ruam?!
Yog lawm
Cov pojniam li no ces tseem lwj siab lwj ntsws tsis tau txaus. Nws yeej yuav uv uv kom nws tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws lawm mas nws thiaj yeem. Ruam tiag! Nws tus txiv mas hajyam yuav muaj plhus mus tham hluasnkauj ntxiv tom ntej no.
Nrog koj zoo siab is tus niam tsev uas koj Rub tau koj lub neej zoo dua... hahahaha niag poj dab txeeb luag tug tuag kiag hahahaha
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Yeej muaj cov poj niam txiv neej uas twb Sib txheeb ze los tseem muaj siab nyiag sib tham.. what this man and this lady doing is stabbing on the back of their lover’s. Disrespectful thing for both sides of their family
Glad both of you back together 👫❤️👌
Good job lady 😅
Good job on taking your husband back! I took mines back too. Only both of you know and understand is all that matters
I don't understand why all these comments are so happy and praising her 😂. He cheated on her with her own sister in law, left her and had a baby with another girl. I would NEVER allow someone like that back in my life. Plenty of guys out these. You all sound desperate and so is she. Have some respect for yourself woman.
Oyo I can’t finish listening to this crazy desperate nonsense, if u r that desperate and using ur children to get a cheating husband back, u do deserve him and all he did.
Kuv zoo saib quas koj os koj yog tu zoo lawm os
Peb hmoob cov zoo txiv tsev yeej muaj ib leeg ib tug maum dev nawb lawv aw...
The wife in this story proved to us the true meaning of "until death do us part, good or bad." She overcame every obstacle to win her husband, her love back. Yes, her husband did her wrong and does not deserve to have his wife back. He is lucky and truly blessed to have a wife that will accept him back with all his imperfections; she valued all the goods over the bads, from start to the end. Her love conquers all.
Ua tau li ko kuj zoo kawg thiab os MOG
How long will he stay though. Once they go nkauj mos ab, they'll never go back. I took a girlfriend back once just to see her leave me again. The 2nd time is easier for her to leave and harder for me to take.
Yus tus txij nkawm yeej khib tshaj. Tab sis thaum luag hloov siab lawm luag yeej tsis khuv Xim koj lawm na. Too dangerous, koj mas tsis paub ntshai tuag kiag li os.
Peb poj niam yeej hlub peb tus txiv tshaj plaws li os. Tsuav nws rov los zoo rau yus ces yeej kawg ua zoo xwb os mog
This a repeat story. I could’ve swear I heard this story on Hmong story already.
Sorry/ not worth it. He’s going to do it again.!
Tsov tom poj Hmoob khib xuab…koj ces tsim nyog tuag mus zoo dua. Ib tus neeg tso koj tseg lawm es koj tseem mus ua dev plu npaum li ko rau nws ces koj yog tsiaj xwb, koj tsis yog neeg